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| 1 | Why are so many men so opposed to the idea they might need to self improve to get a partner?If guy already has he's shit together, futher improvement will yield diminishing returns with growing effort. For nen like this taking effort to meet more women is better strategy. Self improvement only works if a guy has above average physical attractivnes, but has some fixable issue that's putting women off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did.Millenials where first generation growing with easy porn access, yet "male loneliness epidemic" didn't hit them as hard as gen Z. It wasn't single factor, but social media triggered multitude of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 01:00 PM |
| -2 | Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did.I would blame social media exclusively, other changes ilke academic performance decline, are more correlated with wide spread of social media. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 12:48 PM |
| 3 | Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did.At beginning of century porn was already easy to find and plentifull on internet. But at that time, dating and especially online dating, was also much easier then now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 12:35 PM |
| 2 | I think most men would prefer to marry a virgin woman.No, sexual compatibility is important in LTR, and marrying virgin makes that impossible to match before big commitment. Historically, virgin thing was to improve children bilogical paternity, but it's 21 century and we have DNA test now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 08:15 AM |
| 1 | Has your past/current female partners wanted more or less sex than you?Sometines it's similiar, sometimes much lower. Women libidos are more fragile, they are more likely to loose it due to ilness, wounds, stress or fatigue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 08:32 PM |
| 1 | The superpower most men would choose—after eternal youth and unlimited wealth—is the ability to sleep with any woman they’re attracted to just by snapping their fingers.In the real world, someone with abilities like that wouldn't get to peacefully enjoy them. Unless person like that has also unlimited wealth and thus has connections with people in power. Women related benefit will also put you on risk of being killed by other suitors or sour exes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 05:32 AM |
| 11 | The superpower most men would choose—after eternal youth and unlimited wealth—is the ability to sleep with any woman they’re attracted to just by snapping their fingers.I think most men aren't that obsessed with women and sex, and there is ton of other more interesting super powers: teleportation, flying, speedforce, time travel, healing, telekinesis, telepathy, immortality. Why spend life with your harem on earth, when you can explore all vast universe? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 09:39 AM |
| 18 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?Less money due to higher taxes and higher mandatory social contributions needed to cover women's earlier retirement age in my country. It's estimated at 5% tax and social contribution income is lost due this unequlity, but feminist politicians defend it dearly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 07:18 AM |
| – | If unselected men become a threat, society is more likely to get rid of them then placate themWestern societies are fractured, there won't be single policy like that. Political groups will try to use incels, instead geting rid of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 04:09 PM |
| -1 | men DO care about a woman’s incomeBy "consumerist things" I mean expenses that are common for all people, like: clothes, accessories, personal care, eating out, holiday travel. Levels of that expenses are usually aligned, women in designer clothes rarely date guy who buy clothes in general stores. Men spend more money on sport /hobbies, but that spending has no impact on above mentioned expenses, Guy can blow $100k annually on his hobby and still dress at Walmart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 08:08 AM |
| -1 | men DO care about a woman’s incomeYes, you're right, turns out women save more of their paychecks. I just wanted to show that single women spend more of their income on typical consumerist things, and as result their lifestyles are more comparable to single men making more money. https://www.beonpath.org/blog/how-men-and-women-spend-their-money-differently | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 06:14 AM |
| 0 | men DO care about a woman’s incomeYou don't need income in higher tax bracked to be selfsupporting, usually national average is enough. Men with top 10% incomes don't seek women who are also top earners, they often mary financially stable and similiary educated women who make less. Filling taxes jointly isn't just US thing, it's common in EU too, UK maybe outlier for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 06:07 AM |
| 1 | men DO care about a woman’s incomeSingle men have less debt then single women. https://www.federalreserve.gov/econres/notes/feds-notes/gender-related-differences-in-credit-use-and-credit-scores-20180622.html Higher debt of married people can be explained by traditional purchasing roles: women make regular snaller purchases, men buy expensive items. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 05:39 AM |
| 2 | men DO care about a woman’s incomeMen do care if women has a job and is selfsupporting, but not how much she makes. Women tend to spend larger percentage of income on consumption, men save more. https://pearlcapitalmanagement.com/are-men-or-women-better-at-saving-money-heres-what-the-data-says/ People pairup with people of similiar spending habits, not income. So it's usally nen who make more. Also one of incentives to get married at all, is ability to file taxes jointly, and this reduces taxes for men in higher bracket, that of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 04:10 AM |
| 1 | "Men also only pursuing a small group of women” Is Projection From The Selectors.I wrote in most cities, there are locations with different dating dynamic. On some dating apps you can change location to see if it yields different results. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 05:57 PM |
| 1 | "Men also only pursuing a small group of women” Is Projection From The Selectors.Data was collected on speed dates, on such events men turned out to be less picky about looks. And yes not all women have pool of guys to choose from, but in most big cities in US and EU, they do. And on speed dating events in such locations, average looking non-overweight women will be chosen by multiple men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 08:43 AM |
| 1 | "Men also only pursuing a small group of women” Is Projection From The Selectors.Woman do filterout guys who sound dumb or act like douchbags, but if they have group of men who pass that filters, they will pick most physically attractive ones. Also there is aureola effect working there, and more physically attractive people feel more funny and interesting. It's not like short guys end up alone, it's just they have to put more work to find mate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 07:02 AM |
| 1 | "Men also only pursuing a small group of women” Is Projection From The Selectors.Women claim that, but they also put most weight on physicall attractivness: https://www.gsb.stanford.edu/insights/four-minute-search-perfect-mate Also in case of man height is important, I'm 6.1" (185cm) and I constantly had more matches then two of my buddies who are 5'10" (177cm), and we all are average in looks and have similiar intelligence, education, carreers, etc.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 06:38 AM |
| 5 | "Men also only pursuing a small group of women” Is Projection From The Selectors.On speed dating events men pick 25% of women, while women pick 10% of men. https://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-26172314 On Speeddating event i was participating, I found 50% of women attractive, but those where events with 5 year age band. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 07:04 AM |
| 3 | The gender ratio of single men and single women in most offline places is worse than on apps. Apps are statistically the best way to meet women for the average guy.105 male to female ratio at birth is average for US and EU. In developed countries it evens at middle age, imbalance is still very hight for 20 and 30-year olds. https://m.statisticstimes.com/demographics/country/usa-sex-ratio.php There's more of bisexual women then bisexual men (especially amoung younger people). Women are nearly twice as likely as men to identify as LGBTQ+, 8.5% versus 4.7%. Bisexuality is the most common form of LGBTQ+ identification among women, while men are equally likely … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 01:19 PM |
| 3 | The gender ratio of single men and single women in most offline places is worse than on apps. Apps are statistically the best way to meet women for the average guy.Not really: 105 boys are born for every 100 girls, this gender bias only starts to even out when people reach fifties. As people pair up, singles population gets more skewed. If you have 205 people and 180 are in pairs, single population will be 15 men and 10 women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 06:54 AM |
| 2 | Men and women do not live the same lifeBoth average men and women get invited to events by their friends, and both of them can have social circles that doesn't have potential partners. Only difference is that looking for partner from outside social circle is harder for men, becouse gender ratios of places dedicated for that (like online dating) are heavily unbalanced. And only in thouse places average women have better options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/26 07:21 AM |
| 1 | What would you think if someday in the far future bioprinting and synthetic biology get combined to create male synthetic humans that are hermaphrodite replicants?There are already works on artificial wombs and humanoid robots, this two will be combined, and bang-maid-incubators will be available on market with gender of your choice. Reproductive organs aren't necessary, sperm and ovum can be made from pluripotent stem cells, and supplied to consumers ready for in-robo fertilisation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 12:07 PM |
| – | Women's/men's rights is commonly framed as a zero sum gamebiological success People don't care about that. Conflict about pregnacy usually happens when women changes prior arrangements of not having baby. For example refuses to get abortion, despite genetic test showing disease, and despite that, prior to conception, both partners declared to perform abortion in that sitiuation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Women are so attracted to confidence because they're looking for someone to compensate for their own lack of confidence. When you point this out, women will change the meaning of confidence to, "Someone who's not insecure, something we should all want!"Confidence maybe attractive becouse of other traits that enable it. It's just that confidence it's easier to observe and report. Men who don't have other traits that usually enable confidence (for example men below average in looks and height) are often judged as arrogant, where attractive men are judged confident, for exactly same behaviour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Dating offline is honestly worse than online dating for most Gen Z men who want to date Gen Z womenIs more about your own male friends and work colleagues. Hobby groups this days are only focused on one activity. But it's location dependent, or even company depend, there could two corporations in same industry and city, and in one evening out is regular occurrence, and in other there is zero interaction outsude work hours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 10:04 AM |
| 1 | Dating offline is honestly worse than online dating for most Gen Z men who want to date Gen Z womenAbout Work/mutual friends Goal is to do activities with them, on which they also bring people from outside your social circle. If they plan some group event, like hiking trip or going to concert or some festival, you ask if you can go with them. Asking for straightforward intruduction, puts lot of social liability on them, but asking to let you tag along, does not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 09:13 AM |
| 2 | Do you think women are partnering with men less because they are being influenced/brainwashed my feminism now. Or do you think the reason women overwhelmingly partnered with men in the past was because they were influenced/brainwashed by traditional culture?In lot of countries women had economical equality for long time, and partnering rates started droping recently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 05:59 AM |
| 2 | How do we create a world where everyone doesn’t hate each otherBecause capitalism profits of alienation and antagonising. So does Communism. People's Republics also have an elite profiting from hatred, and that elite has even tighter control over people. Capitalism it's not perfect, but after expirences of living both under communism and capitalistm, I will always chose capitalism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 05:18 PM |
| 1 | "Liberal feminism" subsidizes extremism, claiming that feminism wants equality is fraudulent, and if you associate all men with violence, you are hypocriticalWhole convention is gendered, even in it's title: "Council of Europe Convention on Preventing and Combating Violence Against Women and Domestic Violence" Artilcle maybe written neutral but it exists within context of convetion. To look from other perspective, if there was law titled "Convention on preventing violence against people of European and Asian descent" and there was neutral article in there that's takes away due process for drug possession, how long it would people to screem "racism" a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 06:01 AM |
| – | "Liberal feminism" subsidizes extremism, claiming that feminism wants equality is fraudulent, and if you associate all men with violence, you are hypocriticalIstanbul Convention Article 52, allows person to be evicted from their own house without due process and with disregard of property rights. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 08:10 AM |
| -7 | Why do many men find a clumsy, socially awkward, maladjusted woman acceptable for casual sex, but women don’t?But is orgasm gap entirely man's fault? Survey shows that 55% women choses not to talk about sex with their partners: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/this-sexual-self/202107/why-many-women-hide-their-sexual-desires | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/26 09:11 AM |
| 5 | How will we convince the next generation to have kids, even though almost none of us want to have any?many have goverments PAYING couples to have children. They pay much less then cost of childcare. In old days parents had more freedom, as children could get free care from their grandparents or aunts and uncles. Now parents don't have that option, and can't afford childcare, so children have more negative impact on quality if life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 04:28 AM |
| 1 | [Repost - Discussion] What system is most likely to replace traditional monogamy in the long term? Open to all perspectivesThere also possibility of people gaining control of their sexuality, and becoming fully asexual and aromantic by farmacological means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 07:29 AM |
| 1 | [Repost - Discussion] What system is most likely to replace traditional monogamy in the long term? Open to all perspectivesHunter-gatherer societies are mostly monogamous. In a comparative study of 190 hunter-gatherer societies, Apostolou [11] showed that arrangement of marriage by parents or close kin is the primary mode of marriage in 85% of the sample; brideservice, brideprice, or some type of exchange between families is found in 80% of the sample; and less than 20% of men are married polygynously in 87% of the sample. [...] https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0019066 If one guy tak… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 07:24 AM |
| 0 | Failed approaching in friends/hobby/work circle poisons this circleHe will be considered creep and desperate even if he approaches politely and takes rejection gracefully. Just don't give fuck about that, let you confidence repell those accusations, and shoot your shots. Women aren't as aversed to guys who are open about their attraction to them, as you think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 06:22 AM |
| 2 | Most young women are dating the same set of terrible menNot really, "Winner takes all" only happend after neolithic revolution. https://psmag.com/environment/17-to-1-reproductive-success/ Its speculated, that for most of our species existence, there wasn't enough resources for fatherless children to survive, and monogamy was necessity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 10:51 AM |
| – | Average men don't struggle in datingDespite greater genetic diversity, height of men, does follow standard normal distribution. IQ is structured to follow, and half men have over 100 IQ. Overall attractiveness is also expected to follows standard normal distribution, for example it does when men rate women attractivness on dating sites. So in reality only 16% men should be consideres as below average, not 60%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 11:54 AM |
| – | Average men don't struggle in datingAverage guys get girlfriends towards the end of high school or at college/university. So if 63% of young guys are single, would that mean that majority of men are below average? Isn't that against definition of "average"? https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/02/08/for-valentines-day-5-facts-about-single-americans/ Also it's not for lack of trying: 64 percent of single young men say it’s too difficult to meet people, compared to 50 percent of those in relationships. But even here, half of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 11:00 AM |
| 6 | CMV: "meeting women IRL" doesn’t magically bypass women’s standards in 2026 and people should stop acting like it doesWomen are more picky when thay have larger pool to choose from, and online dating usually provides larger pool, then pool of potential.partner met IRL. https://doi.org/10.1177/1948550619866189 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 03:09 PM |
| 36 | Are online gender wars just lower class men arguing with upper middle class women?There's also lot of single guys with STEM college degrees. So not just college educated women vs uneducated man, but also humanities educated women vs tech educated man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Women generally have it harder than men.It's not women's fault, but it's also not men's fault, so there is no point in blaming anybody, or automatically assuming that single men did something wrong to end up single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 06:01 PM |
| 3 | Women generally have it harder than men.There is always more boys being born then girls, about 5% more. Majority of migrants comong to developed countries are men. Becouse people typically pair up with male partner two years older, shrinking populations further reduces numbers of avialiable female partners. As result there's significant gender imbalance in younger generations, and some men will end up single no matter what they do. A | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 11:53 AM |
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