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It was just your turn…. I think some can be loyal to the situation but the situation can always change….. I married one teacher and dated 3 more - none of them loyal - teachers rank high on infidelity charts…. I also only date people here on visas… dating culture here sucks…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/24 04:17 PM
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I found this for you - best of luck - if this doesn’t work - find someone who actually values you: https://drkathynickerson.com/blogs/relationship/45002821-the-diamond-strategy-how-to-get-your-spouse-to-stop-talking-to-their-affair-partner
/r/askMRP14/03/24 06:45 PM
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You set the rules and boundaries in your relationship. Do you find it appropriate: that she keeps in contact with someone she’s had sex with before? Isn’t being transparent? Is being secretive? You don’t need convulsive proof to know she’s up to no good. Nothing good happens in the shadows or behind a secretive app. We deserve people who bring us peace and want to be transparent and safeguard the relationship. I personally wouldn’t be okay with my SO staying in contact with an ex in that manner.…
/r/askMRP14/03/24 06:02 PM
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No breathing. Don't give a fuck if I cut my arm bleeding. Chris is my last resort!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:04 AM
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I’m not jealous either - I have many options - she just made herself no longer one. I found it inappropriate too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 10:04 AM
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Solid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:44 AM
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I used to do the same shit when I seen my ex-wife branch swinging and hiding her male co-teacher. She used to love getting flowers - the second I seen she didn’t - I’d try to “mark my territory” by sending them often lol. It was such an waste of money with hindsight but I understand the sentiment. Thanks for commenting!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:27 AM
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Yeah the letter and social media posting about it is what turned me off - everything else I could have tolerated. Thanks for commenting!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:05 AM
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Again, no advice - just thought it was an interesting topic to debate! I’m having a blast tonight! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:03 AM
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Lol! I feel you. She immediately tried to drop stuff about co-vacations in rebuttal. So, you might be onto something - she was trying to set the stage for more instances like this to come - I feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:07 AM
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A dozen roses, heart shaped balloons (plural), a long letter - on Valentine’s Day - isn’t romantic? No one mentioned arousing anyone? I’m not mad - being upset only hurts yourself. Instead of Mariah: Victoria will receive perfume, a card with a hand written note, a necklace, chocolates, a bottle of local wine (since she’s not from here), her favorite meal cooked by me (pasta) I also made her two favorite salsas today - so she can snack while I cook. To me: It’s Mariah’s loss she hasn’t let go of…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:01 AM
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My thoughts exactly. It was a dozen red roses 🌹, balloons 🎈, and a big fancy letter unfolded - almost as if it was hand delivered… I didn’t even wanna know what it said - I seen enough to feel she’s too proud of his “woo’ing” still to show it off on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:56 AM
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They were displayed on social media with a long printed out letter and balloons. I’m not sure the context of the letter. I understand being civil and close for the children. But, I truly feel there’s platonic boundaries that are friendship based and romantic based - his gesture and the way she reciprocated it - seemed too romantic for me. Maybe I overreacted - but - I don’t think a year after divorce - spending at least $150 on vday is the move - maybe neither realized it - but they scared me aw…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:54 AM
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I feel anger just hurts only yourself. The way she proudly displayed them on social media - made me feel I was entering a love triangle - I don’t want that - so I let her know I hope she finds someone more capable of being okay with their closeness. The flowers came with a long letter and balloons - seems he really went all out. That and they only split a year ago. I’m just not comfortable with that. Too many times I’ve had people like that cheat on me. One intimate gesture leads to the next - o…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:50 AM
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Can’t you do that without romantic gestures?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:44 AM
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I don’t need advice on it. I’m just curious how others view it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:15 AM
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I didn’t say to achieve a high credit score to attract women though. A high credit score is ideal for building the empire like mentioned in point 5. I’m well aware being attractive matters - which is why I emphasized to continue to build lean mass. Everything can look like a bad point/idea out of context without the bigger picture available. Have a nice day.
/r/askMRP29/09/21 07:34 PM
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I’m not sure why you keep looking for an error in anything I say by taking it out of context of the big picture. You skip over sentences like “you can filter out gold diggers etc” - it’s really bizarre. There must be something more productive to do with your time than argue with me. I’ve been used for resources before don’t hold hatred in my heart over it - as I understand how people operate - and it’s typically self-serving.
/r/askMRP29/09/21 06:32 PM
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Yeah, attractiveness can open doors - it’s blessed me my entire life. Size demands respect from both genders. But, point 5 will get you way more than being attractive. It will keep more in your life as well. It’s what OP should focus on the most - while still finding time for the gym. I find it important to stay fit and keep healthy mass - you skipped that point when making yours against mine - out of context. You can only do so much to edit your physical appearance. You can chew on rubber for a…
/r/askMRP29/09/21 11:41 AM
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1.) Yours stats are irrelevant - a high credit score would be a more impressive number to have. Toned mass is great - but only gets you so far. 2.) Re-read the book. Buy the worksheets - actually do them - drill the knowledge into your head. You’re not living by the book. 3.) You’re beating on a dead horse - you’re relationship with A has been over years ago - she lost interest and respect. 4.) Your relationship with B doesn’t exist. Men shouldn’t be trying to define a relationship status - that…
/r/askMRP29/09/21 09:32 AM
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What in the neck beard did I just read?
/r/TheRedPill19/07/21 08:33 AM
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I paid more than a thousand this year just to probation for pot usage lol.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/05/21 10:10 PM
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I spoke to about 20 of them lately. They all said my best bet is to compile receipts and show how much I’ve contributed to the home. In order to hope the judge grants me half of that amount. It seems she’s canceling it though - as my small business is becoming more successful and I’m sticking to what I read in no more mr nice guy. She’s even reimbursed me for my lawyer fees. It’s pretty interesting. But, from my understanding - it’s extremely important to have your name on the deed - or in OP’s …
/r/askTRP06/04/21 11:41 PM
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Not if the home was bought before the marriage. My wife is the only one on our deed bought before marriage. I’ll literally be homeless if she divorces me.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 09:49 PM
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Find an intensive outpatient program (IOP). Find AA near you or online AA dot org. Get a sponsor.
/r/askTRP22/03/21 09:14 AM
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I’m not OP - but thank you for this. Much needed.
/r/askMRP15/03/21 07:08 PM
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Cage fighting is mine. You can’t worry about anything but the guy trying to take your head off. Best escape ever. I have the worst cardio. I can’t stand running. Nothing pushes my cardio more than sparring and training. You’re too engaged to try and stop and take a break. Even during breaks most gyms make you shadow box in between. Muay Thai - or normal kick boxing would be a great alternative if that’s too extreme. I personally don’t like training one specific art though. If you were to ever ne…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/21 05:36 AM
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“I’m literally just trying to get a particle of respect.” By calling everyone here incels? My comment: was respectful, knowledgeable, and included sources. It was ignored. Yours: filled with name calling and belittling. Respect is earned - most people have a hard time respecting those who belittle others - just for their own entertainment. You see incels. I see men trying to protect their heart and improve all aspects of their life’s. I feel you’re trying to paint this as a women hating sub. It’…
/r/askTRP07/03/21 11:17 AM
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I can see how out of context these statements can look sexist or bizarre or whatever. I’m not OP. I’m a married humanitarian. I love everyone - but understand not everyone is the same. I still enjoy this sub reddit and self improvement found here. You asked for elaboration: “Among the participants, 16% of married adults had committed sexual infidelity at least once in their current marriage (the study did not measure infidelities that occurred in prior marriages). And this finding is consistent …
/r/askTRP07/03/21 08:34 AM
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A foot or two — so far.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 02:09 AM
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I’m sure a lot of celebrities and wealthy handsome men had this same thought - then were still cheated on and divorced.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 05:59 AM
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You skipped past the word leaves and went with the most extreme case example (death) in order to call compete strangers on the internet insane. When you’re pointing the finger at someone - there’s three more pointing back at you. I hope you have a good weekend and find a more productive hobby than belittling strangers online.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 06:32 AM
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Exactly she entertained it. Just entertaining it is enough to turn me off from the situation. I know what happens next. It always starts “innocent” and “platonic”. Continuing to entertain it gives it every chance to grow into more. Breeding an environment for cheating - not trust.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 07:00 PM
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Branch swinging. My wife did this many times in the past (I’m dumb for staying - don’t be like me) it started as just friends. I thought I shut it down. She blocked him much like OP said to do. Then would unblock him under my own car port each weekend and apologize to him for not being available. Would take it to snap once we started sharing iCloud passwords. I’ve read some studies showing people start to cheat when they’re lacking something in their current relationship. I see nothing wrong wit…
/r/askTRP22/01/21 06:37 PM
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Exactly. It’s not even worth over thinking. I’ve had a dime - shockingly hot - match with me on tinder - I pulled up - sat though some shit tests - smashed - her snap was beeping the whole time. After we were done I mentioned the snap beeps and said I bet a lot of dudes were trying to be in my shoes this evening. She decides to open the app - shows me - scrolls down through I shit you not - 100+ snaps (mainly dudes) - most unread for days - 10+ hours - ect - then I’m up at the top - the only per…
/r/askTRP29/08/20 10:03 AM
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Ever since insurance started picking up the tab on Viagra.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 02:16 AM
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Down vote all you want. But, I know what I’m talking about. There’s literally doctors microdosing people like him right now. There’s a massive difference in a full dose (3-5 grams) and taking .10 g (micro dose). He could get the benefits of the plant without worrying about getting the full trip or possible psychosis. They’re treated bi-polar, ptsd, anxiety, depression - all sorts of stuff with mushrooms. Should he see a doctor for his stuff - of course. But, I see no reason why he shouldn’t try …
/r/askTRP07/07/20 01:53 AM
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Agreed. Also, it would be safer and more beneficial to microdose. There’s a subreddit for it.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 01:23 AM
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Yeah, no worries. I didn’t mean to be rude. I’m partial to that city. I hope you have a nice day homie.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 04:58 PM
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What? You’re just pulling numbers out of your ass bro. I can see why none of them wanted to marry you though. https://www.usnews.com/best-colleges/texas-am-university-college-station-10366 47% female on campus. That’s 32,132 females attending and not a single one wanted anything to do with you for long run. I married mine after she graduated and was already a teacher for a few years.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 04:46 PM
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Then don’t use Grindr while there. I had great success in that city for years then ended up finding my wife there. There’s new females every semester.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 11:50 AM
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The Walmart style ones. It couldn’t be more than $200-500. He’s extremely frugal with his cash. Although, he does like to spend on cars. But, nothing exotic. Just American cars but gets the top models.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/07/20 04:45 PM
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True, good point. I literally don’t ever speak to the police. I don’t help them incriminate me or build a case. I just wanted to add that if he does to remember to get a report. But, yeah never without an attorney. I agree 100%.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/20 02:06 PM
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Ask for a police report too. You will always need those - as without one it’s almost as if you never went to the PD. Fight this as strongly as you can. If I had more extra cash I’d donate to you. I’ve had this happen before and had a $400,000 bond - I had to plea to some shit that didn’t happen just to get out of jail. Maybe it’s best she didn’t go to PD - as sometimes the grand jury and PD are corrupt and will take hearsay as evidence in hopes you’ll just plea out like I did. There’s free legal…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/20 11:16 AM
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College Station, Texas. Austin’s unofficial slogan is keep Austin weird. College Stations is keep CS normal.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 10:31 AM
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It’s a semi-anonymous website. I can talk about whatever I please online homie. I’m proud of his accomplishments and it helped back up my point with personal experience. I didn’t say anything about him being rich. He’s a humble and discreet man who doesn’t brag about his accomplishments with material possessions. Even if I was unlike him and wanted to talk about his accomplishments or how proud I am of him. Why the fuck would you care? I find half the shit you comment about odd too. But, not eno…
/r/PussyPassDenied04/07/20 09:44 PM
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My ex’s dad drove an older corolla. Owned a custom built mansion next to a ritz Carlton - where you took your boat from your private dock to get too. It also had views of the private golf course within walking distance. One if the holes you can see from his balcony with the bare eye and watch celebrities play. My father wears Walmart clothes. He has “dress crocs” and a Seiko watch. Everyone underneath him at the most profitable energy company in the country wears Rolex’s. Bruce Springsteen and m…
/r/PussyPassDenied04/07/20 08:44 PM
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Ahhh shadow banned.... Maybe they just wanted to flex their tiny bit of power online as they lack it in real life...
/r/PussyPassDenied14/06/20 10:11 PM
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That’s my understanding too. Sunroofs go all the way back when they open up. Moon roofs just the cloth comes back and the glass remains in place or can just tilt up a bit to crack open.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/06/20 10:09 PM
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I find it works great on sensitive areas. But, for some reason on my cheeks it’ll get hella red and bumpy. Been itching for five days now due to Nair cream. Make sure to test a few areas first so you won’t be suffering like me lol.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 10:09 PM
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Exactly. Too add to this - this chick would have used her car or anything else as a weapon if she didn’t have a gun - due to her mental illness. Mentally stable people don’t road rage.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/05/20 10:35 AM
2

I agree with this. When my wife was just a plate - she knew I wasn’t trying to be tied down and having too much fun. She was aware of the other women and even knew a few of their names. She’d even help me work out problems I’d have with them. Claiming her main goal was just to see me happy. She was content to just be in my life in any type of way. Of course her best friend despised me for this. She’d always (and still does) act as a plumber and bring up old shit and try to place a wedge in betwe…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/20 05:19 PM
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Maybe I should rephrase that. Higher value women don’t enjoy it for long. Ofc a low SMV one would take what she can get - but I don’t bother with those. To each their own. Nice assumption though, buddy.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/20 12:10 AM
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His comment history proves the same. Pretends he’s always slanging dick. In reality he just creeps on random Reddit booty posts all day. No one wants to be a side chick - that shit only works for a little while. Not “15 years”. Also, his “wife’s” photos he shares all look like random pixelated google pics.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/20 04:03 PM
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CodeAcademy.com will get you in the door for free.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 07:59 PM
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Exactly, wait until you have one just showing up at your front door. Crazy isn’t worth it.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 06:14 PM
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I had one tell me to drive by an event they were at to confirm their location. (I shouldn’t have even cared.) I drive by (just once). Get flipped off by a family member. I drove off. Had a wanted poster for me on FB later in the week for “stalking”.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/20 07:20 PM
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Friend zoned yourself by over texting. You became her male texting buddy. Use text to setup meetups. Not to entertain her all day.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 11:53 AM
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Maybe you had less time for women when you were busy making more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 01:39 PM
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My next court date is May 12th. Hopefully - my attorney can figure out something before then. Or my dentists can draw up a plan explaining that I shouldn’t have to return due the the severe risk of further infection due to the lack of hygiene products available for my type of mouth. I could lose up to a little over a year of my life behind bars if it doesn’t go well in court. If it goes well - and I’m allowed to compete private rehab - I’ve already done 4 years of the 7 out of probation and woul…
/r/askTRP18/03/20 03:42 AM
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Yeah, freedom is merely an illusion here if you ask me... They’ll be worked on starting Thursday - the procedure will take a whole month. Then, I’m supposed to return to jail once it’s done.... Hopefully, the dentists have a maintenance plan they need me to attend so I can stay in the free world and/or my attorney sets for a normal bond instead of the temporary furlough that I’m on now... I REALLY don’t want to have to go back.... Also, my dentists fear the infection will continue as I need a $6…
/r/askTRP18/03/20 02:35 AM
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4.) I would do every other day. I’d try to buy people’s protein items off their trays with candy or soups. Tortillas with peanut butter was the main thing. There wasn’t many meat packs at this county jail so protein was hard to come by. I’d go through two things of peanut butter per week.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 01:59 AM
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1.) The original charge was Texas Penal Code 36.06 Obstruction / Retaliation. I hadn’t been red pilled yet and was in a very toxic relationship. The ex had told me to drive by an event she was at with family - as I didn’t believe her as she recently cheated. The family flipped me off. I kept driving. Then blew up her phone a bit like an idiot. Eventually, she answered. She told me the police were there. I was in complete disbelief as I didn’t do anything to warrant their presence. I told her bs …
/r/askTRP18/03/20 01:57 AM
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Yeah, sure. I’m out on furlough right now on an ankle monitor. I sadly might have to go back. What would you like to know? It’s a pretty interesting story - my story shows how broken the judicial system is IMO.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 12:51 AM
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In county jails we don’t. We’d do: bulldogs, burpees, and use things like laundry bags filled with books to curl, trash bags filled with water, dips on the tables, pull ups on the tv stand. I gained 25 lbs while in there doing all of the above. Where there’s a will - there’s a way.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 04:03 AM
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Get some sunlight and light walking in if the suns still out where you are. It’ll help. Hang in there.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 10:58 PM
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“The only thing standing between you and your goal is the bullshit story you keep telling yourself as to why you can't achieve it.” ~Jordan Belfort
/r/askTRP11/12/19 10:45 PM
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Force yourself into good routines. Fight through the fatigue. Practice good diet, exercise, and sleep hygiene.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 10:27 PM
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Sucks - our sex life is great. I’m blessed and experienced and aim to please. I feel I was lacking in listening to her and hearing her out. Couldn’t agree more on my attention not being enough. It’s a discouraging position to be in. I’m so damn invested financially and romantically - I wouldn’t have been doing half of the things I’ve been doing - had I known this was going on. You’re exactly right on the friend group excuse! That was the last time she seen him she said in February - in the same …
/r/askTRP28/10/19 09:32 AM
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