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Happy 4th of July
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:18 AM
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I misspoke above.. There are definitely misandrists who are also femininists But not ever femininist is a misandrist
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 02:21 AM
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Bye
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 08:13 PM
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Sad reality. Glad I'm not a fucking man Yall focus on sex too much
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 08:13 PM
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Single women are metaphorically advertising themselves as “for sale” as in they are single & want be in a relationship. Nope just yo mama And eventually ur daughters Bye
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 08:12 PM
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I already do But thanks for the assumption. Too many of yall have ruined the idea of a simple dinner date just expecting sex because it's top hard for yall to just get it for free Or build a real connection with a woman who will give it to u
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 08:11 PM
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Coming from an internet rando It's funny how u think u know sooo much. Bye
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 08:10 PM
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Why do they expect men to pay for their food and time? I've already outlined. Patriarchy has perpetuated a culture that if they wanna date a woman, fuck her, marry her, or even get some of her time he has to invest money. Lots of women are treated accordingly and have never been put in position where the man expected her to take the bill. Only when those ladies reality is challenged, is when they act outside of the norm If they aren’t for sale, why do I need to buy a big ring to ask her to marry…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 08:06 PM
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Lol right
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:55 PM
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Already do. And women are no longer "traditional", why should we be? Yall still assume the trad role but only when it benefits u. And u just revealed that above. You assume the role of traditional man who is paying for her dinner ONLY when sex is on the table, but if sex isn't an option, then all of a sudden it's "pay your own way" or "she used me" And yes, there are still ladies with trad values, just cause u can't find them, doesn't mean they don't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:53 PM
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Yea imagine that men who think about and value more than sex. Go find a hooker then
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:46 PM
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Yea hot women that they are only trying to pump n dump. That's nothing special, I'm not missing out on much from the shallow dudes who value superficial things hotness and 304 behavior. Just makes it easier for ladies to meet real gentlemen with real values and don't wanna be involved with hoe types. Call me ugly all u want but ppl who call others ugly, don't think too different of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:45 PM
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Then men should stop asking girls on dates if they see them that way. And find a prostitute instead who IS selling themselves Gentlemen I've been on dates with pay because they are treating a lady to a date HE asked her out on, and they've never expected me to pay. It was a gift from them, to me. Just because she accepts doesn't mean she is agreeing to be for sale. I highly doubt dudes like u have success with women, so you should refrain from giving advice
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:36 PM
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Not really bye. The life I live is my life. Younsaying you've disproved something does change what I'm experiencing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:33 PM
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Sounds like u just don't know how to pick em. So u have a negative generalization of all ladies to justify why you don't have success with any. It's fine. If u ever have a daughter, you'll be busy trying to protect her from men who think just like her father. Buckle up
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:31 PM
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Not really. I'm a lady with self respect, and when a man asks me out on a date, I assume the man's being a gentleman and taking me out on a date to get to know me. You'd think a grown ass man who wants sex would just go get it from some girl who's DTF but they'd rather jump thru all these hoops, and spend money on lady You've never experienced dating me, so please, save the insults for ppl you've actually experienced
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:26 PM
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The ones I've gone on dates with try and be subtle with it. I've noticed a pattern that usually the ones hoping for sex always suggest going to someones place afterwards. Some even have gone as far as fishing by asking me sexual questions, like "how many ppl have I been with" or "how soon have you had sex with someone"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:19 PM
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I don't care. All yall live on online and actually put more faith in measly articles that tell you how u live and how ppl live instead of just making real world experiences. All ur doing is regurgitating things ppl want u to know. And u have no idea if some of these articles are biased in order to push a certain agenda that ubare falling for I understand if women on average prefer certain bosses, with the way some male bosses sexually harass they female subordinates, I can see it too
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:55 PM
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Also for the cold sore thing I expect people to have some class and practice safety so they don't have a string of STDs Lol you want them to practice safety, but yet you aren't doing ur part to practice safe sex either, thinking it's okay to kiss or fuck someone you barely know, just because ur scared if the girl doesn't kiss you, or fuck right away it means she's not into u So u are literally risking ur own safely just to feel u have some woman's approval of u
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:53 PM
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And I've already done my part ❤️❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:46 PM
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Gentleman take women out on dinner dates for casual sex too. They just never push too hard or act weird about it. Are u gay. Have u gone out on a date with one. Honey you don't know. A gentleman has respect, and u can't speak on their behalf because u obvi aren't one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:45 PM
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Well they're not. Every woman who values their rights isn't a man hater Lots of men only see misandry and femininism as one and the same because yall are uncomfortable over the fact women can no do things men didn't want them to do in the past. Lost of yall can't grap women wanting to live their own lives that don't revolve around a man, so u guys take that as them hating you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:42 PM
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It's not just today's market. Old women share the same experiences of going thru this with men back in the day. So I know u like to think this is a modern issue, but since patriarchy has been established men have the money, then use it to gain access to women is the reason why we see this perpetuated time after time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:39 PM
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Which is lead by men, plus it doesn't matter if they started the law, the fact is, in 1973 when it was passed, they made a legit legal promise that they'd never go back on it. "But the lie detector determined, that was a lie" But yet bigger social issues we deal with js lack of gun control, ans children are still get shot up In school, so it's ironic how they'll easily go back on a law that governs women's reproductive rights, becawe they want more ppl alive for capitolistic reasons, but yet the…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:36 PM
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That's what courting is. Having sex with someone you barely know isn't courting. Lots of dudes ghost after they get the sex they came for. Courting is defined as dating steadily with the intent to marry and settle down You understand this, stop acting surprised. Please don't tell me what I know. I clearly just said I believe in the traditional form of dinner dates. And just because some of yall want sex, after a date, doesn't mean all men are like that. I've gone on dates with men who were gentl…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:30 PM
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We r not advertising ourselves, maybe some that dress a certain way for the attention. But to assume EVERY woman whos single is advertising is a huge overstatment. You're assuming that just bevsue we are single, we are ready to mingle. What is hard for men to grasp that everything a woman does in her life, is not about a man. Do women ever take a day off from gaslighting? 🤔 You're literally doing that rn. So those are your matches, find them. The problem is a majority of you are for the streets …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:23 PM
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❤️❤️I dont care to rebuttle. Its not worth my time to constantly go back n forth with ppl when it's clear we have seperate world views n we are set it our ways of thinking. Me stepping off is being an understanding and respectful adult, as I recognize both of our perspectives are valid based on our personal experiences, as I'm a woman and he's a man. And you're doing nothing more than being an instigator Some of yall here are so angry, yall even down vote hearts Well, call me cupid ❤️❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:11 PM
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I outright won't bother with a girl if I can't even get a kiss on the first date. She's either not interested or she's one of those "I'm make my man wait" types. I don't understand the desire to jump into all this physical stuff with ppl they barely know. You do realize lots of ppl have cold sores. Why does physical always indicate to yall her level of interest. Ppl show you and tell you how they feel about you thru their other actions, like consistency, honesty and loyalty
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:05 PM
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The dude was engaging Not really, he asked her to engage the conversation No he didnt. He never said, "i need/want you to engage more". Although the first question he asked is broad, he still chose to engage, that was an easy opportunity for her to share an interest she has, and that could've gotten the ball rolling. Not everyone is a master communicator, but at least he was sincerely trying. The OOP established on the tinder subreddit he wasn't fully sure of the approach to take because this is…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 05:57 PM
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The dude was engaging, the lady is insufferable. She's very closed off, but yet puts herself on a dating app, where the users need to exchange some kind of basic interests about each other to see if it's worth engaging and meeting irl And she is focusing too much on the formality of playful banter. Who cares who initiated. If yall both matched, there is obvi some interest on both ppls parts, which motivates them to ask engaging questions to each other Maybe if she was minding her own business on…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:18 PM
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That's all an assumption buddy I believe in equality in a relationship, so no, i don't expect to be provided for when I currently do that for myself. And I don't ask men stuff like that. Career is the least of my concerns when talking to a man. Sounds like you're selling yourself. And not really. Selling oneself involves some kind of sexual act or service in exchange for money. So this sounds nothing like selling oneself
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 10:00 AM
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Your logic is wrong. It only holds from a female perspective. Few men can exchange sex for sex. Most men need to exchange sex with attention/resources/acts of service/validation/etc. Just because yall wanna treat women like cheap hoes for some sex with a stranger doesn't mean I'm wrong. It only means we have different perspectives. The are gentlemen who have this same logic. Only the men who can't get sex for free see dinner dates as access to sex. A gentleman with respect could never What tells…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 09:21 AM
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🫡🫡 right! It ain't worth it. Rather be single than treated like a cheap 🎅 ho, ho, ho
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 09:11 AM
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❤️❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 09:09 AM
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Nah! Because I'm actually looking for something serious that's the point of DATING. Men who want sex are not looking to date. Dudes who only want that need to stay out of the dating pool period, and go find tinder girls DTF, prostitutes or escorts. Yall only say BS like this because you CANT get sex from women for free and it's too much for yall to actually go and build a relationship with a woman where she feels safe enough to actually have sex with you. So yall fuck up the dating pool by hidin…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 09:04 AM
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If a man wants sex he can't just "go get sex". That's not the reality of the overwhelming majority of men. Well too bad, he shouldn't be going out on dates then. That's gross basically paying for sex. He does have his own hand if him needing to cum is that dire. If more learned to actually make good connections and relations with women, then not only will they have the sex they want, it can be good consistent sex with a legit companion. But that's too much for dudes to do. So they try n treat al…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 08:55 AM
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That's the problem is a lot of you guys think ppl owe eachother Just don't offer to take a woman out and pay, if you think she owes you for something she never asked you to do Did u not read what I just said.. even when I pay, some dudes still try and coerce me.. so paying 50/50 isn't the solution to the issue, the dude is the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 08:50 AM
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Why only focus on the demographic of women you don't like? That leaves nearly 70% of women as the "non shady" types going on dates for honest reasons. Considering there are vast amounts of men who are fixated on sex, and can't get it from girls for free, I'm sure a greater amount of men try n use dates just for sex.. n that's just as shady as a woman coming into a dinner just to get her own needs met play on what almost all women love to do: be "traditional" when it suits them and "progressive" …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 08:49 AM
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Where have I ever said I don't? Even when I pay, some of the dudes still try n find ways to coerce me into sex. Dudes who take ladies on dates just for sex are literally spoiling dinner dates for girls who aren't DFT, and looking for a real gentleman. Becauee there are gentlemen who do take us out and only make it about the dinner and conversating. Nothing more or less. Like if some of yall want sex don't go on legit dates then, makes no sense. Just go find a tinder girl who's DTF... that's a so…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 08:02 AM
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Then don't ask questions you don't want answers to. You asked why conservative movements result in women losing their rights and the answer is because conservative men. But you assumed the answer had to do with women. I think you may be lost here because OPs argument is that women in general hate eachother, not that every living one bands together. But a fact I do know is, when it comes to women's rights I'm sure nearly 100% will band together in keeping their rights alive and well
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:09 AM
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Thats awesome. I'm sure we'll see to it that it lives on 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:53 AM
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why are Conservative movements that have platforms taking away women’s rights in every country Because it's the men who are doing it. Yes women can vote but the fact of the matter is we still live In societies where male leaders call all the shots. They are the conservative ones. Notice how men's right are never changed nor compromised Literally Roe v Wade was overturned in many US states but notice how it's male congressmen who are behind this decision
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:45 AM
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❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:40 AM
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Yes. I'm 27
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:39 AM
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This doesn't prove anything. We can look online all day and have articles to back up any claim. Because if you look there are also articles that share information on how women have closer relationships with each other due to the level of deep emotional bonding they are capable of 1 article doesn't speak for the 4 billion women who exist
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:11 AM
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Misandrists are against men Feminists value their rights, and not all are against men. Yes there are individual women who dislike others, but that doesn't mean the general population of women hate each other Ask some women whether they prefer a male or female boss. The gender doesn't matter. It's more about who is a more efficient boss and a team player
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:07 AM
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Lol what? No accountability? Accountabilty is defined as acceptance of honest ethical conduct. If you're referring to my post preceeding this one, I never said the girl went home with the dude, all I said he is extended the offer, where he planned to have sex. The girl in that scenario definitely took accountability by being honest about her intentions by declining and going home after the dinner date. If anything guys who want sex, but don't say it, then take a girl out to dinner is how uncomfo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:00 AM
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Yes it's interesting. This is news to me that a lot of women are refraining from first date dinners. It's definitely is common within the circles of younger women I know
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 05:52 AM
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Yes, I'm a woman. Usually when they ask me, and it's someone I have a good feeling about, it excites me to have an opportunity to get to know them, and yes I go.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 05:36 AM
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Women receive signs and feelings some just choose to ignore it for the sake of keeping the guy Also you have to realize women also pick those men because they believe the way he treats them is what they are most deserving of. So, if these ladies have come from a rough home life, toxic behavior is familiar to her. P.S men have intuition too
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 05:33 AM
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You have a great mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 05:21 AM
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When a man takes a woman out on a date, he has NO idea what type of woman she is. Some ladies are the type to milk a man of his resources, and gain a free meal and other ladies believe in the traditional idea of a dinner date, and other ladies are DTF on the first date Women know that a man taking you out to and paying for dinner with even a hint of chemistry expects some intimacy later This is only the mindset of women who are open to sex on the first date. Even if there is chemistry, ppl who v…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 05:17 AM
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Wow! That's crazy girls are literally saying that about themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 05:03 AM
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Right
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 05:02 AM
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Right! I acknowledge that there are some shady women, just as they are some sleazy men Why do women think they're entitled to free meals? The ones who do this, believe that because they are the lady, its the mans role to pay. Some ladies pick up on how they are treated by men, as some have never been expected to pay. Some will even have no intentions to date the man, but take the opportunity to score a free meal
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 05:02 AM
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Right on ✅️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:52 AM
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That's lovely you value dinner dates as a way to mingle n get to know eachother 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:52 AM
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The don't have to be that way Who are you to tell women they don't have to be a certain way. You're attracted to wide ranges of women, and usually men want to entertain multple women at a time. That's how men are by natural law.. so if anything I could flip it back on you and say men don't have to be that way... but who am I to argue with nature Its not about how they were raised it's about biological impulses they have no control over. It's 2024, we shouldn't be modeling our behavior off of ani…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:26 AM
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Nah! That's not what I argued. I simply said that regardless of her age, and whatever her standards are, that's not going to make it any more difficult to attract a companion, simply because she's slightly older
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 12:04 AM
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How is that delusional? Lots of women like what they like, and stick to what they like, and for some standards shift as they age. Ur probably chronically online, and relatively young. So how would u possibly know about vast amounts of women desire over time
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 11:58 PM
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Yup u did. Sayonara
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 11:47 PM
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He also gained a lot of experience with women over the last 45 years (multiple wives and baby mamas) This is what I don't understand, when women have lots of experiences with Men, especially sexual, and are single mothers especially with more than 1 baby daddy, she's considered ran thru, for the streets and low value that no man will want But yet he is being deemed successful, and High value simply because of his physique and the money he has to live overseas. Women finding him attractive isn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 11:36 PM
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And you have no place to assume I'm sheltered, ignorant, and pretending to do things, in the act of avoiding something. But here we are
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 11:25 PM
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I don't agree. Men have lower standards because they are naturally attracted to wide ranges of women, because their testosterone compels them to spread their seed to as many women as possible. Men literally say how if they are drunk, n wanna fuck they'll literally get it from a 2 if they cant get it from a 10. Or dudes who date a woman just for the sake of having a gf even those she doesn't represent his ideal partner/type. So your logic is saying both of these women have a lot of value in the d…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 11:17 PM
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Either way you're not gonna list them, so sayonara Next time, just by a big boy and say you dont wanna share opposed to resorting to insults and making assumptions
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:49 PM
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Everything except saying "yeah, western women have some crazy insane standards!" All or most of western womens standards doesn't serve as the reason an individual man experiences a lack of success with women. This American society perpetuates men having specific standards as well. When we look at the media, in tv and film, the mens love interest is usually skinny, blonde (or sometimes brunette) white women. And due to anime and Asian culture, Asian women n white women are deemed as the most desi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:40 PM
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That's a crazy 🤯🤯 glow up. Congrats
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:05 PM
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Regardless if a man can get laid or not, if he's bitter, and negatively generalizes an entire gender of women, it's indicative he may have mommy issues, or many failed experiences with women. And they are allowing the relationships with their mother/those girls to serve as an objective lens on how to feel about, and treat women. Thats why a lot of Chads treat women like expendable sex objects, fucking girl after girl. Many of them have a lack of respect for ladies because of their deep-seated is…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:02 PM
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why care about these supposed undesirable women and how they're going to "die alone with no husband or kids". Because those ladies aren't undesirable, they just behave in ways those men don't want them to, so they label them undesirable. Since women have earned their rights, men can not fathom a reality where a man isn't the center of a woman's world or attention. The "strong, independent woman" receives all kinds of hate because lots of men think ladies should be in the kitchen, or on their kne…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 09:50 PM
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you pretend to admit women have toxic traits Buddy, I'm not pretending. Just because I'm a woman doesn't mean I fail to acknlowdge women can have them. All im asking is you to share what you feel those are, when it comes to our standards Is this just cognitive dissonance? Well you aren't going to list any of the standards u think women have that them toxic, so we'll never know. cognitive dissonance is defined as the reality of something contradicting someone's personal world view and belief syst…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:29 PM
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Not ignorant, as I am aware there are toxic qualities in both men and women. I'm simply asking you to share what you feel those are in women. That's all I have no reason to feel insulted, nor called out as you haven't listed anything specific. If u said something along the lines of "college grad ladies are toxic for having standards of wanting a man with an education level/income that matches theirs, if not higher" maybe I'd possibly feel called out, because I don't see that as toxic. Honestly. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:46 PM
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Thanks! You as well ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:49 PM
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Toxic behavior is a broad term, I'm simply asking for you to share what those traits are Like, why are you calling the women toxic simply because a man doesn't fit ladies' personal standards? Why result to insults opposed to just answering the question? Ad hominem
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:48 PM
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Exactly! This is why I hate those RP podcasts, like Fresh n Fit, and Whatever podcast. I've been trying to get on them to give them a piece of my mind but I was denied because I dont fit the type of woman they hand pick to be on those shows. They mostly want the promiscuous, and OF girls types because those pretty girls are the types they wish they could fuck but were never picked, so they invite them strictly to shame them n tell them why no man is ever going to want them. These TRP communities…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:36 PM
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Please enlighten me. What about women makes them toxic? The overall topic of discussion in this thread is womens standards, so I assumed you're saying their toxicity is linked to their standards
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:18 PM
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Ideally women would love a Chad to commit but most of them know he won’t! And what women say this? Ideally, do men want hoes to commit to them? It will DEFINITELY change for you, as you get older especially if looking for a serious option. Not really. You dont know my future, and u don't know me. You're only hoping for that outcome I've always been a loyal, feminine and respectful lady, who only has sex in a committed relationships. So yes, although looks fade, i still possess the qualites that …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:31 PM
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Well I sincerely hope that one day you fall in love, and you have a child with your special lady, a lovely daughter ..and when she gets to the age of dating I hope she does not have men coming at her, with the same mentality as her father But that may be difficult considering women typically go for men who exude similar behaviors, beliefs and characteristics as their fathers. Buckle up 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:09 PM
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Women aren't toxic for having standards that other men don't fit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 04:59 PM
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Girls don't necessarily want Chad to commit to them. He's strictly an outlet for sex. It's just an illusion, bevause once they start fucking him, their mind gets those lovely dovey feelings that make her want to keep him. But once she becomes serious about selecting an ideal life companion, fuck boys are bottom of the barrel. I don't see why you think it is automatically gonna be hard for women aged 30+ when there are many single men within that age, who date age appropriate women who still fit …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 04:35 PM
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What does it mean to be 'not' overweight, and 'not' overly weird? There are no defining qualities here that would make him stand out based on this logic. It's more than just looks, and 'not being weird' for women. They are inclined to select mates who stand out to their personal interests, and biological urges (i.e selecting providers). So if a man is one way, but wants better success, he needs to turn his weaknesses into strength by embracing n having confidence in who he is. What standards do …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 04:16 PM
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Yes I do. I was a bio major in college and this is what I learned. This is natural selection at work. 1 man can impregnant 50 women in a short time period. Whereas 1 woman can only get pregnant by 1 man in a span of 9 mons. It costs more for women to reproduce as they invest more time, and energy, so ofc women have to be selective because life is about survival of the fittest This is observed in many animal kingdoms. That's exactly why all the beautiful peacocks are males, n the females are whit…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:56 PM
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That's awesome. It'll happen when the time is right. Take care ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:55 AM
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Thats cool 😃 you do martial arts, and for soo long too, you must be really experienced When I was a kid I briefly took Tae Kwon do classes but didn't stick with the sport but wanna start up again because roundhouse kicks are pretty cool. Well I wish you the best! And hope you and your special lady align with eachother ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:36 AM
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Women selecting for top 20% men leads to just as many long term single women. All kinds of men appeal to women. If u just plant yourself somewhere long enough irl you'll see women are paired off with average looking men, hot men, homely men, short men, fat men, fit men, men w dad bods etc. So this talk abojt only wanting the top 20% men is useless rhetoric that circulates in red pill, incel, and the MGTOW communities. If you define 'men' as high status then I find it hard to believe that many su…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:14 AM
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You say people can't change what you like to do, but yet you are advocating for women to change their interests to more male dominated hobbies, only for the sake of being attractive to men. Why do you feel they must do that, but you can't do the same? What hobbies do you engage in that only have men involved, or are male dominated?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 12:20 AM
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It's natural for us to act on our hormonal and biological impulses. Thats why a lot of men are more into casual sex compared to ladies. Men have the the urge to spread their seed to a wide range of women. Marriage is a concept to control and regulate human nature
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 11:18 PM
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Meeting ppl irl isn't stigmatized- that's exactly how a majority of couples are established, meeting thru friends of friends, at bars, thru hobbies and also mundane things like working, or grocery shopping If anything online dating is stigmatized because most of the men go on there just for sex. Many women who value something serious ditch those apps then find a companion elsewhere And I know u like to think age plays a factor in women not being able to attract a certain caliber of men, but that…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 11:06 PM
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Why is it every time a man struggles with something, it is the women who are expected to change? you are a woman and struggle getting a serious partner, if you can, get into a male-dominated hobby, it will make you very desirable by default. Not to be "that person" but I don't think this is good advice. Why can't the just diversify his hobbies? There are man gender neutral ones, like hiking, going on walks, bar hopping, gym, and being established in communities, like cooking and crafting classes…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 08:26 PM
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Right! Like video games. So dudes cuss you out for being there
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 08:13 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 08:12 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 08:12 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 08:12 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 08:12 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 08:12 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 08:11 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 08:11 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 08:11 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 08:11 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 08:11 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 08:11 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 08:11 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 08:11 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 08:11 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 08:11 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 08:11 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 08:10 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 08:10 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 08:10 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 08:10 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 08:10 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 08:10 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 08:10 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 08:10 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 08:10 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 08:09 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 08:09 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 08:09 PM
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Being a great man she is attracted to is enough. Great men don't expect to fuck a COMPLETE STRANGER on the first date
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 07:53 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 07:52 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 07:20 PM
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Good for you buddy. I'm glad ur finally choosing to.. https://i.redd.it/xr0ggwkmm5ad1.gif
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 07:09 PM
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I'm not trolling.. all I'm saying is based on the dates I've gone on with a few, has lead me to believe some men only go out on dates just for sex. But yet here you come denying, and speaking in a general way about men, that NONE except sex, when ladies can see it as clear as day that yes some or even many mens sole purpose of a date is to have sex If anything. I think you are a man who does do this, or feels that your only way to gain access to sex is to pay for it via dinner, and you felt call…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 07:05 PM
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you're the one going as far to say we're prostituting women for having the audacity Men want easy sex, but are notorious for slut Shaming any woman who gives it up that soon or easily. Treat a woman like she's cheap, then she'll show you how cheap you are by leaving you in the dust. Her body is priceless n the fact men don't get their happy ending at the end is her telling you her body is worth more than any price tag you put on her But that's about right in this 'men bad' sphere. If the shoe fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 06:00 PM
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This is what I said.. A lot of women have sex with men who show that they love, care and respect them. Men who cultivate legit relationships with women, and/or form great interpersonal connections with them Then u accused me of lying since you do that.. but then you go on to say Not full blown deep connection since i'm not lookin for a serious relationship So based on this answer YOU DONT allow yourself to go deep with them. So really the liar her is YOU. As I've already said men who say "gettin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 05:39 PM
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W-Where, Where'd you go? Is the debate over?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 05:30 PM
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Ok bye 👋 ❤️ I'm not looking to debate this. Women arent for sale n ur are talking this way too far mentioning Chad and scenarios not relevant to my question. A lot of dudes here are really sad. Some of yall can't even answer answer a simple debate question without blowing tf up and spilling everything you think is wrong with women n why you're not happy I didn't ask this Q for it to be turned into a therapy session.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 05:26 PM
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Your world is so sex centered that you pedestalize sexual attraction literally over the mistreatment n abuse ladies go thru. never being considered sexually attractive and being a genetic dead-end with zero inherent value. The fact you say this about yourself is why ladies treat you that way. You need to adopt a winners mentality if u ever wanna see a change
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 05:22 PM
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Not really. A lot of different types of men think great of themselves in some way, shape or form. - Chads: think great of themselves bevause they're confident their looks n charisma is what keeps the ladies coming Men who spend money in attempt to buy attention n sex: think highly of themselves by assuming his money gives him access to women in any way he wants Gentlemen: they think highly of themselves as they are aware they are the ones few and far in between all the men who only want sex Wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 05:16 PM
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That's the thing in my premise I never said the woman when home with him. All I said is he EXTENDED the OFFER, where it was his PLAN to have sex. And I wasn't speaking about men generally, just the ones I've experienced who use this routine. Sadly, these days it's ~80% the latter. I wish you best of luck in finding a gentleman that will take good care of you. Don't lose hope. For what it's worth, I think you're the national treasure and singlehandedly are doing the Lord's work. 👍🏽 But thank you.…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 05:06 PM
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Some of us have traditional values, buddy, and don't want to have sex with someone just because he bought dinner. That's pathetic. What if I get preggo? What if I contract an STD? These are the LOGICAL questions that go thru any self-respecting woman's head. A man who does one thing, but expects another is a major 🚩 N what's silly is if a woman DOES have sex, then all he does is slut Shame and cast her aside. It's not worth giving our bodies up to men that easily because YALL have created a cult…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 04:26 PM
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Women aren't for sale And as a man that's sad u think that way. I hope that one day you fall in love with a great woman, and she gives birth to your daughter, and when you're raising her, I hope she isn't disrespected by men who think just like her father, that women are for sale Bye
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 05:29 AM
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I already said yes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 02:19 AM
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Yes. I make good money
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 01:36 AM
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Idk ask those girls, not me. You're asking me to explain how women are the o know nothing of. Maybe it makes them feel excluded from being an option
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 12:38 AM
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Thank you so much. Take care sir ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 12:08 AM
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Thank you. I appreciate your guidance and advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 11:40 PM
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Yea try it out. If they allow u to put your dick in them after paying for dinner, I'm sure they'll allow u to do the same when in a meaningful connection Men slut Shame women all the time, so many refrain from sex due to this because men immediately lose respect for her. Ladies don't wanna go thru that and they are emotional lovers, so a lot reserve sex for men they know are serious about them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 11:35 PM
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And you have no reason to expect women to figure out that if you say something, it means another. You only think this way because of your lack of confidence to speak up about your intentions. You know that if you open up and say "I only wanna fuck you" you'll lose opportunities for sex. So you expect the women to read your mind and pick up on social cues to make up for your lack of confidence And if a woman had this logic a lot of yall would blow tf up. Well the difference is that men want to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 11:31 PM
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Enjoy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 08:55 PM
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Bye
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 08:54 PM
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I've never said you have to date men, but as a woman who has dated some, you guys show ur nature And men themselves here are admitting some of yall are sleazy and only go out on dates just to have access to sex So no, I've never claimed to know more about men, all the knowledge I'm gaining is based on what you guys are saying So get mad at the other men for exposing yalls game to treat women like they for sale
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 08:53 PM
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No it's not. Men who only see women as valuable as their pussy's have your logic I've been on dates with men who have true traditional values and go out on dates, as a way to court, and get to know me, before we decide to steadily date. Many Chads fuck for free, so they don't need to take women out on dates just for sex, when women are practically throwing themselves at him. Men who feel they have no game, and little options for sex, but too afraid to speak up that sex is all they want, are the …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 08:48 PM
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Yea right. Men who use phases like "getting pussy" don't have full respect for women. So I highly doubt you cultivate full meaningful connections with them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 08:42 PM
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No it wasn't. Many elderly women, like both of my grannies talk about how they've experienced the same things with men, back in the day. Patriarchy is what has basically made it so that men believe their worth comes for $$, while conditioning them that women's worth comes from sex. And that a man's manliness is based on the number of women he entertains, and the amount of sex and attention be can get from them Feminism didn't normalize premarital sex, free love of the 60s and the sexual revoluti…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 08:41 PM
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If u have to explain, then u don't respect them. The best interpersonal connections happen between 2 ppl. In Poly situations there's always someone who doesn't feel fully included. Bye
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 08:28 PM
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I'm not. U complain that women villify men for their standards when it comes to income But yet u just did the same to me, by calling me a hypocrite pestering me about my own standards for an ideal mate. And making up ur own narratives about me that I'm one of the "his money is my money, but my money is my money" types. That's literally you villifying me But you want me to have pity for men who are vilified. You've gotta be shitting me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:48 PM
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Yall need to learn "getting pussy" isn't simply about looks A lot of women have sex with men who show that they love, care and respect them. Men who cultivate legit relationships with women, and/or form great interpersonal connections with then
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:44 PM
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That more proves that u don't value, nor respect women, and only value your personal pleasure above all No man can be in any kind of meaningful relationship with 2 women at a time, and fully cultivate a relationship where there is a deep spiritual and sexual connection, loyalty, respect, patience, and devotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:41 PM
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Sayonara
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:32 PM
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Is that u
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:25 PM
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Lol @ "hidden motive", it's not hidden unless you are clueless or hate men too much to understand us. That's the thing, not all men are the same. I've been on dates who took me out to dinner date to get to know me, and that's exactly what it was, nothing more, nothing less. And ive also been on dates with men who had ulterior motives to have sex afterwards. So no, just cause men that date me, all have different motives doesn't mean I'm Clueless. That's why ppl date, to sith thru their options to…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:24 PM
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❤️❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:18 PM
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Honey, no. You are everything. The moon, stars and sun all exist just for u because u are special
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:02 PM
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Either way I'm done Here. You obvi have a lot of negative feelings about women, so all of your responses are simply in bad faith where ur not actually trying to debate, ur just projecting ur own emotions about women you've experienced, and whenever I say something ur goal is to deny, deny, deny as if everything u say is 100%. I realize I'm not 100% I'm just 1 lady expressing my opinions. This has gone too far, bexause all I've asked about mens behavior, but many cannot answer without brining wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 06:57 PM
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It's less about admitting and more about stopping gaslighting men about how easy it is for men to be likable and that the bar is so low. This is similar to how men claim we live on easy mode, just because we have more options for dating and sex. Women still exist in the same world with where life can be harsh and shitty for anyone. As if ppl don't lose loved ones, are contradict diseases, and are mistreated by ppl. That's true, but I had been in a relationship with a woman who was out of my leag…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 06:51 PM
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Well it's mens' behavior yes i do agree this is deranged And lol ur so focused on trying to insult ladies, that u even throw other men, under the bus by calling him a cuck. Every man who goes out on a dinner date just for sex is a cuck. Just as they say in the 40 year old virgin, a lot of men, "place pussy on pedestal"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 06:40 PM
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Oh. I'm sure ur a lot higher than that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 06:36 PM
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Either way just because you don't understand biology doesn't mean its BS. My grad school dissertation disagrees with you You need to study biology and epigenetics. A man or woman who values and maintains their health, ie gym, literally influences the production of consistent healthy DNA. That's exactly why someone who is obese and eats shitty food develops cancer. Putting a bunch of bad shit in ur body mutates ur genetics to the point where a disease gets encoded into ur DNA That's why even if a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 06:35 PM
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men who set out saying that they only want to date women who make as much or more than them are demonized, yet you see no issue with this? Men don't say stuff like this. Come on dude. This is America. They always share with us that they don't care about our money or career, because many think our role is strictly a mother, who cooks, cleans, raises children and supports his career while he provides. If anything they more acknowledge they date down, and state how they are willing to date a broke …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 06:24 PM
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So what do u want to happen here? What pride does it bring you to have women admit they have high standards? If you know, and u are aware they know as well, then what's the problem? You obvi have some sort of standards too. Because they way u generalize women like this implies that your radar is most likely focused on ladies above average, who are beautiful, stunning women, that other men what, and that's why they have so many options, and can have their pick Meanwhile, a man who behaves the sam…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 06:16 PM
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Ok great u like slutty women. Bye
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 06:07 PM
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it’s simply not sexy to hear a man say, “I’m only interested in fucking you”. Honesty is sexy, above all. If we have incompatible intentions, I have more respect for a man, who tells me where he stands opposed to one who disguises himself as an angel, but comes up as the devil in the end. How does a man expect to get anything out of lying, because if the girl was never interested in sex, not only did he lie, but now he played himself by spending time and money Flip the script and say a woman say…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 06:06 PM
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Nope. They ask me to go, and he offered to pay, and I'm a lady with traditional values. Men wanna lead so much so who am I to stop them Yall go on dates just to get sex, when you could just find a girl who's DTF and save ur time and money. Then yall slut Shame women even though these are the types you want. Because no self respecting woman is gonna fuck a man who pays for 1 dinner bit weird
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 05:55 PM
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Yeah and then they quickly learn most women aren't worth it these days. Not really! He had his hidden motive to get his dick wet from the beginning. He's just there to get a return on his invest by paying for dinner Because if ur gonna lead with that logic why don't more men properly vet a woman before taking her out and spending money on her? There is such a thing as dates that don't require money If men want attention we go chill with the bros. If we try to get it from women we just get a to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 05:50 PM
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I'm not complaining sir. I'm literally here doing a study, for an article I'm writing about dating in modern times and the expectation that is placed upo women for sex as if they are hoes And no it wasn't easy sir, I had to sifth through a bunch of TRASH before meeting my love
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 05:42 PM
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You got the answer: because women choose to exploit men this way. Not really! Men ask us out on those dates and we are complete strangers to them so we have done nothing to exploit them. I'm a woman with trad values, and respect men so me being a woman in that situation where a man wants sex simply because he paid, is him attempting to exploit me The real answer is some men are so desperate for sex they feel their only way to get it is thru wining and dining a girl because they feel if they actu…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 05:37 PM
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Its not just about being hot tho. Attractiveness isn't just about looks, but also possessing positive personality traits and archetypes that are outliers above the average man, like strong, athletic and confident Biologically speaking, we and other animals bear the responsibilty of keeping our species populated, so life is about survival of the fittest, and because women bear children, they are biologically inclined to pick amongst the males with the best genetics, and qualities, that can ensure…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 05:22 PM
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If it wasnt for a woman even saying yes to go on the date with dudes, there would never be a date in the first place. Notice how yall feel like you can't even get access to a woman unless u PAY. And if she doesn't have sex at the end. She gets a free meal and didn't have to compromise her dignity fucking a stranger So who's in control.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 05:07 PM
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Because those women provably haven't learned the biology of their ways. I didn't learn this until my bio major classes in college. You do realize women don't have minds rights. Just because I acknowledge this doesn't mean other ladies are gonna automatically get it, and realize their standards are higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 05:04 PM
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Idk we r all different.. but it's clearly seen yall turn ur heads and chase the baddies, the hot girls, and those who are down to fuck on the first date
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:52 PM
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Bro this is what u said.. imma quote everything u said based on ur last few responses that's contradicts itself I dont think being slutty is a toxic feminine trait Here you say slutty = feminine you probably had a slutty past and want to attribute slutty to being feminine Here you say slutty =/= feminine but being slutty is not a toxic feminine quality whatsoever. You say slutty = feminine here femininity does not = being a slut Then finally slutty =/= feminine So which is it buddy ur saying 2 d…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:50 PM
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Early career. I'm 27 and only starred dating around for a couple years
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:41 PM
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Men with that mentality shoot themselves in their own foot. The fact that men try n hold power over ladies via slut shaming those who immediately have sex with them, is why a lot of women are so weary to not have sex, until they confirm the man is serious We've been conditioned, based on mens own behavior, if we want men to respect us, date us, marry us, we dont fuck on the first date, or engage in casual sex So basically this is a consequence of the double standards that men can fuck around, wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:37 PM
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Notice what I'm saying here is the double standard of how women are damned if they do, damned if they don't. When yall don't get the sex you expect, for spending a nominal amount of $$ on 1 date, yall say you were used. But when a woman accepts the date you paid for AND goes home to fuck you, now she's a 304, gold digging slut, n not wifey The fact of the matter is, many of you "say" you want the virgins and modest girl types as wifey and girlfriends, but a lot of men's behavior constantly shows…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:20 PM
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Stop generalizing that women are hoes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 03:46 PM
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Men like to delude themselves into thinking: I am so great, all I gotta do Is spend a nominal amount on food and drinks, then cozy up to her, make her think she's special. This is how a being so great deserves to receive sex for a little price. Chalk it up all you want but men are literally using women like they are prostitutes. Men who respect women and actually want to date them do not take them out on dates just to secure sex
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 03:42 PM
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that I will want my daughter to be doing. Well you said it himself dating = sex so when ur daughters old enough, she'll be coming across men who think just like u. And be surrounded by men who will do anything to get it, ie taking her out on a date and expecting sex after
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 11:10 AM
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Exactly 💯 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:51 AM
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I only have sex with men I'm in a serious committed relationship with. N slutty past? I only started having sex last year and I'm 27. With the way a lot of yall are it's not worth it for myself or many women to have casual sex. Yall slut Shame too much, but then act flabbergasted when women don't wanna fuck on the first date. Hmm I wonder why? Plus u just said slutty behavior is a positive femininity trait where have I ever said slutty behavior is feminine
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:47 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:37 AM
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Not when women get free meals n the man goes home without sex. He chose to be an ATM that night
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:36 AM
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I don't expect it. The men just do it. And either way men who do this, but have ulterior motives are literally giving me a free dinner and drinks, even tho I never wanted sex with them. So they waste their own time n money just to "hope" they can get sex. When they should just be honest from the jump, then the date would never happen Meanwhile if women ever decide they wanna have sex we can just get it for free 🤣🤣🤣 we don't need to, or gotta choose to jump thru hoops by paying for sex on a fake …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:34 AM
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That's the thing about slutty behavior, is sluts are easy for all or any man who give them attention, and are willing to have sex with men any time, any where So basically, you want a woman who entertains 8 guys at a time, texts them all nakey pics of her while dressing in revealing clothing n turning the heads of men with lustful thoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:24 AM
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Uhm fighting in a war is a man's job. I was painting my nails while you were doing allat I'll take all the Ls on the condition that you take just one D
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:15 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:12 AM
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So I guess men sell themselves too when men take out girls they actually like and wanna date, but she only wanted a free meal and ghosts him after Some of yall see women as sex objects for sale Some women see men as ATMs, who dispense money for them. Now where's my $100??
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:12 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:08 AM
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No one's reading allat Take care you sexy devil 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:08 AM
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In the words of John Cena "You can't see me" so saying anything about my appearance on an anonymous forum is a weak take And lol you act like being a woman who men only take on dates just so he can run thru them is some kind of honor. It's not. Do u think it's an honor being used like an ATM or free gifts If anything the guys desperate for sex and have no other way of getting it are the ones who use dinner dates to secure sex. He can't even get sex for free The chads who can get the women for no…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:02 AM
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Oh the horror, that someone making some shitty generalisation gets called out. It's not a generalization it's a fact, men are so sex crazed, all you have to do is say sex and that'll get them interested. in fact many will do so much to get it they literally invest money to go on a date, that has no meaning, it was all just for the happy ending. While we get to have sex for free and we get a free meal out if it 🤪 😜 😅🤣🤣😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 09:47 AM
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Women aren't for sale Women are priceless
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 09:40 AM
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The problem isn't that men think a lot of women aren't into free dates, the problem is men don't feel they have as much access to sex, if they arent investing some $$ There are definitely a lot of women who are dtf, why don't yall go to those girls
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 09:38 AM
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Not really, just taking his logic and applying it universally. He said it himself, women are selling themselves by accepting a dinner date. So according to his logic, the same logic applies to men who engage in dinner dates. He thinks Women act like whores by selling themselves by going on dinner dates, so then.. Men act like ATMs by selling themselves by going in dinner dates Equality ✊️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 09:29 AM
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Hmmm very interesting I dont understand your last part. Nvm at this point I was just tryna troll 😅 you seem like a pretty nice and level headed dude so pardon me Thanks for the little crash course
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 08:04 AM
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U must've had some shitty ass experiences with women to think that low. That's okay, with the way men are, you'd see pretty quickly that many treat ladies as if they are worthless too. Get ready for all the pumping n dumping, fat/too skinny shaming, makeup shaming, body shaming, cheating, online trolling, physical abuse, stalking, molestation, 35+ y.o. men tryna date/fuck you when you're 19, grooming, men putting their hands on the small of our back when they walk past us, aggressive behavior wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 08:00 AM
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Lol so u shame hoes, but yet you get mad at ladies for not being a hoe by fucking you after the first date 🤣🤣🤣😂😂🤣 And the assumption that the same girls going out on dates with men are also the girls who whore themselves out is a weak take, a shitty generalization. A lot of women going out on dates, are average everyday women, who wanna experience love. Many are not the OF, and IG baddies types. A woman is equally investing her time by going out on a date too so those 2 cancel eachother out The …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:42 AM
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Let's flip the script say a woman is into you, a hot sexy lady, she chooses you over the other guys tryna hit on her, she says youre special and different, and cute. And you like her alot too, and take her out on a date to get to know her. She's funny, cute charismatic and very feminine n loving. By the end of the date you can see yourself dating her. You pay for her meal. And she wants to hangout more. The date ends and you take her home. You try to text and call her back, but no response after…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:26 AM
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But you just said the other dudes logic is right. And psychologically speaking, how ever men feel about women in general, is typxially how they raise their daughters, and usually once grown, daughters tend to pick/date/lust after men who exude many similar traits, belief systems and behaviors as their fathers' So according to that other dudes logic this is the ways of women that you both believe in. So basically your daughter may end up deciding in 15 sec if a guy is worth fucking or not, and on…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:12 AM
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3 years old?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 06:58 AM
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We’re not women. We appreciate shit. So u wanna date women, but yet u have negative thoughts like that. Now I see why some men have no options.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 06:57 AM
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Women aren't for sale
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 06:55 AM
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The best way to deal is to put up a strong front of being virtuous. Never go anywhere alone with him. Keep an eye on how frequently and when he contacts you. Also…. Anytime a guy seems too smooth, you should get nervous. Yes that's pretty good advice. I'm relatively new to dating and experiencing men, so interacting with them is a revelation to me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 06:54 AM
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I don't partake in none of that stuff If you have to plan and count down to recieve sex, that's simply desperation and a lack of patience. People who actually have an emotional connection, and respect for eachother don't follow 'rules' they follow what feels right and what they r ready for. The 3 date rule isn't worth it for a lot of women. Not with the way a lot of men pump n dump and slut Shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 06:52 AM
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So if you become father, and have a daughter, you'd raise that little girl with this logic?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 06:47 AM
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Right and I'm glad some of them flip the script and do that to some men, a lot of men do not have respect for women. Some men treat women like sex objects where they expect to put some money in and their pussy opens, while.. Some women treat men like ATMs and dildos
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 06:45 AM
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Not really. Because I'm literally describing situations I've been in before. Men on the street- whether it's at a store, gas station, bar, work whatever will come up to me and chat, then ask me out on a date. I say yes, and he takes me out to dinner or buys me a drink at a bar. I value the traditional form of dating but he values sex on the first, which was unknown to me. Then by the end of the date he pays, but then suggests to go to his place, then I know where this is going. I say no, and don…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 06:37 AM
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Wonderful 🦧
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 06:28 AM
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Sorry but I wasn't asking for your personal opinion of my rating. Imma 20 because I don't conform to mens' standards of beauty and personality
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 06:27 AM
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You probably laugh because your logic can only be applied to women who meet a certain level of physical attractiveness. Like >6 I think a lot of men really only notice women who are attractive too them, then they make these assumptions that women have access to any man because yall know other men are into her too. That's why you equate dating women to the Bachelor, because it's full of women above average in appearance wanting the approval of an attractive man This same thing could not be said a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 06:19 AM
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Okay You're in a bar, you see a beautiful woman, long blond hair, fit body, with a nice 🍑, lovely smile, wearing tight black leather pants, 4 in heels, a red blouse showing cleavage. You get her attention, bit not right away and yall chat for a bit.. she's a bit shy but very polite, and yall hit it off smoothly Then eventually another woman comes in, average looking face, nice teeth, a couple moles on her face and arms, medium length brown hair thrown back into ponytail, modest choice in clothes…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 06:06 AM
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I see
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 05:44 AM
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Right ✅️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 05:43 AM
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Whatever you say honey
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 05:42 AM
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Gaslighting is defined as coaxing someone to believe things about themselves that isn't true nor valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 05:39 AM
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Unless she's a stripper, street walker, prostitute, porn star, escort, OF model, or selling nudes or her bath water she's not selling herself. It's sad we live in a society where men see taking a woman out on a simple date as synonymous with selling themselves. The bar is honestly in hell for men of this caliber.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 05:38 AM
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I don't play games. I don't need to convince men I'm different. If he's been with soooo many women he projects all that other BS onto me, as if I have to prove myself to him then he's been around the block too much and I will easily pass on that mofo. It's interesting how men don't like when some women say, " men ain't shit", but then here you are thinking a lot of women are shit, and girls must prove their worth to you. Dudes like that need to heal instead of putting all that baggage onto new w…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 05:32 AM
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Don't you as a man, desire a woman with all the positives of femininity- graceful, empathic, nurturing and tender, while also not liking the toxic traits of femininity- slutty behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 05:26 AM
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Okay ☀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 05:24 AM
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No I'm not. Because notice how I'm specifically asking about the few who treat women like they are for sale. How am I projecting? Projecting would be me blaming all men for the ways of a few And no I didn't "pick" those dude. They asked me out and I allowed none of them to stick around in my life after those horrid dates of expecting me to "put out" That's the point of going on dates. We have no idea what the person is like and eventually they show their true colors then we pick them and keep th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 05:23 AM
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Love this answer
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 05:17 AM
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Not really just find a woman who wants to fuck for free Or maybe learn how to keep one around long enough so that she gets those lovely lovey feelings abd wants to fuck you men aren't planning and paying for dates to get a kiss on the cheek. Well I've been on dates with men who are like that. Just cause some of yall are fast.. other men are gentlemen proply courting a woman. They don't treat women like they are for sale
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 05:12 AM
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Doesnt answer the question. Women aren't for sale. Bye
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 05:11 AM
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Not really reread the title. Clearly it states "why do some feel entitled to sex afterward?" SOME... SOME.. SOME..SOME... SOME.. SOME..SOME... SOME.. SOME.. I already know there are wonderful men on this earth, but notice how I'm specifically asking about the ones who expect sex after a first date. I can't make this shit up, some of yall dont read, then assume ppl are literally labeling a majority of men as pigs. Lol you said that, not me, but if the shoe fits then I guess it's true for some Get…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 05:10 AM
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Strawman is defined as distorting someone else's argument to make it easier to attack or refute. That's not happening here No, not all men expect sex straight after the first date, shocking, I know. It's not shocking. Im aware of this. Thats exactly why the title is "why do some feel they are entitled to sex afterward" Thing is some men feel used after they paid for the dinner, acted right in every way That's the thing about women, they are ppl with thoughts, and feelings, and autonomy. Many men…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 05:03 AM
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Yup conveniently it's a rhetorical question
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:52 AM
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Oh so ur an asshole. Got it!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:51 AM
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Those are your friends, just a small handful of men amongst the billions who exist, so that doesn't mean other men don't expect sex upon going out on a date Sex is one of the defining features of dating Not really, you're just a man who sees sex as a main staple in courting. There are other things that are more important like loyalty, trust, respect and honesty, because what will the sex be if ppl can't even trust eachother and aren't loyal. You already know u don't wanna date a girl who fucks o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:49 AM
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I've already said it, the above average women are their priority- the baddies, the hot girls, and the modelesque looking ones etc. Many only consider the below average ones when they just want to fuck n can't get it from their ideal type.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:38 AM
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Sex on the first date isn't safe, and not everyone's cup of tea tho
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:31 AM
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So I'm deluded, but yet some of yall treat women like prostitutes. Women aren't for sale, simply because it's hard for you to access pussy. Or when you use the word “men” do you only count the top 25%? No! I'm speaking on men who only take women out on dates for sex. majority of men cannot find a single women who “will give them sex for free” right? Then maybe those men should take accountability, learn to build legit interpersonal connections with women, date them, so that a woman feels safe en…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:28 AM
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Of what?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:22 AM
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Not really Yall can go on dates that don't require money
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:21 AM
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Well according to other men's answers ur wrong. Men here are literally admitting they expect sex afterwards. If anything 7/10 probably do. Cause some of yall base your worth on money n think you can buy a woman's time like she's for sake And according to the men I've been on dates with they do expect sex after. So please stop speaking on behalf of men u aren't going on dates with
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:18 AM
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Women say they want to do these things to "get to know a man." Mainly his earning potential and current liquidity. If the shoe fits, so maybe some but not all This is a projection.. maybe that's women you've experienced but many ladies are also into the traditional form of dating, going out on dates, steadily dating, become bf and gf then maybe getting married Women aren't for sale. Bye
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:09 AM
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So men want relationships, but use dinner dates to fuck on the first date? Odd. That's not really the best way to secure a relationship, especially for women. As they are slut shamed for it and ghosted. Plus being women, we know how guys are- the girl will have sex with him, he loses interest then slut shames her n says she's easy and not wife material. So it's not worth women's time to "put out" for every man who takes her out and pays for dinner. Every man that's wanted a relationship with me …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:05 AM
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That's the point of dating we have no idea what these men are like until we start spending time with them and they show their true colors. And I'm a lady who definitely always pays my way , so that men don't feel they have some sort of advantage over me, and yet they still try n find ways to finess me into having sex. They r instantly dropped. I'm sure you've had some bad dates, or pretty harsh experiences with women, and you had no idea what kinda woman she was until some pivotal moment
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 03:57 AM
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Women aren't for sale, bye
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 03:52 AM
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Men don’t like to feel like some woman’s entertainer, wallet, and transportation Then don't take them out on dates. Dont spend money on them. this whole notion of being “taken care of and courted old school” is harder and harder to find. You can’t have your cake and eat it too Then dont expect sex afterward. Yall wanna find women who have self respect who wanna be courted old school, but yet you wanna take them home n fuck them? Yea very old school. And yes we can have our cake and eat it too, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 03:51 AM
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Thank you ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 03:42 AM
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Men who think this way hate women, and don't have respect for them. The only way dudes with your mentality get sex is to pay for it, through dinner dates because you dont know how to treat a woman like a lady, so ppl like u you cant keep one in your life long enough to get to that level of intimacy and sex, so they settle for using dinner dates to finess women in to fucking them You're a man so please refrain from speaking on behalf of how we think. Ladies dont have hive minds and it takes more …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 03:39 AM
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Whats disingenuous is a man not being forward about his intentions. Because what's so hard about saying "I only wanna have sex" opposed to jumping through hoops by going out to dinner n wasting their own money, just to get some pussy And the fact that you chose to indulge him in this knowing full well what you WEREN’T tryna do is disingenuous. Reread the premise. I've never said the woman went home with the dude. I simply said he extended the offer of going back to his place, but she declined, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 03:26 AM
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Not really bye
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 03:19 AM
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Honey I did not say they went to his place. That was his PLAN...PLAN... PLAN.. PLAN... PLAN... PLAN.. PLAN.. PLAN.. PLAN... PLAN...PLAN...PLAN... PLAN.. PLAN... PLAN... PLAN.. PLAN.. PLAN.. PLAN... PLAN...PLAN...PLAN... PLAN.. PLAN... PLAN... PLAN.. PLAN.. PLAN.. PLAN... PLAN...PLAN...PLAN... PLAN.. PLAN... PLAN... PLAN.. PLAN.. PLAN.. PLAN... PLAN. You're reading too much into my words n changing the narrative to pass blame off on the woman. My question is strictly focusing on men who do what I…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 02:57 AM
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Because there is no script
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 02:50 AM
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Playing games? What games am I playing? If a man asks me out on a dinner date, that's indicative he'd like to get to know me. He chooses to pay, then asks me to go home with him, but I decline, because why would I wanna go home with a complete stranger, to fuck on the first date. Ew Men who do this play themselves because their too chicken shit to speak up n actually say they want pussy. So they try n finess a woman, but then accuse us of playing games. PS not everyone engages in hookup culture,…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 02:47 AM
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Dude as I've said, reread my response but since you still don't understand ill help you: while also not liking the toxic traits of femininity- over emotional and a woman who doesnt live for herself: too into appearance, wanting attention from any kind of man, and allowing herself to be touched by many? These are all traits a part of toxic feminity
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 01:19 AM
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Yesss girl exactly. Some of these dudes are straight up selfish and treat us like we are for sale. Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 01:16 AM
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Doesnt answer the question. That man chose to take her out, and spent his money, no one is holding him at gun point. He's also getting attention from her. A man's solutions are: - Don't go on dates, just look for sex - Don't take women out who don't pay for their meal - Don't go on dates that require money
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 01:13 AM
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If you're going to accuse me of strawman, at least understand what it means n when it is present. It is defined as distorting a previous argument to make it easier to attack or refute. I'm not doing that, period. The fact of the matter is lots of women go thru this, so this is very much real, and I'm trying to learn about the psychology of men who do this. If you were a man who doesn't do this, my question wouldn't mean much to you, but considering you immediately resort to invalidating my perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 01:08 AM
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Because mens currency is our time, attention, and resources. Women’s currency is sex. Yup we definitely live in a man's world. Seems like everyday men see women as nothing more than sex objects and sex outlets
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 12:54 AM
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Aye! She ain't wrong tho. No need to troll on other women simply because you feel called out
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 12:51 AM
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“A lot of women are emotional lovers” lol, tell that to the myriad of girls in uni sleeping with tinder guy after tinder guy Uhm I don't need to becauee that's their choice. Not mine. You already know if that was ur dick those girls were riding and sucking on you wouldn't be in reddit complaining. Plus those girls will learn, just like everyone else, when they start to feel those emotions build up and they wanna keep fucking n date the dude, who doesn't actually want them Because when you put ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 12:50 AM
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Red pill is popular. Please enlighten me. What has that community personally done for you? What type of success have you have in learned and gained since you've followed it? How has it helped u have more success and results with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 12:38 AM
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Why do some dudes deflect from the question by making a woe-is-me type of argument by generalizing women? But to answer ur question there are different types of women.. ones who are willing to pay on the first date for their meal, and there are women who expect the man to pay because he asked her out to dinner. And the reason some expect a free meal is because those are the types of women, a lot of men continously take out and pay for. So why would they think any different when they keep meeting…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 12:32 AM
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What about women who men deem a 2?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 12:20 AM
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Doesnt make sense because there are kind, generous men who have anonymously bought me a drink, simply becauee they wanted to treat a beautiful woman. They had no ulterior motives and simply smiled at me when I found out which man secretly bought me that drink. When the universe gives you wonderful opportunities, it's like a sin if we don't reach back and express gratitude. Maybe some men who buy drinks to get access to sex should take accoutabilty that a woman doesn't owe you her time, nor affec…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 12:13 AM
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That's biology for you, not horseshit Men are attracted to wide ranges of women, because your high amounts of T, compels you to spread your seed to as many women, but im sure the "most women" men attract themselves to are still women whom are atleast average or pretty in appearance. I've only heard dudes say they go for women under a 5 only when they wanna fuck n are drunk. Whereas Women are attracted to lower ranges of men because they have responsibility of child bearing, and can only have 1 c…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:44 PM
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I think the social convention should be if you want to fuck- find a prostitute, a 304, or any kinda fun time girl down to fuck, while a legit dinner date should be resevered for people serious about dating, who are on the market for a legit companion that could later become a spouse If there's attraction, then be a gentleman and pay. That's the thing about a gentleman is their kindness and respect isn't conditional and based on the levels of attraction a woman has. The solution to your social co…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:35 PM
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Look at the title, notice how I said "why do some men feel they are entitled to sex?" Nothing I said ever implied I'm speaking on, nor generalizing all men. That's your assumption because you generalize people, and you show that based on how you generalize men in your first response to me. Men generally don't expect sex for dinner So if anything ur the hypocrite, why is it u generalize men but take offense when u think a woman is? I'm well aware not all yall behave the same. I've been on dates w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:19 PM
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How many women have said this to you? Or how many women have you dated/talked to have done everything you are saying??
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:04 PM
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Exactly. I hope someday you'll meet your prince charming 💕
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:59 PM
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Women know what a guy wants when he asks her out and pays Not really. So let's not assume every man thinks the same and all women can read minds. What if the man has trad values and is taking her out in hopes of getting to know her and steadily dating her? What if the man is just using a date, to gain access to sex? I've experienced both situations. So it's stupid to tell women don't go on a date unless you're willing to fuck me. When yall should just find women who are down to fuck... you know …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:57 PM
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Thank you ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:47 PM
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Idk but you need to learn women are not a monolith. Just because something is alien to you, doesn't make it weird. USA has very different customs, and freedoms compared to the EU. If you review American history and what women endured to earn their rights here maybe more of this will make sense to you. Women now have a choice now more than ever for the partners they can pick and the lives they wanna live. Also women DO NOT LIKE this being applied to them by men. So it comes with hypocrisy. What w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:44 PM
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So if they are hoping for sex why take the long route and overlook girls who will have sex for free
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:37 PM
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No. Take everything in that lil story I said at face value instead of assuming the girl is resorting to trashy behavior. How is he being used if it was his choice to take her out and pay for that date? What I'm speaking on is men and women who are practical strangers and going on their 1st date, bevayse he asked her out and she is open to steadily dating ONE man And in my scenario if she's choosing to go home then no it's not implied she has or wants other dick. The fact ur response is full of a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:32 PM
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That doesn't make sense. Im a woman who's gone out on dates with men, I've even gone as far as paying for my own meal and also telling them I'm looking to steadily date someone and that has still not stopped them from trying to proposition me to have sex with them We as men and women have created this dynamic, of tit for tat. A lot of men see women as sexual objects and feel their only way to stand out is to use his money to gain access to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:24 PM
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Not really. Just be a man who communicates what you actually want, instead of playing mind games n blaming a woman for not figuring it out Yall don't like when women strictly go out with you for free meals, but mislead you to believe she actually wants or likes you. So according to ur logic should ladies say to men if you can't figure out my social cue that i only wanted free food then you shouldn't be dating
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:12 PM
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Yes, as a woman when we hear men proposition us with this offer many of us immediately think, sex, unless she is new to dating and doesnt know "lets go back to my place for drinks" is code for "lets fuck" In this scenario that I outlined I never said the woman goes home with the man, I simply said he extended the offer to do it. But ofc another man finding a way to blame women for the fact yall speak in code because you're too scared to say that you really just want some pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:08 PM
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I've never said she went back to the dudes place. All I said is he extended the offer of doing that. Because notice: He extends an offer to go back to his place to sip wine n watch a movie. He plans to make a move that leads to sex. The pretty woman declines the offer, and decides to go home. So no, the woman here has a lot of agency as she is respecting herself by acknowledging going home with a guy, especially when it may lead to sex isn't a good idea, and following through with her choice It'…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:00 PM
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Uhm yes we do. Did yall not read this part right here He plans to make a move that leads to sex. The pretty woman declines the offer, and decides to go home. He obliges, but later laments that he was "used" because she didn't "put out". The fact the date didn't end with her going home with him, n having sex is indicative that women like this have boundaries and value their safety, as they do not want to go home to a practical strangers house who could totally be unsafe or even have STDs. I don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:52 PM
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Not really so stop making up your own narratives
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:49 PM
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Lovely. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:48 PM
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Dude reread what I said. Clearly those "slutty" traits are aligned with toxic feminity. Where did I ever say a feminine woman is slutty. Hahaha ha Hahaha ha Hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:36 PM
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Thank you ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:34 PM
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And men feel "used" when women make it seem like sex is on the table, just to get investment. How is a woman using him tho? How does a woman make it seem like sex is on the table? I'm asking about men, who do what I asked, not women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:31 PM
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I think you as a man, and a lot of other men, tie too much of your worth and a woman's worth to sex. Sex is a deep emotional thing, and you form a spiritual bond with everyone you have sex with. I don't see why you immediately think something may be wrong with a woman, simply because she doesn't have sex by date 5. Maybe she values herself and the man she's involved with and doesn't think sex is some sort of thing you count down to, but more so something that is done as a way to show her love an…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:29 PM
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Gaslighting is defined as coaxing someone to believe things about themselves that isn't true nor valid. That's not happening here, and the fact of the matter is tons of men do this, because I've experienced this many times and have girlfriends who have too. Me wanting to know the ways of some men isn't gaslighting. Plus your response is indicative that you took offense to my question and it's probably because you are someone who does this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:20 PM
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That's a smart idea 💡
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:14 PM
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Until women become active participants in the dating process instead of passively letting the man do all the wooing men will probably always feel this way. That's a projection based on the woman you are probably choosing. Why is it instead of answering the question, several of you are turning this around to blame women To see a date as tit for tat is kinda lame. She's equally investing her time too. Like lol do think the clock stops for a woman while it keeps ticking for a man while they're on a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:10 PM
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What is HSPBM
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:01 PM
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So if men are hoping for sex, why be extra n take ladies out on dates, misleading her, when those who do that could easily find a woman who's down to fuck for free
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:01 PM
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That's not the question being asked. I'm asking the men who do, what I asked to share insight. Why make this a woe-is-me type of argument?? But to answer ur question, sex is a deep emotional thing, and a lot of women are emotinal lovers, so when 2 ppl have sex, yall are creating a spiritual bond and the fact ur a man who doesn't realize how deep sex is and just have it with out thinking about what some of yall are actually doing is sad n shows some of yall aint even mature or emotionally intelli…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:58 PM
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So if they're so fearful of being used, and only want sex why are they taking women out on dates in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:51 PM
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Thank you 😊 do you have any insight on why they take the long route, and not just choose girls who only want sex, without a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:46 PM
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. However, if she doesn’t come right over to bang and skip the date OR bang after the first date she’s not into you enough. Why is a woman's level of interest in a man measured by how soon she has sex with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:45 PM
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Women do not acknowledge the magnitude of this power or the effects of rejection on men. Rejection affects everyone. The reason it affects men so much is because they base too much of their worth on the approval of other women. A man who knows he's great in many ways is not going to let one womans 'no' dishevel his whole outlook on himself. You need to realize women are allowed to make a choice. My BASEBALL analogy does apply here, because energy is everything. A winners mentality applies anywhe…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:43 PM
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It's a yes or no question. The fact of the matter is, men are similar. They show us all the time they want the attention, affection and approval of the women they deem most beautiful. So I don't see why this is deemed a "woman thing" when men are the same, this is simply human nature at work
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:33 PM
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Expect? That's the thing about life is you don't have control or a say so in what others "should" do, only yourself. Women already do approach. Just because you fail to see it, or aren't a man who benefits from it doesn't mean it's not happening. Do you even put yourself in situations where you interact with them. You give women wayyy to much power, and it seems like you want them to take the wheel of the quality of you own life. Women aren't the only ones who hold consent in physical intimacy, …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:24 PM
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So instead you push for this your money is our money and my money is my money. Not really this is straight up projection. Because where have I ever said that. You just seem to have this outlook on how women think, so keep forcing your own questions and beliefs onto me because it doesn't flow with your world view of how women think.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:17 PM
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Well you can't speak on behalf of how men generally behave, yall aren't a monolith As a woman, who's experienced this I'm asking for men to share answers on WHY this happens, and what is their logic, not to be taken on some merry go round that puts the blame back women playing w men's hearts. That has nothing to do with the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:13 PM
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Beautiful deflection. You must be someone who does this. So it's a fairy tale that a lot of men only pursue women for sex? Some men of this sub literally admit taking women out on dates, who they aren't even compatible with and fully like, but put up with them in hopes of getting laid. Let's not act like you just got here from Jupiter or something. Literally old women have the same experiences from back in the day when they were dating around. And men say women don't take accountability. Boy bye…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:09 PM
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Women already do approach men. The problem is YOU aren't getting approached. So you think there is a problem in the fabric of reality that ALL or a vast majority aren't approaching yall. So you're demanding them to change, when the only solution is to change your approach to women n how you feel about them and yourself. Some men only seem to care about feminism, and equality because they think it means men now have more access to more ladies, but now that we have full bodily autonomy n rights, y…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:51 PM
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Well do you as a man give attention to, and ask out women whom are not physically attractive to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:28 PM
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Why would women want to be men? You seem to have this misunderstanding that women having rights and equality is synonymous with being a man? You making this statement is implying that it is a man's place to be the pursuer, but then you complain that women don't accept the cons of being a man, by approaching yall and having to face rejection. So which is it? Should men be men who initiate, or should women "be men" who initiate, according to ur logic
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:24 PM
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Watch a woman “make the first move” by giving a man her number—and maybe even text him first— Your whole demeanor is kinda hostile n resentful toward women, and energy is everything. Why would a woman approach you if you already have negative thoughts like this? It's repulsive. You're assuming the worst before the game has even started. Do you think a baseball team is gonna win against a team they keep telling themselves they'll lose against? No! Those 10/10 looking dudes and confident dudes, ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:15 PM
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They watch too many movies 🎬 or spend a lot of time on social media
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:35 PM
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Don't you as a man, desire a woman with all the positives of femininity- graceful, empathic, nurturing and tender, while also not liking the toxic traits of femininity- over emotional and a woman who doesnt live for herself: too into appearance, wanting attention from any kind of man, and allowing herself to be touched by many? There's a balance to everything Those toxic man traits u described are not what comes with "high T" that's where you are getting it backwards. A true masculine man and fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:29 PM
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Ok dude or dudette, then you need to get out more in real life and observe and make connections with more women, and ask them these questions or something. I'm simply one woman. And you basically want me to explain why "women" in general think this way. I've already given you my answer in the first response of this entire thread, but you 🫵 didn't like the answer, and you've been challenging me w more questions ever since. So again, a woman who works hard, and knows she can bring good money in, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:06 PM
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Yes! The universal law of attraction applies to everyone regardless of gender and it's based on physics and energy. So I don't see why you'd assume my logic is gender specific
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 02:12 AM
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I've already told u men I don't have sex with men until I'm in a committed relationship with them. At this point ur being stupid af
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 01:33 AM
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Well I don't wanna talk to you. Have a lovely day 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 01:29 AM
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I'm sorry but, who was talking to you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 01:26 AM
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Not really. Just because u hear answers u don't like that dont support ur own BS narrative that u have about ppl doesnt mean they r deceptive. But nice try gaslighting. A lot of men are easy af, and some get hooked just at the sight of woman. So many are eager to have a woman in their lives as a companion it's not uncommon for a man to ask for a woman to fully commit to them.. especially when u go to another country n men see you as exotic. You said Oprah because no one knows who stedmin is. Who…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 01:25 AM
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Relationships can be whatever ppl want them to be, and not everyone is on board with 50/50, if anything this is mostly an Amerixan thing, men tryna 50/50 ladies to death, but yet they wanna be leaders, providers, and protectors, like huh. Every man I've gone out with has never expected me to pay for a dinner they asked me out on. So its not like im refusing or taking advantage of them, they insist on treating a lady. The only time I did pay was when the date went south and we chose to end it ear…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 12:55 AM
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This is reddit, so people can say whatever Then don't ask me bullshit questions if ur too insecure to trust ppls answers I said name one highly influential man and you name Oprah. Wow. You can't make this shit up, guys. I said Oprah AND Steadman, you dunce. Obvi if Oprah is the woman, then Steadman is the man. Use ur logic
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 12:31 AM
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Sure. So, you've never been married? Yea imagine that, a woman declining marriage to men she doesn't want. Name one highly influential man who never married. Well obviously not you. Oprah and Steadman Bye dude. You're a sad, bitter man who lives online and specifically looks for women's opinions you don't agree with in order to try n assert dominance to feel better about ur own pathetic life and compensate for your WEAK and fragile masculinity. You get off 🍆 starting arguments n getting in debat…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 11:37 PM
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Lol right ✅️ he needs to learn today
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 10:03 PM
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Not everyone desires marriage or feels it's required to validate the love you have for someone. Look at Goldie Hawn and Kurt Russell, they been together for over 40 years and going stronger than many married couples. My love is the Kurt Russell to my Goldie Hawn, so no we don't need to be married to feel our love is legit. How many of them got down on one knee and propositioned you to be their wife? 5 men, and counting That just means they are just banging you ;) Odd because I don't have sex wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 09:59 PM
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Your "nothing changes" mentality comes off as a complete denial of history, movement apparently doesn't exist on /PPD and we must take everything as it stands at face value. Ok well what do u want me to say here? That eventually women are gonna come around n start accepting men whom they are not attracted to, just to make more men feel happy? Ofc back in the day, in like the 80s every dating option a man/woman had was simply because she/he put themselves out in the public n made interpersonal co…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 08:15 PM
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Gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 07:47 PM
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I didn't ignore what was said. It's a biological fact women have always been highly selective. We see this in many animal kingdoms Men scoring women has always been hard for man, because a small range of men appeal to women, whereas men are typically attracted to wider ranges of women. Thats exactly why online dating is the way it is. Social media, like dating apps, n tiktok etc just allows us to see it. Even back then, when women had less rights, the men who were strong, athletic, confident alw…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 07:27 PM
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do you believe a relationship is always 50/50 at all times? No. what about the women that don't pay for their own portion of dinner during a date? Idk it depends on the situation I've never been in a situation where a man expected me to pay. When the man asks the woman out, it's only right he does the honor of paying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 06:52 PM
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You lost me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 06:42 PM
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Ooooh, I gotcha. Yup they just love creating their own misery
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 06:41 PM
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No, its always mattered. Not to all men, not to my current bf, n other men who've taken dating/chatting w me more seriously didn't care Men who only want to fuck a chick don't care. Men who want to marry a chick cares ;) Please do not try n speak on behalf of many man, that you arent around. You're not a woman that they try to fuck. If anything, many dudes that are Chads, fuckboys, n these sex crazed fiends that base womens worth on sex, are the ones who've asked me about n-count. A gentleman ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 06:39 PM
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K bye. I don't got time to speak with every man who wants to argue about the smallest details with women, just so u can feel you've asserted some form of dominance. Take care.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 12:20 PM
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No one's reading allat. It's all very clear you should be saying this all to a therapist, not me. Take care
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 11:36 AM
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Lol funny joke
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 11:19 AM
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I wasnt generalizing. I've never said ALL men. I simply said most men WHO DO post degrading content of women make me question IF THEY like women. For you to speak on behalf of men as if they like us, when it's clear many don't.. because you have no idea of some of the shitty n down right horrible things they say to us, n send to our inboxes.. but then assume "the other demographic" is the problem as if all women don't like men or something is a HUGE over statement. So no, I know u probably like …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 11:15 AM
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N where is the hypocrisy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 10:56 AM
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Maybe speak on behalf of yourself cause honestly considering the content most men post on social media, I question everyday if men even like women. Unlike another demographic N idk what ur implying here, but maybe get offline n try to make real life experiences with women so that you're not generalizing large groups of ppl
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 10:51 AM
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K bye 👋
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 10:48 AM
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Women have always been picky, it's in their biology. It's just back then women needed men more to live, but now that we have many of the same rights Women are picking the men they want, instead of shacking up with a man simply because she needed to get married so she could live with a man who financially supports her
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 10:46 AM
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Well that's because men are easy. So if anything it's ridiculous how little it takes for them to get hooked
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 10:42 AM
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No buddy I typed this out all just now.. why tf would I need to have this saved on my phone?? Just go enjoy fucking other men If I'm such a piece of shit why are you doing a deep dive on my account.Creep. Stalker. Gay
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 10:34 AM
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Well for starters: Black dont crack, so I'll be looking the way I do for atleast 15 more years The sun energizes us and doesn't burn up our skin easily we cook bomb ass food and season it well we have killer dance moves, so good that ppl like Elvis were inspired by it we have great genetics that allow us to Excel in athletics blacks invented Rap, R&B AND Rock n roll many ppl perm their hair, tan their skin and get lip injections just to look like us So yup. U just a hater who don't even like the…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 10:24 AM
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K enjoying fucking other men then And go hug yo mama
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 10:18 AM
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Aww someone's envious
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 10:16 AM
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Too bad u can't relate
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 10:16 AM
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why exactly should we concern ourselves with what these women want and don't want? they don't have anything in their heads, in fact they have very little other than ther bodies and vaginas, let's stop acting like they are some great judges of a mans worth or character there's a reason why in every culture women weren't allowed to vote you know she leaves her husband, her children and goes on to be a hoe or whatever Yes it totally seems Iike you have such a deep love for women, that women can nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 10:12 AM
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why should we concern ourselves with what these women want and don't want? they don't have anything in their heads, in fact they have very little other than ther bodies and vaginas there's a reason why in every culture women weren't allowed to vote you know Because in many male-lead societies many men like u think the above BS about many women, and made sure they didn't have those rights.. thank you Susan B. Anthony. The fact that during the COVID 19 pandemic, the first nation to rapidly reopen …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 09:56 AM
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then hosts are definitely capable of sleeping with OF models Not really those men only have that podcast becayse they feel they are rejects and they disrespect women. Those women have their own autonomy so I'm sure if given the opportunity they'd pass on all those men, especially bitter ass Myron The fact that more and more women are increasingly insecure, spend more time and money on appearance is proof of that. The fact that less and less women become mothers and wives is proof of that. Have y…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 09:08 AM
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Because women today value equality, so if she knows what she's bringing in, why wouldn't she want someone at a similar economic status as her, if she knows she can hit that bar, she's expecting nothing less from the man she's dating. No self respecting n self assured woman wants a man that she feels is living off her dollar and she is taking care of financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 08:42 AM
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N how do u know they're lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 08:26 AM
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It's irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 08:24 AM
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So because one woman cheats on a QB with his back up QB, now all of a sudden ALL womens' sexual history matters to many men Imma let u in on a secret, men who take dating more seriously and see a woman more holistically, have never asked me, or made a big deal about my sexual history, because he has one too. This is an irrational fear. This isn't your life, you're not the QB she cheated on, so why make another man's misery your own?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 08:21 AM
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The only reason those communities gained popularity is because the podcasters invite women that they secretly wish they could fuck (but never was an option to those women) can have their moment at shaming those ladies for being OF models, although I'm sure those dude jerk off to porn stars, celebrities, n OF models. They berate them for not picking those men, and not acting like little angels, who make dating easier for men. Those men take accoutabilty for nothing and spend all their time convin…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 08:13 AM
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The only reason these communities gained popularity is because the podcasters who invite women that they secretly wish they could fuck, but would never give those men the time of day females will change their behavior and will start treating men as human beings females will change their behavior and will start treating men as human beings Red pill can't change women, nor compel women to, the point of non toxic red pill is to make the men realize it has never been easy to attract or win the affec…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 07:53 AM
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Exactly! The whole purpose of the red pill community is to open mens' eyes to the realities of dating and the ways of women, regardless of how harsh the reality may be for men to accept, and teach them ways to embrace their masculinity. Women are biologically more selective then men, and often attracted to lower ranges of men. So dating women, and earning the attention n affection of them, and even being considered as an option for sex has never been easy for lot of men. That's exactly why men w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 07:38 AM
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I’m not aggressive or domineering at all. One of the hardest truths to process as a man is that no woman will ever truly love you in the way you want. Women don’t really love men as people This is why a lot of men simply pump and dump. Kinda seems like u are pretty aggressive and domineering with ur beliefs about women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 06:44 AM
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Well I wish you the best sir
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 06:30 AM
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Short man syndrome = normally attributed to people of short stature, with overly aggressive or domineering social behavior. It implies that such behavior is to compensate for the subject's physical or social shortcomings.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 06:28 AM
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I've been with about 40 women, about half the time they were overtly sexual about it. I've had girls literally say to me "let's go home after this and fuck" When I wanted something serious, showed emotion, they dropped me like I didn't exist. I would have been perfeclty fine spending the rest of my life as a human dildo society and my parents brainwashed me it's almost like you just can't take the L because it means your gravy train will dry up. Dude, you are all over the place, and it seems lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 06:26 AM
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Yea exactly. Imma stop here
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 06:07 AM
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Not really. U do have mommy issues AND short man syndrome
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 06:06 AM
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But yet ur flabbergasted over the idea they didn't stick around. Nothing about any if their behavior is even indicative they even wanted relationships w you or anything meaningful/longterm. The fact you allow urself to barely know them, and not even go on dates to get to know them or their intentions is exactly why you've fucked 40 women, that all left. A man who truly desires something meaningful with a woman doesn't do what you do, or entertain women of that nature. You probably just got hooke…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 06:04 AM
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K bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:57 AM
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Mommy issues at it finest. U ain't capable of love either Weak take
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:57 AM
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Well duh u dunce u as men do too, we as humans, or our scientific name homo sapiens are simply one species of animal out of the hundred and thousands that exist. Read a biology book Source: Masters in Biology
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:56 AM
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This is just like when women pick Chads, who only wanna fuck, but then the girls expect love, companionship and a relationship in return, but he casts them aside after he got what he wanted. Maybe the fact you 🫵 CHOSE to fuck women who all told u they wanted sex from the beginning is the reason why they dropped you. You've had 40 chances to learn, but u fucked up. Maybe try n get to know these girls intentions BEFORE u fuck them, but you let ur desperation get the best of you And I know u aren't…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:49 AM
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This is what men call themselves, but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:40 AM
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Ur still here aren't you. Unless their superficially is treating ur life as if ur gonna die, ur being dramatic and trying to play a victim. Bro u literally have a lack of humility for them as well, saying none of them are capable of love as if they all owe you love. You r no different from the women u are complaining about. How do u feel u are different from those women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:39 AM
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Uhm you should love yourself regardless of where that gets you with a woman. Love urself for u, not them. Dude women are highly selective of their mates compared to men. So yes they have requirements. Women are attracted to lower ranges of men, where as men are attracted to wide ranges of women as they wanna spread their seed. This is just basic biology, and we can see this within females in hundreds of animal species. We as humans are biologically inclined to produce the most fit offsprings to …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:36 AM
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Lol what the hell. I've literally been with men who are 5'5" what am I not being honest abou You despise women in general but throw a fit over the ones who don't want a short king?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:25 AM
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Buddy ur not a victim of anything. If anything ur a slave to ur negative thoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:23 AM
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They will tho. Women like men who respect them, think highly of them, value them as people, just as you probably like when a woman does the same. Women are allowed to have preferences, I think u get upset that u don't fit their requirements, you have ur preferences so why can't they.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:22 AM
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Over here in reality, those of us below 5’8” Bingo! You do have low self worth thinking ur height is representative of who you are as if that makes you a less than ideal dating option for a woman. Learn to love urself. You are worthy ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:19 AM
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If you are solid on your boundaries you wouldn't be continuously attracting those women into ur life. For instance if a man values: -she must have respect for me, she must not talk back to me, or invalidate my feelings etc, then this man would immediately move on from a girl who doesn't align with those boundaries. That's the best way to pick mates before getting too involved with one. Plus if u feel they r all crazy, then maybe u need to re evaluate yourself then because it's a red flag when a …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:16 AM
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So as I've before you are attracting these types of women into your life based on your own internal views of yourself and other women. So all those women are doing are only reaffirming your internal world.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:11 AM
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Aye buddy it's ur life. I'm just adding my 2 cents
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:05 AM
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Well have you dated and experienced all women? So how do u know they are all incapable of love? I think you feel you 🫵 aren't worthy of receiving love, but u don't wanna take accountabilty for that so you view the women as the incapable ones to justify your own feelings of low self worth, then you settle for pump n dumps because that's the deepest you feel you can go with a woman without getting hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:04 AM
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Boundaries allow you to teach people how to treat you, if a woman is crazy then that's all the more reason to double down on ur boundaries and move on from her if she continues to disrespect you. You gotta have more love for yourself opposed to throwing ur boundaries out the windows based on her actions
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:57 AM
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Have you experienced this with every woman alive?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:51 AM
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Then dude maybe you should just stay away from women period. This entire OP is a lost cause at this point, it seems more like u posted this in a way to illicit responses from ppl whom agree with you, but everytime you have someone adding their own perspective that deviates from yours, especially a woman, you put down their opinions, or have some shitty, bitter remark about women as if you've experienced them all. Maybe learn to like, ans respect them, instead of thinking u know how they think, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:50 AM
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Look dude imma be 💯 with you. All these situations with women you are attracting is a DIRECT reflection of how you feel about yourself, and the general population of women. You know how those radio towers are constantly emitting radio wavelengths, and in a car we can only tune into that radio station when we dial in to that specific radio station. Well that's how ppl attract others Into their lives. You seem to have a lot of low self worth, and also think low of women, as if they are all incapab…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:43 AM
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So what point r u trying to make with these comments because all these complaints you've said about women being incapable of love, and how men are objects to them, you making these comments shows you aren't very different from the ladies ur complaining about.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:25 AM
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Exactly! Right away when I read "women don't really love men as ppl" I instantly though, uhm why is this dude acting like women are not objectified by women everyday" I love how u posted these examples
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:22 AM
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Yes women have their judgements but they seem to be more internal. For instance if a fat man is into her and she's not interested she simply won't accept his advances. But when men see a fat woman they do not live it down. They make rude comments like 🤮 tell her to go to the gym etc. And if she's too skinny they shame her as well. Too many men see women as trophies and accessories to their life while shaming the women who deviate from the types of women who inspire an erection
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 11:15 PM
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Do you recognize women that u don't deem as potential partners or sex options? That same thing could be said about men too. As much as men say they are visual, and claim the fun time girls, the baddies, n "304s" are for recreational use only, while the virgins n modest women are reserved for marriage, is men literally admitting that ladies who inspire an erection n are mlst attractive to them are top priority whereas the other girls are over looked, and an after thought for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:56 PM
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I don't think he has ever been married. Notice how in his long explanation he doesn't elaborate on reasons why marriages fail, he spends time speaking in analogies, and he seems to not realize the complexity of 2 humans coming together to share w life and that it is possible to balance passion, love, family etc
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:33 PM
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I notice instead of you elaborating on reasons why marriages fail, you spend a lot of time speaking in anonolgies. Marriage is a lot. It's the unity between 2 people, 2 self actualized adults who have their own world views, opinions, morals, values, interests, and ways of living. Take that, n morph it together into one shared life where where both ppl still value being their own person, but also must compromise a few things in the name of love n their spouse/family. Are you someone who's ever ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:29 PM
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I think marriages fail because many people desire to be in relationships n longterm connections, for the sake of being in one. Then when they are together they realize they aren't compatible, as they share different values, morals and interests
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:22 PM
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This literally made me LOL 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:56 AM
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Where do you get this info from. How on earth do you know what many women are bad at.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:55 AM
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This doesn't answer my question tho
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 11:36 PM
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That's a massive generalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 11:34 PM
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That's a massive generalization. The comparison ur making doesn't make sense.. so you let what other ppls opinions about you decide how to move thru life with ur own body
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 11:33 PM
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And what are those double standards? Plus even if these dohbls standards exist why do people feel they don't need to practice what they preach, but then only want the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:35 PM
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I'm not. What I'm describing pertains more to dating and when people are bachelors/Bachelorettes. If men outside of marriage weren't getting any action hookup culture wouldn't exist, neither would Tinder, Bumble, Grindr, Hinge etc
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:35 PM
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That's awesome 👌 But I'm speaking more about the lads who don't practice what they preach. The ones who want low body count women, while also being highly sexual themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:33 PM
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So let's say a woman is a hoe, who fucks men who also like to fuck any woman whos willing. Can she equally demand that the man he starts a family with also has a low body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:30 PM
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That's because they no longer have emotional,and physical intimacy with you. Porn didn't create that, porn came into the scenario as a way to deal with the lack of intimacy in a relationship that's in its walking dead phase. The only way to deal with a lack of intimacy is to communicate the issue and tackle it head on, opposed to running to porn. Yes. Porn is a part of the prob, and was most likely in tne mans life before the relationship problems. The man is using it as an excuse to not take ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 07:56 AM
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Not really. If anything ppl mostly appreciate a companion with a similar level of sexual experience. Because I'm 27 and didn't have sex til 26, and my focus wasn't on the ran thru men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 07:41 AM
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But how are virgin guys being forced to go for women with experience. Yes, a lot of adult women will have had sex, by the time we reach our 20s, but meeting a virgin woman isn't as rare as ppl think. I'm 27, and didn't have sex until I was 26, and know other ladies who were late bloomers as well. Plus why is the focus on a womans sexual past? Like how does one go about finding a virgin woman anyway, because it's not something that's appropriate to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 07:37 AM
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Humans are very versatile. I've never understood why shame ppl over things they can change. When you live a healthy lifestyle by having healthy hobbies and habits, it's not hard to come across fit/slim women. If a woman's weight is triggering to you, you've got bigger internal problems working against you that you need to confront. And going to another country isn't gonna solve that issue, honey
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 07:11 AM
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Lol "woman of Jesus" is not meant to be taken literally. Yall take stuff too seriously on here. Peace
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 02:39 AM
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Ur not the arbiter. And since we're giving advice, why don't u grow tf up and dissociate gender from the individual. And you out of all ppl shouldn't be talking. According to ur logic, if my behavior is embarrassing "my gender", is it safe to say that men who harass, and abuse us is representing of all men? No! So maybe maybe all these pedos, rapists, and abusive men should stop embarrassing your gender. Because several women of today dont even wanna fuck with men. Maybe that's why so many of ya…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:57 PM
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I don't really give af A lot of yall live in echo chambers and would rather live shitty lives where you accept the worst of others, and just feel sorry for yourselves. My comment wasn't in response to YOU, so I don't really care if my statement falls under a point ur trying to make. You're gonna see what u wanna see. Because why not look for things outside that DONT prove your point. Oh wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:42 PM
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So let's break it down. What exactly are men benefitting less from? Like what are they doing, opposed to the woman, that makes it so that all of them are inherently getting the shorter end of the stick?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:39 PM
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Right. I guess yo mama is also mentally retarded too and seized to take accountability for her actions by not swallowing your dad's cum, on the day of your conception.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:05 AM
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There are zero benefits a man gets from getting married as opposed to just a regular committed long term relationship Then why do men get married. Why do men think it's a flex when a woman can keep a man, opposed to attracting pump n dumps. Why do men place so much value on "wife material" ie cooking, cleaning, embracing femininity, valuing a fertile woman etc. If there truly were no benefits to marriage for a man then every man would opt out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:58 AM
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Thank you for your honesty!!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:51 PM
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That's not answering the question tho. It's funny none of u guys can accurately answer. Because who tf "answers" a question by just asking another question?? Ofc no one wants THEIR companion sleeping with other ppl regardless of man, or woman. What I'm axing is when the man or woman ISNT your Bae. Like if a woman is not dating you, and you're not dating her. Like why give af about what other ppl do with their bodies in the name of sex. And why is it that when it only comes to sex.. now counting …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:33 PM
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I find that knowing my partner's name and remembering what they look like to be the absolute bare minimum for sex Is your life like a perpetual acid haze where you just hop from dick to dick? I've already said this is not MY life. But some are like that tho.. and if they are its their prerogerative. Look if u can't answer the question, it's okay
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:18 PM
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Still not answering the question. Why do u keep involving other factors, when I'm simply asking why YOU place so much value on sex and the number? I don't give a damn about what other women are doing and I never said there is no value to sex
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:46 PM
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lol so sex partners are like acquaintances for you? I've never shared any details about my sex life. So no, thats not the argument im attempting to make, nor is it reflective of my sex life. I'm just aware that sex means different things to differnt ppl, and the number shouldn't matter because sex is a natural thing that ppl feel an urge to do, especially when they have romantic for someone. I've already made my argument.. and you never answered the original question, why place so much value on …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:12 PM
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But why place so much value on sex tho? A lot of things we forget.. like what we ate for breakfast or dinner last week. When you're a kid, you don't count every kid you've played with, or every friend youve had. As an adult you don't count every bro you've made or maybe everyone woman whose graced your presence Some ppl just fuck because the opportinity was there, and they wanted to feel good, then they move on. So it makes sense if you can't member every person But if you're a man.. it makes se…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:59 PM
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Damn thats deep
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 05:44 PM
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most women want experienced men this also includes sexual experience even virgin women. Okay! And what you dont understand is its a womans choice and when it comes to womans first time, id argue we care more about the man it is with who respects us, more than it is about the amount of expeeices hes had w other women. Im only adding my 2 cents because I've actually experienced this. I'm 27, and first had sex when I was 26. All kinds of men were giving me offers, and yes, even those "Chads", who a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 05:39 PM
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I assume that you were more asking for experiences in this vein. Kinda yea! My main focus was to offer a nuanced view of pretty priveldge. We often look at the positives and ppl think life is just easy for attractive ppl, so my point is to look at the other side of the coin.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 05:27 PM
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At that point it depends on the woman, and if she feels the man still meets her standards This comment is literally similar to when dudes make fun of a woman whose been "passed around" by many men, but THEN decides I wanna settle down now" Say you meet a woman whose had over 30 sexual partners, and you want a virgin bride. Would you accept this woman just because she said "oh babe, I'm a born again virgin" opposed to a woman who who remained committed to herself the entire time??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 05:11 PM
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I just really loved your story because your response truely shows that there is someone for everyone regardless of who you are, and your life circumstances. I'm glad things are going great for you today!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 05:05 PM
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Oh I get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 09:33 AM
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A man's past relationships were all before my time with him, so it's irrelevant to me. Unless he's a manwhore gigolo or a murderer, I don't care what he's done, because we all have a past.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 09:31 AM
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They like the idea of me, but double back when they think about all the insecurities it'll trigger. Wym by this?? What types of insecurities will arise??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 09:26 AM
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where a significant portion of audience have seen women only in movies and Eva AI sexting bot How do u know this tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 09:23 AM
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Why would a virgin woman want to commit to a man who's been around the block with many women?? If a girl values her virginity enough to save it for the right man, that man who's ultimately worthy of her ain't gonna be a player, whose been deep in pussy. Yes a man can have his preferences but a virgin girl will also have hers, and a comittment phobic Chad, manwhore is not a top priority, a gentleman who values her , and loyalty will be. P.S. If a man has slept with many women, he is not high valu…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 09:15 AM
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That's a very interesting story and life you've lead. Thanks for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:47 AM
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Dang that's deep
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:24 AM
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Yes 💯 meeting someone at the right place, right time is definitely real. Like there are soo many stories I've heard from ppl where they've met their special person while they weren't looking. It's amazing how the universe works
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:23 AM
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Wow girl. That really tough, I'm sorry about those experiences. Anyone who believes "you only got [insert accolade] because you're beautiful", find it hard to believe that you can be beautiful, AND talented, AND successful, AND kind, AND intelligent. I wish you the best with everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 10:25 PM
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Personally, I value exclusive, monogamous relationships, where both people are loyal and honest. How this ties in to pretty privilege.. is ppl typically think if you're attractive, it's easier to obtain a bf/gf, and that attracting anyone, especially other attractive ppl is easy. But in reality when it comes to dating, there are still struggles, and you even see the dark side of some ppls behavior. Because we place so much value on looks, I've met people who were willing to make a move on me reg…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 10:15 PM
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Right. Lolz
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 10:01 PM
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Damn! This is all crazy. I don't see this side of women often so this very interesting to hear. Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:42 PM
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Right! Whenever I come across a man saying something like "classic, a woman not taking accountability, like usual". Then I ask them what do we need to held accountable for, and I'm met with silence. They don't actually know. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:26 PM
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Women dont suggest men hate them, rather it is something they see and feel because of the horrific things men say about ALL women, just from the small handful of ladies they picked/dated
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:23 PM
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That's great how things have worked out for you. Not only healthy, but also attracting potential partners for companionship. Wish u the best
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:11 PM
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Ok gotcha 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:06 PM
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Firstly, People think I’m fucking with them if I bring up that I struggle to date. I feel it. So you probably hear a lot of "How/why are you single?" I wish you the best tho. A special lady is out there just for you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:06 PM
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That's so true, and a very interesting point I've never realized
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:55 PM
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I’ve been around (minor) actors and models, socially Ooo so like B list or C list celebrities?? Are you in the entertainment industry? And yea I bet. Attention like that literally can be a drug. That's interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:52 PM
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Yes! Thank you for asking. I asked this question because in terms of pretty privilege, we often only acknowledge the positive side, like the attention, validation, and gifts people receive due to it. And even on this sub, there is a running notion that every attractive man or woman, has it made. Because ppl think they can get whoever, whenever, and however But in reality, they don't. Dating and life is still difficult. My purpose is to look that the flip side of the coin. Because when we observe…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:49 PM
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No one's doing that tho. Being an attrative person, you'd be surprised seeing how unloyal ppl can be. Like having a lady friend, whose dating a man, then later that man is giving you looks, and making sexual advances at you on the DL. And it doesn't stop there, even married men will make advances. Seeing behavior like that really can make you question if marriage, loyalty, and monogamy are really valued today. And ultimately that just makes you more choosy of the ppl that you let in P.s. no one'…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:41 PM
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That is a bit of a generalization. I'm asking for actual anecdotal experiences, if you don't have any, that fine. Plus a Karen, is colloquial term making fun of white, middle class women, since women historically of that demographic have used their socioeconomic status and white privilege to "get their way". All attractive ppl dont eventually morph into "karens"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:27 PM
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I want to be courted for my character not just looks. Right on ✅️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:16 PM
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That's super deep. Thank you for sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:15 PM
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Why would there be delusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:03 PM
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That doesn't make sense. My bold behavior already speaks for itself, so I don't need to advertise it. Plus aint nothing wrong with showing ppl that I'm a real one 💯 Lol what r u doing? Just going down the list of things u wanna insult me for. The Karen insult didn't work out for you, so I guess now this. Next are you gonna call me delusional, the interests most famously overused word.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 09:26 PM
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If anything, based on your behavior, thinking you can police ppls actions by calling ppl arrogant and telling them what to do, you sound more like a husband of a Karen- Kevin. Kevin, scram
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 09:08 PM
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That fact that you are ordering another grown-up around, like they are your dancing monkey, isn't evidence enough for you? Lol funny because i remember you doing the same, when you felt compelled to tell me to "get over yourself". Funny how you can't take exactly what you wanna dish 🍽 If you want a definition, Karen, you'll have to do your own googling.... I very well much know what a Karen is, but it's silly because you basically dont. You throw that term around in situations where it doesn't a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 09:05 PM
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Aye! Do me a solid, go to Google rn, search Karen. Read the definition, copy and paste that definition here, and let's examine how exactly my behavior indicates I'm anything that describes a Karen?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 08:47 PM
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I could never be a Karen because I'm not an entitled middle class white woman
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 08:32 PM
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How exactly have I displayed arrogance? I call it like I see it. Plus it takes one to know one, because who are you to tell anyone to 'get over themselves' as if you're some arbiter on how people should behave. You ain't no Saint.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 07:52 PM
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Relationships plural tho. Plural. Cause how long is long term?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 07:29 PM
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Nope, the long term success women did not respond enthusiastically to the slower, deliberate approach. Then those arent long-term type of girls. If you haven't secured something longterm with a longterm type of woman, then the women you are attracting are strictly girls looking for short term, casual fun. Just as you are Anyone who leads with sex should only expect that because most woman who truly desire an exclusive monogamous, long-term connection don't lead with sex. Especially in this socie…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 06:44 PM
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Obvi not all because I don't know all 4 billion women. Obvi if there are heterosexual poly men, then there are poly ladies as well who have sex with them. However polygamy isn't ideal to many woman, and most resort to exclusive monogamous relationships. Ps. Monogamy isn't a religious/Christian thing. It's a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:55 PM
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when I would try to fuck women on the first date didn't lead to as much long term success as I wanted Well yea, if you lead with sex that energy is only attracting girls who want sex, and only that. Long term success type of girls respond to a different type of energy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:51 PM
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I don't understand why play games tho. Regardless of how much a "hoe" a woman is, her body is still her temple and it's her right to choose who gets access to her cookie. A lot of dudes think they can get easy sex from a girl this way, as if it's owed to them. But let's flip the script. If a woman desires commitment/relationship from a man, whose already had 4 relationships is it right for her to think she is owed a relationship simply because he has a past of committing to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:47 PM
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That's not what polygamy is. What you've just described is just a certain TYPE of man- a Don Juan, a womanizer etc. Poly= many, gamy= love. So basically it's the choice to share love with many women/men. Women benefit more from monogamy. The cost for us to have sex is higher, and we mostly benefit sharing a life with 1 person. Opposed to juggling ppl we wanna fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:33 PM
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And what assumptions have I made about you? It's pretty clear you're probably chronically online I can engage in conversation without being emotionally involved. Nah you can't! This debate sub is literally full of men who just come here to sulk n be in their own feelings too much. You just did the same. If what you said was true you'd refrain from down voting. And damn right women choose singlehood. If you met a woman who spoke negatively about men in general and she had negative thoughts about …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:15 PM
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And the thing that a lot of you dudes in this sub dont get is to stop projecting. Yall do that more then actual DEBATING You have NO idea if this woman is even like what you're assuming, you just THINK she's that way because you're either chronically online and react to rage bait on social media where women act like that, or that has been YOUR experience with ladies YOU picked. Either way, heal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:05 PM
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Project much?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:59 PM
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Also there is nothing wrong with men refusing to eat pussy Yes I know dis
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:50 AM
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Lol 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:03 PM
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Oh lol.. well pardon my defensive behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:03 PM
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The universe already has my back. God/Universe/Jesus or whatever you believe in gave us our penises and vaginas, and the ability to feel pain and pleasure. So judging anyone for enjoying the pleasure of sex is just silly.. because we ALL do. Including you. Human race wouldn't exist otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:33 PM
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Thank you for your service
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:48 PM
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Right on
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:40 AM
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Sex- instantaneous, the moment I lay eyes on them Relationship- after several weeks/months of investment
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:13 AM
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Imma speak on behalf of myself. When a man trusts a woman's mouth around his dick.. that's very intimate and is even an act of affection and appreciation. So when I give a man a BJ, I like that I'm able to see his vulnerable side, which many do not see. I like his whimpering, and all of it turns me on, especially when the dude has a bigger dick.. I feel like a dirty girl with something that big in my mouth, behind closed doors P.S. A lot of dudes love to eat pussy. I once met up with a dude who …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:07 AM
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She sounds lovely and like a great match for you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 02:59 AM
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[Scottish voice] Nothing is wrong with an inquisitive mind, sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 02:07 AM
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[British voice] Are you in, or are you out, sir? The choice is yours to participate. Be there or be square
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 02:01 AM
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Sounds like a lovely gentleman
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 10:05 PM
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It's for a thought experiment
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 09:58 PM
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Nah you assumed it was for a laugh, because you probably do that to others, so that's how you're interpreting my behavior. If it was for a laugh, I would've made fun of his situation, but rather I was asking because I could previously attest to a similar experience. let's not pretend u don't call men names when they've let u down I don't do that because that's childish. Assuming that I'm around men who "let me down".. idk what you think I'd even be experiencing in life to have that happen, but n…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 09:57 PM
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Okay! That's a good point. I understand you now bevause as a woman, all it takes is to saying the word "sex" to get a man hooked, but for the reverse it requires more. Somethinf caught my eye. In your argument, "women only see Chad" would you agree that you as a man give attention to a wide range of ladies, or do you have your eyes set on a specific type, like the more attractive ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 09:44 PM
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Couldn't be farther from the truth. My response to this is Alive and well. Seems like you have some serious, woman problems to be using the word "all" and assuming I've been "cornered". A lot of yall in this sub simply come here to project, other than debate, yall need to heal because it's truly sad putting all ur problems on us.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 07:49 PM
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Yea a lot of yall try and avoid the real issue that affects yall. No surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 07:37 PM
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Try attacking people's arguments other than them, personally. This is a debate sub, so if you cant contribute anything meaningful, and wanna be in your feelings, touching grass can help emotionally regulate yourself. For every finger you point at others, you have 3 pointing back at you. So how are you not trolling right now, with ur filthy mouth, and unnecessary words?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 07:35 PM
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Uhm I've never said to be nice. Idgaf abijt guys who try n use "nice" as a personality trait or a major indicator for why they're different from other guys. Too many use that nice guy facade as a way to access sex. I've seen it too many times n don't fall for that BS I was raised to treat ppl with dignity and respect because that's the basis for how humans should treat eachother. So the fact that a guy thinks being nice is special. I laugh at them. There's a difference between nice and respect. …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 07:29 PM
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Okay then do it and see how that works out for you. I'm a woman and have actually lived thru that experience, and no, the REAL problem doesn't go away until you address it head on. I was very overweight in my middle school and HS years, and let it severely affect my mental health. In fact, I thought I was ugly and didn't think men liked me, period. Despite some boys taking an interest in me, I was still closed off from them, and even bitter and fearful of them. Once I lost the weight in college,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 07:22 PM
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The beast was a handsome man with an ugly personality. He treated ppl less than him, and that's why he was given the curse of being a beast- an unappealing exterior to match his unappealling interior The curse could only be broken on the condition he learned to accept HIMSELF and change his behaviors toward others, and meet true love. Belle is also a woman who grew to love her own captor, which is basically a case of Stockholm syndrome. And if anything, she grew to love the beast BEFORE he chang…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:49 PM
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Ok this is irrelevant though. If someone is a self proclaimed misogynist, that right there is what's holding the other dude back. So why do you keep focusing strictly on looks, when it's evident what that other dude is dealing with is an internal issue, rather than external. I understand that's the rule you follow for yourself in order to attract a woman you want BAD, but physical attraction isn't the solution to every mans personal struggles with women. Nor does it serve as a basic for KEEPING …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:59 PM
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What you're basically saying is a man should be accepted based on the condition of how attractive he is. His issue is a lot deeper than simply not being physically attractive to women. His energy is what makes women not attracted to ANY part of him That's exactly why i said he may be able to attract women for pump n dumps, if he's in shape but still a misogynist. This dude can be fit but if he doesn't have the social skills, or even the tolerance to respect women, then they're not gonna gravitat…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:32 PM
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I am a misogynist. Why do I hate women? because thats the kind of shit incels take joy in. So what is the energy you wanna lead with then? You take pride in hating women, while also lamenting over your lack of success and experience with them? You're at a cross roads and need to decide do you wanna be the misogynist who repels women with your spiteful energy, or do you wanna be the man who respects women and attracts them into your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:59 PM
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Because all your problems can't get fixed from simply losing weight. The dude just admitted that he's a misogynist, and even takes pride in it. If men don't like combative women, and those hard-core misandrists feminisists who want men to suffer, why would a woman want the same out of a man? A valuable woman will always gravitate toward a man whom values her, and respects her etc, because energy is everything. His issue is deeper than hitting the gym, because he could look like Thor, but still b…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:56 PM
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I have a question for you sir? Do you hold women responsible for the reason you're single and a virgin??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 02:54 PM
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I already know these things
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 02:40 PM
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I don't give af about what a young woman personally does with your dick. If you see nothing wrong with age gaps, you'd simply live your life, and my comment wouldn't have inspired a response from you Notice how the girl will swallow ur sperm, but isn't using it to create a baby. My point still stands. Like wtf is a young woman to do, other than that. There's no way to produce 100% healthy and fit offspring when nearly geriatric sperm is in the picture
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 10:35 AM
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And by saying that, you as a man are relinquisging all free will and accountability of yourself. You only feel that way because YOU put pussy on a pedestal, and any other men whom agrees w you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 10:03 AM
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we both know law did not stop those sex offenders. Yes I know. Or they wouldn't be registered sex offenders. You need to realize that's some man and woman's actual DAUGHTER. Like have some empathy and put yourself in a father's perspective, would you want some 30+ year old man pining over your special little girl? Remember that song, 🎵I fought the law, and the law won🎵 Well it spits facts
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 09:57 AM
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Everyone has boundaries and expectations for what they're willing to accept in others. It's a woman's right to have her personal turn offs. Sometimes they may seem silly, but those are her rules A dude once told me a woman ghosted him after he revealed he's a Gemini. It be like that sometimes, but you must realize these are the decisions of young and naive women, who believe those minor icks carry a deeper meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 09:44 AM
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Considering the fact that you feel the need to announce this, to prove it's "acceptable", shows that this isn't and doesn't even flow with the natural balance of life n mate selection When it comes to mate selection, older men aren't even on a young woman's radar. Like wtf is a young 20-something gonna do with a 35+ year Olds sperm? Yall try n tell us ladies all the time, how dudes are MOST attracted to fertile women, well women are the same. So dusty, crusty, old sperm is not gonna produce a he…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 09:23 AM
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It doesn't matter. Underage girls dont want yall n you should leave em alone, before you find yourself as a registered sex offender if slavery was legal would u buy a slave? FUCK NO. I'm a black American woman. I don't believe in white supremacy, and the division of ppl based on nonsense, like race.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 09:14 AM
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Nah! Bless the law, cause if wasn't for it yall would pounce on 15 year Olds
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 09:05 AM
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I very rarely encountered men who were happy to tick off all the names of porn stars they had watched. Well yea because what dude is gonna openly share the names of girls her watches on pornos. The fact that we can log on to IG and see IG baddies whom promote sex, and have hordes of male followers says otherwise. So this is indicative that many of us, to an extent idolize and/or follow ppl whom reflect our person interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:05 PM
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You don't really know what most women do tho. That just your observation And please stop projecting you're nonsense onto me because I'm not a woman who does that. I'm a very bold person and have even lost friendships with both men and women because I don't just "gas" people up. I call it like I see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 06:19 PM
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Not really but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:45 PM
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So then do you want people talking shit to and abiut you, and hanging on to everything you do as a person, just waiting to judge every action.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:27 PM
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For every finger you point at others 👉 you've got 3 fingers pointing back at YOU Why do you think it's acceptable to shit on anyone as if your 💩 don't stink? everyone goes thru life managing to collect a few Skeltons ☠️ in their closet, and the fact that you heavily focus on vapid behavior, justs shows you have nothing better to do with your own life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:10 PM
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Or why don't some of yall dudes get a life, outside of observing everything a woman does, and policing them as if yall are the arbiters on what ladies "are supposed to do" It's giving incel, who's chronically online and has no real hobbies or interests beside making their whole life n personality about women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:18 PM
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In fact I'd wager that in a hypothetical universe where women didn't exist, celebrities wouldn't even be a thing. I'd wager that you wouldn't be alive writing this post, putting everything on the existence of women, if they didn't exist. You realize the stork didn't deliver you right? Celebrity is a very broad term. I'm sure when it comes to a hot n sexy actress like Scarlett Johanson, yall know about her and ALL her ASSETTS. Or when it comes to sports, or porn stars that some of yall remember t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:14 PM
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Yes exactly 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:10 AM
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Okay! I got you now. Pardon me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:47 AM
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Your original post is about women trying to shoot their chance for earning the commitment of men that are in higher statue by engaging in hook up with them. It doesn’t function that way. No I wasn't. You misready what I said. My argument is women who go for causal sex are going for what they came for. So it's not big deal when nothing more happens because she's not expecting boyfriend material. Women who desire boyfriends and hubby material, stay off tinder, and focus on men who value comittment…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:36 AM
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Lolz yea that's a lot better
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:24 AM
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Your 20 something 6'5 "Chad" is more likely 1/10,000. Who cares? If a woman chooses to value men of that caliber, she's aware she's actively shrinking her pool. You're a dude, so you may not understand because yall cast a wide net in terms of the women you're attracted to, but women are the opposite They are naturally highly selective and receive many options since yall cast wide nets, so it's in her best interest to select a contendor who best fits her standards and has favorable genetics Peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:22 AM
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Love that song 💃💃💃
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:04 AM
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When they are looking for commitment it won’t be the women they are engaging through hook up but someone as attractive or nearly attractive but not engaging in promiscuity and having a decent head over their shoulder to be their lifetime partner and mother of their child. It works both ways, women whom desire commitment, such as myself, and aspire to become mothers don't want a ran thru man, who heavily engages in casual sex. He's not even putting himself in the energy of future loving husband, …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:00 AM
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All top tier men want top tier women. That’s how the system works System? What are you talking about? And what are your definitions of top tier? Also if there is a woman you're deeply attracted to but you feel compelled to change yourself in order for her to accept you, does that mean you feel she is in some tier above you? To add to that, this woman is basically saying her attraction to you is conditional. The happiest connection anyone can ever have is when someone accepts you, warts and all, …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:38 AM
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I believe top tier is subjective. Like yes to some he can be a modelesque high earner, but to me top tier can be a variance of having high values and morals, respecting themselves and others especially women, so not running thru them. Good health, favorable genetics, motivated, emotionally available, dedicated to his work, craft, and hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:26 AM
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If shes going for casual sex, then yes, her objective is to play with her boy toy. And hell no she is not a cum sock, his "sock" is gonna be a condom. Raw sex is for commitment only 😘 When a woman truly desires commitment and a LTR she'll align herself with the emotially available, and commitment ready type of men. Maybe it’s fun for a short term but verbally is a massive L Okay! That's your personal choice, but a lady has a right to her own decisions. Its her choice to repeat a cycle, or make a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:19 AM
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What evidence do you have? So all top tier men are just players avoiding commitment? Doesn't make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:53 AM
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The west doesn't value tradition, therefore, growing boys and girls aren't raised to practice or honor traditional ideals and lifestyles. The sexual revolution won, men and women decided they didn't want to have/be virgin brides anymore. This movement was the turning point where we traded traditional ideals for free love and sexual freedom and liberation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:51 AM
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When a woman is able to pull a dude, a win is a win. Him not keeping her is irrelevant because she still received the sex she came for. Just because one top tier dude may be a commitment phobe, or a player who pumps n dumps doesn't mean the lady is aiming too high, and can only receive committment from lower tier men. Cause for every 1 dude who's only looking for a pump n dump, there is at least 1 dude who will gladly date, and committ to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:32 AM
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Most women wouldn't go for an average man If a woman doesn't want "average" then thats her perogative, but that doesnt mean all want a small minority of men. What is your definition of average? And also, most men would do the most difficult jobs which is why they would be more likely to outeaen women because women just want the comfortable office jobs. It can easily be seen that women occupy more than office jobs. There are women in government, military, combats arms, in the police and fire depa…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:04 PM
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Yes, there is the slut-shaming double standard, that definitely exists. Then you've just disproved your entire argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 08:53 PM
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Well even when you trust a woman's actions we can see that my above statement checks out. Rage bait that circulates social media has men believing that a vast majority of women only desire men who are 6ft+ tall, make 6 figures, and whatever else. But when we actually observe irl the types of men whom are coupled up with ladies we often see men of various backgrounds, and usually are in the same socio economic level as them and education level. And plus a life of luxury isn't only attainable thru…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 08:50 PM
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Exactly! Ive noticed men are socialized so differently from us, like many are told if you don't earn a lot then you're nothing, which is quite sad. But many dudes will take the things they base their worth on, and feel that all of their external qualities 100% translate to what women want, but many completely overlook the emotional aspect that we desire too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 08:01 PM
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Women can become depressed and anxious over many things. In a study I did back in college, most of the depression and anxiety ladies experience was obtained thru childhood, and turbulent upbringing. Myself included, but that has nothing to do with our standards and the men we seek to date. Just becase a woman has a history of depression/anxiety doesnt mean its because of her dating life/being single
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:47 PM
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If you’d only be happy with a man like that then those aren’t standards - that’s delusion. That's not delusion. Delusion is defined as believing in a reality that is not real. But the fact that these types of men exists, and make up a minority, and women are aware of all this, but still choose to want him, then no, it's not delusion but rather a woman sticking to her standards until she meets her type of man worth committing to
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:41 PM
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I'm sure they interview all types of women with different interests, but notice how the ones you mention, wanting 6 feet tall, 6 figs etc, get the most attention, and triggers butthurt ppl and arguing. They do this on purpose just for clout, even if it divides men and women. I'd argue womens standards are fine. We all like different things in men, and we cant help whom we are attracted to. Get off the internet, it's giving you a false idea about ladies, and is only leaving you feeling inadequate…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:24 PM
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But notice how many women of this sub are either picking dude 1, or neither! This is indicative that there is a discrepancy between what men think attracts women compared to what women actually desire in a male companion. The fact that some of these ladies mention the emotional aspects are missing, like if he desires children, what is his personality like, can he support me when I'm feeling low.. indicates emotion and compatibility trumps money and luxury.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:10 PM
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Definitely the first dude 😍 I'm an introverted 27 yo, single, childless woman. We share similar lifestyles - I have my own car and place as well, and prioritize health n fitness, and am told by others I'm beautiful/gorgeous/pretty. This dude is definitely my type irl, and is a better contender for long-term commitment and reproducing healthy children with. I also desire to grow/build with a man and travel together, so idc if he's loaded with $$ because I'd rather supprt someone I'm in love with …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 06:48 PM
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Okay! Makes sense. I understand ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:29 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:28 AM
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Well I'm in my 20s, so why is it, that many men in this age group will pursue a woman for sex more than anything??
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:27 AM
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Yes, as I've said everyone desires that. Why leave that part of my quote out?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:22 AM
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🎯
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:19 AM
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Have to? Nah! If many more women today are choosing single, childless, career oriented lives, and men are the ones fear mongering women that they're gonna die alone with cats, because she isn't shacking up with some dude, it's evident that not only do men eventually want to settle down, but they also feel they have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:18 AM
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So while they are in their 20s they have an abundance of dating options and won't settle on marriage unless it's the perfect guy. Men don't want to settle down either in their 20s, this is exactly why ladies experience an abundance of dating options because many are strictly pursuing girls for sex, and comitment-free situations. If more men valued courting ladies itd be differnt, thats why many married young back in the day, both genders were on par with commitment. Marriage doesn't need to happ…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:11 AM
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Have fun because we're coming for your 18 year old daughters to give them the same treatment. You're right 😋. Wtf. I'm a 20-something, childfree woman. Fucking pedo. Younger women ain't want no grandpa fucking on em. So many older men try that on me currently thinking we actually want them, and it's pathetic. Young girls only want other young dudes who are energetic, and can relate to them, they don't want no used up dick that has been around the block 48 times, when she's just getting started w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:58 PM
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Not really! Woman owe you jack💩 and they dont have to be how you want them. Fucking grow up. Its 2024, so they don't have to live like its 1950, a regressive time where they had less autonomy. A lot of yall ain't traditional either. Yall ain't wear none of those nice suits anymore, or even have the patience to court a lady, like men of the past did. All yall wanna do is fuck, fuck, fuck, and lead on (as you've said) making girls think you wanna commit to them, which is what they want, but no yal…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:42 PM
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Ok bye! I'm tried of yall commenting trying to play mental gymnastic with me because yall come across views you don't agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:28 PM
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What in the world?? A woman is wasting her time dealing with a man like that. Yall on this sub all the time. I complain about having to pass women's shit tests, but ur basically admitting that men do the same. So you'll play with a womans emotions and string her a long to see if she loves and appreciates you, and use her as a resource for sex when usually those emotions come with a commitment and a relationship, but yet if she doesn't play along to his stupid game, then she's not wife material??…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:25 PM
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Delusional is the internet's favorite word, but sadly yall use it in contexts it doesn't apply to, like this one Maybe spend less time focusing on what women do with THEIR OWN bodies, and spend more time befriending a dictionary How would you know any of what you just said is even remotely true? You need to understand a woman's body count only goes up, when a dude fucks her, simultaneously bringing his up too. But I don't see you throwing shade at the dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:05 PM
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But earlier you said in another comment you don't want marriage, you want sex. So do you admit to being a whore too then? Deuce Bigolow, male gigolo!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:58 PM
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Because women generally value commitment at young ages and throughout life, more often than dudes who seem to wanna strictly have casual sex, or remain in commitment free connections, especially in their 20s. So if the majority demographic of women are young on that sub, it checks out because the dudes in their age groups aren't wanting to wed yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:52 PM
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At that point, everyone in that situation is a 🚩 The dude who she married- he's allowing to be settled for, so he most likely has low self worth. The lady who is married- because she doesn't know how to move on from exes, meaning she's emotionally fragile. The toxic ex- for not moving on either. He could completely let this bitch go and move on and have a happy fulfilling relationship of whatever of his own, instead of settling as the side piece. So basically he's accepting he's only good for a …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:23 PM
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When did "not always know" become "this happens to socially inept men and/or me quite often"? My reading comprehension is great. I've never said this only happens to socially inept men, and not me. I simply said if you have a hard time understanding who's unavailable and also believe it requires vast amounts of time n energy, then you may not know how to read and pick up on social cues to learn those things. That's all. why are we assuming the emotionally unavailable person is acting morally. I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:12 PM
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Right! Some dudes are so dead set on having it their way, they miss out on learning how to read ppl.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:30 PM
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No! We can't help whom we're are attracted to. If someone has a problem with that, they're taking it too personal, and haven't learned how to accept rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:25 PM
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They don't need to bevause I'm saying it. It's not an assumption. There are a lot of dudes here who seem to think their only 2 options are to be settled for, or be the dude who fucks and is amazing but the ex, who's all but a memory Just pay attention to their comments on this post, or any that has to do with them and womne. Many of them have defeatist attitudes and sulk.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:16 PM
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They don't need to bevause I'm saying it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:09 PM
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Well lucky for you, I'm a master of science in biology, college graduate, magna cum laude.. and what you said is a load or horse💩 All life on earth wants to survive and thrive for as long as it can, thats exactly why we have sexual urges, to keep the earth populated with humans. So murder can't be natural because it clashes with the natural order and circle of life. If murder truly was natural we'd ALL have natural impulses to kill, similar to the strong urge we feel to have sex, eat, or sleep, …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:03 PM
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You don't always know. Not at first. That's what's annoying about emotionally unavailable people. Then you're probably not a social person who knows how to read the room and pick up on social cues. If a woman is not available, she'll hardly show interest or invest a lot of time into you, that's vastly different from the behavior of a woman whos happy to be involved with you. Men are the same way. I meet new dudes all the time, and just after a brief convo of asking the right questions, and obser…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:30 PM
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Yes! It's very hilarious that some of yall are hypocrites and don't even see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:17 PM
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Both situations are sad. So none of yall wanna be the dude who gets the girl AND knows how to fuck good, threat her right, the whole 9 yards? I guess that's a big ask since (according to you) many dudes' biggest concern is to get their egos stroked, and remembered for how they lay down da pipe, and nothing else. The bar is seriously in hell for some of yall 🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:15 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:00 PM
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Irrelevant. This is why socializing is important. You can literally find those things out from just talking to, and connecting with the lady. When a woman is emotionally available you'll know, by how she shows up, and how she talks to you. and if a dude wants her. He can just say that, and she'll say whether or not she's single and ready to mingle or preoccupied. In what world would it make sense for ladies to wear a sign consisting of their relationship history? That's just ppl wanting things t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:59 PM
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Double standard
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:44 PM
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Do I really need to pull out really obvious stats that have been disseminated countless times? Ah the chronically online dude weilding his weapon of mass destruction. We can look at stats all day, but that don't mean these are the ONLY things women value in men, especially when in love or when one desires longterm connection. I don't like your nature. Murder is natural, and so is rape. Should we tolerate it or do something about it? Aye buddy you ain't gotta like it. But yet I'm sure you've stil…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:41 PM
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It’s not hypocritical Uhm! I've never said hypocritical, you did. So that just shows you know this behavior is a part of a sick 🤢🤮 double standard. Sex is consensual, so women aren't the arbiters of who gets to have it, men have agency too. You only feel it's that way, because yall put the pussy on a pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:17 PM
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Excuse me, but looks, money, and status doesn't make a man inherently better than anyone, especially a woman. That's just what yall tell yourselves because this society doesn't teach men how to internally value themselves and truly embrace your masculinity. So yall measure your worth based on what you HAVE, but not who you ARE or what you VALUE Women are supposedly hypergamous by nature, so it doesn't make sense to scold them for "dating up" especially when you believe a man's worth and success …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:05 PM
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Hypothetically speaking, let's say a woman does happen to have a dude she's fucking on the side, hypothetically. Why do you wanna make it harder on yourself and compete with that? Opposed to simply going for a woman who's 100% single and emotionally available to you? Do you want her simply because another man "has" her? Are 100% single girls a turn-off to you. I just don't understand why choose to jump thru extra hoops.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:36 PM
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Fuck enough women so that you know what you’re doing, fuck whoever you’re with everytime like it’s the last time Also helps to not be with someone who is ran through, but that may be tougher nowadays. Uhm. Then maybe don't fuck all the women. It doesn't make sense to encourage men to fuck, fuck, fuck, but then also turn around and complain how it's harder to find a non ran thru girl. Supply n demand hunty This is exactly why Red Pill content is a piece of 💩 to me Another case of rules for thee, …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:52 PM
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Short can be subjective. But I'd say anything under 5'5" for a man
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:19 PM
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high PHYSICAL standards nearly all women are now adopting. Not every man is meant to reproduce. Women aren't "just now" adopting their standards, it's always been this way, to seek out men with the most favorable genetics, and reproduce fit children. And we see it throughout many animal kingdoms, i.e peacocking. The males fan out their features to show the females, "I am a male worth reproducing with over the others" That's exactly why 2 male roosters in the same hen house fight, as they want to…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 12:13 PM
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That's just biology at work. Women are highly selective by nature, regardless if they're the best or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 11:57 AM
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The post is about makeup as a whole, and it's not about you specifically. Oh but it was earlier. You said I'm insecure. You wanted me to take that personally. But lol now that my motives don't fit with your narrative you wanna act like "oh it's not personal". Cop out So you do wear it. Isn't that what I just said. Like ultimately what do you want here??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 11:36 AM
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Yea that's pretty deep
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 11:13 AM
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See but that where you're wrong. I don't wear a "mask full of chemicals" but thanks for thinking u know everything I only wear eyeliner, a lil mascara and sometimes lip stick. And I only stick to the vegan brands, because Im vegetarian/vegan in my personal life, and I don't care about harsh chemicals either. I already have clear, beautiful skin, and don't need foundation to make my skin look more appealing, as you assume.. I only wear make up once every several weeks to have a certain look. So l…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 11:07 AM
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Am I valuable without impressive looks, money, or status? Yes because your worth isn't defined by the external. When we die, all of those things will be left on earth, but what you take with you is your soul, which is the source of your character and personality. Just being fun to be around, making basic conversation, a few ambitions, and looking "okay"? This is honestly what myself and many other women desire opposed to the external. It's nauseating hearing guys talk about everything they bough…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 11:01 AM
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Okay so when you wake up one day and feel especially good, put a suit on (or nice outfit on), groom your hair, put on cologne etc. That's hiding unattractive aspects?? Make up is an accessory, no more than any of the other things I've mentioned. Bro ur a dude who doesn't understand makeup so stop telling women what they're using it for, when it's obvious there're MANY purposes for it, and reasons we put it on. Honestly I think you're a very insecure dude who's probably chronically single. So you…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:53 AM
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We used to not care, just picked the best looking ones. trying to outdo each other with makeup in a sort of an "arms race". This is exactly what also contributes to this "make up arms race" women are very observant and see how men respond to women who wear it, thats inclusice to these IG baddies, and romantic interests in eveyday life. If yall dudes claim to "pick the best looking ones" it indicates to women make up is valuable beyond self expression, but also for sex appeal, and attracting men.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:46 AM
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It's superficial, It's fake. It's basically a form of deception and dishonesty, and Oh wow, so I must be really deceiving people into thinking I truly have blue eyelids while wearing blue eyeliner. Damn yall can't tell that red lips aren't natural as well. If you are a man, and you allow yourself to be deceived by makeup, then that's a personal problem, not a woman's. So in the long run, it doesn't do women any good You're no one to tell a woman what's good for her, especially when you aren't on…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:35 AM
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if you are not then there is magic sentence - "i didn't expect that you're actually nice and fun to talk to". Nah! I just think a lot of ppl have low standards. The bar is obviously in hell for a lot of ppl, and it's evident because when you go onto reddit, IG, FB, or any communicative platform, the number of ppl who come forward about their naraccistic/abusive/gaslighting partners is uncanny. But it's like, none of yall never seen any of the signs? You can't hide that. People are just bad at pi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:25 AM
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Every woman? That's a far reach. I'm a woman, and since you said 'every', I'm basically included in your statistic, and I'd say, no, I don't agree. A lot of us know our worth and desire a man who'll respect and honor us, just as we'd do the same with him. Contrary to popular belief, any self-respecting woman will not desire, nor accept a handsome asshole, because the energy you lead with, and how you treat ppl outweigh any kind of looks. We accept the love we feel we deserve. So an adult woman w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:13 AM
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Kinda like the preferences of many women. But why do you care so much? Are you a victim of their preferences? What are some preferences of theirs you believe are shallow?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:42 AM
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Enough with this nonsense. Just because a dude is handsome doesn't mean that's all he needs. They can be an asshole whom no woman wants to deal with. You're basically telling people that any man who is short, fat, or ugly aren't even worth adopting a high self worth attitude. Unless you're a woman dating these men, please stop. This comment is shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:30 AM
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very few amount of women approach, Yea women in YOUR social circles
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:07 AM
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Oh my God. Shut the fuck up at this point. All I said is they do approach, period. I never said, "all", "most" "a lot" nothing. And yes I do touch grass. I don't sulk on the fucking internet like some of yall dudes in this sub, just looking to argue with any and every woman with beliefs that hurt some of yalls fragile egos.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 10:18 PM
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I think it's great when a woman desires to commit to one man and love him unconditionally. It's degrading to devalue someone as a sex object.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 10:13 PM
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Then OP complain about this to the women who you personally know in your social circles, with those clashing beliefs. What do you persoanlly expect a bunch of internet randos to do here?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:13 PM
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No! They have their own ambitions that motivate them to do as they please. We don't base our actions off of yall
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:06 PM
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As women, many of us already know yall are more keen on approaching us because yall are easy and will look for any opportunity for sex. What do you want to happen here?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:04 PM
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Right! Like these dudes forget they too get older, and that women don't owe men their younger years.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:56 PM
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You don't know 3.96 billion women tho to make that claim. Touch grass
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:50 PM
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And feminism advocates for division. How is TRP, MGTOW ideologies or the stuff Andrew Tate, and other male Podcasters say any different?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:34 PM
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But your youth is the only marketable commodity you have thats worth a damn. That's like us telling yall, your wallet is the only marketetable commodity you have that's worth a damn. So are you married, or ever plan to settle down longterm?? Sooo what will you think of your wife, say when, she's 50?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:26 PM
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I don't say it to be mean I say it to help them You're not helping them tho. It implies that a woman's purpose is settle down with a man, and have children. Youre not the arbiter on what anyone "should" be doing with their lives. So you're basically pestering them for not succumbing to society's old and tired standards and expectations of women. The best way you can help them, is to leave them alone and not challenge their life decisions. We are the ones paying the bills, we are the ones that's …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:23 PM
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Ain't no one say how much dough 💰they working with here
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:07 PM
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Except women never go after the men they want It’s objectively known that women don’t approach it’s objectively known that most women don’t approach man At this point, you ain't making any sense. First, your argument is women NEVER approach, which implies NONE at all. Now you're saying MOST don't approach, implying that SOME do. So which is it??? Pick a lane. From my days as an undergraduate college student, I've obtained skills in cross examining people. The fact that you go against your own ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 07:31 PM
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I don't need to be "every woman" funny how you'll use that statement to discredit my argument, but yet youre a man who doesn't know or have experience all women. And no, I haven't went against anything. My argument is that women do approach men, maybe not all. But yes it's very common today that it has even been throughout the history of women. i said what I said. You're the one looking to argue for the sake of arguing. Cause ain't
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 06:19 PM
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I don't need to do any of that 💩 when I'm a woman who does that in my own life, and often meet women who do the same. I'm a very social person, and constantly meet ladies in the bathroom, or where ever and we gush over the dudes we like and hype eachother up, and celebrate when we get his number, his IG or SC. I've literally made friends this way, and have even attended a wedding of a friend who approached a man first Sounds like you need to touch some grass. The world irl is a lot more greater …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 05:39 PM
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Soruce???? If more women approach you'd, your views would be otherwise. Looks like ArmariumEspata is right.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 05:20 PM
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Good for you. I didn't know you were a Doctor. Bye. This is a lost cause. Classic ad hominen.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:42 PM
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Hyperbolic! Okay youre only one person, who really only has access to a small handful of women in your social circles... in a world of nearly 4 billion ladies. So you don't know what 99% do, as that's roughly 3.96 billion women. I highly doubt you've Interacted with that many. Just because YOU haven't personally experienced women going after you, because they found you attractive doesn't mean they don't shoot their shot. When ladies REALLY want someone they go for it. End of story. You're just i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:34 PM
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I think that the cult of feminism promises unrealistic things to women like that they can have their cake and eat it too I'd argue this is exactly how traditional patriarchy is, and still is today. Giving men so much power, like the fact that they believe they have a right to slut Shame girls, just shows how man still wanna exercise having power and control over women's actions. And the fact that they'll pat eachother on the back for having a high n count, while thinking low of a girl who does t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:23 PM
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Excuse me, but are you a woman? Even if you are, how do you know what most do? Fact of the matter is that women do go after men they want. Who tf do you think girls are going to then, if not the dudes, whom they are heavily attracted to (especially of the swipe right, and match w the dude on tinder) I'm a lady who goes after the men I like. I know other ladies who do this as well, and whenever I'm at a social Hotspot I even see girls shooting their shot in public I don't understand why that's su…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:08 PM
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Yea its tricky. It seems like ppl easily attract the opposite of what they truely want. I wonder why that is. Maybe beasue when we really want it, our longing for it simultaneously pushes it away.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 11:08 AM
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Not at all. I think women in general are lovely, but western women are mostly meh, through no fault of their own, but rather their upbringing. These two statements contradict eachother. If you have two separate independent clauses, and the statement that proceeds the first is lead with 'but' you're negating the first statement. You think women are lovely, but only when they're cute, not fat, not a feminist, and non-western? Hmm? What is you're reasoning for thinking women of North America, Canad…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 10:56 AM
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Nothing. I don't see the causal hookup dudes as boyfriend material. Yes, I categorize some dudes as hook up only.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 10:33 AM
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Yes, we become hard wired during our habit formation years, 0-7 years old, and what we're exposed to in nature, as well as how we are nutured by own parents/guardians is what's responsible for our dominant beliefs, and actions. People can change their hardwired habits, thru self awareness and actively replace an old habit with a new one. I don't see what point you're making with Bezos and Musk.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 10:11 AM
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Those are all learned behaviors tho, that were most likely passed down to them thru observing the behavioral patterns of their parents. Because if some children are like that, while others are well mannered, polite, and respectful shows it has to do more with how they're nutured opposed to it being inherent
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:31 AM
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I'd argue that the things children are taught when young, "sharing is caring", "clean up, everybody do your share" and being kind and considerate etc is actually right But what we get wrong is the aggressiveness. Ruring the transition from adolescence to adult, we become corrupt by society and others who take advantage of us. So we harden ourselves. Notice how children aren't born racist, they don't hate one gender, or are self servicing. If anything they are just love.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:00 AM
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Idk because one person can't really lead a relationship. It's a combined effort, or why else would it be called a companionship. One person can't push the relationship into various phases. They both make that decision together, as it requires consent, and acceptance of both ppl, to go anywhere other than where u are. One person can't be responsible for the relationships health. If person A wants to go to couples therapy, but person B doesn't wanna, then that relationship will remain unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:28 AM
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What is it about specifically a woman recognizing something she doesn't find attractive that makes the some dudes on this sub so wroth? It's not like men have "turn-offs" and "icks" as well. Because a woman who has certain turn offs she won't accept indicates she's a woman with standards. And many dudes, their standards are either non existent, or they only require that you're a woman. That's it. So those dudes will take personal offense to anything that indicates he could be eliminated as an op…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:13 AM
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What is your definition of chase? Simply going for the guy she's attracted to? Yea! Women are not that different from men in that way. They too get dopamine rushes, when they lay eyes on a person of interest. They, too, have lustrous thoughts, that are motivated by sex, and desire
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:06 AM
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But in order to do that, one needs access to certain resources that may not be readily available to them, and aren't necessary if they do the enternal work in their current location.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 07:52 AM
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Everything you've listed in bold font, omit those actions. It's not gonna get you anywhere meaningful w a woman. What you need to do is be assertive. Be someone who has self respect, and boundaries nice can be boiled down to refusing to put your own gratification over other people's wellbeing, and generally striving to make others feel better about themselves That's not "nice" that's ppl pleaser mentality. It's not your responsibility to put others ppls happiness over your own. If you're constan…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 07:47 AM
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Regardless there's truth to what I said. Yea it's a silly lil movie, but it's 100% true that you become who you surround yourself with. Incels keep other people single.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 07:31 AM
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You're not understanding what I'm asking But thanks for calling me delusional, a word everyone over uses on the internet, even though it's not relevant to the context What I'm basically saying is, you have a very negative and low outlook on ladies. If u and other men are turned off by the negative things toxic feminists, and misandrists say about men, your views on women, and the way you speak of them are the flip side of the same coin.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 06:47 AM
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No! Taken ppl are 100% off limits. Plus, taken ppl cannot be emotionally available to the single dude or dudette, so that "love" could never go deep Even if "the ink isn't dry" thats means nothing. Some people will be in a committed relationship 4 life, without ever marrying, because they dont want/need a ring / contract to solidify their connection. If a man is successful in getting a gf via taking her away from her man, then that girl and guy are both 🚩 it means he doesn't respect peoples rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 06:29 AM
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So women will agree with you saying this about them? These days women lose their cuteness when they turn obese or feminist and this sadness of a dating market is what we get. Sounds shallow af, but if ladies agree with u then, enjoy!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:02 AM
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You seen that movie Hitch? Well Will Smiths chatacter was the ladies' man who likes women, who also understands them enough to get the girl. His client, Kevin James' character was basically an incel. Notice how he only obtained success with attracting the girl he's been wanting forever by listening to a date expert. Not other incels. You become like the ppl you hang around. So remember that, next time you give soo much to credit to incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:27 AM
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Ok that makes a lot of sense, I can understand why you have that viewpoint now. Thank you. I agree with your take 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 09:32 PM
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These days women lose their cuteness when they turn obese or feminist and this sadness of a dating market is what we get. Thats a very first world thing to say. Oh it must be so sad, women valuing their rights, and also not appealing to your gaze. Oh whatever will you do. There are bigger problems than women being undesirable, and unavailable to you. I'd argue whats also sad about today's dating market are the vast amounts of low quality men, who don't actually like women, but still flood the da…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 09:29 PM
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If the baby is not mutually agreed the default should be abortion, I'm sorry but that's a very immature mindset. So ppl wanna be grown and mature enough to fuck whoever they want, but don't have the maturity to talk about the consequences that come with sex- which literally is to make a baby, and make a desion on what to before hand. Going to get am abortion isn't like a simple trip to the bank or grocery store. It can be a traumatizing experience for a woman, especially if the father abandons h…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 09:09 PM
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Women really should stop burdening them with babies A woman cant burden a man with a baby, thats literally his child, HE helped create. Imagine if your father said that about your mother, while preggo with you. it's not like she's the virgin, Mary and just became pregnant. If a man feels a child is such a burden, then he needs to take accountability and keep it in his pants. When a man has sex, he's allowing the woman the opportunity to decide how to move forward with childbirth. He can't compla…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 09:01 PM
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Female gaze porn is any porn that strictly centers around the women's pleasure, and emotion. Many women I know, say they get off the most when watching lesbian porn, or girls going solo. But this can also be porn where the man's pleasure isn't a priority, but rather he is giving her oral until she has an O, and prioritizing the emotional aspect of sex,
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 08:24 PM
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Yes. We approach men we are attracted to. The only reason the traditional "man approaches woman " was the norm is because that's how men wanted it to be, while the women remain coy and pure. But since the sexual revolution and early feminist movements, this entitled women to a sense of freedom to also have a say in the men they pick and have sex with. Men liked this. They figured it'd be free sex for ALL, but it backfired, as women are only picking certain types of men to have all the sex with. …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 08:09 PM
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Nah! No one cooked anyone. Why do some of yall focus so much on "who won"? Sometimes when you debate, you learn all some ppl wanna do is argue against everything you say, just for the sake of arguing. It's not worth my time to debate with a dude, who clearly has a problem with women, and argues with nearly EVERY ALL of them on this sub, looking for problems. That's why I stopped. Sometimes being the bigger person is walking away. Opposed to "cooking" as yall say.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:45 PM
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Just because I shared 1 story about 1 dude who has experience, yall will jump to conclusions.. okay. Obvi if we went our separate ways due to being incompatible in that way, obviously that shows I desire a man who hasn't been around the block multile times, and has too much experience. That was the point of my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:22 AM
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Nice try, but yes I'm aware I pick the dudes i date . Plus, that was only one dude , and I broke that 💩 off with him. Y do you personally care if I date a dude with too much experience vs none? It ain't black n white like that there are also intermediate levels of dating experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 11:41 PM
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Good for you! Bye!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:47 PM
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I was in the military, and have also been diagnosed with PTSD and I'm also a sexual assault survivor Go to fucking therapy and stop using it as a fucking crutch/boat anchor Please stop putting words in ppls months. You all? I or no one else here haven't said a damn thing. This is what you said. I sincerely hope you never get cheated on, physically abused, or put in a life or death situation that's seriously traumatized u. That ain't something u can just turn off, so that crutch or boat anchor re…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:41 PM
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They do. I think some of yall don't wanna accept it. Because in other posts men complain about ladies and their standards, the 80/20 rule, and Chad. So its evident many ladies know exactly what they want in a man. And if you truly believe they can't identify what they want, then like someone else who is AWARE of what they want instead of sulking. It's that simple
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:27 PM
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You asking for this, is like asking for world peace. Swallow the red pill and learn life isn't gonna be butterflies n rainbows dating women. You're gonna come across a lot of ppl who are self serving, dishonest, and lack self awareness. It's just life. But you can't expect them to start doing anything, when we all have free will. But that doesn't mean that's how all women definitively are, just align yourself with ladies who don't lie and have high emotional intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:21 PM
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Thats a lame excuse. some of the advice here is just as bland and misinforming as those statements (ex: this post). So I guess until then just keep following misinformed advice from men, right. Which will keep perpetuating these types of posts We're social creatures, just go out and do shit. Mingle, meet women, observe how they are irl, and how they respond to YOU. Practice getting back up after rejection. Go out n live ur life opposed to resorting to blame, or victim mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:13 PM
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Yes! This. I was involved with a dude who had "too much" experience dating women. He kept comparing me to his ex gfs, AND ex flings. And when I desired something that was out of the ordinary to him, in the bedroom, he'd say "well the other girls didn't need me to do this much, I could just f*ck then and they'd cum" he didn't wanna do it because it was too much work. Waa When really I just know what I like
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:04 PM
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Why not let women identify whom and what dynamics they desire in relationships? And they can tell the men. You can't speak for all women, because we all desire varying things. Posts like this are misleading to men, yall will go out into the real world n this isn't 100%, you'll get disappointed, then circle back here to write another complaint about how women make things hard. Perpetuating the cycle. As a woman, it's a 🚩to me when a man has "too much" experience dating women. If he's had many, ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:54 PM
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"Delusional" rn seems to be the internet/social media's most famous word to the point where ppl apply it to any statement. This is odd because delusion is a serious mental illness n ppl ain't doctors or psychologists, to even be "diagnosing" others like that. It's very easy to call ladies delusional, but the fact is, many aren't, and men who keep saying that about ladies, are simply perpetuating their lack of accountability for oneself, and fail to observe how he plays a part in his own dating f…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:30 PM
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Well according to legally blonde, other women get accepted to Harvard University, and become lawyers. Men and womens, coping strategies, post breakup are based on the individual, not gender
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 08:13 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:40 AM
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That's very interesting you have a girlfriend who does that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:26 AM
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Right on ✅️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:44 AM
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Think positive to attract positive outcomes does not help women want to be in a relationship with you. It helped me. Why are you bringing up players? They're not emotionally available to women for a relationship. I'm speaking on emotionally available guys who desire relationships. When you think low of the opposite gender, it only attracts ppl who also think and treat your gender negatively. But when we think positive, we're aligned with other clear minded people, who respect and think highly of…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:42 AM
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I don't understand how this is relevant to my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:46 AM
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Well u can't speak for all of them. Nice try
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:45 AM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:55 AM
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Then find you a lady who appreciates a man
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:55 AM
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Women are strong and independent and they don't need us to protect them 👍 Right! Dudes who makes comments like this are in the bottom 80% of dudes who women don't fuck with, then yall scratch ur heads and wonder why, less women are either opting to be single or only give the time of day to a stud, at the top. It's okay, a big strong MASCULINE man, in the top 20, with favorable genetics will protect us. There's a reason why women flock to them. Cause what you said is Beta talk. BetaSux
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:52 AM
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Should I transition into a woman so women feel safer? Wtf would that do. Just be a man who either leaves a woman alone, or keeps one safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:46 AM
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Ok then pull a young, hot babe rn.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:39 AM
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Any time a woman lies about assault, it’s crickets from feminists. 💀 Not really! I'll gladly acknowledge that woman was dishonest. Yes this ONE woman lied, but that doesn't override the fact there are THOUSANDS of cases where women were killed/molested/raped/harassed by men who'd rather use their strength to hurt ladies over protecting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:33 AM
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still sexist if you use statistics Black men on average compared to other groups commit more crimes. If I use those statistics You're a fucking hypocrite So it's sexist to draw claims from the stats of crimes men commit against women, but it's not racist to make the claim that you just did about black men, which you drew from stats. Gtfo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:12 AM
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It's not sexist if it's true. Men on average commit most crimes. And if ladies can attest to a crime committed against them, then they are valid to feel the way they do. Yall are sexist every day on this sub, but then can't take it when it's dished back out. Weak
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 12:56 AM
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Please tell me what women need to be ashamed of? You're literally crying right now over women who don't feel personally safe due to the experiences they've endured with men. If you know you are a safe dude, whose not guilty of harming/harassing a woman, then why are you making a big deal? Nearly every post, everyday in this sub is some dude making sexist comments and generalizations about women, that other men just upvote and support. But when the tables r turned, we're supposed to feel ashamed?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 12:52 AM
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Truth be told, as delusional as women are This is exactly why you struggle with women. You wanna date women, but yet you think low of them, as if they're in lala land. Think positive, to attract positive outcomes. Would you date a woman, who has the exact same mindset as you? Are you your types type?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 12:37 AM
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Then don't bitch and complain when a vast majority of women cluth their pearls, and don't feel safe around yo ass, or other men. When I was in the US Army, we always sang the soldiers creed, and "I will always treat others with dignity and respect, and expect others to do the same" is sadly lost in translation in the civilian world. The fact that yall can't even show basic respect to fellow humans, and think it's entitlement is exactly what is fvcked up about this society. Yall have all that str…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 11:43 PM
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Well I honor the guidelines of this sub, and don't downvote as instructed soo.. 👀 in the famous words of Shaggy and Rik rok 🎵"It wasn't me"🎵
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 11:28 PM
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Ok! Then omit that example then. My original claim still stands
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 11:22 PM
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Why are you offended about women who live in fear of men? R u just sad because it's less women who are options to you? Waaa
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 10:51 PM
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99% of men when told explicitly to stop will Don't speak for all men. The stats on Sexual assault cases and rape dont agree
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 10:47 PM
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Nobody desires or aspires to live in fear. Ofc their feelings are valid. A lot of men today don't care to protect or respect women (ie this sub). Many just see them as sex objects, and get out of hand when their advances are rejected A man hit a girl in the face, with a brick, and not a single man, not even his friends, helped her. And then you have the audacity question if women are irrational for fearing men who have shown we can't feel safe with some of yall Funny how you'll question a woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 10:44 PM
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I suggest you teach other women this because a vast majority on this sub seem to think they are in danger of being raped or sexually assaulted Gee I wonder why. You just got done saying men today don't need to respect women, how my grandpa did, and you stated they deserve to have their spaces invaded because her clothes make yalls dicks hard. That's not my responsibility to teach women. That's for them to decide, because accountability remember. Maybe more men should start showing women that the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 09:24 PM
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You all claim to fear us like predators so why should we give you that you all can't even take a compliment from a dude like you have pretty eyes or your hair looks nice today with out turning it into some misogynistic bullshit I've never said any of this. So please. Hunty. No. I actually love men, I have several positive male influences in my life. The only time I ever dislike one is if one harassed or threatened me. I'd have no reason otherwise to fear a man. Like wtf. Maybe stop projecting yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 08:58 PM
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I had a grandfather who only had eyes for my grandmother throughout their 40+ years of marriage. Even in older age, he remained handsome. So many ladies flirted with him, but he seemed to not even notice. When ladies made an advance, he'd poltitefully decline. He'd always look at my grandmother as if it was his first time seeing her (ear to ear smile, with eyes that smiled too). He was a real gentleman, and always reminded the young girls and boys around him that people deserve to be treated wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 08:32 PM
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And if most men are jumping through hoops to talk to women, all women become entitled to that behavior. All women? That's a far reach. And what exactly do you mean by "entitled"? Explain this behavior to me, and what it looks like?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:59 PM
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You just sexualized yourself by focusing on a zone that's sex related.... Okay so what is that personally doing to you? Or any other man?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:49 PM
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Exactly! In the secular west, we had the sexual revolution. Decades ago, we as a society decided to trade traditional norms, with sexual freedom and liberation. Men have chosen to NOT want pure virgin wives anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:21 PM
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If ur too old to be drafted, then ur too old to be fucking young girls. Especially if other men who stay behind, adopt the same mindset. It'll just be another competitive game, war edition
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:14 PM
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If we experience WWIII, I'm sure more people will be concerned about the well-being, and safety of this county, not about who they can fuck. Men can only evade drafting on special circumstances. Like if they're a minister, or a single father w full custody. It's not something men can voluntarily opt out of, and just chill. They'd call it volunteering, instead of drafting The baby boomer generation is known for being so large due to ppl fucking like rabbits, AFTER the war, not DURING. All the wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:08 PM
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If one man is pursing, or jumping through hoops to talk to a woman, other men are most likely attempting to pursue her too. It's in a woman's best interest to pick the lad who best fits her ideal mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:52 PM
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A woman is most incentized to be picky because it is an inherent biological impulse that ensures picking a high-quality mate to reproduce fit offspring. Those "crotch goblins" that women "pump out" 🤢🤮 (who tf refers to childbirth this way?) are very costly to a woman's time and health, just to have one 9-month pregnancy. So women cant afford to mate with just any man. He has to be a man with favorable genetics. Which is why ladies are attracted to similar qualities in upper echelon men, it's sub…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:45 PM
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Your claims doesn't make sense If you voluntarily sign up to be objectified: you. are. not. a. victim. People can simply post a picture or video of themselves, that receive tons of unwarranted hate and shame for not reason. Doesn't mean the person can't become a victim of the hate and bullying. That's like telling someone, they are responsible for other ppls spiteful behavior. If you voluntarily sign up to be sexualized: you. are. not. a. victim. Thats the thing, is sometimes ppl DONT sign up to…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:29 PM
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Love that movie 🎬
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 11:58 AM
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You can do what you want. You think I'm yo mama
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 11:56 AM
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I will always have respect for a man who let's me know where he stands, even if we want different things, than one who uses dinner as a way to get me in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 10:48 AM
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Only 30 seconds? If you're talking a relationship that's fine. What I'm speaking on is casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 10:39 AM
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Yea most of the women that you keep picking So pick better. Simple
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 10:12 AM
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Then enjoy the dinner. My point is to be honest with your intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 10:10 AM
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The sad truth is most women are as described in the post. And many men know this. See! Affirming more negative. You have no idea how a vastbmajority of the female population behaves. You're simply sulking. Its not my belief that some women use men for resources. Its a reality and has been the case for hundreds of years Who cares. Those girls are gonna what they wanna do, just like how a lot of men use womens bodies as a resourxes for sex and validation. And worrying about it isn't doing anything…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 10:08 AM
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In my experience(and in the experience of many men) they are. Well you are ONE man, and that is your SUBJECTIVE experience, based on your own internal beliefs about yourself and women. Doesn't make it an OBJECTIVE truth. How about just pick better. Many men are liars, and deadbeats, but that doesn't all are. Well, my whole point is it's rare to come across women like that. Well the more you affirm it, the more the universe will deliver that to you. Every negative belief you have about women, tel…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 10:01 AM
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Well in a world of nearly 4 billion women you dont know 90% of them. With an attitude like that, the exceptionally beautiful and healthy young ladies DON'T want you. They have MANY options so WHY would any woman wanna date or marry a body shamer? You ain't perfect, you already known you have your own insecurities, and you would not even wanna fuck with certain ladies, who speak to you or other men, in the way you just did about women. Fucking grow up!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 09:49 AM
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Source? This post wouldn't exist if many men didnt hide/lie about their intentions and "use a night out for dinner" as a way to get closer to the pussy. Men on tiktok even say, "the reason we don't tell yall what we really want, is because if we did, yall would say no" OP even confirms it and since men are mostly interested in sex when it comes to women, they put up with it just to get sex what are you even taking about Reread it until you understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 09:39 AM
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But women in general aren't all like how you're generalizing. Not all women are entitled in the sense, or only bring their pussies to the table. Other ladies are more down to earth. Find them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 09:23 AM
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So the solution is that men need to come forward about their intentions. If you want sex, say you want sex, and don't offer dinner, hoping she'll fuck you. That's misleading the lady. It's 2024, many women today are down for having causal sex, more than men realize. If you just ask, many of yall could skip the dinner and get exactly what you came for. Living in fear and scarcity mindset is what holds those dudes back. Men think women having many options is "the life" but it's not all 🦋 and 🌈 lad…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 09:15 AM
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Why would you have higher standards for relationships when casual sex incurs greater risk? when I've had casual sex, it's strictly about the act, and pleasure. All I require is the man be a little cute, healthy, and share a good vibration w me. To me, the risk is greatest when practicing unprotected sex. But when it comes to a relationship, I invest more time and energy into standards I have for a boyfriend/husband. That's when I'll value more like, how he treats me, emotional availability, his …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 08:26 AM
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Why do you believe they're rare? There are nearly 4 billion women on this earth, and you only interact with a small handful of them in your social circles, and your thoughts and internal feelings about yourself and others are what dominates the reality you see, and experience. When you affirm that women are immature, and mentally unstable, why would the universe ever show you otherwise? The more you affirm it, the more you'll find yourself in situations with women who confirm they are immature a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:30 AM
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When I said accessories, it implies other things too, like cologne (which usually has a lot of success, when it comes to pheromones), or even ties. Rolex is 1 example, doesn't mean it definitively attracts women. Also, depending on the type of woman a man is trying to attract, it can work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:57 AM
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You don't think Cillian Murphy was nominated for developing the atomic bomb, do you? No. I'm aware of American History.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 12:33 AM
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So dudes like pick me girls? Or do they go for them because some men are opportunistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 12:30 AM
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No! She's recognized for that speech, and was nominated for an Oscar for best supportive actress.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 12:19 AM
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Poor speech? What she said was so true and liberting that she was nominated for her first Oscar. I'd argue there is a happy medium for all the points you've mentioned. Like if you can't distinguish confidence between not being cocky, then a man is creating his own problems with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 11:53 PM
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Yes, and it's giving low self worth. That's why they stay single. If you have to attack other girls, just to show other men, "I'm not like the others" it's indicative those types of women compare themselves to other women, and feel inadequate in some way, because they're not getting attention in ways that men give to others. So they resort to brown nosing as a tactic to cozy up to men and show they're worth picking.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 11:33 PM
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Idk but obvi my response offended some sensitive Sally
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 07:59 PM
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🎯 And bingo was his name-o
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:50 PM
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When a woman truly desires a man, and wants to be with him. It will be shown. He'll never have to scratch his head and guess. Even if yall have progressed to later stages, as you've mentioned. Her behavior, the time and energy she invests into you will all show you. Mature ladies, who value the man will do this. The fickle ladies you're speaking on who play mind games are the immature ones who'll leave at anytime. 86 them and focus on a real one 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:45 PM
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Because not every woman is fickle. Dudes like to run with that narrative, which is true within an individuals behavior, but it's not limited to all ladies. Only ladies who aren't open, or honest with their feelings or intentions On the flip side of the coin, men are also known for fickle nature too, but that doesn't mean it's all dudes. Women may receive many options from dudes, but that doesn't mean all men are quality. Women are responsible for filtering thru all their options to see who's hon…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:22 PM
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Men can be hoes too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:31 AM
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Gotcha! Lol 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:24 AM
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Okay dawg 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:10 AM
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But why is she a hoe?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:08 AM
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You were tying to make the point that men are hypocrites for having 'icks' too No. I was saying they are hypocrites for judging a woman's icks, when they have their own icks too And lol good looks don't trump everything. Riddle me this imagine you have an attractive gf, but she cheats on you with "Chad-Schmad" or any dude really, would you still fuck this girl and stay with her? Looks trumps everything right? Even commitment and morals/values according 2 you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:02 AM
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And people who cop out by comparing something completely irrevant to mass genocide is stupid. And someone butting in, and saying my remarks are stupid, is stupid. What I said isn't a theory. It's a fact. Patriarchy affected the balance of nature, bevause men wanted to be in control too much. Now that women have their rights and freedoms to pick who they want to the dynamic has changed. Less men are getting picked and dudes are mad. But that's literally the natural flow of life. We see this with …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:42 AM
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I wasn't trying to compare icks to say one or more are worst than the other. My point is, man or woman, we all have our own personal turn offs and icks. everyone has a right to stand by theirs. If a dude doesn't wanna date a single mother that's his prerogative. I personally wouldn't date a single father either. It's our prerogative. So more power to the people for knowing what they desire ✊️ Wakanda Forever 🙅🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:18 AM
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Nah there's a difference between having a lil meat on your bones with some excess fat compared to being clinically obese that actually requires serious and consistent medical attention. But yes thank you for proving my point
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 01:00 AM
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Who said obese? I said overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 12:50 AM
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You already know what you just read 📚 my sweet, precious
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 12:42 AM
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Which only a follower of his would know
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 11:12 PM
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So when girls are turned off by men, it's a silly, irrational ick, but when a dude has a turn off abiut a woman, it becase of major issues? Regardless.. the hate that these demographics of women receive is never justifiable. Don't let your double standards hit you on the way out ✌️🚪 Ps: some of yall down vote over the dumbest shit. Let's see how low we can go
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:48 PM
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Then maybe if dudes stopped coining women as "recreational use only" and having sex with them, which collectively raises both their n counts then it'd be different. But no! In the secular west, we had the sexual revolution, where men and women have basically chosen to have premarital sex, opposed to being/marrying virgin wives. The fact u use the term recreational use, is quite evident of that. Dudes always seems to desire and go to good time girls, when they wanna feel pussy or log on to porn h…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:44 PM
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Seems more like envy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:56 PM
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They all of a sudden have an ick with her if shes overweight, older, a baby mama, a single mother, and most importantly a sexally active girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:55 PM
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Good for you. So ur a hypocrite. So u believe in men using girls recreationally just as they're using u for the same thing, but then feel you/men are deserving of a woman who is not a "hoe" why do u think a wife material girl would want a husband who previously used girls "recreationally" either
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:51 PM
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Who cares! A woman is allowed to enjoy sex, if she's solid in her morals and beliefs and values/respects men that has nothing to do with her level of commitment to a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:45 PM
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Like what exactly? Men will do what they wanna do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:28 PM
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I've never said one should.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:26 PM
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When it comes to basic rights and necessities, equality should be valued. Like how a lot of companies have adopted equal opportunity employment, or hkw everone dhould have access to shelter n food. But I understand in terms of other aspects of life there's gonna be imbalances. So I guess more red pill leaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:25 PM
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Either way Darwins right. We see his findings play out all the time. You can compare that to Hitler all you want (which seems like a very anti-Semitic thing to do), but that don't change the fact, that I said what I said, biology is factual, and nature always wins. Bye
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:09 PM
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You tell me. Show me where I said " I/me/my" Equality is only something ppl care about in society Notice how I'm referring to other ppl, and that some have this belief. But where did I ever share my own? I didn't!! That's not how nature works That's Straight up fact. Life and mother nature doesn't care about how fair or equal something is, ppl do
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:06 PM
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No ur the one who has a sick twisted mind. Hearing something u don't like, and instead if properly debating you compared it to Hitler, as a cop out
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:57 PM
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Either way take it up with OPs girl, not me. I've never shared any personal claims about my beliefs. Bye!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:49 PM
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You’re the one that came up with this stupid ass rationalization. Well you're choosing to be entertained by stupid so what does that say about you!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:48 PM
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You're sexist and you don't even realize it. Gtfoh! Ive never shared any personal claims about how I view men or women. I've never shared any of my personal beliefs about equality and if I even value it. Why are you projecting?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:46 PM
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But that’s the thing, they are not doing the same labour. You don't know that. Work in payroll n show me the proof! Bye!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:36 PM
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What's complaining to me gonna do? Idk if this lady wants the man to have more than her, that was a speculation of mine. There could be a million reasons outside of them being in the same living situation as to why her tone changed. It could have nothing to do with equality. Take it up with OPs girl, not me!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:34 PM
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Tell this to the girl OP is talking to, not me! Her beliefs are what you have a problem with. Why are you giving me a lesson on things I'm already aware of. Ppl are gonna be hypocrites, because at the end of the day a lot of us are self serving. Plus you're not a selfless Saint, I'm sure if you reflect on your core beliefs and actions you too will find there are double standards you uphold. Everyone at least has turned someone down, or been turned off by someone over some petty bs
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:28 PM
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You just don't like what I said because it's true. So you're comparing a natural law, that has been theorized by an award winning evolutionary biologist whose theory we've seen decade, upon decade as truth, and comparing it to a racist ass person's hate for his own fellow humans You gotta be shitting me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:21 PM
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Oh my lord what is all this talk about equality? That is not even in the question. This woman never said if she even desires equality. So why are you asking me?? Ask OP to personally get you in touch with this girl, and ask her, not me. They only have a problem when it affects them negatively. Rules for thee not for me. When patriarchy gave men all the power, men didn't give a fuck about equality. Equality didn't even become a thing until WOMEN started demanding it. but now when a girl rejects a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:14 PM
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Shoulda. Woulda. Coulda. Ppl are gonna do things you're not gonna personally like, but as frank Sinatra famously sang, 🎵"I pick myself up, and get back in the race. That's life"🎵 Plus ur claim doesn't make sense. Women are allowed to value their RIGHT to earn as much as a man for doing the same labour.. and still have the right to not desire a man because if hes not what she desires in a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:07 PM
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So in the end, women must be equal with men but men cannot be equal with women. You're reaching way too much, to confirm your own personal biases. No one brought up equality until you started mentioning it, no one ever said women must be equal, while men cannot be equal. You only care about equality when it doesn't benefit the man. But unless the man is "above" the lady you don't have a problem with it. Because if this scenario played out where the dude has his own place and the woman doesn't. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:59 PM
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Natural selection is not comparable to genocide. Nature does its own thing to balance itself, ppl are the ones who are corrupt n fuck shit up
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:48 PM
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As in? What're some scenarios you've observed Edit: some of yall down vote over the stupidest shit. All a sister is tryna do is learn, damn
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:30 PM
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Because she's doesn't have her own place, nor does he, so it makes trying to have private time togeher a little more difficult. She know her situation, but wasn't aware the dude would be in the same boat as her. Not every woman desires equality in that way a lot of women still desire a man to provide, due to hypergamy, and also women just being conditioned to believe so. Equality is only something ppl care about in society to promote equal opportunity but that doesn't mean everything must play o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:30 PM
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I agree! I recently had a dude friend I was casual with. And throughout the time we were involved, he'd talk about several of his exes to me, and share the memories. Unless she cheated on him, he still thought somewhat highly of them and even kept in contact, in spite of their differences. Although this is one dude, I've found this somewhat consistent with other mens' stories. Which makes sense because I guess that's how some couples are "on again, off again"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:08 PM
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Because she expects you to have more than what she has
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:58 PM
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I'm sorry dude ❤️ Some ladies just don't know how to respect men, or be receptive to them. Wishing you the best ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:34 PM
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Say no more 👀 YOLE- You Only Live Everday
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:31 PM
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You can see this in the gay community, bi guys say it’s way easier hooking up with dudes. And bi women say it’s way harder to match with women. Yes I agree with you 100% and I see what you mean about the LGB community too, I've tried to get something started with girls before n it's a lot harder compared to attracting men, as a lady
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:05 PM
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If u say so
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:00 PM
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Yes I admitted that we are select.. but each woman has her own type of ideal dude. So more men than strictly 20% of the population are getting chosen, but still the dudes who have weaker genetics still be chosen less
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:58 PM
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And the sky ain't blue. Correction ✅️ anyone can be shallow. Look at the way some dudes will treat women just for not being thin, fit, or slim 👀 or if a lady is a baby mama or single mother. Dudes treat these ladies like they're scum of the earth, and the worst type of human to ever grace this planet
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:51 PM
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Let's not gender profile. Women didn't make hook up culture, because then whats the free love movement of the 1960s? Men and women chose to fuck eachother. So hookup culture was a societal decision And plus as much as men want sex, and are open to the idea of sex anytime with any woman, and even multiple women, it's quite clear men had their hand in the pot too. So regardless if women "made" it or not, if anything the market fir sex is oversaturated with men. Look at strip clubs, OF, Tinder etc.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:44 PM
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Population was rising when women were traditional and not as superficial. That's because patriarchy in the olden days gave women less freedom to choose, because men had all the power. Men were controlling the game and that went against the law of natural selection. Typically, it's the females who choose mates that are best fit for reproducing fit offspring. Therefore, a lot of women couldnt actually pick the mates they would have chosen to reproduce with. More men with weak/undesirable traits we…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:24 PM
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That's interesting. So what was dating like preceeding all these apps? Like what did ppl do back then when they decided, "I desire a bf/gf"?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 03:55 PM
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Thank you for this explanation!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 03:49 PM
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I'm not saying men should own these things to ve more attractive. All I'm saying is these are things men have used in an attempt to up their game .
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:39 AM
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Wanna add me to that line up 🤣 lol jk jk, yo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:26 AM
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A liberal man, everyone alive in modern times is witnessing and living in a society with the most freedom, and opportunity . I desire a man who wants to live for today opposed to holding on to archaic ways of life that are long gone and less beneficial to all
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:24 AM
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Ok gotcha. Makes sense. So then how.do you respond
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:04 AM
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Aye yo! Thanks for that detailed response dude or dudette. We should go surfing somewhere along the California cost and hang 10. Be there so be square. Yo!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:01 AM
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Chad is a personification of all the men a lady chose to be with that weren't you. For you to call a man Chad as if he's some superhuman who was able to pull the women, men wish they could fuck/date is indicative that you, and other men (who believe in this elusive Chad) subconsciously place other men above you. When really Chad is just another simple, and typical everyday man, just like the women who are flocking to him. Have any of these women actually said to you Aye man look, so I fucked up …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:49 AM
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Bro why do women pretend to be clueless about the top 20% thing? Because you don't know something until you learn it. This is all subjective. Considering that I'm a woman whose attracted to men, and I have other lady friends also attracted to men, all of our "20% men" are different. Me for 1, idgaf about height, and I have other Friends who actually fetishize bald men. So in reality when you consider each woman has their own cup of tea, more than 20% of the population have success with women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:32 AM
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Ok, these are just shallow women. Men all the time will strictly want women because they're thin/slim/fit etc
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:24 AM
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Men today are as good as they ever were and yet the majority aren't even good enough for most of today's women due to out of whack standards. Every woman has different standards and each desire different things for their top 20% dudes. So what i desire in a man is completely different from what my sister desires, my lady neighbors, and my lady friends. We each desire different types of men, so diffeent types of men are picked. The world's population is 7 billion ppl, which is a record high in al…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:17 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:10 AM
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The top options of men are generally into pump and dump. I don't agree that all top men are strictly looking to fuck. They're human too and eventually desire the closeness and vulnerability that comes with a relationship. Plus the wall isn't real. It's always something men talk about but never the women. Men just want it to be real so they can feel thag they have some upper advantage but in reality if men wanna fuck, they fuck anyone willing and able. My mom is 50 and she hasn't hit this wall th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:09 AM
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You said women who don't fit the normal beauty standards are seen as unattractive ! So stop with the mental gymnastic!! Nah! I didn't say that! I said the media is very specific on what they deem beautiful and worthy within women. And yes usually it is attractice women who are thinner/fitter, and some modelesque. Anytime a woman doesn't fit that, ppl judge the shit out of her, and think she ain't it. That's exactly why you judge fat women. They don't align with what you've been fed as beautiful …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:59 AM
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Gotcha. Thank you 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:48 AM
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as it is the optimal age range to breed. But ppl aren't looking to breed on those sights. If anything more men on average are looking to fuck on those sites. The ladies that desire something more meaningful and commital, usually go off of those sites to meet men who are more serious about dating and wanting to be bfs/husbands and future fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:47 AM
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I actually have. I'm open to swinging both ways. And plus as a woman, girls talk. We meet up in bathrooms, or when we see a dude we gush over him in private n spill all the details. Yes I'm not a man that has to appeal to women, but I have learned that yes ladies do like a select few men, but yet the things each individual lady desires in a man are all different. Yes there may be overlap In qualities we like, but usually if I go out with girlfriends, we all usually take an interest in differnt t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:44 AM
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There are methods that dudes use to increase their sex appeal too. They go to the gym, they get their money up, they wear nice clothing (ie suits) and accessories (Rolex watch) and some even flex their cars, or adopt a charismatic attitude... all methods dudes have used to attract women, and have been successful to an extent. It's all relative.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:36 AM
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I think standards are higher for casual sex Compared to when ladies are looking for bf/husband material dudes, I'd argue the standards women have when they want casual sex are a lot lower. I can't speak on behalf of all women, but for me, when me and a dude fuck, I only care about if we vibe enough, if he's a lil cute, and his 🍆 I go for what's convenient so a dude's money and his height are irrelevant, that takes too much time to filter thru ppl, when I only want dick, especially considering th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:25 AM
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Gigachad?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:15 AM
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didn't want me before that all of a sudden want me now that I got my money up and they're hitting the wall Ah! Seems like a dude's ultimate revenge fantasy come true
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:12 AM
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Good point ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:57 AM
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Sending you peace ✌️ love ❤️ and success 🙌 for new beginnings ✨️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:14 AM
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It's intersting! I can't remember the title of the book but it was written in the 1940s, but took place in the 1920s, the male characters complain about the modern women of that time, for being too opinioned and bold with their clothing and attitude. But then whats ironic is the olden days are glorified as a time where all the women are traditional sweethearts who are more pleasant than the modern women of 2024. Dating in general is difficult, but people don't realize thats how it is, and basica…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 03:24 AM
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But that just means those aren't your girls. I'm sure you'll meet ladies, or at least one, who value more than height. If their are dudes who value more than a woman's weight, it's bound to happen
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:54 PM
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Ok that's fair. I'm curious to see what you look like 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:52 PM
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Damn I like this response because you acknowledge that each individual woman is selective of their mates, while also recognizing that each woman has their own type
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:50 PM
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But you can't define it for me? Like what archetypes/physical features/personalities do these men have that make them the top 20
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:46 PM
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Let's stop capping , there is fat women modelling for Calvein Klein , they may be attractive but not vy the usual way . Oh the horror. A woman with meat on her bones. How will a man ever survive looking at someone sooo, not thin, and unappealing to his gaze and keeping his little head soft. There is litteraly not a single modern female actress that men find attractive . You gotta be shitting me. Then who tf is Megan Fox, Kim K (yes she's basically an actress too), Jennifer Love Hewiit, JLaw, JLo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:41 PM
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And what is defined as the top 20
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:24 PM
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But that doesn't mean you're inherently unattractive. I'm 5'2" and was once involved with a poly dude who was like 5'5" and he had a roster of women that wanted to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:22 PM
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Women put more money into their appearance, not more effort. It's both. The number of men who say they roll put of bed maybe fix their hair and are basxially ready for the day is in higher numbers compared to women who have a whole morning routine for grooming themselves. And that's crazy to fake anything ie extroversion. Lead with fake energy and you'll attract fake ppl
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:20 PM
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I like ur take, very thoughful and different. But I'm down voting your comment.......... because I want you!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:09 PM
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I'm not. Romance was never a part of the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:04 PM
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But look what women are you observing picking men? Are you observing women on social media, women in your social circle?? Or? What is the top 20 that they have determined. And why keep down voting. I'm tryna have a convo n learn 🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:01 PM
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Lol wait what
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:58 PM
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If all men collectively became more attractive overnight, women would still want the same percentage of men. If women value attraction then, and suddenly more dudes become more attractive, then that means there are more dudes to go around. So hypothically speaking, the percentage will increase, when we hypothically consider that only 20% of men are getting picked.. hypothically
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:58 PM
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I don't think it dissapears, I just don't think it's a 100% representation of real life. Tinders focus is sex, and having sex appeal. Whereas irl ppl will value a person more holistically when it comes to pairing off You can’t see/quantify women mentally swiping left on guys in a bar and women may not be as shallow/savage when they feel like they’re being observed and judged by friends or researchers. Yes it can be seen thru her actions. When women like a dude, they either approach or drop subtl…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:54 PM
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A 5/10 woman was raised consuming a media that paired women like her with a 9/ 10 men I don't agree. Your implying ppl should pair off with their looksmatch but why? What vakue does that hold. Plus the media is very specific on what is identified as beautiful. Usually we see model tier women and celebrities, whom are usually attractive ppl who are advertised as the standard for beauty and what men should want. Therefore society doesn't openly enourage a 5 getting with a 9. Just watch any film, T…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:48 PM
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Due to the patriarchy (which robbed women of their ability to choose mates as freely as men did), many traits that women never found physically attractive in men were able to be passed down at unnaturally high rates. Damn that's super deep! I like your overall take
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:39 PM
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This is honestly what I think too. There are too many women all with their own types and turn ons for thrre to be a consistent roster of men who are the top 20. I think what it also is, the women that they deem attractive and are visble to those dudes are upset that these ladies have options and chose to go date/have sex with other men. They probably compare themselves to the men who do have success and label him as top 20. Which just makes the dude pass off blame, opposed to looking at what he …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:34 PM
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You seem very Insightful. How do u know all this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:25 PM
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I don't agree! With the exception of 2, men will want sex regardless if the woman is 1 or 3. If a woman looks attractive enough, and is willing thats all most men say is required for them to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:19 PM
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Do you think it's because less men do things that are attractive to those women. Women are socialized to appeal to the male gaze thru marketing. So it makes sense that many more women on average are attravjce to men. But when you look at the reverse, men aren't upheld to beauty standards that condition them to groom themselves and appeal to the female gaze. So less women desire them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:13 PM
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But look! You're not sleeping with ALL the women, just the ones in your social circle, which is only a small handful of women. Depending on how much one values sex, and their social skills etc. people are going to be sexually active more or less than others. But I see what ur saying. I just think some guys got it going on for them in ways that appeal to more women, but I don't think it's strictly the top 20% of dudes tho
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:08 PM
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Abd the ones I find attractive I get angry at, irrationally. Do you think your irrationatonal anger comes from the belief that those attractive women won't desire you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:00 PM
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But what does it mean to be top 20, or bottom 80? Like what defines if ur top or bottom? Ultimately i don't think it's real. Too many women all value different things in men for there to be a top 20. Like do these women all decide together who these men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:53 PM
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Yes yes yes. I love your take. All women can't realistically be chasing the top 20 because each womans ideal man is different. I honestly think people just have sex with eachother, all ppl who are similar to them in some ways opposed to just reaching for the top ppl. And if they're successful or not, doesn't mean there is some rule So where do you think this idea comes from?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:48 PM
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So now the question is, why don't more men appeal to the gaze of women? Like what are men doing or what about them makes women deem the majority unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:28 PM
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Ok that makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:27 PM
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But notice how that term was coined by the incel community, so there is bias behind it. What I'm asking is for an unbiased, objective response on where this rule comes from. Unless this answers my question that this rule only comes from the opinions of a specific subgroup of ppl But how do we know the woman is settling? Do women who go for the beta bux just come right out and say, I'm settling for him??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:26 PM
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Why do you think that is, the idea that more men on average find women attractive but not vice versa Male/female gaze: I'd argue men and women both groom themselves differently. Women on average put more effort into their appearance that makes men attracted to a wide range of pretty women, while a lot of those same men don't invest in their appearance and appeal to the gaze of women. What if men are only more attracted to more women because they're open to the opportunity for sex with those attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:22 PM
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But women aren't either. I'd argue that in society men and women aren't really socialized on how to properly communicate, or approach eachother hence why ppl experience social anxiety, and resort subtle behavior, like dropping hints
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:13 PM
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But these are all just assumptions tho
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:10 PM
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I can't even. So do you think the 80/20 is real?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:09 PM
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Why do you think that is? Like why do you think more men on average are attracted to more women. And women want the men less?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:06 PM
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I don't know the ratio is really 80/20, but most women really aren't interested in most men. So then do you think the reverse is true? That most men are interested in most women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:02 PM
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Ok but what about irl. Do you think the 80/20 is consistent the way people say it is?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 08:59 PM
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Wait so you're currently having sex with 15 different women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 08:56 PM
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But when you claim that women flock to the men in the top 20, then later settle for the bottom implies that only attractive ppl are having sex. Or that only the top dudes are worth going to for sex. But in reality when ppl have sex their standards are usually lower so they're more open to who the act of sex, more than how hot someone is
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 08:52 PM
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That's not entirely true. Sex is one of our oldest and greatest past times, so it's not something that's on reserve for only attractive ppl. The world wouldn't be at 7 billion ppl if your statement was true. so they “settle” for one of the 80% who they previously deemed to be beneath them. How do you know this tho? Do ladies say these men are beneath them? Or is that just how you feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 08:21 PM
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It depends on the woman. But similar to how men group women they're attracted to into "recreational use" or "gf/wife material", women who have causal sex, do the same. So the standards are usually low for the casual sex Plus since women bare a greater risk having casual sex, it makes more sense, and is more worth their time to have higher standards for men they seek a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 08:05 PM
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Women who aren't big on social media, or care about influencer status don't expect that from men. Many women are open to living simple, private lives. Source: myself, and other women I associate with
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:46 PM
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Yes for filters, but when it comes to accessorizing, (ie makeup, clothes) no. Women dress up and accessorize for different reasons, some may try to attract ppl, others may see makeup and accessories as a form of self expression and consider false lashes, makeup and what not a part of their style.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:08 PM
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What on earth 🌎 This is a straight up projection. Yall on the internet take things too personal. I'm not speaking on behalf of myself. I'm speaking on a general psychology concept I learned in college, about why ppl test eachother like this. I don't do any of what you said. So you just wasted all that time writing a response that isn't even relevant to what I was saying, or my own life experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:33 PM
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Ok you're starting to not make sense, you didn't imply that earlier. Regardless if a dude is successful or not, men can still jaded become in their lives, youre foxuing inly on the realm of dating, but im speaking on the grand scheme of life.. And you said how women are the ones who are only bitter an jaded, But yet if you're only referring to a specific subgroup of men, so then you need to keep it consistent for the women.. as those who fail can't get even women their age let alone 10-15 younge…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 04:37 PM
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I don't agree, anyone can become jaded from life, especially men. Social groups like TRP, and MGTOW, as well as the high rates of male suicide throughout the world, prove this. You're gender profiling as if Men take life by the balls and never get phased and just continuously grow strong and get hard. Life isnt linear like that. It's very easy to always say men and women are the same, but that argument is weak. Its not like one gender is alien to the other, men and women have their differences b…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 10:18 AM
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It's definitely possible. I didn't kiss a man nor lose my virginity until I was 26, which was only 1 year ago for me. When it's with the right psrson, they'll be accepting and comforting, and if anything their experience can make the sex more enjoyable for your first time. The difference in mindset is the difference between a poor man and a millionaire I see it more like a teacher and their student. The teacher (previously sexually active person) has the knowledge and experience, but they're und…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 07:32 AM
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Ok but look, if the older women are generalized that way, then the men in those same age groups are, on average, no different. Women also want men who are pleasant to be around too. If a man is older, he is most likely jaded from the trials n tribulations of life and dating, and he too most likely has his own baggage he's cultivated throughout the years, that a young woman has not. Why would a young woman, fresh in her youth, want that? Plus you have to take into consideration if the woman event…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:51 AM
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It depends on the women in question, but i'd suggest maybe women in his age group. Theyll understand eachother better. As a woman in my 20s rn I can't fathom older men wanting someone in my age group. I understand it happens all the time, but usally women in their 20s are just getting started w adult life, and an older man has already been around the block. If he's also jaded in his life because hes had trouble meeting women, i dont think he shoukd be bringing that energy into a young adult woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:14 PM
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I've already answered the question. There's no reason for me to avoid answering. The best 'bang for his buck' a man will ever get is to not look for a woman as if she is a deal, or prize to be won, and instead meet women who respect, honor and value him regardless of money she wants him to invest, or her age. So the virgin or celibate men just don't believe enough. If a man is a virgin, that's on him. His dick isn't gonna magically go into a woman's vagina unless he cultivates a connection that …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 08:52 PM
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Your advice tells to look for something that he isn't capable of getting. But why? Anyone is capable of receiving anything if they truly believe. It's implying that women only value looks and money. Which is true for some but it's not definitve that every woman is harsh like that Women all the time are told men value weight n only want small woman, but yet irl we see men desire women of all body types, thick n thin. The same logic applies here. There are many women who allow their love to go dee…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 08:42 PM
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You kinda contradict yourself. Lol so if women aren't really attracted to the dude, but want to be provided for, that's a lose for the dude, which is what we bkth agree on. But yet, you mention him getting a bang for his buck. So I don't get it? U want money to be involved or not? Bang for your buck implies ur getting the best deal with what you can provide implying cash money, moola, dough, big bucks, $$$, ka-ching, 💰💰, 🤑🤑. The best 'bang for his buck' a man will ever get is to not look for a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 08:31 PM
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How? Just because you don't agree? What's the point of the post
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 08:07 PM
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Why is it often advised for physically unattractive men to date women their age because younger women are only going to want him for his money? Ppl who spread that advice think 'the wall' is gonna get all or most women circa 30 years of age. These ppl think the only ladies men of all ages are gonna flock to for love/sex/relationships are strictly younger women (<30) They believe women who are 30+ are immediately less attractive, not wife/relationship material, and can't bear healthy children. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:18 PM
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I understand. It's okay. Thanks 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:39 AM
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Idk I've never implied most men are aggressive. You're free to quote me where you feel I've implied that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 12:24 AM
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I was born in the 90s so I only know what dating/socializing/mingling was like prior to modern dating, through word of mouth from older ppl, and older films. But it seems like back then, people were more keen on meeting irl. More existed back then, video stores were around, movie/drive in theaters, arcades n bowling alleys were all booming w ppl, and malt shops/diners were also mingling hot spots. And there weren't smart phones that allowed ppl to access anything from home. Back then, ppl were m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 12:15 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:29 PM
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would saying some be too much of an ask? In reference to what?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:15 PM
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Because I was confused
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 08:02 PM
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Yall really lost me bringing up heavier set women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 08:00 PM
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Everyone has different relationship expectations. Plus, what we are speaking on is a fake or pseudo relationship that the girl isnt aware of. Therefore, to expect anything just shows that men will get into relationships simlly because they believe sex and other things are owed to them, regardless of their feelings for the girl. Proving the point of my original comment
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 07:54 PM
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Come again?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 07:45 PM
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Come again?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 07:31 PM
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Right! Just like Ted Bundy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 07:23 PM
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I don't agree. As a woman, men have been hostile toward me because I didn't accept their advance to go home with them, make out with them, or have sex. Many women can attest to that same experience. Women give fake numbers or lie about having a bf (soft/indirect rejection) because they fear a man will lash out them when they directly say, I'm not interested. Please do not deem women responsible for a man's inability to keep his hands, and verbally abusive words to himself. Most men are mild mann…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 07:22 PM
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I guess I should reword it. I wasn't trying to make it seem like the woman is giving in. My intent was to say that this woman (who isnt truly desired), may start to get feelings for the dude, and let her guard down, and be more emotionally vulnerable to him and wanna have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 05:55 PM
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This is something many individuals do regardless of gender. When ppl usually test someone's loyalty or interest it's because they've previously been neglected by significant male, and/or female figures in their lives, while they were vulnerable and open. They've been in situations where their emotional needs were neglected, so now they've hardened themselves.. that's how our subconscious works. Its goal is to protect us. If you are aware of someone's past, like this woman you mention, then it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 05:48 PM
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That's how a lot of ppl are honestly. A lot of us will generalize an entire gender simply from the experiences we've had with our parents/guardians, and the men n women we've let closer into our lives That's why when a man or woman gets cheated on, they have a hard trusting anyone moving forward when dating. That's why women with daddy issues have a harder time connecting w men. Her own dad's negligence made her believe all men aren't safe. That's just how our subconscious works. It's made to pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 05:39 PM
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We need less men who love on girls, then leave em alone. I'd argue it's more beneficial for these types of men to bite the bullet and increase their social time irl, not on an app, by connecting with as many women who they at least like or are attracted to. Giving inexperienced, low socially skilled men this kind of advice can easily make them fall down the rabbit hole of being a player. These 'starter gfs' you're mentioning won't know that they're being used as a means to an end, so they'll mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 05:26 PM
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That's tough. Those women just don't know how to appreciate a man, they're also humans w feelings n some ppl seem to forget that. Expressing vulnerability is a major part relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 05:46 AM
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The rejection implies you can do better, Thats their prerogative. It's not always about "better" like what does that even mean. Not every person that extends an offer is gonna their cup of tea. Some ppl just don't vibe, doesn't necessarily mean they want better, they just want different
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 11:57 PM
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For most women the wall comes at age 30. That doesn't mean you won't still get dates, attention, or sex. You will, but not from the most eligible bachelors. You'll most likely have to settle for the safe guy, and not the man of your dreams. This is just common rage bait. This has been told to women for ages, and it's not definitive or remotely true. All kinds of women who are 30+ are still killing it and have their pick of the litter when it comes to men. Age ain't nothing but a number, and a wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 11:54 PM
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A woman's value is tied not from the men that she can get sex from but from those she can get commitment from A woman's value is not tied to men, period. It internal, and comes from within. Sex is easy for women to obtain because it is the men who are easy, and give women endless options. Just because men make it easy for women to have sex with them doesn't mean she is low value value. Ofc its harder for men to have sex. Women since day one are conditioned to be modest, value their virginity, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 11:31 PM
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But what has lead to that? Sex is emotional, and takes 2. If one person isn't feeling sexual toward their spouse then there's an underlying issue that involves both ppl.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 10:57 PM
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If you've observed this at clubs, that means you've been there. So please, tell me 🧞‍♂️ out of those 3 sub groups of men at the club, where do you fit?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 09:30 PM
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I still highly doubt you would have thought this if you came across me saying how I don't respect any woman's opinion not related to me..... Ur changing the narrative now. There is a difference between feeling indifferent to ppls opinions by not valuing all, compared to straight up disrespecting someone's opinions- now thats contempt, and could be misogynistic, but that's not what I was agreeing to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:32 PM
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If I said I don't get misandry vibes from this woman not valuing the opinions of just any man, I assumed you'd also apply that to your statement. So I wasn't refusing. I don't get misogyny vibes either, when you claim you don't care about any woman's opinion, other than close relatives. You dont need to, it's not necessary and isn't good for ur health to value every opinion. Because if someonw talks shit about you, as their opinion, are you gonna value that? No! Misogyny/andry is straight up hat…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:00 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:50 PM
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Prostitution is as old as time. There have always been ladies on the "badder" side. It's just today, it's not as taboo, and social media/smart phones gives us more access to ppls behavior. Plus, we have no idea what women were doing on the DL back then. It wouldn't be surprising to learn if some women were sleeping around with differnt ladies' husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:47 PM
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Male loniless is a product of how men are put into boxes. Their emotions are overlooked, many are socialized to live emotionally detached lives where they aren't making connections, regardless of who they are n their level of physical attractiveness. It's mindblowing because I've meet dudes who look like attracting women is a breeze- physically attractive, and a lifestyle that sounds good on paper, but when they open up, they claim theyre chronically single, or they get no matches on dating apps…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:21 PM
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If this woman only trusts the opinions of the men who are solid in her life, I'd say, no, I don't get " misandy vibes rather its the opposite. It's great to have a foundation of men who you trust and listen to because they'll have your best interest at heart, more than some dude who you think "likes" you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:09 PM
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Why would she? She has solid men in her life, where she knows she can recieve POSITIVE reinforcement from. It wouldn't make sense to listen to angry dudes with a mic. These Podcasters have very radicalized beliefs that only come from their own failed connections w women, so there is a lot of hate being spread, just for clout.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:50 PM
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I think it goes a lot deeper than women simply not being sexually attracted to, or romantically interested in men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:36 PM
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It's just a friend coming up n checking on another friend. If the woman being chatted up is truly interested, it wouldn't matter if her friend is attempting to cock block, because they'll just continue having a good time, shell let her friend know. If the friend cock blocks and the conversation between the dude n the girl he likes is completely over, like no exchanging contact info, anything, then the interest wasn't mutual, and the cock blocker may have been queued to help save her friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:11 PM
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I don't hate anything. Lol u should be more concerned that ur behavior/demeanor is cock block-able 🤣 And if u gotta come up with lil schemes to manipulate women just to get sex, then you have no game.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:53 PM
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Which you can't tell by reading the comments. Ugly has nothing to do with girl code, it's more about safety and honoring the bond women have. But I guess as a dude you wouldn't understand. Some of yall have such low standards you'll go home with girls u aint even attracted to if it means you get to fuck, and ppls homeboys allow it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:49 PM
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🤢🤮 This is exactly why girls stick together, and cock blocking exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:45 PM
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Idk man, when I'd go out with my friends we took that pretty seriously, like having a designated driver and everything. And when dudes approached us, our main concern was safety. A dude could want anything from us, especially if we've been drinking. Whenever a girl intervened, it was usually to "interview" the dude and know his intentions. Cause girl code is solid. It means more to us to stick to the game plan, and get home safely opposed to letting one of our friends go home w a horny dude she …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:31 PM
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2/3 of men are on the date just because of the sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:18 PM
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But why does the amount of options matter so much? Some dudes always seem to be envious at the thought of women having options, but it's not always sunshine ☀️ and rainbows 🌈 Sometimes they meet ppl with beliefs like you, which is a turn off, and if a woman has 5 guys tryna talk to her but they all think like this, then she really has 0 contenders. You can see this as a man's world til the day u die, but the fact that women have many options is because the MEN are giving them the options which j…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:10 PM
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It doesn't have anything to do with maturity. There are men and women who are both dating casually, and dating for longterm/marriage, and it's based on what they want out of the dating experience. Because u can be a mature person but not fuck with dating for longterm/settling down/marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:45 PM
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Well thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:28 PM
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This phenomenon can be attributed to psychology. These women most likely fear commitment, or do not feel emotionally ready to be in a meaningful relationship with an emotionally available man. They've put a ceiling on far they can go w one, so a married man is seen as a safe option, because a single woman can never truly advance in a relationship w a taken man. It's all a self fulfilling profecy. Also, there's a phenomena called the dry well theory. This could also apply
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:53 PM
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I'd argue that it's easier. Back then, if men wanted sex they had to get married. That's why shot gun weddings were a thing because ppl were having ore martial sex, and that was taboo. Due to the rights women have today, free love, and the advancement of technology sex is now just a swipe, and a brief conversation away. Casual sex is most accessible now more than ever. I understand it can be hard for certain individuals, but all that means is its their own personal problem that can get fixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 11:15 PM
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Being actively and purposely ignored is the worst scenario. You have no idea where you're at with that person- are they truly busy? Are they just taking their time to respond? Do they not like me? Eventually, when enough time has passed without a response you learn they've lost interest in you. At least when someone blocks you, it's definitive. You know they ultimately don't wanna be involved with you, so there is no guessing, or waiting to see how they feel
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 08:07 AM
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For me personally, one of those standards is a turn off- she has to be the primary housekeeper. But in general, I think other women will agree to, and fit your standards. it seems a low amount of women actually fit them On that bright side 🌞 that's what you want. You dont wanna date just anybody. The purpose of having standards is to filter thru potential contenders to help you select your most ideal mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:14 AM
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Another one to add is masturbation/sex toys. When a girl has toys, it's seen as sexy, and naughty, but in a sexy, bad girl type of way. Whereas if a man uses toys, he's deemed creepy, and socially inept w women At the end of the day, there is bias toward all those actions simply because of gender norms Men and women are held to such different standards, we may as well be in separate worlds
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:00 AM
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That's still rage fantasy. You have no idea, out of the nearly 4 billion men who exist, how many are 'getting lucky' And if they're truly not eligible for casual sex, then they need to up their game, n find out what they're doing in their own personal life that isn't attracting ladies. Because the ladies obvi know what they're doing to attract men, both subconsciously and actively. Either way it seems like when it comes to women, dudes always wanna bitch about something. Like when modern women s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 03:26 AM
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Apex fallacy doesn't apply here. You've already said it yourself, women are women, who mostly resort to rebound 🍆 These ladies are most likely going to ppl in their social circles, and dudes within their socioeconomic classes, because remember, they're going for what's most easy and convenient, especially when it's meaningless sex to medicate themselves. So standards and inhibitions are lower. Therefore, modelesque, Brad Pitt/George Clooney types, or whatever types of dudes you're referring to w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 02:23 AM
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Nobody is saying women are “wrong” to jump on new dick to feel better after a break up. Men would readily admit they would have their own “ho phase” if they could. Men already do, and have outlets for sex more than you realize. Tons of dudes already sleep around with multiple women. They'll have ladies on rotation And you contradict yourself. You just got done saying how women will chase 🍆 due to emotional hardships like rejection, cheating or a breakup, and you even claim how women have came to…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 07:01 PM
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Damn. As a woman, this is very interesting to read about the double edged sworned-ness? 🤣🤔 of being a physically attractive dude. I've always assumed it'd only be smooth sailing, but I'm sorry to hear how much you are subject to deceit and disloyalty. I'm really curious now to see what you look like 🤓😈
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:51 PM
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They “mourn” the loss over tequila shots with her besties that weekend, gets enough of a buzz on to call one of the 10 (hot) guys who has been orbiting her to “hang out” so she can self medicate with a steady supply of Chad dick until the pain subsides. But notice how I said women who are emotionally mature. Those women don't require sexual gratification, constant reassurance, or resort to reckless behavior post breakup. They'll emotionally regulate themselves better. The types of women you're f…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:26 PM
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Anecdotally, this is why it’s so common to see so many men languish in their room alone after a breakup while the woman is almost always riding some “rebound” cock with in days. This is simply rage fantasy. You use the word "always" as is if this is default behavior every woman resorts to, but no. Women who actually valued their boy friends and are emotionally mature, mourn the loss of a connection too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:50 PM
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It has to do with that saying, "Why buy the cow, when you can get the milk for free" Polyamory is popular because ppl want sex without commitment. Many ppl today are emotionally unavailable, and/or commitment phobes, and/ or just want to enjoy the ACT of sex. It allows them to have access to sex like they're in a relationship, without actually having to invest the time, effort, and emotion, that normally comes with it. I'd also argue it's due to technology and instant grat. We've been overwhelme…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:51 PM
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Because they would totally tell you if they felt used, right? I. DO. NOT. USE. MEN. I. KNOW. U. LIKE. TO. THINK. ALL. WOMEN. DO. THAT. AND. ARE. SHITTY. BUT NO. MAYBE. WOMEN. YOUVE. PICKED. HAVE. USED. YOU. BUT. NO. NOT. THIS. GIRL. MY. MOMMY. AND. DADDY. TAUGHT. AND. RAISED. ME .WELL. I. LIVE. ON. MY. OWN. PAY. MY. OWN. BILLS. LIVE. COMFORTABLY. HAVE. A .GREAT. CAREER. AND. SELL. MY. ART. SO. A. MANS. MONEY. TO. ME. RN. MEANS. JACK💩 WHY. WOULD. I. WANT. TO. USE. A. MAN. WHEN. BOTH. OF. MY. PARE…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:01 PM
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Ah classic ad hominen. You're choosing to pass because you can't even answer a question to something you initially brought up, calling me delusional. So now you're resorting to calling me stupid as a cop out. Nice 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:43 PM
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These are all just societal definitions. I'd argue that some of these qualities are just basic human traits. Like men and women both have the capacity to be polite, and assertiveness is just a quality in emotially mature ppl, regardless lf man or woman. Aggressiveness and stoicism doest define masculinity. That means the dude isn't in touch w his emotions, and can't emotionally regulate. It's quite evident that your definitions of femininity is what also dictates the relationships you have with …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:37 PM
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I likely your perspective. Dudes refer to the wall as if it's definitive for every woman alive, but your experience shows that it is definitely dependent upon the person
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:23 PM
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You make a lot of assumptions about me. You don't value men, you just want a man to use financially, which is why a man paying for your food is such a big deal I don't make a big deal about food and $$ on dates. The dates I go on are for coffee/tea, 1v1 basket ball games at the park, arcades, walks by the waterfront etc. Very inexpensive or even free of charge for both of us. I dont expect a man to pay for everything like you assume, but rather I value the EFFORT he puts into those first dates, …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:18 PM
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No, they like young, fertile women who can produce healthy children. That's basic BIOLOGY. Speak for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:36 PM
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The first scenario, all the way- high value dude, who doesn't want to get physical It means a lot more to me to have a deep emotional connection with a man who values and respects me If the dude don't like me, my sexual needs will never be met.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:28 PM
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I have a question! What is feminine to you? Like what does it mean? Femininity is an inherent energy women embody. Today, too many lads are quick to tell women what they aren't, just because they aren't getting access to them the way they want to
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 11:09 PM
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Yess 🎯
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 11:00 PM
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Thats not toxic. Not everyone has the time or energy or knowhow to fix stuff. Thats the point! When dating you're filtering thru ppl to pick a mate who best fits the qualities you idealize in a partner, and her dad seems to be a good quality man who does things she values. So men who don't have that quality, won't make the cut when picking a mate. Anyone can make $$ to pay a handyman, but having a man who actually is skilled in a trade, that's sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:48 PM
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Enlightenment me, wise an powerful sir. What exactly have I said, indicates delusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:14 PM
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Delusion is defined as believing in a reality that is not real. Many people like to throw this word around, when it doesn't accurately apply to the context. My personal experiences with men are very real. If they're coming to me for sex, then it's not delusion. It's real. Men all the time talk abiut how yall are horniner, and how women are shitty, and only worth a pump n dump, but then when an actual woman speaks of real life situations where dudes have do behave this way, I'm delusional? Bye!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:01 PM
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I’d you’re gonna shoot for a rotation slot on some chads bang list then you get what you ask for. Thats not what I'm doing tho. You'd like to think I'm just a chad chaser but no. I don't chase guys at all, especially for sex. As a woman in my 20s, many dudes cold approach me, irl and online, and it's dudes of all age ranges, and many of them do want sex. They either tell you, or they eventually start pushing for it. And when you we don't give it to them, they slowly leave ur life cause they ain'…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:48 PM
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The fact that you don’t even see the irony in this proves my point Look dude the only women who can take accountability for what OP is complaining is the ones who are actually doing what he's complaining about. If this doesn't apply to a woman's behavior, she doesn't need to be accountable for anything. Plus. If you can't even say what it is women need to be accountable for then there is nothing. Yes. Same as he is trying to do for you. It’s a shame this has to be pointed out. A lot of Men do no…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:29 PM
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What do women need to be accountable for here. It's funny, men always like to say this but yet why are yall taking girls out on dates to spend money, then turning around and complaining about doing that. No one is forcing them. This leaves it up to men to try and make their situation better for themselves by not chasing women and throwing away their self respect. Well yea, are women supposed to be making a man's life better for him?? A man's life and choices is his responsibilty. He makes his ow…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:07 PM
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Not really! If anything OPs post is just confirmation bias. Several ppl have commented pointing out the Double standard. He complains that women use men for money, but then later on points out how men dont defend themselves because they're too busy thinking w their little head and don't wanna risk the sex and validation, that they originally came for. If anything, he's just equally as shallow as these girls but don't even realize it, but them trying to act like victim, when dudes could just idk,…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:50 PM
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That doesn't tho. You just dont understand becauee youre completely looking at it from a male perspective. What she's saying is women have options. And they're tasked with filtering through those men to pick the most ideal partner, and if she's dating for longterm, then jt makes sense to pick a man who is stable, financially literate, and won't sweat paying for simple meals. A man who can hold it down will always be more sexy and alluring, compared to a man who bitches abiut the same thing. Wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:45 PM
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I understand what homegirl is saying. I'm the same and it makes sense. The whole purpose of dating is to test the waters and see if the man/woman fits the qualites that are most ideal to the life we wanna live with a longterm partner. Women who value longterm commitment, marriage and children, are obvi gonna value a man who is at least open to paying for the first date, especially if he invited her. It indicates he's stable, and not just some scrub. A man who makes a big deal about it, shows us …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:29 PM
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Then date different women then. If anything men who just take women out on dates just to get sex are leeches too. So match made in heaven
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:14 PM
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Right ✅️ OP even says how men will actively let themselves be taken advantage of if it gets them access to sex n validation. That's no diffeent than women using a man for his wallet. So if anything, men and women who think like this deserve eachother, so they can see their own biases
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:11 PM
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Woah, woah woah there.. Notice the double standard This is why it's such a big deal for most of them when a man doesn't pay for their food on a date, for example. He's just a means to an end. This is why it's so easy for women to use and manipulate men, and men allow it to happen just for sex and validation. That's the dilemma. Too many ppl are dating with expectations that only fulfill their needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:05 PM
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Denying the wall is just denying biology. Sir please. I've a BS in biology, and never once in my studies did we ever study, "the wall" and how its only applied to women. You only ever hear about the wall in social and more informal settings. Never in academic settings. I'm not trying to debate, you're not going to change my mind. I've lived my whole life as a woman, and have seen too many experiences of other women, for men to come along, (who'll never know what it's like living as a woman) and …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 04:31 PM
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I agree with what you are saying here. This is also how I identify a woman who knows her worth, and what she wants. And yes and after re reading, I can see what you mean from the dudes perspective ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 09:24 PM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 09:09 PM
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A lot of women seem to have an attitude that if a man isn't giving her what she wants from him, then there must be something wrong with him. A lot of what women? Is this a personal experience of yours? And yea that's kinda fucked up, so the attitude makes sense. The dude brought it on himself. So he can keep her around for sex and get what he wants, but then keep stringing her along thinking he'll commit to her? Dudes who play like that are emotionally unavauble and have their own set of commitm…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:12 PM
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Okay and?? We're always gonna find articles like this. But is it real life, and does it reflect how all men behave? No. When you actually go outside to public, and social places, it can easily be seen that men of all ages will flirt, date, fuck, marry women of regardless of age. You can show me articles all you want, but that's not gonna change the fact that the wall isn't real. PS everything is not about yall. That's how it's evident the wall is just some made up bs because all men make it abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:51 PM
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Ofc a vast range of men are gonna find young women attractive, but that doesn't mean they are the only pursued/desired age group tho, it's MOST desired, not only. Biology and natural selection determined that men find women that are more fertile to be attractive. Men are attracted to fertile women that are more likely to produce successful offspring. Attraction decreases as fertility decreases You're making this deeper than it is. In my argument, I'm talking about men just having general attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:14 PM
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Then even though there is women that make money, we could just go to the poor communities and find a girl that much hotter and more submissive Why would you remotely entertain that idea considering ur married? 🤔 Ya know? There's more to life than just scoring women, who are hot, young, and submissive. You need to learn submission isn't something that is just given because she's a woman. It's a quality that is earned. She has to feel safe, and respected by the man, and he has to.actually invest t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:08 PM
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Yeah but first he needs to be successful before they'll even look at the small details of compatibility and what not. Either that or he has to be extremely good looking and have movie star charisma. Which is also very few men. Not really! You cant speak on behalf of what women desire. In this day and age a lot of women just want a man who respects them, someone they don't have to take care of like a child, and someone who doesn't see them as a sub human, bang maid. As a woman who dates men, what…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:29 PM
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You only know what you find attravtice, you don't speak for all men. I have a mother 50, and a grandmother 73, both constantly have male suitors giving them gifts, trying to date them, and have other relations. There are men out there who just appreciate women, period. Age is nothing Men of all ages are always trying to fuck/date, so yes, there are dudes out there who have love for older women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:17 PM
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And how do you know the wall is real for women, when you in fact don't have the body of one, the sexual allure of one, or even the life experiences of one to know what's real or not. Because there are pretty girls everywhere but not many successful men to go around. That's what yall like to think but according to RP ideologies, everything in this society is supposedly created, and maintained by men, which means there are many, many successful men. So there are plenty to go around. Plus it doesn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 12:24 PM
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"The wall" is a myth. Its just a scare tactic. You'll always hear guys telling women about how real it is, but you never see other women saying it to eachother. And it's ironic. Any other time, men are clueless about us n our bodies. The same dudes who don't understand our periods, ovulating, how to make us cum, don't know where the clit is, and dont know the difference between labia and vagina, are the same dudes who all sudden have all this knowledge about our "market value" and how our bodies…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 11:51 AM
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Dude, you don't understand the allure of women. It doesn't matter if the dude wants to fuck/date/marry or even be friends with a lady. If her sexyness attracted him to her, or anything about her, then it's proof the wall is a myth. I've seen women of all ages have a slew of offers from men. And it doesn't really matter what they want from us, be cause the fact that we even pulled him, is a win. Who cares about his intentions. The fact that her allure pulled him in, makes it irrelevant how long h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 11:19 AM
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As if a 20 yo would even want a dude in his 30s. These dudes don't realize these women are most likely gonna be into boys their own age
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 11:11 AM
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And what about the men involved in that same situation. Shouldn't he be as equally avoidable? Cause from a womans perspective looking in, that's a dude with commitment issues. So hes not gonna be the greatest catch for ladies who are serious about dating n commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 10:10 AM
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Ok great! Some women are dating the same men. Plus if girls are flocking to the same types of guys, then that just shows a lot of guys are not their cup of tea, as only a small minority has the qualities they desire in a partner. Makes sense, we are more sexually selective, whereas men are less selective, and have less standards, so their pool of women is greater
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 09:33 AM
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Ur whole comment doesn't make any sense. You can't quantify how much ppl have sex, plus, you only need one partner to have sex many times. So the number of ppl we marry is irrelevant These is no gatekeeper to any of this. Get real. It's all choice and consent. I said what I said. This is my unpopular opinion. Agree to disagree n move on
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:51 AM
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*women =/= gatekeepers of sex, men =/= gatekeepers of marriage. Both are consensual, and require both ppl to say yes *Online dating is FLOODED with emotionally unavailable ppl who are too afraid to move on from past relations, making it difficult for ppl who are actually ready to date n commit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 07:18 AM
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Nah.. you wish
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 05:00 AM
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When did I say I conceal how I feel? Can you quote where I said that? I'll show you exactly where you said this. Last paragraph, first sentence. Unfortunately most men can't be honest with women about how they come accross because they dont wanna ruin their chances of getting laid. You didn't actually read the post. Indeed I did sir. In your title you complain that women cannot love due to how selfish they are, but yet, you're equally as selfish, just using them as a means to get ur dick wet. Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 09:25 PM
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A lot of women don't initially meet men, and assume "Oh, he's a loser" and they don't immediately think, "Oh, he'll be a good father, for our kids" just because he has money. As a woman myself, it's common to have dudes attract us with their money, so a lot of times, our first thought isn't marriage, and kids. Usually that type of thinking comes, when a woman is already dating a man who she feels safe with, loved by and accepted by. Therefore, a woman will know you are good fit to raise children…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 09:06 PM
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No need to be petty. OP is the one asking for advice here, so your comment is basically mocking him
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:45 PM
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Thats not internal work tho. A minimalistic life has nothing to do with how you feel about yourself, thats still external. The internal work I'm speaking on is talk therapy, journalling, hypnotherapy, meditation, self reflection, and shadow work. These are tools that help you dig deep, and learn why you feel money = attention and acceptance from ladies. Become what people want to see and then your woman will come chasing you. Then you'll constantly be on a hamster wheel with that mentality, tryi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:42 PM
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I don't. In fact, I find dating boring coz all most women have to offer is pussy. Then whats the whole point of your post then??? Clearly you want sex from girls, or else you wouldn't conceal how you feel, if it means you wouldn't get laid. If you found dating boring, then why waste time taking girls out on dates just to get sex? Many girls will have sex with no dinner, or date from a man. Lol you can't get upset that women don't offer love when all you see them good for is their pussy. All you …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:32 PM
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Oh I feel you!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:20 PM
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Bro you need to learn money =/= a wife and kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:36 PM
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If you don't want hookups, then why are you resorting to behavior that leads to casual sex, and girls just looking for a good time? You've completely made your life abiut them, by spending money on what you think they want, but them complain that they're coming for the candy?? You gotta lead with your heart, not your wallet. If you want meaningful relationships with women, who want companionship, family, and a husband, Then you gotta align yourself with genuine ladies, who value gentleman, and m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:34 PM
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But notice specifically how he mentions it is the red pill ideologies he's followed, and how it's not working out for him. Seems like a genuine post about someone not happy with an idea they were sold that a lot of men look up to
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:26 PM
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Lead with your wallet, and you'll attract women who only wanna follow it. Youre living life believing in an illusion, and you've completely fabricated it based on what you think women want, instead of staying true to yourself. That's what redpill always misses. Why are you spending money on testosterone? If you're a natural born man, you naturally produce it, and healthy, whole foods and fitness, are what regulates it best. What you're doing isn't self improvement- that's all internal. What you'…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:24 PM
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Wtf?? Do you not realize how much a woman goes thru just to birth one child? 9 months of pain, and discomfort, then hours and hours of childbirth, just to possibly not even come out alive? And that child is the parents responsibilty FOR LIFE. And clearly I just said for long term, longterm doesn't mean "a means to an end" Please sir. Get real, I'm sure women don't go thru that pain of child birth just to gain resources from a man. Women can hardly put effort into something, and be attractive eno…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:03 PM
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Not really sir. There's a difference between ladies being straight up gold diggers, just relying on the man to pay for everything... Compared to ladies who date for the longterm, and desire a financially literate man, who can provide for a family, if the woman ever needs to nurse a child and stay home. As a woman, it changes her whole life to have a baby with a man, and live life with him. Best believe, women aren't gonna shack up with just any man. If he refuses to pay, period, it's indicative,…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:51 PM
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Just a bunch of gender profiling. As a woman myself idgaf about what's fashionable, and wouldn't be surprised at other ladies who don't. Just because you don't know where self respecting ladies are, and only focus on the negative, doesn't necessarily mean women of today aren't respectful. Plus I thiugh it was women don't value respect, but now you're saying they're unreasonable. So which is it? Just seems more like you're projecting
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:48 PM
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Well ofc if you only focus on women who don't respect themselves that's gonna be your observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:34 PM
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It doesn't matter if the dude has the best looking dick humanity has ever seen, it's the fact that it's unsolicited, or a dude thinking that it will turn on a woman is what makes it unappealing, and disrespectful, and even scarring for the woman. Ofc it's overblown to you because you're a man who doesn't receive dick picks from men the way that women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:23 PM
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I don't think you mean "most" women. I think what you mean is most women who you are attracted to and KEEP entertaining. they're not able to see that expecting random men to spend money on them and put them on a pedestal is what actually makes someone a loser and a bad person, no matter how attractive they are. Those girls know what they're doing. Lady game is real. If they are attractive, they most likely know how to get things for free from men, so they personally do not care how men see them,…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:15 PM
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I think you mean envy. Jealously is the fear of having something taken away from you, these girls don't fear their bfs being taken away at the thought of another friend getting married. What makes you say those girls are envious? I also thought young men are more positive about marriage because on her young men talk about how women just want to sleep around and not commit I thought. It's not definitive. I'd argue that people, regardless of gender, like to sleep around, and not commit. If it was …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:39 PM
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We don't know these girls' thoughts about marriage tho. So we can't assume that it's due to the narrative, marriage in 20s is a trap for women. But some of those girls could be reacting in a certain way because they are envious. As women, we have been socialized to believe It is of the highest honor, when a man chooses to commit to us, especially when he chooses to marry us. That's what our worth seems to be based on. So when girls see other girls getting engaged/married, sometimes it can trigge…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:28 PM
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There's a sea of single moms, fat women, and poorly educated women too Lol that's crazy to me that these ladies are deemed 'low quality', mothers become single for many reasons, she could be a widow. Either way, she is doing more than what the father can say about himself. I'd argue that there is really no quantifiable way to identify the level of quality in each gender. We all value differnt qualites and chatacteristics, To one man, the qualities you mentioned are a complete no go, whereas anot…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:02 AM
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Some girls, and guys, develop deep feelings for their FWB partner when they fuck long enough. She may like you as a serious bf and curious if you're entertaining other girls. She wants to be the only one, and have no competition with other girls
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 09:59 PM
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Lol I'm glad I can see you girl. I do the same lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:13 PM
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Depends on what your definition of "moving on" is. If a woman is truly emotionally at peace with where the connection ended, then she has moved on. However, if she's doing things like having sex w other dudes, resorting to reckless behavior etc. Then she hasn't moved on, she's just coping by distracting herself from how she feels Also, some ppl wbo are attractive and have options available to them may have an easier time moving on, knowing that although this connection ended, I can get into anot…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:30 PM
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Wtf? Lol all relationships aren't gonna be the same. You can be in healthy relationships that don't work out for one way or another. And lol I'm not here to play the shame game w you. But I guess you are since you wanna call me selfish. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 08:46 PM
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Healthy relationships can end. And there are different types of healthy connections. Seems like you've never been it one, if you immediately assume I'm bullshitting you. What would I personally get out of lying to an internet rando? People change, when you're together for so long, sometimes you wanna have your own experiences that doesn't involve a partner, or one at the moment. Especially when youbhave your own career endeavors, and hobbies/interests you wanna live. And even worse you claim I s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 06:31 PM
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We are though. The fact that we are emotionally fluid human beings who can experience a multitide of emotions at any given day and time. As well as have a brains that have been studied for centuries but still not know the full depth of our minds shows we are very complex individuals. The fact that youbare even a part of this debate sub and contribute to the discussions of intersex relations just shows even more than we are complex individuals. If we weren't, you would be here, or a red piller. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 06:19 PM
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Thick and fat aren't the same, for 1. I can tell you from experience, I'm a thicker girl, and healthy. So I'm slim in the right places, amd if anything men will literally announce part of their attraction to me is because I'm thick, and not some skinny minnie. Plus, attraction to a thicker body isn't something new. Dudes for decades, and centuries, have made it clear they like wider hips, and bigger titties. It just wasnt represented in the media as much. Because out society has an obession with…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:50 PM
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Exactly. Depending on where we live, every summer day ain't even hot and sunny. He acts like it still can't rain, and pour, for days on end. The tropics could easily prove him wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:09 PM
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Okay but we're not seasons. We're humans, we're very complex, and emotially fluid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:07 PM
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Just because you personally have repeated the same behavior with the women you've dated, doesn't meant that your observations of women, serves as the end all be all, that were all the same. Please It will always be the same fights. And always be the same nagging. And it will always be the same stories we have to listen to and we don't care. I'm in a healthy relationship rn, and have been in others of the past, and have never experienced any of what you said. Me and my man, talk abojt things a lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:05 PM
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Well you're a man, so you wouldn't even know how 1 woman thinks, let alone how billions think. It's illogical to assume
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:55 PM
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The notion that only a small minority of men reproduced in history is a myth: I've never made that claim. You assumed that. My comment is literally based on biology textbook facts, so no, it's not "a myth". Females aren't choosing from a minority of males, they're inclined to pick amongst the males with the most favorable genetics. There's a difference. The traits that predict fertility are mostly related to impulsivity, extraversion, and low intelligence, very little to do with being among any …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:14 AM
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Yes I 100% agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:05 AM
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That's implying all women think the same tho. They don't
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 03:59 AM
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Humans are pretty unique animals, so it can be dangerous to compare ourselves to other species. I was a biology major, so I'm simply sharing textbook facts. Plus dangerous? Not really! It's already been done by thousands of biologists and research professionals. And if anything, us learning more about the animals we co exist with, and how we are related to them, has allowed us to revolutionize, things like medicine, and psychology
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 11:30 PM
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I'd argue that this has occurred for millions of years through various animal kingdoms, so it can mostly be attributed to biology, and some media influence, for humans. Male animals all the time, compete for female attention, and mate selection by offering the biggest and best there is. Nests/home, food etc. Females are sexually selective, and are naturally inclined to pick the males with the best genetics, that'll ensure fit offspring, and survival of our species. As humans, we've seen that men…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 10:38 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 10:21 PM
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Okay, girls are gonna do what they're gonna do. Why ruminate over their behavior. It's not uncommon for dudes to gawk at the hottest women and shoot their shot w them, and keep repeating behavior that doesn't benefit them. We're human
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 08:42 PM
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No! I have my standards for what I desire in a man, if the man doesn't fit, I won't consider him as a potential bf, or commit to him. It's not hard for me to choose either in a "sea of options". I desire that head over heels type of love, and it's not found with just any man. I'm holding off for the man who I feel a deep emotional/spiritual/attraction to. 3 guys, or 300 guys could be in my pool of options, but all I care about is 1 quality dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 08:33 PM
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Says who?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 06:50 PM
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Dick riding ass 🥷
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 08:50 PM
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Peace Dr Phil 🫡✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 08:21 PM
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Clearly it's a joke, and it doesn't apply to just being a chad.! You can watch any reel of like a wife asking her husband to do a chore, but doesn't. Then the second the wife goes to do it, the husband will all of a sudden start doing it. I've seen women make the same comments about 'we must all be dating the same dude' Abd, so what if girls are attracted to certain types of men. Yall can call these dudes Chad all you want, but at the end of the day, why do yall care? I'm sure men have their own…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:06 PM
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I've never made any blanket statements tho. So????? I'm confused. Plus I know not all men complain about Western women, I never said they all did. I am aware there are good men everywhere because I've dated and am friends w dudes who respect and like women, based on their character, not if they're American or not. And please, stay in your lane. You're no one to tell me to introspect, you know nada about me, and my values and beliefs. I actually value and respect ppl. I know you'd like to think I…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:30 PM
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Well if I'm ignorant, and you're choosing to write me long ass books, then what does that say about you, the dude being entertained by ignorance. So clearly you like it. Plus we aren't ducks, so please, with your little analogies, plus we're online therefore the whole looks/swims/quacks like a duck doesn't make sense. I'm not even physically around you, lol so its crazy to make assumptions about an internet rando. And thank you Dr. Phil for that psychoanalysis, but no I don't feel attacked nor i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:17 PM
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Well what is your definition of an average man? Everything is not about money n looks to ladies. When you look at truly healthy, rock solid relationships that's been thriving for years, and decades, it didnt last because the dude is Uber wealthy, and modelesque. They thrived because both ppl are emotional lovers, and value more than what you think. Plus you most likely have a mother, and if she is a mother who you love, adore, and respect then that should serve as proof that yes, there are some …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:01 PM
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Lol so you can make your assumptions about me, and project in your own way, saying I'm a feminist, and how unproductive, and ignorant I am, but the second I do the same to you, you break out your whole life story to show that you are "humble"? please. Whatever I am, I have free will, you don't have to like feminists, just let ppl be. If you feel entitled enough to be red pilled man and stand behind your beliefs, why is it a problem when feminists don't to? Are you personally victimized by them?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 04:38 AM
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Lol oh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 01:19 AM
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Idk what D&D is but I enjoy gaming and movies. Just played the Last of us, for the first time, the other day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 01:17 AM
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Okay at this point, you're being extra for no reason. You've completely overlooked everything I said, because never did I say one who loves themselves didn't need other ppl. But I digress. You're gonna see what u wanna see. No need to be bitter. Remember! You were the one who chose to comment to me, and it never involved you. So clearly you like to look for things you resent. Plus if you resort to talking to people as if they're mindless simply for not agreeing w you then I'm glad to fuckin far …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 12:00 AM
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I'm not explaining it to you, again. Somone who loves themselves see the light, and would understand what I'm taking about. Plus running from feelings isn't self love, self love is about acknowledging your emotions, regardless of how good or ugly they feel, and accepting why you feel that way, and how to tend to that emotion. New behvaior yields new and different results. You got taken back right where you started because you didn't fully change major habits that keep you in place. And what I'm …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 11:37 PM
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But you see how making blanket statements like that is illogical. Not all western women do that, just the types yall like to focus on. Yes ppl in general do that, that's just what some ppl do. And its not limited to the usa, it's just an ego thing, ppl do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 11:30 PM
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I'm not tho. I'm just a contributing internet user who left a comment just like everyone else in this comment section. So why do you personally feel I'm telling others what to do? When I'm simply leaving a comment based on my experience. I also resent the notion that connection with other people is just a want and not a deep rooted necessity that all human beings have. I've never said it wasn't a necessity, you just assumed that's why I'm saying. Dude or dudette, we have free will, we are entitl…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 11:10 PM
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By your own logic, you don't need another person for any of the things you listed. Get a dog for companionship, just masturbate to satisfy sexual desires. But you see! You're not really someone to tell me what I need. What I'm speaking on is the best way I've found peace in my life, and met a good mate. I'm just sharing my perspective. Plus mastutbation is nowhere near the joy of sex. Just because you feel whole, doesn't mean you don't desire ppl period. You can feel happy and fully loved in you…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 10:40 PM
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Women don't care about men becoming passport bros, it's just annoying when instead of just going, they try and drag western women, and get a reaction out of them, instead of making it about finding a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 10:25 PM
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Sisterhood is essential. If a woman talks down about other women, just to deem herself "higher quality" then she is not a feminine woman, who even values herself. This girl needs to be her own gem and let herself shine, opposed to trying to take other ladies' light away, just so men can see hers. I can't believe I'm defending an American woman, but the American woman is infinitely more attractive than the lebanese woman in terms of looks, personality, vibes, I'm really tired of all western women…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:45 PM
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I got you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:30 PM
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Dating and life isn't just about happiness. Life is more about experiencing all emotions, and learning to regulate them. Relationships are about building together and sharing experiences with someone you love and respect. You can love and feel secure with yourself, while also desiring, sex, companionship, and expanding your life even more w someone who matches your energy. If an unhappy person wants a relationship just as a means to be happy, then they'll risk pedestalizing their partners and pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:28 PM
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Not every divorce is about money, be real. Women divorce for emotional reasons too. In fact, many are literally single mothers in their marriage. I know many in that boat
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:06 PM
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No, I'd say it's the reverse. There are so many men who complain about all western women, as if they've dated them all, when really their just calling themselves out for the types of women they keep entertaining. Supposedly all western women are whores, and sluts who don't need no man. They're cantankerous, and not willing to commit. This is what many will say, and that they arent worthy commitng to, so it's constantly thrown in ladies faces that lads are packing up and becoming passport bros. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:04 PM
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A rainbow is just a compilation of colors. That's all. So if you're assuming things about me personally based on my interest in colors then your delusional and far gone. Plus I don't need luck, the universe has always had my back and I have faith in this life
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 07:29 PM
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I've never said we don't need others. I believe we are social creatures too who thrive and bond when together. But what I'm implying is relationships aren't a means to just receive love, whenever you feel you are lacking it. I'm saying self love is priority, as that serves as a foundation for how other will love u. People can definitely receive fulfillment in their lives from other relationships, like family, best frekds, and ppl within our communities. We don't necessity need to be a partnershi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 07:21 PM
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Ok but who are you to know what happens more often than not. There are 7 billion ppl on this earth, abd there have been humans living/dating/procreating for millions of years, so it's illogical to assume whats rare for others. The subjective reality we experience are reflections of our own dominant thoughts, and our internal world. Therefore you only believe great women are rare, due to your own not so great experiences with women. So you've settled with labeling what you do desire as rare. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 07:04 PM
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Kind of sad if you think about that most men will not be in a relationship if they aren't playing a stupid role that is based on them always giving more. It's sad as men to think this is only what women desire. Maybe some, yes, but definitely not all. Adoration is based in emotion, not looks. Have you not dated women? Or not dated a woman that you had a deep emotional connection with?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 06:57 PM
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Adoration is defined as having a deep love and respect for someone. Adoration isnt based on looks. Its based on emotion. What you're implying is conditional love, therefore, love n respect aren't present. And in relatiships where women truly desire and adore their men, it goes soooooo much deeper than just looks. Women are emotional lovers remember, so when they truly adore a man, it's due to his character, his charisma, their compatibility, trust, and shared interest. A man can look like Brad P…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 06:54 PM
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There is no rule! Its not like there is dating/relationships rule book that states all men/women are like XYZ. Why do u guys act like women are incapable of loving and adoring men they date. Obviously men are aware that women are capable of love or else they wouldnt be trying to date/fuck/marry, and share life with them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 06:43 PM
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Dating and relationships aren't about power plays, and which gender has odds in their favor. Rather, it's about 2 ppl coming together who are compatible, and represent an extension of eachothers happiness and positivity. So my question is :" Is there actually a kind of relationship where the woman is the adorer ? " and " what kind of guy get this treatment?" . Relationships aren't this heavily structured institution where roles are assigned, where one person is the "adorer" etc, and the other pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 06:36 PM
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Self love isn't bullshit. The people you date are a reflection of your own level of self love, therefore, we don't really need a relationship to feel happy. A lot of people aren't comfortable embracing themselves, they don't know how to find peace and comfort in being alone, therefore, label themselves as lonely and without. So then they get into relationships just to feel whole, and not lonely. The most successful relationships happen when someone hugs themselves, cherishes themselves, and has …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 06:16 PM
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Because a gay man connects with women on a deep level, free of sexual desire, and their interests are more often genuine, like a friend who'll stand by your side thru thick n thin. Whereas with a heterosexual man, it seems like there is always at least, a slight interest in advancing sexually, and/or romantically, especially if the woman is desirable and attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 05:03 PM
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Well not every woman is like that, but it's awesome you think you can read women's minds
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 04:52 PM
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Idc what you have to say. You clearly dislike women and only feel men are essential to everything, there is no use in debating with someone so far down the rabbit hole just because you had a mother who screwed you over or a close gf or something. You dont like feminisits but yet resort to misogyny as if thats awesome, Bye dude. I ain't got time for h8ers
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 04:51 PM
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They invented, created and maintained by men. "No that's ignorant" [in baby Ike's Michael Jackson voice when he was posessed by him, in S13E8 of South Park] and not correct, sir. Look up who invented GPS, wifi, telecommunications devices, computer programming, the space station power systems. All women! Both genders contribute. But look, I'm not here to argue which gender does more, or who does it better. I'm tired of this nonsense claims that men do everything important. If it wasn't for the ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 01:47 AM
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Seems like you're envious
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 12:05 AM
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Rage fantasy. It's not like every woman is dating/fucking Brad Pitt types of guys. There are a lot of average everyday women, who also date average everyday men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 12:04 AM
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Dating apps aren't real life. The ratio of men to women is heavily skewed, there are roughly 8p% men to 20% women, so ofc there aren't gonna be enogh women to go around for all men, and when you consider there preferences, yes some men will be left out. Just date in real life then. And yes women are gonna want sex, just like how.men do, who cares who they are doing it with. And no it's not always a Chad dude. If you were a Chad you wouldn't be complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 11:45 PM
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Well enjoy your life sir. Seems like no matter what is discussed, you only flip the script to talk about women in a negative and bitter way. You seem how that behavior is repulsive?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 11:24 PM
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So.i made a point to you, that you make too many generalist statements aboit one gender. Okay! So if it's best to acknowledge everything for what it is, they why focus only on certain types of women who you want but are choosing Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:49 PM
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Well u didn't live as a woman in that time, so you don't know. And please shut the fuck up. Who the fuck cares about jobs women don't wanna do. There are millions of jobs, and I know for a fact, men don't wanna do all of them, nor do they aspire to. And no! Their rights we're minimal. That's why many men today, treat the olden days of women as this golden standards, they had less rights, amd had to rely on the man more. Seems like men kf today are upset that it's no longer like that If women gav…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:46 PM
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I'm really tired of Chad. Women can like whonthey like, and fuck who they wanna fuck without the dudes she picks being referred to as the same person, Chad. So then if you agree that women who want xhads affect dating on a macro scale, then also women who don't fuck "chads" are more self respecting and actually desire real monogamy with a man have just as much impact on men, but notice how you don't speak of them. You're a hypocrite. You berate women for Chasing certain types of men who use them…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:37 PM
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It doesn't! You make too many Blanket stamens about women that simply doesn't apply to all, or any women. Everyone's dating experience is different, especially when you compare a man's vs a woman's. So why it's no like the world of dating is just one experience for everyone, it's a collection of many different experiences that are all unlike the rest
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:27 PM
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A woman choosing specifc men to date, has no direct impact on you. Or other men. Tf
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:25 PM
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You're life is comfortable. You have a gov provids you with safety, free housing, free money, free education, free healthcare, free protection and a court system that prioritizes your well-being. Lol dude wtf are YOU taking about? You don't even know a man thing about me. Most of these things I provide for myself. I'm down here. All Red pill men wanna do is argue and write long ass books, by telling other people who they are, why they most likely don't even have th balls to even look at themselv…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:23 PM
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Yall dudes focus too much on women, and who they have sex with. You act like you've never been into a woman, that you were super attracted to and gave extra attention to, over a woman who you weren't attracted to and wouldn't even think twice about And plus I'd never get used, so I wouldn't bitch. I control my body and decide the man I share it with. I don't just fuck anyone buddy. And yes we can have our own standards, but that doesn't mean we get used. Me standing my mine, is actually what all…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:20 PM
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So just because they picked someone that wasn't you, those women are deserving of the worst? Go it! Plus who tf cares if they have double standards. Why are you so focused in women's relations with men and who she fucks and what happens afterwards?? Why not just be smart about it and stop focusing on women who resort to double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:14 PM
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You just said we deserved to be pumped and dumped. I don't try and speak with ppl who resort to wishing the worst on groups of random ppl bye dude
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:10 PM
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You gender profile too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:07 PM
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Women can't say this and hate men who want virgin women !! It's litteraly hypocrisy 😂😂😂 Well who said that here! Not me! So what's so funny? Plus yea, there are a lot of double standards both genders are oblivious too, so go figure. You can laugh all you want at everything. That's usually what people do to discredit others, just seems more like a cop out to me tho. Enjoy your life sir. I bet your a real ladies man
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:06 PM
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Well whatever you wish upon others is what you wish for yourself sir. How can you ever expect a great woman to come into your life and be what you desire, when you're busy just wishing pump and dump situations on girls lol. Plus that would never happen to me, I don't let just any man fuck. That's only for the one, who is committed and values me, so problem solved. And dude I'm butthurt about jack💩 nothing on the internet is ever worth taking seriously or batting an eye over, especially on this s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:02 PM
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Well thats the reality you need to accept then. Thats how a woman is choosing to live her life, if she wants to fuck Chad, but not you, and resort to double standards. It'll be like that sometimes, those people struggle with their own self confidence, self worth and self respect. So why are you worried abojt those kind of women anyway. Others are not fickle and will like the man for who he is, not because he's Chad or not. Men are the same, I'm sure they don't give a second thoigh to the woman t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:56 PM
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Well looks like you better get in your DeLorean, and go back to 1955, or get with the times. It's crazy how a man that hasn't even experienced life in that time, is speaking on it as if it's the glory days. And wkmen couldn't be strong and independent when she couldn't even have a job, her own money or bank account, in those days. You just idolize those ladies becuae you just want a housewife who'll make you sandwiches and stfu on command, right. And lol! Gave up their rights??? Sir, if anything…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:51 PM
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Uhm no! Not really. You don't really know what a vast majority of men are doing. In my 20s, I have yet to meet a man who didn't only wanna fuck. But I'm gonna end it here. Ur a red pilled man, and nothing meaningful has ever come from a conversation with yall. It's always man=good, women=bad. But answer me this.. if women are so unreasonable, and shit on men, then why are yall doing everything you can to committ to women that are ALL supposedly shitty and bad?? Doesn't make sense. Women can have…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:43 PM
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Uhm no it didn't. It's amusing that a random person seems to think they know what is going on in my own head It's also amusing to see the amount of unattractive dudes that dont have success with women down voting comments just because what I said left them butthurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:35 PM
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If a man doesn't fall into what she deems as attractive through her preferences.. How again would be getting a relationship started? Duh! By moving on from that woman who is not attracted to you, and focusing on the women WHO ARE! you can only start something with a woman, where the interest is mutual. You are referring to men, who have many women desiring them.. No! I'm not please refrain from putting words into my mouth, I'm referring to the gernal population of adult men. Regardless if you ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:31 PM
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Not really tho. In 2024 compared to 1954, we are now strong and independent, and provide for ourselves now more than ever. The proof is everywhere, that's exactly why men are now wanting to split the bill, when it comes to dating. Plus ur a red pilled man, and this groupd literally only exists because the amount of freedom that women have today Because notice how in the times when women had the least rights, there were less social groups like the red pill, and MGTOW that were complaining about w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:23 PM
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They're not gentleman. Many have succumbed to the Madonna whore complex and don't even realize it. So many men today pressure us for sex, and even lie to us, and sell us a dream that they are the one for us, just to get it. And many lack respect, some Men literally refer to women as bitches and don't even resort to basic kindness. Then when we embrace our sexuality, we are deemed whores, sluts, not worth a man's time, not wife material, Although they are resorting to the same behavior. Many men …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:15 PM
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A man's chance at relationships isn't dependent upon women preferences tho. There is something to love within everyone, so if a man isn't getting the results he wants with women and dating, then his problems are more internal, and has nothing to do with the womans choices in who she picks to date. Also, why some men are walking away is because the desirability of women isn't what it once was. In the past, women would be very much invested into relationships and attempting to save their best effo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 08:53 PM
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You hear what you wanna hear! Doesn't mean ur interpretation is what OP is saying tho. Their post is more of a PSA to men AND women, that women can have their standards, it's their right, and men who have a problem with it are upset her standards aren't inclusive of them. how can you for example see women's bio in dating app saying only 6ft tall men and think It's not high when the average height for men is 5'7 Regardless if the average man is below 6 ft, there still are men who meet those girls…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 07:47 PM
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Just because you don't agree, doesn't mean what OP is saying is false, nor does it entitle you to discredit their experience with women or assume they're lying about their gender. The day men get desperate for women, the comfortable society you live in will change drastically. And things will get violent This is already our current reality. Just even in this debate sub we see posts nearly everyday of some man complaining about women's standards and trying to humble the girls just because THEY ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 07:26 PM
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And who do you expect them to care about? You? Please, you don't even like women enough to actually value them. So why are you concerned about how self absorbed they are? The irony is uncanny, you comments basically show that you mostly care about yourself too, but it's only a problem when ladies do it, got it 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:26 AM
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Well good luck with that then. That's your life, the more you affirm that, the more the universe will deliver to you women who only care about themselves. You cant expect to meet great women who value men, when you only think negatively of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:15 AM
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Glad someone said this
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:09 AM
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I get what you mean 🤛🤙
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:35 PM
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Lol no! You're putting words into my mouth. Where have I ever said sex work is a profession worthy of respect and admiration? I don't give a damn about a girl shaking her ass for a man, I won't judge it, but I also won't commend it. Whether it's respectable is irrelevant, if dudes are spending their hard earned $$$ money to see some naked girls, and fuck them, then it has a lot of value to the men who it's benefitting. I don't get why shame those types of girls when those are also the same girls…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:32 PM
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Well yea it does depend because not all women are the same, and you're gender profiling, as if you know how women will behave just because a man is attractive. I believe many guys would trade your lying, fit, stunning woman over what they have or can get. And I don't think those dudes would. If many men and RPers are already angry/sad/upset at how women don't unconditionally love them, and see them for their $$ and what they provide, many may not pick a girl like that regardless of how stunning …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:49 PM
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No it doesn't. Be real dude. Every woman doesn't immediately swoon at the sight of an attractive person and deem everything about them as good. Women have more agency than that. That's like saying if a woman lies, and uses a man for his assets, is still good just because she is fit, gives good head, agreeable and stunning. If someone is being taken advantage of, your tolerance for that only goes so far, regress if he looks like Brad Pitt, or the Hunchback of Notre Dame.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:36 PM
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I understand where you're coming from and I get you. When I've referred to that behavior, I was implying when fuckboys, for example, trick women into making them feel Uber loved, and appreciated, so that they'll give their bodies to them. I didn't consider it from your POV til now. Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:11 PM
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The perspective I'm referring to is when men assume the nice guy facade just to get sex. If you're genuinely a nice person who is investing in a woman because you care about her and want to stay, then that's different.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:04 PM
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I've never said men don't feel sexualized. If anything, men seem more open to ladies appraoching them. But it seems like everyone has their own filters, including yourself, as you've said you're more open to sexualization from younger girls, but all of a sudden when it's older women, it's not sexy, and a problem. What about these ladies' intent tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 09:53 PM
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No! Because everything the dude is investing in her is a means to an end. It's just so he can get off and bounce. Its not genuine, and is giving the girl false hope. Gentlemen and compassionate men, are respectful. They care more about the bond they have with a woman and sex is something that is shared because of the deep admiration they have for one another. A "nice" guy just wants to enjoy the act of sex, which can be any girl. Thats similar to women cozying up to men, making him feel special …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 09:37 PM
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Ok! Great. No one's looking for sympathy in that profession. The girls are looking for $$$ and pleasurable experiences. No one also gives sympathy to the men who are that desperate for sex. It's simply pleasurable fun, with a price. Thats all. You're making it more than it is
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 09:19 PM
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From my perspective, the true gentlemen, and compassionate guys are the ones who don't announce it, they just do. Whereas these hard self-proclaimed "nice guys" usually feel their good traits are that they lovebomb, resort to doormat behavior, and are super agreeable. They feel that's all it takes to romance a woman and make her feel comfortable enough to have sex with him. They believe because they've made themselves wait on a woman, and invested their money into her that makes them a good pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 06:07 PM
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It's usually seen as a good solution when it's a last ditch effort for a man to receive sex from a woman. These men desire sex, but aren't getting it from the women they desire, either because they've been rejected, or they feel inadequate in some way, etc. Others don't like women, or they don't value investing the time and energy into properly wooing a girl, but like having sex with them so they'll settle with paying for sex because thats ultimately what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 05:27 PM
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They aren't forced, but what they're saying is when life gets tough and you need money, and when some of these girls consider what they were blessed with, they resort to sex work, because it's simple, and basically effortless, and brings in literal stacks of cash. They know how far their charisma and sex appeal will take them. I'm sure many girls have at least entertained the idea of sex work, I definitely have, because it's easy money. Everyone wants easy money. No one's coddling women, they we…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 05:11 PM
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So then I should be able to tell you I know how men think and act, better than they know about themselves, simply because I date them according to ur logic.. Please sir, if u are writing a post that is complaining about women, then yall don't understand them as much as you think. Is it though? Many women don't even actually like each other. We do! What women are you referring to? Not every woman is gonna like every lady. Shocker. The point is most women don't really care that much about a man's …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 06:27 AM
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No I don't. Because there is none
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 10:29 PM
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Not all ladies resort to that behavior. If you don't like it, you don't gotta stay, nor accept it. If you're involving yourself in other people's drama, and using it as fuel as another reason for why women are toxic and shitty, then how are you any different from the ladies you complain about? You like that drama, if you didn't, you'd surround yourself with peace involving women. And Feminists didn't make it clear that everything was divided by gender. Its been like that for decades well before …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 10:24 PM
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They'll think what they want, and its not exclusive to women. We all live in our own subjective realities where we are the star. Who are we to ruminate over how other people live their lives and think?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 10:11 PM
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The amount of hate he got from women is astronomical. It makes sense. Imagine if the reverse happened. If a woman was dating Brad Pitt, but didn't realize he is a celebrity, and claimed she is the prize, a lot of guys would be talking shit about her! They'd think she doesn't know what's good for her, and is ungrateful! Plus Simone Biles is a celebrity, therefore this whole debacle only happened is because she is that, and her man isn't. This is not an average, everyday thing that reflects other …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:56 PM
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So is it that they’re oblivious to the double standard or do they intentionally ignore it because it’s beneficial It depends on how self aware, and honest a lady is with herself. Some ladies aren't aware they filter out attractive men, and give them special treatment. Other ladies are aware only certain men catch their eye that they give special attention to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:19 PM
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Then focus on ladies who KNOW their worth, and what's right for them. Why do you criticize women for their personal choices in who she dates? I'm sure you wouldn't appreciate that either- if women kept criticizing you about the girl you've chosen to date. Are you trying to date these girls, or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:02 PM
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They are oblivious to the double standard. From a womans perspective, when we crush on an exceptionally attractive man and give him more attention, we deem it innocent fun, but when a lady experices it happening to her, it makes her feel singled out and only valued for her looks, as if the dude wants nothing more than sex. That's why
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 08:39 PM
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Women know other women well plus i am one, therefore I don't need to date them to understand them. Women connect in ways, men never connect with women. Sisterhood is a real powerful thing. Plus, if your experience with dating women is negative like that, then simply, don't date those types of girls. Why not just date other girls who you actually like then, and actually like you. Why are you dating girls who don't give a fuck about a man's feelings? That's the first mistake that's being made. And…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 07:45 PM
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Nature gives women their sex appeal Good I'm glad we can agree. Because that's what I was implying when I said, their allure is inhertant to them. No person can give that to them. They were simply born w it. Never did I deny that blessing as a woman. I literally just said we know it's there, and even use it to our advantage. Gender quality simply has to do with being accepted as woman, opposed to being seen as an object whose rights, needs, and desires are an afterthought. A woman's sex appeal h…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 06:32 PM
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How? By treating them like any other human being? I don't think you do tho. Your whole post just paints ladies as if they're all vapid people who are incapable of loving a man, which we know is untrue, because there are so many who become mothers that men love and look up to and cherish. Plus many men are dating women, who mean the world to them. Who cares that some women think they're superior. Everyone at some point has let their ego get the best of them, men too. No one is holier than thou. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 06:24 PM
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No one sir. But I know that you're implying women. Sex is consensual between the 2 ppl who are having it. Plus why give women so much power? Just because yall will fuck anyone, whereas women are more reserved to letting in who she has sex with, doesn't mean women are gatekeepers. Just means men are easy, and are bitter that women aren't the same. But then when we are easy we are hoes. So go to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 05:52 PM
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How exactly have they ruined it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 05:48 PM
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This just shows that you're someone who sees women as objects, opposed to people with morals who honor themselves, and their options and standards. A woman doing what SHE wants to do with HER body is HER choice. If she doesn't want to "hire" you or other men, who just wanna fuck, she doesn't have to. And if her body is "vacant" doesn't mean that men are entitled or need to fill it. What a woman does with HER body, is NOT comparable to a lifeless company that employs ppl. A job and money is a nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 05:43 PM
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