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| 2 | What is the meaning behind our sexual fantasies/fetishes?See, normally people (especially in TRP) decry long-distance relationships because you aren't getting your rocks off, but in a polyamorous/polygamous relationship it's totally different because...you are. And you're maintaining that tension that keeps things going. I really enjoy sexting, too, so I wonder if it's worth my time at some point. I'd never really thought about trying that before reading your post. It sounds to me like even if the situation doesn't fit you perfectly, somewhere, someon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/16 05:49 AM |
| 1 | What is the meaning behind our sexual fantasies/fetishes?I don't consider outsider science to be valid in this case. You have to agree on definitions and meanings first, and then you can prove something. Psychologists aren't generally familiar with the kink world or how kinksters act or see the world. The people I know who engage in exhibitionism don't "love themselves so much that they think they're worthy of such-and-such." They're relatively normal people. Do you know any actual people who engage in the activity? If not, don't use semantics based o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/16 06:37 PM |
| 1 | What is the meaning behind our sexual fantasies/fetishes?"A boy wants a good girl who is bad just for him, and a girl wants a bad boy who is good just for her." I can't believe someone just validated one of those lonely teenage girl Facebook posts that got thrown around in high school. Oh wait, yes I can, it's Reddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/16 06:22 PM |
| 2 | What is the meaning behind our sexual fantasies/fetishes?This response is a bit frustrating to even read. Good luck with it all, and thanks for putting this information out there. PPD is such a fucking wealth of candid information about the parts of relationships that people usually don't talk about. I'm not really an RP bro, but I dance around on both sides now and then. One question though. How did you feel entering a long-distance relationship at this point in your life? Did you have prior experience with that dynamic or are you winging that too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/16 06:16 PM |
| 2 | What is the meaning behind our sexual fantasies/fetishes?Narcissism is really a clinical term for people who love themselves more than others love them. Wanting to be or feel loved or wanted by others is not narcissism. You could try and call it selfish, and that could be accurate in certain contexts. But it isn't narcissism. Narcissism in relationships is obvious to a trained eye and fairly well understood. And exhibitionism? Exhibitionism is not about narcissism. It's about fear. It's an adrenaline rush. The consequences or imagined consequences fue… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/16 06:03 PM |
| 2 | What is the meaning behind our sexual fantasies/fetishes?Had to sign into my dirty account for this one. I recommend that everyone interested in this topic go check out /r/BDSMcommunity and search for these sorts of posts. I think you'll learn a lot, and the people there are pretty friendly. Now that's out of the way, I want to say you've asked a fantastic question. It's one of the central questions for people in the kink community. Especially for a switch like me. "Why do we do it?" And in my case...why do I do both? The simplest thing I can say is t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/16 05:52 PM |
| 10 | [discussion] Pegging/male anal stuffPopped in here on my alt because of the ignorant folks. For context, I'm a straight male switch, usually a top, and I lean red. I am NOT red though. And I have never been pegged nor do I plan to. People don't understand submission. A lot of kinksters don't understand submission. Almost all acts are technically independent from a submissive context. We associate them with submission for a cultural reason or for concrete reasons. To many people, giving oral is submissive to an extent no matter wha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/16 12:15 AM |
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