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I can't grab butts like you do. How do you know how I grab my butts? I can't carry shit efficiently. Maybe you are too weak? I can't play basketball as good as others. If you'd talk about your height I'd understand. Also who cares if you can play basketball I can't play piano efficiently. This might make sense. Still I'd say more often it is a mobility thing. Also why not doing drums instead? I have lower grip capability. I can't do rock climbing. Maybe you are too weak? (#2) This sounds all lik…
/r/askTRP23/02/17 12:06 PM
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We had this talk from the beginning. I am quite honest with what I want and expect and she knows that I am not looking for an LTR. She made once a comment that she didn't have sex for some time which led me believe that she might have switched to one-sided exclusivety. So maybe I am currently her best option. Maybe this is just a covert contract. She is exclusive, she cooks for me, she massages me, she wants to be my future wife and doesn't understand why I am not proposing... It's basically imp…
/r/askTRP23/02/17 02:24 AM
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I am open to all suggestions but does being honest really lead to the optimum here? If this is a comfort test being honest would hurt her.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 02:19 AM
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The thing is that I made clear that this is just a temporary thing and we just have fun as long as we have fun. I recognized several times that she was looking for commitment but I was (at least I guess) absolutely clear about my intentions by word and action. Why should I tease her if this just leads to her setting up the final drama? YungTze says, only to fight a war that you already won or where it is certain that you win. I don't think I can handle a comfort test through txt. What do you thi…
/r/askTRP23/02/17 02:17 AM
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This is basically how I handed the situation so far. It's just too serious and creates a bad taste afterwards...
/r/askTRP23/02/17 02:10 AM
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A bit too serious, a bit too beta (no clear statement, too many problems she isn't interested in shared) maybe? If it needs to be serious I think I'd rather go for: 'Babe, currently it just doesn't fit. Would like to restart in a few weeks when I have more time. You'll decide.'
/r/askTRP22/02/17 08:45 PM
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Not sure if I keep her as an option if I act like that. This is probably already the original problem why she has to ask such a question. I was just plainly ignoring her existence for almost a month.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 08:39 PM
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Btw... Maybe a comfort test? Feels to me like a shit test. If it is a comfort test I probably won't recover from it. What is the rule of thumb? If it is about her it's a comfort test and if it's about me it's a shit test?
/r/askTRP22/02/17 08:08 PM
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If you are below 20 and you are talking about your parents that's probably fine. If you depend on others that might harm you in the long term.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 01:16 PM
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The older they get the less they do for you just because they are nice. Being nice is something you unlearn after Kindergarten step-by-step. However the more depend on you the more people want you to succeed. The main point however is that it doesn't matter what anyone else wants. In a stoic view they represent outer forces that are not under your control and that you can neither completely determine/estimate/calculate nor rely on. Find all the energy/power for your way inside of you and you'll …
/r/askTRP20/02/17 03:29 PM
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So you consider doing an LTR with her because she feels insecure about you leaving her when you are not LTRing her? Your post should've been: Looking at a possible LTR with this plate. Please sort out these red/green flags with me. red flags: ... green flags: ... I feel confident that I'd like to invest more into this relationship. I know it is against many core principles of TRP to focus only on one women ('thinking vertically' and not 'horizontally') but still it appears a reasonable option in…
/r/askTRP20/02/17 03:17 PM
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This question is impossible to answer unless by action.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 10:48 AM
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If you make solipsism your agenda you don't care about the lives of others... How do you know that the others even exist? Maybe everything is a huge Truman Show made for you.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 10:31 AM
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I was indeed talking about the classical insanity. I know that a slight amount of dark triad traits is something favorable for an RP-man to maximize his potential. The question is why is improving yourself such a holy grail that it outshines all kinds of insanity? Why do you improve yourself? Why not going fully insane. Make it a game. How many lives can you destroy without doing obvious illegal stuff or without being accountable for them? Sure it's nothing favorable from a BP or RP point of vie…
/r/askTRP16/02/17 11:20 PM
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That's a nice idea. Would be hilarious to sit there with a suit and a scotch. Maybe I should read the book or watch the movie first to get some insights what they believe to be indicators for attractive dominant alpha millionaires. If this works it would be an hilarious story.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 09:54 PM
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Then first work on that. It doesn't matter if you go there or not if you don't give a fuck. Don't give her your attention. Maybe it won't be her main focus but seeing you as the pity loser you are will ensure her that her decision was right. And it seems like she was right. Nothing you can do about or against. Nothing you should care for. She is not your life. She is not even part of your life. If you can not go there without losing your shit then don't go. It's not about your and her and how sh…
/r/askTRP16/02/17 09:50 PM
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I had the same issue after an LTR breakup and still sometimes struggle. I guess for me it is a result of the process of unplugging. The total loss of faith in humanity. Utter loss of respect for women.(and most men but that's not relevant to sex) Her sucking me did not work for me. I know how to use a woman's mouth for my pleasure but that really didn't work out. Interestingly spanking and choking her (light rape play) did it for me. To that point I was not fully aware that dominance is one of t…
/r/askTRP16/02/17 09:06 PM
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Sounds reasonable. I just checked and according to this page first signs of HPV can take up to three months. Seems not to be a good option.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 05:25 PM
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I don't know.. she cooks you a meal to get an upgrade? It's hard to fuck her while you are eating her meal... I am not talking about ONS or the beginning of a plate relationship. It's more like.. what happens after the fifth time you fucked her? Typically 90% of the time I spend with a plate I am fucking her. But the 10% filled with nothing are still annoying.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 11:23 PM
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Ok, stop worrying sounds easy. It's just that I have the feeling I need to provide somehow something... Probably my inner beta talking with me.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 11:20 PM
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Yeah, that currently works the best. I just tell her bullshit about me and the mysteriousness makes her become weak. The question is still... what do you talk about when all the playful banter is gone you got her in your bed and will have her in your bed the next times as well? How to communicate with a plate?
/r/askTRP28/12/16 11:19 PM
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It's not exactly silence like she tests and we both stop talking and we hear our own heart beating. That would be an obvious fail. It's more like I am biting her nipple after sex instead of answering. Still it is not sufficient. I can do better. I just need experience/training.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 03:58 PM
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This is what I'd believe as well. Still a series of ties feels like a fail.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 03:49 PM
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Ha.... I just found Rollo's discussion on the 'epiphany phase'. Seems to be important regarding the second point.
/r/askTRP25/12/16 08:22 PM
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