Humble_Skeleton_13 Archive

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3	When is "put out or get out" appropriate? I don't agree and I am dating an American. I'm guessing you're somewhat young, maybe early twenties. Long term relationships before 25 are dumb. Most people aren't ready for anything serious that young and the only reason they try is due to percieved expectations and false notions of fertility. The dating pool improves the more mature people get. Given the horror stories my girlfriend has shared, it isn't just women that do crazy shit (not a real shocking revelation). Instead of blaming society …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/21 08:11 PM
6	When is "put out or get out" appropriate? Because it is something semi common in the culture that she hadn't questioned until I had a problem with it. I think she also thought she was being flirty. When she realized the toxicity of it, she quit. I think there is clear distinction between working through your issues and coming to a resolution, and being a simp. The latter gets walked and used on by someone they never date in hopes they get sex. So really not at all what happened in my case. Given we are dating, I don't do things just for…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/21 07:25 PM
5	When is "put out or get out" appropriate? Because she stopped. The advice oof reddit is always, "if they ever do anything petty, jump ship because they're shit." We're all petty. It's even more petty to take a 1 to 2 week period out of 3 years of dating and treat with the degree of importance that you are currently.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/21 07:04 PM
6	When is "put out or get out" appropriate? Yeah... I had an issue with my current girlfriend early on where she would say, "if you do [insert chore], I'll do [insert something sexual]." We didn't live together so I had no obligation to take her trash out, but I would have without anything sexual. Which added to my frustration when she didn't ante up. Like why put it out there when you don't have to. I also told her several times she didn't have to make an offer of sex for me to help her with something. Anyway, she did this several times …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/21 03:37 PM
1	Epitome of fulfilment for women I would think seeing your partner and children thriving would be the ultimate fulfillment for anyone, husband or wife. I just don't think that diminishes other fulfilling things. People that go unmarried or don't have children can still experience fulfillment. I think it's a toxic mindset, regardless of gender, to assume that your primary source of fulfillment will or should come from your career. Some people have a fulfilling career, but most just make a living. Relationships and self actualiza…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/21 09:33 PM
4	Speaking from personal and observational experience, why do you think most men have trouble getting dates ? It sounds like you're hitting that first date already committed. I only pay for the first date, after that we share. She has to win me over as much as I do her. If we're not a good fit, then it fizzles. If you're not in a committed relationship, then she is having to "compete" as well. I think the reality is men go into the first date assuming this is the one and you gotta win her over. You don't. You're not competing and you don't have to prove yourself. You just have to find someone you like t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/21 09:50 PM
4	Speaking from personal and observational experience, why do you think most men have trouble getting dates ? As a man that had a similar philosophy to you, I've found it is best not assume you both are exclusive unless you've had that conversation. In modern dating both genders will date multiple people until an exclusive relationship is established. Assuming anything different is bound to get you hurt, man or woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/21 09:38 PM
2	Did women choose to join harems during the neolithic era? The Neolithic revolution was the advent of agriculture. You might be thinking Paleolithic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/21 09:26 PM
2	Ladies Night: Sexist or Not? I don't. The only way a "Men's Night" would be a success is at a gay bar. And I'm guessing it's mostly dudes there already. It's marketing to an observed social norm. Women like to go out and hang with other women, men try to avoid sausage fests.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/21 09:03 PM
1	What does masculinity in men and femininity in women look like to you? I don't think men see feminity as the lesser, but rather as a failure of meeting their gender role. Men that are feminine are failures at manhood. It is somewhat similar for masculine women. I think women and Western society at large have been fighting against the gender roles for women a lot longer than they have for gender roles for men. Many men have their self worth tied up in notions of masculine gender roles. That self worth is essentially being challenged on a societal level. Mind you are…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/21 08:47 PM