I-atemytwin Archive

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1	Women how does your sexual attraction work? In my experience, I'm not attracted to anyone until I know them. So like, for example... I can acknowledge handsome men the same way I can acknowledge beautiful women but I don't feel any sexual desire until I know them /their personality. So, typically a key component for me to like someone (and then ultimately feel sexual desire) is the witty banter we have. I guess in real life I like people I can joke with /I find them funny. I find it very flirty if they can banter well & there's bonus poin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/22 12:00 AM
2	Looking at studies and looking at this subreddit will not improve your dating life, it will at best make no difference or make it worse. I stumbled across this subreddit accidentally and find the concept of people with very different opinions debating interesting. The topics are also interesting. I've never actually been on any other pill subreddit though. Here is enough. Don't feel like I need to touch grass, nor do I hate men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/22 11:28 PM
5	If you're fat, there's no point in complaining about not finding any thin girls to date. Ahh I see, well that makes sense. Thanks for answering.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/22 10:34 PM
8	If you're fat, there's no point in complaining about not finding any thin girls to date. In my honest opinion, personality > looks but you have to not be extremely unattractive. It's like... I've found myself attracted to guys I've initially had no attraction to and found very average, I've even found myself attracted to guys I initially thought of as mildly unattractive. But yeah if someone is morbidly obese, or extremely unattractive to me I don't think I could become attracted to them based on their personality. I dunno if my view is the general or common view but this is my trut…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/22 10:00 PM
14	If you're fat, there's no point in complaining about not finding any thin girls to date. Let's say hypothetically, you couldn't get any slim women currently, would you have no interest in a bigger woman with the following circumstances, She is the female equivalent to whatever your current size is, who you have a lot in common with, you were attracted to her face and personality and she has her goals aligned with yours, she like you is actively working on becoming slimmer too. Is the present fatness too much of a deterrent? Btw I'm not asking out of saltyness I'm actually slim mysel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/22 09:55 PM
5	Is chivalry dead and did Woman kill it? Modern chilvary to me generally is sweet, respectful behaviour. I'm a woman, I wouldn't say chivalry is dead, men can behave courteously towards women they like, like holding doors open, offering to carry heavy things etc. I would say. We are more on level playing fields, when it comes to behaviour we expect from one another now though. Men also like small gestures & these gestures should be given them. Chilvary is no longer very gendered. I think if you think of men throughout history, the majo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/22 12:51 AM
2	Women don’t want men to even the playing field by actively cultivating back up options since it ruins their leverage Since you are curious. I have never did it as I've never slept with anyone I have not dated, and I've dated each partner for LTR, so nope. I make sure I am sure I want to be committed before having sex, & that he's showing he wants to be committed. The thing is, I don't believe casual sex really is healthy for women honestly. So I don't think it's a goal that women should partake in. (I mean obviously everyone has their own independent choice& some women are totally fine)... But most women I hav…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/22 01:01 AM
5	Women don’t want men to even the playing field by actively cultivating back up options since it ruins their leverage I've wrote a lot so feel free to ignore this comment I've been in my current relationship for years & I don't keep any backup options & I wouldn't be with him if he did either. 'passively understand that my access to dick is constant' - gross. I didn't say anything like that. I don't consider my bf a slave & I don't want any random man's dick, I've chosen to be with my partner, & he chooses to be with me, so why entertain other men? I expect loyalty so I also give loyalty. If we separate in futu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/22 05:54 PM
1	Why are women more likely to be victims of romance scammers? Same reason why a lot of women prefer erotica books over porn. Women are more into the emotional fantasy whereas men are more typically into the visual fantasy /physical aspect imo. You probably find more men getting scammed by cam girls,(or maybe just legitimately paying for the services, etc) whereas women will more likely get scammed by some dude sending her sweet messages. That being said, I kinda feel like most victims of romance scammers are pretty old & lots of women outlive their husband…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/22 05:27 PM
9	Women don’t want men to even the playing field by actively cultivating back up options since it ruins their leverage Seems like you value having sexual options over building real connections & that just screams insecurity. Why would you care if things don't work out with a woman if she's hypothetically immediately 'hopping on new dick' that would honestly just make me feel like I've dodged a huge bullet& I wouldn't want to be with that woman anyway. There's nothing more unattractive than someone who needs to always have backup options. If I were going on dates with a man, and he claimed to be into me & I found…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/22 05:11 PM