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Thank you for this reply. Really. Every time I come across one of your posts, I wonder what it is that motivates you to spend so much time creating topics on here. I've asked you directly before and you dodge the question. So finally with this accusation, I'm certain that you actually just made a confession. The red pill forum was not created with the intent to spread a message to everyone and have everyone pay attention to it, but rather to isolate itself from those who do share their goals. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 11:29 PM
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Why do you attempt to give dating advice to men when you have never even pretended for a second that you have their best interests in mind? Who do you think is going to take you seriously when you spend so much of your time on here shit talking men in general? I doubt anyone here even believes you are successful in dating as a woman, so any suggestions you might have for men are completely worthless with all of that in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:39 AM
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I see no evidence that the same people who say women have it easy are the same people that wouldn't like to be born a woman. I also see a roughly even split so far in the responses, with the people saying yes they would like to be a woman at the bottom of the thread getting downvoted and making them easier to ignore.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:30 AM
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I think you are taking all types of criticism and name calling you've seen of porn actors and assuming that every one of them is criticizing the whole industry. Commenting on attempts to advertise in inappropriate places, or their viability as a romantic partner is not saying they should be ashamed of what they do. If that's not what you're talking about then maybe bring examples of exactly what you are, because the type of shaming you want to try and address doesn't seem that common. Also just …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 10:50 PM
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You think most people PAY for porn? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 10:18 PM
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Admire is too strong of a word but my answer would be Esther Vilar. If asked who that is, I would say she is a brave woman that wrote some controversial books about women's status in the world and how they see men. Then encourage them to look her up. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:19 AM
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The forced vasectomy bill was introduced as a satirical response to anti-abortion legislation. I know. My point was that proposed bills that don't pass are not strong evidence of anything significant. If anyone can propose a bill for whatever political purpose on a whim like that, then there's little reason to take any of them seriously or show them as proof of anything unless they become law. Unless of course you want to simply pick and choose which bills are important to promote a narrative. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:58 PM
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You just want women to never be held responsible for anything. If the father wants the child, what is the argument for not putting the embryo in an artificial womb if such a thing became possible? He can have sole custody and she can pay child support. Why shouldn't this become an option?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 10:31 AM
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In a recent pole, 28% of male respondents reported the 19th amendment should be repealed. 28% of men and 18% of women. Does that seem like an accurate representation of Americans to you? Because to me it sounds like they polled some rural religious town. I dunno, I'd wanna see more than just one poll of 3,000 to be convinced this is really that common of a sentiment. North Carolina lawmakers just introduced a bill that would allow people to use deadly force against women seeking an abortion. All…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:28 AM
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Women are 70% of the people living in poverty Try looking up the source of this stat and see if they included the homeless to get that number. Hint: they didn't, which is convenient since about 80% of homeless are men. 1% of the land owners Look this up too, I'm not seeing anywhere in the world that's even close to this figure, let alone the US. I'm seeing sites say that women own 40-50% of farmland in the states, and single women are a greater percentage of home owners than single men. Also sin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:07 AM
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I didn't claim that zero men say that, I said bringing up dating being a numbers game doesn't necessarily mean they are saying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:59 AM
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But from what I am seeing, guys are picky even when they dont have options. Which guys? the same men claiming men can't afford to be picky are also totally chill that a man just destroyed 71% of his dating prospects OK even assuming these are the same men and you're not just imagining they are because you struggle to see men as individuals, being fine with other men doing things that turn some women off has nothing to do with their own dating experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:57 AM
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Some men have plenty of options and can be picky, some men have less options and can't afford to be as picky. How is this hard for you to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 07:55 PM
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When people call dating a numbers game, they're often just saying the more people you meet and take a chance with, the more likely you'll end up partnered with someone you are compatible with. They're not necessarily saying that the optimal strategy is to always try to be attractive to as many women as possible. If a man has few options, then sure it's probably in his best interest to be less picky, but that obviously does not apply to all men. Men who aren't desperate don't see a problem with b…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 08:07 AM
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If buying secondhand clothes is sufficient for ethical consumption, then simply not paying for porn should be enough then too, no? You are barely answering my questions and not providing any examples, which shows to me you aren't being honest though. You don't seem to actually care that much about making sure the workers aren't abused while making the things you buy, you just have selective outrage for the things you don't like and use unethical production as a flimsy excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:40 PM
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What exactly do you choose? How does your thought process work? What research have you done on the things you buy? I'm asking so you can help me and everyone else reading this make better choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:31 AM
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Tell us about all the thought you put into everything you spend your money on. Who makes the clothes you wear, your phone, your car? Who picks the produce you eat? Maybe you can help save us some of the mental effort of deciding what are the most ethical things to purchase.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:12 AM
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I didn't say anything at first because I doubted the claim and was waiting for the OP to post their stats, which someone else posted, and seems to be some survey. I also do not want kids, so didn't find it appropriate to speculate on the interests of others that I do not share. While it might be true that childless men are more likely to report a desire for children, women seem more likely to actually have children. I'm having trouble finding direct comparisons for total numbers in the US but he…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:05 PM
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Most doctors suck and try to get away with doing the bare minimum for all their patients. Women notice this and complain more because they are used to getting treated better by others. If my symptoms aren't being taken seriously by a doctor I am just going to find another one or attempt self diagnosis, I'm not going to look for people to air my grievances to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:01 AM
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So what is your definition of love if you think a woman can demand a man be completely celibate but still "love" him? Doesn't even sound like she respects him if she's that controlling. I don't know what you were trying to find out with your hypothetical, but it's really badly thought out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:23 PM
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You forgot to post your statistics. Also why does this post have a bunch of women answering a question about why men may do something? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 09:15 AM
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Can I sleep with other people? Is she paying my bills?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 07:18 AM
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Right, so first of all I don't think women are trying to change your mind. They're trying to suggest that the way you speak is misogynistic, and if you want to be a likable person, you probably shouldn't say those things. So, they are not trying to change anyone's mind, just trying to change their behavior. You're arguing semantics that is irrelevant to the point I was trying to make. You generally think men discussing their views on this topic is pointless because nothing will change, and women…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 05:43 AM
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sometimes you are saying things that women read as misogynistic, and you can't yell at them until they change their minds. That's not how it works. But women crying misogyny at every thought and observation they come across that they don't like is supposed to change people's minds? Is that how it should work? The point that others are trying to make is that how much of a "misogynist" a man might be has little impact on his dating success. Nobody is buying that it does, or even believing that wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:34 AM
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To anyone reading this and taking this comment at face value, I suggest you actually read up on these shootings on Wikipedia and try to find one reference to the red pill. The only link between these shootings and relevance to this thread is that the shooters were sexually frustrated men. What this commenter is doing is like if I posted a bunch of links to women committing violence for being rejected and blaming it on feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 05:02 AM
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It was growing since before that according to that same chart. People used the term as a reference to the matrix to refer to whatever truth they were talking about. The subreddit specifically created to discuss dating strategies that we talk about here was created in 2012, so I was wrong that it didn't exist yet, but it was still in its infancy and far from as popular as it is today. There is no connection between Elliot Rodger and the subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 10:20 PM
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The Elliot Rodger incident happened before red pill was even a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 09:51 PM
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Agree. I have zero reason to care how people who use those words as a weapon define them. It's like asking an atheist what the difference is between blasphemy and heresy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 06:23 AM
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Do you think that only men behave this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 07:10 AM
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Any man who might not see a problem with paying for dates should look at the comments from the women in this thread who want that and their post history here. Think about if these are types of women you would be willing to go on a date with at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:54 AM
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Doing better doesn't have to mean copying someone else's homework. This isn’t the point of this post and my response to it though. My intent was to get OP to maybe realize that they don't actually believe that moving is likely the best choice for people who want change where they live. It might be for men who literally don't want women to be able to vote, or men that struggle with dating and prioritize fixing that, but not necessarily for everyone OP might think of as a "political misogynist." F…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 07:26 PM
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I agree. I have a similar attitude toward people who want things like universal healthcare and more gun control in the US. Just...move to a country where they already do things the way you want if it's so important to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 09:37 AM
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The post has over 400 comments in 3 hours, which is a lot for this sub. Just because you don't want to talk about it doesn't mean nobody else should.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 10:34 PM
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Did you reply to the wrong person? I didn't ask why women are saying no. I said nobody thinks about that because they don't believe it. More women than men under the age of 65 report being in a relationship, and for the 18-29 age group, 63% of men report being single while only 34% of women do. This is what "women are saying no" looks like to you? https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/02/08/for-valentines-day-5-facts-about-single-americans/
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 04:02 PM
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It's funny how women like you see some men on the internet complaining about getting no female attention and manage to twist that into "men wonder why women are saying no to having relationships and dealings with men." Literally nobody wonders that, because even those unattractive men see women all over chasing relationships with other men. Nobody is buying this shit you are attempting to peddle lmao. If you hate men and choose to avoid them, that's fine, but don't try and pretend your attitude …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 04:42 AM
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Dating isn't fair and it shouldn't be. I agree. Now go tell that to women who complain about men that do the following: lie to get sex pay for sex participate in sex tourism cheat on their partner dissappear after a pregnancy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 11:59 AM
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I object to your use of the term "patriarchy" when it's clear you just mean traditionalism, and especially when it can be argued that the examples of the traditions you oppose are primarily upheld by women. Wife should always obey her husband; Husband should have final word on decisions These are ideas that women would be responsible for rejecting at least as much as men. Men cannot give orders to or make decisions for a woman who won't obey. Also, arguing that this tradition is unquestionably b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 10:27 PM
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The solution to this issue will be technology. Artificial wombs that the fetus can be transferred to while it fully develops lets women retain their bodily integrity. Then the same reasoning they use to enslave men can be applied to the mothers as well, and they will all suddenly walk back their arguments about a parent's responsibility for any children they helped concieve.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 12:04 AM
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I do judge women who choose to make money through sex work of their own free will. I believe it harms women as a group. Why? In what way do you think it harms other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 03:29 AM
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That's not an explanation. You said: you are making up reasons to prosecute women Someone said why not? You responded with: only .5 to 3% of paternity is misattributed What exactly is the relevance of that statement if its not an argument as to why you think paternity fraud shouldn't be punished? Since you denied that that is your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:29 PM
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Explain to us what you were getting at with your last comment referencing the percentage of cases with misattributed paternity then. Why is that relevant to a discussion of whether or not the act of committing paternity fraud should be punishable?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:05 PM
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Are you suggesting that the frequency of something happening should determine whether or not the action should be punishable? Why the hell should it matter how many women are proven to commit paternity fraud in any decision to punish the ones that do? To maybe help you understand how ridiculous your argument is, imagine if rape stopped being a crime if it's shown that less than 1% of men have ever been convicted of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:50 AM
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Not what I asked. I meant why do you keep making posts on this specific topic about men expecting sex in a relationship, this is at least your sixth.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 11:22 PM
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What exactly do you think I might believe that I would be ashamed of? I mean obviously there are things that aren't worth bringing up to just anyone, but that doesn't mean that literally every woman in existence would react negatively to those things and even distance themselves from you for it. My girlfriend probably thinks worse of women overall than I do. She also knows my reddit handle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:53 PM
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I'm sure there are some men like that, but that doesn't mean everyone who doesn't share your views on this subject falls in that category. Why are you so obsessed with arguing with these people though?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:14 PM
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Do you think if you post this topic enough, you are going to convince a lot of men to see things your way, and one of them will end up a match with you so you can stop posting miserable rants on here every day? In order for a guy to be ok with not having sex with a woman while dating her, she has to have other things about her that he values. Like for example being pleasant to be around instead of being stubborn and argumentative about everything. Girls who complain about guys only caring about …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 06:04 PM
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...and out comes the real reason you think men shouldn't complain about anything and deserve no sympathy. Why did you even waste your time writing anything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:52 AM
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Sure, but I didn't even say anything that implies I disagree with that statement. I said most people don't need to agree with you, because they don't need your permission to say what they want. Even if you could manage to tell every man in the world your opinions, many would still find your argument unconvincing, and continue to air their grievances to whoever would listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:29 AM
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I didn't say they would or should get sympathy, I said that's what they think may happen. You asked why they complain. You have your reasons for being unsympathetic, and that's fine. That doesn't mean your arguments are convincing or that most people need to agree with you though. Simply saying that women get pregnant so therefore they have it harder is a very narrow and unpersuasive stance that ignores all laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:59 PM
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Men that complain about unfairness do so because they see women doing it and often getting sympathy and aid as a result. They think they'll get similar results if they do the same, because they've been fooled into believing that most people genuinely care about things like fairness or "equality" outside of using those ideals to further their own interests. They do not realize that most people are simply genetically predisposed to caring more about women's problems. You say women take all the the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:29 PM
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Ok even assuming the experiences and knowledge your "friend" relayed to you is 100% accurate, that doesn’t mean your interpretation of that information is. Child support and custody enforcement can vary wildly by each state and individual judge, and pretending that fathers never face bias is beyond naive and borders willful ignorance. Even if a judge is going by best interests of the child instead of the Tender Years Doctrine (look it up, it was encoded into law in the last two centuries in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 11:51 PM
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Seriously? Paying all the bills is exactly the reason a court would be more likely to go after child support from him. You really have no idea how family courts work at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 09:10 PM
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he wouldn’t be paying any child support if he had his kids 50/50 Ok, even IF your limited understanding of how child support is rewarded is generally true in the state you live in, that doesn't mean it's true for wherever he lives. That also doesn't mean the judge had good reason to give the mom primary custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 11:51 AM
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You should have focused your argument on how patriarchy, by any definition, has not existed in the US for at least as anyone here has been alive, because most replies are obviously just going to be regurgitating historical factoids of discrimination against women as if it proves their point. I agree that the feminist version of patriarchy has probably never existed, but arguing that is kind of pointless and obviously there have been some versions of patriarchy throughout history or the term woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 10:55 PM
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Either you forgot the definition of the word "most," or you are only reading what you want to. But either way, cultures that go to extreme lengths to protect their women are still consistent with what I claimed, even if it's easy to argue that they treat women worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 05:11 PM
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Are you serious right now? Do you honestly think that men face zero discrimination now or throughout history? And what discrimination in family court? 50/50 is the default now Oh so you know it wasn't 50/50 before but you still want to pretend men were never discriminated against? The Tender Years Doctrine (i.e. mothers default on custody) was the prevailing principle before it changed to an ostensibly more neutral "best interests of the child," but how courts enforce custody in practice can sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 10:04 AM
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Anyone can make up any kind of generalizations they want to treat a group better. Most societies throughout history have treated women better because they are the bottlenecks of reproduction, so groups that were more predisposed to the behavior were more successful at surviving. Most studies that people bring up are just aids in their post hoc rationalization for their innate disposition.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 04:50 AM
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Not only do men not have the moral high ground, the moral high ground will never be necessary in the act of sexual selection and which males do not qualify. Upvoted for this mask off moment. You are not persuading men here to accept your double standards, you are merely telling them it's ok to disregard everything people like you say, and to and act as sexist as they want, because you don't actually care about unfair prejudices, you're just trying to manipulate them into accepting yours and do a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 04:28 AM
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Because men literally can’t commit paternity fraud? You ignored the point that paternity fraud goes unpunished, and women are almost always offended when men are wary of it. Because men are overwhelmingly more responsible for crime than women So because women are more likely to abuse and kill children, that means everyone should be more distrusting of them with kids then? Why should any factors that contribute to this be considered when you won't do the same for why men commit more crime?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 02:46 AM
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Who gets to decide what's "actual risk?" You? Women and minorities exclusively? Are white men allowed any input in this discussion? I don't care what other people are cautious of, no matter how rational their reasoning sounds. I can't make them change their behavior even if I wanted to. Women like you however think that if they call people enough names they can shame others into always giving them the benefit of the doubt so they can get away with more shit. So when you turn around and do the sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 02:33 AM
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So what's your point? Women should be cautious around men without criticism, but men being cautious of anyone is sexist/racist/whatever because you’ve arbitrarily decided they have more "power?"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 12:35 AM
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Are you trying to convince me of something or are you just typing random things because it makes you feel good? It was and is still legal to discriminate against women and men for lots of things. In order to say that any of it is proof of "patriarchy," you have to give a precise definition of the term that relates to the facts you have presented. You haven't even tried to do that, you just pointed to one instance of discrimination against women and said, "See? Patriarchy." That isn’t a persuasiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 11:19 PM
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There was evidence of some banks discriminating against even single women, but how often that happened isn’t really clear. One thing for sure though is that it wasn't next to impossible for women to get a loan or open an account like many try to suggest, as there even existed female run banks catering to women since the early 1900s. As for how this is supposedly evidence of a patriarchy, I don't see how that's true, even under some of the loosest definitions of the term. Some forms of sex based …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 11:30 PM
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Before legislation passed that explicitly prohibited banks from discriminating against women, married women often needed a husband's permission to do things like take out a loan because the husband was ultimately responsible for all debts. Thanks for bringing up another great example of the kind of misinterpreted and exaggerated historical facts I was talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:35 PM
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Do you think the patriarchy was a more balanced system than what we have today? Don't know and don't care. All I know is that anyone living in the US has not lived under anything that can be described as a "patriarchy" for at least the last century, even going by recently made up feminist definitions. Women do not have less political power than men (arguably have more) and get favorable treatment in family courts and criminal court. Pointing to most politicians and heads of companies being male …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:25 AM
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A lot of people are interested in discussing dating dynamics and how to have more success in their pursuit of intimacy. There have been many forums on the internet dedicated to the subject, and one of those on reddit was r/seduction. Some grew to not like this subreddit because they thought there were too many others on it that cared more about not hurting women's feelings than figuring out effective strategies for attracting women. So they made their own subreddit, r/thredpill, to focus the dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:07 AM
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Lol wtf, you are just naming things that happen to women, those are not even things to agree or disagree with. It doesn't seem like you even have a coherent argument at this point, let alone any actual evidence for your claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 07:22 PM
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Setting aside the issue that it's an impossible ask, they think that most if not all gender related conflicts will be solved for the most part if men and women simply were more understanding and cared more about each other's problems. You yourself even think that to some extent as well, judging by your response in the mirror thread where the question is directed back at women. So that leaves me wondering what you're really asking, if it's not just an exercise to casually dismiss any grievances m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:15 AM
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Can you give us an example, even if it's just from your memory?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:41 AM
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Women’s issues are more uniform and women as a whole agree they are issues Lol. Do yourself a favor and look up how many women disagree with literally any issue, like abortion for example. If you sincerely think that women generally agree on "women's issues," then you are living in a bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:38 AM
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When women bring up how they are happier single, this is nothing but an attempt at a power play to get men to think that they need to bring extraordinary value to a relationship to have a chance at dating. They are utilizing the principle of least interest as a tactic to get desperate men to behave in a way that pleases women. They are absolutely not interested in understanding the perspective of lonely men, and even if they did, they don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 03:07 AM
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The OP seems to be under the impression that people generally argue the topic of women being happier single in good faith, and have any intention of understanding the perspective of certain men. I challenged that view.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 02:40 AM
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When women bring up how they are happier single, this is nothing but an attempt at a power play to get men to think that they need to bring extraordinary value to a relationship to have a chance at dating. They are utilizing the principle of least interest as a tactic to get desperate men to behave in a way that pleases women. They are absolutely not interested in understanding the perspective of lonely men, and even if they did, they don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 10:41 PM
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So? What's your point, that bitter women don't exist? Women that that rant about men are all over the internet and seem just as common as men that rant about women. If you claim not to see that, that just says more about you than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 10:17 PM
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Women in the US generally have more options and leverage when it comes to dating. They know this, even when they pretend they don't. This inevitably leads some women to overestimating their desirability though. Questioning a woman's standards might be seen as unproductive (and mean, of course) since most women do eventually find someone that meets whatever seemingly unreasonable standards they have. Also I think that there are a significant amount of women who believe it is their duty to humanki…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 08:23 PM
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Adding on to what everyone else here has already said: For one, whiter skin is generally considered to be more attractive on pretty much every continent. In countries that aren't majority white, a white guy has a much bigger advantage just because of his skin color. Two, if a man lacks game, then a language barrier makes it much less noticeable and forgivable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 07:28 AM
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I didn't say women aren't afraid of physical harm. Virtually everyone is to some extent. What i was trying to argue is that they are generally no more afraid than men are, so that isn't sufficient explanation for the behavior the OP is describing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 03:23 AM
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Women are afraid of things like rejection, coming off as desperate, or being seen as a slut by their peers, and those are real reasons for much of their behavior. However, I would only believe a woman spends a lot of time thinking about her physical safety if she carries a handgun. Less than 30% of CCW permit holders are female, so I don't buy that women in general do more "threat processing" than men. It only might seem like they do sometimes because it's more socially acceptable for them to ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 12:08 PM
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Why the fuck should any self respecting man want to seriously date an entitled broke bitch? What is the point in getting in a relationship with someone that won't pull their own weight? I can only imagine truly desperate guys or ones who want a girl that is way better looking that would agree to such an arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 03:05 PM
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Most women who insist that men have it easy don't actually think that. It's just something they say to dismiss men's problems or use as justification for why women should recieve special treatment. All these women who say they don't trust men deserve to be treated the same way they treat others. Never take what they say at face value and always assume that they intend to harm you. Women are weaker so they rely on using their words to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 10:36 PM
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That's better than allowing people that can't keep up and that will put the men in those roles in even more danger, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 10:18 PM
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it's effectively excluding women from combat roles while promising to put men into more dangerous situations LMAO so you knew that what you wrote in the OP is a lie, and that the directive only applies to combat roles. Allowing unqualified women who cannot meet the physical demands of a job to work alongside men in combat is even more dangerous for those men than it would be otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 10:14 PM
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Hegseth announced today that physical fitness standards for the military will be set to the highest male standard for all servicemembers. No? https://www.army.mil/article/288832/hegseth_announces_series_of_war_department_reforms_in_sweeping_speech_to_top_military_brass "Hegseth said that warfighters in combat-related occupations must execute their fitness test at a gender-neutral male standard with a score of 70% or higher." Does not apply to all servicemembers, only the roles where fitness is m…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 09:49 PM
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We live in a world where women experience sexual assault and harassment And???? Are you suggesting that women need to face literally zero of this to not be considered "oppressed?" You're already starting off with a ridiculous premise. Not only are those offenses that are taken seriously by most people, and often lead to criminal charges, but it is also taken much more seriously when the victim is a woman! Women are discriminated against in hiring, Let me guess, your sole piece of evidence of thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 04:28 AM
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Using jargon that most people aren’t familiar with is a tactic used for several reasons: to give uninformed listeners the impression of speaking from a position of knowledge and expertise to use words with have been given specific definitions that help them control the frame of the discussion to obfuscate any underlying message giving room for plausible deniablity if their words are ever scrutinized
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:52 AM
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1) The more money a man has, the more women he is likely to attract. There is no set amount of money required for attracting any woman. 2) Spending money on a woman is one of many ways to get a woman's attention. It is however not an effective method of inspiring genuine desire. "Attraction isn’t negotiable." 3) You're taking an oversimplied interpretation of what others are saying to come to a nonsensical conclusion. Perhaps English isn't your first language so that is why you are struggling to…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 06:07 PM
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Men don't "have to" pay for dates. Expressing frustration with incompatible dates is common behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 10:52 AM
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Women who only care about men giving them money should just become full time prostitutes. Saves them headaches and disappointment while ending up with more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 11:42 PM
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If women who wanted an abortion had the fetus placed in an artificial womb instead of killed, many will argue that women need to start paying child support way more often to whoever cares for the child once it's born. Paying for unwanted children will suddenly be recognized as an injustice and the whole idea of child support, even for men, will be radically reformed if not completely discarded. This would effectively remove women's ability to baby trap men, and have a huge impact on dating dynam…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 06:15 PM
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Such as...?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 01:07 AM
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So you have no idea if a school has ever been successfully sued for that and you are just making up stuff they should be afraid of? Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 06:19 PM
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Liability for what, exactly? Has a school ever been successfully sued for allowing an accused rapist or sexual assault perpetrator attend?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 06:11 PM
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They need to have lower standards of evidence to make it easier to punish men, duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 06:06 PM
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There comes a point for anyone where talk about concerns for your own safety can turn into thinly veiled justification for irrational prejudices. You have the right to those prejudices, but that doesn't mean you can reasonably expect everyone to be sympathetic to them. Also, if you live in a country where it is legal and you don't own any firearms, you're not actually that concerned with your own safety IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 05:43 AM
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What exactly do you think snark is, and why does a comment containing perceived sexism disqualify it from meeting the definition?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 04:22 AM
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He just matched the same snark you threw at him, you are majorly lacking in self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 03:56 AM
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Men can't expect women in general to take men's issues seriously regardless of context or how strong their arguments are. They are never going to, because all this "equality" talk is sophistry to get women more power and privileges, not something brought up out of genuine interest for any kind of fairness. When do feminists ever talk about the context of whatever "inequities" they are whining about? It is most likely innate that women have a cognitive bias toward their own sex, and men do not. h…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 10:08 AM
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More evidence that women go for the same small percentage of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 09:49 PM
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Being a sex worker open to all clients nets them a lot more money even compared to being with one ultra rich guy that gives them a generous allowance. I've seen multiple sex workers on reddit say this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 09:32 PM
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Men who struggle with dating should move somewhere they have more options and are considered more attractive. They don't have to settle for an obese single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 05:20 PM
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Men want want a girl that isn't fat and doesn't have an abrasive personality. Because girls like that are a minority in the US, those girls can hold out for a man that is much better than their "equal." Average guys that are struggling here should simply move to a country where they are more valued. They don't have to settle for a landwhale misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 12:06 AM
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Women noticed that its not uncommon for guys to post fish pics and started pointing it out and making fun of it. It probably just started off as lighthearted jokes, then a bunch of women saw this and took it too seriously and used it as ammo for their man hating tirades. I wouldn't worry about women hating on fishing. Either they think their interests are far too different than anyone who is into fishing, or they are just jumping on the trendy hate train, which means you probably wouldn't want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 09:03 PM
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How is that remotely comparable?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 09:13 PM
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🙄 Thanks for proving the other commenter's point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 09:04 PM
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Warren Farrell
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:52 PM
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Because feminists want equal rights only when it benefits them, and special treatment for women in the name of equal outcomes when it's convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:45 PM
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I usually see people ask a woman what she brings to the table in response to them posting online a long list of demands from potential partners, or complaining about their lack of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:50 AM
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It has nothing to do with the statement I replied to. Maybe you should read before commenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 07:39 PM
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men often seem to see women being equal as women being dominant/men being oppressed Lmao what a crock of shit. Most people still seem to believe women are disadvantaged in society despite them having equal rights. Hence the continued prevalence of feminism. I bet you cannot even point to a specific example of someone claiming that men are "oppressed." Men talking about certain disadvantages they face on this forum is not saying they are "oppressed."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 10:05 PM
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You are not arguing because you are clueless and don't know history aside from misleading one liners spread by feminists. 😂 There were laws passed in the 70s that prevented all banks from discriminating, but that got interpreted by many into believing that it was illegal or even rare for women to have bank accounts before then, when that simply wasn't the case. My experience is that in many fields, women who are twice as qualified as men are deemed unqualified. Lol, like which ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 10:57 PM
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Good attempt, but you didn’t actually answer the question, you just did more of blaming men for things and giving examples of women telling other people to do things for them. Single women were never prevented from owning bank accounts, there were even women owned banks that catered to women on the early 1900s, which would be a real example of how women have helped themselves without blaming men for everything. Asking for the right to vote to send men to war when they had no fear of being conscr…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 10:31 PM
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I dont think you even believe that yourself. What are some examples of ways feminists change their own situation instead of attempting to get others to do things for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:17 PM
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Tinder is not the only dating app and it has the reputation of being used by people looking for casual sex. The Hinge app has a much more even ratio like 60/40 IIRC.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:14 PM
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Great? What does that have to do with feminists blaming men for their problems? That was the part I quoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:18 AM
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doesn’t blame random men for her problems Sounds like your average feminist to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 05:47 AM
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Usually, the burden of proof is on the one making the positive claim, but you can start by reading the link I just posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:55 PM
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That's still not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:50 PM
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Not true. Just because that's when that kind of discrimination was explicitly outlawed, it doesn't mean all women were prohibited from having loans or bank accounts before that. https://femmefrugality.com/myth-busting-womens-banking/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:39 PM
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Why are men being pressured into working late/longer hours? Because women want a partner that earns more, lol. Look up any survey of women asking if they would be willing to date a man that earns less than her. why are women being pressured to be the primary caretakers Women want that too, they lobbied for it with the tender years doctrine.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 11:59 PM
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One is about equal rights on a legal basis. So then what specifically do they want if the Equal Pay Act of 1963 isn't enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 11:53 PM
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I thought a lot of men didn’t care as much about whether a woman worked or not? A lot of men don't care so much about what specific job a woman works, that's not the same as not caring if she works at all. At least that’s what many redpill men have said. Are these the types of guys you're trying to date? If not, then why do you care about their opinions?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 09:23 PM
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You want a guy who already has a decent job, but you're not even working yet. That's probably the main reason why you currently think your prospects are slim. Once you you get a job in the salary range you claim, and start making friends through work, I doubt you'll have many problems dating unless you are understating your issues or you have some huge personality flaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 08:52 PM
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You're 100% guilty of the exact thing you're complaining about with this post lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:38 PM
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Single mom stats are brought up to talk about how both parents raising a child is ideal, so family courts shouldn't incentivize separation by giving women everything they ask for with no consideration of what's fair to men. Not simply to "make women look bad." bring up that 90% of rapists are men Which reports are you looking at? Up until like 10 years ago, the FBI literally defined female rapists out of existence by defining rape as "the carnal knowledge of a female." Now the updated definition…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:35 PM
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That's great. You should post this to more woman oriented subs like twox.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:00 AM
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Which sex are they more interested in making more "aware" is what I'm asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:37 AM
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How would you explain my experience with dating where it was very difficult for me to find a girl who didn't want marriage and kids? Are you trying to convince women not to want these things, or are you trying to convince men to want them? I dont care how much marriage and kids benefit women, I care about how much they benefit me. By my observation, which is the only one that matters, those things wouldn't do anything I want in my life at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:28 AM
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I asked him to ask his circle. Lmao you've changed your story for like the third time and you expect me to still take your word? Why couldn't you mention that the first time I replied, inquiring how many people you asked? What made you have this friend to do that in the first place? What makes you think he'd make the effort to actually carry out your request, and be truthful about it even if you did actually do what you claim? None of them have come to me with false allegations, none have been f…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:21 AM
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You literally said you asked them in your other comment, but ok. Any man that knows you probably figures you aren't the type of person to open to about an assault accusation, if this is how you act when discussing the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 09:20 PM
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Why did you ask some people if they have been assaulted?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 07:52 PM
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It depends entirely on how each particular study decides to categorize and define unfounded claims. That's one reason reports vary. https://ucr.fbi.gov/crime-in-the-u.s/1996/96sec2.pdf This particular report only goes so far as to define unfounded or baseless complaints as those determined through investigation to be false. So I think it's safe to say none of those made it to trial. By this definition, one could reasonably assume that unfounded complaints in this report did not include those who…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 12:29 AM
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You are quoting someone that looks like they are just speculating about some random Australian report that isn't even properly linked in the article, so we can't look at it ourselves. One has to look at how exactly the author of any report categorized the data and how they defined false accusations to make any kind of determination about how many cases could have simply been dropped due to insufficient evidence. But even without looking at that, it makes no sense to assume that a number like 5% …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 11:53 PM
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I didn't present an argument, I asked you a question. You said you dont know anyone that has been falsely accused, but you have never even asked anyone, just like I thought. So that reveals pretty big flaw your reasoning here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 11:24 PM
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How many men have you asked if they've ever been falsely accused of rape or sexual assault?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:15 PM
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It’s not a debate if you clearly aren’t absorbing any of the information coming your way That's you. You don't know what the false accusation numbers you are quoting actually measure. Those are the amount PROVEN false, not dismissed for insufficient evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:12 PM
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Raped 100%, especially if that accusation makes it to court.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:07 PM
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There doesn't seem to be any survey asking men if they've been falsely accused because nobody wants to fund one. So people can only go around disingenuously comparing sexual assault surveys to proven false rape accusations.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:06 PM
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the amount of proven rapes and the amount of proven false accusations show that op is wrong. BS. What numbers are you looking at?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:02 PM
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OP, I am wondering what you are hoping to prove or learn from this question, other than confirming how desperate some men are. Are there a bunch of conservative men out there that I dont know about that are mad pro choice women won't date them or something? To answer your question, no I would not date someone who is against reproductive rights for men. You don't have to imagine some hypothetical extremist to describe this kind of woman though, because these women who I would not date are extreme…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 06:56 AM
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OP why do you think it's a waitress? Doesn't look like one at all to me and is just giving the women here another excuse to dismiss your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:01 PM
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Did you watch the video or did you just read the first sentence of the post? She's not wearing a uniform, puts her arm around him, and sits at the table with him. Doesn't look like a waitress at all to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 09:58 PM
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The term has simply turned into a general insult for many.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 11:36 PM
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Oh so you don't want to actually reward men for masculinity, you just want them to be raised the way you want so they behave the way you want. And you want us to give you ideas that would help with that? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 02:13 AM
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If all you have to offer to try and get men to do what you want is to simply say they're not manly enough, that is an attempt at shaming, and a pathetic one at that. You're the one that wants men to change, how about you think of some incentives for certain behaviors and I'll tell you if it seems like a good deal to me. A good start for getting men to be more family oriented would be removing deterrents though, like biased family and divorce courts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 09:47 PM
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You're asking a lot of men that basically get zero reward for doing all of those things. There needs to be stronger incentives for men to want to be what you consider manly, other than these attempts at shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 09:32 PM
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Why can't you just tell me? I'm not sure what your point could be in the context of the person you replied to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 02:35 AM
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What's your point
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:33 PM
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I just think it's silly when those same women turn around and get mad at men who do the same thing by discussing their own precautions they take when dating women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:56 PM
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.000001% vs. .00001% Why do you ask
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:49 PM
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Then you dont need convincing, and the OPs post is not addressed to you. I was arguing on behalf of men already behaving the way the OP is talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 11:09 PM
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Umm, to not be a piece of shit and explicitly lie to women? How persuasive. Men should give up their strategy of sleeping with more women just to appease someone on the internet and prevent them from saying they're a piece of shit. If only they could all read this, they will definitely all do as you say, because your argument is so convincing. 🙄 If you want to talk about dating behaviors that can be argued to make someone a piece of shit, how about concieving children with unwilling fathers usin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 11:06 PM
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You keep ignoring my question: WHY SHOULD MEN DO ANYTHING YOU ARE SAYING? Give a reason why MEN should want to be more honest with casual partners, not why you want that. Then maybe they will start to listen. Men could just pursue women who would be OK with a casual sexual relationship with him. You seem to believe that there is no shortage of women out there that fit this description. Well, I don't, and neither do all these men who feel like relying on deceipt to get sex. Provide some sort of e…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 07:18 AM
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You didn't even attempt to give a reason why men should do as you say. Imagine if I made a post saying, "Women should do all the cooking housework for a man she's interested in, even if he's given no verbal commitment to her." Why should any woman do that? It benefits men, but doesn't do anything for the woman. Why can’t men look for women who are willing to “share” them and leave the ones not open to such an arrangement alone? Because not a lot of women are open to such an arrangement, obviousl…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:44 PM
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Men should be straightforward and honest with women they are sleeping with, even if such honesty may lead to a casual relationship ending. Uh, why? This would not benefit men, so they have little incentive to do this. At least try to give a good reason for men to do it that isn't so obvious you only care about the interests of women. I think men who want casual sex should just see hookers, if they want to avoid lying to women. What do you think about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:42 PM
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What I meant by “it’s not women doing or men doing it” was to correct your assumption that it’s a gendered thing- it’s not. Oh, I see now, but I didn't mean to suggest that. I gave an example of what I believed to be a primary source of a gendered expectation, I did not say that only women were responsible for it. That is something you assumed. I asked you who you believe enforces these gender roles and how. You avoided the question in your other response, but now you gave me something to work w…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:08 AM
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You're not even saying anything of substance anymore, and you still want to pretend you know what you're talking about or convincing anyone of anything? Men and women are what make up a society, if they are not responsible for gender roles, then what is? God?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 04:36 AM
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The patriarchy is what’s left us with these awful antiquated gender roles where I can’t be strong or stoic because I’m a woman and you can’t be soft or sensitive because you’re a man. Who is enforcing these gender roles, and how? Mothers are granted primary custody of children far more, women are the vast majority of grade school and day care employees, and politicians do much more to cater to female constituents. Men can't be soft and sensitive because that's not useful to women, and they make …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 03:39 AM
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I'll just reply to you since the automod comment is mysteriously absent in this thread. The easiest way to think of feminism that makes sense is simply to define it as the advocacy of women's interests, period. It's not often you will find someone describe it in a way this straightforward because advocates are usually more interested in selling it as a noble endeavor rather than being clear and accurate. This definition explains why there is so much conflicting rhetoric around the goals and pupo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 12:25 AM
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So what's your excuse for not finding a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:48 AM
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If someone is telling you to consider guys with less options, they are not necessarily saying those guys are "better," they are suggesting that you are not attractive enough to compete for the guys with many options.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:53 PM
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How about people simply stop repeating false and misleading info about rape stats for a start?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 12:31 AM
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The “unfounded” rate, or percentage of complaints determined through investigation to be false, is higher for forcible rape than for any other Index crime. Eight percent of forcible rape complaints in 1996 were “unfounded,” while the average for all Index crimes was 2 percent. https://ucr.fbi.gov/crime-in-the-u.s/1996/96sec2.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 12:30 AM
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If a vasectomy makes a woman lose attraction, then it's most likely because she wants kids, and that shouldn't concern you if you don't want them. I wouldn't listen to anyone trying to tell me that a vasectomy is "bad" or "good," it's up to the individual man and if they want kids or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:59 AM
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Are you scared of women having equality? "Equality" is a vague enough term where one minute it can mean treating everyone the same, and the next minute it means women need special treatment to make up for every perceived slight against them. So what exactly do you mean by "women having equality?" Do you resent it? I resent it when people like you treat everyone like an idiot by attempting to pull this motte-and-bailey fallacy shit with "equality." The 1950s pretend ideal seems pretty popular wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 05:50 PM
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I can't even guess what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 06:45 AM
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Yes. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:53 AM
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Women are less disposable than men and their lives tend to be protected more, is what they're saying. Historical evidence includes things like a male only draft, women and children first in an emergency, and being restricted from dangerous occupations.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:43 AM
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Because I don't entirely agree with you and feel like the past can be relevant to certain discussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:16 AM
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Great. I see that way more often than people bringing up selective service so maybe you should start a topic on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:59 PM
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Ok. Do you say the same thing to people who bring up discrimination that happened to women 50-100 years ago as proof that women still have it harder?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:48 PM
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It's not that women are above those thoughts/impulses. They just don't have "balls" (literally and metaphorically) to act on them as much on average. I'm not sure this is true. Women are more adept at social manipulation, so they are more likely to get others to do their dirty work or find ways to get away with their crimes. People in general tending to be more sympathetic and lenient toward women also helps them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:12 PM
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Some people have this compulsion to frame others as a bad person for not giving them whatever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:04 AM
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Where are you getting the data for all of your claims?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:06 PM
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Being held responsible doesn't mean taking responsibility. This statement clears up exactly what you were trying to say, and I think you should have included it in the OP. However, when you state that people shouldn't claim that men are more likely to take responsibility, it implies that you think women are more likely to, and it would be helpful if you provided evidence for that. If you simply wanted to draw attention to the hypocrisy of individual posters, it doesn't accomplish much when you t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 07:26 AM
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You said that people claim "men take responsibility more," and I was elaborating on what people might mean when they say that. It is an observation, not necessarily a complaint. Random comments on here do not change the accuracy of that observation. For example, when you said "can't blame men for being abusive to women," this statement is so untrue in real life that it is laughable. Just because you may have seen someone on here say something you interpreted that way, does not change the reality…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 12:20 PM
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I'm not making excuses for anybody. The statement that men tend to be held responsible for more things in the real world is an observation of reality, IMO, and is not at all impacted by whatever random comments on reddit that you have read.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 12:06 PM
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Well yeah sure, if you ignore what most people actually hold men responsible for, and go by some random comments you've seen on reddit, men don't take responsibility for anything! Wow, what an astute observation!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 11:16 AM
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she starts to cry if she suspects you are upset with her Hard pass. This is what manipulative women do, act like a victim the second you show any frustration with poor behavior from her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:03 AM
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I am tired of women being shamed for leaving their boring "nice guy" boyfriend. Where are you seeing this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 09:40 PM
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But you said you weren't speaking for all women. No laws preventing discrimination impacts all women. You're all over the place and a bad liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 10:32 PM
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You originally said your grandmother was not legally allowed to have one. So you are lying, like I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 09:26 PM
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What? I'm asking why she wasn't allowed to have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 09:20 PM
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Where did I say I was speaking for all women? It was strongly implied when you said that was the reason it was easier for your grandfather to find a partner. It's also a commonly repeated misconception on the internet that women weren't allowed to have bank accounts at all. I'm repeating what my grandmother told me Suuuure...did she ever tell you why?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 09:18 PM
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That's not true at all. Just because there was a law that passed in the 70s preventing banks from discriminating does not mean that literally no women could ever have bank accounts before that. There were even banks going back as far as the 1800s that specifically catered to women. https://daily.jstor.org/a-bank-of-her-own/
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:32 PM
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Men don't provide anything? Ok, I guess we can do away with alimony, child support, and marriage laws regarding the sharing and splitting of assets since they don't do anything for women anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 09:06 AM
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I don't doubt that there may be some, but I'm almost certain that there are more that don't care or would find it obnoxious.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 09:05 AM
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I think what he meant is that the type of girl looking for someone more financially stable will likely be turned off by a car that's 20+ years old, but doesn't care much beyond that. Obviously that's not every girl though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 08:14 AM
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You must be confusing the opinion of male reddit car dorks with what girls think.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 08:11 AM
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Though if you want an electric that can handle long distances, they're still the best bet.) You're clearly not up to date with EV news, that info is years out of date. Lucid has a car for sale now that has roughly 500 miles of highway range, and Tesla charging stations can now be used by several other car brands if that's what you were thinking of as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 08:08 AM
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Men who say that have probably never met a woman with a personality they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:51 PM
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I wasn't trying to tell you that you can't share your opinion, I was trying to tell you to read the room. This thread is full of men who have no interest in marraige or playing women's games and capitulating to their demands, and here you are coming in trying lay out terms that men need to abide by to date you. Because you are so special. You saw a man say he would only be interested in a woman who didn't date much in their 20s, and you thought he was talking about you specifically, like he's be…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:23 PM
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So did you try to look it up and then realized you were wrong, or did you know you were lying the second you wrote that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 01:55 AM
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Her comment was in response to mine where I brought up states where abortion is illegal, I wasn't talking about all red states.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 08:38 AM
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Ok great, sounds like it won't take long for abortion rights to be reinstated soon in those states then if what you say is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 08:27 AM
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Ok? I thought we were talking about the states where abortion is illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 08:19 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 08:01 AM
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Really? Show me one case of a woman being charged with kidnapping for not naming the father after dropping a child off.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:02 AM
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women don't get an option to forfeit parenting post birth, unless the man does as well Not true. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Safe-haven_law
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 04:57 AM
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"Sex is not a need" is like the standard response from women any time men here complain about their dating problems lol. I think they were being cheeky with that comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 04:46 AM
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Abortion is illegal in like 12 states now and most of them have a small population of democrats who would even consider abortion in the first place. This isn't actually directly impacting the dating lives of that many people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 04:38 AM
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Sex is not a resource. Why? Because you say so? What do you even think you're accomplishing when you argue this? Also you missed his point, calling something a resource doesn't automatically dehumanize those involved. Teachers and healthcare workers aren't dehumanized when you say the services they provide are resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 10:34 PM
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Do you think the same of the women here, including yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 12:52 AM
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Why are you taking anything women say at face value? Character assassination is often the first resort of those that want to get someone to shut up without addressing what they just said. Also you're forgetting that "misogynist" is usually just their way of saying "man who won't put up with my bullshit."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:16 AM
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Not "for no reason," but to justify her actions and attitude. I can maybe even believe that she genuinely thought this random girl was in danger, but she clearly was not when the men tried to enter a vehicle she was not occupying. Which would explain why her boyfriend didn't do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 10:19 AM
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Why should he care that some stranger was having their Uber taken? The random girl was not in any danger even by the OP's own description of events, they are just claiming she was because she expects everyone's brains to turn off and jump to defending women the second someone claims a woman is in danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:22 AM
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The last few years, leftists have been crying about how corporations need to be taxed more, and tried to assure everyone that more taxes will NOT raise the cost of goods. Then, the second Trump started talking about a specific kind of tax, suddenly no one will be able to afford anything if it's implemented. And let's forget about how he also proposed eliminating federal income tax to offset the burden of more tariffs on the average American. People like you think everyone else must be a complete…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:21 AM
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"Daily price" seems to suggest that's for a whole day. I was in Germany last year and average price for a half hour seemed around 100 euros, definitely much cheaper than the US. Why do people who clearly have no experience with sex workers feel so confident in pulling numbers out of their ass?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:48 PM
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If you compare a survey to the results of an investigation, there is clearly a much higher burden of proof for one than the other. Is that what you are disagreeing with? For a example, a fair comparison would be numbers of proven false accusations next to convicted rapists. So that would be 8% false accusations and 2% actual rapes, but people like you don't like those numbers so you compare proven false accusations to a survey where there is no burden of proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 11:14 PM
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Lol no. I'm saying that comparing the numbers from a survey to the numbers from the result of an investigation where there is proof of a false accusation is obviously an inaccurate and extremely biased way of concluding that sexual assault is more common than lying about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 11:01 PM
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They take data from surveys where they simply ask people if they've been assaulted, then compare to stats where only rape accusations that are proven false count. That's how they come to the conclusion for this BS claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:16 PM
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A lot of these people have been trying to convince everyone that different results in any kind of outcome or statistic between the two sexes are self evidently the result of discrimination so they can attempt to justify favorable treatment for women when they want it. Any alternative explanations for less or more women being represented in whatever subject throws a wrench in their arguments so they are outright rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 10:56 PM
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Women/childreb are literally dying and being denied life saving abortions Where? MEN choose to circumsize their sons. Men could just, you know, NOT circumcise their sons, but for some perverted reason they always say they want their boy to look like daddy It's pathetic that you try to blame this practice solely on men as if no woman has ever made the decision to have it done to their son and really shows what kind of person you are. My point was that it's legal to put a knife to male infant geni…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 12:55 AM
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Boys have to sign up for selective service and have their genitals sliced at birth, but because some states can now restrict access to abortion, it is women that don't have "bodily autonomy?" And this is an "equal rights" issue because of course men can legally abdicate responsibility of their children, even in the case of rape? Well actually no, they can't. Women have more rights than men now, and acting like they somehow have less is a huge joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:52 AM
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"The" law? Which law exactly? Because there was no federal rape law, every state has their own penal code. Always hilarious when someone arrogantly tries to correct you when they make it clear they don't fully understand the subject. Confidence can only be mistaken for correctness to someone who isn't as knowledgeable you, in every other situation it usually just makes you look very silly. Only until the late 1970s was the first case of spousal rape was even attempted to be prosecuted Which case…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 05:56 PM
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Marital rape wasn't prosecuted the same as other kinds because marriage presumes consent in a lot of situations where it would be different if it was between two relative strangers having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:52 AM
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Marriage presumes consent in a lot of situations that would seem rapey if done between two strangers, like sex acts when one party is asleep. So state laws on rape often went something like, "a man is guilty of rape if he does any of the following on someone that is not his wife..." Of course though since rape laws weren't always perfect for women by modern standards, that clearly means they were oppressed...and let's just ignore the fact that women raping men was not a crime at all and is still…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:47 AM
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Yes. What reproductive rights do men have?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 04:06 PM
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It's funny you are talking about this right after bringing up the treatment of women when one of the biggest arguments people have for "systemic racism" in the US is the treatment of blacks by law enforcement and courts. Men are arrested much more and even face harsher sentencing for the same crimes compared to women, yet people like you just hand wave that fact away to cling to your belief that women always have it worse even right after accepting that argument for black people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 03:21 PM
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Any "historical atrocities" you can think of were not exclusive to women, and most of what you've heard of that seems like it was unfair to women is probably greatly exaggerated and paints an incomplete picture. For example, when people say "women couldn't vote", it's ignoring the fact that men were conscripted and paid the vast majority of taxes. Nobody says children are oppressed because they can't vote or work, they simply have a different legal status because they are more protected and don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 03:09 PM
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"Don't befriend someone you're attracted to if you're chronically single, rarely get action, and are desperate," is probably what OP meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:12 AM
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From men? Women are the ones that want safety nets for their poor choices in sexual partners that abuse them or don't want to be a father. What sexual socialism do you see men calling for?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:52 AM
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As a man, I already have to act like abortion doesn't exist because I can never know if a woman would actually do it and it isn't my choice. The legal status of abortion effectively makes no difference to me. Also I don't only support things out of self interest. A world where women can opt out of parenthood and men can't creates a lot of unwanted babies because women think they always have a safety net.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 03:01 PM
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Abortions are only acceptable when he says so Where did he say that? want control over who is reproducing and when? That is clearly what women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:50 PM
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Even a Chad can have varied tastes and find fat women attractive too. I don't get why that's hard to understand. Also I could have sworn you claimed you were a woman before?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:24 PM
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There are plenty of men that care more about variety and availability than only sleeping with the most attractive women possible. They're not always going to publicly make it known who they're sleeping with either. Why would that even be an incel fantasy? What do they gain by believing some men aren't that picky for a one night stand?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:18 PM
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You're more likely to be raped then experience a false rape accusation. Absolutely bullshit claim, this is why people like you aren't taken seriously by many. First of all, there's no way to know how many accusations are truly false, when only 2% that are reported to the police end up in a conviction. 8% are proven false, but to pretend that those are the only ones that can possibly be false is such a dishonest take. It's as dishonest as if someone were to claim that 98% are false since those ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:55 AM
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If you are more afraid of men than bears, then why don't you go live in the woods? Why are you even talking to men online?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 10:28 PM
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If the majority of women AND men have experienced sexual assault, then the take away should be that discussions about consent should be gender neutral, right? Yet feminists attempts at starting these conversations usually involve how MEN need to be taught not to rape and how women are supposedly sexually assaulted so so much more. If feminists dropped that shit and made an honest attempt to not point fingers solely at men, then I don't think they would see close to the amount of opposition on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 08:40 AM
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What do you think you are accomplishing? If you do it because you don't like seeing people do it to women, you're most likely going to see more of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 12:11 AM
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If a woman truly believed that men are more dangerous than bears, they would go live in the woods. They obviously don't. Men provide all the modern comforts they enjoy so they would never give that up. They say this type of stupid shit because it is their pathetic attempt at guilt tripping men to get them to do what these women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:40 PM
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Oh, so since you see random people victim blame women sometimes, out of some weird form of petty vengeance, you want to do the same thing to random unrelated men, and only men, whenever you get the chance. What do you think that is supposed to accomplish?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:03 PM
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That definition is only used for their crime statistics, it's not the way any state's penal code is written as far as I'm aware. It was influenced by the Office of Violence Against Women, so shitty feminists who want to do shitty feminists things like downplay male rape to be able to further attempt to have everyone trivialize and ignore it. So again, why should anyone who is not a man hating feminist care about that definition?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:59 PM
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The percentage of females murdered by an intimate partner was 5 times higher than for males When I watch true crime stuff, women are way more likely to try to make it look like an accident or hire/frame someone else when they want to kill someone else. They'll even get away with it sometimes too until they keep killing and making it obvious. Women are definitely waayyy more likely to think their crimes through so they won't get caught. So it wouldn't surprise me if the amount of women who killed…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:12 AM
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So you're telling me you say that to all women you encounter that tell a story of being physically abused by their partner too?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:59 AM
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Made to penetrate is sexual assault not rape. Lmao how convenient. Why should we care about your extremely biased definition though?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:50 AM
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I'm asking what you personally would be able to provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:51 PM
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A man is way more likely to have basic survival skills and be able to use tools, make stuff, know how to fish and hunt animals. Why did you only want to ask men this question?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:44 PM
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What labor and providing would you be able to offer on an island?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:33 PM
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Where did I insult you? I described what it looks like you're doing from my perspective. If any man is doing what you're doing I would say the same to them. Some people think that a lot of bias against men comes simply comes from biological programming to protect women since they are a bottleneck of reproduction. If you want to insist that people are usually only biased against men because of their experiences then it would be great if you could source some studies regarding why you think that. …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:00 AM
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But when someone has a bias there’s actually an experienced based or Pandan based rational reason for it According to what? Why do you refuse to accept that some biases can be innate?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:37 AM
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dudes who, by their own admission, don't even talk to women always have an incredibly detailed knowledge of their innermost thoughts and private behaviors as their "observations." I think maybe that a lot of these shitty women are terminally online because men don't want them, which overexposes them to the terminally online men that women don't want. Plenty of these women are not ashamed to broadcast their thoughts and expectations about dating, so it's not like anyone has to go out of their way…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 11:16 PM
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What are you claiming is "the central voice of single [men]?" I didn't say any of that, I just posted a link to a subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:57 PM
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A large percentage of single women are not whining to the internet seeking sympathy. /r/twoxchromosomes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:13 PM
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The fact that people like you want to cry "misogyny" at people stating some of their observations about women means all your opinions should be ignored. Gold diggers exist, single moms exist, landwhales with inflated egos exist, and saying they don't means you care about protecting the image of women more than anything. Now if you want to say that having a defeatest attitude about dating and simply complaining all the time is unproductive, I would agree. But denying that shitty women exist and l…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:56 PM
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She is the epitome of a bad faith troll. Throws out a wild assertion just to contradict someone, then can not provide even one specific example of what the hell she's talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 05:45 PM
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I am genuinely curious what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:09 AM
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I thought it was odd on our first date she kept trying to pay with her credit card rather than a regular debit. That's not weird at all, you earn points and have more consumer protection when using a credit card, and there are no downsides as long as the balance is paid every month. I find it more weird that you would even pay attention to what kind of card they were paying with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 08:22 PM
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Please also don't bother with more cope and excuses why you think the only men attractive to women are roided out meatheads that look "strong" and "tough". I don't believe that though lol. How can you recognize I'm a different guy but still think I'm trying to argue the same exact thing as him? I just wanted to say that your reasoning for your beliefs wasn't that persuasive. Are there a significant amount of women that are attracted to softer features in men? Sure, I wont dispute that. I'm not c…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 02:51 AM
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You're still doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 10:59 PM
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I mean literally any man that is world famous will get more female attention than the average man, no matter what their features are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 09:57 PM
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It's crazy how you think every person claiming to be red pill is the same person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 09:53 PM
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What point are you even trying to make? He's saying the women that consider men a threat aren't going to stop doing that to skinny and weak men. The argument that a hypothetical woman's fear of men is reasonable or not hardly even seems relevant to this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 09:49 PM
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A woman who is simply trying to say she doesn't want a boyfriend/husband would not say "I don't need men," she would say "I don't need A man." Someone saying the former is usually trying to make a point about men in general and disparage them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 11:17 PM
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I agree with your overall point that a lot of men act desperate, but who do you expect to believe that a man gave you a grand just for going on a date with him? That is that what the priciest escorts charge. Why post such obvious lies?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 10:37 PM
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There are definitely a plenty of people that overuse both of those words but you seem like one of them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:59 PM
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Probably mostly just shitty dating experiences and spending too much time online in certain forums. For both.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 09:37 PM
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Yes, of course. It is obvious to me that you, personally, do not have trouble getting relationships with men you are attracted to, and they pay for everything, and they give you head and suck your toes on command. I was using a hypothetical "you." Sorry for the confusion. You were simply trying to offer advice to all the men on here that struggle with dating, that maybe if they were more generous spenders with potential dates, they might have a better chance of getting a crumb of pussy. I just w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:47 PM
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In my opinion, even 50/50 relationships still benefit women more. Women want relationships, not men. Men settle for a relationship when they meet someone they truly enjoy spending time with, or when they decide they want a reliable source of sex and possibly kids. So here's the thing, if I don't want kids, and I'm not meeting anyone I like spending time with, and I'm not broke, WHY the fuck would I ever pay a woman just for the "privilege" of being in a relationship with her, even if she was the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:13 PM
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Ah yes, because working on yourself to become more attractive is impossible. You should just stay single then, because if you are having trouble getting men to pay for your shit, you aren't going to convince more of them to do it by whining on the internet. Nobody cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:45 PM
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Yes because as we all know it's always men who are the ones begging for and demanding commitment, not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 12:16 AM
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Feminism is necessary because there are people online that try to correct revisionist history and say other things you don't like about women in general? Well ok thanks for admitting how UNnecessary it actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 12:12 AM
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That's what I meant to ask for and that's because I would think that should be the easiest to show an example of. You can't really show how you've helped men in your personal life, even if that was actually sufficient evidence against the point I was trying to make. Helping personal friends or family doesn't show you care about any men's causes or men in general. My point was that you come here almost every day to argue with and belittle men who share their personal problems and grievances with …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:08 AM
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Link me to a specific comment, just one, where you show some understanding and sympathy towards a male poster here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:04 AM
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Ok that's not what I asked for. Can you link me to some comments you've made here that show you caring for men because I haven't seen them. Anyone can claim they've done anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:27 PM
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It's quite funny to me how someone who posts so frequently here to argue with men about everything imaginable has the audacity to say something like this as if they are completely anonymous or everyone here is just stupid and forgetful. Can you give us even ONE example of a post you made here that puts on display your care for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:12 PM
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Then when I asked what exactly you were talking about you chose to ignore that and argue with something else I said. So excuse me for assuming.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 09:00 PM
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Ok sorry I just kinda assumed since you made a top comment on a post titled "FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 08:11 PM
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That feminists don't care about equality when it doesn't benefit them. The argument that men and women are different was never an accepted argument for how universities were ran.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 07:27 PM
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Thanks for helping me prove my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 07:18 PM
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What exactly are you even talking about? Feminists like to be vague enough when describing themselves or their ideals (i.e. "equality" or "treat you like shit") so they can act like they have some moral high ground. But when you get into the details of their vague statements, they think they're slick and that no one will notice when they pull a Motte and Bailey. For example they say they just want "equality", but when you get down to it, what they really end up asking for is favorable treatment …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 11:06 AM
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Just because you can't find a way to defend men paying child support to their rapist doesn't mean it doesn't happen. So the idea that only men need to be taught not to rape is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 06:06 AM
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Of course I wasn't calling that rape, but if a woman has a child and the man doesn't want to have anything to do with it, a lot of women stop caring about "consent" real quick. Also just because you can't find a way to defend men paying child support to their rapist doesn't mean it doesn't happen. So the idea that only men need to be taught not to rape is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 06:06 AM
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what is gendered is the idea that rape seems impossible to avoid. What do you mean? A lot of people don't even think it's possible to rape a man. The FBI used to define rape as "the carnal knowledge of a woman", until feminists got them to change it to something that is only less obviously sexist by only including penetration (and not envelopement) in the definition. UK law even explicitly states that only men can rape. So yes, rape is a gendered issue, only in the complete opposite way that you…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 06:00 AM
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plenty of girls and women seem to understand the concept just fine Yeah, no. Horseshit. Just because women are charged with rape and other sex crimes far less often doesn't mean that they understand or even care about consent from men. Not only does our society not care, but it even rewards women with child support for raping men. How many women care about a man's consent when it comes to being a father?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:06 AM
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That may be true for you and some others here, but I honestly think there are several other reasons, like sharing personal stories, venting their deepest thoughts, and rarely to learn about the perspectives and experiences of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:18 PM
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I became an oil lobbyist in response to not getting picked. I don't understand the connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:12 PM
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Ok, I kinda get what you were trying to say now, but the way you phrased it by saying "no human male ever," is a huge exaggeration.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:26 AM
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No man ever before the 60s has ever been able get with a young woman and break up without consequences? What the hell are you talking about lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:28 AM
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The women who come here just like to argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:10 PM
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Almost all of them had an entitled mentality, believing that because they studied so hard at challenging fields, like STEM, it means they're superior to other people. Find me one woman here on PPD that doesn't think she is superior to every man here just because dating is easier for her due to having a vagina lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:42 PM
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The underlying data is all over the research paper I linked, it's not all on one page. Yes it does not say that women specifically state the reasons for their opposition to prostitution, but it does cite studies that conclude that women are generally much more prone to controlling female sexuality, and posits a theory that makes sense to me. Women report being more opposed to casual sex, porn, and prostitution, they slut shame more, and they are more supportive of surgeries that diminish female …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:16 PM
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The basic premise of the article is that female sex acts have exchange value. Starting from the last paragraph on the fifth page (or 343 at the bottom) it begins to talk about prostitution and porn as "low cost" substitutes for sex that women tend to oppose. You really should read the whole thing when you have the time if you really want to understand the ideas behind the arguments around this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:01 PM
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Why did you even ask for a source if you can't be assed to read it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:47 PM
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http://assets.csom.umn.edu/assets/71503.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:43 AM
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TIL like half of Europe and most of Latin America must be "run by young single loser males."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:40 AM
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If a woman serially dates famous millionares, is she going to be shamed? If a guy has sex with a bunch of meth heads and prostitutes, are people going to praise him? Women complain because that's what they do, doesn't necessarily mean their complaints have any basis in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 06:10 PM
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My girlfriend wants me to quit my job if she ends up making enough to comfortably support both of us. She leans libertarian and hates feminists. The girls who talk about "equality" the most are hypocritical manipulators that only argue for equality when it benefits them. Anyone that wasn't born yesterday should have realized that by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:39 PM
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What's your source?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:57 PM
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Men aren't the only ones who shame sluts. In fact, it has even been argued that women do the majority of slut shaming. http://www.femininebeauty.info/suppression.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:21 AM
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They're not with prostitutes (nobody's paying a prostitute to take them to the supermarket) I didn't mean to suggest that lol. I was implying that legal prostitution just means stronger competition for women, which results in men having an easier time finding a relationship. That is admittedly my own speculation though. British are less fat than Americans so I'm not really sure the basis of your "ugly" claim. I didn't realize that only fat people can be ugly. It is simply my personal opinion fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:42 AM
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So why did you say this information is news to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:18 AM
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Well in Ireland it is illegal to pay for sex (but not illegal to sell), while in Britain only brothels and pimping are illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:47 AM
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Tbf they are in the UK. Everyone is ugly and prostitution is legal there, so her claims are believable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:34 AM
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I believe a lot of the women who claim they are happier single are simply trying to scare men into thinking they have to provide a lot to a woman to have a chance at a relationship with them. It's a negotiation tactic of feigning disinterest.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:42 PM
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I don't mind if gay guys hit on me. Women who say that kind of stuff are just revealing their homophobia on top of their misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:57 AM
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No it isn't. Women reporting fewer orgasms can just as simply be explained by it not being necessary for reproduction. Men have to orgasm for babies to be made, so it makes sense that it's easier for them. I would also posit that physical attraction tends to be much less important for women for mate selection, which also factors into the orgasm gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:45 AM
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Maybe try having value in other ways then.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:12 PM
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What issue? I'm not the one complaining about my dating life here, you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:10 AM
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Sounds like your personality is the problem. You aren't that bad looking, and I wouldn't disqualify you on looks alone if I were single, but you come across as insufferable in your comments here. Some tweezers to your eyebrows and a nose job would help you a lot too I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:55 AM
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A lot of people also think homosexual relationships are gross and weird. Meanwhile, those that aren't hateful and judgemental think that as long as they are consenting adults, other people's relationships are none of their business.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 02:02 AM
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So let me get this straight, you intentionally browse the internet looking for rage porn to share with your friends, and this is a form of entertainment for you? Also you assume the worst of every man you encounter as a result of this? Well you definitely seem like a well adjusted individual and I'm sure the dating pool is much worse off without you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:06 AM
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What are you basing these statements on? In my experience, most women look for a man makes more and takes care of her to an extent. Studies and surveys tend to say the same. https://ifstudies.org/blog/better-educated-women-still-prefer-higher-earning-husbands https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1345520/What-women-REALLY-want-To-marry-rich-man-stay-home-children.html
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 10:41 PM
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Experts should have no problem explaining their field to laymen. An "expert" who doesn't, and expects others to believe their words on faith, are not actual experts. They are priests, as you put it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 06:08 AM
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Men don't normally need to reply to those mentioning the potential threat of violent incels because plenty of women will already be furiously typing diatribes in response about how women don't owe men shit. The men who say things like "not all men" are just mad blue pilled simps who have been tricked into giving women the benefit of the doubt at all times for fear of being called sexist, and are shocked when they learn women aren't ever gonna extend them the same courtesy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:10 AM
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I actually thought you were being serious until this comment, good job
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:49 AM
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I mean sure there is a spectrum, but some people are probably looking for someone closer to one end. You sound like you are pretty far from the agreeable end just by reading this post and your comments in it alone. So it seems you are more bothered by the realization that some men have preferences that you don't fit into.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 06:03 AM
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You're confused, a pension isn't savings for retirement, it's a benefit that some employers give in the form of steady payments to a long time employee when they retire. That poster is simply looking for long term investment advice, doesn't seem that worried about their financial future.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 04:38 AM
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It means he's probably looking to avoid the type of woman that is constantly looking for things to be offended by, such as innocuous preferences stated in a dating profile. I.e. things that someone that could be described as "disagreeable" would do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 04:23 AM
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No man who is successful with women is online complaining about them. Do you think that's true about women who complain online about men too?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:02 AM
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I bet she actually smashed all his shit because he wasn't paying enough attention to her. It would be believable that the boyfriend broke one thing like a controller or monitor in a fit of rage, but all of his gaming stuff? Not likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 04:23 AM
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Which comments exactly, and why are you convinced they are all men?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 11:34 PM
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Ethics are community based. So either you were saying that you want men to follow the ethics of your community, or their own. I assumed the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 02:44 AM
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Then why are you commenting about it? To be clear, I don't care about whatever you think is ethical, just like you probably don't care what a fundamentalist Christian thinks is ethical.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 02:32 AM
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Didn't think I needed the /s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 02:17 AM
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Ok I'll make sure you approve of the ways I get sex, and ask for clarification of exactly what's ethical and decent, because your opinion is so important to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 02:12 AM
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Men who do that have sex with hookers and get judged and called names anyway. So by "controlling one's libido," you probably mean that men should only be able to have sex on your terms, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 01:59 AM
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I feel like all the men who try to pretend that predatory men don't exist, or try to defend much older men hitting on young women in public spaces should study the painting. What do you think that is supposed to accomplish? You think men don't understand that unwanted attention is annoying? We are plenty aware, we just don't give a fuck about your petty gripes, just like you don't give a fuck about men who whine about how hard dating is for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 07:25 PM
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It's true that women in their 20s are generally more desirable, but that doesn't mean older women are automatically undatable. As long as your expectations aren't too high, you'll probably be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 11:23 PM
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Ah yes, it's definitely women who are fine with only having casual sex partners, and men only desire to commit to one girl and sign away half his shit to be with her. Men really need to step up their game otherwise they will end up in a terrible world where women don't care about monogomy!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 11:03 PM
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This topic is rarely discussed in good faith because the goal of certain people is to simply discourage men from seeing prostitutes any way they can. Even if you could show them hard evidence for whatever point you are trying to make, they will always shift the goalposts. It's mostly pointless trying to talk to these people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:46 PM
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Reddit is full of obnoxious and narcissistic women, what are you talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:25 AM
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Y'all act like it's illegal to buy men's clothing or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:44 AM
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Whether you said "all" or "many" was really not the point. The point was that men aren't going to look at a post from someone like you on PPD and believe that their opinions are at all a representation of their gender. Do you come here and think that the views expressed here from men are shared by a significant amount of men in the general population?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 10:24 PM
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Do you think he was talking about literally all women, or just the ones that don't like porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:08 AM
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So now you can't even own up to what you said. Thanks for sharing your opinions, I'm sure all the men here greatly value the input of someone like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:07 AM
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Did you forget the topic of the thread? "Why do so many women hate porn?" Why did you reply to that comment, of all the comments in this thread, with "women watch porn."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:00 PM
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many women quite frankly don't want a man who's into twisted porn sex. That is not you speaking for others?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:47 PM
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I'm sure men care so much about the dating preferences of a 50+ y/o woman who shitposts man hating screeds all day on PPD, and definitely believes they speak for all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:31 PM
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Do those women openly criticize porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:26 PM
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You are literally on a subreddit where I've seen countless women here openly admit to coming here because they are amused by the rants of men who are unsuccessful in dating. I wouldn't be surprised if I could dig through your post history and even find you saying something similar. There are many subreddits specifically dedicated to mocking men like r/cringepics, r/creepypms, r/inceltears r/niceguys...but those somehow don't count because those men deserve the ridicule in your mind of course. In…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:46 PM
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Women clearly state their preferences here too No shit, that's most of what they do on here, because middle aged wine moms like to think their opinions on dating still matter. The point is that others do not believe they are always being completely honest, and will beat around the bush when talking about how much a man's income and spending habits matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 08:14 PM
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Women are less likely to be reported to law enforcement, to be arrested, or charged with a crime. There's less hard evidence of those things but the sentencing gap helps us understand how widespread leniency on female criminals is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 06:36 PM
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When women do bad shit they get away with it. Look at the sentencing disparity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 06:09 PM
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So women come here to call the men misogynist incels and all sorts of other shit, but are too afraid to clearly state their mating preferences. Lmao nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 06:07 PM
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Ok so I am reading more about the app and it looks like a shit show all around. It's invite only, which it tells you after collecting your info, and has prompts about January 6, suggesting it's a possible honeypot operation like Parler. I can't imagine too many people are signing up for this at all, even if they were interested in a conservative dating app. I don't really care too much about this app though, the point is that it's an extremely weak counterargument to the assertion that women ove…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 11:53 PM
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Where was it marketed at all? Anyone can make a random obscure dating app, women are less likely to sign up because they are less interested in OLD general. This is like that post I saw yesterday claiming few people attended a Trump rally in DC, but if you read the article, he wasn't there and it wasn't organized or promoted by him at all. Literally just some random people decided to organize something and it's newsworthy simply because it lets journalists push the narrative they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 11:06 PM
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Reading it again, basically all the school ended up doing was saying they can't put her in his classes, which I guess is believable to me. But it seems like he would have been taking a huge risk by reporting anything at all to the school in the first place, and he wouldn't have done it unless he was strongly suspecting blackmail, which of course the OP would never admit to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:47 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/xy4ht2/my_lecturer_hired_me_as_a_naked_maid_and_is Real or rage bait? I would love to believe that men can come out on top if they just report sexual harassment first, but it seems unlikely to me. Either the post is entirely fake or there is more to the story than what was told.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:12 PM
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CMV: people who obsess over social classes do so to feel like they are better than others when they've accomplished absolutely nothing notable (i.e. being born in a wealthy family or nice community)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 02:56 AM
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https://www.carminashoemaker.com/alligator-chukka-boots-green-10027
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 11:46 PM
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It also makes you feel full faster and stay satiated longer, so it's much harder to overeat fats. Seed oils and other highly processed foods high in omega 6 should probably be banned too though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:44 AM
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No woman in her sane mind would become a stay-at-home mom and give up her career knowing that if something goes wrong with the marriage she would be left with nothing. Ok, that is your opinion, but realize that there are likely plenty of women that do not share it. In my opinion, no sane and intelligent man would ever marry a woman that doesn't at least match his income, but millions have done it. So my opinion on the topic means little, and I would argue yours does too. Even if what you say is …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:32 AM
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In countries where it is illegal, it still happens. Legalisation just makes it safer. I would argue it also makes it cheaper and more widely available. When I hear about European prices compared to the US, they are much lower. It doesn't make any difference to society. The dating landscape for men seems better in Europe. Women in the US often expect men to pay for dates, and I don't frequently read about European men complaining about the problems Americans do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:21 AM
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So you have no experience with dating in countries without legalized prostitution. What makes you think you are qualified to say it doesn't make much difference when it's legalized then?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:26 PM
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All countries with legal prostitution? Have you lived and dated in the USA?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:16 PM
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Which countries have you lived and dated in, and for how long?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 06:20 PM
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Remove every law and policy (written and unwritten) related to family courts like alimony, child support, shared assets in marriage, child custody bias. Remove all government assistance that is specific to single moms. Decriminalize prostitution. Federal funding for programs and policies meant for biased enforcement of domestic violence laws like the VAWA done away with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 06:17 PM
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Some people who are are hungry enough will eat something they found rummaging through a dumpster. They will probably feel disgusted by the act afterwards, but the hunger made them drop all their standards to go through with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 02:01 AM
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Just by looking at a picture of her and her post, she is probably obnoxious af and the people she works around hate her, that's why she got in trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:39 PM
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You seen already convinced that loving yourself is a bad thing. I didn't come close to even implying that. I said that men being more likely to date fat women is one of the unspoken goals of "body positivity". If you can't even pretend to discuss this topic in good faith, don't bother responding.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 08:31 PM
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I would think people who are actually fine with being single don't spend a large portion of their time on forums where they are constantly stating that and talking shit about the other sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 08:24 PM
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Can you provide a source for that? Skimming through the wiki page for "body positivity", I don't see anything like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:05 AM
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Regardless of what you think it should be about, the body positivity movement is most known for promoting fat acceptance. Sure maybe not literally everyone promotes it "for men", but it's not up to you to speak on behalf of all of them. If you want to convince me of something, present an argument, not just a counter statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:00 AM
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Yes, but my point was that women try to promote "body positivity" with the goal of men finding it more acceptable to date them. Men cannot do the same because women won't care, and find the very act of complaining about anything unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:52 PM
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It makes perfect sense. The first two affect women and the other two affect men. When women have a problem, they complain about it until some desperate man eventually caters to their whims. When men have a problem, women aren't going to fix it for them no matter how hard they whine about it, so men have to come up with practical solutions they can work out for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:39 PM
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What exactly do you think the OP is trying to justify?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:28 PM
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How do you know a guy has "faked" romantic interest, maybe he just lost interest for whatever reason. But I guess it's easier for some people to tell themselves that the other person was a manipulative asshole rather than accept the possibility that they were simply rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:23 PM
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men profit more from being in a relationship Funny that is the way you phrase it since in most relationships I see, the girl is using the guy for his money. So it's bemusing to me that you would claim that men tend to "profit" more from relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:34 PM
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Ok maybe they aren't fulfilling to you, but that doesn't mean you get to speak for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:28 PM
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Are you fat? Do you think fat girls can get any guy they want? Maybe you are exactly her type, in terms of looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:54 AM
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If you are doing it for personal satisfaction then I don't understand why you are worried about others misinterpreting your outfits. If approval from others also weighs in on how much you are satisfied by an outfit, then you should think about if their judgement is more important than your own enjoyment of the outfit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 06:39 PM
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What does that accomplish? Why do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 04:13 AM
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What is it "supposed to be" then? What purpose does it serve?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 12:56 AM
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against friends of opposite gender This alone should have told you she was a cheater.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 12:51 AM
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Part of fashion includes dressing for the environment and occasion. If nobody understands your outfit, you're doing it wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 12:38 AM
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The second sentence is referring to the first sentence of the same comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 05:49 AM
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If a girl is attractive enough that she has plenty of guys she's interested in offering to pay for dates, then sure it's reasonable for her to expect that. If a woman is online ranting about how men should pay for dates, and uses any other excuse to try and get that treatment, she is probably not in the other category of women I just described and has no leverage. Girls like that are like an employer looking for someone with insane qualifications and work ethic in exchange for uncompetitive pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 05:39 AM
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They are naturally better at social manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 10:10 AM
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Pretty sure Marx wasn't advocating that the state provide everything; nor did he suggest that your every whim be catered for. You're not gonna "by your logic" this one mate. Dude, I didn't ask for the opinion of a guy that that died a hundred years ago that never had a real job, I asked for YOUR opinion. When did Marx enter this discussion? I guess that response sufficiently sates my curiosity though. You are struggling to answer my inquiries because you don't actually have your own opinions, yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 06:31 AM
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It’s not a service - unless you’re talking sex work I would think that most who want a more "even" distribution of sex would like that provided by sex workers paid for by the government, not forcing random women into relationships with them. How do you feel about that? Is healthcare also not a commodity? What about education. We’re doing a very good job of treating both as a commodity - creating artificial scarcity and concentrating the means of their production. In the hands of a few. Ok whatev…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:29 PM
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I want a more materially equal society. That doesn’t necessitate me requiring people to fuck anyone they don’t want to. So you are fine with people being forced to provide goods and services to people they don't want, but you draw the line at fucking, because it is somehow "not a commodity." Is healthcare also not a commodity? What about education. Or civil services like postal work. How are those things commodities but fucking isn't. To be clear, I am on your side about not forcing anyone to fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:49 AM
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Ok? How does that make you find it acceptable that some people will have it better than others for sex and relationships, but not accept that some will have more than others when it comes to pretty much everything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:31 PM
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How are you going to say this: Or is it just that Women are not distributing their sexual goodies evenly, and it’s to be the death of us all? So - the sexually top-tier dudes are getting a bigger slice of the pie; and as we all know this has never happened before. ...and then bitch about capitalism? What do you even think capitalism is? lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:28 PM
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That doesn't mean we don't have private health insurance lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:56 AM
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I live in America where there's stuff specifically for moms, and we do not really have universal healthcare (and yes I prefer it that way). Don't be such a narcissist and think your tax dollar is so "impactful". It isn't. Then why do you care what I think where that money goes?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:06 AM
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Part environment (school), part different definition of "attractive" probably, like by that they just mean fuckable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:45 AM
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I mean sometimes yes, but other times people will just completely pull "facts" out of their ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:40 AM
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Only for dress pants. Casual pants like jeans often come in options like 28, 30, 32, or 34 inch inseam which is close enough for 99% of people, or you can just cuff them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:37 AM
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Ok, nobody deserves any kind of government aid except for food. Glad we settled that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:59 PM
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They already are? There's lots of government assistance for single and struggling moms. Are you agreeing we should do away with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:57 PM
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Well when one has the option to do sex work, marry a rich guy, or get knocked up for child support and welfare, real work doesn't look very appealing to a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 12:31 AM
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If you don't think half-assed puns and portmanteaus are the epitome of humor, what are you even doing on reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:59 PM
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Lift weights, get a nice haircut, wear nice and form fitting clothes, maybe a little cosmetic surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:44 PM
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Even if they do recognize you there is like no reason to even mention it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:38 PM
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Cooking. None of that other shit is useful to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:28 PM
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Because women are born with a uterus and that's all they need to have some value to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:22 PM
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Yup, and it doesn't help that anything men do to improve their appearance is often referred to as gay. Crab bucket mentality. Go somewhere like SF where men don't care about being called gay, or are actually gay, there are a lot more good looking men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:05 PM
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TRP claims to be amoral, there is no "supposed to", it's only a presentation of observations and the way they are interpreted. Women can do as please, but promiscuous ones are generally seen as undesirable prospects for serious relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 09:37 PM
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Is this a problem you can identify because you struggle with it yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:25 AM
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Maybe if you stopped reading a bunch of random comments on the internet and acting like they were all coming from the same person, things would make more sense. Men who care about being used for their money are not the same as those who want kids and a stay at home mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 11:35 PM
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How are apps supposed to stop unwanted attention beyond providing an option to block users, which they already do?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 08:55 PM
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Dating apps already do try to accommodate to women, just maybe not so much Tinder. Hinge tries to incorporate in some way pretty much everything you are asking for in this comment, and Bumble gives women all the control in conversation starting. Also there's only so much you can do to avoid being overtly discriminatory against men, which is what they want because men probably account for most of their revenue.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 08:50 PM
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I celebrate a free dating market where people can do as they please, and others sometimes getting feelings hurt by those who lose interest is a natural consequence of that. You can’t be angry no women fuck you while simultaneously celebrating the men monopolizing the dating market. I am not one of the guys angry about that, but even if I were, my feelings toward other more successful men would have absolutely zero impact on my own dating life, so it really doesn't matter what one thinks about th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 04:52 PM
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How am I lazy for not caring about ‘changing’ a black pilled dudes mind? Then why did you even bother commenting in the first place? They can stay mad. And you can stay mad that they encourage pump and dumps.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 04:10 PM
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The more regular dudes pull this shit the less likely you’ll have a mentally healthy woman who wants to have a happy and healthy relationship with you. Hypothetically, that's possible, but the thing is that the men here do not believe the actions of the men you are complaining about have any significant impact on their dating lives. If anything, they are more likely to believe that Chads freely and indiscriminately having sex with lots of women makes those women more likely to believe they have …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 08:35 AM
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Y’all wanna support this bullshit don’t be shocked when that selectivity excludes you. The guys that are crying about their dating struggles are not the ones that are pumping and dumping, how is that not obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:29 AM
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So you are trying to tell us that there are zero women that put out on the first date, and women avoid guys that are attractive enough to have the opportunity to pump and dump? Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:06 AM
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Most of the male posters seem to just be complaining about how hard dating is, and most of the female commenters are simply here for the schadenfreude of shitting on those men and practicing their bad faith arguing and gaslighting skills. Those two types are so prevalent, it's hard to notice any others.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:58 PM
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Dude the other week I got an email that my webull account was deleted, and it didn't get sent to my junk folder like other phishing attempts usually do, so I freaked out for a second before I made sure it was bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:32 AM
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In other words, men who fuck/date women who are much younger and poorer are usually not stupid enough to marry them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:29 AM
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How u kno
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:24 AM
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Ok? The guy who gave the inmates the keys has been charged, his trial is in September. What was your point again?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 05:54 AM
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Have you not heard of Ghislaine Maxwell?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:29 AM
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Lose weight, do squats, see a hair stylist, learn makeup, maybe get some cosmetic surgery, try OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:59 PM
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Because the issue is a bit more complex than simply "reproductive rights".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:10 AM
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How did Trump work against women's interests aside from making some crass comments?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:08 AM
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You would have the advantage of not worrying as much about arguing self defense in court since women get favorable treatment there. Also I believe their point was that the strength advantage for men is largely irrelevant if both have firearms.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:35 AM
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The handicap principle is interesting and seems like a likely explanation for some things, but I'm wondering why you didn't start off with referencing it and instead chose to only cite Darwin at first, who did not mention anything like that at all. It was proposed about a hundred years after Darwin's works, so it's quite confusing that you seem to be acting like it was a part of his writings about sexual selection. I'm also wondering what makes you claim it is the prevailing theory when the page…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:59 PM
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This does not prove to me that you fully understand the concept of sexual selection, or even explain what exactly you are trying to argue at this point. Even the link you posted is focused on how others have misinterpreted Darwin's writings, so it's not something you should feel ashamed of if you have as well. Sexual selection as defined by Darwin: Thus it is, I believe, that when the males and females of any animal have the same general habits of life, but differ in structure, colour, or orname…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:48 AM
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I was not trying to argue against sexual selection, I was arguing your description of it. I suggest you read Descent of Man first. I find that amusing since your comments here already suggested you don't understand the basics of evolution, and this statement does so even more, since you told me to go read a book instead of using your own words or even referencing a relevant passage. Feel free to prove my assumption wrong though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:24 AM
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You're trying to convince me that women are choosing better specimens of humanity because they have been socialized to do so The very concept of being "better" is something people made up, and therefore entirely socialized. Yes you can argue that women are hardwired to be attracted to certain traits, but that doesn't mean it can't be argued that those traits aren't necessarily "better" than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:23 PM
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Are you still in favour of "financial abortion" if women don't have access to actual abortions? How many men do you seriously think want paper abortions for men but no abortions for women? I've never seen a man say that. Meanwhile I've seen countless women that want the opposite, and I'd even bet that you're one of them, and this is just a pathetic attempt to deflect from your own hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:12 PM
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Sounds awfully misogynist to assume that all women will be poor and desperate if men in relationships with them weren't forced to provide for them after a separation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:02 PM
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Bump Dude what, reddit doesn't work like that lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 09:31 AM
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Ok but that has nothing to do with what you said. You said just because someone is afraid to admit something to anyone means they should stop doing it. I know you don't actually believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 11:08 PM
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something is too embarrassing to admit, rational people stop doing it. Is this what you say to gay people in the closet?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:55 PM
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You have an interest in it, even if you don't believe in it. But LOL at the number of men who admit that consuming red pill propaganda is too embarrassing to admit. You are demonstrating to be precisely the type of person men would want to avoid admitting they have any knowledge of the red pill to, I don't understand why that is so amusing to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:47 PM
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Well apparently you do
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:17 PM
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So you can admit that someone would be ridiculed for knowing what the red pill is, but do not want to consider the possibility that your colleagues would lie to you about their knowledge of it? Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 09:51 PM
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This stage is resolved during purge or some other photo dump occasion where the women are shown to not in fact be ugly. Nobody that is actually ugly is going to have the confidence to post a pic of themselves. What is that supposed to prove? The few times I've seen a regular commenter here post a pic of themselves, I didn't have any strong opinions on the kind of stuff they would post here in the first place. Stage 2: You're all autistic. I see this used as more of a general insult more than a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 09:45 PM
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But i dont base my politics on whats fair because im 23 not 7 years old. Life's not fair get used to it. Is this what you tell feminists too?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 09:31 PM
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Not many, it's been called to be banned by the UN.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 09:30 PM
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Or maybe men are smart enough to realize that if the bio dad isn't supporting the kid, there's a fair chance the rest of society is on the hook in the form of welfare programs of one kind or another, and if there's anything men detest more than supporting their own children, it's supporting strangers' children. I mean I do know that there are some men that think this. But I don't think these men are pro-abortion either. I try to talk about and spread the message of paper abortions to remind men …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:59 AM
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How many men support abortion and not paper abortion?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:37 AM
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So you don't want to discuss the reasons abortion doesn't get support from everyone? You just want circle jerk about how awful that is and act like everyone who doesn't agree with you is a terrible person that doesn't deserve to voice their opinions? K
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:36 AM
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Is English not your native language? "All the women that..." is not the same as saying "all women".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:27 AM
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Then why do you care about others talking about it? I think there aren't enough men that support it because they aren't even aware of the idea. You're afraid that if enough people talk about paper abortions, men will wake up and realize the shit deal they've been getting. That's why you want people to shut up about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:25 AM
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Ah yes, if you point to a couple of women who are not hypocrite misandrists, that will make everyone forget about all the other ones right in front of us (like you). I feel bad for women who want reproductive rights for all, but they are clearly vastly outnumbered by those who don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:18 AM
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Oh I didn't realize it was legal to cut up a female infant's genitals now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:09 AM
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Now that I have dropped Facts and Logic I would like everyone to stop talking about paper abortions—preferably at all, but especially as something feminists are opposed to or something that men broadly support. Oh, sure, of course! I will definitely stop bringing up the fact that probably at least 90% of of women (feminists included) oppose paper abortions, just because you can find the few examples of women that don't. That totally excuses the hypocrisy of all the women that only want reproduct…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:06 AM
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They can't. Couldn't when abortion was completely legal, still can't with some states restricting it. No easier, and no more difficult. It's exactly the same as it was before for men, it's only different for women now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:38 AM
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No it's not, it's only easier for women to be baby trapped now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 01:12 AM
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You seem to care a lot about the idea though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:43 AM
1

Anyone who cares that much about fucking 16 year olds is still suspicious as hell 😇 You included?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:40 AM
1

"I don’t make the rules." Gets mad at men who follow rules. What?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:28 PM
1

How are you gonna mention this sub without linking it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:02 AM
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Where are all these guys that say they don't want to be settled for? Every time I see someone say that, it's a woman. Agreed that you can't negotiate attraction and telling women to lower their standards is stupid though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:25 PM
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So how is expecting men to like you "the way you are" working out for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:40 PM
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I even did an experiment where I asked random dudes, some of whom were self described desperate virgins, to have sex with me. ...and what was the purpose of this "experiment?"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:14 AM
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Do women expect men to like them for simply existing?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:10 AM
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It is about the risk to benefit ratio. There is simply no point persuing a risk benefit ratio that is below that which can be obtained in social circles. So what makes you think girls who use OLD do it it in the first place? I would assume it's because they're either extremely picky in the first place or have no options elsewhere (i.e. no social circle). If a woman is genuinely afraid of men she meets on dating apps potentially hurting her, she wouldn't use them at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 03:47 AM
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Not only was the evidence stacked against her, Amber Heard is a nobody compared to Johnny Depp. He has more fans than people who even knew who she was before the trial. Having a vagina doesn't trump absolutely everything, and if you think this case proves women aren't generally favored in courts, there likely isn't anything that would make you think otherwise anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 07:29 AM
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If you've never done these things, and you're not even a man, what makes you think you understand their motivations?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 12:07 AM
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So, I actually read the article instead of just the headline. The "flight attendant" was also his masseuse, so he was probably already naked under a towel, like with any normal massage session. He allegedly removed the towel to indicate he wanted an "erotic massage" and offered to buy her a horse if she did it. Now, I am just a regular guy, and I have been offered countless unsolicited hand jobs while lying on a table during a session, even when I thought I was going to a regular massage parlor …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 11:58 PM
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Yeah, that's stupid. Child support should be abolished because women should choose to have kids with men that actually want them and agree to have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 06:08 AM
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https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/talking-about-trauma/201902/when-male-rape-victims-are-accountable-child-support?amp
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 10:27 PM
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This is the only case I've ever seen that wasn't statutory rape or a woman helping a man rape a woman, so thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 10:26 PM
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I don't think there has ever been a case of a woman being convicted of rape in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 01:00 AM
1

Do you seriously think the average woman can tell the difference between a brand new RS5 and an eight year old A3?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 05:21 AM
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I’ve never heard of a single mom who can live on child support alone with a kid. I didn't suggest anything like that. I said women do not end up paying for kids they didn't want. Women still have safe haven laws, even if abortion isn't an option, and child support is never enforced against women even if the father ends up with full custody. It's only men who are forced to pay up for the decisions of someone else, so of course it is convenient, and inexpensive as you put it, for women to favor th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 10:21 PM
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Read my comment again, slowly... the people who are most upset about this are the ones that only want women to have reproductive rights I didn't say that all women think thay, or even that only women think that way. Those who have advocated for legal paternal surrender are not upset about abortion being illegal, because at least that makes things closer to equality. You thinking they are upset is your imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 10:12 PM
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Yes, but they aren't the ones that end up paying for kids they didn't want to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 05:09 AM
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From what I see, the people who are most upset about this are the ones that only want women to have reproductive rights and not men. Your comment is a fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:17 AM
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So? Does that make women forget how to use contraceptives? Or even how to talk about kids the day after sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:06 AM
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It’s very inexpensive for [pro-life men] to adopt a holier than thou attitude True, but that is also true for women who object to the idea of legal paternal surrender (i.e. "financial abortion"), and rant about deadbeat dads and child support, knowing that family courts are always on their side. Which is why I find myself not giving a rat's ass about abortion potentially being made illegal, even though I am far from considering myself a pro-lifer.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:00 AM
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Maybe women should talk about kids with men and make sure they're on the same page before they have unprotected sex. Then they wouldn't have to make an unexpected decision when it's too late. Funny how women are so used to getting what they want from men that something as simple as getting a man's input and consent isn't even considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:43 AM
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Was it you who was complaining about average guys having standards too high a while ago, and I asked you what an average guy looks like and you didn't respond?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 12:54 AM
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Only the men here are unhappy because men don't watch chick flicks? I'm struggling to understand your thought process here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 10:01 AM
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How do you know this? Usually I see subreddits set themselves to private when they get an influx of outsiders disturbing them, so I would guess the same thing happened here. So it's possible they will be back.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 04:50 AM
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some of the power commenters I've seen Is this like a power bottom?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 04:43 AM
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Then he shouldn't sign the birth certificate until he can verify paternity. Ok? Your suggestion doesn't change the fact that the state will make men pay for children that aren't biologically theirs when they can, and that fact is a direct contradiction to your previous statements regarding the topic. My point isn't that these situations are non-existent, my point is that there isn't some mainstream societal outlook that men must step and take care of single mothers and their children. Do single …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 11:06 PM
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When a man marries a single mother, legally adopts her kids as his own, raises them for years, divorces the mother years later, and wants nothing to do with the kids. I have never once even heard or read a story like that happening. What I have seen on reddit though are stories of men who found out the child he raised wasn't biologically theirs, and then wanted nothing to do with it. Whether or not these stories are fabrications, it's not uncommon to see comments lambasting the man in the story …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:48 PM
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Surely you realize this is a minority opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:25 PM
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The only time I can think of men being told to take care of kids that aren't biologically theirs is if they marry the mother, legally adopt the children, but then try and abandon them after being married to the mother for years. Like if the mother cheated and tricks the husband into thinking the kid is his? When else would a man "legally adopt" a child and then try to abandon it? You know what the other commenter is talking about has some truth to it, you're just trying to reframe it as being ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:21 PM
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So you are content with your dating life? Then what is the point of your comments in this thread? The title of this post is "What makes women not happy about the current dating market?"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 07:57 PM
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Then what were you talking about in your previous comments? First you say abundance means nothing if all the options are shit, now you are saying you have good options? Where are you going with this??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:24 AM
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It is disturbing that I match with so many men, and nearly all of them having glaring issues like the ones I described above. And having an abundance of such people doesn't make me feel good. If anything, it makes me lose hope in humanity. Have you considered the possibility that you aren't as attractive as you might think you are if these are the only kinds of guys that show interest in you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:20 AM
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I get this mostly from feminists talking to me about anything to do with gender politics. So, unsurprising they would come up with a term like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 07:34 PM
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When a feminist thinks she knows everything and someone tells her something she disagrees with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 07:04 PM
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Because this post isn't about me and I don't make it a habit of making stuff about me, that's why. I wasn't trying to make this about you, I just assumed the thread was inspired by reactions to things you've said. If instead it's about what other women have said about being cautious, and the responses to that, it would be helpful if you described what you saw/heard in more detail, and used actual quotes or links if possible. That is, if you are serious about getting an explanation why some might…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 11:20 PM
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How do you expect anyone to answer your question when you can't tell us how you're being "cautious", what exactly men say in response to you describing this behavior, and what the context of you bringing this up is? Maybe you're describing behavior that is completely irrational that doesn't actually protect you from anything. Maybe guys are trying to give women a taste of their own medicine by playing the discrimination card. Maybe you just made a useless circle jerking thread topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 07:13 AM
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So you're a religious trad?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 04:57 AM
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He didn't say that either. Either you are arguing in bad faith, or you need to work on your reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:18 AM
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No I never said that but it says a lot about you that you’d attempt to pigeonhole my comment into something to be ridiculed. That's exactly what you did first. The other commenter said nothing about "emotionally well-adjusted" men, yet that's what you acted like they said women are holding are holding out for.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 10:32 PM
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I can tell. Trust me, I'm an expert.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 09:39 AM
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You must get catfished a lot if you can't tell #3 is hiding her weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 09:17 AM
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Why is anyone telling them to look elsewhere? If they are that picky, then it seems like they have room to be. Do they not?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 05:05 AM
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implying that women as a gender should hand out participation trophies (aka date down) to men who failed to reach their level in terms of lifestyle Since when does having a college degree guarantee a certain lifestyle? I've met women that lost interest as soon as they found out I didn't go to college, and before they found out that I probably made more money than them. Maybe that was their way of prejudging income, or maybe they had a weird obsession with the prestige of having a degree. Either …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 04:04 AM
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Ok, so this isn't actually about traditional art media vs. video games, it's the way your spouse enjoys his hobby vs. you with yours. MMOs like World of Warcraft are basically all about doing the same shit over and over to get some high score, and the goal of the creators to get people to keep playing the game indefinitely to keep their revenue stream steady. If this is what you think all video games are like, no wonder you believe drawing pretty pictures is more productive. Video games can be u…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 11:29 PM
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Well I meant like what do you mean by "art" exactly when you say it's more productive? Do you mean slapping acrylic based paints onto a canvas? Is me doing a Jackson Pollock imitation more productive than someone training to be a pilot playing a flight simulator?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 10:38 PM
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I argued art is a more productive pass time than video games Video games require lots of artists to make, so what are you even trying to say? If taking in a form of art is unproductive, how is making it any less so?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 10:20 PM
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So before abortion was a thing, women's bodies were being violated for thousands of years?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:40 AM
1

Sounds like a scam.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:27 AM
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Because women have higher SMVs A woman that looks like Amy Schumer has higher SMV than Henry Cavill? Or are you just trying to tell us you only go out with ugly guys you can take advantage of because you can't get dates with guys you actually find attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:15 AM
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Same reason a man might go for a cheap woman (like you).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:09 AM
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If we're willing to violate women's body in a huge way to stop abortion, What exactly are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:46 AM
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Do you still use seeking? I read the owner started changing the site.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:18 AM
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What gives you that impression? Posturing legbeards on PPD? I've known lots of perpetually single guys that barely ever talk to women, but every girl I've known is either always in a relationship or just plain hoe-ing around and looking for male attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:51 AM
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If being "nice" is a defining characteristic of a man, that means he doesn't have the social leverage to ever get away with anything else. He's on the bottom of the totem pole, and being kind and agreeable is the only value he can offer. That is why women hate 'nice guys'. A guy who is nice to others in return to those that deserve it, but isn't a doormat, knows when to stand up for himself and be dick when he needs to look out for his own interests. He has more to offer than just kindness, so i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:44 PM
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are you actually so dumb you can’t see how i’m drawing this conclusion? Ok, I see how you might have come to that conclusion, but why do you keep arguing this point when I tell you that wasn't what I was trying to say? you are saying that men do not possess a legal right to a say in abortion. why would they? It was a statement of fact in response to the other commenter saying reproductive rights are an area where men are privileged over women. It was not a statement meant to suggest that men sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 09:22 PM
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you alluded to the idea that men should have a say in an extremely personal medical procedure of women they have impregnated I did not say that, or even imply it, you pulled that out of your ass. I stated the fact that men have no say in an abortion as a response to another comment claiming women have less reproductive rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:56 PM
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Did I say anything about wanting to make decisions for other people? I didn't even mean to suggest such a thing, you just jumped to that conclusion because you are so defensive about women's privileges being discussed. May I refer you to the title of the post topic if you want a reminder of the context of this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 06:28 AM
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If you mean basic politeness and indifferent interaction, yes If you think all men automatically get this, you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 04:39 AM
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Women have more reproductive rights than men even if you want to argue that they're under attack. What a ridiculous statement to imply they somehow have less. Men have no say in the abortion of any woman he knocks up, and cannot unilaterally drop off a newborn at a safe haven the way women can.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 04:37 AM
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Always hilarious when women try to femsplain men's experiences. Do you actually know any men that have went through with or attempted to get a vasectomy? Or are you just baselessly assuming men would not face similar hurdles?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 04:34 AM
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Almost any time I see a girl with a guy way older than her, the "power dynamic" is that she is the one manipulating him for his money.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 04:26 AM
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I can believe that, but only because as a woman you are likely to get a free meal out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:37 PM
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I find posting misleading pics to be even more pathetic. If that's not what happened here, then ok, the guy was an asshole for no good reason. But I'm inclined to think it is what happened, and the response was deserved.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:42 PM
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Ok, that doesn't answer my question though. Why should anyone be obligated to still go on a date with someone they don't find attractive, especially those that misrepresented themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:35 PM
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Frankly I hope Bumble just has a Karen triage policy of pretending to ban people and shipping them gifts. Bumble's strategy is to cater to women. I mean, that's the strategy of most dating apps, but here we see the ridiculous lengths Bumble will go to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:31 PM
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Sometimes when you see someone in person, they just look different or you realize you are just not attracted to them. Ok, and? Does that mean that person is still entitled to a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:30 PM
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I do agree with the few top comments that say most men should still take her out though. Why? I'm convinced anyone saying this is only doing so because the "victim" here was female. You would not say that to a woman that didn't want to go through with a date with a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:26 PM
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Of course it's an asshole move, that's the point. That's the deserved response for uploading misleading pics on a dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:21 PM
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Yes, that's why my comment was addressed to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:56 PM
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If you are a guy, do not use bumble. You will get banned for hurting a girl's feelings after being catfished.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:47 PM
1

How does "science" measure attractiveness?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:49 PM
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I doubt that but ok, good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:20 AM
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The reason is that not a lot of women are into casual sex, and the ones that are usually look to get something out of it. Paying for sex is easier than getting for free for at least 99% of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:16 AM
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I can believe that you normally try to avoid doing that, but I don't believe you never have. You already admitted yourself that you buy burgers. Burgers at restaurants are usually cooked on a griddle, which you can get very similar results to by cooking one in a pan at your home. People, you included, buy things simply for convenience sometimes, which is the point. So stop pretending you don't do that and don't understand why anyone else does that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:06 AM
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That's great but that has nothing to do with what we're talking about. Finding a woman that's attractive enough to have sex with is way easier by looking up escorts sites than by talking to potentially countless girls at bars. If you don't think you're compatible with guys that have paid for sex, that's fine, but your stated reasons are nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:59 AM
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You are vastly underestimating the amount of effort it takes for even attractive men to have casual sex, especially if he has standards. There are websites that make prostitutes easily available, even where it's "illegal".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:53 AM
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I think you responded before my edit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:50 AM
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You can also cook a burger in a pan, now you're just being obtuse. Nobody is buying that you've never bought food at a restaurant that you can cook yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:46 AM
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"1 in 5 women have been raped" -you You did not say 1 in 5 have experienced sexual violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:59 AM
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That's funny, because your source says 1 in 5 has experienced rape or attempted rape. So you are actually exaggerating this time as well, not just your source.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:29 AM
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1 in 5 women have been raped. I'm not lying and exaggerating that Are you at all familiar with the origins of this claim? One of the first sources was from a Mary Koss survey that was only administered to university students, and only half of the respondants that survey counts as victims of rape also answered positively to question of if they believed they were a victim of the act. More recently there was the 2007 Campus Sexual Assault Study commissioned by the U.S. Department of Justice, which …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:01 AM
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I understand if it's upsetting when people claim that many women lie and exaggerate about rape, but do you realize that's what you just attempted to do as well? I commend you for admitting your mistake though, because people usually just double down when they get called out on that exact lie. Yes, it's something people lie about often, which is probably why you repeated it. To understand why some people think many, and possibly even the majority of women who claim rape are lying about it, the fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:53 PM
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90% of reported rape cases are proven to be legit. That's wrong, only something like 2% of reported rape cases end up in a conviction, which is the closest thing to saying they are proven legitimate. Just because 10% are proven false does not mean the other 90% are automatically true.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:53 PM
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That seems mostly like a reddit thing, almost any female dominated subreddit is dripping with disdain for men. Sex workers that hate men probably don't get many repeat clients.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:59 PM
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Have you ever paid for a bottle of water?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:55 PM
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Well, since the commenters managed to avoid addressing the point of the quote by misinterpreting part of it, they happened to create another excuse for a thread where they can moan about how hard women supposedly have it. So it is allowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:23 AM
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Higher income and higher education correlates with lower birth rates. Explain that to me, since your whole point seems to be that women choose the "best" partners. they choose father types as their husbands and fathers of their chikdren. Even if they are slightly less physically attracted to them. Bc personality is a priority over pooks. So what traits are better for being a father? Which personality type is "best"? How do women know? U are still a ratinal being that can decide on some more impo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 11:32 PM
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You'd have to be super dumb to get arrested for being a John in the US. There are websites where clients and providers can screen each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:59 AM
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So, if I'm talking to a girl that seems to want a relationship from me, telling her I've never been in a serious one should turn her off. And if she still wants to pursue something with me, she probably just wants to use me. Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:57 AM
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What is your explanation for income and education negatively correlating with birth rates if you think women's mate selection is naturally inclined to advance our species? U as a man, are taller than women bc some female Neanderthal 30k years ago decided to fuck a tall Neanderthal instead of a short one. Or a stronger one, instead on the weaker one. What makes you believe women's mate preferences have drastically changed? Sexual attraction isn't a conscious decision, it's instinct. Women mate wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:46 PM
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Money can be exchanged for goods and services.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 06:41 AM
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Men who have no relationship skills at 30 are prime bait for gold diggers, users, abusers, and manipulative women. good fucking luck. If you've seen enough men you know get used by manipulative women, do you really need relationship skills to recognize them? I think even just hanging around this forum for long enough would help a man recognize that type of woman, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 06:15 AM
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I will try saying this the next time a woman wants a relationship from me, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 06:10 AM
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You mean like men who got married or raw dogged a stripper? I question their intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 06:05 AM
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It seems like maybe they only like cops when cops kill black people or make leftists mad, but when they kill an insurrectionist it's "extreme force" Yeah, and I feel the leftists just think the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:04 AM
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Yes, I wasn't arguing that, and I'd even agree. But as time goes on, that could change.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:13 AM
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Government distrust is an extreme left wing ideology as much it is a right wing one You really think that? Maybe like 20 years ago, but not anymore. I see a lot more anti-gun sentiment coming from the left. only the left wing doesn't worship cops "Worship" isn't the right word, but in my opinion they want to be able to rely on cops as much as certain types of right wingers, they just aren't happy about some perceived racist practices. I don't understand how fearing the government and loving cops…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:09 AM
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I didn't mean literally "all", but probably at least like 80%. If you believe you have evidence to the contrary, I'd be interested to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:56 AM
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I'd say that if enough dicks aren't happy, society will change to some extent, in some way, whether any one of us wants it to or not. Finding a partner and maybe having kids is a huge motivator for the majority of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:53 AM
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Right wingers have all the guns though, so I don't know what you're expecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:46 AM
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That article is about video game streamers not "working in STEM" lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:04 PM
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I don't want a virgin partner, but if I did, I believe that being one myself would do me no favors as a man. Unless maybe I was looking for a devout Christian woman. People like you can cry all you want about hypocrisy, but it makes no sense for a man to lower his chances of getting what he wants just to fit some ideal you made up in your own head.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 07:18 AM
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Was that so hard? I guess it was though because it still clearly doesn't come close to proving your claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:34 AM
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I did, I didn't find it referring to the exact claim you're making. Do you think you're being clever or something? Do you think that if you keep responding with enough conviction that it's there, somewhere, I will eventually be fooled and just take your word for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:42 AM
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No. You said most women that are prostitutes only sell sex out of desperation. There is nobody even attempting to count how many prostitutes are like that or not. So your claim is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:13 AM
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I have a problem with non-trafficked prostitution as well, since you are still buying a human for sex That is trafficking you are thinking of still. Prostitution is paying someone for a service they provide, like any other job. you can’t really make it safe just due to the nature of the job and your customer base So that means no one should even try to make it safer? Is that what you're saying? I used to think legalization was a good idea, but countries that have tried it have seemingly failed t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:10 AM
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Yes, but that is not the claim you made. You said most women turn to sex work out of desperation. I don't see anyone even attempting to quantify that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:03 AM
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Very interesting. Do you think you could explain why? Like let's say a guy prefers to see prostitutes, even if he could have sex for free, because he doesn't want to deal with drama and hassle of regular girls. You still wouldn't be able to shake the stereotype that he's a loser that can't get laid? Also do you say that because you would find a guy less attractive if he sees prostitutes, or because you think it's still less moral?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:02 AM
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That's not what I asked. I asked you to point me exactly where your link makes the claim you're making. Like under what section, or what number citation?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:58 AM
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Would you look down at a guy more for seeing a prostitute rather than pumping and dumping? That's what I'm asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:38 AM
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Ok, so you have a problem with sex trafficking, not prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:13 AM
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Yeah, so you don't even have questionable source, you have none at all. I'm not surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:10 AM
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Where does it say the vast majority resort to it out of desperation?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:04 AM
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The vast majority do. How do you know this?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:51 AM
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Many prostitutes are trafficked. It’s a human rights issue. This is like saying anyone who wears sneakers is a scumbag because some companies use cheap sweatshop labor to make them. Nobody is buying this excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:46 AM
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Would you rather have guys that just want to get laid pump and dump random women that might be looking for a relationship and be hurt by his actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:38 AM
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I actually believe women don't like men who see prostitutes for the same reason they don't like bisexual guys either. Because it means they have plenty of other options for sex, and so women can't use sex as a bargaining chip against him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:37 AM
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If, as my original linked study suggests, that men are wired to survey the female body types currently available in their environment and then be most attracted to the 'best' of that group, then there is no reason to believe that artificial manipulation of a man's environment through edited video, images, and silicone-filled porn won't push his natural attraction cues further towards unrealistic standards. That's not how it works. Just because you can't, or don't want to think of alternative exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:32 AM
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I don't think you quite understood what I was asking. I wasn't asking you to explain the link between porn and men's sexual preferences, because I realize that would be quite difficult and onerous. I was asking you to present why you think men's sexual preferences are changed in the first place, or why you think men in general have "unrealistic" standards. Because when one attempts to blame that on porn, without first proving that this problem exists in the first place, it is a strong indicator …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 07:34 AM
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Ok, you argue that porn and Hollywood are influencing what men find attractive. What exactly leads you to believe this? Do you have female friends that struggle with dating? What kind of research have you done on what men like and what kind of porn they watch aside from reading a paper on waist to hip ratios? Looking at the images of the classic paintings you linked, none of the originals depict what I think any modern man would find unattractive. So that is starting to make me think you are com…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 03:38 AM
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Porn and Hollywood has essentially highjacked modern man's attraction cues so they more and more can only get excited by a product that only these industries can provide. IMO this is only a narrative that fat women try to push to feel better about themselves. 2/3 of Americans are overweight and 1/3 are obese. If you're having problems attracting men, it's not because men are looking at too many photoshopped women in fashion magazines. I would even argue that men's standards are lower than ever b…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 12:22 AM
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Ok I did it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 06:25 PM
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Then what do you think she is implying? At best, it seems like she's saying men don't care about their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 08:29 AM
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I have first and second hand experience with how fucked up family courts are toward men, me with my parents and my brother with his kids. The mother defaults on custody, and the ones involved in my experience say crazy shit to get what they want and get back at the father. Wouldn't surprise if most fathers don't show up just so they can get as far away from that mess as possible. But yeah okay sure, fathers stay away from family courts because they hate their kids, not because of a systemic bias…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 06:40 AM
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Regardless of how many there are, it wouldn't be difficult for a guy like that to find plenty of options, considering there are dating sites geared toward that type of relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 04:05 AM
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Nah, I'm a guy and I get it. Some people look good but aren't your type or don't turn you on just by looking at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 05:34 AM
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All I can think about when I see the US ad is when Biden was inaugurated, they brought in national guard members who had to pass some background check to make sure they'd be good little soldiers and do what they're told. They are obviously looking for more of these types of people who will not defect so long as they believe they are defending liberal values.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:40 PM
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Whenever I can't find something, it's usually because a woman moved it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:24 PM
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I didn't realize casual sex can't exist without Tinder. Majority of Tinder users are male though because 1. Women are less likely to need to resort to OLD, 2. Women don't need to stay there for long if they do, and 3. Men are way more likely to only need pictures to tell if they are attracted to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 11:27 PM
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I didn't realize you speak for all women. I'll be sure to consult you the next time I have a thought or opinion about a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 11:40 PM
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Women say that if a man isn't willing to pay for the whole date, he's not that interested in her. That's probably true. But it works the other way as well. If the woman doesn't at least at least offer to pay her share, the only thing she's interested in his using him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 10:26 PM
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Well maybe you got down voted because you don't seem to know anything about men's shoes. There's little reason for men to wear driving loafers unless they are doing a lot of driving and little walking. Regular loafers with more substantial and durable soles seem more appropriate for a date and arguably look better too. Are you aware of the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 09:17 PM
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So that's a yes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 10:16 PM
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I feel like at least half of reddit users don't seem to know what capitalism is but think they do. Are you one of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 10:01 PM
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There's always meetup.com
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 04:11 AM
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Usually when someone argues with an anecdote that gets brought up, it's because it's an obvious outlier, even if it's true. Like, "I know a girl that totally loves short guys!" The post you are referring to, everyone knows is generally true and it would be pointless to argue it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 03:30 AM
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I didn't say that, I said incels are an easy target to hate on for the type of people I was talking about. It's one thing to not like incels, it's another to spend significant time and energy shit talking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 02:55 AM
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Obviously incels are typically some of the least accomplished. They are an easy target for people to compare themselves to so they can feel better about their own lack of accomplishments, is what I meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 02:43 AM
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Or is it just to make the woke person feel sanctimonious about themselves? When one isn't good at anything and has no notable accomplishments, self-righteousness is a common coping mechanism, and incels are an easy target.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 01:57 AM
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Women saying that men are "commitment-phobic" instead of asking themselves why they aren't commitment worthy is rampant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 01:50 AM
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I mean sure maybe not always, but I've seen it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 01:38 AM
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The word you are looking for is "acquaintance".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 01:36 AM
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vagina powers are enough to get more attractive mates in other species but not humans You sure about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 01:21 AM
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K, still not buying your story. If you really felt threatened all the time, you wouldn't care about breaking the law to save your own life. Your whole act is laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 04:01 AM
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Lmao ok now I know you are full of it. There are only like two whole states that don't issue CCW permits at all. Even in states like California, it's only a few counties that are no issue in practice. If you lived in one of those places you would have said county, not state. Unless you live in Hawaii or New Jersey, but then you wouldn't have acted like saying what state you live in reveals too much about yourself. Unless of course you have no clue which states actually don't issue permits, like …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 03:50 AM
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Did you still get attention from students or in men in general? Did you wear makeup?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 03:10 AM
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What state is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 03:08 AM
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The "male gaze" seems a lot like a feminist version of the "evil eye" curse. Merely looking at a person, or in their direction sometimes, is oppression. To me it makes it seem like they think they are royalty or something. "Avert your eyes, peasants!"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 09:55 PM
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Do you have a concealed carry permit?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 09:50 PM
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I have good news, you can drastically reduce the amount of male attention you get by just getting typical male haircut, and dressing more like a man. You're welcome, ladies. 💁
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 09:45 PM
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Maybe the commenter said that because she's not that fat, but she doesn't carry it well. Also her bum is not so great.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 09:39 PM
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Askwomen isn't much different.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:01 PM
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Have you ever browsed the sub? Or any other female oriented sub like r/twox?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:48 PM
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To be fair, the typical r/askwomen users are definitely..."special."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:29 PM
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IIRC it was it was actually 80% of men on the site were rated like 2/5 stars or below by women. Men being rated "below average" hardly even makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 03:39 AM
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MRA is mens rights activist. I noticed that I didn't personally see anyone talking about the lack of male BC options, which lead me to realize that I've never had a man say to me "I wish I had more options for preventing pregnancy as a man", or anything along those lines. What do you think a man saying such things to you is going to accomplish? Complaining about things and expecting others to solve their problems for them is what women do. And even if a man was going to try that, women would be …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:27 AM
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Do you want me to list hundreds of thousands of women who are doing feminism correctly? I wanted you to name one or two. So I can have a better idea of you think feminism and equality is supposed to look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:16 PM
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why don't I ever hear men complain about the lack of male specific birth control options? Probably because you live in your own bubble where men's legitimate complaints about almost anything don't get a second of attention by anyone. If you ever hang around MRA type circles this gets brought up regularly. But really, any man that doesn't want kids always has the option of a vasectomy. They can freeze their sperm too if they think they might ever change their mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:13 PM
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I'll take your word for it, but there is obviously a stigma about it amongst a particularly significant group of people. I still can't wrap my head around why someone would willingly make themselves a target for these people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 09:50 AM
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Men ate trying to actively normalize this kind if disgusting behavior. In certain subcultures, it's working. And I intend to fight back. I don't get it, if you are so disgusted by these men, why do you care if they stay out of your dating pool? Why would you try to restrict their access to alternatives of traditional dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 09:46 AM
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How come you can't answer my question? Can you not think of any Feminists that advocate for treating men and women the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 09:40 AM
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I am extremely skeptical of that FDS post. What kind of John would willingly have their picture taken, half naked, with their face, being quoted saying things that sound like a caricature from the minds of people who want to hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 02:29 AM
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How many people do you think are using feminism the "right" way. Show me some examples
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 02:08 AM
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"Equality" is a vague enough term that this definition doesn't really say much. The poster you are responding to probably means treating people the same when he says equality. Feminists these days don't often advocate for that kind of equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 01:19 AM
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Oh, I didn't scroll far enough down to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 01:02 AM
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I'm just surprised the top comments aren't full of women screeching about how he would be wrong to leave her over that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 10:27 PM
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So you don't actually know
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 12:09 AM
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How do you know how he does with women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 11:54 PM
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So why are you mad, because he doesn't fit the narrative of only ugly guys talking about the stuff he does?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 11:04 PM
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It seems very feminine to whine about a woman touching your butt. What's wrong with femininity? You some kinda misogynist?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 10:56 PM
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They ended up with literally killers and rapists Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 07:42 AM
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Hi, a couple people here don't seem to believe that you only used foundation and no image editing. Can you comment on that and maybe tell them what foundation you used?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 09:10 AM
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You can see the usernames of the posters in the comment I pinged them in and look at their posting history. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/ocszu8/old_highlights_how_men_are_neglecting_their_skin/h403asa It doesn't look like they're just trying to sell makeup to me. Ask them what products they use though and maybe you can get similar results!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 08:29 AM
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They are people who posted those images to the MakeupAddiction sub, I'm pretty sure they didn't make any money from those posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 07:56 AM
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What reason would they have to lie? You are sounding real desperate now to convince me that makeup can't hide bad skin lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 07:45 AM
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I asked if they edited the images at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 07:38 AM
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They're from posts on the MakeupAddiction sub. Let's ask the posters if they used any image editing software u/Makeupformermaids u/Datgworl
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 07:34 AM
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I just pinged the users that posted them so we'll see.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 07:33 AM
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How makeup hides bad skin: https://i.redd.it/09tndltfro111.jpg https://i.redd.it/wqfbm2ynchs51.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 04:53 PM
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That's not why they say that. They say that about men who think minimal makeup is no makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 04:48 PM
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And this statement is partly because of what I said. That y'all belief the make-up guru's and that shit ain't real. What?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 02:53 PM
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Yes, that's one thing that makes skin look old, but that's not the only thing. Makeup hides bad skin, even if it's not good at hiding wrinkles. You were responding to a comment that said women look better because of makeup, not less wrinkled.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 02:51 PM
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Ok? Who says it does that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 12:14 PM
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The point is that women on reddit often like to comment that men usually don't know what women truly look like without makeup. If their skin is bad enough that even minimal makeup makes a difference, this suggests that maybe you are an outlier, and most women actually have flawed skin that they hide with makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 11:21 AM
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Because I see a lot of women on reddit post thing like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 11:05 AM
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If makeup doesn't make a significant difference, how come women on reddit constantly comment on how men don't realize what no makeup looks like on a woman and post things like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 10:54 AM
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So when you don't wear makeup, nobody comments that you look sick or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 10:46 AM
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That was a statement of what I would try to do lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 01:43 PM
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The strategy I use would depend entirely on the type of I guy I want and what my goals in the relationship are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 01:41 PM
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Try dating guys that are less hot and less shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 01:38 PM
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Well then maybe start encouraging sending dick pics more often and pipe up when you see other women complain about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 07:18 AM
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Cargo shorts/pants are for blue collar working class men, and some women think they deserve better than that (BTW, remember not to say anything negative about women's fashion, because they dress for themselves and don't care what men think, ever.)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 08:49 PM
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I buy most of my stuff online but some of my favorite brands are Bonobos, Spier and Mackay, Private White VC, and Outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 11:26 AM
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So often women wait to have sex so they can tell for sure what their level of interest is, it has zero to do with the man. What exactly do they wait for to determine a man's level of interest?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 04:43 PM
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Those are reasons why one wouldn't want sex. Withholding sex as a strategy to secure commitment is what I was talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 04:37 PM
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In my opinion, a woman who makes a conscious choice to withhold sex is not actually that interested in the guy, and has the goal of using him. Otherwise I don't see any good reason why a woman wouldn't just have sex simply when she wants to. Holding out for sex isn't going to somehow make her more desirable to a guy she's dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:24 PM
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A prostitute can take as many dicks a day as she chooses. She can take one a day and still make more than she would at almost any entry level job.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 03:45 PM
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I get what you're saying, and that's actually something that kept me away from seeking the services of a prostitute for a while. But once I became sure of how good looking I was by receiving enough confirmation from women through compliments and unsolicited offers of sex, I stopped worrying so much about how much prostitutes are enjoying it. For me, nine times out of ten, they are enthusiastic, or at the very least good at pretending. If they're not, I don't see them again, and they probably don…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 03:34 PM
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Why should I? I watch porn and I have no problems having sex with women I am attracted to. You are the one that desperately seeks to believe that porn is the cause of your relationship troubles, not me. If that's what you choose to believe, then go ahead. But so far you are doing a very poor job of convincing me in your delusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 08:31 PM
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The idea that men watching porn is somehow the fault of women is bullshit. Men get addicted to porn because.... porn is addictive. If a man would rather watch porn than be with you, that is probably the fault of YOU, not women in general. Not sure about the guy you were talking about, but I'm pretty sure most men have no issues with relationships even while occasionally watching porn. Even small amounts have negative effects. For some men, possibly. I doubt that's the case for all, or even most …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:50 PM
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What is any of that supposed to prove? Ok, I can concede that porn can be a detriment to some with addiction issues. I don't believe that most men have these problems with porn though. I dated an addict that I was completely devoted to, be didn't even kiss me in the end, porn completely destroyed his life. You were the last woman he ever kissed?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:27 PM
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With porn, we don't stand a chance of getting a successfull sexual relationship. Direct quote from you. I am not constructing a strawman, you are blaming porn on your lack of dating success.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:43 PM
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Marriage and kids being unappealing to men has a far greater impact on relationships than porn does IMO. Women who blame their dating struggles on porn are just admitting how terrible they are as a dating prospect if they truly think that pictures of women are outcompeting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:17 PM
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Y'know, if I were a woman struggling with finding a suitable partner, the LAST thing I would hope is the cause of that would be porn. You are basically saying that you are such a shit person that men would rather jerk off to pictures than even think about touching you. How is that not completely embarrassing? So that leads to me to think that even you don't actually believe that. If you genuinely cared about what might be keeping men interested in marriage, you might be at least a bit concerned …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:01 PM
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You know what happened to me as a kid before I ever even had access to porn? I watched my parents divorce and my mom try to alienate me from my father and keep primary custody of me so she can demand child support. Did that alone make me decide that I'll never be interested in marriage or kids? Of course not, the actions of one person wouldn't make me do that. I reached that decision after realizing how often my country supports the actions of women like my mother. If women can marry a man and b…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:35 PM
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Suuuuuure it was. You totally wrote several paragraphs of how men aren't living up to your expectations, for the the sole purpose of discussing what single women could do with their time. Ok honey.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:13 PM
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If you think porn is harmful to men, then by the same reasoning you should probably also think that romance stories and online dating is harmful for women. Do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:06 PM
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If you think women don't care about penis history, make a thread asking what they think of guys who have slept with prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 12:14 PM
1

Can you post all these stories you've written on salt dating on a blog or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 12:03 PM
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What "tactics" does FDS promote, period?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 05:04 PM
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Middle aged women come here to feel like their opinions on dating and relationships still matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 11:51 AM
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To me it just sounds like he's not interested in you anymore. If he was, and he just needs time to grieve, I think it would be best if you let him reach out to you first. I can't imagine how stalking him would benefit you at all in this situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 11:35 AM
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FDS has a male fan page Where
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 01:47 PM
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FDS isn't for gold diggers. It's not about extracting all you can from men and giving them nothing in return. I wasn't talking about FDS, I was addressing the words that you wrote in your own post. You are upset about people viewing relationships as "transactional", but have no problem with men buying you things in a relationship. Since a transaction is when two people exchange things, and you are not mentioning the things you would be giving in a relationship, I can only conclude that your prob…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 09:49 AM
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Hmm I do think a woman needs at least a decent set of one or the other to not have trouble dating. Unless she is slim with a pretty face.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 09:44 AM
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Yes, healthy relationships are a two way street where people give each other what they want. You seem to desire a man who's willing to give to you and not expect anything in return, and I don't think you'll have much luck finding that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 09:28 AM
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Since i think it's safe to assume most of the men here aren't seeking marriage and would prefer casual NSA sex Marriage and casual sex aren't the only choices. The reason some men are averse to marriage isn't because they don't care for more serious relationships, it's because the legal status of marriage only entails risks with no significant benefits. They aren't asking why they should marry you, they're asking why they should marry anyone. So your counter question hardly makes sense since it …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 09:16 AM
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I honestly don't think shitty misandrist women are even afraid of men because they're stronger, that's just an excuse they use for their behavior whenever it's convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 10:28 PM
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Ok I just looked at your profile and you aren't ugly at all. Have you tried any dating sites? Focus on the men who pursue you. Your problem was almost definitely that you were going after very good looking men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 07:57 PM
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Well he sounds like he has a big ego and doesn't have trouble getting attention from women. When you pursue men, there is usually going to be a tradeoff between how attractive they are and how much work you have to put in to keep their interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 07:45 PM
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If you do all that, I don't see how you can seriously believe you'd have trouble finding a guy that doesn't think he's better looking than you. What kind of guys do you go for?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 07:35 PM
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Genetics shmenetics, you're just making excuses. Any girl that puts effort into their appearance can be attractive, genetics only dictates how much effort you will need. Fitness, hair, makeup and clothes is most of what makes women look good. Surgery isn't as expensive as you might think either, if you need some. Doesn’t personality count for anything It does, but your outward appearance is a part of a reflection of that. Being frumpy means you are lazy and/or aren't interested in pleasing men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 07:32 PM
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Well all men probably think they are more attractive then me lol. Doubt it. Find you a man that doesn't. Or work on yourself to become less ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 07:18 PM
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That's what happens when you only talk to men who (think they) are more attractive than you and aren't really looking for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 07:13 PM
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It's not the physical act itself that makes people lose their shit over it, it's the results. Paternal uncertainty was a huge deal. It's like if a woman cheated on you and tricked you into raising someone else's kids, and she's like, "it was just a little fib."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 06:39 AM
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Women will be all for it until people start bringing up how lying about being on the pill should fall under this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 06:20 AM
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You're thinking of rape as just unwanted touching of genitals, but it's a big deal for women specifically because of potential pregnancy, especially before we had DNA testing and relatively safe abortions. If someone raped your wife and she ended up pregnant, it would be much more difficult to tell if the child is yours. Of course you don't give nearly as much of a shit about being raped as a man, because the worst that can happen is you get some STDs. One could argue that it shouldn't be seen a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 06:03 AM
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You quoted the word unrealistic, suggesting you believe it is realistic or at the least that is isn't unrealistic. I quoted the word unrealistic because that's the word women who criticize porn often use. "Realistic" or "unrealistic" are not words that I would use to describe porn at all, because they hardly even make sense to me in that context. The word "unrealistic" just seems like a lazy euphemism for whatever the speaker doesn't like but isn't able or willing to fully articulate why. Some w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 01:09 AM
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Like, it's scripted, takes are put together and it's not about the actors having pleasure but what looks good on camera. Do you think that the only kind of porn that exists comes from high budget, well known studios that feature outlandish scenarios and sex acts? Ok, but even if we pretend for a second that was the only kind of porn that exists, it would at least give men an idea of that women are at least capable of feigning enthusiasm during sex. I did not mean to imply that women are willing …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 12:34 AM
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I mean the megathread you were talking about. I'm familiar with the meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 11:37 PM
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I have male friends who talk about their friends bahaviour and I can look at male spaces online and see the narratives men have towards paying for sex. That is not nearly enough evidence to ascertain that most men in your country have never paid for sex. I understand if you've seen some men online say they'd never pay for sex, but I don't believe that is the majority of men. Most men who have, or would, have almost no reason to ever come out and say it, and even have reason to not admit to such …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 11:33 PM
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Which women? The women who are vehemently against legalized prostitution. Because most men have not paid for sex And you know this how...? I can't imagine why a man would ever admit to any woman in real life that he has paid for sex. I see the complaints people make on here and I see the same complaints in the UK. The only difference is that women are a bit more feminist here and are more likely to go Dutch ect. So you don't actually know how dating is different in the US and the UK and are just…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 11:20 PM
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Really? It's been legal in the UK since the late 1800s and it still hasn't impacted women's dating experience. Whether it actually would or not isn't really the point, many women believe it will. The majority of men do not want to pay for sex. What makes you sure of this? There's quite a few developed countries that perfectly exemplify the impact legal prostitution has on the dating market - and it is barely different than the dating market in the US. So you have a lot of experience dating in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 11:04 PM
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If some men watch porn instead of talking to women, for whatever reason, I don't believe that is a problem for them at all. Men having more options for sexual outlets is only a problem for those who want to exploit men by limiting their options.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 11:00 PM
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do you have a link to that one?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 10:56 PM
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And you think porn is the main cause of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 10:49 PM
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Ok. If that's what some men want to do, why is that a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 10:43 PM
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30 years ago this was unheard of and only super weirdos were virgins past college. Uhh, aren't you 21? How would you know? Anecdotes from your parents?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 10:38 PM
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The problem is they get exposed to porn at such an early age that they choose not so socialize with the opposite gender in their early teen years before the girls even have a chance to reject them. What the hell are you even basing this wild assertion on? If a guy watches porn instead of talking to girls, it's probably because he's already been rejected many times and has given up, or had no interest in talking to girls in the first place. Porn does not keep men from trying to talk to girls if t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 10:36 PM
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Some women don't like porn and prostitutes simply because it gives men more options, and lets men know what women can look like and do when they're actually trying to please men. Most of their arguments are focused on how they believe it gives men "unrealistic" expectations. So what they are really trying to say is that everything that women want out of their interactions with men is what should happen, and would therefore be "realistic". So it's about how it makes it a bit harder for women to f…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 10:29 PM
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paying (or offering to pay) is a sign from a guy that he wants to make a good impression on you, and that that counts for something It's also a sign that he probably can't reliably get dates otherwise. I understand that may be the type of man some women are looking for though. How do the women you date typically react to going Dutch? When in the date does it come up? I am not autistic enough to demand to know a woman's stance on going Dutch before a date. I won't hesitate to pay for things, espe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 01:58 AM
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If I have to buy a woman's time, I'm getting exactly what I want, i.e. a hooker. If she expects me to pay, that shows she probably isn't as interested in me as I am in her. It's not too difficult for me to find women who aren't broke, so why should I date one? Sure, if I was only interested in dating very young and pretty girls, I would probably have to always pay. But those aren't the only things I'm looking for in a woman. If a woman is only willing to date guys that buy her stuff, she probabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 12:31 AM
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Straight men who are bothered by gay men hitting on them are probably homophobes because I am a straight man and I don't really mind. So women who complain endlessly about men hitting on them are clearly man haters.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 10:05 PM
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To be honest, no. I can understand recognizing certain patterns of behavior from incels, but to call any of that an "ideology" just seems inappropriate to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 04:24 PM
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Incels are people that can't get laid. I get that they can be annoying, but they don't actually have a cohesive set of beliefs or philosophies, because that's not even what the term is describing at all. If you want to go around calling people incels because you can't defend your ideas, I don't really care. I'm just saying your claimed reason for doing so makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 03:15 PM
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I wasn't aware that involuntary celibacy is an ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 05:22 AM
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OP, how old are you, what is your BMI, and what does your social circle look like? Also, do you like to use the term 'toxic masculinity'?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 01:06 AM
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I thought “immaterial and irrelevant” was a nice turn of phrase. I also thought it was clear that I was using it in relation to gender having nothing to do with personhood Ok that's nice, dear, but "personhood" isn't the topic of discussion on this forum, the focus is on human sexual relationships. What men and women are attracted to is different, and it's important to note those differences to better understand them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 09:44 PM
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If you called out these simps/white knights, would you then yourself become a simp too? If I wanted to somehow try and make "putting down other men" a part of the definition of those terms, then maybe. But I'm not arguing that's how those terms are defined. Its a combo of different things that makes up a pick-me woman, putting down women for male validation is just one aspect of this. If putting down members of the same sex in an attempt to be more attractive to opposite sex is a defining charac…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 09:34 PM
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puts down other women So, women who use the label 'pick-me' could also have the term applied to them? Or does that somehow not count.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 04:03 AM
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You can’t “freely agree” when money is involved. So everyone that works any kind of job is a slave? Your opinion here seems to be very poorly thought out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 03:51 AM
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For most women who specifically want a LTR, it’s expected that some commitment would be necessary, And what is that supposed to look like? because sex for a woman is a lot riskier than for a man. Nowadays? I disagree. Women have options that men don't. I don’t see how that’s dumping on a guy. Because you don't seem to care at all about what risks you are making men take.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 05:58 PM
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If you think that is some sort of counterpoint to anything I have said, you are misunderstanding me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 05:50 PM
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I never suggested anything of the sort. I date women because I enjoy their company, and would hope that's the reason they're dating me too. If that's not at least the main reason they're dating me, I'm not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 05:38 PM
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I don't see the relevance to my previous comment
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 05:21 PM
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No?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 05:15 PM
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Because then the woman is assured that you don’t see her as just a potential sex partner. Ok, but what's in it for the guy? You don't seem to realize that a man would be risking any of the above happening if he was ok with waiting for sex until commitment. All you seem to care about is lessening risk for yourself without caring how much you dump on a guy. You'd have to find a guy with very little self respect for anyone to be ok with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 05:10 PM
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If a woman thinks of relationships as work, where she's just looking to get as much in return for her time as she can, I am also not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 04:59 PM
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The only women who are "alone" are the ones with standards higher than they deserve. Do you think that those stable women would be interested in the men those other women are dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 07:40 PM
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I am curious what dress codes and grooming standards you think are more restrictive for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 07:31 PM
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OLD only really works for men in the top 10% of looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 07:05 PM
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So does that include you, OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 07:00 PM
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it's a long-standing hypocritical belief that a lot of young men still have: That men should be held to different standards then women just because they are men. Can you post an example of a man you think is saying that? Because I can guarantee that is not actually what they are trying to say. Whenever I see men say anything close to what you're claiming they say, they are sharing their observations, not their opinions of how they think people should behave. If you are mad about people thinking …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 05:34 AM
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You just said in your other comment that it's only "forced breeding" if the woman doesn't have the power to say no. Rape being illegal still means she does have that power.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 06:09 AM
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Well raping women isn't legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 05:56 AM
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The women who didn't have power to say no were, sure. So women who had consensual sex, but not access to abortion, were not force bred? Is that what you're saying now? By your logic, every man who ejaculates inside a vagina is a victim of forced breeding. If men don't want uteruses to do what they do when they encounter sperm...they better keep all their sperm away from uterusus. I'm using your reasoning. Because you seem to have been saying that having sex, and letting nature take its course, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 05:47 AM
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Women can rape men and it is virtually guaranteed they'll face no legal consequences. Women can then give birth to that man's child and legally extract money from him. If women not being able to get abortions is forced breeding, then so is what I just described. force them to go through the horror of carrying a pregnancy to term and giving birth? So was every woman that gave birth before modern abortions "force bred" too?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 02:00 AM
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If that is considered forced breeding, then women have been able to force breed men for a long time. Especially since it is effectively legal for women to rape men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 12:55 AM
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Yes, I too wish it was as easy as asking for permission, unfortunately a lot of women don't respond well to that. While men like the one the other commenter was talking about should be better at reading body language, you would still also need to convince a lot of women that asking for permission is sexy in order to achieve your ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 09:34 PM
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Believe it or not, asking for permission is not sexy, and those guys probably had way better luck than you would think by doing things like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 09:04 PM
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One doesn't have to actively discriminate to avoid working with women, all a guy has to do is work a job that most women consider too difficult or beneath them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 11:02 AM
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This isn’t true. The women I’ve seen who approach really hot men are usually very below their league because men like this are rare. Either you’re not in this category or you’re just not observant. Not in what category? Of men that women approach? I never claimed to be "really hot", just that I have no trouble attracting women, which is what your other comment was talking about. Also just because you have seen some women approach men "out of their league", doesn't mean that's the only time a wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 01:00 AM
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Men who have no trouble attracting women - basically the kinds of men women want - tend to not view female initiative very well because they’re so used to being targeted by women, especially those not in their league. This sounds entirely pulled out of your ass. I have no problem attracting women, and women who take some initiative are the only ones that are even on my radar. Women who expect the man to always approach and do all the work are entitled and lazy. Also, pretty much no woman who has…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 08:06 AM
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I was answering your question of what women can do to help the situation of men not wanting to be teachers, I did not mean to suggest that gender parity in teaching positions would suddenly happen if everyone stopped accusing men around kids of being pedophiles. Your response however seems to imply that you don't think women should even bother to stop with the reckless allegations.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 05:47 PM
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So, seperate but "equal", huh? That sounds familiar.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 03:35 PM
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segregation is fine as long as it benefits women, idgaf if it happens to be detrimental to boys
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 06:34 AM
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Tell me, what can women do about men not wanting to be teachers? Not recklessly throw around allegations of sexual misconduct.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 06:22 AM
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I find it hilarious that you chose to reply to that comment instead of calling out the OP for denying that women were so oppressed and saying that most of history was matriarchal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 12:40 AM
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Women aren't always breeding with the smartest and most capable anymore, Any guy that thinks with his brain and not his penis realizes that marriage and kids is a bad deal for men nowadays. Family courts and divorce courts are stacked against men and that information is widely available now. What is the percentage of single mothers again? A ton of women can only have kids by fucking low inhibiton men that aren't the brightest. I don't particularly want kids, but could conceivably be convinced to…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 11:16 PM
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"Women are inferior and subservient to men with little or no control, but our society (built and controlled by men) is gynocentric and constantly bending the knee in favor of women and men are the victims" Men instinctively coddle women, kind of like people do with cute pets, and often give them prefertial treatment over men. This is frequently even * a result* of them being seen as inferior and helpless.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 05:28 AM
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you don’t see many of them going around bitching about how they’ve been wronged by not getting what they wanted You've never heard of a woman complaining about being pumped and dumped?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 05:12 AM
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Find me a guy that sincerely believes women never lie, and I guarantee he has problems way beyond being too nice to women lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 10:06 PM
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r/whereareallthegoodmen
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 11:43 PM
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In my experience, less attractive women are way less likely to cold approach, because they don't have the confidence. The act alone of a woman cold approaching does nothing to lower her "value" to men, it just shows how interested she is in the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 08:16 AM
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You mean, "I, as a woman, do not like when other women lower the price of female attention by giving it out for free." What you said was one of the most pathetic attempts at speaking on behalf of men that I've ever seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 08:10 AM
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I'm not upset, but I am a little worried that he wants to take our guns and seems to have cheated his way into office. That is like some dictator level shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 05:45 AM
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Because it didn't seem like a genuine attempt to accurately describe what men are attracted to, only a negative characterization to contrast with how attraction for women works.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 04:10 AM
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Did you reply to the wrong post?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 02:22 AM
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So do you think that women who approach directly are rare and male brained?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 02:08 AM
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"Women, can you explain how you think attraction works for you?" "Sure, but first let me femsplain how terrible I think men are"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 02:05 AM
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So you don't actually know any men who beat their girlfrinds for cheating but you do know they do it "often" 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 01:01 AM
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So where are you seeing all these men beating their cheating partners, if it's not from personal experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 12:52 AM
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You've cheated on 100 men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 12:43 AM
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You date some extremely violent dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 12:36 AM
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Most guys aren't rich, and most women aren't interested in casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 12:09 AM
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its so mentally ill to believe men dont care about sexual cheating if there's no chance of or desire for kids. this isn't how men work I think they can get over it, especially if they don't have many options. There is always of course going to be a negative reaction initially, I'm arguing that it's an instinctive revulsion ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 11:21 PM
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Asking women how to get casual sex is like asking men how to marry a rich guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 11:17 PM
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https://www.britannica.com/science/Hamiltons-rule
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 04:11 AM
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I had my tubes tied when I was 25. Because we are humans and not animals and are able to use logic to control our impulsive thoughts would it be logical to conclude it would be ok with men if I cheated? If you find a man that knows you've had the procedure, and doesn't want kids, I do believe he would be much more likely to be accepting of you having the occasional fling with other men once he gets past his initial revulsion. Personal question. Do you find one reason that's primitive for others …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 04:01 AM
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How exactly do you expect me to show you evidence of such things
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 03:39 AM
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https://i.redd.it/uwm6fkw5jw021.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 03:30 AM
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For the most part. Men may come up with other rationalizations, but that's the reason that all the negative emotions stem from, whether they know it or not. If you ask a child why they are afraid of spiders, do you think you'll get a good explanation? Our hind brains are responsible for many of our actions and emotions, even when we think we can come up with fancy post hoc reasons for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 03:21 AM
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Wrong. Men instinctively hate cheating because it causes paternal uncertainty.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 03:06 AM
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Any site that doesn't let women filter by height and income will probably do a lot worse than those that do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 11:34 PM
1

And what does age have to do with abusive relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 09:59 AM
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Most guys don't have many options so they'll take anything that comes their way. Guys that have an abundance of choice can afford to be picky and of course take personality into account for who they'll date/fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 11:13 PM
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We also lived in mud huts throughout all of human history, would you date a guy that lives in one?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 02:45 AM
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Financial abortions are about men not consenting to paying child support. That has absolutely nothing to do with "biology". Up until very recently, men could cum into whoever they wanted and there was no natural magical force that made them stick around to take care of their progeny, let alone know which kids were even theirs. THAT is biology. The government taking money from men is not biology. You must be trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 07:16 AM
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I just read a thread in askreddit yesterday where people were talking about sheltered people they knew, and a bunch of them brought up how they knew women in college that attended solely to find a bread winning husband. They called it "getting an MRS degree". So it's a situation that is clearly common enough to have its own term. The only thing you can really dispute is how common it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 10:29 PM
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A woman who does what men like to get what she wants from them, as opposed to being a demanding cunt that offers nothing to men in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 05:30 AM
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Because libcucks are actually totally fine with extrajudicial killings, but only so long as they approve of the targets. Remember they are the ones who think only cops should have guns.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 04:31 PM
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You're proving my point. The fact that you are even uncertain of their existence shows how infrequently they post threads giving actual advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 11:26 PM
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FDS does not talk about self improvement because it's not actually a forum to discuss "strategy", it's just a place where women post edgy things vaguely related to dating, as a response to TRP, as if to say "us women can be cold and callous too!" Which is fine, but don't pretend it's a sub where people often post legitimate advice for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 10:44 PM
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Hasson was found to visit mgtow very regularly This guy? Where did you get that info? Alek Minassian did actually call himself an incel, but his involvement in their culture seems to have been from 4chan, which a quote from him indicates. Elliot Rodgers I was already familiar with and a couple references to popular internet terms doesn't seem like strong evidence that he had any involvement in incel specific forums. So your claims so far that reddit banned some subreddits because of the actions …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 11:26 PM
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Where is the evidence of direct association with incel forums?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 09:38 PM
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people associated with it actually went out and committed fucking murder. Like who?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 08:47 PM
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Happy? No, because you didn't say what makes you so certain. Since you didn't answer my question, I guess I'll have to answer it for myself, by doing the same thing you like to do to men you don't know know anything about. You have a need to constructive a narrative where men who hit on women are assholes, because otherwise complaining about men that dare show interest in women might make you look like the asshole. Painting yourself and other women as perpetual victims is how you get your power …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 06:43 PM
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How are you so certain you know the true intentions of someone asking your friend for her number? Do you really think that because he did it from a car, he couldn't have possibly been genuine? I don't understand how people like you can make these wild assumptions about people you have never even talked to and have a totally different perspective from. It's like if I, as a man, claimed that women who get abortions only do it because they get off on killing small things. It's ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 06:06 PM
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Which murderers are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 12:07 AM
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That's one estimate...a DoJ report claims 50%, which seems much more believable. I don't think I've ever encountered a provider that was pimp controlled.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 11:44 PM
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And how has that impacted their revenue?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 11:34 PM
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Go to the r/rateme sub. Just did. The male posters get almost no attention, how the hell do you seriously think that sub is supposed to prove your point? For example look at this guy. Very fit and well put together, only one comment and doesn't even have a rating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 02:34 AM
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Most hookers enjoy what they do to some extent, otherwise they wouldn't do it. The ones that don't, don't last very long because they get bad reviews and no repeat clients. Try actually talking to someone in the sex industry some time instead of making wild assumptions about what it's like. Also, you think they only charge $100? Lol Anyway, I'm tall, fit and good looking. When I go out to a bar, I don't have to approach women, they come to me. I pay prostitutes for the convenience, not because I…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 05:50 AM
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Ok how about you actually read those studies, before having the audacity to tell me to, when it's clear that you haven't. You just seemed to have skimmed that entire section and laser focused looking for just the part where it says whether men or women showed more in group bias. The first one (the one I linked you to as well) is the one that is most relevant to the conversation in this thread. It talks about how both men and women have more favorable views of women, and women even 4 times more s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 11:44 PM
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I did, are you expecting me to explain to you how the rest isn't relevant to this conversation? Did you just see that there are different studies so in your head you decided that's enough to support your preconceived biases?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 10:01 PM
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I literally just read back to you what it says. Next time try to read what you link or at the least the entirety of the comment you are replying to before you make a fool of yourself yet again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 09:50 PM
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Which ones? The section for gender differences references the study I just linked you... The only other reference in that section just says men contribute more to a group in the face of outside competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 09:29 PM
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https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/15491274/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 06:21 PM
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Do u realize that the State is paying for the kids and not for the woman, right? Which is why the state makes sure all of the money is used on the kids? Oh wait If the woman was the one that fled and the man will stay with the kids, he will get the money, not her. Hypothetically, yes. In practice, not so much. Can you show me just one case of a woman being ordered to pay child support and anyone actually enforcing it? This conversation is pointless. You are trying to argue that women get treated…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 08:16 PM
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If society hated women as much as you think it does, child support would not exist at all. The fact that women get government aid when they don't properly care for their kids, and men get thrown in jail for failing to pay to the mother whatever courts decided they should, shows you are delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 06:53 PM
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Men's natural advantage over women is their physical prowess, women's advantage is social. People find it much easier to sympathize with women because that's just human instinct. Like how puppies are cute and spiders are icky. Trying to convince people to treat men more "fairly" or "equal" is like trying to convince a child that broccoli isn't gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 01:58 PM
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Maybe when you're sharing your preferences you should be sure that you were asked and that your audience actually cares. You seem to be admitting that you are so socially unaware that you're like an autist that randomly starts rambling about their love of trains.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 08:05 AM
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Do you also believe good looking people generally don't have easier lives? If you have something that others want, you're going to get treated better and have more things offered to you. Girls don't have to have sex with anyone to take advantage of guys that want that from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 11:07 PM
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While I can agree that women are seen as less threatening, I don't believe that's the reason reddit gives them preferential treatment. I think the reason is simply that the admins are left leaning and censor things they disagree with even if it has nothing to do with gender, like r/the_donald and r/fatpeoplehate. This is the case for every other privilege women have in society. They don’t have them because they’re viewed higher but because, as natural underdogs, they need to be heightened. It’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 09:18 AM
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I don't have sex with women that know my full name.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 09:36 AM
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This is kind of like asking someone if they feel bad for a bug they're about to smush. Even if for some crazy reason they tried to be sympathetic to the plight of the average man, it would be pointless and exhausting. In fact, plenty of women consider it their duty to ensure unfit men cannot reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 03:20 AM
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Ok now make a profile with the other guy's picture or at least one that you think would do much better, and compare the outcome, so that we know it's not just your area, swiping pattern, and conversation skills that are giving you these results.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 08:57 AM
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This is what women like to tell themselves to make themselves feel less shallow and more virtuous than men. Ask any good looking dude how many girls have thrown themselves at him the second they met him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 07:50 PM
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have an actual confirmed kill count Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 09:01 AM
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A woman can't speak for all other women. If you want solid insight into women's sexual preferences, ask an attractive man. Does anyone here seriously believe that women never approach men they are attracted to just based on their looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 10:04 AM
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Do you even make enough money to afford to have a wife stay home and even raise kids at home? Yes, but I don't want kids, and I don't think a woman should be entitled to half my shit if she decides to leave me just because she fucks me and maybe cooks and cleans for me a little. Would I like to have a girlfriend who takes care of housework while I take care of finances? Sure. But I don't think any guy with his head screwed on straight would think it's worth it to get married to have that. curren…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 05:14 AM
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When I think of a serious relationship with a woman, I just imagine there are going to be a lot of obligations that I don't want. First of which would be giving up sex with other people, which most men instinctively want while women generally don't. If a woman doesn't give men the impression that she's going to demand a lot of things, she would probably have more guys interested in spending more time with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 09:46 AM
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45 in a year? Do you thing that's supposed to be impressive? You are not good looking enough and/or your standards are to high. The women you matched with only swiped right on you because you met their bare minimum attractiveness threshold.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 12:32 AM
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Humans, however, lived in more egalitarian societies for most of history Wut
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 11:53 AM
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I suddenly understand why some women have such a negative view of men if they are only willing to date men pathetic enough to pay for them lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 03:49 AM
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He asked how she would mitigate RISK, he didn't tell her to suppress her fears. In other words, how she would act to reduce chances of danger. Try reading the words that are actually there instead of what you want to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 03:30 AM
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Meritocracy is usually brought up in discussions about employers and universities discriminating in favor of women. She's bringing it because it's obvious she thinks anyone that says anything she disagrees with is the same person.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 04:52 AM
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are women the ones wanting access to men's bodies? They don't have to ask or demand since women raping men is effectively legal and not punished. Oh and also there's child support which most women consider a right they deserve. So the answer to your question is yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 04:40 AM
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FGM is literal castration It's not. The WHO defines different types, which they all still classify as FGM, including Type 1, which is partial or total removal of the clitoris, or type 4, which is "all other harmful procedures to the female genitalia for non-medical purposes, including pricking, piercing, incising, scraping and cauterization". So even a literal pin prick would be considered "female genital mutilation" by the WHO. This coming from the same organization that endorses cutting baby d…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 07:53 AM
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You didn't say how you would feel about claims regarding the supposed health benefits, you only mentioned reacting to statements about how it's normal in some countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 04:44 AM
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Ok so you are being obtuse, thanks for making that clear. Putting aside that I see the claims of the health benefits of MGM to be extremely dubious, advocating removal of the foreskin in an effort to prevent STDs is barbaric compared to literally any of the alternatives, like promoting the use of condoms. There is especially no reason for it be such a common practice in developed nations like America, where the cost effectiveness of STD prevention measures and sex education isn't as much of a co…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 04:35 AM
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https://www.who.int/hiv/mediacentre/news68/en/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 04:11 AM
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They argue that there are health benefits and that it's better to do it at a younger age under the findings and conclusions sections. Can't tell if you're being intentionally obtuse, but everything about it to me reads as a tacit endorsement of the practice, especially compared to their literature on FGM.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 04:03 AM
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https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.who.int/hiv/pub/malecircumcision/neonatal_child_MC_UNAIDS.pdf&ved=2ahUKEwj7hqW13ejlAhXCvZ4KHXP5AqgQFjABegQIBRAB&usg=AOvVaw0q5gKSSEU30MT7huoqlnLb&cshid=1573701148224 Literally the second Google result for me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 03:42 AM
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The WHO also says cutting up baby dicks is A-OK
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 01:52 AM
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Just marry a woman who...keeps working after you have kids. How would you make sure she'll do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/19 12:09 AM
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One could have kids after retiring early. They wouldn't be that expensive if you never had to hire someone to watch them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 10:18 PM
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Since when do you need to get married to have kids lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 09:52 PM
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Why do you think this incredibly misleading statistic so often touted? Is this misleading stat being used to brush the issue to the side as a non-issue? Um, yes? How is this not obvious? False rape accusations are a tool used as a power grab, because they are only really effective against men. So of course certain people want to lower standards of evidence for rape accusations to an unreasonable degree, and downplay false accusations as much as they can while encouraging everyone to believe all …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 06:07 AM
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Red Pill - A community discussing strategies about how to get laid and in general how to be successful with women. The name is due to their belief that a lot of the conclusions they come to runs counter to most mainstream dating advice for men. A lot of people have a bunch of opinions on what else the red pill is, but how I just described it is at its core the main purpose of the subreddit. You are free to think that many of their ideas are wrong and silly, but it is straight up incorrect to say…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 05:54 AM
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Even if we take every word in that article to be true, it still doesn't even attempt to account for rape accusations that were not made to the police, but instead to employers or universities. Getting fired or kicked out of school ruins lives too, and it's much easier to unjustly punish someone that way since standards of evidence for accomplishing those things aren't as high.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 06:01 AM
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I didn't say that women are too stupid to ask...I said they are unlikely to care about the potential father's opinion on wanting a kids. If you think that makes a woman stupid, then there are A LOT of stupid women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 05:53 PM
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You know what would be super effective in finding a good father? Simply asking a guy if he wants kids. Why do I think single moms generally don't do that? Well, judging by the way so many women react with virulence to the idea of legal paternal surrender, it seems like most women don't give a fuck about a man's consent to being a father.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 08:00 AM
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And men are more likely to cheat though. According to...?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 01:42 AM
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Wtf are you talking about, you have to dock the bottle opening by enveloping your foreskin around it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 05:43 AM
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Some weirdos would probably pay for that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 05:41 AM
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Sure, I've never played one but I've kinda always wanted to
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 05:40 AM
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You know there are normal looking solid colored ones in like navy and green that don't look like a col. Sanders cosplay.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 03:52 AM
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Replied to wrong post?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 03:41 AM
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Where do you buy your boots from? You can probably find some much better ones in a retail store if you look around in some that are actually catered to workwear. Florsheim isn't even known for their work boots, they did use to make nice dress shoes until they lowered their quality. If you think the boots you have now are nice, wait til you try some real work boots. Again I'd strongly recommend Thorogoods in that price range. You can order them off Amazon and return/exchange if they don't fit. Re…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 01:56 AM
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There are no high quality boots with that many buckles and that high of a wedge sole. That's just what stupid poser goths think looks "rugged" because they have never seen a real work boot in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 11:36 PM
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Which exact boots do you think they are attempting to replicate
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 11:29 PM
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Sure, but those boots do not look like an example of that. They look cheaply constructed for fast fashion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 11:00 PM
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What boots are you buying? For that price you buy like some Thorogoods and have them resoled instead of replacing them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 10:58 PM
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I thought wool was a very durable fabric on its own. It's not. I think it's more so than cotton but that's about it. Is 100% wool more comfortable than 80%? Depends on how fine the wool is, but I'd say it never would be because you'd want some type of elastic to keep it conformed to your foot and prevent it from sagging down your leg. Wool has some natural stretch but not a lot. I'd only really want 100% wool socks if I'm looking for maximum odor resistance. Like if I'm going camping and wearing…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 10:53 PM
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You don't want 100% wool socks, you want at least 20% nylon for durability (unless you're only gonna wear them at home I guess). My favorite wool sock brand is probably Farm to Feet. Darn Tough and Icebreaker are good too. Ask me if you want about any specific sock recommendations.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:23 AM
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Do you say this to women who want abortions?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 10:59 PM
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Not even close, you are blind
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 10:57 PM
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Why did you make a separate thread directed at everyone to ask a question you have for one specific poster?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 09:44 PM
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You forgot to log back into your main. Now we know who you are!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 07:34 AM
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One time a girl on tinder asked me if I've been to college and unmatched me right after I said no. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 07:28 AM
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These are all good, and I commend your effort. You're the only one that made a serious attempt to answer the question. Every other poster here just seems to be confirming the types of claims OP is referring to by refusing to share their opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 12:30 AM
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So what if I am a faggot. It's hard to say no to sluts. Why should I say no to sluts? If you want a man's attention, try being a slut for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 09:13 AM
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Who is saying you should? You see some men whining about being sexless because they see women complaining about every little inconvenience in their life and getting sympathy and attention for it, and those men foolishly think that it's because people genuinely care about equality and fairness for all humans. So they think maybe someone will listen, though obviously they don't end up thinking that for long when they see how others actually end up reacting. What will be the outcome if nobody conti…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 08:16 AM
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Dang I was going down the list and thinking none of these apply to me at all, but you really got me on the last one. Faggot confirmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 02:37 AM
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I'm saying we need to bolster our declining birth rate. We are suffering from overpopulation. wut I'm saying that if we close the gates to other cultures then we lose in all kinds of ways Ok, I'm not personally saying we should. I'm just focused on your point of immigration being the solution to our declining birth rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 10:42 PM
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Women of all ethnicities and social classes love drug dealers. They are not all black people living in the ghetto.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 10:39 PM
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What do you think would happen in the future if the west shut out immigrants from India and Muslim countries while we continue to have less and less children? Why should our first solution to declining birth rates in the US be importing people from elsewhere? A lot of people would rather find ways to encourage the healthy and educated people here already to have more children.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 10:30 PM
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You need to define exactly what qualifies something as a hate group first. If you just describe a few things you don't like about one group, and use that to call it a "hate group", and don't explain why the term is useful, you're just name calling basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 08:19 PM
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It's literally just about water, and jokes about preferring it over other drinks. Hydrohomies is like the replacement sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 10:16 PM
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That guy sounds dumb. I would definitely ask questions and make sure I wouldn't be considered an accomplice in whatever she did. Don't care if she goes to jail, I'd call the cops.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 07:50 AM
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I think he's taking about waterniggas being quarantined
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 11:56 AM
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Concede what?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 02:38 AM
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You aren't getting my point. Of course you have eyes and go out and can observe things, and I am not calling you a liar. My point was that you don't know if your community and the experiences within it are really "average", when we're talking about the whole country though. Even your boy Donald Do you have me confused with someone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 02:26 AM
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I'm not sure you know exactly what self reported data is... But anyway I'm not one of those people that thinks those OkCupid studies prove much of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 02:22 AM
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I'm sure even you know that self report data is completely useless. But of course since it confirms your biases this time, it's good.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 01:36 AM
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How would you know what average is? What does your social circle look like, and what leads you believe that the men that you personally know are "average"? You are married with kids, so you probably hang out with a bunch of other people who are married with kids...so it seems like you would conclude that this is average, since it's all that you're familiar with. I actually don't think the majority of men would have too many problems finding a partner though...as long as they were willing to make…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 01:33 AM
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Yeah, what a misleading headline. The author seems to want readers to think he has a license to rape. But basically this is only news because the UK is so authoritarian and feminists are outraged that an autistic man is allowed to interact with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 09:25 PM
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Maybe they'd become productive members of society and be more desirable as a partner if they knew they couldn't fall back on welfare or baby trapping a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 11:40 PM
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The "consequences" for men having unprotected sex are entirely socially constructed. Women should need consent from a man to have children if she wants to guarantee his support.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 11:37 PM
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You're overestimating the importance of TRP. The sub was never important for any sort of social change. If you really thought that then you would have no strong opinion regarding it being removed from Reddit. Yet you say it's "great."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 05:10 AM
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They "should" ban almost every political and gender related sub if they want to be consistent with their vague ass rules they're trying to enforce. But that's obviously not the point. I'm just wondering if it's likely that this sub would get banned too. Personally I don't think it will. It's too small for them to care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 04:45 AM
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One example is good enough, I just haven't personally seen many people argue for traditionalism. Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 02:38 AM
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Are you kidding? I was asking YOU first who exactly you thought wanted traditionalism and you responded with the most vague comment imaginable, now you're trying to turn it around on me to avoid explaining yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 02:02 AM
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Karen is Canadian, wtf are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 01:15 AM
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What feminists are trying to pass off as equality these days
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 01:01 AM
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Are you saying you think anyone who disagrees with certain people's idea of equality must want traditionalism?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 12:46 AM
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Who do you think wants traditionalism, and how are they asking for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 07:56 PM
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I've also seen things written in ads like "no AA" (African American) and even "no piggies"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 06:48 AM
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What do you think you're accomplishing by telling me what I like from women as a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 05:51 AM
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read this guy Why? This guy seems like he gets paid to say what feminists want to hear. If you want a guy like that to be your primary source of information on how men think, well, go ahead, I can't stop you. But he clearly has an agenda, and I have no reason take him seriously when his bias is so obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 05:31 AM
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I could tell those things about you so easily because of how wrong your last comment was. I don't know where you get your info on men, but it's bad. It's as bad as if a guy only got his info on women from the red pill sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 05:02 AM
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Which ones? Because on reddit, every time I see this conversation, most people say something along the lines of, "yeah, legalizing prostitution might seem like a good thing, but that just gives more incentive for sex trafficking!"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 04:58 AM
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Where does that say anything about feminists? Most people who I see that oppose legalizing sex work always bring up sex trafficking as their primary concern. I mean, yeah, I'm sure they don't want to restrict women from having the choice to pursue that line of work, but I'm not convinced that if they all had their way, they wouldn't just want the US to go with the Scandinavian model of only seeking to punish Johns.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 04:56 AM
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Spoken by someone who is obviously not a man, and probably has very little interaction with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 04:48 AM
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They can discriminate for any reason though. I've contacted some that want a picture of you before meeting up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 04:43 AM
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I hate it when people use that awful all in one shampoo, bodywash, lotion, toothpaste, mouthwash, lotion, conditioner, hair wax, eyedrops What the hell is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 08:40 PM
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An older teacher harassing a vulnerable young boy would be hard to play for laughs You can't be serious. People joke about exactly that kind of thing all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 05:05 PM
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Of course we accept it, because it’s not truly threatening. Oh, this is how we judge inappropriate sexual behavior, by how "threatening" it is? Yeah, no, bullshit. If that were true, nobody would give a shit about unsolicited dick pics. And if women really felt "threatened" all the time, they'd carry a firearm. All this whining about how women feel smaller and weaker is absolutely meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 05:03 PM
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It’s the idea that rape is excused or normalized culturally. This totally exists. For male victims of rape though, not female victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 07:42 PM
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The woman would have leverage by being able to withdraw access to the child and the man would have it by withdrawing support. Sounds like you just want women to have all the power.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 10:30 PM
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I'm just seeing more excuses and denial from you. Yeah these are cases of female rape, but the victims were groomed and manipulated into having a great time That's how it usually goes when it's a male teacher and female student too. Nobody tries to make excuses and downplay the severity of the crime in those cases though. Some people are pissed off because they see this obvious double standard where most people say it's not that big of a deal when a woman takes advantage of her student, but ever…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 08:23 PM
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Only person I see in denial is you. So someone makes a thread asking why the rate of female teachers sleeping with their students is going up. This is obviously a topic meant to discuss how society is too lenient on female criminals. And what is your response? "What about the MENZ though? THE EVIL MENZ, THEY ARE ALWAYS THE ONES DOING THE BAD THINGS. Just look at all these stats that show how often they get punished!" ABC had a TV series called "What would you do?", where they film how random peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 11:51 AM
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She is actually a prostitute. So I guess the lesson here is if it's hard to find any info on her, she's likely a hooker.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 05:13 AM
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And why does it matter what she did or didn’t do with other guys on a line-item basis? It's funny when women say this, yet almost all of them are appalled by guys who've been with prostitutes. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 12:33 AM
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I'm sure you have a lot of experience with that. You seem like quite the catch, manhater666
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 09:07 PM
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Um how bout all the other terrible shit that she posts?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 11:27 PM
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What makes you believe her claims?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 11:08 PM
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But I've seen it framed by that many times in regards to dating "if women just had a little more empathy" and then act like that would really change something Can you show me an example? What OP is trying to say is, what is empathy going to get you? I'm not asking for any, so maybe the ones that are might be hoping for something different, but I think they just don't want to feel hated for their natural desires. It's not going to immediately get them anything tangible, but long term it might hel…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 10:28 PM
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I think these guys are just sick of being called entitled misogynistic assholes for daring to express any of their frustrations with sex and dating. They just don't want people trying to tell them why they're really the bad guy and deserve it in any situation where they get rejected. Even you are guilty of this by trying to act like they're asking to get laid on the spot when they ask for a little empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 05:15 AM
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Usually these are the men that ditch the friendship as soon as they're rejected. Surely if they were friends for friendship's sake in the first place they'd try to preserve that? Maybe, but sometimes the rejection is too painful, and they need their space. Why do you have to assume the worst? its entire premise is based on discovering a way of dating that women would approve of I'm not actually planning on personally taking any advice given here, I'm just curious about what's going on in the min…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 05:55 AM
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They're complaining about men who befriend her with the sole intention of fucking her How would women always magically know this, like they are inside the guy's mind? Why are you asking women how to date anyway? This post is not labeled as a question for women only.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 05:43 AM
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Oh okay, I gotcha. that narrative serves you far better than “I strategically forced a friendship to get in your pants.” That narrative seems to be one that women always make up. So you're saying that all men have to do is tell her he fell for her over time, and women will cease to complain about all those assholes who only became friends with her to sleep with her? Seems too simple. I don’t understand the rest of your comment. My post was inspired by many of the replies in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 05:30 AM
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Your body content doesn’t really match the title. I don’t really know what visuals have to do with finding a partner through organic friendship Did you not read it carefully enough? I was asking about men that are NOT 100% visual when it comes to attraction. So men who only become attracted to women once they get to know her. These men can never "be upfront with their intentions", because they're never really attracted at first. I think it’s pretty obvious that there’s a difference between two f…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 05:26 AM
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There are entire novels and movies written for women That's the thing, they're for women. Women can just sit around and have guys court them, and that's how she'll get to know him. Most men can't do that. We don’t like it if you tried to sneak up on us when from the beginning only wanted sex. And how exactly would you be so sure you knew that? If he genuinely fell for her without planning if he should say so. It’s the truth isn’t it? I don’t see how that would be a dilemma. I don't see why this …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 05:21 AM
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instead of rejecting an invitation, they just straight up don't answer. I'm a guy and I have done this with friends who get pushy when I decline their invitations. I got tired of explaining why I didn't want to go, and arguing with them when my reason wasn't good enough, so I would just not respond. That's probably not what's going on with you, but maybe those young girls have run into enough guys who've done that, and just assume you might do that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 05:16 AM
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What research have you done about what kind of porn is most popular among men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 01:56 AM
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If you ever bother to venture into legbeard subs like r/truefemcels, you'll see that some women openly admit that they are cunthurt over men simply being able to see that there are plenty of women that exist that aren't fat and lazy, and can put effort into their appearance and pleasing men. So I think to some extent, porn does indeed make at least some men refrain from dumpster diving when looking for sex and relationships. I don't see why that's a bad thing though (other than for those women l…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 01:49 AM
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Okay guys. Everybody do what the random misandrist on the internet says, and she will call you an honorable man! Wow, such reward!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 10:23 PM
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What incentive is there for men to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 10:16 PM
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Guys usually bring a lot more to the table in a friendship lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 10:14 PM
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If you hear that, they are saying that about YOU, not every woman on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 10:09 PM
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I honestly struggle to get my head around how you could enjoy the company of and warm friendly conversation with people with the same genitals as you, but then if they have different genitals its all "Woah now, if we're not going to fuck, what is the point?". That's only really the case with single men who are looking for a partner, for the most part. Most of his time is going to be spent trying to put himself in situations with available women. Why should he waste his time with women that aren'…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 10:04 PM
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Because it makes them realize that they're not actually interesting or pleasant to be around, and their warm hole is the main reason most people tolerate their presence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 09:52 PM
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I go on dates to have a one on one meeting to get to know a girl. If I wanted sex, I'd get a hooker
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 03:44 AM
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Interesting how you can so quickly go from making a thread asking about why some people say certain things, to seemingly being certain about those people's motives and intent when they say those things. Almost sounds like this is something you just made up to tell yourself to deal with the cognitive dissonance you're facing now that someone pointed out that you do something very similar to the thing you're criticizing. The main reason TRP talks so much shit about single mothers is to remind guys…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 10:38 AM
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Who takes what seriously now?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 08:49 AM
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Why is the term "neckbeard" a pejorative as if every guy that doesn't shave below his jawline must wear a fedora and eats too many Cheetos in his mom's basement? It's called a stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 06:23 AM
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Sure, they are. If you are really scared of them though, you'd carry a gun. If you don't, you are just pretending and looking to play the victim so other men can protect and console you or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 08:04 AM
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I honestly don’t get why saying “this is a considerate thing to do” is ruffling feathers. It seems like you guys want applause for not doing anything to be considerate of others. That’s not how it works. Because you are asking men to do things to be considerate of your feelings, while completely disregarding theirs. Politeness isn't a one way street. You literally admit to crossing the street when walking near men. Why the fuck should men "be kind", especially to someone like you? I honestly don…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 07:04 AM
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you will be fine What is "fine"? Tiger Woods is fit, attractive, and rich. Look what happened to his marriage. Sure, you could say he still has plenty of options, and he'll be "fine", but fine isn't good enough for everyone. Some people want to completely understand how attraction works and be masters of seduction and relationships. You can go ahead and think that most of things said on TRP are stupid and wrong, but becoming a master of relationships is the goal that people are discussing how to…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 02:33 AM
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All restaurants serve salads. Nobody is forcing you to have more than 1 or 2 drinks. You just described how hard it is for you to avoid temptation, not hard it is to avoid being fat. Also protip, try doing keto. You won't even have to count calories or exercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 04:11 AM
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Virginity doesn’t exist outside of the male ego. Does the patriarchy plant a hymen in women at birth?😂 Men care about virginity because they instinctively know that promiscuity in a woman makes paternity uncertain. Yes, we've solved that problem very recently, but that doesn't change thousands of years of evolution. If you want to argue that men should stop caring about a woman's sexual history, then you should also argue that women should stop caring about a man's height, how broad his shoulder…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 08:07 PM
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Female equivalent of neckbeard
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 05:41 PM
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They make hybrid Corollas with the same drivetrain now, probably exactly for this reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 09:04 AM
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You are extremely young. Once you are old enough to legally drink, it'll open up a lot of places where it's more acceptable for men to approach and do all the work. Have you tried online dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 08:55 AM
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Women in the 70s literally stopped an "equal rights amendment" from being ratified because they didn't want to lose their privileges lol. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Equal_Rights_Amendment
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 09:56 AM
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The male under 30 minimum is actually 13:36. They only want you to run under 12 minutes in basic training, and it's not a strict requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 09:47 AM
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Rating women on a number scale is something that I'd guess most men have done before, even if they've never discussed anything related to sex politics in their lives. Although they would never do it in front of women. The rest just sounds like stuff you imagine a red piller would say or do even though you've never actually met one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 07:48 AM
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He's saying that because feminist leaning women on Reddit often claim that red pill, anti-feminist men never get laid, implying that women can magically detect these type of men, as if every little thing they do will hint that they hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 07:29 AM
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You don't have to care. Just don't expect men to care about women's problems then.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 02:46 AM
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Because they are obviously artificially inflated by agenda pushers. On top of those conflating sexual assault with rape, I've seen surveys where they would ask vague enough questions and then decide for the person answering if they've been raped if they answered a certain way. One example would be like asking if you've ever had a sexual act performed on you while unconscious. You'd count as a rape victim if you say yes, even if it only happened while in a relationship with prior consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 07:15 PM
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We don’t sit here and argue that since few people will ever murder another human being that the families of murder victims don’t deserve to be taken seriously. People use an argument like that all the time when they want to dismiss something they don't want to discuss. Just happened to me the other day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 07:06 PM
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So now you've shifted from "it doesn't happen" to "it's impossible to prove, so who cares." Okayyy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 07:05 PM
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Can you explain the full reasoning for that or at least link to something that does?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 02:12 PM
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The only thing that would accomplish is completely fucking over game developers since everyone would pirate games more.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 02:10 PM
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The term "single father" implies he has sole custody of the kid, so therefore doesn't pay any child support. My question was about fathers who don't have custody and are making child support payments. Because they aren't lowered if he loses his job.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 10:48 PM
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I don't get this weird obsession some people have with claiming that if something doesn't happen often enough in some amount that they've arbitrarily determined, then it doesn't matter. Like that's the best argument they can come up with. Especially when there have been no serious attempts to measure it and it's not even recognized as a crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 10:36 PM
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YOU SAID " You made it, you pay for it. End of story" though. I guess that's not end of story and you only mean that when it comes to struggling mothers. What about fathers struggling to make child support payments?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 10:25 PM
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Do you think it happens at the same rate as rape? Probably not, but it's impossible to tell. Or enough to give it a second thought? I don't expect women to think about it. But denying that it ever happens is absurd and makes you look silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 10:22 PM
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You don't think that has EVER happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 10:03 PM
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You made it, you pay for it. End of story. So you think mothers shouldn't receive government benefits?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 10:02 PM
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Women committing reproductive fraud is an actual thing that happens too. You're the one living in a fantasy land.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 09:00 PM
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You're expecting tax-payer to foot the bill for the other things she can't afford and that's disgusting. What do you think I believe taxes should pay for other than her food stamps? You are not getting anywhere by assuming my opinions and then being outraged over them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 08:37 PM
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Imagine someone saying that about rape. That's what you sound like and how pathetic that rebuttal is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 08:32 PM
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Society is not responsible for your lack of personal responsibility. So you think mothers shouldn't get any government support? My taxes already pay for fat men and vasectomies. What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 01:48 AM
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I don't advocate for welfare, I think mothers should be solely responsible for any child they decide to birth out of wedlock.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 01:47 AM
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boomer men do not like being outearned by their wives Why would they not like that? It seems more likely to me that women were more inclined to try and marry up, than men were to insist on marrying down.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 04:51 AM
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OP is talking about dancing you typically see in night clubs where there's constant nut to butt.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 09:33 PM
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Men who have unprotected sex with women they don't want children with are stupid, yes. IMO men who don't want children, and don't have a vasectomy, that have regular sex with any woman are stupid. Because even having protected sex doesn't protect men from accidents like a condom breaking, or a woman doing something malicious like fishing a used one out of the trash. They are stupid simply because they would be forced to pay for any kid they don't want though. Women who decide to have a kid again…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 08:56 AM
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So suggesting that everyone shouldn't be forced to bail out mothers who make stupid decisions = "punishing" women. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 07:40 AM
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Male rape victims still have to pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 11:25 PM
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In the ridiculously rare case this happened, I doubt anyone would blame a dude for not claiming the kid when he didn’t even have sex with the mother. https://www.theguardian.com/law/2018/dec/17/father-loses-damages-claim-over-forged-ivf-signature
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 11:21 PM
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Why do some people suddenly think that consent isn't important when it comes to getting it from a man? Even if you want to say that consent to sex is consent to parenthood (but only for men, of course), that is still ignoring that society still thinks okay to force men are pay for kids when they are the victim of rape, or the victim of fraud when the man's sperm is stolen from a sperm bank.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 11:19 PM
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So you think every time a woman gets free money, she's never spending it on her kid. I said there's no guarantee that she is. Do you not know what those words mean? I even screamed at a guy friend for trying to think the abuse was his fault. Wow that sounds like such great emotional support. 😆 But yeah it's extremely difficult to help anyone that hasn't asked for your help, and is almost never worth the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 06:42 PM
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Welfare programs don't gaurantee that children have easier lives Proof? So people having less money is a good thing? What? By that I meant that no one can force mothers to spend all the money they get on their child. So are men to blame when they're with abusive women? Yes? Men can't expect any kind of social support when women are abusive toward them. The domestic violence industry spends billions on protecting women's interests in domestic disputes and helping institute sexist policies in how …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 08:27 AM
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So you want children to have harder lives? Welfare programs don't gaurantee that children have easier lives, they just make sure mothers don't have an excuse to not feed their children. Then why isnt the single mother rate at 100%. So if a woman's in an abusive relationship, you want her to feel obligated to stay in that relationship? Who is saying that? I think what some people want is for mothers to have the means to take care of a child on their own before they decide to have one. And why sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 03:24 AM
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I didn't say "easy", I said easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 03:16 AM
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Being a single mom doesn't automatically make someone a bad mom Who says that? People talk shit about single moms because they are bad for relationships. Also some resent that the government makes their lives easier, which they believe incentivizes single motherhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 09:20 AM
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IMO people are talking about women who knowingly lie about rape when talking about "false accusations", not including those confused about the legal definition. There are too many people that don't know the legal definition of rape themselves for anyone to consider it malicious for others to be as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 11:01 PM
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Knowing someone prior to the attack does not make it not rape. Yes? Can you not read? I agree, and I think juries would agree. Wtf does race have to do with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 10:24 PM
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Really? You mean you believe a defense attorney isn’t going use data from the victims phone proving they knew each other or had contact with each other to cast doubt on his client’s guilt? So? What's the problem with that? I'm pretty sure that alone would not be enough to convince a jury it wasn't rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 07:24 PM
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The difference is, men can clearly see the makeup a woman is wearing in photos and in real life. So what! Do you think most men see makeup and go "ew!"? No! If anything, men are more likely to see makeup and think the woman wearing it is trying to look sexy, which would make her more approachable. When I said "a lot" of people don't seem to like being tricked, I just meant that it's a notable amount, I did not mean to imply that the majority of men dislike makeup. It's starting to sound like you…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 07:59 PM
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I always see men on different forums criticizing makeup or cosmetics to enhance a girl's appearance and calling it deceitful. So? This is like how you see women complain about TRP even though it works for men. A lot of people for whatever reason prefer to have a partner who is just naturally attractive, and didn't have to work for it or learn anything, maybe because otherwise they will feel like they've been "tricked" into mating with inferior genetics. Don't be afraid to experiment with makeup …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 08:34 AM
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Your link makes a claim about how many people above the age 18 are married, OP only made a claim about ages 18-35. So you are not contradicting him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 07:54 AM
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why don't men have men's movements? Um, there are men's movements? I think the most notable ones are focused on father's rights and circumcision. What you really seem to be asking though is why men's movements are ineffective and get talked about so little, especially compared to women's movements. The simple is answer is that women have wombs and are the bottlenecks of reproduction, so all women have at least some inherent value to society, which automatically makes people care about any little…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 03:20 AM
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Everyone thinks they know what they want, but few actually do, even if they are trying to be honest with themselves. This is why the phrase "watch what they do, not what they say" is so common.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 01:11 AM
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