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| 1 | Simps are the problem.> My entire point is that its not "traditional gender roles" if it directly follows how women experience attraction. Ok sure. Is it because of social norms (which do help shape attraction) or is some sort of biological trigger? Regardless of how you view this, the entire point of "traditional gender roles" is that they're built on the idea that women's social/biological "nature" (and thus roles) are very different from men. The behaviour you're describing in women is exactly what traditional gen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/26 10:11 AM |
| 1 | Simps are the problem.> I have personally witnessed the awful things men have done and said to my less attractive friends, particularly after having sex. Honestly, I don't understand how you can have sex with someone you don't find attractive unless there is some sort of drug/alchol involved. Having said that, I concede that there may be a small minority of people who do this, but as you mentioned I think the vast majority of men don't approach women they think are not attractive. My original point, however, is tange… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/26 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Simps are the problem.I don't necessarily disagree with the first part. However, I would say that women *expect* and want men to approach first because they fear rejection just like men and they're able to do because they are still are regularly presented with opportunities to date. However for the average guy this strategy simply doesn't work, because if you don't express interest you will probably end up single forever. > Men will approach and hit on women they find unattractive just for access to sex. This I think… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/26 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Simps are the problem.I mean let's concede that for the sake of argument, that just reinforces my point that women still strongly adhere to gender roles in their romantic life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/26 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Simps are the problem.I'm not sure how you deduced that from my comment. My point is that average (or moderately above average) guys pretty much never (with exceptions) experience women asking them out. This only happens consistently if the guy in question is *extremely* physically attractive. Average women get asked out pretty frequently whenever they're at parties or social gatherings. This simply doesn't happen to average men. None of my male friends have ever been asked out by women for example. The attractivenes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/26 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Simps are the problem.> Women who want to play assigned gender roles exist but in much smaller numbers than ever, avoid dating those types if you don't like the behavior. I'm not sure where you're getting this from, but as a guy most women still "play" assigned gender roles in their romantic life. As an example, women pretty much never initiate or ask men out. The only exception I have seen is when the guy is extremely attractive (e.g. the usual tall, dark and handsome) or when they're in a situation where they have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/26 08:09 PM |
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