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It's a numbers game. If you can match attractive women at a decent %, that's a good sign. Most girls on apps are going to waste your time no matter what you do. Part of this is because many of them are window shoppers, and part of this is because even an unattractive girl is going to be swimming in thirsty dudes hitting her up. You have to spam the shit out of the apps and have an efficient, streamlined process. The skillset and mindset is very similar to being a salesman who prospects many pote…
/r/seduction06/02/25 03:45 AM
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Here is an outline. Become more attractive Become less unattractive Repeat 1 and 2 until you are sufficiently attractive and/or sufficiently not unattractive Choose a style of game (day, night, online, social circle) that you like most and fits best with your lifestyle and personality Learn the basics of your choice in 4 Put in the numbers like you’re a used car salesman Git gud Repeat 6 and 7 until sexy time Filling in the details is left as an exercise to the reader.
/r/seduction07/11/24 11:07 PM
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So I read the title and none of the body of the post. Here’s the answer: Change her mood, not her mind.
/r/seduction05/07/24 10:51 PM
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Don’t do a traditional dinner first date unless you live in the 1950s, hate having money, want to wait 10 dates to have sex, or all of the above. The only times I’ve done food on a first date are either some cheap shitty fast food, or takeout from restaurant (where we split the bill) straight to my apartment. A cool bar is optimal for a public first date but a cool café is fine too if she doesn’t like alcohol (you not liking alcohol shouldn’t be an excuse; just nurse one drink). “Event” dates ar…
/r/seduction29/09/22 04:11 PM
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« Maybe » means « no » 99% of the time. Not meeting within the first week also means it won’t happen - unless in rare cases where she gives you detailed reason (like being out of town) and is enthusiastic about meeting you the following week. Combination of « maybe » and not meeting within the first week = forget about her yesterday and move on, don’t waste your time. I would even recommend unmatching and/or deleting all contacts so you don’t fall into an energy wasting trap. Online dating is a …
/r/seduction20/09/22 01:32 PM
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Minimum 3 months. Better 6 or longer. Ideally she’s the one asking you, or bringing up the topic. Ideally you have other girls in the pipeline during this time and you’re not in a position of scarcity (which will be a turnoff if you convey it). A “traditional” girlfriend (implying mutual monogamy, or even an open one) is not a label you should take lightly or bestow on anyone who you are not sure about. Don’t do it just because this is the only girl you perceive to be an option for you. Most ave…
/r/seduction12/09/22 03:40 PM
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Don’t act like it’s a big deal and it won’t be. Don’t give a shit what other people think. These are non-physical traits that are attractive to women in general, so this advice applies beyond the scope of the OP question. There is also no need to scream about your sex life on social media, especially if you do non traditional stuff like dating multiple people or dating much younger people. If she specifically brings up the age gap, just brush it off like it doesn’t bother you (which it shouldn’t…
/r/seduction07/09/22 04:42 PM
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1 - To answer title question, very little. Probably 2 answers in a row that I don’t like and I’m done. Most girls on tinder will waste your time no matter what you do and you need to be ruthless about recognizing this and moving on and spamming as many swipes as possible. Tinder is efficient for getting laid relative to overall effort invested, but only if you are being efficient about it. 2 - That said, the messages you posted that you sent them are also pretty boring and directionless. Beyond …
/r/seduction02/09/22 04:28 PM
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That’s something you’re going to have to figure out if you want to become successful with women. That means improving yourself physically, mentally, and socially until more women find you attractive, and learning and executing a method that gets you meeting them with enough consistency that you stop caring how it goes with any one specific girl. To put it bluntly, git gud. Pining over one girl who won’t return your texts (or worse, sees you as just friends) because you perceive that you don’t ha…
/r/seduction01/09/22 03:19 PM
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No, don’t waste your time. Don’t even expend any additional mental energy even thinking about it. Two unanswered texts in a row (which you should space apart by 24 hours) = automatically delete her from your brain, move on and talk to 10 other women (or men, or whatever).
/r/seduction31/08/22 03:11 PM
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The average Japanese person speaks very little English. It is also an extremely difficult language to learn because of how different it is. I’m a native Chinese speaker and it barely helps beyond having a head start on the writing system and a few cognates here and there. It is much easier for me to progress with French using English as a base than progress with Japanese using a combination of English and Chinese as a base. If you are starting from scratch, unless you are a savant and do this as…
/r/seduction27/08/22 12:54 PM
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Oh for sure, it’s a rough result, but it’s better than talking with nothing to back your opinion up at all, and a man’s only got so much time on his hands for this shit. If a few guys try the same thing and get similar findings, the confidence level goes up significantly. Feel free to do 100 dates total if can swing it and you are so inclined to spend 50 dates doing whatever seems suboptimal. I’d love to hear the results.
/r/seduction24/08/22 07:27 PM
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I kiss when I’m ready to escalate to sex within the next 15 to 20 minutes. This means at my place (usually) or hers, and (usually) takes between 0 and 2 dates. Kissing at the end of a public date (or middle) and ending it there without pulling absolutely murders the sexual tension and mystery in her feminine mind.
/r/seduction24/08/22 12:30 PM
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Being an introvert, not loving parties, and preferring to be alone most of the time is perfectly fine. But don’t let it be an excuse for being a pussy or for lacking basic social skills. You may need to work harder than an extrovert to not be a pussy and acquire basic social skills if you’ve never made it a focus, but you can and should do it anyway. I’ve spent the majority of the pandemic in hermit mode and 90% of my face to face social interaction was just girls I downloaded from Tinder. Could…
/r/seduction24/08/22 03:13 AM
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Yes, I did say it takes time and work. Probably less than you think though if you attack it (diet more than anything else) with 100% of your determination. None of the individual steps are particularly difficult, but they do have to be repeated over and over. I don’t know where you are starting from, but it took me roughly 9 months of dedicated focus to go from decently muscled with 18% body fat down to a shredded 10%. If you’ve never lifted weights in your life and have zero muscle then obvious…
/r/seduction08/08/22 04:20 PM
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If your main game is online dating, 80% of your success comes down to your aesthetics and picture quality and is independent of any other social life you may or may not lead. You can’t control your genetics but you can control your fitness, fashion, and photo quality. Any average guy can at least go from a 4 to an 8 just by getting shredded, getting some style, and getting the best pictures possible taken/edited. None of this is particularly difficult but it does take time, work, and experimenta…
/r/seduction08/08/22 04:01 PM
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I read none of the walls of text after the title and this is my answer to the general question. Give her one more chance, and proceed like you would in any other situation, and act like nothing happened vis a vis the ghosting and that you don’t give a shit. Know that if she flaked once the odds are higher than normal that she will flake again. If she does flake again block and delete all her contacts and delete her from your mind so you don’t waste any more time on this particular timewaster, an…
/r/seduction06/08/22 02:28 AM
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For a woman to be totally celibate is rare but it happens. I saw a woman in her early thirties for a while who hadn’t had sex in seven years prior to me, but this was strictly her choice. Every woman, even less than attractive ones, are overflowing with options at all times. On the other hand, if “single” means not in any kind of serious relationship (nor wanting one) but having a bunch of sex anyway then that is a lot more common.
/r/seduction04/08/22 02:49 PM
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IG can be better but only if yours displays high social value and you curate your posts for aesthetics. If yours is average or worse than average then stick to the number. Another benefit for advanced long game: makes it easier to bring girls who have dropped off back into the fold eventually (eg you had an ongoing non-exclusive thing but eventually she leaves you temporarily for a monogamous beta boyfriend). Easier to keep tabs on how that’s going, and she’s more likely to change her number tha…
/r/seduction31/07/22 05:16 AM
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You are welcome to think whatever you like, live your life however how you feel is optimal for your happiness, and I have no interest in convincing you, a stranger on the internet, of anything else. I’m just answering OP’s question. The point you responded to, as stated, is a fact though, and not an opinion or a moral judgment. If one does not explicitly promise anybody monogamy, never lies about it if asked, and makes implicit through how one handles one’s relationship that it isn’t monogamous,…
/r/seduction19/07/22 01:22 AM
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Do it because: - You don’t get oneitis, where one woman controls your balls. How utterly insane is it to create a social contract where you’re only allowed to have sex with one person, yet that person can refuse sex? - It’s more fun. Life is short. It’s okay to have fun. - Neither men nor women are biologically hardwired for lifetime monogamy. Men want to be genghis khan by default, and women’s default is “serial monogamy”, where they will eventually branch swing to a shinier or newer man. - Unl…
/r/seduction18/07/22 01:17 PM
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Have a short normal text conversation then invite her for a drink or a coffee.
/r/seduction27/06/22 04:13 PM
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Not going to sugar coat it - the moment you focus all your effort, hopes, and dreams on one and only one woman, you’ve already lost half the battle. When you verbalize this to her and make it a social contract (with all the negative emotions that are expected to arise when - not if, but when - one of you breaks it and the other finds out) you’ve lost the other half. I don’t have any advice for you for this relationship, but for the future get familiar with the concept of “oneitis”, understand ho…
/r/seduction25/06/22 03:56 AM
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Nothing is irreplaceable. Nothing is permanent.
/r/seduction08/05/22 02:52 PM
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Delete her from your contacts and your brain, direct energy towards other girls.
/r/seduction07/05/22 04:05 PM
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Depends on your style of meeting women. If you rely on social circle (which is what most people who haven’t put specific effort into this do) then obviously that’s going to be hard if you have no social circle. But if you get good at any cold approach or online system it hardly matters what your social life is like outside of that. These days I could move to a new city where I know nobody and as long as it’s reasonably large (> 1 million pop), I speak the language, and is not in some super tradi…
/r/seduction07/05/22 02:29 AM
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You don’t tell her, you make it (the sex) happen. And yes, the second date is a very viable and efficient time to do that with many girls. Also, recommend not going for the kiss until you’re already isolated and ready to escalate to sex. You murder the tension and mystery that way. And no, do not have a logical discussion about the parameters of the relationship that early. Ideally don’t at all unless and until she pushes it. Instead, imply the nature of the relationship through the things you d…
/r/seduction03/05/22 12:28 AM
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Do you have a question? Is there somewhere this story goes? What’s the point of this post?
/r/seduction03/05/22 12:11 AM
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I don’t sign up for monogamy in the first place because it is counter to your own human nature, and you are now also trying to control another human being from behaving against their own human nature. Then when one of you (when, not if) breaks that social contract, you are supposed to get mad and get sad and have all kinds of drama. No thanks. It is possible to have fulfilling ongoing relationships without the monogamy. It takes work to learn how to set up, but the alternative (I.e. the default …
/r/seduction02/05/22 06:35 PM
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I don’t kiss unless and until the plan is to escalate to sex within 15 minutes or so. If you’re having a « normal » first date, I would recommend just casual kino up to a hug goodbye but no further. By kissing but not closing, you raise the chance of buyers remorse and kill the mystery - and even if you don’t then you didn’t really accomplish anything by doing it. Of course if you’re going for a first date close and already have her at your place then disregard and go all out.
/r/seduction02/05/22 03:29 PM
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You should frame questions generally with the aim of improving your knowledge and strategy for the rest of your life, rather than for specific situations. Stopped reading after you actually named people (which I hope are fake names) for your very specific situation and very specific girl. If you’re that invested in one person instead of casting a wide net, you’ve already lost half the battle.
/r/seduction24/04/22 02:47 PM
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Nobody owns anybody else and you’ll save yourself a lot of suffering if you stop trying to. Unless you live in a very traditional or religious part of the world, plan on all modern relationships to expire. The upside though is you don’t need to tie yourself down to a single one in the long or even short term and it’s doable to experience a variety previously only available to kings and sultans. Also, lose the word « slut » from your vocabulary as a negative label. Women like sex just as men do, …
/r/seduction23/04/22 11:10 PM
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You sound like you have some deeper internal issues that transcend fitness or women. I hope you get yourself figured out, man.
/r/seduction21/04/22 02:51 AM
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“Fit” meaning 10% body fat or less, clearly visible six pack, and you used some way to actually measure it? Or are you overestimating how fit you actually are/were? Because some guys claim to be “fit” at around 15% body fat and while sure you’re in decent shape and above average at that point, nobody is going to give a shit about your shirtless body at 15%. Because getting that lean also makes major changes to your visible facial structure, which is probably what you mean by “looking good” or “l…
/r/seduction21/04/22 02:15 AM
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Everything I said is from direct experience. At various points of my life I’ve been obese, scrawny, chubby, average, and for the past few years completely shredded. How about you? Have you ever been that lean in your adult life and have an alternate experience to share (in which case you’re probably doing something else seriously wrong)? Or are you just trying rationalize your own laziness to feel better about yourself?
/r/seduction21/04/22 01:06 AM
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Getting shredded (10% bodyfat, visible six pack, not necessarily a shitload of muscle but enough to not be skinny) will 100% change your life. I made this my prime directive in life for around 9 months and highly recommend it. Rip and tear until it is done (though it is 80% consistent diet and 20% training). You obviously still need to put in the work to actually make things happen but the response and return on investment you get is night and day. It goes beyond just getting girls too. You’ll b…
/r/seduction20/04/22 04:06 PM
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Note if you got a (one, 1) pretty girlfriend through random circumstance or social circle but you don’t have game / other options, that’s not all it’s cracked up to be. I’ve been there as a younger man. If she knows you don’t have other options, then when problems arise (and they will, always), she knows she owns your balls, and that’s not a position you want to be in. You still need the ability to get other chicks even if you don’t have an immediate intention to use it.
/r/seduction20/04/22 12:08 PM
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If your goal is to have sex with a bunch of girls, why are you shaming girls for wanting to have a bunch of sex, which is literally the thing you also want? Are you aware of the judgmental hypocritical double standard you have, and self-defeating attitude? On the topic of what other people think: first don’t go around screaming off of rooftops about your sex life, but also fuck what other people think - you do you and cut out the people who don’t like it. Also maybe consider moving to a bigger c…
/r/seduction19/04/22 03:24 PM
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Don’t share too much about your life details in general unless people directly ask. Even then learn strategic ambiguity without lying when it suits your needs. The experience is its own reward, you don’t need to stroke your ego afterwards. And yes, statistically most men do not succeed with women, so of course they will be jealous.
/r/seduction16/04/22 04:01 PM
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No. Once you start being successful, you really don’t give a shit about things like this that don’t matter anymore. If I don’t like a particular woman’s behaviour, I simply don’t associate with her, and that’s the end of that story or my thoughts about it. Women as a whole will act the way they will act, you can take it or leave it.
/r/seduction15/04/22 07:07 PM
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Talk to 10 other girls.
/r/seduction08/04/22 07:38 PM
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This fucking sub.
/r/seduction04/04/22 07:51 PM
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It sounds like you are focussing on one girl at a time for long periods of time. There’s your root problem right there. Women can sense your desperation and lack of options, and you’re shooting yourself in the foot before you even start. This is a numbers game, you need to cast your net wide and not give a shit how things turn out with any one woman. For one - you have no control over what she does; and more importantly - paradoxically the attitude of not giving a shit is wildly attractive to wo…
/r/seduction02/04/22 02:44 PM
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If you are both consenting and the age is not illegal wherever you live, do whatever you want. There will be people who think you are weird or immoral, but who gives a fuck what other people think? It’s your life. PS I’m 33 and my main FB for the past half year is 18, so… 🙃
/r/seduction01/04/22 12:41 AM
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It’s a generic rejection and could mean almost anything. You are right that you are probably doing something wrong if it happens consistently. You actually don’t have to “do” that much on a first date to make it successful, it is more about what not to do. I could give you a list, but it’s long and again it could be literally anything. It doesn’t hurt to ask for honest feedback; it will often be a waste of time but you might do better if you make it clear there are no hard feelings and you reall…
/r/seduction31/03/22 01:56 PM
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I’d say men’s peak is closer to late than early thirties. But yeah the exact number doesn’t matter as much because what makes men attractive to women is a lot more complicated than what does it for us (if she’s hot and not a complete bitch then generally we’re interested).
/r/seduction28/03/22 05:28 AM
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I mean, I imagine it wouldn’t be particularly difficult as women’s SMV drops past 30 and their options decrease, and most men are attracted to younger women. I don’t go after older women because I don’t need to. But if you are not looking for serious relationships, then indeed generally speaking women past their mid 30s tend to be less down for casual sex as their biological clocks are screaming at them to settle down.
/r/seduction28/03/22 05:26 AM
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I was shit at it at 22 too. At that age you haven’t had the time to develop the non-physical qualities and experiences that women are attracted to. Physically as well men peak later, assuming you have your shit together and take care of yourself.
/r/seduction28/03/22 05:23 AM
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Early thirties now, oldest in this stage of my life was 2 or 3 years older than me. Weird question though, I’d think the opposite is the much more interesting question… in which case the answer is literally like a month after she turned 18. The vast majority are early to mid 20s though.
/r/seduction28/03/22 04:39 AM
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There are a lot of things you can do, but here are some main ones: - Get ripped. Don't need a ton of muscle, but get to 10% body fat (visible 6 pack) with enough to not look skinny. This alone will change your life. ANY guy can do this, but very few ever actually will. It's 20% training, 80% consistent dieting. - For online dating: getting ripped along with getting professional photography done. - Get at least one cool, social hobby that you genuinely enjoy and converse passionately about. Leagu…
/r/seduction19/03/22 04:36 PM
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Don’t be a regular guy. Do whatever it takes to get into and stay in at least the top 20%.
/r/seduction18/03/22 11:38 PM
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I treat “I don’t know” and “maybe” as “no” because 99% of the time that’s what it is and you are wasting your time otherwise. Hell, even “yes” becomes a “no” often enough, so definitely move on and put the effort into other girls.
/r/seduction16/03/22 05:46 PM
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Ignore for a few days then say “sorry, was busy with new [girl/boy/whatever]”.
/r/seduction24/02/22 06:41 PM
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You're overthinking this. Correct, you don't really know her reason, and frankly it doesn't matter. Just proceed like nothing happened and go for it. Don't give a shit how or if it works out (as you shouldn't anyway). Know the odds are high that she'll disappear on you again. Don't give a shit about this either. Mercilessly double book her with other flaky girls if you have any in the pipeline. If she does disappear a second time, delete all her contacts so you stop wasting time with time waster…
/r/seduction12/02/22 06:38 PM
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Jesus Christ go hit up 10 new girls. Then if you still really want to pursue your ex in parallel as well, knock yourself out. It sounds like you’re completely focussed on this one girl by the way you wrote such a long post with so many details. The problem is no matter what you do outwardly, you’re coming from a place of neediness and scarcity and this will sabotage everything you say or do, consciously or unconsciously.
/r/seduction29/01/22 02:50 PM
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I strongly recommend "The Unchained Man" by Caleb Jones. It covers both developing a long term non-monogamous dating strategy as well as making location independent self-employed income as its core pillars of being a free man; and not just a how-to but the foundations of mindsets and sociological factors around them. You can probably to find a PDF but honestly the paperback version is like 20 dollars and worth every penny.
/r/seduction20/01/22 03:00 PM
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Yeah, there is a difference between « introverted » and « shy » though. I’m introverted by nature and enjoy being alone most of the time. But I don’t use it as an excuse for inaction. « Sensitive » also means you easily react and are moved by outside forces, including what other people think and do. This is the opposite of a winning dating (and life, in general) mindset for men. But being able to act, lead, and perform in social or dating settings can be developed regardless of being introverted…
/r/seduction19/01/22 01:11 PM
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How often have you personally seen a guy sitting alone at a bar not approaching people, and decided to approach him unprompted? Shy is fine as a girl since guys are going to approach you no matter what. Even if you, one particular girl, really likes shy guys and let’s say you prove me wrong and tell me you actually do approach tons of guys all the time, then that’s wonderful and more girls should be like you. But, that would still make you the exception to the rule and not something a guy can ex…
/r/seduction19/01/22 05:19 AM
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Yeah, this is the wrong question. « Shy » is a euphemism for « lacking confidence » or « socially awkward ». These traits are not attractive to women. Your question should be, « how do I work on changing that? » The vast majority of the time, the most you can realistically hope for is approach invitations - if she smiles at you and/or holds prolonged eye contact (especially more than once) or seems to hover around you, that’s a green light to do something - but you still need to act on it. Women…
/r/seduction18/01/22 11:18 PM
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Every remotely cute girl on the market today has approximately 180 options, if you don’t move fast one (or five) of the others will. Why don’t you frame this the other way: moving fast is now so normal, that getting to sex in zero to two dates is not difficult. I’ll take that any day over the 1950s model of ten dinner dates (that you pay for) before any clothes (maybe) come off.
/r/seduction01/01/22 10:17 PM
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I just play the same game back because it’s the only way to stay sane and efficient if you’re prospecting large numbers of girls. I give girls benefit of the doubt the first time and I treat girls well who treat me well, but if they’re flaky with me then I have no problem double booking flaky girls and taking my pick if I have the luxury. But there’s no need to go out of your way to be a dick or simply not show up, at least text some generic excuse out of courtesy if you need to cancel.
/r/seduction29/12/21 02:19 PM
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Move on and hit up 10 other girls. No matter how good it looked at first, no response to double text is the end of this one. There’s a small chance she might get back to you but don’t count on it, and any further effort on your part is 99.9% likely to be a waste of your time.
/r/seduction24/12/21 11:45 AM
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Yeah for sure, it’s good that you are able to self diagnose without egoic attachment. Live and learn, keep improving yourself, your tinder profile and routine, and keep spamming the shit out of those girls. Fake the winning mindset for now if you have to, but once you get good at this stuff to the point that you know you can hook up with at least a couple new girls a month if you try, you’ll legitimately hit a point where you stop giving a shit, and it’s a very nice place to be.
/r/seduction23/12/21 03:02 PM
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You can maybe get away with the sleeping over stuff for logistical reasons (I do this too with my current main girl who also lives an hour away, though I make her come to me 🙃) but definitely cut the frequency in that case. If you want sex more than once a week just work on other girls, as you should be anyway! If you’re not having sex with at least one other girl within any six to eight week period, you’re de facto monogamous even if that’s not your official label, together with all the problem…
/r/seduction23/12/21 02:53 PM
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Agreed, I’ve found 3 works too and might be better depending on circumstances and the girl. Either way 5 or 6 in the first two weeks as OP is way too much though.
/r/seduction23/12/21 02:27 PM
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While her behaviour sounds a little over the top, on your end you were seeing her too much if you want to keep it strictly casual. Bang two times on two separate occasions to lock in ASAP but after that scale it back to once a week. Note I mean one meet up a week, you can still make that meet up long and smash multiple times if you like. But continuing to see each other and text all the damn time is going to trigger strong biological pair bonding desires in women. Staying the night you should al…
/r/seduction23/12/21 01:35 PM
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Huuuuuge cockblock to have a furry creature in between the two of you.
/r/seduction17/12/21 12:21 PM
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Worst places in practice that are non joke answers that are traditionally thought of as good: movie (you can’t actually talk to each other), fancy dinner (this sets the wrong frame, unless your goal is to take 10 dates to get laid and you hate money). Best (for reasons that are the opposite of the above): a relaxed but cool bar or café, or straight up your place if you can swing it.
/r/seduction17/12/21 04:27 AM
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It’s terrible like others have said, but if you’re going to do it anyway, for the love of god don’t say « I know this is a bit weird ». Say « I know this is out of the blue » or « I know this is random ». But yeah, getting a number or social media contact in a vacuum is completely meaningless. You need to get the girl to agree to meet up for something, then get the contact info. If you’re just going to go in dick swinging, may as well ask for sex instead of a number.
/r/seduction14/12/21 04:19 PM
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This. Friend zone is a black hole that light itself cannot escape. Don’t waste your time.
/r/seduction10/12/21 06:06 PM
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Palm Bay haha. I have to admit they taste pretty good but I’m a fitness nut and would never on my own guzzle multiple cans of 200 calories+ of liquid sugar. The things we do to get laid 🤷‍♂️.
/r/seduction10/12/21 12:23 AM
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Naw, I downloaded her from the internet. (Tinder, lol, which makes the whole thing even more hilarious because she saw and acknowledged my name before I could even message her).
/r/seduction10/12/21 12:21 AM
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Nothing special really, went for a walk to get shitty fast food, invited her over for wine, didn't go for it the first time since she was nervous and inexperienced and I can read the room. She also hated the wine and said she preferred sweet drinks. So I invited her over again a couple days later, provided the sweetest of fruity chick drinks, anime and chill, badabing badashakalakaboomboom.
/r/seduction09/12/21 05:54 PM
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分からない 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction09/12/21 05:30 PM
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Social Media has opened legs but closed hearts. I fucking love this. I had a girl recently ask me "Wait, what's your name again?" after already hooking up three times. She never bothered to save my name in her phone, and had just been recognizing me by my different area code 😂.
/r/seduction09/12/21 03:50 PM
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For first meet I do either bar/cafe, or straight to my apartment. No don’t wait until the weekend, always move quickly and schedule that first (and second) date as fast as humanly as possible within the constraints of your and her schedule. If bar/cafe first then I usually also go for a walk after and the plan is to schedule date 2 straight to apartment. Straight to apartment on date 1 takes more balls and some screening for dtf-ness but is also efficient (a good number won’t be down, but the on…
/r/seduction09/12/21 01:38 PM
6

5 paragraph conversation? You’re doing it wrong. Online game is to quickly get the girl to either meet up or next because she would have wasted your time no matter what you did (95-98% is about right, you need to efficiently get to the 2-5%). Save the long conversation for after you’ve met up, preferably for after you’ve already smashed your naughty bits together.
/r/seduction08/12/21 05:02 PM
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Once you break the kiss barrier the rest is pretty easy, just keep escalating one step at a time. As for how to do that, there is no perfect moment or perfect strategy, you just have to do it. It’s ok if you’re nervous, I used to be shit at it too, but after a few times with a few girls it’ll be second nature. One thing that might help though is, when you want to go for it: look her in the eyes, then look at her lips, then back at her eyes. Do that a few times and if she does the same or just sm…
/r/seduction07/12/21 12:45 AM
3

Wrong order of operations. As others said, even if somehow you get a number like this, your odds of it going anywhere are almost zero. A phone number in a vacuum is literally meaningless. Get the girl to agree to a meet up, then get her number so you can coordinate logistics. You can definitely do that in no more than 10 to 15 minutes.
/r/seduction30/11/21 07:26 PM
19

… open your mouth, and say “Hi”.
/r/seduction17/11/21 05:22 PM
5

She gave you massive green lights and you didn’t pull the trigger fast enough. When a hot girl does that, you have a limited window to escalate the interaction before it closes forever. Next time just go for it.
/r/seduction17/11/21 04:22 AM
12

All of the above, but I mainly mean hooking up and continuing to see them on an ongoing casual basis. Women aren’t like men who are 90% attracted by physical beauty. There are a lot more non physical factors, like confidence and outcome independence (just a fancy way of saying “not giving a shit”). An older guy with more worldly experience, who has shit together and takes care of himself has these qualities more than a younger guy still figuring it all out.
/r/seduction16/11/21 03:19 AM
13

Early thirties here. Way better at getting with early 20-something women now than when I was that age. Women’s SMV peak around 18-22. For a man, it’s more like mid 30s to early 40s, or even longer. Assuming you are in shape, have your shit together, and aren’t a pussy.
/r/seduction16/11/21 03:14 AM
1

I don’t want a monogamous relationship, ever, based on fundamental principles. Emotional exclusivity is one thing, but physical exclusivity? It simply doesn’t work in the long term. You can have an open relationship with all the usual girlfriend experiences without signing your balls away, it just takes some relationship building and management skills that are different from pickup skills.
/r/seduction15/11/21 01:48 PM
1

/shrug. I’m not trying to tell you how to live your life, just diagnosing your problem. Do whatever you like with that information :)
/r/seduction26/10/21 06:01 PM
1

Yeah that’s what I thought it must be. Twice a week on a consistent basis, and especially having them over multiple days in a row like that, is why this is happening. You can maybe get away with the phone stuff but strongly suggest you work on reducing the frequency and duration of visits if you want to keep ongoing casual relationships.
/r/seduction26/10/21 05:30 PM
2

Sounds like you’re doing most things right but you didn’t specify: how often do you see them? Anything more than once a week beyond the first couple bangs to lock them in is going to trigger boyfriending mechanisms regardless of what else you say or do. If you strictly want casual relationships I don’t recommend phone conversations either, stick to texting and even then try to keep it mostly to planning the next meet.
/r/seduction26/10/21 04:53 PM
1

It's a question of supply and demand and fundamental differences between men and women. Even below-average girls are swarmed with male attention online, and there are no social repercussions to flake on a stranger. Many girls are also more interested in the validation than actually meeting anyone and will gladly waste both your and their time for as long as you let them. The upside is serious girls on these apps who are DTF are shockingly easy to bang with very little hassle. Don't think too har…
/r/seduction31/03/21 06:01 PM
3

Speaking only for online swipe apps, you should pitch the meet as fast as possible (like 4-5 messages each, tops) to minimize time invested before the results, and go into it with the mindset that 98% of girls will waste your time and that the bulk of your work is to quickly bypass them and find the 2% that won't. If they try to reschedule a date, make one attempt to do so if they seem genuine. If they actually flake it should go without saying that you should delete/unmatch this person without …
/r/seduction31/03/21 04:45 PM
1

This is "referral game". It's great and low effort for the returns but you have to already be successful with some method of bringing in new girls cold. Doesn't sound like you should focus on that just yet.
/r/seduction29/03/21 01:40 PM
1

Yes, online dating is a massive numbers game of attrition. The majority of girls won't match/respond/follow through with you no matter how good you are or what you do so you need to blast out as many swipes/openers as humanly possible. You could randomly get lucky once or twice in a small town but you'll very quickly run out of women. Anyone who tells you otherwise is not actually getting laid consistently and primarily from online dating and has no idea what they're talking about. Of course the…
/r/seduction29/03/21 12:41 PM
2

Username checks out
/r/seduction28/03/21 12:47 PM
2

Stopped reading after the title. Never “need” any one woman. If that’s your mindset you’ve already lost. Go find three new ones.
/r/seduction26/03/21 01:03 PM
1

Getting a text like that shortly after a first date is the closest most women will come to saying “I want to have sex with you” and you are almost guaranteed success if you pull the trigger and don’t do something exceptionally dumb to screw it up. Seriously, it's that good. Answer politely for one or two exchanges, then pitch the second date straight to your place for as soon as humanly possible, “just hang out and have some wine” or whatever. Move swiftly when you can smell victory.
/r/seduction26/03/21 12:17 PM
1

It’s more icing on the cake. It’s not going to do much on its own unless you just want to bang hookers.
/r/seduction19/03/21 11:56 AM
2

First step: get to 10% body fat with decent muscle mass. This alone will propel you to near the top, physically. Then learn game, both outer (techniques) and inner (mindset), and go through the meat grinder and get experience. On the side, make more money and get more interesting hobbies. If all this sounds like too much work then I guess you can keep being average and being sad on Reddit.
/r/seduction19/03/21 11:51 AM
3

It's a simple question of supply and demand on the open sexual marketplace. Girls, even ones who are comparatively promiscuous ones, would probably not bang more than maybe one new guy a month. A promiscuous guy who is high enough value to pull it off would bang a new woman every week. Thus, something like the top 20% of guys will get the top 80% of girls and the bottom 80% of guys will be fighting for the remaining 20%. So do whatever it takes to get and stay in the top 20%, or be left with scr…
/r/seduction19/03/21 12:35 AM
1

Correct. So do whatever it takes to not be average.
/r/seduction19/03/21 12:31 AM
14

Oh yeah, and don't stop going after other girls in the meantime. It's not only damaging to your frame but a girl can smell it on you if she's your only prospect, and it reduces attraction. The number of words you've already typed about this one girl already makes me think you're in danger of this.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/21 09:17 PM
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You're overthinking it. Just invite her over for wine and chill and do the thing.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/21 09:10 PM
14

Wear a condom.
/r/seduction16/03/21 01:57 AM
1

The moment you put 100% of your energy and hopes into one woman, at ANY stage of the game, you have already lost. Ask any whipped traditionally monogamously married beta male who is no longer in the honeymoon phase.
/r/seduction20/01/21 04:22 AM
1

Download from Tinder directly to apartment. Do not pass Go, do not have first date. It’s the only option for them too, it’s pretty great.
/r/seduction14/01/21 05:28 AM
4

Just an observation, not any actionable advice. Meeting each other’s families, being “inseparable”, and travelling together are not things fwbs do; you guys are already de facto engaging in boyfriend/girlfriend behaviour regardless of official label.
/r/seduction11/12/20 02:45 PM
0

Yes, competition is definitely high which is why you have to be a ruthless shark on every front. Couple things it could be: What's the population of the city you live in? Mine is 1 million which is -just- enough to be viable. 3 to 5 million at least is ideal, and what I'm aiming for long term. Did you get enough votes (say, at least 30) to be sure your rating isn't just down to lucky variance? While not nearly as important as photos, your bio text should be nonempty and should not be super terri…
/r/seduction25/11/20 09:37 PM
2

Guys saying photos don't matter have no idea what they're talking about because they have no first-hand experience with improving their photos and are just keyboard jockey theorizing away their own failure. Not so much advice on getting photos done directly, but here is some incidental advice around your question that made a huge difference for me: Get shredded. 10% body fat. This will also make your face much more attractive. The difference in responses from girls (online or otherwise) is night…
/r/seduction25/11/20 07:58 PM
2

I agree that most don't, but keywords here being "can" (not "will") and "fine" (not "great").
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 04:14 PM
9

The way I see it, as a minority you cannot afford to be average. An average white guy can do fine but (at least speaking for Asians) you MUST get noticeably above average in rippedness to counter the beta nerd stereotype and it's not optional. But it's not a death sentence and can be channeled positively into an undying determination to train and diet with meticulous precision to get there. Nice write up, by the way!
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 12:46 PM
1

Sure, some small percentage of guys are probably hopelessly ugly. But I am confident that for the vast majority, getting shredded to single digit bf will at least make you above average facially compared to the general population. Main point is: if you've never been that lean, you don't know your potential. Might as well get there and see for yourself. And if you're truly still hideous, there are tons of other benefits and you'll still be better off. Literally no reason not to do it.
/r/seduction30/07/17 10:44 PM
3

To add to point 2, dropping body fat can make a tremendous difference on facial aesthetics. Just google some before/after face pics. If you've never been low enough bf to have a clearly visible six pack*, then you have no idea what the upper limit of how good looking you can be is (or how receptive women can be to you on physical attraction alone). *assuming you have a decent enough amount of muscle to not look like you're in Auschwitz mode at that level of leanness
/r/seduction30/07/17 08:40 PM
2

Drop overall body fat and fat on your face will drop too. That's about all there is to it.
/r/seduction12/07/17 05:37 PM
3

Bam. And that's how it's done. FUTURE!!!!!
/r/seduction26/06/17 06:47 PM
37

Another example: cop pulls you over for speeding. Act alpha => 100% chance you'll get a big ticket. Be the nicest beta cuck for 5 minutes => good chance you'll get off the hook or at least a smaller ticket.
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