| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 6 | 18M How do I avoid becoming an incel?Read. Constantly. Have a hobby. Maintain fitness and activity level. Have goals. Maintain healthy friendships. Fall in love. Be kind. Learn how to cook. | /r/seduction | 14/07/26 01:50 PM |
| 5 | How to have female presence benefit you even if you don't like the girl who wants to be by you?Holy Christ. | /r/seduction | 23/06/26 04:15 PM |
| 4 | Cold hard truth - Height play a Major Factor than CharismaNah. Not in my experience. Though that may be true in suburban landscapes. | /r/seduction | 21/06/26 09:25 PM |
| 12 | Dedicating a few years to cold approach - Crazy to do at 32?In my 20’s having moved to NYC I would just talk to people on benches, in lines, outside etc. I’d get lunch or dinner alone. I never understood why people wouldn’t go places alone since it offered some opportunities to talk to people without. Goal. Even drinks alone some nights. I had a friend who would do this regularly than I. I highly suggest you try this. | /r/seduction | 21/06/26 01:54 PM |
| 2 | Those who have success at night clubs, whats the proper mindset?It’s a vibe for me. You’re just out for whatever and sometimes you meet that same spirit. | /r/seduction | 19/06/26 10:24 PM |
| -1 | I keep encountering this shit test?What a weird turn of phrase. Women who don’t want to date a man they think isn’t genuine is a “shit test”. Oh the irony. | /r/seduction | 16/06/26 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Had insane chemistry with a girl on my flight, didn’t ask for her IG, found it later — should I message her?I wouldn’t. I’m not saying it wouldn’t work I just doubt it. | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 12:10 PM |
| 2 | Girl keeps smiling and making eye contact but ignored my Instagram request — what does this mean?You need to talk to women. Instagram request? Who even cares about that. | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 12:07 PM |
| 2 | How do I ask a guy I went out with a few times a couple months ago if he wants to hook up?“Hey long time. I was wondering if you’d like to come over and get breakfast tomorrow.” | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Anyone has experience with dating men hater women ?What? | /r/seduction | 27/01/26 04:01 PM |
| 62 | I feel so jealous of all the guys women choose to have sex withJealousy is when you’re afraid someone is going to take something from you. This is not what’s happening. Envy is wanting what someone else has. You have envy. | /r/seduction | 04/01/26 06:58 PM |
| 13 | End more dates after 10 minutesLMAO. | /r/seduction | 16/12/25 09:23 PM |
| 5 | GF disappeared on a Saturday night. Am I being sensitive here?What is a pseudo relationship? I never had pseudo relationships. I always let women know I was interested and I made sure they knew I was not around for bs and in turn that I would not provide bullshit. Perhaps if you tried to make it non-pseudo you’d know for sure. | /r/seduction | 14/12/25 07:10 PM |
| 2 | Does she (37F) actually want something to happen at the Christmas Party, or am I (33M) delulu?Jesus Christ you’re an adult. Tell her you’re interested. | /r/seduction | 27/11/25 07:54 PM |
| 1 | 38, divorcing after 17 years—how do I re-enter dating in 2025?Holy Christ. Getting married in your 20’s. | /r/seduction | 09/08/25 09:01 PM |
| 2 | How do I have better/more sexual conversations with girls?Wait for them to initiate. They always do. | /r/seduction | 22/07/25 11:13 AM |
| -1 | Maintaining your Masculine Energy while being in a relationshipIf finding a mate isn’t masculine y’all have lost the plot. | /r/seduction | 02/07/25 02:31 AM |
| 0 | You want her? Don't tell her. Show her just enogh to keep her guessingLMAO. | /r/seduction | 16/06/25 09:23 PM |
| 3 | Men of Reddit who have successfully gotten plenty of lays through cold approaching? What have you learned and what is your most effective methods for doing so?Turns out if you actually like women it’s pretty easy. | /r/seduction | 03/06/25 03:38 AM |
| 2 | Approaching ladies as a brown manIt’s in your mind. | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 05:27 PM |
| 2 | How I Make Women Fall In Love With Me - The Principles Of ComfortVery aggressive, stranger. | /r/seduction | 09/02/25 12:27 AM |
| -3 | How I Make Women Fall In Love With Me - The Principles Of ComfortLmao. | /r/seduction | 07/02/25 08:20 PM |
| 2 | I can't believe how many people in here still haven't read ModelsNo the point stands. The problem isn’t the depth it’s you. | /r/seduction | 30/01/25 06:48 PM |
| 6 | Hi! Iam 23m and i will start approaching women for the first time in my life so what are the fundamentals should I build and focus on?My tip is just get used to talking to strangers. Talking to anyone in an easy way will just make it all easier. | /r/seduction | 22/01/25 04:22 AM |
| 0 | Better to upset women, than to be forgettable.Lord this is going to end up best of cringe somewhere/someday. | /r/seduction | 22/01/25 02:49 AM |
| 25 | The future of hookup cultureIt’s like every generation is surprised that sex exists. | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 03:19 AM |
| 2 | How do you get a girl isolated from her friend?Needing tricks instead of being worth their time is where you fall into the creep category. | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 03:25 PM |
| 1 | How do I seduce my barber?If you like someone and you’ve had a good conversation with them do the following: Tell them you’d love to see them again and if they would like to go out for coffee/lunch/dinner/whatever. Wait for the response. It sounds like you already had a great and charming conversation. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 19/12/24 01:08 PM |
| 4 | How to stop paying for women, without losing conversion?If you ask someone out it’s on you. Men who try to wiggle out of paying for a date YOU asked someone on is bad manners just to start. You want to do that, say so up front. “Would you like to go out and split the bill?” Except I suspect that won’t work in your favor as often as you want. You could wait to let women ask you out I suppose. | /r/seduction | 19/12/24 01:41 AM |
| 2 | How can I get "hood" hispanic/arab girls as a white guy? Not sure how to connect with this group?If you say so. Have you approached them? | /r/seduction | 13/12/24 04:22 AM |
| 24 | How can I get "hood" hispanic/arab girls as a white guy? Not sure how to connect with this group?What is being asked here? Are you trying to date gang members in your area? Are you trying to date working/middle class women who sometimes wear street clothes? | /r/seduction | 13/12/24 03:57 AM |
| 2 | How to actually "lower my standards"?It’s not a standards issue. It’s a reality issue. Are you a catch? What improvements. Are our type of women even in your dating pool etc. | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 02:46 AM |
| 5 | Women Can Tell — Or Can They, Really?I think that’s because a lot of men are losers. So are a lot of women. | /r/seduction | 19/11/24 09:07 PM |
| 5 | Late 30's female dog walker crushing on male dog walker🍿 | /r/seduction | 04/11/24 11:01 PM |
| 2 | Why do older women seem so much nicer when approaching?LMAO. | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 11:10 PM |
| 0 | Did meeting girls in real life work better for you than online dating?Online conversation is staged and requires unnatural effort. The demise of attention spans ruins everything. In person people are flawed and you get what you’re looking at. You can’t really fake interest, friendliness or whatever it is that catches your attention. | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 03:12 AM |
| 14 | Why is it that the answer to a man's inceldom is, 99.9999% of the time, to "just work on yourself bro," even if its for the next 50 years, "just work on yourself bro?"Well, arguing in bad faith is a good sign you’re doing it wrong. Either way, good luck. Hope the fist clenching and hair pulling solves your problems. | /r/seduction | 09/08/24 01:19 AM |
| 27 | Why is it that the answer to a man's inceldom is, 99.9999% of the time, to "just work on yourself bro," even if its for the next 50 years, "just work on yourself bro?"If an incel takes the time to work on themselves it won’t take 50 years. Explore hobbies. Go do things in public alone. Work out. Do fitness. Talk to strangers on the street. Read books. Explore music. Any and all of those things will immediately make you a more interesting person. The issue is incels don’t do this. They complain. Blame others. Stay insular in their hobbies. | /r/seduction | 09/08/24 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Cheapest pickup bootcamp?Going out to bars alone. | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 04:11 AM |
| 6 | What’s the youngest you’ll hook up/FWB with?At 36 I was hooking up with a 19 woman. We had fun. What more do you need? | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 02:39 AM |
| -2 | How can i become hook up material ? M30Charming. Good clothes. Big dick. | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 09:04 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Get out of your head and enjoy it. | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 04:09 AM |
| 25 | [deleted by user]Talk to strangers in line/wherever. Treat them as human beings. | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 10:56 PM |
| 5 | Let’s talk about Racial Preferences - based on statisticsAsian (especially Korean), Jewish, white, African American and Hispanic women are the women who dig me most. | /r/seduction | 01/12/21 02:44 AM |
| -2 | I have someone in mindIt’s completely OK to let someone know you’re interested. However moving forward means that the person of interest tell their SO and this is somehow managed. Any engagement after this is likely to move forward or end. Either way it resolves and everyone knows where they stand. It might open future opportunities if nothing comes of it. Putting yourself out there and taking chances is reasonable. Saying nothing and playing the friend card is just cowardly. | /r/seduction | 16/09/20 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Is it coming off too strong asking a girl on a 1st or 2nd date that you like her & want to see her more?In life you can be a leaf in the wind or you can be the wind. | /r/seduction | 06/09/20 02:12 AM |
| 8 | How can I stop being nervous around the men I find good looking?I do this by looking people in their eyes. Turns out you get better at it over time. | /r/seduction | 06/09/20 01:47 AM |
| 2 | Why is getting someone's phone number important?So you can call them or text them. Calling is better for a billion reasons. That said, anything else is secondary. | /r/seduction | 17/08/20 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Is a Big Dick bad?Heh | /r/seduction | 14/06/20 08:09 PM |
| 6 | Are most girls okay with guys not using protection?Reconsider the talent you’re pulling. | /r/seduction | 18/05/20 09:38 PM |
| 1 | If you try to attract women with money is that all they will see you for or is that how you get them to like you?Order of things important in a relationship: sex sense of humor kindness/support money | /r/seduction | 15/05/20 08:48 PM |
| 9 | What do you feel about this?Nah. That’s not true. There are a ton of women who are not in my league and would never sleep with. Many people feel this way. This is just sour grapes. | /r/seduction | 31/10/19 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Invited a girl for a walk and dinner she declined the dinner wants to do the walk. What does it mean?It means the dinner option is on the table if you’re cool on the walk. If not she can bounce. Walks mean she wants to get to know you. Conversation man. | /r/seduction | 31/10/18 05:45 PM |
| 5 | I have a hard time finding girls interestingSome people aren’t interesting. Many ugly and pretty people are dull. Move on to the next one. End it quickly and politely. | /r/seduction | 27/09/18 03:03 AM |
| 1 | How do I show interest without coming off a clingy?I call because I like to do that instead but yeah that’s a way to go as well if you know right away you want to spend more time with them. | /r/seduction | 29/08/18 06:35 PM |
| – | How do I show interest without coming off a clingy?Absolutely - it should go without saying. If you’re putting yourself out there you need to be prepared to be rejected and to reject people. Be polite when you’re the one who isn’t interested and be polite when it is you who is being rejected. Be nice! | /r/seduction | 29/08/18 03:49 PM |
| 2 | How do I show interest without coming off a clingy?It’s not you. All you can ever do is control your own behavior and to always show that you are polite and have manners. So when you’re not interested just say so. When women ghost I feel like it is impolite. Though r/niceguys and r/nicegirls is a prime example as to why maybe a few people just don’t reply. I used to be an OKC mod - let me just say it was horrific what people would say when rejected. | /r/seduction | 29/08/18 03:42 PM |
| – | How do I show interest without coming off a clingy?It’s a mixed bag. Some people are open and ready for a relationship. Some people want a relationship but aren’t ready - needless to say they’re willing to be coupled. There are two ways to handle this: be a leaf in the wind or be the wind. Let them come to you is a no risk approach. Ultimately you end up with people who are interested in you but you might not be that into them. Not always but you’re letting things happen and are taking a step back. Going after someone is risky. They might not be… | /r/seduction | 29/08/18 12:30 PM |
| 7 | The real reason girls don't sleep with you (and what to change to spark intense, sexual attraction INSTANTLY)Hahahaha. Wow. Found the virgin I guess. | /r/seduction | 11/08/18 11:13 PM |
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