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I-liketoast/r/seduction05/06/16 03:09 AM
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Shit I'm already feeling a little anxious and I'm in bed. But you sound like in a situation where we all end up in so great practice. Idk I've always felt more pressure when I had routines in my head. Scared that I might be taken off the know paths. One of the most enjoyable nights I had going out I literally go up to a lady i just wanted to talk to for either a combination of attractive/interesting. From there it was just conversation. But I was also honest about how I felt about her. Didn't wo…
/r/seduction01/12/18 06:58 AM
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What do you want to do?
/r/seduction01/12/18 06:24 AM
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Either tell her how you feel or move on. The healthiest thing to do.
/r/seduction07/09/18 05:47 AM
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It's not you job to reject yourself. Let them do that. If anyone rejects solely because of your leg, fuck them. Being self conscious is a hard feeling to get over. Look you can't change your body. It is a part of you, and you must move forward with it. Otherwise you start hating a part of who you are that you can't change. But it doesn't represent who you are as a person. It's and aspect of who you are. Once you accept it and live life like you normally do, without a second thought about your le…
/r/seduction07/09/18 05:44 AM
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Idk maybe you were just not into her.
/r/seduction19/04/18 05:42 AM
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There is no perfect way, try just asking her out. "Hey I would love to take you out on a date."
/r/seduction26/05/17 05:08 AM
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That's life man. You're free to do whatever you want and you don't know what to do with the time. Well you shouldn't look to other people as to what you should do with your life. You should do as you please. Want to just chill and be friends. Do that. Want to just fool around then be honest about it and do that. The first step is up to you and only you. All the best.
/r/seduction26/05/17 05:03 AM
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Start with normal and with no expectations. Start with normal, say hello and try to get to know them and see quickly if they are someone you want to talk to more. No expectations. You're not trying to get into bed with them that night. You just want to talk with them. Maybe when you're able to comfortably talk to any random women you can try to pull and whatever. What I'm saying is baby steps. You dont need a reason to talk to anyone. Read that again. You can talk to them simply because you want…
/r/seduction26/05/17 04:52 AM
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Its pretty hard to go from 0 to 100. If you're new to this or not as courageous or whatever, which is fine truly it is. You have to start somewhere. You can't expect to run a marathon if you can't finish a mile. So start walking, then try a jog, then go for the mile, etc. But you have to start you have to put those running shoes on and start. My advice start with being normal. Don't try to pull a group of girls, don't try to sleep with the girl that same day. Just fucking be normal say hi and ha…
/r/seduction25/05/17 08:44 AM
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Hey man here is an article/blog? that I've enjoyed and it might help you out a bit with your bad habits. It's not going to solve you problems but it might put them in a light that might help you understand your position and eventually help you grow. As for not being the person you want to be. Well dream big and reach it, and fail. Then keep on reaching. That's life. Of course only try to become the guy you and only you want to be. Not what the chicks in the bar might want or the babes in the cof…
/r/seduction25/05/17 08:19 AM
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If I were to give you any advice it would be to be honest and make your intentions clear. Make sure they know that your interested and make moves on them. If not then they'll eventually think that you truly just want to be friends. And if you don't want to go shopping with them then it's ok to say no.
/r/seduction25/05/17 08:09 AM
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Hey man I've been, and I'm sure things are all fucked up in your head. But rushing into anything might not be a good idea. Take your time and heal if that's what you need. But definitely ask yourself what it is that you want to do. Did you enjoy your time with her and want to try again. Then do that. You may have forgiven her for what she's done like breaking up with you without letting you know, but you might not want to be with someone who isn't honest with you then you should stay with your v…
/r/seduction25/05/17 08:00 AM
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You're fine. Truly are. Play around with your hair and facial hair and see what you like and ask your friends for advice. I think potentially, the "idea" of your looks holding you back IS holding you back. As in you might think you don't look good enough. If that's the case, then know this. You're fine.
/r/seduction25/05/17 07:50 AM
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I'm no expert, just another dude. But if you were my friend I'd say maybe it's not oneitist, maybe you really like this girl and there's nothing wrong with that. If you really enjoy spending time one a person what's so wrong with wanting to, and doing so? If your "objective" is to find a girlfriend maybe this is your brain wanting to get to know her a bit more.
/r/seduction25/05/17 07:44 AM
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It doesn't sound like it. But hey get some coffee, talk, get to know her a bit. Ask her out then.
/r/seduction16/02/17 03:54 PM
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Hey man I'm no expert. But I'd say being in a serious relationship for 5 years. The is going to be some aftermath. And you freezing up might be out of everyone in reddit scope. If I could give any advice it would be to start very small and be easy on yourself. It's not a race. It's your mental and social health.
/r/seduction16/02/17 12:32 AM
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Cool man. I love philosophy but haven't been able to get into it. Any books that you love? Anyway. Try talking to girls about that. Or find out if there are things about them that you honestly are intrested in. Only issue is that clubs are HORRIBLE for this. Or go to places with girls that might have similar interests. But if getting laid is all your looking for, which is fine, clubs well... haha I have no idea. I don't go to them sorry. As for the social anxiety. That's totally fine. Tones of p…
/r/seduction04/09/16 03:43 AM
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This is great advice! To add on to that. Keep on improving youself for youself. It's great that your hitting the gym. If this your first time try out 5x5 strong lifts. You might just like it. Anyway keep on improving youself in areas that you think need work, but again, for youself, not for others. While on that road, if you see a girl you like talk to her and let her know. If she doesn't reciprocate, that fine. All good. Onto the next one. All the best.
/r/seduction04/09/16 03:31 AM
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Hey man I've got a different take for you, I just got to know a few things. What do you like? Like soccer? Rockclimbing? Music? Philosophy? Swimming? Let me know.
/r/seduction04/09/16 03:26 AM
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She seems to really like you. I'm very much like you thinking of all the possibilities, one of them being that she just wants you as a friend. I say, why not find out? Want to "escalate kino". Man just hold her hand, grab her waist and hold her near. Do want you want. Let her know you like her, and jump in the deep end and live! Other possibility, she may be the love of your life and all that needs to happen for that possibility to occur is to is to do something and hope she feels the same as yo…
/r/seduction04/09/16 03:22 AM
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That sounds incredibly frustrating! The way you describe it sounds like they have lost interest. Do you usually initiate things? Have you spoken to anyone you've previously been with as to why they have stopped talking to you? That may sound like an awkward thing to do, but I say if it comes from an honest place within yourself to try to understand and grow then it's fine.
/r/seduction31/08/16 04:57 AM
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Taiwan numba 1
/r/seduction11/08/16 02:40 AM
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Agreed. Always be honest upfront. I could see how some negative feelings can come up from not receiving a text for that long.
/r/seduction05/06/16 01:52 AM
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Dude. Sucking at something, is the first step to being sort of good at something. -Jake the dog. Yeah you messed up. But you learn and grow. Invite her to see a movie at your place. Make a move there. You got this.
/r/seduction17/04/16 07:52 AM
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Don't read into it man. You wanted to talk to her. She wasn't interested. Oh well life goes on. Just walk back in and resume with life. No big deal.
/r/seduction23/02/16 04:00 AM
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Let them know you have no intention of dating.
/r/seduction26/01/16 05:02 AM
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Just be honest about your feelings. If she doesn't feel the same, that's a rejection. She may want to be friends but has no interest in dating. If that's the case treat it like any other girl who rejects you.
/r/seduction26/01/16 04:58 AM
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Agreed. Find out! Be vulnerable!
/r/seduction23/07/15 04:11 AM
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Your post is a breath a fresh air. Thanks for your point of view, the whole evolutionary psychology and alpha male mindset was indeed driving me crazy and affecting my happiness.
/r/seduction26/03/15 02:57 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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