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It depends on the level of untidy. There's loved in then there's hoarder level lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:01 PM
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Oooh hold on lemme smoke quick then we can fight lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 05:24 PM
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I'm not cooking for a dirty man. I'm not fucking one, either. I'm leaving.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 05:24 PM
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No shit. That's the point. If it isn't uo to my standards then I move along. The same with enough income, enough vacations, what types of food we eat, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 05:18 PM
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You are comparing picking up your dirty laundry to rape. Go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 05:17 PM
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Y'all aren't lonely enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 05:16 PM
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No. I will continue to use my money to hire professionals and continue to expect my husband to pull his weight. He also hires professionals.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 05:16 PM
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No, it wasn't, but go off king.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 05:16 PM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 05:15 PM
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A clean home isn't a high standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:59 PM
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We leave y'all all the time lmfao and you guys bitch about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:58 PM
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Natural grime is still grime. Clean it up ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:58 PM
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We aren't "cleaner." Y'all are just slobs. Go be arbitrary in your own home.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:57 PM
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He is intentionally being dumb at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:56 PM
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Where did I say you said that? Fuck off weirdo. I used it in quotes and you know what I meant, but you want to be purposefully dense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:55 PM
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Also, household/consumer shopping is "women's work." No, a lazy slob of a husband isn't going to notice we need new pillows, the kids have outgrown clothing, we need more lemon Pledge, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:06 AM
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Yeah it makes no sense lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:56 PM
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No, fairness does not apply ever when it involves infringement upon someone's rights or autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:55 PM
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Maybe Dan should be a felon instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:50 PM
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Unfair? Eww. Sorry, my pussy IS NOT an equal opportunity employer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:50 PM
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Oh, I did. Suddenly his standards were a little higher. I absolutely will go on strike if needed, too. Been there, done that. We are still finding a balance, but life is a journey:)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:51 AM
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Functional and clean are really all that is asked. If someone prefers more decor, cool, but also don't date them if it bothers you. We all have ADHD so we go for functionality lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:11 PM
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You jumped from shit stains on a toilet to OCD. Have a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:50 PM
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The issue is you can't have an aesthetic without basic home maintenence and cleaning. Fancily folded clothes are probably more of a functional thing, like space rolling towels because we are a family of 7 (8 next year!) and need to save space.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:49 PM
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It isn't 18 throw pillows. It's having a house and bathroom that doesn't smell. A toilet that isn't covered in gunk on the side. Not having to step over piles and piles of dirty laundry. Like you said, this traps dust and orders.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:49 PM
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It annoys us or gives us anxiety because then we are the ones stuck doing the work. How can you relax in a pigsty?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:46 PM
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Crazy that you speak on women, then give the reason why it's still a man's fault. Women do not have "high" standards. They have standards. The baseline in standards is higher for women than men, and that makes sense socially, biologically, and financially. Hell, even for safety reasons it makes sense for women's standards, in a side by side comparison, to be stricter or higher. If a man has to continously lower his standards, then he needs to check his SMV. Women too. Set realistic goals and exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 04:07 PM
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The reason men have this problem is because of themselves. They are choosing to lower standards. It is a problem of their own creation. Women do not want most of the options that come to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 06:46 AM
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It isn't "easy to say as a woman." Maybe we just aren't as desperate? Have more self respect or even fear of stigma? It's unique challenges for each player.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 06:10 AM
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That's their problem. The reason doesn't matter. If you are lowering your standards to get your dick wet, that says more about you than her. Get therapy and wear a condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 05:06 PM
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Yes. So I still don't get OP's point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 05:06 PM
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Then she doesn't get married. Or does. Idk, my husband really wanted to be married because he's old school. So we did. Our CPA also said we had to at this point, and the VA needs the marriage certificate for my husband's benefits. It worked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 05:05 PM
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Uh, if they're choosing to date her, she isn't out of their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 02:24 AM
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We live and learn, and also prioritize different traits as we age. Just like the guys do. We learn what who we are and what we want. The criteria for sex actually gets harder and more stringent as both men and women grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 02:40 AM
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That isn't what passport bros do. And idk about you, but I throw myself at my husband. It's almost embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 07:44 AM
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About 25% end within 15 years, and 20% within 2 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 09:12 PM
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They still get left once that 5 year term is met.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 05:35 PM
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It isn't "insanely rich." Women aren't pursuing men as hard as the other way around. We are happily single. You can't call women lazy because they don't want to do YOUR work. Men want women. You want a woman. She/they just don't want you/men. That isn't female laziness. It's male bitterness and entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 05:35 PM
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Agreed on both sides. I have seen the entitled man aspect as well as the entitled woman aspect. It all comes down to SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 08:37 PM
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Tf? I do not need to disclose my entire sexual, medical, and financial records to my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 03:09 PM
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No one's standard are crazy. Either meet my standards or we aren't together. Why are you projecting an entire population's baseline standards onto another group? Those women can either find a mate or be alone. Why should women have to lower their standards to fit men's already low standards? Maybe men should raise theirs. I say this as someone with very high standards who did not settle and found their person. I understood my place and my SMV. I found someone to match it. Edit: also, personally,…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 01:29 AM
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Neither of those preferences are crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 07:15 PM
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I hope so. I have some pretty awesome friends 🧡 I'm actually on the phone right now with one, making arrangements to come chill so I can meet his new gf. I am very excited for them!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 07:01 PM
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I'm not dating my friends. We are hanging out, not on a date. The intentions are way different.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 02:09 PM
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People are responsible for themselves. Women got it figured out, and men still can't cope. Yes, darling, you absolutely do have to "still take on" your own responsibilities and can no longer dump them onto women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 01:47 AM
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Exactly this. Yes, we ARE questioning the agency of young adults. That's why we are concerned in the first place. There's distinct differences between young adults and adults to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 12:55 AM
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There have been posts in female communities on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:22 PM
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Not having trial data is your "trial data." Facts aren't attacks, and statistics don't lie. Men do not and will not engage with birth control. Google it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:16 AM
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... do you understand stand how clinical trials work? It can't be "proven safe" without a clinical trial, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:15 AM
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Lol, because they've already decided not to. BC for men isn't a novel concept. They all refuse or drop out during clinical trials.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 12:09 PM
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Why? So we can come home to a trashed house and a hungry man who just whines about not knowing how to properly do stuff? So we can put more mental and emotional energy into having to teach a grown man how to do laundry, cook, clean, etc.? We will just be single. If I hadn't found my husband, I honestly wouldn't be looking. I wasn't looking when I found him. Y'all are just so exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:19 PM
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That's kinda weird and definitely unhealthy. All of the men in my life have friends. My husband has friends. Do you want friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 01:15 AM
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Yes, because it was just for sex. Men like this pick up after themselves and load the dishwasher then expect a sexual favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 05:20 PM
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Exactly. I have no expectations of my prior FWB besides the personal rules and boundaries we instilled. I will also deny someone a casual relationship if they are messy and unkempt, just like many other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 05:19 PM
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What is your point? Men lust over super models and actresses as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 08:31 PM
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I've never really heard people actually say this, come to think of it. It just sounds so cringey.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 12:55 AM
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He can. He will come home to an empty house with the results on the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 07:08 PM
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I won't put that shit in my body for a reason
/r/TheRedPill26/03/25 05:32 AM
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I'm 5'4 so I would probably be more attracted to the shorter ones. My type is short dad bod anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:20 AM
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No, they don't. You read some dumb shit written by some dumb bitch and ran with it. Kinda like this dumb shit written by some dumbass I'm reading now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:31 PM
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If she's already this perfect person, why will she want me? Have a little more confidence in yourself. Stop trying to Captain Save a Hoe women. She'll want you because you enhance her life and make it better just by being there. People can be happy single and happy when they're in a relationship, too. You don't need to have something to dangle over her head to get her to be with you. Why would you want that, anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 01:17 AM
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This all just sounds like a skills issue. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 01:13 AM
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bro you can either drive a $200k or live in a box. lmfao like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 01:09 AM
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I am not compromising on basic life skills and adulting. Adults need to cook, clean, pay bills, do routine household and car maintenance, raise children, mow the lawn, balance the checkbook, schedule appointments... That's literally the bare minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:31 PM
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Women will move the goal posts whenever it suits them to call a guy a “loser” ...and so will men. It's almost like different people have different preferences, boundaries, and expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 11:04 PM
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Yes, I know that's the point. Why is that being contested as an issue? It's very nearly fact in how humans operate. Once you see the loser in a woman/realize she's for the streets/she's LV/has a high body count (I know this isn't a deal breaker for some but for a lot it is)/has kids... you can never unsee it. That's the case for anyone. Whether it's a friend, potential suitor, business partner, current partner... Yeah, once you see the loser and get the ick, it's time to pull the trigger on that…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:59 PM
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There is quite a difference between double and quindecuple (I googled to see what the word for 15 times would be here lol) texting someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:28 PM
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He wasn't opening up and being vulnerable. He was exposing himself. Who tf sends 15 messages to someone after they have made it clear they aren't interested?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:27 PM
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I think he's starting to become controlling and he's insecure about something. I would ask him why he feels insecure in your relationship, and if he feels there's something you did to plant those seeds of doubt. His behavior isn't acceptable, and you need to know why he's acting that way and how the two of you can work through it.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/23 04:17 AM
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Of course! I think he should be proud and impressed. I do all my boyfriend's gift shopping lol. I would be annoyed if he tried to diminish something in not only good at, but enjoy putting effort into (especially in our case where he could just go do it himself then). Do you think he could be cheating and he's projecting onto you?
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/23 04:05 AM
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I would tell him that it's poor etiquette to give blatantly thoughtless gifts. Me, personally I love gift giving and ALL my gifts, event $1 trinkets from the Dollar Tree, are thoughtful. You didn't know much about the coworker, so you googled the one thing you knew about him. That's honestly like the bare minimum effort lol, and I don't mean that in a bad way!
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/23 03:58 AM
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What is your budget? What are his hobbies, favorite sports teams, favorite foods, what does he study?
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/23 03:54 AM
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I would be annoyed, too. It's a work event, not like you saved some random dude's number at a bar. If he does this a lot, I would call him out on it. You're defensive because it's stupid and doesn't really even make sense. You bought a gift for a Secret Santa exchange, does he understand that?
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/23 03:42 AM
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I agree. That's why I'm saying there's a need for direct and respectful communication so we wouldn't have such dramatic gaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:52 PM
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I wouldn't want someone to waste their time either if they thought we weren't compatible. Why would I want to be lead on or lead someone on? That's exactly why I go on lowkey dates where we can actually talk and engage in something.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:50 PM
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That's why I said it seemed odd and different from my experience. I wasn't challenging the OC, just having a discussion. They went on to explain more and it was actually really insightful to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:49 PM
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I've been proposed to three times. I'm conventionally attractive, educated, and successful. It's about respectful and professional communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:55 PM
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Financial comparability is important, but it's a sore topic because people think you're being greedy. It isn't greedy to expect your partner to be responsible. There's a difference between fiscal irresponsibility and struggling. I dated a dude who got paid biweekly and would literally blow his entire paycheck within 3 or 4 days then ask me to help him pay his bills. He would just buy stupid shit like booze, drugs, DVDs, and phone games lol. So I was like nah. I get you're poor and that's fine, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:50 PM
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it signals to me that the girl is not physically attracted to me and just wants someone to settle down That's an odd experience. I wouldn't even be on the date if I didn't find you attractive, and by the third or fourth date, I am obviously not only attracted, but interested in potentially moving forward so that's why I bring it up. Are you sure this has always been the case, or is this just a fear of yours and becoming a self fulfilling prophecy?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:35 AM
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I always bring this up, along with political ideals, budgeting styles, and children on the first few dates. Not like a DO YOU THINK I AM WIFEY MATERIAL AND WHAT IS YOUR CREDIT SCORE way, but I genuinely don't see the point in us leading each other on. Why would I put energy into being exclusive with you or dating you if we aren't compatible? I would ask about your career, your aspirations, etc. Do you want kids one day? How do you feel about marriage, and are you more interested in casual or str…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:12 AM
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I'm kind of envious, not gonna lie. My partner has a triple digit number, which I never minded. He is a good lover. But having someone with raw, natural talent that you can mold from the bottom up?? Get it!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:17 PM
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Also let’s not act like women don’t just starfish 95% of the time ... Newsflash: those men are inexperienced. 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:15 PM
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Lol I have, but it isn't worth it. Burner numbers, multiple profiles across multiple social media sites... I have found it best just to completely block all unwanted advances. Edit: it also seems like a super unhinged thing to do, showering someone knavish gifts immediately. I kinda feel like it's morally wrong to take that type of stuff when I don't anticipate having a realistic way to return the gesture or energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 07:20 AM
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Some random dude sending me money would creep me out. It's happened before, it creeped me out, I didn't accept it and blocked him. We really don't fall for that stuff. It makes dudes think they're entitled to our time and bodies. I didn't ask you send me money (and didn't accept it), I didn't ask you to take me to dinner, etc. Accepting grandiose gestures isn't necessarily bad, I get giving someone the chance, but it usually ends really badly if things don't work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 05:29 AM
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Exactly this. I'm not trying to struggle for a decade when you get your shit together. We want realistic goals, timelines, and expectations. My husband wasn't on top of his A game when I met him, but he was actively and realistically working to get to that point. That's an acceptable amount of "baggage." I had my own acceptable amount of baggage, like we all do. We both decided to put up with each other's shit, and here we are. Our baby girl is due at the end of January.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:13 PM
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I would not care. I was a little shocked when I found out my partner's number, but more like a damn dude, how? You're kinda an asshole and have poor time management skills. Alrighty then.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:41 PM
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You don't. It just has to be a mutual agreement between the two parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 10:41 PM
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I'm not denying men can be raped. That wasn't the point of the post. With your $360k/yr, you don't need to sleep down. You can if you want to. Easily. You could also just afford a high priced escort. The post is about sleeping down and why women don't risk it. The answer is because they can't afford it. Your high income is NOT the norm. Carry your own condoms. Carry your own drink. This is advice not just for you, but for everyone. Freeze your sperm and get a vasectomy or hire security at this p…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 10:24 PM
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Please explain my trauma to me. I was using statistics, not my life story. Don't cum in losers. Problem solved. You aren't the one whose body needs to go through pregnancy, labor, and delivery. You can send a measley sum of money once per month and never interact with the child if that's what you choose. What "more" do you have to lose? 17% of your $35k a year? Okay buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:33 PM
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Yes I would lol. I would actually be more inclined to wear it around my girlfriends because it's fun. Again, both things can be true at once, and not exactly causative. We would still wear makeup if no men were around if we liked wearing makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:20 PM
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There was absolutely no need for him to open that situation with such vulgarity. He could've just said she looked very beautiful and that the dress was a nice fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:15 PM
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People like healthy and fun attention. We can do something for ourselves that other people may or may not like, but it doesn't hurt anyone and we like it. Just let women be dude. I can dress for myself just as much as I can dress up for a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:14 PM
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Agreed. What's the point of taking a partner if they don't benefit and improve your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:10 PM
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I'm not sure what this adds to the discussion. You're just trauma dumping and I'm not here for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:09 PM
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We aren't allowed to have preferences and stand by them where women can have the highest standards and no one questions it. I was with you until this part. Men can still have preferences and stand by them. Men don't HAVE to 'sleep down.' I would argue and add that women have more to risk with a sexual relationship (being overpowered and assaulted, getting pregnant and abandoned, harsher social stigma for sleeping around) than men do. Men can afford to sleep down if they want to. Women could easi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 01:16 AM
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I guess it depends what your view of alpha is. I am not going to pretend we don't have our problems, but I am very happy and proud of the man I've chosen to spend eternity with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:38 AM
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They define "bad boy" as "blue collar, parties sometimes, maybe has tattoos." bartenders bartenders get laid. Shit. I posted below how young adult women grow and end up maturing from "bad boys," but you've literally just described my husband. I guess old habits die hard. Oh well. I like my modest blue collar men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:32 AM
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Especially young women. It's exactly this. When I was in my early 20s I didn't give a damn that you drove a reliable vehicle, knew a skilled trade, had a modest starter home, lived frugally, and were climbing the career ladder. You can cook? Uh... Cool. Can we go get sushi and drinks instead? You have to work in the morning? No, I don't want to stream a movie and eat some dumbass pasta you made. I want to go out! I wouldn't say I was wild per se; I balanced work, my studies, and a healthy social…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:28 AM
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The only time I've done this was because the man was annoyingly and uncomfortably persistent. We were both part of an integral friend group, and he and our friends would constantly harass me about it. It got to the point that I began to doubt myself. Am I being a bitch? Snooty? Intolerant or worse? I genuinely tried. I had told him from the first time he expressed interest that I was NOT interested due to our lifestyles and goals being drastically different. The second time. The third time. The …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:42 PM
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I don't kink shame. You do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:45 AM
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Depends. Is he able to move up? There's more than money to a career. Is he satisfied? Happy and healthy? Good work-life balance? Good benefits? Decent commute? Does he care that I make more than him? (I never cared, some men did). Someone making $250k but working 90 hour weeks I would want to work towards a better work-life balance. Someone making $17/hr... Yeah, I'm gonna need you to work towards a larger salary. Perhaps "advancing his career" was too generalized a statement, but that's what I …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:56 PM
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When he makes minimum wage or close to it, yes? I expect that of myself. I have never expected anything I wasn't willing and able to also provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:48 PM
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People want PARTNERS not indentured servants.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:17 PM
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Let me put it to you this way: He loses the right to bitch when I step out after denying him sex. Why would I deny a man sex? He's selfish in bed. Financially and socially reckless. Carless. Rude. Abusive. Doesn't tend to my emotional needs. Doesn't help around the house. Isn't trying to better himself or advance his career. Doesn't take care of himself. Poor hygiene. The list goes on and on and on. So he will get denied. I'm still horny, so I guess I'll go cheat given your logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 09:38 PM
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Came here to say this. Really, it comes down to having some type of structure imo. Balancing athletics, music and arts, studies, maybe a part time job, a hobby, and a social life (all which can be enmeshed with your extra curriculars) sets you up for success in college and beyond. Even if someone isn't planning on college or doesn't end up going, it's a microcosm for existing in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:23 PM
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Agreed. There is also a difference between an accusation and asking for clarification or feeling insecure. My husband asked me about a male friend/acquaintance once. I answered him honestly (no) but I also asked him why he felt the need to ask. He became visibly uncomfortable and apologetic. I immediately told him I wasn't upset--he had asked politely and without malice. I was more worried about what I did to make him feel insecure in our relationship. Somewhere along the way, I had a behavior, …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:39 PM
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Scroll this subreddit. You'll see this topic discussed ad nasueum. I'm not going to deny short kings have it harder. My husband is 5'6. People are fucking disrespectful assholes to him for no reason. Short dudes are the equivalent to chubby women. It's okay to not be attracted to someone. What isn't okay is to treat someone like shit, especially when it's just a normal interaction and not even a sexual one. Again, though, my husband isn't entitled to another woman's body besides mine (to a point…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 12:51 AM
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Again, my vagina isn't a commodity. I don't feel a spark, moving on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:51 PM
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This is what they don't understand. "You don't deserve me!!!" Uh. We never wanted you, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:49 PM
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I don't want a relationship with you or OP. I don't care what you think I deserve. You're right--I do NOT deserve access to another person's body. I'm happily married, growing my fourth child, and our small business and his career are taking off. But please, tell me again how much lower on the SMV scale than some dude on Reddit who can't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:48 PM
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Lol it is totally cringe, I agree. I know the exact people you're talking about. I have then on my timeline for the free entertainment. It's like trashy reality TV. I can't turn away 😭 It doesn't affect me though, just saves me money on a cable bill hahaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:43 PM
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How did the entitled bitch get knocked up in the first place? Stop raw dogging losers. Ladies: stop letting losers cum in you. YOU are responsible for YOUR birth control. I won't personally put any type of hormonal or insert I've contraceptive in myself, so I use a diaphragm, spermicidal gel, and latex-free condoms. I track my cycles and know when I'm ovulating. The only person I'm raw doggin' is my husband, and he has access to my charts too. He knows when to either avoid PIV intercourse or whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:04 PM
30

Who cares? Let them overrate themselves and deal with the consequences of their own actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:56 PM
10

Pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:56 PM
5

Calling paternity fraud "annoying" is very lenient from your part. Calling fake accusations "annoying" is also very lenient from your part. Both often destroy a man's life. ....what? Are the comments glitching? Genuine question, because I haven't seen anyone, including myself, say that in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:55 PM
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Behavior influences how we view that attractiveness. Initial "spark" is absolutely that shallow projection and assumption. That is how attractiveness works. I'm not sure why people are arguing that. It can go up or down easily depending on behavior though. A sweaty dude in a dirty Carhartt who tastes like coffee and nicotine? My panties are dropping. Idk, it's something about that blue collar look. I view him as strong, a willing provider who will do anything for his family, a protector, someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:38 PM
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While I agree it is fair, I am arguing it's rather nonsensical. NO ONE of ANY GENDER is entitled to the love, affection, and commitment of another. So... Maybe fair is the correct word? The two aren't remotely related. That's as silly as saying "if men need to wipe the rim and put the seat down, then so do women!" We don't piss standing up. We don't scream into the void about mid level men "ruining" dating because "they won't give us a chance!" It just isn't happening. Of course you'll see some …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:30 PM
0

What's your point? Go date a girl who is a 3 then.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:17 PM
8

MEN ARE NOT A RESOURCE. YOU SHOULD NOT ASSUME YOU WILL GET A MAN. MEN GET TO CHOOSE WHO THEY WANT. IF MEN ALL CHOOSE TO COMMIT TO ONLY MARGOT ROBBIE AND NO ONE ELSE EVER, THAT IS NOT ONLY FINE, IT IS COMPLETELY FINE BECAUSE NONE OF THE OTHER WOMEN WERE EVER SUPPOSED TO GET A MAN. Uh. We don't think like that. We aren't cluttering this sub with every other post being about woe is me, Chad won't date me. Scroll up. Scroll down. What's the common denominator?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:16 PM
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That, and apparently our pussies are commodities to be equal distributed. Who cares if a 4 won't date anyone but a 9? Move along to the next one. It's every other thread I see dudes whining they can't get hot girls to take them seriously. Not the 5s, or the 6s, or the 7.5s. Maybe... Just maybe... It's you, OP. You are the common denominator. You do NOT deserve a chance with me or anyone else. You do NOT deserve the love, attention, and affection of anyone. Get over yourself and maybe someone wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:14 PM
2

I can't imagine kissing his mouth, it would be like licking cemetery soil. No, thanks. Lmfaoooo this has me howling omg 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:51 PM
2

Yes, multiple times. Physically, mentally, emotionally, and financially. That's why we are partners, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:15 AM
5

I wouldn't see a problem with it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:29 AM
0

Yes, it is. Good relationship > single > bad relationship. What don't you understand? We are happier single because a majority of the relationships available do not fall into the good relationship quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:02 PM
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Trust. It is not a compliment. We think you're (general you/fuckboys) gross and pander to the lowest common denominator, the pick mes desperate for any male attention. Dude could be drowning in puss, but it's low quality on both ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 07:59 PM
2

This is a really well-written and nicely thought out response. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:29 AM
2

Adultfriendfinder, The League and seeking.com are all separate platforms with filter features that are slowly being integrated into premium versions of commercial apps Those are more sugaring apps Without any attractive women around for the men or any decent men around for the women, there’s only fantasy left. That’s what people are chasing now. Pretty much. Anyone who was marketable left OLD or already found someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 05:50 PM
1

Agreed. Those as well as physical and sexual compatibility are important.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 02:40 PM
1

There’s absolutely nothing wrong with having an ideal height preference in a partner or having a particular body type. Completely agree. Everyone should be able to filter by body type (thin, athletic, curvy, bbw...), height, politics, income, etc. We have to be compatible. I personally don’t care how low a woman’s body count is (it’s never played a factor). Also a preference which is fine. But men already don’t have a voice on Bumble without a woman’s permission. Because an overwhelming amount o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 02:39 PM
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So don't date her. Date someone you're compatible with. Most men simply don't care. If you care, seek out someone whose values align with yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 11:02 AM
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Nah, I'm good on that. I'm not going to sit here and pretend to care about someone's convoluted feelings due to their own insecurities. Absolutely no way I would ever entertain that. I do not have the patience for stupid shit. Edit: also, if wasn't being treated well, why did he stick around and put all that effort in? Why did he propose? Why did he get married? If you aren't being treated well either speak to your partner about it or leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 10:57 AM
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We know yall dont want casual sex with average men. Your pool isn't limited to average men tho. Sure you may not get a male model but most women who want to can match with a tall physically fit guy with a 6/10 or better face and a big dick to have casual sex with. And? We seek something out and get it. Why should we settle or fuck someone we aren't attracted to? Its not on anyone. Its just nature that men are hornier and have lower threshold for being visually turned on. This is contradictory. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 10:55 AM
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And? Don't do it if you don't want to lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 10:49 AM
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And? Even if that is true, who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 10:48 AM
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I wouldn't say it's a 'usually' at all. Attraction is so subjective and fluid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:38 AM
1

How is a woman choosing to spend an eternity with a man make him the downgrade? Wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:36 AM
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We don't treat our flings, FWB, and ONS like husbands lol. Believe me, husbands get the best treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:35 AM
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The average guy does not have the same level of access to casual sex as the average woman We want access to good sex. A pool of average guys doesn't directly mean we all get at least average sex. Men lower their standards for casual sex. That's on men. casual sex guy sex quicker casual sex. Holy shit, more sex. We aren't taking casual home to our families or building a life with anything casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:26 AM
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It's exactly like this. Also, there is more to a relationship than just sex. It's an important comparability factor along with everything else. I'm not taking home the dumb one to my family.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:21 AM
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About what?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:58 AM
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One (wo)man's trash is another (wo)man's treasure, right? Someone not meeting my standards is let go. And I find it hard to believe you are married while pink pilled. Don't care. There's pics of us together all over the internet if you care so deeply about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:33 AM
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Yes. I still don't get it. I prefer traditional relationships but don't gaf what others do. This is MY life and I love it MY way according to my standards, virtues, and goals. If I hadn't met a partner who was going to live up to that, I would be single. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 11:45 AM
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I am. There's pics of him on my profile even :) Snagged me a 20-percenter. You mad?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 11:43 AM
1

It's been discussed in this sub previously. Google it: https://www.google.com/search?q=record+number+single+and+happy+women&oq=record+number+single+and+happy+women&aqs=chrome..69i57.5120j0j1&client=ms-android-tmus-us-revc&sourceid=chrome-mobile&ie=UTF-8 Then look at the census and demographic studies. Put 2 and 2 together.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 11:42 AM
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Never said men are crap who don't meet my standards. Funny how I am married but still didn't date men who didn't meet my standards. That's why I'm married, dingus.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 11:41 AM
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I must be if it's working out, right? I've never been dumped, but I also haven't had very many serious relationship tbh. Standards are relative. I make (made, doing the SAHM thing rn) 6 figures, am college educated, keep a clean and tidy home, cook, bake, own a business.. It depends on what YOU/my partners want. Maybe I'm too much for some people. Maybe I'm not enough for others. I have MY standards and my expectations for myself and for others. If they don't meet them, that's okay, but they may…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 03:44 PM
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Cool. Still not going to date them unless they meet my standards. Whether they're 5% or 99%. Standards are also relative.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 03:14 PM
1

Okay, if that's what you think. Could you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 01:00 PM
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I don't. Where have I? I'm currently sitting on my sunporch, next to my husband, pregnant with my 4th, sipping my tea. Standards are being met.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 12:59 PM
2

Free-lance hamster trainer lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 12:45 PM
1

But don’t expect people not to be bias when you are. When was I ever non-biased? When did I say men shouldn't have standards either?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 12:45 PM
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Because western society isn't set up to raise a family properly. We have to work as if we aren't parents, but somehow parent as if we don't work. A lot of that pressure is put on women. With men, they're supposed to be sensitive but not too sensitive, well dressed and handsome but not showing off, have a good paying job but look at the economy... Many of us were set up for failure from the get go.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 12:41 PM
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Does it matter? Not being snarky, genuinely asking. You aren't my partner so it's a moot point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 12:39 PM
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That's was already acknowledged. You can't use the same point twice. What about all the single men? Why aren't they getting married? Record number of single and HAPPY women as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 12:37 PM
2

Lmao this is perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 12:36 PM
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Except we don't and aren't. You're literally contradicting yourself. Look at the single men. Why aren't we marrying them? We are happier single.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 12:35 PM
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Why didn’t their fathers act as role models? I ask this all the time. Why do we have so many single mothers? Where are the fathers?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:27 AM
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A lot of people have to settle. That's their prerogative. I do think many men are physically attracted to a 250 pound 40 year old woman for exmaple but someone’s gotta marry her lol. No, they don't. That's on the man for disrespecting himself and settling. Just because you/men do it, doesn't mean I/we/women have to. Have some respect for yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:24 AM
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And? Should we lower our standards to make the bottom 63% happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:22 AM
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It’s very rarely mentioned neutrally, almost always negatively and derogatorily as if women should be ashamed. So, that’s why they take offense. Precisely this. Like I should take the L and let a few losers nut in me, or lOwEr My StANdARdS to give nice guys a "chance." Ew. This isn't equal opportunity pussy,, and my life and happiness aren't equal opportunity either. I was perfectly content and happy being single until I met my husband. He actually had to pursue me because I honestly didn't care…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:20 AM
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The only people I ever see offended by it are other men. They bitterly spit that 80% of women want only the top 20% of men. Duh? We all want top tier partners. Then the men will "comeback" with "well, men aren't too picky. At least we will settle!" Ok? That says a lot about men... And it isn't good. Women won't settle. We are perfectly happy being single if we can't have someone who doesn't meet our standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:17 AM
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Honestly, the most exhausting thing about it is men (especially in this sub) screaming about how easy access to sex and dating is for women, when in reality, sure--sex is easy to get. Quality sex, on the other hand, is few and far between. Finding an actual partner who is in tune with my body and committed to me is different than a FWB is different than a fuckboi who will nut & bolt. I'll admit I've never had to really deal with that, but it's because I watched my peers deal with it. So I didn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 01:11 PM
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No, I didn't. No where did I encourage any of that behavior. No one actually wants that in a long term partner. When the boy keeps acting like a boy, we dip. You're a placeholder at that point. Same thing a lower SMV girl is to a higher SMV guy. It goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:00 AM
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I'll go tell him now. He isn't "fun" in the sense he's out hustling drugs, drinking until 4 AM, getting in fights, gambling, etc. He's fun because we garden, restore old furniture together, convince my father in law to watch the kids for an hour then we "sneak" to the pub and have one drink before last call while giggling like naughty schoolgirls, goes to alllll the concerts, events, and festivals with me (we are Knicks season ticket holders), gets drunk or stoned with me APPROPRIATELY, experime…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 11:42 PM
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Lol. Did OP really think we'd settle for the party bad boy small-town drug dealer? Like.. was his plan to sell drugs, buy a house, raise a family? People I casually date/fuck/party with aren't the same people I'm taking home to my parents and building a life with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:01 PM
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That's managing schedules. Not routine housework, home maintenance, deep cleaning, shopping, cooking, etc. I already said why he couldn't stay home and we aren't going to analyze it further.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 11:48 AM
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Statistics back up your skepticism. Not only do working women shoulder most.of the domestic duties when both partners are working, working women with stay at home husband's do much more domestic work than working men with stay at home wives. In a unicorn situation, I would accept it in a heart beat. I make considerably more than my husband, but he admits he can't be the one to stay home. I enjoy being home, don't get me wrong, but it would make more sense to switch if he were able.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:02 AM
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I could never. A lot of men, however, aren't concerned about their partner's sexual experience. They are selfish and unwilling to try. They lack foreplay skills or even the willingness and enthusiasm to engage in foreplay. A lot men don't pull their weight in terms of domestic duties and child rearing, and therefore become rather unattractive as a whole to their female partners. You seem like you have a good head on your shoulders and appreciate balance. You're mortified at the idea of someone n…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 11:02 PM
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As someone in the swinging community, I can assure you--they absolutely do not. Anyway, if you've found a niche community that does, send the link my way. I love 3sums. I am not the norm.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 03:06 PM
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"it isn't right..." What? I can't even walk down the street, have a cold beer after work, or shit--DO MY FUCKING JOB without being sexually harassed or assaulted regularly. Just this past year: Waiting in line for my whiskey at the bar. Fuckhead reaches UP MY SKIRT and into my panties. I decked him, hilarity ensued, a gaggle of women came to defend me and literally threw the asshole out. Waiting to play darts at the bar. A man walks by, grabs my drink off the table, laughs and goes to drink it a…
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 03:03 PM
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What are you talking about? I would neither value nor entertain a tit for tat friendship with any gender. That isn't a valuable relationship at all. You seem to be projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:55 AM
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So, pushing even more labor onto the woman? She already said no. Now she has jump and coddle him? She is also suppose to somehow read his mind and predict the future, and understand that this man is "deluded" and she has to go save the day?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 09:27 PM
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I would be exercising my options as well. Believe me, I have options :)
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/23 11:39 PM
1

Thanks for the tip about the podcast! I can't often listen while driving bc my kids whine about it lol, but I'll definitely tune in when doing housework :)
/r/RedPillWives03/05/23 12:54 AM
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Came here to say exactly this! I didn't even think about the fact that I DO have bikini pics on social media. I read the OP's title and was like lol eww (to me) I would never do that! Then I realized we go on the lake/boat nearly every Sunday, and duh--there are plenty of bikini pics and shirtless pics on our accounts. Even some of me in a bikini with my kids next to me. One is glorious. Absolute brilliant shot my partner got of me tossing a can of beer to his friend. I am leaning over the boat …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 06:44 PM
1

That doesn't work for me, personally. I've found someone who aligns with my personal values.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:19 PM
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No, they don't. Most single moms don't receive their court mandatory child support. What families y'all supporting? Last week there was a thread blowing up about how it was impossible to be a sole provider. Which narrative is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:13 PM
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Men are attracted to qualities that allow him to do less. A feminine and submissive woman who doesn't challenge his viewpoints. Someone who cooks, cleans, organizes, runs errands, does the bookkeeping, has & raises children, packs lunch, does laundry & ironing. A woman who is educated and able to figure out simple home upkeep, helping with more complex issues like getting audited, arguing with insurance about pre and prior authorizations, retaining the proper lawyer for the home closing. Change …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:09 PM
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Reeeee single mom reeeee
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:28 PM
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Nah. Being a single mom isn't just poverty (most single moms do not even receive their court ordered support), but the raising, teaching, disciplining, domestic work, and everything else in between (doctor's appointments, soccer practice, ER visits...) are done solo.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 08:42 PM
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No, honestly. We swing at times. I don't care if my husband has sex with another woman. I've helped him get ready for dates. We've done FMF threesomes and couples swaps. He DOES care if I date other men separately. Kind of a bummer, but I would rather still keep dating women separately, having 3sums together, and swinging, than nothing. We are talking about MFM and I'll eventually get my way lol. Anyway... my dating & nonmonog profiles all say the same thing. A little about me, a little about us…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 06:01 PM
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Did you read the part where they were harassing and groping?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:31 PM
3

Are you serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:30 PM
1

You made it about me and other women when you made that comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:41 AM
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That's called a gold digger and she isn't a nice person. Shallow, usually not very bright or educated. Brings nothing to the relationship but the gash between her legs. Can we move on now?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:40 AM
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What commodity is my vagina being compared to today, Reddit? Money ✔️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:39 AM
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Good point! When I managed FOH I always looked cute, but functional.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 12:10 AM
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None of what you've said is true nor direct quotes from me, except you twisting the vagina jab I made as a funny quip. It's a joke, not a dick. Like are you actually this dumb or just THIS angry at women? No fuck I'm sitting at the table, too. I literally said that and expressed "it's a partnership." I don't care about your weird ass wife and relationship. I never said women had it harder, idiot. I said dating is harder for men yet riskier for women AND THEN EXPLAINED WHY, but you're too up in y…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:52 PM
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most women do Wrong. Cite your sources. I want to watch you prove yourself wrong. Seems like you’re projecting a lot Then you proceed to project. This is common sense and dating economics. Why would I date someone whose baggage isn't worth it? Why would you or any other man or woman? Oh. You're mad bc I'm a chick who made a point. You just said you wouldn't date a woman with the baggage of a high N count. Then lied and projected, saying most of us have high counts, which has been proven false pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:27 PM
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Because he's toxic and crazy hahaha. He would NOT entertain the idea of me just casually dating him. He's selfish, jealous, and insecure. Those are all negative words, but it doesn't mean the situation is completely negative. I'm toxic, too, so it balances out. He doesn't want his woman fucking other dudes. That's understandable. He proved worth it. For me, there is no leverage gained or loss regarding income as long as we aren't making poverty wages and are content with it. It's one thing for o…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:41 PM
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Lmfao. $50k childcare. $1,500/ mo health insurance Not listing the other bills. If you aren't mature enough to understand it before, you wouldn't understand anyway even spelling it out. Uh. Those are facts? Be mad I guess. I offered my husband to stay home, but he sucks at it. So I stay home. And my selfish hyperbolic ass is laying naked in bed next to him, drinking a cup of tea he made me. It's 11:35 AM here. Stay mad. Edit: wahhhh the women won't work 50 hours per week, plus go to school, plus…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:35 PM
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I wouldn't date someone working 3 jobs. When do you have time for a relationship? I'm in my 30s though. If you're in your 20s and grinding that's one thing. When I meet a man in mid 30s or 40s who brags about what a hard worker he is, to me that's a red flag. Why are you working so much? People fall on hard times. I don't know your situation. You might just be pushing yourself for the next year or two to reach a goal. I'm not judging you, just speculating about the infinity different scenarios b…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:32 PM
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Thats literally what I've been saying. So what is false? We have housing, jobs, income. Why do we need or want you? You have to outshine those things or your baggage isn't worth the hassle. Edit: Ah, you're hung up on the women needing to maintain. Nah, that's true. Y'all dump us for gaining weight after childbirth, cheat on us if we outearn you, and if we get sick you leave us. I'm not going to argue facts with you. Google it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:25 PM
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What are you going on about? Did you really just whine that my response to a question specifically regarding women was... specifically regarding women? No one cares men need to eat or have a place to live. Duh. We know that. This isn't a thread about men, but of course y'all need to be included. The issue was people not realizing women need those things, too. Not gonna touch your bullshit quip about leaving a relationship. Check out other subs about abusive relationships, I'm not here to educate…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:23 PM
1

Ahh. You mean she "got comfortable?"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:07 AM
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Success is subjective, though. Is a 22-year-old working an entry-level job, let's say $10 above minimum wage in your area, who attends night school for his Masters considered successful? Maybe he has his own rented apartment with his best friend and drives a 15 yo car. He has a small amount of debt, like $5k incurred during his studies or an emergency or something. A 19 you unemployed young man who lives with his parents, drives a used car they bought him to get to school, and is studying full t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:43 AM
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I was the happiest I ever was. I actually swore I would never enter a completely serious & monogamous relationship again. Statistically, he is more likely to cheat; and sadly, the women I know who outearn their partners have all been cheated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:00 AM
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I assume they can get laid. I'm currently sitting next to one haha. He makes much more now, but when we met, he made maybe $20k and I made $110k.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:51 AM
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No. I don't automatically exclude a potential partner based solely on income. I was perfectly happy while single and I'm fairly content with my husband whom I met during a career shift when he was only making $14/hr. I say fairly content because we've had some issues lately, but we will always be okay. I would gladly go back to him being at a lower income level if we could erase those issues and live in bliss like we used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:50 AM
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Statistically, realistically, and even anecdotally, that is untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:43 AM
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Oh my God, I just noticed your username. Love it! A stable career and decent education is the only way a woman can survive. If she's single, she needs a decent income to support herself. We need to do this just to survive, not to attract a mate. It's our default. Women are also routinely pressured, including by employers and certain career tracks, to dress & look a different way. We will not make it to finding a husband without these things. We also will not make it out of abusive relationships …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:41 AM
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Women have more to lose in a relationship or fling (especially a fling) than their male counterparts. A man better be "worth it" for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:23 AM
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For the initial beginning of a courtship, yes. To maintain the relationship, women add more to the table than men. This is why the stat of married women being the unhappiest demographic exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:18 AM
1

I've never been with a man that makes more money than me. Technically, he does now since I play housewife and transferred our business to his name 100% for unrelated reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:16 AM
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I personally do and did. Most women don't, and most men don't care too much about a female partner's income. However, OP's CMV point in the original post was that basically all we had to do was slap on some makeup and we would be assigned a rich husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 12:27 AM
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I can see you aren't American. I agree--that part of American culture is bizarre and fucking toxic. I never said it wasn't. Full makeup kits do not work. Only 1/3, at best, of those products will work on someone. Hair type, skin type, and undertones matter. Not to mention sensitivities and allergies. It isn't necessarily $2,000 to have a basic makeup kit, but having any type of a halfway decent stash will run someone a couple hundred dollars. The latest economic reports stated an average of a li…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 12:24 AM
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It’s simple calories in calories out. Yes an no. True, the only way to lose weight is calories out > calories in. However, the macros in those calories matter. I could eat a stick of butter every single and still lose weight if it was the only thing I ate. I wouldn't be healthy or feel good at all, though. Think of it like putting regular vs. premium in a sports car. Makeup doesn’t cost much. You can buy it once and it lasts for months. Simply untrue. You don’t need your own place to live, that’…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:56 PM
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that pie is baked, you can’t change the flavor now. I like this! I also wanted to add that "you can't set yourself on fire to keep someone else warm." I sincerely wish your friend the best and hope she gets some help. That's awful to have to watch, even if just as a fly on the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:42 PM
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It also isn't just a simple +50%. That is dependent on his job, his family, etc. Not me throwing a hissy fit that my husband got a promotion and "I HAVE TO FUCKING IRON SHIT EVERY DAY NOW??" Of course I was just messing with him. On the flip side, my friend would probably be thrilled to "just have to iron a few shirts" instead of washing her husband's icky construction gear, pulling cigarette butts, grime, and who the heck knows out of his pockets and--what the fuck just went through my washer??…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:40 PM
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I will watch the video in a moment. I want to clear up though, that I was NEVER trying to insinuate that my life is harder than someone growing up in the Great Depression. I just wanted to point out that each time period & scenario came with it's own unique set of challenges and experiences. Sure, I can click a few buttons on an app now and poof, we have groceries ready for pickup or delivery if I'm feeling fancy. On the flip side, oh shit--did my credit card just get skimmed? This isn't Oppress…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:34 PM
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So go take care of/hang out with your own kids and give your wife a break, deadbeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:31 PM
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Go talk to the NIH, CDC, WHO, etc. who found the poverty & obesity links, problems with food deserts, and issues with living wages. A part time job cannot afford makeup lmfao. Minimum wage isn't even $8. $8 * 20 hrs = $160 GROSS. That person can't even afford the work boots they need, let alone a place to live or any fucking makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:30 PM
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She got amphetamines and benzos, as well as every other woman on the block home all day to help her out if need be. Life "back in the day" was just that--back in THAT day, so let's not be anachronistic. Sure--dishwashers, washer, dryers, the InstantPot, air fryers, smart ovens, induction stoves, etc. can facilitate certain things, but they also complicate them. Back then, meals were simpler because they had to be. Casseroles, crock pot meals, a one-pan roast or one-skillet meal. We tried to make…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:27 PM
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Who cares? Let's get back on point: me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:21 PM
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tired Unprofessional, messy, not even trying, unkempt, frumpy, "are you sick?", sloppy, careless, lazy....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:15 PM
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Who cares about the percentage? If it was 90%, who tf cares? That doesn't make it easy or glamorous. That's the issue people are having with your comment, beside the bunk-ass stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:13 PM
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Having done both, it is the hardest job I've ever done, and everyone I've ever talked to whom has also worn both hats agrees. Go be a househusband if it's so easy, boo 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:12 PM
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Even if it was 40%, that doesn't mean they do fuck all. Also, how many of them stay home because they can't afford to work? Childcare for our 3 kids is $50k/yr. Most of my housewife & SAHM friends do it because 《 see above 》
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:11 PM
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Not the point according to the OP's original statement. women don’t need to do all of that to be attractive Uhh.. Spending time putting on makeup, wearing nice clothes and not letting yourself get fat ?? Do women get a governmental aid package on their 18th birthdays with makeup, nice clothes, and workout equipment?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:08 PM
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I never said there wasn't. I actually spoke about this not only elsewhere on this thread, but other threads. That shit is fucking toxic and I will scream into the void about the unfair, patriarchal societal standard regarding men & income. If I didn't, I wouldn't be a true feminist or ally regarding men's issues. Your original point is that it's just so simple to poof magic in some products and routines, and ta-da! We look good enough to scam some rich dude. So, again--where did the women get th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:06 PM
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Welp, Reddit awarded me points so go cry about the ratio.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:02 PM
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It's of course the man. A man who is out-earned by his wife is more likely to cheat, be ridiculed by his peers, etc. I'll try and find it, but there was a thread recently (and more in the past I've seen) about a woman who was upset that her partner demanded she switch to a lower-paying position so she wasn't making more than him. She didn't give a shit about his lower income, but he and his friends did. I've had similar interactions. I didn't care that I was the breadwinner, but the man I was wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:59 PM
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I've never dated a dude who made more than me, though. So which is it--do y'all not care if we make money, or are we using you for your money (that you don't even have)? jeopardy soundtrack plays in the background Edit: also, how did we get the makeup & clothed to look cute if it wasn't for our money making abilities, so that we could go on to scam dudes?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:51 PM
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I'm not even being funny when I say this: That's some top-tier BPD shit. of course there are crazy women taking that bait Pretty much this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:20 PM
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Then explain, kind sir. Please tell me how a CMV thread stating makeup, nice clothing, and fitness are the only things that matter but they actually don't matter, silly little girl, it's so simple! Edit: unless you're actually agreeing with me in that the CMV viewpoint by OP is utterly ridiculous? I genuinely can't tell. You seem to just be aggy about the face I'm a chick on the internet posting a counter-argument and you can't see past that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:15 PM
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Here ya go: If I, as a man, knew that the only thing I had to do to be desirable to the opposite gender was to stay in decent shape, groom myself, and look attractive, I would LOVE it. & What is harder? Spending time putting on makeup, wearing nice clothes and not letting yourself get fat Again, I want to know--I'm asking you now, not OP--where did these women get the resources to stay in decent shape groom [themselves] look attractive Even shit from the Dollar Store still costs money and takes …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:12 PM
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The topic is women have so much less to do to be attractive…which is abso-fucking-lutely true…all the shit you mentioned means fuck all. Uh. That's what we do to be attractive, broski. More than one thing can be true at once. A statement can also be simultaneously true and untrue depending on the context. While it is true that I wore the things I liked for me and used products I like for me, that statement becomes untrue in OP's CMV post. His position is all we have to do not get fat, wear nice …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:07 PM
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Here. I'll copy & paste for you: If I, as a man, knew that the only thing I had to do to be desirable to the opposite gender was to stay in decent shape, groom myself, and look attractive, I would LOVE it. and his conclusion statement: What is harder? Spending time putting on makeup, wearing nice clothes and not letting yourself get fat
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:02 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:01 PM
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That’s something you’re missing You're missing the entire point of this thread. Fine, fuck the eyelash extensions. Jfc. Everything else, though--costs MY money and MY time. OP thinks we just sit there and look pretty. How did we get pretty? With money. End of story. Decent hair products, skincare products, moisturizer, even painting my nails myself still costs money and time, even drugstore makeup costs money, and again--time to apply it. Working out at home is free financially, but still takes …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 09:59 PM
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is extra This entire thread is about extra. The OP postulates that all I have to do is simply powder my nose and bam, the world of Chads revolves around me. The reality is that those products cost money and time. It's not simply putting on lipgloss and combing my hair. You may not care about makeup, clothing, nails, etc., but the OP's original statement was that all women had to do was spend a teeny tiny bit of time styling their hair and makeup. My counter-argument is that the makeup, hair prod…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 09:51 PM
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Okay, keep working 80 hours per week and doing that all yourself, then, lmao. I would never be with someone who worked that much personally, but TITO. Edit: and no, you don't. I highly doubt you have the same square footage to clean or organize or actually do the chores properly. Throwing all your clothing together in the washing machine then sitting on a Craigslist couch isn't what I'm talking about here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:58 PM
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Do you wake up to fresh coffee every morning? Your work clothes are ironed and clean? Your bedsheets cleaned (ironed if I'm in a good mood) weekly? Fresh towels daily? Baked goods for breakfast, lunch packed, and from-scratch dinner waiting for you? You work 18 hours per day and are a student. Your home most likely isn't that clean or organized (or, judging by the 18 hours and a student) doesn't really have much in it to clean or to organize. Not a shot at you being poor, just the truth. You're …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:48 PM
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No, I'm just a bit of a picky cunt tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:43 PM
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How many are married with kids? I quit my high-paying job because fuck $50k/yr for childcare and $1,500/mo for health insurance. Just at a baseline, no. Forget the other expenses that came with having a job (wardrobe, some sort of personal upkeep for dealing with the public, commute...). I'm still "working" as a housewife. He has also been able to skyrocket his career while I'm home because I take care of the ancillary things. Many of my friends are also housewives or SAHMs for the same reason. …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:37 PM
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Lol right? My husband bought me some new Maybelline lip gloss and I was sooooo happy. I came to this relationship established and have actually sacrificed that side of myself so we can save money for OUR goals because it's not just me anymore. Single me: - natural looking eyelash extensions - dip nail manicure - pedicure - waxing from eyebrows down - hair done weekly at the salon and colored about every 8-10 weeks - expensive makeup, skin care products, luxury gym membership, and education & hob…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:34 PM
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Lol exactly. I met my husband when I was making six figures, dressed to the nines, hair and nails professionally done, wearing designer makeup I bought myself, driving cars I bought myself, after putting [myself] potentially hundreds of thousands of dollars [in debt] to get a high-status, high-paying job. Like?? I still need proper nutrition and time to workout (time = money), decent skincare and makeup products, etc. Even if I didn't find my partner, I still needed the resources given to me so …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:26 PM
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Hahahaha I'm cackling. That's terrible but omg
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:09 PM
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That's the problem. HER business SHE built has to work HER schedule are YOUR (both of yours) kids. Like wtf? Change YOUR schedule, then. Why would she give MORE to the relationship AND submit to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:32 PM
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Very thorough and well-put response. We planned for this and are definitely NOT only making median salaries. That's a huge factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:30 PM
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Sir, I will be no man's peace. I wake my husband up every morning with a fresh cup of coffee (actually I make him a mocha) AND A QUESTION. But yes, I'm pretty content lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:29 PM
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Lol right? Ffs I made more than twice that when I was working. Maybe we are the true adults because we can actually budget the money we make?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:28 PM
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You expect her to be in charge of childcare while running her own business and juggling her "own" schedule to have time for "herself?" Ok. I can see why you aren't married yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:27 PM
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Yup. Made six figures at my last job. Childcare would've eaten nearly half. Then insurance, commuting, taxes... No point. I'm also much better with domestic tasks than he is, and I refuse to go to work, bring home MORE money, and still have more chores to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:21 PM
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I'm not going to go to work, make significantly more than you (made $110k before I quit), then come home and do a majority of the child care and housekeeping. Even in dual-income households, women STILL do nearly all of the mental labor, most of the childcare, and most of the domestic work. Get a second job if you can't support your family, or let me go be single and enjoy my life. It was a hard ultimatum to draw, but we've fallen into our roles and are enjoying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:20 PM
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Out here typing paragraphs because reeeee they gave the women books and now I can't hold basic commodities over her head!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:00 PM
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Are you intentionally being dense? If you are the most qualified person for your position, you should 100% be the one who gets the job. The quotas on women getting an ACCESS (your words) to education are because we were routinely denied, harassed, or killed trying to do so. We don't want to have suck dick to get a raise when the new dude walking in already makes more than us. We don't want to be constantly pestered for pussy & dates by our lab mates. Why is this concept so offensive to you? You …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:58 PM
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Lmao stop getting married, then. That's what women did. Because we kept getting over.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:51 PM
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There's affirmatice action in civil engineering fields lmao. Also, look what happened with the military. Let's let the women join! They can even join in these roles! Aaaand they're discharged with MSA CPTSD.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:51 PM
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You're trying to compare my knowledge, skills, education, and translational experience in the career force to access to my pussy. Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:50 PM
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I understand that. Like I said, you come off as a genuine person. It's shitty she had to feel so defensive. I've done it myself and then had a talk with the guy, and of course I apologized. It's kind of a damned if you do, damned if you don't think.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:59 PM
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Many men can stay mad and single. That's such a gross take. Should we have to blow our bosses for raises?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:57 PM
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Right? We are already refusing to marry and "settle down." Having to be trapped with some asshole or potentially lose even more of my shit? Lol nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:55 PM
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If they remove no-fault divorce, you'll see even less of us getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:48 PM
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Are you serious? We should be forced to fuck or date people we don't want to so we can have decent jobs? Sounds like being a rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:47 PM
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How old are you? I'm 33 for reference. Just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:13 AM
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I hate when they stop their cars. That's so fucking creepy and just icky... like here comes Mr. Man™️ to Captain-Save-a-Hoe my ass that didn't need saving, fuck the flow of traffic and what I was trying to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:11 AM
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In regards to your last paragraph about the door... Firstly, I am sorry. That probably felt super shitty. Genuinely, I mean that. You seem like a decent and level-headed man, so I was hoping I might be able to shed some insight into that line of thought. Men will hold open doors for me, lift a heavy grocery item, or once even dial the wrong number with me coincidentally answering on the other end. I thank them for their time or inform them politely it's the wrong number, blah blah... And they po…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:08 AM
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Do you engage after swiping? Do you have any free activities near you? I met my husband the "old fashioned" way--at a bar. Okay, he was the bartender and I was there every Tuesday night with my best friend, but the flirting and banter grew and grew. Go to a book club, community gardening class, trivia nite, etc. Even if you aren't taking someone home or getting a number each time, your presense in the community and that sub-community grows. After a few hiking trips, that cute shy girl might give…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:20 PM
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Yes and no. I completely understand and agree. My experiences with this, and the experiences of my other female friends, however, is that we will bring up an issue, and the guys just write it off. "Well, I'm not very good at oral, so I don't really want to try going down on you." Uh. You aren't good, so fucking practice and listen to feedback, maybe? "Women don't cum every time anyway." Or explaining that no, we don't mind giving you head, but you need to reciprocate and also be clean. "It's too…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 05:58 PM
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Oh I just leave lmao. I've never been pumped and dumped. It's 2023, stop letting losers cum in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 03:33 PM
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Thank you 🥰 I try.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 03:33 PM
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You only went on 5 dates out of 1000 profiles. Your fortunes don't seem to be enough to entice anyone. So what else could it be? Genuine question.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 03:32 PM
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That's honestly why I don't refer to myself as a single mom. Their father is still very active in their lives, and they like their step-father more than me. I just feel like it cheapens the experience most single mothers have.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 03:34 AM
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I am not married to the biological father of my children. I left him. We weren't good for each other. seemingly inaccurate. Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 02:24 AM
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Oops! Should I delete?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:15 PM
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Yes. Plus, I don't want mediocre sex. You want me to go down on you? I'm a fucking throat goat. I love giving head. Are you going to return the favor? No? Why should I bother then? Sticking it in me and thrusting for 6 minutes isn't sexy. It isn't appealing. It does not feel good. It's a waste of my time and energy. I am conventionally attractive, accomplished, and successful. I could easily find a spare dick or two. Will it be GOOD dick, though? Most likely not. I have a very active, healthy, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:12 PM
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It's me. I'm the toxic one. I am allll overrrr my husband as much as I can be. I'm not a very cuddly person actually, but I'm definitely a whole slut when I'm with him. Obviously just for him, but I genuinely can't get enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:06 PM
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Hahahahaha I hate and love you for this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:02 PM
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As a woman, there is a huge different between what I will not only fuck, but casually fuck and who I will date.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:01 PM
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there's no good men or they have an unrealistic list of standards that we take issue. Yet, here's OP saying just that but about women. We also hear crazy old cat lady, used up, sInGlE mOm reeeee, whore/slut/n-count... "There's no good women!" I often hear "well, women my age who aren't married yet are a red flag. They're either crazy or have kids." Uh. Why aren't YOU married yet? (general you) Also, if people are saying they aren't finding good men around, and you claim to be a good man but are …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 06:59 PM
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👋🏾 "Single" mom married to another man. Bonus: I'm a housewife. I'm a whole person with an entire story, unique experiences, skills, and knowledge. Single in quotes because I find calling myself a single mother rude and disingenuous. I have two men in my life who coparent with me. Most single mothers have 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 06:55 PM
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No one IRL has ever asked. Someone in a mom group asked for fun the other day, so my partner and I figured it out, kinda. He's 200+, def lost count. I was: V-Card @ 17 w/ HS BF. Chicks: 5 Dicks: 10 FMF: 5 Swaps: 1 including some MFM when we were all trading back and forth, but I want a complete MFM Cheated: 1 These are my Hoe Facts™️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:37 PM
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Okay, mine. Better?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:11 PM
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True true.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:41 PM
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Same to you, friend 💙 For us, we both went ONE YEAR without income because Unemployment was so jacked up in our state. We did get lump sum reimbursements, but even with the extra $600, it still wasn't equitable to our normal paychecks. My ex/gather of my 3 kids had his hours slashed. Before COVID, I was the "breadwinner" of us 3. We all discussed it and decided to use my savings & credit to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:39 PM
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Idk, I wasn't in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:36 PM
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Heck yeah it is haha. I was soooo mad at my husband bc we could afford the small/medium risk and he pulled out too early on Dogecoin... THE NEXT DAY we would've had $40k. To be fair, his degree is in economics. I'm a housewife who studied biotechnology and public health. I follow certain econ blogs and stuff just so I don't feel like a complete dolt when he discusses these topics with me, and I told him to jump on DOGE and wait it out about a month, then pull. I knew (we both did) Crypto would e…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:35 PM
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it was fun putting her in her place. I can understand that haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:06 PM
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I'll stay along for the rough ride (been there, done that) and I'll help you make repairs, but I am 110% unwilling to jump out of the plane without a reserve--and so is my partner. Or he wouldn't be my partner. I don't want someone that reckless.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:02 PM
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I wonder how much she knew. She probably just knew he had "investments." And of course any partner is going to be okay with X as long as it's a solid win. But when my partner turns to me and says "sorry, hunny--no more home, boat, sports car, motorcycle, season game tickets..." all in the blink of an eye, yeah, I'm going to be pissed unless it was something cataclysmic like we were liquidating assets to pay for cancer treatment or something. Even then, we have plans in place if something terribl…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:00 PM
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Eh, that conversation sounds whiny and annoying, and I would've left too after losing the bet. I'm the one with the higher sex drive in every relationship, but the whole discussion would've just given me the ick. I hope you've found someone you're compatible with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:50 AM
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Yeah, I would dump someone for getting a DWI.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:47 AM
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This was all my own money. Honestly, that was (hopefully) probably the problem. If my partner risked all of his/our money, I would not see a future with him. That is exceedingly risky, putting all your money in one spot to begin with, let alone not having some type of backup plan..? Which I don't know what the backup plan would be if you'd already thrown all your money into one pot. To me, it screams financial illiteracy, poor planning, and rash decision making. I'm only going off by what I read…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:44 AM
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Wow. I've done a lot of research into the common and not-so-common SE of BC, but never found this! Do you have a study you really like? I want to know more!
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/23 02:04 AM
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Oh my goodness. I'm not the only woman who experienced this?? I want the strong dad-bod type. Sturdy, packing muscle, but not super bulky or lean-cut. Chest hair, a little arm hair, clean & trimmed facial hair. I went off BC for a myriad of reasons, and never realized this was on of them.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/23 01:46 AM
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This is spot on, speaking from the woman's side. I may not be romantically interested, but I was 100% interested in our friendship. Some men may take it well, and just be a little embarrassed. They take a day or two to recover, and things proceed as normal. Some, though take it hard and don't react well at all. I've been stalked, harassed, threatened... and while not as violent and menacing, some just say some really mean shit and nuke the friendship then walk. And it hurts us, too. My advice wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 01:14 AM
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aesthetically incongruent. This is the perfect way to describe it! I like shorter men & dad bods. I would fuck/date a taller musclar dude, but not a short muscular dude. Idk why, but I think you've summed it up with those 2 words. My husband is 5'6 and kinda chubby atm because we've just been hanging around the house, and I'm alllll about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 10:46 PM
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Lol, right? Like, what do I get? Where's my husband reward? I'm educated, published, making 6 figures when we met, in great shape, healthy, a fantastic cook and baker, very organized and meticulous in the way I keep my home... I'm supposed to accept some dude who plays video games 18 hrs a day on his days off from his part-time minimum wage job? Cackling now bc I'm typing this next to my husband who is currently playing video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:33 AM
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Okay, but... what do women get in return? instead of working so hard, getting multiple jobs and wage slaving himself he decides he just wants to do the bare minimum, he doesnt bother to pursue higher education since his needs remain simple, he decides he wants to play video games and live without stress, unlike his parent who worked hard Now more young men refuse to pay taxes, refuse to work hard, refuse to involve themselves with society and instead of working so hard, getting multiple jobs and…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:29 AM
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What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:11 AM
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Imagine if men were actively systemically raped in combat zones, even by members of their own military... Edit: I want the women to stay and fight. However, I want them to have the same opportunities to stay and fight. They don't. There's a difference between things being just and fair in terms of equality and you know it, so let's not argue nuances.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:07 AM
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That says more about you than her. I would buy this shirt and wear it with a cute pair of panties like she is, walk into the TV Room all nonchalantly with a load of laundry and start folding it like I was going about my normal routine. Like, hey, babe, what's up? Is pork chops for dinner okay? It's naughty, "bad," and that's what makes it exciting and sexy. No one else would ever even probably know I owned it. I'm not going to wear it to the fucking PTA meeting dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:33 PM
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As they fucking should. Sorry, I don't want to get raped or watch my children get raped? I would personally stay, but I've had a much different life than most Ukrainian and even American women. In the event of a war/draft/invasion, I would be more useful than my husband on the front lines. That isn't the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:21 PM
0

Every one of these women could be gang raped repeatedly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:18 PM
2

If I may, I think you're of the same philosophy I am: The Patriarchy™️ sucks, and it actively harms both men and women. Men should be [insert trope]. Women should be [insert trope]. If a man wants to get a woman, he should [list of things reinforced by patriarchal society].
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 07:43 PM
1

I fell for my partner partly because of his old and friendly cat. We were hooking up, and his cat jumped on the bed, and I, of course, got excited because it's a cat. He didn't shoo him away just so he could keep hooking up. He told me lovely stories about his Old Man, who was 18 when he passed in our arms. I got lots of head butts from him and gave ear scritches in return that night. Our other cat was a kitten at the time, and she did NOT like me. She wouldn't sleep in the bed with us for the f…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:18 AM
1

It honestly helps with the budgeting, too, using separate accounts for different thing.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/22 05:48 AM
1

100% combined finances is financially ignorant and just plain stupid in terms of common sense. It isn't even about "trust" in your partner. Your money should never be in one pot, let alone sitting with only one financial institution. Never do this. Trust your partner, but not other people/parties. Joint checking/savings/money market for household and family expenses. Set up joint savings and college funds for the kids. You'll pay your mortgage/rent, car payment(s), groceries, etc. from here. Tra…
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/22 05:34 AM
1

If you are actively trying to settle down and are still single, the common denominator is you. "Undateable" is widely subjective, yet many common themes either cross over or are mentioned multiple times.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:15 PM
1

"Less critical," yet society fell apart when women weren't there to do everything else, plus their jobs, like they've been doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:03 PM
1

And women got fucked during the she-cession. We were expected to do our jobs remotely, while homeschooling our children, all while maintaining our home. Then we were expected to go back to work, while still somehow homeschooling our children? all while still maintaining our home. Many of us just left the workforce because the men in our lives couldn't handle being home with the kids, or it didn't make sense to pay for childcare and everything else associated with working. I made $110k/yr at my j…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:02 PM
1

It genuinely depends on your unique relationship and dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 02:53 AM
2

What if she was the reason your SMV greatly increased?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 11:32 PM
1

Uh, I am...but he is NOT a billionaire lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 09:22 PM
1

Does it? Or is that the men who seem to be above average really aren't? I'm legally a "single mom." I don't use the term to describe myself, because I find it disingenuous for my situation. My ex and I coparent well. My partner is treated as an equal in my parenting decisions. Surface level? Single mom with three kids. Oof, right? Digging deeper, getting to know me beyond conventionally attractive with the huge red flag, I'm highly educated, respected in my field, was very successful in my caree…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 12:52 AM
1

Cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 10:52 PM
1

Fat girls getting laid still has nothing to do with the dating market being "unfair" or someone's lack of success. Why is it bad? Children starving is bad. Fat girl getting laid is bad why?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 09:33 PM
1

Is that person actively making it harder for you to work less or get a better job? The answer is most likely no. The problem is trickle down economics, predatory employment practices, ageism, sexism, systemic racism. Some random guy being born into wealth and having an easy lifestyle does not bother me one bit. I am not salty against him. I'm happy for him. If he's a prick that actively enforces those policies, then yeah--fuck him. Still has nothing to do with bros being mad that some girl they …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 09:02 PM
1

Why are they salty, though? Are the fat women actively preventing them from dating? Good for the lowest performing women, honestly. Even the lowest tier women are apparently outperforming the mid-level men. They didn't want the fat woman anyway, and I don't think they wanted the shredded gym bro...so what's the actual issue? Genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 03:20 PM
2

Haha now I'm imagining trading CVs and cover letters while speed dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:29 PM
9

Sorry, I don't mean an entire itinerary. I mean like if you're both kinda young, did you intend on finishing school and staying in the area? Were you going to grad school? Do you plan on having kids? Not exact time-line, my bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:11 PM
5

This seems reasonable. Per your OP, this hypothetical woman isn't wanting to have sex without being in a committed relationship first. She wants to get to know that person. Go on a few cheap dates, text, video chat, have some deep conversations, see if you two agree about mutual goals and interests, 5-year plans...make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 02:19 PM
2

Well, if you're a joke, I guess it is. Best of luck to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 12:01 AM
1

Romantic is different than creepy. That's why it's a turn off. Someone I just met being "romantic" is over-the-top, transactional, and creepy to me. Someone I've known, or have met and been flirting with off and on, dialing up the romance and "shooting his shot" will be accepted if I'm interested in him, or politely rebuffed if I'm not. The romance isn't the issue here--it's my standards/level of attraction to the person/interest in them/interest in a relationship. They could be a great guy, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 10:52 PM
1

Thank you 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:51 PM
1

Yes, I was agreeing with you, not arguing against you. Lol sorry. I worded it kind of weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:13 PM
1

That's called cheating or infidelity. Not a subset of single.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:13 PM
1

She wanted you to chase "big titty" girls? Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:13 PM
1

Ok. So why are you speaking about your wife this way? Nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:12 PM
3

But you trapped her. That's the thing. She's raising your child and treating you right, and regardless of a damn piece of paper, you want to chase some T&A. Go talk to your mom, aunt, favorite older cousin, any female role model in your life. Show them this thread and what you wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:30 PM
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Gross. You have a baby momma and a bastard child who "hold you back" from having casual sex with another single mother. You speak lowly of your single mother friend as well, like she's terrible for having casual sex and a child out of wedlock, but she's got a hole ready to go and you're obviously of course not legally married so yeahhhh! Ffs go read a book, man. I hope your girlfriend, who was there for you through everything as you say, sees this and dumps your nasty misogynistic ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:27 PM
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Some attractive women are single and aren't having any casual sex while some are. Some attractive men are single and aren't having any casual sex while some are. It's really a case by case basis. This. Some are having ONS. Some have flings and see people a few times. Some have exclusive sexusl partners but aren't dating romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:16 PM
1

Single means they're not in a committed relationship. There's isn't some quasi-single or degree of single you keep trying to make. Single Open relationship Exclusive with someone (not dating but only sleep with that person to reduce risk) Etc. etc. Yes, when I was SINGLE I engaged in what would be considered casual sex. Before my husband pumped the breaks on my "hoe phase," I saw 2 men regularly to meet my physical needs. I wasn't dating them or committed to them, I just didn't want to have sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:15 PM
1

I think that is more of a reflection on the partners you chose. The common demoninator in every one of your failed relationships is you. I had this reflection about myself a while ago. For myself, it was dealing with partners who increasingly became abusive in different ways. No, I didn't "deserve" abuse, nor did you at the sake of a diagnosis. However, I noticed that I wasn't as upfront as I should be. I wasn't drawing my hard lines in the sand. I was too much of a people pleaser, and too permi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:21 PM
3

No one knows I have "mental health issues" on the surface. Probably why I've never been dumped. I'm educated, published in my field, the highest earner of any of my peers, no criminal record, know how to cook, clean, and raise children... I'm just a little silly without my methy pills. "Jesus Christ, [name] do a line of Coke or something and calm tf down!" is something my annoyed husband has yelled. I just take my orange conformity pill in the AM and my blue chill pill around 4 PM, and fit in mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 04:04 PM
3

Ha same. Honestly, my husband hates when I don't take my Adderall. I'll just sit there in a ball of anxiety mindlessly scrolling my phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:44 PM
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Lmao. Nice to know my prescribed medication that allows me to function is a 🚩 That's cool, though. I don't want to be approached to begin with, so I'm gonna pin it to my shirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 11:35 PM
1

Do you think men should expect cheating when dating a HVW? I've never met a potential match as educated, skilled, connected, financially secure, or even intelligent as myself. Brb gonna go see if my husband minds me stepping out. I can pay your apology in cash and assets, sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:27 PM
1

Lmao. Why can't person one cheat? Either way, I'm taking person two. There is absolutely no "guarantee" I won't cheat on my husband, yes? I'm not going to, but I'm just some person on the internet. All I have is my word. I know who I am, how I was raised, and what values matter most to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 07:54 PM
2

Paternal certainty? This is going to sound crass, but my husband isn't with me 24/7. I could cheat on him nearly every day if I wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:21 AM
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What are some little things I can do each day/week to show respect and gratitude to my husband? He really is an amazing person. He works so I can be home, focus on our home improvement projects and side hustle (we own a consulting firm as well), and be able to spend time with my 3 kids (8, 7, 5) from a previous relationship. Sometimes the day gets away from us, and I think lately we just don't take that time to show each other how much we appreciate and need each other.
/r/RedPillWives21/09/22 03:36 PM
3

Speaking of our anatomy: When you have to toot and want to be discreet but the gas bubbles up/down? and tickles the vag, then releases from the front. The Front Rumbler.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 02:43 PM
2

I like the insight.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:15 AM
1

No, not at all. Cope. Ffs, what does this have to do with the post?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/22 03:41 PM
7

Same. Even looking back at the man I originally settled with and had kids with...I was 22 and he was turning 30 in a few months. That's really not okay. 25 and 35 is a lot different than 19 and 30 or 18 and 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 09:52 PM
3

It takes two. Statistically, though, it's the man who up and leaves. Women are also very, very likely to be left when diagnosed with an illness. How many men do you know with multiple children from multiple mothers? How many men have custody of those children? I'm not giving a pass to women with multiple children from multiple fathers...but, where are those fathers? She, as one unit, obviously didn't vet her matches very well. But it was multiple men who walked away from her. As for a woman wear…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 06:46 PM
1

Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 03:37 PM
20

Why didn't the man step up and marry her? Why did the man leave? Why did the husband take off or cheat? Why didn't the man wear condom and get a vasectomy? It's so irresponsible to have children out of wedlock, ya know. Why didn't the man pay child support after dipping?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 06:56 PM
2

Yes and no. We are EXPECTED to do those things from a young age. Many of us enjoy it, and have fun with fashion and makeup as a form of art and self-impression. The issue is when we don't do it, or another hobby/life takes precedence, and suddenly we've let ourselves go, don't put any effort, don't even try to keep him interested, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:23 PM
1

It's not that we don't desire companionship, it's that we DO. Many men just aren't worth the investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:51 PM
1

From browsing this sub, TRP, the internet, and just interacting with society in general, men seem to think the same way, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:20 PM
1

The men I casually fuck and the men I would/do date and see as marriage material are completely different creatures.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:25 PM
1

My social circle invites others in. We go out and do things. We open each other to new experiences. That is how you meet people. My social circle brought me to a dive bar after work where I met a cute bartender (husband). He had started there recently just moonlighting the one night per week. We had friends in common at that point because we were both "regulars" there; me with my coworker every Tuesday and he now working every Tuesday. I knew his other friends already (patrons, other employees w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 02:28 AM
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That's on you. If all you can provide is a little bit of money, you aren't partner material to most people.
/r/ExRedPill02/09/22 04:36 PM
2

Maybe? My ex is Cambodian (had 3 kids together) and my husband is a Jewish man. He and I don't have bio kids together yet, so you're probably thinking of someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:34 PM
1

HG is the worst. I ended up needing 8mg Zofran several times per day just to keep down water.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:33 PM
1

She knows. She laughs because she's the reason they harvested my gallbladder as well. She also likes the story of me projectile vomiting all over my car because I couldn't get over on the highway. And the one where I just...shit myself all over the couch. Oh, don't forget the prescription vitamins and check ups for blood transfusions because she kept making me faint, lose all my hair, and have episodes of tachycardia. Ask her about it, she will say "ha ha!"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:31 PM
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My last birth I said "finally!" as she schlepped out. The nurse was horrified--"aren't you excited to meet your baby?" "I'm excited to get the parasite out, yes. She almost killed me several times! Oh...she doesn't even look that tough."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:59 PM
9

He screwed up his face and said he would only agree to up to 3 hours. My first labor was 3 days 🤗
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:58 PM
4

Brb gonna go ask him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:54 PM
7

Ahh, the bro job.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:33 PM
38

Precisely. OP whines that sports leagues will be a "sausage fest." Okay, and? Idk, my husband has friends, I don't think they just sit in a circle and jerk off in the garage. Maybe they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 03:22 PM
2

It depends on the woman and the boundaries of her relationship. Neither my partner nor myself mind light flirting. I always mention him when relevant before it gets too far. My ex was a different race than I was and people never assumed we were together. He used to flirt with waitresses alllll the time for free food and dessert lol. I told him idc, free is free, and I know who he is coming home too. Sometimes my husband and I go to a bar where we know no one and pretend to be single. It's fun. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:32 PM
1

I mean, for me this is true in a roundabout way because I refuse to use any type of invasive or hormonal birth control. Dudes can get a vasectomy or use condoms. LTR partners can get a vasectomy, use condoms, or be an active participant in tracking my cycle so we can either abstain when I'm fertile, use a condom, or use a diaphragm with spermicide. So if you want to get laid with me, those are your non-negotiable options, regardless of my initial attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:33 PM
5

Because that's literally the fucking question mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:19 PM
20

Why marry someone whose goals and values don't align with yours in the first place? To me, that's Beta af. Regardless of who wants a career, who may want to be a homemaker, who wants kids...find someone who is your PARTNER.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:15 PM
1

Except lots of women prefer shorter men or are still sexually aroused by them (no preferences given to height). Myself and several friends do not like tall men. I know we are absolutely in the minority, just like most men prefer trimmer women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 11:58 AM
2

The post was removed when I got to it, so idk the context. In that case, I would state my boundaries firmly. If they couldn't respect those, then they weren't my friend to begin with (been there) and they would be gone.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/22 10:40 PM
2

I wouldn't be in that situation in the first place. A friend is a friend. If I get on with someone and shoot my shot and miss, I obviously liked that person enough to enjoy their presence, conversation, advice, etc. If it's some random dude at the bar who I don't really know that well, then sure. I haven't invested emotional energy into him. I see my friends as investments, not potential holes.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/22 10:39 PM
1

Right? It's not that I don't find some of my friends attractive or whatever...it's just that they are there for friendship, not courting. I also don't need a bunch of fucking orbiters in my life lol.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/22 10:37 PM
1

So...you have no friends at all unless you find them fuckable and think you can score?
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/22 10:36 PM
1

This. I am always upfront about my expectations, expectations, and desires. Oh...3 yrs down and now you can't be friends unless I exclusively fuck you? Shit hurts. If they're upfront from day 1, I shut it down and move on. If they pursue, I make it clear they're platonic.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/22 07:16 PM
-2

That person's only worth is sticking it in? People who are married still have friends.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/22 07:14 PM
-4

You dump all your friends who aren't DTF?
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/22 07:13 PM
1

Depends. I usually say yes. There was 'something' there before. Also, it hurts...we were friends for 3+ yrs...I understand, you are attracted to me and wanted to fuck. Cool. But what about cheeseburgers & ice cream at 3 AM, discussing the economy, playing Skee Ball...we were friends first. Sometimes it turns into something more. Does it mean nothing before?
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/22 07:12 PM
1

Sex is only one aspect of a romantic relationship and still only one aspect of a partnership. As we age, we gain maturity, security, skills, and knowledge in many aspects of ourselves and members of society, not just with interpersonal relationships. Yes, we gain more insight into sexual "do's" and "don'ts," (generalized), we learn what WE like (turn-ons, -offs, kinks, boundaries) and we form our standards from that for sexual intimacy. But we also learn how to budget with a primary partner in m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 05:04 PM
3

I came here to post this exact thing! He's gone all week. I want him to be able to concentrate on his work, but also find time to relax. He's in Niagara Falls, so there's bound to be something fun and exciting to do! I also want to be able to provide him a calm home when he does return. Right now my goals for the week he is gone are to catch up on laundry, get kids' room back together, and make more progress in thr basement (cleaned it out to be a bar/hangout spot). We are probably overthinking …
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/22 07:14 PM
46

If a man "checked" to see if the number I gave him was correct by forcing me on the spot to accept a text or phone call, I would immediately block him and hurt his feelings regardless of my prior interest.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 04:08 PM
1

Yes. This not only reaffirms our stance on him taking the more dominant/head of household role, but it reinforces my trust with being able to submit to him. It also takes some of the mental and emotional labor off my plate.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/22 01:41 PM
1

That would be great!
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/22 01:38 PM
1

Any woman who expects men to fill their gender role has zero right to cry about having to fill their own. Precisely. This goes for all genders. You cannot pick and choose which points to follow just because they solely benefit you. If my partner is out making the money (providing), I am going to use that money to take care of our home (serve) and our family.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 05:12 PM
0

Where did I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:13 PM
0

If it doesn't apply, let it fly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:58 PM
1

So if it isn't about you, why are you offended?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:57 PM
1

Okay, continue to perpetuate the problem, then. I'll happily pay covers for both of us or just my husband when we are out to prove we aren't scum bags on the prowl.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:57 PM
1

And honestly, some places around here have started charging EVERYONE a cover charge, which I'm absolutely down with. It keeps the trash out. Trashy women cause commotions and problems, I don't want them around either. If it's an event or place I want to patron, I will gladly pay the cover.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:46 PM
1

How so? I think women going out should feel safe & protected? It's bullshit men have to pay covers, but it's because of the asshole men who flood the bars and ruin it for everyone with their douchebag personalities. 99% of the time, I have wonderful interactions with random men at bars. We chit chat, take turns buying rounds, enjoy good conversations, then go about our ways. The 1% is what's devastating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:44 PM
1

Also women never complain when clubs don't charge women an entry fee, but men do have to pay to get in the same club. This I'm okay with. Men and women are NOT equal in society. I'm not worried about the pack of 7 girlfriends over there having a blast. I'm worried about the group of Chads who can't take no for an answer, follow me to my car, harass me, grope me, etc. Unfortunately, until men as an entire group can act accordingly, the rotten apples have spoiled the bunch. The covers keep the cre…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:34 PM
3

There's full on trad con where men are the head of the house hold. This is us, and what we prefer. Of course, as a partner, if shit hit the fan I would immediately financially contribute (which I have had to do without issue). But I've made it clear that that is not role. If he wants more financial contributions, he needs to contribute more domestically. Right now, we are living in bliss. He changed industries and makes an okay amount. I do everything domestic and submit to him as the HoH. I'm n…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:24 PM
2

Traditional women have no issue with cook, clean, have babies, look & act traditionally feminine. “Traditional” men often want all this and still adopt the modern expectation of women pitching for bills ^ this. Both my partner and I are more traditional. When we met, we were both working. I was making over 3x what he made. I had/have no problem with that. Where the issue came in, was that I was doing 110% of the domestic duties. Cooking, cleaning, laundry & ironing, prepping, planning, managing …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:18 PM
1

Oops, that's my kink. I love watching him with other women. We've had threesomes and recently did a swap. He wasn't too keen on the swapping at first, and I was fine just having mff threesomes, watching him play with another woman, or just letting him go do his own thing. He actually ended up being the more aggressive one that night we did a full swap. We talked about it before, during, and extensively after. I genuinely do not care what he does as long as he's safe and happy. I find it hot when…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:16 PM
5

Oh ffs. Y'all come on here telling us no worthy ltr will want us if we have too much casual sex, then come back and bitch about us not immediately throating every worthy ltr dude we see. Holy cognitive dissonance.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:32 AM
1

For myself, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:03 AM
1

But...but then we make dating for men SO HARD!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:33 PM
4

Because it's usually men whining about spending money and not getting laid. For us, it's about being stalked, beaten, raped, or worse. Yes, I could walk want into a bar with my husband, pretend we are single, and pretty much get whatever the hell I wanted. Free drinks, some food, a quick make out session, take one or two guys home, whatever. Once we leave the bar, though, I don't know what that guy will do. It's for this reason I've never had a one-night stand. It's too unsafe. Last time I even …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:31 PM
1

A lot of people in general have terrible personalities. Average people account for most of the people on the planet, so it makes sense that a subset would suck. Same with below & above. A subset is going to suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 09:31 PM
1

Right? I'm not buying a car before I test drive it. Everyone I date is seen casually until I discern compatability with a few things. Also, it's funny to me--I don't kiss my casual hook ups. I'm hear to fuck, not make love.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:52 AM
4

I entered my 30s happily single on antipsychotics and ready to rock. I planned and left a bad relationship. We have 3 children together. During that time, I got an excellent education, published research, climbed the ladder at my job (making 6 figures), had reliable vehicles, no debts, was in great shape, had savings, etc. and was looking at purchasing a house. Ii had tried to buy a house with cash several years prior, but my ex is just...weird. I suppose it's a blessing in disguise he "just wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 03:39 PM
7

This. I am pretty upfront with what I want. I prefer to be on the same page. Same for my current partner--we went on a "date" around 10:30 PM to get wings and beer. We both knew what we were there for. He had started moonlighting one evening a week at my local dive, and I figured I'm either getting free drinks or never coming back to my favorite bar again. We laugh about it now, but he's still a little off-put by it. I told him I planned to fool around with him until maybe late spring, bounce fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:13 PM
43

Many of my friends are SAHMs because they cannot afford to work. I was making about 6 figures in my last position. I haven't worked in a little over a year. While I made substantially more than him throughout our whole relationship, it not only made sense for me to stay home schedule-wise, but economically. We cannot afford for me to go back to that $90-110k/yr position. Seems ludicrous, because it is, but the culpability isn't solely on us. So we start with $100k. Daycare, wrap-around care, and…
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/22 05:13 PM
3

I am glad to hear you think this way. It is a regular occurrence that my friends and myself, as well as other women I've talked to on different forums are consistently pressured and somewhat forced into taking birth control (not just the pill). Birth control is wonderful for a myriad of conditions, including preventing pregnancy, however it isn't a one-size-fits all. Not many people (especially men) seem to understand this. It's very refreshing to talk with someone else who realizes this as well…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:47 PM
4

Kinda like the awful side effects women have to deal with?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:16 PM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:48 AM
0

Are you really so stupid that this is a common occurrence within your friend circle? No, people who ignore red flags and date below their level of class & values get "tricked." You are the company you keep.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:47 AM
1

Not really. Like I said, this isn't a situation I would ever be in. Oh, you let a lose cum in you or you came in another loser? That's on you, my friend. I straight up tell my friends who bitch about playing stupid games and winning stupid prizes. They know I don't tolerate that trashy shit. Most recently was "well, fuck a guy who at least has a car next time." click
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:43 PM
2

Why isn't he seeing his kid? He went through court, was ordered to pay support, and got 0 visitation? Doubt it. Sounds like there's a reason a man would get 0 visitation, and even so, he should still have to pay support.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:40 PM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 08:10 PM
3

From NPR: More than 70% of single mothers receive no child support at all. Over 30% of those receiving no support live in poverty. Over $100B in back-support is owes to custodial parents. Most recent census data shows that only 43.5% of custodial parents received FULL support in 2015. Yes, custodial may be male or female, and either partnered or unpartnered. Still, when it's a single woman-led household, it's over 70% not receiving anything. The article I linked above also dives deeper into DC's…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 08:08 PM
2

I don't associate with people who would have this problem. I'll say what everyone is thinking: people of a certain lifestyle and upbringing are the types to have these issues. This issue is also comorbid with other social ineptitudes and the end result is a human being with a personality incompatible with my friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:49 PM
0

They absofuckinglutely are in this ridiculous scenario. What about my FeElInGs? Should I have him turn over his phone every evening at 9 PM? Should I just simply have every social media message, SMS, email, etc. pushed to my phone as well? Ask for transcripts of every phone call and have a GPS tracking device installed in his car? InCrEdIbLe. Don't let losers cum in you & don't cum in losers. YOU are the common denominator in your life's interactions. If the person you're with would make you que…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:46 PM
18

Precisely this. I'm tired of the being the bread winner, event planner, secretary, life planner, organizer, home maker, life coach, etc. I'm tired of being judged or scoffed at for throwing my wet hair into a bun so I can get some yard work done, mop the floors, fold the laundry, food prep for the week, and try and get a decent amount of sleep before waking up before everyone else to make sure their days go by smoothly. I just don't do it anymore. I'm in a relationship, and there are some things…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:04 PM
-3

I would cut my husband if he EVER asked for a paternity test. That's disgusting given our relationship and lifestyle, as well as my known personal mores, values, cultural background, and convictions. Other people are other people. We are all different and come from different walks. I would not clutch my pearls if someone else asked for a paternity test or was unsure of their child's biological father, because their situation is obviously quite different than mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 10:06 PM
0

No, I don't. I recognize this issue is only one facet in a multidimensional issue. None of my friends or relatives have EVER wondered about nor second-guessed the paternity of their children. With that being said, I know I can only say it due to the privileges we have. We have stable relationships because we came from loving and stable upbringings. We have healthy work-life balances and make decent wages. We have communication skills and conflict resolution skills we learned growing up, througho…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 10:03 PM
1

Yikes. What's the common denominator, here? This is why I test drive men before agreeing to exclusively date them. Do our values align, do we have similar goals and aspirations, do you eat ass, and what are you opinions on the death penalty?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 05:16 PM
2

Perhaps I misunderstood what you were trying to say, but the way you worded it was saying a male partner could verify that their female partner is one the pill or had an IUD. Of course people in exclusive long-term relationships can likely do this, because they likely have already discussed their preferences and options, or watch their partner take a pill everyday, schedule an appointment to get an IUD every few years, or change their patch weekly, etc. If people are just hooking up or having a …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:36 AM
2

How are you going to verify an IUD? Reach up there and tickle the strings?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:05 AM
4

And women typically do not receive the child support that the man is required to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:03 AM
12

People who have a propensity to engage in risky sexual behaviors (like sex without a condom) will continue to do so. They usually end up seeking each other out, speaking realistically. If the man refuses to have sex without a condom, sex doesn't continue. If the woman refuses to have sex without a condom, the sex doesn't continue. People who are already raw doggin' because "she said she was on the [birth control method]" or who just do not use condoms regardless of knowing their partner's method…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:00 AM
4

The last few times we tried to have clinical trials for male birth control, all the men dropped due to "side effects" that were not nearly on the same level as women experience. Birth control (for women) is a wonderful medication for those whose bodies agree with it--it can regulate cycles, help with acne, help with medical conditions like endometriosis, and of course, prevent pregnancy. It also causes many women to experience terrible side effects.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:47 AM
2

I do most of the yard work. We also have a neighbor who has his own landscaping business. He does the bulk and grass cutting. I don't cut grass ever. My husband did it before, unreliably due to his workload, and I hired the neighbor. I do the cooking, cleaning, shopping & couponing, errand running, laundry, cat boxes, prep work, deep cleaning, any ironing or steaming that needs to be done, run the kids around, etc. I would say we fall into mostly traditional roles, although we are the quintessen…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:43 AM
1

No, we don't. "Anything they don't like" is also a broad statement. The way a man may reacts to a woman's actions or what she says is often rooted in misogyny. Edit: this seemed like a generalized statement so I wanted to clarify. I don't think many men (at least the ones in my life) respond differently to women. These are isolated and direct interactions I am speaking about, but women deal with them far more than men deal with misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 10:35 AM
2

Absolutely agreed. I don't know why the OP is pissed that women are doing the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 10:32 AM
11

Hmm. Seems like you pissed away your twenties instead of seeking out and settling down with a good woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:59 PM
-3

Please show me data, even reputable anecdotal evidence, of women shaming men for being (or being perceived to be) virgins, incels, cucks, etc. Nowhere in the history of ever will we find a statistically significant representation of men being randomly harassed with those insults. There are certainly a fair number of times when those insults are used unjustly, but it's mostly in retaliation after being provoked.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:03 AM
-4

Your third point doesn't happen (in a statistically relevant way) unless provoked by misogyny, such as slut shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:20 AM
1

Don't care. Those women don't owe him shit, and he knows that. He's also been with over 200 women so I don't think he really cares, either. If one doesn't work out, these next dozen or so will.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 10:13 PM
13

Lol she wanted an excuse to bail before things went further without you freaking out. Been there, done that; had my friends do it for me countless times too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 06:57 PM
1

My husband has slept with close to 20x the amount of people I have. No STI's. No children. No crazy stalker ex's. I have 3 children from my previous LTR. Thank God I refused to marry the bastard, right? We both have "that ex" that hurt us physically, emotionally, mentally, etc. Everyone has a rough break up in their past. His high N wasn't a red flag to me. Really, everyone has some amount of baggage or red flags, and him having a fun, healthy, and safe sex life before we met was not any of it. …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 01:59 PM
1

Both early 30s. He was my bartender.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 05:42 PM
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