IAmBigBo Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
16	Drowning financially because of child support. I paid $1950 a month for 10 years, pay and live in my car or go to jail. I chose to pay. After 3 years I earned enough for an apartment. Declaring bankruptcy doesn’t wipe out your support order or change it. There’s no statute of limitations. Arrears keeps building with interest.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/01/25 01:31 PM
-1	Is it just me? Isn’t that what they all do?	/r/Divorce_Men	04/12/24 08:50 AM
1	Attorney Contract Question???? That’s a pretty standard arrangement for joint custody and primary residence with Mom.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/11/24 10:04 PM
1	Who to talk to? No one, I just pray a lot.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/11/24 08:41 PM
2	The kids Your children will be more crushed seeing a miserable and unhappy Dad. You deserve to be happy with the right woman.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/11/24 02:13 AM
1	Am I an asshole for saying this: Yes, I am speaking from 30 years of experience. The first 10 years were very difficult.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/11/24 04:02 PM
5	Am I an asshole for saying this: Time heals all wounds, hard to believe but it does happen.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/11/24 11:10 AM
9	Do you guys ever financially recover? Yes, took me over 10 years. Ending child support was a major milestone.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/11/24 12:48 AM
3	Alone Your feelings are normal, it’s part of the process. Don’t give up and just focus on being the best Dad. Everything gets better with time.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/11/24 08:39 PM
8	Those who remarried after divorce… I love trauma, apparently. 4th wife just said she wants a divorce :( we were engaged 8 years before getting married in Hong Kong 2018, I thought it was safe and we were a good match. She came to America in 2022 and now 2 years and 6 months later wants a divorce. Every divorce took a chunk out of my heart. Don’t know how much more I can take.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/10/24 07:42 PM