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I had to learn this the hard way friend: don't judge your value based on how others value you. There's only 1 person that you're guaranteed to be with for the rest of your life: yourself. So, you have to value you.
/r/MGTOW23/08/20 02:27 AM
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I appreciate that. I think the biggest challenge was the fact that I saw a functional relationship with my mother and step father. They've been together for 30 years and are still very much in love with each other. I thought I could do the same by working harder and being better for the other person in hopes that they would do the same for me. I had to learn hard way that one person can't shoulder a relationship. I know what it takes to maintain a relationship, but the odds of finding someone in…
/r/MGTOW05/08/20 05:25 PM
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I kind of wish that I would, I'd like to have an honest dialog with some of them. I know that it wouldn't accomplish anything, but I'd hope they realize that I'm a real person with thoughts and feelings.
/r/MGTOW05/08/20 08:53 AM
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I've been alone now going on two years. You can read my story in my comment history. There are moments when the loneliness seems like that it's too much to bear and you don't know how to shake that feeling. For me, what works is remembering how I universally rejected during my attempts at online dating, how even if I did manage to get someone to notice me that I'd be expected to dance like a monkey to cater to her every whim, to know that the only thing relationships bring is suffering, that the…
/r/MGTOW05/08/20 08:51 AM
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A lot of people got it in their heads to get swole during the quarantine (myself included) and caused a MASSIVE run on exercise equipment. My buddy just kicked out $700 for a set of adjustable 90 lbs dumbbells, that's almost 2x the price.
/r/MGTOW05/08/20 08:34 AM
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If it's America you can literally sue anyone for anything you want as long as a judge will allow it.
/r/MGTOW30/07/20 09:00 PM
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My bad, I thought you were trying to lose weight. My advice still stands though, you can use keto to gain weight as well. A friend of mine who was always super skinny is on it and before covid precluded him from killing it at the gym he was super built. Just increase calorie intake to suit your needs.
/r/MGTOW27/07/20 04:06 PM
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Formally unhealthy dude checking in here: I'm 36 and over the last year I've lost 75lbs and started a workout routine. Diet- This is the biggest one. I went keto and saw results fairly quickly. If you're able I highly recommend this, just make sure that you're prepared and do your research (the keto flu is real). Exercise- You mentioned that you're lifting. Good, but make sure that you remember that your muscles grow a lot faster than your connective tissue. So while it's possible to lift heavy …
/r/MGTOW27/07/20 03:55 PM
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but as soon as I opened up and started showing feelings for her, she bounced That's no coincidence. Women love that mystique and that feeling of "I can change him." They see it as a project. I had something similar happen. The instant I was unabashedly honest about who I was, she traded up in a heartbeat.
/r/MGTOW26/07/20 11:29 PM
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You have breath in your lungs therefore there's no reason to give up hope. It's my belief that the universe (God or what have you) leads a person down a path that teaches them certain lessons throughout his or her life. You can acknowledge these lessons or continue to fight the tide to no avail. One of your lessons might be that what you're doing now work wise might not be where you're meant to be. While the universe puts these challenges in our path and punishes deviation with some harsh life l…
/r/MGTOW23/07/20 06:52 AM
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Apparently my ex wife only met people "for hugs." Man, it must be so tough being innocent in all things and be in situations that make you look the worst; over and over. /s
/r/MGTOW23/07/20 04:36 AM
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We were on a break!
/r/MGTOW22/07/20 04:58 PM
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John Wick
/r/MGTOW21/07/20 06:21 AM
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Hi, I just read your entire exchange. I wanted to thank you for coming here and stating your side of things; I appreciate it. I would suggest that if a young guy that you know has fallen into this mindset to find out the root cause. I'm here because I've been betrayed entirely by someone I pledged my life to (feel free to read my story in my post history). Do I think that all women are irredeemable people that seem only to destroy? No, absolutely not, I'm not a fan of such binary thinking. I do …
/r/MGTOW20/07/20 01:01 AM
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Hey man, I want to preface this question by saying that I'm not attacking you, it's just something I'm curious about: how come you're here? There's so much hurt that's been perpetrated against men here (myself included) that I can see why they're kicking around here talking with other kindred spirits. Someone happy and having not learned the hard way by having a woman destroy his entire being is something of a rarity.
/r/MGTOW19/07/20 05:05 AM
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If you eat enough protein your body turns it into sugar, just saying. I've been keto for about a year and a half and lost about 75 lbs.
/r/MGTOW18/07/20 06:37 PM
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Clam bake
/r/MGTOW18/07/20 04:59 PM
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There's two that I saw, there's one right by her elbow in the first picture.
/r/MGTOW18/07/20 03:55 PM
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Yep, the tattoos (or marks) on her arm are conspicuously absent in the last image.
/r/MGTOW18/07/20 06:43 AM
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Guess I'm locked out of dating forever since I don't have higher education despite the fact that I make a near 6 figure salary. Boo hoo haha
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/20 08:09 PM
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Nope. Then he was talking about saving up to go to the Ukraine. Dude was in the bargaining stage hard. I felt for that dude.
/r/MGTOW14/07/20 04:12 PM
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Trying to talk myself into working out, not going well so far lol
/r/MGTOW10/07/20 01:16 AM
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Good on you brother.
/r/MGTOW09/07/20 11:55 PM
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Online dating was the worst and best decision I ever made. It was the worst decision starting it and the best when I took it down. Shit, I knew I was average look wise, but even getting swiped left by the 2s and 3s was downright demoralizing.
/r/MGTOW09/07/20 02:47 AM
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Shame it has to be like this.
/r/MGTOW09/07/20 02:19 AM
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Look at the capitalized letters home skillet haha
/r/MGTOW08/07/20 09:57 PM
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U Next Tuesday
/r/MGTOW08/07/20 05:35 PM
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However he was right on saying she won't admit he is a good guy Of course, because if they tell us that we're good guys we might develop gasp self respect and realize that we're too good for that shit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/07/20 05:23 PM
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So fucking brazen about it too, JFC
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/07/20 05:22 PM
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Well holy shit, that just blew my mind. You're exactly right.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/07/20 04:40 PM
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Yeah, I agree with that.
/r/MGTOW08/07/20 02:37 PM
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Man I couldn't even imagine the backlash if they did something like that haha
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/07/20 01:58 PM
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I always assume that whatever I trust anyone with will be weaponized against me at some point or another, so I try my best to limit their ammunition.
/r/MGTOW08/07/20 06:24 AM
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Just adding to your not knowing how to properly train correctly comment: a lot of people don't know that connective tissue grows at a much slower rate than muscle. A lot of times people experience some really solid gains when they first start, but those gains quickly outpace what the connective tissue is able to withstand and they leave themselves vulnerable to injury.
/r/MGTOW08/07/20 06:20 AM
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I appreciate it. The name was exactly how I felt at the time of its creation. Actually, it was right before I found this sub. I had created an online dating account and it was just a dismal experience for obvious reasons. I was just so fucking done with it all.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/07/20 05:52 AM
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I largely agree with this, it's not so black and white. I don't think that it's always the woman, but with that said, more times than not it's the woman that leaves the lasting damage when they exit the relationship. I frequent r/divorce myself and when I watch women go through what they're going through, they're mainly dealing with the emotional aspect of end of the marriage, but when it's the man he's dealing with the emotional, the financial, the lack of time with their children, etc. I reali…
/r/MGTOW08/07/20 05:41 AM
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I agree with that 100%.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/07/20 04:32 AM
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I moderate a sub of over 100k users on my primary account. Every now and again there's a post or comment that gets removed by "Reddit Anti Evil Operations." Basically it's a team that combs through subs scrubbing anything that they don't like. I bet that's what's happening. https://amp.reddit.com/r/ModSupport/comments/btws9m/what_is_antievil_operations/
/r/MGTOW07/07/20 08:18 AM
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I get it man. All these things do is deepen those racial divides. You know after the race riots in the 90s, I felt like a lot of things got better in terms of race relations in America. I think what really soured it though was the inability of those pushing whatever idea, program, whatever to see that the purpose behind those things was served. They kept going and pushing harder and harder under the guise of equality until what they became doesn't resemble what they set to be initially. Now than…
/r/MGTOW07/07/20 07:56 AM
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I didn't even know that show existed. But yeah, she literally is mentally ill, The Joker corrupted her and turned her crazy. They have a dysfunctional and abusive relationship. Hell, in one of the Arkham games they hint to her getting pregnant and Joker beating the hell out of her causing a miscarriage. I don't know how this whole perception of them having this "beautiful relationship full of crazy love" got perpetuated.
/r/MGTOW07/07/20 12:42 AM
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I still get annoyed when I see sup and not what's up
/r/MGTOW07/07/20 12:07 AM
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At least some of it definitely is.
/r/MGTOW06/07/20 11:27 PM
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Not only that, but people treat others and relationships as disposable in this culture. "Oh my BF sneezes funny so I broke up with him, I'm not worried, there's a thousand others to take his place."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/20 05:18 PM
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I wound up being MGTOW more out of necessity than anything else. My story isn't even all that horrible compared to the others that I've seen there. It's a shame how common it is, the things that happen to us.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/20 05:16 PM
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I honestly feel like when it comes to women, I've been living in a dream world up to this point and I've been snapped back to reality. It sucks that the most important lessons in life are often the most painful, but nevertheless I'm glad to have learned them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/20 03:49 PM
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I tried to go there. My ex wife is literally the only woman I've ever been with, physically or otherwise. After she left me, I had no idea where to begin to start over and I tried appealing to them for advice, they just made me feel like a jerk.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/20 02:43 PM
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I remember when I was thinking about dating and I made a post there. I'm separated from my ex wife and she had been on the dating sites for about 6 months at that point. They made me feel like scum for entertaining the idea, but she needed to find herself and wasn't doing anything wrong. It's such a fucking double standard.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/20 02:39 PM
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Nice. Thanks for the suggestion. I'm digging the fact that they have a heavy emphasis on peer reviewed articles there.
/r/MGTOW06/07/20 06:16 AM
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I don't know why someone would want to improve themselves for a woman (potential women) anyway. Fuck that, wanting to improve yourself should be because you want yourself to be better, not because you want to be better for some chick. At least that's the way I see it. I can't attract a woman to save my life despite having a lot of desirable traits that are often listed. But you know what? Fuck them (figuratively), the work doesn't stop because it's for me, not them.
/r/MGTOW06/07/20 12:22 AM
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I see, so it's more of an incel ideology rooted in nihilism. Yeah, that doesn't describe me at all. I have the nihilism thing going on strong and women don't pay much attention to me, but despite that I still wouldn't call myself an incel.
/r/MGTOW05/07/20 11:25 PM
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Ah, now this makes a lot more sense. Thank you for taking the time to write all that out.
/r/MGTOW05/07/20 11:21 PM
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I see. Those are both interesting views.
/r/MGTOW05/07/20 09:42 PM
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Ah, so TIL that I'm most likely black pilled without even knowing what the term was lol
/r/MGTOW05/07/20 08:52 PM
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I really enjoy the hell out of the eclectic makeup of this sub. I only found this place a few days ago and I can tell the deeply the mods care about helping their brethren understand a world that's seemingly gone mad. I feel like I've learned more about women this past week than I have my entire life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/07/20 01:16 PM
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Exactly right. I'm pretty much existing at this point waiting around for death. I'm not going to shortcut that process, but yeah, everything seems so pointless without a purpose.
/r/MGTOW03/07/20 06:52 PM
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It's so they can shift their weight to that side of their ass so it looks bigger and rounder from that angle.
/r/MGTOW02/07/20 10:56 PM
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Yeah you're completely right, I came to that realization a while ago. I was just a tool to achieve her ends. What a world we live in where that kind of behavior is rewarded.
/r/MGTOW02/07/20 01:29 PM
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That's really heartening to hear that. But the Reddit admins wouldn't care, they'd be too busy patting themselves on the back for destroying something great to be concerned with things like right and wrong.
/r/MGTOW02/07/20 06:07 AM
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Ignorance is truly bliss eh? I don't know if I could ever love a woman again, or want to for that matter. I bear them no ill will, but theirs is a world I want no part of anymore.
/r/MGTOW02/07/20 06:05 AM
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Thanks brother, I truly appreciate that.
/r/MGTOW02/07/20 06:01 AM
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A really good friend of mine gave me something called The 3 Rules. These are rules that you make for yourself that cannot be broken, barring some kind event that would preclude a person from following them. They are as follows: Workout every weekday, or whenever you have work. Make it into a routine. Cold showers 3 days a week. This builds mental discipline. You know that shower is going to be an uncomfortable experience, but you're going to do it because no one else is going to do it for you. D…
/r/MGTOW02/07/20 06:00 AM
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I have a picture of a Warhammer 40k space marine with my head on it. I uploaded it as a joke initially, but that shit made everyone laugh so I'm keeping it.
/r/MGTOW02/07/20 05:44 AM
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I honestly even doubt that lefty chicks are even in it for the political views. Media today has made it trendy to be a leftist, so these chicks just use those political views like an accessory akin to a handbag to show their status. The way I see it, you can believe whatever the fuck you want to, but they should be YOUR VIEWS, not some trendy bullshit.
/r/MGTOW02/07/20 05:35 AM
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I'll never stop fighting, never. I'm going to show my children that life can throw everything at you in an attempt to destroy you, and it will. But a man rises to challenge and perseveres. He doesn't blame his situation, he just gets to work with stoic determination in defiance of hand he's dealt.
/r/MGTOW02/07/20 05:23 AM
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Honestly, and I'm not trying to justify her behavior whatsoever, but I think a large part of it has to do with her childhood. Her dad split when she was young and was only ever really around in between wives and her mother is an absolute narcissist. She never witnessed a healthy relationship growing up, she never had a positive role model. Now with that said, that only buys one so much slack because at the end of the day just about every adult knows right from wrong and the decisions made are co…
/r/MGTOW02/07/20 05:20 AM
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I appreciate you relating that story man. I'm sorry to hear about your situation too brother. Cheating is the absolute worst betrayal anyone can endure and I wouldn't wish it on anyone. I wish you peace and strength for the times ahead.
/r/MGTOW02/07/20 05:15 AM
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Thank you pal, I appreciate it.
/r/MGTOW02/07/20 05:11 AM
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A bit off topic but do username mentions work on a quarantined sub?
/r/MGTOW02/07/20 04:31 AM
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I appreciate you writing all that out. I'm 36 and I know I still have plenty of life left, I just sometimes get to ruminating about how things can feel meaningless without someone to share them with. That's just simp talk though, I've come to realize that I don't need anyone. If anything it's my ex wife that needs me to leech off of. I deleted my dating account that. Why TF should I be a dancing monkey that caters to their fucking whims? The hell with that and the hell with them. Maybe I'll go t…
/r/MGTOW02/07/20 04:17 AM
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It's a shame because they think this sub is about hatred, it's not, it's about men living their lives the way that they want to live it and other men supporting them, as well as the reasoning for why we feel this way. Sorry for the run on sentence, I'm tired as hell.
/r/MGTOW02/07/20 04:08 AM
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That's the first video I've ever seen from this guy and I thought it was entertaining AF
/r/MGTOW02/07/20 04:04 AM
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My nostalgia has been triggered.
/r/MGTOW02/07/20 03:05 AM
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Because if things were truly equal, they'd have to take responsibility for their shitty behavior.
/r/MGTOW02/07/20 02:21 AM
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I felt that brother. I'm sorry that shit happened to you.
/r/MGTOW02/07/20 02:20 AM
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This shit sucks man. Especially when every emotion in your body is screaming out in protest of being alone. The alternative is shitty as well. There is no winning. At least I had the bliss of ignorance in my youth.
/r/MGTOW01/07/20 10:19 PM
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If you aren't among the top 20%, you only get used by someone who will use you until she can land a guy in the top 20% because it beats staying home alone. That's the funny thing to me. People straight up tell me that I'm attractive. I posted weight loss pics under my pseudonym account and they said as much. I'm 6' 2" and apparently that's supposed to get me attention too and I make a borderline six figure salary. I have literally gotten almost zero attention from females. I don't get it and I'v…
/r/MGTOW01/07/20 10:15 PM
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I have a really good role model in my stepfather. He drilled integrity into my head from day 1. Conversely though, his relationship with my mother I saw that a long and lasting relationship is definitely possible, but so rare that I might have better luck finding the Ark of the Covenant than a good woman.
/r/MGTOW01/07/20 06:19 PM
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All for having the audacity of wanting to show them love.
/r/MGTOW01/07/20 05:34 PM
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I would've liked to see this thread and what "advice" this person got.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/20 05:32 PM
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That's the plan. The only way left is forward.
/r/MGTOW01/07/20 04:23 PM
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Living alone is great, but give yourself a bit of an adjustment period. I had a hard time from going from a wife and 4 kids to no one. The silence really fucked with my head for a while. My recommendation is to always have music or something playing.
/r/MGTOW01/07/20 01:54 PM
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Kinda hope this petition goes through. I never thought she was attractive and I'm tired of seeing her face plastered around in porn ads. Overhyped AF
/r/MGTOW29/06/20 02:57 PM
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Voat eh? I tried them a while back when the last big ban wave hit and I heard tale of subversive people there posting all kinds of crazy shit in an attempt to get the site taken down, so I quit going. Also, at the time I co-ran a sub of over 100k people so I also had obligations here. I'd be willing to migrate to voat though and give it another try.
/r/MGTOW29/06/20 12:47 AM
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Do rely on your good friends for support. Yeah, they're the ones that pushed for me to get "get back out there." I think from now on the only I'll ever answer to is myself and myself only. If nothing else I will show my sons that I'm uncompromising in my values and I don't need anyone else in this life. The millstone around my neck expires in 14 years.
/r/MGTOW29/06/20 12:42 AM
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Lol she flipped out because I looked at porn once a week. Sorry, I don't have time for romance when you haven't showered for 2 weeks and I'm overwhelmed by chasing 4 kids, cleaning a house, and working to provide for everyone because you decided I make enough money for you to be a stay at home mom. Sorry, I'm still salty I think.
/r/MGTOW28/06/20 10:13 PM
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I've been through depression in just about all of its forms. I had finally seen my way out of it before I started this business of thinking of finding someone else. In the grand scheme of things I guess I'm glad that I failed miserably. Now I don't have to worry about anyone draining my resources other than my ex wife. I get live my own life now not for anyone else other than myself.
/r/MGTOW28/06/20 10:10 PM
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They do, and honestly they would've contributed nothing to my life anyway. One and done for me. Perhaps all this that's happened is the universe preventing me from being stupid by teaching me hard lesson after hard lesson. Hell with these thots anyway.
/r/MGTOW28/06/20 07:36 PM
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Apparently I couldn't even get them to pay attention to me hahaha. It's whatever, I'm better off on my own anyway
/r/MGTOW28/06/20 07:05 PM
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I'm not going to lie, things feel empty as hell, but I guess empty is better than just used as a tool by the person who was supposed to love you.
/r/MGTOW28/06/20 05:43 PM
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I tried jumping on ruqqus but that site seems be crashing on the regular. I hope that there's a reliable platform that we can move to.
/r/MGTOW28/06/20 05:05 PM
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