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| – | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Well I sincerely hope that one day you fall in love, and you have a child with your special lady, a lovely daughter ..and when she gets to the age of dating I hope she does not have men coming at her, with the same mentality as her father But that may be difficult considering women typically go for men who exude similar behaviors, beliefs and characteristics as their fathers. Buckle up 😈 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 05:09 PM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Being a great man she is attracted to is enough. Great men don't expect to fuck a COMPLETE STRANGER on the first date | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 07:53 PM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?you're the one going as far to say we're prostituting women for having the audacity Men want easy sex, but are notorious for slut Shaming any woman who gives it up that soon or easily. Treat a woman like she's cheap, then she'll show you how cheap you are by leaving you in the dust. Her body is priceless n the fact men don't get their happy ending at the end is her telling you her body is worth more than any price tag you put on her But that's about right in this 'men bad' sphere. If the shoe fi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 06:00 PM |
| 0 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Ok bye 👋 ❤️ I'm not looking to debate this. Women arent for sale n ur are talking this way too far mentioning Chad and scenarios not relevant to my question. A lot of dudes here are really sad. Some of yall can't even answer answer a simple debate question without blowing tf up and spilling everything you think is wrong with women n why you're not happy I didn't ask this Q for it to be turned into a therapy session. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 05:26 PM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Not really. A lot of different types of men think great of themselves in some way, shape or form. - Chads: think great of themselves bevause they're confident their looks n charisma is what keeps the ladies coming Men who spend money in attempt to buy attention n sex: think highly of themselves by assuming his money gives him access to women in any way he wants Gentlemen: they think highly of themselves as they are aware they are the ones few and far in between all the men who only want sex Wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 05:16 PM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?That's the thing in my premise I never said the woman when home with him. All I said is he EXTENDED the OFFER, where it was his PLAN to have sex. And I wasn't speaking about men generally, just the ones I've experienced who use this routine. Sadly, these days it's ~80% the latter. I wish you best of luck in finding a gentleman that will take good care of you. Don't lose hope. For what it's worth, I think you're the national treasure and singlehandedly are doing the Lord's work. 👍🏽 But thank you.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 05:06 PM |
| 0 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Some of us have traditional values, buddy, and don't want to have sex with someone just because he bought dinner. That's pathetic. What if I get preggo? What if I contract an STD? These are the LOGICAL questions that go thru any self-respecting woman's head. A man who does one thing, but expects another is a major 🚩 N what's silly is if a woman DOES have sex, then all he does is slut Shame and cast her aside. It's not worth giving our bodies up to men that easily because YALL have created a cult… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 04:26 PM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Women aren't for sale And as a man that's sad u think that way. I hope that one day you fall in love with a great woman, and she gives birth to your daughter, and when you're raising her, I hope she isn't disrespected by men who think just like her father, that women are for sale Bye | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 05:29 AM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Yea try it out. If they allow u to put your dick in them after paying for dinner, I'm sure they'll allow u to do the same when in a meaningful connection Men slut Shame women all the time, so many refrain from sex due to this because men immediately lose respect for her. Ladies don't wanna go thru that and they are emotional lovers, so a lot reserve sex for men they know are serious about them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 11:35 PM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?And you have no reason to expect women to figure out that if you say something, it means another. You only think this way because of your lack of confidence to speak up about your intentions. You know that if you open up and say "I only wanna fuck you" you'll lose opportunities for sex. So you expect the women to read your mind and pick up on social cues to make up for your lack of confidence And if a woman had this logic a lot of yall would blow tf up. Well the difference is that men want to be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 11:31 PM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Bye | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 08:54 PM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?No it's not. Men who only see women as valuable as their pussy's have your logic I've been on dates with men who have true traditional values and go out on dates, as a way to court, and get to know me, before we decide to steadily date. Many Chads fuck for free, so they don't need to take women out on dates just for sex, when women are practically throwing themselves at him. Men who feel they have no game, and little options for sex, but too afraid to speak up that sex is all they want, are the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 08:48 PM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?No it wasn't. Many elderly women, like both of my grannies talk about how they've experienced the same things with men, back in the day. Patriarchy is what has basically made it so that men believe their worth comes for $$, while conditioning them that women's worth comes from sex. And that a man's manliness is based on the number of women he entertains, and the amount of sex and attention be can get from them Feminism didn't normalize premarital sex, free love of the 60s and the sexual revoluti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 08:41 PM |
| -1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?That more proves that u don't value, nor respect women, and only value your personal pleasure above all No man can be in any kind of meaningful relationship with 2 women at a time, and fully cultivate a relationship where there is a deep spiritual and sexual connection, loyalty, respect, patience, and devotion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 07:41 PM |
| 0 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Sayonara | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 07:32 PM |
| -1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Lol @ "hidden motive", it's not hidden unless you are clueless or hate men too much to understand us. That's the thing, not all men are the same. I've been on dates who took me out to dinner date to get to know me, and that's exactly what it was, nothing more, nothing less. And ive also been on dates with men who had ulterior motives to have sex afterwards. So no, just cause men that date me, all have different motives doesn't mean I'm Clueless. That's why ppl date, to sith thru their options to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 07:24 PM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Honey, no. You are everything. The moon, stars and sun all exist just for u because u are special | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 07:02 PM |
| 0 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Either way I'm done Here. You obvi have a lot of negative feelings about women, so all of your responses are simply in bad faith where ur not actually trying to debate, ur just projecting ur own emotions about women you've experienced, and whenever I say something ur goal is to deny, deny, deny as if everything u say is 100%. I realize I'm not 100% I'm just 1 lady expressing my opinions. This has gone too far, bexause all I've asked about mens behavior, but many cannot answer without brining wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 06:57 PM |
| 2 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Oh. I'm sure ur a lot higher than that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 06:36 PM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?it’s simply not sexy to hear a man say, “I’m only interested in fucking you”. Honesty is sexy, above all. If we have incompatible intentions, I have more respect for a man, who tells me where he stands opposed to one who disguises himself as an angel, but comes up as the devil in the end. How does a man expect to get anything out of lying, because if the girl was never interested in sex, not only did he lie, but now he played himself by spending time and money Flip the script and say a woman say… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 06:06 PM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Nope. They ask me to go, and he offered to pay, and I'm a lady with traditional values. Men wanna lead so much so who am I to stop them Yall go on dates just to get sex, when you could just find a girl who's DTF and save ur time and money. Then yall slut Shame women even though these are the types you want. Because no self respecting woman is gonna fuck a man who pays for 1 dinner bit weird | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 05:55 PM |
| -1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Yeah and then they quickly learn most women aren't worth it these days. Not really! He had his hidden motive to get his dick wet from the beginning. He's just there to get a return on his invest by paying for dinner Because if ur gonna lead with that logic why don't more men properly vet a woman before taking her out and spending money on her? There is such a thing as dates that don't require money If men want attention we go chill with the bros. If we try to get it from women we just get a to d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 05:50 PM |
| 0 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?I'm not complaining sir. I'm literally here doing a study, for an article I'm writing about dating in modern times and the expectation that is placed upo women for sex as if they are hoes And no it wasn't easy sir, I had to sifth through a bunch of TRASH before meeting my love | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 05:42 PM |
| 0 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?You got the answer: because women choose to exploit men this way. Not really! Men ask us out on those dates and we are complete strangers to them so we have done nothing to exploit them. I'm a woman with trad values, and respect men so me being a woman in that situation where a man wants sex simply because he paid, is him attempting to exploit me The real answer is some men are so desperate for sex they feel their only way to get it is thru wining and dining a girl because they feel if they actu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 05:37 PM |
| 2 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?If it wasnt for a woman even saying yes to go on the date with dudes, there would never be a date in the first place. Notice how yall feel like you can't even get access to a woman unless u PAY. And if she doesn't have sex at the end. She gets a free meal and didn't have to compromise her dignity fucking a stranger So who's in control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 05:07 PM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Early career. I'm 27 and only starred dating around for a couple years | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 04:41 PM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Men with that mentality shoot themselves in their own foot. The fact that men try n hold power over ladies via slut shaming those who immediately have sex with them, is why a lot of women are so weary to not have sex, until they confirm the man is serious We've been conditioned, based on mens own behavior, if we want men to respect us, date us, marry us, we dont fuck on the first date, or engage in casual sex So basically this is a consequence of the double standards that men can fuck around, wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 04:37 PM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Notice what I'm saying here is the double standard of how women are damned if they do, damned if they don't. When yall don't get the sex you expect, for spending a nominal amount of $$ on 1 date, yall say you were used. But when a woman accepts the date you paid for AND goes home to fuck you, now she's a 304, gold digging slut, n not wifey The fact of the matter is, many of you "say" you want the virgins and modest girl types as wifey and girlfriends, but a lot of men's behavior constantly shows… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 04:20 PM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Men like to delude themselves into thinking: I am so great, all I gotta do Is spend a nominal amount on food and drinks, then cozy up to her, make her think she's special. This is how a being so great deserves to receive sex for a little price. Chalk it up all you want but men are literally using women like they are prostitutes. Men who respect women and actually want to date them do not take them out on dates just to secure sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 03:42 PM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?that I will want my daughter to be doing. Well you said it himself dating = sex so when ur daughters old enough, she'll be coming across men who think just like u. And be surrounded by men who will do anything to get it, ie taking her out on a date and expecting sex after | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 11:10 AM |
| 2 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Exactly 💯 💯 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 10:51 AM |
| 0 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 10:37 AM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Not when women get free meals n the man goes home without sex. He chose to be an ATM that night | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 10:36 AM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?I don't expect it. The men just do it. And either way men who do this, but have ulterior motives are literally giving me a free dinner and drinks, even tho I never wanted sex with them. So they waste their own time n money just to "hope" they can get sex. When they should just be honest from the jump, then the date would never happen Meanwhile if women ever decide they wanna have sex we can just get it for free 🤣🤣🤣 we don't need to, or gotta choose to jump thru hoops by paying for sex on a fake … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 10:34 AM |
| 2 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Uhm fighting in a war is a man's job. I was painting my nails while you were doing allat I'll take all the Ls on the condition that you take just one D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 10:15 AM |
| -1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 10:12 AM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?So I guess men sell themselves too when men take out girls they actually like and wanna date, but she only wanted a free meal and ghosts him after Some of yall see women as sex objects for sale Some women see men as ATMs, who dispense money for them. Now where's my $100?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 10:12 AM |
| 0 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 10:08 AM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?No one's reading allat Take care you sexy devil 😈 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 10:08 AM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?In the words of John Cena "You can't see me" so saying anything about my appearance on an anonymous forum is a weak take And lol you act like being a woman who men only take on dates just so he can run thru them is some kind of honor. It's not. Do u think it's an honor being used like an ATM or free gifts If anything the guys desperate for sex and have no other way of getting it are the ones who use dinner dates to secure sex. He can't even get sex for free The chads who can get the women for no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 10:02 AM |
| -1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Oh the horror, that someone making some shitty generalisation gets called out. It's not a generalization it's a fact, men are so sex crazed, all you have to do is say sex and that'll get them interested. in fact many will do so much to get it they literally invest money to go on a date, that has no meaning, it was all just for the happy ending. While we get to have sex for free and we get a free meal out if it 🤪 😜 😅🤣🤣😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 09:47 AM |
| 2 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Women aren't for sale Women are priceless | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 09:40 AM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?The problem isn't that men think a lot of women aren't into free dates, the problem is men don't feel they have as much access to sex, if they arent investing some $$ There are definitely a lot of women who are dtf, why don't yall go to those girls | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 09:38 AM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Not really, just taking his logic and applying it universally. He said it himself, women are selling themselves by accepting a dinner date. So according to his logic, the same logic applies to men who engage in dinner dates. He thinks Women act like whores by selling themselves by going on dinner dates, so then.. Men act like ATMs by selling themselves by going in dinner dates Equality ✊️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 09:29 AM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Hmmm very interesting I dont understand your last part. Nvm at this point I was just tryna troll 😅 you seem like a pretty nice and level headed dude so pardon me Thanks for the little crash course | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 08:04 AM |
| 0 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Lol so u shame hoes, but yet you get mad at ladies for not being a hoe by fucking you after the first date 🤣🤣🤣😂😂🤣 And the assumption that the same girls going out on dates with men are also the girls who whore themselves out is a weak take, a shitty generalization. A lot of women going out on dates, are average everyday women, who wanna experience love. Many are not the OF, and IG baddies types. A woman is equally investing her time by going out on a date too so those 2 cancel eachother out The … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 07:42 AM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Let's flip the script say a woman is into you, a hot sexy lady, she chooses you over the other guys tryna hit on her, she says youre special and different, and cute. And you like her alot too, and take her out on a date to get to know her. She's funny, cute charismatic and very feminine n loving. By the end of the date you can see yourself dating her. You pay for her meal. And she wants to hangout more. The date ends and you take her home. You try to text and call her back, but no response after… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 07:26 AM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?But you just said the other dudes logic is right. And psychologically speaking, how ever men feel about women in general, is typxially how they raise their daughters, and usually once grown, daughters tend to pick/date/lust after men who exude many similar traits, belief systems and behaviors as their fathers' So according to that other dudes logic this is the ways of women that you both believe in. So basically your daughter may end up deciding in 15 sec if a guy is worth fucking or not, and on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 07:12 AM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?3 years old? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 06:58 AM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Women aren't for sale | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 06:55 AM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?The best way to deal is to put up a strong front of being virtuous. Never go anywhere alone with him. Keep an eye on how frequently and when he contacts you. Also…. Anytime a guy seems too smooth, you should get nervous. Yes that's pretty good advice. I'm relatively new to dating and experiencing men, so interacting with them is a revelation to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 06:54 AM |
| 2 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?I don't partake in none of that stuff If you have to plan and count down to recieve sex, that's simply desperation and a lack of patience. People who actually have an emotional connection, and respect for eachother don't follow 'rules' they follow what feels right and what they r ready for. The 3 date rule isn't worth it for a lot of women. Not with the way a lot of men pump n dump and slut Shame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 06:52 AM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?So if you become father, and have a daughter, you'd raise that little girl with this logic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 06:47 AM |
| 0 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Right and I'm glad some of them flip the script and do that to some men, a lot of men do not have respect for women. Some men treat women like sex objects where they expect to put some money in and their pussy opens, while.. Some women treat men like ATMs and dildos | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 06:45 AM |
| 0 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Not really. Because I'm literally describing situations I've been in before. Men on the street- whether it's at a store, gas station, bar, work whatever will come up to me and chat, then ask me out on a date. I say yes, and he takes me out to dinner or buys me a drink at a bar. I value the traditional form of dating but he values sex on the first, which was unknown to me. Then by the end of the date he pays, but then suggests to go to his place, then I know where this is going. I say no, and don… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 06:37 AM |
| 0 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Wonderful 🦧 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 06:28 AM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Sorry but I wasn't asking for your personal opinion of my rating. Imma 20 because I don't conform to mens' standards of beauty and personality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 06:27 AM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?You probably laugh because your logic can only be applied to women who meet a certain level of physical attractiveness. Like >6 I think a lot of men really only notice women who are attractive too them, then they make these assumptions that women have access to any man because yall know other men are into her too. That's why you equate dating women to the Bachelor, because it's full of women above average in appearance wanting the approval of an attractive man This same thing could not be said a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 06:19 AM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?I see | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 05:44 AM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Right ✅️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 05:43 AM |
| 0 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Whatever you say honey | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 05:42 AM |
| 0 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Gaslighting is defined as coaxing someone to believe things about themselves that isn't true nor valid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 05:39 AM |
| 2 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Unless she's a stripper, street walker, prostitute, porn star, escort, OF model, or selling nudes or her bath water she's not selling herself. It's sad we live in a society where men see taking a woman out on a simple date as synonymous with selling themselves. The bar is honestly in hell for men of this caliber. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 05:38 AM |
| 0 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?I don't play games. I don't need to convince men I'm different. If he's been with soooo many women he projects all that other BS onto me, as if I have to prove myself to him then he's been around the block too much and I will easily pass on that mofo. It's interesting how men don't like when some women say, " men ain't shit", but then here you are thinking a lot of women are shit, and girls must prove their worth to you. Dudes like that need to heal instead of putting all that baggage onto new w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 05:32 AM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Okay ☀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 05:24 AM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?No I'm not. Because notice how I'm specifically asking about the few who treat women like they are for sale. How am I projecting? Projecting would be me blaming all men for the ways of a few And no I didn't "pick" those dude. They asked me out and I allowed none of them to stick around in my life after those horrid dates of expecting me to "put out" That's the point of going on dates. We have no idea what the person is like and eventually they show their true colors then we pick them and keep th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 05:23 AM |
| 0 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Love this answer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 05:17 AM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Not really just find a woman who wants to fuck for free Or maybe learn how to keep one around long enough so that she gets those lovely lovey feelings abd wants to fuck you men aren't planning and paying for dates to get a kiss on the cheek. Well I've been on dates with men who are like that. Just cause some of yall are fast.. other men are gentlemen proply courting a woman. They don't treat women like they are for sale | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 05:12 AM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Doesnt answer the question. Women aren't for sale. Bye | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 05:11 AM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Not really reread the title. Clearly it states "why do some feel entitled to sex afterward?" SOME... SOME.. SOME..SOME... SOME.. SOME..SOME... SOME.. SOME.. I already know there are wonderful men on this earth, but notice how I'm specifically asking about the ones who expect sex after a first date. I can't make this shit up, some of yall dont read, then assume ppl are literally labeling a majority of men as pigs. Lol you said that, not me, but if the shoe fits then I guess it's true for some Get… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 05:10 AM |
| 2 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Strawman is defined as distorting someone else's argument to make it easier to attack or refute. That's not happening here No, not all men expect sex straight after the first date, shocking, I know. It's not shocking. Im aware of this. Thats exactly why the title is "why do some feel they are entitled to sex afterward" Thing is some men feel used after they paid for the dinner, acted right in every way That's the thing about women, they are ppl with thoughts, and feelings, and autonomy. Many men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 05:03 AM |
| 0 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Yup conveniently it's a rhetorical question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 04:52 AM |
| 0 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Those are your friends, just a small handful of men amongst the billions who exist, so that doesn't mean other men don't expect sex upon going out on a date Sex is one of the defining features of dating Not really, you're just a man who sees sex as a main staple in courting. There are other things that are more important like loyalty, trust, respect and honesty, because what will the sex be if ppl can't even trust eachother and aren't loyal. You already know u don't wanna date a girl who fucks o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 04:49 AM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Sex on the first date isn't safe, and not everyone's cup of tea tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 04:31 AM |
| 2 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?So I'm deluded, but yet some of yall treat women like prostitutes. Women aren't for sale, simply because it's hard for you to access pussy. Or when you use the word “men” do you only count the top 25%? No! I'm speaking on men who only take women out on dates for sex. majority of men cannot find a single women who “will give them sex for free” right? Then maybe those men should take accountability, learn to build legit interpersonal connections with women, date them, so that a woman feels safe en… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 04:28 AM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Of what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 04:22 AM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Not really Yall can go on dates that don't require money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 04:21 AM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Well according to other men's answers ur wrong. Men here are literally admitting they expect sex afterwards. If anything 7/10 probably do. Cause some of yall base your worth on money n think you can buy a woman's time like she's for sake And according to the men I've been on dates with they do expect sex after. So please stop speaking on behalf of men u aren't going on dates with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 04:18 AM |
| 0 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Women say they want to do these things to "get to know a man." Mainly his earning potential and current liquidity. If the shoe fits, so maybe some but not all This is a projection.. maybe that's women you've experienced but many ladies are also into the traditional form of dating, going out on dates, steadily dating, become bf and gf then maybe getting married Women aren't for sale. Bye | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 04:09 AM |
| 0 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?So men want relationships, but use dinner dates to fuck on the first date? Odd. That's not really the best way to secure a relationship, especially for women. As they are slut shamed for it and ghosted. Plus being women, we know how guys are- the girl will have sex with him, he loses interest then slut shames her n says she's easy and not wife material. So it's not worth women's time to "put out" for every man who takes her out and pays for dinner. Every man that's wanted a relationship with me … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 04:05 AM |
| 2 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?That's the point of dating we have no idea what these men are like until we start spending time with them and they show their true colors. And I'm a lady who definitely always pays my way , so that men don't feel they have some sort of advantage over me, and yet they still try n find ways to finess me into having sex. They r instantly dropped. I'm sure you've had some bad dates, or pretty harsh experiences with women, and you had no idea what kinda woman she was until some pivotal moment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 03:57 AM |
| 2 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Women aren't for sale, bye | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 03:52 AM |
| -4 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Men don’t like to feel like some woman’s entertainer, wallet, and transportation Then don't take them out on dates. Dont spend money on them. this whole notion of being “taken care of and courted old school” is harder and harder to find. You can’t have your cake and eat it too Then dont expect sex afterward. Yall wanna find women who have self respect who wanna be courted old school, but yet you wanna take them home n fuck them? Yea very old school. And yes we can have our cake and eat it too, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 03:51 AM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Thank you ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 03:42 AM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Men who think this way hate women, and don't have respect for them. The only way dudes with your mentality get sex is to pay for it, through dinner dates because you dont know how to treat a woman like a lady, so ppl like u you cant keep one in your life long enough to get to that level of intimacy and sex, so they settle for using dinner dates to finess women in to fucking them You're a man so please refrain from speaking on behalf of how we think. Ladies dont have hive minds and it takes more … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 03:39 AM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Whats disingenuous is a man not being forward about his intentions. Because what's so hard about saying "I only wanna have sex" opposed to jumping through hoops by going out to dinner n wasting their own money, just to get some pussy And the fact that you chose to indulge him in this knowing full well what you WEREN’T tryna do is disingenuous. Reread the premise. I've never said the woman went home with the dude. I simply said he extended the offer of going back to his place, but she declined, b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 03:26 AM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Not really bye | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 03:19 AM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Honey I did not say they went to his place. That was his PLAN...PLAN... PLAN.. PLAN... PLAN... PLAN.. PLAN.. PLAN.. PLAN... PLAN...PLAN...PLAN... PLAN.. PLAN... PLAN... PLAN.. PLAN.. PLAN.. PLAN... PLAN...PLAN...PLAN... PLAN.. PLAN... PLAN... PLAN.. PLAN.. PLAN.. PLAN... PLAN...PLAN...PLAN... PLAN.. PLAN... PLAN... PLAN.. PLAN.. PLAN.. PLAN... PLAN. You're reading too much into my words n changing the narrative to pass blame off on the woman. My question is strictly focusing on men who do what I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 02:57 AM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Because there is no script | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 02:50 AM |
| 0 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Playing games? What games am I playing? If a man asks me out on a dinner date, that's indicative he'd like to get to know me. He chooses to pay, then asks me to go home with him, but I decline, because why would I wanna go home with a complete stranger, to fuck on the first date. Ew Men who do this play themselves because their too chicken shit to speak up n actually say they want pussy. So they try n finess a woman, but then accuse us of playing games. PS not everyone engages in hookup culture,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 02:47 AM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Yesss girl exactly. Some of these dudes are straight up selfish and treat us like we are for sale. Good luck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 01:16 AM |
| -2 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Doesnt answer the question. That man chose to take her out, and spent his money, no one is holding him at gun point. He's also getting attention from her. A man's solutions are: - Don't go on dates, just look for sex - Don't take women out who don't pay for their meal - Don't go on dates that require money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 01:13 AM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?If you're going to accuse me of strawman, at least understand what it means n when it is present. It is defined as distorting a previous argument to make it easier to attack or refute. I'm not doing that, period. The fact of the matter is lots of women go thru this, so this is very much real, and I'm trying to learn about the psychology of men who do this. If you were a man who doesn't do this, my question wouldn't mean much to you, but considering you immediately resort to invalidating my perso… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 01:08 AM |
| -2 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Because mens currency is our time, attention, and resources. Women’s currency is sex. Yup we definitely live in a man's world. Seems like everyday men see women as nothing more than sex objects and sex outlets | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 12:54 AM |
| -1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Aye! She ain't wrong tho. No need to troll on other women simply because you feel called out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 12:51 AM |
| 0 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?“A lot of women are emotional lovers” lol, tell that to the myriad of girls in uni sleeping with tinder guy after tinder guy Uhm I don't need to becauee that's their choice. Not mine. You already know if that was ur dick those girls were riding and sucking on you wouldn't be in reddit complaining. Plus those girls will learn, just like everyone else, when they start to feel those emotions build up and they wanna keep fucking n date the dude, who doesn't actually want them Because when you put ti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 12:50 AM |
| 0 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Why do some dudes deflect from the question by making a woe-is-me type of argument by generalizing women? But to answer ur question there are different types of women.. ones who are willing to pay on the first date for their meal, and there are women who expect the man to pay because he asked her out to dinner. And the reason some expect a free meal is because those are the types of women, a lot of men continously take out and pay for. So why would they think any different when they keep meeting… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 12:32 AM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?What about women who men deem a 2? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 12:20 AM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Doesnt make sense because there are kind, generous men who have anonymously bought me a drink, simply becauee they wanted to treat a beautiful woman. They had no ulterior motives and simply smiled at me when I found out which man secretly bought me that drink. When the universe gives you wonderful opportunities, it's like a sin if we don't reach back and express gratitude. Maybe some men who buy drinks to get access to sex should take accoutabilty that a woman doesn't owe you her time, nor affec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Women making the first move would solve a lot of the issues with modern dating.That's biology for you, not horseshit Men are attracted to wide ranges of women, because your high amounts of T, compels you to spread your seed to as many women, but im sure the "most women" men attract themselves to are still women whom are atleast average or pretty in appearance. I've only heard dudes say they go for women under a 5 only when they wanna fuck n are drunk. Whereas Women are attracted to lower ranges of men because they have responsibility of child bearing, and can only have 1 c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 11:44 PM |
| 0 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?I think the social convention should be if you want to fuck- find a prostitute, a 304, or any kinda fun time girl down to fuck, while a legit dinner date should be resevered for people serious about dating, who are on the market for a legit companion that could later become a spouse If there's attraction, then be a gentleman and pay. That's the thing about a gentleman is their kindness and respect isn't conditional and based on the levels of attraction a woman has. The solution to your social co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 11:35 PM |
| -2 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Look at the title, notice how I said "why do some men feel they are entitled to sex?" Nothing I said ever implied I'm speaking on, nor generalizing all men. That's your assumption because you generalize people, and you show that based on how you generalize men in your first response to me. Men generally don't expect sex for dinner So if anything ur the hypocrite, why is it u generalize men but take offense when u think a woman is? I'm well aware not all yall behave the same. I've been on dates w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Women making the first move would solve a lot of the issues with modern dating.How many women have said this to you? Or how many women have you dated/talked to have done everything you are saying?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 11:04 PM |
| -1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Exactly. I hope someday you'll meet your prince charming 💕 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 10:59 PM |
| 0 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Women know what a guy wants when he asks her out and pays Not really. So let's not assume every man thinks the same and all women can read minds. What if the man has trad values and is taking her out in hopes of getting to know her and steadily dating her? What if the man is just using a date, to gain access to sex? I've experienced both situations. So it's stupid to tell women don't go on a date unless you're willing to fuck me. When yall should just find women who are down to fuck... you know … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 10:57 PM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Thank you ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 10:47 PM |
| -1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?So if they are hoping for sex why take the long route and overlook girls who will have sex for free | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 10:37 PM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?No. Take everything in that lil story I said at face value instead of assuming the girl is resorting to trashy behavior. How is he being used if it was his choice to take her out and pay for that date? What I'm speaking on is men and women who are practical strangers and going on their 1st date, bevayse he asked her out and she is open to steadily dating ONE man And in my scenario if she's choosing to go home then no it's not implied she has or wants other dick. The fact ur response is full of a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 10:32 PM |
| 0 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?That doesn't make sense. Im a woman who's gone out on dates with men, I've even gone as far as paying for my own meal and also telling them I'm looking to steadily date someone and that has still not stopped them from trying to proposition me to have sex with them We as men and women have created this dynamic, of tit for tat. A lot of men see women as sexual objects and feel their only way to stand out is to use his money to gain access to her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 10:24 PM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Not really. Just be a man who communicates what you actually want, instead of playing mind games n blaming a woman for not figuring it out Yall don't like when women strictly go out with you for free meals, but mislead you to believe she actually wants or likes you. So according to ur logic should ladies say to men if you can't figure out my social cue that i only wanted free food then you shouldn't be dating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 10:12 PM |
| 0 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Yes, as a woman when we hear men proposition us with this offer many of us immediately think, sex, unless she is new to dating and doesnt know "lets go back to my place for drinks" is code for "lets fuck" In this scenario that I outlined I never said the woman goes home with the man, I simply said he extended the offer to do it. But ofc another man finding a way to blame women for the fact yall speak in code because you're too scared to say that you really just want some pussy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 10:08 PM |
| 0 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?I've never said she went back to the dudes place. All I said is he extended the offer of doing that. Because notice: He extends an offer to go back to his place to sip wine n watch a movie. He plans to make a move that leads to sex. The pretty woman declines the offer, and decides to go home. So no, the woman here has a lot of agency as she is respecting herself by acknowledging going home with a guy, especially when it may lead to sex isn't a good idea, and following through with her choice It'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 10:00 PM |
| -1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Uhm yes we do. Did yall not read this part right here He plans to make a move that leads to sex. The pretty woman declines the offer, and decides to go home. He obliges, but later laments that he was "used" because she didn't "put out". The fact the date didn't end with her going home with him, n having sex is indicative that women like this have boundaries and value their safety, as they do not want to go home to a practical strangers house who could totally be unsafe or even have STDs. I don't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 09:52 PM |
| -2 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Not really so stop making up your own narratives | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 09:49 PM |
| 0 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Lovely. Thank you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 09:48 PM |
| 0 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Thank you ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 09:34 PM |
| -7 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?And men feel "used" when women make it seem like sex is on the table, just to get investment. How is a woman using him tho? How does a woman make it seem like sex is on the table? I'm asking about men, who do what I asked, not women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 09:31 PM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?I think you as a man, and a lot of other men, tie too much of your worth and a woman's worth to sex. Sex is a deep emotional thing, and you form a spiritual bond with everyone you have sex with. I don't see why you immediately think something may be wrong with a woman, simply because she doesn't have sex by date 5. Maybe she values herself and the man she's involved with and doesn't think sex is some sort of thing you count down to, but more so something that is done as a way to show her love an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 09:29 PM |
| -1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Gaslighting is defined as coaxing someone to believe things about themselves that isn't true nor valid. That's not happening here, and the fact of the matter is tons of men do this, because I've experienced this many times and have girlfriends who have too. Me wanting to know the ways of some men isn't gaslighting. Plus your response is indicative that you took offense to my question and it's probably because you are someone who does this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 09:20 PM |
| 2 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?That's a smart idea 💡 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 09:14 PM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Until women become active participants in the dating process instead of passively letting the man do all the wooing men will probably always feel this way. That's a projection based on the woman you are probably choosing. Why is it instead of answering the question, several of you are turning this around to blame women To see a date as tit for tat is kinda lame. She's equally investing her time too. Like lol do think the clock stops for a woman while it keeps ticking for a man while they're on a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 09:10 PM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?What is HSPBM | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 09:01 PM |
| 0 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?So if men are hoping for sex, why be extra n take ladies out on dates, misleading her, when those who do that could easily find a woman who's down to fuck for free | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 09:01 PM |
| -1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?That's not the question being asked. I'm asking the men who do, what I asked to share insight. Why make this a woe-is-me type of argument?? But to answer ur question, sex is a deep emotional thing, and a lot of women are emotinal lovers, so when 2 ppl have sex, yall are creating a spiritual bond and the fact ur a man who doesn't realize how deep sex is and just have it with out thinking about what some of yall are actually doing is sad n shows some of yall aint even mature or emotionally intelli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 08:58 PM |
| -4 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?So if they're so fearful of being used, and only want sex why are they taking women out on dates in the first place? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 08:51 PM |
| 0 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Thank you 😊 do you have any insight on why they take the long route, and not just choose girls who only want sex, without a date? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 08:46 PM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?. However, if she doesn’t come right over to bang and skip the date OR bang after the first date she’s not into you enough. Why is a woman's level of interest in a man measured by how soon she has sex with him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Women making the first move would solve a lot of the issues with modern dating.It's a yes or no question. The fact of the matter is, men are similar. They show us all the time they want the attention, affection and approval of the women they deem most beautiful. So I don't see why this is deemed a "woman thing" when men are the same, this is simply human nature at work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 08:33 PM |
| 4 | Women making the first move would solve a lot of the issues with modern dating.Expect? That's the thing about life is you don't have control or a say so in what others "should" do, only yourself. Women already do approach. Just because you fail to see it, or aren't a man who benefits from it doesn't mean it's not happening. Do you even put yourself in situations where you interact with them. You give women wayyy to much power, and it seems like you want them to take the wheel of the quality of you own life. Women aren't the only ones who hold consent in physical intimacy, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 08:24 PM |
| -15 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Well you can't speak on behalf of how men generally behave, yall aren't a monolith As a woman, who's experienced this I'm asking for men to share answers on WHY this happens, and what is their logic, not to be taken on some merry go round that puts the blame back women playing w men's hearts. That has nothing to do with the question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 08:13 PM |
| -6 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Beautiful deflection. You must be someone who does this. So it's a fairy tale that a lot of men only pursue women for sex? Some men of this sub literally admit taking women out on dates, who they aren't even compatible with and fully like, but put up with them in hopes of getting laid. Let's not act like you just got here from Jupiter or something. Literally old women have the same experiences from back in the day when they were dating around. And men say women don't take accountability. Boy bye… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 08:09 PM |
| 2 | Women making the first move would solve a lot of the issues with modern dating.Women already do approach men. The problem is YOU aren't getting approached. So you think there is a problem in the fabric of reality that ALL or a vast majority aren't approaching yall. So you're demanding them to change, when the only solution is to change your approach to women n how you feel about them and yourself. Some men only seem to care about feminism, and equality because they think it means men now have more access to more ladies, but now that we have full bodily autonomy n rights, y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 07:51 PM |
| 6 | Women making the first move would solve a lot of the issues with modern dating.Well do you as a man give attention to, and ask out women whom are not physically attractive to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Women making the first move would solve a lot of the issues with modern dating.Why would women want to be men? You seem to have this misunderstanding that women having rights and equality is synonymous with being a man? You making this statement is implying that it is a man's place to be the pursuer, but then you complain that women don't accept the cons of being a man, by approaching yall and having to face rejection. So which is it? Should men be men who initiate, or should women "be men" who initiate, according to ur logic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: The wife of an NFL Quarterback recently revealed she slept with his back up QB. Do you now understand why your history matters to many men?This is reddit, so people can say whatever Then don't ask me bullshit questions if ur too insecure to trust ppls answers I said name one highly influential man and you name Oprah. Wow. You can't make this shit up, guys. I said Oprah AND Steadman, you dunce. Obvi if Oprah is the woman, then Steadman is the man. Use ur logic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 12:31 AM |
| – | Q4W: The wife of an NFL Quarterback recently revealed she slept with his back up QB. Do you now understand why your history matters to many men?Sure. So, you've never been married? Yea imagine that, a woman declining marriage to men she doesn't want. Name one highly influential man who never married. Well obviously not you. Oprah and Steadman Bye dude. You're a sad, bitter man who lives online and specifically looks for women's opinions you don't agree with in order to try n assert dominance to feel better about ur own pathetic life and compensate for your WEAK and fragile masculinity. You get off 🍆 starting arguments n getting in debat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 11:37 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: The wife of an NFL Quarterback recently revealed she slept with his back up QB. Do you now understand why your history matters to many men?Not everyone desires marriage or feels it's required to validate the love you have for someone. Look at Goldie Hawn and Kurt Russell, they been together for over 40 years and going stronger than many married couples. My love is the Kurt Russell to my Goldie Hawn, so no we don't need to be married to feel our love is legit. How many of them got down on one knee and propositioned you to be their wife? 5 men, and counting That just means they are just banging you ;) Odd because I don't have sex wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: The wife of an NFL Quarterback recently revealed she slept with his back up QB. Do you now understand why your history matters to many men?Gotcha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: The wife of an NFL Quarterback recently revealed she slept with his back up QB. Do you now understand why your history matters to many men?You lost me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 06:42 PM |
| 4 | Q4W: The wife of an NFL Quarterback recently revealed she slept with his back up QB. Do you now understand why your history matters to many men?Ooooh, I gotcha. Yup they just love creating their own misery | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: The wife of an NFL Quarterback recently revealed she slept with his back up QB. Do you now understand why your history matters to many men?No, its always mattered. Not to all men, not to my current bf, n other men who've taken dating/chatting w me more seriously didn't care Men who only want to fuck a chick don't care. Men who want to marry a chick cares ;) Please do not try n speak on behalf of many man, that you arent around. You're not a woman that they try to fuck. If anything, many dudes that are Chads, fuckboys, n these sex crazed fiends that base womens worth on sex, are the ones who've asked me about n-count. A gentleman ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 06:39 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: The wife of an NFL Quarterback recently revealed she slept with his back up QB. Do you now understand why your history matters to many men?N how do u know they're lying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 08:26 AM |
| 6 | Q4W: The wife of an NFL Quarterback recently revealed she slept with his back up QB. Do you now understand why your history matters to many men?It's irrelevant | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 08:24 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: The wife of an NFL Quarterback recently revealed she slept with his back up QB. Do you now understand why your history matters to many men?So because one woman cheats on a QB with his back up QB, now all of a sudden ALL womens' sexual history matters to many men Imma let u in on a secret, men who take dating more seriously and see a woman more holistically, have never asked me, or made a big deal about my sexual history, because he has one too. This is an irrational fear. This isn't your life, you're not the QB she cheated on, so why make another man's misery your own? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 08:21 AM |
| 0 | Its insane how much status a beautiful woman can give youYes women have their judgements but they seem to be more internal. For instance if a fat man is into her and she's not interested she simply won't accept his advances. But when men see a fat woman they do not live it down. They make rude comments like 🤮 tell her to go to the gym etc. And if she's too skinny they shame her as well. Too many men see women as trophies and accessories to their life while shaming the women who deviate from the types of women who inspire an erection | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/24 11:15 PM |
| 0 | The bar is on the ground for men is an incredibly toxic statementDo you recognize women that u don't deem as potential partners or sex options? That same thing could be said about men too. As much as men say they are visual, and claim the fun time girls, the baddies, n "304s" are for recreational use only, while the virgins n modest women are reserved for marriage, is men literally admitting that ladies who inspire an erection n are mlst attractive to them are top priority whereas the other girls are over looked, and an after thought for marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/24 10:56 PM |
| 2 | Manipulative, charming, uncaring, lying men get laid the mostThis literally made me LOL 😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Manipulative, charming, uncaring, lying men get laid the mostWhere do you get this info from. How on earth do you know what many women are bad at. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 02:55 AM |
| 1 | How do some heterosexual men expect to have sex, while also shaming sexually active women/body count?This doesn't answer my question tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 11:36 PM |
| 1 | How do some heterosexual men expect to have sex, while also shaming sexually active women/body count?That's a massive generalization. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 11:34 PM |
| 1 | How do some heterosexual men expect to have sex, while also shaming sexually active women/body count?That's a massive generalization. The comparison ur making doesn't make sense.. so you let what other ppls opinions about you decide how to move thru life with ur own body | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 11:33 PM |
| 2 | How do some heterosexual men expect to have sex, while also shaming sexually active women/body count?And what are those double standards? Plus even if these dohbls standards exist why do people feel they don't need to practice what they preach, but then only want the best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 10:35 PM |
| 3 | How do some heterosexual men expect to have sex, while also shaming sexually active women/body count?I'm not. What I'm describing pertains more to dating and when people are bachelors/Bachelorettes. If men outside of marriage weren't getting any action hookup culture wouldn't exist, neither would Tinder, Bumble, Grindr, Hinge etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 10:35 PM |
| 2 | How do some heterosexual men expect to have sex, while also shaming sexually active women/body count?That's awesome 👌 But I'm speaking more about the lads who don't practice what they preach. The ones who want low body count women, while also being highly sexual themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 10:33 PM |
| 1 | How do some heterosexual men expect to have sex, while also shaming sexually active women/body count?So let's say a woman is a hoe, who fucks men who also like to fuck any woman whos willing. Can she equally demand that the man he starts a family with also has a low body count. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 10:30 PM |
| – | Realistic standards are the key to successHumans are very versatile. I've never understood why shame ppl over things they can change. When you live a healthy lifestyle by having healthy hobbies and habits, it's not hard to come across fit/slim women. If a woman's weight is triggering to you, you've got bigger internal problems working against you that you need to confront. And going to another country isn't gonna solve that issue, honey | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 07:11 AM |
| 1 | A Question for men. What are the red flags in a relationship that would prevent you from ever proposing marriage.Ur not the arbiter. And since we're giving advice, why don't u grow tf up and dissociate gender from the individual. And you out of all ppl shouldn't be talking. According to ur logic, if my behavior is embarrassing "my gender", is it safe to say that men who harass, and abuse us is representing of all men? No! So maybe maybe all these pedos, rapists, and abusive men should stop embarrassing your gender. Because several women of today dont even wanna fuck with men. Maybe that's why so many of ya… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 05:57 PM |
| 1 | A Question for men. What are the red flags in a relationship that would prevent you from ever proposing marriage.I don't really give af A lot of yall live in echo chambers and would rather live shitty lives where you accept the worst of others, and just feel sorry for yourselves. My comment wasn't in response to YOU, so I don't really care if my statement falls under a point ur trying to make. You're gonna see what u wanna see. Because why not look for things outside that DONT prove your point. Oh wait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Why the Divorce Unfairness is Causing Hookup CultureSo let's break it down. What exactly are men benefitting less from? Like what are they doing, opposed to the woman, that makes it so that all of them are inherently getting the shorter end of the stick? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 05:39 PM |
| 0 | A Question for men. What are the red flags in a relationship that would prevent you from ever proposing marriage.Right. I guess yo mama is also mentally retarded too and seized to take accountability for her actions by not swallowing your dad's cum, on the day of your conception. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 07:05 AM |
| 2 | Why the Divorce Unfairness is Causing Hookup CultureThere are zero benefits a man gets from getting married as opposed to just a regular committed long term relationship Then why do men get married. Why do men think it's a flex when a woman can keep a man, opposed to attracting pump n dumps. Why do men place so much value on "wife material" ie cooking, cleaning, embracing femininity, valuing a fertile woman etc. If there truly were no benefits to marriage for a man then every man would opt out of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 06:58 AM |
| 2 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADThank you for your honesty!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 03:51 PM |
| 0 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADThat's not answering the question tho. It's funny none of u guys can accurately answer. Because who tf "answers" a question by just asking another question?? Ofc no one wants THEIR companion sleeping with other ppl regardless of man, or woman. What I'm axing is when the man or woman ISNT your Bae. Like if a woman is not dating you, and you're not dating her. Like why give af about what other ppl do with their bodies in the name of sex. And why is it that when it only comes to sex.. now counting … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 03:33 PM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADStill not answering the question. Why do u keep involving other factors, when I'm simply asking why YOU place so much value on sex and the number? I don't give a damn about what other women are doing and I never said there is no value to sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 09:46 PM |
| 0 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADlol so sex partners are like acquaintances for you? I've never shared any details about my sex life. So no, thats not the argument im attempting to make, nor is it reflective of my sex life. I'm just aware that sex means different things to differnt ppl, and the number shouldn't matter because sex is a natural thing that ppl feel an urge to do, especially when they have romantic for someone. I've already made my argument.. and you never answered the original question, why place so much value on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 08:12 PM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADBut why place so much value on sex tho? A lot of things we forget.. like what we ate for breakfast or dinner last week. When you're a kid, you don't count every kid you've played with, or every friend youve had. As an adult you don't count every bro you've made or maybe everyone woman whose graced your presence Some ppl just fuck because the opportinity was there, and they wanted to feel good, then they move on. So it makes sense if you can't member every person But if you're a man.. it makes se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 06:59 PM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADmost women want experienced men this also includes sexual experience even virgin women. Okay! And what you dont understand is its a womans choice and when it comes to womans first time, id argue we care more about the man it is with who respects us, more than it is about the amount of expeeices hes had w other women. Im only adding my 2 cents because I've actually experienced this. I'm 27, and first had sex when I was 26. All kinds of men were giving me offers, and yes, even those "Chads", who a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 05:39 PM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADAt that point it depends on the woman, and if she feels the man still meets her standards This comment is literally similar to when dudes make fun of a woman whose been "passed around" by many men, but THEN decides I wanna settle down now" Say you meet a woman whose had over 30 sexual partners, and you want a virgin bride. Would you accept this woman just because she said "oh babe, I'm a born again virgin" opposed to a woman who who remained committed to herself the entire time?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 05:11 PM |
| – | [Q4W] Could you be with a man who used to simp for, or get friend zoned by, other women?A man's past relationships were all before my time with him, so it's irrelevant to me. Unless he's a manwhore gigolo or a murderer, I don't care what he's done, because we all have a past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 09:31 AM |
| 2 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADWhy would a virgin woman want to commit to a man who's been around the block with many women?? If a girl values her virginity enough to save it for the right man, that man who's ultimately worthy of her ain't gonna be a player, whose been deep in pussy. Yes a man can have his preferences but a virgin girl will also have hers, and a comittment phobic Chad, manwhore is not a top priority, a gentleman who values her , and loyalty will be. P.S. If a man has slept with many women, he is not high valu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 09:15 AM |
| – | Why do so many women love to suggest men “hate women” simply because they are frustrated with the horrific state of dating?Right. Lolz | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 10:01 PM |
| – | Why do so many women love to suggest men “hate women” simply because they are frustrated with the horrific state of dating?Right! Whenever I come across a man saying something like "classic, a woman not taking accountability, like usual". Then I ask them what do we need to held accountable for, and I'm met with silence. They don't actually know. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 09:26 PM |
| – | Why do so many women love to suggest men “hate women” simply because they are frustrated with the horrific state of dating?Women dont suggest men hate them, rather it is something they see and feel because of the horrific things men say about ALL women, just from the small handful of ladies they picked/dated | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 09:23 PM |
| – | Women accept being alone better than menHow exactly have I displayed arrogance? I call it like I see it. Plus it takes one to know one, because who are you to tell anyone to 'get over themselves' as if you're some arbiter on how people should behave. You ain't no Saint. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Have we considered the costs of a polygamous society?Obvi not all because I don't know all 4 billion women. Obvi if there are heterosexual poly men, then there are poly ladies as well who have sex with them. However polygamy isn't ideal to many woman, and most resort to exclusive monogamous relationships. Ps. Monogamy isn't a religious/Christian thing. It's a choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Have we considered the costs of a polygamous society?That's not what polygamy is. What you've just described is just a certain TYPE of man- a Don Juan, a womanizer etc. Poly= many, gamy= love. So basically it's the choice to share love with many women/men. Women benefit more from monogamy. The cost for us to have sex is higher, and we mostly benefit sharing a life with 1 person. Opposed to juggling ppl we wanna fuck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 03:33 PM |
| – | Women accept being alone better than menAnd what assumptions have I made about you? It's pretty clear you're probably chronically online I can engage in conversation without being emotionally involved. Nah you can't! This debate sub is literally full of men who just come here to sulk n be in their own feelings too much. You just did the same. If what you said was true you'd refrain from down voting. And damn right women choose singlehood. If you met a woman who spoke negatively about men in general and she had negative thoughts about … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 03:15 PM |
| – | Women accept being alone better than menAnd the thing that a lot of you dudes in this sub dont get is to stop projecting. Yall do that more then actual DEBATING You have NO idea if this woman is even like what you're assuming, you just THINK she's that way because you're either chronically online and react to rage bait on social media where women act like that, or that has been YOUR experience with ladies YOU picked. Either way, heal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 03:05 PM |
| – | Women accept being alone better than menProject much? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Thought experiment: describe your ideal companionShe sounds lovely and like a great match for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Thought experiment: describe your ideal companion[Scottish voice] Nothing is wrong with an inquisitive mind, sir. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Thought experiment: describe your ideal companion[British voice] Are you in, or are you out, sir? The choice is yours to participate. Be there or be square | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Thought experiment: describe your ideal companionSounds like a lovely gentleman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 10:05 PM |
| 5 | Thought experiment: describe your ideal companionIt's for a thought experiment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 09:58 PM |
| – | Aren’t the “it’s because he’s attractive” posts getting boring?Nah you assumed it was for a laugh, because you probably do that to others, so that's how you're interpreting my behavior. If it was for a laugh, I would've made fun of his situation, but rather I was asking because I could previously attest to a similar experience. let's not pretend u don't call men names when they've let u down I don't do that because that's childish. Assuming that I'm around men who "let me down".. idk what you think I'd even be experiencing in life to have that happen, but n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 09:57 PM |
| – | Aren’t the “it’s because he’s attractive” posts getting boring?Try attacking people's arguments other than them, personally. This is a debate sub, so if you cant contribute anything meaningful, and wanna be in your feelings, touching grass can help emotionally regulate yourself. For every finger you point at others, you have 3 pointing back at you. So how are you not trolling right now, with ur filthy mouth, and unnecessary words? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 07:35 PM |
| – | Aren’t the “it’s because he’s attractive” posts getting boring?Uhm I've never said to be nice. Idgaf abijt guys who try n use "nice" as a personality trait or a major indicator for why they're different from other guys. Too many use that nice guy facade as a way to access sex. I've seen it too many times n don't fall for that BS I was raised to treat ppl with dignity and respect because that's the basis for how humans should treat eachother. So the fact that a guy thinks being nice is special. I laugh at them. There's a difference between nice and respect. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 07:29 PM |
| – | Aren’t the “it’s because he’s attractive” posts getting boring?Okay then do it and see how that works out for you. I'm a woman and have actually lived thru that experience, and no, the REAL problem doesn't go away until you address it head on. I was very overweight in my middle school and HS years, and let it severely affect my mental health. In fact, I thought I was ugly and didn't think men liked me, period. Despite some boys taking an interest in me, I was still closed off from them, and even bitter and fearful of them. Once I lost the weight in college,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 07:22 PM |
| – | Aren’t the “it’s because he’s attractive” posts getting boring?The beast was a handsome man with an ugly personality. He treated ppl less than him, and that's why he was given the curse of being a beast- an unappealing exterior to match his unappealling interior The curse could only be broken on the condition he learned to accept HIMSELF and change his behaviors toward others, and meet true love. Belle is also a woman who grew to love her own captor, which is basically a case of Stockholm syndrome. And if anything, she grew to love the beast BEFORE he chang… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Aren’t the “it’s because he’s attractive” posts getting boring?Ok this is irrelevant though. If someone is a self proclaimed misogynist, that right there is what's holding the other dude back. So why do you keep focusing strictly on looks, when it's evident what that other dude is dealing with is an internal issue, rather than external. I understand that's the rule you follow for yourself in order to attract a woman you want BAD, but physical attraction isn't the solution to every mans personal struggles with women. Nor does it serve as a basic for KEEPING … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Aren’t the “it’s because he’s attractive” posts getting boring?What you're basically saying is a man should be accepted based on the condition of how attractive he is. His issue is a lot deeper than simply not being physically attractive to women. His energy is what makes women not attracted to ANY part of him That's exactly why i said he may be able to attract women for pump n dumps, if he's in shape but still a misogynist. This dude can be fit but if he doesn't have the social skills, or even the tolerance to respect women, then they're not gonna gravitat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 04:32 PM |
| 0 | Aren’t the “it’s because he’s attractive” posts getting boring?I am a misogynist. Why do I hate women? because thats the kind of shit incels take joy in. So what is the energy you wanna lead with then? You take pride in hating women, while also lamenting over your lack of success and experience with them? You're at a cross roads and need to decide do you wanna be the misogynist who repels women with your spiteful energy, or do you wanna be the man who respects women and attracts them into your life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 03:59 PM |
| 0 | Aren’t the “it’s because he’s attractive” posts getting boring?Because all your problems can't get fixed from simply losing weight. The dude just admitted that he's a misogynist, and even takes pride in it. If men don't like combative women, and those hard-core misandrists feminisists who want men to suffer, why would a woman want the same out of a man? A valuable woman will always gravitate toward a man whom values her, and respects her etc, because energy is everything. His issue is deeper than hitting the gym, because he could look like Thor, but still b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Aren’t the “it’s because he’s attractive” posts getting boring?I have a question for you sir? Do you hold women responsible for the reason you're single and a virgin?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 02:54 PM |
| – | There is nothing inherently wrong with men dating much younger womenI already know these things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 02:40 PM |
| – | There is nothing inherently wrong with men dating much younger womenI don't give af about what a young woman personally does with your dick. If you see nothing wrong with age gaps, you'd simply live your life, and my comment wouldn't have inspired a response from you Notice how the girl will swallow ur sperm, but isn't using it to create a baby. My point still stands. Like wtf is a young woman to do, other than that. There's no way to produce 100% healthy and fit offspring when nearly geriatric sperm is in the picture | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 10:35 AM |
| – | There is nothing inherently wrong with men dating much younger womenwe both know law did not stop those sex offenders. Yes I know. Or they wouldn't be registered sex offenders. You need to realize that's some man and woman's actual DAUGHTER. Like have some empathy and put yourself in a father's perspective, would you want some 30+ year old man pining over your special little girl? Remember that song, 🎵I fought the law, and the law won🎵 Well it spits facts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 09:57 AM |
| – | Why do so many ladies get the ick so easily of minor things, then stick with guys who have major issues?Everyone has boundaries and expectations for what they're willing to accept in others. It's a woman's right to have her personal turn offs. Sometimes they may seem silly, but those are her rules A dude once told me a woman ghosted him after he revealed he's a Gemini. It be like that sometimes, but you must realize these are the decisions of young and naive women, who believe those minor icks carry a deeper meaning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 09:44 AM |
| – | There is nothing inherently wrong with men dating much younger womenConsidering the fact that you feel the need to announce this, to prove it's "acceptable", shows that this isn't and doesn't even flow with the natural balance of life n mate selection When it comes to mate selection, older men aren't even on a young woman's radar. Like wtf is a young 20-something gonna do with a 35+ year Olds sperm? Yall try n tell us ladies all the time, how dudes are MOST attracted to fertile women, well women are the same. So dusty, crusty, old sperm is not gonna produce a he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 09:23 AM |
| – | There is nothing inherently wrong with men dating much younger womenIt doesn't matter. Underage girls dont want yall n you should leave em alone, before you find yourself as a registered sex offender if slavery was legal would u buy a slave? FUCK NO. I'm a black American woman. I don't believe in white supremacy, and the division of ppl based on nonsense, like race. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 09:14 AM |
| – | There is nothing inherently wrong with men dating much younger womenNah! Bless the law, cause if wasn't for it yall would pounce on 15 year Olds | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 09:05 AM |
| 2 | Women's infatuation with the lives of celebrities is a male ickI very rarely encountered men who were happy to tick off all the names of porn stars they had watched. Well yea because what dude is gonna openly share the names of girls her watches on pornos. The fact that we can log on to IG and see IG baddies whom promote sex, and have hordes of male followers says otherwise. So this is indicative that many of us, to an extent idolize and/or follow ppl whom reflect our person interests. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Women's infatuation with the lives of celebrities is a male ickNot really but okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Women's infatuation with the lives of celebrities is a male ickSo then do you want people talking shit to and abiut you, and hanging on to everything you do as a person, just waiting to judge every action. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Women's infatuation with the lives of celebrities is a male ickFor every finger you point at others 👉 you've got 3 fingers pointing back at YOU Why do you think it's acceptable to shit on anyone as if your 💩 don't stink? everyone goes thru life managing to collect a few Skeltons ☠️ in their closet, and the fact that you heavily focus on vapid behavior, justs shows you have nothing better to do with your own life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 05:10 PM |
| 7 | Women's infatuation with the lives of celebrities is a male ickOr why don't some of yall dudes get a life, outside of observing everything a woman does, and policing them as if yall are the arbiters on what ladies "are supposed to do" It's giving incel, who's chronically online and has no real hobbies or interests beside making their whole life n personality about women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 03:18 PM |
| 5 | Women's infatuation with the lives of celebrities is a male ickIn fact I'd wager that in a hypothetical universe where women didn't exist, celebrities wouldn't even be a thing. I'd wager that you wouldn't be alive writing this post, putting everything on the existence of women, if they didn't exist. You realize the stork didn't deliver you right? Celebrity is a very broad term. I'm sure when it comes to a hot n sexy actress like Scarlett Johanson, yall know about her and ALL her ASSETTS. Or when it comes to sports, or porn stars that some of yall remember t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 03:14 PM |
| 1 | If “your league is what you can get” then women are shooting too high for guys they can only get for casual sexYes exactly 💯 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 07:10 AM |
| 2 | If “your league is what you can get” then women are shooting too high for guys they can only get for casual sexOkay! I got you now. Pardon me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 05:47 AM |
| 3 | If “your league is what you can get” then women are shooting too high for guys they can only get for casual sexYour original post is about women trying to shoot their chance for earning the commitment of men that are in higher statue by engaging in hook up with them. It doesn’t function that way. No I wasn't. You misready what I said. My argument is women who go for causal sex are going for what they came for. So it's not big deal when nothing more happens because she's not expecting boyfriend material. Women who desire boyfriends and hubby material, stay off tinder, and focus on men who value comittment… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 05:36 AM |
| 0 | Which of these men is more appealing to a woman?Lolz yea that's a lot better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 05:24 AM |
| 1 | If “your league is what you can get” then women are shooting too high for guys they can only get for casual sexYour 20 something 6'5 "Chad" is more likely 1/10,000. Who cares? If a woman chooses to value men of that caliber, she's aware she's actively shrinking her pool. You're a dude, so you may not understand because yall cast a wide net in terms of the women you're attracted to, but women are the opposite They are naturally highly selective and receive many options since yall cast wide nets, so it's in her best interest to select a contendor who best fits her standards and has favorable genetics Peopl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 05:22 AM |
| 2 | If “your league is what you can get” then women are shooting too high for guys they can only get for casual sexLove that song 💃💃💃 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 05:04 AM |
| 3 | If “your league is what you can get” then women are shooting too high for guys they can only get for casual sexWhen they are looking for commitment it won’t be the women they are engaging through hook up but someone as attractive or nearly attractive but not engaging in promiscuity and having a decent head over their shoulder to be their lifetime partner and mother of their child. It works both ways, women whom desire commitment, such as myself, and aspire to become mothers don't want a ran thru man, who heavily engages in casual sex. He's not even putting himself in the energy of future loving husband, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 05:00 AM |
| 3 | If “your league is what you can get” then women are shooting too high for guys they can only get for casual sexAll top tier men want top tier women. That’s how the system works System? What are you talking about? And what are your definitions of top tier? Also if there is a woman you're deeply attracted to but you feel compelled to change yourself in order for her to accept you, does that mean you feel she is in some tier above you? To add to that, this woman is basically saying her attraction to you is conditional. The happiest connection anyone can ever have is when someone accepts you, warts and all, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 04:38 AM |
| 2 | If “your league is what you can get” then women are shooting too high for guys they can only get for casual sexI believe top tier is subjective. Like yes to some he can be a modelesque high earner, but to me top tier can be a variance of having high values and morals, respecting themselves and others especially women, so not running thru them. Good health, favorable genetics, motivated, emotionally available, dedicated to his work, craft, and hobbies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 04:26 AM |
| 0 | If “your league is what you can get” then women are shooting too high for guys they can only get for casual sexIf shes going for casual sex, then yes, her objective is to play with her boy toy. And hell no she is not a cum sock, his "sock" is gonna be a condom. Raw sex is for commitment only 😘 When a woman truly desires commitment and a LTR she'll align herself with the emotially available, and commitment ready type of men. Maybe it’s fun for a short term but verbally is a massive L Okay! That's your personal choice, but a lady has a right to her own decisions. Its her choice to repeat a cycle, or make a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 04:19 AM |
| 2 | If “your league is what you can get” then women are shooting too high for guys they can only get for casual sexWhat evidence do you have? So all top tier men are just players avoiding commitment? Doesn't make sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 03:53 AM |
| 2 | Would you convert to another religion in the hope of getting access to traditional women?The west doesn't value tradition, therefore, growing boys and girls aren't raised to practice or honor traditional ideals and lifestyles. The sexual revolution won, men and women decided they didn't want to have/be virgin brides anymore. This movement was the turning point where we traded traditional ideals for free love and sexual freedom and liberation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 03:51 AM |
| 6 | If “your league is what you can get” then women are shooting too high for guys they can only get for casual sexWhen a woman is able to pull a dude, a win is a win. Him not keeping her is irrelevant because she still received the sex she came for. Just because one top tier dude may be a commitment phobe, or a player who pumps n dumps doesn't mean the lady is aiming too high, and can only receive committment from lower tier men. Cause for every 1 dude who's only looking for a pump n dump, there is at least 1 dude who will gladly date, and committ to her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 03:32 AM |
| 2 | Which of these men is more appealing to a woman?Most women wouldn't go for an average man If a woman doesn't want "average" then thats her perogative, but that doesnt mean all want a small minority of men. What is your definition of average? And also, most men would do the most difficult jobs which is why they would be more likely to outeaen women because women just want the comfortable office jobs. It can easily be seen that women occupy more than office jobs. There are women in government, military, combats arms, in the police and fire depa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 11:04 PM |
| – | I'm not convinced that women's sexuality is shamed more.Yes, there is the slut-shaming double standard, that definitely exists. Then you've just disproved your entire argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Which of these men is more appealing to a woman?Well even when you trust a woman's actions we can see that my above statement checks out. Rage bait that circulates social media has men believing that a vast majority of women only desire men who are 6ft+ tall, make 6 figures, and whatever else. But when we actually observe irl the types of men whom are coupled up with ladies we often see men of various backgrounds, and usually are in the same socio economic level as them and education level. And plus a life of luxury isn't only attainable thru… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 08:50 PM |
| 6 | Which of these men is more appealing to a woman?Exactly! Ive noticed men are socialized so differently from us, like many are told if you don't earn a lot then you're nothing, which is quite sad. But many dudes will take the things they base their worth on, and feel that all of their external qualities 100% translate to what women want, but many completely overlook the emotional aspect that we desire too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 08:01 PM |
| – | Debate: the problem with the dating market is women’s standards are too highWomen can become depressed and anxious over many things. In a study I did back in college, most of the depression and anxiety ladies experience was obtained thru childhood, and turbulent upbringing. Myself included, but that has nothing to do with our standards and the men we seek to date. Just becase a woman has a history of depression/anxiety doesnt mean its because of her dating life/being single | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 07:47 PM |
| – | Debate: the problem with the dating market is women’s standards are too highIf you’d only be happy with a man like that then those aren’t standards - that’s delusion. That's not delusion. Delusion is defined as believing in a reality that is not real. But the fact that these types of men exists, and make up a minority, and women are aware of all this, but still choose to want him, then no, it's not delusion but rather a woman sticking to her standards until she meets her type of man worth committing to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 07:41 PM |
| – | Debate: the problem with the dating market is women’s standards are too highI'm sure they interview all types of women with different interests, but notice how the ones you mention, wanting 6 feet tall, 6 figs etc, get the most attention, and triggers butthurt ppl and arguing. They do this on purpose just for clout, even if it divides men and women. I'd argue womens standards are fine. We all like different things in men, and we cant help whom we are attracted to. Get off the internet, it's giving you a false idea about ladies, and is only leaving you feeling inadequate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 07:24 PM |
| 5 | Which of these men is more appealing to a woman?But notice how many women of this sub are either picking dude 1, or neither! This is indicative that there is a discrepancy between what men think attracts women compared to what women actually desire in a male companion. The fact that some of these ladies mention the emotional aspects are missing, like if he desires children, what is his personality like, can he support me when I'm feeling low.. indicates emotion and compatibility trumps money and luxury. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 07:10 PM |
| 6 | Which of these men is more appealing to a woman?Definitely the first dude 😍 I'm an introverted 27 yo, single, childless woman. We share similar lifestyles - I have my own car and place as well, and prioritize health n fitness, and am told by others I'm beautiful/gorgeous/pretty. This dude is definitely my type irl, and is a better contender for long-term commitment and reproducing healthy children with. I also desire to grow/build with a man and travel together, so idc if he's loaded with $$ because I'd rather supprt someone I'm in love with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Women in their 20s don't want to settle downOkay! Makes sense. I understand ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 01:29 AM |
| 2 | Women in their 20s don't want to settle downLol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 01:28 AM |
| 3 | Women in their 20s don't want to settle downWell I'm in my 20s, so why is it, that many men in this age group will pursue a woman for sex more than anything?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 12:27 AM |
| 2 | Women in their 20s don't want to settle downYes, as I've said everyone desires that. Why leave that part of my quote out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 12:22 AM |
| 5 | Women in their 20s don't want to settle down🎯 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 12:19 AM |
| 5 | Women in their 20s don't want to settle downHave to? Nah! If many more women today are choosing single, childless, career oriented lives, and men are the ones fear mongering women that they're gonna die alone with cats, because she isn't shacking up with some dude, it's evident that not only do men eventually want to settle down, but they also feel they have to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 12:18 AM |
| 19 | Women in their 20s don't want to settle downSo while they are in their 20s they have an abundance of dating options and won't settle on marriage unless it's the perfect guy. Men don't want to settle down either in their 20s, this is exactly why ladies experience an abundance of dating options because many are strictly pursuing girls for sex, and comitment-free situations. If more men valued courting ladies itd be differnt, thats why many married young back in the day, both genders were on par with commitment. Marriage doesn't need to happ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 12:11 AM |
| 2 | The waiting to wed sub is mostly female, why?Not really! Woman owe you jack💩 and they dont have to be how you want them. Fucking grow up. Its 2024, so they don't have to live like its 1950, a regressive time where they had less autonomy. A lot of yall ain't traditional either. Yall ain't wear none of those nice suits anymore, or even have the patience to court a lady, like men of the past did. All yall wanna do is fuck, fuck, fuck, and lead on (as you've said) making girls think you wanna commit to them, which is what they want, but no yal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 10:42 PM |
| 3 | The waiting to wed sub is mostly female, why?What in the world?? A woman is wasting her time dealing with a man like that. Yall on this sub all the time. I complain about having to pass women's shit tests, but ur basically admitting that men do the same. So you'll play with a womans emotions and string her a long to see if she loves and appreciates you, and use her as a resource for sex when usually those emotions come with a commitment and a relationship, but yet if she doesn't play along to his stupid game, then she's not wife material??… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 10:25 PM |
| 2 | The waiting to wed sub is mostly female, why?Delusional is the internet's favorite word, but sadly yall use it in contexts it doesn't apply to, like this one Maybe spend less time focusing on what women do with THEIR OWN bodies, and spend more time befriending a dictionary How would you know any of what you just said is even remotely true? You need to understand a woman's body count only goes up, when a dude fucks her, simultaneously bringing his up too. But I don't see you throwing shade at the dudes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 10:05 PM |
| 3 | The waiting to wed sub is mostly female, why?But earlier you said in another comment you don't want marriage, you want sex. So do you admit to being a whore too then? Deuce Bigolow, male gigolo! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 09:58 PM |
| 1 | The waiting to wed sub is mostly female, why?Because women generally value commitment at young ages and throughout life, more often than dudes who seem to wanna strictly have casual sex, or remain in commitment free connections, especially in their 20s. So if the majority demographic of women are young on that sub, it checks out because the dudes in their age groups aren't wanting to wed yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 09:52 PM |
| – | "You're not competing with other men, but her peace of mind" actually you are competing with her situationshipsWhen did "not always know" become "this happens to socially inept men and/or me quite often"? My reading comprehension is great. I've never said this only happens to socially inept men, and not me. I simply said if you have a hard time understanding who's unavailable and also believe it requires vast amounts of time n energy, then you may not know how to read and pick up on social cues to learn those things. That's all. why are we assuming the emotionally unavailable person is acting morally. I'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 09:12 PM |
| – | "You're not competing with other men, but her peace of mind" actually you are competing with her situationshipsRight! Some dudes are so dead set on having it their way, they miss out on learning how to read ppl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Is There Such Thing as an "INVALID" Reason to Not Date Someone?No! We can't help whom we're are attracted to. If someone has a problem with that, they're taking it too personal, and haven't learned how to accept rejection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 07:25 PM |
| – | "You're not competing with other men, but her peace of mind" actually you are competing with her situationshipsYou don't always know. Not at first. That's what's annoying about emotionally unavailable people. Then you're probably not a social person who knows how to read the room and pick up on social cues. If a woman is not available, she'll hardly show interest or invest a lot of time into you, that's vastly different from the behavior of a woman whos happy to be involved with you. Men are the same way. I meet new dudes all the time, and just after a brief convo of asking the right questions, and obser… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 06:30 PM |
| – | "You're not competing with other men, but her peace of mind" actually you are competing with her situationshipsIrrelevant. This is why socializing is important. You can literally find those things out from just talking to, and connecting with the lady. When a woman is emotionally available you'll know, by how she shows up, and how she talks to you. and if a dude wants her. He can just say that, and she'll say whether or not she's single and ready to mingle or preoccupied. In what world would it make sense for ladies to wear a sign consisting of their relationship history? That's just ppl wanting things t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 05:59 PM |
| – | "You're not competing with other men, but her peace of mind" actually you are competing with her situationshipsDo I really need to pull out really obvious stats that have been disseminated countless times? Ah the chronically online dude weilding his weapon of mass destruction. We can look at stats all day, but that don't mean these are the ONLY things women value in men, especially when in love or when one desires longterm connection. I don't like your nature. Murder is natural, and so is rape. Should we tolerate it or do something about it? Aye buddy you ain't gotta like it. But yet I'm sure you've stil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 05:41 PM |
| – | "You're not competing with other men, but her peace of mind" actually you are competing with her situationshipsExcuse me, but looks, money, and status doesn't make a man inherently better than anyone, especially a woman. That's just what yall tell yourselves because this society doesn't teach men how to internally value themselves and truly embrace your masculinity. So yall measure your worth based on what you HAVE, but not who you ARE or what you VALUE Women are supposedly hypergamous by nature, so it doesn't make sense to scold them for "dating up" especially when you believe a man's worth and success … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 05:05 PM |
| – | "You're not competing with other men, but her peace of mind" actually you are competing with her situationshipsHypothetically speaking, let's say a woman does happen to have a dude she's fucking on the side, hypothetically. Why do you wanna make it harder on yourself and compete with that? Opposed to simply going for a woman who's 100% single and emotionally available to you? Do you want her simply because another man "has" her? Are 100% single girls a turn-off to you. I just don't understand why choose to jump thru extra hoops. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 04:36 PM |
| – | Women settle down with and seriously date lesser men, but still hold toxic men from their past in a higher regard.Fuck enough women so that you know what you’re doing, fuck whoever you’re with everytime like it’s the last time Also helps to not be with someone who is ran through, but that may be tougher nowadays. Uhm. Then maybe don't fuck all the women. It doesn't make sense to encourage men to fuck, fuck, fuck, but then also turn around and complain how it's harder to find a non ran thru girl. Supply n demand hunty This is exactly why Red Pill content is a piece of 💩 to me Another case of rules for thee, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 03:52 PM |
| 0 | Even if dating apps were majority women, they results would still be the samehigh PHYSICAL standards nearly all women are now adopting. Not every man is meant to reproduce. Women aren't "just now" adopting their standards, it's always been this way, to seek out men with the most favorable genetics, and reproduce fit children. And we see it throughout many animal kingdoms, i.e peacocking. The males fan out their features to show the females, "I am a male worth reproducing with over the others" That's exactly why 2 male roosters in the same hen house fight, as they want to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 12:13 PM |
| -1 | Even if dating apps were majority women, they results would still be the sameThat's just biology at work. Women are highly selective by nature, regardless if they're the best or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 11:57 AM |
| 2 | Makeup is basically a mask and it reflects women's insecurity.The post is about makeup as a whole, and it's not about you specifically. Oh but it was earlier. You said I'm insecure. You wanted me to take that personally. But lol now that my motives don't fit with your narrative you wanna act like "oh it's not personal". Cop out So you do wear it. Isn't that what I just said. Like ultimately what do you want here?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 11:36 AM |
| 2 | Makeup is basically a mask and it reflects women's insecurity.See but that where you're wrong. I don't wear a "mask full of chemicals" but thanks for thinking u know everything I only wear eyeliner, a lil mascara and sometimes lip stick. And I only stick to the vegan brands, because Im vegetarian/vegan in my personal life, and I don't care about harsh chemicals either. I already have clear, beautiful skin, and don't need foundation to make my skin look more appealing, as you assume.. I only wear make up once every several weeks to have a certain look. So l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 11:07 AM |
| 2 | Makeup is basically a mask and it reflects women's insecurity.Okay so when you wake up one day and feel especially good, put a suit on (or nice outfit on), groom your hair, put on cologne etc. That's hiding unattractive aspects?? Make up is an accessory, no more than any of the other things I've mentioned. Bro ur a dude who doesn't understand makeup so stop telling women what they're using it for, when it's obvious there're MANY purposes for it, and reasons we put it on. Honestly I think you're a very insecure dude who's probably chronically single. So you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 10:53 AM |
| 6 | Makeup is basically a mask and it reflects women's insecurity.We used to not care, just picked the best looking ones. trying to outdo each other with makeup in a sort of an "arms race". This is exactly what also contributes to this "make up arms race" women are very observant and see how men respond to women who wear it, thats inclusice to these IG baddies, and romantic interests in eveyday life. If yall dudes claim to "pick the best looking ones" it indicates to women make up is valuable beyond self expression, but also for sex appeal, and attracting men.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 10:46 AM |
| 2 | Makeup is basically a mask and it reflects women's insecurity.It's superficial, It's fake. It's basically a form of deception and dishonesty, and Oh wow, so I must be really deceiving people into thinking I truly have blue eyelids while wearing blue eyeliner. Damn yall can't tell that red lips aren't natural as well. If you are a man, and you allow yourself to be deceived by makeup, then that's a personal problem, not a woman's. So in the long run, it doesn't do women any good You're no one to tell a woman what's good for her, especially when you aren't on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 10:35 AM |
| 0 | What would make you take a casual hook up serious?I think it's great when a woman desires to commit to one man and love him unconditionally. It's degrading to devalue someone as a sex object. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 10:13 PM |
| 2 | The only reason women have the upper hand is because men are way hornier and therefore want and need them more than vice versa, yet women won’t even acknowledge this very obvious factThen OP complain about this to the women who you personally know in your social circles, with those clashing beliefs. What do you persoanlly expect a bunch of internet randos to do here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 09:13 PM |
| 2 | The only reason women have the upper hand is because men are way hornier and therefore want and need them more than vice versa, yet women won’t even acknowledge this very obvious factNo! They have their own ambitions that motivate them to do as they please. We don't base our actions off of yall | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 09:06 PM |
| 2 | The only reason women have the upper hand is because men are way hornier and therefore want and need them more than vice versa, yet women won’t even acknowledge this very obvious factAs women, many of us already know yall are more keen on approaching us because yall are easy and will look for any opportunity for sex. What do you want to happen here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 09:04 PM |
| 1 | How does a naturally nice person go about being less nice without being an outright dickhead?Ain't no one say how much dough 💰they working with here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 08:07 PM |
| 0 | Women love chasing men, they just don’t admit it or flat out deny it.I don't need to do any of that 💩 when I'm a woman who does that in my own life, and often meet women who do the same. I'm a very social person, and constantly meet ladies in the bathroom, or where ever and we gush over the dudes we like and hype eachother up, and celebrate when we get his number, his IG or SC. I've literally made friends this way, and have even attended a wedding of a friend who approached a man first Sounds like you need to touch some grass. The world irl is a lot more greater … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Women love chasing men, they just don’t admit it or flat out deny it.Soruce???? If more women approach you'd, your views would be otherwise. Looks like ArmariumEspata is right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Women love chasing men, they just don’t admit it or flat out deny it.Hyperbolic! Okay youre only one person, who really only has access to a small handful of women in your social circles... in a world of nearly 4 billion ladies. So you don't know what 99% do, as that's roughly 3.96 billion women. I highly doubt you've Interacted with that many. Just because YOU haven't personally experienced women going after you, because they found you attractive doesn't mean they don't shoot their shot. When ladies REALLY want someone they go for it. End of story. You're just i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 04:34 PM |
| – | Women are objectively cuter.I think that the cult of feminism promises unrealistic things to women like that they can have their cake and eat it too I'd argue this is exactly how traditional patriarchy is, and still is today. Giving men so much power, like the fact that they believe they have a right to slut Shame girls, just shows how man still wanna exercise having power and control over women's actions. And the fact that they'll pat eachother on the back for having a high n count, while thinking low of a girl who does t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 04:23 PM |
| -1 | Women love chasing men, they just don’t admit it or flat out deny it.Excuse me, but are you a woman? Even if you are, how do you know what most do? Fact of the matter is that women do go after men they want. Who tf do you think girls are going to then, if not the dudes, whom they are heavily attracted to (especially of the swipe right, and match w the dude on tinder) I'm a lady who goes after the men I like. I know other ladies who do this as well, and whenever I'm at a social Hotspot I even see girls shooting their shot in public I don't understand why that's su… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 04:08 PM |
| 2 | What would make you take a casual hook up serious?Yea its tricky. It seems like ppl easily attract the opposite of what they truely want. I wonder why that is. Maybe beasue when we really want it, our longing for it simultaneously pushes it away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 11:08 AM |
| – | Women are objectively cuter.Not at all. I think women in general are lovely, but western women are mostly meh, through no fault of their own, but rather their upbringing. These two statements contradict eachother. If you have two separate independent clauses, and the statement that proceeds the first is lead with 'but' you're negating the first statement. You think women are lovely, but only when they're cute, not fat, not a feminist, and non-western? Hmm? What is you're reasoning for thinking women of North America, Canad… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 10:56 AM |
| 2 | What would make you take a casual hook up serious?Nothing. I don't see the causal hookup dudes as boyfriend material. Yes, I categorize some dudes as hook up only. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 10:33 AM |
| 1 | The lies growing upYes, we become hard wired during our habit formation years, 0-7 years old, and what we're exposed to in nature, as well as how we are nutured by own parents/guardians is what's responsible for our dominant beliefs, and actions. People can change their hardwired habits, thru self awareness and actively replace an old habit with a new one. I don't see what point you're making with Bezos and Musk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 10:11 AM |
| 1 | The lies growing upThose are all learned behaviors tho, that were most likely passed down to them thru observing the behavioral patterns of their parents. Because if some children are like that, while others are well mannered, polite, and respectful shows it has to do more with how they're nutured opposed to it being inherent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 09:31 AM |
| 6 | The lies growing upI'd argue that the things children are taught when young, "sharing is caring", "clean up, everybody do your share" and being kind and considerate etc is actually right But what we get wrong is the aggressiveness. Ruring the transition from adolescence to adult, we become corrupt by society and others who take advantage of us. So we harden ourselves. Notice how children aren't born racist, they don't hate one gender, or are self servicing. If anything they are just love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 09:00 AM |
| 1 | "The Ick" is just another way of saying "a turn-off"What is it about specifically a woman recognizing something she doesn't find attractive that makes the some dudes on this sub so wroth? It's not like men have "turn-offs" and "icks" as well. Because a woman who has certain turn offs she won't accept indicates she's a woman with standards. And many dudes, their standards are either non existent, or they only require that you're a woman. That's it. So those dudes will take personal offense to anything that indicates he could be eliminated as an op… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 08:13 AM |
| 14 | Women love chasing men, they just don’t admit it or flat out deny it.What is your definition of chase? Simply going for the guy she's attracted to? Yea! Women are not that different from men in that way. They too get dopamine rushes, when they lay eyes on a person of interest. They, too, have lustrous thoughts, that are motivated by sex, and desire | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 08:06 AM |
| 1 | How does a naturally nice person go about being less nice without being an outright dickhead?But in order to do that, one needs access to certain resources that may not be readily available to them, and aren't necessary if they do the enternal work in their current location. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 07:52 AM |
| 5 | How does a naturally nice person go about being less nice without being an outright dickhead?Everything you've listed in bold font, omit those actions. It's not gonna get you anywhere meaningful w a woman. What you need to do is be assertive. Be someone who has self respect, and boundaries nice can be boiled down to refusing to put your own gratification over other people's wellbeing, and generally striving to make others feel better about themselves That's not "nice" that's ppl pleaser mentality. It's not your responsibility to put others ppls happiness over your own. If you're constan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 07:47 AM |
| – | "More women should make the first move" yeah, and it would still be like TinderRegardless there's truth to what I said. Yea it's a silly lil movie, but it's 100% true that you become who you surround yourself with. Incels keep other people single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 07:31 AM |
| – | Women are objectively cuter.You're not understanding what I'm asking But thanks for calling me delusional, a word everyone over uses on the internet, even though it's not relevant to the context What I'm basically saying is, you have a very negative and low outlook on ladies. If u and other men are turned off by the negative things toxic feminists, and misandrists say about men, your views on women, and the way you speak of them are the flip side of the same coin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 06:47 AM |
| 3 | Should men be encouraged to still pursue women who are in relationships, or engaged, so long as they're not married?No! Taken ppl are 100% off limits. Plus, taken ppl cannot be emotionally available to the single dude or dudette, so that "love" could never go deep Even if "the ink isn't dry" thats means nothing. Some people will be in a committed relationship 4 life, without ever marrying, because they dont want/need a ring / contract to solidify their connection. If a man is successful in getting a gf via taking her away from her man, then that girl and guy are both 🚩 it means he doesn't respect peoples rela… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 06:29 AM |
| – | Women are objectively cuter.So women will agree with you saying this about them? These days women lose their cuteness when they turn obese or feminist and this sadness of a dating market is what we get. Sounds shallow af, but if ladies agree with u then, enjoy!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 04:02 AM |
| – | "More women should make the first move" yeah, and it would still be like TinderYou seen that movie Hitch? Well Will Smiths chatacter was the ladies' man who likes women, who also understands them enough to get the girl. His client, Kevin James' character was basically an incel. Notice how he only obtained success with attracting the girl he's been wanting forever by listening to a date expert. Not other incels. You become like the ppl you hang around. So remember that, next time you give soo much to credit to incels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 02:27 AM |
| 0 | Women are objectively cuter.These days women lose their cuteness when they turn obese or feminist and this sadness of a dating market is what we get. Thats a very first world thing to say. Oh it must be so sad, women valuing their rights, and also not appealing to your gaze. Oh whatever will you do. There are bigger problems than women being undesirable, and unavailable to you. I'd argue whats also sad about today's dating market are the vast amounts of low quality men, who don't actually like women, but still flood the da… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 09:29 PM |
| – | Why does society only entertain the idea of choice when it's comes to women??If the baby is not mutually agreed the default should be abortion, I'm sorry but that's a very immature mindset. So ppl wanna be grown and mature enough to fuck whoever they want, but don't have the maturity to talk about the consequences that come with sex- which literally is to make a baby, and make a desion on what to before hand. Going to get am abortion isn't like a simple trip to the bank or grocery store. It can be a traumatizing experience for a woman, especially if the father abandons h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 09:09 PM |
| – | Why does society only entertain the idea of choice when it's comes to women??Women really should stop burdening them with babies A woman cant burden a man with a baby, thats literally his child, HE helped create. Imagine if your father said that about your mother, while preggo with you. it's not like she's the virgin, Mary and just became pregnant. If a man feels a child is such a burden, then he needs to take accountability and keep it in his pants. When a man has sex, he's allowing the woman the opportunity to decide how to move forward with childbirth. He can't compla… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 09:01 PM |
| – | "More women should make the first move" yeah, and it would still be like TinderYes. We approach men we are attracted to. The only reason the traditional "man approaches woman " was the norm is because that's how men wanted it to be, while the women remain coy and pure. But since the sexual revolution and early feminist movements, this entitled women to a sense of freedom to also have a say in the men they pick and have sex with. Men liked this. They figured it'd be free sex for ALL, but it backfired, as women are only picking certain types of men to have all the sex with. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 08:09 PM |
| 2 | Women like men who know more about relationships than they do.Just because I shared 1 story about 1 dude who has experience, yall will jump to conclusions.. okay. Obvi if we went our separate ways due to being incompatible in that way, obviously that shows I desire a man who hasn't been around the block multile times, and has too much experience. That was the point of my post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 01:22 AM |
| -1 | Women like men who know more about relationships than they do.Nice try, but yes I'm aware I pick the dudes i date . Plus, that was only one dude , and I broke that 💩 off with him. Y do you personally care if I date a dude with too much experience vs none? It ain't black n white like that there are also intermediate levels of dating experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 11:41 PM |
| -1 | Women like men who know more about relationships than they do.They do. I think some of yall don't wanna accept it. Because in other posts men complain about ladies and their standards, the 80/20 rule, and Chad. So its evident many ladies know exactly what they want in a man. And if you truly believe they can't identify what they want, then like someone else who is AWARE of what they want instead of sulking. It's that simple | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Women like men who know more about relationships than they do.You asking for this, is like asking for world peace. Swallow the red pill and learn life isn't gonna be butterflies n rainbows dating women. You're gonna come across a lot of ppl who are self serving, dishonest, and lack self awareness. It's just life. But you can't expect them to start doing anything, when we all have free will. But that doesn't mean that's how all women definitively are, just align yourself with ladies who don't lie and have high emotional intelligence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Women like men who know more about relationships than they do.Thats a lame excuse. some of the advice here is just as bland and misinforming as those statements (ex: this post). So I guess until then just keep following misinformed advice from men, right. Which will keep perpetuating these types of posts We're social creatures, just go out and do shit. Mingle, meet women, observe how they are irl, and how they respond to YOU. Practice getting back up after rejection. Go out n live ur life opposed to resorting to blame, or victim mentality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 04:13 PM |
| 10 | Women like men who know more about relationships than they do.Yes! This. I was involved with a dude who had "too much" experience dating women. He kept comparing me to his ex gfs, AND ex flings. And when I desired something that was out of the ordinary to him, in the bedroom, he'd say "well the other girls didn't need me to do this much, I could just f*ck then and they'd cum" he didn't wanna do it because it was too much work. Waa When really I just know what I like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 04:04 PM |
| -1 | Women like men who know more about relationships than they do.Why not let women identify whom and what dynamics they desire in relationships? And they can tell the men. You can't speak for all women, because we all desire varying things. Posts like this are misleading to men, yall will go out into the real world n this isn't 100%, you'll get disappointed, then circle back here to write another complaint about how women make things hard. Perpetuating the cycle. As a woman, it's a 🚩to me when a man has "too much" experience dating women. If he's had many, ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Truth be told, as delusional as women are a man’s greatest enemy is always going to be the desperation of other men. No matter how well your deck is stacked, if you have standards there is always going to be someone willing to work harder than you for less. You simply cannot compete with this."Delusional" rn seems to be the internet/social media's most famous word to the point where ppl apply it to any statement. This is odd because delusion is a serious mental illness n ppl ain't doctors or psychologists, to even be "diagnosing" others like that. It's very easy to call ladies delusional, but the fact is, many aren't, and men who keep saying that about ladies, are simply perpetuating their lack of accountability for oneself, and fail to observe how he plays a part in his own dating f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 03:30 PM |
| 11 | Men are more likely to grow in a break-up than a woman.Well according to legally blonde, other women get accepted to Harvard University, and become lawyers. Men and womens, coping strategies, post breakup are based on the individual, not gender | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 08:13 AM |
| 2 | How valid are womens fears of men?Yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 05:40 AM |
| 5 | Truth be told, as delusional as women are a man’s greatest enemy is always going to be the desperation of other men. No matter how well your deck is stacked, if you have standards there is always going to be someone willing to work harder than you for less. You simply cannot compete with this.That's very interesting you have a girlfriend who does that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 04:26 AM |
| 1 | How valid are womens fears of men?Right on ✅️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 03:44 AM |
| 2 | Truth be told, as delusional as women are a man’s greatest enemy is always going to be the desperation of other men. No matter how well your deck is stacked, if you have standards there is always going to be someone willing to work harder than you for less. You simply cannot compete with this.Think positive to attract positive outcomes does not help women want to be in a relationship with you. It helped me. Why are you bringing up players? They're not emotionally available to women for a relationship. I'm speaking on emotionally available guys who desire relationships. When you think low of the opposite gender, it only attracts ppl who also think and treat your gender negatively. But when we think positive, we're aligned with other clear minded people, who respect and think highly of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Truth be told, as delusional as women are a man’s greatest enemy is always going to be the desperation of other men. No matter how well your deck is stacked, if you have standards there is always going to be someone willing to work harder than you for less. You simply cannot compete with this.I don't understand how this is relevant to my comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 02:46 AM |
| 1 | How valid are womens fears of men?Well u can't speak for all of them. Nice try | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 02:45 AM |
| 4 | How valid are womens fears of men?Women are strong and independent and they don't need us to protect them 👍 Right! Dudes who makes comments like this are in the bottom 80% of dudes who women don't fuck with, then yall scratch ur heads and wonder why, less women are either opting to be single or only give the time of day to a stud, at the top. It's okay, a big strong MASCULINE man, in the top 20, with favorable genetics will protect us. There's a reason why women flock to them. Cause what you said is Beta talk. BetaSux | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 01:52 AM |
| 2 | How valid are womens fears of men?It's not sexist if it's true. Men on average commit most crimes. And if ladies can attest to a crime committed against them, then they are valid to feel the way they do. Yall are sexist every day on this sub, but then can't take it when it's dished back out. Weak | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 12:56 AM |
| 4 | How valid are womens fears of men?Please tell me what women need to be ashamed of? You're literally crying right now over women who don't feel personally safe due to the experiences they've endured with men. If you know you are a safe dude, whose not guilty of harming/harassing a woman, then why are you making a big deal? Nearly every post, everyday in this sub is some dude making sexist comments and generalizations about women, that other men just upvote and support. But when the tables r turned, we're supposed to feel ashamed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 12:52 AM |
| 17 | Truth be told, as delusional as women are a man’s greatest enemy is always going to be the desperation of other men. No matter how well your deck is stacked, if you have standards there is always going to be someone willing to work harder than you for less. You simply cannot compete with this.Truth be told, as delusional as women are This is exactly why you struggle with women. You wanna date women, but yet you think low of them, as if they're in lala land. Think positive, to attract positive outcomes. Would you date a woman, who has the exact same mindset as you? Are you your types type? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 12:37 AM |
| 6 | How valid are womens fears of men?Then don't bitch and complain when a vast majority of women cluth their pearls, and don't feel safe around yo ass, or other men. When I was in the US Army, we always sang the soldiers creed, and "I will always treat others with dignity and respect, and expect others to do the same" is sadly lost in translation in the civilian world. The fact that yall can't even show basic respect to fellow humans, and think it's entitlement is exactly what is fvcked up about this society. Yall have all that str… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 11:43 PM |
| 9 | How valid are womens fears of men?Well I honor the guidelines of this sub, and don't downvote as instructed soo.. 👀 in the famous words of Shaggy and Rik rok 🎵"It wasn't me"🎵 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 11:28 PM |
| 4 | How valid are womens fears of men?Ok! Then omit that example then. My original claim still stands | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 11:22 PM |
| 8 | How valid are womens fears of men?Why are you offended about women who live in fear of men? R u just sad because it's less women who are options to you? Waaa | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 10:51 PM |
| 16 | How valid are womens fears of men?99% of men when told explicitly to stop will Don't speak for all men. The stats on Sexual assault cases and rape dont agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 10:47 PM |
| 10 | How valid are womens fears of men?Nobody desires or aspires to live in fear. Ofc their feelings are valid. A lot of men today don't care to protect or respect women (ie this sub). Many just see them as sex objects, and get out of hand when their advances are rejected A man hit a girl in the face, with a brick, and not a single man, not even his friends, helped her. And then you have the audacity question if women are irrational for fearing men who have shown we can't feel safe with some of yall Funny how you'll question a woman … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 10:44 PM |
| – | How can the average woman afford to be so picky with who she dates?And if most men are jumping through hoops to talk to women, all women become entitled to that behavior. All women? That's a far reach. And what exactly do you mean by "entitled"? Explain this behavior to me, and what it looks like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 07:59 PM |
| 0 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityExactly! In the secular west, we had the sexual revolution. Decades ago, we as a society decided to trade traditional norms, with sexual freedom and liberation. Men have chosen to NOT want pure virgin wives anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 07:21 PM |
| – | How will WW3 effect the SMP?If ur too old to be drafted, then ur too old to be fucking young girls. Especially if other men who stay behind, adopt the same mindset. It'll just be another competitive game, war edition | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 07:14 PM |
| – | How will WW3 effect the SMP?If we experience WWIII, I'm sure more people will be concerned about the well-being, and safety of this county, not about who they can fuck. Men can only evade drafting on special circumstances. Like if they're a minister, or a single father w full custody. It's not something men can voluntarily opt out of, and just chill. They'd call it volunteering, instead of drafting The baby boomer generation is known for being so large due to ppl fucking like rabbits, AFTER the war, not DURING. All the wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 07:08 PM |
| – | How can the average woman afford to be so picky with who she dates?If one man is pursing, or jumping through hoops to talk to a woman, other men are most likely attempting to pursue her too. It's in a woman's best interest to pick the lad who best fits her ideal mate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 06:52 PM |
| -2 | Women can't have agency while also being perpetual victimsYour claims doesn't make sense If you voluntarily sign up to be objectified: you. are. not. a. victim. People can simply post a picture or video of themselves, that receive tons of unwarranted hate and shame for not reason. Doesn't mean the person can't become a victim of the hate and bullying. That's like telling someone, they are responsible for other ppls spiteful behavior. If you voluntarily sign up to be sexualized: you. are. not. a. victim. Thats the thing, is sometimes ppl DONT sign up to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that women have higher standards for casual sex and for a relationship?Why would you have higher standards for relationships when casual sex incurs greater risk? when I've had casual sex, it's strictly about the act, and pleasure. All I require is the man be a little cute, healthy, and share a good vibration w me. To me, the risk is greatest when practicing unprotected sex. But when it comes to a relationship, I invest more time and energy into standards I have for a boyfriend/husband. That's when I'll value more like, how he treats me, emotional availability, his … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 08:26 AM |
| 3 | There are a lot more certain attractive qualities a man must have compared to a woman in order to have a healthy and fulfilling relationship.Why do you believe they're rare? There are nearly 4 billion women on this earth, and you only interact with a small handful of them in your social circles, and your thoughts and internal feelings about yourself and others are what dominates the reality you see, and experience. When you affirm that women are immature, and mentally unstable, why would the universe ever show you otherwise? The more you affirm it, the more you'll find yourself in situations with women who confirm they are immature a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 06:30 AM |
| -3 | What is the equivalent of America Ferrera's famous speech in the Barbie movie, but for men?You don't think Cillian Murphy was nominated for developing the atomic bomb, do you? No. I'm aware of American History. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 12:33 AM |
| -4 | What is the equivalent of America Ferrera's famous speech in the Barbie movie, but for men?No! She's recognized for that speech, and was nominated for an Oscar for best supportive actress. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 12:19 AM |
| -5 | What is the equivalent of America Ferrera's famous speech in the Barbie movie, but for men?Poor speech? What she said was so true and liberting that she was nominated for her first Oscar. I'd argue there is a happy medium for all the points you've mentioned. Like if you can't distinguish confidence between not being cocky, then a man is creating his own problems with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 11:53 PM |
| 5 | The entire “if a girl is really into you, you’ll know and there is nothing that can dissuade her” narrative really needs to die already. This is completely false, and is misleading generations of men.🎯 And bingo was his name-o | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 06:50 PM |
| 1 | The entire “if a girl is really into you, you’ll know and there is nothing that can dissuade her” narrative really needs to die already. This is completely false, and is misleading generations of men.When a woman truly desires a man, and wants to be with him. It will be shown. He'll never have to scratch his head and guess. Even if yall have progressed to later stages, as you've mentioned. Her behavior, the time and energy she invests into you will all show you. Mature ladies, who value the man will do this. The fickle ladies you're speaking on who play mind games are the immature ones who'll leave at anytime. 86 them and focus on a real one 💯 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 06:45 PM |
| 2 | The entire “if a girl is really into you, you’ll know and there is nothing that can dissuade her” narrative really needs to die already. This is completely false, and is misleading generations of men.Because not every woman is fickle. Dudes like to run with that narrative, which is true within an individuals behavior, but it's not limited to all ladies. Only ladies who aren't open, or honest with their feelings or intentions On the flip side of the coin, men are also known for fickle nature too, but that doesn't mean it's all dudes. Women may receive many options from dudes, but that doesn't mean all men are quality. Women are responsible for filtering thru all their options to see who's hon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 06:22 PM |
| 2 | Why do women get turned off if a guy is living with parents even though they live with parents too?Men can be hoes too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 06:31 AM |
| 0 | Why do women get turned off if a guy is living with parents even though they live with parents too?Gotcha! Lol 😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 04:24 AM |
| 0 | Why do women get turned off if a guy is living with parents even though they live with parents too?But why is she a hoe? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 04:08 AM |
| -1 | Why do women get turned off if a guy is living with parents even though they live with parents too?So when girls are turned off by men, it's a silly, irrational ick, but when a dude has a turn off abiut a woman, it becase of major issues? Regardless.. the hate that these demographics of women receive is never justifiable. Don't let your double standards hit you on the way out ✌️🚪 Ps: some of yall down vote over the dumbest shit. Let's see how low we can go | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 09:48 PM |
| -2 | Why do women get turned off if a guy is living with parents even though they live with parents too?They all of a sudden have an ick with her if shes overweight, older, a baby mama, a single mother, and most importantly a sexally active girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that women have higher standards for casual sex and for a relationship?Good for you. So ur a hypocrite. So u believe in men using girls recreationally just as they're using u for the same thing, but then feel you/men are deserving of a woman who is not a "hoe" why do u think a wife material girl would want a husband who previously used girls "recreationally" either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 08:51 PM |
| 2 | Is it true that women have higher standards for casual sex and for a relationship?Who cares! A woman is allowed to enjoy sex, if she's solid in her morals and beliefs and values/respects men that has nothing to do with her level of commitment to a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that women have higher standards for casual sex and for a relationship?Like what exactly? Men will do what they wanna do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Why do women get turned off if a guy is living with parents even though they live with parents too?You tell me. Show me where I said " I/me/my" Equality is only something ppl care about in society Notice how I'm referring to other ppl, and that some have this belief. But where did I ever share my own? I didn't!! That's not how nature works That's Straight up fact. Life and mother nature doesn't care about how fair or equal something is, ppl do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Why do women get turned off if a guy is living with parents even though they live with parents too?Either way take it up with OPs girl, not me. I've never shared any personal claims about my beliefs. Bye! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 07:49 PM |
| -1 | Why do women get turned off if a guy is living with parents even though they live with parents too?You’re the one that came up with this stupid ass rationalization. Well you're choosing to be entertained by stupid so what does that say about you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 07:48 PM |
| -1 | Why do women get turned off if a guy is living with parents even though they live with parents too?You're sexist and you don't even realize it. Gtfoh! Ive never shared any personal claims about how I view men or women. I've never shared any of my personal beliefs about equality and if I even value it. Why are you projecting? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 07:46 PM |
| -8 | Why do women get turned off if a guy is living with parents even though they live with parents too?But that’s the thing, they are not doing the same labour. You don't know that. Work in payroll n show me the proof! Bye! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 07:36 PM |
| 0 | Why do women get turned off if a guy is living with parents even though they live with parents too?What's complaining to me gonna do? Idk if this lady wants the man to have more than her, that was a speculation of mine. There could be a million reasons outside of them being in the same living situation as to why her tone changed. It could have nothing to do with equality. Take it up with OPs girl, not me! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 07:34 PM |
| 0 | Why do women get turned off if a guy is living with parents even though they live with parents too?Tell this to the girl OP is talking to, not me! Her beliefs are what you have a problem with. Why are you giving me a lesson on things I'm already aware of. Ppl are gonna be hypocrites, because at the end of the day a lot of us are self serving. Plus you're not a selfless Saint, I'm sure if you reflect on your core beliefs and actions you too will find there are double standards you uphold. Everyone at least has turned someone down, or been turned off by someone over some petty bs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 07:28 PM |
| 0 | Why do women get turned off if a guy is living with parents even though they live with parents too?Oh my lord what is all this talk about equality? That is not even in the question. This woman never said if she even desires equality. So why are you asking me?? Ask OP to personally get you in touch with this girl, and ask her, not me. They only have a problem when it affects them negatively. Rules for thee not for me. When patriarchy gave men all the power, men didn't give a fuck about equality. Equality didn't even become a thing until WOMEN started demanding it. but now when a girl rejects a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 07:14 PM |
| -1 | Why do women get turned off if a guy is living with parents even though they live with parents too?So in the end, women must be equal with men but men cannot be equal with women. You're reaching way too much, to confirm your own personal biases. No one brought up equality until you started mentioning it, no one ever said women must be equal, while men cannot be equal. You only care about equality when it doesn't benefit the man. But unless the man is "above" the lady you don't have a problem with it. Because if this scenario played out where the dude has his own place and the woman doesn't. Y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 06:59 PM |
| -8 | Why do women get turned off if a guy is living with parents even though they live with parents too?As in? What're some scenarios you've observed Edit: some of yall down vote over the stupidest shit. All a sister is tryna do is learn, damn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 06:30 PM |
| -6 | Why do women get turned off if a guy is living with parents even though they live with parents too?Because she's doesn't have her own place, nor does he, so it makes trying to have private time togeher a little more difficult. She know her situation, but wasn't aware the dude would be in the same boat as her. Not every woman desires equality in that way a lot of women still desire a man to provide, due to hypergamy, and also women just being conditioned to believe so. Equality is only something ppl care about in society to promote equal opportunity but that doesn't mean everything must play o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Study shows men view their ex partners much more fondly than women do, matches up with my experience. What are your thoughts?I agree! I recently had a dude friend I was casual with. And throughout the time we were involved, he'd talk about several of his exes to me, and share the memories. Unless she cheated on him, he still thought somewhat highly of them and even kept in contact, in spite of their differences. Although this is one dude, I've found this somewhat consistent with other mens' stories. Which makes sense because I guess that's how some couples are "on again, off again" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 06:08 PM |
| 75 | Why do women get turned off if a guy is living with parents even though they live with parents too?Because she expects you to have more than what she has | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 05:58 PM |
| – | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?I'm sorry dude ❤️ Some ladies just don't know how to respect men, or be receptive to them. Wishing you the best ✌️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 05:34 PM |
| – | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?You can see this in the gay community, bi guys say it’s way easier hooking up with dudes. And bi women say it’s way harder to match with women. Yes I agree with you 100% and I see what you mean about the LGB community too, I've tried to get something started with girls before n it's a lot harder compared to attracting men, as a lady | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 05:05 PM |
| – | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?And the sky ain't blue. Correction ✅️ anyone can be shallow. Look at the way some dudes will treat women just for not being thin, fit, or slim 👀 or if a lady is a baby mama or single mother. Dudes treat these ladies like they're scum of the earth, and the worst type of human to ever grace this planet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 04:51 PM |
| 2 | "Giving up on modern ........."Let's not gender profile. Women didn't make hook up culture, because then whats the free love movement of the 1960s? Men and women chose to fuck eachother. So hookup culture was a societal decision And plus as much as men want sex, and are open to the idea of sex anytime with any woman, and even multiple women, it's quite clear men had their hand in the pot too. So regardless if women "made" it or not, if anything the market fir sex is oversaturated with men. Look at strip clubs, OF, Tinder etc.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 04:44 PM |
| – | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?That's interesting. So what was dating like preceeding all these apps? Like what did ppl do back then when they decided, "I desire a bf/gf"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 03:55 PM |
| – | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?Thank you for this explanation! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?Ok gotcha. Makes sense. So then how.do you respond | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 08:04 AM |
| 0 | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?Aye yo! Thanks for that detailed response dude or dudette. We should go surfing somewhere along the California cost and hang 10. Be there so be square. Yo! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 08:01 AM |
| 2 | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?Chad is a personification of all the men a lady chose to be with that weren't you. For you to call a man Chad as if he's some superhuman who was able to pull the women, men wish they could fuck/date is indicative that you, and other men (who believe in this elusive Chad) subconsciously place other men above you. When really Chad is just another simple, and typical everyday man, just like the women who are flocking to him. Have any of these women actually said to you Aye man look, so I fucked up … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 07:49 AM |
| 1 | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?Men today are as good as they ever were and yet the majority aren't even good enough for most of today's women due to out of whack standards. Every woman has different standards and each desire different things for their top 20% dudes. So what i desire in a man is completely different from what my sister desires, my lady neighbors, and my lady friends. We each desire different types of men, so diffeent types of men are picked. The world's population is 7 billion ppl, which is a record high in al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 07:17 AM |
| 0 | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?Source? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 07:10 AM |
| 1 | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?The top options of men are generally into pump and dump. I don't agree that all top men are strictly looking to fuck. They're human too and eventually desire the closeness and vulnerability that comes with a relationship. Plus the wall isn't real. It's always something men talk about but never the women. Men just want it to be real so they can feel thag they have some upper advantage but in reality if men wanna fuck, they fuck anyone willing and able. My mom is 50 and she hasn't hit this wall th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 07:09 AM |
| 2 | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?You said women who don't fit the normal beauty standards are seen as unattractive ! So stop with the mental gymnastic!! Nah! I didn't say that! I said the media is very specific on what they deem beautiful and worthy within women. And yes usually it is attractice women who are thinner/fitter, and some modelesque. Anytime a woman doesn't fit that, ppl judge the shit out of her, and think she ain't it. That's exactly why you judge fat women. They don't align with what you've been fed as beautiful … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?Gotcha. Thank you 😊 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?as it is the optimal age range to breed. But ppl aren't looking to breed on those sights. If anything more men on average are looking to fuck on those sites. The ladies that desire something more meaningful and commital, usually go off of those sites to meet men who are more serious about dating and wanting to be bfs/husbands and future fathers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 06:47 AM |
| 2 | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?I actually have. I'm open to swinging both ways. And plus as a woman, girls talk. We meet up in bathrooms, or when we see a dude we gush over him in private n spill all the details. Yes I'm not a man that has to appeal to women, but I have learned that yes ladies do like a select few men, but yet the things each individual lady desires in a man are all different. Yes there may be overlap In qualities we like, but usually if I go out with girlfriends, we all usually take an interest in differnt t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 06:44 AM |
| 0 | Is it true that women have higher standards for casual sex and for a relationship?I think standards are higher for casual sex Compared to when ladies are looking for bf/husband material dudes, I'd argue the standards women have when they want casual sex are a lot lower. I can't speak on behalf of all women, but for me, when me and a dude fuck, I only care about if we vibe enough, if he's a lil cute, and his 🍆 I go for what's convenient so a dude's money and his height are irrelevant, that takes too much time to filter thru ppl, when I only want dick, especially considering th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 06:25 AM |
| 1 | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?Gigachad? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?didn't want me before that all of a sudden want me now that I got my money up and they're hitting the wall Ah! Seems like a dude's ultimate revenge fantasy come true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?Good point ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 05:57 AM |
| 2 | "Giving up on modern ........."It's intersting! I can't remember the title of the book but it was written in the 1940s, but took place in the 1920s, the male characters complain about the modern women of that time, for being too opinioned and bold with their clothing and attitude. But then whats ironic is the olden days are glorified as a time where all the women are traditional sweethearts who are more pleasant than the modern women of 2024. Dating in general is difficult, but people don't realize thats how it is, and basica… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 03:24 AM |
| 4 | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?Damn I like this response because you acknowledge that each individual woman is selective of their mates, while also recognizing that each woman has their own type | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 11:50 PM |
| 2 | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?Let's stop capping , there is fat women modelling for Calvein Klein , they may be attractive but not vy the usual way . Oh the horror. A woman with meat on her bones. How will a man ever survive looking at someone sooo, not thin, and unappealing to his gaze and keeping his little head soft. There is litteraly not a single modern female actress that men find attractive . You gotta be shitting me. Then who tf is Megan Fox, Kim K (yes she's basically an actress too), Jennifer Love Hewiit, JLaw, JLo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?And what is defined as the top 20 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 11:24 PM |
| -2 | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?Women put more money into their appearance, not more effort. It's both. The number of men who say they roll put of bed maybe fix their hair and are basxially ready for the day is in higher numbers compared to women who have a whole morning routine for grooming themselves. And that's crazy to fake anything ie extroversion. Lead with fake energy and you'll attract fake ppl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 11:20 PM |
| 4 | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?I like ur take, very thoughful and different. But I'm down voting your comment.......... because I want you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 11:09 PM |
| 2 | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?But look what women are you observing picking men? Are you observing women on social media, women in your social circle?? Or? What is the top 20 that they have determined. And why keep down voting. I'm tryna have a convo n learn 🤓 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 11:01 PM |
| 2 | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?Lol wait what | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?If all men collectively became more attractive overnight, women would still want the same percentage of men. If women value attraction then, and suddenly more dudes become more attractive, then that means there are more dudes to go around. So hypothically speaking, the percentage will increase, when we hypothically consider that only 20% of men are getting picked.. hypothically | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?I don't think it dissapears, I just don't think it's a 100% representation of real life. Tinders focus is sex, and having sex appeal. Whereas irl ppl will value a person more holistically when it comes to pairing off You can’t see/quantify women mentally swiping left on guys in a bar and women may not be as shallow/savage when they feel like they’re being observed and judged by friends or researchers. Yes it can be seen thru her actions. When women like a dude, they either approach or drop subtl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 10:54 PM |
| 0 | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?A 5/10 woman was raised consuming a media that paired women like her with a 9/ 10 men I don't agree. Your implying ppl should pair off with their looksmatch but why? What vakue does that hold. Plus the media is very specific on what is identified as beautiful. Usually we see model tier women and celebrities, whom are usually attractive ppl who are advertised as the standard for beauty and what men should want. Therefore society doesn't openly enourage a 5 getting with a 9. Just watch any film, T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?Due to the patriarchy (which robbed women of their ability to choose mates as freely as men did), many traits that women never found physically attractive in men were able to be passed down at unnaturally high rates. Damn that's super deep! I like your overall take | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 10:39 PM |
| 3 | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?This is honestly what I think too. There are too many women all with their own types and turn ons for thrre to be a consistent roster of men who are the top 20. I think what it also is, the women that they deem attractive and are visble to those dudes are upset that these ladies have options and chose to go date/have sex with other men. They probably compare themselves to the men who do have success and label him as top 20. Which just makes the dude pass off blame, opposed to looking at what he … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?You seem very Insightful. How do u know all this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 10:25 PM |
| 3 | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?I don't agree! With the exception of 2, men will want sex regardless if the woman is 1 or 3. If a woman looks attractive enough, and is willing thats all most men say is required for them to have sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 10:19 PM |
| -4 | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?Do you think it's because less men do things that are attractive to those women. Women are socialized to appeal to the male gaze thru marketing. So it makes sense that many more women on average are attravjce to men. But when you look at the reverse, men aren't upheld to beauty standards that condition them to groom themselves and appeal to the female gaze. So less women desire them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?But look! You're not sleeping with ALL the women, just the ones in your social circle, which is only a small handful of women. Depending on how much one values sex, and their social skills etc. people are going to be sexually active more or less than others. But I see what ur saying. I just think some guys got it going on for them in ways that appeal to more women, but I don't think it's strictly the top 20% of dudes tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 10:08 PM |
| 2 | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?Abd the ones I find attractive I get angry at, irrationally. Do you think your irrationatonal anger comes from the belief that those attractive women won't desire you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 10:00 PM |
| 3 | Is it true that women have higher standards for casual sex and for a relationship?But what does it mean to be top 20, or bottom 80? Like what defines if ur top or bottom? Ultimately i don't think it's real. Too many women all value different things in men for there to be a top 20. Like do these women all decide together who these men are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?Yes yes yes. I love your take. All women can't realistically be chasing the top 20 because each womans ideal man is different. I honestly think people just have sex with eachother, all ppl who are similar to them in some ways opposed to just reaching for the top ppl. And if they're successful or not, doesn't mean there is some rule So where do you think this idea comes from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 09:48 PM |
| -2 | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?So now the question is, why don't more men appeal to the gaze of women? Like what are men doing or what about them makes women deem the majority unattractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 09:28 PM |
| 5 | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?Ok that makes sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 09:27 PM |
| 0 | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?But notice how that term was coined by the incel community, so there is bias behind it. What I'm asking is for an unbiased, objective response on where this rule comes from. Unless this answers my question that this rule only comes from the opinions of a specific subgroup of ppl But how do we know the woman is settling? Do women who go for the beta bux just come right out and say, I'm settling for him?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 09:26 PM |
| 2 | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?Why do you think that is, the idea that more men on average find women attractive but not vice versa Male/female gaze: I'd argue men and women both groom themselves differently. Women on average put more effort into their appearance that makes men attracted to a wide range of pretty women, while a lot of those same men don't invest in their appearance and appeal to the gaze of women. What if men are only more attracted to more women because they're open to the opportunity for sex with those attr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 09:22 PM |
| 0 | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?But women aren't either. I'd argue that in society men and women aren't really socialized on how to properly communicate, or approach eachother hence why ppl experience social anxiety, and resort subtle behavior, like dropping hints | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 09:13 PM |
| 4 | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?But these are all just assumptions tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 09:10 PM |
| 0 | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?I can't even. So do you think the 80/20 is real? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 09:09 PM |
| 12 | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?Why do you think that is? Like why do you think more men on average are attracted to more women. And women want the men less? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 09:06 PM |
| 16 | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?I don't know the ratio is really 80/20, but most women really aren't interested in most men. So then do you think the reverse is true? That most men are interested in most women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 09:02 PM |
| 0 | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?Ok but what about irl. Do you think the 80/20 is consistent the way people say it is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?Wait so you're currently having sex with 15 different women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 08:56 PM |
| 3 | Is it true that women have higher standards for casual sex and for a relationship?But when you claim that women flock to the men in the top 20, then later settle for the bottom implies that only attractive ppl are having sex. Or that only the top dudes are worth going to for sex. But in reality when ppl have sex their standards are usually lower so they're more open to who the act of sex, more than how hot someone is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 08:52 PM |
| 3 | Is it true that women have higher standards for casual sex and for a relationship?That's not entirely true. Sex is one of our oldest and greatest past times, so it's not something that's on reserve for only attractive ppl. The world wouldn't be at 7 billion ppl if your statement was true. so they “settle” for one of the 80% who they previously deemed to be beneath them. How do you know this tho? Do ladies say these men are beneath them? Or is that just how you feel? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 08:21 PM |
| 8 | Is it true that women have higher standards for casual sex and for a relationship?It depends on the woman. But similar to how men group women they're attracted to into "recreational use" or "gf/wife material", women who have causal sex, do the same. So the standards are usually low for the casual sex Plus since women bare a greater risk having casual sex, it makes more sense, and is more worth their time to have higher standards for men they seek a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 08:05 PM |
| 3 | Women demand a partner next to whom they can live an influencer lifestyleWomen who aren't big on social media, or care about influencer status don't expect that from men. Many women are open to living simple, private lives. Source: myself, and other women I associate with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Do you consider makeup, shapewear and image filters as false advertising?Yes for filters, but when it comes to accessorizing, (ie makeup, clothes) no. Women dress up and accessorize for different reasons, some may try to attract ppl, others may see makeup and accessories as a form of self expression and consider false lashes, makeup and what not a part of their style. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 06:08 PM |
| 1 | The way women test their Lover's love is so wrongWhat on earth 🌎 This is a straight up projection. Yall on the internet take things too personal. I'm not speaking on behalf of myself. I'm speaking on a general psychology concept I learned in college, about why ppl test eachother like this. I don't do any of what you said. So you just wasted all that time writing a response that isn't even relevant to what I was saying, or my own life experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 04:33 PM |
| 2 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?I've already answered the question. There's no reason for me to avoid answering. The best 'bang for his buck' a man will ever get is to not look for a woman as if she is a deal, or prize to be won, and instead meet women who respect, honor and value him regardless of money she wants him to invest, or her age. So the virgin or celibate men just don't believe enough. If a man is a virgin, that's on him. His dick isn't gonna magically go into a woman's vagina unless he cultivates a connection that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 08:52 PM |
| 0 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?Your advice tells to look for something that he isn't capable of getting. But why? Anyone is capable of receiving anything if they truly believe. It's implying that women only value looks and money. Which is true for some but it's not definitve that every woman is harsh like that Women all the time are told men value weight n only want small woman, but yet irl we see men desire women of all body types, thick n thin. The same logic applies here. There are many women who allow their love to go dee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 08:42 PM |
| 2 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?You kinda contradict yourself. Lol so if women aren't really attracted to the dude, but want to be provided for, that's a lose for the dude, which is what we bkth agree on. But yet, you mention him getting a bang for his buck. So I don't get it? U want money to be involved or not? Bang for your buck implies ur getting the best deal with what you can provide implying cash money, moola, dough, big bucks, $$$, ka-ching, 💰💰, 🤑🤑. The best 'bang for his buck' a man will ever get is to not look for a w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 08:31 PM |
| 0 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?How? Just because you don't agree? What's the point of the post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 08:07 PM |
| 1 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?Why is it often advised for physically unattractive men to date women their age because younger women are only going to want him for his money? Ppl who spread that advice think 'the wall' is gonna get all or most women circa 30 years of age. These ppl think the only ladies men of all ages are gonna flock to for love/sex/relationships are strictly younger women (<30) They believe women who are 30+ are immediately less attractive, not wife/relationship material, and can't bear healthy children. Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 07:18 PM |
| 1 | The fact that so many women experience hostility when they reject men has less to do with men’s instability and entitlement, and much more to do with women’s delusional standards and inflated egosI understand. It's okay. Thanks 😃 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 05:39 AM |
| 6 | The fact that so many women experience hostility when they reject men has less to do with men’s instability and entitlement, and much more to do with women’s delusional standards and inflated egosIdk I've never implied most men are aggressive. You're free to quote me where you feel I've implied that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible that frequence of meeting a person is the only way to find a meaningful connection in the modern dating era?I was born in the 90s so I only know what dating/socializing/mingling was like prior to modern dating, through word of mouth from older ppl, and older films. But it seems like back then, people were more keen on meeting irl. More existed back then, video stores were around, movie/drive in theaters, arcades n bowling alleys were all booming w ppl, and malt shops/diners were also mingling hot spots. And there weren't smart phones that allowed ppl to access anything from home. Back then, ppl were m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 12:15 AM |
| 7 | The fact that so many women experience hostility when they reject men has less to do with men’s instability and entitlement, and much more to do with women’s delusional standards and inflated egos🎯 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 09:29 PM |
| 9 | The fact that so many women experience hostility when they reject men has less to do with men’s instability and entitlement, and much more to do with women’s delusional standards and inflated egoswould saying some be too much of an ask? In reference to what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 09:15 PM |
| 3 | The fact that so many women experience hostility when they reject men has less to do with men’s instability and entitlement, and much more to do with women’s delusional standards and inflated egosBecause I was confused | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 08:02 PM |
| 5 | The fact that so many women experience hostility when they reject men has less to do with men’s instability and entitlement, and much more to do with women’s delusional standards and inflated egosYall really lost me bringing up heavier set women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 08:00 PM |
| 3 | It's a good idea for men to get practice girlfriendsEveryone has different relationship expectations. Plus, what we are speaking on is a fake or pseudo relationship that the girl isnt aware of. Therefore, to expect anything just shows that men will get into relationships simlly because they believe sex and other things are owed to them, regardless of their feelings for the girl. Proving the point of my original comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 07:54 PM |
| 3 | The fact that so many women experience hostility when they reject men has less to do with men’s instability and entitlement, and much more to do with women’s delusional standards and inflated egosCome again? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 07:45 PM |
| 5 | The fact that so many women experience hostility when they reject men has less to do with men’s instability and entitlement, and much more to do with women’s delusional standards and inflated egosCome again? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 07:31 PM |
| 15 | The fact that so many women experience hostility when they reject men has less to do with men’s instability and entitlement, and much more to do with women’s delusional standards and inflated egosRight! Just like Ted Bundy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 07:23 PM |
| 24 | The fact that so many women experience hostility when they reject men has less to do with men’s instability and entitlement, and much more to do with women’s delusional standards and inflated egosI don't agree. As a woman, men have been hostile toward me because I didn't accept their advance to go home with them, make out with them, or have sex. Many women can attest to that same experience. Women give fake numbers or lie about having a bf (soft/indirect rejection) because they fear a man will lash out them when they directly say, I'm not interested. Please do not deem women responsible for a man's inability to keep his hands, and verbally abusive words to himself. Most men are mild mann… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 07:22 PM |
| 6 | It's a good idea for men to get practice girlfriendsI guess I should reword it. I wasn't trying to make it seem like the woman is giving in. My intent was to say that this woman (who isnt truly desired), may start to get feelings for the dude, and let her guard down, and be more emotionally vulnerable to him and wanna have sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 05:55 PM |
| 3 | The way women test their Lover's love is so wrongThis is something many individuals do regardless of gender. When ppl usually test someone's loyalty or interest it's because they've previously been neglected by significant male, and/or female figures in their lives, while they were vulnerable and open. They've been in situations where their emotional needs were neglected, so now they've hardened themselves.. that's how our subconscious works. Its goal is to protect us. If you are aware of someone's past, like this woman you mention, then it's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 05:48 PM |
| 8 | The way women test their Lover's love is so wrongThat's how a lot of ppl are honestly. A lot of us will generalize an entire gender simply from the experiences we've had with our parents/guardians, and the men n women we've let closer into our lives That's why when a man or woman gets cheated on, they have a hard trusting anyone moving forward when dating. That's why women with daddy issues have a harder time connecting w men. Her own dad's negligence made her believe all men aren't safe. That's just how our subconscious works. It's made to pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 05:39 PM |
| 10 | It's a good idea for men to get practice girlfriendsWe need less men who love on girls, then leave em alone. I'd argue it's more beneficial for these types of men to bite the bullet and increase their social time irl, not on an app, by connecting with as many women who they at least like or are attracted to. Giving inexperienced, low socially skilled men this kind of advice can easily make them fall down the rabbit hole of being a player. These 'starter gfs' you're mentioning won't know that they're being used as a means to an end, so they'll mos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 05:26 PM |
| 1 | What do you think is contributing to the male loneliness epidemic?That's tough. Those women just don't know how to appreciate a man, they're also humans w feelings n some ppl seem to forget that. Expressing vulnerability is a major part relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/24 05:46 AM |
| 2 | 30 yr old, single women in mediocre jobs, shouldn't expect more than average.The rejection implies you can do better, Thats their prerogative. It's not always about "better" like what does that even mean. Not every person that extends an offer is gonna their cup of tea. Some ppl just don't vibe, doesn't necessarily mean they want better, they just want different | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 11:57 PM |
| 1 | 30 yr old, single women in mediocre jobs, shouldn't expect more than average.For most women the wall comes at age 30. That doesn't mean you won't still get dates, attention, or sex. You will, but not from the most eligible bachelors. You'll most likely have to settle for the safe guy, and not the man of your dreams. This is just common rage bait. This has been told to women for ages, and it's not definitive or remotely true. All kinds of women who are 30+ are still killing it and have their pick of the litter when it comes to men. Age ain't nothing but a number, and a wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 11:54 PM |
| 3 | Madonna/wh*re complex is why so many marriages end up being sexless.But what has lead to that? Sex is emotional, and takes 2. If one person isn't feeling sexual toward their spouse then there's an underlying issue that involves both ppl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Why should women take advice from people who loathe them?I still highly doubt you would have thought this if you came across me saying how I don't respect any woman's opinion not related to me..... Ur changing the narrative now. There is a difference between feeling indifferent to ppls opinions by not valuing all, compared to straight up disrespecting someone's opinions- now thats contempt, and could be misogynistic, but that's not what I was agreeing to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Why should women take advice from people who loathe them?If I said I don't get misandry vibes from this woman not valuing the opinions of just any man, I assumed you'd also apply that to your statement. So I wasn't refusing. I don't get misogyny vibes either, when you claim you don't care about any woman's opinion, other than close relatives. You dont need to, it's not necessary and isn't good for ur health to value every opinion. Because if someonw talks shit about you, as their opinion, are you gonna value that? No! Misogyny/andry is straight up hat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 08:00 PM |
| 10 | What do you think is contributing to the male loneliness epidemic?❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 07:50 PM |
| 15 | What do you think is contributing to the male loneliness epidemic?Male loniless is a product of how men are put into boxes. Their emotions are overlooked, many are socialized to live emotionally detached lives where they aren't making connections, regardless of who they are n their level of physical attractiveness. It's mindblowing because I've meet dudes who look like attracting women is a breeze- physically attractive, and a lifestyle that sounds good on paper, but when they open up, they claim theyre chronically single, or they get no matches on dating apps… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Why should women take advice from people who loathe them?If this woman only trusts the opinions of the men who are solid in her life, I'd say, no, I don't get " misandy vibes rather its the opposite. It's great to have a foundation of men who you trust and listen to because they'll have your best interest at heart, more than some dude who you think "likes" you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 07:09 PM |
| 0 | Why should women take advice from people who loathe them?Why would she? She has solid men in her life, where she knows she can recieve POSITIVE reinforcement from. It wouldn't make sense to listen to angry dudes with a mic. These Podcasters have very radicalized beliefs that only come from their own failed connections w women, so there is a lot of hate being spread, just for clout. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 06:50 PM |
| 3 | What do you think is contributing to the male loneliness epidemic?I think it goes a lot deeper than women simply not being sexually attracted to, or romantically interested in men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 06:36 PM |
| 3 | Most of the time when a woman cock blocks her friend at the bar, it is out of jealousy not to “save her” as most women will try to claimIt's just a friend coming up n checking on another friend. If the woman being chatted up is truly interested, it wouldn't matter if her friend is attempting to cock block, because they'll just continue having a good time, shell let her friend know. If the friend cock blocks and the conversation between the dude n the girl he likes is completely over, like no exchanging contact info, anything, then the interest wasn't mutual, and the cock blocker may have been queued to help save her friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 06:11 PM |
| 6 | Most of the time when a woman cock blocks her friend at the bar, it is out of jealousy not to “save her” as most women will try to claimI don't hate anything. Lol u should be more concerned that ur behavior/demeanor is cock block-able 🤣 And if u gotta come up with lil schemes to manipulate women just to get sex, then you have no game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 03:53 PM |
| 8 | Most of the time when a woman cock blocks her friend at the bar, it is out of jealousy not to “save her” as most women will try to claimWhich you can't tell by reading the comments. Ugly has nothing to do with girl code, it's more about safety and honoring the bond women have. But I guess as a dude you wouldn't understand. Some of yall have such low standards you'll go home with girls u aint even attracted to if it means you get to fuck, and ppls homeboys allow it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 03:49 PM |
| 11 | Most of the time when a woman cock blocks her friend at the bar, it is out of jealousy not to “save her” as most women will try to claim🤢🤮 This is exactly why girls stick together, and cock blocking exists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 03:45 PM |
| 8 | Most of the time when a woman cock blocks her friend at the bar, it is out of jealousy not to “save her” as most women will try to claimIdk man, when I'd go out with my friends we took that pretty seriously, like having a designated driver and everything. And when dudes approached us, our main concern was safety. A dude could want anything from us, especially if we've been drinking. Whenever a girl intervened, it was usually to "interview" the dude and know his intentions. Cause girl code is solid. It means more to us to stick to the game plan, and get home safely opposed to letting one of our friends go home w a horny dude she … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 03:31 PM |
| 0 | Men may have lesser options than women in the dating scene, but it is still a man’s world in all other areas.2/3 of men are on the date just because of the sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 03:18 PM |
| 0 | Men may have lesser options than women in the dating scene, but it is still a man’s world in all other areas.But why does the amount of options matter so much? Some dudes always seem to be envious at the thought of women having options, but it's not always sunshine ☀️ and rainbows 🌈 Sometimes they meet ppl with beliefs like you, which is a turn off, and if a woman has 5 guys tryna talk to her but they all think like this, then she really has 0 contenders. You can see this as a man's world til the day u die, but the fact that women have many options is because the MEN are giving them the options which j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Are guys maturing faster than women in the US and that's a problem?It doesn't have anything to do with maturity. There are men and women who are both dating casually, and dating for longterm/marriage, and it's based on what they want out of the dating experience. Because u can be a mature person but not fuck with dating for longterm/settling down/marriage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 08:45 PM |
| 1 | What's with the huge popularity of polyamory and open relationships at the moment?Well thank you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 06:28 PM |
| 1 | The phenomena of single women dating married menThis phenomenon can be attributed to psychology. These women most likely fear commitment, or do not feel emotionally ready to be in a meaningful relationship with an emotionally available man. They've put a ceiling on far they can go w one, so a married man is seen as a safe option, because a single woman can never truly advance in a relationship w a taken man. It's all a self fulfilling profecy. Also, there's a phenomena called the dry well theory. This could also apply | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 04:53 PM |
| 1 | What do you think is worst? Getting blocked or getting purposely ignored? A debate regarding relationshipsBeing actively and purposely ignored is the worst scenario. You have no idea where you're at with that person- are they truly busy? Are they just taking their time to respond? Do they not like me? Eventually, when enough time has passed without a response you learn they've lost interest in you. At least when someone blocks you, it's definitive. You know they ultimately don't wanna be involved with you, so there is no guessing, or waiting to see how they feel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/24 08:07 AM |
| 9 | Do men and women have realistic standards for each other?For me personally, one of those standards is a turn off- she has to be the primary housekeeper. But in general, I think other women will agree to, and fit your standards. it seems a low amount of women actually fit them On that bright side 🌞 that's what you want. You dont wanna date just anybody. The purpose of having standards is to filter thru potential contenders to help you select your most ideal mate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/24 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Men are seen as more creepy doing the same actions as women. Let's debateAnother one to add is masturbation/sex toys. When a girl has toys, it's seen as sexy, and naughty, but in a sexy, bad girl type of way. Whereas if a man uses toys, he's deemed creepy, and socially inept w women At the end of the day, there is bias toward all those actions simply because of gender norms Men and women are held to such different standards, we may as well be in separate worlds | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/24 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Women will always have options, men need to create opportunities to have options.Apex fallacy doesn't apply here. You've already said it yourself, women are women, who mostly resort to rebound 🍆 These ladies are most likely going to ppl in their social circles, and dudes within their socioeconomic classes, because remember, they're going for what's most easy and convenient, especially when it's meaningless sex to medicate themselves. So standards and inhibitions are lower. Therefore, modelesque, Brad Pitt/George Clooney types, or whatever types of dudes you're referring to w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/24 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Women will always have options, men need to create opportunities to have options.Nobody is saying women are “wrong” to jump on new dick to feel better after a break up. Men would readily admit they would have their own “ho phase” if they could. Men already do, and have outlets for sex more than you realize. Tons of dudes already sleep around with multiple women. They'll have ladies on rotation And you contradict yourself. You just got done saying how women will chase 🍆 due to emotional hardships like rejection, cheating or a breakup, and you even claim how women have came to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/24 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Do You Know a Guy That is Top 5% on Dating App?Damn. As a woman, this is very interesting to read about the double edged sworned-ness? 🤣🤔 of being a physically attractive dude. I've always assumed it'd only be smooth sailing, but I'm sorry to hear how much you are subject to deceit and disloyalty. I'm really curious now to see what you look like 🤓😈 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 08:51 PM |
| 3 | Women will always have options, men need to create opportunities to have options.They “mourn” the loss over tequila shots with her besties that weekend, gets enough of a buzz on to call one of the 10 (hot) guys who has been orbiting her to “hang out” so she can self medicate with a steady supply of Chad dick until the pain subsides. But notice how I said women who are emotionally mature. Those women don't require sexual gratification, constant reassurance, or resort to reckless behavior post breakup. They'll emotionally regulate themselves better. The types of women you're f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 08:26 PM |
| 4 | Women will always have options, men need to create opportunities to have options.Anecdotally, this is why it’s so common to see so many men languish in their room alone after a breakup while the woman is almost always riding some “rebound” cock with in days. This is simply rage fantasy. You use the word "always" as is if this is default behavior every woman resorts to, but no. Women who actually valued their boy friends and are emotionally mature, mourn the loss of a connection too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 07:50 PM |
| 3 | What's with the huge popularity of polyamory and open relationships at the moment?It has to do with that saying, "Why buy the cow, when you can get the milk for free" Polyamory is popular because ppl want sex without commitment. Many ppl today are emotionally unavailable, and/or commitment phobes, and/ or just want to enjoy the ACT of sex. It allows them to have access to sex like they're in a relationship, without actually having to invest the time, effort, and emotion, that normally comes with it. I'd also argue it's due to technology and instant grat. We've been overwhelme… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather have a high value person of the opposite sex tell you that they like you but don’t want physical intimacy with you, or would you rather have sex with a high value person of the opposite sex who obviously doesn’t like you?The first scenario, all the way- high value dude, who doesn't want to get physical It means a lot more to me to have a deep emotional connection with a man who values and respects me If the dude don't like me, my sexual needs will never be met. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 06:28 PM |
| 1 | The reason relationships are so heavily skewed towards women in America is because of its stance on prostitutionI have a question! What is feminine to you? Like what does it mean? Femininity is an inherent energy women embody. Today, too many lads are quick to tell women what they aren't, just because they aren't getting access to them the way they want to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 11:09 PM |
| 8 | The reason relationships are so heavily skewed towards women in America is because of its stance on prostitutionYess 🎯 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.What do women need to be accountable for here. It's funny, men always like to say this but yet why are yall taking girls out on dates to spend money, then turning around and complaining about doing that. No one is forcing them. This leaves it up to men to try and make their situation better for themselves by not chasing women and throwing away their self respect. Well yea, are women supposed to be making a man's life better for him?? A man's life and choices is his responsibilty. He makes his ow… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 06:07 PM |
| 3 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Not really! If anything OPs post is just confirmation bias. Several ppl have commented pointing out the Double standard. He complains that women use men for money, but then later on points out how men dont defend themselves because they're too busy thinking w their little head and don't wanna risk the sex and validation, that they originally came for. If anything, he's just equally as shallow as these girls but don't even realize it, but them trying to act like victim, when dudes could just idk,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Men only have importance to women as providers.I understand what homegirl is saying. I'm the same and it makes sense. The whole purpose of dating is to test the waters and see if the man/woman fits the qualites that are most ideal to the life we wanna live with a longterm partner. Women who value longterm commitment, marriage and children, are obvi gonna value a man who is at least open to paying for the first date, especially if he invited her. It indicates he's stable, and not just some scrub. A man who makes a big deal about it, shows us … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Then date different women then. If anything men who just take women out on dates just to get sex are leeches too. So match made in heaven | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 05:14 PM |
| 14 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Right ✅️ OP even says how men will actively let themselves be taken advantage of if it gets them access to sex n validation. That's no diffeent than women using a man for his wallet. So if anything, men and women who think like this deserve eachother, so they can see their own biases | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Woah, woah woah there.. Notice the double standard This is why it's such a big deal for most of them when a man doesn't pay for their food on a date, for example. He's just a means to an end. This is why it's so easy for women to use and manipulate men, and men allow it to happen just for sex and validation. That's the dilemma. Too many ppl are dating with expectations that only fulfill their needs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Are Situationships for the most part, a result of women not being able to secure men they wish to date?I agree with what you are saying here. This is also how I identify a woman who knows her worth, and what she wants. And yes and after re reading, I can see what you mean from the dudes perspective ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 09:24 PM |
| 0 | Are Situationships for the most part, a result of women not being able to secure men they wish to date?Sure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 09:09 PM |
| 0 | Are Situationships for the most part, a result of women not being able to secure men they wish to date?A lot of women seem to have an attitude that if a man isn't giving her what she wants from him, then there must be something wrong with him. A lot of what women? Is this a personal experience of yours? And yea that's kinda fucked up, so the attitude makes sense. The dude brought it on himself. So he can keep her around for sex and get what he wants, but then keep stringing her along thinking he'll commit to her? Dudes who play like that are emotionally unavauble and have their own set of commitm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 08:12 PM |
| – | What's your dating unpopular opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you down voted?You only know what you find attravtice, you don't speak for all men. I have a mother 50, and a grandmother 73, both constantly have male suitors giving them gifts, trying to date them, and have other relations. There are men out there who just appreciate women, period. Age is nothing Men of all ages are always trying to fuck/date, so yes, there are dudes out there who have love for older women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 01:17 PM |
| – | What's your dating unpopular opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you down voted?"The wall" is a myth. Its just a scare tactic. You'll always hear guys telling women about how real it is, but you never see other women saying it to eachother. And it's ironic. Any other time, men are clueless about us n our bodies. The same dudes who don't understand our periods, ovulating, how to make us cum, don't know where the clit is, and dont know the difference between labia and vagina, are the same dudes who all sudden have all this knowledge about our "market value" and how our bodies… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Are Situationships for the most part, a result of women not being able to secure men they wish to date?And what about the men involved in that same situation. Shouldn't he be as equally avoidable? Cause from a womans perspective looking in, that's a dude with commitment issues. So hes not gonna be the greatest catch for ladies who are serious about dating n commitment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 10:10 AM |
| – | What's your dating unpopular opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you down voted?Ur whole comment doesn't make any sense. You can't quantify how much ppl have sex, plus, you only need one partner to have sex many times. So the number of ppl we marry is irrelevant These is no gatekeeper to any of this. Get real. It's all choice and consent. I said what I said. This is my unpopular opinion. Agree to disagree n move on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 08:51 AM |
| – | What's your dating unpopular opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you down voted?*women =/= gatekeepers of sex, men =/= gatekeepers of marriage. Both are consensual, and require both ppl to say yes *Online dating is FLOODED with emotionally unavailable ppl who are too afraid to move on from past relations, making it difficult for ppl who are actually ready to date n commit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 07:18 AM |
| 1 | In order of preference, how would you rate these 3 things in a partner? (confidence, kindness, intelligence)Nah.. you wish | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.When did I say I conceal how I feel? Can you quote where I said that? I'll show you exactly where you said this. Last paragraph, first sentence. Unfortunately most men can't be honest with women about how they come accross because they dont wanna ruin their chances of getting laid. You didn't actually read the post. Indeed I did sir. In your title you complain that women cannot love due to how selfish they are, but yet, you're equally as selfish, just using them as a means to get ur dick wet. Wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 09:25 PM |
| 5 | Guys spend way more money on dating, get wayyy less than womenA lot of women don't initially meet men, and assume "Oh, he's a loser" and they don't immediately think, "Oh, he'll be a good father, for our kids" just because he has money. As a woman myself, it's common to have dudes attract us with their money, so a lot of times, our first thought isn't marriage, and kids. Usually that type of thinking comes, when a woman is already dating a man who she feels safe with, loved by and accepted by. Therefore, a woman will know you are good fit to raise children… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 09:06 PM |
| 3 | Guys spend way more money on dating, get wayyy less than womenNo need to be petty. OP is the one asking for advice here, so your comment is basically mocking him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 08:45 PM |
| 6 | Guys spend way more money on dating, get wayyy less than womenThats not internal work tho. A minimalistic life has nothing to do with how you feel about yourself, thats still external. The internal work I'm speaking on is talk therapy, journalling, hypnotherapy, meditation, self reflection, and shadow work. These are tools that help you dig deep, and learn why you feel money = attention and acceptance from ladies. Become what people want to see and then your woman will come chasing you. Then you'll constantly be on a hamster wheel with that mentality, tryi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 08:42 PM |
| 3 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.I don't. In fact, I find dating boring coz all most women have to offer is pussy. Then whats the whole point of your post then??? Clearly you want sex from girls, or else you wouldn't conceal how you feel, if it means you wouldn't get laid. If you found dating boring, then why waste time taking girls out on dates just to get sex? Many girls will have sex with no dinner, or date from a man. Lol you can't get upset that women don't offer love when all you see them good for is their pussy. All you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.Oh I feel you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 08:20 PM |
| 7 | Guys spend way more money on dating, get wayyy less than womenBro you need to learn money =/= a wife and kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 07:36 PM |
| 10 | Guys spend way more money on dating, get wayyy less than womenIf you don't want hookups, then why are you resorting to behavior that leads to casual sex, and girls just looking for a good time? You've completely made your life abiut them, by spending money on what you think they want, but them complain that they're coming for the candy?? You gotta lead with your heart, not your wallet. If you want meaningful relationships with women, who want companionship, family, and a husband, Then you gotta align yourself with genuine ladies, who value gentleman, and m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 07:34 PM |
| 7 | Guys spend way more money on dating, get wayyy less than womenBut notice specifically how he mentions it is the red pill ideologies he's followed, and how it's not working out for him. Seems like a genuine post about someone not happy with an idea they were sold that a lot of men look up to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 07:26 PM |
| 6 | Guys spend way more money on dating, get wayyy less than womenLead with your wallet, and you'll attract women who only wanna follow it. Youre living life believing in an illusion, and you've completely fabricated it based on what you think women want, instead of staying true to yourself. That's what redpill always misses. Why are you spending money on testosterone? If you're a natural born man, you naturally produce it, and healthy, whole foods and fitness, are what regulates it best. What you're doing isn't self improvement- that's all internal. What you'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.Wtf?? Do you not realize how much a woman goes thru just to birth one child? 9 months of pain, and discomfort, then hours and hours of childbirth, just to possibly not even come out alive? And that child is the parents responsibilty FOR LIFE. And clearly I just said for long term, longterm doesn't mean "a means to an end" Please sir. Get real, I'm sure women don't go thru that pain of child birth just to gain resources from a man. Women can hardly put effort into something, and be attractive eno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.Not really sir. There's a difference between ladies being straight up gold diggers, just relying on the man to pay for everything... Compared to ladies who date for the longterm, and desire a financially literate man, who can provide for a family, if the woman ever needs to nurse a child and stay home. As a woman, it changes her whole life to have a baby with a man, and live life with him. Best believe, women aren't gonna shack up with just any man. If he refuses to pay, period, it's indicative,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.Just a bunch of gender profiling. As a woman myself idgaf about what's fashionable, and wouldn't be surprised at other ladies who don't. Just because you don't know where self respecting ladies are, and only focus on the negative, doesn't necessarily mean women of today aren't respectful. Plus I thiugh it was women don't value respect, but now you're saying they're unreasonable. So which is it? Just seems more like you're projecting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 06:48 PM |
| 5 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.Well ofc if you only focus on women who don't respect themselves that's gonna be your observation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 06:34 PM |
| 6 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.It doesn't matter if the dude has the best looking dick humanity has ever seen, it's the fact that it's unsolicited, or a dude thinking that it will turn on a woman is what makes it unappealing, and disrespectful, and even scarring for the woman. Ofc it's overblown to you because you're a man who doesn't receive dick picks from men the way that women do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 06:23 PM |
| 0 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.I don't think you mean "most" women. I think what you mean is most women who you are attracted to and KEEP entertaining. they're not able to see that expecting random men to spend money on them and put them on a pedestal is what actually makes someone a loser and a bad person, no matter how attractive they are. Those girls know what they're doing. Lady game is real. If they are attractive, they most likely know how to get things for free from men, so they personally do not care how men see them,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 06:15 PM |
| 6 | Why would women be jealous of a young woman getting married, if they want to ride the CC instead?I think you mean envy. Jealously is the fear of having something taken away from you, these girls don't fear their bfs being taken away at the thought of another friend getting married. What makes you say those girls are envious? I also thought young men are more positive about marriage because on her young men talk about how women just want to sleep around and not commit I thought. It's not definitive. I'd argue that people, regardless of gender, like to sleep around, and not commit. If it was … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 05:39 PM |
| 6 | Why would women be jealous of a young woman getting married, if they want to ride the CC instead?We don't know these girls' thoughts about marriage tho. So we can't assume that it's due to the narrative, marriage in 20s is a trap for women. But some of those girls could be reacting in a certain way because they are envious. As women, we have been socialized to believe It is of the highest honor, when a man chooses to commit to us, especially when he chooses to marry us. That's what our worth seems to be based on. So when girls see other girls getting engaged/married, sometimes it can trigge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 05:28 PM |
| 7 | Why do women ask "Are you seeing other girls?"Some girls, and guys, develop deep feelings for their FWB partner when they fuck long enough. She may like you as a serious bf and curious if you're entertaining other girls. She wants to be the only one, and have no competition with other girls | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 09:59 PM |
| 4 | How do women emotionally move on from relationships so quickly?Lol I'm glad I can see you girl. I do the same lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 06:13 PM |
| 6 | How do women emotionally move on from relationships so quickly?Depends on what your definition of "moving on" is. If a woman is truly emotionally at peace with where the connection ended, then she has moved on. However, if she's doing things like having sex w other dudes, resorting to reckless behavior etc. Then she hasn't moved on, she's just coping by distracting herself from how she feels Also, some ppl wbo are attractive and have options available to them may have an easier time moving on, knowing that although this connection ended, I can get into anot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Do men not care about having female friends?Wtf? Lol all relationships aren't gonna be the same. You can be in healthy relationships that don't work out for one way or another. And lol I'm not here to play the shame game w you. But I guess you are since you wanna call me selfish. Thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Do men not care about having female friends?Healthy relationships can end. And there are different types of healthy connections. Seems like you've never been it one, if you immediately assume I'm bullshitting you. What would I personally get out of lying to an internet rando? People change, when you're together for so long, sometimes you wanna have your own experiences that doesn't involve a partner, or one at the moment. Especially when youbhave your own career endeavors, and hobbies/interests you wanna live. And even worse you claim I s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Do men not care about having female friends?We are though. The fact that we are emotionally fluid human beings who can experience a multitide of emotions at any given day and time. As well as have a brains that have been studied for centuries but still not know the full depth of our minds shows we are very complex individuals. The fact that youbare even a part of this debate sub and contribute to the discussions of intersex relations just shows even more than we are complex individuals. If we weren't, you would be here, or a red piller. M… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 06:19 PM |
| 2 | You can't change what you're attracted to. But most people can compromise on certain preferences.Thick and fat aren't the same, for 1. I can tell you from experience, I'm a thicker girl, and healthy. So I'm slim in the right places, amd if anything men will literally announce part of their attraction to me is because I'm thick, and not some skinny minnie. Plus, attraction to a thicker body isn't something new. Dudes for decades, and centuries, have made it clear they like wider hips, and bigger titties. It just wasnt represented in the media as much. Because out society has an obession with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Do men not care about having female friends?Exactly. Depending on where we live, every summer day ain't even hot and sunny. He acts like it still can't rain, and pour, for days on end. The tropics could easily prove him wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 05:09 PM |
| 0 | Do men not care about having female friends?Okay but we're not seasons. We're humans, we're very complex, and emotially fluid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Do men not care about having female friends?Just because you personally have repeated the same behavior with the women you've dated, doesn't meant that your observations of women, serves as the end all be all, that were all the same. Please It will always be the same fights. And always be the same nagging. And it will always be the same stories we have to listen to and we don't care. I'm in a healthy relationship rn, and have been in others of the past, and have never experienced any of what you said. Me and my man, talk abojt things a lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 05:05 PM |
| 3 | Women’s dating preferences are creating a system of vast inequality in datingThe notion that only a small minority of men reproduced in history is a myth: I've never made that claim. You assumed that. My comment is literally based on biology textbook facts, so no, it's not "a myth". Females aren't choosing from a minority of males, they're inclined to pick amongst the males with the most favorable genetics. There's a difference. The traits that predict fertility are mostly related to impulsivity, extraversion, and low intelligence, very little to do with being among any … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 04:14 AM |
| 6 | Do men not care about having female friends?That's implying all women think the same tho. They don't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 03:59 AM |
| 14 | Women’s dating preferences are creating a system of vast inequality in datingI'd argue that this has occurred for millions of years through various animal kingdoms, so it can mostly be attributed to biology, and some media influence, for humans. Male animals all the time, compete for female attention, and mate selection by offering the biggest and best there is. Nests/home, food etc. Females are sexually selective, and are naturally inclined to pick the males with the best genetics, that'll ensure fit offspring, and survival of our species. As humans, we've seen that men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Do the plethora of choices in men when it comes to online dating and social media make it more difficult for you to commit to one man long-term?Okay, girls are gonna do what they're gonna do. Why ruminate over their behavior. It's not uncommon for dudes to gawk at the hottest women and shoot their shot w them, and keep repeating behavior that doesn't benefit them. We're human | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 08:42 PM |
| 6 | Do the plethora of choices in men when it comes to online dating and social media make it more difficult for you to commit to one man long-term?No! I have my standards for what I desire in a man, if the man doesn't fit, I won't consider him as a potential bf, or commit to him. It's not hard for me to choose either in a "sea of options". I desire that head over heels type of love, and it's not found with just any man. I'm holding off for the man who I feel a deep emotional/spiritual/attraction to. 3 guys, or 300 guys could be in my pool of options, but all I care about is 1 quality dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Fellas, you’re not single because you are unattractive, short, broke, play video games, watch anime, or other generic guy shit your single because you’re boringSays who? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 06:50 PM |
| 1 | If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women?Clearly it's a joke, and it doesn't apply to just being a chad.! You can watch any reel of like a wife asking her husband to do a chore, but doesn't. Then the second the wife goes to do it, the husband will all of a sudden start doing it. I've seen women make the same comments about 'we must all be dating the same dude' Abd, so what if girls are attracted to certain types of men. Yall can call these dudes Chad all you want, but at the end of the day, why do yall care? I'm sure men have their own… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/24 06:06 PM |
| 2 | In modern, western society men are always assumed to be the problem in relationshipsI've never made any blanket statements tho. So????? I'm confused. Plus I know not all men complain about Western women, I never said they all did. I am aware there are good men everywhere because I've dated and am friends w dudes who respect and like women, based on their character, not if they're American or not. And please, stay in your lane. You're no one to tell me to introspect, you know nada about me, and my values and beliefs. I actually value and respect ppl. I know you'd like to think I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/24 05:30 PM |
| 1 | If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women?Well what is your definition of an average man? Everything is not about money n looks to ladies. When you look at truly healthy, rock solid relationships that's been thriving for years, and decades, it didnt last because the dude is Uber wealthy, and modelesque. They thrived because both ppl are emotional lovers, and value more than what you think. Plus you most likely have a mother, and if she is a mother who you love, adore, and respect then that should serve as proof that yes, there are some … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/24 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Do people often set their standards to high as a defense mechanism?Lol oh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/24 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Do people often set their standards to high as a defense mechanism?Idk what D&D is but I enjoy gaming and movies. Just played the Last of us, for the first time, the other day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/24 01:17 AM |
| 0 | In modern, western society men are always assumed to be the problem in relationshipsBut you see how making blanket statements like that is illogical. Not all western women do that, just the types yall like to focus on. Yes ppl in general do that, that's just what some ppl do. And its not limited to the usa, it's just an ego thing, ppl do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 11:30 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The idea of "self love" is bullshit, and the proof is how many people are in unhappy relationships.I'm not tho. I'm just a contributing internet user who left a comment just like everyone else in this comment section. So why do you personally feel I'm telling others what to do? When I'm simply leaving a comment based on my experience. I also resent the notion that connection with other people is just a want and not a deep rooted necessity that all human beings have. I've never said it wasn't a necessity, you just assumed that's why I'm saying. Dude or dudette, we have free will, we are entitl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 11:10 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The idea of "self love" is bullshit, and the proof is how many people are in unhappy relationships.By your own logic, you don't need another person for any of the things you listed. Get a dog for companionship, just masturbate to satisfy sexual desires. But you see! You're not really someone to tell me what I need. What I'm speaking on is the best way I've found peace in my life, and met a good mate. I'm just sharing my perspective. Plus mastutbation is nowhere near the joy of sex. Just because you feel whole, doesn't mean you don't desire ppl period. You can feel happy and fully loved in you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 10:40 PM |
| -3 | In modern, western society men are always assumed to be the problem in relationshipsWomen don't care about men becoming passport bros, it's just annoying when instead of just going, they try and drag western women, and get a reaction out of them, instead of making it about finding a wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 10:25 PM |
| 3 | Female intra-sexual competition on display and the misunderstanding of what men find attractiveSisterhood is essential. If a woman talks down about other women, just to deem herself "higher quality" then she is not a feminine woman, who even values herself. This girl needs to be her own gem and let herself shine, opposed to trying to take other ladies' light away, just so men can see hers. I can't believe I'm defending an American woman, but the American woman is infinitely more attractive than the lebanese woman in terms of looks, personality, vibes, I'm really tired of all western women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 08:45 PM |
| 2 | In modern, western society men are always assumed to be the problem in relationshipsI got you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 08:30 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The idea of "self love" is bullshit, and the proof is how many people are in unhappy relationships.Dating and life isn't just about happiness. Life is more about experiencing all emotions, and learning to regulate them. Relationships are about building together and sharing experiences with someone you love and respect. You can love and feel secure with yourself, while also desiring, sex, companionship, and expanding your life even more w someone who matches your energy. If an unhappy person wants a relationship just as a means to be happy, then they'll risk pedestalizing their partners and pu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 08:28 PM |
| 4 | In modern, western society men are always assumed to be the problem in relationshipsNot every divorce is about money, be real. Women divorce for emotional reasons too. In fact, many are literally single mothers in their marriage. I know many in that boat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 08:06 PM |
| -4 | In modern, western society men are always assumed to be the problem in relationshipsNo, I'd say it's the reverse. There are so many men who complain about all western women, as if they've dated them all, when really their just calling themselves out for the types of women they keep entertaining. Supposedly all western women are whores, and sluts who don't need no man. They're cantankerous, and not willing to commit. This is what many will say, and that they arent worthy commitng to, so it's constantly thrown in ladies faces that lads are packing up and becoming passport bros. W… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 08:04 PM |
| 0 | In which situations does the dating dynamic change in favour of men ?A rainbow is just a compilation of colors. That's all. So if you're assuming things about me personally based on my interest in colors then your delusional and far gone. Plus I don't need luck, the universe has always had my back and I have faith in this life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 07:29 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The idea of "self love" is bullshit, and the proof is how many people are in unhappy relationships.I've never said we don't need others. I believe we are social creatures too who thrive and bond when together. But what I'm implying is relationships aren't a means to just receive love, whenever you feel you are lacking it. I'm saying self love is priority, as that serves as a foundation for how other will love u. People can definitely receive fulfillment in their lives from other relationships, like family, best frekds, and ppl within our communities. We don't necessity need to be a partnershi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 07:21 PM |
| 0 | In which situations does the dating dynamic change in favour of men ?Ok but who are you to know what happens more often than not. There are 7 billion ppl on this earth, abd there have been humans living/dating/procreating for millions of years, so it's illogical to assume whats rare for others. The subjective reality we experience are reflections of our own dominant thoughts, and our internal world. Therefore you only believe great women are rare, due to your own not so great experiences with women. So you've settled with labeling what you do desire as rare. And … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 07:04 PM |
| 0 | In which situations does the dating dynamic change in favour of men ?Kind of sad if you think about that most men will not be in a relationship if they aren't playing a stupid role that is based on them always giving more. It's sad as men to think this is only what women desire. Maybe some, yes, but definitely not all. Adoration is based in emotion, not looks. Have you not dated women? Or not dated a woman that you had a deep emotional connection with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 06:57 PM |
| 0 | In which situations does the dating dynamic change in favour of men ?Adoration is defined as having a deep love and respect for someone. Adoration isnt based on looks. Its based on emotion. What you're implying is conditional love, therefore, love n respect aren't present. And in relatiships where women truly desire and adore their men, it goes soooooo much deeper than just looks. Women are emotional lovers remember, so when they truly adore a man, it's due to his character, his charisma, their compatibility, trust, and shared interest. A man can look like Brad P… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 06:54 PM |
| 1 | In which situations does the dating dynamic change in favour of men ?There is no rule! Its not like there is dating/relationships rule book that states all men/women are like XYZ. Why do u guys act like women are incapable of loving and adoring men they date. Obviously men are aware that women are capable of love or else they wouldnt be trying to date/fuck/marry, and share life with them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 06:43 PM |
| 1 | In which situations does the dating dynamic change in favour of men ?Dating and relationships aren't about power plays, and which gender has odds in their favor. Rather, it's about 2 ppl coming together who are compatible, and represent an extension of eachothers happiness and positivity. So my question is :" Is there actually a kind of relationship where the woman is the adorer ? " and " what kind of guy get this treatment?" . Relationships aren't this heavily structured institution where roles are assigned, where one person is the "adorer" etc, and the other pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 06:36 PM |
| 0 | CMV: The idea of "self love" is bullshit, and the proof is how many people are in unhappy relationships.Self love isn't bullshit. The people you date are a reflection of your own level of self love, therefore, we don't really need a relationship to feel happy. A lot of people aren't comfortable embracing themselves, they don't know how to find peace and comfort in being alone, therefore, label themselves as lonely and without. So then they get into relationships just to feel whole, and not lonely. The most successful relationships happen when someone hugs themselves, cherishes themselves, and has … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 06:16 PM |
| 1 | If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women?Well not every woman is like that, but it's awesome you think you can read women's minds | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 04:52 PM |
| 1 | If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women?Seems like you're envious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 12:05 AM |
| 1 | If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women?Rage fantasy. It's not like every woman is dating/fucking Brad Pitt types of guys. There are a lot of average everyday women, who also date average everyday men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 12:04 AM |
| 2 | Women standards aren’t high, it’s just too many guys are too desperate to not be single.Well u didn't live as a woman in that time, so you don't know. And please shut the fuck up. Who the fuck cares about jobs women don't wanna do. There are millions of jobs, and I know for a fact, men don't wanna do all of them, nor do they aspire to. And no! Their rights we're minimal. That's why many men today, treat the olden days of women as this golden standards, they had less rights, amd had to rely on the man more. Seems like men kf today are upset that it's no longer like that If women gav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 10:46 PM |
| 2 | Women standards aren’t high, it’s just too many guys are too desperate to not be single.I'm really tired of Chad. Women can like whonthey like, and fuck who they wanna fuck without the dudes she picks being referred to as the same person, Chad. So then if you agree that women who want xhads affect dating on a macro scale, then also women who don't fuck "chads" are more self respecting and actually desire real monogamy with a man have just as much impact on men, but notice how you don't speak of them. You're a hypocrite. You berate women for Chasing certain types of men who use them… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 10:37 PM |
| 3 | Women standards aren’t high, it’s just too many guys are too desperate to not be single.It doesn't! You make too many Blanket stamens about women that simply doesn't apply to all, or any women. Everyone's dating experience is different, especially when you compare a man's vs a woman's. So why it's no like the world of dating is just one experience for everyone, it's a collection of many different experiences that are all unlike the rest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 10:27 PM |
| 2 | Women standards aren’t high, it’s just too many guys are too desperate to not be single.A woman choosing specifc men to date, has no direct impact on you. Or other men. Tf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Women standards aren’t high, it’s just too many guys are too desperate to not be single.Yall dudes focus too much on women, and who they have sex with. You act like you've never been into a woman, that you were super attracted to and gave extra attention to, over a woman who you weren't attracted to and wouldn't even think twice about And plus I'd never get used, so I wouldn't bitch. I control my body and decide the man I share it with. I don't just fuck anyone buddy. And yes we can have our own standards, but that doesn't mean we get used. Me standing my mine, is actually what all… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Women standards aren’t high, it’s just too many guys are too desperate to not be single.You gender profile too much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 10:07 PM |
| 2 | Women standards aren’t high, it’s just too many guys are too desperate to not be single.Women can't say this and hate men who want virgin women !! It's litteraly hypocrisy 😂😂😂 Well who said that here! Not me! So what's so funny? Plus yea, there are a lot of double standards both genders are oblivious too, so go figure. You can laugh all you want at everything. That's usually what people do to discredit others, just seems more like a cop out to me tho. Enjoy your life sir. I bet your a real ladies man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 10:06 PM |
| 4 | Women standards aren’t high, it’s just too many guys are too desperate to not be single.Well thats the reality you need to accept then. Thats how a woman is choosing to live her life, if she wants to fuck Chad, but not you, and resort to double standards. It'll be like that sometimes, those people struggle with their own self confidence, self worth and self respect. So why are you worried abojt those kind of women anyway. Others are not fickle and will like the man for who he is, not because he's Chad or not. Men are the same, I'm sure they don't give a second thoigh to the woman t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 09:56 PM |
| 4 | Women standards aren’t high, it’s just too many guys are too desperate to not be single.Well looks like you better get in your DeLorean, and go back to 1955, or get with the times. It's crazy how a man that hasn't even experienced life in that time, is speaking on it as if it's the glory days. And wkmen couldn't be strong and independent when she couldn't even have a job, her own money or bank account, in those days. You just idolize those ladies becuae you just want a housewife who'll make you sandwiches and stfu on command, right. And lol! Gave up their rights??? Sir, if anything… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 09:51 PM |
| 2 | Women standards aren’t high, it’s just too many guys are too desperate to not be single.Uhm no! Not really. You don't really know what a vast majority of men are doing. In my 20s, I have yet to meet a man who didn't only wanna fuck. But I'm gonna end it here. Ur a red pilled man, and nothing meaningful has ever come from a conversation with yall. It's always man=good, women=bad. But answer me this.. if women are so unreasonable, and shit on men, then why are yall doing everything you can to committ to women that are ALL supposedly shitty and bad?? Doesn't make sense. Women can have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 09:43 PM |
| 3 | Women standards aren’t high, it’s just too many guys are too desperate to not be single.If a man doesn't fall into what she deems as attractive through her preferences.. How again would be getting a relationship started? Duh! By moving on from that woman who is not attracted to you, and focusing on the women WHO ARE! you can only start something with a woman, where the interest is mutual. You are referring to men, who have many women desiring them.. No! I'm not please refrain from putting words into my mouth, I'm referring to the gernal population of adult men. Regardless if you ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 09:31 PM |
| 3 | Women standards aren’t high, it’s just too many guys are too desperate to not be single.Not really tho. In 2024 compared to 1954, we are now strong and independent, and provide for ourselves now more than ever. The proof is everywhere, that's exactly why men are now wanting to split the bill, when it comes to dating. Plus ur a red pilled man, and this groupd literally only exists because the amount of freedom that women have today Because notice how in the times when women had the least rights, there were less social groups like the red pill, and MGTOW that were complaining about w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 09:23 PM |
| 3 | Women standards aren’t high, it’s just too many guys are too desperate to not be single.They're not gentleman. Many have succumbed to the Madonna whore complex and don't even realize it. So many men today pressure us for sex, and even lie to us, and sell us a dream that they are the one for us, just to get it. And many lack respect, some Men literally refer to women as bitches and don't even resort to basic kindness. Then when we embrace our sexuality, we are deemed whores, sluts, not worth a man's time, not wife material, Although they are resorting to the same behavior. Many men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 09:15 PM |
| 3 | Women standards aren’t high, it’s just too many guys are too desperate to not be single.A man's chance at relationships isn't dependent upon women preferences tho. There is something to love within everyone, so if a man isn't getting the results he wants with women and dating, then his problems are more internal, and has nothing to do with the womans choices in who she picks to date. Also, why some men are walking away is because the desirability of women isn't what it once was. In the past, women would be very much invested into relationships and attempting to save their best effo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Women standards aren’t high, it’s just too many guys are too desperate to not be single.You hear what you wanna hear! Doesn't mean ur interpretation is what OP is saying tho. Their post is more of a PSA to men AND women, that women can have their standards, it's their right, and men who have a problem with it are upset her standards aren't inclusive of them. how can you for example see women's bio in dating app saying only 6ft tall men and think It's not high when the average height for men is 5'7 Regardless if the average man is below 6 ft, there still are men who meet those girls… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 07:47 PM |
| 13 | Women standards aren’t high, it’s just too many guys are too desperate to not be single.Just because you don't agree, doesn't mean what OP is saying is false, nor does it entitle you to discredit their experience with women or assume they're lying about their gender. The day men get desperate for women, the comfortable society you live in will change drastically. And things will get violent This is already our current reality. Just even in this debate sub we see posts nearly everyday of some man complaining about women's standards and trying to humble the girls just because THEY ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 07:26 PM |
| 1 | It's rare for a man to be with a woman who likes him for who he is as a human being instead of what he can provide.And who do you expect them to care about? You? Please, you don't even like women enough to actually value them. So why are you concerned about how self absorbed they are? The irony is uncanny, you comments basically show that you mostly care about yourself too, but it's only a problem when ladies do it, got it 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 07:26 AM |
| -1 | Let’s stop pretending guys don’t age and have just as many unattractive problems later in lifeGlad someone said this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 07:09 AM |
| 1 | When self-proclaimed “nice guys” say that they are “good guys,” what “good” traits are they talking about?I get what you mean 🤛🤙 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 11:35 PM |
| 0 | Why do people always describe SW as a good solution to guys wanting sex?Lol no! You're putting words into my mouth. Where have I ever said sex work is a profession worthy of respect and admiration? I don't give a damn about a girl shaking her ass for a man, I won't judge it, but I also won't commend it. Whether it's respectable is irrelevant, if dudes are spending their hard earned $$$ money to see some naked girls, and fuck them, then it has a lot of value to the men who it's benefitting. I don't get why shame those types of girls when those are also the same girls… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 11:32 PM |
| 0 | When self-proclaimed “nice guys” say that they are “good guys,” what “good” traits are they talking about?Well yea it does depend because not all women are the same, and you're gender profiling, as if you know how women will behave just because a man is attractive. I believe many guys would trade your lying, fit, stunning woman over what they have or can get. And I don't think those dudes would. If many men and RPers are already angry/sad/upset at how women don't unconditionally love them, and see them for their $$ and what they provide, many may not pick a girl like that regardless of how stunning … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 10:49 PM |
| 1 | When self-proclaimed “nice guys” say that they are “good guys,” what “good” traits are they talking about?No it doesn't. Be real dude. Every woman doesn't immediately swoon at the sight of an attractive person and deem everything about them as good. Women have more agency than that. That's like saying if a woman lies, and uses a man for his assets, is still good just because she is fit, gives good head, agreeable and stunning. If someone is being taken advantage of, your tolerance for that only goes so far, regress if he looks like Brad Pitt, or the Hunchback of Notre Dame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 10:36 PM |
| 1 | When self-proclaimed “nice guys” say that they are “good guys,” what “good” traits are they talking about?I understand where you're coming from and I get you. When I've referred to that behavior, I was implying when fuckboys, for example, trick women into making them feel Uber loved, and appreciated, so that they'll give their bodies to them. I didn't consider it from your POV til now. Thanks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 10:11 PM |
| 1 | When self-proclaimed “nice guys” say that they are “good guys,” what “good” traits are they talking about?The perspective I'm referring to is when men assume the nice guy facade just to get sex. If you're genuinely a nice person who is investing in a woman because you care about her and want to stay, then that's different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Women often pretend they don’t show attractive men more respect as well. Why?I've never said men don't feel sexualized. If anything, men seem more open to ladies appraoching them. But it seems like everyone has their own filters, including yourself, as you've said you're more open to sexualization from younger girls, but all of a sudden when it's older women, it's not sexy, and a problem. What about these ladies' intent tho? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 09:53 PM |
| 1 | When self-proclaimed “nice guys” say that they are “good guys,” what “good” traits are they talking about?No! Because everything the dude is investing in her is a means to an end. It's just so he can get off and bounce. Its not genuine, and is giving the girl false hope. Gentlemen and compassionate men, are respectful. They care more about the bond they have with a woman and sex is something that is shared because of the deep admiration they have for one another. A "nice" guy just wants to enjoy the act of sex, which can be any girl. Thats similar to women cozying up to men, making him feel special … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 09:37 PM |
| -1 | Why do people always describe SW as a good solution to guys wanting sex?Ok! Great. No one's looking for sympathy in that profession. The girls are looking for $$$ and pleasurable experiences. No one also gives sympathy to the men who are that desperate for sex. It's simply pleasurable fun, with a price. Thats all. You're making it more than it is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 09:19 PM |
| 1 | When self-proclaimed “nice guys” say that they are “good guys,” what “good” traits are they talking about?From my perspective, the true gentlemen, and compassionate guys are the ones who don't announce it, they just do. Whereas these hard self-proclaimed "nice guys" usually feel their good traits are that they lovebomb, resort to doormat behavior, and are super agreeable. They feel that's all it takes to romance a woman and make her feel comfortable enough to have sex with him. They believe because they've made themselves wait on a woman, and invested their money into her that makes them a good pers… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 06:07 PM |
| 3 | Why do people always describe SW as a good solution to guys wanting sex?It's usually seen as a good solution when it's a last ditch effort for a man to receive sex from a woman. These men desire sex, but aren't getting it from the women they desire, either because they've been rejected, or they feel inadequate in some way, etc. Others don't like women, or they don't value investing the time and energy into properly wooing a girl, but like having sex with them so they'll settle with paying for sex because thats ultimately what they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 05:27 PM |
| 5 | Why do people always describe SW as a good solution to guys wanting sex?They aren't forced, but what they're saying is when life gets tough and you need money, and when some of these girls consider what they were blessed with, they resort to sex work, because it's simple, and basically effortless, and brings in literal stacks of cash. They know how far their charisma and sex appeal will take them. I'm sure many girls have at least entertained the idea of sex work, I definitely have, because it's easy money. Everyone wants easy money. No one's coddling women, they we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 05:11 PM |
| 1 | It's rare for a man to be with a woman who likes him for who he is as a human being instead of what he can provide.So then I should be able to tell you I know how men think and act, better than they know about themselves, simply because I date them according to ur logic.. Please sir, if u are writing a post that is complaining about women, then yall don't understand them as much as you think. Is it though? Many women don't even actually like each other. We do! What women are you referring to? Not every woman is gonna like every lady. Shocker. The point is most women don't really care that much about a man's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 06:27 AM |
| 2 | Looking at "Simon biles dilemma" should be enough for men to know the main problem in datingNo I don't. Because there is none | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Looking at "Simon biles dilemma" should be enough for men to know the main problem in datingNot all ladies resort to that behavior. If you don't like it, you don't gotta stay, nor accept it. If you're involving yourself in other people's drama, and using it as fuel as another reason for why women are toxic and shitty, then how are you any different from the ladies you complain about? You like that drama, if you didn't, you'd surround yourself with peace involving women. And Feminists didn't make it clear that everything was divided by gender. Its been like that for decades well before … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 10:24 PM |
| 2 | Looking at "Simon biles dilemma" should be enough for men to know the main problem in datingThey'll think what they want, and its not exclusive to women. We all live in our own subjective realities where we are the star. Who are we to ruminate over how other people live their lives and think? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 10:11 PM |
| 11 | Looking at "Simon biles dilemma" should be enough for men to know the main problem in datingThe amount of hate he got from women is astronomical. It makes sense. Imagine if the reverse happened. If a woman was dating Brad Pitt, but didn't realize he is a celebrity, and claimed she is the prize, a lot of guys would be talking shit about her! They'd think she doesn't know what's good for her, and is ungrateful! Plus Simone Biles is a celebrity, therefore this whole debacle only happened is because she is that, and her man isn't. This is not an average, everyday thing that reflects other … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 09:56 PM |
| 8 | Women often pretend they don’t show attractive men more respect as well. Why?So is it that they’re oblivious to the double standard or do they intentionally ignore it because it’s beneficial It depends on how self aware, and honest a lady is with herself. Some ladies aren't aware they filter out attractive men, and give them special treatment. Other ladies are aware only certain men catch their eye that they give special attention to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 09:19 PM |
| 2 | Women constantly use how “dangerous” and high risk dating is for them as an excuse for their pickiness but then consistently select and return to abusive low lifesThen focus on ladies who KNOW their worth, and what's right for them. Why do you criticize women for their personal choices in who she dates? I'm sure you wouldn't appreciate that either- if women kept criticizing you about the girl you've chosen to date. Are you trying to date these girls, or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 09:02 PM |
| 32 | Women often pretend they don’t show attractive men more respect as well. Why?They are oblivious to the double standard. From a womans perspective, when we crush on an exceptionally attractive man and give him more attention, we deem it innocent fun, but when a lady experices it happening to her, it makes her feel singled out and only valued for her looks, as if the dude wants nothing more than sex. That's why | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 08:39 PM |
| 1 | It's rare for a man to be with a woman who likes him for who he is as a human being instead of what he can provide.Women know other women well plus i am one, therefore I don't need to date them to understand them. Women connect in ways, men never connect with women. Sisterhood is a real powerful thing. Plus, if your experience with dating women is negative like that, then simply, don't date those types of girls. Why not just date other girls who you actually like then, and actually like you. Why are you dating girls who don't give a fuck about a man's feelings? That's the first mistake that's being made. And… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Why Do Manosphere Dudes Get Mad At Women Having Options Instead of Other Men for GIVING Them Those Options?Nature gives women their sex appeal Good I'm glad we can agree. Because that's what I was implying when I said, their allure is inhertant to them. No person can give that to them. They were simply born w it. Never did I deny that blessing as a woman. I literally just said we know it's there, and even use it to our advantage. Gender quality simply has to do with being accepted as woman, opposed to being seen as an object whose rights, needs, and desires are an afterthought. A woman's sex appeal h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 06:32 PM |
| 1 | It's rare for a man to be with a woman who likes him for who he is as a human being instead of what he can provide.How? By treating them like any other human being? I don't think you do tho. Your whole post just paints ladies as if they're all vapid people who are incapable of loving a man, which we know is untrue, because there are so many who become mothers that men love and look up to and cherish. Plus many men are dating women, who mean the world to them. Who cares that some women think they're superior. Everyone at some point has let their ego get the best of them, men too. No one is holier than thou. W… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 06:24 PM |
| 3 | Why Do Manosphere Dudes Get Mad At Women Having Options Instead of Other Men for GIVING Them Those Options?No one sir. But I know that you're implying women. Sex is consensual between the 2 ppl who are having it. Plus why give women so much power? Just because yall will fuck anyone, whereas women are more reserved to letting in who she has sex with, doesn't mean women are gatekeepers. Just means men are easy, and are bitter that women aren't the same. But then when we are easy we are hoes. So go to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 05:52 PM |
| 0 | Why Do Manosphere Dudes Get Mad At Women Having Options Instead of Other Men for GIVING Them Those Options?How exactly have they ruined it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Why Do Manosphere Dudes Get Mad At Women Having Options Instead of Other Men for GIVING Them Those Options?This just shows that you're someone who sees women as objects, opposed to people with morals who honor themselves, and their options and standards. A woman doing what SHE wants to do with HER body is HER choice. If she doesn't want to "hire" you or other men, who just wanna fuck, she doesn't have to. And if her body is "vacant" doesn't mean that men are entitled or need to fill it. What a woman does with HER body, is NOT comparable to a lifeless company that employs ppl. A job and money is a nee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 05:43 PM |
| 4 | Why Do Manosphere Dudes Get Mad At Women Having Options Instead of Other Men for GIVING Them Those Options?Women aren't "given" sex appeal, rather it is something they HAVE, and is inherant to them. It is their allure men chase! And regardless of who's libido is higher, women are still sexual beings who desire hot sex on the regular.. the only difference between us and yall is men are more sexually indiscriminant, whereas women are more reserved, and will be with men who they deem worthy of their bodies and time. And a lot of women already do take that blessing into account. Thats why we know how to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 05:28 PM |
| 9 | Why Do Manosphere Dudes Get Mad At Women Having Options Instead of Other Men for GIVING Them Those Options?🎯 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 05:08 PM |
| 2 | In dating, as a man, it's demanded that you be confident and socially skilled. Meanwhile, women are allowed to be as neurotic and anti-social as they pleaseIt's simple. You're involved with the wrong women. There are definelty emotionally mature women who love and value men, and who shoot their shot with dudes they like, and say what they want and mean. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 08:01 AM |
| 3 | It's rare for a man to be with a woman who likes him for who he is as a human being instead of what he can provide.I'm a good looking woman, and I believe in equality, splitting the bills, and taking turns buying gifts for my partner. This is life. There are no rules or correlation between level of attraction and paying bills. It just depends on the love language | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/24 10:23 PM |
| 4 | It's rare for a man to be with a woman who likes him for who he is as a human being instead of what he can provide.It's not rare. You just pedestalize women, they are not creatures who feel they are superior, and strictly use men for their resources, sure some do, but there are definitely ladies who appreciate the touch and company of a man, period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/24 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Men should be able to safely approach women without fear of humiliation or being shamed, and there should be more venues other than bars for meeting womenBecause some women have gone thru things with men at young ages, like assault, or verbal abuse, and that psychologically conditioned them to believe men are not safe, and predatorial. So they go thru life not feeling secure in the presence of men. Its nothing you should internalize tho. Generalizations are usually shaped by experiences. Why do you care what some women personally fear? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Men should be able to safely approach women without fear of humiliation or being shamed, and there should be more venues other than bars for meeting womenFear of humiliation and shame, due to the fear of rejection? Rejection isn't exclusive to the male experience, people in general must confront those same fears, but that's what adulthood is about- taking risks, and accepting what we can control and what we cannot. There are tons of women everywhere, outside of bars and dating apps. Focus on your hobbies and interests, then go to those types of social places. Just enjoy your time there, and if you happen to meet a lady, you fancy, then bonus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 01:09 PM |
| 9 | Apparently women in your "friends circle" really dislike you hitting on themNot all women are the same. You're comparing different statements that different women have made. Some are open to dating men in their friends circle, whilst others believe it's social suicide. Tiktok is not a valid reflection of reality. As a man who wants to date women, it does a disservice to you to make generalist statements about what women like and dislike. When you make connections with them in the real world, opposed to making assumptions from tiktok, you'll see that all kinds of women v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 06:10 PM |
| -1 | Is the Red Pill something you would recommend to someone who wants to improve their dating experience?No! If I ever have children in this life, I would never even recommend that content to my son. If someone wants to improve their dating experience, working inward is priority, opposed to shifting blame, RPers are notorious for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 12:14 AM |
| – | Men need to be on social media to be relevant in today's dating market & economySocial media isn't a lifeline, Personally, I don't value social media too much, nor care if men I'm interested in dating, use it. If anything, it's better when they're less involved with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 11:53 PM |
| 3 | Do most women underestimate their sexual bargaining power in modern times?Not really sir. I'm speaking on what some men have said, and regardless of their looks, many desire 10s or close to it, because what man wouldn't want an exceptionally beautiful woman, whose also got it going on in many other ways. From my experience as a lady, men make it clear physical attractiveness and beauty is priority to them, and one of the most common compliments they give, is "youre pretty/stunning/goergeous/beautiful etx. Plus you don't know what all men want, and what they look like,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Do most women underestimate their sexual bargaining power in modern times?That doesn't mean they have no sexual power, it just means those women have chosen to share their sexual energy with those men. Women definitely do have sexual power, if they didn't, your post wouldn't exist. In fact, they have so much sexual power, and allure, it has the power to attract and sway any man, even the top men Nothings wrong with wanting the top men, women biologically are more selective anyway, so this makes sense. Men all the time say they want 10s, and that's okay. But why is it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Do most women underestimate their sexual bargaining power in modern times?Why place soo much power and focus on sex? Genuinely curious! Women are allowed to enjoy sex, without it mattering the number of sexual partners she's had. Plus a man may never 100% know what her number is. You're never going to have control or influence over a woman's past so it's silly to focus so much on that. If that's how you are, you're not ready for something real with a woman, everyone has a past, but what matters is the here and now, not who she had sex with 3 years ago. To some degree … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 09:09 PM |
| 0 | Most of the advice women give automatically weeds out introverted menIt's 2024, and many, many women today are strong and independent, so you'll happily, and most likely never meet a woman living that way 🤭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Do you think women will have to come to terms with dating men who earn less?They already do. Many women are suport themselves financially, and even make more than their male partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 02:56 AM |
| -2 | Western women and shaming gold-diggersYou've misunderstood what I said. When I was speaking on "loving a genuine husband" I was referring to the women outside of western society that passport bros wanna go to. Plus if that's your take on all the women in the west, then just date different types of women. Not all ladies care about money like that, just because you've experienced gold digging women, either on these social media reels, or in your personal dating experience doesn't mean all ladies are like that here. You're gonna see wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 07:59 PM |
| 4 | Western women and shaming gold-diggersThere are 4 billion women, you don't know the thoughts and motives of all 99% of them. Its just rage fantasy. If you're a man wanting to go east, to find a REAL, HARD traditional woman, they don't play over there. Those ladies do no labor that brings in an income, therefore, the man is truly the sole provider. So if you're having struggles with being broke, and dint have a means to support a woman financially.. how can you successfully support a trad woman of the east? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 07:36 PM |
| -3 | Western women and shaming gold-diggersWomen love to act like foreign women are all just prostitutes who can't ever love men Not really! Its the men who act like foreign women are basically prostitutes, because they cant find love here. So many passport bros, only motive for travelling the world is just to get some pussy, and supposedly find a wife who will be subservient to them, as if they are looking for the ultimate mail order bride. Opposed to looking into why they aren't having success w women in their homeland. If anything, it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 07:30 PM |
| – | A case for hypergamy: it makes sense to have a unique word for how women tend to be shallow in dating.If anything there are more judgy words reserved for women's behavior that are used to describe their shallowness, like hoe/304, gold digger, slut, bitch, princess etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Men are more likely to support their partners in the event of a job loss. Why don't women do the same?Then why ask a general question, if you're gonna discredit people beliefs that dont fit your worldview? Which ladies are you referring to that are just so horrible???????????? Thats illogical to assume, plus this shows that maybe your experiences and beliefs are more on the immature side of dating and relationships, when it comes to women who are IN LOVE, emotionally intelligent, and will do anything for her man.. everything I said are examples of what healthy and loving relationships look like … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 07:07 PM |
| 4 | When men call women “illogical,” do they genuinely believe she is literally not following a rationale?Typically, when i speak to men with that mentality, they usually have it hardwired, men = good/all knowing, women = bad/unitelligent. So when they do it, it's because they think they are above ladies, they don't dare consider what a woman's beliefs are because they don't want to confront how their beliefs can completely shatter their precious worldviews that are or so righteous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Is there really an epidemic of women divorcing nice guys for no reason ?Women don't aspire to be "bad wives".. the fuck? Marriage can mean whatever to the individual, if a woman doesn't wanna stay in something that doesn't make her happy she can leave. If you were dating a woman, and you weren't happy, I'm sure you'd break thongs off. Be ayse what's the point in investing in something as grand as marriage just toluce a sad life. If this is your take, it's understandable why more women are divorcing. I'd rather be single, and happy, than miserable abd wife's up But i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Is there really an epidemic of women divorcing nice guys for no reason ?Nuance is defined as viewing something from a new and different light, and slightly more complex than the usual. Many people, usually men, seem to have beliefs that the divorces "come out of nowhere" and was filed for "no reason". I offered a different perspective, and expressed the cold hard truth on why SOME women do file. And since I've answered OPs question it's been attracting a lot of people, who've been trying to tell me otherwise simply because my outlook doesn't fit their worldview.. nu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 06:34 PM |
| 4 | Is there really an epidemic of women divorcing nice guys for no reason ?Living | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Men are more likely to support their partners in the event of a job loss. Why don't women do the same?Women do. So which ones are you referring to? There are lots of women who have husbands who get injured, lose their jobs, or they just need to make extra money, and the women will step up and work. Plus women will even show up in other ways for their job less man, like emotional support. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 01:13 PM |
| 2 | Is there really an epidemic of women divorcing nice guys for no reason ?You can discredit me all you want. I said what I said. Bye. If you wanna make those points, post that in your own comment instead of coming for me, and arguing against MY beliefs. I can have my beliefs, just as you have your own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 12:46 PM |
| – | Phrases such as “Men age like wine, women age like milk” and “The Wall” are nonsensical.Good for you. Bye. Enjoy your life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 12:41 PM |
| 9 | Is there really an epidemic of women divorcing nice guys for no reason ?I don't understand? Why bring transgender people into this? They have nothing to do with this specific subject matter. And my take is definitely nuance, it seems to be attracting a lot of traffic, such as yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 12:39 PM |
| – | Phrases such as “Men age like wine, women age like milk” and “The Wall” are nonsensical.Lol why assume I'm crying. I don't cry over nonsense on the internet, nothing on here is worth taking seriously EVER. But the fact that you assume that just shows you take pride in people's misery, because thats how you feel about yourself. Either way, I said what I said. Women experience menopause, men experience andropause. It doesn't matter if all women experience infertility and some men don't, bottom line is no one MAN or WOMAN can reproduce healthy children in older age. We all age, we all… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 12:34 PM |
| – | Phrases such as “Men age like wine, women age like milk” and “The Wall” are nonsensical.. It is the limiting of potential mate status decided by men who evolved to be attracting to younger women because of their greater ability to gestate. See and that's where yall men are wrong. A ladies worth, and mate status isn't defined by a man or even based on a man's sexual attraction to younger women. In biology, animals mate to reproduce, but since the woman bares the child, and carries half of the child's genetics, she chooses a male, with genes and qualities, that'll produce an offsprin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 12:23 PM |
| – | Phrases such as “Men age like wine, women age like milk” and “The Wall” are nonsensical.Go on resort to your precious ad hominen attacks, about a STRANGER. Show me what you got 🍿👀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 12:11 PM |
| 11 | Is there really an epidemic of women divorcing nice guys for no reason ?Nice try. Just admit the truth ladies. I know it’s impossible. But as Will Smith once said, “Tell the troot”. Who do you think is reading your post? A bunch of recently divorced women, who've all plotted to serially date a man, until he married them, only to leave him and take his stuff? Who are all habitual liars. It seems like men who are red pilled live that way because of some woman, or small handful, that let them down.. hard. Just the way you speak about women, and their vial behavior, mak… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 12:03 PM |
| – | Phrases such as “Men age like wine, women age like milk” and “The Wall” are nonsensical.Well, I was a biology major in college, so another biological reality is Women experience menopause, men experience andropause. Yall ain't safe. And that's common sense sense in the biology/science/physical health world. It's not like yall can be making healthy babies at 50 or 90 either, so get real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 11:40 AM |
| – | Phrases such as “Men age like wine, women age like milk” and “The Wall” are nonsensical.The most ironic thing ever, is men confirming what's real for a woman, and telling her about HER body, although yall aren't OBGYNs or even understand a woman's reproductive system. For the former category, "The Wall" is very real for women. Objectively speaking, why would a marriage/family-minded man want to date a woman in her 30s? A woman's fertility begins dropping at the age of 32 and has a sharp decrease. By 40, her fertility is a fraction of what it was, and the likelihood of problems with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 11:31 AM |
| – | Men should not explicitly desire commitment as it signals low value and turns women offWomen want commitment from men who seek hookups That's not necessarily true. Maybe some girls who have already hooked up with men will want commitment from them because the sex made her feel more emotionally attached. No serious woman will go looking for commitment from a player. Ladies don't have time for games. The biggest whine of women using dating apps is running into men who just want to fuck These women could be complaining that the guys THEY would consider dating only wanna fuck, whereas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 10:48 AM |
| 12 | Is there really an epidemic of women divorcing nice guys for no reason ?That's basically what life is as an adult. Life is about taking risks - quitting a job that pays well, but is hurting you emotionally, asking that girl out you like, even though she has a right to reject you. Many decisions are high stakes, but you seem like you're basing your own happiness and martial decisions on other peoples failed marriages and experiences If you see it as such a pain, then don't do it. Marriage works best for people who are positive about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 10:09 AM |
| – | Men should not explicitly desire commitment as it signals low value and turns women offHow is commitment low value? It is one of the highest honors, because one person values you so much, and loves you for YOU, warts and all, that they are picking you, as their person to spend life with. Let's consider this from the perspective of dating apps: Men mentioning "seeking long term / something serious" has almost become synonymous with low sex appeal and inability to appeal to women naturally. Have women actually said this tho. And how do you know this is happening to most if not all m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 09:59 AM |
| 8 | Is there really an epidemic of women divorcing nice guys for no reason ?I don't understand what you're saying, but okay thank you ✌️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 09:43 AM |
| 18 | Is there really an epidemic of women divorcing nice guys for no reason ?If it doesnt fly, then scroll by. I'm well aware and even agree men AND women are capable of evil and mischief, but what I'm offering is a different take, a nuanced look at the people who DO divorce for many reasons, opposed to the old and tired "she divorced for no reason" I know several women who are divorcing their husbands for all the reasons I've explained. And those experiences are just as valid, that help explain the phenomenon of why some women are leaving their husbands in mass numbers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 09:42 AM |
| 32 | Is there really an epidemic of women divorcing nice guys for no reason ?No! There is an epidemic of women divorcing men, but the reasons all vary. Some reasons include: cheating, irreconcilable differences, dead bedroom, incompatibility, no longer in love, overworked from 'wifely' responsibilities, not safe w husband etc. When a woman is legally separating herself from someone she vowed to love unconditionally and forever, there is most definitely a reason. And in that marriage, the woman has most likely made significant contributions and investments, usually one of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 09:15 AM |
| 1 | Woman really don't like most men sexuallyIn the defense of that map, I (27F) am a heterosexual woman, and mostly watch lesbian porn, or girls going at it solo, even though I desire sex and relations with men. ALOT of porn that involves man and woman is heavily staged and fake! The girls' orgasms aren't real, and it's all to appeal to the male gaze, and his orgasm. But when I watch porn w only ladies, seeing a woman truly in ecstacy is what really helps get me off because it's reflective of the ecstacy I wanna feel. I know many other la… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 07:48 PM |
| – | Why don't more struggling men join conservative religions?Okay i see what you're saying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 06:19 PM |
| – | Why don't more struggling men join conservative religions?red pillers advocate for all sorts of unethical shit, so this should fit right it. Red pillers are not the arbiter tho. Real red pill men, don't have happy and successful relationships w women, so why join their ranks? If anything, some churches are full of the most hypocritical people. And that's why it's perfect for red pillers. This goes against what you've originally said then. You claim churches are better for men, due to greater potential access to "higher quality" women, but then right he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 06:17 PM |
| 2 | At a 50/50 male to female ratio, why are there so many men left out?Because not every woman, desires every man, and also some women desire being single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 06:12 PM |
| – | Why don't more struggling men join conservative religions?Just because something is the lesser of 2 evils doesn't mean it is okay. Faking religion may be a walk in the park to you, but it's not for the women you are attempting to exploit for your own personal gain. Why not just be the man that you ARE? Why do you feel that being any other man, opposed to yourself is going to yield great results? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 06:08 PM |
| – | Why don't more struggling men join conservative religions?Why are you so insistent on "faking it"? Say things go to plan, and you meet a woman who checks all those boxes- low N-count, trad etc, and she believes you are a loving, trusting conservative man, what's the next step? Ever seen that Adam Sandler movie, "Just go with it"? where he faked an entire life, just to score 1 woman. Faking it can only go so far, before it begins to affect you. Or imagine if you met the woman of your dreams- perfect 10, stunning, healthy and fit, traditional, lives to s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 06:01 PM |
| – | Why don't more struggling men join conservative religions?Exactly 💯 conservative for thee, but not for me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 05:39 PM |
| – | Why don't more struggling men join conservative religions?Because religiously, they're probably not conservative, but like the idea of a conservative relationship/woman Because they feel it benefits the man the most.. which is everything you've listed in those bullet points. Plus a man should only go to church when he values the lifestyle that comes w it, not because he's simply trying to score. And churches are not some kind of home base where it's guaranteed you're gonna find women with low N-counts, and trad gender roles etc. If anything, some churc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Female women, why do some of you like to wear extremely tight clothes when going to the gym and complain when people look at it?I understand something can be distracting, and warrant a couple glances, but still I don't understand why not just leave it at that. If a woman is choosing to sexualize herself, then thats her prerogative. Why take it further, by caring so much about what 'some' girls are wearing? And even condemning/judging them. Plus, booty shorts n a sports bra offers more coverage than a bikini. Bikinis are WAY more revealing. I bet you you would be distracted if a guy started deadlifting in a tight black bi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 05:16 PM |
| 5 | If "Being An Asshole" Was All It Took To Get Women, Why Are So Many Assholes Single?What did 'all women' do to you? If that's what women deserve. Men deserve it too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 04:58 PM |
| 2 | If "Being An Asshole" Was All It Took To Get Women, Why Are So Many Assholes Single?Why Are So Many Assholes Single? Maybe because you're discovering not all women are the same, nor desire the same type of behavior from a man. I know 0 women who want an 'asshole' of a man. Many value, gentlemen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Female women, why do some of you like to wear extremely tight clothes when going to the gym and complain when people look at it?Why do you care so much what a woman wears, and how they respond to people who look? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Women, what do you bring to the table?I have a certain energy that makes people feel comfortable opening up to me and talking about their feelings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Ultimately it doesn’t matter how much you have over a woman, she will probably still reject you or not reciprocateEither way, whether he looks like Ryan, but ACTS like George, it doesn't take only that to attract a woman. Maybe for dudes, all it takes is an attractive woman, who acts willing to be with that man, but ladies are different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Ultimately it doesn’t matter how much you have over a woman, she will probably still reject you or not reciprocateThis right here proves that women value more than looks, and material assets. Just because a man has all of what he thinks women desire, doesn't mean she owes him sex, her time, the honor of being his girlfriend. Women reject men who do not click with them. If there is no spark, nor chemistry, he's not worth her time, even if he looks like Ryan Gosling, or George Clooney. There is more to life, and relationships than just sex and having options, for women. Just because we receive a lot of offers… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Women make different men they date play by different rulesA harsh truth of reality is dating is not gonna be fair. We are all imperfect humans, with varying values and beliefs. Although we have boundaries and expections we apply to the people we date, we will sometimes bail on, or make exceptions for others just because an opportunity with a fun attractive person is there. And it's usually influenced by our emotional states and pretty privledge. Men do the same thing, they'll always give the most attention to ladies they feel are closest to 10s. And wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today?Sending ❤️ from west coast USA | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 08:23 PM |
| 2 | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today?What country are you living in? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 07:56 PM |
| 0 | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today?I know evidence that contradicts what you believe isn't of interest to you. I'm not surprised. Sir, you're the same way. The way you were dismissive of my own personal claims, just for the sake of some research.. how does it feel to look in the mirror? And I'm sure you have evidence that supports everything you wanna believe. And no! Where have I ever expressed interest in dating women? But I do know that men who live their lives interacting with women more, cling to stats less, because their be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 07:52 PM |
| -1 | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today?We have statistics collected by governments and researchers that can easily show this. Feel free to look them up. Look up the average height, strength, income of men vs women. The results may surprise you. Thanks but it's not really of interest to me. I've studied stats, biostatistics, and been involved with enough research experiments and written enough papers to learn to take it all with a grain of salt. When you learn the behind the scenes of stats, I've learned it's much more better to live … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 07:40 PM |
| -2 | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today?Well you don't really know how the average man or average woman think. You just "think" you know probsbly based on what you see on Reddit, tiktok reeks, IG, etc. Ok. But research has already shown, taken en masse, women seek better. They are not looking for effeminate men. And research, schm-research. You can cling on to it all you want. You definitely live in an echo chamber, and seem to think there is only one way. Because it seems like no matter what someone tells you, you're gonna stick to y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 07:28 PM |
| -1 | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today?above move other men and bring qualities to the to the table she can’t? But why are you seeing it from a place of lack? Why assume that a woman can't provide certain basic things. Plus why would a man be attracted to a woman who is aware of what she "can't" do? That not why people partner up! It's because love, deep interest, and acceptance. I just think a lot of yall make dating abd relationships all about the wrong 💩 everyone that's been responding has been making it about material, and physic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 07:20 PM |
| 0 | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today?Says who? Plus how is a man's marital status relevant And that's not necessarily true. I know a few men who actually received less respect because of who they were in their marriages. Which goes to show that respect isn't based on your status, but rather your own character | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 07:05 PM |
| -2 | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today?Are you stronger? No? Are you taller? No? Are you more dominant? No? Do you make more than him? No? All of those are assumptions you are making. And who is this 'him' you are referring to? There are definitely ladies who are high earners, and make a lot more than a lot of men, and their are ladies who are taller than men etc, as well as females athletes and who are easily stronger and faster than a lot of men. It's just illogical to think that these little qualities automatically make someone "b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today?Feminine and submissiveness is seen as being a sex slave or a doormat these days Well because to some ppl it is seen that way, especially men. Men who will never know what it's truly like to embody a woman's femininity try n tell us what it means to be feminine/submissive. And usually they think it means subservience and letting them lead all the time and having access to sex whenever. So it's understandable when a woman walks away from that energy, women want companionship and love, not a comma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 06:46 PM |
| -2 | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today?All feminism is, is allowing women to have rights. And if women are competitive, why does it personally matter to you?? Teamwork makes the dream work and look how advanced we've grown as a society, since men AND women have been allowed to do a lot of the same things. Why do you mention confidence, and physical strength as if those qualities are specifically reserved for men? It makes sense for women to envy certain things about men, because when women are constantly told, you can't do that, but … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 06:30 PM |
| -1 | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today?stronger, taller, more dominant who make more income than them who will reduce themselves to equal status with them, Relationships arent a heiracrchy tho and for some reason a lot of men tend to see it that way. Just because a man has all of those qualities doesn't mean he's inherently above a woman Whats the point of even dating a woman if a man is just looking to be a 'boss' when he can just do that at any ol' job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Is stereotypical masculinity less attractive today?It's not that those traits are less attractive, but rather they are old and tired stereotypes, and seems like more women of today value the softer and vulnerable side of masculinity that's often overlooked- like the willingness to value her pleasure in bed, and the little things like how much he listens etc. Im seeing it more and more that women today aren’t equipped to deal with typical masculine men. What exactly are you observing? How does that tell you women aren't "equipped" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 06:13 PM |
| 4 | Can you explain why it is far easier for women to have casual sex than for men?Exactly 💯 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 07:21 PM |
| 10 | Can you explain why it is far easier for women to have casual sex than for men?✨️🧚🏻♀️A lot of men seem to value sex for the ACT and are less selective, therefore they are more open to sex, anytime, anywhere. Whereas a lot of women value sex for the EMOTION, and are more selective, as they bear the risk of childbirth, therefore, they're less open to sex with just any man. Plus, casual sex is typically mediocre sex, so it's a greater investment for ladies to be in committed relationships.. that's where the best sex is 🧚🏻♀️✨️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 06:40 PM |
| – | If girls liked or wanted sex as much as guys, most guys wouldn’t struggle to get laidExactly 💯 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 06:44 PM |
| – | If girls liked or wanted sex as much as guys, most guys wouldn’t struggle to get laidOkay! Just because birth control exists, doesn't mean it's safe nor should ladies HAVE to take it. Because would YOU take birth control, if it existed for a man and it had the same side effects? Doubt it. They suppress your hormones and even affect your libido, so why would a woman risk the health and safety of her body just cause a man said "there's BC" The fact that you aren't personally getting the amount of sex you desire, has nothing to do with the ladies. It's YOU. Because if there are oth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 06:25 PM |
| – | If girls liked or wanted sex as much as guys, most guys wouldn’t struggle to get laidNo one is offended, but lately listening to men complain on here, it's a constant back n forth of.. Men complaining that women of today are whores and not worth a man's time, because of the amount of sex ladies are having. But then we come across posts like this, that are now condemning women for not giving "enough" sex for all men to enjoy. When really if some men tired to understand ladies, they'd realize a lot of their sexual frustrations with them could be solved | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 05:54 PM |
| – | If girls liked or wanted sex as much as guys, most guys wouldn’t struggle to get laidIt's not that women want s3x less, but rather they have been conditioned to suppress their own sexuality more. Here's the thing about sex- BOTH genders desire it because it feels so good, and part of our biological purpose is to reproduce our human race. Therefore, it HAS to feel good, and be desired by BOTH genders, or the human race would've expired millenia ago. But in our society... You gotta look at it from a ladies perspective. Since day one, ladies are told to cherish their virginity, and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 05:44 PM |
| 3 | Are women planning their lives backwards? Or is society just in an economic death spiral?No! Were not planning our lives backwards. We are embracing the freedoms we have as modern ladies ALL WOMEN ARE CONTRIBUTING IN SOME WAY The tragic consequence of the career and hoe phase is many women end up forever childless Why do you think the most aspirational accomplishment is childbirth for women? Childbirth/motherhood is not easy, it's not something you just do, it's a commitment, and it's own lifestyle. If ladies don't want it, they don't need to accept that life. There are many ladies … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 09:35 AM |
| 10 | How about women with strong father figure but motherless?My dad wasn't a part of my life, and although my mom was around, she is emotionally distant. So I believe I have both mommy and daddy issues. For how my mothers distance affected me, my role as an eldest daughter was hypermasculinized, to make up for the single parent household situation we were in. So I didn't really learn how to just be, and embrace my feminine energy, or sexuality. I lived a short childhood, and constantly watched my mom date countless men who were all abusive in some way. He… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/24 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Men who complain about not getting casual sex don't put themselves in the right environments.Your dominant thoughts confirm your subjective reality. If you constantly tell yourself you are unattractive, then the universe will confirm that for you, right and left. If women flock to people who believe they are attractive, why would energy ever pull them to someone who thinks the opposite, and low of themselves? Just because one has not valued you, doesn't mean one won't ever. If I am a lady affirming that there are some of us who do value men, that should show you that there are down to e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/24 06:04 PM |
| 0 | Men who complain about not getting casual sex don't put themselves in the right environments.I don't understand whats so funny about the fact that there are ladies who value men. But I guess because yall wanna believe otherwise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/24 08:14 AM |
| 1 | Do you think men can be completely loyal, in your opinion?Disloyalty is dependent upon the person, not the gender. Both men and women cheat, and both men and women are loyal. There is no 100% way to know which gender cheats more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/24 03:29 AM |
| -2 | Men who complain about not getting casual sex don't put themselves in the right environments.Not all ladies are like that. There are definitely ladies who appreciate men for who they are. Edit: if you what I say doesn't fly with you, scroll on by. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/24 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Men who complain about not getting casual sex don't put themselves in the right environments.I don't do that! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/24 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Men who complain about not getting casual sex don't put themselves in the right environments.Why are you lying about this? What am I lying about? Questions like this come up when people assume how the general population of women think/behave I'm not guilty of putting men into boxes the way you're assuming. I don't play games with men, and categorize them. I have the same standards/requirements for men I like, whether it is for something casual or more serious. Plus you need to learn that things some women say, are not the same thoughts/beliefs of other women. They/we all date differentl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/24 12:48 AM |
| 2 | Men who complain about not getting casual sex don't put themselves in the right environments.I wouldn't look down on them. Men already do that, and they're letting pussy control them. Plus I've never suggested a man change their lifestyle just to get laid. What I'm suggesting is men live their own lives, and be social. If they see an attractive woman, then go for it. Opposed to being a wall flower, or looking for reasons to avoid a woman, then complain later that they get no sex, or women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/24 10:20 PM |
| 0 | Men who complain about not getting casual sex don't put themselves in the right environments.Then who are they attracted to then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/24 09:16 PM |
| 3 | Men who complain about not getting casual sex don't put themselves in the right environments.Exaclty!! Those men who complain don't realize that it's their own mindset perpetuating that cycle of "no sex". When they claim its Chads, and men in the top 10% are getting sex and not them, it's their own way of avoiding accountability for why they aren't getting chosen by ladies. So they blame other men, and women. Without delving into what ladies like about the men they are choosing to have sex with. My therapist once told me a part of being an adult is taking risks, and doing things even th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/24 09:14 PM |
| – | It seems for the average guy every woman is suddenly "demisexual"Women judge guys for their past too Whats your point? Regardless of man/woman, ppl who judge each other based on sexual past aren't worth anyone's time Women do not respect virgin men You don't know that, maybe some but not all. It's illogical to assume how nearly 4 billion women all behave and feel about virgin men. Other men don't respect virgin men, because it's them who are shaming eachother for not having high numbers. Men don't like sluts And yess! Maybe not you, but some men love hoes. I'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/24 08:35 PM |
| – | It seems for the average guy every woman is suddenly "demisexual"It must really make some of you feel so great and powerful to attack someone's intelligence, opposed to their claim. Clearly I just said, when women pick their sexual partners, they are after convenience, and men who are SEX POSTIVE that are obvi attractive to them in some way. So you literally just reiterated what I've already said, then said I make no sense. Anyone who resorts to ad hominen attacks and sarcasm, are less intelligent people, to me. And as a woman, I think I'm aware that we are m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/24 08:23 PM |
| – | It seems for the average guy every woman is suddenly "demisexual"No! Where did I say that? Reread my post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/24 07:16 PM |
| – | It seems for the average guy every woman is suddenly "demisexual"Either way, MOST, but not ALL. And its not just the women because if those ladies are getting pregnant that means they have contributing male partners. And if they're single parents, both people aren't trying to make it work or they aren't mature enough. Why is it always the ladies who are condemned in single parent situations? If anything, fathers, in mass numbers, are guilty of child abandonment. I personally can't relate to what you're saying because I'm a single, childless woman, and I know … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/24 07:12 PM |
| 1 | It seems for the average guy every woman is suddenly "demisexual"Exactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 08:46 PM |
| 3 | Why Don't Man-Hating Chicks Just Date Other Women?She's not implying that about herself. Shes a woman who knows her worth and is properly setting boundaries for the type of men who are worth her time For someone who mocks women, you seem to be among the ranks of men who don't like women, just as much as the women you're complaining about who dont like men. Your behavior is exactly why girls are making those tiktoks you hate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Why Don't Man-Hating Chicks Just Date Other Women?-because they're not lesbian -a lady can be sexually attracted to men, while also not liking the things they experience with men -Some ladies go through traumatic experiences with men at a young age, which form their dominant thoughts and feelings toward them. So some may not genuinely hate men, but are aggressive toward them for their own protection The world is gonna be full of lovers and haters. Just focus on the ladies who love men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 08:17 PM |
| 3 | It seems for the average guy every woman is suddenly "demisexual"You speak as if women are objects. The world is not some all you can eat buffet, where you can just choose what girls to date/fuck, instead of confronting your own hysterical ideologies. Dudes problem isn't the women. It's himself. Ofc if a dude wants sex, but then spends time shaming those same girls for having a sexy past you are gonna tire yourself out, cause why would that mentality ever attract girls who are open to fun and sexy things?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 07:36 PM |
| 3 | It seems for the average guy every woman is suddenly "demisexual"Lol why because women don't owe men sex? But at the same time OP will shame the sex positive ones.. Doesn't matter where you go, what dude is dealing with here is an internal problem, and thats gonna follow him regardless if the girls are European, African, Asian, Australian etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 07:29 PM |
| 2 | It seems for the average guy every woman is suddenly "demisexual"Lol you speak as if there is strictly a group of 10 guys that keep having sex with all the women, out of 4 billion. If women are just wanting to fuck, and nothing else, hypergamy doesn't matter. Women who are simply wanting a fun time are not gonna invest all that time and energy to search, when all they want is convenience, and a sex positive man, which is not hard to find... Hypergamy is for more serious situations, like when it comes to a serious boyfriend/husband. Guys do the same, cause whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 07:26 PM |
| 4 | It seems for the average guy every woman is suddenly "demisexual"Thats not all women tho. If girls are playing games like that, no guy has to stay nor accept that behavior. I don't understand what's hard about moving on to ladies with different values | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 07:12 PM |
| 4 | It seems for the average guy every woman is suddenly "demisexual"Look sir! The problem you are experiencing doesn't have to do with the ladies. It's you! You first acknowledge how men want casual sex, but then later on you shame the girls who are open to casual sex, and fun things.. because for some reason their sexy past matters, but yours doesn't 🤔???? You are tiring yourself out, buddy. Just pick a side | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 07:01 PM |
| 5 | It seems for the average guy every woman is suddenly "demisexual"its so tiresome women expecting beyonce treatment What exactly is "Beyonce treatment"? It's not gonna kill a man to act like a gentleman for woman. Plus if it's that hard to show them love and affection then just leave girls alone, period. No one is forcing you to date women And not realising that beyonce was cheated on and stayed more fvcked up is the fact that he cheated. This also shows how much, it doesn't matter how beautiful, smart, stunning, family oriented, or successful a woman is, some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 06:50 PM |
| 9 | It seems for the average guy every woman is suddenly "demisexual"if you want to play the game to your advantage (fuck chad on the side but expect much more from joe schmoe) then don’t be surprised when you get used for sex :) Lol some of yall dudes assume too much about women which is only keeping yourselves sad. If a man is that desperate to fake commitment, then HE has got bigger problems, and HE is perpetuating the very reason girls are using him because he is playing games too. Why waste all that time, that energy does not attract a queen, or a down to ea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 06:41 PM |
| 4 | It seems for the average guy every woman is suddenly "demisexual"Women in general are not obligated to just have sex with men regardless of their looks. Just because someone is not conventionally attractive doesn't mean they are desperate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 06:34 PM |
| – | Men, which woman is better? Why?Damn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 12:54 PM |
| – | Being an attractive woman in the West is the highest level of privilege a person can ever have.Those men wanted to sleep with you You don't know them. I do. You're not aware of their intentions or how far we went into dating. And so what if they only wanted sex, a win is a win regardless. And who says that wasn't the only I wanted as well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 11:59 AM |
| – | Being an attractive woman in the West is the highest level of privilege a person can ever have.Well for some of those oh so small negatives, ladies can actually become victims of harassment and assault, that can be pretty life threatening., just for not accepting a man's advances. It's happened to me a couple times. And it's not really a minor experience when people you try to date only value you for looks and sex, and lie about their intentions. It makes dating very difficult and conditions us to be very distrustful of men, when you want something real. You can probably relate, men all t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 11:32 AM |
| – | Being an attractive woman in the West is the highest level of privilege a person can ever have.Lol stfu. We're literally online. As John Cena says 👋"You cant see me" so I'm not gonna let some rando on the internet who has never seen my beautiful face, gaslight me. If you've had every man you've ever wanted and every man who's ever looked at you has wanted to give you things for free or wanted to be with you And yes that is part of my life. I've never been rejected by a lad, and every lad I've ever desired, I've eventually manifested, even some married lads. Never had to pay for a drink at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 11:14 AM |
| – | Being an attractive woman in the West is the highest level of privilege a person can ever have.Are you an attractive woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 11:00 AM |
| – | Being an attractive woman in the West is the highest level of privilege a person can ever have.So because of your experiences with a small handful of attractive women, you somehow feel you know my life, simply because they were raised and conditioned to be spoiled? You can be attractive and raised as a wholesome lady, who doesn't use her looks as a crutch. Thats how my family raised me. You seem to think anyone who is attractive all have the same universal experience, but no. Seems like those girls ur referring to weren't self aware or humble | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 10:47 AM |
| – | Being an attractive woman in the West is the highest level of privilege a person can ever have.Well ur not the arbiter of my life, so you wouldnt know based on one simple comment. My mind is blown because what did I say here that is indicative of what you're assuming? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 10:26 AM |
| – | Being an attractive woman in the West is the highest level of privilege a person can ever have.because women find the vast majority of men to be unattractive, if not outright disgusting and ugly. How do you know this tho? You aren't aware of what each individual woman desires in a man. Why do you think everything is about looks? You know ladies desires other more meaningful qualities, right? i just dont want men out there to be deceived into thinking that because they are good at conversation, or interesting, or traveled a lot, that it will make women want to have sex with you. It won't. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 09:55 AM |
| – | Being an attractive woman in the West is the highest level of privilege a person can ever have.It's not sir. Everything on there is skewed and its an app literally designed to priotize physical appearance and sex. So you're only dealing with a small subgroup of people who are open to the idea of hookup culture/casual sex. So you'll never meet people who aren't into that culture, but you can irl. Those apps simply cannot accurately represent society. Ofc if there is a male to female ratio of 80/20, and you consider ladies preferences, there definitely are gonna be lads who are left behind,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 09:33 AM |
| – | Being an attractive woman in the West is the highest level of privilege a person can ever have.I haven't gaslit anyone because I haven't done anything to make anyone question their own perception of reality. But rather I'm questioning someones perception of a reality they aren't living Plus why bring Tinder into this? It isn't reality. Online dating isn't a reflection of real life. It's just people who wanna fuck, thats why it's oversaturated with men. As a conventionally attractive woman, tinder is 💩 for me too, and ill never go back because the amount of options doesnt matter when a lot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 09:04 AM |
| – | Being an attractive woman in the West is the highest level of privilege a person can ever have.✨️🧚🏻♀️How is it spot on tho? You're literally a man who does not live the life of an attractive woman. Therefore, you cannot confirm whether these life experiences are true for a lady especially considering each one has unique and unmatched experiences. Its just odd. I'm sure if a lady made statements about how a man's life is, attractive or not, you wouldn't agree with her perspective because she's not a man who has lived like yall🧚🏻♀️✨️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 08:03 AM |
| – | Being an attractive woman in the West is the highest level of privilege a person can ever have.✨️🧚🏻♀️This is simply a rage fantasy. Unless you've lived the life of an attractive lady, you may never know what life is actually like for one. easily being able to get a husband who financially supports you They don't just "get" a husband. Dating and relationships are not easy. These ladies still have to invest time into things like stepping out of their comfort zone to meet lads, and emotional healing, etc. If you wanna get real.. there is also a dark side that comes with the blessing of phys… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 07:39 AM |
| 2 | The number of people who refuse to acknowledge that men are way hornier than women is a perfect example of why blue pillers can not be trusted to have an honest discussionThis makes a lot of sense. Thank you, for explaining this perspective to me ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 08:07 PM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️✨️🧚🏻♀️But why is it when ladies do it, people always try and humble her? When ladies sleep around lads judge her, although that is her dating preference. And then when she desires something more seious, those same lads will say they laugh at her and won't accept her because shes used goods🧚🏻♀️✨️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 10:23 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️Being an absolute manwhore myself, and one that is completely honest and open about it with all my partners, I have an strict rule to not date promiscuous women ✨️🧚🏻♀️I can't wrap my head around this statement. You deem yourself a manwhore, and choose to bring yourself down to the level of having sex with other "hoes" but yet they're not good enough to date?? What if ladies with higher values who desire relationships, don't desire a self proclaimed manwhore? I'd be iffy on accepting anything se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 09:50 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️That's awesome 😘😘 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 09:29 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️Hypergamy is simply desiring the highest qualities that are most favorable for an ideal connection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 09:25 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️✨️🧚🏻♀️Idk! I'm asking because I'm genuinely curious 🧚🏻♀️✨️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 09:07 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️It's just crazy that's some lads base so.muxh of a woman's character and status on the fact that she has sex. Lads who truly value ladies will see them for a lot more than what they personally do behind closed doors. This all just sounds like envy and resentment. Because only when a lad doesn't personally benefit from the fun sexy things she likes to do, is when lads seem to have a problem with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 09:05 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️Lads date up as well, hypergamy is prevalent within both genders . That 1 to 10 looks rating scale is used by lots of lads, and they're usually desiring the ladies closest to a 10, seems like many consider 8s and above ideal. That's a form of dating up, wanting the most attractive lady. And the fact you mention hoes are only desired for fun times, but when it comes to settling down, now all of a sudden a lad wants the most pure and chaste women, that's a form of hypergamy as well. Desiring the m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 09:01 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️my friends who will sit and have chats about “lets go on a 2 man” or “im tryna fuck this one girl” then go and say shit like “i cant stand hoes” ✨️🧚🏻♀️What's a 2 man? And kinda seems like some of those lads don't understand how their desire for "hoes" has come full circle. And that's cool you are chill about ladies and accept the fun things they like to do🧚🏻♀️✨️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 08:49 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️The shame is more focused on women because it’s just plain easy to fall into that lifestyle as a woman. A guy actually has to work for it. Well yea because a man wants the lady for sex. It's her body he wants access to, so ofc he's gonna have to invest some effort if he wants access to her special flower. It's only that way because lads are easier and generally come to us for sex. I made a deal to myself pretty young that no virtue means no ring. So I’m prolly dying alone tbh. Always accentuate … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 08:42 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️✨️🧚🏻♀️Crazy society we live in 🧚🏻♀️✨️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 08:33 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️✨️🧚🏻♀️That's a double standard then. So it's okay for lads to enjoy sex with sex positive ladies, when they wanna be fun and non committal but then all of a sudden when they choose to committ to a lady, now these same sex positive ladies are worthless?? As if the guy isn't just as 'low' for sleeping around with those girls. According to your logic, those lads are equally unsuitable for long-term connections. Single people keep other people single in general. I've seen lads, cock block and fight… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 08:27 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️✨️🧚🏻♀️this is how I express myself. What's offensive about it? 🧚🏻♀️✨️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 08:16 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️Besides we already seen that when a girl becomes a 304 it doesn't result in more men getting some action. Only the very few Chad's will get some of the action and all the other guys are just sitting on the sidelines. So basically those lads are envious, and she's a whore for sleeping around when it's not specially with THEM? Because they are men that want to be with her but she chooses to be for the streets But that's her choice tho. If he doesn't like it there's no use focusing on something you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 08:15 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️✨️🧚🏻♀️Where do you want me to go? 🧚🏻♀️✨️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 08:06 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️✨️🧚🏻♀️ lol I see what you're saying. I'm not British tho, I'm American. I'm glad you read my OP in a British accent because that's exactly how I read my posts on reddit as well 🧚🏻♀️✨️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 08:05 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️Are we really gonna go over why men don’t like promiscuous women for long term partners again? Thats not what I'm asking tho. I'm asking a question about why ladies in general seem to receive negative attention for being sex positive although that behvaior is what some men like and what from ladies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 08:04 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️That's nice ❤️🥰😃🌈 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 07:49 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️Ooooohh yes exactly 💯 thats a great point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 07:45 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️But you spelled behavior and endeavor without the 'u' so I'm confused. I'm confused as well. There is no letter 'u' in either behavior or endeavor. Unless you are being facetious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 07:43 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️Essentially the most experienced guys are having these experiences multiples times over with lots of women, leaving the average guy to get into a relationship with a girl who’s already been there and done that. But this is a scarcity mindset tho. This world is full of 4 billion women roughly, and your statement completely overlooks the fact that there are also modest ladies, and ladies who don't value sex the same as ones who sleep around with several men. Sex positivity is a spectrum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 07:39 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️✨️🧚🏻♀️Because I'm a genuinely curious lady? 🧚🏻♀️✨️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 07:32 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️What price do ladies expect you to pay? Genuinely curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 07:26 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️Oh i see. Thank you ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 05:46 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️I get it! Thank you ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 05:03 AM |
| 1 | The number of people who refuse to acknowledge that men are way hornier than women is a perfect example of why blue pillers can not be trusted to have an honest discussionYou seem very intelligent. Thank you ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 05:00 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️Thank you ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 04:58 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️✨️🧚🏻♀️You said you love hoes 👀 kind sir 🧚🏻♀️✨️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 04:52 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️Every time a woman says no one is entitled to her body without anyone suggesting as much Have YOU lived my life? No. What I am speaking on is a personal experience, I've encountered with a couple lads. How on earth would you know who has/has not made certain suggestions to me? Bye And no, I'm not Scottish | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 04:32 AM |
| 1 | The number of people who refuse to acknowledge that men are way hornier than women is a perfect example of why blue pillers can not be trusted to have an honest discussionAndrogens are directly correlated to labido. Right, ladies and lads both produce androgens. And andeogens are just one type of hormone that influences libido because there's estrogen, progesterone, and testoerone as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 04:28 AM |
| 1 | The number of people who refuse to acknowledge that men are way hornier than women is a perfect example of why blue pillers can not be trusted to have an honest discussionYou sound intelligent. Thank you ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 04:21 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️I understand what you're saying. I've never seen it from that perspective before. Thank you ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 04:09 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️No one here in this thread nor in any thread on this subreddit has said this Exactly. What I'm speaking on is irl, offline. the men who said you were their property. you slept with and wanted to be their property until they left And no. That's never happened to me. People have said this to me were lads who wanted me to be with them but I didn't. I'd never desired to be someone's property, I'm lady. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 04:04 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️✨️🧚🏻♀️Are you accepting applications?🧚🏻♀️✨️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 03:57 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️I'm thanking this kind lady for her response. And BDSM sounds like it would be kinky fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 03:56 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️This is such a stupid and tired retort It's not really a stupid retort when there are lads who literally behave this way. If you're a lad, you may not know, but there have definitely been lads who have made it clear to me, I was their property. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 03:07 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️But how so tho? Sex is something that is fun and enjoyable, so what about her wanting to have fun is indicative that she'll bounce? For instance, I'm a lady who loves to have sex, but not with just any lad, and that in no way affects how committed I am to a lad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 02:53 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️However, there are always consequences to your actions. If you end up being 40 after the carrousel ride and ask "where are all the good men?" then you shouldn't be shocked when "the lads" laugh and mock you. Similarly, if you end up with 5 kids to 5 men, then maybe you have made som bad choice and if people laugh at you for those choices, then bad luck. This is all detracting from what I asked. BUT.... it's all about taking responsibility for your actions What is so wrong about a sex positive la… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 02:39 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️This doesn't answer my question tho. Obvi I'm aware people have preferences for longterm partners but I'm genuinely curious why when it comes to the sex a woman has, it's a big deal. Because I'm sure lads will have a sexual past as well that are wanting to commit to a lady, but they don't see that as a problem for her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 02:36 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️How so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 02:32 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️This is how I express myself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 02:30 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️Thank you ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 02:28 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️50 women as a guy is different than sleeping around with 50 guys as a woman. One requires a signifigant amount of effort, the other requires you to open your legs. Lads dont own ladies bodies tho, so ofc its gonna require some amount of effort if you want access to her special flower. Lads don't realize that perpetuating this double standard is what makes it difficult for them to receive the sex they desire from ladies. If people are constantly told its not the same, and ladies are shamed for do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 02:22 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️✨️🧚🏻♀️I'm genuinely curious. I'm a lady and don't know what motivates a man, or what their intentions are. As a lady, I've been raised to value sex as a bond you share with someone you have deep admiration for. So your statement: Did you know that men can have sex with women they wouldn't necessarily want anything else to do with? Is quite new to me🧚🏻♀️✨️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 02:11 AM |
| 5 | The number of people who refuse to acknowledge that men are way hornier than women is a perfect example of why blue pillers can not be trusted to have an honest discussionGenerally curious: Why does it matter so much who is the horniner gender? If people are refusing to acknowledge something, let em, they have a right to their own personal beliefs, and mostly have those beliefs because their own experiences shaped them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 01:36 AM |
| -4 | The number of people who refuse to acknowledge that men are way hornier than women is a perfect example of why blue pillers can not be trusted to have an honest discussionWell because it's dependent upon the person, not the gender. I've had sex with lads who I had to beg for more. Plus in one round of sex, some ladies can experience multiple orgasms, and even wanna go for round 2, while some lads cannot. They have that lil refractory period, that ladies don't personally have to deal with, where other lads could keep going after they came. So it's really a matter based on the individual | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 01:07 AM |
| – | Which is easier, being a man or being a woman?The one that was created by men, for men. The society where they never had to resort to protest to earn basic human rights, which men have inherently had. The society where we men are still strictly seen as more fit to lead, even though its only lead to wars and greater division between nations. The society where doctors priotize a man's health well before they take a woman's seriously. Look how women are treated by some doctors and hospitals when they give birth. The fact that there are stoll j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 09:52 PM |
| 1 | I don’t understand, it seems like women don’t have to do much work or “real” work to become attractive/ have sex with atrractive men she’s attracted to and sexually attracted toBut it's a fact that the majority of women rejecting average men aren't very attractive themselves Why is that a problem? Women don't have to accept a guy just because he wants her, or because they are looksmatched. Men can make their own decisions on who they wanna have sex with, date, or marry, so why does a ladies personal decision matter to other men? But body positivity has them believing their rolls are curves. Why does it matter what they believe about their own bodies? How is that person… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Women are just as redpilled as men.Why wouldn't they be. Redpill isn't exclusive to men they want yet male redpillers are the only ones who ever receive any pushback on their beliefs. Trust me, women are negged for everything they do. They recieve push back for vauling their rights, they receive push back for "my body, my choice", the receive push back for having "too much" sex, but also judged for not giving men enough sex. They receive push back for not doing "the man's jobs" but are also judged for wanting to work and celebrat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 09:15 PM |
| 1 | I don’t understand, it seems like women don’t have to do much work or “real” work to become attractive/ have sex with atrractive men she’s attracted to and sexually attracted toThis is something ugly people say to convince themselves they're more attractive Not really! I'm a very attractive woman, who's never had any problems attracting any man I desire, nor have I been rejected by any I've ever liked. I just like to call out things I personally don't agree with. Your statement has nothing to do with me, I don't internalize peoples words like you've assumed But thanks for fishing, maybe I can join you sometime | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 09:07 PM |
| – | Why don't we talk more about "female sexuality"? Where has it gone?Because a woman's sexuality is not a concern to our society. When a man wants sex, ladies are seen as an object. When a lady doesn't get off, it's still sex even if the man man came. When a lady has too much sex she is a whore for the streets, but when she doesn't "put out" easy enough, then a lady is giving a man blue balls and making his life harder. This society only cares more about the amount of sex men are having and how much easy access they have to it opposed to valuing what it a woman's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 09:02 PM |
| – | Which is easier, being a man or being a woman?Which have all been perpetuated in a patriarchal society, made to heavily exclude women. So what does that tell you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 08:54 PM |
| – | Which is easier, being a man or being a woman?Neither. Life is life regardless if you are a man, woman, dog, bird, amoeba, alien etc. And in this life no one is granted an easier time for simply existing within a specific subgroup of animal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 08:51 PM |
| 1 | I don’t understand, it seems like women don’t have to do much work or “real” work to become attractive/ have sex with atrractive men she’s attracted to and sexually attracted toHe’s talking about casual sex, you’re talking about rationships I'm not tho, what I'm saying pertains to sex whether it is causal or within a committed relationship. Women, in general need to be turned on by the guy they're with, and he has to have SOMETHING to offer that is worth her time, because you can have a big dick and be attractive, but if he doesn't know how to truly satisfy a woman, talk to her, make her feel horny, then he is not gonna be a good lay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 08:49 PM |
| 1 | I don’t understand, it seems like women don’t have to do much work or “real” work to become attractive/ have sex with atrractive men she’s attracted to and sexually attracted toThat's kinda sad to say. So basically anyone who is slightly overweight, and not conventionally attractive should have low enough self esteem to feel they are only beautiful with products???? People like you who make comments like that are exactly why some people don't accept themselves and rely on beauty products, only for men to turn around and complain that they use them. Doesn't make sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 08:42 PM |
| 3 | I don’t understand, it seems like women don’t have to do much work or “real” work to become attractive/ have sex with atrractive men she’s attracted to and sexually attracted toIf you had a toned body and average face, good hygiene, you’ll have no problem with getting women laid. Women aren't strictly visual tho and many have higher values on what it takes to have sex with them . Just because a guys got it going on physically isn't indicative of how great of a lover he is in bed, nor is this reflective of how he'll treat a lady. True story, I've met a few lads who fit everything you've described, but when it came to speaking g with them, they were boring. They only wan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 08:33 PM |
| 2 | I don’t understand, it seems like women don’t have to do much work or “real” work to become attractive/ have sex with atrractive men she’s attracted to and sexually attracted toAttractiveness isn't based on make up tho. It's simply an enhancer for physical beauty. Real attraction is based in so much more like character, and energy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 08:22 PM |
| 2 | How do you avoid desperation and despair as you get older?You can't. Those emotions are just as valid as any other emotion like happy, sad, grief etc. The point of life Is to embrace your emotions regardless of how scary it is to face them. Feeling is the best way to healing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 07:59 PM |
| 1 | We do not live in a “hookup” culture and the amount of casual sex going on is grossly exaggeratedRight!! Whenever I login to social media, I always see reels that heavily focuses on hookup culture and the baddies who are sexually active, only to find a bunch of mad men in the comments. They'll say really harsh things about women, as if these girls represent all 4 billion women. When in reality, a lot of people are not sexually active the way social media wants you to think. I think people love spreading rage bait in order to keep us upset, docile, and low. Something odd is happening in our … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 06:42 PM |
| 1 | How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women?It never was. It has always been a hypothetical thing men love to throw in women's faces just because he is butthurt about women not picking him. A self respecting man, who values women, doesn't pester a lady with "tick tock, tick tock" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 05:03 PM |
| 0 | How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women?It's not real. And what's crazy is you're a man, and it's men always saying it to women. But yet none of yall even know a woman's life or body, but yall always try and tell us about ourselves as if yall are father time or something. Gtfoh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 04:59 AM |
| – | The number of women having casual sex is highly exaggeratedOk but are you a lady? NO. So how exactly do you know how each and every one is gonna respond. You don't. You only know what you are exposed to on social media, and then accept it as objective fact. Fboy behavior is tolerated if he’s Chad If Fboy behavior was tolerated then he wouldn't be hopping from girl to girl, and he'd have something that lasts longer than a ONS. The only Girls who tolerate that behavior are Girls who lack boundaries and don't know what's good for them. Any self respecting … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 12:57 AM |
| 7 | How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women?Well the "wall" is not real so.. because why does it only exist for women??? Cause hurt dudes want it to, and anyone who wishes the worst on anyone is ultimately wishing the worst upon themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 10:35 PM |
| 5 | How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women?I get it ok, I'm a man so I was born with the original sin and women deserve to stomp on my head for being alive. I accept it. I just wish they could be honest about it Oh lord, stop sulking dude. Some of yall just like to be sad. Never did I say you were ever below me, but you put your own damn words in my mouth just to keep yourself sad. Bye | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 10:14 PM |
| 9 | How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women?Ok but she's one person, with that one belief. Plus ur not trying to date your sister so why do you personally care about her outlook on dating especially when really there is a full of women all with different varying beliefs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 10:10 PM |
| 3 | How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women?Women are inherently more valuable than men and any man who does get into a relationship with a woman should thank his lucky stars that she gave him the time of day So who do you personally know that believe this?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 10:00 PM |
| -1 | How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women?Me! Be negative about all you want, people who are adventurous about life, and social always have better odds of meeting great people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 09:56 PM |
| -1 | How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women?modern woman believes. It's a fact Source? If that were true ladies and lad wouldn't be in equal and happy relationships. And you don't know what 4 billion women think or desire in their heads | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 09:40 PM |
| 2 | How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women?See now that's a positive mindset | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 08:50 PM |
| 0 | How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women?Either way that's your opinion. I still am what I am | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 08:47 PM |
| -5 | How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women?It just doesn't make sense to complain about odds are not in a lads favor when it comes to dating, but then still have the audacity to say you'll reject ladies based on age. So clearly the lads problem is his own mindset and how we views ladies. Glad i can't relate. I'm blessed to be a lady in this life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 08:27 PM |
| -5 | How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women?✨️🧚🏻♀️You can either be sad about it, or embrace the world and believe that if you desire something it'll come in due time And age, schm-age, my grandmother, 74, and mother 50, both have lads breaking down their doors to date them, marry them, fvck them etc of many ages. If lads are truly rejecting ladies based on age, then they got bigger problems 🧚🏻♀️✨️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 08:10 PM |
| -2 | How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women?✨️🧚🏻♀️Try speed dating. They have ones for different age groups. I (27F) attended one for ages 25-39 People of all ages and backgrounds show up The one I attended was held at the recreation area of a hotel lobby. There was a bar, and games It's fun, we had 7 mins w each person, and it felt like an MTV dating show 🧚🏻♀️✨️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 07:26 PM |
| -2 | How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women?✨️🧚🏻♀️ This advice does a disservice to both ladies, and lads. This implies an average man is only worth a woman at her worst, and everyone is deserving of the best, kind sir. Also, the wall is simply a rage fantasy, the only wall anyone hits is their expiry date, for when we go back home. In the meantime, life is meant to be lived opposed to running into hypothetical walls just because some lady didn't settle down with a lad at a young age 🧚🏻♀️✨️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 07:20 PM |
| 0 | Being girlfriend zoned is worse than being sex zoned✨️🧚🏻♀️ Dude or dudette, it doesn't matter. They were just using the celebrities who've been thru that relationship drama as example of what they don't want. Average, everyday people go thru that same stuff too. But I guess some of yall love to discredit people and their feelings 🧚🏻♀️✨️ Plus yall are wack for downvoting in a sub that literally says to not do that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Being girlfriend zoned is worse than being sex zoned✨️🧚🏻♀️ Good day to you, sir. Now imagine a lady rolling her eyes at you, and saying you are paranoid after sharing a genuine concern you have as a man, and see how that makes you feel. How do you expect ladies to value your needs, emotions and comfort you, when you are dismissive of them? 🧚🏻♀️✨️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 11:42 PM |
| 3 | The number of women having casual sex is highly exaggerated🧚🏻♀️✨️ Well you don't personally know a lot of men's sex lives out of the nearly 4 billion that exist, so none of us really knows. Plus your statement, "If men could, they would sleep with as many women as possible" is only something a lad who is receiving a lot less sex than what they desire, would say. A lad who is receiving it on the regular with multiple women, would not make that complaint. Just sayin ✨️🧚🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 11:26 PM |
| 2 | The number of women having casual sex is highly exaggerated✨️🧚🏻♀️ Because the pump and dump implies deceit. The lad is leading the lady on to believe he desires something with her, then dumps her after getting his needs meet. A mature lad who knows he wants casual sex just once with a lady, will make his intentions clear that he is strictly interested in a one night stand, and both mutually part ways afterwards, opposed to the lady being 'dumped' 🧚🏻♀️✨️ Source: myself 🤙 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 11:03 PM |
| 0 | The number of women having casual sex is highly exaggerated✨️🧚🏻♀️ They aren't tho. I've been on that side of casual sex and have many girlfriends who experienced the same deceptive behavior, and it's not fun regardless if he's ugly or hot. Ladies internalize that kind of treatment, and there is no guy hot enough that will ever receive a pass for that harsh behavior. Good day to you ✨️🧚🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 10:49 PM |
| 2 | The number of women having casual sex is highly exaggeratedDude we are literally human. There are over 7 billion people on this earth, so any stats we see online, or scientific facts that have to do with intersex relations are not always going to be 100% true. The fact of the matter is we are animals, with the primal urge to want sex, therefore, it doesn't necessarily matter who wants it more, or who is doing it more when we aren't monoliths, and all have different libidos | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 10:43 PM |
| 2 | The number of women having casual sex is highly exaggeratedWomen are far less horny than men ✨️🧚🏻♀️ Good day to you. What makes you come to this conclusion? That's a huge generalization about ladies that is not necessarily true. High libido is not gender specific, but rather dependent upon the person. I've had sex w a few lads who could not keep up, and felt I nearly had to beg for them another round. If men could, they would sleep with as many women as possible. A lot already do that tho. the idea that there is some behind the scenes orgy or ONE stud … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 10:30 PM |
| 3 | Are women not getting approached anymore?✨️🧚🏻♀️Good day to you. From my personal experience, lads definitely still approach ladies. I've noticed a lot of lads, like ages 30+, will feel more confident approaching me anywhere, compared to lads closer to my age, 27. They'll usually want something emptionally deep, and sex with commitment. When it comes to lads in their 20s, most seem like they're emotionally unavailable, and just want casual sex, and that's the only thing many have approached me for. ✨️🧚🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Predictions for how the dating market will look 100yrs from now?✨️🧚🏻♀️I feel the technology will be highly advanced in 2124, compared to today. I believe we'll have the ability to instantly transport somewhere, and the use of cars will become obsolete. So now when it comes to dates, and sex, we'll have the freedom to instantly get there. Taking those late night "wyd? Come over" texts to a whole new level Dating will become even more faster, and hook up culture will still prevail now that people can instantly appear in front of you. Making things like tinder… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Do virgin women still have "value" or is it something "from the past"?there are virtually no virgin women ✨️🧚🏻♀️ There definitely are, and you'll never 100% know peoples sexual backgrounds because we don't wear it like a badge, kind ma'am or sir. do virgin women still have something to be proud of? Yes, everyone does. Your value, and ability to contribute to anything is not based on your sexual background, its based on your character, and staying true to your authentic self. Sex is simply sex, something humans are meant to do, so the ability to refrain from it is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 03:58 AM |
| – | Most girls are genuinely repelled by truly kind men, you have to have some degree of asshole in you or they will get boredYes we are. We observe who women date. ✨️🧚🏻♀️ Okay, but lad. Observations can be biased, and misinformed. You have no idea why certain ladies are w certain, lads. Some could be assholes but maybe they're with them just for money/sex/attention, and nothing more. But that doesn't necessarily mean they value those lads more that a wholesome one. I've definitely been with a lad, for sex and attention, similar because the opportunity was there, but that doesn't mean I value him more than a wholesome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 06:23 PM |
| 2 | Most girls are genuinely repelled by truly kind men, you have to have some degree of asshole in you or they will get boredWomen are ultimately turned off by overly wholesome or kind men ✨️🧚🏻♀️ Kind sir, I'm assuming you are a man. You aren't aware of what a vast majority of women desire tho. We as ladies love, and value gentlemen. Where are you receiving the idea that women don't value wholesome lads? Sincerely kind men, take home the W Asshole lads will ultimately take the L ✨️🧚🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 06:35 AM |
| – | Why can't women take an L?This is for you 🍪 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 03:52 AM |
| 1 | I think this is a good definition of a “high value man”. What do you think ladies?A high value man is simply a man other men want to be, and that lots of women want to fuck. Period. Whether or not he’s a good long term mate is beside the point. ✨️🧚🏻♀️ as a lady who partakes in meditation/emotional healing/therapy, I don't agree with your statement. Value comes from within, and everything you've described is all based on external validation, rather than a man being authentic to himself Doesn’t that make fuck boys high value? Well yes to a degree it would make them high value … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 09:02 PM |
| – | Why can't women take an L?He's bashing people who think they are a 10 which implies they are perfect Okay but that whole rating ladies on a 1 to 10 scale has been perpetuated by lads, and if anything they are the ones who prefer the 8s, 9s and 10s, so that implies they desire ladies who fit the idea of perfection, so why judge the ladies who 'think' they're 10s/perfect, when lads desire that same intangible thing?? A lot of lads are notorius for pedestalizing ladies, and it seems like they have this idea of what a 10, or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 08:34 PM |
| – | Why can't women take an L?So based on you're comment, you just proved that the " women are the prize" mentality has been perpetuated specifically by men. The only people who believe women are above men are those who pedestalize ladies, and think all of those things you've mentioned are necessary to make a lady happy, and keep her. In modern times, more women are deviating from those standards you've described, as many ladies approach men they like, and even offer to treat their lads to something nice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 08:19 PM |
| – | Why can't women take an L?✨️🧚🏻♀️ Segregation was a real issue rooted in racism, and that's not comparable to a lad who is simply upset at the self-image and worldview of a small handful of ladies, in a world of roughly 4 billion ladies there are a great number if ppl on this earth, and a finite time to live this life to waste it focusing on things that make us upset ✨️🧚🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 07:55 PM |
| – | Why can't women take an L?✨️🧚🏻♀️But that's the problem, why does 1 lad feel entitled to judge the ideas and lifestyles of ladies that are simply living their own lives, kind sir/maam? It's not like he's provided constructive criticism, he's straight up bashing them for THEIR own self imagine, and worldview. Also the way OP talks about ladies, it's implied he doesn't value them, nor their opinions, just look at his final sentence. Good day to you 🧚🏻♀️✨️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 07:49 PM |
| – | Why can't women take an L?✨️🧚🏻♀️ why does it matter to you if a lady is "delusional" as you claim? They're supposedly not you're type anyway, so why does it matter, how 1 or even a small handful of ladies think, in a world of 7+ billion people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 07:39 PM |
| – | Why can't women take an L?✨️🧚🏻♀️ A lot of ladies do take the L, but why should a lady take one for something you personally don't agree with , kind sir? Sir, you are a hypocrite, and this is what I don't understand. You acknowledge how some ladies desire.. equality for women but not men though, because obviously not all men are equal and no woman believes that But then you go on to say This is why I believe that women refuse to take an L in dating. If women would like to prove me wrong, take an L right now So you're ups… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 07:35 PM |
| 3 | Is it seen as ungrateful or a bad choice to decline sex?✨️🧚🏻♀️ exactly, this is exactly why that statement, "ladies are the gatekeepers of sex" is a fallacy, because it takes 2 to tango, and the lad's consent is equally important 🧚🏻♀️✨️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 07:06 PM |
| 1 | "They're only being nice because they want sex" - yeah, and there is nothing wrong with that🎯 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 06:01 AM |
| 1 | "They're only being nice because they want sex" - yeah, and there is nothing wrong with that✨️🧚🏻♀️ This is exactly why ladies don't value lads who attempt to get by simply "being nice". As ladies, some of us are aware that nice guy behavior, and lovebombing is all a facade, to fvck them, and fvck them over. That behavior is going to hurt the lad in the long run because ladies who take advantage of the nice behavior will suck you dry of resources, and may ditch you before giving you sex ✨️🧚🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 04:18 AM |
| 1 | When you don't research before your feminist speech✨️🧚🏻♀️ All you lads are all lost. Feminism isn't about YOU, it's about women's rights, and equal opportunity. Anyone who automatically blames a man for anything is a misandrist, not a feminist. How do you lads ever expect ladies to value your rights and needs, when you live to make a mockery of their rights?? Resorting to misogyny is not the way ✨️🧚🏻♀️ Good day to you lads | /r/MensRights | 23/01/24 07:41 PM |
| – | “Don’t bother a woman at [location]. She’s just there to [do activity].”✨️🧚🏻♀️ That's wonderful, kind sir. I'm delighted that we can relate. Reddit is definitely an interesting place that can be useful, but when we stumble upon the darker side of some subs, it's rather easy to fall down the rabbit hole filled with harsh debates and negativity. And yes, I'm definitely going for a more positive role, with is account. Its always great meeting new fellow humans. I'll be your friend, lad, cheers 🍻 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 07:33 PM |
| 1 | How can LTRs last when modern men discard women who reach thirty or forty?If you think that fertility doesn't dramatically decline with age, then you need to retake the class. ✨️🧚🏻♀️ I've never said otherwise. It's not necessary to retake a class I received a 98% in, overall, kind ma'am or sir. Yes, I'm sure that a 47-year-old woman with a healthy libido and regular menstrual cycle is very fertile. ✨️🧚🏻♀️ You're correct about that. I've definitely seen it happen many times at the hospitals I've worked in. If she has the healthy body to nurture a growing child, it is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 07:25 PM |
| 2 | “Don’t bother a woman at [location]. She’s just there to [do activity].”✨️🧚🏻♀️ Good day to you, I've actually been on reddit for about 7 years, but I deleted that old account. Too much negativity was piling up, and I wanted a fresh start. Chao, kind ma'am, or sir! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Which do you feel a woman values more?Definitely guy 2. A lot of ladies get into short-term connections with guy 1s, just for the sex, but that lifestyle eventually becomes nauseating and unfulfilling. Guy 2s are more worth lady's time because the sex is about emotion opposed to just fucking, and getting off, and he is a high moral/value man (does he values me? Does he want to grow with me, does he have good genes to produce healthy children?) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 03:05 AM |
| 1 | How can LTRs last when modern men discard women who reach thirty or forty?Men value fertility in women and youth and beauty are indicators of fertility. ✨️🧚🏻♀️ Hello there kind sir, those aren't indicators of fertility, in anatomy and phys. We learned fertility is linked to healthy lifestyle, regular menstrual cycle, and a healthy libido/sexuality, and also wide hips. how do you explain that women initiate divorce like 70% of the time, 90% ✨️🧚🏻♀️ kind sir, just as you've found stats on the average ladies' age, lads desire there are also stats on why ladies divorced … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 02:52 AM |
| 7 | Why do women love testing men🧚🏻♀️✨️ Good day to you, kind stranger. It's not that ladies "love" testing men, but rather they are attempting to pick a mate who's worth their time, and also reflects their ideal qualities in a partner Ladies often receive romantic and sexual offers from many lads, and they also bear the responsility of childbirth. So them resorting to "tests" is how some will gauge their partners loyalty compared to other suitors ✨️🧚🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 11:15 PM |
| 5 | “Don’t bother a woman at [location]. She’s just there to [do activity].”✨️🧚🏻♀️ Good day to you, kind stranger. From fellow human, to fellow human, might I remind you that everyone's contribution means something, lad. It is better to speak knowledge, than to speak negatively to others who are reflections of yourself. Good day to you 🧚🏻♀️✨️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 10:43 PM |
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