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It’s really easy. I’m somewhere north of that (I really never kept count) and I don’t even try hard. The problem is once you find what works you go down a spiral of meeting and having sex with women too quickly for you to even get to know them or remember them all. I just got single at the end of last year and I’m already at 5 bodies and this is with me trying to settle down. And for reference, I’m 5’8” and bald. And I date attractive women. Lol. It’s just confidence and not trying too hard.
/r/seduction11/06/23 05:09 PM
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Some women might want you. Some might not. Can’t take rejection to heart, you just try again. If you keep getting the same results, make some changes til you feel like you are hot. I’ve been with plenty of women. I’ve been rejected by more. So what?
/r/seduction31/05/23 08:54 PM
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It’s because so many guys overthink it. Just walk up to a woman, say hello, I’m such and such and I thought you looked like someone I should get to know. I’ve done that so many times and it’s a quick yes no thing. They laugh and introduce themselves, engage. They don’t or look disinterested, let it go. Keep in mind the principle of sometimes you hot and sometimes you not.
/r/seduction31/05/23 05:19 PM
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I’m dating.
/r/seduction05/10/22 10:38 PM
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Receive? Moral of the story is don’t be selfish, please your partner, hopefully they have the same mentality and everyone is happy.
/r/seduction15/06/22 09:35 PM
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I live this life. And am usually rewarded with head if she isn’t tired but I am. The more she knows you care about her having an orgasm the more she will make sure you are good. Just think about it with sense. Women know good sex is possible. Why plan to never take care of something you want to keep?
/r/seduction13/06/22 06:37 PM
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Save that for a girlfriend. Not just an STD my brother, but a kid you are either responsible for moving forward or you become a piece of shit and abandon. Just saying, random women get treated like random woman. You only have one night. There will be another woman.
/r/seduction12/06/22 08:05 PM
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It’s mostly cause I smoke weed and have a weed man who will hang from time to time. Being honest, you know my boy sells tons of weed. You gonna turn a blind eye while we roll up at the cook out? Do you hang with other cops who might come around, but not be cool? It would be fun in idea, but for me it’s mostly the reefer and various drug dealers I’m related to.
/r/seduction07/06/22 07:11 PM
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Yes it’s worked fine for me. Women who date a lot build defenses. If she doesn’t give you her number after the first date just forget about her.
/r/seduction03/06/22 03:41 AM
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Lol. Maybe I’m not supposed to be here. I used to tell women they would probably be around for about 90 days before I get bored. Approach with confidence and you get better results. Always remember that for every WCW, she used to be someone else’s TBT.
/r/seduction21/05/22 08:44 PM
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I can respect that. Different stroke for different folks. Once you decide I’m not it, I’m cool only speaking if we see each other in Publix. That random, awkward eye contact is the best.
/r/seduction09/02/22 02:27 PM
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I guess I don’t get how that is closure. Closure is when they don’t pick up. What else is there to wonder about? People who like you show they like you. If you wonder, will he ever call, unless something drastic came up, even if he calls, it’s because he didn’t have anyone else. Asking them to give you a breakdown for thing that they didn’t like, but might be totally acceptable to someone else is a setup for failure. I don’t look for the girl who I like. I look for the girl who I like and who li…
/r/seduction09/02/22 02:07 PM
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I guess I don’t get what else needs to be said. If you call me twice and never hear back…you really need a breakdown that I don’t want you? I could not want you because you live over 36 minutes away and I like chicks who closer. Do I really need to get into that? Me telling you I don’t think you are worth a 36 minute drive will make you feel what?
/r/seduction09/02/22 01:49 PM
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Lol. I get your point OP, but really more often than not it was because I had completely lost interest, already moved on, and didn’t think it was worth the time or conversation. I don’t owe anyone anything, and they don’t owe me. I’m looking for the one woman I want to keep. Unless there is a professional reason to stay in touch, why do I need to talk to someone who is a non factor just so they can feel better? I guess it makes me whatever.
/r/seduction09/02/22 01:47 PM
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Met my girl on Bumble. If you serious it’s good because you know they invested and willing to do something other than sit and be pretty.
/r/seduction26/10/21 11:13 PM
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That’s valid I was talking to a woman at a event after a trade show for like 10 minutes and she felt the need to tell me she wasn’t flirting with me. It’s so hard for women to automatically assume you want to have sex if you speak to them any period of time. Maybe I just like having conversations with people in my industry.
/r/seduction23/09/21 05:43 AM
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I tend to pull my penis out. I kid, I kid. Listening, showing interest in what matters to her, and showing her you listen and take action without having to be told. And then I show them my penis.
/r/seduction23/09/21 05:40 AM
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Yea man. She can’t be mad you already in the game. And she seems to enjoy the challenge. That’s a win all around.
/r/seduction13/08/21 10:49 PM
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Lol. It’s the lyrics to “Be A Man”. Some of y’all got no sense of humor.
/r/seduction02/08/21 10:01 PM
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It is. You got this man. Nothing to it but to do it.
/r/seduction02/08/21 07:59 PM
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Because you don’t think of being a man as something you really want to do yet. It’s all about what you want out of this life here. I get you don’t want to do things just for women’s validation, but you really do, you just want them to want you where you are now. It just doesn’t work like that. It’s like the big girl who wants a guy who likes fit women to love her regardless. She doesn’t have to change a thing. But she can’t expect to get what she wants without doing something. Same here man. Spe…
/r/seduction02/08/21 07:42 PM
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Let's get down to business To defeat the Huns Did they send me daughters When I asked for sons? You're the saddest bunch I ever met But you can bet before we're through Mister, I'll make a man out of you Tranquil as a forest But on fire within Once you find your center You are sure to win You're a spineless, pale, pathetic lot And you haven't got a clue Somehow I'll make a man out of you I'm never gonna catch my breath! Say goodbye to those who knew me! Boy, was I a fool in school for cutting gy…
/r/seduction02/08/21 07:38 PM
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You aren’t a kid. You are 25. That’s the end of it.
/r/seduction02/08/21 07:37 PM
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It will help definitely. Just giving you a sense of purpose to your day. Then I say just find a trade or something to sell that you think “ehh that could be cool” if you can. Then attack it as much as you can.
/r/seduction01/08/21 03:46 PM
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And focus on becoming the man you want to be before you worry about women or friends. You will attract higher quality people in your life once you feel more confident in who you are. A circle of broke friends keep you broke. Join a circle of millionaires and you will become a millionaire. Think like that.
/r/seduction01/08/21 02:33 PM
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Man I understand. I get my daughter most weekends. But I went through a long drought of depression after taking a position with a start up company that didn’t pan out and then not finding a good job I enjoyed and made the money I was used to for about 2 years. But this too shall pass. Stay as positive as you can, but most importantly take action. Before today is over, apply to a new job or find out how to apply to some classes or certifications that will get you in the direction you want to be. …
/r/seduction01/08/21 02:30 PM
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Anything where people will always have a need. Look into the trade schools in your area. They can probably advise better than me, but they usually make good money and they always have work. And man even if you can just sell cars, it can be great money in it. But really damn near anything where your check isn’t determined by just your wage. I make more than most people a year in salary but then you throw commission and residuals on top and it starts adding up. What are things you like and are int…
/r/seduction01/08/21 02:27 PM
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Look into skilled trades. Also look into a sales career. I know a ton of guys who didn’t finish school, but learned to sell very well, who make bank. It’s the only job where you write your own check based on your skill set and what you put in, not what anyone thinks you should earn.
/r/seduction01/08/21 02:21 PM
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Very possible. I’m not quite where you are but I am leveling up my life in every aspect. I’ve been making good money, just took steps with my new job to make great money. Also in my first adult relationship after dicking and disappearing for years. First stop saying what you will try to do. Do it. I been smoking weed my whole life. I just stopped. It was never something that kept me from anything but it slowed me down and took money from other things I wanted. Regardless of anything else I would…
/r/seduction01/08/21 02:19 PM
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Bruh don’t worry about texting. I’m in a whole relationship and will not text back just because I’m busy. See how the date goes. Some people don’t like getting over invested before meeting.
/r/seduction30/07/21 12:18 AM
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Man even if you not jacked. I’m a regular guy with a good dad bod. Not fat but no 6 pack and shiny bald all over. Best decision of my life. Not only do I save so much money on hair cuts, I’m also have women rubbing the smoothness during sex and other things. Now I’m 35 so it’s a little older, but I have friend who went bald sooner and it was never love lost for them either. I think it’s more important you own it. The most insecure I felt was trying to hold on to my hair when I had a sunroof at t…
/r/seduction02/06/21 11:03 AM
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I just went bald and it’s even easier.
/r/seduction29/05/21 08:32 PM
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There are no rules to the game. Never expect sex by any date. They don’t owe you sex or you owe them because it’s been a few dates. You will know. And with that you are saying don’t pressure yourself. And don’t sweat not wanting to be casual. I was a man whore for years and eventually got bored. I’m in a committed relationship now and couldn’t be happier. Better the best sex is with someone you trust and can be fully open with.
/r/seduction23/02/21 03:53 AM
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Man it’s just about being confident. My motto has always been sometimes you hot, sometimes you not. Some women will like you. Some won’t. Ive had models into me. I’ve had regular chicks blow me off. Don’t sweat anything. The good news is it always another woman to meet.
/r/seduction22/02/21 02:47 AM
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I would say he might at times but he doesn’t want to cross the line because the real value is having you around. Not having sex with you so then things change and he can no longer count on you.
/r/seduction09/02/21 11:32 PM
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Lol. I guess I’m of a different thought. I value having someone I can count on more than sex. I can have sex anywhere. But a woman who will take care of things I need handled to make my life easier is way more valuable. In my world, I can keep a female friend for life. Once we start having sex I’ll probably be tired of you in 3 months.
/r/seduction09/02/21 01:18 PM
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Lol then don’t. I do have a girlfriend. Which means what? I know something. I don’t care what you do. Have fun. Go with God. Good luck and may the odds forever be in your favor. Just don’t waste my time.
/r/seduction25/11/20 11:38 PM
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Or maybe I don’t think about kids. Get your life together. We in a post talking about seduction. Only people who have off thoughts need to give disclaimers. I wasn’t even thinking about women under 25 these days. How are you doing on your pick up game? Successful much?
/r/seduction25/11/20 10:28 PM
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I mean if that’s the only reason you are there that’s an issue. I don’t really have to chase women like that just trying to give advice on where I have meet cool women, in real life, and not had to think of extra things to break ice. I was just trying to help based on my experience as a man who has been meeting women in the real world regularly for years. Y’all be great.
/r/seduction25/11/20 04:59 PM
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Or it speaks to the fact that a lot of women can’t cool beyond basic meals and showing you can put together a full meal never looks bad. I thought grown people eat Mac and cheese too. Maybe you should get your thoughts together.
/r/seduction25/11/20 04:57 PM
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Produce section fellas. I kill at grocery stores. These Mac and cheese young ass women. Let them see you in there with a cart full of good food, no ring, and you have the confidence to make eye contact, then smile at them and ask what they like to eat.
/r/seduction25/11/20 04:07 PM
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Give things time, focus on bettering yourself, and do not visit those places man. It will justify the wrong thoughts in your head. Women like men who like being themselves. Learn to like yourself more and where you feel you bring value into the world. Women will come. I did most of my fucking post 20 years old.
/r/seduction25/11/20 11:18 AM
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Eventually it does get old. I started craving a real connection and someone to make memories with.
/r/seduction24/08/20 10:16 PM
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Lol. I just follow the thread for laughs but if you can’t handle a nice rejection like this then you will have a hard time in life.
/r/seduction21/11/19 03:19 PM
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