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| 2 | How do you handle dead chats when girls suddenly go cold and stop responding?You can do it in some cases, but most of the time you can't. I had a situation where I slid into DMS and got no response not even opened message. About a month later another story another dm, this time it worked, when I asked what was up with the first time she genuinely said I didn't know what to respond with(mind it was no regular slid into DMS). After that the conversation was good but it led to nothing. Those are the cases you can maybe make work, all the other stuff is pretty much done afte… | /r/seduction | 25/03/26 02:41 PM |
| 1 | How do YOU hookup at clubs?Pretty straightforward, you look at her, she looks back, your looks become more lingering hers do too, you smile, she smiles. This is where you know you have a chance. Then you go in, introduce yourself and ask for her insta or number. Now the next move is very important. You immediately message her let's go outside. Then the good thing happens. | /r/seduction | 28/09/25 12:25 PM |
| 4 | Why women pull away even when things are going well— and how to react when it happensWhere was this 2 weeks ago? 😂 | /r/seduction | 26/03/25 09:46 AM |
| 1 | How to Trigger a Woman Emotionally (And Why Most Men Fail at It)Thanks, figured as much. | /r/seduction | 19/03/25 06:15 PM |
| 4 | How to Trigger a Woman Emotionally (And Why Most Men Fail at It)Hey OP, this post is the truth. Quick question: I have a situation went out with this girl few times, she was clearly interested, I think I used every single one of these tricks and it was going well. Few days ago she starts taking longer to respond, and than says she is a tricky person and doesn't trust men. She starts going cold, what to do, is it even salvageable? | /r/seduction | 19/03/25 11:51 AM |
| 2 | 15 phrases that reveal your insecurity and turn women offYeah, absolutely, I seek to know if I should stop wasting my time with a person. | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 01:55 PM |
| 2 | 15 phrases that reveal your insecurity and turn women offAs an average guy I have only caught myself doing no.3.phrases. and that is just because I'm a naturally direct and impatient person. I'm trying hard not to be, but this is nice to know that out of 15 I have only done one. | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Approaching Women —Why are men hesitant and why are women weary?Yep, that's it. People are becoming more and more solitary and it just makes me sad. | /r/seduction | 16/01/25 01:40 AM |
| 3 | Approaching Women —Why are men hesitant and why are women weary?It's the damn resting bitch face. I've noticed both men and women have it these days. People are looking the same, no one has any facial expressions. So in my experience when I see a woman in a coffee shop or a club or anywhere with said face, I automatically think she's not interested. I know that face is a defence mechanism and it helps people feel more secure but c'mon guys relax, be genuine in your expression. | /r/seduction | 15/01/25 11:54 AM |
| 10 | Thoughts after ~10 years in the gameDeep down every man knows he needs to cold approach to see growth. I have a friend, a year younger who was cringiest person I knew. Then I went to college and lost contact. In the meantime he completely changed. From cringe to cool. One time I saw him walking alone in the neighbouring city to ours, asked what was he doing, he goes there's this girl I want to see. I being suspicious follow him. He proceeds to cold approach 3 women. One finally gives him time of day. He kept doing that for 2 years… | /r/seduction | 09/01/25 01:15 AM |
| 0 | Post-2020 game feels so different. What changed?Ok I agree with you and OP that things got harder for men. There was definitely a shift. It was so much easier in 2013 to approach a girl. Now my question is: how do we beat it? How do we equal the playing field? | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 12:03 PM |
| 3 | Why is there absolutely no goid advice on texting? Seriously this is my one holdup.If she is not responding send memes or reels, ping value into the void. Pass the shit tests... Friendly conversation. Normal stuff Positive feedback, she is into you. Believe me if you analyze some of your dms, you are probably failing the shit test phase. This is the Toddv dating blueprint btw. Have to mention it. I analyze some of my texting with this blueprint it's always one of these 4 categories. But, when you vibe with a girl you'll know it. I hate dry Convo, when I'm pulling all the weigh… | /r/seduction | 10/12/24 02:15 PM |
| 1 | If your goal is to meet a woman and start a family in the near future, would your strategy change?While I still want to have some fun and meet a lot of girls, sometimes I have these moments where I think what I truly want is to start a family. Usually when I see my neighbors having that family life. Would my strategy change, probably not so much, but there would be some changes. | /r/seduction | 28/11/24 11:11 AM |
| 1 | Getting laidOfc. | /r/seduction | 26/11/24 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Getting laidWent on a date with a girl this summer, I am big on consent and not making a girl uncomfortable so I shook her hand when we met and finished our date. Later she started saying that she wanted a hug and other things. It became clear she was dtf on the first date. I was taken aback and just to shy to make my move. In retrospect probably should have taken that opportunity. | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 11:28 AM |
| 2 | What improved your first dates the most?First of all, have a plan and know how to act. Don't put too much expectations on anything. I figured most of the first dates are the same. Be cool and let her talk more. Change places. All the rest, having some sort of a script is too much as you can't predict how she will respond. | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 09:36 AM |
| 1 | Sex on the first dateUmm do you have pointers? | /r/seduction | 21/11/24 12:16 PM |
| 1 | To guys with solid Instagram or any other social media, how easy it is for you to get girls online?I used to have Instagram just for laughs, would post memes or funny pics, or just bad pics of myself. Then I changed it, took nicer pics, deleted the unnecessary shit and voila much more girls in following. Public profile to get more views. Now I can say I have mid insta, not something special, I try to do a weekly story and picture on the feed if it is good. Tried even not posting for period of time and it dies down. As for girls, you get likes, occasional DM but still majority is your initiati… | /r/seduction | 19/11/24 12:56 PM |
| 1 | If you get no attention on dating sites does it mean you will get no attention in real life?Cast your net wide, so basically do both. | /r/seduction | 17/11/24 12:10 AM |
| 1 | How do you know when a girl wants you to touch her or kiss her?All I see are missed opportunities. Sorry but it looks like it. | /r/seduction | 14/11/24 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Just walked back from the club alone again and feel so depressed and don't know what to even try anymore.If you look hungry you will starve. | /r/seduction | 19/10/24 10:58 PM |
| 5 | When did women gain so much leverage?Exactly the thing I ask myself daily, why did all this happen? Why do I have to be initiator of everything? Just tired... | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 11:41 AM |
| 1 | The biggest texting mistakes YOU makeSo basically we stop texting. How am I going to get know girls if I don't text? | /r/seduction | 18/09/24 10:35 AM |
| 4 | How are you navigating the insanely flaky nature of the dating scene right now?European here, how I navigate the craziness? I ask out after few messages. Coffee dates preferred. Had a few dates this year. Could have probably landed more if I was more patient, but really have no interest in attention seeking vampires. Either she wants to go out and meet, or she doesn't, I move on easily. No time wasting. No hard feelings. | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 10:22 AM |
| 1 | How did you get her to chase you?That works, nothing else matters. | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 12:56 PM |
| 2 | How did you get her to chase you?Not exactly chasing, but I started getting dms from girls. What I did was invest my time in bettering my IG. After I did that, the former started to happen. Oh yeah, being uninterested in them also helps. | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 12:02 PM |
| 0 | Why will women respond positively to flirty/teasing messages and the soft close for the date but then ghost you as soon as you ask for their availability (“When are you free?” Or “Whats ur schedule like this week?”)Figured as much, for my liking not worth it. Would like to hear some suggestions on what to do. | /r/seduction | 01/06/24 11:21 AM |
| 1 | Why will women respond positively to flirty/teasing messages and the soft close for the date but then ghost you as soon as you ask for their availability (“When are you free?” Or “Whats ur schedule like this week?”)Are these by any chance young girls, about 20? My friend there is no winning here. When someone likes you, it is easy. If it's difficult like pulling teeth, move on. You take away attention. Go cold. | /r/seduction | 01/06/24 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Is there any winning here?Amen my brotha!!! | /r/seduction | 29/05/24 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Is there any winning here?Exactly!! I used to get so mad when this happened before, but now I see it as a blessing, she is not wasting my time. For the other part, hundred percent if they like you, they will make it easy. To meet, to text, to do anything. I love those types of women. I have to say that majority of women are playing hard to get nowadays. Always baffled me why... I'm not asking you to put out if I invite you for a cup of coffee. | /r/seduction | 29/05/24 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Is there any winning here?In that situation right now my friend, she wants to see if we vibe on the gram before meeting. I'm cool with that, but she is really playing hard to get. Realized it's a losing battle, so just left her on read. You take away attention immediately. You go MIA | /r/seduction | 29/05/24 11:38 AM |
| 2 | Guys who get laid every time they go to a bar, what is your secret?This!!!! I would add that you can become a good looking well traveled man if you put in the effort. I have a friend that was cringe at best. Years pass by and he is a demi god. The only person women see. They all want him. It was jaw dropping experience to witness his growth. A good job, exercise, fashion style did the job. Part of it was genes, tall and full head of hair. But the rest was totally worked on. And also his character isn't changed much, he just learned to apply it to situations. O … | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 04:12 PM |
| 1 | What's something that you have learned from getting rejectedIt's really hard to find a partner. Not every rejection is a rejection. Timing and luck are everything. Maybe the most important one, it's not the end of the world if she rejects you. Recalibrate and try again. | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 01:53 PM |
| 1 | I can’t pick up women but succeed on Tinder datesDon't change what works for you, I'll tell you that. | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 11:21 PM |
| 2 | Is there anything more essential than confidence?I meant exactly what I said. There are some girls that you dm and no matter what you do or say, they will flake, and then there are other girls that require effort but return it in abundance. That is luck. Sometimes you hit up a girl that is just out of relationship, that is bad timing. Sometimes you hit up a girl that is just by chance in the same spot as you and you can get together. That is timing and luck. They play a role | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 10:02 AM |
| 1 | Is there anything more essential than confidence?Not what I was implying, but I agree, you need to cast your net wide. | /r/seduction | 01/05/24 08:00 PM |
| 2 | Is there anything more essential than confidence?2 things actually, 1.luck 2.timing. These two are equally if not more important in today's dating world. | /r/seduction | 01/05/24 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Women’s interest just die outI read some post a long time ago that said even the most successful guys have only a fraction of women they attract. It is really freeing in a way. You do your best, and hope for the best. If it works goood, if it doesn't you go on to the next. Just don't be the guy that messaged every girl in his followers. | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 09:35 AM |
| 2 | What's the worst way you've ever fumbled a babe?Your story of fumbling makes me feel better about my past. Just one: I was at this girls house having coffee, she starts talking about hers and her friends boobs, their size, the difference between them. I trying to be polite stop her and say please don't talk to me about that. I don't wanna know. She stops, we keep talking about mundane shit. Lightbulb went of months later... | /r/seduction | 18/04/24 08:53 AM |
| 1 | How many of you eventually settled down and got married after being in the game?Cmon man, we are all waiting for an answer here. Expand please. | /r/seduction | 28/03/24 11:07 AM |
| 1 | I started crushing on my best friendI'm saying that. It's a lose lose situation for him. Doesn't matter if he comes out with his feelings or not. | /r/seduction | 20/03/24 04:36 PM |
| 1 | I started crushing on my best friendLet me be real, it's a lose lose situation. If you are close friends and it's been happening for a long time relationship is off the table. You should talk to her, bring it out in the open. If she rejects and she probably will(don't ask how I know) just have a long conversation with yourself, can you live with her in your life and being just friends or no. If not you need no contact for some time to get over her. Cheers from a guy who was like you. | /r/seduction | 20/03/24 10:51 AM |
| 2 | Question for the people that are good at getting hook ups. Do your hook ups just happening or do plan to get a hook up at all cost when going out?It's a combination of volume and luck, if you go out 5 times a week you should be showing yourself enough that someone will notice you, you time it right and things will happen. | /r/seduction | 16/03/24 01:10 PM |
| 1 | What are some tips that you wish you knew earlier when it comes to dating/seduction?Still figuring this out, but things I noticed in few of my friends are that guys who have this positive energy about them are more successful. Things keep happening to them, they unwillingly get into situations where there are lot of women. Usually these women like those dudes off the bat. I don't know how they do it, even they don't know because I asked them. It's just natural. | /r/seduction | 10/03/24 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Old man advice, some observations and instruction.I realize what you mean, as I said, it is not at the point that I won't go out because of it, or I have no confidence at all. What I want to say I am not for counseling. But I think it is just human nature to think that the person with scars has some health problems, which is opposite, I am very healthy person generaly. | /r/seduction | 20/06/23 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Old man advice, some observations and instruction.Hmm, I would say it depends on the day, sometimes my scars are not that much visible, sometimes I have new acne and they make it worse, it is key to know that angles and lights have diferrent effects. I try to take pictures in certain angles trying to hide them. Sometimes I don't care, I never concealed them but I try to smooth them as much as I can. The self talk thing. Again it depends on the day. Sometimes I give myself a hard time and sometimes I'm him comes out. Generaly I think good things… | /r/seduction | 20/06/23 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Old man advice, some observations and instruction.I have a decent body, athletic, I have acne scars and I think that is the reason I can't get girls. I did get some before but now it has become a desert. Can't even get one date. What would you advise for me OP? I am 26 have no job, no money, I think I'm funny my friends do too. I don't know where I am making mistakes. | /r/seduction | 20/06/23 11:00 AM |
| 1 | Old man advice, some observations and instruction.God I hope so. | /r/seduction | 20/06/23 10:52 AM |
| 2 | Shower thought: Girls aren’t complicated. They just want to be desired + feel special by a man they perceive as high valueGirls are fickle, one minute she wants your tongue intertwined with yours, other she just ghosts. Can't be smart what to do or think... | /r/seduction | 24/09/22 06:27 AM |
| 1 | 4th Step of the 12 Steps of AA as an exercise in Inner GameWow, thanks for this, I think every man has issues about pride,, resentment and interpersonal relationships, or not having control. You have hit it right on the spot. At least for me, but strangely I have never given in to drugs alcohol or other supstances. | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 12:18 PM |
| 2 | Remember, the most important trait to work on is your weakest.Interesting to see, I also live in Europe, in, my country we usually live in the 2 floor houses, if you live in the countryside, when you want to get married, you get 1 floor of your house and your parents live in the other, that is if you are the only male child, your perspective is much different because Finland is a high functioning country where you can easily find a job and earn a living. | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 12:12 PM |
| 1 | This could just be a coincidence but in my experience whenever I'm toxic a girl wants to be with me but when I'm genuinely nice and not toxic to girls they usually dump me. Why?Most girls think they can change the assholes, they usually realize that is almost impossible and give up. Nice to hear your eyes were opened. | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 09:25 AM |
| 0 | How would you interpret if a girl says something like, I’ll do so and so (sexual stuff) for any guy that does this for me? (What she asked for is free and takes no little to no effort)Yeah, this ends here not gonna respond after this, you can go and fuck yourself that's the only thing you can do. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 09:56 AM |
| 0 | How would you interpret if a girl says something like, I’ll do so and so (sexual stuff) for any guy that does this for me? (What she asked for is free and takes no little to no effort)O yeah I have no arguments so I'm gonna insult his spelling. Job is what you need, so just go and find it. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 09:41 AM |
| 0 | How would you interpret if a girl says something like, I’ll do so and so (sexual stuff) for any guy that does this for me? (What she asked for is free and takes no little to no effort)Im going go refer you to my previous comment, go please your man and get a job!! You obviously need it. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 08:59 AM |
| 1 | How would you interpret if a girl says something like, I’ll do so and so (sexual stuff) for any guy that does this for me? (What she asked for is free and takes no little to no effort)Right back at ya, feminist trying to paint a picture that girls are perfect and they are better than men. Lady you need to stop, give your man a bj and shut your mouth. Oh and also, go do some work, maybe it will help you comment less on reddit 😉 | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 11:18 PM |
| 1 | How would you interpret if a girl says something like, I’ll do so and so (sexual stuff) for any guy that does this for me? (What she asked for is free and takes no little to no effort)Omg this was a girl, that explains why you are so triggered, o yeah btw he's probably with you just because of the ass if it is thick as you say and I doubt that. Honey dont get too emotional, you are on reddit you know. | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 10:56 PM |
| 1 | How would you interpret if a girl says something like, I’ll do so and so (sexual stuff) for any guy that does this for me? (What she asked for is free and takes no little to no effort)Fan fictions? This dude hahaha, yea that's a nice attitude, you gonna do alright. | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 10:22 PM |
| 1 | How would you interpret if a girl says something like, I’ll do so and so (sexual stuff) for any guy that does this for me? (What she asked for is free and takes no little to no effort)Wow, you really hate yourself ha? Just keep projecting that energy, see where it leads you... | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 10:06 PM |
| 1 | How would you interpret if a girl says something like, I’ll do so and so (sexual stuff) for any guy that does this for me? (What she asked for is free and takes no little to no effort)Being real and being an ass is not the same... | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 11:20 AM |
| 1 | How would you interpret if a girl says something like, I’ll do so and so (sexual stuff) for any guy that does this for me? (What she asked for is free and takes no little to no effort)Be creative dude 😉 | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 12:00 AM |
| 2 | How would you interpret if a girl says something like, I’ll do so and so (sexual stuff) for any guy that does this for me? (What she asked for is free and takes no little to no effort)She's either really comfortable with you or a slut, my money is on the second choice 😂, but be careful she may just be fuckin with you. | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 09:17 AM |
| 1 | How Being "Non-Needy" Is Killing Your Text GameSome of these posts are just bs to be honest, girls want validation of having many unanswered texts, and they are awful texters. They have no game, one word answers and answering every 5 hours is just rude. This makes me quit the dating game because no matter what you do you can't succeed. | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 09:28 AM |
| 2 | how come most people get pretty girlfriends without knowing anything about "game" or all the psychological stuff, just being a random joe? Is game for hookups or low-value men only?This... In school I was always thinking about guys who were pinching girls or stuff like that to be weird, in fact they were learning and I wasn't... | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 09:10 AM |
| 1 | I think I know why *some* women ghost randomly even if it seems like you’re both enjoying yourselves.To continue OPs question, is it possible that someone has talked bad about you to the girl amd then she leaves you on read? Do girla let themselves be influenced in that way? Help beacuse we don't know what we did wrong | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Turns out my looks were never the real issue…Just to add a point, since we come from all over the world, learn to talk in your own language, talk to yourself in your own language, that's what should be done. Since I think a lot in English and study in English I believe I would crush it with girls that speak it, now in my own mother tongue I am not that confident, had to be said. | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 10:21 PM |
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