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DiscussionHungduck69/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 10:50 AM
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DebateHungduck69/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:02 AM
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Okay makes sense. Fluctuates based on what you want now. Best before wont mean best always. Tx
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:13 PM
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"Best I've had", "subpar". I was more focused if there is an inbetween?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:10 PM
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Ok bro, special snowflake
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:02 PM
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Nvm shouldnt have expected you to answer a hypothetical
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:01 PM
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What happens if you breakup and no man comes close?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:58 PM
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This is so simple when you realise People generally act in their own best interest. Suddenly half the questions here are answered, boom.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 02:55 PM
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Okay but then your post is kind of obvious. If you define unattractive as someone you dont like, then obviously someone you dont like would be a bad partner...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:56 PM
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Can you be attracted to an ugly (unattractive physically as the post intends i think) person
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:48 PM
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If you had fun with an unattractive man and the relationship ends why couldn't you have the same feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:26 PM
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Cheating results in fond memories if you are attractive lmao, interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 12:59 PM
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Realistic though
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 11:17 AM
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You have countless posts you've made with men in the title. Its actually scary lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:34 PM
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You have an agenda or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:25 PM
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Yea exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 04:11 PM
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Ive come to the conclusion this girl has a fundamental confusion about what alpha fucks beta bucks refers to lmao. Its about 2 different dating strategies men utilize based on women's preferences and the resulting outcomes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:59 PM
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Trying too hard to lump me into whatever imaginary group you got going up there tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:54 PM
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Lucky I gave you an easy exit route which you so gladly took lmao bitch boy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:52 PM
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A sugar daddy would be an example of beta bucks yes. Not mutually exclusive lmao You keep projecting how we are supposed to feel lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:49 PM
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Cool you can take your enough and go lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:47 PM
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Thats not what alpha fucks beta bucks refers to. It refers to someone who gets laid because they are attractive vs someone who gets laid because they are used primarily for resources Cool projection or whatever with the you feel... stuff lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:46 PM
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I quoted what she wrote. Meaning (generally) at a younger age with less responsibilities they want careless fun and later on generally want to settle with a provider. Not sure what your point is?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:42 PM
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Bros arguing there's not more and less attraction in the dating world 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:41 PM
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Lmao no thats not my point at all. Young at 18 as you said mentality wants fun and attraction -> alpha fucks, older wants a spouse with resources mentality-> beta bucks. Didn't say nothing about how age setting actually affects anything. More about settling or not and why
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:40 PM
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Nobody lied bro its logical to reason there's less attractive people in the dating scene. In your example if his goal was sex and he tried to get it using his resources then sex or not its beta bucks
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:38 PM
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Its less about them getting sex and more about how/why they get it. In your example above they settle for single moms who desire resources
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:36 PM
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Huh? What's your question related to? I was talking about the woman you are talking about the man
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:35 PM
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Its not that deep bro. Beta in this context refers broadly to someone lower in social standing in the dating scene, who instead of using pure attraction tries to use their resources (money, coping) to get a partner. I think that's a good way to describe less desirables in the dating world
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:33 PM
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Bros arguing about definitions lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:29 PM
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Not sure how I got here but "Very few people at 18 are looking for their future spouse and even the ones that are will rarely make the best choice at first" - is literally what alpha fucks beta bucks is
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:27 PM
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Okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 07:23 PM
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You cant see value in yourself? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 12:07 PM
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Its fine and right and you can prevent the creep stuff by just backing off if she isn't interested. Be direct if you like her not being friendly then you will know how to continue
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 06:59 AM
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Props on the business, that bit is super impressive
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 12:17 AM
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If you say so clown
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 05:57 AM
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Another one projecting
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:49 AM
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Sounds like projection
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:52 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:23 PM
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Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:04 PM
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Internally?? What someone believes? Sure why not
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:25 AM
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Given there are significantly more important things as well as ways to display these things... no.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:24 AM
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Yea that's fine, your scenario was just kinda insincere
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:11 AM
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Please state your actual point, doesn't seem to be that masculinity is a lie or doesn't exist. Because socially it does
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:08 AM
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Paying the bill or not is not going to change someone's view on sleeping with that person
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:06 AM
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Okay cool strawman not everyone has to be as hot as Brad Pitt. Secondly there's a difference between what they are subconsciously attracted to and make life easy for vs in a relationship. Hence why there are many unhappy relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:00 AM
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What? Explain how you get that conclusion
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 10:57 AM
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Cringing at honey do lists but the rest is fine
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 10:52 AM
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Some situations can be more general and some are only respected in the male context. Men in positions of authority are often admired whilst women often face scrutiny as an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 10:50 AM
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Wrong lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 10:49 AM
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And being hot... how are you missing this
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 10:43 AM
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Potentially, but mainly because of the associations with famous artist than pottery
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 10:41 AM
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I don't think paying or splitting slides the scale in any meaningful way
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 10:40 AM
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Masculinity = favorable traits in men, generally relating to strength and direct power. Success being masculine or not depends on the context or framework. Successful athlete = masculine. Successful pottery maker = less masculine
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 10:38 AM
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You can just be clear... OP they aren't attracted based on the implications having no car means for other more important things
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 10:30 AM
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This sounds like a rant and a tangent lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 10:29 AM
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Lmao hypothetical emotional scenario for something about reason
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 10:28 AM
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-1 for you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 10:26 AM
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Who are you replying to?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 10:25 AM
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Your second point misses out on whats attractive to women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 10:23 AM
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Lmao are you saying women go "-1" if the man doesn't pay or "+1" if he does? Who actually thinks like that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 10:20 AM
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This is a good example, if she likes you she'll make it easy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 10:15 AM
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This is true. Sometimes though they will pull back and test you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 09:47 AM
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If anything for the worse lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 09:47 AM
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Just go to gym ez pz
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:00 PM
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They don't apply to me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:46 PM
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Cool thoughts bro
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:36 AM
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Firstly i have friends who are women, secondly missed my point
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:01 PM
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Also lol, highlighting multi like the market cap affects my message in any way whatsoever
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:59 PM
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Your point? Im talking about its effects today
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:58 PM
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Nothing I'm just trying to explain for the guys who view the dating market as skewed as why it may be
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:46 PM
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Delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:44 PM
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No? Did I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:32 PM
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And the relevance of this is?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:23 PM
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I told you that's not my point so you repeat what's not my point and ask why I hold it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:22 PM
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Didn't say anything about fairness. Improve ur comprehension bro
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:17 PM
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Didn't read my post and missed my point. Cool advice tho bro
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:06 PM
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Missing my point, it's not the perception of men I'm focusing on, it's women's perceptions of themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:59 PM
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Can't fault you for playing the game
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:35 PM
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My point is that it raises the expectations of a large proportion of girls
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:25 PM
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"Makes sense, probably one of the below-average men who spends his life seething with jealousy because models don’t want him." Are you delulu or what lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:23 PM
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Well you didn't say much of value at all. I came to an interesting conclusion though which explains other posts
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:22 PM
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This sounds like some personal issue you are trying to get out. Because idk who he you are referring to is. I mentioned the average woman. And for men's perspectives not fat =\= slim and the age thing is pretty flexible
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:46 PM
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I dunno what you are talking about now lol. Trying to attack me do better please go be cringe somewhere else
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:44 PM
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Why are you attributing general complaints to me? Okay I addressed this already but I don't mean go after literally because most women don't approach. I mean they give hints they would be interested. Women reject or accept most of the time. So no their is no mutual exclusivity like you imply. As for the other one nice logic but no just cause there's a hotter girl doesn't mean she'll go after a different guy. This explains why women post that men have so many options, and it's easy, because they …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:42 PM
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Guys it's simple, the average woman perceives her beauty as greater than that of the average man. I propose due to makeup specifically
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:35 PM
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Yea bro my point isn't about detecting ai or filters. I said before it's from their own perspective. Improve your comprehension then come back
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:30 PM
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Not everyone settles. Some people end up with what would be their first choice in their social community. But women are not out there fighting to get an average guy lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:29 PM
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Yea bro I dunno what point you're trynna make. Im talking about the current dating market
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:27 PM
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I said it's extra important because on online dating you have a few seconds to make an impression. Where did I say anything about pre online dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:23 PM
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Cool but why did you respond to me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:22 PM
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Not what I think either
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:21 PM
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Projection
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:21 PM
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My point is makeup improves looks which raises your self perception which is fine but also has consequences please reread my whole thing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:20 PM
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You missed where I explain the increase in expectations from the perspective of women...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:19 PM
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Didn't say anything about insecurity. It's a huge advantage because the market is largely attraction and looks based attraction specifically. They can improve their appeal with a brush and half an hour. There is no comparable thing a man can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 11:58 AM
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I am explaining how it changes women's perspectives and expectations in terms of the mate they are entitled to, not so much if men should wear makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 11:49 AM
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Less attractive women settle for less attractive men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 11:48 AM
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Camel toe
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 11:25 AM
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Who are you speaking on behalf of? Anyway in defence of these mystery men you speak of: men approach, woman make hints and then reject or accept. This "women are going after" would mean hinting at the same guy. Not that women don't approach of course they do, but it is not the common scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 11:24 AM
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You miss half the point. Makeup increases expectations of women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 11:21 AM
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All women go after the best men they can get sooo. Generally there's a large overlap
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:53 AM
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Unfortunately men aren't going to spend time contemplating how a woman looks without makeup. The brain goes: oh she's hot, swipe right. Additionally my point is from the perspective of women being changed by makeup which I think is interesting. They a) feel the average is uglier because their own perception of beauty increases b) feel entitled to higher status men because they have "put effort" into their appearance. There's many women here who are responding to men on this by saying just wear m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:52 AM
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There were so many assumptions and strawmen made in that comment. This is your logic: Many women wear makeup > many women wear too much makeup > men swipe a lot > thus men are children Nice one lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:41 AM
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And do you want to admit because it increases your dating prospects relative to other women or not
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:35 AM
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Yes it links
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:31 AM
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What vague nonsense are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:29 AM
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This is projection bro, it's a fact that women are proportionally getting more success on dating apps - I'm trying to find why
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:26 AM
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Attraction definitely matters in terms of swipe rates
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:17 AM
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You think some random dude applying eyeliner is gonna score him, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:29 AM
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Pointed out what's already happening in this thread lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:28 AM
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If it's worse on average why would they do it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:27 AM
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The norms of society
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:25 AM
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Actually now I think about it, if men used it to conceal flaws the woman would be quite upset when the makeup came off
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:21 AM
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Yea it can definitely look worse. But if they know what they are doing it's pretty drastic potentially
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:20 AM
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Subtle cosmetics by a professional makeup artist. Not surprised they were rated hotter. Anyway it helps my point that makeup does play a role
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:15 AM
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Not worth replying to lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:12 AM
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Men dont wear makeup and if they did it wouldn't be attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:09 AM
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Anime girls objectify women? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 07:57 AM
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Hilarious , keep on owning em man
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 10:38 PM
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Every one of your posts is peak victim mentality lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:59 AM
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Those were two seperate threads but I saw them both here
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 08:10 PM
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Appropriate username
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:22 PM
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Bro your argument is woman don't react badly. Now it's well they have the right to react that way you shouldn't be doing it. Please lock in 1
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:19 PM
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Why is someone who got dishonorably discharged trying to tell me about building a career lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:15 PM
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Bro I can see because you were a criminal and a bouncer you may not experience this but most of society relates to people building up careers
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:04 PM
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This is true there definitely are some "good" women, but there also some bad and I think it's difficult to judge
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:03 PM
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Congrats. Now we can agree it happened more than countable on one hand
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:02 PM
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So why would someone losing their livelihood be less of a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:00 PM
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Lol the double standard of the guy above you, actually they should breakup with you. Really bro pick one
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:55 PM
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Bro had a breakdown for a puppy graduation lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:55 PM
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Yep that's the blue there for sure. The issue is not one of expressing joy even in the cringe way you did. Some women out there are insecure and cannot handle the stress of someone else's emotions and problems being added to them. It definitely without a doubt has happened more than 5 times in human history, is that even a question lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:54 PM
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Condolences
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:27 PM
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Yes it's generally: Women: I want a relationship with the best man I can find Men (who have a lot of options): I want to have sex with the hottest woman for me now Men (with little options) I would like a relationship with what I can get
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:18 PM
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You could argue for long-term relationships but not for dating
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:12 PM
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Y r u following me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:11 PM
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How do you want them categorised lol, normal everyday women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:10 PM
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It's a shame a few bad apples willingly took advantage which stains those who really didn't know any better
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:09 PM
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"please stop posting here so you have interactive porn"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:08 PM
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Cool strawman. We identified where our views differ. Another one telling me what I'm supposed to think lmao, please check yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 12:19 PM
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It's more like a continuous test that this boyfriend is still attractive and strong. It's when you start getting upset that they become surprised and less attractive because the ick affected you it implies there's some truth
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 12:17 PM
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You keep trying to be condescending and telling me what I should think lmao, please check yourself. Now that we have your actual view that's just that, your view. It's a reality that many women do use this for status and validation. And for those who don't it's always available if they feel the need. Perhaps you don't feel the need. Anyway this is where our views differ and I don't see any crossroads
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 12:16 PM
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Many women will create drama out of nothing to get a reaction from you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 12:07 PM
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My man posted for discussion only to be attacked as doing it for online sexual satisfaction like a creep. Lol think about it and touch grass
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 12:06 PM
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Sounds like you think a lot about what I think lol. Anyway most of these aren't so extreme as your strawman but yes it is a nice tool for a girl to be like look at how many men are messaging me I can have my pick of the litter. Now if you would be honest enough to answer not the number but if the proportion is significant or not in your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 12:05 PM
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What proportion of women do you think take validation from social media
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:54 AM
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There's the excuse, those women just don't have a brain...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:49 AM
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In my experience my friends who are on the player side and will fuck anything that moves actually end up in long term relationships more because women see that group as attractive and they are putting themselves out there. My friends with standards who are really actually pretty decent dont get as much
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:46 AM
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I agree completely with this post
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:44 AM
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Sorry but any girl looking to boost her ego quickly goes on dating apps or Snapchat and such. Once again self serving, bro if they want your attention it's validation. If they don't it's not. Stop trying to make it an objective thing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:43 AM
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Both you and the op need to stop being terminally online and touch grass
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:42 AM
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If you think this dude is getting off on what he posted here, touch grass
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:36 AM
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True, look at the haters dowvoting cause it exposes them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:34 AM
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Women are opportunistic in dating because they have power there, men have power generally physically and financially
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:24 AM
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Correct because people behave in self serving ways, as a group all people
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:22 AM
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Source: dude trust me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:21 AM
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Self serving bias. They like men who are strong (when it suits them) they like men who lead (when it suits them) etc etc. On a less serious note: icks are often just a joke or a test to see if they bug you enough. Or they can be an excuse to breakup.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:18 AM
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Touch grass
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:08 AM
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Why are you spamming like a million things
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 10:56 AM
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"what you understand" "victim complex" etc etc, just refuting you don't worry about it. Note you didn't have anything to say about my actual message lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 10:03 AM
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That is what he is complaining about. The one sides view is that they deserve more than mediocre. The other sides view is that the mediocre are being forced to settle for below mediocre. Anyway op the response is well it sucks but it is what it is, live your life as you see fit they don't want to change
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 10:00 AM
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What are you even talking about? Are you saying he wrote this to get off. Touch grass
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:56 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:54 AM
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I have no problems getting dates btw. You don't like when I explain your truth though lmao. Anyway just some compassion for the boys out there
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:53 AM
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Thanks for confirming my point, reread the post topic
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:52 AM
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She's threatening you now bro, if you behave well and accept your place as her inferior maybe she'll be nice to you lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:50 AM
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The reality is that it is in a woman's self serving interest to ignore less desirable men than she thinks she can access. Even if such men form a large proportion. Im not saying it's right or wrong that's just how it is, but it missed the point of the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:48 AM
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Exactly in her mind stopping down to the average would be demeaning thus she is doing a favour and "helping". Really not but that's the perception. It's condescending to the average. Im wondering if you feel the same way given you didn't recognise this
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:45 AM
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Yea like I said bro if she views you as mediocre or average she doesn't want to be involved with you. She'd be settling for you lmao. Anyway this is his point the mediocre girl has a way easier time than the mediocre guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:42 AM
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Lmao this is wilful manipulation. Bro she is saying if you're ugly it's your fault and she's not interested in helping. See my other comment as to why
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:37 AM
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Bro said he gets along better with animals than people lmao why am I even debating you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:31 AM
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No that has to be the most irrelevant comparison. Finding a girlfriend is in no way like shoplifting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:18 AM
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At my social level actresses being taken advantage of by Weinstein had no affect whatsoever
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 08:51 AM
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No risk no reward
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 08:48 AM
2

Gooning implies excessive. Honestly this sounds like a drug addict who says it's not so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 07:49 AM
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It's a combination of social stigmatization as you mentioned but let's also be real it's also because of ego and fear of rejection a bit. Me too and such can be completed nullified if you approach in an appropriate manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 07:48 AM
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I looked, no projection just you being a drama queen
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 09:34 AM
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Bro is being dramatic af. You sound like Bane in the batman movie. "I was born in the dark"...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 07:54 AM
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Nitpicky negative iq
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:27 PM
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Designer handbags - I have designer clothing, not than anyone cares. Buying something isn't effort. Lashes - I have lashes too, sucks I guess you have to make yes artificial. Bbls - harder since we go to gym. Can't buy a good physique. Anything else? Or you just wanna whine and be a victim some more
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:58 PM
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Not sure what you mean? Im saying boys are drilled to have less of a victim mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:44 PM
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Victim mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:31 PM
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Yes I mentioned this an another post which got downvoted - woman's power comes from the group. Possibly as a reaction to the greater physical strength men pose women will seek strength in numbers and social standing. This is also why women will crowd source their views and opinions (dating etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:03 PM
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Literally every one of these applies to men too or nobody actually cares. Toes lmao nobody cares
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 08:29 AM
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Yea exactly, there is a solution they just don't want it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 08:26 AM
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No you clown, I didn't mention the dynamics if it was reversed at all. Read my first line again
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 09:55 PM
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Yea why stay if ur being abused it's not that deep
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:13 PM
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Is your issue that this is happening and people aren't conscious of it or that people can't find help from it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:46 PM
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No my advice is the same, I expect women to dismiss that advice more
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:40 PM
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They suffer from Stockholm syndrome or find potential for violence attractive or something man idk can't tell them what's good for them, but men might listen. Are you saying you are experiencing this within a relationship because that has its own issues to address
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:35 PM
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Not saying women can't be abusers, but unless she's your parent where would you be in a situation where you are being abused. If it's a relationship just leave
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:15 PM
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Excellent take. Play where you have the edge (or as little competition as possible) Just don't be creepy about it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:37 PM
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This girl posts non stop and each and every one of her posts is whining about men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:27 PM
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Don't be offended that's just how it came across
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:23 AM
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What's ur point
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:21 AM
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That's literally what I said. I just said it wont go down as fast because why would it, women are fine waiting. Please improve comprehension before bold texting me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:20 AM
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Don't be offended that's just how it came across
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:23 PM
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Yes I would say anti social plays a part but I find it hard to believe standards haven't gone up
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 11:34 AM
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Autistic and selfish now lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:55 AM
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You can like them just how they are i.e. without needing to make a fantasy about it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:14 AM
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Actually you aren't getting it. Just because money is not needed doesn't mean other traits such as status aren't chased
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:57 AM
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Thats just how it comes across sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:38 AM
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This is fundamentally wrong because men offer more in a competitive sense compared to other men than just money
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:37 AM
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No offence, this comes across as counter sour grapes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:23 AM
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How does women having money change their (human in general) desire to find the best mate?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:09 AM
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Guy dislikes pets = are you autistic lmao. Yea maybe hes over the top but that's such a funny leap
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:02 AM
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Do you feel like one or something? I didn't remotely mention or imply that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:50 AM
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Sorry but women have developed high standards from an abundance of options. Even if social media disappeared the standards wouldn't revert overnight
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:48 AM
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Lol someone is stirring up drama
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:46 AM
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It's definitely a high percentage but not close to impossible. Become a more desirable mate and then you get more luck with those without pets. Not much else you can do if you can't compromise
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:42 AM
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If you don't like having to deal with dogs don't date someone who has them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:34 AM
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Yep and they desire someone with a lower risk of disease. You are a clown
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 12:26 PM
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And she might also have been doing it for longer. You are asking us to guess at something we don't know about when someone could play it safe. Please stop making up a what if scenario and be realistic
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 12:23 PM
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Lmao using prostitute statistics. Maybe because an older prostitute is likely to have been with way more men raising the perceived risk of disease. Such a stupid post
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 12:13 PM
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Okay interesting, so do you have any drive or goals? What keeps you going each day?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 08:08 PM
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Pair bonding, STDs etc. Some of these people are so delulu man
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:59 PM
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Most women marry guys who earn more than them it goes both ways. + On average women earn less
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 02:28 PM
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Because the power of the woman lies in the group. I think subconsciously they feel physically less power so refer to strength of group
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 02:25 PM
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Yea there is not really an even expectation atleast emotionally
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 02:21 PM
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I suppose you are ascertaining is that most marriages become shit because of men, hence why women end them more? Umm ok? Honestly sounds like an angry rant
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 02:17 PM
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Please see my response below. Taking the check does not indicate belief and presumption about the results
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 02:11 PM
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Because in this situation all the thinking and feelings will be eliminated by the hard facts presented by the paternity test. There is a rational check going on, there is little emotion necessary from the side of the husband. Do you really not think it would surprise him if the results came back as not his. I absolutely do not believe he is expecting such a result. The point is the test can be done without any real major belief that cheating was involved
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 02:10 PM
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What about those marriages that are successful. I would imagine they are quite fulfilling given they are partners since early on etc
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:58 PM
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Anecdotal
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 08:57 AM
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Once again, this applies mostly to online dating. Irl people date around their attractiveness level
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 08:51 AM
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Or you can just do the test and skip the feelings and drama in the meantime. If you have nothing to worry about them then there won't be an issue
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:14 AM
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It's very rational for a man. If the woman was okay with it there would be literally no reason not to do it as the man
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:12 AM
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Okay well it just depends then if you can find someone so devoted to overlook a win win for them Also be aware then that there will be cases for such men where they will be taken advantage of. They sacrifice this protection for you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:36 AM
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Could you view it as a good thing and solidification of your bond?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:27 AM
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Blind faith is not necessarily realistic. I know from a fantasy perspective it's not perfect. From the man's perspective there is no downside really to getting the test so why not do it will be their view.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:22 AM
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A lot of this is hypothetical rage bait and can be improved by communications and planning such as what happens in a proper relationship. Sounds rational to me. He also gave his anecdotal experience of all his women not liking the question. I don't have a view on that, but I suppose relationships need to address tough questions
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:15 AM
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I can imagine that for a large scale. For a singular person you run the risk of just being isolated though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:08 AM
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People end relationships for all kinds of reasons I won't judge that. I will jusk ask what then you are hoping for, would you like a man who is so trusting that the idea doesn't even cross his mind
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:00 AM
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How did giving it up change your day to day life
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:55 PM
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Sour grapes. We do in fact despite the memes, live in a society
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:53 PM
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Not sure what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:45 PM
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Biologically speaking telling someone they can just adopt and effectively end their genetic bloodline might not go down so well... Anyway more positive would be that enjoyment of life is not singularly derived from a romantic partner, which many men seem to miss I suppose because they haven't necessarily experienced what a partner brings
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:43 PM
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Quite interesting. Just a question, what then do women refer to by what men commonly refer to as casual sex. Because the strangers thing still requires a man and a woman stranger. Thus they are participating as well do they call it something else
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:39 PM
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Or just don't cheat if you are trying with your man that works too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:36 PM
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It's a bit insensitive but it's such a major issue potentially that rationally some men just want to cross it off the list
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:34 PM
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As immoral as it is, that would still be less humiliating and problematic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:25 PM
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Lmao they hate the rational one
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:24 PM
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STDs whilst unfortunate may be forgivable. However having a child which is not his implies the woman had another man who finished inside and such that there is a reasonable chance of being impregnated is likely humiliating and extremely problematic as it relates to a 3rd party life (the child) being affected
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:19 PM
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Just for context this person was debating me in another thread I think they are stalking
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:07 PM
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For the most part yes, unfortunately there are a few bad apples from men who cause this perception and there are a few bad apples on the other side who will use this to try disempower men in general
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:51 PM
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Very nice writeup! Yes if people just spoke to those around them things wouldn't be so extreme
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:42 PM
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Yes and I wouldn't blame you for thinking that in such a situation. But that is just that specific situation. Just look around you and consider if you want to label the men around you abusers/enablers or if you would like to give them the benefit of the doubt. Ultimately it's up to you and how you feel or perceive them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:40 PM
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Here post title is saying men have it so easy, the implication I suppose being that it's not for her or women in general
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:36 PM
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There is a significant portion of women who like tall skinny men btw. Muscles are more a male gaze thing. This doesn't reflect me projecting just what I've come to realise
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:09 PM
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Yea I agree with what ur saying, although it does sound like you are whining about the whiners
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:52 PM
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Lmao whats wrong with a skinny guy expecting a skinny girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:29 PM
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Apparently a very small one... Because yet again I didn't make any mention of deserve that is projection. Not only did I not say anything about that, I said "(right or wrong)" so I completely eliminated that possibility. Don't feel like debating someone with an agenda sorry cya
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:09 PM
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Nitpicky nitpicky. Just google racial quota Wikipedia if you want. Would appreciate going forwards if you guys could address my principle thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:00 PM
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Not you stalking. I want you to tell me about the projection I asked about btw, until then I won't speak anymore to you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:56 PM
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I'll wait for you to find where I said this because I didn't. Nice manipulation and projection though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:41 PM
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Because the number was less relevant to the principle. Not gonna sit here and calculate what you mean with your nitpicks sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:38 PM
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Projection. I didn't at any point say women were incapable. Please point to where I did if so
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:36 PM
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My whole point is about how you address the common guy around you Not sure what point you are making that's relevant. Do you know the president of Myanmar, what about Egypt, do you know who Stalin is?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:29 PM
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Illustrative example to explain possible effects. I don't think it's worth really arguing that things like quotas and stuff don't exist, they do and their intended purpose is fairness but there must be a balance
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:27 PM
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Yea
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:12 PM
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Despite your narrow minded view and hatred I never said I was American btw
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:08 PM
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Nice projection, didn't say anything about supporting it. I've done as much as I reasonably can in my situation to address it. Also regarding statistics I think it's possible there's a few serial rapists than every 5th guy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:07 PM
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Sorry you feel that every 5th guy or whatever is out to get you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:04 PM
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Yea it's not about feelings being hurt, it's just innacurate for the average guy (person). What would you want me to do? I already act in a reasonable level of justice. I don't know any rapists, I'm not turning a blind eye. And you think this makes me the special case? Lol I doubt it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:00 PM
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Possibly a few bad actors doing it multiple times. I think that's more reasonable than every other guy doing it once but yea otherwise nice
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:57 PM
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Agree with this, but also touch grass because most people end up with a similar attractiveness. It's generally online where it is skewed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:55 PM
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Nicely put
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:49 PM
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Can you address the point that it was trying to illustrate please instead of crying about my example
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:47 PM
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The post is about resentment, here you are calling men ignorant and unhelpful. This is a perfect example of how one party is angry and projects it onto another innocent (because the average person has not done anything wrong I think it is reasonable to say) party and they start to wonder why they would lose support.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:46 PM
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Seems like you are being purposefully nitpicky, not reading and avoiding my point. Manipulation maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:40 PM
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That's why it's an example which I said, and given how quotas are a real thing I don't see how it is implausible. The requirement could be 10%. The point is that there is on in the first place one way but not the other
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:38 PM
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I agree men should not be shamed but should also feel a better need to address opening their eyes around them. Completely agree. It still seems though that you are characterizing the everyday person now as someone who turns a blind eye. Even me you say maybe I'm turning a blind eye. Practically if you want support from a group it is more effective to promote their efforts rather than chastising them for turning a blind eye, that is a quick path to resentment which is what this post is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:37 PM
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See my other reply
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:21 PM
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Sure, Social power = influence of outcomes and the inability to push back without fearing retaliation. Thus general grey areas which should be seen as quite complex, in an effort to avoid conflicts (which is a rational thing to do) people will side with the prevailing social view. Now imagine things which are genuinely unfair but they align with the social view, like some might consider the requirement for half of hired candidates to be women as unfair for example. Not saying it is or isn't, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:21 PM
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You are right that turning a blind eye is not ideal. But the message just changes from many guys aren't bad to many guys turn a blind eye so consider someone wishing to take advantage of the situation there is another excuse they can put up to which now a large group (in this case men who turn a blind eye) should be vaguely punished and are not entitled to express their views. So where is the line, should many men live in guilt or shame, do they owe anything? It becomes quite unclear
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:09 PM
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Please explain
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:54 PM
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I agree but there is a developing almost social stigma on the everyday man (who does not rape or abuse), for the actions of these few criminals. Women are scared men will kill them - which men? My cousin or neighbour, I wouldn't think so
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:51 PM
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Then stop reading them. We have a justice system, most of these people will go to prison
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:48 PM
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Social power
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:46 PM
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People want more power = they manipulate (justified or not it doesn't really matter). Currently the manipulation is one of guilt or righteousness but the end goal is just more power for party X. On your specific point I can definitely imagine there's possibly a large underlying feeling of being taken advantage of without recourse to call out how it is felt.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:25 PM
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I mostly agree. Emotional labour is a very convenient esoteric and vague excuse. Same with chasing an upgrade, the whining starts when they feel they can do better. But, I don't fault them for it, I think everyone wants what's best for the themselves obviously and they can get away with it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:08 PM
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You come to the right conclusion from the wrong reasons. The implication is that a more experienced man has had more desire from women (which lead to the increased number of interactions) and is thus more desirable. So logically woman want a more desirable man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:55 AM
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If it's not hard then many men should have nice personalities, and in my experience many do, so you should have no problem getting dates with men you like. Where is the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:52 AM
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Do you think men are generally lazier or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:49 AM
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