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You DO realize that as boys and girls grow up their bodies release hormones which encourage them to have sex right? Exactly. It's not a voluntary choice. If you can't consent when you're drunk or high, how are psychoactive hormones any different?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/02/24 04:30 AM
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High dose SSRIs is what finally did it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:59 PM
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I'm male, having women's gyms and men's gyms would not affect me, if anything, it would be better since the gym would be less busy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:32 PM
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Ok, that's also false, it's about 1 in 7 IIRC. But if you believed that then why were you arguing against me?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 08:01 PM
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Ok, let's say you ask someone if they would kill you. They say yes, and come up with a detailed scenario in which they would do so. Would you be scared of them, or ignore it entirely because you "dreamed up a scenario?"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 07:56 PM
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Because your only justification for not committing one of, if not the, most unjustifiable crime is "it's illegal and I might face consequences".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 07:45 PM
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Every scenario listed in the study results in rape, thousands of times, every single day. Therefore, if someone believes rape is OK in said scenario, then they would rape. Whereas, in the 30% study, there's no justifications given, the only condition is them not facing consequences. Ergo, 54% of men would be willing to rape a woman. Let me make it easier for you, let's say the question is "would you punch a random stranger if no one would ever know", and 10% of participants would. Let's say ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 07:44 PM
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Stage 4 is when you have no morals except for what the law says.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 07:37 PM
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The 30% study didn't provide any specific scenarios, it just asked "would you rape a woman if you wouldn't get caught". This study is a lot more accurate, because a lot of rapes come from the exact scenarios the study lists.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 07:35 PM
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Yeah, Stage 4 morals. You have zero understanding of anything except what the law says, and will never reach the post-conventional stages.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 07:33 PM
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I had male libido from puberty to 18, and never once did I have the urge to rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 07:32 PM
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Stage 4 morals. The majority of men think rape is OK, at least in some situations. But they wouldn't do it because it's illegal. Which is why the male rapist rates are 1 in 7 instead of 54%, which is the number from that study.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 07:26 PM
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I went through chemical castration voluntarily, and it only worked for about 2 months. It would not stop a pedophile from offending. Especially the ones who are sadistic, chemical castration would reduce anger but not sadism.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 07:23 PM
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About 83% of men would no longer care about interacting with women, but this would be temporary, all female oppression is the result of male sexual desire and natalism, so I'd expect a lot of sexist men to change. Sex work as an industry would either die, or straight men would comprise the majority of sex workers. Overpopulation would finally be solved. Left-wing parties would win by massive majorities in most countries. Climate change would be limited to 2C, if not 1.5. It would be a much happi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 07:19 PM
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Unless you have an incest fetish, it's absolutely disgusting. There's just a shit ton of men with those fetishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:05 PM
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Some men are pedophiles, others aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:00 AM
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Good. We're overpopulated 4 times over.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:45 PM
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I've seen them in happy relationships, that's all that matters. The red pill is a cynical and stupid way to view the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 02:12 AM
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Because at the post-conventional level, where women are actually treated as people, compatibility matters far more than looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 02:12 AM
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I had 11.5% body fat and still had a fat belly. I have loose skin and shitty fat distribution genetics. I definitely wasn't fat though. My stomach was flat but the loose skin made it hang down way too far.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:50 PM
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I'm 99th percentile in Machivellianism (average or below average in the other 2 traits) and it doesn't really help me with dating. For the purposes of attracting women, my status is quite high, but that's just because I'm a good person who doesn't hate women. I'm disabled so I have to make SSI; I can't really use any of my skills for money (otherwise I would). The only dating related benefit I get from it is reading people easily and being able to ask probing questions without them realizing the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 10:32 PM
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Your title is utter fucking idiocy. But the concept that men can be forced into sex by that kind of social pressure is accurate. I have zero sex drive, but still feel forced into sex because of the serious implications of being a KHHV at 19. Your situation is very similar, your options were to have sex when you didn't want to or lose her. There's no good option and it fucking sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 09:42 PM
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None of the two women who SAd me are part of those statistics. I never reported it, because I knew it would go nowhere. I'd imagine a lot of male victims SAd by women feel the same way. I would probably be laughed out of court.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 08:00 PM
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…and the body fat percentage to get to ‘traditionally’ attractive is relatively low — lower than most would guess. I’d guess ~18% body fat is bordering on attractive, but more likely men need to get to sub 15% a baseline to attract a majority of women in most environments. When I got to 16% body fat and below, I started to notice my facial attractiveness skyrocket. Can't speak for the rest of my body, because I'm covered in loose skin, I can barely even see abs ffs. But that's about when I stopp…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:31 PM
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I work out everything, but I'm in a 800 calorie deficit so no gains, just maintaining muscle mass. I'll start bulking in about 6 weeks when I reach 8%. I used to have a BMI of 36, so the "belly" is loose skin I can't get rid of without surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:46 PM
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If anyone's wondering why only 5-9% of autistic men marry (from that thread): If I feel the slightest hint of an internal emotional disconnect in the person in front of me, I'm out. I'm not here to be someone's teacher as they start their journey into learning what feelings are, what types exist, what to do with them and how to handle them, how to communicate them, etc. I'll occasionally do that as a friend, but not in a relationship. It's unfortunate, many guys who are great in all other aspect…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:23 AM
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Absolutely. I'm 13.5% BF, wear XS pants at 6'0", and I still look fat unless I'm wearing long sleeve pants and shirts. My belly still falls out of my shirt and I barely see 4 of my abs if I flex. I could be 24% BF and not medically considered fat, but I looked even more awful at 24%. I haven't been "fat shamed", but I'm nowhere near people's perception of under 15% body fat. I feel like the only way to get out of the "fat" category if your fat distribution sucks or you have loose skin is to buil…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 08:20 PM
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I live in Germany, where age of consent is 14 and there are no age restrictions for the pairings. I, a 39yo guy could legally have sex with a 14yo if we both wanted. Ok, let's say the age of consent is 14. What consenting, healthy relationships would be criminalized if 14 year olds were only allowed relationships with 13-17 year olds? Why would implementing a law preventing 39 year olds from having sex with 14 year olds be bad? Laws are utilitarian. There will always be some edge case where a la…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 07:00 PM
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The one most important law would be graduated age of consent. Rather than just setting a number, which fucks over consenting teens and allows for horrible exploitation of those just above the number, the number would be increased to 25 (if not higher), but allowing for people of similar ages having sex. I actually think the age of majority should be lower, maybe 16, but age of consent needs to be a completely different thing. The rest of it is social pressure from corporations (mainly the porn i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:18 PM
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It's more a social pressure thing than a "utilitarian" thing. If it weren't for the social pressure on women to marry, I would expect at least 50% of women to stay single, although they would probably still have casual sex. There would probably be a lot of voluntary single men as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:12 PM
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I would never date an influencer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:48 AM
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Far-left, sex-negative intersectional feminist. The closest ideology to mine is probably libertarian socialism. Views on gender: Basically the same as any other leftist. Views on sex: Sexual openness, in its current form, is a disease on society. Women are being indoctrinated at a very young age into thinking they want to be brutally assaulted for perceived pleasure. Exploitative age-gap relationships are more acceptable than ever, even if there's underage grooming involved. Sex scenes now need …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:37 AM
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Autistic Post-conventional morality Rejection of kink culture and "sex positivity". AMAB. I'm autistic myself so the first is a given. Post-conventional morality is essential because I've noticed anyone below Stage 5 acts like NPCs, even the 4+ neoliberal types are too fake for me. 3, because most people who supposedly share my values have a massive blind spot when it comes to sex, and think they're into the most godawful shit imaginable because the media says they should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:14 AM
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You said girls trips and girls nights out weren't acceptable, though. By definition that doesn't include male friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:18 PM
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They reject me. I get more interest from NTs for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:09 PM
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Sadly, it's a common red pill belief that women shouldn't have friends if they are in relationships. It just happens to overlap with the abuser tactic of isolating the victim from the outside world.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:04 PM
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But then if a guy gets to know a woman over a period of time and then asks her out, he’s still seen as creepy because that means he was just being friends with her for ulterior motives. That's a problem, and I hate it. I don't think I could go on a date with someone I don't know. I'm shocked women don't feel the same. Getting to know them first seems like the best way to find a partner, but it's stigmatized for some reason. I had a big crush on a woman in my political group. Once I finally built…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:50 PM
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Can you teach a seminar? The “having a convo before asking for a number” is such an important and overlooked step. It's crazy that such an obvious step is so esoteric to most men, that knowing it is enough to "teach a seminar". I can go over my last encounter with a woman. I met her at a political event. Everyone else that showed up was 55+, she was the only one my age. I introduced myself to her and started a conversation, found out she was a cool person and we had a lot in common. We ended up …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:46 PM
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And here's the thing, I've approached women at social events before, and only had positive outcomes. The difference is, I don't go up and say "you're pretty, give me your number", I have a legit conversation with them because I'm interested in them as a person. Then at the end of the event ask for the number if I think they'd be a good friend, I worry about the dating thing later as I still won't have enough information.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 05:01 PM
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It always is for one simple reason. Because you've only known of her existence for the last 20 seconds, there is no other reason to be interested than sexual attraction. So if a woman knows that, every single approach will be creepy to her, because it is. If I was approached in the same way men like to approach random women, I'd be pissed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 04:34 PM
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We are 8x over the carrying capacity of the Earth. Increased birth rates would collapse society.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 10:49 PM
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I quite literally did that. After HRT my libido is almost zero, and I feel like I can finally make rational decisions about dating. So I think that would be very helpful, and it would also significantly reduce the sex crime rate as men with those urges can now get help. Estrogen actually enhances sexual pleasure in AMABs, and significantly lowers the refractory period, but it does make it harder to get hard. So there's some trade offs. But overall it's a lot better. The problem is the loneliness…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 10:44 PM
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The only men who won't be interested in you after 30 are not men you want to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:21 PM
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Sexual openness, in its current form, is a problem in general. We've replaced one problem with another. Abuse used to be covered up, now it's brazenly talked about, and you're not a feminist if you push back against it at all. Both are wrong, but only one is celebrated. It's not a problem exclusive to women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:16 PM
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I know a woman who is 5'6" and 300+ pounds. Even after seeing her in a swimsuit I still thought she was 250 at most. I was shocked when she told me. I don't think weight shows up as much as people think. When I was 265 the only reason I couldn't hide it with clothes was how bad my face looked due to the buccal fat. That being said, if someone wants to have sex with you I would seriously doubt they'd be turned off by you looking heavier naked. The main issue is buccal fat, which is always visible…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:40 AM
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It's "just don't look fat". It's an important distinction. It's possible to be overweight and not look fat, and it's also possible to be a healthy BMI and look fat. I'm 15% body fat, have a 4 pack and still have a huge stomach that makes me uncomfortable to take off my shirt. I used to weigh 265 and have loose skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:17 AM
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Yeah, but I seriously doubt there's more people looking up BBW and granny porn than slim and "barely legal" porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:23 PM
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I've been on HRT since last October. I actually look more masculine than most men because I'm 15% body fat. The only visible effect is softer skin which IMO makes me look better. I also don't get acne anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:59 PM
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Women can't sense testosterone levels lol. Mine are below 50, and I don't look less masculine. There are very small changes but no one would ever notice unless they knew exactly what to look for.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:37 PM
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I wouldn't trust a "calculator" that calls men's preferences "reality" and women's "delusion".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 03:54 AM
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When I'm 35, I don't want some kid who literally only wants me because of some TikTok trend or whatever replaces it 16 years from now. If I'm still single then my dating options go down the drain and into the alligator infested sewer. I would have to pick between single moms or teenager/early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:42 AM
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Not have them. This world is a fucking nightmare and overpopulated 4-8x.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:40 AM
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If I had to choose between the two I'd rather die a KHHV. It's quite literally benevolent sexism vs hostile sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:38 AM
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Excess testosterone will aromatize into excess estradiol. Estradiol will close his growth plates, making him much shorter than he would be otherwise. If he just works out naturally and eats properly, he will see insane natural gains boosted by puberty and look incredible by the time he's 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:48 PM
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SARMs are to steroids as spice is to cannabis. Compounds that are anabolic and androgenic but not scheduled yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:46 PM
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Sucks to suck lmao. If your kids are under 18 today then the mom got pregnant long after it was known that the next generation would see the worst effects of climate change and the collapse of civilization. Unless the kids were a result of rape or coercion. I do not feel bad for them at all. They wouldn't have had a moral obligation to protect the kids from pedos if the kids never existed. There's an absolute fuck ton of selection bias for single moms wanting partners. All the smart men won't da…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:38 PM
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The solution to that is to stop having kids. Not have kids then subject your kids to a 40x higher rate of child abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:27 PM
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This. 52% of men are attracted to ages 4-10. Considering the massive aversion men rightfully have to dating a single mom and instantly being a provider to her kids, I strongly question anyone who wants to do that. It's less questionable to actually want kids in this day and age, per SA stats for own child and step child, there might be some men who actually want kids and don't want to abuse them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 09:43 PM
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And autistic. We have a 5% lifetime marriage rate. I'm not better than 95% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:53 PM
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I can't work and am on SSI. College would literally be 200k in debt for nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:27 PM
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19, over for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:22 PM
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The "you need yourself a woman" crowd either found someone interesting, or they're also fucking boring and don't see anything wrong with people being these absolutely vacant NPCs. The person who started this thread just seems to think that it (a romantic partner) is a box you have to check, and I think they're just wrong about it, and that you're not categorically better off being bored to death by someone than dying alone after unfettered pursuit of the things you find engaging and and enjoyabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:04 AM
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I have no looks standards, 95% confidence interval. I just don't see looks. It's hard for me to even rate female attractiveness because of this. I don't want someone who will cause me harm. That's literally it, and any standards that result from that will be the bare minimum to ensure my safety. Shared interests are nice but as long as we aren't polar opposites it's not unrecoverable. Still KHHV. Zero interest from women in my lifetime. I'm trying to stop caring about relationships entirely, bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:52 AM
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I agree that therapy is mostly a scam. Sex work can still be exploitative.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:42 AM
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Why would anyone think they were accidentally refunded 100x the amount they were supposed to get because they typed the wrong amount in command prompt, and they have to send the overpayment back by buying gift cards?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:41 AM
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Nearly everyone drinks. Alcohol causes 5% of all deaths. Just because everyone drinks doesn't mean alcohol not existing wouldn't benefit society.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:39 AM
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I absolutely agree, when reactionary men say they want a woman who isn't fat, they are referring to 19-21 BMI typically (that's the number I've seen thrown around here), even though 18.5-24.9 is considered healthy. Im sorry you must be big, buff with 6 pack abs is so over blown in the sub its ridiculous. It's a positive, but yeah, it's not really a requirement. It's like the difference between a 780 and 850 credit score. 850 looks better but there's no functional difference in the real world. Sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 11:31 PM
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Considering most of those "bulky body builders" are on steroids, I think it's more accurate to say women want what a man can achieve naturally rather than looks only possible on steroids.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 11:21 PM
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I'm 18.5% BF which is considered healthy and bordering on the fitness range. I still look overweight if not obese because the fat on my mid section hasn't budged yet, the improvements have shown on the rest of my body. I'm expecting to have to reach single digits for my mid section to look like most men do at 15%. It's not "don't be fat", it's "don't look fat".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 11:19 PM
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No stigma around being non binary and no desire to have sex, which ignoring pleasure leads to bad outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:17 AM
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I take anti androgens and a low dose of estrogen and that's not even enough to fully remove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:48 PM
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Male, aro/ace.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:47 PM
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I'm 6'0". I'm not really seen as tall IRL, and my height is still considered average (5'6"-6'0") scientifically. But if I put 6'0" on a dating app profile, the perceived attractiveness of that profile is going to go way up. I don't think I've ever had anyone I've talked to ask about my height IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:45 PM
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Standards would be even higher if they were actually rational. If men were judged on the quality of their character, only men above the 83rd percentile would ever date, unless they changed. That's how fucked this world is right now. So standards aren't really high, just misplaced. Sexist men span all heights, body fat percentages, ethnicities, wealth, etc. So ignoring this entirely and only having superficial standards is completely stupid and will always lead to worse outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:41 PM
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I got rejected the only time I did find one. It's so rare to find a single ND woman in general. I wouldn't be surprised if I don't find another in my lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:22 PM
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And I can't complain about it cause "boohoo you fuck bitches with no attachments, it must be soooooo hard for you" Which is insane. If a woman said, no one wants a relationship with me, they all just want sex, everyone would understand why that would be undesirable for her. I fear that this will be my fate once I get to single digit body fat, women might want me for my looks but throw me in the trash once they figure out I'm autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:21 PM
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My situation is unrecoverable. I do not have the words to describe how bad being 19 and KHHV is in this world. The opinion online is that it's not that bad. Stats show 25% of people are virgins at 19, but nearly all of them have at least fooled around or had a serious partner before. It really doesn't matter if they didn't make it to the sex part, because the sex isn't what "changes" you. It's the learning experience of everything leading up to the sex. Which is why going to an escort doesn't fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:15 PM
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That's in high schoolers. Even if I could redo high school and choose anyone I wanted I'd still skip teen love completely. 113 IQ with 140 in two categories. Held back by 75 in memory related categories.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 02:03 AM
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From what I understand frat parties are usually run by douchebags with rich parents who expect to sleep with all the women who attend. The last time I heard of a frat party is when my stepbrother's roommate got busted for trying to drug and rape a woman there. Also: you're 17. Don't drink underage. It fucks with brain development.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:52 AM
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Serial killers are interesting. Wouldn't date one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 12:09 AM
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I'd rather be in a relationship with someone who is a good match for me, is post conventional and actually cares about me as a human. Being autistic, I would be surprised if 0.5% of the population met that standard. Anything else is a worse position than being single, and expecting the top 0.5% of society is unreasonable. Therefore, being single is best.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 11:21 PM
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I thought I had to date or all this horrible stuff would happen to me. Despite not caring at all before my hormone imbalance was fixed. Finally realized it's not worth it. The nail in the coffin was having to improve to a 9.5 to even be considered due to my autism. For women it's even worse than this, 83% of men hate women, 33% of women are raped and it's not the same guy doing it, and so much more. Dating for women can have horrible consequences and the benefits are practically nothing unless y…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 11:12 PM
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The sperm donor point is fucking stupid. If you are single and want to stay single don't have kids. Even kids in a relationship is a bad idea today. We don't need more people on this burning husk of a planet anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 11:05 PM
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and then the human race becomes extinct. What's wrong with human extinction if it's voluntary?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 11:02 PM
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Sex? Sex toys today are state of the art. Children? Sperm donor! The point raised is interesting. If you don't want sex or children, there really isn't much to gain from a relationship that can't be obtained from strong friendships. Finally figuring this out is what put me mostly at peace with my unlikeliness to ever find anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 11:02 PM
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I'm not too sure what this comment means. I haven't rejected a fat woman before. Only time I rejected someone was when some dumb kids tried to prank me at a teen event by having an attractive girl pretend to ask me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 12:11 AM
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If I say no, I always mean no.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 12:03 AM
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If I hear no, it's no. If it was supposed to be a conditional no, IDGAF, no still means no, communicate your feelings next time. I can't read minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:49 PM
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Healthy is 18.5-24.9. 22 is considered optimal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:23 PM
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It really shouldn't. We are 4-8x over the carrying capacity of the planet depending on the study.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:38 AM
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Because capitalism requires a constant stream of new victims. By not wanting to procreate you're not providing the system with more victims, so capitalist reactionaries hate you for it, even if you're otherwise a productive member of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:52 PM
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Other than makeup and high heels the surgical measures you described are stigmatized to shit, the reason it works is because women don't tell people they got the surgery. The male equivalent would be doing a bunch of steroids and getting shredded, if women found out they were on steroids, they wouldn't be as attracted to them, whereas if they don't know they would be just as attracted as if he were natural. Same applies to women and breast implants. If men knew they had implants they wouldn't be…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:26 AM
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Tax/other financial benefits specific to marriage. That's literally it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 03:09 AM
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TIL people voluntarily having less kids is a genocide. I've only heard that from one side of the political spectrum, and they tend to focus on a single race... I am on the so called "purge" list, as I will never have kids, which is all that needs to happen to fix overpopulation. It is a carrying capacity. That means going over the limit eventually kills members of the species until the population is under the carrying capacity. I want less people to be involved in this killing we can't control. …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:17 PM
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Politely being told no, as opposed to laughing in your face type rejections, insults, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:36 PM
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The women who are victimized by them? They actually have a voice now for one of the few times in history.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:10 PM
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I'm seriously questioning this. Especially as an autistic person who is considered worse than sex offenders just for not being NT (based on marriage rates). Doubly so since I have to go through a dogshit relationship with someone I don't like just to get rid of the label KHHV so people don't irrationally hate me or see me as a kid who doesn't know what they are doing. Triply so because I have to go through a difficult cutting cycle, 24% to 8% in 5 months so 1500 net calories and 135g protein per…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 06:59 PM
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How do you want to die? There's no good option, but there are options better than others. The same applies to rejections.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 06:38 PM
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Yes, I believe 20% of women 18-29 are being groomed by men far older than them. It's not that "Chad" has multiple women "on rotation", it's that some creepy 50yo pervert who isn't even attractive has the resources to coerce some 18 year old into living with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 06:21 PM
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It is the norm. 70% of people in the US are overweight or obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 06:05 PM
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Women I'm in the high end of healthy right now, but am waiting to date until I reach 12% BF with significant muscle mass (about a year). While I wouldn't be opposed to dating overweight women based on looks alone, I feel like the difference in lifestyles would end up screwing up the relationship. If they were making a legitimate effort to lose weight, their lifestyle would resemble mine enough for a relationship to work. Otherwise, it just wouldn't work long term and would lead to worse outcomes…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 06:00 PM
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Falling birth rates aren't the problem, they are the solution to the overpopulation crisis. We are 4-8x the carrying capacity of the Earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:56 PM
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I get to filter out all the dickheads who actually think they want the toxic masculinity types.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:44 AM
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I would literally have to be negative body fat to be <18.5 BMI. That scale is completely useless for anything other than statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:18 AM
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It all depends on what you mean by "good person". There's a lot of different "good people" depending on your moral framework. "I'm a good person" (but actually I'm a self centered asshole who just pretends to be to get laid) = pre conventional (Stage 1/2) "I'm a good person" (because my friends say so) = conventional (Stage 3) "I'm a good person" (because I don't break the law) = conventional (Stage 4) "I'm a good person" (because I actually do good things for people without expecting stuff in r…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 01:38 AM
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Wow, didn't know ChatGPT could summarize posts like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:35 PM
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My analogue is being a reseller and having people send me lowball offers, demand stuff for free, or wanting me to deliver ridiculously far. I've been called the F-slur and told someone would beat me up in an alley for refusing to give a 1999 iBook G3 to some guy's daughter for free for her "Z exercises". I've received multiple death threats and was even told some guy would R4pe me in the ass. Been offered drugs and stolen stuff in exchange for my stuff. Someone keeps messaging me offering $20 fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:20 PM
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It's like calling Coconut Island "hypergamy" because the Coconut Man has more coconuts than you and you sucked his dick. I can't understand how people don't see how predatory this "passport bro" bullshit is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:00 AM
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What makes adult men predatory if minors are looking for sex on the internet? It's the same effect here. It's power dynamics. Just because a 13 year old seeks out a relationship with an adult man doesn't mean the man isn't a pedo if he accepts. Just because a woman in a third world country feels forced into dating you doesn't mean the more powerful person isn't the oppressor. It's like calling Coconut Island "hypergamy" if you suck the Coconut Man's dick because he has more coconuts than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:54 AM
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As a general rule, most women do not want leftists, they want the liberal 4+ types because they cannot understand post conventional morality, which is the basis of leftism (in a way). It's the same reason NT women irrationally hate ND men. OFC if they are post conventional as well you have a chance. Mind you, post conventional women are going to sniff out the losers who just say they are feminist because they want sex quite easily. But the majority of women who say they want a feminist are 4+ an…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:34 AM
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I'm a marriage abolitionist. I think absolutely no one should ever marry and the legal concept of marriage should be removed entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:55 AM
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> with kids Do you know how brutal kids are for a woman? 11 years of telomerase aging, permanent damage, postpartum depression, etc. Then 18 years of slaving to the government to support them, more if a kid is disabled. I would be shocked if any women truly believed having kids was what they wanted if they had and believed in the objective reality of it. If 83% of women are marrying sexists (and we all know more sexist men are in relationships than non sexist) the 17% could be having a perfect l…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:39 AM
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A 9mm through the brain stem kills faster than it took for Thanos's victims to turn to dust. It's still murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:09 AM
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Dude we literally don't have to kill them. We just need reasonable restrictions on procreation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 11:17 PM
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The carrying capacity of the world is 1-4b depending on the study. We have 8b. We don't need to genocide anyone, but restrictions on further overpopulating the world are necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 11:15 PM
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If you just say "I'm a male feminist", that's a red flag because it looks like you're just saying it to look good. I'm in the position where I can be honest about my political beliefs and the organizations I work with and have women like me for it. I also have a plan C sticker on my phone case which helps, and wear political shirts long as im not going somewhere I can get hate crimed for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:35 PM
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I'm a far left political activist. This usually comes up in conversation when I'm asked about my hobbies. A lot of women are familiar with the specific collective I work with. If they react badly to it they selected themselves out for me, otherwise they tend to see me as safe quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:32 PM
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It wouldn't be nearly as overpopulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:44 PM
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$$$
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:38 AM
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There are two forms of attraction, emotional and sexual. Only one of those can be felt to a woman you've never met before. That's why women call it weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 02:28 AM
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1.4:1 ratio. I wish I could but it's nearly impossible, also most autistic women aren't interested in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:56 PM
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That's about the same percent of men with a penis smaller than 5 inches. It's still considered bad unfortunately, even though it's common.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:56 PM
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70% of people are overweight or obese in the US. That includes all genders. So by refusing to date anyone overweight, you're excluding 70% of women. And, men who say this tend to think women in the higher part of the healthy weight range are overweight too. So it ends up being even higher. What's funny is that these are the same men saying women only date 8/10 or higher, when they are excluding about 80% of all women by default. With the amount of sub-7s (going off 70% percentile) saying "no fat…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 12:25 AM
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Pretty much. The reason I was beat up in the first place was complaining about the sexual abuse the aides they assigned me did to me. My dad proceeded to basically blame me for all the abuse I faced, he later radicalized me into the extreme right and almost took me to January 6th in order to push me away from my mom. My life really never started until March when the HRT started working. And I'm still judged for being a KHHV at 19 which isn't even that old. It's insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 05:59 PM
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I was suspected Klinefelter's for a while but eventually that was ruled out. I had really bad brain fog which went away with HRT, I think that was part of the hormone imbalance. When I did my school IQ test I ended up at 113 IIRC, I got 140 in a couple categories but my memory was around 75 which is really bad. I don't remember much of my childhood. Now that it's over it's not too bad. I look like a 16 year old (at 19) but otherwise I didn't end up that bad. I was prescribed Risperidol in elemen…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 05:27 PM
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I know this personally. I'm non binary and started HRT a few months ago. My T levels are about 50 myself, E and prog are in lower female ranges. Rather than nuking my libido it changed it significantly. I had a hormone imbalance before, I literally started puberty at 15 lmao, so I didnt really have much of a libido before. But I've experienced (some) of a male libido and a female libido and definitely know the differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 05:13 PM
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It's still within the normal range. My point is, E and prog play a huge role in women's libido, so you can't just look at women's T levels being much lower than men's and say that means they must have a much lower libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:57 PM
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15-70 is the reference range for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:50 PM
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The only steroid I know of that lowers E is trenbolone, which will fuck you up for a lot of other reasons. The reason steroid users end up with low T is they have to take an aromatase inhibitor to prevent gynocomastia from high E. If the AI dose is too high sexual dysfunction can result.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:42 PM
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The difference is that estradiol and progesterone are factors. If a woman has T levels at 50, her libido will be high, whilst if a man has T levels of 50 he would be considered chemically castrated. Women's libidos are lower but not by that much. However if they are on birth control it can go down quite a bit. This is because the progestins lower T. This can be fully counteracted with a small amount of T gel but this isn't an option for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:32 PM
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From my experience 19 is that age. I was literally fucking SAd from 11-12 and had a hormone imbalance nuking my libido I didn't fix until MARCH of this year. Literally 4 months ago. And I'm judged for the full 19 years. It's not even that late statistically. The craziest part is I have a lot of desirable attributes. I'm 6 foot. I will soon be living alone in a 3 bedroom house within my means. I'm very politically active and end up at rallies which are 10 women to one man my age. And I unironical…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:55 AM
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My dad dated a woman with BPD. The way that relationship went, it seemed like my dad saw "hypersexuality" in one of his textbooks (he's a counselor) and chose the most implicitly coercive situation to ask her out. She ended up confiding to me that he pressured her into sex a lot and verbally abused her. I think he was expecting her to always want sex and when she didn't live up to the stereotype, he forced it. I wish I could have helped her, but I was a fucking disaster back then (and 16).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:50 AM
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Wrong wrong wrong. CashApp and Paypal will nuke you off the platform and steal your money for 180 days if you use it for legal sex work. They are so anal about it you can get someone banned just my having a few friends send them payments with sexual messages.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/06/22 12:32 AM
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OnlyFans sends you a 1099 you fucking idiot, if they aren't paying their taxes the IRS already knows. This is like going on eBay and reporting everyone on it to the IRS because they might not be paying their taxes. Jesus some people are so ignorant.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/06/22 12:28 AM
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Their virginity, I guess...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 11:07 PM
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I am a AMAB victim of sexual abuse, no one believed me at all. Happened for 1.5 years at a private school full of crazy people in 6th and 7th grade. They appointed 2 women to "help me" and they just made sexual comments, touched me inappropriately in front of the whole class, and tried to encourage me to do things that would hurt me, not self harm more "intentionally fail tests", etc. Luckily never raped, but it still was awful. Now my parents finally accept it happened, but are like "well why d…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 11:45 PM
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I'm 6'1 and dating is definitely not even close to easy. People call me handsome but no one has ever approached me to ask me out, except for one person who did it on a dare to troll me at an event, luckily I knew it was going to happen and embarrassed the shit out of her. I am aromantic and only interested in FWB and casual sex, but that wouldn't really change the amount of people who approach me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 11:35 PM
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I'd say 1 in 4 I'd consider conventionally attractive. I am 18 so I wouldn't be into older women, but in my age range it's 1/4 if not higher. I don't look at random women and note this down though so it's just my estimation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:08 PM
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The main problem is the discrimination, usually against familial status or age. If a woman with 3 kids, who is married, and 40, goes in and asks for sterilization, they are far more likely to get it than a woman who has no kids and is 25. You see the issue? Both of these people are functioning adults and should be able to choose for themselves. And yet, the 25 year old will be discriminated against.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:58 PM
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It's because of reactionary propaganda and lack of sex education. And, also consider the amount of doctors that will refuse to install an IUD or sterilize women if you haven't had 3+ kids, aren't married, or are under the age of 40. Men get this too with vasectomies but it's still far easier for men to get sterilized than for women to get a temporary IUD. It's so fucked up that doctors can legally deny you medical care based on their reactionary misogynist beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:43 PM
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TIL some redditors making rape jokes justifies forcing over 13 million men to risk their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 08:45 PM
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Not this exact moment, no. But the second the US finds another place to do imperialism, you better believe men are getting drafted again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 08:43 PM
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Worldwide, not just USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 08:16 PM
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The TERFs you're referring to are not liberal in any sense of the word. FDS is a male and trans hate sub. TERFs are reactionary, they are against gender equality and trans rights, and tend to reject other progressive policies as well. Some of them even advocate for genocide, look at sites such as 0varit and they don't even try to hide it. It's the same shit you see on the far right, all under the guise of 'feminism'. There is no massive epidemic of trans people being predators. No trans person w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 05:52 PM
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Women generally aren't drafted to fight in wars.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 05:27 PM
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For most men, I would say they are attracted to women 14-19, if not younger. If I had to say a number they are most attracted to, I would say 15. It's sad, but true. Now, most men don't want to catch a statutory rape charge, or know it's morally wrong to date underage girls. But my 14 year old sister can't even walk downtown, or in the mall, without pedos making sexual comments. Same goes for her friends. When I was working, my manager was 18, but she looks 15-16. There were multiple creepers wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 05:45 PM
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We live under a government that wants everyone to be married and women to be baby factories. They don't care. They just want to screw people that break up as it doesn't fit their reactionary agenda. It's horrible, but it happens. Not because of feminism or women. Because of the patriarchy and the theocracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 03:21 AM
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It's not healthy to take a risk that either has a neutral outcome, or a severely negative outcome. That applies to all genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 05:39 PM
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Yup... you would pretty much have to move to Georgia, Idaho, Oklahoma, Pennsylvania, New Hampshire, or Ohio. I actually am living on one of those states and moving to another. However, I do think most states will make the common law scam illegal by 2030, if not earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 05:24 PM
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I'm not a redpiller, but I have never seen any utility in marriage. Lifelong relationships are fine, but all marriage does is waste a shit ton of money immediately, and then cause serious issues if the marriage goes south, for both men and women. You don't have to deal with alimony if you were never married in the first place, you can still have a relationship without marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 05:15 PM
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Traditional gender roles and the patriarchy. People recognize them, but only as oppressing women, when in reality the vast majority of men’s rights issues are caused by the stereotype that men are supposed to be masculine and conform to gender roles while men want to have the same autonomy as feminists want women to have. In Christian gender roles, Men are supposed to financially provide for the woman and child while women are expected to not work and devote her live for caring for the child. He…
/r/MensRights24/11/21 04:01 AM
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Tinder is stupid, a cash grab, and full of idiots and bots. Don’t feel bad about yourself, it’s not your fault.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 11:05 PM
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Look at the shot by police ratio. 20:1. Men get shot 20 times more by police than women. Disgusting.
/r/MGTOW10/03/21 12:45 AM
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All relationships end in breakup or death, Its not worth it. GYOW
/r/askTRP09/02/21 06:08 AM
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Fauci can go to hell. I would love to see him be trashed by the media.
/r/MGTOW24/01/21 06:28 AM
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My dad dated a feminist. She broke up with him on the second date because he held the car’s door open for her.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 05:37 PM
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Id rather have pain for a few days out of the month over being treated like a horrible person that is a rapist and a sexist and deserves to burn in hell. Js
/r/MensRights16/12/20 02:55 AM
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They have Onlyfans ftfy
/r/MGTOW07/09/20 07:18 PM
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Good plan. After the pandemic I should be able to lose weight. All the weight gain was stress eating from the pandemic and a med change.
/r/MGTOW07/09/20 06:40 PM
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Women need simps. They would never date them. Onlyfans exists and no girl would ever date their subscriber.
/r/MGTOW07/09/20 06:31 PM
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i’m 6 1
/r/MGTOW07/09/20 05:58 PM
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a lot of thing change when she bangs the judge
/r/PussyPassDenied25/12/19 07:58 PM
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I got banned from askwomen just out of the blue like a week ago. I didn’t even think that was a safe space sub
/r/PussyPassDenied05/08/19 01:59 AM
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Do you get banned from 2X for even commenting here? Let’s see...
/r/PussyPassDenied04/08/19 11:45 PM
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You have to buy reddit coins, and it costs 100 of them, I bought 1800 for 4.99 I’m not sure about the small amounts
/r/PussyPassDenied17/12/18 03:57 PM
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No ban. Maybe this second post?
/r/PussyPassDenied29/11/18 07:55 PM
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Just posting to see if I get banned from 2X
/r/PussyPassDenied28/11/18 05:50 AM
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