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9

ask him. he’s your best friend. its not like you need any sexual strategy for this one where you have to soft next and shit.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 10:40 PM
1

same situation man, 20 too. been out of dating cause covid. for you id try for the experience and get laid just for fun. dont force yourself though if you just dont feel it. Dates could be simple as walking and good ideas you already have. Just heads up dont date on valentines day people are gonna be out and you might go home coughing.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 05:55 PM
-8

damn you love emojis huh
/r/askTRP09/10/20 03:30 AM
19

Bpd means borderline personality disorder. Bipolar is different. But both can ruin your life and will offer a blowjob to make things better!
/r/askTRP05/10/20 03:55 PM
9

There are 6-7’s id rather fuck than 10’s on appearance because for some reason I know they will just annoy the fuck out of me. While the 6-7s may have more enjoyable company so, fuck who youre attracted to, sober not drunk.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 09:56 AM
9

BAHAHAAHAHAHAHAH
/r/askTRP29/08/20 10:26 AM
14

you sound annoying not gonna lie. from your post it seems like you hate your circle of friends, so? find some new friends but dont burn bridges with your old ones. and btw dont blame your friends from girls rejecting you. you may think you’re hotshit but you’re not i promise you.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 01:14 AM
63

game other guys lol, had this situation couple of times due to being the “funny guy”. i let things slide unless its disrespectful or it gets to a point that its just too annoying. this needs more context btw, are you in a group of friends, just the two of you or with people you dont know around. if they’re close to you, give them some decency to actually let them know you did not like what they said. dont straight ignore. makes u look more butthurt i think.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 09:10 AM
3

aAHAHAHAHAAHA tell your girlfriend op to also shut the fuck up
/r/askTRP23/07/20 02:42 AM
12

hey man we’re not gonna stop you, but theres a high chance this will turn to shit. go do what you “FEEL” like doing, you’ll see.
/r/askTRP04/07/20 07:25 AM
3

lmao
/r/askTRP03/07/20 05:20 AM
4

op this made me feel like a bitch hope u find your way.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 06:36 AM
11

Idiot option: contemplate and worry about something you clearly said you shouldnt prioritise. best option: just fucking ignore it man
/r/askTRP26/06/20 10:08 PM
32

dick down and settle down wait
/r/askTRP21/06/20 01:59 PM
45

join me im a male feminist and im inlove with someone out of country. one day she’ll give me sex so excited !!
/r/TheRedPill20/06/20 01:03 AM
41

you should give up i mean thats what u want right?
/r/TheRedPill20/06/20 12:21 AM
1

ive been doing bodyweights like crazy. idk if it will bulk me up though. thanks for the advices !! I hope i can keep going and to you too. ur a really nice dude
/r/askTRP19/06/20 11:10 PM
1

I mean, I tried, my knee cant handle any thing greater than my body weight. thanks for the reminder though haha
/r/askTRP19/06/20 11:05 PM
1

not ugly hahahaha just average and satisfied just balding sucks tbh if you can see my last post i shaved my head to 1, can u judge how i look?
/r/askTRP19/06/20 10:02 PM
3

theres no point we all die. lol. too extreme but its true. its just a matter of can you endure the thought of knowing the possible consequences while being able to enjoy what you learned in this subreddit. homie at the end if you get your heartbroken and disappointed, not much is going to change, its just yourself. as always.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 06:33 AM
23

man i wish i can understand what you guys are talking about.
/r/askTRP13/06/20 12:59 PM
1

Allahu akbar type of sex
/r/askTRP07/06/20 06:47 PM
1

ok bro
/r/askTRP07/06/20 06:06 PM
2

thats where the games comes in. you have to figure out the correct amount. just dont worry about losing a girl. if this has been an issue for a lot of times thats just means you have met some interesting women and you can and will meet more. goodluck op.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 08:25 PM
1

Im sorry i didnt actually read your post i just saw some comment about advising you on pedestal so i adviced with my own. Ive been there man, the amazing chase and fun convo with a cute girl. I get it, til some time, they reply less frequently. i got tired of those games and i just stopped having full blown convo and used dms/chats/texts for logistics and some teasing ofc. just save those interesting questions and topics when ur actually hanging out w/ them in person. Its alot more fun, im sure …
/r/askTRP02/06/20 08:15 PM
1

best way to get rid of someone on a pedestal or learn that people arent supposed to be on a pedestal is be humilated and disappointed by your own expectation of them being somewhat better than you. which they could be since you are putting them on a pedestal. go, keep trying your best making them happy, go on. wait til they shatter you, if not you’re probably attractive af. but realize people dont want it, if its too easy to have. been there man, still have some slip ups. go take a loss sometime…
/r/askTRP02/06/20 07:47 PM
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when I read the caption of this post I immediately heard, sweet home alabama.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 03:36 AM
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CAN YOU BAN THESE TYPE OF PEOPLE WTF
/r/askTRP12/05/20 09:29 AM
1

you’re probably young and inexperienced about being rational when it comes to being aware or knowing the consequences of lusting someone. its good though that means you have very high testosterone and you could use it for something productive. Lift and whatever passion you have. Im not saying stop having sex, just know when its not worth it. could be some bpd women, could be time wasting, could be whatever the case that may fuck up your self value. avoid those things as much as possible.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 09:24 AM
2

wtf she was already your girlfriend just a month dating?
/r/askTRP12/05/20 06:09 AM
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dont know man we’ll all die at some point. what a line huh. to sympathize im 19, 5’6 and already have thinning hair and a receding hairline. I feel lost at my career. so i kinda get u. Now. If you worry about girls, its a waste of time if you dont have stability in your life. Get a job, even if u hate it. Earn some money idk learn about investing or someshit. Ask people. Girls are overrated, u feeling okay is more important. honestly man im scared about this. hate to admit it but i try to positi…
/r/askTRP09/05/20 07:29 AM
2

lmao
/r/askTRP07/05/20 02:40 AM
2

if she has high interest you can come back easily bro but ur worrying too much and putting her a priority haha its alright man
/r/askTRP03/05/20 07:40 AM
1

I didnt say you should tell her directly ofc it will sound feminine. i said you should “let her know” by doing something productive and getting pussy elsewhere rather than worrying abt this one. Now in words for future reference, if u still want to try if it gets to this, dont prolong convo just set up a date. with the time u want. if she flakes, ghost her for sure.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 07:03 AM
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She just wants validation king, she regrets it sure, but mixed signals arent worth to handle at this point in time (quarantine). If any convo seems emotionally taxing, let her know you dont want to waste time.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 03:42 AM
1

Pump and break it off
/r/askTRP02/05/20 06:43 AM
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imagine your friend after spending his last calculated desperation money after hanging out with her. and all she gave was a hug and a “take care”.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 05:59 AM
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update us if you can. i want to know if love still exist.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 05:57 AM
1

have u even fucked any girl, cases are if u got to fuck some girl, u r atleast attractive. And if that still doesnt give u atleast an inch of ego boost bc idk ur probably fucking worrying about a “guy’s” approval. Seems gay but it aint bad.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 02:52 AM
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Well i found trp before this which i know that getting attached too much isnt a good of an idea. I backed off tried to be rational about it. And i decided its better to stop. Well shes 18 which is probably an immature age hence the behavior. Thanks man. Im thinking of blocking her since she just wont get the memo that i dont want to deal with her anymore.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 04:59 PM
1

Thanks man, i just probably got annoyed because i was unfamiliar with the situation and took my attention elsewhere immediately. I like the idea of dialing it down but idk im probably over it, maybe good for future situations though!
/r/askTRP29/04/20 12:40 AM
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Arent most girls?
/r/askTRP29/04/20 12:38 AM
1

I wish youd know the word lol
/r/askTRP29/04/20 12:35 AM
2

r u guys not in any form lockdown? im not saying im not doing anything that helps myself. Im taking L’s since i cant do too much this quarantine.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 12:33 AM
1

I dont know man do you think its a turn off? If its not then, its not. Go do what you want. If you’re dominant in physique and in mental aspects, you’ll be dominant anywhere. Nerds you say yet they may even dont give a fuck about what others think. Better to be that than someone who would choose a career they might not even want but because it turns someone on. Wtf
/r/askTRP28/04/20 07:09 PM
4

dont go asking for advice and responding like you didnt ask for any. what the fuck
/r/askTRP19/04/20 04:06 AM
3

BARS
/r/askTRP19/04/20 04:03 AM
1

i hope so, thanks hope you wont get someone pregnant.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 07:11 PM
2

i didnt know western people had weak sperm, kinda dont want to rely on that families sprung like corona out here. philippines. I really hope so. i asked her. idc if i look like a fucking idiot.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 06:47 PM
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im from the philippines and abortions are yet to be approved. fuck. i should asked her but ill look like an idiot for being too paranoid and make a alot more mess with the probable situation.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 06:41 PM
2

I did. Not sure about their situation but everytime i see a post about cheating, situationally both the guy and the girl is somehow at fault but i mostly blame and think the girl would be at the wrong. The "guy" stealing the girl is somewhat helping the guy getting cucked to understand that his turn is over. Yet most girls wont break up to secure the fearing possibility of being single. But I get your point. Ive been there and somewhat still.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 06:39 PM
2

Did somebody stole the love of your liiiiife?
/r/askTRP17/01/20 06:28 PM
9

"I love you"
/r/askTRP15/01/20 11:41 PM
1

take her out and do some escalation shit dawg if youre new youd be feeling nervous of course. learn if you cant get anything from this but dont waste time. get em man
/r/askTRP15/01/20 03:13 PM
2

nice mindset sir, i hope things get better for you. ill try to think more like you !!
/r/askTRP30/11/19 11:25 AM
1

oh, is it all better now? not trying to ask too much. as of now im also battling a skin disease. which is psoriasis. how did you deal with the feelings of insecurities?
/r/askTRP30/11/19 11:18 AM
1

what was the skin disease? just curious. was it psoriasis?
/r/askTRP30/11/19 11:15 AM
2

id answer with "what?"
/r/askTRP28/11/19 04:26 AM
1

whats your take on you initiating the cheating act? I mean do you flirt and had sex with any women that had "boyfriends"?
/r/askTRP17/11/19 08:18 AM
1

hard to explain with no context. but i get your point.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 01:12 PM
1

therapy, with a male doctor. if can. if not, start by little stoppage. you cant just quit immediately, you'll eventually break. find some other time filling activities.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 12:12 PM
1

oh yeah that. being a foreigner gives you this advantage of being seen as "rich". which might get you some gold digging pussies. im not saying all women here are like that. most or some.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 01:30 AM
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i wish i could workout and go to the gym. To get big and shit but i cant, my body is limited due to having psoriatic arthtis at 19 years old. fuck.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/19 03:04 PM
1

so op is a total mad beast huh
/r/askTRP30/10/19 11:17 AM
2

dude mgtow seems for you that is alot of consideration when youre trying to fuck
/r/askTRP20/10/19 04:01 AM
1

what major did you finish?
/r/askTRP26/09/19 10:04 AM
1

good food with psoriatic arthritis sir?
/r/askTRP22/09/19 02:11 PM
1

what was your choice of diet? im trying to just eat fish since their inflammatory and i need my protein. i had psoriasis since i was a kid but it wasnt as severe compared to now. i have it in my legs a huge spot and elbows.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 03:40 AM
1

symptoms are just as same as Arthritis but with rashes.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 12:46 AM
1

bro did you even read my post?
/r/askTRP22/09/19 12:45 AM
37

grade 9. I sang love songs for a girl i had a crush on. every friday, club meeting. we would spend about 2 hours and i was entertaining her hoping ill make her fall in love with me. after the two hours her boyfriend will come pick her up. this happened for a whole school year. how many fridays spent with a boner that i was trying to hide ( thinking girls dont like getting lusted for ).
/r/askTRP11/09/19 12:46 AM
3

damn, man I hope things get better
/r/askTRP09/09/19 07:52 AM
14

no messages or proof of logistics you can use as evidence?
/r/askTRP09/09/19 07:26 AM
3

or maybe shes crazY
/r/askTRP26/08/19 10:16 PM
5

jesus
/r/askTRP25/08/19 12:07 PM
1

hey not to sound fucking beta but i hope you are thinking about other people involved in this tale of yours, your happiness is indeed paramount but with the actions youre making, you could lead people to traumatic experiences and some shit like that but yeah sex is way more important.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 10:52 AM
2

Same experiences, all i can think is take some time off first and try to realize that intimacy is something you have to face. Feelingz can be hard to explain but most of it, are just chemicals i guess you already knew that but the guys you are talking about just have better a grasp and exposure to "love" when they were young. Since I for myself find building connections or intimacy with women very difficult, all i can feel was lust and I find it hard to live with that. Which i shouldn't be reall…
/r/askTRP12/08/19 04:19 PM
1

just do you man
/r/askTRP06/08/19 11:26 AM
27

hey man, can you go in depth in the loving yourself part? how the fuck should i start
/r/askTRP06/08/19 07:35 AM
2

admire is fine as long as its not close to obsession and doing almost anything for her attention. just like every artists you look up to, there are just some things you find pleasing, just dont overthink it and also remember that they all suck and flawed at something.
/r/askTRP03/08/19 04:23 PM
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this is not true i had a threesome yesterday and we were two guys and my girlfriend which is an hb3.8887 round it off to 4. i really love my girlfriend and she wanted him to bang her first because he was so fun to be honest. i waited and cooked for them some dinner. it was so heartwarmibg to see your girlfriend so happy. best part? i didnt even got to have sex so i didnt get exhausted. haha. the guy left after sex and i hugged him for being so nice! ill sure do it again next time.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/19 12:19 PM
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man that line, im from philippines and that stunged me but fuck that was spot on
/r/TheRedPill01/08/19 12:16 PM
2

just because you found trp doesnt mean you found a sure way to be happy. most of the people here thinks theyre so high tier including you. just like every path some are smart enough to know that some paths not worth taking walks for and most are deluded to walk because they were taught that it was the right one. now with your father, just be there for him, as long as hes not beating you, respect him atleast.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 01:57 AM
1

May i ask how to stop making my inner kid to stop being a bitch when someone shows affection?
/r/askTRP27/07/19 02:15 PM
1

trauma? what specifically? i feel like it is.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 06:10 PM
8

oof you sound so cool
/r/askTRP23/07/19 05:54 PM
2

lmao
/r/askTRP23/07/19 05:53 PM
1

she seems cool? because? bro you didnt even talk to her. not even one word was spoken to make her even feel close to comfortable. by saying you noticed her without anything else, creepy. whatever though you seem to have everything under control.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 05:51 PM
2

bro calm down, shes just a girl. youre creating so many problems in your head. try to be comfortable first by asking something about the class or some shit. build something out of that convo and ask her out if its possible. Its normal. dont do anything weird.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 05:46 PM
2

jesus use paragraphs
/r/askTRP23/07/19 05:40 PM
2

go bald
/r/askTRP18/07/19 04:08 AM
1

man, what?
/r/askTRP17/07/19 11:22 AM
4

Depends, have you tried going for the girls you find attractive? Or even then, you still dont want to? From what i see, youre clearly protecting something. Probably ego or youre just overthinking the whole point of sex. If you really want to bang some chick, just go for it. I understand you wouldnt want to fuck someone that looks like from bikini bottom but give those hb6 a try, atleast imagine, if you get a boner and its an easy lay. fuck it. fuck her and marry her the next day. Youre 16 and yo…
/r/askTRP17/07/19 02:53 AM
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dont follow this advice
/r/askTRP11/07/19 03:33 PM
1

did you had the same problem?
/r/askTRP07/07/19 12:46 PM
1

you too man, update me with such.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 04:27 AM
2

Following this post cause i had the same problem
/r/askTRP06/07/19 04:42 PM
1

yes bro
/r/askTRP30/06/19 11:29 AM
6

i experienced this, dude as long as shes not taller by a foot youre fine. height doesnt matter when youre laying on bed. listen to short kings anthem by tmg. gives you some confidence, pussy.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 07:56 AM
2

dont ever ask for any advice until you are actually at the point of accepting or even consider other people's advice. go do what you want.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 02:33 PM
9

except below 18 years old
/r/askTRP27/06/19 04:33 PM
7

Bill Burr had a great idea about this. He's still growing up and doing what he enjoys most. So hangout with him do some activities and while hanging out, say a thing or two about how you view life and how you can help him be better. Dont complicate shit and make it interesting. In the process you two are enjoying and on the side, some probable good information is going inside his head.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 04:31 PM
11

shes busy and youre not. go get busy.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 04:26 PM
1

Is this shit serious i feel like this could be me. I never had one LTR, all was just short term and just for sex. Did you ever crave to have an LTR? I found that intimacy is only uncomfortable when you want things to be too perfect.
/r/askTRP23/06/19 12:43 PM
2

why the fuck do you care about that
/r/askTRP19/06/19 07:19 AM
13

we dont know, we do not have the time stone just enjoy and focus on the present since you do not see any dating potential sooner or later, probably.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 05:43 AM
12

what the fuck are you talking about
/r/askTRP09/06/19 11:01 AM
1

nice. ill be a lot more "nah" than "man i gotta fix this feeling".
/r/askTRP07/06/19 08:43 PM
1

hey sir, i just gotta ask. Have you ever just lost interest towards someone that you were pining over for a long time? (Probably the younger you) once the relationship starts or when they reciprocate the feelz. Like you just uncontrollably disgusted?
/r/askTRP07/06/19 07:57 PM
1

well i sort of broke the rule of the dont shit where you eat. I may not be as comfortable as i would want to. yeah i sound stupid and young hahaha im new to this trp thing. thanks, ill try to be cool
/r/askTRP07/06/19 03:34 PM
0

well about this summer, i sort of felt anxious that there is a huge chance that i will be in the same block (class/section) with the woman i fucked around and somehow broke her heart. kinda ended okay. (?) Should i just not gaf or somehow be playful?
/r/askTRP07/06/19 03:17 PM
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and is trp the real life you are talking about?
/r/askTRP05/06/19 12:08 PM
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wow this was a great feedback not the usual, go read the sidebar, which i know is somehow helpful but this was too helpful, helped me too actually. Thank you sir!
/r/askTRP05/06/19 10:18 AM
1

incompatibility just wont work.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 03:25 PM
1

Dude its your choice, there is no turning back once you do end it, the world will still spin in it's disastrous and natural way. IF you can afford therapy do so. Its a must. But if not all you can do is find a friend. Find someone that you can hold on to. In a way that you dont just pressed on all of your problems to that person, just try to make them listen. All you have to do is fucking live and hope, that tomorrow will be better. I sound fucking oprah but shit, Try to talk to your family just…
/r/askTRP15/05/19 05:33 PM
1

well what if its true love?????? ;)))) lmao
/r/askTRP13/05/19 04:41 AM
1

oh damn congrats, whats your job now?
/r/askTRP20/04/19 02:54 AM
1

on what level? im really not sure if I have to actually shift courses, which is very terrible.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 12:19 PM
1

that advice came actually from a gay therapist so idk, still a male though and he had helped a lot of people.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 05:20 PM
1

i have read redpill contents already and it felt more of a better choice. dont wanna go back to that rut.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 05:18 PM
2

Man, I hope you'll get over this as soon as you can. Really terrible woman. The comments enough showed you tough love, move on mate. Enjoy Trp content.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 03:44 PM
1

may i ask was this your first ltr?
/r/askTRP06/04/19 02:45 PM
1

same issue, sometimes i feel really guilty and anxious that I dont care about them anymore. I actually tried therapy, its more of infatuation as they call it and we want challenge, once were done, we immediately instinctively want to leave.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 04:22 AM
4

is there some part of the red pill theory included dancing? dude ask other subreddits
/r/askTRP06/03/19 01:19 PM
1

dude im sorry if this post exerts simpy vibes. i really dont know what to do.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 01:57 AM
2

GODAMN HAHAHAHAHAHA
/r/askTRP18/02/19 01:36 AM
1

why is this a possibility?
/r/askTRP27/01/19 09:32 AM
2

goddamn that made me sad hahahahaa
/r/askTRP27/01/19 04:08 AM
1

what did you do with this situation?
/r/askTRP06/01/19 11:36 AM
1

should i still try it with this girl? or i already fucked it up and just move on?
/r/askTRP29/11/18 11:25 AM
1

well yeah i am 18 i just got into the redpill community. pardon me ill ramble something wont that sound desperate though I asked her once on a dm and cancelled it out bc i felt that she wasnt interested but she actually said when can we go on that date? asking her directly might put her on a pedestal.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 09:34 AM
0

can you lend me the link that is purposely created for the situation I had trouble with? thank you : )
/r/askTRP29/11/18 08:11 AM
0

i read somewhere that saying how you felt for a girl loses attraction? but i also fucking read somewhere that confessing your feelings can be positive thing and can even lead to a potential relationship. so idk really what works best.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 07:54 AM
1

No im serious hahahahaha
/r/askTRP29/11/18 07:51 AM
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