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This type of post has been around from the start. Just like guys who newly discover TRP can go through the anger phase, a lot of guys who master it go through a man whore phase. It’s a good way to reset your self confidence and permanently lift the veil.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/25 01:12 AM
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The problem is that once their project is done, you’ll be a squeaky clean good boy who doesn’t make them wet anymore, and they’ll quickly lose interest.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/23 03:17 PM
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Haha totally true. One of my older friends told me “I don’t need needs on the internet to tell me how to act with women.”
/r/TheRedPill01/11/23 12:40 AM
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Most people come to Reddit through phone apps now, and the sidebar is basically hidden. A lot of new users don’t even know subs have sidebars.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/23 01:52 PM
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There’s a discord? Have the link?
/r/TheRedPill12/05/23 03:15 AM
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Sounds like your friend has a fear of rejection.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/23 10:20 AM
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Great advice. OP should approach the conversation in the same way an employer would give an employee their review. She may think she’s being a great girlfriend (most of us wouldn’t have ended up here if we’d had good girls like her).
/r/TheRedPill01/12/22 12:15 AM
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Tracking them in an app is kinda lame.. almost simp level stalking. Too much effort invested. Next level try to determine when they’re ovulating based on simple observations. For example women will wear red or other flashy colors.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/22 08:48 PM
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Or they could simply lose weight and get their hair done.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/21 03:25 AM
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Love your responses bro. These guys don’t yet know what it means to be a real alpha, maybe never will. I posted a FR years back and got a ton of comments calling it fake. Too good to be true lol.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 11:37 PM
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I had the same issue so I started smiling at them. They will sometimes look away but most of the time they will smile back.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 07:54 PM
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Ha, I figured someone would call out huffpo. Yes, they are a shit site but it was the first thing I found with a quick search. The point still stands, bodybuilders from the 40s/50s/60s look drastically different than those from the 90s on. If you look as good as the old bodybuilders in your 40s+ that puts you in the top echelon of men.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 11:07 PM
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True, but I've never had an LTR not get insecure when I start hitting the gym harder.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 02:44 PM
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I think you are on to something. Being jacked is great for pulling hoes, but not necessary or even counter productive for LTRs. Don't get me wrong, you don't want to be out of shape, but you don't need to always look like a competitive body builder. I read an article a few years back which I can't find now, but it was written by a guy who worked in a professional setting. He got really into lifting, and found that people started to judge him as a dumb meathead. He eventually back off becasue it …
/r/askTRP26/05/21 02:43 PM
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As a red-pilled male though we know that there is no security in marriage (I know you know as you called it "fake"). We understand women's hypergamy. How many of those fat dudes' wives do you think have had a fling behind their backs? I know I'm preaching to the choir.. To keep my marriage successful I need to put in almost the same level of work I did to game plates - I still need to DHV and be able to flirt with other women sometimes to instill dread when needed. I guess that is the crux of th…
/r/askTRP14/05/21 02:14 PM
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How many of them would you consider "red-pilled'? People in general are unhappy and frustrated with their lives.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 02:03 PM
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I would disagree with that and say that having kids is great. Being married not always so great lol. I didn't get married and have kids until my 30's, after discovering TRP and living a little. Honestly spinning skanks gets boring after a while. At least it did for me. Sounds like you friend didn't live enough before settling down.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 02:01 PM
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I'm married with kids and woke up at 5am this morning to hit the gym. You don't have to let yourself go when you get married, it's just easy for most people. You could say the same thing (slow, big gut) for most men in general over 40. I will say that I don't pressure other guys to get married, that's just dumb. It's a huge risk, people change and you are locked in. Having kids gives my life more meaning, so I do recommend that but I admit it's not for everyone. Being married takes work but I be…
/r/askTRP14/05/21 01:56 PM
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Yea it really fucked with my head. I thought I had found a unicorn, but then I had to come to my own AWALT revelation. The rest is history.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 11:04 PM
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Get rid of this old hag.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 05:36 PM
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Yea, I had an ex like this (pre-red pill days, in fact that relationship led me to discover TRP). When I would come home with a new shirt she would tell me it looked gay, anytime I got a haircut she would tell me it looked bad, etc. I didn't recognize them as shit tests (didn't know any better) and it really wore me down and killed my confidence. Funny thing is she wasn't like that at all in the beginning. For the first few years she would never shit test me and would actually be supportive and …
/r/askTRP29/04/21 05:36 PM
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> how she should just hit up her rotation when I'm out traveling You literally told her to do this, why are you surprised? Why do you care if you arent exclusive?
/r/askTRP28/04/21 04:49 PM
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Like you're in the driver's seat?
/r/askTRP20/04/21 02:54 PM
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7 months? They don't usually show their crazy side for at least 6 months. I say go for it, but have a exit plan in place.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 04:21 PM
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Another possibility is she could be playing hard to get. Her bestie is probably telling her not to text you for 3 days or something dumb. It’s got her occupying your mind though doesn’t it.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 12:58 PM
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This sounds so similar to my story with my ex, except we never got married because of her debt. I kept helping her pay credit cards and bills yet she kept getting into more debt. So not being able to afford a wedding actually saved my ass. I am an EE also and she had a law degree. The only jobs I could get her were things like subcontracts manager which she thought was beneath her. I would disagree with the others here that say you have no hope and should end it. The reason is that I think you h…
/r/askTRP07/04/21 04:57 AM
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Depending on the state it might not matter if they’re married.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 04:04 AM
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Yes they will have a boyfriend, but it doesn’t matter. They will find a reason the “branch swing” as we say. And you are correct they that could eventually branch swing away from you as well, which is why we say “she isn’t yours, it’s just your turn.” If you are worried about that then the only defense is to be higher SMV than her potential branches.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 08:17 PM
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It should actually help you, as it displays preselection.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 01:39 PM
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Put me back in Morpheus!
/r/askTRP28/03/21 12:55 AM
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For the acne eat healthier, and also try changing your pillowcase or putting a clean towel over your pillow every night. You should also look into accutane. Makes the acne worse at first but after a few months you’ll never have a zit again. Also women don’t care about your penis size.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 02:31 AM
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We just had four years with a narcissistic president who gaslit the entire country. There was a new editorial every week that psycho analyzed him, so unfortunately people learned these terms.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 01:56 AM
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Mastery bro, wish I had this knowledge/advice when I was in college!
/r/askTRP13/03/21 06:44 PM
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The book Influence touches on this, and agrees that saying less is better. When you say less, people subconsciously fill in the details the way they want to see them. For example, say I’m giving a field report about slaying a HB9. What do you immediately picture in your head? For you that could be a skinny blonde, or voluptuous brunette - whatever you fancy. If instead I explicitly say I hooked up with a hot Latina, guys who aren’t into that type won’t be as interested in the story.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/21 05:56 PM
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I agree with the majority here saying to end it. If you feel bad about it, don't. She likely has a cast of orbiters and dudes waiting to branch swing to on the back burner. If she's as hot as you describe she'll have a new bf in a month. AWALT.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 07:40 PM
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Did you hear about the kid that 3D printed his own set? https://money.cnn.com/2016/03/16/technology/homemade-invisalign
/r/askTRP09/03/21 02:41 PM
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Dude.. I upvoted this post! I like your analysis. My question is why did it get removed? Talk about reading comprehension lol.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/21 04:09 PM
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Why was this removed? Off topic? Does anyone use the TRPOfftopic sub?
/r/TheRedPill27/02/21 03:31 PM
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This is a badass song that coincidentally I recently found myself jamming out to in my car. It randomly came on the radio and sounded great on my car audio system. Reminds me of being a kid in the eighties and has that sweet drum kick. Nice to know it has a deeper meaning that resonates. Thanks for the analysis! I'm sure it will sound better the next time I hear it now.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/21 02:00 PM
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6IX9INE I would've said Eminem and Lil Wayne, though I haven't listened to any of 6ix9ine's stuff. Is it similar?
/r/TheRedPill27/02/21 01:50 PM
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Why do you want to divorce her? Because of her past? How does she treat you now?
/r/askTRP26/02/21 06:09 PM
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Henry Rollins described it best in Iron and the Soul https://www.artofmanliness.com/articles/henry-rollins-iron-and-soul/
/r/TheRedPill22/02/21 02:26 AM
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“It’s complicated”
/r/askTRP06/02/21 03:02 PM
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Your first mistake is thinking she’s a unicorn - we call them that because they don’t think exist. I get what you mean by it though. All her good behaviors mean is that she sees you as a good catch, the sought after alpha male, so she’s acting good. Just remember that if you slip up and fall into her frame, she’ll start behaving like all other women. I’ve made that mistake before when I was younger. Keep leading and being alpha and hopefully she won’t be tempted to branch swing, but always remem…
/r/askTRP06/02/21 02:57 PM
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Well his “old” parents can get the vaccine and he won’t have to worry so much.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 02:27 PM
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A lot of good comments here just want to add that you’ll be able to get the vaccine soon, so stay strong there is a light at the end of this tunnel.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 11:32 AM
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He posted the question previously. This is just an update. I appreciate it, especially since he's taken our advice and made the right call.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 02:48 PM
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> She seemed upset and cried a lot I'll never forget when I broke up with my girlfriend from high school. It was freshman year of college and we went to different colleges.. my dumbass blue pill self thought we could do a long distance relationship while we worked on transferring to she same school. When I broke up with over the phone, she started crying and I said something like, "I'm sorry, are you ok?" She immediately snapped out of it and was like "no, I'm fine." The crying was a total act. …
/r/askTRP15/01/21 02:46 PM
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Agree & amplify. If you let on that it bothers you they will key on it and do it more. If it truly bothers you let them know, and then if they continue get new friends.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 05:54 PM
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I came here to say the same thing. I'm a dad of two young boys and they have given my life new meaning, wouldn't change that choice for any amount of money. But women can change a lot from early to late twenties. I thought I had a unicorn at 22, but by 30 she succumbed to all the attention on social media and her hypergamy went into overdrive. Didn't help that I was pre-red pill then so I acted beta more than I realized. So maybe the fact that OP is here he can prevent that. But personally I thi…
/r/askTRP15/12/20 02:05 PM
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It's difficult for all us of to not look upon our past failures with regret, but the only thing you can do now is look ahead to the future. I know you think 18 is a man, but when you hit 28 you'll look back on 18 the way you look back to being 8 years old now. Look on the positive side - you found the red pill now, most of us here didn't find this shit until mid to late twenties or later after being taken advantage of by women. Look up the SMV chart if you haven't seen it - you are at the bottom…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/20 01:59 PM
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I did it at 28, you'll be just fine.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 05:06 PM
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You want to imply it, without being explicit. Get that hamster wheel spinning.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 01:42 PM
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Get them talking about themselves and their interests. Ask questions (without interrogating) to get them to expand on things they seem passionate about. Same as simple smalltalk with any person. Maybe read How to Win Friends & Influence People if you haven't yet.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 02:03 PM
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Came here to say this. The average guy knows legit 9s and 10s are out of their league so they don't even try talking to them. Most those girls actually have lower self esteem because of this.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 04:25 PM
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How passionate they kiss is a good indicator.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 04:58 PM
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Knock up a single mom. That way you can prescreen her to know if she'll be a good mother, and she probably wont want to get married.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 01:55 PM
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If you could eat chocolate cake for dessert everyday why would you ever eat a cookie?
/r/askTRP01/08/20 12:32 PM
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"I'm insecure about all the bulging veins."
/r/askTRP20/07/20 12:12 PM
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Sometimes assholes need to be fucked too.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/20 02:42 AM
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Business Development or BD is the function in an organization whose role is to bring in new customers and new work from existing customers. BD tracks customers road-maps and budgets and helps make sure our internal investments are aligned to position the company to win new work. It involves a lot of face to face meetings with customers so lately I have been falling back on my engineering skills to pitch in on problem solving and keep busy. We have done some virtual customer meetings. The real mo…
/r/askTRP14/07/20 11:47 PM
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I wanted to ask a similar question but for kids movies. I have two young boys, and most of the Disney type movies espouse the prince charming narrative and indoctrinate the kids into the BP mindset. The only children's movie that I would consider RP is the original 1953 Peter Pan movie. It is politically incorrect and couldn't be made today, which is why all the remakes are garbage (Hook is good though). First off, Peter Pan is the original playboy DGAF character. You could consider Tinkerbell h…
/r/askTRP14/07/20 04:51 PM
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Once you're in, it's the social skills/calibration and execution that elevates your career, not your technical abilities. Came to say this. I also realized that I didn't want to "sit in front of a computer and hang out with nerds for 8 hours a day for the rest of my life" so I've used my RP knowledge and ever growing social skills to transition into a more lucrative technical business development position within my company. I work in a large corporation so there are also good opportunities in le…
/r/askTRP12/07/20 02:48 PM
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Had a girl tell me this once. I was like fine whatever. She showed up alone.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 02:38 AM
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I couldn't have said it better than u/rpthrowaway1104, don't beat yourself up, you made all the right calls and things could have been worse. It's normal to feel bad about it now and miss her. Nostalgia can be a bitch.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 08:00 PM
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Sounds similar to my long ago ex-LTR, who I supported emotionally while the struggled through law school, then financially while she took two attempts to pass the bar exam. Didn't know much about RP back then and the relationship devolved into a dead bedroom. At least I like to think I left her better than I found her.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 07:52 PM
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You're right about me holding out too, and I could never explain it. It sounds like deep down, you knew it was just your turn with her. Whether it be the red flags (not the worst btw) or simply the fact that she was still in her early 20s. Any RP aware man knows that marrying a woman in her early 20s is like playing Russian roulette. Fortunately your intuition was correct. Consider yourself lucky to have dodged a bullet and hopefully use this as a learning experience.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 07:47 PM
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Sounds hot lol, you sound like me.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 01:29 AM
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"This is for calling me a faggot, bitch". Savage.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 01:21 PM
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Just remember that this is most likely only "your turn", and have good time. There is nothing in TRP that says you can't settle down and get married, but I would only go down that route if you intend to have kids. If you do go that route, just make sure you vet her well.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 12:40 PM
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I have the same issue. A little Sativa does wonders for me. ;)
/r/askTRP24/01/20 02:04 PM
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It's all about the squinch: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ff7nltdBCHs
/r/askTRP10/12/19 06:06 PM
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No, remember, it's just your turn. It was once that dudes turn before you. Big deal - not like she claimed to be a virgin. I can see you being upset that she lied, but could that be her response to your insecurities? Be honest - what would you have said if she told you is was a guy she used to fuck?
/r/askTRP14/10/19 12:10 AM
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Nice humble brag bro
/r/askTRP12/10/19 06:35 PM
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She's no longer into you but doesn't want to break up with you because either she doesn't want to look like the bad guy or she doesn't want to hurt your feelings. She's trying to get you to be the one to end it.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 06:47 PM
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There was a recent study that concluded women are attracted to a male's perceived strength. Who would win in a fight, the fat guy or scrawny guy?
/r/askTRP01/08/19 07:55 PM
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Start at the gym. https://www.oldtimestrongman.com/articles/the-iron-by-henry-rollins/
/r/askTRP22/07/19 12:40 PM
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If the little girl scout selling cookies gave you attitude, what would you do? Laugh at her right? Do the same to your girl.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 06:04 PM
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I've been getting good results from intermittent fasting. I eat in an 8 hour window from about 11am - 7pm. It hasn't been super fast, maybe a pound per week. But it's easy to stick too and my energy levels have been higher than before. I also feel like I'm losing mostly fat, and not muscle, in contrast to other diets I've tried where I started to feel scrawny.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 01:14 PM
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Not OP but I've had great results with lifting 2-3 times per week and intermittent fasting. I too have noticed a lot more attention from women after only about 6 weeks in. I had a good base from lifting for years but my diet was shit so I had too much body fat.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 01:10 PM
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She's just trying to make you jealous. If she can get a rise out of you she wins. Key is to DGAF. Ignore it or even better reply back with silly shit to show it doesnt bother you.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 12:55 PM
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So much red pill knowledge nicely summed up in your comment. Preach brother!
/r/TheRedPill15/07/19 01:51 AM
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I think this is a common problem - learning enough theory and strategy to be effective, but still having your main goal to be getting a girl. It looks like you've realized that's a mistake. You are right to be striving for continuous improvement but you need to find your mission, and the goal shouldn't be women. Once you become a successful and interesting man the women will follow naturally.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 01:15 PM
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Find a barber in your area that gets good reviews.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 02:08 AM
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Don't DM them out of the blue. Reply to their story - from there apply normal text game. Could lead with a subtle neg or DHV.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 01:45 PM
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I would say "A gentleman doesn't kiss and tell" with a smirk. You can subtly admit to a high N count (DHV) while also assuring her that you wont slut shame her after.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 01:28 PM
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Make a flyer in the shape of something cool, like a flexing bicep. Make it veiny so it's clearly a flexing muscle. Then write on it something like "Cool guy looking for other cool guys to party with, nothing sexual. Dues who lift preferred. Again, nothing sexual." Then you can just hand that out to the cool looking dues you meet.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 05:34 PM
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Well, to each his own. I would take it as a simple test and blow it off like it doesn't phase you. "Go try to not think about my cock while billy beta asks you to be the big spoon" lol. Nice way to be aloof and demonstrate higher value.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 12:10 AM
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Wrong, don't do this. This will make it look like it's bothering you. Talking other dudes is just a shit test. Agree & amplify as others have commented.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 08:24 PM
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Totally messing with you. Assume she's showing the texts to her friends and laughing about it. There is maybe a 5% chance she's serious but I doubt it. Either cut her off or spend minimal effort replying and assume anything you say she'll show her friends. Edit: she could also be a super slut and have multiple guys she's texting like this.. so when she "fell asleep" she probably got carried away banging another chad. Alternatively, shes in an LTR with a beta which is why her place is unavailable…
/r/askTRP20/10/18 05:24 PM
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Certainly is a big step up from omega
/r/askTRP03/10/18 12:51 PM
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Have you read How To Win Friends and Influence People?
/r/askTRP03/10/18 02:18 AM
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I can see it on Sync if I follow the steps above.
/r/askTRP29/09/18 07:31 PM
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Really? I have no trouble - are you sure you're typing it in correctly? You need to manually go to www.reddit.com/r/theredpill
/r/askTRP29/09/18 05:27 PM
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You are probably right. The mods have set up trp.red as a backup but the site looks like it needs some more work to be as effective as a subreddit.
/r/askTRP29/09/18 05:24 PM
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You know it's just quarantined right? It's dumb but you can still see it if you accept the warning on the desktop site. Try this if you are on a mobile device: Open chrome or any mobile browser on your phone. Open incognito tab Go to https://old .reddit.com Log in with your account Now go to https://old .reddit.com /r/ theredpill in the incognito tab You will see the warning about how the sub is Quarantined, just click on "continue" Now open TRP on your mobile app. That's it.
/r/askTRP29/09/18 01:22 PM
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For me, I just got better saying less over time. Make a conscious effort - not to be a shy mute, just leave details to the imagination. As an example, say you're talking to a group of guys about a new chick you've met. You can describe her as "a hot chick", and every guy will form a mental image of a hot chick in his mind, yet they could all be different. If you were to describe her as "a hot curvy Latina", the extra details hurts your case. Some guys may have already been picturing a Latina, bu…
/r/askTRP07/08/18 02:18 AM
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Great story! I was afraid you were catching feels but that was one damn M Night Shamalan ending. How did I not see that one coming?!
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 01:46 AM
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Bro, you're only 20. Take a look where that puts you on the SMV chart: https://therationalmale.com/2013/06/20/smv-ratios-attachment/ Just keep working on self improvement and career and the situation will improve in time. If they match on social media but bail in person, it's most likely because they can smell your low confidence. Maybe you could find a nice looking post wall 30 year old to teach you the ropes in bed?
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 02:10 AM
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From the Matrix: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z7BuQFUhsRM
/r/askTRP22/04/18 01:53 PM
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Tell him how to make her cum. Do you know?
/r/askTRP28/03/18 03:25 AM
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Lifting is a great start, but I disagree that it's enough, based on personal experience. When I was younger I lifted a lot. I looked like and alpha male, but still acted beta as fuck. Thinking back I can recall situations where girls were confused - they expected an alpha but I put that shit on a pedestal faster than you can say AWALT.
/r/askTRP17/02/18 02:23 AM
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I've read the book and highly recommend it. It has some good tactics that play on human psychology. For example, if you are negotiating with someone, don't question their fairness; e.g. don't say "that is an unfair offer." It causes people to become defensive and dig in. Instead use reverse psychology, say "that is a very fair offer, but how can I blah blah..." By complementing the other side on their fairness and asking an open ended question, it can actually help them concede matters to your s…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/17 01:20 PM
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I would also be interested. Here are some that I've found to be excellent: * No More Mr. Nice Guy * Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion * Never Split the Difference: Negotiating as if Your Life Depended on It
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 01:12 PM
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The rule is age/2 + 7, so you shouldn't date anyone younger than 19. But it's legal so bang away.
/r/askTRP18/05/17 03:06 AM
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I'm not sure, but if you can view the table of contents beforehand just look for the chapter titled "You Just Ask Them?". Someone asked for proof that it had been removed, and I'm having trouble easily finding any proof so maybe it was isolated to one or few editions. I just recall picking up a recent edition in a bookstore and looking for that chapter specifically and not finding it. Another comment said the chapter was in their edition but with an editors note basically saying Feynman was in a…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 05:48 PM
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The name of the chapter this excerpt is from is "You Just Ask Them? ", and unfortunately it has been cut from recent editions from the book as it is sexist. The entire chapter is pure RP, and I suggest you read it. Here is the full text: https://archive.org/stream/pdfy-j8W-CdpHb8CDbSBH/feyn_surely_djvu.txt As others here pointed out, Feynman wasn't some natural alpha, in fact the chapter starts with him painted as a typical beta bucks. As many of us here can relate to, he was frustrated with his…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 07:03 PM
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My wife used to work in oncology, and I've heard many stories of patients getting chemo and radiation which made them sick and lose weight, just to spend an extra six months living - in terrible shape. I'd get a second opinion, but if the doctors really believe she is terminal, then I'd encourage her to forgo treatment and instead focus on living out her final days to the fullest. See How Doctors Die I'd also familiarize myself with the stages of grief: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/K%C3%BCbler-…
/r/askTRP29/11/16 01:53 AM
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I always read it as hyper-game-ee, but then I heard a friend pronounce it hi-per-gum-ee which makes more sense. Rhymes with polygamy.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 02:33 AM
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From the comments there: I know of only one person who explicitly supported The Red Pill, and unfortunately he was one of my best friends in college. At first it seemed positive as he became more assertive and more fit through healthier hobbies like running and kickboxing, then it became clear that he was into something bad when I realized that he went beyond that and became a condescending, confrontational asshole. Sure he definitely picked up more girls that year (probably more than the other …
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 05:08 PM
14

Pull out and cum in her mouth. Problem solved.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 01:59 AM
3

She probably mentioned it jokingly to gauge your reaction (aka shit test). If you are for it, great for her! She can spend away with little worries. You shut her down as you should have. It's hard to tell from your description but you may have come across as butt-hurt about the suggestion. Sounds like you accused her of being manipulative and put her on the defensive. This would have been a good opportunity to brush it off jokingly - e.g. I would have probably joked that she should go find a sug…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 01:04 PM
2

There are some recent studies that link paternal age to increased birth defects. http://www.webmd.com/infertility-and-reproduction/news/20030701/dad-age-down-syndrome
/r/askTRP16/07/15 12:55 PM
4

Excellent write-up. I'd been thinking of submitting my own analysis of the situation, especially when I read Steve Huffman's comment bragging about how he discriminates against men: "The company is growing, and we have the opportunity to improve in many areas — including the number of women in leadership positions. I am confident in our ability to recruit women at the executive level, as we have made a point to do so at Hipmunk, where more than half of the executives are women." I'm glad I didn'…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 09:16 PM
2

Just give it a few years. Most of my friends at work got married a few years out of college, around 23-24 years old. Almost all got divorced after 5 or 6 years.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 03:08 AM
1

I believe the other player deleted the video (of her on top, cowgirl style) because he didn't want to get in trouble.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 06:39 PM
3

Maybe you could convince him to read No More MR Nice Guy. Sounds like it would help him not be such a doormat. Buy the book for him.
/r/askTRP27/04/15 01:07 PM
-1

At least I didn't put it on the front page of TRP like OP did.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 11:35 PM
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Who cares.. go post this garbage in /r/MRA
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 09:25 PM
14

Going out alone is tough.. Don't be too hard on yourself. About a third of the time I'd go out alone in the past the night would go like yours did. But there we're a lot of times that it turned out well, seems to be hit or miss.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 06:41 PM
7

Going out alone can be hard. One technique I stumbled onto by accident is to find a decent looking group of co-eds, make some smalltalk with the guys, and then find a reason to buy a round of shots. All of a sudden everyone is your best friend. People are super cheap - especially early 20s partiers. Sure this might set you back a few bucks, but you're an alpha male and money is no object to you. At least that's how you'll come across. The girls in the group will be interested in this charming ne…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 06:10 PM
3

I don't think he put him on a scale, it's an estimate.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 08:21 PM
4

No problem. The thing is, I do recall some of my friends giving me crap. Like questioning why I was always doing things for her. The problem is I was seeing everything through BP glasses, so I thought it was the correct thing to do. The good thing is he woke up on his own - If you tried to tell him red pill truths a year ago he probably wouldn't have been ready for it and not listened to you. Once the curtain is pulled back on "the one", it's very easy to accept that AWALT. The hardest part for …
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 07:15 PM
5

Dude, why didn't I have any friends like you when I needed them?! My story was similar to your friend John's. Though I wasn't shy like him and hooked up with a decent number of girls, I settled down too early (20) with my college sweetheart who I thought was the one. Put her on a pedestal and paid for all her shit. It's funny that she is a lawyer too. Unfortunately I didn't have the benefit of TRP at the time.. had to figure that crap out on my own. The emotional manipulation caused me to become…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 03:35 PM
3

Alpha = leader, Beta = follower. You can be nice without being a beta. Just like being be a jerk doesn't make you alpha.
/r/askTRP22/09/14 12:46 PM
2

Good ideas. You should post this too /r/marriedredpill
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 12:36 PM
2

I don't think it was the cheating per se, but the possibility of losing me to other women. Really just standing up for myself for a change. I think if I understood dread game it could have salvaged the relationship. In the end I'm better off, just wish I hadn't wasted so many years.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/14 01:57 PM
2

Well, the scenario you described is what caused me to wake up in the first place. I was like the BP guy in your story. Though the thing is, I was never really a beta before that relationship. I wasn't truly alpha - I failed shit tests all my life because I didn't know any better. But I generally had a DGAF attitude that helped things. The problem came when I dated a girl in college. She was smoking hot, smart, etc. So I thought I had found my unicorn and put her on a pedestal. We stayed together…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/14 01:13 PM
1

Excellent point! I've read about this in the past but had completely forgotten about it.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/14 05:19 PM
2

At the moment, I'm sort of living by the rule if she doesn't thank me for helping out. The next night I don't do it. God it's hard, but I don't think the message has gotten through. Is she aware of this rule? I mean, have you explicitly told her, "Showing appreciation when I help out is important to me, so I'm not doing this tonight because you didn't thank me last night." ? Because if you haven't been clear with her how will she know? Are you familiar with the book, No More Mr Nice Guy? I read …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/14 12:29 PM
5

when i go take her phone charger she left at my house back to her wtf? Tell her she can come get her charger if she wants it. Are you her errand boy now too? Go cold, maybe that will pique her interest again. DGAF
/r/askTRP07/07/14 06:15 PM
2

Why wreck some poor beta's home life?
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 12:15 AM
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Just wait until you are in your late 20s through early 30s. I'm not exaggerating when I say that 90% of your friends who are getting married now will be divorced by then. And the majority of those divorces are due to the females hypergamy. I still won't completely dismiss marriage though. A handful of guys I know have gotten lucky and married women that are great wives and mothers to their children, so I know they exist.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 10:03 PM
2

Best thing you can do is to show her with you actions. Tell her you are disappointed in her for not keeping her plans with you and then just ignore her for a few days. Talk to other chicks. Read up on abundance theory. http://therationalmale.com/2012/01/23/plate-theory-vi-abundance-scarcity/
/r/askTRP07/02/14 05:19 PM
0

I would strongly suggest that you read No More Mr Nice Guy. There is excellent advice here on how women actually think and behave, but without the understanding of why you let her disregard your feelings you may get jaded with women in general. It's a quick read and I was shocked at how it described my earlier life to a T.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 08:01 PM
1

Haha thanks! But I just kid. After being treated how you were I'm sure you'd have found your way here eventually.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/13 05:33 AM
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Don't forget who brought you here!
/r/TheRedPill24/12/13 03:43 AM
3

Wow perfect response. I hate to admit it but years ago I was a total beta with my girlfriend for years. We went to an nfl game, and she didn't act like a total whore (e.g. twerking) but did talk shit to everyone one around us. I was extremely close to getting jumped by a bunch of drunk, rowdy Bucs fans that day.
/r/askTRP24/12/13 03:32 AM
1

I was in love with a girl, and though I was naturally a confident guy, I put her on a pedestal for years. I acted more and more like a beta because I was so in love with her. Unfortunately, this led her to lose her attraction to me, and it really sucked. I have several friends who let their wives "wear the pants" in the relationship and walk all over them, and the guys couldn't seem happier. It's really up to you - He will likely be in love with you for a long time. Men are pretty loyal, like pu…
/r/askTRP18/12/13 02:02 PM
3

Give him the book No More Mr Nice Guy
/r/askTRP18/12/13 01:56 PM
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So, if there's a "career woman" who's not too old (<30), hasn't had too many sexual partners (<5) and isn't fat and decently in shape, then yes I'd consider her for a LTR. Unfortunately I think you've described a unicorn.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/13 10:51 PM
1

Wow, really great article. I've definitely been stuck in the "bad times" part of that curve for far too long with a girl before. That article makes the claim that the betaization process is inevitable in every relationship. That can't be true (I hope). There has to be a way to avoid it.
/r/askTRP21/11/13 11:46 PM
1

Anyone have a mirror? Link's not workin for me.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 02:27 AM
2

So I've basically done this in the past with my current girl. In the end I called her bluff and we didn't talk for a week. When she finally caved she cried and didn't want to fight anymore. So I technically held out and won, but I didn't feel our relationship was back to normal for a bit afterwards.
/r/askTRP16/11/13 01:59 AM
3

Well, they're kind of the same and kind of not. Shit tests from random girls are easy to counter with the right one liner, whereas these are more an argument over a bigger issue. For example, there was a relationships post today where a girl was cool with her bfs atheism, but now wants him to go to church. How do you agree & amplify that? "I'm taking you to hell with me!"
/r/askTRP16/11/13 12:27 AM
4

u mad bro?
/r/TheRedPill10/10/13 01:17 PM
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I've only lurked on 4chan occasionally. Can users create boards there like we can create subreddits here? If so it might be a good idea to start a red pill board as a backup for this sub.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/13 12:47 PM
2

Here is a great video (in French with English subtitles) that explains how the femenist movement only benefits wealthy women, while actually doing harm to the majority of women. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Do5zrdTb-yI&feature=youtube_gdata_player
/r/MensRights20/09/13 02:22 PM
1

It's strange how much her and Anderson Cooper look more and more alike. I didn't really find this very funny, but it didn't annoy me like that Sarah Silverman video. Ellen didn't seem to be genuinely upset, just telling a long unfunny joke.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/13 03:32 AM
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Not a link but an excellent video. Someone posted this here recently but I forget who - found this in my history. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Do5zrdTb-yI&feature=youtube_gdata_player
/r/TheRedPill17/09/13 03:22 AM
0

I don't believe she is that good an actress. I think she was offended.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/13 03:13 AM
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Wow. Before coming the TRP, I know acted a little beta sometimes for unexplainable reasons, but I must have been more beta than I realized. I used to like her and find her funny. That was pathetic. It's like she was totally oblivious to the wall coming. I almost feel bad for her - she's been duped too. When she asks what's her crime.. it's making it look cool to grow up independent and not start a family by a certain age. Think about it from a cultural evolutionary standpoint, society has no use…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/13 03:10 AM
0

Dude, Ron is your friend, and clearly he's under this woman's spell. This calls for a Navy SEAL style extraction under the cover of darkness to rescue him.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/13 06:33 PM
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Sounds like a beta gave her beers, and she brought them straight to you. I don't see what the issue is. It confirms that she is more into you than the chump who gave them to her. Also you may want to tone down the negging a bit.
/r/askTRP16/09/13 04:20 PM
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I was talking about this to my girlfriend the other day, and said if I had a boy I would't have him circumcised. She said sex with an uncircumcised guy isn't as enjoyable for a girl, and that giving oral is gross - like blowing an old man. So now I'm not sure what to do.
/r/MensRights13/09/13 02:12 AM
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Yes, my parents divorced when she was only 5. My father went through a period of depression and drug abuse, where he didn't work for almost a decade. We didn't get birthday presents from him half the time, and came to not expect them. My mother eventually remarried but my stepfather was super cheap, and then they divorced when she was a freshman in college.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/13 04:46 PM
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My younger sister put her husband on the Dave Ramsey plan, and paid off all their debt. My bro-in-law is terrible with money (even though he makes 3x what she does), so she is in charge of the finances. They've also been together since high school, and stayed together all through college. She just had her first baby. I'm proud of her.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/13 08:14 PM
1

My all time favorite Bill Burr, "What Are You, A Fag!?"
/r/TheRedPill13/08/13 03:08 PM
1

Regarding being a loner, a very good speach on solitude and leadership
/r/TheRedPill11/08/13 02:46 AM
1

those at r/thebluepill Holy... I can't believe that's a real sub - and they seem serious.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/13 03:26 PM
2

This girl seems very self-aware, I'd bet she'll know exactly when she's approaching the wall and hook an older rich guy just in time.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/13 03:20 PM
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I guess maybe unconditionally was a bad word to use (though when I had oneitis bad I'm pretty sure I'd still love the girl if she gained weight). What I mean is, Women are incapable of loving men in a way that a man idealizes is possible, in a way he thinks she should be capable of.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/13 04:26 PM
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Little by little, the mindset I had that it was possible to find a good honest woman who would love me the same way I loved her eroded Hardest part of the red pill for me was coming to the realization that women are incapable of loving you unconditionally the way a man can love a woman. However, I don't believe that means a LTR or wife & family is impossible. You just need to approach it more like hiring an employee, make sure she has a strong work ethic (cooks, cleans, understands you have sexu…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/13 01:09 PM
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A few have asked about the shit tests, but I'm having a hard time recalling them specifically. Outlandish stuff like "Why are you still bothering us?" after we just had them laughing. As most of you know, all that matters is your response, I'm more of the "evade & re-frame" type. Answering directly is failing. The best thing was every time I "passed" one, I'd get a sly little smile out of her, so I knew it was working. In the past (little more than a year ago/pre-redpill) I would have been falli…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/13 12:54 PM
2

Realizing shit tests and how to respond are the biggest thing I've learned here. http://thealphapersona.com/the-guide-to-acing-shit-tests/
/r/TheRedPill06/08/13 12:30 PM
1

I'm 6'2" and weigh 205 lbs. I'd say I'm about hair over 7 inches, not huge but I think that's slightly above average. She just liked busting my balls.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/13 12:26 PM
0

If I'm trying to pick up a ONS at a bar, I don't pay for shit. I'll buy a round of shots occasionally but that is usually for a group, and not a single girl. In a relationship though I see nothing wrong with paying for dinner. I make decent money (more than double the girl I currently date) so I feel going dutch would make me look cheap. I know that's counter to red pill advice but just my two cents. However if you're a young college dude with not a ton of money then alternate who pays. Start by…
/r/askTRP06/08/13 04:00 AM
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I don't know the answer. I admit sometimes I still feel bad for my ex. And sometimes I partially blame myself for her actions in our relationship because I mistakenly became more and more blue pill over time. I try to remind myself that she's a pretty girl, and there's surely betas lining up to take care of her. For her sake I truly hope she finds an alpha type to keep her interested for the long run. Getting a new girlfriend that cooks and cleans and takes care of my needs was the one thing tha…
/r/askTRP06/08/13 03:51 AM
4

What you said seems like common sense to me, and is advice I'd give a young woman if asked. I'm surprised you were downvoted so much.. Is this sort of advice taboo? Should I hold back if ever asked for similar advice in person for fear of coming across as misogynistic? I think that's exactly what I'd say.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/13 03:41 AM
2

Unfortunately, I was like your son when I was his age. And my dad (posted about him here: http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1jmt1s/my_dad_described_himself_as_mgtow/ )was about your age and divorced and hung out with younger girls, just like you. But at the time I recall feeling sorry for him - he was having these shallow relationships, whereas I had met this special girl who was different than the rest. olls eyes. I know my dad tried to give me some advice which I dismissed. That's wh…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/13 01:45 AM
2

I agree with you. I wouldn't describe my dad as "red pill", but would say that he mastered seduction techniques. I guess he's bitter about women, but I feel he'd be happier if he were to settle with a higher quality woman.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/13 04:46 AM
1

Funny you say get a dog. He found a stray yorkie a few years ago and that little guy ishis best friend.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/13 04:43 AM
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It's hard to say.. He is a very intelligent guy but I believe he's bipolar so he hasn't always made the best decisions in life. He seems content.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/13 04:42 AM
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So, my dad had a LTR with my mom for 17 years, since high school, and my parents had two kids from it. I think he'd probably be happiest at this point if he could settle with a nice old widow, but he's been spoiled by fucking young sluts his whole life.. who wants an old woman when you know how easy you can fuck a young whore. He moved in to my grandparents house a few years ago when my grandfather died (or else my grandma wouldn't be able to keep up the house) and he and my grandma seem to keep…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/13 05:32 PM
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Forgot to add, when I asked him if this is inherent in women or if he thought they've gotten worse over the decades, he said they've definitely gotten worse.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/13 05:00 PM
1

Haha so awesome! Feels good to help someone out. I'm currently watching a good friend go completely beta over a girl, and he dismisses any any little red pill advice I try to give him. He's 100% "plugged in" so to speak because "this girl is different" than the rest.. right.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/13 04:10 PM
3

Wow I remember the post about you doing her homework! Do you recall who directed you to this sub? I occasionally PM dudes that seem like they could use it but it seems most don't want to take the red pill.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/13 10:20 PM
3

I have a friend in a marriage like this. He is an engineer making a decent salary, and she is a veterinarian making significantly more. She wears the pants, but he seems to have the beta dream marriage. They have a nice house and go on nice vacations, and just had a baby. Has he found the one in a million woman or will things go south? Only time will tell. I still believe that there is a not insignificant percentage of women that could make good partners in this scenario. Most of us here just ha…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/13 11:12 PM
1

I feel guilty, the thought of forcing a 33 year old woman who can't have kids back out into the church single market where divorce is frowned upon. I don't want her to be alone the rest of her life, even though I would be FINE if I was. I broke up with my 33 year old girlfriend last year, and at first I felt guilty knowing she'd hit the wall. She already has a new guy that stepped up to be her bf. (I know nothing about him but hopefully for her he's not some blue pill beta, most likely is though…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/13 01:58 PM
1

Excellent post. I haven't yet read MMSL, but I plan to in the future. The fact that your wife is a bad wife is your fault. That hits me deep.. I lived with my college sweetheart for almost a decade, and somehow I turned more beta every year that went by. She was smart and beautiful, but I ruined her attraction by bending over backwards to make her happy. By the time I started acting more red pill (about 6 months before I found this sub), her attitude changed for the better, but I was already so …
/r/TheRedPill11/07/13 01:35 PM
1

I feel like we are being very hypocritical here. We get angry that women ride the cock carousel when they are young and their SMV is high, but when we get older and discover that our SMV is peaking we do exactly the same thing!
/r/TheRedPill03/07/13 06:10 PM
0

Wait, did she hook up with your trustworthy friend or a different coworker?
/r/TheRedPill19/05/13 04:40 AM
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I was thinking the same. I entered the text into an analyzer on a website, http://www.hackerfactor.com/GenderGuesser.php#Analyze . Results: Genre: Informal Female = 2493 Male = 2308 Difference = -185; 48.07% Verdict: Weak FEMALE Weak emphasis could indicate European.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/13 11:33 PM
1

The 25 year old will obviously be better looking but in my experience they are horribly immature. I think the smarter girls hook a guy in college, get married and have kids and aren't out on the singles scene at 25.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/13 07:04 PM
2

FYI when you give advice like that you might as well not waste your time typing.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/13 03:45 AM
2

Could you describe the fadeaway technique? That is something I could use!
/r/TheRedPill27/04/13 12:00 AM
1

Thanks, that was a very good, rational read.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/13 03:35 PM
1

Should I keep fucking her if that's true? I don't want to "shoplift the pooty" as they say .
/r/TheRedPill26/04/13 03:38 AM
1

I think she knows I could upgrade. We got into a little fight recently (definitely my fault - I was being an ass). She got mad and I called her bluff - didn't call or text for several days. Well as most here could predict, several days later I get a long email with an apology of sorts. Before I found this sub I probably would have been apologizing to her! Its amazing how their hamster brains work.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/13 03:35 AM
1

What you're saying really applies to all women though right? Even if they don't have a kid they are at least looking for someone to take care of themselves. She's done a good job on her own (decent job, condo, car, good with finances, etc) which makes me worry about that less. Though I did mention a potential promotion at work that would be more pay, but also a lot more stress/responsibility. She encouraged me and said "don't you want to make more money so you can have a stay at home wife?" I wa…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/13 03:28 AM
1

Well at first I figured it couldn't be so bad.. I'm good with kids and I feel Id be contributing to society in a small way. :) lately im not so sure.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/13 03:22 AM
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That's one thing that worries me. I've met the son and he's a nice kid but the dad is a doochebag loser.. It wouldn't surprise me in the least if he turns into a dickhead teen.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/13 03:18 AM
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I'm sorry about your friend. I've been in a LTR where my ex slowly isolated me from my friends, until the point I realized I didn't really talk to or hang out with any of them. Then she lost her libido lol. I sort of independently came to realize the red pill and then found this sub. Not gonna make that mistake again. I've met the kids dad and he is a douche.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/13 03:15 AM
1

I couldn't have said that better myself.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/13 01:59 AM
1

How long have you known her? My dad once told me that it takes about 3 months before they start acting like their crazy selves. I too thought I had found a great girl but we just broke up after 4 months. Wouldn't you know she can turn on the bitch like the rest of them.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/13 04:27 AM
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Ideally Id like a family and a nice relationship with someone I can grow old with. I had a girl living with me for years, first few were great and the last few she acted like a spoiled brat and withheld affection, even though I kept doing more for her. Eventually I couldn't take it and independently found the red pill. :) Fortunately we never got married (we were engaged for years). New girl is great but I have little faith in women after the last.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/13 03:10 AM
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Finding the right girl is the hard part. I think i have one now but it's too soon to be sure. Id like theredpill's thoughts on how to be sure but that merits a post of its own.
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