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| 30 | My stepping stone to swallowing TheRedPill | Red Pill Example | Husseinstatue | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/14 10:02 AM |
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| 2 | Would it be fair to say TRP attracts mostly the frustrated, inexperienced, bitter people? Does TRP get more flak than it deserves due to its community?Not much of a point at all, given the context in which it was made. This entire interaction devolved from an informed debate into pointless picking at semantics. Staking claim in a single issue then skirting around it when addressed is not making a point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/14 05:06 AM |
| 2 | What is the evidence (other than anecdotes) that women are less honorable and morally inclined than men?Preach. This encapsulates the entirety of the Blue Pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/14 04:04 AM |
| 2 | Why do I see so many high SMV women in relationships with low SMV men?This doesn't help... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/14 10:20 AM |
| 1 | Why do older TRPers lie to young guys about getting "better as you age"? Is it jealousy?Doesn't this post violate rule 3 as well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/14 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Question for RedPillers: What is your origin story?...That might be the kindest piece of actually pragmatic advice that anyone has sincerely given me. Thank you. I don't ever think I'll ever be "over it", but I will try to understand it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/14 07:39 AM |
| 3 | The Red Pill: Is it what they say, or how they say it?Look at this. It's an extensive debate on how BP thinks RP language usage is inherently negative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/14 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Why put on an act when you could just be yourself?You sound like a feminist MGTOW, as odd as that sounds. Your perspective on gender and "the secret" is intriguing, but it offers nothing of substance so far as actual self-improvement, which is what TRP is about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/14 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Why put on an act when you could just be yourself?Some people aren't satisfied, and that state of dissatisfaction is "who they are". If no one acted on the desire to improve, we'd be a very stagnant race. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/14 09:02 PM |
| 3 | Why put on an act when you could just be yourself?There's almost nothing of substance... It's just "be yourself" and "life should be like this, do things my way, you're just lying to yourself". If the goal here is to "impress him", I don't think he actually wants to be impressed. Almost every salient point is refuted... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/14 08:55 PM |
| 2 | Blue pillers, what positives do you see in the existence of red pill?That sort of thinking only contributes to its validity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/14 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Question for RedPillers: What is your origin story?Look, if I referred to the men I was dating as "wallets" and called dates "dine and dashes", you wouldn't question my attitude toward men? This is why I specifically avoided using common Red Pill terms until that point in my post. I intended to mock the casual misogyny of TRP. I try not to use any of the terminology, despite my appreciation of the philosophy - I'm fully aware of how ignorant it makes us seem. What if I looked at things like not cheating on my husband, listening to him if he's ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/14 04:35 PM |
| 3 | Blue pillers, what positives do you see in the existence of red pill?Did you read the thread on Red Piller's "origin story"? It might give you a better idea as to why the Red Pill exists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/14 10:26 AM |
| 2 | Question for RedPillers: What is your origin story?This might sound like I'm whining but - I've hurt no one. I was the one who got hurt. All I did was place myself first and remove myself from a situation. And the fact that I enjoy someone getting their comeuppance is somehow immoral? I don't know. Maybe I'm just tired of the Anti-Red Pill assumption that all of us are shitty people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/14 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Question for RedPillers: What is your origin story?I've found success and happiness from the Red Pill after a good few years of quite the opposite. Forgive me if I enjoy the results. Had I not chosen to take the high road, had I chose to operate on mainstream TRP levels, I could have taken her virginity and dump her, or have her on my leash. Instead, I chose a moral victory and let her go. I'm simply stating that I didn't go full Red Pill and "pump and dump her". I instead chose to remove myself from a potentially bad situation by not entering a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/14 05:08 PM |
| 1 | XKCD ComicMy mistake. It came across as a generalization of any woman who spends time making herself look good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/14 08:10 PM |
| 0 | Question for RedPillers: What is your origin story?I once wrote a poem for a girl and recited at the high school talent show. A little background: I'd had a crush on this girl for about 2 years, starting my sophomore year of high school. Don't get me wrong, holding a conversation with her wasn't an issue. It's just that she was one of thosegirls, the ones everyone loves. Anyways, at the beginning and end of every academic year, our school hosts a talent show of sorts - a couple of hours of teachers and students performing for the enjoyment of th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/14 07:47 PM |
| 6 | XKCD Comicif you're a young guy who was used by a really attractive girl or a middle aged man who was cheated on then taken to the cleaners in a divorce court, I can see why you would be angry. It's like people don't expect us to be vocal about being treated like shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/14 07:37 PM |
| 10 | XKCD ComicAn actually nice guy that falls for a friend won't attempt to manipulate her into feeling like she owes him a relationship. No. He tries to convince himself that these feelings should be kept a secret from her and from others. But then he realizes that he can't hold himself back like that while staying emotionally healthy, and she eventually finds out. Then he gets strung along by a girl who's "confused about her own feelings" and eventually he's taken for a ride that leaves him grasping for str… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/14 07:31 PM |
| 3 | XKCD ComicTo paint broad brushstrokes, 3rd wave feminists are most generally defined by the College Liberal meme. Even if it is human nature, I think it's horrible when they preach equality yet still expect special treatment. I'm not saying the majority of them do it - it's just the SJW and Tumblr advocates that severely tick me off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/14 07:25 PM |
| 3 | XKCD ComicFor the most part, women choose to be beautiful. They aren't born that way. Someone that chooses to put that much effort into their appearance is probably pretty shallow. All I'm getting is if "For the most part, women choose to be beautiful. They aren't born that way. Someone that chooses to put that much effort into their appearance is pretty shallow. That's dangerously close to the Red Pill. I don't think I've met any group of women that didn't put make up on at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/14 06:54 PM |
| 10 | XKCD ComicThank you. Nice guys who decide to change themselves so they don't get hurt get shit on for trying to improve themselves because "they're lying to themselves" or "they were never nice guys in the first place". Then they get shit on for being nice because "you're too beta". Unfortunately for these Nice Guys, one side doesn't value sensitivity, and the other side is often hypocritical (but that's ok, because they can't afford to be fair when they are fighting The Patriarchy). That is the majority … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/14 07:08 AM |
| 6 | XKCD ComicThis is like the inverse of the Red Pill. You assume that women who want to dress well and put the time and effort into looking good are automatically shallow? This kind of pseudo-chivalry is just the other side of misogyny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/14 07:02 AM |
| 8 | XKCD ComicWomen who automatically dismiss men for being short, for starters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/14 06:57 AM |
| 0 | TRP's Toxic TerminologyBy "Nice Guy Syndrome" I meant exactly that. They thought being nice equated value in a relationship. By the way, the belief that women view relationships that you mentioned is one of the core tenets of TRP. And the philosophy draws the angry, embittered, and depressed and makes them happy. I'm certainly a lot happier than I was when I actually thought men and women were on the same wavelength. And it's easy to find women like that. I'm friends with a lot of women who say that they want a "decen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/14 03:51 AM |
| 2 | TRP's Toxic TerminologyRules 1,4,5, and 7 in the sidebar, buddy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/14 01:46 AM |
| 1 | TRP's Toxic TerminologyI'd rather not relive that, but here goes: I felt small. Inadequate. That I wasn't considerate enough of their feelings. Like I didn't have enough to offer those girls - almost like I was imposing my affections upon them. I thought that I shouldn't have ever even made my feelings known simply because it was an inconvenience for them. For one girl, I felt extremely sorry that I made our mutual friends pick "sides" when she decided to simply cut me off. Most of all, I felt guilty for feeling any s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/14 12:55 AM |
| 0 | TRP's Toxic TerminologyAh, yes. The first portion of the post was merely an observation. The rest merely explains why the language is used as it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/14 10:44 AM |
| 0 | TRP's Toxic TerminologyI was referring to semantics as a point of attack on an otherwise sound statement. I did mention that context and connotation are important when considering the audience. The uniformity of commonly used terms allows community members to have discussions without getting too lost in translation. RP terminology is made by and for the Red Pill community. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/14 09:37 AM |
| 2 | TRP's Toxic TerminologyWho should we blame, then? I personally try not to blame anyone. What's wrong with self-improvement? What's wrong with acknowledging the differences between the majority of men and the majority of women? Personally, I'm not one of the RPers that actively hates women. I just think that the majority of people, as I perceive them, act a certain way and try to pattern my behavior so as to produce desired results. I'm not so deluded as to think that there are no exceptions, because of course there ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/14 08:19 AM |
| 1 | TRP's Toxic TerminologyPage 4 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/14 08:11 AM |
| -1 | TRP's Toxic TerminologyI'm sure there's a choice besides beta and alpha. But no one else besides TRP offered anything beyond "It'll get better" or "You'll get the girl you deserve". It's great that there are people who found happiness "without this weird game-playing", but at least we're trying to improve ourselves instead of sitting around and whining about why life isn't fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/14 03:55 AM |
| 6 | TRP's Toxic TerminologySometimes get people hurt enough to change their views on things. I'm glad for the people that have managed to be genuinely altruistic in all aspects of their lives and still cope with the pain of being deemed "inferior" or cheated on because someone was better. It's great that there are people who don't harbour feelings of personal slight and anger against a culture that devalues you if you can't get a girl or even seek any kind of help in coping. Being "genuinely altruistic" or a "decent perso… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/14 03:48 AM |
| 4 | TRP's Toxic TerminologySemantics. Pure semantics. I don't think you should be surprised, since most TBPers like to draw attention to the language used by TRPers. For example, this thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/14 12:03 AM |
| 1 | TRP's Toxic TerminologyIt's a commonly held Red Pill belief that solipsism is a trait that most women possess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/14 11:20 PM |
| 1 | TRP's Toxic TerminologyNothing. It's just indicative to anyone who frequents either TRP or TBP that you're a TRPer. Although, I think it's negative to TBPer's that you prescribe to the Red Pill at all, so there's that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/14 11:03 PM |
| 1 | TRP's Toxic TerminologyHe's taking offense to OP's You're not one of TRP guys this refers to. You openly hate women and consider TRP part of that beliefs. Rule #1 in the sidebar isn't being followed by a good portion of TRP and TBP, I'm afraid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/14 11:00 PM |
| 1 | TRP's Toxic TerminologyHe's interpreting your confusion as hamstering. apparently men don't see women as human beings and yet want to have sex with them just like lions think lionesses are only sex and gazelle objects. I'm pretty sure he meant to say something to the effect of apparently men view women like lions view lionesses and gazelles. Basically he's devaluing the objectification of women and making human carnal pursuits equivalent with that of lions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/14 10:52 PM |
| 8 | TRP's Toxic TerminologyIt's not so much "seething hatred" towards women as it is general bitterness towards the fact that many of us have been "betas" - the nice guy who never got the girl. It's also mixed in with a hatred of the double standard that many of us have seen faux-feminists use. That College Liberal Girl who constantly hits the front page so often should provide a ready example. A lot of us have sob stories where we got hurt. We were nice guys - not just Mr. Thinks-nice-equals-sex entitled kind of guy, but… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/14 10:31 PM |
| 1 | TRP's Toxic Terminologynamae is using RP language to counter your points. or patriarchy of which men are agents of unless educated against society's belief right from the cradle, yada yada yada. He's referring to TRP as being what all men (the patriarchy, which men are agents of) would be if they were "educated against society's belief". Essentially he's taking the red pill metaphor quite literally and saying that all men would follow Red Pill philosophy if they weren't exposed to "society's belief". This is the ratio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/14 09:52 PM |
| 6 | TRP's Toxic TerminologyI've found that a lot of the BPers and SJW that are anti-RP will use any excuse to disavow RP philosophy. They argue over semantics like what kind of words are used and insist that any sort of derogatory remark automatically invalidates any argument, no matter how salient a point is made. That being said, context and connotation are important when considering an audience. If TRP was to market their philosophy for the general public, then I'd assume more politically correct language would be used… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/14 08:19 PM |
| 3 | TRP's Toxic TerminologyTo further support the Dark Triad comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/14 07:51 PM |
| 1 | He's coming for us aka the retroactive male hamster.Wow. I love how TBP ridicules TRP Field Reports, but this white knight extraordinaire gets all the love. Do they not recognize the irony? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/14 06:26 AM |
| 2 | Guy gets divorced. Get's quality sex from plates without even trying. Ex wife now shaves her poon and comes after sex. Hamsters afterwards.I just wanted to see if they offered any form of counterargument other than "They're all virgins" or "This is morally in the wrong" | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/14 02:36 AM |
| 5 | Guy gets divorced. Get's quality sex from plates without even trying. Ex wife now shaves her poon and comes after sex. Hamsters afterwards.I really want to know what TBP thinks about this. Everything about OP's post speaks true to TRP philosophy. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/14 06:35 PM |
| 3 | In one sentence, what has been your biggest takeaway from being exposed to the red pill?This sums up the best of it - the reason behind many TRPers' switch. Chip sums up the worst, bad PUA and all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/14 05:19 PM |
| 2 | In one sentence, what has been your biggest takeaway from being exposed to the red pill?Watch Hitch until it makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/14 01:49 AM |
| 2 | My stepping stone to swallowing TheRedPillI'm glad you found my story so inspiring. Take from it what you will, but just keep one thing in mind: I found some modicum of peace not by attempting to attract women, but by bettering myself. The "attracting women" part comes naturally when you've improved yourself to the point where you can, without hubris, honestly think of yourself as attractive. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/14 05:19 AM |
| 3 | My stepping stone to swallowing TheRedPillThank you. For a while, I thought I hated her. Then I realized how pointless it was to hate someone for acting naturally, and decided to move on for both our sakes. At the very worst it was a past I'd rather not relive, and at best it's a lesson well-learned. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/14 05:15 AM |
| 3 | My stepping stone to swallowing TheRedPillExactly. I recall being very disheartened when my friends defended her for "protecting herself" when I tried to talk to them. I was the bad guy for trying to change everything. I was the asshole for messing the group dynamic up. She was the little angel everyone needed to make sure never suffered from anyone's advances, let alone mine. A part of me still doesn't understand why she got away with all of this without any sort of meaningful repercussion on her end. I can't really fault her for the w… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/14 03:47 PM |
| 2 | I made r/redpillbooks. It's pretty empty right now. Let's build a red pill library.Aside from that case of oneitis, he did juggle a lot of women while still keeping himself off the radar. I think the count was like 167 women by the time he got together with his main. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/13 06:13 PM |
| 3 | I made r/redpillbooks. It's pretty empty right now. Let's build a red pill library.Love in the Time of Cholera, The Count of Montecristo, Macchiavelli's Prince - these are all great books | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/13 05:13 PM |
| 1 | What I believe being alpha meansThe readings have given me insight as to why TRP exists, and why they act the way they do. Their mentality gets them results. That in itself seems watertight to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/13 04:34 AM |
| 1 | What I believe being alpha meansI don't get it. TRP philosophy sounds watertight to me . At the very least the readings on the sidebar have given me a lot of insight. Why is there so much hate for TRP? Do people hate the ideas of sex as commerce? The belief that there are women who need and want "alphas"? I personally don't find anything wrong with the arguments made in TRP when they have some logic behind it. It's just the users that seem to have an intense hatred of women with extreme bias that kind of throw me off. However,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/13 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Confused "beta" guy here. I've been reading TRP and, although I don't like it, a lot of it makes sense to me. Can any "blue pillers" tell me THEIR guide to a guy getting laid?The first two points you made sounds a lot like what TRP supposedly espouses. I think the main divergence is that last point - TRPers believe that self-improvement results in sex. Honestly it sounds like something from /r/becomeaman, as well. Just, y'know, without the douchiness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/13 08:19 PM |
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