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IAmSteel/r/seduction27/08/11 01:15 AM
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IAmSteel/r/seduction27/11/11 01:59 AM
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I reverted to skimming, head to page 67, looks like it turns around there. Fuck that was a lot of bs, but the headlines start covering some good topics.
/r/seduction31/05/12 02:41 PM
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Your post makes no sense, but if all her friends seemed really interested in you and she said she was trying to get you laid tonight it means she told her friends you are awesome/sexy/cool. But it means she's not interested in you. Go for one of the friends and just be cool that you now have a great wing woman.
/r/seduction15/04/12 11:45 PM
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To answer the question posed in the title, we’re not all alphas because we let society tell us that we are a beta then we bought into that label. Here’s an article on socialization, basically it says that starting from birth people tried to force you into a specific category (in this case alpha v beta male), this is reinforced on a daily basis through your interactions with those around you. You aren’t born a beta, the actions of your youth put you in that category and as society reinforced it y…
/r/seduction18/03/12 04:46 AM
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If you play sports make sure to wash your helmet and equipment. Football/hockey helmets get fucking disgusting and filled with dirt. Also you're 15, it will clear up before high school is over.
/r/seduction14/03/12 11:54 AM
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I kind of disagree with the advice you got from leveledup. Step 1:Apologize. You're not trying to seduce her, you just want her to feel comfortable in your presence again. Apologizing is your way of letting telling her that you know you fucked up, that your sorry for what happened, and that your normally not like that. Next time you see her at school just go up to her and be very direct, sincere and short. One or two sentences about how you know what you did was wrong and you feel bad. Definitel…
/r/seduction31/01/12 01:02 PM
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Here's a better question, why would you waste effort trying to "save" something with a chick you've already made a bad impression on when you can start fresh with someone new? Also just because she's hot doesn't mean she's cool, fun or interesting.
/r/seduction29/01/12 02:06 AM
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You tell 'em Mr Lahey!
/r/seduction27/01/12 05:05 AM
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Just to add to those points: 1) for fitness and dietary advice visit [r/fitness](www.reddit.com/r/fitness). Find a beginners workout plan and start eating healthier. But don't start to gung-ho, if you pick some crazy diet/workout combo you'll burn out. At this point if you eliminated soda and drank water then for a workout just did some walking and push ups you would start to see a difference. Its all about making small changes that you can maintain. Over time these tiny changes will create an e…
/r/seduction28/12/11 03:26 PM
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Don't take drugs to "enhance" your game. Its easy to become state dependent and you will not have a clear memory (based in reality) of what happened. But if you want to take drugs and go party have a blast. Best places to do drugs and meet people are raves or music festivals. Music festivals always have a very accepting atmosphere and a lot of people tripping out on every substance known to man. No one will care, but some people might be interested in what your doing/experiencing. I find weed gi…
/r/seduction12/12/11 03:04 AM
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I completely disagree... yes it might be easier for a guy who is feeling uptight or insecure to kick it back off at the same drunk pace they were the other night. But if you can't meet a girl sober after a drunken f-close/#-close there is a huge hole in your game. Now I'm not saying you shouldn't ever take these girls out drinking for a day 2 because it can be a lot of fun and end with a dirty drunken hook up (preferably in a public place). But you need to be able to seamlessly transition from s…
/r/seduction07/12/11 07:21 AM
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If you can't make a chick feel comfortable when she's sober your doing it all horribly wrong...
/r/seduction06/12/11 10:03 PM
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most girls I've dated in the past would have slapped me across the face if I went for a kiss after the 2nd date I really think you're mistaken on this point. Every woman has her own limits and speed that she's comfortable moving at. But there's not a single woman out there who would slap you for trying to go for a kiss on a first date. If you build comfort and attraction properly and escalate kino you can kiss 99% of woman on the first date. Don't be amazed or weirded out by her story, just take…
/r/seduction27/11/11 01:41 AM
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Downvoted the thread because OP already got the answers he needed. People come because they feel there is a void in their life. And most guys assume that void is the lack of a gf, when really there not living the life that they want to be. We do give out "fake" tactics and routines because a lot of guys need something like that to lean on when they first start learning. It gives them the confidence to go out and try interacting with people instead of sitting at home. As they learn more and becom…
/r/seduction05/11/11 10:47 AM
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Woah chill. When I read the question it sounded like you were asking whether you need to not be the last one to talk. All I could think of is how newbies tend to grab one insignificant point and focus time and energy on that instead of what really makes a difference. Well that and some poor guy ruining the end of an interaction because he was trying to not be the last one to talk. It reminded me of the time someone asked what eye they were supposed to look in when they talk to a girl. If you wan…
/r/seduction20/10/11 10:33 AM
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Lol, I just imagine the interaction ending something like this. She says something looking for a response, after he awkwardly makes eye contact before just walking off in an attempt to not validate her last comment. Edit: Like everyone else said this is a pretty stupid topic to worry about.
/r/seduction20/10/11 05:29 AM
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Because both boards were very active when I started. r/seduction mods and experienced users read both boards and responded to peoples questions in both places. But for the most part the material that belonged on each board went there. Then a few months ago r/seduction started getting mentioned in other posts and getting more publicity (even though it was mostly negative). At the point the population of r/seduction exploded and now its facing the same problems ever large subreddit faces. Trolls, …
/r/seduction13/10/11 12:39 AM
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Askseddit has been around the whole time I've been a part of the community and it is definitely not the problem. The problem is that we had a recent explosion of members and non of them bother to read the rules, the sidebar or even take the time to search for questions. They come in and flood r/seduction with a million posts about "Hey I talked to this girl one time does she like me" or "What do I txt girl X, this is how I know here." I can't even count how many posts I've seen lately that are a…
/r/seduction12/10/11 11:44 PM
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This subreddit is not for stupid pictures. Its about real issues people are having with themselves, their confidence and the positive changes they want to make in their lives.
/r/seduction08/10/11 04:14 PM
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It was on the front page a while ago, shows up in comment replys from time to time.
/r/seduction08/10/11 12:30 AM
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In the future simple questions like this go in r/askseddit, r/seduction is for more advanced content, questions and FRs people can learn from. You need to increase your conversational skills. Read this' but just start talking to everyone you meet. Bus stops, in line, classes, everywhere.
/r/seduction07/10/11 01:50 AM
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solid post but to shorten OPs into: TL;DR: If you don't go out, practice and learn from it you'll never grow or improve. Great video on vulnerability and being open to getting hurt like the OP is talking about. It made a huge impact on my life and in turn my game.
/r/seduction06/10/11 06:27 AM
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Don't get too down on yourself. Just remember how much this ruined your day, then think about the last time you got rejected by a chick. If your like most people the regret probably caused you a lot more pain than than failure. But for future reference r/seduction is for more advanced stuff and field reports that people can actually learn from. Please post stuff like this in r/askseddit. Thanks!
/r/seduction06/10/11 03:28 AM
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I'm replying directly to your post and not don slices reply so you'll see this. I think everyone claiming "chick mind fuck" is just doing so because it's easier to adopt the mindset that chicks are crazy/unpredictable/stupid than admit fault. Honestly your description sucks because you put more detail into the parts leading up to the night then what happened when you went out and what you did at your house. If you messed up the devil is in those details, not in the parts before that were going w…
/r/seduction01/10/11 03:52 PM
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Too much bad to partially right advice on this thread. "Don't shit where you eat", think about the scenarios right now if you make a move. She's not into you: if you make a move she's going to tell her bf and all the roommates. Everyone will think you're a scumbag and hate you. If you're in a lease prepare for the shittiest year ever, one where you won't want to spend any time at home. She is into you: now your fucking a girl you live with. Meet a random girl at a party and want to bring her bac…
/r/seduction21/09/11 02:03 PM
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I'm glad your having success, just realize that doing something like this can cause state dependence. You'll think you need to be high to talk to girls when really you just need to relax and not give a fuck like you do when you're high. I've got no issues with smoking, but as some of the other people here it usually makes me more self-conscious so I over think things and don't approach. Also it might not be the weed, if you've made positive changes in your life lately and are feeling happier wom…
/r/seduction07/09/11 11:52 AM
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Acronyms don't mean people aren't having fun, it just makes it easier to share our experiences in a common language everyone understands. Getting rid of them would be like asking a programmer to build a unique programming language every time he sat down to code a new program. All it would accomplish is make it harder to learn from the experiences of others and waste a shit load of time.
/r/seduction29/08/11 04:07 AM
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Tofu cleared up most of the points I wanted to make. Some of your advice is good but your misinterpreting a lot. We've covered vulnerability a few times recently. In fact this video has been posted on seddit before, and I've posted it in comment reply's to a few people. The concept of vulnerability in that video is about having the strength to show people who you really are and not being afraid to make a real connection with others. This in fact very much a quality of a true modern alpha male. W…
/r/seduction29/08/11 03:57 AM
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You should only be negging girls that are really hot. Like the hot girl you knew in school that never had to do anything for herself because she got everyone to do all her work for her. If she's not the type of smoke show where everyone is kissing her ass all the time she will probably take it personal and get really offended. Girls that are real hot respond to negging because they're internal response is along the lines of "wtf why isn't this guy kissing my ass like everyone else." It raises yo…
/r/seduction27/08/11 08:35 AM
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I couldn't disagree with what you say at the end more. Watch this, it made a huge difference in my life and overall happiness http://www.ted.com/talks/brene_brown_on_vulnerability.html You need to be open and let everyone you meet in. You only get hurt because your not used to letting people in and when you finally do you expect them to be there forever. Your expectations of these people you let in are too high and they will feel the pressure. If you let everyone you meet in and see the real you…
/r/seduction27/08/11 06:22 AM
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Hey don't worry about it, you started the night alone ended up going out solo and overall sounds like you had fun until the end of the night. You could have sat in your room but you went out instead of making excuses. Dancing - no one expects you to be a great dancer, in fact the guys doing the really crazy excessive dance moves usually come of as try hard after high school. There's some pretty good primers on how to dance (just search r/seduction), just practice at home in a mirror. You'll feel…
/r/seduction27/08/11 06:03 AM
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I'm not a fan of the point and kiss move, I think this would work better for you: At some point during the date when you're close lightly rest your hand under her chin (use your thumb and pointer finger), orient her head directly facing you and look deep in her eyes for a brief moment. This is her chance to escape, so if she gazes back into your eyes and doesn't pull away she wants you to kiss her so go for it. Edit: if you need help envisioning the position of the hand (only use 1) do a thumbs …
/r/seduction26/08/11 04:34 AM
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Yea depending on who he runs into this could go south quickly. Maybe I'm a little bit touchy on the dog tag issue because a lot of my friends and family have served in the military. But if you ever touched one of their dog tags and said something like this you would get knocked out. And nothing would happen to them, when they tell any bouncer or police officer that they served and what you did they'd consider you a punk who got what he deserved. As for myself, I do have a few different bracelets…
/r/seduction23/08/11 09:45 AM
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Came to post essentially the same thing. As long as your upfront with what you want and pay attention to their needs you'll be fine. Also I couldn't let this line slide. I'm not a bad guy. In fact I'm an Eagle Scout. Sorry I just laughed when I read that... Makes me think of someone going "Oh little johnny could have never done that, he goes to church!"
/r/seduction11/08/11 07:03 AM
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Hey guys, shoot me a pm if your going out this weekend. I'm in Melbourne for the next week or two for work. I spend a lot of time alone on the road some I'm good at finding a group of friends to chill with, but I've heard Melbourne's pretty bad for not letting people in.
/r/seduction10/08/11 07:07 AM
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I agree that the exact clothing recommendations on MFA are a little more preppy then what I would wear to the bars. But there general recommendations around fit and how to match patterns are spot on for a style beginner. To the OP, as far as denim goes if you're asking for fashion advice you're probably wearing jeans clothes that are too loose. Unless your look is very hip-hop inspired or have the lower body of a football running back straight leg is the loosest I would go. Buy jeans slightly ti…
/r/seduction01/08/11 05:07 AM
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Everyone already mentioned you don't have to drink a lot (and probably shouldn't) when you're working on your bar/nightclub game. If you live near a shopping area go there, there will be plenty of woman. Also there will usually be attractive woman working at all the stores who will always ask if you need help, always say yes. I'm usually pretty successful day gaming chicks who work in clothing/retail stores. If you don't want to buy anything just say you're looking for <insert item> but you want…
/r/seduction25/07/11 01:46 AM
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If you want more friends you need to take matters into your own hands. Sure you might get lucky and have some really cool people come and talk to you out of the blue. But if you go out and make the effort to talk and connect with others eventually you'll meet the type of people you want to be friends with. Yes demeanor, body language and many other things are important (look to the side bar for useful links). But the most impotent part is to put in the effort and time. Also don't get discouraged…
/r/seduction24/07/11 03:38 AM
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