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I think those woman are delusional. They make for a good laugh. And yes, I definitely think social media has inflated certain women’s expectations. Specifically the narcissistic ones. And I do think they’re expecting too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 05:25 PM
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We don’t. But keep in mind that not every women’s attraction works the same. So when you see one woman say one thing, but the other says something else, they aren’t necessarily lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 08:33 PM
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Idk why people are acting like this is common sense for redditors. I mean, I know you all see the stuff that gets posted by men regarding how women only want the top 1% of men, how they only want chad, etc. Like yes, this is common sense for well adjusted folks who spend time in the real world, but a lot of the people on Reddit are not that. Edit: Also, there lots of men who only use dating apps to meet women because they’re scared of rejection, and don’t realize that they’re putting themselves …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 04:00 PM
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The effects aren’t going to be symmetrical due to differences in biology and socialization.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 02:44 PM
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“As long as she’s moderately attractive” Uh no, they don’t even need to be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:03 PM
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You have no interest in genuine discourse. Every couple of days you come on here and make troll posts only for them to get taken down later. I swear, your dedication to putting on this act is admirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:37 PM
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I imagine you have some kind of Google doc or something and you have all these responses ready to copy and paste. This is such a weird hobby/kind dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:32 PM
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At this point, based on your profile description and replies, it’s clear you’re here just to troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:28 PM
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Ah let me guess, you thought women were all these vapid shallow people who only care about looks and you’ve ignored every single person that’s told you otherwise. So now that you’ve been proven wrong and your worldview has been broken, you’re clutching at pearls.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:15 PM
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Sorry. I jumped the gun and read the title of that post wrong 😑 They’re a guy and not a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 08:04 PM
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My original comment you responded to. Less than a day ago, you made that post. It’s clear you are upset and are taking it out on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:12 PM
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Re-read.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:00 PM
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What am I talking about? It’s literally in the comment to which you replied with “cool story.”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:50 PM
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I’m sorry you feel objectively worthless because no man wants you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:48 PM
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If you look at their post history, they’re blaming men as a whole because they’re unsuccessful with men romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:47 PM
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If you look at OPs post history, they are unsuccessful with men and are incredibly bitter about it. That’s why they’re on here. To throw a temper tantrums.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:46 PM
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“Unsure of where I am in the pecking order and whether I simply don’t cut it for a girl my age in this era” That was posted by OP less than a day ago. Now your post makes sense. Wow. OP is salty for not being picked. Edit: NVM guys. I read the title wrong. They’re a dude. Not a woman. Yes, I am an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:40 PM
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You just moved the goalpost. Our criticism isn’t that your job obligates you to excuse every behavior. It’s just that you seem to think asking customer service for customer service is itself a moral failing. Those are two completely different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:35 PM
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I’m sure they do. I don’t think they would be in that profession if they weren’t searching for the power that comes with the authority.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:46 PM
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I have a grain disdain for people who decide to work a customer service job but then have a holier than thou attitude when it comes to doing their literal job. Like did no one else want to hire you??? You work at the front desk. Calm down.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:33 PM
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Hmm I’m not sure I’m buying this. “so i understand it as you must be seduced” it kind of sounds like you’re deliberately misunderstanding the responses here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:18 PM
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I see cute guys often. I have never been turned on just by looking at them though. I’m curious, OP, why did you ask this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:03 PM
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I’m honestly shocked all your female friends are like this. Every mixed gender group I’ve seen interact, the women talk so so so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:41 AM
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You can tell women to have realistic standards till the cows come home. They’re still not going to pick you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:31 PM
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Lmao are you some kind of omnipresent god? Or did you conduct research studies on this? Where are your sources?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:33 PM
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OP: tells multiple women to kill themselves because their husbands are tall OP + other men on this sub: “why do women hate men?” Being disingenuous is a sport for you guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:45 PM
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Yeah because at the end of the day men still want to have sex with them, big whoop!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:36 PM
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The average person doesn’t spend a lot of time thinking about or caring about strangers. They care about the specific people in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:35 PM
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Sure. Congrats! You win!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:08 PM
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The disgust is valid, it didn’t manifest out of nowhere. Maybe teach men to stop pursuing 12 year old girls and it will change because it has a profound effect on how we view men from a very young age.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:59 PM
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Sorry, I should have been clearer. When I said “as much as,” I was not saying it’s acceptable. It meant the same standard applies to both. I don’t think it’s okay for men to be bitter incels, and I don’t think it’s okay for women to become bitter and resentful either. Obviously, if you’re an incel yourself and complain about other incels, you’re a huge hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:36 PM
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As much as it is okay for men to be bitter incels
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:25 PM
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Are you being serious? Asking Reddit if they want to discuss books is not asking for “emotional support.” This post is so disingenuous. Edit: I hope men see this and understand this is why some people don’t take men’s grievance seriously. It’s dishonest to claim men don’t get emotional support when in reality it turns out you’re just talking about books.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:08 PM
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Why do you capitalize random words?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:58 PM
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Okay. So why didn’t you provide them? I’m always amused when people claim statistics but then don’t include them in the comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:26 PM
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It’s absolutely unhinged the amount of times I’ve had men on here straight up argue with me that women only see those who they’re attracted to as humans. They literally think a woman going on with their day and not glancing at them = being subhuman. And no amount of arguing gets them to change their mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:22 PM
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Ah see, it’s not that women ignore men, it’s just that they ignore the average ones. Because if you could have your pick of any person, who wouldn’t pick the best option? So the solution is to make yourself above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:17 PM
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We do sir. Just not you specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:08 PM
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Being pregnant for 9 months + everything that comes after isn’t a walk in the park. I have ZERO desire to have children nor does my husband. So of course pregnancy will never be worth it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:11 PM
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Woman here, and I agree. Getting banned just because you introduced yourself to a woman is INSANITY and absolutely fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:04 PM
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I don’t believe you’re bipolar
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 02:28 PM
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You need someone to feed paragraphs to you in order for you to admit that suffering is real? You sound unhinged
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 02:26 PM
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Lmao imagine using this argument with someone battling depression 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 02:25 PM
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I specifically wrote attention from anyone to make sure you knew I wasn’t just talking about unwanted sexual attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 02:19 PM
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Have you seen those sub? It’s a toxic cesspool. They simultaneously gatekeep being ugly while being extremely misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 02:10 PM
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Absolutely. Any woman who says she would be perfectly fine being perpetually alone with barely any attention from anyone is lying. Anyone can go on the ugly woman subs as see they feel and act the same as the single unhappy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 10:06 PM
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Some of us don’t want robots!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 10:03 PM
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Awe. Too bad I’m already married.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:21 PM
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I appreciate your response. > You're redefining the context of what she was replying to. If I had a penny for every time someone does this on Reddit, I would be a billionaire!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:01 PM
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Alright. That doesn’t change that women who makeout with strangers make up a small percentage of the female population. There are millions of us. But you don’t notice because we aren’t posting every second of our lives on social media like those women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:50 PM
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I find it very unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:45 PM
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Do you have IG? If so, I’ll DM you my username and you can add me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 09:18 PM
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Yup. Those aren’t the women OP is talking about. I’m 31. Never have made out with a stranger in my life. I also don’t post half naked pictures at the beach. If you don’t believe me, I can give you my socials and you can see for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 05:47 PM
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How is this even a post? This should be common knowledge. 1.) Everyday there is at least one post about how women date bad men 2.) Looks are the first thing humans tend to notice. So yeah, tons of men and women are considered to be attractive despite not necessarily being a good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 05:11 PM
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This attitude ain’t it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:10 PM
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I agree! If you’re fat, you shouldn’t get upset that people don’t want to date you because you’re fat. If you’re short, you shouldn’t get upset that people don’t want to date you because you’re short. If you’re ugly, you shouldn’t get upset that people don’t want to date you because you’re ugly. I’m tired of people throwing temper tantrums because they aren’t people’s cup of tea. Also tired of people equating being sexually undesirable with being hated.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:04 PM
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Also, almost every woman has been getting pestered by men from the time they were little girls. That’s definitely going to amplify how we see men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:32 PM
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That makes sense. Out of curiosity, when you say young, what age range do you mean? Also, how old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:35 PM
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Yes. Your post reads like you’re fairly confident. So you must have dated at least one young woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:25 PM
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When you’re ugly, having better social skills than average makes you attractive af.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:23 PM
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Gotcha. How has dating young women worked out for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:21 PM
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The most undesirable people usually have the worst takes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:14 PM
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But young women age. What are you going to do when your young gf finally gets old?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:08 PM
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This is a great question. I doubt they’re going to answer though. Edit: nvm! Glad they’re responding!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:55 PM
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Which is odd. You’d think they would understand better since they have first hand experience with wanting to feel more desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:59 PM
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My point is that when I dress I’m not doing it to get your attention specifically. I’m dressing because it makes me feel good about myself. That’s my point. Edit: nvm I think I read your comment wrong. My apologies!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:44 PM
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Nope. I can’t control what men do. That’s why when they approach me, I don’t mind. They are going to do it regardless of the clothes I wear anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:35 PM
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I never said it didn’t. My comment was for people who believe dressing sexy is only ever for other people and can never be also for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:34 PM
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Yes. The less clothing I wear, the sexier I feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:31 PM
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It’s really not. I’m just on Reddit giving my two cents just like everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:30 PM
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Yeah well I never said there’s only one reason for dressing that way. Everyone has their own motivations. What motivates me to dress sexy probably won’t be what motivates you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:29 PM
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Because they can’t be trusted to handle to their emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 05:58 PM
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Yes. Feeling sexy feels good. Being hit on isn’t part of the requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 05:15 PM
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That’s because they believe women *only* dress that way in order to get their attention. They don’t realize that a women wanting to feel sexy isn’t an invitation for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 05:14 PM
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People who feel “torture” just from attractive people existing should not be part of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 05:12 PM
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The biggest difference I’ve noticed between the unattractive men that get women vs the unattractive ones that don’t, is that the former don’t have a victim complex. Nobody wants to be friends with someone who makes everything about how oppressed they are, much less be in a relationship with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 04:59 PM
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Lack of exposure to situations, experiences, responsibilities, relationships, hardships, work, conflict, independence, risk, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 02:37 PM
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I would ask OP. I was just quoting their post.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 02:16 PM
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That’s not a woman I would want to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 02:16 PM
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But this isn’t just about maternal qualities. This goes beyond that. This is wanting maternal qualities PLUS someone who has no life experience. Very different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:51 PM
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> If attraction is genuinely amoral, then being unselected is not evidence of being a bad person. It's simply evidence that you weren't chosen. In a similar vein, not being attracted to a man doesn’t mean you hate them. I say this because I constantly see men on here saying that women hate them because they’re ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:48 PM
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What makes you think u/behappyfor is the kind to have plastic surgery? Like obviously the ones who get plastic surgery want the attention. But they only make up a small percentage of women. There are tons of us who don’t put in effort to look as hot as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 04:48 PM
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So are they wrong for assuming? If so, can you explain how the average is not like it? Because your replies are very vague.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 04:41 PM
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The problem is thinking every other man lives the same lousy life. But I get it, it’s better to convince yourself that this is an inherent part of being a man because that means you can sit back and be a victim and complain right?! Because change is much too hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 04:32 PM
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It’s still not contradictory though, because a woman getting a lot of matches doesn’t mean they’re getting a lot of matches they actually want. A woman can desire a good relationship while simultaneously not being attracted to most men she sees on apps. So you end up with a lot of men who get overlooked entirely, while many women feel like their matches are low quality, incompatible, or only want sex. Both things can be true at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:35 PM
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I don’t see how it’s contradictory. Men who don’t pass the looks threshold aren’t going to be considered. Doesn’t matter how much of a “good guy” you think they are. Also, how do you even know they’re good men in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:12 PM
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Correct. But that fact doesn’t take away from OPs premise which is, if you wear something revealing, in general, you will receive more attention than wearing something less revealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:51 PM
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Sounds like a case of “I’m so desperate and ugly I can’t afford to select anyone and think all men are just like me.”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:22 PM
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So what are you referring to when you said “you can’t go around throwing medical diagnoses at people?” Specifically what part of their comment? Quote it please.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 05:10 PM
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So what are you referring to when you said “you can’t go around throwing medical diagnoses at people?” Specifically what part of their comment? Quote it please.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 05:01 PM
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You can't go around confidently throwing medical diagnoses at people. You mean just like you did? You’re the one calling them a narcissist. I didn’t see them giving a diagnosis.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:59 PM
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I understand. I don’t think they’re full on gay, but they’re definitely less straight than a woman who does like sucking dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:19 PM
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I guess they just don’t seem that straight to me. It’s like a guy saying he doesn’t like eating pussy. That man may as well be gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:12 PM
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As a woman, if she is down to have sex and is okay with your penis going into her vagina but not into her mouth, it sounds like either either the penis tastes/smells bad, and probably looks really weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:56 PM
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If a woman won’t suck your dick, does she even like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 02:55 PM
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Yes. You already said that. Are you going to address their actual comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 10:04 PM
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But isn’t your point that there’s no such thing as a skill issue? I’m saying I disagree. I’m saying that if you’re ugly, and you also don’t have social skills, then it’s 100% a skill issue. Not visibility, timing, mental health, or anything of the things you just listed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 09:55 PM
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That’s what incel used to mean. It was a self-help movement that got turned into a toxic online subculture. So now, if you identify yourself as that, people are going to assume you hold radical views. There have also been a lot of cases where the ideology has been linked to violence and domestic terrorism. So, personally, I wouldn’t be calling myself that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 09:52 PM
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Yeah, no. If you’ve been living for 30 years without a single woman being interested in you, then at that point it’s not about all those variables. You’re just ugly af and suck at socializing. Any other explanation is pure cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 09:44 PM
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What? Like they’ve never given you a single piece of actionable advice? That sucks man. I wish more people weren’t so scared of giving the people they love constructive criticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 09:39 PM
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Well just going off of your single comment, it sounds like you’re choosing to be an incel. Calling yourself an “incel” says a lot more than “I struggle with dating.” It usually means you’ve started building your identity around rejection and hopelessness, and that mindset affects how you see yourself, women, and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 09:38 PM
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I’ve been friends with a lot of hideous guys. And they still managed to get girlfriends. But they were never social incompetent or lazy. So when I see an unattractive guy with zero luck, I’m gonna assume he’s socially incompetent. I mean what other excuse is there?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 09:30 PM
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Haha, love how you didn’t deny it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:50 PM
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Sounds like they hurt your ego a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:48 PM
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It’s 2026. This has been asked a million times. Why is this still being asked like it’s some mystery?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:44 PM
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I mean depends why you hate them. Hate them because they don’t want to date you? That’s sad. Hate them because your algorithm only you shows shallow “insta baddies” and you think all women are like that? That’s also sad. Hate them because you’ve been in multiple abusive relationships, you’ve been raped by women, etc.? Then yes, it’s justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:10 PM
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How are you going to call someone out for lack of evidence, make a claim, and then also provide no evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:31 PM
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They’re talking about people like Bryan Johnson.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:10 PM
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I’ve had better luck with chatGPT than going to a gyno.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:44 PM
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I appreciate the source, but unfortunately, the study doesn’t prove that women are attracted to murderers. All it does is talk about short term attraction to domestic/aggression traits in a very specific context, while also saying women prefer less aggressive men for long-term relationships. You’re acting like “sometimes, some women might find certain dominant traits attractive” = “women are biologically into serial killers,” and those are clearly not the same claim. Attraction to traits a bad p…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:08 PM
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Of course they’re not. Anyone who thinks so is also unhinged.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 03:04 PM
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Yes, I am aware. Everyday there seems to be more and more unhinged individuals. Still doesn’t mean that women are all unhinged and like John Wayne Gacey.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:38 PM
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Being attracted to confidence, competence, status, charisma, etc. does not mean women are attracted to murderers or think violent men are “good people.” You realize bad people can possess attractive traits, but that does not mean the attraction is to the violence itself, right? Ted Bundy was not attractive because he was a serial killer. It’s like saying men who are attracted to beautiful women must therefore support abusive women because some attractive women are abusive. The logic doesn’t foll…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:55 PM
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Can you explain what this has to do with the comment I responded to?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:51 PM
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Hold on, are you suggesting that women think John Wayne Gacey has a cute face? Because remember, that’s what we were talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:12 PM
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Why do you keep talking about young women being fertile? This is the second post.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 05:28 PM
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As a woman, I find it hard to wrap my mind around the idea of other women “settling” because I can’t imagine why on earth they would do that when they can just be single or just find someone they’re actually attracted to…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 05:24 PM
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How many hours have you put into people watching?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 05:08 PM
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Valid. But, once again, was this your experience growing up with your parents?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:49 PM
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Because you speak like you have lots of experience with this kind of stuff. I’m not trying to argue. I’m genuinely just trying to understand why you feel so strongly about this? The things we believe are a result of our experiences. They don’t exist in a vacuum. That’s why I asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:43 PM
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No. The theory is unhinged. Not you. Don’t take it personal because it’s not supposed to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:40 PM
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Was this your experience growing up?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:36 PM
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My apologies. Your broad wording implies you were speaking in generalities. It’s not biology to think murderers are good people. Thinking that in itself is pretty unhinged as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:26 PM
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So are you saying women as a whole are unhinged? Because only an unhinged person would think these murderers are “good people.”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:20 PM
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Not that somethings wrong with him, he just wasnt attractive Why is this still being debated? It’s common knowledge that if you literally can’t pull a single woman, then obviously you’re not attractive physically nor personality wise. Every grown up should already know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:19 PM
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You have to remember, people only come to the internet when they have bad things to say. Nobody comes on here to talk about how wonderful their relationship is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:31 PM
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Woman here. No they’re not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:26 PM
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Sorry. But we never going to agree on this. Because your beliefs are rooted in fantasy. You can keep repeating the same thing over and over. It doesn’t make them true. Women do desire men. So stop saying you “wished” they desired men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:18 PM
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Yea, really. Because you keep saying women don’t really desire men. Like sure, you’re able to acknowledge that you’re undesirable. But thinking women in general don’t actually desire men is just you making something up so you can try coping. If you were actually at peace with your unattractiveness, you wouldn’t believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 05:22 PM
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No, we do desire men. It just doesn’t manifest the same way it does for men because of biology. If a guy wants to be desired the way a man desires a woman, then he needs to pursue men, not women. This sounds like a case of “my ego can’t handle being undesirable, so let me just conveniently make something up so I can digest the harsh reality better.”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 09:27 PM
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I’m looking at the exchange between you and ihatesmelly. I was referring to the “lmao just ignored everything” “right back atcha” comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 03:09 PM
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Why are you guys engaging in the first place if you’re just going to ignore everything said by the other person?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 03:04 PM
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I think it can be both. If she wants kids, her clock is ticking. Women can’t just wait around forever. And if he keeps telling her to wait, that definitely seems like he’s stringing her along. And she’s also not getting her way because, she would prefer to have already been married to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 03:04 PM
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Immediate. Once I lay my eyes on you. Game over. Whatever comes next may make me stop liking him real quickly though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 09:05 PM
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You’re right about attraction. But once it goes beyond that and goes into sex territory (which is what the person you replied to is talking about. They’re not talking just about attraction in their previous comments but about sex), it changes. If you look at research, it shows that men on average are more open to sex with strangers or with little emotional connection than women are. Women tend to place more importance on trust, emotional safety, etc. or a relationship before wanting sex. And it …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 05:25 PM
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Thinking you’re entitled to anything in life just because you did x, y, and z is such a brain dead take. It’s not reality. It’s just wishful thinking. Like where does this idea even come from? Because everyone knows if you are both ugly physically and mentally, you aren’t going to be desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 03:25 PM
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Don’t you think that online, when you only have one sentence to go off, it makes more sense to just to ask them instead of immediately assuming?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 06:34 PM
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Instead any time men get together to discuss attraction, dating, and how to be the guy women choose for sex, women seem... displeased, openly hostile. Are these get togethers being conducted in person? Or online? Because online, especially on reddit, people tend to be hostile by default. Literally any topic you can think of, you will see people being openly hostile about it online.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 06:31 PM
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Lmao my bad. When I read “sex outside of marriage,” I thought they meant they were married and don’t have sex with other people. I’m very slow this morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 05:48 PM
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That makes sense. Love how I was downvoted!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 05:45 PM
1

Do you have sources indicating that this is actually rare?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 05:33 PM
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I’m glad to hear incels are finally giving men a try instead of screeching “homophobia” whenever women suggest they go for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 05:31 PM
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Haha, I prefer to ask clarifying questions to make sure me and the other person are on the same time. But they usually get pissy and say something like “answer me first!” It’s annoying how almost everyone is ready to argue and no one has interest in a normal conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:45 PM
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Of course not. But online, they’re still called simps. I’ve seen men call men simps just for expressing how much they love their wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 04:35 PM
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Because they probably saw some bitter toxic woman online calling another woman a “pick me” just for talking about how much she loves her husband or some other lame thing like that. So now that’s what they think a pick me is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 04:34 PM
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Can we PLEASE stop using the term pick-me incorrectly? A pick me by definition is a woman who: 1.) frequently claims they are not like other women, often by mocking or belittling feminine to seem more "down-to-earth" or "chill" 2.) Their behavior is heavily focused on appealing to men, often acting as "one of the boys" and disassociating from other women. 3.) They may put down other women to make themselves look more appealing or superior in comparison. 4.) They may fake enjoyment of traditional…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 04:33 PM
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You guys keep trying to turn my comments into talking about what you want to talk about, instead of the point I have actually made. This sentence perfectly summarizes the majority of interactions on this platform. Redditors are very difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 02:47 AM
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You don’t see the differentiation between a woman who wants to be a sex worker vs. One who doesn’t? So are you saying every single woman is a sex worker? Even virgins? Okay. Let’s go ahead and say all men are rapists. I don’t see any differentiation, they are all under the same gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:13 PM
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Sorry, but all I did was answer your question. I’m not trying to convince you of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:00 PM
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I don’t go to therapy. Does every interaction on Reddit be an argument that you have to win? Are you not capable of just have a casual conversation without being snarky?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 09:56 PM
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My problem? Why are you being defensive? You were the one who asked. Were you not asking in good faith?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 09:53 PM
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The same way we find time to open up our Reddit app and posts comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 09:23 PM
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No, it’s all good. It’s just that you claimed I was suggesting men catcall women when that wasn’t my intent at all. I am a woman, that would be the last thing I’d want. So I just found it odd that that was your takeaway.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 04:24 PM
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The advice was meant for men interested in giving genuine compliments. It wasn’t meant for men trying to get dates by cold approaching or men who want to learn to talk to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 03:35 PM
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Sorry. I didn’t think I would have to specify. Also didn’t think you would take my comment in bad faith. I mean, I did say complement and mentioned nothing about catcalling. I forgot that a lot of people here don’t get out of the house therefore don’t know what’s appropriate. Yes, complementing a woman means you complement her hair, accessories, etc. It doesn’t mean “holy shit you’re hot!” Or “nice tits.”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 03:25 PM
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I remember some great advice the other day that I had never seen anyone suggest before. Someone said if you’re a guy and want to compliment women w/o coming off creepy, just do it as you’re walking by instead of stopping them. I was delighted by this suggestion because I’ve seen so many discussions regarding men not wanting to complement women, and not once had I ever seen that piece of advice given.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 09:49 PM
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Do you feel the same when men on here post tik tok links as evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 07:35 PM
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Doesn’t sound like she loves him, but rather his high status.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 02:57 PM
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Yes. I am aware. That’s why I’m asking you, what did you mean then?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 05:24 PM
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They’re doing that thing ppl do on here where they imply, but keep it vague enough so they can deny it later. Then when you ask for clarification, they flip it into “that’s just your interpretation” instead of actually explaining. It’s basically just dodging while pretending they didn’t say anything concrete.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 05:23 PM
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I’m just always fascinated in women asking for so much what can they reciprocate in return? What’s wrong with a wanting a funny woman in return for my funniness? Hmmm Well you did say this when the topic was about being funny. So if that wasn’t what you were talking about, what did you mean by that comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 05:13 PM
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I’ll be honest. Short subs do get recommended to me from time to time. And every once in a while I will actually open up the posts. Not once have I seen a woman be horrible on those subs. If anything, I actually very rarely see women on there. It’s always a bunch of dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:34 PM
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So do you think people should be financially dependent on each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:31 PM
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It’s the same article dude. You must be a bot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 04:25 PM
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You gave me an article written by a man that consists of multiple anecdotes by men. Please explain to me how this is supposed to show me that women are upset that you, BrainMarshal are opting out? Like I’m asking about real women in your actual life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 01:50 PM
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Never been attracted to the model types.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 06:17 PM
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So you’re saying there are women who are upset that you’ve decided not to participate? Who are these women? What are their names?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 03:30 PM
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Oh yeah, seeing how many women don’t approach I definitely was bragging somewhat.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 03:22 PM
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That makes a lot of sense. It doesn’t happen often for them so when it does, they’re pretty stoked regardless if they find her attractive or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 10:21 PM
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How about you answer my question first and then I’ll respond to yours :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 03:38 PM
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If this is an observable pattern, then surely there must be studies on it right???
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 03:16 PM
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Yes. I realized many years ago that as a woman, having guys be into you means nothing special because literally every woman, even if they’re fat and ugly, have men into them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:56 PM
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Absolutely. Every guy I was into always liked me back. Because of this, I never had a problem approaching first because I knew 9/10 I wasn’t going to get rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 12:16 AM
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You okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:53 PM
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What was she making you do at that point?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 02:22 PM
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It comes up when the topic is about men who heavily disliking women and express nothing but positive things about their fellow males. Women will suggest that maybe they are actually into men and that perhaps they should seek men out romantically. Those comments typically receive comments from men saying it’s homophobic. It happens on here all the time. The people who have been on here as long as I have will vouch for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 02:20 PM
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It was just a question. No need for hostility. May I ask, how old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 06:56 PM
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First off, I’m talking about OP vehemently opposing the idea of pursuing women. I’m not talking about physical approaches. Testosterone drives men to want the be pursuer. If a man finds himself not wanting to there is a chance he has low T.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 05:04 PM
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Ah yeah. Because there is no in between right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 03:53 PM
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Let's put it this way, describe to me your typical three first dates and how much you would expect to spend on each one. I’m referring to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 03:51 PM
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How so? That’s a pretty big claim when you only have a small sample size.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 03:29 PM
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Why did you ignore their question? Genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 03:25 PM
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Yup. And on the other side of that coin are all the other women who are nothing like that. Unfortunately you just didn’t pick them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 03:00 PM
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So all the women you dated where like that? You seem to only like a certain kind. Vain leeches.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 02:55 PM
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Something is missing here. No comments saying your suggestion is homophobic? I am actually shocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 02:51 PM
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Thats the opposite of a hoop. That’s someone just trying to avoid you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 02:48 PM
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Lmfao. I LOVE how you completely ignored the first comment and only replied to someone replying to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 02:47 PM
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How many women have you dated?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 02:38 PM
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Even the men on here agree you’re lazy. If you had higher testosterone, you wouldn’t be on Reddit. You would be out there trying to meet women instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 02:37 PM
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Have you dated most women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 02:32 PM
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“I know you are, but what am I?” The logical gender at it again!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 02:31 PM
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Well in this specific case, it means working on inflexible thinking and the strong need for consistency. OP suffers from both.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 02:27 PM
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You’re not going to change this guys mind. He’s already got a narrative in his head and anything that doesn’t fit into it, they’re going to reject.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 02:24 PM
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You sound hung up on the idea that most women don’t like most men. Why? Because you don’t need most women to be into most men. You just need one woman to be into you…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 02:20 PM
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Yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 07:50 PM
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Be the change you want to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 07:16 PM
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Who doesn’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 02:33 PM
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See?!, this is why there is a loneliness epidemic You don't do XYZ. If you did what I want you to do, maybe you'd have somebody" I’ve only seen this brought up when people say stuff like “Robots are better than women because they can’t say no.”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 06:23 PM
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So you’re saying you met two people who think sucking dick is gross and unnatural but are somehow still interested in men sexually? And so you think all women think exactly like this now because of this single interaction? Because this couldn’t be me. I LOVE sucking my husband’s dick. He’s just so hot. I can’t imagine not wanting to suck his dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 02:15 PM
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Please daddy, don’t replace me! Please. I beg you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 08:05 PM
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They as in men, not robots.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 08:04 PM
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Oooh nooo, how am I going to live without Financial-Results-502s genitals inside me? How dare that dumb AI hoe steal my man 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 08:02 PM
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They want to punish women. Their emotional responses prove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 07:54 PM
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Just say no. It’s okay if nobody wants to have sex with you. I get you have never felt desired in your life and you’re trying to cope. But let’s be real. We all know you’re not going to make any ladies jealous with your robot gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 07:50 PM
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Yes or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 07:47 PM
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Gotcha. That doesn’t sound like someone who is okay with lack of intimacy though…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 07:47 PM
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And I wish these guys would understand that women aren’t going to suddenly want them. Sex robots aren’t a threat when you’re not interested in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 07:43 PM
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Do you really think these women want to have sex with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 07:40 PM
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It’s not a joke. They bring up a good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 07:40 PM
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It’s really sad that all these ugly guys think this is a gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 07:39 PM
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The only people who are down with a lack of intimacy are those who are too awkward/scared/unattractive to even get to that point with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 07:36 PM
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I have. And it never goes the way you expect it to. Every time it makes me think why even bother? The last women I asked responded to me with: “They are men’s at the end of the day these are how these creatures act anyways with clothes on.” The rest of the time, they get very defensive and resort to name calling. It’s just not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 06:56 PM
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I’ve actually seen both arguments multiple times. It’s silly to pretend like something never happens just because you don’t witness it happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 11:27 PM
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It’s sad people think only one or the other exists for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 02:57 PM
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This is a great question! The more time I spend on Reddit, and the older I get, the more I realize all of my time here amounts to nothing productive. It’s a huge waste of time. So it makes me wonder about people like Lilith who put a lot of energy into this sort of thing. I’m also curious. What exactly have they accomplished?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 06:45 PM
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My friends all have the same value whether they’re men or women. It would be very shallow to see one as having more value than the other. They’re both humans at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 04:28 PM
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I follow a lot of style, hair, and makeup subs and have noticed 90% of the “women” who appear there are men pretending to be women. It’s scary how much karma they farm from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 02:53 PM
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Sure, that still doesn’t change the fact that most women would barely make enough to pay their rent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 02:49 PM
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What is a high value man to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:23 PM
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Let’s be real, we all know that when we deliberately call someone a loser, we are not intending to be “kind.”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 03:59 PM
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Yup. You just need to have a hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 07:12 PM
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So you think there isn’t a single hot woman in existence that just wants to hook up?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 07:11 PM
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Nobody should be surprised. The most attractive men don’t give out sex freely either. Clearly when people are operating out of scarcity, whether it be a man or woman, they’re going to be more desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 07:07 PM
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Is toxic women calling other women pick me indicative that all women are participating in the same hive mind? Because I have been called a pick me for saying women shouldn’t have multiple baby daddies, but I have never called a woman a pick me and can’t imagine doing so. So am I still part of this “hive mind” even though I am the opposite of those women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 07:05 PM
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Yeah, women sleeping around like that is gross and off putting as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 07:52 PM
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Sure he is not a virgin anymore, lets say he had 1 Girlfriend for 6 months with 20 and thats the only woman he had ever sex with With 20 what?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 07:50 PM
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Sorry, I thought it was common sense that insults are meant to target insecurities. Didn’t think I needed to explain. Virgin” or “incel” implies no woman wants you, which attacks a guy’s perceived desirability. That’s why it hits a nerve.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:48 PM
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To hit a nerve.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:35 PM
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Any mature person would laugh at these people and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 07:53 PM
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Jokes on you! Every guy I’ve liked has liked me back. Can I have my cookie now?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 05:28 PM
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Some do. Some don’t. I sure as hell wouldn’t be down with that set up. Sounds unhinged.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:52 PM
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So I just don't see an AI girlfriend as a bad thing. Okay? What’s the issue here? That some people think AI girlfriends are bad? Who cares what they think? You shouldn’t be looking for approval from others. If you want an AI gf. Go ahead. Nobody is stopping you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 12:29 AM
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Is it? That’s good. Means the value will finally catch up to that of a penis. Yay equality!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 12:15 AM
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I met my husband on OkCupid. We have been together 13 years now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 03:28 PM
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I wasn’t referring to you. I’m talking about the men on here who spread lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 02:53 PM
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But you want to be loved by a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 02:10 AM
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The ones the can’t handle the truth are always the ones trying to shove their “truths” down others peoples throats the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 02:09 AM
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No one bats an eye? What are you talking about? This entire sub is filled with posts with men losing their minds because women find them unattractive. If I had a penny for every “women don’t consider ugly guys to be human” comments on Reddit, I would be rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 04:11 PM
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So, in other words, they’re being haters?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 04:05 PM
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Men have way less interest in keeping a facade, and won't lie about what we are attracted to. We have very little issue admitting we're shallow in our dating preferences, and we generally don't try to go with any virtue signaling. Ironically, you are virtue signaling in this very comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:43 PM
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You would also get a lot of dishonest answers if you asked “would you go lower if the law allowed it?”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:42 PM
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Religion is like believing in Santa Clause
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:24 PM
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You know what else is natural? Women not wanting to be with a short bald fat guy. Yet there are non stop posts written by undesirable men whining about their lack of female attention. So for the love of god, if guys are so logical like they claim, then why can’t they just accept being unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:19 PM
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You’re forgetting that a lot of religious people believe Jesus is going to return and that all the sinners will be “eternally punished.” Edit: and I mean physically return, not spiritually
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:58 PM
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Shows you that they don’t really see women as humans. “Oh yeah she’s a woman, she doesn’t have any trouble attracting the opposite gender like me, therefore she couldn’t possibly have otherproblems like a normal human being.”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 06:06 PM
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The way you’re wording this makes it seem like you think these kind of issues only exist in women who are mid to late 30s. I have come across so many posts written by teenagers and women in their 20s/early 30s who sound/act the same as the women you’re describing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 06:04 PM
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Where’s OP data?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 05:01 PM
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Hmm, the logical gender, yet everyday I come on here witnessing the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 05:02 PM
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Men are able to look around them and see which men are getting dates. Based on what they observe in other people, they can form advice that may be useful. Would you say “undesirable” men get dates? Because I’ve had this discussion with many men who act like short guys who aren’t ripped are all inherently destined to be unsuccessful with women. So I ask myself, do they just not leave the house? Do they live in a town where every man is tall? Because when I go out I see ugly couples everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 04:59 PM
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Sorry. That wasn’t my intent. I just wanted to mention your username. The comment was meant for mlo9109.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 04:46 PM
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Why get an attitude when I wasn’t even talking to you in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 04:38 PM
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I’ve seen you on here many times. I remember your username because I’ve noticed you post a lot of takes I disagree with. You were on here one time insisting that women can’t be mean. I along with others commented on the absurdity of that idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 03:41 PM
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What, but women are SO nice. They’re never mean. /s Sorry I had to. This post and your comment reminded me of the one time u/ThatBitchA came on here to argue with everybody about how women are so nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 03:32 PM
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Interesting, thanks for sharing. Edit: Though I will add you mentioned nothing about being assertive, not being a push over, creating sexual chemistry, leading the interaction or any other masculine traits. Wow, it’s funny how I took my time to write out that list and it still wasn’t good enough for you. Look, I’m just a single individual, I’m not some omnipresent god. So I’m not sure why you’re critiquing what I wrote. If you think you know more than me, than perhaps come up with your own and f…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 03:14 PM
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Yes, I know you ask a question, and I said, “I am prepared to answer.” I was making sure we were on the same page before because otherwise we would be talking past each other like people do here all the time :) It’s sad that people automatically assumes everyone is being malicious on here all the time. I can’t respond in any kind of manner without someone having to take it the wrong way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 03:10 PM
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I always feel like an alien on this sub because I rarely relate to how some of you guys describe your female friends. I would never yell at a friend over sharing that dating has been difficult for them. That's a normal conversation. I get why some of you choose to stay silent to keep the peace. But I don't think it's a good idea to normalize the idea that women as a group can't handle basic discussion without hostility. In general, I don't think it's healthy to treat toxic behaviors as the defau…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 10:29 PM
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Gotcha. If the goal is to maximize your probabilities across a broad range of women, and we are talking about general trends, then the top 5 I would say are: 1.) Being physically well presented. You don't have to be a model, but you should operate above a personal baseline. Fitness, grooming, and clean clothes that fit properly, good posture, and basic style awareness go a long way. You can't completely override looks, but you can improve how you present yourself. 2.) Social competence. It means…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 09:55 PM
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Wrong. There is research indicating that women show greater variability in mate preferences across individuals compared to men. However I realize some people will pretend otherwise because believing there a one-size-fits-all solution is psychologically comforting. It also keeps one from having to work on their personality. “It’s useless for me! So whatever!”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 06:48 PM
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Like I previously said, changing the wording to “most” women doesn’t change my answer. No, most women would not give very ugly guy a chance if he had worked on their personality. My original answer is still the same. It hasn’t changed. Some women would give a very ugly guy a chance if he had worked on his personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 06:19 PM
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Okay, it doesn’t change my answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 06:10 PM
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This is a great question and I’m prepared to answer. But I want to get some things straight first. could you give the top 5 pieces of advice about being attractive to women, ranked in order of importance? It sounds like you’re asking for a ranked universal list. Would you say you assume attraction works like a checklist? Is that how it works for you? And if it is, are you open to discussing the idea that you could be wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 06:08 PM
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All women? No. That’s not how humans work. We have to get past the idea that all women or all men want the same thing. However, some women absolutely will give a guy a chance if his personality is good. How do I know this? Because I see the evidence all around me. Those ugly guys I knew in high school? Some of them are married. And even the ones who aren’t married, some of them still got girlfriends. I saw it with my own two eyes. Doesn’t surprise me though, they all had awesome personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 05:53 PM
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This might just come down to variation. Studies show men tend to agree more on what they find attractive, whereas women are a lot less uniform about it. So of course advice from women isn’t going to look as consistent. That’s not proof it’s wrong though, it just means there isn’t a single formula.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 05:37 PM
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Because for those women, personality is somewhat more important than “be hot.” Personally, that’s never been me. I’ve always been upfront about it. Even on Reddit. Looks are non-negotiable. But luckily, not every woman thinks like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 05:24 PM
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Yeah. A lot of advice doesn’t work. This includes women’s. This exact same post appears on here every week. If you’re repeatedly hearing nonsense advice, ignore it. Life goes on. Also everyone knows you have to be hot to attract women. Or at least have a personality people gravitate to if you lack in the looks department. It’s not rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 04:01 PM
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As a woman, I have to say this isn’t true. I’ve been friends with fat ugly guys before and they all managed to get super cute girlfriends. They all had great personalities though, that’s why I was friends with them, so I know that’s what got them their girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 08:51 PM
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They probably noticed you didn’t specify good or bad head.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 08:29 PM
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You’re not wrong. Take a look at Sophie Rain for example, she makes $4 million a month apparently. Why though? I don’t get it. She’s just a good looking woman with big breasts. There are lots of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 08:25 PM
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Can you name one woman who is losing sleep over this?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 06:57 PM
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I must be blind then. I notice people will respond when women make unhinged comments. But every time I come across an unhinged comment left by a guy, there are no replies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 07:03 PM
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because I didn’t have a selfish man eating everything You sound like a treat!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 04:02 PM
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Only on Reddit have I seen an overwhelming amount of men claim they would rather be in a horrible relationship than to die never having had a gf. Have I heard men say this in real life? Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:58 PM
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Of course it is. Humans are not robots.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 08:26 PM
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That only shows that all those men you talked to are boring. That still doesn’t mean most women find most men boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 08:02 PM
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That only shows what you’ve seen locally, not what “most women” think. Personal observation isn’t enough to support a general claim like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 07:42 PM
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Can you explain what you’ve seen in real life to lead you the idea that most women find most men boring? Did you set up an experiment with a large sample size? Sorry, I promise you I am asking in good faith. It’s just that your claim is very bold and I don’t see how one could confidently come to that conclusion unless you have personally lived with most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 05:38 PM
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Being normal is NEVER enough for women because most women find most men BORING. Is this backed up by science, or is this just something you’ve heard bitter women state?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 03:40 PM
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Your profile history is concerning. I hope it gets better for you man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 04:08 PM
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most men just don’t care If they didn’t, they wouldn’t constantly talk about how women want chads who make 6 figures, are at least 6 inches tall, and make 6 figures.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 05:35 PM
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Yeah but at least I get some.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 05:52 PM
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Okay so why so may men complaining that they can’t get women if it’s just probably disease ridden?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 05:51 PM
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It’s just a phrase. It’s not that serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 05:50 PM
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It’s pretty funny. Like I’m expected to believe they can’t get older women but somehow they can get younger? Sure. Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 04:45 PM
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The reality is most people don’t really make that great of a partner nor most of us are very “high quality” in general. So the best we can do is find someone who’s somewhat a good fit. After all, why would you want someone who detracts from your life but doesn’t add to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 04:34 PM
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So you’re saying if a woman offered up her pussy on a platter, you would just pass it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 04:23 PM
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Sorry you’re that ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 04:18 PM
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What you’re doing is misandry So repeating the exact words of others is misandry now??? Jfc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 04:16 PM
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Pressure from what?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 04:13 PM
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but what does that have to do with my comment? You asked “how are they supposed to find a potential partner when women never approach. My point is you don’t. Just be single like the hundreds of other people who have opted out of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 04:00 PM
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Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 05:00 PM
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Yes. But when people are talking about how their partners are the “greatest of them all” they’re thinking about a sample size of 1, not all the other irrelevant people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 04:52 PM
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Sure, but if you’re already with someone, everyone else out there is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 04:39 PM
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This whole pity party show must be pretty addicting huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 07:18 PM
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From the looks of your post history, it seems like you’re so ugly and your personality is so bad than women immediately shut you down. That sucks man. I hope it gets better for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 07:14 PM
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Hmmm any idea why that could be?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 04:16 PM
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Regardless of generation, humans tend to give less of a fuck the older they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 04:16 PM
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Oh no, a single man defending women, the horrors!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 04:15 PM
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“Supposed” is there some law that says people can’t just live and die single?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 04:13 PM
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Well then, actually debate what I said and asked then.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 05:17 PM
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Then why are you purposely going out of your way to be obtuse then? Your responses give off like you’re very angry at these men like it’s personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 05:01 PM
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Woman here. I follow lots of outfit, makeup, and style blogs, OF are constantly appearing on my feed because they go on those subs to promote their OF. No, I do not seek it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 04:56 PM
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Why do you want to shut down a conversation so badly? As a woman, I would LOVE it if more women were open to this conversation instead of wanting to shut it down every time. Sounds kind of toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 04:41 PM
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For real, women come on here everyday (Lilith for example) and make entire posts about toxic men. Men do it, suddenly it’s an issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 04:41 PM
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Not OP, but once I had some women tell me they would go on dates with guys they found unattractive so they could get together and laugh about it afterwards. Would you consider that toxic?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 04:38 PM
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Oh yeah, they absolutely exist. I’m sick and tired of women acting like women as a whole are angels who can do no harm. Nah, women are human, they are just as toxic a men. But yeah, toxic women give them a pass. I’ve gotten told I wasn’t “a girls girl” for calling them out before. Idgaf about being a “girls girl.”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 04:34 PM
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If you want to advocate for men, then actually engage with the points people make instead of deflecting and posting a link to a video with no extra context. Otherwise nobody is going to take you seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 03:57 PM
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What did you make?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 05:48 PM
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Uh no. One of a kind as in you’re able to be humble online. Everyone else acts like they’re perfect. If anyone is stupid, it’s not you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 05:08 PM
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My comment history is public so feel free to copy and paste all the comments where I complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 04:53 PM
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Can you post pictures of all the women here?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 04:51 PM
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Wow, you’re probably the first person to actually admit this. You are one of a kind. Don’t change.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 04:50 PM
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I have a feeling a lot of the men on this sub tune out all the comments left by other men and they only see the ones left by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 04:48 PM
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Okay then they should also have to prove they’re worthy of being helped.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 04:47 PM
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No, men as a whole didn’t create anything. Individual men did. People shouldn’t take credit for something they didn’t make.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 04:40 PM
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I have directly messaged men on here to ask questions and try to help and they made it very obvious that they were not willing to take any advice. Incels just want confirmation of their beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 04:35 PM
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Sure. But who’s usually in the comments defending the victim? Women. Men on the other hand just make comments like “ahhh I wish that was me!”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 04:56 PM
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Complicated? I thought men were these simple creatures and women were the complicated ones! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 04:51 PM
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Yet men still act clueless why women are opting out of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 04:51 PM
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Oops, I missed the keyword “performative” the first time around. My apologies. So they weren’t actually interested in you. That’s pretty shitty. No wonder it’s easier to believe they’re all lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:46 PM
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I was talking to u/Ego73.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:42 PM
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You can be proud at how brainwashed the average man that he feels like it’s his duty to sacrifice himself for extremely entitled and ungrateful women. Still living in lalaland I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:40 PM
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So why the dissonance?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:37 PM
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Same can be said about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:26 PM
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Yes we are. My guess is you’re unsuccessful with women and therefore believing most women are actually lesbians helps the discomfort. Not surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:25 PM
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You can bypass those. Google is great.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 04:07 PM
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I’ll give you another shot. How do I PERSONALLY exploit you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:19 PM
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Please, explain how I personally exploit you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:10 PM
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Sure. Doesn’t make it any less gay. Also homophobia isn’t cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 05:36 PM
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Nah, there’s definitely some hidden homosexuality in there. Comparing your wieners is far from being straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 05:00 PM
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but outside of the attraction you realize how absurd a lot of women look This is true. The female form seems to have a lot more variation. Men on the other hand seem to all be rectangular. I have yet to see a man who will make me think “oh wow, those are some beautiful curves.”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 04:56 PM
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As brutal as this may sounds, 9/10 their post history backs all of this up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 04:26 PM
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Okay, then what is actually going on? Sounds like you have proof. So please share with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 04:17 PM
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most young men are single these days and have no dating prospects This isn’t true. It’s just something terminally online people believe to comfort themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 04:07 PM
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I’m a straight woman. When I see my husband naked, I definitely get wet. When I watch porn, looking at the guys naked body definitely gets me wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 05:17 PM
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Most dating problems don’t exist for those who aren’t terminally online.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 05:02 PM
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Neither is my husband. He tells me how much he loves me all the time and it feels great. We have been together for 13 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 04:49 PM
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You personally
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 04:45 PM
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most guys don’t have that luxury Why don’t you have that luxury?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 04:16 PM
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Well good thing women aren’t a monolith. There are 1000x women that would love to hear their man say “I’m in love with you.”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 07:34 PM
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You’re right, neither are a monolith. But people act like they are and it gets old. Like imagine being autistic, no social skills, social anxiety, etc. but those things always get brushed off just because of your gender, eventually you’re going to get exhausted talking to that group of people. People don’t have unlimited amounts of empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 07:19 PM
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Too? The first position I stated isn’t mine. I’m just regurgitating what some men say.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 06:31 PM
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The way you guys talk about the average woman, why would you want someone that lousy anyways?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:11 PM
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Being a victim is a sport for these people. I’m surprised this sub doesn’t have a scoreboard.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 05:20 PM
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Yes, and what's wrong with that? Echo chambers are bad because they trap people in one-sided views, reinforce misinformation, and discourage critical thinking. Over time, it distorts how people understand reality. Would you want to be friends with someone who has completely different opinions from you, like, say, a Trump supporter? I don't think you would tolerate that. Well I hate to break it to you, but I have been with a Trump supporter for the last 14 years. If it had been a deal breaker for…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 05:16 PM
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I think the reason you don’t like to socialize off the computer is because you’ve know most people offline aren’t like you. You like making friends online because it’s easy to find people who think just like you. You’re unable to handle different opinions and aren’t interested in hearing different opinions and so you prefer echo chambers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 05:04 PM
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The people you’re responding to are very well known in this community for being perpetual victims. Their entire comment section history is “women = bad.” They are not here in good faith. A woman can tell them the sky is blue and they will still argue just because it’s a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:58 PM
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Have you seen them on this sub before? They come on here everyday to have tantrums about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:56 PM
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basic bitches out of whom 5 are in a relationship with someone they met online anyways. How are you autistic and also speak like this? Pick a struggle man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:53 PM
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What’s so bad about them walking around half naked? If you’re a heterosexual male, wouldn’t that be heaven?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 03:29 PM
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Straight women need emotional connection before find some man sexually attractive, while lesbians would probably find some hot unknown woman attractive. How common is this? I mean if a guy is hot, he’s hot. You can tell just by looking him. Can unattractive men become hot after you get to know him? Absolutely. But you don’t need to know a single thing about the attractive guy at the mall to know he’s hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 04:58 PM
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ust because some people were upset about your lack of commitment towards dating Women doesn’t make you not lesbian Never said it didn't. Just stating that in the past, lesbians have not liked it when I called myself bisexual. In fact by stating that you’re straight, you’re misleading other people by giving your opinion which is secretly from a bisexual woman. Yes, I already stated that I have been upfront with lesbians, and they didn't like it. Telling them I'm straight is much easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 09:09 PM
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You’re arguing that men respond effectively to danger because they can use weapons, while women would “freeze.” But using weapons is not a male trait, it’s a human one, and “women would freeze” is just a stereotype. Some people freeze, some don’t. That varies by training, experience, and the situation, not sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 09:01 PM
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Are you saying the average man can win a fight against a tiger?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 07:29 PM
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Typically when people talk about celebrities or fictional characters being role models, they are talking about specific displays of traits that can be extrapolated to the average person. Such as being a trans ally (Pascal), a loving husband (Adams), or a non-tyrannical leader (Aragorn). They’re not telling you that you have to be a king or an award-winning actor in order to be a good person, lol. Do you not recognize that? This should be common sense. How are people this dumb?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 05:36 PM
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Men have started using AI to pretend to be women and open up OF account to make money. Maybe more of you should try this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 05:12 PM
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What is the cruel nature of the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 04:46 PM
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How straight are most women? In my experience, half gag at the idea of being with a woman, while the other half wouldn’t mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 04:36 PM
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The last time I called myself bi, I made a lot of lesbians upset, because I was attracted to them but I wasn’t romantically interested in them the way I am with men. That’s why I call myself straight, despite finding women attractive and having had sex with one in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 04:35 PM
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I don’t think my husband would have married me if he thought it was oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:49 PM
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What am I doing to my husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:49 PM
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I always had the feeling men always settle since they would rather have a harem of women than to settle with one. The comments have confirmed my suspicions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:43 PM
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Idk how other people define husband material but for me that’s the biggest compliment because it means I think you’re so awesome I want to have you in my life and you’re so hot that you’re the only one I want to have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 06:58 PM
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You gonna take accountability for your faulty sources?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 02:08 AM
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I certainly don’t hate any men here. Critiquing isn’t the same as “hate.” The former is specific, conditional, allows for exceptions, and usually aims at change or understanding. Here are some examples: “Some men avoid emotional labor in relationships, and that creates imbalance” “Dating apps incentivize shallow behavior, which affects how some women choose partners.” Hate on the other hand comes in absolutes, is essentialist, denies natural variance, and frames the other group as inferior or da…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 04:46 PM
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It’s pointless to even try engaging with these people because they’ve already decided what your motivations are they aren’t willing to change their minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 03:57 PM
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This response right here is why I don’t have any empathy for your kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 03:54 PM
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You whine about women in every single one of your comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 10:13 PM
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All this moral positioning from you guys is getting really old now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 09:47 PM
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"I mean that's fair but you're going to have to take that disagreement up with the women who use the term pick me that way, instead of with the men who recognize the fact women use the term that way. Or, and this is what happened above, they recognize that pick me is an insult women use against other women who don't shame and belittle men, and it is valid to recognize that women use pick me as an insult against women who don't shame and belittle men. Whether his definition is normalized or not i…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 01:00 AM
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Well see pick me behaviour is anything a woman does or says or any attitude a woman has that is positive towards men, that other women don't like. You’re describing how the term “pick me” is currently being used broadly to refer to women expressing attitudes toward men that other women dislike. I disagree with treating that usage as the definition. The term originally referred to more specific intent-based patterns like performative validation-seeking, often involving comparison or distancing fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 11:54 PM
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We attack his character because we know he’s not here in good faith. They clearly just want a dopamine fix. These people are an energy suck. It’s been hours and they still haven’t responded to my original question, but they have been active and responding to everything else. That shows they’re not interested in having a debate, they just want to vent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 10:57 PM
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Yea, those are all a problem. But they still don’t explain the root cause as to why they are incorrectly labeling women who don’t care about their man’s porn use as “pick me” behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 10:51 PM
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Well personally, I don’t want any text, videos or pictures. I want people to save it for their scrap book or diary, not post it online.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 09:44 PM
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Yeah, I've felt like this before. They kind of remind me of the guys who have a shaming kink. But in this case, instead of them being shamed, they're getting off on shaming others. Either sexually, or it's just super cathartic for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 09:29 PM
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Oh no! Not the horrors of having a jizz facial!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 09:25 PM
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Pick mes are usually in the minority of any opinion women in general dont genrally hold. Yeah, but you are aware that this isn't the real definition of it right? The meaning has been completely changed. "Pick-me" is a derogatory slang term for a person who desperately seeks attention, approval, or acceptance, typically from a specific person or powerful group, often at the expense of their own group or self-respect. The term is most often used as "pick-me girl" but can also refer to "pick-me boy…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 09:16 PM
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Idk. Take a look at what they posted years ago: "After cheating, my girlfriend let me do anything to make up for it I (30m) was cheated on by my gf (32f) a few months ago. She recently confessed and I was on the verge of just throwing away our relationship; until made me a crazy offer. She said I could do anything I wanted with any girl for a whole month and she couldn't say no. So I devised a plan, and honestly I didn't think she would be down for it, but she went along. I suggested a threesome…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 09:03 PM
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Come on, at least answer their questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 08:56 PM
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I think watching porn shouldnt be seen as "bad", same as with toys I guess. OP believes women who don't think porn should be seen as "bad" are pick me's.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 08:52 PM
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Don't you think it would be more constructive if you had these conversations with the actual women you've experienced all of this with?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 08:49 PM
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And in b4 women go "these aren't the same women! I love when my man watches porn" or whatever other pickme shit yall want to say. This is a pretty loaded response to something trivial. What’s the actual issue? You dated 3 women who hated you watching porn, so is calling the women who actually don’t care if their partner watches porn “pick me’s” your way of protecting your ego?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 07:59 PM
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Two different groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 05:02 PM
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Yes, it is rare. 1.) Men are socialized to view providing as part of their role, while women face more risk carrying an unemployed partner because they’re still expected to do most domestic and emotional labor. 2.) Attraction also plays a role. For a lot of women, it’s hard to stay attracted if a partner isn’t doing much. 3.) Then on top of that, men with stay-at-home wives are praised, while women supporting unemployed partners are judged.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 05:00 PM
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I honestly think everyone would be better off if we stopped using social media so much. I encounter so many people on here who have the most rigid, unhinged ways of looking at the world. You can argue, give them advice, talk sense to them, etc,. but none of it will actually make a difference. Because the root issue is usually mental health issues. Most of us aren't equipped to handle that. So it's better to refrain from engaging in all this content. Also, we should try getting better at not gene…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 01:08 AM
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It’s not. Prostitutes exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 02:49 PM
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Yes, but like incel, people are not using the term correctly. The only times I’ve seen it used are on posts where a guy is talking about his wife and there is zero context about whether it’s reciprocated or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 01:19 AM
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Nobody in their right mind is calling any man a simp for treating their partner right It’s the internet. Of course they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 01:16 AM
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Most women aren’t insecure about being ugly, fat, or having cats This is like saying water isn’t wet. Women are absolutely insecure, maybe not about cats, but about being ugly/fat of course they’re going to be insecure. They’re human. This is so disingenuous. And I say this as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 07:33 PM
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women and men don’t understand each other and never will How do you handle this while being a femboy?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:55 PM
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If you read the comments, men are saying they’re naturally flirty can’t be raped by women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:16 PM
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Usually get "not interested" hints right off the bat, but I'm more than able to have platonic conversations with women where I make them laugh. Im still wondering, how do you get these hits off the bat before you’ve even had a conversation with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 06:24 PM
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This is true. I’ve seen some women on here say they’re naturally flirty, even if they’re not interested in the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 06:19 PM
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This is also the reason a lot of women think they’re more attractive than they really are. Based on the amount of attention I got in high school, I thought I was hot. Now I look back at my photos from that time, only to notice I wasn’t that attractive and the attention I got meant nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 04:29 PM
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Good thing there are women who want their partners telling them what to wear. Some are here in the comment section.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 05:33 PM
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It’s a perfectly valid question.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 05:29 PM
2

Really? Why isn't anyone else bringing this up then? Seems pretty serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:07 PM
3

Acknowledging that people can't guess has nothing to do with being concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:12 PM
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So you're just going to take some random stranger's word on it? Lol wtf. The reality is, some women will sleep with a man on the first date, some won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:08 PM
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