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| 1 | Does pickup get easier as you get older?PUA Nick Krauser said "there is nothing scarier or more attractive to a girl than a thirty year old man". His reasoning was that older men have an easier time with PU is because at around thirty people generally know what they're worth and what they have to offer others. This gives rise to confidence which as we all know is the key to alpha behavior. | /r/seduction | 06/09/12 02:23 AM |
| 1 | 24- Law Student, returning to "The Game".I'm definitely a huge fan of the RSDfreetour stuff on youtube. The videos are so informative! I've thought a lot about buying transformations just to see if it's got anything I can't learn from just trying and reading material online. The only thing that's holding me back is the price. Is it really worth the $270 they're asking? | /r/seduction | 05/09/12 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Do looks really not matter? I'm an attractive guy that dresses well and grooms himself. Why are there hoards of people yelling, "IT DOESN'T MATTER" at me?Technically, no, they don't matter. Or it might be better to say that they are not entirely necessary to PU. However, they can certainly help. "Look good, feel good" is a phrase that I see on this sub every once in a great while and I think there's some sincerity in that. Whatever you can do to boost your confidence and display strong security with yourself is always a bonus. What you don't want is for your looks to become an insecurity. If you start off the night by questioning your looks becau… | /r/seduction | 02/09/12 04:19 AM |
| 0 | I'm at a bar sitting next to a guy who I am POSITIVE is on seddit. He has the potential to be charming, but it's so obvious he's trying. What should I do?Conventional wisdom states that staff are hired guns. They act nice and even rather friendly to get good tips. However, there are plenty of cases out there of someone going home with the waitress/bartender/stripper etc. Try it. What's the worst that could happen? *Edit - on second thought, he'll probably think you need another drink. | /r/seduction | 28/08/12 02:26 AM |
| 2 | I'm at a bar sitting next to a guy who I am POSITIVE is on seddit. He has the potential to be charming, but it's so obvious he's trying. What should I do?Thank me after you seal the deal. By the dubs, I expect a full [FR] based on this experience. | /r/seduction | 28/08/12 02:00 AM |
| 2 | I'm at a bar sitting next to a guy who I am POSITIVE is on seddit. He has the potential to be charming, but it's so obvious he's trying. What should I do?We all have to learn to do solo approaches at some point. But if you're really too nervous to approach him in front of his buddies then you should try to catch his eye. And when you do, give him some hint that he should approach. Wink or something. Get his attention. If he gives you a quizzical look, just smile and nod at him. If he doesn't get the picture by then, he's either not interested or incredibly dumb. | /r/seduction | 28/08/12 01:55 AM |
| 0 | I'm at a bar sitting next to a guy who I am POSITIVE is on seddit. He has the potential to be charming, but it's so obvious he's trying. What should I do?anything. ...Fucking, literally anything. What's he drinking? If it's a mixed drink, ask if they make 'em strong. If it's beer, ask him if it's his favorite or just his bar standard. It really doesn't matter what you say. | /r/seduction | 28/08/12 01:36 AM |
| 12 | How useful is a hot female wing(wo)man?Don't you dare let this opportunity pass you by! Being around a woman is an automatic per-qualifier for women that observe you next/talking to her. This goes for women that she already knows and women that she has never met. BTW, the more attractive she is, the better starting ground you'll be on when you make approaches to other women. Think of her proximity to you as a sort of tacit admission to those around her that you are not a creep/loser. | /r/seduction | 28/08/12 12:51 AM |
| 3 | A Lil Extra PushMy cousin (who might honestly be a pick up artist without even knowing it) once gave me some really great advice. I can't remember verbatim what he said but he was talking about how he got over rejection from girls. It was something to the effect of: When you get shot down you can't even bounce back, because that means you fell. Just let it pass through you unflinched. Become present to the moment and let whatever happened out there go. | /r/seduction | 19/08/12 06:28 AM |
| 2 | Friend zone. Oneitis. Inner Game Problems. You name it... I've got it.Your one-itis is causing you to way over analyze. She clearly has at least some feeling for you. The next time your alone with her just casually ask her out. Don't be awkward about it. Don't send her a text saying some crap like "Hey I have something to ask you". Just do it. You can do this man. She's kissed you before. She invited you to her birthday in place of any other guy. Just take it, man! | /r/seduction | 30/07/12 02:19 AM |
| 2 | [FR] saturday night out with friends, lots of possibilitiesI would add that you might want to consider getting a better wing too. He was too content with settling for the ugly local which ultimately costed you the 18 yo as well as even the cute fatty. He probably thought the ugly local would be an easy lay but even that proved as a bit of a challenge for him. | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 05:07 PM |
| 1 | As a girl stumbling upon this subreddit, this is how most of these pickup techniques would make me feel IRL.Don't let a couple of specific posts give you the wrong impression. We don't focus on pick up lines or some fool proof method. If you really want to know what seddit is about look no further than the sidebar. 90% of the knowledge amassed there is about self help and showing one how to be confident with themself. A lot of the information there is generally applicable to all social situations and not just pick up. I can honestly say that I've used the knowledge I've gained there in my work life as… | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Friend zone. Oneitis. Inner Game Problems. You name it... I've got it."Get the lead out" is an expression that means move faster. When you first first texted her asking her out, how could you infer all that tone from the text? Tone is incredibly hard to discern from a text. You may have spooked her but it sounds more like she spooked you when she asked if you meant a date. Did you reply yes to that? You didn't honestly let that hang for two weeks, did you? Honestly though, forget about whatever happened in the past. Just realize that the only way to have a chance … | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 01:37 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Baby steps or Getting shut downRight on, man. I had a very similar experience last night myself. Overcoming AA is not nearly as bad as one makes themself believe it will be. Overcoming AA by getting rejected is such a great way of building outcome independence too. Well done on manning up and trying cold approach! BTW, I really want to try that "we're here to hit on you". It's so playful/cocky! I'm surprised it didn't at least get a laugh out of them. | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 06:02 AM |
| 3 | Friend zone. Oneitis. Inner Game Problems. You name it... I've got it.He's right, OP. I don't want to be a dick but man up and get the lead out. Either you're right and she's trying to make you jealous. Or just as likely, you are in fact slipping into the friend zone. Either way if you beat around the bush too long she'll get frustrated with waiting on you and legitimately seek other prospects. Try surprising her again. Be direct, be confident and show that lady a nice time! If she comments about not expecting it just tell her the honest truth. You've liked her fo… | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 05:27 AM |
| 3 | Need fast tips to get it in with this girl...Sidebar, dude. | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 05:08 AM |
| 15 | Does intelligence help in attraction?Intelligence is an attractive trait for both sexes, but nobody likes a know-it-all. Ask yourself if the things you are saying are truly for the benefit of the conversation or are you just trying to impress people into believing you are some kind of wunderkind. This goes into the whole DHV-ing thing that people typically associate with trying too hard. | /r/seduction | 29/07/12 05:01 AM |
| 11 | To anyone who asks Seddit how to get out of the friend zone:The best way to stay out of the friend zone is to not let yourself get there in the first place. This redditor gives a great example of how a guy puts himself in the friend zone. TL;DR: Make your intentions clear. Use a preemptive strike on her. She'll respect you more. | /r/seduction | 24/07/12 03:29 AM |
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