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Another thing, both of these girls ended up being longer term things, the girl I had a crush on joined my relationship and became my and my gfs partner, and the other girl was a coworker that I slept with whenever we worked together. It was great and we’re still friends.
/r/seduction09/01/26 12:00 PM
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Idk once I told a girl I was seeing to back off at a party cuz a girl I had a crush on was there. That girl didn’t listen of course and apparently the girl I had a crush on saw her sucking on my finger while we were sitting on a couch together. When she told me she saw this later, she said it had actually turned her on. So I’d just say do whatever you want and flirt with both, just don’t chase. Unlike other people’s advice, I’d say it doesn’t really matter if you introduce her, just introduce he…
/r/seduction09/01/26 11:57 AM
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Don’t be dumb
/r/seduction08/01/26 12:12 AM
1

Well then don’t go for a hot girl and just find a nice one. Problem solved.
/r/seduction28/08/25 11:11 PM
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Idk I’ve been in similar situations so I found it believable. Not the craziest situation tbh
/r/seduction28/08/25 11:08 PM
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Just ask her how she feels and tell her you’d be down, works better when drunk but absolutely do not make it a big deal
/r/seduction12/05/25 04:05 AM
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Lmao it was fine, every situation has context, and I made 2 new friends.
/r/seduction26/12/24 09:37 AM
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Don’t look for them. Get them out of your head as something that you need to be able to engage. Girls can be very obvious when they’re interested and some are very shy.
/r/seduction25/12/24 05:56 AM
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Go up to someone and compliment them and ask them their name. Say something about the environment, preferably a joke. Don’t make it weird and just be yourself with everyone. For instance I thought a girl was cute at a party but she was talking to a dude. I went up to both of them and told them they both look nice and because of that I felt I had to introduce myself. It was a screening of a film so I asked if they liked it. After a while it flowed into me talking to the girl one on one I wasn’t r…
/r/seduction25/12/24 05:52 AM
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Ask her to go to coffee, if she accepts somehow wind up on the dating topic. If she says nothing keep talking for a bit and then invite her to something you’re already going to a little more down the line. Smooth transition in to dating territory
/r/seduction24/11/24 07:07 AM
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Just talk to them and invite them to hang out after
/r/seduction18/11/24 01:37 AM
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For me 3 is the limit of maintaining actual relationships without it overtaking my life, otherwise it becomes a full time job. Any more than that have to be really casual flings
/r/seduction09/11/24 05:45 AM
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Agree with them
/r/seduction30/10/24 08:00 AM
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The problem is they think you’re super cool, probably out of their league. But right when you start the conversation you immediately seem overly invested and it icks them. Just try playing it a bit a cooler and make them work for it a bit. When she says “oh god so badly” instead of all that blah you did, just say “why’s that?”. Let her explain stuff and open up on their own. Try to match their energy.
/r/seduction02/10/24 11:36 AM
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Just go up and say hi my name is blank what’s yours. Smile. It’s even better if you comment on something in the environment.
/r/seduction22/09/24 11:11 PM
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Ayyy thank you I appreciate it
/r/seduction22/09/24 11:07 PM
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It sounds a bit cocky and girls may not bite, maybe try switching it up and say something about being a pilot or something funny and endearing. Like maybe “pilot looking for my travel partner/copilot” or “giving out mile high club memberships” or “spontaneous first date idea, you come with me on my next flight out”. Idk what being a pilot is like or what the rules surrounding it are but something unique to what you do and exciting/funny works well. Also hopefully you have some pilot pics that wo…
/r/seduction22/09/24 11:01 PM
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It’s normal to get nervous with these things. It’s important to remember though that you are becoming nervous with the idea of the person in front of you and not necessarily the person at all. You need to try and be more present and truly see the person in front of you. Making this concerted effort to listen to them will help take your focus off of yourself and reduce your anxiety a bit. Of course anxiety is also a hormone that is released in your body so you will have to give it some time to le…
/r/seduction22/09/24 10:54 PM
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If you’re very attractive you just need to be nice to women, be chill, have a goal/hobbies you pursue on your own and they will make a move on you.
/r/seduction22/09/24 08:59 PM
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You should be getting at least something. What do you put for your bio?
/r/seduction22/09/24 08:57 PM
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Stop thinking about yourself and start thinking about the person you’re talking to. Be genuinely interested in them and you will forget yourself in the act.
/r/seduction21/09/24 09:35 AM
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Exposure therapy. Every now and then you’ll find someone that will sense your anxiety and just talk to you until it dissipates.
/r/seduction21/09/24 09:33 AM
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How tall are you, what do you actually look like?
/r/seduction21/09/24 09:31 AM
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Just learn to listen and ask questions. Ground yourself, be present and emotionally connected to the conversation.
/r/seduction21/09/24 09:30 AM
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You’d be surprised how many other people are hiding the hard times right now. You’re not a loser cuz the world is shit. Be confident in the character you’ve cultivated over the years and the person you are inside, not the outside pseudo “measuring sticks” of western society. You are always valuable and it is the society that is failing you if you feel otherwise.
/r/seduction21/09/24 09:27 AM
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Be a good guy there’s nothing wrong with that. There’s also nothing wrong with expressing interest in someone. Be aware of the social situation, read the room, be respectful and direct with your intentions. There’s nothing wrong with that and most people will be ok with it.
/r/seduction21/09/24 09:19 AM
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Treat people and experiences as numbers and your life will become dreadfully empty. The short high you receive from this “quantity” will shortly be replaced by the utter loneliness of real connection because of these constant “games” being driven largely from this surface level ego. This will detract from real goals and ultimately end in failure of all goals. The long game is the one you play with yourself.
/r/seduction20/09/24 12:57 AM
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I will tell you now that working on yourself and getting out there is the only game you need to play. Make your own intentions absolutely CRYSTAL CLEAR with women and they will show you what’s up. There are women out there that also are straight forward and don’t like games. Of course also be flirtatious and fun and seductive to make things interesting; but also just be honest and yourself and don’t waste time on those that aren’t showing genuine interest back. That’s just respecting yourself an…
/r/seduction20/09/24 12:51 AM
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If pranking girls that don’t like you brings you joy go off then I guess.
/r/seduction19/09/24 10:57 PM
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Don’t waste your energy on games.
/r/seduction19/09/24 09:55 PM
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No it’s not weird you’re normal
/r/seduction19/09/24 09:53 PM
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2 in a day is rookie numbers. You feel unfulfilled because you’re not just living in the moment. Appreciate the brief moments of love you shared with each of them today, hopefully you brought some joy into their lives. Sex isn’t just about you getting what you want, they also decided to sleep with you and you had the distinct honor and pleasure to fulfill their needs. You are not even close to the peak. Also sex with x number of women should never be the goal. It’s about moments of joy you share…
/r/seduction17/09/24 11:36 AM
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You’d know if you’re good looking. Girls get all nervous, make excuses to talk to you, cat call you, physically grab you in clubs and make themselves closer to you.
/r/seduction12/09/24 11:04 AM
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Some people just reply faster. Some girls I’m interested in but I don’t reply immediately simply because I’m trying to focus on my work and they it may have just taken too long and oops it’s the next day. That’s simply because I have priorities. I expect girls I’m interested in to have them too.
/r/seduction12/09/24 11:00 AM
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Just because you asked I’m gonna say no. Don’t ask her either because if she did have any interest that will drive it away. Ask her out and see what happens. Absolutely do not tell her you like her.
/r/seduction12/09/24 10:57 AM
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The people on this thread will tell you this is wrong but the way you think is actually very natural. Know that in today’s society you will likely be setting yourself up to get hurt, and the majority of these strategies are being used ultimately to mitigate that hurt. In the long run though there’s nothing wrong with focusing on your partner and utilizing some of these seduction tactics instead to just keep the passion alive in the relationship and maintain attraction within the natural ebb and …
/r/seduction11/09/24 09:47 PM
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Because that’s no fun. Part of the excitement is what it takes to get there.
/r/seduction05/09/24 10:23 AM
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So bro, ask her to hang out after work. If she says no, whatever.
/r/seduction17/05/24 03:28 AM
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Why you worried about whether your co worker has her back turned to you? Bro focus on your job.
/r/seduction17/05/24 01:38 AM
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So you’re mad that a girl is down to teach you how to have sex?
/r/seduction25/04/24 02:02 AM
0

Post a pic of yourself so we can honestly judge whether or not you should give up. At this point you have nothing to lose I’m guessing.
/r/seduction08/04/24 11:55 PM
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Yes I know but then she would think the same about you, which then immediately tells her that you don’t think of yourself to be as attractive as her. Do you see what I’m getting at? It shows insecurity.
/r/seduction26/03/24 09:00 PM
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You can be a nice person while also showing interest FYI
/r/seduction26/03/24 08:53 PM
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Don’t be too hard on yourself but definitely reflect on why you said that considering you’re basically the same age and also single.
/r/seduction26/03/24 08:51 PM
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Go become somebody and forget about her, it’s the only way
/r/seduction26/03/24 08:44 PM
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You don’t need to be boyfriend material or at least think about it that way. Be yourself, confident, and treat her nicely. Girls like thoughtfulness but also a man with priorities and his own goals. You do those things and girls will always want to be with you.
/r/seduction23/03/24 02:21 AM
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Most people here got it wrong OP. If that’s your thing that’s your thing and there’s nothing wrong with that. Try to find some sort of swinger’s party or go to Germany and find a sex club. There are people like you out there.
/r/seduction23/03/24 02:14 AM
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Ask him if he could take some time to teach you something one on one, wear something provocative but not too slutty you know? Like hot but not sleezy. Then focus entirely on the actual topic you’re trying to study. Make accidental touches but retain plausible deniability. Wait for him to say something slightly suggestive and then you can show that you’re receptive to it and up it a bit. At some point ask if he likes martinis or something. Should be easy sailing from there. It’s on him to curve y…
/r/seduction22/03/24 06:18 AM
3

Something tells me we’re not talking to a David Bowie or a Mick Jagger
/r/seduction21/03/24 08:40 AM
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I think you should really just put yourself out there and really stop caring so much about outcomes and just have fun with women. I was too nervous to talk to women in high school and only broke out of my shell at 19, but then I just started taking shots. Honestly I’ve never found myself very attractive but I think I’m charming and I very much enjoy spending time with women. If you actually have the fortune of being hot I would literally just walk around and act like it. My friends will say I’m …
/r/seduction21/03/24 08:10 AM
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The most girls I’ve gotten was around 18%-20% body fat although I’ve never been much lower than that. 6ft 1 height. I’ve never really been extremely fit physically but I’m fine with where I’m at.
/r/seduction21/03/24 08:00 AM
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I’m not half of that but I still have at least some girls throwing themselves at me. Either you’re in a bad area to pick up women or deep inside you lack some self-confidence and may be doubting yourself which girls definitely pick up on. Are you short?
/r/seduction21/03/24 07:54 AM
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Happens all the time sometimes you just don’t vibe in person.
/r/seduction20/03/24 08:54 PM
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That’s so odd that you’re actually getting a bunch of likes but they don’t actually wanna go. Probably need examples of your full convos to make sure you’re not creeping them out or something.
/r/seduction20/03/24 01:14 PM
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What did I say that wasn’t relevant please explain.
/r/seduction20/03/24 04:02 AM
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Wrong, this is a seduction thread. This is about seducing nothing more nothing less. Try to not be wrong and condescending in the same sentence.
/r/seduction20/03/24 03:58 AM
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False comfort can come with alcohol, or perhaps she just feels the need to let loose for a night and I’m just right place right time. Sometimes it’s self destructive behavior and if you ask a girl about it later (if you have any female friends) they’ll say they don’t know why they did it, it was just in the moment. You should talk to some girls as just friends for this insight.
/r/seduction20/03/24 01:55 AM
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I’ve slept with women I feel neither comfort or rapport with and I’m certain they felt similarly as we didn’t even know eachother. Desire is completely outside of these things and women can also be the dominant once, only wanting you for your body and such. Sometimes sex isn’t about comfort, just thrill. A roller coaster isn’t comfortable but it’s exciting.
/r/seduction20/03/24 01:44 AM
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I mean that’s awkward. Me being me I would move on but definitely bring it up cuz I hate there being elephants in the room. Ghosting you knowing that ya’ll regularly see each other instead of just have a conversation is immature. Unless you did something real weird.
/r/seduction19/03/24 08:53 AM
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I think there are nuances to every interaction. If indeed the conversation is flowing naturally up until the date you probably already have a good connection and it will go well so I agree with you. For this poster however this seems not to be the case.
/r/seduction19/03/24 03:53 AM
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It’s not fear bro I think you’re misunderstanding. It’s a form of tact. This is an approach, your approach could work for you and that’s great. This is not a fight you have to win, we can both be right lol
/r/seduction19/03/24 03:33 AM
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I’m happy for you man
/r/seduction19/03/24 03:20 AM
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Bro if this works for you that’s fine, however in most of my experience there is a level of contact that escalates as you build rapport with someone. Eagerness is fine but can easily be read as desperation by a stranger. This person has asked for help and the best way to avoid doing any weird things that would have someone ghost you is to just leave a bit to imagination. Just say less and have a good first date. This is about seduction.
/r/seduction19/03/24 03:17 AM
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I edited my response and this isn’t a comeback lol we’re not having an argument.
/r/seduction19/03/24 03:05 AM
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Get to know her on the date then lmao it’s not that deep. Being eager is fine, but getting to know a stranger in this world requires a level of tact, hence this subreddit.
/r/seduction19/03/24 03:02 AM
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I’m sorry but good morning texts from strangers is off putting. If a girl did this to me before our first date I would be weirded out. Check ins are fine if it’s a ways out but why not save the actual convo for the date?
/r/seduction19/03/24 01:05 AM
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First off no text in between setting the date and the actual date unless there’s some reason you need to talk to her. Good mornings from and random dude comes off as needy and desperate.
/r/seduction18/03/24 10:46 PM
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Also just because she doesn’t see you that way now doesn’t mean forever, but it doesn’t mean wait around. In the examples I gave where it worked I was always seeing other women as well and my “friends” knew about it.
/r/seduction14/03/24 06:56 AM
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I got out a few times. Usually involved drinking, I suggest why don’t we just try kissing to see what it feels like and bam. Just go out and have a good time usually not sober so you guys can blame it on bad decisions and then let the feelings brew. With no alcohol I would say just hint at it, in a confident but low stakes way. Like “hey you know I wouldn’t mind taking you out sometime, on a date”. If she says no just laugh it off but don’t make it weird by building up to it.
/r/seduction14/03/24 06:54 AM
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Don’t rush, if you don’t feel there’s no rule saying you have to.
/r/seduction14/03/24 06:49 AM
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