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| 1 | 6 Reasons Why a Direct Approach is BestIt's funny actually, I'm a big bar/ club guy so I use direct game far more frequently than indirect. I'm actually making an effort to use indirect more frequently since I don't want to rely on drinking to meet girls. So I don't actually have too much indirect examples to use yet. However if you smoke you could go up to a girl who's smoking and ask for a light then carry on a conversation from there (does she work around there, ect.) Outside of that, I would try to use situational openers to star… | /r/seduction | 27/05/14 09:32 PM |
| 1 | 6 Reasons Why a Direct Approach is BestIn an indirect or direct approach you still have normal conversation after that to build attraction. I feel a lot of people assume this, however it isn't really correct. If you take a direct approach the girl knows from the start that it is a 'romantic' conversation, so she has to make a snap decision of whether she wants to have that conversation this random guy. Obviously you should still have a conversation with her after and build attraction if she wants to. This is great in a lot of situati… | /r/seduction | 27/05/14 02:15 AM |
| -1 | 6 Reasons Why a Direct Approach is BestOf course, and like I said direct approaches are great- when it's the right time, place and situation for them. My main point is that indirect is also good for some situations, and the authors premises are flawed. Some girls do like to talk in a casual setting before giving out their number, it lets them get to know you a bit before forcing them to make a yes/ no decision about you. If it was true that "women love" direct game then direct game would be the only game in town since it would have o… | /r/seduction | 26/05/14 03:14 PM |
| 10 | 6 Reasons Why a Direct Approach is BestI want to preface this by saying that I agree that a direct approach is good, I'm not saying it's not. However it's not always best, and a lot of the points are down right wrong. It’s congruent Sure, but it's not in-congruent to make small talk with a girl before asking for her number. In fact I'd say showing interest in talking to her and letting her get to know you a bit more first is actually more congruent. Indirect is basically lying I strongly disagree with this, in fact I'd go so far as t… | /r/seduction | 26/05/14 05:45 AM |
| 3 | Some bodylanguage tips. Useful for seeing if a girl's interested so you know if it's worth making a move. Nobody likes to shoot in the dark.You actually mention an important point. You can have great eye contact and be great at reading people and still be terrible with girls. You sound similar to me, and one of the most important lessons I've learned is "always assume attraction." Basically it's actually better to live in your own fantasy world where every girl wants you because this way you will be confident and aggressive enough with girls. As apposed to over analyzing a situation and coming across as un-confident. | /r/seduction | 14/04/14 06:22 PM |
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