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| 2 | If you're a white incel you're either racist or lazyHow is that racist? | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/10/23 08:23 AM |
| 2 | Would you consider a 27 year old tall, bulky, not ugly, virgin, forever single man a gay, weirdo or mentally ill?I can't guarantee that it will magically work for you afterwards, but it'll be a lot easier because you'll be able to integrate into social contexts like I said. That's what I concluded when I wondered how people meet their partners. There's no universal answer, but it won't happen on Tinder, unless you're photogenic and very good-looking. The only place you can do it is outside, and to go out and meet people (at bar, vacations, nightclub, group events...) you need friends, people hate lonely pe… | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/10/23 06:02 PM |
| 5 | Would you consider a 27 year old tall, bulky, not ugly, virgin, forever single man a gay, weirdo or mentally ill?In what context have you been asked you ? | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/10/23 05:04 PM |
| 7 | Would you consider a 27 year old tall, bulky, not ugly, virgin, forever single man a gay, weirdo or mentally ill?You cannot find a partner without friends. It’s not that they will introduce you to their other friends but it’s because meeting someone is done in social contexts (vacations etc..). You’ll instantly be categorized as a weirdo if you’re alone in social contexts. The only context where it’s fine to be alone is when you’re abroad. | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/10/23 04:52 PM |
| 17 | Would you consider a 27 year old tall, bulky, not ugly, virgin, forever single man a gay, weirdo or mentally ill?If you’re average and didn’t provide much effort, yes it’s normal. Only above average men get asked out. | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/10/23 04:43 PM |
| 15 | FAW is pretty pathetic. . .Getting thousand of messages significantly increase your hope to find someone that suits your criterias. There's ~80% of men on Tinder. Women have way more choice and that also explains why men initiate conversation most of the time. So having matches as a man indeed doesn't mean you can get a relationship, but that's less true for women. | /r/AllPillDebate | 11/10/23 03:22 PM |
| 14 | FAW is pretty pathetic. . .“FA women” doesn’t exist. Just go on tinder and you’ll have hundred of matches no matter how you look. They just have way too high standards. Above average looking men don’t want to date in their proper league because they don’t want to face with rejection. So they lower their standard for average looking women, that’s why Pareto laws applies, notably to OLD and 1 night stands. Average men can get relationships but they will have to work hard on themselves. They’re not desirable “by default” lik… | /r/AllPillDebate | 11/10/23 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Most young men are red pilledI have been redpilled at the end of my studies after graduating (~3 months ago) after really being alone. During my studies, it was easier to cope with not having a relationship because I thought that it would get better (never say that, that's an indicator that it won't). I now realize that the conversations I was having with my friends were filler conversations, like the ones you have with colleagues during work break time. So my 'friendships' eventually ended because they probably never were … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Serious question. What will you do with your lives if you don't find anyone?Are you/have you recently been in a relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 08:38 PM |
| 1 | The Gallic Pill: A traditional French approachThe fourth point is automatic for me | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/10/23 07:26 PM |
| 1 | What do you think matters most to women?then ethnicity Ethnicity or race? | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/10/23 09:35 AM |
| 0 | Just watch porntbf if you’re 22 and never had any kind of relationship it doesn’t sounds good at all for you. That means no one has been interested into you OR that you didn’t and probably never will get out of your comfort zone and ask anybody out (“next time”, “it’ll come with time” etc). And the lack of experience at this age will turn off your probable partners. Last thing, if you don’t have a solid social circle after your studies you are screwed. You will not be able to participate in social activities w… | /r/AllPillDebate | 07/10/23 10:00 PM |
| 4 | Just watch pornYou can cope being FA with better things.. Sport, video games, tv shows, discovering new hobbies, meet new people etc. Porn really destroys your brain and create addiction (I know what I'm talking about) even if you are in a relationship because it is instant dopamine boost without any efforts. Don't watch this shit. | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/10/23 09:41 PM |
| 10 | bluepillers, is someone out there for this guy?“There’s someone out there for you” is a lie told to desperate people to have them a dopamine boost. Nature isn’t fair, norms aren’t fair and luck isn’t fair either. A lot of lonely people (either socially awkward or really ugly like the man in the picture) will die alone whether they want it or not. That’s why they should focus on something else. | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/10/23 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Rotting in bedroomDepends of you I guess.. If you really are asocial it's fine but if it is suffered and not wanted, it will silently destroys your mental health | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/10/23 03:32 PM |
| 5 | Are AI Girlfriends the solution?range of emotions Emotions are created by biological reactions (serotonin, dopamin, cortisol..). These are made by complex biochemical reactions and I don't think engineers will be able to reproduce a fully functional body. You can emulate emotions but it'll never be as natural as human ones. | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/10/23 10:53 AM |
| 11 | The foreigner had a better personality than her husband right?Fucking hell that's fucked up. And I thought we were screwed in west europe. I am feeling sorry for the Japanese dude. He doesn't even seem disappointed. | /r/AllPillDebate | 02/10/23 12:32 PM |
| -2 | How many of you actually go out and spend time with people?Because it doesn't work like this. You don't just hang out and wait for people to talk to you. | /r/AllPillDebate | 01/10/23 03:42 PM |
| 0 | What do you call an attractive man that women dontf like?Do you get out and talk to people? | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/09/23 10:52 AM |
| 1 | CMV: a girl would hook up with you on a first date if she’s attracted to youYou met them via OLD or in real life ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 09:26 AM |
| -2 | If you don't look like this in 2024, it's over for youConfidence comes from past experience Unless you're handsome and confident naturally, no girl will ask you out. Unfortunately it's not the case for lot of us. So you won't get experience until you do something to gain experience. You need to be confident and work on yourself first. Most average men get relationships | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/09/23 04:22 PM |
| 1 | If you don't look like this in 2024, it's over for youNah confident people with charisma don't struggle with relationships. If you're sociable enough you will not be invisible. | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/09/23 04:06 PM |
| -1 | If you don't look like this in 2024, it's over for youI read something different every time... the latest poll concluded that facial features were more important than height. I know some average looking, average height dudes that are confident and have lot of partners. With some efforts anybody can get laid. Men will have to put more efforts than women if they're not natural at this, it's true | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/09/23 03:02 PM |
| -3 | If you don't look like this in 2024, it's over for youThen look like this | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/09/23 11:21 AM |
| 1 | How to know if youre incelIf you have no social skills you’re screwed anyway… you need social skills to meet new people. | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/09/23 09:58 AM |
| – | Which matters more?You need the charisma and personality with it. You can be tall and handsome if you don't have the behavior that goes with it you won't get much attention. | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/09/23 05:32 PM |
| 4 | Tinder is offering a $778-per-month subscription for 'exceptional connections'With this money you can pay a top tier escort | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/09/23 03:43 PM |
| 1 | CMV : young men today should spare themselves torment by not getting emotionally invested in one day becoming a fatherMost of the men debating here can't face the fact that most average men will have a "normal" life, i.e. aligned with social norms: having a wife... They won't admit that WE are just socially inept. It's like phobias it'll be there forever. Trying to convince yourself otherwise is throwing a boomerang that will come back at your face later. Once you admit it it's not a big deal anymore to not have relationships/friendships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 03:51 PM |
| 2 | Having a handsome face will help you a lot if you’re shorter than averageI wish you all the best 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Having a handsome face will help you a lot if you’re shorter than averageYeah that’s why I’m saying I’m screwed lol. I don’t have friend to hang out with. After you graduated and still don’t have friends it’s getting really tough for you. You’re basically excluded from every social activities where strangers meet each other. “Meetup” apps and stuff won’t work, you rarely develop a social relationship after 1 activity. You need an already existing social circle to meet strangers. And to be honest I think it’s easier not to have intimate relationships than not having c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Having a handsome face will help you a lot if you’re shorter than averageI don't workout. I plan to take a gym membership though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Having a handsome face will help you a lot if you’re shorter than averagewhere you’re around women Like lot of men here, I was at IT engineering school.. Now that I graduated, the most difficult thing for me is to know where to meet new people. I feel kinda fucked up not having a social circle at my age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Having a handsome face will help you a lot if you’re shorter than average100% they're drunk... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 06:07 PM |
| 10 | Having a handsome face will help you a lot if you’re shorter than averageI'm tall (190cm), have average face, light skin, blue eyes, brown hair and aroused the interest of 1 person only in my entire life (I'm in early twenties). I think charisma and humor also has much to do. Tbh I don't get out in my free time that's maybe why too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 09:52 PM |
| 4 | "Have you ever cheated?"I wouldnt expect to find a qualitative person there for more than one night (if I were attractive at least). Maybe its just I'm too closed minded idk | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/09/23 11:57 AM |
| 7 | "Have you ever cheated?"tbf look at where he asked the question and who he asked it to... I wouldn't expect anything else... | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/09/23 11:02 AM |
| 4 | If dating is so broken, why don't women seemingly complain about it?80 20 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 12:03 PM |
| 3 | Why do you personally think some men get so much access to sex, while other men do not?yes it does because of social skills, not directly because of having friends. I know people that are in large closed social circles with both men and women and still struggle to get laid. But yes it's obvious that asocials will struggle with both friendships and relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 10:07 AM |
| 2 | Why do you personally think some men get so much access to sex, while other men do not?I think a lot of the guys here don't even leave their house and don't even try to socialize. At least that's my case, so I don't even know what I'm worth physically. You sure need to be attractive. You can't change your genetics but you can change your look. I guess game does matter a lot too. Some men are desesperate and you can smell it from kilometers. On the other hand men that doesn't want anything/aren't interested in relationships will probably receive offers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Most women are invisible to straight men just like how most men are also invisible to womenUgly women I know get compliments but they are from avg or below avg guys but it won't be counted right Give an exemple of compliment they get (not about their outfit but about their physical) ? It reminds me of the body positive thing. Fat people being told it's healhy and attractive while this is not the opinion of their doc and people complimenting them would probably not date them. I know manages to sleep with attractive guys apparently for having reputation of being good in bed Yes, same pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Most women are invisible to straight men just like how most men are also invisible to womenI disagree. Ugly women have lot of matches on Tinder but barely get approached IRL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 09:47 PM |
| 3 | Most women are invisible to straight men just like how most men are also invisible to womenNo, average looking too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 09:33 PM |
| 6 | Most women are invisible to straight men just like how most men are also invisible to womenDon't know where you are living but where I live it is common for a woman to get complimented by both men and women. They also frequently get approached in the street. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Where is a man supposed to go in order to meet you?You either have to be above average, or be average but have a solid social circle. if you don't meet one of these conditions, you're indeed screwed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 10:31 PM |
| 1 | "You'll find someone when you least expect it" is only true for women and boomersDo you even get outside and socialize with ppl to start with ? I'm also alone but literally do 0 effort to socialize. I don't know if that would happen if I move myself but I know that it won't if I don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 06:50 PM |
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