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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 132 | Don't know why I waited | #HeAin'tTheOne2021 | Hysterical-Image1886 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 08:49 PM |
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| 29 | Including men in feminism is how liberal feminism happenedExactly, we were supposed to meet in the middle as equals, instead we ended up ceding ground under the guise of being "liberated" They never wanted change that would benefit anyone else. Again as an empathetic person, I feel for these poor men. The world is changing without them, and now they're finding they can't bully and coerce their way through jobs and relationships. Boo-fucking-hoo. Do better scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 11:22 PM |
| 57 | Including men in feminism is how liberal feminism happenedAs someone who grew up as this more male-friendly feminism was beginning to be accepted, you're absolutely right. It's easy to see where it came from as an empathetic person; patriarchy hurts men= men and women can redefine roles together doubling our strength = we all become happier, healthier more rounded people. Unfortunately, this falls apart in reality because men are not engaging this in good faith, sure they'll pay lip service to the idea that the standards set in place are no longer bene… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 09:46 PM |
| 41 | FDS is anti-redpill. We protect women from abusive men, including redpillers. Saying that FDS is "redpill for women" is literally victim blaming.They're just mad that women have once again seen what men were doing and then proceeded to do it better. Which of us are going our own way again? Because I only see one group advocating for improving yourself independent of the opposite sex, and thriving at it. 💅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 11:06 PM |
| 29 | Once the glasses come off you can't help but see misogyny everywhereAgain doing my best to keep it vague. Our EE group for Women is actually crazy popular (thousands of members) and it’s run by some of the most inspiring women I’ve had the pleasure to work with. I am personally involved in reviving one of the less populated groups, but one of our biggest advancements has been uniting the groups to work together. Because surprise! A lot of us fall into more than one of these categories, and helping one of us helps all of us. That being said, I work adjacent to th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 09:15 PM |
| 149 | Once the glasses come off you can't help but see misogyny everywhereHooo girl I feel you on this. I'm fairly new to FDS, but have always been the "selfish" girl who didn't care about dating or having kids. Recognizing that I'm not the train wreck is not the relief I expected it to be, it's disheartening. To be purposefully vague, I'm involved with employment equity in meat space and it's edifying. Between recognizing how far we have to go and recognizing the constant grind of daily misogyny that I was blind to, on top of what I did recognize is exhausting. I can… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 05:25 PM |
| 29 | Men Who Don’t Believe You/ Play Devils Advocate and What It Really MeansMine was a philosophy major. Even the devil deserves better than having to suffer these men. 😒😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 07:23 PM |
| 30 | Men Who Don’t Believe You/ Play Devils Advocate and What It Really MeansHoly crap, you just laid out so clearly what I couldn't articulate with my ex. Everything I did was wrong, I was always wrong. Even in areas where I am an expert, where he held not even a passing interest, he would "correct" me. It was always about highlighting that I was an NPC, not a real person who was deserving of basic respect and dignity. Needless to say, it did my head in, and I'm struggling with rebuilding my self-esteem. You nailed it being a form of withholding and emotional abuse, it … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 07:20 PM |
| 43 | I am so tired of working in a male dominated field 😢He's bullying you to make himself feel and appear more powerful to the rest of the workers. You had the audacity to stand up for yourself, so he's going to make an example. As a woman who cannot keep her mouth shut even when it might make life easier for me, I've put that target on my back too. Don't give him the satisfaction of seeing you suffer. Because he is weak here, that's why he's trying to bully you. You folded as far as he can see, so now you'll be the example. Don't be. Find your allie… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 01:38 AM |
| 111 | I am so tired of working in a male dominated field 😢To start with I am so sorry to hear you're going through this. I used to work in (and run) Kitchens in a professional capacity, so I'm familiar with the nonsense that can come from a change in management. I'll leave dealing with the gossip and coworkers turning against you to someone with more diplomacy than myself. But you're right that you need this for school, so focus on the job and document, document, document. Also, be aware of how you frame this discussion with HR, even here it sounds lik… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 01:12 AM |
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