| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 12 | When is best time to read the upsetting emails they send us | Hungry_Safe565 | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/23 08:09 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2 | Unable to Move on- Ready to DieI’m not a camping person. But being close to nature is the only thing that helps. Good luck bro | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/06/25 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Barely survivingThank you ! | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/10/24 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Barely survivingThank you. It turns out I have cancer . But although I’m weak here I am a survivor and a fighter . | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/24 12:42 AM |
| 2 | Barely survivingThank you great idea . I’m going to ask friends to help cos I just can’t do it myself I’m so busy with work and I have Ill health . But your right it will help a lot thank u | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/24 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Barely survivingThank you This is a good idea . I wake up every morning and go gym intense 3 times a week. I’ve started boxing and sparring . I used to leave pumped and full of endorphins but now I get home shattered. It may be /likely caused by a blood problem I have. . Awaiting results. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/09/24 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Barely survivingNo it’s a mess . I have zero motivation. The depression is a struggle and I have a new illness (blood related ) that makes me very tired . I know I have to try I think about it every day 🤦🏾 | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/09/24 02:29 AM |
| 3 | Barely survivingI work from home. So being in the house alone all day is so depressing. I do go gym it has helped alot . I think I need to find another job to get me out of the house . It’s becoming my tomb. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/09/24 02:12 AM |
| 3 | Barely survivingI’ve tried loads of therapists , they all basically say same thing . | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/09/24 02:09 AM |
| 4 | Hitting the gym….This is me | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/12/23 05:59 AM |
| 2 | Should I ruin my life for the sake of my children?Thank you bro | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/09/23 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Should I ruin my life for the sake of my children?My brother took his life and his ex wife now uses the kids as weapons against me To get money . The kids haven’t talked to me in months cos of this . I tried hard at first but now , I’m realising they are all toxic just like the rest of my family were. I miss them terribly but they’ve been so cruel to me blaming me for his death . And I’m all on my own . I’ve stopped trying to connect with them . I don’t want to be picked up and dropped whenever they feel like it . It’s a terrible fate. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/09/23 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Am I in the right place?It’d such a difficult one cos she will take your kid and you will lose that close relationship with him . Sadly it seems you should have never married with her in the first place , since your physical vibes were so different . But that’s me pointing out obvious and I’m sure you loved her and saw other qualities . From the sounds of it though , and from the experience of many men here . If you go for divorce she will do her best to destroy you. She will blame it all on you. I’m sorry dude this is… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/09/23 12:08 PM |
| 1 | When is best time to read the upsetting emails they send usThank you yeah I’ve changed my state into a place where I don’t care about replying quickly . Also my solicitor is so slow to reply to anything I don’t have much choice . I just am a constant ball of stress I hate it all. I have zero motivation to see the kids now it’s had a bad effect on me. All the conflict and lies . | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/08/23 02:37 PM |
| 2 | How to have less divorcesTherapy is defo over rated | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/08/23 02:16 AM |
| 1 | How to have less divorcesI’m sorry I’m dealing with the kids being cut of from me too , I was having panic attacks , big ongoing day long anxiety and lots of tears . They don’t see that . Not much point in telling them either . They not that bothered . It’s been 2 months now and I have adjusted to the new normal and I have some anger towards them for not even calling me to discuss jusr abuse from ex wife and cut off comms from kids . No one cares for our mental health . We have to battle through it . Sucks | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/08/23 02:13 AM |
| 1 | When is best time to read the upsetting emails they send usI have to do I can progress is through our dispute and come to a resolution. Plus I don’t like the feeling of it being unresolved . Weighing me down . | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/08/23 08:57 PM |
| 1 | When is best time to read the upsetting emails they send usYeah I’m lucky maybe in tjat I’m the opposite . I never reply instantly . The hate directed at me shocks me and it takes me weeks to reply . | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/08/23 08:56 PM |
| 1 | When is best time to read the upsetting emails they send usI wish I could block . But kids. I’m tryin to think how I can say I don’t want any contact with her ever and not alienate the kids to me . | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/08/23 08:53 PM |
| 1 | When is best time to read the upsetting emails they send usAbsolutely . I’ve worked a current system of when the email comes I reply within a day or two saying I have received and I will digest it and come back . Then I go to my team and we assess options and over anything from 1-6 weeks I reply. If it’s long it’s cos she has said some crazy disgusting shit and I need time to be calmer. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/08/23 08:50 PM |
| 1 | When is best time to read the upsetting emails they send usThank you. She has been emailing me this stuff I can’t believe her naivety. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/08/23 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Was it a waste? What is this feeling?This is it | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/23 09:48 PM |
| 1 | When your wife left you for someone she said to not worry about during your marriageYou’re right | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/23 10:50 PM |
| 1 | I don’t think I want to live in this world…That’s so rough man . Women are cruel . They turn the kids against us and we can’t even defend ourselves cos they are better at arguing than us . I hate my life | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/23 01:38 AM |
| 1 | I don’t think I want to live in this world…Question . How and when do you read . I used to read all my life in bed before sleep. Now cos if events I have major anxiety at night and I can’t read cos my brain won’t stop . Reading using to calm my mind . So now I don’t read at night , I read a few pages from books on spirituality in the morning . But how do I get through a whole book . I used to love reading . I know I need to set time aside but I’m just too busy working and shit during day . I guess I just have to make time . Any advice on… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/23 01:36 AM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter