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Social IssuesIAmDefinitelyNotFBI/r/MensRights01/02/21 09:09 PM
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Social IssuesIAmDefinitelyNotFBI/r/MensRights14/11/19 07:02 PM
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You do have an idea of a correct path, but only with other red pill women and some centrists. You don't really know how to deal with anyone else. The issues lies in the fact you give the same advice for every single woman, when it's just not that simple. Yeah, I agree with you on that. But I'm referring to stuff like "men should go to work and earn all the money, women should stay home" type shit. That only works for red pillers but I see it said as if it's for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:21 AM
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I'll agree with you partly, that the blue pillers tend to argue without experience. But you redpillers always argue as if your world view is the only correct way to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:53 PM
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You're projecting your personal feelings and experience onto all of us. Work makes me happy, fulfilled, and I enjoy the responsibility I have over others. I'd rather not have a stay at home maid and I don't think all women enjoy that either. You people need to stop telling us all how to live, just because YOU like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:36 AM
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And men have become so deathly afraid of being creepshamed that they ruin their dating chances by listening. The ones who don't struggle? They're the ones who don't listen. You are right but what's the cure? Of course they don't want to risk being called a creep or having something worse come from that. Depending on how physically attractive you are, your % for being successful can be so low it's not worth the hassle. I would guess that an ugly guy that's a 3/10 can approach a woman with confide…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:31 AM
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The biggest problem majority of the time is and will always be that they barely make any move toward the people they fancy. The single most useful advice is to be more socially and sexually assertive. You would be correct 20 years ago, now you're risking a lot by being that way. Also, those things mostly work for people who are outwardly attractive. So please, the next time you think of giving any advice, don't try to set people up to the idea they need to do things before doing what they want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:25 AM
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So, chasing achievement or wanting financial independence is masculine, for men? I'm not being obtuse, your ideas sound nonsensical and nebulous to me so I'm trying to make sense of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:20 AM
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So you're defining "having a career" and "having sex" as a masculine thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:31 AM
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I dunno about that. They seem to have some strong views about women having children, not careers. Women not having male friends. Women not having had sex with too many men before them. Women dressing modestly. Amongst a bunch of other things. Y’all just don’t like that being a “free spirit” is unattractive to most men. You want to have all your fun, and still get that top tier guy. So, they don't want women to live like men do, basically?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:02 AM
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I think you might be misunderstanding then, I'm not saying to focus on your career to get rich. I'm saying focus on your career to build a job for yourself that you enjoy doing. Considering we will be working almost our entire life, I think it's instrumental to build a career where you actually enjoy going to work. Yeah, I didn't mention friends because I feel that goes without saying. Of course having friends and creating memories is very important also.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 10:15 AM
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Take it from someone who has dated a lot of women. Relationships and dating are overrated. You will have a much better quality of life if you focus on your career and hobbies, and learn to derive happiness from that. Of course don't turn completely away from it all, because the right person can be a nice addition to your life. But don't chase it, and don't hang your happiness on whether you have a gf or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:26 PM
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Yeah, they say this is their ideal the same way most men will say their ideal woman has C or DD cup titties. They aren't rejecting a woman they like just cause she has B cups.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:42 AM
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You could also teach about false claims and women who weaponise it to destroy men? Why is it that kind of thing is never pushed or shown anywhere? After all, that'd be helpful too. Well, I'm not even totally sure on that actually. Men can't be raped unless it's by another man. I could be wrong but last I checked, by law it says "be penetrating another person".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 11:51 AM
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I'm happy you think that, unfortunately that's not how most men feel both on the right and left haha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 11:48 AM
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Education, work places, in entertainment, and online. What life are you thinking is left after that? Oh yeah, a choice between watching a 10 minute feminist video or dropping out of university lmao warra choice. Nope, not before a class. We had to watch it before we could enroll online. You couldn't enroll unless you watched the whole ten minutes. Mate, I like football and all I hear about is Thomas Partey or Greenwood, or whoever else has some claim against them. And let's just remind you of yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 11:33 AM
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Literally just told you how every single student was forced to watch a bunch of feminist content didn't I.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 11:20 AM
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Nope. Plenty of things to be worried about, yet only one thing is shoved down our throats in every aspect of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 11:17 AM
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Nah, it was videos talking about rape statistics and how most rapists get away with it and you need to be vigilant and report men to security who are seen with drunk women by themselves and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 11:05 AM
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Not really true. At my university every year all students had to watch a feminist video or two before they could even sign up for their year of study. When you have job training, there will be feminist videos you need to watch. It's everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 10:54 AM
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The sad part is righties aren't pro men, either. They're also wanting men to be a shield for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 10:51 AM
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So basically it's still very easy for the massive majority of us to avoid
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 01:41 AM
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Oh you're absolutely right but this other person was making it sound like it's morally okay if they can't figure out you're lying haha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:12 PM
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Does it really increase socialisation? Most hobbies these days require you to be at home or by yourself in some sort of way. When you do leave if it's a sport thing you tend to play with only friends or your own sex. Also I disagree that it improves their socialisation skills. I know a lot of men who go out and have hobbies yet have awful chat with women or are too worried to speak. This is just one of those things that might help 1 in every 100 guys who try it but generally it's bad advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 08:47 PM
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No one said it is, but it's obviously the most important and impactful piece of the puzzle
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 08:14 PM
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Tell me what? That one average looking dude getting laid means looks don't matter to most people? Ugh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 06:56 PM
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2025 and we still using outliers to make our point
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 06:49 PM
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You're mostly right but this conversation is a reply to all those people who constantly say "get some hobbies bro, they don't date you cause you're boring". Which is just not true. Hobbies aren't really doing anything to help someone date. People should absolutely get hobbies for themselves, but people need to stop telling dudes that hobbies will help them with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 06:44 PM
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The truth is that hobbies are the cure to ending up in shitty relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 06:39 PM
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They're saying it's irrelevant. That those with hobbies aren't even more successful with people of the opposite sex, because people actually don't care about that, they care more about looks and they are good at chatting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 06:38 PM
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It's manipulation if you purposely aren't honest with them and string them along as you consider your options. There's absolutely an intention there when men do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 06:31 PM
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The generalising in this is over the top. You sound far too angry about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 08:31 PM
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You seem to be basing your entire worldview from your own perspective ignoring everyone else’s. Loads of people are here telling you how their body is fucked even though they don’t eat like shit. And some who said theirs isn’t fucked and did eat poorly. It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to see that the more physical you are, the more wear and tear you get. Even professional athletes get knee problems and back problems ffs. Get off your high horse about how perfectly you live compared to everyon…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 09:39 AM
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Do we think he’s one person or no? Not really a good example to make your point with. There are plenty of soy righties you can individually point out
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:07 PM
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I’m a liberal but funny how you assume I have to be on “the other team”. I have a single position that goes against “my side”, and that makes you go on a tirade about conservatives lmao Sounds like I hit a nerve. Insecurity much?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:05 PM
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It's most people's experience tbh. It's obvious even if you haven't seen it. The more left you are the more blue pilled you become, until you're a full-on simp. The type that buys OF and watches Twitch thots. Why do you think these men do that? Because they're unattractive to most women and have no choice but to be a simp as it's their only play. There's a reason soyboy was only used on left-wing men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 12:01 PM
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This sub is a good example that it won’t. How rare is it to see any post ever upvoted here? Everyone is just pissed off and won’t settle for any less than “Yes, your sex has it worse than the other.” Even some of the most level-headed posts here that are slightly pro men or pro women will still be downvoted by the “other side”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 10:04 AM
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Ofc they are. You seen the study recently which shows how politically divided men and women are? Lower birth rates, more men and women being single and alone. It’s all stemming from the issues between the sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 10:02 AM
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Is that true? Last I checked those studies consider self harm as a “suicide attempt”. Women aren’t doing it simply because they aren’t trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 01:21 PM
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No one made the statement that 100% of women are unconditionally loved. You saying "hey, SOME aren't" doesn't change anything about what is being said.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:37 AM
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It's not a good point. Just because 10% of them aren't doesn't mean the other 90% are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:46 AM
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For the most part they are. You can talk about some specific times a woman was not, but for the most part they are. When something is happening to a man in public, most people won't do anything. If it's a woman, people will help. That's not even talking about those videos where people laugh at men being hit by women in public. Then there's the justice system. Why is it women get way less time in jail than men for the same crimes? Why do they get off so easily for crimes? Why do politicians keep …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:42 AM
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You might be online too much, bud
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:28 PM
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I'd say the opposite. Most of the red pill people I meet irl are usually normies who go gym and are out and about a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:26 PM
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Well of course. There is a reason many incels are autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:22 PM
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I don’t think you’ve ever loved a person. Where did I say it’s normal? Yeah, I have had pretty good relationships thanks! Yeah, I’d say it is a good reason tbh. I’m not gonna ditch someone I love because they got mad and hit me on the arm when I did something stupid. Yeah, good for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:34 AM
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Yeah, people are all robots with 0 emotions. If you piss all their money away on a gambling addiction and they get mad and shake you for it, THEY'RE totally in the wrong. It's all very black and white, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:18 AM
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Yeah it's why I tried to differentiate between the types of "domestic violence" but some people seem to only see it as all bad and inexcusable which we all know is just their typical idealist internet opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:14 AM
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Shame you'd divorce the love of your life and possible parent to your kids because they shoved you after you did something fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:12 AM
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Depends how much you love them and if they're actually trying to beat it. You seem to see things in a very black or white way, not really how the world works unless you're tism.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:11 AM
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Doesn't engage with anything I've said and just tries to railroad talking point lmao I've answered this already. Depends what the "hitting" is. If they've spent your family savings on alcohol or gambling, a shove or shake might be forgivable. Punching them in the nose and breaking it probably isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:08 AM
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I literally answered that in my comment?? What are you even saying? Weird that you assumed it's a man kicking a woman when we're in a thread talking about lesbian relationships. I've been kicked by women and it means nothing. People can literally say way worse things than some 3 second pain in your leg.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:02 AM
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Depends on the level of the domestic violence. If it's straight punching in the face or hitting with a weapon then maybe unforgiveable. If it's a slap or a kick in the leg, you probs can forgive it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:48 AM
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Yeah, I misspoke, everyone knows that it's a disproportionate amount. Point still stands. Wanna make some sweeping generalisations about black men, too?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:10 PM
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You realise that’s showing how disproportionate that is, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:15 PM
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Yes lol. Using the outlier of 0.1% of men to paint a broad picture is exactly what a generalisation is. Most mass shooters are actually black. So do we wanna now say generally white people are more mature and logical?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:42 PM
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Good reply /s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:07 PM
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RP people have always been right leaning lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:54 PM
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Did you just broadstroke generalise men by using extreme cases of men who end up being school shooters which is what, 0.000005% of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:52 PM
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I've never seen anyone in RP circles even talk about him
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:17 PM
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Most normies for sure know Tate, but unlikely they know the others as you'd have to be online a bit more to know them. Whenever I discuss red or blue pill in social places most people dunno these terms unless they're online a decent amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:46 PM
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I think the fact it now has a name just makes people forget that this kind of thinking has never really been uncommon. I don't really see how these red pill guys are any different than your average not terminally online types have always been. These red pill guys like Tate didn't exactly invent it, they came in and capitalised on an already large group of people. I'd say just about anyone who isn't a male feminist is very likely going to be red pilled or purple pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:43 PM
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Pretty good advice tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:07 PM
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Goes both ways. When men settle for women, you better hope to god a more attractive one doesn't hit on him cause he'll cheat so fast. Lots of people settle, lots of people want to monkeybranch if the opportunity comes up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 09:36 PM
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No. Your assertion of "most men" isn't taking into consideration how willing to fuck they are. Them right swiping doesn't necessarily mean they are attracted to them, it means they want to fuck. Men are hornier and will lower their standards for this, so they swipe right on more. Most of what you just said is untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 07:10 PM
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This doesn’t mean they’re attracted necessarily. Dudes are just more willing to fuck women they aren’t that attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 08:19 AM
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People are degenerate on Discord for sure. Just take yourself out of those circles, nothing you can do about losers online unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 08:18 AM
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Meh. I've seen a lot of women fuck the most misogynistic guys because they're attractive. I can't remember any of them being like "actually yeah I'm out you're a dick".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 02:45 PM
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Right so that means they're settling, too. So we've said they're both settling just that you believe women settle a little bit less than men.
/r/MensRights16/09/23 05:48 PM
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Yeah, do you not think men do the same? Lots of men I know have expectations that aren't met by the women they date, that's a part of life. Not even just obesity, but being overweight. More than half of the people in those countries are overweight. This means getting with someone fit should not be expected. So, this could be considering being unrealistic to date women who are fit, with x other things that guys want.
/r/MensRights16/09/23 05:41 AM
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Suck your mothers pussy lil bro
/r/MensRights15/09/23 01:43 PM
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It's not 1% of men at all, otherwise no men would have relationships or get laid. This is just a large generalisation not really based in reality. And in any case, people are fat in USA/Canada/UK etc, right? So, do you think it's unrealistic to expect to date someone who is fit? That logic isn't based in reality though. There's probably less than 25% of women who want a man that earns 6 figures, and even less that won't date men under 6ft.
/r/MensRights15/09/23 10:27 AM
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Who says they're unrealistic generally? And who defines what is realistic?
/r/MensRights15/09/23 09:31 AM
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I'm a bit confused by the replies? Are women not allowed to have standards? Sorry but no one is forcing me to fuck some fat hairy jobless woman.
/r/MensRights15/09/23 08:03 AM
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You've never heard that? It's almost a weekly argument online. Just google callmecarson, guy got hounded and harassed for sexting a 17 year old when he was 19. And there are plenty of real things to criticise women for just like the orgasm gap but that's likely the exact thing you say makes red pillers about anger when you're doing the exact same to them. Can you name some that say all the things you listed? Specifically YouTube. I'll check them out. I honestly haven't found any. You can google …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 11:00 AM
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No, why? Yeah, they instead call men toxic, say they are all potential rapists/abusers, say they are bad at sex and can't make women cum, say they are perverts for being 20 and dating an 18 year old, say they are to blame for everything bad in society because of "patriarchy". That shit goes both ways. Just like that feminist rubbish does. Again, it's the same. You don't? That sounds like you have an issue with watching stuff you hate and being more interested in watching negativity then because …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 09:56 AM
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I don't like any red pillers, you? Is that any different than blue pillers doing the same with men? I don't really see the connection of some random YouTuber criticising women as that being the entire point of it. Kind of like how mens rights and feminists both spend a solid 80%+ of their time talking about "the other side" and criticising them, the point isn't just to be shitting on them, it's to point out all their hypocrisy and say "see, this is what we've been saying!"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 09:25 AM
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Weird way to see it. Why do you think that? Feels pretty obvious that red pillers see themselves as acknowledging harsh truths such as if you’re ugly, women aren’t going to wanna date you even though they say personality matters, it doesn’t. How is this retaliation and anger over not getting what you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 09:15 AM
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I think I'm seeing why you have problems
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:57 AM
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I'd love to talk to the people trying to push this and have their definition for what "misognynistic abuse" is. 100% they're conflating actual hatred of women, with someone simply shit talking them as an individual. This is essentially trying to create an online space where women can say anything they want about you and you cannot hit back at all. We will all just head to alternative platforms tbh.
/r/MensRights16/05/23 05:32 PM
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Yeah this is my experience too lol they are extremely sensitive and ban happy
/r/MensRights05/05/23 12:43 PM
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True, but we know who they’re gonna force to fight when it comes to it
/r/MensRights02/03/22 06:36 PM
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I'll take the unpopular approach here and say that it's mostly one way. You will find plenty of male feminists, or men who are defending women and their issues. You won't find nearly any women doing the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 12:40 PM
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Women’s voices will always be more important than men’s when it comes to social issues, us saying we will take our money elsewhere won’t do much imo. Women+ male feminists can say the same, and they’ll always go with them because they don’t want to be labelled sexist. Whereas ignoring men wouldn’t really look bad for them as it’ll be framed the same way Gillette was, “a bunch of angry misogynists with toxic masculinity were ignored”. Even wiki which is meant to be neutral framed it horribly, thi…
/r/MensRights21/01/22 05:15 AM
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As if anyone care about what men say, let’s be honest. Until this day, Gillette are still unapologetic about their ad
/r/MensRights21/01/22 02:04 AM
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The only thing I can say that's annoying about is it on NSFW reddit it's kinda killed off any sort of casual chatting with girls. It's hard to find the girls who are actually just having a bit of fun, and don't mind talking. Now it's just nothing but sellers everywhere, and some will fully go through and waste your time talking for a good few hours before eventually asking if you'd buy their OF. Just makes you not want to even bother with NSFW reddit at all now
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:03 PM
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Because women don't also talk about body count when they're rejected? We have a sub dedicated to laughing at men who act like that, but we also laugh at men that get shat on by the women that was rejected them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:35 PM
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Does everything have to be so literal? No shit that there’s a tiny minority into that, but 99% of guys aren’t
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:55 PM
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Yeah, I'm saying guys call thicc girls plus size. No guys are lusting after "bbw". Most guys who end up hitting on them are doing it cause it's easier to get with them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:17 PM
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Hm I don't think so tbh. When guys say plus sized, what they really mean is hourglass figure, or slim girl with huge ass
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:55 PM
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To be fair, I don’t think many of those women would be their first choice. Men are just more willing to fuck people they either aren’t attracted to, or only slightly attracted to. Women don’t need to do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:59 PM
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Mate, I had a similar situation yesterday. Trying to say hi to one of my classmates, and she literally looked at me and spoke like I was a complete weirdo for even trying to just say hello.
/r/MensRights07/12/21 07:57 AM
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Maybe the fact that they can be raped, and have almost no power to stop it because men are naturally stronger. They are the ones who get their drinks spiked, they’re the ones that get guys sending them unsolicited dick pics, they’re the ones that have to make up a bf, so that guys will stop hitting on them and leave them alone. Being an MRA isn’t about shitting on women and pretending they have no problems.
/r/MensRights19/11/21 12:43 PM
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I think, because there was a turning point in which feminism went from helping women, and talking about their issues. To blaming men for all their issues, and slightly hating on men. I would read more and more just straight up incorrect things that was held as true, which annoyed me. I remember one of the first times this happened, there was a post with millions of notes that was basically saying women always have to get out of the way for men in public. I was like wtf, dude, I’m 6’4, 90kg, and …
/r/MensRights31/10/21 11:12 PM
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Couldn't agree more
/r/MensRights22/10/21 11:55 AM
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I mean the idea that men even need an advocacy group is controversial in itself, cause most people would argue other groups need them but not us And yeah, I try to call them out as much as possible because we all look bad if we let them run loose. I don't think we get a lot of it at all tbh
/r/MensRights22/10/21 11:55 AM
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That’s because we are controversial, not like it’s mainstream to care about mens issues. There are plenty of left wing subreddits named there too so it’s not being biased exactly
/r/MensRights21/10/21 10:25 PM
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Kinda, I was trying to say they simply fall out of love with the person, or they don't feel the same chemistry with them that they did when they first started dating. When I say better options it's not like I'm saying they're searching for it, it just sometimes happens. The people more likely to ask for a divorce do not seem to have better options or even other options for marriage. So yeah, this could point to what I just said, they simply fall out of love/don't feel the same chemistry. The fac…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 07:42 PM
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Well that's the opposite of what I've experienced, most women I've met don't start to give a shit about what their guy is doing until they're mid-late 20's. Even all my own girlfriends/fwbs growing up were all far higher status than me, through a bunch of them I was unemployed and had no education. Nah I completely disagree, just cause you have more money at 30 doesn't really defeat the fact you now have way less options. Also, at 30 you're likely less attractive than you were at say, 20. Age, l…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 07:17 PM
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I'd say they're taken in the early-mid 20's. Yeah, many don't instantly go for settling down, but they definitely want more serious relationships than us from an early age, and just end up falling in love. At the beginning they dunno what they want, they can't read men, so there's a lot of test and trial, and you could be one of those guys they try. I’m talking more like the half plus seven guideline. Every of couple years that a man ages gives him an entirely new age range. Okay yeah fair enoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 04:43 PM
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I'm sorry, I could be dumb as fuck but I don't get what you're saying in your first paragrapgh, or at least I'm not sure how it's relevant to what I said? A woman that didn't care about status, then grew to care about status and left their husband is what 90% of "growing apart" is in the first place. I just hardcore disagree. If you don't care about status at say 25, you aren't gonna care about it at 45, and if you do, it's a tiny percentage. Most people get divorced because they just simply cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 04:36 PM
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Imo the divorces are down to people realising they don't have to stay with the same person forever, because they have means to meet other people now. Also, people sometimes grow apart, I don't see what you said as anything to do with women saying they don't care for status when they're younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 02:29 PM
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The older women who are desperate are usually bottom of the barrel, though. All the good ones are mostly taken, and your age range changes, I wouldn't say widens. Unless you're someone who dates teens at 30 years old ofc. So yeah, there is more desperation, but you still have a lot less choices than when you were say, 20. And the quality in choice is way lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 02:20 PM
23

If you're having issues getting girls when you're a teen/early 20's, you are fucked. Do not forget that as you approach 30, many people will be married, have kids, or only be looking to date very specific people. When you're younger you have 10x the options of people to fuck/date. I also don't agree that younger women care a great deal about status. You can tell when you hit your mid 20's, this is where women actually start to care about where you are at in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 11:16 AM
2

I'm not sure I understand your first few sentences? They don't really look white, at all imo. You can say the same about black people, some mixed black people are mad pale and I've mistaken a few people for just being pure white. Never once did that with an Asian. The reason Asians don't get stopped and searched, or harassed by the police etc, is because there isn't a stereotype around them stealing, carrying drugs, or mugging people with weapons and such. It's just basic criminal profiling that…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:24 PM
1

Hard to compare what is likely middle-upper class Asians, to black people that are likely from families affected by slavery, jim crow, etc. We know why this happens, because black people tend to be poor, so this is more of a class thing. But yeah, there are some cultural aspects to it as well. I mean, "white music", rock, isn't exactly a good role model either? You got the emo/metal bands from the last 20 years talking about killing themselves, hating other people who were the cool kids, and doi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:10 PM
3

Black propaganda is probs relating to the shit that black supremacists/nationalists come up with. Everyone has their own propaganda ofc, not that some is more effective than others. Are those things white privilege? I imagine those things don't happen to Asians, so is it Asian/White privilege? Or is it criminal profiling?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:32 PM
2

Nothing wrong with being poor and white, why does it matter what class they're from? Yeah but that's easy to say when middle class white women aren't even likely running into black men very often, so ofc lower class white women will be the ones dating them, because they are around them. Disagree, I'd say it's pretty rare
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:09 PM
1

Isn’t that because that’s where we’re mixed more? Hard to get those relationships in other countries where people are far more segregated, no? Well there are barely any Latina’s here in England so maybe that’s why they are always after white girls haha
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:51 AM
12

I dunno man. I’ve been friends with a tonne of black dudes who solely chase white women and many of them say shit like “I got the white woman virus” or something. Also you see a bunch of white women with mixed babies so it’d be interesting to know those stats. My q would be why do we never see black women with white men? This seems like such a rare couple imo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:04 AM
18

Spent a lot of time talking about women's issues, even to a huge audience when I was on Tumblr with 25k+ followers. Never got any shit for that. Now I try to talk about men's issues, and those same people who praised me for speaking on women's issues, give me shit when I talk about men's.
/r/MensRights01/10/21 01:31 PM
4

No this is a good thing. Cause literally anything happens to you, and you can blame it on the “matriarchy” :) But outside of my joke, I think this is good, fuck it man there’s plenty of majority male countries already
/r/MensRights26/09/21 08:15 PM
9

Tbf I think men say this about other men just as much as women do
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 05:56 PM
35

Pour one out for all the homies that are below average-ugly and have this treatment for even being around a woman. You might think I'm exaggerating, and I am slightly, but I've seen girls legit call a guy creepy when he hasn't even said a word to them, he's legit just been there, an awkward and shy part of the group.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 03:48 PM
1

Imagine actually wanting to be the only one that has to go to soul destroying work and see fucking Tanya and Phil every day. Selfcucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 07:43 PM
1

Why would they not earn money when they can? It's not their fault that there are simps willing to give them money just for existing?
/r/MensRights02/08/21 03:25 PM
1

They already do this in places like Korea. They have shoe lifts
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:40 PM
3

One thing I’d like to say, is that these things aren’t necessarily opposites. Just because men don’t get much sexual attention, doesn’t mean men also don’t get sexually assaulted. It’s WHO is getting that attention. This isn’t happening to the average guy, I’m average/above average and I’ve been catcalled only a handful of times, and touched by random girls at clubs a few times. But friends who I’ve gone clubbing with, guys who are 8/10, 9/10, get random girls touching them a lot. So it’s less b…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 05:47 AM
3

Are these men who want low body counts actually that prevalent though? I don't know if others have a different experience to me, but I've rarely met guys who care about the women's body counts, usually they prefer them to be higher cause then they'd be more experienced/more willing to fuck on the first date. The odd few who I know care about that, 100% would not be asking for sex on the first/second date, they're usually religious types.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:21 AM
-1

Nah it's not about strength, it's about value and who we believe are genuinely honest when it comes to asking for forgiveness
/r/MensRights31/05/21 05:18 PM
47

Yeah it's a problem with lookism
/r/MensRights16/05/21 08:57 AM
9

I mean, it’s their list. You don’t have to date them so why do you even care? I agree it’s asking a lot, but that’s upto them to be picky if they want to be
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 12:44 PM
9

Aka r/ukleftwingpolitics
/r/MensRights27/04/21 08:22 AM
29

If you think that's annoying, check out wiki's "neutral" take on the Gillette ad.
/r/MensRights07/04/21 08:00 AM
2

Yes, because you know how much effort I put in, right? This doesn't just stand for me, it stands for MANY, MANY, men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 03:25 PM
2

Fully agree with your comment about the reason black men get shot is more because of their sex, than race. Obviously both play into it, but it IS weird we get huge movements over the being black part of it, but no one even wants to talk about the being male aspect of it, which is actually a much bigger part of the problem. What I always say is, if the cops were more racist than indifferent to men, then black women would get shot more than white men, but they don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 11:14 AM
1

Women always have others be more receptive of them, that’s why. When you’re a dude and you’re friendly to a woman, half of the time she thinks you’re only being nice because you wanna date her. Then there’s the group that doesn’t trust you because “their ex was a liar, and now they can’t trust men”. Then there’s loads of men that have problems being sensitive to other men cause they think it makes them “gay” to show that they care. It’s super hard to have support groups around yourself as a dude…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 11:05 AM
1

Then you’re likely below average. I’ve seen it 1000’s of times where men thirst over average looking women, either that or you ignore/don’t notice the men who try to hit on you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 10:50 AM
3

Because anything positive about men feels like an attack on women to many of them. Happens when you're told your entire life that only your issues matter, and only your feelings are valid.
/r/MensRights19/03/21 12:59 PM
1

Right, but to what extent is my question. If black people get screwed at a rate of having everything be 2x as worse, but then men get screwed at a rate of being 9x worse. It's not really fair for everyone to call out the racism within the system, yet ignore the misandry, especially when the misandry comes as clearly a much bigger problem. You can find two data points: find the prison population by race and gender and find the general population by race and gender. You can now calculate overrepre…
/r/MensRights02/02/21 02:44 AM
1

Yeah I figured the same, I just wanted to see if someone had an actual study comparing black women, with white men. No one denies that the system is racist, but almost no one says that the system is misandrist, yet it seems being a male makes things a hell of a lot worse than being black, and if you're male and black, you're double fucked.
/r/MensRights01/02/21 11:37 PM
2

Because that would prove that it's more of a gender issue than a race one, I've said this. Yeah 20% longer sentences sucks, guess what sucks more? 90% longer sentences. In every case people who aren't white are more likely to be sentenced and sentenced more harshly So then black women are punished more harshly than white men? Where's your stats to show this?
/r/MensRights01/02/21 11:34 PM
2

But do dirt poor men get treated the same as dirt poor women is my question?
/r/MensRights01/02/21 10:33 PM
4

Because many people don't even acknowledge that it affects men, they only wanna talk about how it affects black people. When in reality if you have a 9x longer jail time than women, but a 2x more chance if you're black, surely it should be looked at as a gender issue, with a slight racial problem, too. Not just "it's a race issue". If black women have it harder than white men, I can get on board with it, but if they aren't, then it's clearly not a race issue as the main problem, it's gendered.
/r/MensRights01/02/21 10:30 PM
5

Yeah I already said that. But the problem here is it's framed as a race issue only. Whereas really it's mostly a mens issue.
/r/MensRights01/02/21 09:52 PM
6

Yeah, as have I. Because it would be impossible to say that the prison system is a problem for black people, if the ones getting mostly punished are all the black men, and just men in general. Obviously intersectionally black men DO get it worse than other men, but if white men get it worse than black women, it's not a race issue, it's a gendered one. Which for me changes a lot of the conversation.
/r/MensRights01/02/21 09:14 PM
3

Yeah, I don’t even think the problem are the feminists so much. It’s the dudes who are eager to prove themselves to girls that they wanna fuck, by denouncing the issues facing men. There’s obviously the bunch that have also been brought up by women, so they just haven’t seen/been told stories by men.
/r/MensRights09/12/20 07:52 PM
2

As someone who's been hit quite a few times by women/girls, yeah, they do deserve a whack back. Though, I still ever rarely defended myself because I had cognitive dissonance when even considering hitting a woman. You're told for years and year as a child "never, EVER hit a woman, there's never a reason to hit a woman". "women beaters are the worst men on the planet!". So when they start assaulting you, and you even considering hitting them back, it legitimately hurt me mentally, and physically.…
/r/MensRights03/11/20 09:45 AM
1

Hey! Didn't you know, 1 in 4 homeless people are women! Be thoughtful for them, you sexist!
/r/MensRights27/10/20 09:19 AM
-1

That's their own choice tbh. I've personally dated up (really really up) all my life. If you can't slug out a few months/years being single, and you'd rather just get with anyone who's willing to suck your dick, that's your choice.
/r/MensRights20/06/20 08:34 PM
18

You shouldn't apologise for not knowing what some rando in a video identifies as, you did enough by covering all bases tbh.
/r/MensRights22/04/20 01:03 AM
1

This is exactly why I stopped voting Green Party, because I seen they wanted to this about 5 years ago, they had it in a manifesto of theirs. So, I looked into all the people named here. The first one you're missing out lots of info (not intentionally I figure you just didn't think it relevant), but the guy apparently abused her for years on end, raping her, and controlling her money etc. That being said, I still don't see why she is allowed to drive to his house and kill him. Why can't she just…
/r/MensRights21/01/20 04:35 PM
57

I mean, on Love Island they had a woman forcing herself onto a guy trying to kiss him as he was moving his face away from her. She also would constantly comment on how ‘hot’ the guys were, making sexually charged comments like ‘I bet he’s big and rough in the the bedroom’. Did she get kicked out of the show? Nah, she became a fan favourite for how ‘open and truthful’ she was.
/r/MensRights09/12/19 07:18 AM
1

I agree but the people who deny this aren’t gonna change their mind with research.
/r/MensRights01/12/19 05:18 AM
3

And the sky is blue, this ain’t news
/r/MensRights01/12/19 03:53 AM
1

You did remind me of another point, in ten years of renting I’ve seen tonnes of listings where they say, “women only house” but never see “men only”.
/r/MensRights15/11/19 11:53 AM
5

You could argue that TERFS are more feminist than actual feminists. As an example, TERFS don’t want trans women competing vs women, which makes sense as it’s unfair. Feminists for the most part don’t care about it, which is unfair to women.
/r/MensRights15/11/19 04:35 AM
6

So apparently, because women aim for careers where they earn less, and they also refuse to move into places that are cheap, that's because of their gender? Last time I checked men were always taking the cheapest/shittiest places to rent, because if they didn't, they would end up homeless. (I've had to do this myself a few times). Yet every time I've rented a nice place, women have lived there, it's almost like women have the luxury of not having to move into cheap shitty homes.
/r/MensRights14/11/19 07:04 PM
3

I had a friend tell me the other day that he dropped out of UNI when he was younger. Because in his first semester he did a project, and when he stood up in front of the class his teacher laughed at him and asked if he were serious, that it looked like a 5 year old’s work. I wonder if she did that to the women?
/r/MensRights29/10/19 07:20 PM
2

Same shit happened when an ex of mine tried to get back at me, after I broke up with her she slept with a guy at a party. She told me, and I didn't care, then exactly your situation occurred for that dude.
/r/MensRights17/10/19 11:03 PM
12

How can you even blame them at this point? Women dominate parenting and education, they're the ones teaching the boys throughout the massive majority of their growing years. If they're constantly told that women are these frail, oppressed people, and that it's all men's fault, they're going to believe it. I know a younger guy at work fresh out of UNI that constantly says "I feel bad for women having to put up with men, we're such assholes". He's not in any ways a bad person, he just genuinely be…
/r/MensRights17/09/19 02:56 AM
-8

Yeah I was thinking the same. I don’t feel the exact same girl shows all these different emotions, it’s multiple different girls. Which kills the entire point of that supposed woman’s.
/r/MensRights16/09/19 06:00 AM
27

Canada used to be one of my favourite countries
/r/MensRights09/09/19 02:51 PM
29

I feel like mood is quite important in that act, so if they’re not in the mood then you shouldn’t even want to. I’m sure sex isn’t the only thing someone can do to show you that they love and appreciate you.
/r/MensRights10/08/19 06:30 PM
3

Right, so it’s what I said earlier. Anything that’s man vs women is seen as a problem now to you people? You guys are no different than the feminists you moan about. 90% of this sub has ‘woman’ in the titles or ‘feminist’.
/r/MensRights22/06/19 05:17 AM
0

This is not acknowledgement because it’s not related to it.
/r/MensRights22/06/19 04:22 AM
-18

Right? But how is that related to this story which is not about the shit you're talking about. Post this on justiceporn if you want but this has nothing to do with mens rights. Tell me what rights this has to do with men? You need to sort out your shitty attitude, boy.
/r/MensRights22/06/19 12:35 AM
-35

I don't think she cared that they were male bartenders. Is every single case of woman vs man relevant to mens rights? No.
/r/MensRights22/06/19 12:12 AM
-39

What does this have to do with mens rights?
/r/MensRights22/06/19 12:08 AM
1

Do you have any reports of these false claims? Not saying you’re lying, just wanna read the stories out of curiosity
/r/MensRights29/04/19 09:10 PM
5

Probably, but most men aren’t interested in that.
/r/MensRights08/04/19 05:21 AM
19

Nah men usually choose women for two reasons. One, they won’t get any shit for not picking men. And two, they could get their dick sucked. That’s ofc totally generalising but you know fo a fact there’s dudes out there that have this thought path, just look at white knights.
/r/MensRights08/04/19 04:16 AM
0

Yeah, such a minor thing. Bigger fish to fry and that.
/r/MensRights25/03/19 08:38 AM
4

Problem is you’re missing why they even did that. To point out that it’s okay to be a girl gamer. Not sure if you ever been on a multiplayer game before but the second someone realises there’s a girl they get shit for it. This isn’t something you should be posting on here, this sub should be for serious issues, not moaning about how girls got a wallpaper made for them.
/r/MensRights25/03/19 08:35 AM
1

I do fully understand what you're saying but I still don't believe that situation falls under a false claim. Say she did it in public then it's a different case and I'd be saying what you are, but as she only directly said it to him and never followed up on it then I don't count it. I think feminists would see this and even they wouldn't like the woman. They would say she's clearly a hateful POS. I don't even think this article is man vs woman. It's something that belongs on neighbours from hell…
/r/MensRights04/03/19 07:50 PM
1

Between her and him? I’m sorry but no, everything you just said is shit. If she gave a shit about what she said she’d have brought that up when he took her to court. She is just a horrendously nasty woman who was saying anything to piss him off. Edit: sorry for speaking so rudely to you, you seem like a nice person
/r/MensRights04/03/19 05:30 PM
-1

Said by the sun himself, no doubt.
/r/MensRights04/03/19 04:33 PM
1

You basically summed up why these kinda posts getting upvoted pisses me off. Makes us all look like twats to go on the MRA subreddit and ooh, front page post, they’re mad about a woman talking shit over her fence to a man.
/r/MensRights04/03/19 04:28 PM
-4

Dude I said the same kinda shit in the Feminist subreddit and got banned. Let’s not act like there aren’t genuine Misandrists/Misogynists in both that subreddit and this one, blindly agreeing with everything everyone posts on here makes you no better than a radfem.
/r/MensRights04/03/19 04:26 PM
4

Imagine having her as a neighbour, Jesus Christ I would lose my shit.
/r/MensRights04/03/19 04:24 PM
-20

Really? This is what we’re upvoting? A POS woman said a load of offensive things to a man, big fuckin’ wow. No official claims were made by her that he did anything so this isn’t a “false” claim. Stop making the rest of us look bad by upvoting such nonsense articles. This is no different than a feminist posting articles where a man says to a woman he’s going to rape her but never actually does and then using it as evidence that men rape more than we think.
/r/MensRights04/03/19 02:03 PM
0

There is a pattern of sexually assaulted women being accused of lying and taking their lives for it. That pattern makes this case and my opinions on it blah blah blah mental gymnastics blah blah. See how that can work both ways? Just shut up making reasons why you’re biased and assuming all in the case of the guy. There’s no proof he was even innocent yet you claim he was. Just bore off.
/r/MensRights27/12/18 05:47 PM
0

Now we’re making blanket statements? Okay I can do that too. There is a pattern of women being too scared to tell someone if they’ve been sexually assaulted because a bunch of incels (that’s you buddy) will claim they’re lying to get a promotion.
/r/MensRights27/12/18 05:40 PM
0

Devils advocate in a situation where there is only 10% of the actual details? Most of the things here being discussed are all assumptions. Including the things you’re saying. So how about YOU get the fuck out of here with your shitty logic.
/r/MensRights27/12/18 05:37 PM
1

I have no reason to believe your ideas either, after all. It’s all assumptions.
/r/MensRights27/12/18 05:33 PM
4

It’s nothing to do with that case or even similar. Stop trying to straw man. Accept that you’re doing mental gymnastics just like the feminists do, you are what you hate.
/r/MensRights27/12/18 05:10 PM
3

It’s funny because I know a guy who was a proper sexual pest, wouldn’t take no for an answer. Finally one of the girls got sick of it and reported him. He got a telling off from his manager on the Monday and a managerial promotion on the Friday. Don’t tell that to anyone on here though.
/r/MensRights27/12/18 05:00 PM
2

And how do you know there isn’t proof? They may have proof so? You’re doing some real mental gymnastics right now. Take a look at yourself and ask yourself if even you believe what you’re saying.
/r/MensRights27/12/18 04:58 PM
10

Sure. And this person is assuming guilt before proof and has consistently called the guy a perv throughout these comments. They aren't arguing in good faith either. Fair enough I didn't see all their other comments. Also, some people are just asking if the allegations are true. That's not making an assumption. I would say the large majority here are actually assuming he did nothing wrong and the women lied to get a promotion etc. Fucking shocking, this lot are as bad as the feminists.
/r/MensRights27/12/18 04:54 PM
5

No proof = it didn’t happen So if you kill someone and get rid of all evidence, it never happened? Fucking hell you're a genius.
/r/MensRights27/12/18 04:54 PM
3

Assumptions. You've no proof of this at all. But okay if assumptions helps you get that hate for women out, do it. You lot are just as bad as the feminists.
/r/MensRights27/12/18 04:54 PM
0

You're assuming they didn't already tell him they weren't interested and he wouldn't listen, so they went to HR. By your own logic I hope you've never once said anything negative to a person because if they killed themselves you're a murderer! Sorry but that is fucking moronic.
/r/MensRights27/12/18 04:49 PM
7

And there are times people rape and get away with it, so it's pretty shitty for both sides. Almost like we have to judge situations ourselves and it's not a perfect system.
/r/MensRights27/12/18 04:39 PM
6

That has nothing to do with this situation. There was no rape accusation. Go strawman somewhere else incel.
/r/MensRights27/12/18 04:34 PM
7

What's your point? They didn't fire him, he wasn't arrested so none of that even matters. Most people here aren't assuming they're telling the truth, they're merely telling you to stop assuming they're lying. This isn't about supporting women at all, it's about people using the MRA banner to shit on women and push their hate towards them. Fuck off with that because it de-legitimises real actual problems for men.
/r/MensRights27/12/18 04:28 PM
3

You're making blanket statements.
/r/MensRights27/12/18 04:17 PM
13

It's not whiteknightery, it's called using basic logic and not being one of those incels. There is no proof of any of the claims yet most of this sub are assuming they lied, again, with no proof.
/r/MensRights27/12/18 04:16 PM
15

Yeah, no one knows but comments like the one he replied to are assuming they are lying.
/r/MensRights27/12/18 04:14 PM
10

They never said he did anything extreme or violent or even close to rape? He could have just been openly telling them he wants to fuck them and pestering or even touching them a little too much for their liking. Maybe because they didn't want him to be fucking criminally punished but to back off from hitting on them and he wouldn't get the hint or take no for an answer??? It’s just an assumption Yeah most of this thread is people arguing based off their own assumptions. this could have been sett…
/r/MensRights27/12/18 04:10 PM
6

You saying shit like It's tantamount to murder. Those two are murderers Is what makes MRA's lose legitimacy. In no way shape or form is that murder. In the same thinking any single negative thing you say about a person in murder then if they kill themselves shortly after it. Oh fucking hell I didn't even read your second sentence. You're a lunatic.
/r/MensRights27/12/18 04:04 PM
1

How was his name smeared? They made a complaint, he was informed of the complaint behind closed doors, and then he killed himself. You're making huge jumps right there.
/r/MensRights27/12/18 04:02 PM
0

Agreed. I think a normal person would not have this happen and kill themselves over it, especially as he has two big reasons to not do something like that. Also, people keep mentioning how he had his career ruined but nowhere in that article does it say he was fired.
/r/MensRights27/12/18 04:01 PM
7

You’re not gonna get anywhere arguing with that moron. They’ve already admitted to liking affirmative action and also saying they want the best person for the job. They’ve already shown how ignorant they are and will just argue with you through mental gymnastics.
/r/MensRights21/12/18 01:15 PM
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