HumbledKitty Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	Women don’t owe it to society to raise birth rates Shame isn't the right approach but it's beautiful & natural to have children. Besides being good for society as a whole they bring joy, meaning and force people out of egotism. I'm not saying women have to be traditional wives and mothers but the demonization of traditional living needs to stop and societies should enact more child and family friendly policies. We owe it to each other to not only think of ourselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/26 12:05 PM
5	Women Aren't a Monolith is Just "Not All Men" for Women. Apparently it makes me either "as bad as abusers" or it makes me a "brainwashed victim".	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/26 04:04 PM
2	Women Aren't a Monolith is Just "Not All Men" for Women. True and whenever I point out that it's not all men to combat unproductive misandrist talking points I'm immediately attacked.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/26 03:06 PM
3	I dont believe maternal instinct is a noble trait You're confusing a protective instinct which people have for vulnerable groups such as children, the elderly or people with a disability with the maternal instinct that is towards ones own kids. A stranger's child or an old man neither trigger the protective nor the maternal instinct.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/26 02:10 PM
29	The redpill only calls out men when it makes them feel superior. They wont call out men when it makes women "look superior". I don't support the Red Pill but to me the last part is a mischaracterization. Men do get less sympathy and help for their issues in society and there have been too many cases of men getting the short end of the stick in divorce courts despite not being to blame or despite being the actual good parent. Men are vilified, women are seen as pure. These preconception need to go. Neither sex is free of faults and we shouldn't think in these extremes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/26 12:35 PM
–	Why do men think qualities that are impressive are not the bare minimum women want? Your standard of "excellence" may impress certain men and gold digging or promiscuous women but it doesn't appeal to traditional women, feminists or just those who don't think too much about where they fit. A majority of women still have unfair or delusional expectations, they need to be lowered and be more respectful of who men are and not focused on what they are supposed to be. The ideal you describe doesn't make a good husband or provider.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/26 11:18 AM
1	Would you enter a relationship your ideal male partner if you could never have sex again? With an arbitrary man who fills some ideals I may have imagined at one point? No. My husband? Yes if he agrees, not if It would be depriving him of sex because that wouldn't be fair to the men in such arrangements.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/26 05:15 AM
3	The red pill claims are misunderstood because of progressive's projections. If you have a description and then prescribe a solution for it, you understand it as a problem and have brought forth a behavioral change to fix said problem. It's not inherent but if they wouldn't understand it as a problem, there would be no Red Pill	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/26 11:33 AM
4	The red pill claims are misunderstood because of progressive's projections. I'm anything but progressive but you're claiming that factually incorrect descriptions are not prescriptive for the Red Pill but the Red Pill is organized around prescribing a possible solution (adaption) to this description which means they do understand it as a fact that needs actions. While the progressive side says we need equality, the Red Pill says men need to adapt better. Two descriptive takes based on this description.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/26 11:27 AM
1	Would you choose your father over your husband? I wouldn't choose my father over my husband but it's not black and white, if my father and my husband disagree they talk it out. I don't have a boss and if any woman would choose the boss over her husband the marriage should be over. I don't expect my husband to choose me over his parents in this matter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/26 06:29 AM
1	Dating is highly monopolistic for men with women only dating the same few men You fundamentally misunderstood my comment. The value doesn't lie in the struggle, but for example in physical labor that isn't valued enough by society. I wish society wouldn't consider housework and housewifes to be less. I just realized that it heavily depends on location. We're in the middle of Europe a strong safety net, publicly funded activities for kids and a few hours drive and we're in a different country or at the beach and can stay at a cheap pension. In this context, relative to mos…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/26 05:33 PM
1	Dating is highly monopolistic for men with women only dating the same few men Life is a struggle and I rather appreciate hard work that may not be recognized the way it should like my husbands dangerous and essential job as a construction worker or me taking care of our home and garden and still helping out at my parents farm. Meanwhile degenerates like Epstein lived a luxurious life or gold diggers only sleep with men for their money so that they have it easy. That's soulless. That's me being judgmental I know but it is how I feel. I neither think that I could provide fo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/26 05:04 PM
2	Dating is highly monopolistic for men with women only dating the same few men It's a little rude but that's ok. I committed to a person, that's what matters not how much a person owns. I grew up poor on a farm and there is no shame in that. My life is exactly how I imagined it and for that I am very grateful. I'm humble and think anything a man can provide me to be enough and nothing should be taken for granted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/26 04:38 PM
18	Do women's stated preferences actually contradict what they're biologically drawn to? Genuine question, hoping I'm wrong. Are women allowed to respond here? Because I think you're right, throughout history women were aware of our biological and social roles and were complementary to our masculine counterparts appreciating male strenght & dominance, assertiveness, ability to provide & protect, ... Due to modern feminism masculinity is shamed and women think contrary to innate desires leading to the issue you describe.	/r/MensRights	13/04/26 11:54 AM
2	Dating is highly monopolistic for men with women only dating the same few men Not rude at all! That's a reasonable concern in a messed up economy with costs of living rising and women being expected to be part of the work force. The system is rigged against traditional families. I wouldn't call it gold digging if you don't expect more than your familiy needs and don't just think about your own gain. Currently my husband makes barely enough for the both of us and I'm very grateful for all the hard work he does, its not his fault that pay is unfair, thats a systemic issue. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/26 08:02 AM
–	Dating is highly monopolistic for men with women only dating the same few men It shouldn't be that way, most women are way too demanding and hard working men who just don't fit a gold diggers or a feminists fantasy are left behind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/26 07:24 AM