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| 1 | My experience approaching a true 10You wouldnt go talk to a 10 alone at a bar because shes a couple years older than you? | /r/seduction | 13/03/14 04:22 AM |
| 1 | My experience approaching a true 10I kinda get the feel that your just nitpicking here. I think OP is lying too, but let me ask you since your the expert, what would YOU do in this situation of his approach was so wrong. | /r/seduction | 13/03/14 01:45 AM |
| 1 | My Favorite Way To Approach During The DayNice. Makes me realize I need to grow a larger ballsack and go hit up more women. Has this ever worked for you? | /r/seduction | 13/03/14 01:37 AM |
| 3 | Unusual advice for Self-esteem / internalization question?Let me drop some nueroscience on you. Your brain is made of 3 distinct layers. The reptilian brain, the emotional brain, and the thinking brain. Thoughts themselves are not that influential. You can think "I am confident", and it wont do much. Why? Because you have a "core" beleif operating in the background. That beleif (well call it "I am worthless") has a large and powerful structure in your brain, that is well developed and links down into the more powerful emotional brain. It has a direct l… | /r/seduction | 07/03/14 03:46 AM |
| 4 | Go outside and do an approach today.Lol. Totally gonna use this. Now to go find an 18 year old... | /r/seduction | 04/03/14 12:56 AM |
| 1 | So far, my psychiatrist has basically repeated to me what *Models* has taught me.Oh damn. Well I wish you luck man. I know I even have trouble with focus, and I dont have ADHD or anything, so that must be pretty damn hard. | /r/seduction | 04/03/14 12:51 AM |
| 5 | Go outside and do an approach today.Yeah, dont do that. Unless its only a way to see if you have enough balls to pull it off. | /r/seduction | 04/03/14 12:50 AM |
| 2 | Go outside and do an approach today.Just go for what you want. Who knows, maybe one of these hot older asian girls will take a liking to you. | /r/seduction | 04/03/14 12:49 AM |
| 1 | So far, my psychiatrist has basically repeated to me what *Models* has taught me.Have you ever tried meditation? | /r/seduction | 04/03/14 12:47 AM |
| 3 | Go outside and do an approach today.You are the fucking man. | /r/seduction | 04/03/14 12:44 AM |
| 15 | Go outside and do an approach today.Hi. Boyfriend? Okay. walks to next table Watsup? Not interested? Okay. walks to next table Are you cooler than those other girls over there? | /r/seduction | 04/03/14 12:43 AM |
| 7 | Go outside and do an approach today.I have a problem where I keep approaching 18 year olds because they look less intimidating to me than girls my age or older (Im 21). I actually even accidentally hit up a pair of 16 yos once. | /r/seduction | 04/03/14 12:39 AM |
| 3 | So far, my psychiatrist has basically repeated to me what *Models* has taught me.Its funny to see puaCurveBall recommend Feeling Good, as im reading that right now, and i can tell you that its really very effective at changing your beleifs and assumptions about yourself. Especially feeling inferior. Ive had that my whole life, and that book really has helped. Its all about challenging the very root of your negative beleifs, and refusing to beleive them, ultimately replacing them with positive ones. If you really want a combo of books that will knock your socks off, read Feel… | /r/seduction | 04/03/14 12:28 AM |
| 3 | 7 Long Years In The Game. Here's The Novel I Wrote About It. Free for Seddit Today. A Thousand Tiny Failures - Memoir of a Pickup Artist.To the moon! | /r/seduction | 02/03/14 08:09 PM |
| 2 | 7 Long Years In The Game. Here's The Novel I Wrote About It. Free for Seddit Today. A Thousand Tiny Failures - Memoir of a Pickup Artist.Just curious, how much doge does it take to make $1 now? | /r/seduction | 02/03/14 09:01 AM |
| 2 | 7 Long Years In The Game. Here's The Novel I Wrote About It. Free for Seddit Today. A Thousand Tiny Failures - Memoir of a Pickup Artist.Yo Tony D! I read your book a few months ago and fucking LOVED it. Your a good writer man, I like your sense of humor. I read thru that thing in almost one sitting because I liked it so much. Honestly, one of my favorite books. Really resonated with me and gave me alot of encouragement. So happy birthday bro. Thanks for writing and being awesome. | /r/seduction | 02/03/14 08:57 AM |
| 3 | Wanting something bad enough, isn't enough.Theres one quote I always remember, but I dont remember who said it.... Dont think. Thinking is self concious and only sees limits. Just do. You only learn to fly once you jump off the cliff. | /r/seduction | 02/03/14 08:45 AM |
| 1 | I feel like trying to game has made me worseDude, keep trying. Dont ever lose your faith in your ability to succeed. | /r/seduction | 02/03/14 08:40 AM |
| 2 | Just some usefull TIPS, (no tl;dr story)Yeah. You got this, you can figure it out. My only and best advice is to just really look within instead of adopting peoples advice or this or that. Inside you is your fucking strength and nobody can find it except you. | /r/seduction | 28/02/14 02:36 AM |
| 2 | Why are we less witty with the ones we're attracted to? And seem to be a stand-up comic with the one's we're not attracted to?I read a book where he said confidence is a flawed pursuit. What we all really need is competence. Then confidence comes naturally. | /r/seduction | 27/02/14 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Why are we less witty with the ones we're attracted to? And seem to be a stand-up comic with the one's we're not attracted to?Im glad to hear that it happens to the girl too :) | /r/seduction | 27/02/14 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Why are we less witty with the ones we're attracted to? And seem to be a stand-up comic with the one's we're not attracted to?The more you challenge your fears, the less they affect you. And like you said, the more you are happy and have your life in line, the less it will all matter anyway. | /r/seduction | 27/02/14 09:26 PM |
| 16 | Just some usefull TIPS, (no tl;dr story)No one wants to fuck a nasty ol nose scratcher. | /r/seduction | 27/02/14 09:18 PM |
| 2 | Just some usefull TIPS, (no tl;dr story)I find that training my voice does nothing but make my vocal cords hurt and makes me try to micromanage myself. Any tips? | /r/seduction | 27/02/14 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Just some usefull TIPS, (no tl;dr story)I find that when you say stupid things, its either because internally you are second guessing yourself, or have an attitude of trying to justify yourself to people when you speak. This may not be your case, but it seems to be the case for me. Im sure you can remember a time when you communicated clearly, durectly, and confidently, right? What was different? So what you should do is sit and try to figure out what is at the root of acting "stupid" in one case, and acting confident in another. That… | /r/seduction | 27/02/14 09:12 PM |
| 5 | A fun game to improve conversation skillsLol. I went to one of those sites, asked for a phrase, and got "queenliest pineapple". Now I have to find a way to throw in "queenliest pineapple" in a random conversation. The more I think about it, thats an awesome fucking phrase. | /r/seduction | 22/02/14 05:11 AM |
| 2 | How do you find parties and stuff?Holy shit dude. You are so negative. Your never going to find your way into doing cool shit with an attitude like that. | /r/seduction | 22/02/14 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Why holding your frame is so very important.Good shit RealSocialIdiot. That was really.. socially.. smart. I guess. | /r/seduction | 19/02/14 01:09 AM |
| 2 | Why holding your frame is so very important.Just occupy that frame as much as possible, every day. Your brain is like a computer with lots of programs you can run. The more time you spend in the "Im awesome" program, the more it is hardwired into your mind. Its nueroplasticity. It works in the same way that a habit develops. Similarly, spend as little time as possible in the "Im a loser" mindframe. When a program is not run that often, it atrophies. It will come along more naturally, but you should also do as much as you can to line your … | /r/seduction | 19/02/14 01:06 AM |
| 5 | How do you game in a loud bar with no outside area?Give her a note that has two boxes, and says: Do you like me? [ ] Yes [ ] Yes | /r/seduction | 19/02/14 12:44 AM |
| 7 | "Quick, let's make out so that guy doesn't notice us" Don't be so serious all the time!Theres no way it wont work. Picture it now. Location: Coffee shop. Girl is sitting there. Sipping coffee. All of a sudden a man quickly sits down next to her, pulls his hat down over his face, and shiftily glances out of the corners of his eyes. He sits quietly for a moment. Then abrubtly jerks his head over and mumbles in a hushed tone. "Quick, lets mmm mmm mmnhhnn njmhh" "What?"... He shifts his eyes to the left, then the right, puts his fingers up to his lips to shush her, and then nervously … | /r/seduction | 19/02/14 12:29 AM |
| 12 | "Quick, let's make out so that guy doesn't notice us" Don't be so serious all the time!No regret! Next time you see her be like "so I texted you that you reminded me of this porn star, and you didnt answer." And then boom. She is now and forever known as a closeted porn star, and you are closing in on the truth. | /r/seduction | 19/02/14 12:16 AM |
| 6 | "Quick, let's make out so that guy doesn't notice us" Don't be so serious all the time!Me: Wasup girl, I'm a Special Needs Seal Trainer. I train developmentally challenged Seals and Sea Lions." Her: drops panties | /r/seduction | 19/02/14 12:08 AM |
| 1 | "Quick, let's make out so that guy doesn't notice us" Don't be so serious all the time!Ive found my opener. | /r/seduction | 19/02/14 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Bit of a vague question. How do I stop needing validation from people?Taoism is so mind bogglingly awesome. | /r/seduction | 13/02/14 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Bit of a vague question. How do I stop needing validation from people?http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gLt_yDvdeLQ Its a long inner path that Im sure you have already embarked on due to the fact that you are asking the question. Its just about tons of experience and practice and repitition. It will be painfil and you will doubt yourself and think you cant do it. Thats part of the path. The only true key, is to stick to it. Because practice always leads to competence, confidence, and mastery. Deep confidence is a result of deep competence. The real question is, can y… | /r/seduction | 13/02/14 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Am I the only one who uses the advice here to generally get ahead in life?Get into hospital work. Especially nursing. Read my post above. You will be surrounded with beautiful women, you will meet some awesome patients and get to know your community, youll have a million job options, and your social skills will improve 10 fold. | /r/seduction | 13/02/14 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Am I the only one who uses the advice here to generally get ahead in life?Hell no your not. Im not here to be a pick up artist. Im using this template to practice the social aspect of my life in depth. I just have this deep natural inclination to master social interaction and express myself fully and have a crazy fun adventure with my life and get over all my problems through years of practice and growth. I have big plans for my life, and the advice here has really helped me put them in motion and put my current situation in perspective. Also, your buisiness part soun… | /r/seduction | 13/02/14 02:49 AM |
| 2 | Example of max level PUA. Worth the read. No seriously I can't stress this enough, fucking read it.Your like me. For me, the appeal here is that I actually have the ability to get over many of my fears, and become a lot more successful, not just with women but with everybody. Thats what I like about this community. The idea that this is all just a skill to be worked on, that almost anybody can do it, and the focus on action instead of sitting around thinking about it. Ultimately, its a powerful template that you can take any way you want. I think alot of people here arent trying to become "pi… | /r/seduction | 09/02/14 07:37 PM |
| 5 | How can compensate for my silent nature and improve on my conversations?No, he has a very good point, but its quite hard to really put into words. Let me just say it like this. Once you know with conviction what you as a man are doing with your life and are confident in your plan, once you begin to actively lead yourself through the world to acheive something that is important to you, you just naturally begin to develop the skills of leading a conversation. If you dont have those skills, then you have nothing to offer, so you are quiet. If you have nothing to say, i… | /r/seduction | 06/02/14 06:13 AM |
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