Hydroplanet Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	To those who managed to date one with 10/10 looks.. Get to know them as a person and have a genuine real connection that isn’t tied to their looks. The good ones are craving to actually be seen for other things. When you love them for who they are while maintaining your own sense of self and life, they don’t want to let you go.	/r/seduction	18/05/26 11:26 PM
2	Should I pull back from this girl? Be direct like an actual man and stop playing games. These comments are dumb. Also, still be a man if you don’t like her answer and don’t beg or try to convince her otherwise. Either she’s playing games and you call it out and things get better or she tells you she’s seeing someone else and it’s more serious and you get clarity. Tons more girls out there if this doesn’t pan out.	/r/seduction	18/04/26 02:08 AM
1	If you’re always available over text, you’re probably less interesting Stop overthinking and just live your life man. If you’re thinking this hard about it you’re already losing to guys like me.	/r/seduction	16/04/26 01:34 AM
3	"Okay, but why don't you want a long term relationship with me?" You’re setting an expectation up front but your actions and words are likely not matching that so they assume you changed your mind. Make sure anytime there is deep intimacy you remind them in a kind way so they can protect themselves instead of assuming and starting to attach.	/r/seduction	11/04/26 02:02 PM
2	As a good looking guy,how do you have options when you have a girlfriend? Gross dude. Please be a better human first.	/r/seduction	28/03/26 02:40 PM
1	Why is getting into a relationship significantly easier than finding a hookup. I have the same challenge and it’s a good thing. I could get a girlfriend within a week anytime I want to. Even girls that say they want a hookup change after the first date and “want something more from this connection” Girls hook up with guys they don’t care about that they aren’t worried about attaching to. Girls go slow with legit good guys. They wouldn’t want a relationship with someone unattractive either so you must be decently attractive. If you only want a hookup you need to say that ri…	/r/seduction	18/03/26 02:25 PM
1	How to avoid the friend zone Yes! I have been direct and masculine yet she friend zones me for the passive scrawny guy that never makes a move and is too available. That’s when I saw it clearly.	/r/seduction	17/03/26 12:14 AM
11	How to avoid the friend zone Most guys don’t understand that a woman friend-zones you because you’re not her type. It’s not because you need to make some move or act different. You need to be direct up front. Believe her and walk instead of trying to win her over. Otherwise women will absolutely keep men around they have no intention of being with for validation, support, boredom, etc.	/r/seduction	16/03/26 06:05 PM
1	There are no stable relationships Untrue 😂 Stop using ChatGPT and believing it as fact.	/r/seduction	28/02/26 10:41 PM
2	Approach to girls who say they don't kiss on the first date If she doesn’t give consent, you don’t try to trick her into it. Damn dude this is a weird question 🤷	/r/seduction	28/02/26 04:21 PM
-1	date multiple women That’s 1 time bro. I’ve had 8 girlfriends and dating multiples at a time is unfortunately the way. It gives you perspective too.	/r/seduction	11/02/26 03:10 PM
3	How to get a girlfriend? Find an autistic or audhd woman. It’s wayyy easier	/r/seduction	07/02/26 11:44 PM
1	Is casual sex or relationships easier to find as a man? This. I am boyfriend material so girls don’t want to mess it up and move too fast. Even ones that aren’t looking for anything serious at first.	/r/seduction	07/02/26 12:58 AM
3	The Friendzone Trap I’m autistic too and I totally relate. It feels like masking to hold back everything I want to say when I genuinely have feelings but also it can be too much too soon for a woman. Whereas if I’m not that into a woman, she’s got time to warm up to me. At first I felt fake but then I started thinking about how if I love someone, I need to love them in the way they want to be cared about and that means not overwhelming them. So essentially it’s not masking, it’s caring which felt more in alignment …	/r/seduction	04/02/26 04:30 PM
3	Not sure how to manage post hinge date. He just told you and instead of listening to his feedback you’re coming across as defensive.	/r/seduction	02/02/26 04:29 AM
0	Tons of matches and first dates through Hinge but no relationship yet. Dejected and depressed. No your advice was absolutely horrible dude 😂	/r/seduction	01/02/26 05:31 AM
3	Tons of matches and first dates through Hinge but no relationship yet. Dejected and depressed. Don’t sexualize more if you’re looking for a relationship.	/r/seduction	01/02/26 05:30 AM
1	Building a Rotation: Being a Player is the only realistic way men can find Love I used to have insecure attachment but worked with 2 therapists who specialize in attachment for years and both said I’m secure as of 4 years ago. However, I’m sure it’s not perfect and I may need to cut things off sooner as soon as I spot it.	/r/seduction	26/01/26 03:26 PM
4	Building a Rotation: Being a Player is the only realistic way men can find Love I hear you. I tried it the other way for so long and got constantly burned though so I’m at a loss on what else to do.	/r/seduction	25/01/26 10:40 PM
25	Building a Rotation: Being a Player is the only realistic way men can find Love I was so opposed to this and then after 4 women in a row, you’re completely right. So few have secure attachment so when you’re emotionally available as a man, they feel pressure because they are used to being treated like an after thought. The second I started keeping options open I had 3 women who wanted to go exclusive. Sucks but reality.	/r/seduction	25/01/26 05:22 PM
2	Did finally getting a partner live up to your expectations? Great point. I need to remember that	/r/seduction	12/01/26 05:53 AM
1	40 first dates, 1 second date, 0 long term prospects... Can anyone relate? If they have nothing to say you aren’t asking good questions. Listen better to them and then ask questions off of what they share. This isn’t manipulative and it’s not about getting girls into situationships, it’s about finding legitimate connections. I typically date only 1-2 girls at a time and if we go past a 3rd date there’s a conversation with both of them so there is transparency. Instead of listening to dating Coach stuff, I’d work with a therapist on your emotional intelligence and conve…	/r/seduction	11/01/26 09:53 PM
1	40 first dates, 1 second date, 0 long term prospects... Can anyone relate? Let me help. I’m a transguy so I was socialized differently. I haven’t been rejected after a first date in over 2 years. At work there are typically 2+ women with a crush on me every job I go to. This is the secret: Women are looking for emotional intelligence! They want to feel safe with you. They want authenticity, genuine care, respect, someone who listens and remembers. They also want someone to lead and be decisive but not in a showy way. They are looking for a man who is secure and strong …	/r/seduction	06/01/26 07:39 AM
1	40 first dates, 1 second date, 0 long term prospects... Can anyone relate? You need to build more tension first before going to physical. Foreplay for women is mental.	/r/seduction	04/01/26 12:50 PM
1	Had anyone reached a level you can pull one night stand whenever? Yep it’s empty	/r/seduction	22/09/25 03:26 AM
19	In your experience how often do girls sleep with multiple guys at once? Always assume unless you’ve had the exclusivity talk.	/r/seduction	06/09/25 01:57 PM
2	What do I have to do to date/sleep with girls "out of my league"? Underrated comment right here	/r/seduction	03/09/25 02:18 PM
1	If a guy goes in for a kiss on a first date and she turns her head… As a man, I ALWAYS ask for consent if I’m kissing a woman on the first date. 90% of the time they say yes. It’s a better kiss because they know it’s coming and want it. If I sense hesitation, then I say thank you for telling me and don’t kiss them and keep the good vibes going like it wasn’t a big deal. I have yet to be turned down for a second date this year. If she wasn’t that into me before, it changes when she sees I respect boundaries and stay kind when she says no. I also ask consent AGAIN…	/r/seduction	16/08/25 04:47 PM
2	She falls in love quickly Talk to her duh	/r/seduction	23/07/25 08:02 PM
1	How to Trigger a Woman Emotionally (And Why Most Men Fail at It) Zero. I spend my time with high quality women and don’t have time for pets.	/r/seduction	25/03/25 02:26 PM
6	How to Trigger a Woman Emotionally (And Why Most Men Fail at It) Gross. Healthy women with secure attachment would stop talking to you after #1. This is manipulative and a list of red flags for quality women.	/r/seduction	19/03/25 01:56 PM