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| 3 | Body count and the odds of infidelity. (based on peer-reviewed journals and established reports)Is it just me, or is the thought of sleeping with someone who has not only killed someone, but killed multiple people, not that attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 01:18 AM |
| 1 | What have incels accomplished in 2022?Well, I'm one year closer to getting my library technician degree, so that's one thing incels have accomplished this year. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Why are women more sociable than men on average?How do you even determine which gender is more sociable? What parameters would you use? How would you gather data? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/22 05:33 PM |
| 6 | If you are her type then it doesn't matter where you meet womenIf I am her type, but we never come in contact, then that lowers the chance that she even notices me, or I her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/22 05:29 PM |
| – | Which of the following traits are part of your ideal partner?Ideally, one would have both traits. Anyone that is purely passive or purely assertive would be an absolute pain to be around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 08:35 PM |
| 1 | How do PPD subscribers deal with boredom? Is the future unofficial polyamory?How do PPD subscribers deal with boredom? Does the Internet suddenly not exist for PPD subscribers? If you're bored, learn to knit. Already know how to knit? Learn to weld. Already know how to weld and knit? Lean how to waterski. Already know how to do all three? Go to Wikipedia and hit "random article" until you come across something you don't know how to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/22 03:19 AM |
| 14 | Has anyone actually met someone who had a very high body count and was a healthy, well balanced individual?How the fuck does that work? Hmmm, it seems that my tennis opponent has had four sexual encounters. Oh wait, that serve tells me they had five, but considers the third one not a real encounter because it was interrupted half way through. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/22 03:11 AM |
| 11 | Has anyone actually met someone who had a very high body count and was a healthy, well balanced individual?I don't make it a habit to inquire about people's past sexual exploits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/22 03:06 AM |
| 1 | What do men want in women, what do women want in men, and how are these desires different from eachother?I think the idea you could categorically define what each gender, as a whole, wants from a partner is, if I am frank, a ridiculous idea. You couldn't create a consensus about what Americans want to see in a fucking breakfast cereal, let alone a life partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/22 02:15 AM |
| 3 | Why don’t tall woman date shorter man ?Here's the thing: People have agency. They make choices that are specific to them. Some tall women date short men, some don't. Some short women date tall men, some don't. It is impossible to determine any sort of consensus among all women as to who they do or do not date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 03:49 AM |
| 6 | Are some men naturally submissive in relationships? Are some women naturally dominant?It's no secret that some women prefer masculine, dominant men, and that some men prefer feminine and submissive women. FTFY. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/22 11:18 PM |
| 14 | If "men are loyal" and women are opportunistic, how do you explain the concept of "starter girlfriends" and the phenomena of men leaving their SO when they achieve a certain level in life?I think that means: Stop trying to generalise entire populations of disparate groups through one singular commonality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/22 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Why women have hard time apologizing when they are wrong?Why people have hard time apologizing when they are wrong? FTFY | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/22 09:08 PM |
| 3 | Getting seriously involved with a significantly younger women is often bad FOR MENGetting seriously involved with a significantly younger person is often bad FTFY | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 09:54 PM |
| 5 | What are your thoughts about diamond engagement rings?I think it would be better to go back to the birthstone engagement rings. At least the shiny rocks would look different from each other. Also fuck blood diamonds and artificial scarcity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 09:11 PM |
| 1 | How do we "choose better partners"?Choose me, not other people. That's really the only advice I can give. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Men over 30, do you filter out 30 year old women while looking for serious relationships?I'm 28, but I filter for 18-54 year olds on dating apps, and I've done that since I got on them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 10:20 PM |
| 7 | How does science influence your decisions about dating and sex?Then of course I don't apply that to my dating life. How the hell are you supposed to single out a variable in something as complex and multi-faceted as dating. It would be like trying to learn how to bake the best cake, but each time you try you completely change every aspect of the recipe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 11:23 PM |
| 9 | How does science influence your decisions about dating and sex?What do you mean by "science?" Do you mean science as in "a method by which hypothesises are tested through experimentation and evidence"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 11:12 PM |
| 26 | Do women stay in abusive relationships because they can't get better ones?What if I told you that people all over the world, yes even you, often react to high-stress scenarios without the perfect clarity of a computer? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 10:13 PM |
| 36 | Do women stay in abusive relationships because they can't get better ones?No, there's whole areas of psychology dedicated to why people stay in abusive situations. There are a whole host of reasons why any one particular person would stay in an abusive relationship. But first, I have to ask you something: Do you think everyone is identical in their reasoning behind their actions? Or do you think that different people might have different ideas and reactions to the world around them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Were Women Lied To By Society?Except for the violent psychopaths that you can't walk by without danger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Were Women Lied To By Society?Consensus doesn't require everyone to agree, That is literally what that word means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 03:33 AM |
| 2 | What characteristics would a young beautiful woman need to have in order to struggle with dates and don't be desirable by straight men?There are no traits that guarantee success, or failure, in a dating market. Each interaction is a meeting of two people of free will and agency. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 01:09 AM |
| 2 | Were Women Lied To By Society?Society does create consensus. In fact you could argue that's society's only real function. Whether or not it actually has in one specific area or another is a more complex question. Society does not create consensus. There's a saying: if you have three people at a table, they will have four opinions about a topic. At best, society can create majorities, or at least pluralities. I don't think reality is as interesting here as mass perception. Wouldn't that be the "common tropes in media"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Simps: What effect do they have on dating and relationships ?I don't know, as I cannot create a scenario that is exactly like this one, but with only one variable (the presence of simps) changed. In fact, I cannot fathom how one could run that experiment at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Were Women Lied To By Society?That assumes that both women as a whole, and society as a whole, are able to create a consensus in one way or another. A better question would be "Do the common tropes in media accurately represent what the reality of dating is for a certain subset of women?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Natural Sperm Donors: Men who donate sperm the natural way, free of chargeThoughts on this. I don't really have any. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 02:30 AM |
| -1 | Do you prefer 50/50 or submission?There is a relationship between one's status as a beggar and their status as a chooser. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Is taking the hottest girl you slept with a good measure to assess your league ?How do you determine what league the girl is in? Is the 8/10 an 8/10 because she slept with an 8/10 before? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 12:27 AM |
| 20 | What do you most appreciate about the opposite sex?I can't really think of anything I like about people that is gender specific. Everything that I feel positively about (like being open and honest) can be found in either gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 02:33 AM |
| 6 | What is an IncelSomeone who has not had sex, but isn't actively choosing to abstain. "Sex" in this connotation is a bit iffy, but I think the most common analogy is "full sex", whatever that means to the individual. For heterosexual and gay male partners, that would probably include penetrative sex (either vaginal or anal, whichever happens first). I'm personally not a lesbian, so I can't say what "full sex" is to them. | /r/MensRights | 10/10/22 07:24 PM |
| 1 | How will you/did you screen your partner for marriage?Well, if she weighs more than a duck, she must be made of wood, and therefore is a witch! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 09:07 PM |
| 3 | 61% of self-identified incels claimed to be white and 19.9% claimed to be Asian, whereas 78.7% of self-identified non-incels claimed to be white and 4.7% claimed to be Asian.N = 400 Into the trash it goes. | /r/BlackPillScience | 07/10/22 08:32 PM |
| 5 | If you’re a single guy who’s struggling/trying to find his stride, nightlife and dating apps are the absolute worst places to goThe problem is most of the places I want to hang out casually are... shall we say "not conducive for meeting women." In almost a decade of playing Magic the Gathering on a near weekly basis, I've met a literal handful of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 01:37 AM |
| 6 | What value does a man bring to a modern relationship?That's just asking a (needlessly gendered) question along the lines of "what does a romantic relationship bring that a platonic or purely sexual relationship does not?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Putting in the effort is the shortest route to The Friend ZoneThink about hot men who get all those messages from women on dating apps, do you think they need to put in the effort to get attraction in exchange? Yeah, they are attractive. Most people have to put effort into being attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 11:06 PM |
| 5 | AA/BB is a MisunderstandingThe moon goes up, the woman has a period. It's an observable pattern. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 07:28 PM |
| 1 | CMV: one simple trick to not have a shitty relationship"My partner is trying to cut me off from my social circle and prevent me from reaching out when things get bad. I need to combat this some how!" "No, don't. Just acquiesce." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Are you turned off (or made jealous by) men watching porn?Why do people watch/read horror and other non-porn genres? Why would you ever watch a horror movie if you did not want to be scared? There is literally nothing in a horror movie that you cannot get from a non-horror movie, aside from the scares. The same logic can apply to comedy, tragedy, romance, and any other type of genre. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Are you turned off (or made jealous by) men watching porn?🤦🏻♀️ The very nature of porn is not the same as the nature of literally any other genre including horror. This really shouldn't be so hard for you to comprehend. How is it different? If porn is meant to only elicit an erotic response, then horror is meant to only elicit a frightened response. Yeah, because whatever other elements some porn may include are nothing that can't be found in non-porn genres. They want porn for the titillation they don't get from other genres, because that's what it's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 02:10 AM |
| 9 | Modern society is wrong. Women do not love or have real sexualities, but use sex and love as a weapon and a resource.87% of women that moan during sex, do it to boost their partner self-esteem, not as an indication of pleasure: https://www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/9070976/sex-noises-orgasm-help/ If you have never done anything to enhance someone else's pleasure, like complimenting a meal someone cooked, then I have you say you are a goddamn psychopath. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Are you turned off (or made jealous by) men watching porn?Horror and every other genre focus on the substance of a plot, whereas porn's focus could take or leave the plot because it's first and foremost about masturbatory material. Then what about all the shitty horror media like Paranormal Activity or FNaF which are just an excuse to have a series of jumpscares? I never claimed that. You're grasping at straws. You said "Choose porn over other genres.". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Are you turned off (or made jealous by) men watching porn?Porn is made for masturbating to. It's literally the only form of "media" that is explicitly created for that purpose. All other media serves a purpose that is not masturbation. It doesn't matter if other elements are added in after the fact; porn is made for the purpose of masturbation. And horror media is literally the only type of media explicitly created to elicit a fear response from the viewer. All other forms of media are created to not elicit a fear response, so that must mean that any m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Are you turned off (or made jealous by) men watching porn?Again, fight scenes and porn really aren't comparable. I'm talking the real Ancient Greek way of telling a story in the form of long lists of "And then King Gerald the Fifth, who was son of King Gerald the Fourth, who was son of King Gerald the Third, went with his crew consisting of Adam, Bernard, Clay, David, Edward, Finn, George <...> Xavier, Yang, and Zimbo and slew the great hydra. Then King Gerald the Fifth ate a meal with his crew, consisting of..." you get the point. Way to ignore the re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Are you turned off (or made jealous by) men watching porn?There are ways to do that without making it full-on pornographic though; plenty of regular novel authors achieve such. There are also ways of telling a story with no action beats whatsoever, just a linear series of events told in the most bland way possible. And there are entire books written without the letter 'e'. Just because it can be done doesn't mean that is the best way to tell a particular story. The difference is that fight scenes and jump scares are benign enough that it won't be awkwa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 12:36 AM |
| 3 | What gender cheats more?I honestly have no idea. At best, you could probably do a study on what gender gets caught cheating the most, but that's not really helpful. It's like trying to find out how many wrongly accused people are labelled as guilty. If we knew all the people who were wrongly accused, then they wouldn't be wrongly accused. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Are you turned off (or made jealous by) men watching porn?And there's no other media out there which can address these topics without closeup illustrations of penetration or whatever? C'mon dude. While there are no close up illustrations of penetration, you do in fact need the sex to actually be occurring for the plot to have the same impact. One of the best is when the main character is having sex with her female friend. This village is incredibly homophobic, and the main character's mother especially so. But she is also very protective and willing to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Are men capable of raising kids by themselves?No single person can raise a child. Children need two parents. It doesn't matter if it's two men, two women, a man and a woman, or a woman and a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Are you turned off (or made jealous by) men watching porn?A lot of the plot of Alfie revolves around sex. It deals with people's attitude towards sex, deals with internalised and externalised prejudices, and deals with the changing viewpoint of the main character. A lot of these take place during the sex. There are many character moments where someone changes because of the sex they are having. Cutting that out would literally be cutting out the character development. It's like a fight scene in a movie. Yes, some movies just put in frivolous fight scen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Are you turned off (or made jealous by) men watching porn?I listed four examples of media that use the smut for the purposes of building the story and characters. For all of those, if you remove the smut you would have a strictly inferior story. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 10:08 PM |
| 2 | Which Would You PickWell then I can't pick the first one, as one of my three main standards is that the person I want to date/marry actually wants to date/marry me. By process of elimination, that leaves the second one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 05:20 PM |
| 3 | Why Won’t You Pay For Sex?It's illegal, which in and of itself causes it to be ripe for abuse on all sides of the transaction. Seriously Canada, just nut up and make prostitution fully legal. This wishy washy "Oh, it's not criminalised, just the advertising, inquiry, meeting, exchanging of money,'living off the avails' of the money, and renting a space for the sex are all illegal. The actual act of sex isn't illegal, so why are you so upset?" bullshit is fucking terrible. It provides no protection to the prostitutes, the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 05:19 PM |
| 5 | Which Would You PickThey don't love you Then why the fuck would they even marry me in the first place? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 05:16 PM |
| 3 | Q4ALL straight men and women who are single. Why are you not dating your attractive single friend of the opposite sex?The same reason I don't ride my horse to work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Are you turned off (or made jealous by) men watching porn?Incorrect, but you think that if it makes you feel better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Are you turned off (or made jealous by) men watching porn?But let's not be disingenuous about the main purpose of that genre. Nobody is picking it strictly for its plot. That excuse is as old as the hills (I jUsT bUy PLayBoY fOr iTs ArTiCLeS!!1!) Again, there are plenty of incredibly well made porn media. Many webcomics are great, and actually use the pornographic elements as a method of worldbuilding and character development. There are a few pornographic games where the porn and gameplay are integral. Seriously, from Fragile and Tough by Shindol show… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Are you turned off (or made jealous by) men watching porn?Why do you always assume that live-action porn is the only form of porn? And yes, there are trashy erotic manga. There are trashy erotic literature. There are trashy erotic interactive fiction. But that doesn't mean the whole media itself is stained with original sin. There are many porn manga that actually have an interesting story surrounding the whole business. Alfie by Incase contains explicit sex scenes, but also delves into themes of heteronormativity, hypocrisy, and repressive cultures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 12:59 AM |
| 3 | If women are hypergamous, doesn't this also necessarily mean that women are hypocrites?Those statements would only be true if you believe that womankind is a monolith of only one form of thinking. Luckily nobody is genuinely that stupid to believe that every woman thinks the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 11:48 PM |
| 6 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?It all depends on if they want to lose their virginity or not. They can be a 50 year old virgin, and as long as they are choosing to be a virgin, it's not creepy at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Are you turned off (or made jealous by) men watching porn?What makes porn different from other forms of media? Why is an erotic novel inherently unable to be good, while a non-erotic novel has that capability? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Are you turned off (or made jealous by) men watching porn?Then you can make the very first good porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Are you turned off (or made jealous by) men watching porn?Then make good porn that does contribute to society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 09:02 PM |
| 1 | What are some reasons someone would be attracted to you, that you would be offended by?I would be upset if someone was attracted to me because they wanted to physically abuse me. Of course I wouldn't say no, I'm not exactly a chooser in that regard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 07:55 PM |
| 6 | ONLINE DATING STATS: The figures are in for OkCupid and Hinge, and what a surprise it's more dude fests. OkCupid is now 74% male and just 26% female in terms of users, while Hinge, despite being the most gender equal out of all the major apps, is still almost 2-to-1 men to womenWhy don’t people meet IRL? Where do you even go to "meet people"? Every time I leave the house, I'm doing something. I might be getting groceries, picking up a book at a library, walking the dog, or whatever. The point is I don't necessarily want someone walking up to me while I'm looking for a book and trying to get my attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Are you turned off (or made jealous by) men watching porn?Have you thought about trying your hand at making content? Whether written, drawn, animated, or whatever, I'm sure you could make something that isn't exploitative or objectifying. Be the change you want to see! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 07:27 PM |
| 3 | Why are there so many gendered slurs for women, but not as many for men?Myths and religion do form a basis for the thoughts and actions of the populace. The Salem Witch Trials were, for all accounts, genuine attempts to rid the world of evil that could only be caused by women because of original sin. And in general, while women were not always sent to war like their male counterparts, one would hardly be able to say they got the better deal during times of war. Hell, even relatively recently there have been horrible crimes committed with historical precedent. The in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 03:02 AM |
| 2 | Are you turned off (or made jealous by) men watching porn?Porn comes in many forms, not just live action films for a heterosexual male audience created by large production companies. There are comics, animations, erotic literature, very explicit romance novels, manga, and more. Hell, there are some estimates that most of the pornographic manga artists in Japan are women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 02:52 AM |
| 3 | Why are there so many gendered slurs for women, but not as many for men?Then you have read very little history. One of the extreme examples is ancient Greece, where women were hardly even thought of as citizens. You know how the Christian myth about Eve is that she is tricked by Satan to cursing humanity forever? In the ancient Greek myth, Pandora was created explicitly to make man's life more difficult as she was beautiful and not dumb. Also, we have something like 10,000 to 100,000 years of history as cultured people, it's almost farcical to think there wasn't a p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Are you turned off (or made jealous by) men watching porn?I think it might be good to at least see what's out there. Your local library likely has literally hundreds of romance novels to peruse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 02:20 AM |
| 2 | Are you turned off (or made jealous by) men watching porn?Even the porn written by women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Do you feel that being sexually successful with women will make you happy?Being tied down wasn't already on your sexual bucket list? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 01:52 AM |
| 13 | Why are there so many gendered slurs for women, but not as many for men?Probably because for a long time, being a woman was seen as an inherent weakness and meant you were cursed with original sin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Are you turned off (or made jealous by) men watching porn?But you still find it degrading? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 10:17 PM |
| 2 | Are you turned off (or made jealous by) men watching porn?What if he were to read porn written by a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 09:09 PM |
| 1 | How do you think the dating game would change if body count was public information?But the number has no nuance. It doesn't say "4 sex events (2 by rape)." It's just a single "4". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 08:30 PM |
| 1 | CMV : You can only be attracted and aroused to biological aspects of a human being, not abstract qualities such as wealth and careerThere are almost 8 billion people on the planet. People are going to be sexually attracted to basically anything, even if you don't think that sort of attraction is possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 03:15 PM |
| 3 | Can a man truly give up on sex and be happy ?There are fucking 4 billion men on the planet, of course at least one of them can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 03:14 PM |
| 1 | No woman is high valueOh you mean economic value. I would actually argue that women have the edge in inherent economic value, simply because the variety of tissues they could sell. For example, ovaries and eggs could be much more valuable than anything a man has. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/22 06:47 PM |
| 1 | No woman is high valueDefine "value." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/22 06:29 PM |
| 2 | Is there a married man that doesn't masturbate or watch porn?There's fucking 4 billion men on the planet. I bet at least one doesn't masturbate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/22 05:38 PM |
| 3 | What is something you wish your own sex would stop doing? Mega-ThreadI wish all men would stop intentionally disseminating false information. That would stop like 90% of the problems we face as a society. Also I wish billionaires paid taxes and stopped hoarding wealth like an anti-semetic parody of themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/22 05:38 PM |
| 2 | CMV: women's opinions don't matterI believe you are lying because you appear to have no strong negative feelings towards anything. Because you appear to have no strong negative feelings towards anything (which I believe is entirely unique among the human population), then it is nearly impossible for you to understand that some people have negative feelings about things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/22 05:35 PM |
| 1 | How do you think the dating game would change if body count was public information?You're the one that brought the arbitrary qualifier to the table. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/22 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Orgasm countThat, like the other ones, causes way more questions than it answers. What does it mean to "cause someone else to orgasm"? The orgasm is directly brought about by the neurons in the brain, so by definition anything outside of the brain is at best an indirect cause. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 10:16 PM |
| 3 | CMV: women's opinions don't matterI would have asked how much someone should try and hassle him to eat a broccoli. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 07:03 PM |
| 8 | CMV: women's opinions don't matterAgain, I think you're lying to try and prove some sort of point. So, instead, let's assume you are not sexually attracted to men, and instead are only attracted to women. How would you like if a gay man didn't take your first "no" as an answer, and instead tried to convince you that you really did want to sleep with him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 06:14 PM |
| 16 | CMV: women's opinions don't matterSee, I still think you are lying to try and proactively prove some sort of point. Then let me rephrase: Is there some sort of thing, be it a piece of media, type of person, type of meal, genre of video game, type of sport, or something similar, that you dislike regardless of the overall quality of that thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 03:01 PM |
| 15 | CMV: women's opinions don't matterWow, you've literally never had a bad meal? That's incredible. I mean that literally, I find that statement not credible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 02:56 PM |
| 1 | How do you think the dating game would change if body count was public information?You said that anything that can transfer STDs is a sexual activity. A blood transfusion can transfer STDs. Thus, by your logic, a blood transfusion is a sexual activity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 02:52 PM |
| 18 | CMV: women's opinions don't matterHey, OP, let's turn this around and try your logic under a different context. What type of food do you dislike? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 02:51 PM |
| 1 | How do you think the dating game would change if body count was public information?So a blood transfusion is a sexual activity? Eating undercooked meat is a sexual activity? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 02:36 PM |
| 2 | (Q4A) "men peak in their mid 30's."Define "peak". There are so many factors to an individual's attractiveness that trying to find the sum of all vectors is a fool's errand. Especially considering most of those are completely subjective and up to the whims of the observer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 04:03 AM |
| 8 | How do you think the dating game would change if body count was public information?I'm still not sure such a magical number would be useful. There would be so many questions surrounding it that it would basically devolve into uselessness. Personally, I don't think many people would put that much stock into the number, especially if we didn't know the exact mechanics that went into creating it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 03:58 AM |
| 8 | How do you think the dating game would change if body count was public information?It still brings up a whole set of vague scenarios. Like, what if this supernatural force decided that if a woman is raped, that counts as her having sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 03:54 AM |
| 12 | How do you think the dating game would change if body count was public information?Would kissing be considered a sexual activity? What about fondling? Would dry humping be considered sex? If not, how is it different (from a mechanical perspective) than having sex with a condom or other barrier? And again, at what point does insertion become sex? If the tip of my penis brushes against a woman's vagina however briefly, is that sex? If I insert it a single time, is that sex? Really the concept of a public and immutable body count raises more questions than it can answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 03:36 AM |
| 31 | How do you think the dating game would change if body count was public information?Yes, because it would have massive ramifications on what we even consider as "sex." Assuming this number was absolute and always correct, people could use it to determine what "counts" as sex. A woman could give a person a hand job, and see if her number went up. She could even see at what exact point does it count as having had sex. Is it sex when a penis first enters a vagina? Is it sex when one partner climaxes or both? Do other orifices (mouth or anus) count as sex? What about same sex relat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 03:24 AM |
| 0 | There’s nothing "misogynistic" about men preferring a virgin women over a non-virgin. Men's preferences shouldn't be controversialMajority of men, prefer to virgin women over a non-virgin. No, the majority of men prefer someone who has had exactly 3.24 previous sexual partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Dating Ted FlagsI guess you're right, I'll edit my comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 08:40 PM |
| 1 | why is there a double standard of blame when it comes to being a "victim"?Is there a double standard? In order to even say that, you need to have some evidence, some data, that shows that is the case. Maybe you should take some time and note how many instances of what you describe happen, and see if there is an actual double standard. I could say that I believe that left-handed people are disproportionately responsible for car accidents, but it would be foolish of me to say so without any evidence showing I am correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Women are attracted to forms of power. Kindness is an afterthoughtThat is certainly one definition, but even so that seems a bit... weird. I can control the thermostat in my house, does that make me inherently powerful? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Women are attracted to forms of power. Kindness is an afterthoughtHuh, I thought power was Δwork/Δtime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 04:54 PM |
| 0 | How do bluepillers reconcile the two statements "Looks don't matter" and "Most people are dating someone with similar looks"?I believe those two statements are said by different people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Women are attracted to forms of power. Kindness is an afterthought>Women are attracted to forms of power. >What do you mean by power? >Stop being wilfully ignorant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Women are attracted to forms of power. Kindness is an afterthoughtAnd what type of "power" are they referring to? There's like a dozen different things you could refer to when you say the word "power." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Dating Ted FlagsNo, I'm not. Why would I want to date someone who doesn't want to date me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 04:31 PM |
| 39 | this is a useless subRather have a useless sub than a useless dom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 03:01 AM |
| 4 | Women are attracted to forms of power. Kindness is an afterthoughtYour response to a demand for data was to posit a trio of inane rhetorical questions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 02:49 AM |
| 2 | Women are attracted to forms of power. Kindness is an afterthoughtWhat do you mean by confidence? Money represents theoretical goods and services. The first forms of money were coins that represented the literal value of the metal that made up the coin. It didn't matter if you smelted the coin into a bar, it would be worth the same as the coin. But, this often proved to be very cumbersome for everyday use. Eventually, banks were created that housed the actual gold/silver/whatever, and gave out "receipts". Instead of physically giving you a pound of gold for yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Why shouldn’t women give up on dating if you guys act like a 25 year old is elderly?That would be a valid reason to give up dating. However, I don't think that statement is true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Dating Ted FlagsDoes not want to date me. Actively abusive EDIT: towards me (although this is negotiable). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 02:34 AM |
| 1 | [Q4All] What types of women are on online dating sites?I assume the vast majority of women who use dating apps are literate and above the age of 18. Outside of that, I cannot in good conscience make any sort of claims. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 02:33 AM |
| 8 | Women are attracted to forms of power. Kindness is an afterthoughtYou are making a sweeping generalisation about a huge population. Unless you have enough data to back up your claim, then there is nothing to really change or challenge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 02:31 AM |
| 1 | What are the correct things to want out of a partner?The correct thing people should want are exclusively the things I want. If you want something that I don't want, you are incorrect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 06:30 PM |
| 18 | what is the correct way, in your personal beliefs or experiences, for a man or a woman to find a relationship?Using a compass and a map. GPS devices are a sin against god and Queen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 03:08 AM |
| 4 | Is it a deal breaker if she does not want to ever try anal?That is such a weird thing to make or break a relationship. I could imagine if you said "if she did not ever want to try anything new in the bedroom", but to limit it specifically to anal is just kinda... weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 07:23 PM |
| 7 | So what exactly is a Chad?In the original Chad vs Virgin memes, Chad was simply the opposite of the virgin. That is it, and nothing else factors into the common definition. The humour of those memes was two-fold. First, it showed people an exaggerated image of their own insecurities. Maybe when you walk, you slouch and stare at the floor. Maybe when you sit on a bench, you try to make yourself as small as you can. Maybe when you are buying groceries, you try to not look the cashier in the eyes. Second, it frames that exa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 06:35 PM |
| 3 | Dying alone is what men fear most, not women.I can't speak for all men, but one thing I fear the most is the feeling that I am actively making the world worse in such a way that I will never realise and can never solve. Basically this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IV3dnLzthDA | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Men and women, what is your relationship with pornography?I watch it every once in a few days, but my big thing is pornographic games. In fact, I have this whole spiel about what games make good use of their porn, and which just tack it on there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Opinion: Andrew Tate was a net positive overallI really don't get all the hype about this guy. He's just a guy that really, passionately, to an almost unhealthy degree hates Star Wars. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 06:48 PM |
| 1 | What do men want? As candidly and honestly as possible and from a male’s perspective.Like men as a whole, or specific, individual men? Because thanks to the Internet, I fully believe there is no one single caveat, quality, or outcome that is universally desired by all men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 06:47 PM |
| 5 | Casual sex is mostly caused by genetics and personality not culture or statusAnd the universe is deterministic, so nothing you ever do matters. You as a person are just a sum of vectors. If you ate oatmeal today, that was because of the initial state the universe was in prior to the big bang, and there was nothing you could do to change that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 01:02 AM |
| 0 | How often are men honest about their past when it comes to dating?You weren't asking about specifically men found here. You were asking people here what their opinion is on the honesty of men as a whole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 02:16 AM |
| 1 | How often are men honest about their past when it comes to dating?First, you need to gather a large sample size of participants. Then you need to define "honesty". Lying (or stating a positive claim that is mutually exclusive to the truth) is obviously not being honest. But what about simply not mentioning something? What about honestly forgetting an event? What about differences in definitions of words/terms (The Bill Clinton defence)? Third, you need to somehow ensure that these participants are being truthful. Often, people will not want to reveal potential… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 12:24 AM |
| 2 | How often are men honest about their past when it comes to dating?How the fuck would you even calculate that sort of thing? Jesus Christ, it feels like most of the questions here are "How many people are good?" levels of vague or "As of today at 2:43 pm, what is the average number of times any female has looked at a man for more than 3 minutes straight?" levels of specific. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 11:42 PM |
| 0 | What's your "hot take" or unpopular opinion when it comes to dating?That's pretty cool that you are able to see the future like that. I wish I had that type of ability. Can you see the future in general, or is it only confined to viewing information about what people you are sexually attracted to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 04:21 PM |
| 3 | What is something you genuinely find 'weird' and don't understand in modern dating/relationship/gender world?The problem is that people complain even if their partners "keep it away." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 03:49 AM |
| 2 | What is something you genuinely find 'weird' and don't understand in modern dating/relationship/gender world?The demonization and complete rejection of porn. I don't really care about whether people view it or not, but when people try to dictate what forms of media others view. I lurk in many different subreddits, and everybody demonises porn without giving any actual reasons. They just expect their will to be law without giving any concessions on their part. Make it make sense. Why do people insist on rules for thee, but not for me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 03:26 AM |
| 7 | women like rogues not particularly alpha menWhat, is the sneak attack damage really that attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 03:11 AM |
| 2 | What's your "hot take" or unpopular opinion when it comes to dating?Okay, the scale is still a good way of generalising one's individual sexuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Modern day women have absolutely zero accountability whatsoeverIf that's true, then why do banks still give women loans? Wouldn't they be able to just not pay? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 11:44 PM |
| 9 | Did you realize sex was about bonding after losing your virginity? Did you not want to believe it was?That is such a bullshit way of asking a question. I may as well ask "How long did it take you to learn that the first Pokemon games were hot garbage?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 11:26 PM |
| 2 | What's your "hot take" or unpopular opinion when it comes to dating?Yup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 11:25 PM |
| 6 | What's your "hot take" or unpopular opinion when it comes to dating?I don't think anyone is a 0 or a 6. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 11:05 PM |
| 1 | What do you think the average bodycount is for a 25 year old college girl in 2022 ?Were those published in 2022? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 11:04 PM |
| 5 | "Fat woman dont want to date fat men"That is such a generalised and vague sentiment that it borders on useless. There will be some fat women who want to date fat men, some fat women who refuse to date fat men, and some who are completely ambivalent. To claim otherwise would indicate a hugely inflated sense of confidence on extrapolating an extremely small set of data to whole populations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 08:09 PM |
| 13 | What's your "hot take" or unpopular opinion when it comes to dating?My hot take is that sexuality is not a constant that never changes throughout your life. You may be a 0.7 on the Kinsey Scale at one point in your life, then rise to 2.1, then fall back to 1.4. That's not an inconsistency, or proof that you're secretly gay, it's just a normal factor of life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 08:07 PM |
| 44 | What do you think the average bodycount is for a 25 year old college girl in 2022 ?I don't know, and I highly doubt there are any relevant and recent studies that aggregate that type of data on any reliable scale. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 11:37 PM |
| 2 | cmv: men get more attached after sex than women.The only way I could think of would be checking like oxytocin levels, but I don't think my ideal cuddle time involves a spinal tap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 02:19 AM |
| 3 | cmv: men get more attached after sex than women.How the fuck would you even measure something like that? It's not like you can check someone's "affection meter" before and after sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 12:48 AM |
| -1 | The traits men want in a DAUGHTER vs WIFEI wouldn't say that sharing 50% of my genetic code automatically makes my hypothetical daughter "better" than my wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 06:35 PM |
| -1 | The traits men want in a DAUGHTER vs WIFEI would want my daughter to share 50% of my genetic material. I would not want my wife to share any of my genetic material. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 06:05 PM |
| 1 | What percentage of people within your dating age range do you find attractive enough to sleep with? What percentage do you find attractive enough to have a relationship with?Fucking hell the amount of data that would require to even consider an answer gives me a nosebleed. Also all the contingencies you have to consider. What sort of sample size would you expect? 20 people? 40 people? Do you only account for people in your area, or a global population? What do you consider as your "age range"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 11:39 PM |
| 3 | Watching porn is the same as cheatingEating at a restaurant is the same as cheating. I think people should avoid eating at restaurants in general because it's bad for the brain. It desensitizes you to normal food stimuli, and constantly visiting restaurants reduces hunger and energy levels for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/22 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Men would you feel insecure if a girl wanted to incorporate dildos/penis sleeves in the bedroom?You were the one talking about dildoes. Half of the holes dildoes go into are butts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 10:59 PM |
| 1 | How old are you and what do you consider to be an average amount of sexual partners for your age group?27 and I would have to check the data. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Women always want something new with one man; men always want the same thing with someone newOnly those that incorrectly try to generalise entire populations. Why don't you bring a useful opinion instead? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 10:37 PM |
| 2 | Men would you feel insecure if a girl wanted to incorporate dildos/penis sleeves in the bedroom?If you don't give yourself a good enema, it can get incredibly dirty. Anal is not something you ever just spring on a person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 07:18 PM |
| 2 | Men would you feel insecure if a girl wanted to incorporate dildos/penis sleeves in the bedroom?I mean sure, but just give me a few minutes before sex so I can properly clean up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 05:05 PM |
| 3 | Women always want something new with one man; men always want the same thing with someone newYour view is wrong because it is generalising entire groups of people based on an extremely small sample size. Even if you've met, talked with, and fully understood what thousands of men and women wanted in a relationship, that would be a minuscule amount of the population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 05:03 PM |
| 7 | Does it really boil down to looks as far as what makes a woman a potential partner vs a best friend?For me, looks don't really matter when differentiating between a friend and relationship. I say this, because every single goddamn time I've had a female best friend (even in my early childhood) I inevitably catch feelings. Of course, sometimes I realise I caught feelings a year after I moved away and it will never be, but I catch feelings none-the-less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 06:06 PM |
| 1 | What exactly makes women horny?It depends on the individual woman, you goddamn idiot. Hell, you are wrong about guys as well. Just because you experience something doesn't mean that everyone in your demographic experiences the same exact phenomena. You moron. You absolute fool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 06:10 PM |
| 10 | If artificial wombs became a reality, do you think women would use them?You can't say that! You have to ascribe a single behavior to and entire population of people. Nuance can't exist in today's society! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Are older single women who never had kids actually happy or is that a lie?Are people who try to generalise entire populations of people with only a single common denominator stupid? It's hard to tell, but every one I have come across definitely are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Q4M fidelity testingAccurate lie detectors aren't real, and will likely never be real. There are too many variables to consider when determining if something is a lie. For example, let's say I was in a committed relationship, and had sex with someone else. However, at the time I had assumed my partner was cheating on me, and therefore I thought the relationship was over. Or let's say that I tried hitting on someone that I assumed was my SO (ie seeing them from behind at a bar), but it turned out to be someone else.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/22 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Would you rather marry your average looking best friend; or a really hot person you have nothing in common withI would so be down for a homely fujoshi type NEET girl who will geek out about her interests and get into mine as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/22 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Do you genuinely think OF is easy/worth it?OnlyFans is like Twitch or Youtube. Sure, you could in theory make a lot of money, but for 95% of the userbase it is just a hobby that sometimes make money. I know from helping out a couple Twitch channels that the only real path to success is to spend 2 hours networking for every 1 hour making content. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 02:47 AM |
| – | Women being dumber than men.Describing someone as "smarter" than someone else, as if intelligence is a single metric that can be compared, is one of the stupidest things I routinely see. Intelligence is not like height or weight, where you can put yourself on a scale and say "Hmmm, it looks like you have 12 smart units. I have 13 smart units, so I am better than you." Intelligence is more akin to something like physical fitness. If I can deadlift 250 pounds, and you can only deadlift 200 pounds, does that make me overall a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 02:44 AM |
| 2 | What is it about erotica that makes you gravitate towards it vs other kinds of porn?As a guy, I like erotica when it deals with more fantasical or specific fetishes. Also, Novelai.net is fucking amazing. AI has come a long way when compared to the old AI Dungeon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 09:01 PM |
| 2 | What do you think of the term ‘incel’?Except in Canada it is still a crime. | /r/MensRights | 17/07/22 03:51 AM |
| 2 | Do men want uglier or more attractive/beautiful/hot women in long term relationships or in casual one’s?"Do [individuals] of [group] have a certain unified and homogenous preference for [trait]?" No, the answer is almost always no, and anyone that genuinely believes otherwise is either a liar or an idiot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 07:57 PM |
| 1 | On the flip side, is cold-approaching men acceptable pretty much anywhere?Personally, I wouldn't want to be hit on during my hobby. For example, if I'm playing in a Magic the Gathering draft, I only want people talking about the game, the draft, the set etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 02:47 AM |
| 3 | What's the consensus here about women approaching men?consensus Can there ever be a consensus about anything here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 02:46 AM |
| 1 | What do you consider the ideal body (for the sexes you're attracted to)?My tastes and preferences swing wildly all over the place. It all averages out to "living." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 02:45 AM |
| 2 | What makes guys want to take a girl seriously?It really depends on the specific person in question. Anyone saying otherwise is either lying or an idiot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 11:45 PM |
| 3 | Would you let someone disrespect your friend while trying to pursue you?>Implying I have friends for them to disrespect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 08:27 PM |
| 4 | Why do many Woman have trouble owning up to things?Why do many people have trouble owning up to things? FTFY | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 03:47 PM |
| 1 | When the subject of women’s abundance comes up women like to say they have “no good options” but this is nonsense. Women have plenty of attractive, desirable men interested in both LTR and hookups, they are just insanely picky.There used to be many great mobile games, back before people realised how much money could be made on the platform. And even now there are a few well hidden gems. The problem is that now, since you can make money, everyone is just putting out low quality cash grabs with a dozen ads per second. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 03:46 PM |
| 2 | When the subject of women’s abundance comes up women like to say they have “no good options” but this is nonsense. Women have plenty of attractive, desirable men interested in both LTR and hookups, they are just insanely picky.Think of it like this: there are far more mobile games now than a decade ago. But, how hard is it to find a good mobile game? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 03:44 AM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on lying about sexual inexperience to avoid a catch 22?Would you want a woman to lie about her sexual history? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 03:43 AM |
| 1 | cheating while drunk is WORSE than cheating while sober.Why would I not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 03:34 AM |
| 10 | What is more important Physical Connection or Emotional Connection?I think a temporal connection is the most important. You can have the most rockin bod, and be the smartest women, but if you lived 50,000 years ago, I can't make it work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 01:14 AM |
| 1 | When women say "height/looks/size/income doesn't matter" are we men just speaking a different language?What are your own preferences? How do you know they are your actual preferences? Let's look at a quick analogy: eating. Assuming each meal is the exact same size, would you be less hungry after eating if you ate standing up or sitting down? I know that my gut reaction is that it wouldn't matter, if I eat X amount, I will feel X full. But that isn't the case at all. There was a study that looked at how hungry a person was after eating (it's a bit complicated how they actually determined this, but… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 01:12 AM |
| 1 | The average men does not want the average women (in the US)You know what, this type of language really annoys me. To determine an "average" about anything, you need hard data. You cannot determine any sort of average without at least some data. Let's look at something that does have hard data: Pokemon. For those that don't know, each Pokemon species has a set of six stats, HP, Attack and Special Attack, Defence and Special Defence, and Speed. Each of those numbers can be anywhere from 1 to 255. And each Pokemon has one or two out of 18 total types. Does… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Which is better - Emotional Bond or Physical Bond?Chemical bond. If our valence shells don't combine, then it won't work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 12:46 AM |
| 5 | How much popular would femboys become with women if Genetic Engineering made them commonplace?That's asking about a hypothetical mixed in with a bunch of assumptions and generalisations. I can assume that some women, both straight and lesbian, would be attracted to some number of femboys. What I, and everybody else, can't assume is the proportion of those stats. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 12:45 AM |
| 1 | cheating while drunk is WORSE than cheating while sober.If women as a whole wanted to only breed with men that feature one specific trait, then you would only see that trait in the population. However, you see many different traits in the population, so you can assume that women as a whole do not select for a single trait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 12:40 AM |
| 24 | cheating while drunk is WORSE than cheating while sober.Think of making a bad choice like rolling a save in DnD. You roll a twenty sided die, then add your current modifier. If you roll under a certain scenario's difficulty check, you fail and you make the bad decision. The problem with alcohol is that, once you take it, your modifier gets worse and worse. Say your modifier is currently +5, and the difficulty check for taking another drink is 12. So, if you roll at least a 7, you choose not to take another drink. But, after your first drink, your mod… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 06:03 PM |
| 0 | Why would a man want to become a feminist? Why would a woman want to become “redpilled” or Men’s Rights/MGTOW sympathizer?Why would a white man want to end segregation? Because it makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 02:58 AM |
| 1 | What's the alternative to "be yourself"?Be yourself if you were someone that was cool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/22 06:08 PM |
| 8 | Are all females naturally sapiosexual?Are all- No. Whatever the rest of the sentence, it is likely no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Is it really a man's job to approach women first?Ideally, there would be no inherent duty to approach to any specific gender. Let's take an analogy: selling items. You have two parties with essentially identical roles, a seller and a buyer, and they want to meet. If you look at something like Craigslist, you can see a number of posts from both buyers looking for a specific item and sellers with specific items. When a buyer or seller wants to conduct a trade, they go to Craigslist and look for any sellers or buyers who also want to trade. If th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 01:23 AM |
| 3 | Many men nowadays don't want to date and avoid marriage because they don't want to lose their money and assets and they are afraid of having to pay child support and being able to go to jail if they do not pay itWhat view is there to change? What statement are you saying? What conclusion is being reached? All you're doing is stating events that you have seen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 12:00 AM |
| 5 | Has anyone actually jumped on a guys dick after he just pulls it out, a la Elon? One wonders why they think it has a chance in the first place. I can’t believe anyone is that stupid.I have spent 25 cents to spin a slot machine once. It landed on a small win for 30 cents. Have I discovered infinite money? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 11:51 PM |
| 8 | Has anyone actually jumped on a guys dick after he just pulls it out, a la Elon? One wonders why they think it has a chance in the first place. I can’t believe anyone is that stupid.From a logical point of view, that makes no sense. Just because something hasn't happened before, that doesn't mean it can't happen in the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 07:00 PM |
| 9 | Q4M What do you tell men who have been hurt by numerous women compared to what you tell women who have been hurt by numerous men?Who are you and why are you in my house? vs Who are you and why are you in my house? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 04:27 AM |
| 2 | Cold approaching is an amazing way to meet partnersIt's not different than how a man would react if a strange hot woman showed up naked at his door. "Here's a phone for you to call 911, since you're clearly in some form of emergency." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 01:27 AM |
| 1 | what are positive, motivational YT channels for menI like Cimoooooooo, the progression series is good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 01:25 AM |
| -1 | What is opinion about women who choose to get In Vitro Fertilization and an anonymous sperm.xonor to have children without a boyfriend/husband?My opinion is that a child needs two parents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 01:05 AM |
| 1 | [Q4M] Have you never in your life met any girl who was sexually interested in you?I have. Of course I learned about it a good two years after the fact, and now it's been a decade so that ship has well and truly sailed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/22 11:15 PM |
| 2 | Men care about n-count:The MoratoriumWait, isn't "sleeping around" a form of infedelity? I thought that referred to someone who has sex with many people at the same time, usually with the partner's understanding that they are exclusive. The whole "I thought we were a couple, but I found out you are sleeping with four other people!" sort of deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/22 11:13 PM |
| 2 | What PPD related topics would you like to see studies/statistics on?Again, you're still asking people to rate the images in some fashion. In the hunger example, the participants weren't even aware that the M&Ms were part of the test at all. A better test would be track how long participants were spending on certain instagram images. But even then, that's only providing one metric, time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/22 11:04 PM |
| 1 | What PPD related topics would you like to see studies/statistics on?Again, you are telling someone what they are being tested about. That is not how you do behavioural analysis. Look at my previous examples, the hunger one and the tits-v-ass one. Notice how the participants never knew what they were being tested on? The hunger participants thought they were participating in a completely unrelated study, while the tits-v-ass ones were not aware of the study at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/22 07:19 PM |
| 3 | What PPD related topics would you like to see studies/statistics on?You have to test people without telling them you are testing people. For example, look at the hunger test in my comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/22 03:56 AM |
| 2 | What PPD related topics would you like to see studies/statistics on?I can't remember, it was almost two decades ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/22 03:17 AM |
| 4 | What PPD related topics would you like to see studies/statistics on?No, that is still a form of self-reporting. Braniac, a British mythbusters comedy clone, actually did a better version of what you're asking about. They wanted to test whether there were more ass-men or breast-mean. So they set up two dummies across a park path. One looked like a woman with a loose top and another looked like a woman bending over. The dummies were indistinguishable from real women at a glace. They then secretly recorded how often and how long random men on the street looked at t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/22 02:11 AM |
| 7 | What PPD related topics would you like to see studies/statistics on?Have 10,000 people score them in attractiveness 1-10. That's self reporting. You're asking people to quantify the vague sense of "attractiveness" into a single numerical value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/22 01:57 AM |
| 12 | What PPD related topics would you like to see studies/statistics on?Self-reporting is hilariously inaccurate. Your attraction to somebody is a completely personal experience, which you literally have no standard to compare or units to measure. You can never trust a participant to be truthful about themselves. Even if they genuinely believe what they are saying, people have a hard time accurately describing stuff like attraction, hunger, fun, pain, or anything else. For example, there was a study to try and determine if eating a meal sitting down was more filling… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/22 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Unpopular opinion(?If I'm incorrect, then please let me know. I will admit that the last time I ever really looked into this was about a decade ago. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/04/22 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Unpopular opinion(?At least in my case, in Canada, sex work is in this infuriating state of quantum legality. The act itself is legal, but basically everything surrounding it (advertising it, asking about it, "living off the avails of sex work", and more) is very illegal. It's so fucking annoying because it allows the government to say that sex work is decriminalised, but provide literally none of the benefits. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/04/22 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Gender fights are based on resentment of the fact genders do not need each other anymoreThere are any number of reasons why a specific class, or even an entire role, might be strictly more populated than others. It might be the most effective class. It might be the easiest to play. It might be the nicest looking. It could even just be a self-perpetuating scenario where people only play the most popular due to a belief that it is the most effective simply because it is the most popular. Looking at a single metric tells you nothing about what classes are good or bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 04:44 PM |
| 1 | What percentage of people ever find out their partners cheated?That's like asking "how many criminals get away with their crime." It's fundamentally impossible to know, because if we knew the answer, the answer would be 0. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Gender fights are based on resentment of the fact genders do not need each other anymoreEven then, just because a certain class has a longer play time doesn't mean anything in-and-of itself. You're looking at one metric and trying to extrapolate to a series of complex and interconnected subsystems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 04:08 PM |
| -2 | Gender fights are based on resentment of the fact genders do not need each other anymoreThat's like trying to determine which class in an MMO is the easiest, and only looking at which classes take the least amount of damage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Why do a good amount of women like being degraded by men in bed?I honestly don't know, but if I were to hazard a guess it would be a quirk of biology. Don't quote me on this, but I believe I read somewhere that this is similar to why people have foot fetishes. Due to a quirk of how the brain is mapped out, many people experience signal contamination when dealing with their feet and genitals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Gender fights are based on resentment of the fact genders do not need each other anymorePersonally, I think it's similar to a "grass is greener on the other side" mentality. Everybody generalises what they do not experience, it is simple human nature, and can be found in nearly every aspect of life. Think of it like a multiplayer video game. Tanks will get resentful of DPS and Healers because their not the ones in danger. DPS will get resentful of Healers and Tanks because they aren't accomplishing anything. Healers will be resentful of Tanks and DPS because everything they do just… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 09:03 PM |
| 1 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldYou're right, some people live in Canada where prostitution is in a terrible quantum state of legal and illegal where there are enough corner cases that politicians can say that they are not criminalising sex work but provide literally none of the benefits that decriminalisation brings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 08:26 PM |
| 8 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldI'm referring to what's called a "glowie." It comes from a schizophrenic computer programmer who thought government agents were after him, but he could see them glow at night. The meaning has morphed a bit from the originator, and now "glowie", and anything that refers to someone glowing, refers to someone who appears to be an undercover agent trying to bait certain people online into revealing incriminating or illegal intent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 02:57 AM |
| 15 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldjust commit a crime brah Can you lean a little closer? I could read by the light of your glow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 02:20 AM |
| 3 | Virginity is a choiceI think a 100% of men have had at least one female be interested in them even if they weren't all that interested in her. Sure, but in a "I never realised she was interested in me until 10 years down the line" way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 02:11 AM |
| 0 | Q4M: does it bother you when you see a 30+ women settle down with a HVM?I really don't care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather date a woman who has a very successful OF but virgin or a woman who's had many partners?I would rather date someone who is interested in me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 06:14 PM |
| 13 | Would you help a female in danger?I mean... that's a really vague question. I like to think I would help anyone in danger, but there are always going to be extraneous circumstances that might hinder me in doing so. For example, what if someone is drowning? I do not have any training in first response, so I know that depending on the circumstances (choppy water, cold weather, flailing, etc.) I might end up making things worse by becoming a victim myself. If I saw someone in danger, and the situation was suitable for me to attempt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Yall think Dubcon hot or nah?Subs > dubs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 04:56 AM |
| 2 | All incels are VolcelsI did, now what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 04:29 AM |
| 1 | What happens to men who struggle in dating?As long as there is a game to play, someone will lose, and unfortunately that's just the reality of the game. No, that's not true of all games. From a literal point: there are a vast number of cooperative games where all players work together to complete a goal. Traditional games like Pandemic, Gloomhaven, and video games, like Final Fight, Left 4 Dead, and others all have the ability for everyone to win. Even if you take the idea metaphorically, there are many instances where the number of "los… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 09:32 PM |
| 2 | What happens to men who struggle in dating?As long as there is a game to play, someone will lose, and unfortunately that's just the reality of the game. No, that's not true of all games. From a literal point: there are a vast number of cooperative games where all players work together to complete a goal. Traditional games like Pandemic, Gloomhaven, and video games, like Final Fight, Left 4 Dead, and others all have the ability for everyone to win. Even if you take the idea metaphorically, there are many instances where the number of "los… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 09:32 PM |
| 33 | You have been made Emperor, what do you do?I would... immediately collapse under the pressure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 12:52 AM |
| 2 | What if there were no more men/women?Honestly, I think from a society standing there wouldn't be much of a difference. Society in general would save a lot of money by not needing to manufacture one set of gendered products. Other than that, I don't really see society changing fundamentally in either scenario. Men and women are not that fundamentally different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Why do young women seem to like feminine looking men?some You forgot this buddy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 03:25 AM |
| 1 | The effects of participation trophies and the ideology behind them on menDo you have any hard data on the increase in participation trophies? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 11:25 PM |
| 2 | What is the long-term goal of FDS? (Speculate)Here's a question OP, what do you think is the best way to gather information about a demographic: 1) Ask members of that demographic either privately or publicly 2) Ask non-members of that demographic either privately or publicly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 02:39 AM |
| – | What makes dating in adolescence different to dating when you’re in your 20s and 30s?I can't tell any difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Discussion/debate: Why do men become beta orbiters?I would assume people usually do things of their own free will because they like doing things. It is hard to divine a reason other than that without actual members of the demographic present. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 05:11 PM |
| 1 | How Come Women Like Feminine Men But Men Don't Like Masculine Women?Never heard a man say that they like masculine women. Are you deaf? Anytime I see discussion about any female character that is the least bit masculine, there are dozens of people creaming their pants for the new "tomboy gf". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Survival of the fittest still appliesWe are the highest form of life on Earth Based on what metric? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Why don't younger men ever blame their singlehood on older men who are dating younger women?You said that "nothing in life is linear." I countered with "time is both linear and part of life." You said that "if something makes up less than 10% of another thing, it is not considered when talking about the whole." That's why I am asking if time makes up less than 10% of life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Why don't younger men ever blame their singlehood on older men who are dating younger women?Do you really think time is less than 10% of life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Why do men react so shrilly to “OnlyFans” but don’t seem to have an issue with porn, strip clubs, sex phone operators, cam girls on porn sites...?I asked why you started out with a flawed question (Why do men react so shrilly to “OnlyFans” but don’t seem to have an issue with porn, strip clubs, sex phone operators, cam girls on porn sites...?) You said the reason you did this was to highlight my strawman for the sake of posterity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Why don't younger men ever blame their singlehood on older men who are dating younger women?So, if something includes details, but is itself not a detail, then it is exempt from the rule that states details are too narrow to be considered? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Why don't younger men ever blame their singlehood on older men who are dating younger women?If I say that "nothing about a pumpkin is inedible", and you point out that "the stem of the pumpkin is inedible", does that make my first statement true or false? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 08:09 PM |
| 2 | Why don't younger men ever blame their singlehood on older men who are dating younger women?So, "sex with consent" would also be too narrow, as it includes details? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Why do men react so shrilly to “OnlyFans” but don’t seem to have an issue with porn, strip clubs, sex phone operators, cam girls on porn sites...?But you said you created the thread itself to highlight the strawman in that same thread's comment section. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 08:04 PM |
| 2 | Why don't younger men ever blame their singlehood on older men who are dating younger women?Right, so anything that isn't the preference of "most" people is too narrow? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Why do men react so shrilly to “OnlyFans” but don’t seem to have an issue with porn, strip clubs, sex phone operators, cam girls on porn sites...?So how did you know I was going to comment like I did when you made your thread in the first place? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Why don't younger men ever blame their singlehood on older men who are dating younger women?You said nothing in life is linear. Time is part of life, and time is linear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 07:46 PM |
| 2 | Why don't younger men ever blame their singlehood on older men who are dating younger women?So as long as less than 50% of people want a thing, it is "too narrow"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Why do some Men want Sympathy/Pity from Women?Of course you don't know. I don't know either. That's why you start building data. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Why do men react so shrilly to “OnlyFans” but don’t seem to have an issue with porn, strip clubs, sex phone operators, cam girls on porn sites...?You started a thread to highlight my future comment for posterity? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 07:44 PM |
| 1 | From an evolutionary perspective, do most adult women (20+) like beard or clean shaven?The thing about evolutionary biology is that a lot of people seem to anthropomorphise the entire process of evolution. They say things like "the tail is designed to be used to climb trees" or "frogs stay in water so that parasites have a harder time penetrating the skin". But that's not really true. A frog stays in water because it wants to stay in water. It wants to stay in water because that's how it's genes have imprinted its brain with various behaviours we call instinct. Stop using words li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Why do men react so shrilly to “OnlyFans” but don’t seem to have an issue with porn, strip clubs, sex phone operators, cam girls on porn sites...?I can’t answer a question when the premise doesn’t exist in reality. Then why did you do that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Why don't younger men ever blame their singlehood on older men who are dating younger women?Unless you are physically moving very fast, time is pretty linear. Even then, it's still flowing in one direction. It would, probably, take a huge amount of energy to make time work non-linearly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Why do some Men want Sympathy/Pity from Women?None that's apparent, at least not yet. Given enough data you will be able to find out why some Men want Sympathy/Pity from Women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Why do men react so shrilly to “OnlyFans” but don’t seem to have an issue with porn, strip clubs, sex phone operators, cam girls on porn sites...?I'm sorry, but that still is not a reason that explains why women overreact to sexism in video games, but are fine with sexism as presented by conservative politicians. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Why do some Men want Sympathy/Pity from Women?Great, now you can use that to build on when you come across strangers who demand sympathy/pity from you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Why do men react so shrilly to “OnlyFans” but don’t seem to have an issue with porn, strip clubs, sex phone operators, cam girls on porn sites...?Exactly, you didn't answer my question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Why do some Men want Sympathy/Pity from Women?Can I see the data then? I love going through that type of stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Why do men react so shrilly to “OnlyFans” but don’t seem to have an issue with porn, strip clubs, sex phone operators, cam girls on porn sites...?That is not a reason as to why women overreact to sexism in video games. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Why do some Men want Sympathy/Pity from Women?There is absolutely no correlation Oh, so did you already do data collection? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 07:04 PM |
| 2 | Why don't younger men ever blame their singlehood on older men who are dating younger women?How is one act considered "too narrow" but other acts are not? All acts are treated equally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Why are so many men giving money to OnlyFans women?Same reason people give money to Patreon/similar websites: because they want to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Why do some Men want Sympathy/Pity from Women?You should do some data cataloguing. Note the name, age, race, time of day, and topic of conversation, and see if there is any correlation to who talks about depressing topics. It might be really interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Why do men react so shrilly to “OnlyFans” but don’t seem to have an issue with porn, strip clubs, sex phone operators, cam girls on porn sites...?I didn't know I even did that. Why do women constantly overreact to sexism in video games, but don't seem to have a problem with conservative politicians? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 11:12 PM |
| – | This entire subreddit is useless due to how Reddit/debates are designedOne of the main flaws with debates is that when you are researching points to support your own side, you ignore the points that support the other side. Not necessarily. While that can happen, that is in no way universal. Recently, I parroted the claim that the earliest arcade systems had the buttons on the left side and stick on the right, but then changed it to the more common layout seen today as a way of increasing the difficulty. However, I was corrected, and upon further research, found wha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Why don't younger men ever blame their singlehood on older men who are dating younger women?If you started with the same genetic makeup as Usain Bolt, you would definitely have the capability of matching his speed if you did exactly everything he did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Why don't younger men ever blame their singlehood on older men who are dating younger women?If there is a chance for the tutorial imp to go left instead of right, then you can't say the game has no true randomness. Even if the game was full of randomness, like Nethack or something, a properly built state machine that can read the random variable inputs would be able to "compensate" and be fully consistent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 11:07 PM |
| 2 | Why don't younger men ever blame their singlehood on older men who are dating younger women?But we are talking about people, and there are hundreds if not thousands of basic variables to consider... Exactly, which is precisely why there are no universal ways to fail or succeed. For example, someone might say that "covering yourself in faeces will prevent you from getting a date" but I goddamn know someone out there will actively want that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 11:07 PM |
| 4 | Why don't younger men ever blame their singlehood on older men who are dating younger women?Take any activity that doesn't involve unpredictable randomness. For example, beating Doom. There are many, many, many ways to fail. Most involve death, some involve soft-locking the game, some involve trapping your character in more permanent ways, you get the gist. However, there are also many ways of beating the game. Many people have done it. If you map the inputs of someone who beat Doom and relay them to your local copy, you will win every time. Another example: woodworking. If you could "… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Why don't younger men ever blame their singlehood on older men who are dating younger women?If there are things you can't do/be that otherwise cause failure, then there must be things that, if you do/are, guarantee success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Question for RedPill: Why am I a sexually dominant female?I would assume you are a sexually dominant female because you are a female who enjoys being sexually dominant. Unless someone is forcing you to be dominant (which is a weird concept, but I'm sure has happened at least once). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 10:40 PM |
| 56 | Why don't younger men ever blame their singlehood on older men who are dating younger women?I never really though that there was a singular entity to "blame" for me, personally, not finding a relationship. I have been told that my single-ness is because I am doing something wrong, but I don't quite understand. If I am doing something wrong, doesn't that mean there is at least one "correct" way to do things which will guarantee my success? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 10:38 PM |
| 2 | Women yearn for the return of chaperonesSo, if a person would chaperone themselves, they would be present to encourage one's own correct behaviour? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Women yearn for the return of chaperonesAnd what, pray tell, do you mean by "etiquette"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Is there any truth to r/nofap, or porn being harmful?There's a saying: toxicology is the study of dosage. Basically, everything can be a poisonous substance if ingested in large enough amounts. Even "vital" chemicals and substances like water or oxygen can be toxic if in large enough doses. The same is true of activities as well. Too much porn is bad just like too much exercise or too much sleep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Explain to me how an older man manipulates a younger woman (18+)Harvey Weinstein. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Should abortion be a mutual decision?I don't think we have the technology to transfer a growing fetus from one womb to another. We have the ability to transport an unfertilised egg into another womb, then fertilise it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Women yearn for the return of chaperonesAre you going to ask men not to rob liquor stores too? I mean, that would be ideal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Women yearn for the return of chaperonesAnd what's next, people not wanting other people to engage in fistfights over perceived slights? The nerve of those people! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 03:31 PM |
| 2 | Men, do you value women based on their popularity?Well, I don't have a social media, so it's hard for me to gauge her social media standing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Why shouldn't women exploit their own sexuality for gain?Many single mothers would rather stay single than pair up with a man who is less attractive than the father of their child. How did you get that claim? Because, personally, I think all of the evidence you are showing is actually caused by a build up of thetans in the female body. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 05:35 PM |
| 0 | Why shouldn't women exploit their own sexuality for gain?More and more women are happy not being in a committed relationship Source? even if they want kids they are happy to not stick with the baby daddy Source? Ive literally heard women explain their PLANS for single motherhood Ive heard friends talk about wanting to sell feet pics online Ive had female friends who were practically sufar babies to men who did not even want sex. Anecdotes aren't data. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 03:55 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Older women's proposal to men their age is no different than the "nice guy's" proposal?even though I spend most my time playing on my pc rather than volunteering in my community That is such an oddly specific scenario. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 05:33 PM |
| 5 | Porn distorts male desires the same way Romance content and Mass media distorts Female desiresI'm not talking about the hornbait shows like Konosuba, but the romancebait shows like Toradora or Kimi ni Todoke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 03:02 PM |
| 3 | FWB's for women is analogous to what porn is for menYes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 03:01 PM |
| 3 | FWB's for women is analogous to what porn is for menSo no sauce for the second claim? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 05:08 AM |
| 5 | FWB's for women is analogous to what porn is for menAnd for your second claim? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 04:51 AM |
| 2 | Some people seem to regard marriage as the most important day of their life. If it is so important, why isn't the most fundamental part of the tradition important?But making the fabric pure white is difficult. Off white is easy, like cream, eggshell, bone, or any other fancy term for "almost white but not quite." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 04:51 AM |
| 1 | FWB's for women is analogous to what porn is for menSauce? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 03:33 AM |
| 2 | Some people seem to regard marriage as the most important day of their life. If it is so important, why isn't the most fundamental part of the tradition important?White fabric is also expensive as fuck, at least in the 19th century, and the purer the white, the more expensive the clothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Which is a better strategy to get a man, FDS or redpillwomen?You could always find a male-dominated hobby, like Magic or Warhammer, and join any local clubs/meeting groups. Just make sure your primary goal when participating in the hobby is to actually have fun with the hobby. Nobody needs to give dickheads any more ammunition to the "girls only do <nerdy thing> for attention" argument. What do you like to do in your spare time? This can maybe narrow down possible hobbies to get into. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 03:30 AM |
| 1 | women HAVE to be hypergamous because of the desire to submitBy definition you cannot submit to someone who is less than your superior. Why the fuck not? Even in a purely sexual context, the power of tools and technology allow anyone to inflict whatever pain they desire on whoever. I can be a skinny, emaciated, weak, short, frail, and lesser person, but if you are in the stocks and I have the key, you are submitting. Submission is not about pure power, it's about control, and you have to willingly give control. You have the ability to submit to whoever yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 08:29 PM |
| 19 | Porn distorts male desires the same way Romance content and Mass media distorts Female desiresAnd superhero movies make people think a righteous person with a strong will can make lasting change in society. Media in general, from pron to romance novels to fanfic to fucking webcomics, will naturally show people what they want. Also, romance content is not solely consumed and internalised by women, and porn is not solely consumed and internalised by men. I know I have binged my fair share of sappy romance anime/manga, and I recognise that has probably affected my view on any potential rela… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Men develop theories and rules about women’s behavior because that’s the way men understand social situations.In a formal scenario where everyone is expected to have the same understandings and assumptions, then cutting unnecessary language is useful. Unfortunately, not everyone will understand the unsaid "most" you include in your sentences. And even then, many other scenarios will dictate that "most", "all", or "some" be used for clarification. Take for example a video game. I make the claim that about a specific video game that "this gun can 2 hit kill non-immune enemies". However, there are enemies … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Is Chad what is considered a High Value Male (HMV)? What qualities make someone a HMV?Chad is from a meme. He is a meme character, and most people use the meme wrong. He is not a vibrant, charismatic, and confident fellow. He is just the opposite of a virgin. Here is the timeline of Chad: Someone made a thread on /r9k/ showing typical behaviours of virgins. These images include the virgin walk, the virgin drive, etc. and only featured the virgin. Someone, probably not the original poster but you can never be sure, then posted images where the original image was juxtaposed with th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 05:20 PM |
| 0 | Men develop theories and rules about women’s behavior because that’s the way men understand social situations.Women prefer men who are taller than themselves Correction: "Some women tend to prefer men who are taller than themselves." The internet, being what it is, proves that there are no hard and fast rules. Would you say that it is a rule that no woman is sexually attracted to a man who smells like rotting faecal matter? I bet there is someone, probably an entire forum with literally dozens of participants, who love men who smell like literal rotting faecal matter. The truth is, the exception does NO… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 05:01 PM |
| 2 | Men don't put in effort in marriages because they're already overexerted by not sleeping with other women.A lot of people complain about Jews ruling the world. That doesn't make it true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 04:31 AM |
| 37 | Men develop theories and rules about women’s behavior because that’s the way men understand social situations.I am an autist and even I realise that people don't run on pre-programmed codes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 04:29 AM |
| 1 | What do guys think when women casually show up at the same place to get a guy’s attention?I would think the most sure fire way of keeping the romance alive would be open communication. Personally, I think more context would be needed. I play Magic the Gathering, and if someone showed up who clearly had no interest in the game and only wanted my attention, I would definitely be annoyed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 04:28 AM |
| 2 | Unpopular opinion: Women’s careers are overrated compared to men’s.How many women are surgeons, high powered financiers, high level business managers, etc? How many work of them work at those positions compared to men? I'm sure you could actually find actual, hard stats to answer those questions. Have you tried looking that information up anywhere? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Deradicalising hateful incelsBecause I am one of those people. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/05/21 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Deradicalising hateful incelsBecause they inform me about any thoughts and opinions I didn't know I had. For example, I didn't know my own standards until I was told I demand a "virgin, big titty, millionaire who is a freak in the bedroom and will take care of them for life." | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/05/21 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Deradicalising hateful incelsNo, I go there looking to be informed. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/05/21 08:12 PM |
| 1 | The Rise of Bullying: the true cause of incelsI agree, as soon as you start identifying causes for how people behave, you are inherently providing excuses and removing any and all responsibility those poeple had. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/05/21 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Deradicalising hateful incelsWhat do you mean? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/05/21 08:03 PM |
| -3 | Deradicalising hateful incelsYou don't. Just remember that women find us repulsive, we have no redeeming qualities, our mothers wished they aborted us, and any female friends we have are in danger because of us. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/05/21 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Would u consider yourself an incel?Yes. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/21 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Can we discuss equality in relationships?I would talk to her and discuss what she wants and expects, and what I believe I can deliver. I personally have executive function disorders, so taking on full cook/clean/childcare responsibilities from day 1 would be quite a stumble. My biggest fear wouldn't being emasculated or pigeonholed, but it would be fucking up something important. I only recently learned that you shouldn't give honey to a child under 1 year old. And what if I fuck up cleaning something important that she needs, like clo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 04:53 PM |
| 1 | "incel" is just as sexist and hateful as wh**e or sl*tWhat if it is factually true. I am an incel, it is what it is. | /r/MensRights | 11/05/21 02:27 AM |
| 0 | This group seems to disagree about a lot of things due to inconsistency in definitions and perspectives about terms such as “slut” or “high n count women”.I take it you've never played a sport or game at a competitive level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 03:57 PM |
| -2 | This group seems to disagree about a lot of things due to inconsistency in definitions and perspectives about terms such as “slut” or “high n count women”.That is exactly what I said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 03:33 AM |
| -2 | This group seems to disagree about a lot of things due to inconsistency in definitions and perspectives about terms such as “slut” or “high n count women”.So it's not the fact that someone is promiscuous that turns you off (pardon the pun), but the fact that society frowns upon it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Women and society push men to watch porn then complain about men watching pornMasturbation can exist without pornography. In fact, many, many, many non-humans masturbate and horses are not known for their artistry. Sex has almost never been the only way to relieve sexual tension. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 03:22 AM |
| -2 | This group seems to disagree about a lot of things due to inconsistency in definitions and perspectives about terms such as “slut” or “high n count women”.Having sex is a skill, and you improve skills through practice. Why would you not want a partner who has had practice? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 03:11 AM |
| 1 | What should a single man do to fulfill his sexual needs if a relationship is not possible at the moment?The point is that having sex with an experienced partner is almost strictly better than having sex with a novice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 03:22 AM |
| 1 | What should a single man do to fulfill his sexual needs if a relationship is not possible at the moment?It is often said in tennis that "you are only as good as your partner", and that also applies to the game itself. When you are playing against a newbie, you can lower yourself to them and still have fun. But, when they are on your team, you have to constantly make up for their shortcomings all the while not being able to rely on them. It's not fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 12:54 AM |
| 1 | What should a single man do to fulfill his sexual needs if a relationship is not possible at the moment?Would you want a tennis doubles partner who has only watched tennis, or one that has actually played tennis? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/20 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Should guys trust their partners with gay guys ?I mean, I would trust any (hypothetical) partner with straight guys as well as gay guys. I would assume that my (hypothetical) partner wouldn't cheat on me, and if she did, I deserved it somehow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/20 05:11 AM |
| 1 | [Q4All]What are Your Thoughts on the “Old” Man/ “Old” Woman in the Club?I have never been to a club, therefore I have no opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/20 12:07 AM |
| 6 | Most women I know are not as funny as the men. Why do you think that happens?Do you have any way of accurately defining how funny a woman is? My first reaction is that you are suffering from confirmation bias. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/20 12:06 AM |
| 3 | Q4Men: Are you satisfied/content with your nonsexual interactions with women?I have as many female friends as male friends, so I guess I can't complain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/20 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Do most men find that a friendship with a woman is pointless?No. Everyone I would consider to be my "best friend" have been women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/20 11:35 PM |
| 5 | Reminder: Incel Content is Banned. Make subreddit suggestions in this post.I am saying that neurotypical (people with normal brain functions, ie not autistic) people can easily detect who is and who is not an incel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/20 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Reminder: Incel Content is Banned. Make subreddit suggestions in this post.I assume it's obvious to neurotypicals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/20 08:30 PM |
| 2 | Reminder: Incel Content is Banned. Make subreddit suggestions in this post.Does this mean incels are not allowed to comment at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/20 08:25 PM |
| 0 | What issues do you think modern women are facing?COVID-19 is a big issue right now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/20 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: How would you respond in this situation?I do it because I know when I'm making the sandwich I will inevitably get hungry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/20 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Would you be satisfied in a relationship if your SO was your only friend?I would just be grateful to have a friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/20 08:11 PM |
| 2 | What is the bare minimum for you in a partner?Don't worry, it is the consensus that I do not deserve sympathy. I'm not allowed to say why exactly, but I'm sure you could figure it out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/20 01:14 PM |
| 27 | What is the bare minimum for you in a partner?Basically two things: Is attracted to me. Is not actively abusive. (Although this is negotiable) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/20 09:15 PM |
| 3 | If you're not creepy or fragile, you shouldn't be terrified to express interest in women or flirt whatsoever because of MeToo and mainstream media/feminism telling you that your masculinity is toxic.I have autism, I often don't know if I am being creepy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/20 04:47 PM |
| 1 | If you could go back and give you're 12 year old self a talking on reality of sex and relationships/lifes insanity in general as you see it as an adult what kind of talk would you give yourself?Buy a ton of a thing called bitcoin. Especially when it is super cheap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/20 02:45 AM |
| 2 | Can seeing sex workers provide a meaningful alternative to relationships? (for incels and others?)No, because you should never suggest an incel getting anywhere near a sex worker. We just had an incident where an incel killed a bunch of sex workers in Toronto. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/20 09:24 PM |
| 3 | The Gender Wars is really about money and no one wants to admit itAll forms of discrimination, be it racial, gender, sexual, religious, whatever, is about money/power. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/20 04:23 PM |
| 1 | If men stopped using women for sex, you'd find the connection you're really looking forI have literally never used a woman for sex, and I still haven't found the connection I'm looking for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/20 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Opinion on the prospect of futuristic sex robotsIf you think the invention of futuristic sex robots would not greatly affect the world, then you are incorrect. Think about all the things that have to go into the robots: skin-like materials, advanced AI, teaching a robot how to walk. Each of those things by themselves would have great technological and societal impacts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/20 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Why should we care about Incels?>it's fucking retarded to be worried about terrorists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/20 01:03 PM |
| 3 | Why should we care about Incels?Because incels are fucking dangerous. Remember all the actual, literal acts of terrorism we have committed over the last few years? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/20 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Incels, if you could rape a woman without fear of repercussions or consequences would you? [serious question]No. I don't like causing pain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/20 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Incel NGOIt would be incredibly cheap to run because there are no worthy incels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/20 12:29 PM |
| 1 | What is your take/opinion on the idea that men are not actually attracted to women, but to the idea of action or harm?That's a bit of a reductionist philosophy, and I think it misses the point of attraction entirely. Of course men will like women for what the woman can do for them. That is definitely part of attraction. Attraction, desire, and preference all have the same root: utility. I like a certain car, video game, food, tool, person, whatever because of what it can do to or for me. Think of it like this: do you like pizza, or do you like what pizza can do for you? Would you like a pizza that tastes bad, o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/20 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Do men honestly think young women live carefree perfect lives?The only problems that exist are the ones that I have. Therefore, if someone else appears to not have any of my problems, that means they have no problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/20 05:21 PM |
| 1 | I’m just going to ask the hard question—why are men mad at women for having standards?I know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/20 02:55 PM |
| 0 | I’m just going to ask the hard question—why are men mad at women for having standards?But I am an incel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/20 01:05 PM |
| 0 | I’m just going to ask the hard question—why are men mad at women for having standards?Because I feel like I am not allowed to have standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/20 12:52 PM |
| 3 | Q4E: what are some stupid things your preferred gender has done that made you less attracted to them?I don't really feel like I am worthy enough to feel less attracted to someone. Like, how dare I say that the way that anyone acts makes them less attractive to me when I am an incel? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/20 04:32 PM |
| 2 | What's your minimum requirement in a women for you to date her?She is into me She is not abusive (negotiable) I am into her That's about it. I would love to have someone who I can relate to, play vidya with, or who has my sense of humour, but that's kind of reaching. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/20 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Where would you be now if you married the first person you dated?I'd be single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/20 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: Would you be bothered if someone you were dating was sleeping around before you had the exclusivity talk?25 male, and I would not be bothered. I would just be glad to be dating anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/20 07:09 PM |
| 2 | What N count are you Personally comfortable with?N >= 0 Anything else is just weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/20 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Do you have racial preference ?Honestly, and this might be racist-adjacent, but I think would rather date someone who is like me culturally. I don't think I care much about skin colour, but having someone that has a radically different culture would probably turn me off. Or not, I don't really know. As for the specific questions: 1) I don't know 2) Technically no 3) No, I don't think so. 4) Probably an asset, because muh white supremacy 5) It's just like any other fetish, really 6) Jesus was black/Arab | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 04:03 PM |
| 2 | Men, let's settle this once and for all: do you believe that you're entitled to sex?Of course very few people are going to say they are entitled to sex. And very few companies are going to say they prefer to hire certain racial groups. As for myself, of course I'm going to say that I do not think I am entitled to sex. However, I do want to look at the penultimate question you asked "Do you think that women should be sexually attracted to you?" Because, yes, from a mathematical point, I do think there should be a non-zero sum of adult women who are, or at least have the potentia… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Would you be okay with being a girls beta bucks?It's not like I deserve any better, so why not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Do you think people in a marriage could be each other's friend or even best friend?Sure, why not? I could also see two legitimate best friends get married for tax/legal/medical/etc. purposes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/20 01:46 PM |
| 2 | A woman can only tell you what they don't wantA person can only tell you what they don't want FTFY. No one knows what they want, just look at all the nostalgia-bait games promoted on Kickstarter like Mighty No 9 and Yooka Laylee. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/20 01:44 PM |
| 2 | What is your opinion on being a SAHM/SAHW or providing for one?A parent should be at home. The gender does not matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/20 03:51 PM |
| 1 | CMV: No man should knowingly date any woman that participates in r/femaledatingstategyWhat if the man in question is an incel? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/20 03:49 PM |
| 4 | Under what circumstances would someone commit emotional infidelity?I don't even get what "emotional infidelity/cheating" is. From what I understand, it seems rather draconian that someone can only ever be emotionally close to one specific person. But, as I said, I don't think I even understand what that even is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/20 01:54 PM |
| 5 | "Get out there and meet women" - what do people have in mind when they say stuff like this?I've already asked out every woman that goes to my local Magic the Gathering store. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/20 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Why do people hate incels so much?I'm just reporting the facts. Eventually we may see that incels come to be accepted, but for now we are not. | /r/MensRights | 19/02/20 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Why do people hate incels so much?ER, Toronto Van Attack, and I think there was one more that happened fairly recently. | /r/MensRights | 19/02/20 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Why do people hate incels so much?ER, Toronto Van Attack, and I think there was one more that happened fairly recently. | /r/MensRights | 19/02/20 01:33 PM |
| -3 | Why do people hate incels so much?I think the killings have something to do with it. | /r/MensRights | 18/02/20 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: what do you think would happen to incels if they woke up tomorrow as women?I'd masturbate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 04:34 AM |
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