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| 14 | Hinge date says she wants to start as friends as she doesn't want to jump into romance.Do not let her play these games. You’re not on Hinge to make new friends, you’re there for a romantic relationship. She’s trying to friendzone you, don’t let it happen, stop talking to her and move on | /r/seduction | 01/10/24 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Anyone approached a girl in her place of work ?It is not harassment to ask a woman out at work and it’s insane you’re on this subreddit calling people losers. You’re a weirdo | /r/seduction | 28/09/24 03:15 PM |
| 3 | How to confirm a date without seeming needy.“We still on for later?” Is all that needs to be said, this is cringe asf | /r/seduction | 26/09/24 02:19 PM |
| 38 | I'm a 5 ft 5 obese janitor with moderate autism. What's the best way for me to find a girlfriend and get laid?I’m going to be blunt: my dude pick a struggle. You got 3 different struggles, your height, your weight, and your job. Your job has a stigma of being low paying, dirty, and of low class, it’s not an impressive on paper job that will wow a lot of women. Regardless on if it pays a lot or not, on paper it’s not good. Not saying you have to get another job, if you like it and it pays the bills rock out just realize this is also a factor. Now onto your height, you are short, don’t worry I’m short too… | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 05:59 PM |
| 2 | Do women have higher standards than men?Yes, now the real question is do those standards actually matter when selecting a GOOD Man or can some be lowered or removed all together | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 05:08 PM |
| – | Is this cuck mentality holding me back from sex w women?You’re watching too much porn or you like your roommate | /r/seduction | 22/03/24 11:06 PM |
| 2 | CMV: I don't think men are "bad at communicating" like we women often tell each other. I think this stereotype is false and men are fantastic communicators... when they want to be. I think most men, however, are bad at pretending to care about things they don't.You just said all that and even pointed out how men are completely disagreeing with OP but somehow OP is still right? Even when Men the ones that know why other men don’t open up are saying OP is wrong? I’m talking about this particular comment thread not OPs main point to which I’d say OP is wrong about but that ties back into what all the other men are saying. “It’s not that we are bad at communicating, it’s that we’re either ignored or it’s weaponized against us” It has nothing to do with car… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 08:28 PM |
| 1 | TRP tries to reduce the value of women by lowering their self confidence making them accessible to the RP demographicWe’ve had a multitude of articles that have come out in the last few years stating that women are having a difficult time finding “suitable men” one of which qualities they reference is men not earning enough. If most women know they qualify for an average man this article would not exist. Average men make around 50-52k per year yet when you ask many average women how much they want their man to earn they’ll list double that (53% more to be more exact) which means these average women think they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 08:18 PM |
| 2 | CMV: I don't think men are "bad at communicating" like we women often tell each other. I think this stereotype is false and men are fantastic communicators... when they want to be. I think most men, however, are bad at pretending to care about things they don't.That’s likely why he said what he said. This thread isn’t about poor communication. It’s about a multitude of factors making it more difficult for men to open up emotionally and be vulnerable. One of which is people dismissing it as “poor communication” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 08:09 PM |
| 2 | TRP tries to reduce the value of women by lowering their self confidence making them accessible to the RP demographicMost women don’t truly understand what men they qualify for until they start losing options as they get older. We would not have articles claiming educated women can’t find “suitable earning” male partners if most women knew they qualify for an average man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 08:01 PM |
| 2 | CMV: I don't think men are "bad at communicating" like we women often tell each other. I think this stereotype is false and men are fantastic communicators... when they want to be. I think most men, however, are bad at pretending to care about things they don't.I’m pretty sure his point was you wouldn’t ask for any sort of clarification if a woman were to make the statement. Which while that is a generalization it tends to be true when speaking on certain topics | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 07:59 PM |
| 2 | TRP tries to reduce the value of women by lowering their self confidence making them accessible to the RP demographicRP isn’t creating a scarcity mindset in women or deflating women’s value. It’s giving women a realistic mindset on what they can get. Let’s keep it a buck most women think that because they have hordes of men ready to fuck they can get those same men to commit and thats where they get trapped. So they smash an above average guy thinking that means they qualify to date said guy but they only qualify to smash him. Now they don’t look for men on their level because this higher level man has them th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 07:22 PM |
| 0 | Just because dating pool for career women "shrink" it doesn't mean that they should abandon the opportunity to grow academically/financially.The issue mainly is we have a large portion of average women that wholeheartedly believe they DESERVE an above average man and it doesn’t work out. The average man is seen as “settling” because a lot of our women chase a Disney fantasy and a perfect man that will never exist. So they end up single working retail sometimes with a baby they shouldn’t have made with the man they made it with, when they would rather be at home relaxing with their man paying all the bills and they handle the house. A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 07:03 PM |
| 3 | Young adult who is confused looking for adviceSounds like the biggest change that would affect that is the partying. Whisky dick very much so exists and it can impact your erection ability to an extent. If your partying involves drinking &/or drugs then either cut that back or cut it out. Also relax you could be nervous in the moment especially coming from a long term relationship , it’s happened to me before, just relax and enjoy it overthinking can also mess up your ability to get an erection. Nothing is wrong with you just make those sma… | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Why so many rules when it comes to approaching girls? Like “oh don’t approach them at the gym” “don’t approach them in the streets” why so many rules?Because women are complicated and literally every tiny thing you do impacts the potential success of the approach, women tend to look for reasons to turn a guy down which is why there are so many rule on approaching, it’s to mitigate the risk of being rejected immediately | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 04:00 PM |
| 1 | How to ask if she has a BF without being weird?Just ask if she is seeing anyone but if she is and she likes that person you will know pretty quick | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 02:26 AM |
| 1 | [24M] A dating conundrum I cannot understandMy guy most women aren’t gonna tell you how you really look, 7/10 is the number most people will default to because it’s above average while attempting to remain humble about looks. In short they probably lied to you about how you look. Now that aside dating is literally about how you can make the woman feel in that moment. Women aren’t logical creatures they run their logic through their emotions therefore their emotions are their reality. That’s why they say if you can make a girl laugh you ca… | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 06:56 PM |
| 1 | What do girls want or expect out of men ?The world, stars, and moon | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 10:35 PM |
| 3 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?Yes, due to social media and most men being horndogs Women now have the issue of being over validated for essentially just existing. It’s lead to a generation or two of women that are extremely entitled that both have little to no respect for men but that also look down on the very men that provide them the validation they seek | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 04:25 PM |
| 3 | We all know a guy who seems to drown in poon juice despite having almost nothing going for him, so what's the deal?9 times out of 10 he’s got a good mouth piece on him mans knows what to say, when to say it and how to say it. | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 06:19 PM |
| 2 | How to stop caring about girls ghosting/leaving on read and stop double texting“There are plenty of fish in the sea this just isn’t the one for me” Get an abundance mindset, it seems like you care because that’s probably the only girl you see at that time and by your wording it looks like your are only at the talking stage. Find more things to do or talk to more women until you actually get to dating a single woman | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 05:02 PM |
| 5 | Was friendzoned but she gave me a cha ge for a dateUmm my guy with all due respect…have some self respect. She’ll “give you a chance”? It sounds like she thinks you aren’t on her level and she’s somehow doing you a favor by allowing you to take her out. Now that I’ve said that I’ll also say she basically just told you she’ll allow you to spend money and waste time on her for the chance to maybe do it again and it’s pretty likely she’s gonna take the date from you then let someone else blow her back out. Drop her like a hot potato my guy | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 04:31 PM |
| -1 | any medication to help me get better at talking to girls?Weed or alcohol lmao | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 05:07 PM |
| 21 | Do you actually get better results when you get fit (I got none)?It’s not the fit part that produces the results, it’s the confidence you begin to give off that produces the results. When I first got fit I noticed I started speaking more confidently, held my head up higher and stood up taller. That’s what brought in the results, while the aesthetic is great your confidence is going to be your bread a butter, working out is how you are gonna get that bread a butter | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 09:04 PM |
| 3 | Do you guys lie to have sex? how do you handle the guilt?A delicate dance, giving her the connection she wants without making any commitment promises and also trying to not make her feel like she’s being used. Can’t be upfront because she’ll feel like you view her as less of a person and outright reject it even in some cases where she kinda wants to. While also having to actively make sure she doesn’t catch any feelings so she doesn’t feel like you are obligated to only sleep with her even though you never committed | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 08:43 PM |
| 4 | Do you guys lie to have sex? how do you handle the guilt?In my experience short term relationship basically means FWB. Most people won’t admit it but a lot of guys tell little white lies to get laid since being direct with women (contrary to popular belief) just doesn’t work unless she already likes you. | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 05:41 PM |
| 17 | How do some guys make girls obsessed with them?Easy…..decent sex and being nonchalant. If the sex is good women will legit go crazy about you but if the sex is good AND you don’t give them attention they believe they deserve from you they become obsessed. The truly sad thing is you have to inject a little “toxic” into your behavior to pull get a good amount of women invested. By this I mean being nonchalant/not giving them attention. I love giving a girl I’m into a lot of attention (good morning/night/how are you feeling/how was your day tex… | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 06:53 PM |
| 0 | Are you better off not sharing your success with guy friends?You have bad friends lol. I share when I get laid with my bros and they all get excited for me. Same when they share when they get laid we are all excited for each other. Sounds like you just need better friends | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 02:09 AM |
| 8 | Men showing emotionI’ve seen so many women including many of my own female friends use that vulnerability against the Man the moment they get upset. I cannot say I know a single woman that has not done this. Women may not get turned off by it but they certainly use it as ammo for the gun to shoot the moment they get mad | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 04:07 PM |
| 5 | I’m gonna start working out.A hard gainer is someone that has a hard time gaining weight usually it’s because they need to eat a lot of calories and aren’t used to that or they have a high metabolism So they need to eat more than they usually do | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 12:17 PM |
| 4 | I’m gonna start working out.Sounds like you’re a hard gainer my guy up those calories at a reasonable pace and you’ll be fine. I’m a hard gainer as well and I’ve been there trust the process | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 12:00 PM |
| 2 | I'd like everyone's opinion on a few matters.Looks like you have a pretty good grasp on yourself and dating though you might need to be a lil more “aggressive” with trying to get the cooch. Be a bit more clear if you wanna clap the buns so you can get a clear response (100% spot on with the current dating market and climate not favoring men) you got a good life tho just focus on that. The women will come. Practice slow escalation when it comes to getting them in the bedroom, you know light touching, dropping your voice a little, saying thi… | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 06:37 PM |
| 3 | Don't be this guy (RANT)Okay women take money and financial stability into account period. I never said they date just for money but some do. However to most women unless you work certain jobs and have charisma most men are invisible to them. Most men do NOT have charisma. It’s very easy to say it’s easy to have charisma AFTER you have it but getting to that point in the first place is nowhere near easy and to be quite frank most people in general do not have the discipline to fix low self esteem issues by themselves. … | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 12:50 AM |
| 3 | Don't be this guy (RANT)You need 1 or more of 3 key things to get women consistently: 1: Money or the perception you are financially stable 2. Looks, either by being born good looking or by having a decent physique 3. Personality, usually boils down to at bare minimum being funny and exciting to be around Problem is most guys don’t have any of those or if they do they don’t have the confidence to outwardly present those things. It take a lot to be confident. It’s so much man bashing that goes around especially on socia… | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 12:22 AM |
| -1 | PostureThe only reason I’d disagree is because carbs make you hold a lot of water weight, by going low carb, you burn fat as well as carbs in a workout, too many carbs and you only burn those. Aiming for being lean low carb is better, burn those carbs and fat at the Same time. | /r/seduction | 08/06/21 09:36 PM |
| 1 | PostureChicken and Turkey are fine they are also lean sources of protein. Also incorporate eggs if you can, very cheap and versatile high protein food | /r/seduction | 08/06/21 07:28 PM |
| 2 | PostureEat a high protein low carb diet, somewhere around 45% protein 40% fats and 15% carbs Eat the carbs before a workout but keep the meal light, for example some white rice, white fish such as cod, and fats like avocado Add in some protein supplements if you struggle hitting your protein goal, aim for .8-1g of protein per lb of body weight Go intense for the workouts, warmup and get your form right with 1-2 sets of light weight 8-10 reps each then get into your working sets with heavy weight at 10-… | /r/seduction | 08/06/21 05:43 PM |
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