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| 1 | First rejection that kind of hurts (I guess)Maybe she was just flat out not interested man. Just shrug it off and move on. There are plenty of girls out there who will take you up on that date | /r/seduction | 23/08/19 11:36 PM |
| 1 | First rejection that kind of hurts (I guess)Hey man! Rejection is completely normal when you're talking to women. In fact, if you're not getting rejected that means you're not doing anything. I personally love getting rejected because I learn so much about how to be better the next time I approach of ark a woman out. So good for you for taking that leap because a lot of guys are even too scared to do that. Here's the thing about texting... it's only supposed to be used as a way to set up a date. Nothing more. Because texting is not an eff… | /r/seduction | 23/08/19 11:15 PM |
| 4 | I’ve decided to take control of my life, where’s a good place to learn the simple things so I can start approaching?Hey man! Glad to see you're taking responsibility and wanting to improve yourself. I love that. The main thing to understand is that it doesn't really matter what you say when you approach a woman. It's more about your posture, body language, tonality. If you wanna talk more about this or have any other questions, feel free to message me. Jax | /r/seduction | 21/08/19 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Was she trying to flirt?? What could I have said?Yeah no worries, I got you man | /r/seduction | 20/08/19 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Was she trying to flirt?? What could I have said?Hey dude! It's hard to tell from here whether she was interested or not. It's quite possible she was and quite possible she wasn't. To be honest man, it doesn't even really matter what you say. You could have said what you were going to say and make it work. It's just about coming off with a good vide and being authentic. Know what I mean? If you wanna talk about this more or if you have any other questions, feel free to message me. Jax | /r/seduction | 20/08/19 11:08 PM |
| 1 | How to approach/seduce in party/club 19MYeah no worries man | /r/seduction | 20/08/19 08:32 PM |
| 2 | How to approach/seduce in party/club 19MHey man! Not every girl you talk to has be this extraordinary conversation. Focus on going up to a girl and just saying "Hi." That's it. What you say isn't really that relevant. Some signs that she's in to you could be: - Looks like she's gazing into your soul. Kinda like when kid sees something really cool. - Wanting to touch you. When you notice her going to touch you but then pulls away because she's a little nervous. - Physical proximity. The closer she gets to you - Lip biting. Girls will s… | /r/seduction | 20/08/19 08:22 PM |
| 0 | Numbers at nightYou don't want to be texting them a couple hours after getting their number. That's way too soon. Message me | /r/seduction | 19/08/19 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Numbers at nightHey man! Here's the thing with that... like it or not attraction has an expiration date. If you don't build enough sexual tension or wait too long to do so, the woman is going to see you as nothing but a friend. If you'd like to know more or have anything other questions, feel free to message me. | /r/seduction | 19/08/19 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Expanding College Social CircleHey man! Yeah you got it. Just going out and meeting new people is enough to expand your social circle | /r/seduction | 19/08/19 01:58 PM |
| 4 | [22M] Need some help fam.....Hey man, I've been teaching men to do well with women for 2 years now. I've taught men in-person, over the phone, and via Internet. And one of thing I've noticed, again and again, is that guys primarily struggle in 3 distinct areas. If a man can handle all 3 of these areas, he's on easy street with women -- they are: • Attracting women • Interesting women • Closing women If a guy learns how to attract women, interest them, and close them, he's got it down and he can coast (at least with women) f… | /r/seduction | 02/08/19 05:26 PM |
| 1 | any help on text gameYeah, no worries man | /r/seduction | 02/08/19 02:28 AM |
| 8 | any help on text gameHey buddy, Trust me, I've been where you are lol, and I know it sucks. But here's what I've learned over the years, talking to 100's of women: I feel like most of the men whose text conversations I see have a very slipshod approach toward texting: they text girls without really knowing what their objectives are, oftentimes without any discernable objectives at all. I’m not sure how they expect directionless, objective-free texting to lead to anything productive, but well, I remember the days… | /r/seduction | 02/08/19 01:27 AM |
| 5 | What is the best response to: " Do you have a girlfriend?"The best response is honesty. You don't have to front and pretend you have a girlfriend | /r/seduction | 18/07/19 05:48 PM |
| 5 | It’s easy for me to strike up a conversation with a girl and ask for her number but after that it goes belly up. My texting game is weak. What can I do?Hey dude, if in person game is more your strength, and texting is more a weakness, then play to your strength. Arrange a date. Ask her out. Buy if you'd like some help with your text game or have any other questions, feel free to message me | /r/seduction | 18/07/19 03:05 PM |
| 2 | Tells me she thinks I'm cute and wants to meet up then blocks me?A week is too far down the line. Anything can happen in that time | /r/seduction | 18/07/19 03:03 PM |
| 3 | Tells me she thinks I'm cute and wants to meet up then blocks me?She got disinterested. Girls will show some interest then move on really quick if you don't capitalize on that | /r/seduction | 18/07/19 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Mixed signals, need advice on what I should doMessage me | /r/seduction | 17/07/19 05:25 AM |
| 3 | Mixed signals, need advice on what I should doIt's only awkward if you make it awkward. Rejection is okay. Just accept it and move on. There will be plenty more girls who'll show you attention | /r/seduction | 17/07/19 05:24 AM |
| 3 | Mixed signals, need advice on what I should doHey dude, If you're interested in her, why not make a move? It's the only for sure way to know if she's into you | /r/seduction | 17/07/19 05:15 AM |
| 2 | Where did I go so wrong?Hey man, You answered your own question Haha. You said you've never asked a girl out in your life. That's the problem right there. Women aren't going to just magically appear because you have a good job. You have to out in some work my man. As for your hobbies, a lot of guys have this mixed up. They think because they work out, play sports, read, etc that that's what's going to attract women. You have to remember that those things are for your self development. It's to make you a better person, … | /r/seduction | 17/07/19 01:49 AM |
| 2 | How to get girls as an attractive guy?You got it man. You should act the same way around 9s and 10s that you do with 7s and 8s. But for some reason, most guys shit their pants when the girl is a little more attractive | /r/seduction | 17/07/19 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Me wanna talk goodGood. That's what you should be focusing on. Techniques come and go | /r/seduction | 16/07/19 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Me wanna talk goodWell I mean there's techniques you can use but what's the use if you don't know how and when to use them right? | /r/seduction | 16/07/19 11:26 PM |
| 2 | Me wanna talk goodExperience and practice my friend | /r/seduction | 16/07/19 11:18 PM |
| 14 | How to get girls as an attractive guy?The really attractive girls are never interested in you because you probably act different around them. You over-compensate and try to qualify yourself to them because they are extremely attractive. Whereas, the less attractive girls are easier because you feel way less pressure, and you can act casual and be authentic. If you know that you're good looking, then you have to have the same vibe you have with less attractive girls, with the super hot girls you're attracted to. Don't seem super in… | /r/seduction | 16/07/19 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Is low body fat % better for attraction than high body fat %?Oh absolutely being physically attractive is a plus, there's no question. It's just sometimes we just believe it's the only thing | /r/seduction | 15/07/19 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Is low body fat % better for attraction than high body fat %?If you're an outer stud, you can absolutely learn how to be an inner pimp | /r/seduction | 15/07/19 06:28 PM |
| 3 | Is low body fat % better for attraction than high body fat %?Hey u/jikol1906 Here's the thing... We get so caught up with what the mainstream narrative is feeding us. The idea that being a rich guy determines he's a 10 or a guy with a lambo determines he's a 10. This is a limiting belief. What body fat % you are has absolutely no bearing. Limiting beliefs are only hurting you, not others. Remember this: Inner Pimps Beat Outer Studs If you'd like to talk about this further or have any other questions, feel free to message me | /r/seduction | 15/07/19 05:40 PM |
| 1 | I (20/M) am going out on my first ever date. What should I do? How do I prepare?Hey u/rb0127 She's definitely interested, for now... You don't have to think about it as a date. Think about it as you're just out having a good time, and the girl is just there with you. Be your cool, fun, confident, authentic self. Girls are attracted to that. Show her that you're an alpha male, that you live life on your terms, and are a leader. Here's the 3 Pillars you need to understand about attracting woman: 1) Learn to spike emotion 2) Learn to be Physical 3) Learn to go for it If you … | /r/seduction | 15/07/19 05:33 PM |
| 2 | How can I message someone on Instagram that I don’t know but want to know?Hey ErectToe and getupdosser The reason you aren't having any luck with that is because "hey, how's it going?" is such a flatline, generic message. Think about how many guys are using that exact line. Attractive girls get dozens of those message every single day. What you need to do instead, is spike emotion... Send them more High Value messages. Funny memes, funny stories, funny selfies, etc You'll be much more likely to invoke a response. If you wanna talk about this further or have any other … | /r/seduction | 15/07/19 04:53 PM |
| 3 | Who else here is a good social circle but suck with dating and girls.haha on point brother | /r/seduction | 15/07/19 04:42 PM |
| 1 | How to be more energetic?Hey u/BoboBaggins1234 Absolutely agree with IDoesThis1 and woodshavings There's a way to be energetic in your own authentic way. If you don't want to dance, then don't dance. However, don't be a sad sack and just mope around all night, women don't vibe with that at all. You can smile, laugh, tell jokes, all without being super energetic, that'll bring out a very positive vibe. If you have any other questions, feel free to message me | /r/seduction | 15/07/19 04:24 PM |
| 8 | Who else here is a good social circle but suck with dating and girls.Hey u/poke_an_eye With that big of a social circle, it shouldn't be that difficult to get a date. I think what's missing for you is ACTION. You must learn to just do it. Know what I mean? Don't be afraid of approaching a woman. The more you approach, rejection or not, the better and more confident you'll become at doing it. Make sense? Hope this helps If you want to talk about this more or if you have any other questions, feel free to message me | /r/seduction | 15/07/19 04:18 PM |
| 1 | How to meet a girl after being out for awhile?You should definitely just act on it man. What do you have to lose? Just going for it shows her alpha Male behavior and that's incredibly attractive to women. If you don't want to just message her but still keep her intereste, post stories on Instagram with your buddies doing cool shit. It'll show her you know how to have fun, which again, is attractive to women. Now I'm not saying to just post cool shit to shit off but rather show off the cool, fun, authentic side of you. If you wanna know more… | /r/seduction | 15/07/19 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Sexual tensionAlpha male behavior. A woman will always feel attracted to an alpha male but will always try to beta-ize him. If you always remain alpha, she will never lose interest, and she'll ALWAYS want to have sex with you. if you have any other questions, feel free to message me | /r/seduction | 14/07/19 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Follow up after the clubHey u/throwawaymydawg Girls absolutely love a challenge so keep things casual when talking to her, and do not sound needy. If she follows you on instagram, that's incredible tool to have. Let her see how cool and fun you are. So post a story every day with you and your buddies doing cool shit. Now, I don't mean go out and do shit just for attention and to attract her. just record your life, and your cool badass self. Be as authentic as possible. This is called Passive Attraction. If you'd like… | /r/seduction | 14/07/19 05:27 PM |
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