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Good food for thought, and thanks for taking the time out to lend a little advice. I'll start vetting, I suppose, and teach myself where and how to look...
/r/TheRedPill08/05/20 12:42 PM
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I've admired your posts since I first encountered them over 2 years ago. One of your advice pieces was my introduction to the red pill and motivated me to start taking care of my body and mission, and get my ass back into med school. I know you encourage guys to stay free as we age, and at 33, I don't feel old, but I do have more difficulty with 20-24 year old women. Are there other factors that might make aging and dating harder? For example, I'm in phenomenal top 5% shape now, but I've always …
/r/TheRedPill08/05/20 07:52 AM
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You need to go outside
/r/askTRP04/04/20 11:19 AM
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Hahaha. I like your attitude. I don't think it's a good idea for guys with hair to shave it off... ...but for us irreversibly bald guys, believing we have higher SMV bald than not is probably the best mindset to have.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 06:59 PM
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"Chicks seem to love balding guys for some reason" ...wait, what? Bald, buff, early 30s dude here. Chicks might subconsciously like the masculinity of a shaved head if you have a body that suits it, but almost no woman will actively choose to date a guy with a shaved head over someone with a full head of hair. Shaving your head without reason is poor advice.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 08:03 AM
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"Everything that hot girls look forward to, and try to get other loser men to pay for, are all gone temporarily" That's interesting. Right now I'm only sleeping with my literal next-door-neighbor and she's someone I prob. wouldn't know beyond acquaintance if this virus hadn't flattened out my region. Other plates and dates I have in the background feel too risky for some reason right now.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 08:36 AM
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Is anyone having trouble accessing the updated link?
/r/seduction21/03/20 09:14 PM
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What kind of a dickless weirdo writes poetry and composes music for a girl he's talking to online? This woman sounds like she's about to break into a hysterical crying jag, then manic laughter, then crying again lol.
/r/MGTOW21/11/19 07:18 AM
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Thanks for your input. What is a rooftop date?
/r/askTRP09/10/19 06:25 AM
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I think that's a good point. As cheesy as it sounds, I do want the girl to leave the experience with a smile on her face feeling way better than she did before, but money just isn't my #1 resource at this point. What threshold would you say ventures into fucking simp territory?
/r/askTRP09/10/19 06:22 AM
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Yep. Very money/budget-conscious though. I track every cent and will do the same even out of school/in a different career.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 06:15 AM
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Lol I like that response, but I think as a calculated risk, it's pretty high-risk, low reward. Maybe I'll try it with a girl I'm not really into/with someone below my league.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 11:14 AM
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It can go good or bad, partially because of the female snowflake commonality, and that 50% of foods might not be to her liking. Still, she's welcome to some and if she declines, there are always snacks/cheese/nibbles with the drinks.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 06:56 AM
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Asking for the same reason anyone posts to TRP-- to determine the most efficient dating strategy and get a 2nd perspective in order to eliminate dead weight. I don't even like the idea of paying for drinks, but it may be the only option at this point. I don't agree with, "get her to agree to coming to your place" before ordering checks as I've seen a girl's mind change a million times in 5 minutes over whether she's coming over and what she'll do. I'm trying a new idea of paying cash this week t…
/r/askTRP08/10/19 05:40 AM
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Also good to keep it from going past a couple of drinks. Cut the interaction off before things are too costly
/r/askTRP08/10/19 05:31 AM
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Same man, date #2 is always at my place and never costs more than the meal I'm already cooking and the wine/liquor I already keep in reserve for guests. Good input!
/r/askTRP08/10/19 05:30 AM
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Can this reality be changed? Or do I have to continue to give blue-pill preferential treatment to these dates?
/r/askTRP08/10/19 04:35 AM
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Stay stong and PM if you need us.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/19 04:34 AM
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Lol yes the imagery alone screams "broken". It's like a visual thesis statement 😂
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 05:17 AM
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Please please PLEASE don't go to lunch with her. To get the "full story" is a hopeless exercise in futility and only proves your lingering investment. To give her the closure she wants after what she's done to you indicates that you have really poor self respect. Don't play games, just say that you're too busy to get together but best wishes. Or say nothing at all. The loose threads that she made are hers to hamster out. You're going to get through this and you will look back with gratitude abou…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 02:56 PM
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Awesome replies here. It sounds like this girl was giving you drama disproportionate to her value, and has basically put you in the perfect position-- demoted herself to plate status. Already those txts show her hamster firing up. Please, please for the love of God do not open up about your feelings. Enjoy the power-flip of this new dynamic and enjoy what will probably be hotter sex than you've ever gotten from her in your young life...when you're feeling it, if she's worth it. Like they said, a…
/r/askTRP30/01/19 11:13 PM
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Yeah. Written by a middle schooler. He became the CEO of the company and never told her? Bought a house and perfectly restored mustang and they got divorced the day before her birthday? Lolz
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/19 06:34 AM
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"I might get haters saying that's too much talking, and I would agree to distill it down and tailor that bit to the individual situation." Autists can't read social cues. Retahds can't read words 😉
/r/askTRP25/01/19 08:41 PM
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It is a shit test, and a sign that she finds you attractive. Overall, you should be very happy to get this comment. It means that she thinks you CAN fuck loads of pretty girls, but that she would also feel invalidated if she were just another notch for you. When a girl asks this question I start with a joke: "I don't know what you're talking about. I'm a virgin [clasp your hands together and look up at your imaginary halo]." This makes a girl laugh usually; it intrigues her with the small possib…
/r/askTRP25/01/19 02:12 PM
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I kinda knew there would be plenty of people on here hating/mocking the fact that you waited four dates to fuck. It's bullshit man. It seems like you had an actual good time with someone who was more or less fun to be around (not saying she is or isn't a slut). People are people. Some of my friends are nice guys and some are assholes that make me laugh my ass off. Some of my friends are girls and plenty of them are slutty. I have fun with the people I spend time with and it has nothing to do wit…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/19 12:47 PM
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Hey man, this place is a mine field now too, but church is a good place to start. I will probably get a million surface comments saying how innocent church girls are the biggest sluts. Honestly all girls have slutty tendencies, but the church has been moderately successful in keeping slutty behavior at bay (we're talking Baptist, hymn-singin' borderline scary churches, not Unitarian Universalists). Consider finding a girl who's ultra bought into the faith and see where it goes. The only thing th…
/r/askTRP10/01/19 01:30 PM
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Lmao, it's not eve about the show, or a character in it, but the seeming intention of the writers behind it. Relax, I don't need to post any content😅
/r/askTRP09/01/19 03:12 AM
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I'm not claiming it's some amazing post, just some thoughts I hope to share. I've been helped a lot by TRP and want to start contributing/giving back. It's a RP-lens perspective about the popular Netflix show, "YOU". I'm not sure how to contact Mods on here, but I would like to share it. How do I get in touch with them?
/r/askTRP08/01/19 10:59 AM
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I know it's hard. But you need to treat yourself the way you would treat someone who you mentor. Hard or not, you need to make a decision today (realize that choosing to do nothing is also a decision).
/r/askTRP05/01/19 05:43 PM
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Well said. I don't want to say stop being hard on yourself. Be hard in yourself. Push yourself. But stop the self-loathing. The self-loathing bullshit stops now. Agreed?
/r/askTRP04/01/19 07:48 PM
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Such a thorough and holistic insight. I've been in an LTR for quite some time and haven't dated extensively since. Many BP And Red Pill initiates wonder why dating has become so exponentially harder in just the last 4-5 years. Besides swipe apps, are there other factors at play?
/r/askTRP02/01/19 07:38 PM
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Hey man, I think I can definitely relate to where you're at. The last year has been a never-ending struggle of lifting 2 hours a day to pack on muscle at the gym and working my ass to the bone for the freedom of having my college loans paid off. Look, at a certain point, mass-centered physicality can work against you if you're not actually living life. In the hypothesis study, "Why is Muscularity Sexy", there's a certain threshold where women see a man big enough to actually signal an immediate …
/r/askTRP02/01/19 05:11 AM
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That's great man. Congratulations on your fight against depression. Best wishes to you in 2019
/r/askTRP31/12/18 03:45 PM
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Hey man, glad you got some goals in line. Constructive criticism-- they all seem accomplishable in about a week, except for the gym goal. They're good, but what about improving your work? Your social life? What about approaching and working on social dominance? Aim high brother
/r/askTRP31/12/18 01:59 PM
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Didn't read the other responses, so sorry if I'm rehashing. Women tend to get slutty for high-value men. As Ev. Biologist Geoffrey Miller puts it, it's a high-risk/high-reward, gladiator-style situation: In other words, a woman will opt for the apex genes in a top 5% alpha male even if there's less than a 5% chance that this man will stick around to raise the kid. Evolution has gifted her with concealed ovulation so it might not even be very hard to trick a bumbling beta into thinking the kid is…
/r/askTRP24/12/18 08:40 PM
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No problem. Lmk if you need help with lifting advice. I put on 25lbs of muscle in 8 months...it CAN be done. As crazy it sounds, the be all and end all really is still frame and inner solidity. Reply or PM with any questions
/r/askTRP13/12/18 02:32 PM
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I am bald as well. Shave your head completely, and until you are no longer pudgy-- use your beard to shape your face. Chin should be no longer than a #4 extension, and the rest should be no longer than a #3 extension. Take a #1.5 or 2 and taper along your cheeks so your face looks thin and your chin looks square. ​ Tailor your shirts to fit, and WORK OUT, WORK OUT, WORK OUT. Eat right and heavy and MAKE SOME GAINS, but stay below 15% body fat. Cutting carbs and going keto can accomplish this eas…
/r/askTRP12/12/18 05:00 AM
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No problem. Let us know how you are holding up.
/r/MGTOW12/12/18 04:24 AM
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Try to get 1 gram of protein per pound of body weight. Count your calories (look up bodyweight calculations to figure out how many carbs/fats you need as well). If you're really serious about making gains fast, you'll eat six meals a day-- this can be made easier on the go by buying protein powder in bulk ($100 bags) and getting a big 1st Phorm bottle with a jax shaker (add a scoop of weight gainer and take a chug-chug every three hours or so). Of course you'll be doing big, compound movements--…
/r/askTRP12/12/18 04:23 AM
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Hey man, amongst the fray of support, I'm happy to throw my hat into the ring. If you need to talk, just PM me. That's what this sub is really for. I hope that's what it'll always be about.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 08:15 PM
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I'm sorry for your loss. If you need someone to talk to, I'm here. It's fine to be antinatalist of course, but I don't think there's any harm in treasuring the memories of family. Again, feel free to PM bro
/r/MGTOW09/12/18 08:49 PM
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It's just such an insane article, because while the economics are completely off (mythical wage gap, women are slaves, etc, yawn), the sex statistics are more or less right. Women ARE as horned up as men during ovulation; marraige and monogamy DO put anaphrodisics on women (and obviously men as well). Women (and OBVIOUSLY men as well) crave sexual novelty and variety as a top priority. What's so disgusting is what this post-wall shrew does with the statistics. She acts like women are somehow ent…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/18 01:10 PM
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DUDE, do not go MGTOW on the basis of your penis size. You are EXACTLY average. Daniel Rose, author of "The Sex God Method"-- a manual many of us follow as we mature in experience-- mentions that he has a 5.1" member. A girl who looks up to you, respects you, adores you-- basically who meets all the requisites of your girlfriend criteria, will NOT need you to have some above-average tool. Think of it this way: if you met the coolest girl in the world, she's sensual and sexy and flirty, she think…
/r/askTRP19/10/18 08:58 PM
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Hey man, I'm not sure if I'm just being a little silly about all this, and I'd like to hear other people's comments, but how come no one told the OP that he's not drastically undersized by any means? He's what, a half inch below the Int'l average? And probably average girth? I'm not huge, 6inches long and 5.5inches girth. Half the girls I've been with have looked at it with a "Holy Shit," comment and the other half haven't voiced much praise. This poor kid is all worried, when he's more or less …
/r/askTRP19/10/18 05:06 PM
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That's the truth, man-- to be honest, it's pretty rare that one-night stands are going to be incredible sex (though there are exceptions). Knowing someone, what they like and vice versa really helps. Enjoying their company helps even more. Another thing-- don't beat yourself up about "eighteen years of celibacy". If I'm reading your post correctly, you're currently eighteen years old, and I really don't think that's a particularly late time to start your sexual journey.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/18 12:48 PM
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Scumbag1999, I'm looking for constructive criticism-- and yes-- I am not an alpha male (most people endeavoring to improve themselves here are not alpha males). It's an old post, you may be inexperienced to TRP as your overview shows that you haven't commented on any AskTRP posts (what are these queries you've posted looking for fishnet stockings subs?! Confusing) If you have anything both helpful and constructive, I'm all ears. Thank you
/r/askTRP09/08/18 08:00 PM
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Great reminder about validation. We waste so much time chasing that and our lives could be truly happy otherwise. Thanks for focusing on what a grateful, positive, and simultaneous attitude can achieve
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 03:50 AM
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I'm not here to defend women like some kind of female uber ally or anything, but dude, it's a little butthurt to say women aren't good for anything besides sex. Inside the context of social justice and sexual dynamics, I think that's fair to say. But dude. Relax. A woman is probably capable of citing a sushi place or telling you where the office copy paper is. In my industry-- children's literature-- there are some great storytellers who are women. Jane Yolen, Lois Lowry, Katherine Patterson, ar…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 10:58 AM
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Oh boy. sneeze. Does it smell like narcissist in here? To the theme of Avril Lavigne: "She was a girl / he was a beta / could I make it any more obvious? He was a beta-boi / She said, 'See ya later, boi!"
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 10:42 AM
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This comment is made funnier by your username......yabadaba, my friend! (o)(o)
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 05:45 AM
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Insane. The blue pill indoctrination is deep. This is why, things are changing. Slowly, steadily, surely, inevitably. They are changing.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 04:27 PM
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Great realization, man. It's a splash of cold water to the face. Can you provide us an update on what happened postliminary to this realization? Did you hard/soft-next? What was her reaction?
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 05:05 AM
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I have been lifting for 1.5 years, 6 days a week, for 1.5-2hrs a day. 4s and 5s now hit on me, and I sometimes catch 6s and maybe 7s checking me out. It hasn't necessarily changed how much I get laid-- 6s and 7s still aren't making it easy. It might be that I'll always be pale and bald no matter how big I get; It could be that I still need to lift more; but most likely it's a moderate absence of flawless frame control and superior game. I'm glad that things are changing for you, OP. Remember to …
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 05:09 AM
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I am a slow learner and an even slower re-learner. When I was unplugged, a year ago, by Rollo Tomassi's post, "Saving the Best," I sought out confirmation of my new found shocking revelations about women and about the world. Since the red pill analogy is based on the matrix movie, and that the analogy is so exquisite that it carries us an awful long ways before breaking down, I imagine you're pretty new, and that you're comparable to New after getting flushed and unplugged. You're too weak to wa…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 12:41 PM
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Good thoughts man, and VERY thorough although perhaps quite overthought. You can get a good perspective about a woman's POV just by remembering back to when you were a kid. Assuming you had providing parents, did you adore them for every little thing they did for you? Probably any night home with mom and dad was a mundane one in your eyes. The law is more universal than intersexual dynamics-- the provider always values the provided-for, because his investment in the provided-for is always increa…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 06:25 AM
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No prob dude, but don't let it get you bitter. Women can't help that they evolved to cuckold. A decent amount of women even work hard from their frontal lobes to resist this tendency. The harder pill for me to swallow was that studies reliably prove that women tire of monogamy faster than men (even the mainstream is admitting this). Just put dread game in place, always lead, and always have two options available. If you're partial to the "love" dynamic (we all are as men to some degree) you can …
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 10:52 AM
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This puts into articulation, a red pill truth that deserves Red Pill balance-- LMR is real and it's often weaponized for leverage. Pickup artists will advise you to use techniques to "blast through" LMR, but that is not balanced. LMR does not mean to keep stubbornly banging your head against a sexual wall...but the disingenuous practice of a woman withholding something that naturally happens spontaneously and organically should grate heavily on your patience threshold. As Rollo says in light of …
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 02:27 PM
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It's bitter to say, but as any evo-bio-psych book such as The Red Queen or The Selfish Gene will attest, the deliberate deception is an INTEGRAL part of a woman's evolution-shaped sexual drive/instincts. Gulp, swallow, choose your chaser-- accept the truth and adjust actions accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 02:08 PM
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Hey man, all this advice is solid and it's a great thing that you're getting involved in TRP so early. Hell, Rollo's post, "Saving the Best" was the visceral read that Red Pilled me in the first place, almost a year ago, to the day. Since then I've been resentful about investing in a girl in any way before I fuck her-- either time, money or emotions to the smallest degree. An encouraging thought is that, while you might feel like girls are extorting all this investment from you for their pussies…
/r/askTRP06/04/18 02:18 AM
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Haha, yes, love your post. I've read all of Rollo's sacred scrolls (and intend to re-read). He's been easily the greatest influence on my life from The Red Pill. I do like some of what Tyler and RSD says, but I've become increasingly dubious at how heavily edited those videos are. I still think there's a lot to learn from RSD. Thanks for the flaking advice. I feel like the kind of abundance you described is very possible in the summer. I'm still not sure what to do in the winter, other than trac…
/r/askTRP22/03/18 10:43 PM
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Iwannachokekatie, any advice besides don't wear Timberland boots? Looking for formative feedback.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 09:39 PM
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Timberland boots
/r/askTRP22/03/18 09:38 PM
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Thanks for the honest advice man. The flakiness seems to be getting worse across the board. Any strategies to counteract this? Or do we just keep selling in a down market? To be honest, there's no level of animosity between me and my ex. I ended it in October because I'm honestly not sure that I'm built for monogamy. In the spirit of transparency, during my "anger phase" I cheated on her. For some reason I got this picture that every living female was out there cheating on their men, laughing ab…
/r/askTRP22/03/18 08:11 PM
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Thanks again, RedHawkes. I'm a little confused by your reply. I'm hearing to cut my bf down to 10%, but at the same time to continue eating more. I'm also confused-- I shouldn't focus so much of my life towards improving success with women and dating, but that I need to further "put myself out there, in women, vicinity and game". I'm struggling with what seem to be mixed messages, though I'm sure that's not your intent. Any clarification you can add?
/r/askTRP22/03/18 02:34 PM
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Where does one day game in a New England town? Coffee shops? Do you have experience with this? Are there any pointers, things you wish you'd known from the get-go?
/r/askTRP22/03/18 12:01 PM
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Thanks for your reply, RedHawkes. I've read the Book of Pook and I read Chateau but haven't heard of the Roissy Reader. My mission in life is to preserve, share and create stories-- I am a musician, writer and high school English teacher. I've really only been focusing on women as of late because it feels like I'm running out of time. With regards to the gym I'm an ultra-hard gainer and have no problem getting down to 10% but I am currently bulking. I will try to fix my frame and mindset, and wi…
/r/askTRP22/03/18 11:58 AM
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Thanks for your reply, man. Thank you for investing the time. The problem is that only one woman in my life is "really attracted"-- it goes without saying that I close regularly with her. I mean, she's my ex-gf and now fwb and has always let me do whatever I want sexually. I don't think the majority of girls are nearly as attracted as that, to me. How can I work on my confidence in the face of getting constantly beat down/rejected? I'd be curious to hear your journey of confidence and game. What…
/r/askTRP22/03/18 11:52 AM
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Hey Nebder, Thank you for investing the time and thought to respond with an essay. Thanks for calling out my bullshit and buffers and thank you for putting things in perspective. I do have my life-mission pretty locked in, but, you're right. People talk less about those important things on here. Life mission IS number one. I think that I have some specific questions as well, and if you don't mind me picking your brain, I might direct-message you. Along with coffee shops, spontaneous day-game, ba…
/r/askTRP29/11/17 05:01 AM
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Thanks again Nebder, for adding a little more to this. I don't know, guys. I'm struggling to see how any of this is worth it-- as men, we constantly strive to be the most alpha of ourselves: we hit the gym mercilessly; we nofap; we keep Nazi-level diet and nutrition; we read everything from Tomassi to Chateau to Eric Von Sydow to Elliot Hulse to RSD to Pook; we take the time to meditate and develop our inner game; to learn how to deal with confrontation and conflict with both guys and girls; we …
/r/askTRP28/11/17 04:15 AM
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Thanks Nebder. What are your current numbers (in other words: what numbers are successful for you)?
/r/askTRP27/11/17 10:08 AM
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Thanks for your reply, everquestnerd. Can I ask, though, more specifically how you do in the winter (a less inviting time for dating/sex in general)? Meeting someone halfway is one thing, but is it possible/worth it to spin plates? Blue pillers tell me to "just get a girlfriend" to spend these months with. A part of me wants to give up on freedom and listen to them if the results prove to be less than the time investment. Anyone else having success spinning plates in a similar population/climate…
/r/askTRP27/11/17 04:08 AM
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Thanks Vandalaan, for taking the time to mull my situation over a bit and for replying. By the way, I am a big fan of some of our other posts. I can show pics for anyone, but I barely get matches. It seems to me that most women are simply apathetic towards whatever I throw out. My effort is there-- I just don't know what else I can do.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 01:55 PM
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