IAmAPhoneBook Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	How to react to "I'm not a slut!" "I don't believe in sluts-- who am I to judge."	/r/seduction	05/03/14 04:08 AM
1	How to tell if she's giving you "the look"? Eye contact at all is a sign of attraction. The eyes are attracted to what they are interested in so typically the longer/more focused the look, the stronger the interest. Learning how this unfolds on the fly in the field is like everything, it just takes practice.	/r/seduction	10/02/14 02:50 AM
15	"We're not having sex" Past 2 weekends this has happened to me while I've had girls in my bed. -"That's a shame" -Proceed to talk about something else as though you are not really attached to the prospect. -Begin escalating physically again -Repeat	/r/seduction	10/02/14 02:27 AM
2	Stop with the bullshit. The whole point of Manson's methods seems to revolve around building your identity and learning how to act in accord with yourself. That old adage of "just be yourself" actually has immense value and works better in the long run than just memorizing routines and canned material. The whole concept of "polarizing" people was really eye-opening and makes much more sense than trying to misdirect people into projecting positive character-traits and motivations onto you.	/r/seduction	01/09/13 10:16 PM
3	Approaching girls in/after class I LOVE to chat up girls in class. A couple notes from what I've learned: You'd do well to readdress the concept behind "spray n' pray" as a strategy since you only have so many classes, and it stands to reason that you'll be running into these girls on a regular basis. If you have a good conversation with someone in class, get their number (I'm a fan of just making tentative plans in conversation and handing them my phone with a "new contact" menu open). Anywho, invite them to a day2 and pull th…	/r/seduction	16/04/13 02:02 AM
1	Little Victories for a Beginner Plus Sicence!: http://my.psychologytoday.com/files/u47/Henry_et_al.pdf	/r/seduction	26/03/13 12:26 PM
7	Little Victories for a Beginner Exactly. Bonus points for gay humor! Seriously, I'm a straight man but I have no issue with cracking jokes about other guys being sexy/having a sexually ambiguous lifestyle because it's so fun and it keeps people guessing! Plus it demonstrates to women that you are totally not interested in taking your sexuality too seriously and are very "enlightened". Kudos, mate. May your little victories make way for big ones.	/r/seduction	26/03/13 02:11 AM
1	Why one-itis is a piece of shit, and getting rejected is awesome. (And why you should make moves early!) I made more or less the same mistake when I first started dating in college. Mistakes are for learning from. It's like that song "Blanket" by Autolux says: "If everything had come true, there'd be nothing left to do."	/r/seduction	20/03/13 09:43 PM
3	4 Rules for Relationships I never said I stayed with her, mates. That relationship didn't last long, precisely because of immature behavior such as this. My point, however, was that I didn't let the moment get the best of me. I remained calm and refused to treat it like a big deal. Because it wasn't. It was merely the beginning of a series of signs which would culminate in my understanding that she didn't deserve me.	/r/seduction	10/03/13 07:16 PM
5	4 Rules for Relationships There's definitely some useful advice in here. *This also includes 'her' telling you that she thinks another guy is cute, flirting with another guy, thinking that you always have to pay for her when you go out, etc.(Don't let them get away with any of these!) But I would point out that this could easily conflict with not wanting to appear needy. It's appropriate to think about how to best handle the situation. I can tell you right now that some girls will (obviously) do some of these things in o…	/r/seduction	10/03/13 04:18 PM
1	Keys to (winning) at the game. "A Ha" realizations. This. I like to consider myself a guy who appearance and attitude gives me a great deal of control over whom I share my time with, but I still love to flirt with anyone. Why do you guys think so many girls do it?	/r/seduction	28/02/13 03:37 PM
1	The psychology behind "one-itis" Well, my friend, "one-itis" isn't exactly in any academic journals. That said, it boils down to soup and sparks in the brain just like every other aspect of human behavior. Now, research into oxytocin has demonstrated a link between the levels of the hormone in the brain and fidelity. While I haven't seen any science literature regarding the role this compound plays in non-reciprocated attraction-- I suspect that there is a link between the two. But obviously the whole story is going to be far m…	/r/seduction	28/02/13 03:25 PM
0	Man, I Became an AFC again last night... Short term results don't matter except in the short term! It doesn't matter if you spent last night crashing and burning or pulling a HB10, just focus on the future and what you're gonna do to be the person you wanna be.	/r/seduction	27/02/13 07:19 PM
4	What early warning signs have you picked up on to avoid "sticking dick in crazy"? There are no hard-and-fast rules to tell if someone will have a negative impact on your romantic life. It's what they say and how/when they say it. One time I approached a girl at the bar, couldn't been older than early 20's. I ask what she studies and she says it's early childhood education. I swear that within two sentences, with no direction on my part, she had moved the conversation to how much she loves kids and wants to have kids and really thinks she would make a great mother, blah, blah,…	/r/seduction	25/02/13 07:24 PM
2	This is kind of off-topic, but how many guys here are only children or the youngest child of all your siblings? Only-Child, here. Got a pretty strong natural inner-game setting.	/r/seduction	17/02/13 10:42 PM
4	i am always worried that there won't be another date, Anyone else have this problem? Only two things I know of that can help you overcome it: Operating within abundance of dates/hookups, which will eventually alter your perception of each encounter and limit the stress you feel from potential rejection. Or the alternative (which is healthier anyway): Get over it. The best way to relieve stress over your interactions with people is to get out and meet new people.	/r/seduction	16/02/13 07:09 PM
1	So how are you supposed to react when people are giving you shit about KNOWING their name? I think that's a perfectly respectable response and the important thing to know is that if they don't like it, move to a new set. Some people just don't want to be your friend, nothing you can do about that but meet new people.	/r/seduction	14/02/13 04:50 PM