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18

This is the sign I needed to dye my hair for the first time ever. Bright pink here I go! 💃🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 11:38 PM
1

I’m sorry about your kitty. ❤️ My kitty is the exact same as your cat was. I truly don’t think I’ll be able to get another kitty after my baby goes, it’ll hurt way too much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 06:34 PM
103

I wouldn’t give up my baby for the world. I had to go into a very tight crawl space to rescue him. It took three hours to get him out. I was soaked from the rain, covered in dirt, bugs, and cobwebs, but I’d do it all over again. It seems like the OP is kicking him to the curb. Let’s hope the kitty is watching smugly from the window while she does it. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 09:47 PM
1

That is absolutely crazy that she tried to pimp you out to another couple! I think that makes it worse. Like what was her thought process?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 06:26 PM
122

Jesus Christ. I’d ask why he’s still married to someone he sees as a stranger, but we all know the answer is because she’s useful to him. Poor girl, I hope she divorces him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 02:30 PM
3

I never said it did? I was agreeing with another poster about a comment about how this subreddit has this idea that lesbian relationships are so much better than straight relationships. My last paragraph even states that I’m not gonna sit here and say that one side has it worse than the other. This isn’t a competition over who has it worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 12:14 AM
5

Both my father and my grandfather are deadbeats, but apparently to them, me not wanting kids is stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 11:04 PM
5

Warning: Incoming rant. Possible trigger in the fourth paragraph. I’ve kinda been holding my tongue here and trying not to start a debate here in this sub with the whole “I wish I was a lesbian” crowd, but I think I’m gonna put some perspective in as a lesbian. Our rights are still up for debate even in the US. Hell we still have conversion camps in the US. We still deal with psycho girlfriends. We do deal with serious relationship issues that straight women deal with such as abuse and rape. I a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 10:18 PM
11

What the fuck is this word salad? How low is her self-esteem? Poor girl needs therapy so she can put herself first for once.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 11:47 AM
4

You can count on me to be there with my little trash gremlin 🐈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:16 PM
18

I thank the Spirits everyday that I’m attracted to both femmes and butches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 12:56 AM
47

It honestly sucks so bad, especially with the fuckboi lesbians. 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 12:19 AM
25

They’re so freaking gorgeous and yet their boyfriends look like thumbs. Like, why the hell would my cute ass want to have anything to do with that? 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 01:32 AM
17

I didn’t use the bathroom excuse. I just got up and left. I don’t have time for bullshit anymore. I just don’t know how much more I can vet. I asked if she was single, there were no signs of a boyfriend, she assured me there was no boyfriend and yet I was still blindsided.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 01:31 AM
50

They’ve been getting bolder and quite honestly it hurts. Like I sit here and I think I’m safe from men on dates at least as a lesbian and then I find out I’m not. Like I don’t understand how she could throw me under the bus. I even state on my profile: No threesomes. I am not a unicorn. I don’t want to be your third. And yet it still happens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 05:53 PM
25

I’m sorry. It’s a fucked up world we live in, they’re getting bolder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 05:49 PM
25

I’m sorry. Just be warned, they’re getting bolder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 05:49 PM
35

Thanks. They’ve been getting bolder and it’s scary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 05:49 PM
93

They said he was gonna watch. I said no because this isn’t happening. And even if it was and he wasn’t there, prove to me there weren’t cameras set up at the house or that he wasn’t gonna come in anyways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 05:48 PM
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I was talking to a girl online (Lesbian here).We meet up. We get halfway through the date, she says she wants me to meet someone. Comes back with her boyfriend. They get agitated because no I am not interested in a threesome. I thought this would never happen to me with how careful I am, but here we are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 12:13 PM
1

I can’t wait until they start identifying these people. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 01:44 AM
5

I have only one male friend in my life and that’s literally because he’s gay and actually a good guy. I can tell from experience that men are stupid when it comes to lesbians with the whole “hurrdurr actually she wants my magic peepee. 🥴” I used to get so upset when guys would introduce me to their friends as a lesbian. They especially did it to try and prove I wasn’t a threat I guess and honestly it kinda upset me, but little pickme-me would just let it roll. I mean, I was still considered a th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 01:40 AM
9

I’m pretty sure they aren’t lesbians if they’re having sex with men. The closest thing I can think of are homoromantic bisexuals who are romantically attracted to their own gender but will have sex with the opposite gender. That or they’re lying about being a lesbian which pisses me off because now I have guys coming up to me like “Oh so you’re a lesbian 😏😉.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 10:49 PM
2

Honest to god, this is why I hate being so short. Men like to just randomly come up to me and pick me up and throw me around. Like, I’m not some fucking object.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 01:16 AM
7

Damn, my mustache looks better than this. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 01:14 AM
5

I have two sisters and three cats. We are constantly draped over each other or holding hands. They are definitely my emotional support humans when my mind is breaking. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 01:11 AM
13

I’m surprised this dude wasn’t stomping his feet and throwing things when he was called out on his creepiness. And honestly? Shame on his friend for not stopping the friendship on the spot after what his friend did. I’m praying that this causes the wingman to reevaluate not only his behavior, but all of his friend’s behaviors as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:25 AM
11

Yikes! He looks so bad! 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:19 AM
40

Forgive me, I’m bad at math. That makes it what, 96/4 against her? I had to give him some points since he’s doing so much by buying half the groceries. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 02:06 AM
116

Cool, so he pays for half the groceries, but she still does 100% of the cooking. Doesn’t seem very 50/50 to me. 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 01:14 AM
38

I honestly hate the deadbedrooms subreddit with a burning passion. My favorite part used to be when the girlfriends/fiancées/wives come on and share their side of the story to reveal that their boyfriends/fiancé’s/husbands are a bunch of selfish pricks who don’t help out around the home and still expect their lovers to be turned on. Don’t even get me started on choreplay, “I did chores every day for a month and she didn’t even look at my peepee. I has big sad now. 🥺” Fuck off and grow up, your g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 09:40 PM
39

This looks like something edgy little high school me would’ve written.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 11:04 AM
6

Cool so she’s not having sex with him in the same way he wasn’t letting her cum. Not so nice when the shoe’s on the other foot, now is it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 07:35 PM
29

I’ve sat here for at least three minutes to type up a response and I still can’t come up with the words. People are now trying to become famous by sexually assaulting women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 11:11 AM
6

Damn this hits home. 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 11:08 AM
24

I was kinda hoping it was pickmes starting to wake up. 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 04:38 PM
70

Really? Thank god!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 12:00 PM
265

And you know what sucks? She states in the post that she’s already told him she doesn’t like it, but there are still going to be comments telling her to communicate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 11:58 AM
63

Honestly, this is one of the reasons I’m terrified of going clubbing or bar hopping.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 03:56 AM
4

I’m so sick of these comments telling women to communicate. These women have done nothing but communicate and what has it gotten them? Nothing. I hope all of these girls wake up and start dumping their asses and find a HVM who will actually listen to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 12:30 AM
8

Jesus fucking Christ. He’s abusing her. I’m praying she gets out of this alive. If he’s that psycho during sex, what’s he going to be like when she tries to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 11:56 PM
21

Me! 👩‍❤️‍👩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 11:38 AM
54

I remember wanting labiaplasty since middle school and it was the worst feeling in the world. I still go back and forth with the way my labia looks. It just sucks growing up and hearing about how I’m supposedly a loose woman because of the way my labia looks when I’ve never even had sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 09:10 PM
6

This is disturbing on a level that’s beyond disturbing. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 02:26 PM
12

No fair, I never got a DM from him. Where’s my hate. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 08:34 PM
21

There are times to be selfish and this is one of them. We have so much on the line right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 02:39 AM
47

Goddamn we’re fucked. May the Ultimate Queen Rest In Peace. 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 12:57 AM
2

Aw shit, I’m a Capricorn! 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 09:03 PM
7

I feel that in my soul. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 12:23 AM
17

I’M SCREAMING Y’ALL! HE LOOKS LIKE A BIG TOE! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 12:13 AM
1

Waste their time like they're trying to waste ours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 12:21 PM
2

More like 6-6:05. The date finishes when I finish my coffee. I’d spend 6:05 to 6:45 actually getting ready for my date. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 09:35 PM
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I know it’s hard, but please dump his ass. You’re lucky that he’s showing you who he before you marry him. He’s already told you that he’ll never listen to anything that he doesn’t like. This will extend to so many other future arguments such as children, money, and retirement. Please don’t go down this road sweetheart, you deserve so much more. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 02:14 AM
15

I DM’d you the link.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 02:04 PM
133

She updated, she’s divorcing him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 01:45 PM
3

I’ll be laughing my ass off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 05:40 PM
20

And then they can pay all that alimony when they get divorced too. 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 05:16 PM
7

This is what I need in my life. It’s really not that hard to do LGBT characters in tv shows or movies. I’ll put it on my list of shows to watch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 04:11 AM
16

It honestly might be that now is an okayish time to come out because we have gay marriage, Pride, and whatnot. Unfortunately, Lesbians and Bisexual women are shit on the most because our sexualities “don’t exist” because “how can you have sex without a dick?” Straight men might be more “accepting”, but that’s only because they have threesomes and shit in their mind. It’s why I tend to avoid men because the minute I tell them I’m gay, I can see those little wheels turning in their head. And then …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 04:10 AM
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Lesbian here. Bi Erasure is real and honestly, who the hell am I to judge if someone else is bisexual or not. How do we know if these women have ever been with a woman or not. We don’t know about their lives behind closed doors. Not only that, do you know how hard it is as a woman who loves women to find a partner? There is a reason most bisexual women end up with men. Unfortunately, bi women are shit on by gay and straight people alike and I think it’s fucking bullshit. I wish they’d show more …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 03:44 AM
4

You’re welcome! Good luck sweetheart! I believe in you! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 05:32 PM
9

First off, fix yourself for yourself. If you’re constantly seeking validation from other people, you’re gonna be unhappy and stay unhappy. Second thing, you said you’re comfortable in jeans and a t-shirt, then wear jeans and a t-shirt. Any future girlfriend wouldn’t care, they’d just love that you’re comfortable and confident with what you wear. Third thing, a lot of lesbians can be found working service jobs. There are a bunch in the food service job I work. It’s like every other girl. They can…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 12:40 PM
1

Nah, my father was and still is a deadbeat. Every time we wanted to reconnect with him, my mother reached out to him for us, but he either never responded or he said no because he didn’t want to upset his wife aka the woman he cheated on my mother with. He started a whole new family and just erased his old one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 02:17 PM
3

Thank you! It’s so nice to be supported here! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 01:59 PM
6

Yeah, men don’t give a shit. He thinks he’s special enough that he can convert the lesbians.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 09:51 PM
28

I would never leave the kid alone with him. It would not surprise me if he shook the baby in his jealousy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 11:21 AM
24

Dump him and then block his ass Sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 02:28 AM
4

All I can do is look at those subreddits and thank The Goddess I’m a lesbian. 👸🏽 Men are fucking horrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 01:42 AM
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They could just you know, work on themselves until they would date themselves? 🤷🏽‍♀️Just some food for thought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 01:59 PM
41

Holy shit, her voice, her holier than thou attitude. Goddamn, I hope you get picked. Enjoy the life of sexism you want so bad. Hopefully, you don’t get picked by a man who enjoys your little kids. Do better for your children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 01:43 PM
71

Why is he with her if she’s constantly annoying him? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 11:31 AM
10

More like the right to phone secrecy for men only. Going through a woman’s phone would be fine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 07:22 PM
4

Please don’t say yes if he proposes. You’re so young! You need time to grow and figure out what you want in life. I know that I was still trying to figures things out when I was 18. Hell, I’m still trying to figure things out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 01:00 AM
1

This is why I try not to compliment men. I don’t want to be accused of being clingy, flirty, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 12:41 AM
39

I’m legit praying this is fake. This is horrifying to use a legitimate fear of being raped and murdered against a child. Hell anyone for that matter. But this is a literal child. How fucking sick can you get.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 12:38 AM
9

I’m so proud of her for leaving! 🎉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 05:49 PM
18

She needs to leave. It’s only gonna get worse from here. Trust me, my grandma married one of these and us grandkids are paying the price.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 12:57 AM
14

I’ve never swam in a lake before and now I never gonna.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 12:51 AM
15

Well, looks like I’m not gonna make any guy friends ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 10:02 PM
79

Excuse me! She’s freaking gorgeous!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 01:23 AM
2

I’m praying she leaves him. He let her cat out once, what’s to stop him from taking her cat to a kill shelter next?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 01:32 PM
1

Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 01:10 AM
2

No problem! ❤️ Have fun cooking!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 02:11 AM
2

Believe it or not, I used to be a low value “cool girl” so I shouldn’t have been surprised that my LV friends turned on me. I was just so upset when my girl friends turned on me. It was like a big betrayal because those girls have also see how bad guys can be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 02:08 AM
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I had him and my two sisters. Thank god for them because I probably would not have made it through this whole situation without them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 02:06 AM
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I’m not gonna lie, I was a huge pickme who wanted to be that cool girl and most of my girl friends were either LVW or pickmes. I shouldn’t have been surprised when they turned on me. It did take me a while to move past the trauma, but I’m happy that I can look back on a bad situation and give advice to other girls who may be dealing with the same thing. I don’t want any other girls to be in the position that I was in. I’m really happy to be here. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 02:05 AM
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I have two really good sisters standing behind me and they will help me fight anyone who tries to attack me for being a lesbian. Coming out is a lot less scary when you have a good support system. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 02:02 AM
2

I’m playing around with Spinster now, just to see what it’s like and how to use it. Is your username the same?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 02:00 AM
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I'm gonna be honest, I was a LVW for a long time before I found FDS and it made me want to change. I started therapy. I got put on medication. This sub helped me learn to raise the standards I hold myself too. But all men see is that we won't fuck them and they think that's hate speech.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 09:12 PM
12

Honestly, it's starting to seem like lesbians are no longer welcome in the LGBT community because we don't like men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 09:03 PM
3

I'm quite fond of semen demon myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 09:02 PM
1

Transphobia and the fact that it was a subreddit for lesbians and we didn't want people talking about their experiences about liking men on the subreddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 09:01 PM
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That’s why they were all dumped immediately. This queen ain’t got time for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 03:08 PM
7

I’ve never watched it and not I’m not gonna watch it. I hate it when movies or books pull the whole lesbian who actually likes men trope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 03:08 PM
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A lot of guys seem to think that if guy talks to a girl, it means they’re interested. It’s so pathetic really. I just stay away from guys as much as I can because I’m not changing my appearance even though I look straight so I guess I’m not seen as competition. I’m really happy to be here! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 03:07 PM
5

I’m so sorry that happened to you. I hope that you have healed from this. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 02:55 PM
9

This is a queen! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 03:59 AM
8

It’s nice to meet you to!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 03:52 AM
18

I love how men assume we want to get with every girl we see. Like, I’m not like them, I can be friends with a girl and see her as only a friend. I can also like how a girl looks without wanting to get with her. We are not ruled by our genitalia. I’m gonna have to deal with the comments because I’m never gonna cut my hair short, not after having to suffer through figuring out how to work with curly hair. I’m just so glad to be here! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 03:45 AM
7

I got a Twitter when the mass ban happened so that I could follow FDS and figure out what was happening if we got banned. I also found GC’s Twitter, so I followed them for updates as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 03:41 AM
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Well I hope you get your book back! And don’t worry, I live off of spoilers! I like knowing if I’m gonna have a bad time or not. I’m in for a computer degree so it’s just men all around. I’ve had a lot of them take issue with me being a lesbian, but it’s whatever. I tend to just stay away from politics with them because they tend to not like what I have to say and I don’t need their negative vibes around my happy ones. Honestly, I’m around her age and that was my biggest fear before FDS, I had i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 03:38 AM
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I was playing around with SaidIt, but it’s really hard to use. I think most of the people from GC are on Twitter. They tweeted that they’re working on a website or an app for us all to talk on. It’s in testing right now. I’m a sucker for nicely designed hangout places. Most of the places there make me want to curl up with a nice book and some hot chocolate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 03:28 AM
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You. Are. A. Genius. I’m gonna have to get that book now because it can be hard vetting men who I have no choice but to be around, especially because my classes are male-dominated. I hope she’ll realize that on her own. It took me finding FDS to start realizing that most women do not actually cause a lot of drama.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 03:24 AM
6

Woohoo! I finally won something! 🎉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 03:20 AM
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It really is and I’m removing myself from it. If FDS gets banned, I’m only gonna be here to look at subreddits like r/cozyplaces or fashion subreddits. It’s not like I can participate in other subreddits like GenderCritical and TrueLesbians because they both got banned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 03:13 AM
9

I agree with the divorce/restraining orders. I also raise my hand with communication through lawyers only!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 03:10 AM
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He really was. I was always playing therapist to him and yet he never wanted to return the favor. Honestly, I just try and stay away from guys now simply for the fact that they end up fetishizing me and I don’t want to have to think about whether I’m safe around them or not. Honestly, I lost a good amount of friends when I started following FDS simply for the fact that they were pickmeishas who were dragging me down. I don’t want anyone who subtracts value from my life. It’s been wonderful! No m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 03:09 AM
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You can’t communicate with an abusive piece of shit. But shitty people have to stick together I guess. 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 03:03 AM
36

That will be a very beautiful day. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 03:02 AM
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I just look at all the people who want to ban this sub and I think, why? Because you see yourself and you don’t like it. Well, here’s the thing, if you don’t like something, don’t look at it. Plus, you don’t have to follow all of the advice here. It’s called a femaledatingSTRATEGY and guess what? Different people use different strategies and that’s okay. But apparently that makes ya a misandrist. But r/seduction is totally okay despite it being literally full of tips on how to pump and dump wome…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 03:01 AM
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Being fuckzoned really hurts. I lost a different guy friend from that despite me telling him I was a lesbian from the get go. He told me it hurt him to be around me, knowing that I would never be into him. It took me a week of moping before I realized that none of this was my fault and I don’t want to be around someone who only wants to fuck me. I like this community. It’s so uplifting to women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 02:58 AM
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I’m so happy to be here! ❤️ I wish every woman would look at this sub and realize their worth!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 02:55 AM
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I’m so happy to be here! And I hope we have many new members coming our way! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 02:54 AM
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I hope all girls find this sub! I think a lot of women don’t understand that you don’t even have to look at the rules, hell you don’t even have to be looking for a relationship, but like it or not, this sub will help you open your eyes to some seriously messed up shit that happens. It will also give you the tools you need by either prevent bad things from happening or how to deal with bad things that have happened. I happy to be welcomed here amongst the other queens! 👸🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 02:53 AM
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I hope other lesbians find this community because despite the fact that we are not straight, we still have so many pickmeishas in this community. I’m happy to be welcomed here! 👸🏽❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 02:50 AM
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Unfortunately a lot of men think like that. I think what pisses me off the most are the pickmes who think this means I’m open to threesomes. Like, I’m not your fucking unicorn. Go away. I certainly do not and will not ever want to fuck you nor your goblin boyfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 02:49 AM
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I can’t wait for their AIs to gain intelligence and then they get rejected by their robots. 😂 Also, notice their use of cute and little. I guarantee their robots will look like little children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 01:22 AM
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If you think you can say it safely: Just say it. He’s gonna get mad either way because things aren’t going the way he wants them to. However, if you fear for your safety, ask the restaurant staff to help smuggle you out. After that, block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 12:51 AM
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GF of 13 years is a huge red flag. Also, I’m hesitant on the no sex for 13 years. There could be so many reasons for it such as her not wanting to have sex with someone who acts like a child, maybe he has poor hygiene. Or he could be lying about not having sex for 13 years in the hopes that you’ll pity fuck him. Excuse my crudeness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 12:22 AM
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Yeah, I try to stay off that sub because it’s full of men and pickmes whose solution to everything is to communicate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 12:18 AM
37

Anybody else getting some Uncanny Valley vibes here?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 02:38 PM
34

I hope you don’t mind, but I read through your posts and your comments from r/Datingover30 and I think you should dump his ass. Red flag 1 🚩 You two started seeing each after you just got out of an abusive situation. This reads like someone trying to play the hero or take advantage of someone who just got out of a bad situation. Red Flag 2 🚩 He refuses to use condoms. It’s not his ass that is going to be carrying or aborting a baby if a pregnancy happens. And yes, he may be swearing he’s clean, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 12:13 PM
17

The amount of times I’ve had to talk my friends out of making stupid choices regarding men is too damn high.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 11:51 AM
35

I’m so sorry this happened to you. Listen, lesbian to bi, unfortunately with girls you need to be extra careful because the pickmes will not hesitate to put you into a dangerous situation. I usually bring a group of friends to a date and have them sit at another table as backup if something goes wrong. I know I may sound paranoid, but horny men and small girls like me have never ended well. So just be extra extra careful. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 11:45 AM
37

She needs to dump his ass immediately. She should have left after the first time he ignored her feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 04:04 AM
13

Block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 09:18 PM
3

If I could help you all, I’d do it in a heartbeat. ❤️ Unfortunately,there are still pickmes in the lesbian community as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 08:24 PM
188

This seems to be a common theme among most of the male landlords I’ve seen. I hope the tenant reports him and I hope the wife opens her eyes and divorces his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 08:22 PM
5

So damn happy I’m not straight. I will never have to deal with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:57 PM
1

I don’t know the exact measurements for the seasoning off the top of my head because I judge by taste, but I remember everything else. Okay, so for the shell, there are typically two ways to make them. One of them is with phyllo dough, another with puff pastry. I prefer phyllo dough because I don’t like puff pastries, but be warned: phyllo dough breaks apart easily. So while you’re rolling the dough, make sure that you have a wet towel on the stacks of phyllo dough so it doesn’t dry out. Now, I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 04:32 PM
154

So a slave. She was raised to be a slave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 03:58 PM
5

This man needs therapy and a mindset shift before he can even begin to think about dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 02:44 PM
1

I love my street food, so I learned how to make Moroccan meat cigars. Mine look ugly, but they taste really good. I’m gonna try to make Shakshuka later this week actually! Got any tips?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 02:17 PM
88

Damn this is horrifying when put into perspective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 03:16 AM
80

If I have to get therapy to deal with my issues, then so do they.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 10:18 PM
2

I’ll make sure to check her out! Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 07:02 PM
12

You have made not only my day, but my family’s day as well with your comment. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 06:59 PM
5

I’m just starting my 20s, so inexpensive tasty restaurants are where I want to go! I also love trying new foods! I’m currently trying to expand my cooking by going region from region. I’m learning how to cook Middle Eastern food right now and Sis is expanding her Mexican cooking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 05:49 PM
10

The comments were absolutely disgusting. Like the amount of hatred that was directed at any women who doesn’t want to be taken to Applebee’s was disgusting. Like to be honest, I’m not for expensive restaurants with three course meals, find me a hole-in-the-wall Mexican, Thai, Italian restaurants to eat at, but for god’s sake, do not take me to Applebee’s! Or any chain place for that matter. I like trying new home-cooked food, not cheap-ass microwaved shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 05:04 PM
30

The guys usually come at me hard with the creepy comments. Watch for comments about your height, their disbelief about your age, also pay attention to their comments about your clothes. If they want you to wear certain things or are constantly wanting you to wear things that make you look the way they want, dump their ass immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 03:18 PM
189

I love how even when he’s desperate, he still won’t plan a date. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 03:00 PM
19

Because women who have standards are choosing beggars now. We should be happy for any scrap of attention a guy throws our way. Also don’t expect good restaurants, be happy that a man is taking you to a “restaurant” and feel blessed that you have to pay half the bill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 02:24 PM
46

The energy in this is everything I need in life! 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 02:11 PM
6

I hope all the pickmes got picked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 12:59 PM
2

I’m praying this is fake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 12:44 PM
106

Everybody wonders why I hate the military, this is why. This poor woman died because of some sick fuckers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 12:38 PM
83

I really need to stop thinking that men can’t get any lower...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 12:35 PM
3

I guarantee that if the girlfriend were to do the same thing, it would be the end of the world. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 01:18 AM
2

This is absolutely horrifying. She looks scared and he thinks this reflects on him as good? Someone that women want to date?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 10:05 PM
4

All I’m saying is that if I wanted microwaved food, I’d pick up food at the grocery store and microwave it at home. At least I’d know that it tastes good. Seriously, Applebee’s is straight up disgusting to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 09:12 PM
1

This is such an invasion of privacy for the woman! I feel so bad for her! I would dump his ass in a heartbeat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 12:45 AM
2

Yep! I’ve been trying to find a routine for my curly hair, although I might just end up cutting most of it off and starting over. I’m working on fixing my diet so my skin clears up and I have more energy. I’ve finally got my exercise routine down. Got new clothes, I’m working on my makeup skills, my nails. Sis is doing the same. We are coming out of quarantine as totally new people!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 12:42 AM
2

I’ve tried to hammer this in to so many of my pickmeisha friends: This is why women should never send nudes. They will not be deleted! 🙅🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 12:31 AM
7

This is disgusting. Like, there’s depression and barely being able to shower because it’s too mentally draining and then there’s this. I’m sorry, three years?! That’s just lazy and disgusting. And why the hell should we have to use our bodies to motivate someone?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 10:53 PM
1

She needs to run like yesterday. I am like 99.9% sure that she will end up dead if she doesn’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 07:36 PM
2

I can’t believe it took me years to learn this! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 05:38 PM
7

My grandfather does this all of the time and it’s so disgusting. And whenever someone says something to him, it’s always the same old “I can’t help it.” But whenever my sister or I burp or fart, you’d think it’s the end of the world. And god forbid we say we’re on our period or a box of pads is seen in the bathroom. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 04:58 PM
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