HypatiaCade Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	What are your best homemaking "hacks"? I do not miss having a septic. They can be so finicky!	/r/RedPillWives	18/03/17 08:40 PM
7	What are your best homemaking "hacks"? Dust a room from the top down. Start with the light fixture/ceiling fan, then curtain rods, tops of bookcases, down to vacuuming the floor. The dust you stir up settles on the next spot to be cleaned, instead of an already cleaned surface. Clorox tabs in the tank of the toilet mean you never have to seriously scrub. Just give the bowl a whisk now and again with your brush. *A worker is only as good as her tools. Read the owner's manual to your vacuum, and clean the filter at least once a month…	/r/RedPillWives	18/03/17 12:49 AM
7	Update on my situation Has he been evaluated for ADHD? Because that sounds like classic inattentive subtype.	/r/RedPillWives	10/03/17 05:56 PM
5	How do you feel when some guys put you on a pedestal? At first it's a heady feeling of power. But over time the pressure to be perfect wears away at you. It's corrosive to a relationship.	/r/RedPillWomen	06/03/17 08:04 PM
10	SAHMs and SAHWs, what do you wear at home? I understand! I want to be comfy. Cleaning and raising kids is dirty work. And I actually do work out in the afternoons lately. Here's an idea on the laundry though: If I change shortly before he gets home, I'll only wear the nicer outfit (scoopneck tee + maxi skirt, plaid and skinnies, etc) for like 5 hours before changing before bed. If there are no spills (an excuse to wear my cute aprons while cooking!), then I can easily hang them back up and wear again later. So it's not like I'm making do…	/r/RedPillWives	03/03/17 01:53 AM
11	SAHMs and SAHWs, what do you wear at home? Honestly? Old capris and a tank top. Or exercise capris and my husband's tees if I'm feeling fancier. I have a problem. This morning I decided that I have to change out of the workout gear and into some "real" clothes before the husband comes home. It's setting the wrong tone for our relationship.	/r/RedPillWives	03/03/17 01:38 AM
3	SAHMs and SAHWs: What do you do all day? Oh yes. I've seen the HBO biopic a few times, as well as a TED talk. I'm on the wait list for her book "Thinking in Pictures."	/r/RedPillWives	02/03/17 08:15 PM
3	SAHMs and SAHWs: What do you do all day? Thank you. He has blossomed in his first year of ST. You therapists are a special breed of awesome!	/r/RedPillWives	02/03/17 04:41 PM
3	SAHMs and SAHWs: What do you do all day? No, it's for the kiddo. He's about a year delayed in speech. He has autism, so it's to be expected.	/r/RedPillWives	02/03/17 04:33 PM
2	SAHMs and SAHWs: What do you do all day? Monday and Wednesday are my busy days. Other days I don't have a morning therapy, so we do more chores, playdates, storytime, parks, etc. Wake Read Scripture Check weather, today's to-do list, social media and email Get myself ready Walk dogs Wake the kid Feed & dress kid Clean 30 minutes while kid plays Go to speech therapy Picnic lunch on the beach Go to ABA therapy (2 hrs) Chat with the other mom there (20 mins) Work out across the street (1 hr 15) Read a book in the waiting room (20-30 mins)…	/r/RedPillWives	02/03/17 04:18 PM
3	Age of oldest man you've been with? My husband is 4 years older than me. We have had those "YOU never saw____?" conversations. But that's primarily because I grew up no TV until around 8 years old. I casually dated a man 9 years older. Things went well. But I was just a rebound until he went back to his ex-fiancee, with whom he had a lot of history. That's my concern with very large age gaps. How are you to catch up to people he's known for decades, when you are just getting started in life?	/r/RedPillWomen	02/02/17 03:29 PM
1	Being a RPW Oh dear, you still have plenty of time. IMO, the "wall" applies mostly to party girls who end up disheveled, smoke-preserved, and worn out. Mutton dressed as lamb, IYKWIM. The way I see it, you have two issues. 1 Fishing in the wrong pond I worked in a female field. I had to step outside my field, into online dating to find my beloved. You might try online. As a professional, I would recommend networking events, young professional leagues, your city's young Republican association, or a young rel…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/01/17 11:53 PM
5	Bucket Lists I'm nearing 26 Finish the student loans Two more babies Long weekend away with DH. NYC or Orlando. I'm dying for the Wizarding World of Harry Potter.	/r/RedPillWives	12/01/17 07:52 PM
4	Questions about motherhood When he learned sign language, and now spoken English, it was like flipping a switch. He has the most cheerful disposition. As a mother, all I want is for him to be happy. Even if his idea of happy isn't what other kids go in for. I am a SAHM. I'm a total homebody, so I only go out alone for book club, coffee with another mom, or some blissful Target shopping. Most of my free time at home is spent on reading, writing, open courses/ Khan academy, a bit of nail art, and recently knitting. Oh yes. …	/r/RedPillWives	07/01/17 06:36 AM
5	Questions about motherhood 25, Married almost 5 years, have an almost 3 year old with Autism When I was a child, the neighbor girl and I played with baby dolls quite frequently. Mostly one game, which we called "Bad Mommies." We threw the dolls, dropped them on their heads, ran them over with toy cars, etc. O.o As I became an adult, I appreciated children more and more. Their novel, strikingly perceptive view of the world. Their untarnished wonder in a cynical world. Their big, obstinate personalities in tiny little bodie…	/r/RedPillWives	06/01/17 10:45 PM