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When someone insists on telling you how bad FGM is (especially when they argue in favor of MGM in the same breath) ask them what amount of a child's vagina you should be allowed to cut off - of your own accord - between infancy and adolescence. In my experience, they usually add a little clause that they're against MGM too, it's just frustrating that they downplay it and don't want us talking about it. Nobody else does and it therefore remains legal worldwide! It goes similar to this: Kid: Dad, …
/r/MensRights11/05/15 09:15 AM
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Men are not just looking for sex and kids. I guess I'm one of the rare men that does want a family. Always did. Dreamed about my wedding just as much as little girls are stereotyped to. When I was the smallest guy in 6th grade, I even worried about things like being able to move heavy furniture into the new house we'd have together, or carrying her over the threshold. Wanted to save myself for marriage. Two cars, two kids, couple dogs and cats. Big family gatherings on holidays. All that good wh…
/r/MensRights10/05/15 11:25 PM
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It happens. Even Anita Sarkeesian, who doesn't believe it's possible to be sexist or racists against males and white people, had a fair point that the "damsel in distress" trope is overdone. Even Rebecca Watson, of elevatorgate fame, was right that asking someone out in an elevator really late at night is pretty tactless. They just take it too far. Just like how the dictionary definition of feminism is fine. Of course women and men should have the same rights. It's just they take it too far with…
/r/MensRights10/05/15 11:06 PM
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Life's unfair sometimes. Life is as fair as we make it.
/r/MensRights10/05/15 10:58 PM
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It's absolutely comparable. Both are done without consent. Both are attempts to decrease sexual function. Both leave permanent scarring; my scar is over an inch wide. Why do girls have a right to bodily integrity and sexual autonomy, but not boys?
/r/MensRights10/05/15 09:57 PM
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Well it was done to you without consent, but you ended up liking it, so I guess you can just count yourself as lucky. Nothing more. I was unlucky.
/r/MensRights10/05/15 09:55 PM
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"I want you to take female issues seriously while I mock male issues! If you don't do exactly what I want, I will brand you misogynist!"
/r/MensRights10/05/15 09:53 PM
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That's one of the things that makes me wish I was still religious. Religious people seem to take monogamy more seriously. Most of the people calling themselves monogamous these days have no business doing so. An average woman can get 2 or 3 dates a week off OkCupid; I get that in a year. And women take advantage of it. I guess I don't blame them, maybe I'd change my mindset and do it too if I had the privilege of multiple people trying to get with me. But as is, I can't stand this "It's okay to …
/r/MensRights10/05/15 07:55 PM
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That was my first through too. Maybe it's time to take a break from MR stuff. I have to do that every couple months.
/r/MensRights10/05/15 08:43 AM
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Go easy on the guy. If someone incapable of being monogamous leads someone on to believe they are, I think it's perfectly fair to be bitter when they cheat on you. There's a difference between that kind of person and a poly person, where sleeping with other people is informed and consensual. He wasn't calling poly people sluts.
/r/MensRights10/05/15 08:32 AM
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assumption the male is the primary income provider Haven't you heard? We're keeping that part of the patriarchy! Yay! :(
/r/MensRights10/05/15 05:16 AM
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She'd probably have to proposition the judge in front of everyone and have a swastika tattooed on her face. That might just maybe push custody arrangements over 50% in favor of the father. He'd still have to pay child support though. Being hyperbolic, but it seems that way.
/r/MensRights10/05/15 05:15 AM
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Yes. I've noticed even feminists, the people who claim to want to end gender roles, will shame a man for not being alpha. That's where that "virgin neckbeard basement dweller" crap comes from. Maybe in high school in the 90's it was more of a guy thing, shaming guys like me for not being a "real man", as I was short, shy, a virgin, not athletic, etc. But as an adult, the only people I see defining what a "real man" is are feminists. Their actions make me not believe them. Feminists saying they w…
/r/MensRights09/05/15 09:15 PM
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Since she'll never be found guilty of anything, I propose doing to her what she did to him.
/r/MensRights09/05/15 08:48 PM
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Seems like everyday, the idea that boys and men are just defective girls and women grows.
/r/MensRights09/05/15 07:55 PM
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Most people see prison rape as a feature of the system rather than a problem. Even people close to me joke about "dropping the soap". Really bugs me. And when a female rapes a male, it's classified in a different category in the gov't stats, such as "made to penetrate". And all these cases you see where a female teacher rapes a male student, people say the student must be "gay" if he complained and say he should count himself lucky. The news articles about them are more likely to call it a "rela…
/r/MensRights08/05/15 06:14 PM
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We should print stickers like that and place them around blatant examples of other discrimination. Like that pic floating around earlier of a female bathroom and a unisex bathroom (no males), print a sticker that says something like "whites only" to place over the female bathroom placard. Maybe they'll get the point then, but I doubt it. Feminists throw their own sons under the bus.
/r/MensRights08/05/15 01:17 AM
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Check your red hot combustion privilege!
/r/PussyPass05/05/15 03:48 PM
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I guess not every firefighter needs to be the action type. There's room for more investigative or office type functions. Still, its bugs me that exceptions like this tend to be reserved for women. Like, I was a POG in the military. Not hardcore infantry or anything. But even still, it required lots of manual labor (building pallets full of ammo crates or loading milvans for example), and the females with the same MOS but less intense PT requirements were almost universally unable to hack it. So …
/r/PussyPass05/05/15 03:43 PM
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Why was 83% of the jury women? Diversity!
/r/PussyPass05/05/15 03:31 PM
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I learned that eventually. I dated a few single moms. I love kids and always wanted to be a dad, and don't care about genetics or anything like that. But nobody respects step dads. The mother will always pull the "real mom" card when she wants her way regarding any decision about the kids, from discipline, to cooking for them, to even buying Christmas presents for them. I won't put up with that shit anymore. Even if I found a single mom that was very supportive of me and considered me a full fle…
/r/MensRights05/05/15 02:50 PM
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engaging with the women around you for equal space and rights Oh, I'm absolutely advocating that. The issue is that to achieve equality, it's women who have to make the most sacrifices and gain the most responsibilities.
/r/MensRights04/05/15 05:26 PM
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He probably wasn't hard yet. Or he's fabricating.
/r/MGTOW04/05/15 10:12 AM
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Part of it stems from my temp agency experience. They almost exclusively send males to the labor jobs and females to the office jobs. Job after job, things like concrete labor, it'd be 40 guys and the only female on site was sitting in the office. After a few years of that, I finally got a office job through the temp agency (for tax season) this year, and all of the full time employees are female. I posit that the only reason they've resorted to sending male temps is because the job is soul crus…
/r/MensRights04/05/15 02:48 AM
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Had a teacher who complained about when she entered the workforce in the 70's, she didn't get paid as much as the men. My first thought was something similar to what you said, how men were, and still are, expected to be breadwinners. Back then, a man's pay was enough for a family of four, so the woman's pay would have have just been supplemental to the family. Granted, it is indeed sexist to pay women less for the same work, but it's also sexist to expect men to be breadwinners to be worth anyth…
/r/MensRights04/05/15 02:25 AM
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Yeah, the way I see it, I want to live in a society where it's okay to be a "beta", rather than be shamed for it. No matter how much I fake it, I'll never be an "alpha". I'll always be short and bald. I'll never own a BMW. I'll always have social anxiety issues that prevent simple things like eye contact and talking without stuttering. And even if I were able to fake it enough to start attracting women, it wouldn't feel right. My head would be thinking about how she doesn't love the real me, and…
/r/MensRights03/05/15 10:17 PM
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I was thinking the same thing. I thought about replying like "Yep, they talk about this stuff in the MR sub all the time and are trying to come up with solutions. Got any ideas? Come help out!" but I know that would ruin it and maybe make them stop caring about the issues. Sort of like how many here would agree with feminists that gender roles need to end, but we want nothing to do with feminists.
/r/MensRights03/05/15 10:12 PM
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Lots of good anecdotes in the TIL xposts. Or rather bad, because they make me sad and depressed.
/r/MensRights03/05/15 10:09 PM
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I'd rather not be compared. MR and RP are alike in that they're full of men with problems. They're different in the solutions. And the solutions matter. It's like the difference between Christina Hoff Sommers and Anita Sarkeesian; both feminists but different like day and night. It's because of RP that the "pick up artist" stereotype exists, for example.
/r/MensRights02/05/15 07:18 AM
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Yeah, trying to change the system vs working the current system, essentially. At least, that's how I'd describe it. I myself am a bit more idealistic rather than pragmatic. I want to change the system rather than take advantage of stuff that doesn't sit well with my conscience.
/r/MensRights02/05/15 06:39 AM
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This is why I make a point of sincerely complimenting (sometimes for weird things) guy friends and even the occasional stranger. and the reply And you can be sure every one of those guys thinks you want them. That one hits close to home too. A woman other than my grandmother has never called me handsome or complimented me in anyway. If one did, I'd probably grasp onto it hard. "She's the one". And start imagining what we will name our future kids. I'm not sure if the solution is to make complime…
/r/MensRights30/04/15 05:28 PM
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I'd think that receiving compliments and respect just for existing would motivate me more to actually do things. I know it sounds like I'm advocating the "everyone gets a trophy" thing, but I suppose there is some logic behind it. Like I used to go to this Archery thing, and I sucked, but everyone got at least a small participation trophy, and that kept me coming back and trying to get better. Otherwise I might have just given up. On Army deployments, it's similar. Everyone gets at least an ARCO…
/r/MensRights30/04/15 05:20 PM
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Yeah, it's a good comment and hits home. I've only been hit on twice in my life, and it was at a gay bar on the same night (they asked to buy me a drink while I was up there trying to buy). Despite not being gay and having to turn them down with a "nah it's ok", it boosted my confidence for a month. I sometimes wish I were gay or asexual, because I'm really lonely. It's been years since I've had any kind of intimacy. P.S. Gays bars are awesome. They even had Wii Bowling!
/r/MensRights30/04/15 05:14 PM
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They would still insist it's patriarchy and then add "patriarchy hurts men too". Seems like everything labelled "patriarchy" is beneficial to women over men.
/r/MensRights30/04/15 05:08 PM
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I remember being so shy buying pads for my grandma, but now I give a "sup" nod/smirk. Buying pantyhose and blush for her is still a little intimidating though, especially if the cashier is cute. Not that I have the confidence to do anything more than say "hi", "thanks", and "you too" to them anyway.
/r/MensRights30/04/15 05:05 PM
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Reminds me of that comic of how older guys act in the gym locker room, hairy balls hanging out and everything. Found it! Go Piggers!
/r/MensRights30/04/15 04:59 PM
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I've never thought of it like that. While "slut shaming" is one of the areas I tend to agree with feminism, I feel they take it too far. Like suggesting that a woman take precautions before getting pass-out wasted at a party counts as slut shaming and victim blaming to them. But overall, yeah, as long as you don't claim to be monogamous, do whatever you want. But what she said is true too. It's very easy for a woman to find multiple partners a week, even if she's morbidly obese and a smoker. I h…
/r/MensRights30/04/15 05:29 AM
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It's usually some other issues that people care about, like healthcare, gay rights, and war. For a long time, I identified as a liberal because of issues like that. Went to the anti-war protests and everything. Eventually I figured out that they weren't anti-war, they were just anti-Republican-in-charge-of-the-war. Later learned that libertarians had even better solutions to gay equality and ending war, and they were consistent regardless of which party was in power.
/r/MensRights29/04/15 06:35 PM
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The only time I ever seen or heard someone support rape was boys being raped by female teachers and men being raped by a large black man in prison. Sexist and racist.
/r/MensRights29/04/15 05:20 AM
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And 95% of men my age could kick my ass. But nobody cares about scrawny men. If I defend myself against a woman, I'm considered a woman beater the same as a six foot tall athlete.
/r/MensRights29/04/15 05:11 AM
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why what she's "used to" factors into anything I was thinking the same thing. If alimony continues to be a thing that exists, it shouldn't be be more than enough for 2000 calories a day and a two bedroom house. Enough for them to be secure enough to improve themselves, job search, take classes, etc. Giving this woman millions is an insult to 99% of the world that can't even afford that two bedroom house.
/r/MensRights26/04/15 08:13 PM
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