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Humpzelot/r/seduction15/09/20 05:17 PM
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being a high value person isn’t in your career, relative status, or success. it’s your ability to “bring someone up” to your level, like giving them a new perspective or way of looking at things. The high value guy is someone that can lift you up when needed. The dude who you’re going to go to when you want a job if that makes sense. People can have solid careers, high status and still be low value dudes
/r/seduction16/02/21 03:07 PM
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There is no failure, only your own perception of failure. But we both have the same mentality for our end result. Striving to be authentic in any way possible. I think our difference lie in how we have conversations. It seems like you like to lead the conversations and be in control, which is an attribute i’m working on. Whereas I am good on the back foot with quick witted humor in high pressure situations. I like that perspective though and I definitely think I should lead the convo more. I’m j…
/r/seduction25/01/21 09:42 PM
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if you like her move on, but in the scenario i’m talking about this 10 put me in the friendzone the other day. she told me she just wasn’t ready so I told her that’s cool, she can go at her own pace, and i’ll be there for her as a friend. she said, “i’m used to being around tazmanian devil types, so when you’re kind to me it kind of throws me off but in a good way.” They’re not used to kind kings out here. She had the courage to tell me her feelings, I pointed out what I was grateful for in our …
/r/seduction25/01/21 03:30 PM
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a pessimistic mindset probably won’t allow you to unlock your full potential as a person if you want to think of it that way. If you can flip the most adverse situations into positives and find happiness in those situations, what else can stop you? not even from a woman perspective, but in a life perspective
/r/seduction25/01/21 05:08 AM
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the first step is realizing it, which it seems like you have. have those negative thoughts, realize them, and rationalize those feelings out. your goal should be to be the best person you can be. Having a girl to talk to all the time is of much less importance when you give yourself a greater purpose
/r/seduction25/01/21 05:01 AM
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keep going dude you’ll get there. all answers lie from within man, relying on someone else to find it is just finding a short term solution for a long term problem.
/r/seduction25/01/21 04:52 AM
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you’ve gotta have a degree of self respect too...she’s talking to someone else? wish her the best and move on. we’re all out here trying to be happy so talking to her is just putting yourself in a situation to be unhappy edit: you gotta be okay with it yourself before you can talk about that kind of thing...so you can look at it from a positive mindset
/r/seduction25/01/21 04:35 AM
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her loss
/r/seduction25/01/21 02:58 AM
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because a lot of people are more surface level types and aren’t comfortable talking about their emotions on that kind of level.
/r/seduction20/01/21 06:38 PM
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this is complete facts. a good way to do this is talking about something that caused you pain in the past, but that you overcame it and how [specific event] supplemented your own personal growth
/r/seduction20/01/21 05:49 PM
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i sit there and focus on my breathing and when I notice my mind wanders I bring it back to the breath. that’s about it
/r/seduction09/01/21 06:42 PM
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I meditate anytime i’m feeling nervous, not just cold approaching. it definitely does help you be in the moment instead of in your own head.
/r/seduction09/01/21 04:36 PM
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sounds more like a sigma
/r/seduction19/12/20 08:52 PM
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being nice is good, but too nice isn’t. If you’re complimenting a girl with the hopes of her liking you, or saying what you think she wants to hear, you’re being too nice. Your kindness should come off as being very genuine, so if you compliment someone it should be genuine and you should not expect anything in return, like making a general observation if that makes sense. You also might be doing a little too much pushing and not enough pulling. Like you can compliment them, then playfully call …
/r/seduction14/12/20 08:57 PM
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coming from a point of zero confidence and not even being able to make eye contact with women, what worked for me was acting like the most arrogant person on the planet. my subconscious toned it down to a level of normal confidence. while doing this, I also worked on the fundamentals of confidence until the way I was acting aligned with where I wanted to be
/r/seduction13/11/20 04:27 PM
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I just never feel satisfied. I always feel like the grass will be greener on the other side, but when I get there it’s never what it’s cracked up to be.
/r/seduction05/11/20 05:55 PM
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depending on if your working from home or not (or your covid preferences), you could try to do your work in a coffee shop during the work day to kill two birds with one stone.
/r/seduction05/11/20 05:17 PM
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the game doesn’t end when you get home. I just walk in like I just got home, super comfortable have her put her stuff in my room before going to the living room (to introduce her to the “area.”), then keep a super relaxed vibe the whole time and just slowly escalate. Another tip is to have her participate in the escalation in some way by telling her to put some music on, or lighting a candle.
/r/seduction19/10/20 11:05 PM
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spongebob meme
/r/seduction19/10/20 10:28 PM
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by reading the vibe you’re getting before you’re making a move.
/r/seduction19/10/20 10:27 PM
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just text her saying something like “hope your semesters going well” and if she responds you have to go ahead to progress
/r/seduction17/10/20 11:57 PM
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being direct is always a good thing imo. It’s how you react to their response that will determine value.
/r/seduction14/10/20 04:42 PM
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I start by reflecting on the day before, where I look at things I did right and things I did wrong. I then make a conscious effort to change. Even if it doesn’t happen all at once, or you have some bad days as long as I have the thought of improving in the back of my mind it’ll manifest. I also tend to look at things from a big picture. Kansas said it best “all we are is dust in the wind.” What’s one bad day when you have so many in front of you? In the grand scheme of things, one day won’t matt…
/r/seduction17/09/20 04:38 PM
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by just taking it day by day. just treat everyday like it’s independent of the rest. you can’t change the past, who you were yesterday doesn’t define who you are today.
/r/seduction17/09/20 01:28 PM
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Yeah definitely. I may not have always been confident in social settings, but I’ve always been confident in my ability and capacity to learn. I learned to rely and listen to my intuition. I honestly solidified my values and views by talking about them to other people and debating. Things like hearing my friends views on issues and providing counterpoints. It’s hard to explain values because they’re just what inherently makes sense to me. Like when someone says something that doesn’t align with m…
/r/seduction16/09/20 01:59 PM
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It gets easier the more you do it. A tip I did was practicing on my friends because it’s something you can apply to all your interactions to strengthen them. like when i’m joking around with my friends or emphasizing something to them, i’d tap their arm or something like that
/r/seduction16/09/20 01:32 PM
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i’ve addressed under a post above. feel free to take a look and dm me if you want anymore advice.
/r/seduction16/09/20 01:29 PM
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It took a very long time, and it wasn’t until this summer where I moreso gained confidence about where I was going and what I was doing. Earlier this month is when I really found out who I was. Finding my Myers Briggs personality type actually made many personal connections for me.
/r/seduction16/09/20 01:29 PM
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i’m in college and my classes are in person.
/r/seduction16/09/20 01:27 PM
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Yeah I watched a good amount of infield videos on youtube from coach kyle. those actually really helped me. I used the fake it till you make it strategy. you might want to overcompensate and try to act really cocky, and your mind will subconsciously tone it down to a level of normal confidence.
/r/seduction16/09/20 01:25 PM
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natural wit I guess. Mainly just making comments based on observations. literally what ever comes to my mind in any given moment
/r/seduction15/09/20 11:09 PM
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One you tuber that had the most profound effect on me was Coach Kyle. Dude’s smoother than silk. I also read models by charles manson, as well as reading through reddit a lot. i’d kind of just google something that I was struggling with and try to form my own opinions on what to do.
/r/seduction15/09/20 09:43 PM
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The key is calibrating based on the reactions of the people you escalate on. It’s hard to break over the hump, but you’ve always got to be able to take calculated risks based on what’s given to you. when I see a girl for the first time on a date or wherever, i’ll give her a hug and just hold my arm around her shoulder for a little while I’m talking to her. if she wasn’t as receptive to the hug, I wouldn’t hold my arm there after the hug. A handshake is also an acceptable start if you aren’t a hu…
/r/seduction15/09/20 09:40 PM
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Straight facts man. If you want something go get it. If it doesn’t work out, learn from it and move on. If I ever catch myself second guessing, I just say “fuck it, what’s the worst thing that could happen?”
/r/seduction15/09/20 08:24 PM
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Agreed! I didn’t really know who I was at all at the beginning so nothing I did really felt authentic. Now I’ve got my own ideas, values, goals, passions and I’m genuinely excited to share these with people
/r/seduction15/09/20 07:16 PM
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Sure I’d love to help. Most of the changes I made were revolving around my own foundations. The thing I struggled with the most was my own confidence. I was constantly worrying about what other people thought of me in both my interactions with women and my interactions with friends. I came to realize that I was just putting on different faces, without truly expressing who I was. I spent a lot of time really thinking about who I am, what I want in a relationship, what I want in my life, and how I…
/r/seduction15/09/20 07:04 PM
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I am humbled by this, as I’m just a normal everyday dude sharing his story, but I’m glad this message could resonate with you.
/r/seduction15/09/20 06:36 PM
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Thanks! It’s crazy how my original goal of getting some tail opened up the floodgates for so much more personal development.
/r/seduction15/09/20 06:24 PM
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To add onto this, it’s possible to flirt with one while also including the other. I usually will engage the one i’m not interested, and make subtle comments about the one I am interested in. I’ll say things like, “ohh so are you from where she’s from?” or “did you come with her?” maybe a “she must be the crazy one in the group”
/r/seduction15/09/20 06:02 PM
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how do you stand out if you’re trying to fit in?
/r/seduction24/03/20 07:55 PM
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If you're in the friendzone, the girl gets to appreciate almost everything you bring to the table without giving back. That doesn't sit well with me.
/r/seduction08/03/20 09:00 PM
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I will not confirm nor deny
/r/seduction08/03/20 06:55 PM
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She threw out some backhanded comments about me not considering her a friend and I just laughed and kept doing me
/r/seduction08/03/20 06:07 PM
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what do you think I did after the party?
/r/seduction08/03/20 05:43 PM
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glad I’m not the only one
/r/seduction27/02/20 09:27 PM
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yeah I guess I would’ve noticed any other time but it was 30 minutes till my exam and I was leaving
/r/seduction27/02/20 09:27 PM
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This is facts. Literally went to a party with no intention to get laid, was dancing like no one was watching, and before i knew it a girl tapped me on the shoulder and we started making out. I was also getting a ride from a Designated Driver, and there were 6 people in the car. I told him to come get me the next round because i didnt want to ride in a crowded car and they asked me to ride with them
/r/seduction20/02/20 07:38 PM
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I tend to start with touches in pretty safe areas. Like in conversation, ill touch her shoulder or arm when I'm emphasizing something in my story. I gauge the girls reaction (some arent receptive to touch) and decide where to go. When going through a crowded area, I'll put my hand on her lower back to guide her through. If I'm in a loud area such as a party, when trying to talk ill lean in close and put my hand on her back sometimes. Another thing i do when i tease a girl or she teases me is ill…
/r/seduction20/02/20 07:29 PM
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so what? would you rather be judged for being too confident or shying away in the corner? A confident person doesn’t place much weight in the validation of others, as long as they’re having a good time
/r/seduction21/01/20 08:27 PM
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just take it day by day. Set some goals like talking to random people each day (guys or girls) just to be confident in overall social interaction. This can lead to you making goals to talk (like a normal person) to a certain amount of girls in a week. After you build that foundation for social interaction, you can work on the nuances of the game like flirting. setting goals for yourself and achieving them will do wonders for your self confidence. My biggest advice is to see everything as a learn…
/r/seduction21/01/20 08:23 PM
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In my personal experience, I wasn’t saying things like, “I’m a super confident guy” and believing it. I would start believing in statements like, “I have my stuff together, I’m a very smart guy, or that I’m the man because of all these attributes.” It started off me halfway believing what I was saying but that transformed into actual belief for me. Once I started believing that, it allowed me to only seek validation from myself and not from other people, which was huge for my self-improvement. I…
/r/seduction21/01/20 08:12 PM
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that’s the biggest thing for sure. I try to see the qualities of myself that are appealing. The biggest thing is to stop seeking validation from and giving validation to women. The goal is to only need validation from yourself
/r/seduction21/01/20 07:34 PM
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yeah I can see that, but he’s able to, in the short term, act confident around women this will provide him with a foundation for him to build on
/r/seduction21/01/20 06:19 PM
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It’s much better to go in convincing yourself that you’re the man rather than walk over nervously and quietly though. From the point OP is at now, it would be better for him to be overconfident in his ability for the time being, rather than under confident. If you’re able to fake being overconfident with women, that interaction may in turn raise his confidence that he could perform in those situations.
/r/seduction21/01/20 06:12 PM
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when I’m “faking it” it involves me changing my mindset to one where the girl wants me and I’m the prize. Which, for me, cultivated my self esteem
/r/seduction21/01/20 04:38 PM
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hey man, try acting like you’re the cockiest mf on the planet (or just over confident). In doing this, you’ll usually subconsciously tone it down to a normal level of confidence
/r/seduction21/01/20 02:48 PM
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You just have to be more subtle about it. Like saying something like, “I’ve always liked girls who’ve traveled” or something like that. Makes you seem more high value
/r/seduction12/01/20 11:11 PM
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You definitely handled that pretty well, good tip when a girl doesn’t give you her number, tell her to take it as a compliment and she might change her mind
/r/seduction12/01/20 02:21 PM
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well I’m just home for Christmas break from university, so I wasn’t too worried about that part
/r/seduction18/12/19 03:42 PM
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Thanks man, I spend a lot of time on reddit and I’m finally going to start contributing
/r/seduction18/12/19 03:10 AM
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So it was right after a set but I was leaving after so I just went full send
/r/seduction18/12/19 03:01 AM
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