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She still wants your attention, but now she's not doing anything to deserve it (i.e.: put out). You're 20. This girl obviously has some issues. Cut off contact and move on. Next.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 12:44 AM
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Go to their informationals and rush events. Be as social as possible with everyone. Don't try to be a people-pleaser. Be yourself and have some polarization. You'll be much more memorable. Also, don't forget that though you are the seller and they are the buyer in this case, be sure that whatever frat you're looking into is something you really want to be a part of. As someone who's an active in a frat, the most important think I look for in a prospective brother is what they can bring to the fr…
/r/askTRP03/09/16 03:59 AM
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It's a bit of a grey area here. I've experienced it some times in my life. I think it's important to make sure she's uncertain about how you feel about her. She should be wondering whether you're interested sexually, or just as a friend. It's a scientific fact that women are more attracted to men whose feelings are unclear. Flirt with her, flirt with her friends. Ask about her friends. Tease her. Have fun and keep it light. If she pushes you into something sexual, so be it. Better to say yes tha…
/r/askTRP17/08/16 07:48 AM
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Well, you've already got her isolated and in your house. That takes some pressure off of her to not look like she's cheating. No one wants to be labeled a cheater. Her agreeing to pretty much Netflix and chill with you makes this sound like a layup. When it comes to physically escalating, she should make it obvious if she would be receptive to it or not. If she sits super close to you, or touches you, that's a pretty good sign. Maintain deniability in your escalation for as long as you can. If s…
/r/askTRP17/08/16 07:40 AM
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It's important to still have a man-to-woman relationship with her, even if it ends up being friendship. You two should still be flirty, even if you're just friends. Sexual attraction should still be there. Most guys that are friends with girls are just beta orbiters. If you truly want a friendship, you have to treat it almost as if you're dating. You're the man, you take the lead. You tease her, make innuendos, and have fun. Don't go doing tons of things for her. That's what orbiters do.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 07:30 AM
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Don't shit where you eat. Leave her be. However, I doubt you'll do that so here goes. The way she spoke about her boyfriend is typical behavior of a woman who is considering a branch swing and/or cheating. The rationalization hamster is starting to spin. It might take a couple weeks for her to fully hamster her way into cheating or dumping him for you. As to what you should do, keep flirting. Nothing too overt or sexual. Plausible deniability is important for her at this point. Don't trash-talk …
/r/askTRP17/08/16 06:53 AM
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If they wanted to fuck you, they would have given you the opportunity. If they're choosing to go right off to bed and not give you an opportunity, they don't want it. Stop giving them flirty attention for a day or two and notice their reactions. A woman won't drag you to her room and make the move, but she will give you the opportunity so that you may make a move. These girls are getting all the attention they want from you and you're not getting anything in return.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 06:35 AM
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I see what you're saying. The problem is that it only takes one bad apple. One woman who otherwise seems relatively sane to make something up and screw your life over. Definitely go for her friends. Built-in preselection.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 06:30 AM
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Stop trying to change her. Next her and find a woman that embodies the qualities you want. Why are you even dating someone who doesn't meet all of your requirements? Don't settle. Also, this whole manipulating thing you're doing is really unhealthy and would make most outsiders hearing this story cringe.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 05:10 AM
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Understandable. Just make sure to fend off any feelings of oneitis. I've been in a situation exactly like yours, and all those male friends come running after the crumbs.
/r/askTRP13/08/16 04:52 AM
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That's a total deal breaker for me. This is what will happen: You two will get in a big fight and/or call it quits. She'll go hang out and cry to her male friends. One thing will lead to another and one of them will end up getting your sloppy seconds. Happens every time. They're easy rebounds for her. They will be used. If I were you, I'd think one word, and one word only: NEXT.
/r/askTRP13/08/16 04:41 AM
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"Cool."
/r/askTRP12/08/16 05:57 AM
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Don't pressure her into it like that. Think about it. Do you really want to fuck someone who doesn't even really want to? Us guys have it hard, because we can fall victim to our own biology which screams at our brain to constantly be looking for sex. If she's not into it, don't do it.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 03:39 AM
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Women communicate covertly. I'd stay away from spelling it out so simply to her. They'll pick up on it without you making it so obvious. If you want to encourage her to wear a certain style or article of clothing, communicate that to her in a more covert way. For example: "The way you wear that dress makes me want to rip it off and see what's under it." Speaking in this way gets the point across that you like what she's doing/wearing, but it isn't so overt that it feels dry and weird.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 03:04 AM
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Keep it. Any experience is good experience. If you want to get better at cold approaching women, limit your time on Tinder. Unless you brag about it and try and show off to people, you won't be labeled as "that guy who uses Tinder to get laid." Matching with a girl from class isn't a big deal. I'd probably open with something like "I bet you just matched me so I could help you with your homework." I've matched with girls who I knew very well. If they're interested, it won't be weird.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 02:56 AM
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Depends on what women you want to attract. Younger women will care more about low bodyfat and muscles, while older women will care more about mission, job success, and the ability to take care of her. However, frame is important no matter what kind of women you are after. The Rational Male: Preventative Medicine goes in depth about what women want most in a man through her various stages of life.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 10:23 PM
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Depends on what kind of women you are attracting and where you live. Some places have a culture where most people shave. Other places, some hair is preferred. Whenever I visit a new area with a different culture, I'll ask some of the girls that I'm with about what most girls and guys do here. It's somewhat sexually polarizing and you'll learn what's normal.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 05:48 AM
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How to turn a vagina into the Sahara Desert: Ask if she wants to kiss. Jesus. If your gut says she wants to kiss, go for it. If she doesn't want to kiss you, she'll stop it. Sexually polarize them. Don't pull some wishy washy question out so you feel more comfortable being a man and making a move. You have to grow out of the shyness.
/r/askTRP06/08/16 11:22 PM
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Just remembered that Elliott Hulse has some great videos on this. Some of the ones I found are "Embrace Pain And Suffering" as well as "Life will always be painful."
/r/askTRP06/08/16 10:29 PM
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It's important to go through your emotions. When you have these feelings, don't fight it. Feel it fully. Accept it. It will work it's way through you and then fade away. Resisting emotions is not healthy. Now I'm not saying start crying constantly, but don't be afraid of the pain. Embrace it. That's how one can eventually move on from it.
/r/askTRP06/08/16 10:23 PM
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Leading by example. It's easy to critique others and point out their flaws. Anyone can be an armchair critic. If you want others around you to be better, you yourself must mirror those values or actions first. In the book The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People which I've been reading recently, the author speaks on the difference of managing and leading. Managing is more akin to critiquing others, while leading is about drawing others in so all may mutually benefit. Lead, don't manage.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 11:54 PM
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By all means try it and write a FR about how it goes. I've never seen such a covert strategy work. Usually all of this ends up destroying that small shred of confidence that most women are already barely grasping on to. Your father's anecdotal evidence aside, what's more important than whether the girl is unnoticed or not is how the man acts during the relationship. Shy girls have hypergamy too. They can slut it up just as well as all the rest can. AWALT.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 10:55 PM
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Stop playing. How many people on their deathbed will look back at their life and wish they'd spent more time playing video games? None. Ditch the games and find something else that will actually contribute to your life. You're spending your time making your character stronger and better when you should be spending it making yourself stronger and better.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 10:12 PM
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Stop trying. Focus on yourself. If you can't be happy when you're single, you can never have a healthy relationship because you're dependent on that person.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 09:55 PM
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Stop caring about them. They're living their own life, you're living yours. You'll find that most people are set in their ways. They don't want to change. Leave them be. I'd suggest finding more people that have similar values to you, as opposed to trying to change others.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 09:51 PM
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The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People is a great book. Lots of eye-opening information and thoughts. However, no one gains discipline from just reading a book. It comes from action and doing things even if you don't want to. Books may guide you, but discipline is made through action.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 09:42 PM
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It's definitely possible, but I don't think anyone should do it. Imagine if you were with a girl and she starts to tell you and give you things in the hope of changing certain characteristics about you? Questions like: "Am I not good enough as is?" and "Well if she wants someone like that, why doesn't she just leave me and find someone else?" start to pop up. Trying to change someone creates negative emotions in the person you're trying to change. Usually, it ends poorly. If this girl you're tal…
/r/askTRP02/08/16 09:39 PM
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It's not beta or alpha to hold someone's hand. If you want to hold her hand, do it. If you don't want to hold her hand, withdraw it when she reaches for it, smile, and say something like "I don't think I'm ready to take that kind of level of physicality in our relationship yet."
/r/askTRP02/08/16 11:03 AM
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Have you read The Rational Male? I think that might really help with all of this. Women will never act their age. Expect childlike behavior because that's all you're ever going to get.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 10:36 AM
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Here's your response when she asks you why: "Because I feel like it." I personally believe that bad sex and getting a hard no are symptoms of a larger problem. We're not looking to just dull the symptoms, we're here to kill the disease that's causing it. The one who cares the least has the most power. Always care the least. Put less effort in. She should still be chasing you. Check out MRP for some good advice on responding to the "hard no."
/r/askTRP02/08/16 10:33 AM
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I'll spare you the rant on why you should lift, as you can read that on just about every other thread here(But seriously, start lifting). I'd suggest you watch some pickup stuff on text game. The RSD guys on YouTube have some good stuff on that. Don't delete Tinder. Learn about text game and then practice it on these Tinder chicks, even if it never leads anywhere.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 10:20 AM
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It's less about how many question marks she send you, more about her showing interest in you. Her asking question displays that she's interested. Judging from her responses, she's not that interested. You definitely should not be doing all the work. You, as a male, will have to start the conversation, but she should pull her own weight after that if she's interested. What does your SMV look like? Are you lifting? Have you read the Sidebar?
/r/askTRP02/08/16 10:09 AM
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Women love mystery. If you spend too much time together, there's no mystery. Take a couple hours every three or four days for just yourself. Develop hobbies, meditate, hang out with friends. She probably thinks that she's got you around her finger. Show her that you're not. More dread is almost always the answer for these cases. Also, eliminate that hint of oneitis now. Pull back from her. Slowly.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 10:00 AM
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You asked four questions. She asked none. That's a good indicator of how you did. This conversation doesn't spark anything. It's bland. She probably gets messages exactly like yours from 10 other guys a day. Your conversations must be man-to-woman. Yours is not. There's no flirting, no wit, no fun, just small talk. Spice up your conversation. Stand out from all the other chumps trying to hit her up.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 09:54 AM
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End it. I've been there. Don't let this pathetic excuse for a relationship keep crawling along until it inevitably ends in infidelity. It will be way worse if you let it keep going. I've been called "the one" before. Girls have said that "I'm the only one for them." Then it ends. Guess what they do? Do they fight after you for the rest of their lives because you truly are the only one for them? No. They find the next swinging dick. It's all bullshit, friend. Don't believe the Disney bullshit the…
/r/askTRP14/07/16 07:17 AM
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Fake it 'til you make it is a saying for a reason. You will eventually feel like you are of value if you keep at it. Other things you can do to help convince yourself that you are enough are: Lift Buy and wear nice clothes Eat right, take care of your body Meditate Read books (I'd suggest NMMNG and The Way of the Superior Man considering you have this problem).
/r/askTRP25/04/16 11:54 PM
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Spend less time with her. Go get busy. Start being more aggressive in bed. Start slow with this. Keep working on your SMV. Take her to new places. Apply a little bit of dread now and again. Stop taking shit from her. Read the sidebar
/r/askTRP23/04/16 04:32 PM
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You need to understand that your schooling is going to critically affect your future. You have to realize that this is your mission in life, so take it seriously. You should be passionate about your schooling, because you should feel passionately about what you're going to do with that degree. I'd suggest meditating and looking inside of yourself to see why you have not committed to your schooling. Why do you have no emotional investment in your education when your academic success directly corr…
/r/askTRP22/04/16 01:50 AM
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extract the good information without taking in the occasional sugar-coated bs. Elliott Hulse - Self-Improvement RSD Tyler - Game RSD Jeffy - Game RSD Julien -Game Alpha M - Self-Improvement Coach Corey Wayne - A bit of both
/r/askTRP20/04/16 01:07 AM
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Good. Make sure she follows through or the next step is the principal. Either way, make it clear that you are going to verbally call attention to it if they allow it to keep happening. Also, There is a negative correlation between Big muscles and getting bullied, so lift.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 12:43 AM
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What did the teacher say? Did the teacher give you some bs response or is he/she going to take it seriously?
/r/askTRP20/04/16 12:36 AM
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Sounds more like bullying than a shit test. You can't exactly retaliate as you'll be the one to inevitably get in trouble, not her. Talk to the teacher about it. If the teacher doesn't do anything, then loudly tell her to stop if she does it again during class. Making her look like an annoying fool in front of the class always did the trick for me. Don't take bullshit from anyone. Don't ever forget that the world will take what it can from you, so stoutly stand up for yourself.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 12:30 AM
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Cut out the emotions and the feelings. When you're pushing your comfort zone, your feelings usually won't be on your side. They'll be pushing you back. Control your feelings. You choose the way you feel. Just grind through it. If it was easy, it wouldn't be worth your time. Hardship makes the man, so push into it.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 09:07 PM
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That could come off as a bit forced. If it fits your frame and how you've presented yourself to the girl, go for it. I think if she asks for it, you give her your number. If she doesn't, then take hers. I usually just say "Give me your number." She puts it in and I immediately text her "-Hunts_Alone." Nothing special, but I've never had a problem with it. Don't overthink the small stuff.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 05:03 PM
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A girl will never be the answer. A fulfilling life does not necessarily include a girl. Find a passion Work your ass off Take pride in your improvement and your good choices. Do you have any male friends? Some guys need friends, some don't. Either way, having someone you can shoot the shit with is never a bad thing. A girlfriend isn't the answer. A relationship is the cherry on top of an already great life. Everyone has some down moments. Keep working through it and you'll come out on the other …
/r/askTRP19/04/16 03:46 AM
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I can understand the frustration, but you shouldn't be comparing yourself to others. Only compare yourself to who you were yesterday, and always try to be better than that.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 03:33 AM
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So showing that I have the mentality of "I could move on if that's what would be best" would further attraction? I've done that to an extent but she usually gets upset and thinks that I don't care.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 08:53 PM
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If I am living in an abundance mentality, it shouldn't matter, right? I'm the catch so I should just not care?
/r/askTRP30/09/15 08:44 PM
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Nope. Never even heard of the guy before.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 08:42 PM
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You're going to look back on this experience in 2 years and think "Damn that was hard. But I grew as a person from it." Sometimes when shitty things happen, you have to smile and think "Yep. That's life. And right now, life is throwing me shit. But that's okay because I will stick it out and push through." You'll make it through. When shitty things happen, look only to yourself. You are enough. You have what it takes to make it through.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 02:15 AM
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Thanks. I took your advice. It's hard. I cried. I broke down. But before I did that, I went out and talked to some girl I saw for 4 hours and got her number. It hurts. Alot. I really had hopes that she was the one. Guess that's all bullshit anyway. Thank you for your advice. This place has been way more helpful than I had ever thought.
/r/askTRP05/09/15 10:24 PM
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Yeah. I see that. I do attribute some of her negative tendencies like the fighting to her mother. The mother is really crazy and gets crazy mad often. Like mother, like daughter, right? I guess I believed I could get that out of her and change her in that way. She seems to be happy when we're together and things are good, but when things are bad. It's really bad. But I guess that's beside the point to an extent. The distance is the real killer. No matter how she acted, I think 5 years would be p…
/r/askTRP05/09/15 06:02 PM
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I think you hit the nail on the head. It's definitely hard to let go. She's gone nuclear in the past and tried to end things, but I held frame and reminded her of the things I've done for her when she's needed someone. That usually is what stops the bomb from going off. Thank you.
/r/askTRP05/09/15 05:48 PM
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I think my way around that was to flirt with other women and socialize with them while I was away. But I doubt that'd work as well as it does in my mind. The more I interact with you guys, the more I'm starting to see the beta thoughts in my mind. Especially the lack of the abundance mindset. The fact that she was my first and I was hers makes it a bit tougher for me to move on.
/r/askTRP05/09/15 05:44 PM
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Yeah. I've been reading a fair amount of stories on here about LDRs that go south because she wants another man or the cock carousel. It's somewhat hard for me to accept that. To believe that AWALT. Even mine. She says different, that that's not who she is. That she never would. But I assume lots of women say that but don't live up to it.
/r/askTRP05/09/15 05:41 PM
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I can definitely see how that'd be best. I guess a part of me is still living in a mindset that lacks abundance. Obviously, if I were confident enough to believe that I could get another that was better, I wouldn't be in this situation.
/r/askTRP05/09/15 05:38 PM
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Don't shit where you eat. Don't put yourself in any sort of romantic situation with a coworker. Too much to lose.
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You definitely need to get out and start talking to people. Not even just girls, guys too. To have sharp social skills, you have to spend a long time with a grindstone. Although they aren't strictly Red Pill, I'd suggest you look up some pick-up guys. Not to become them or to take in their values, but just to see how it isn't some out of this world concept to talk to people you don't know. Also, lift. That feeling you get after you finish a tough workout is like no other. Post-workout is a prime…
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