IAmTheBasicModel Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	When the pandemic's finally over, maybe I'll go on a financial interrogation ... I mean a date These statements add nothing to this.	/r/MensRights	18/02/21 02:34 AM
3	Mom, 32, is arrested for 'forcing her son, 12, to strip naked before raping him on the bed they share Hambeast lmao	/r/PussyPassDenied	22/10/20 07:29 PM
4	Why are men expected to help around the house? f a woman earns all the money and the husband stays home, the woman isn’t given a free pass on housework, either. I am sure you have hypothetical examples that you “see all the time” of an uneven expectation based on gender, but as the expression goes “screen shots or it didn’t happen”.	/r/MensRights	08/07/20 06:44 PM
7	Jerking off has made me a free man. Excel spreadsheets, bro, come on... where’s your dignity. If she’s so evil, just break up ffs. What do you think you’re going to gain from all of this? And before the downvote express leaves the station, I’d argue OP has been put through so much bullshit, he’s lost perspective and thinks this passive aggressive bullshit is “normal” - this is the hallmark of being in a relationship with a narcissist that has warped your sense of self - the only “victory” you can score against a narcissist is gett…	/r/MensRights	30/06/20 07:02 AM
1	Are we all inclusive I would agree “gay fathers married to/divorced from a women” rights are the same as “straight fathers married to/divorced from a women” rights. But in a “gay dad” married to/divorced from a “gay dad” situation, the gender is equal - no matter what, parental custody is 100% with a dad lol	/r/MensRights	30/06/20 05:08 AM
4	Are we all inclusive In the case of the LTQ+, I would agree. But for the “G” and the male “B”, the goals of MR apply to them as a matter of objective fact. For example; MGM impacts gay men and bisexual men. However, gay adoption rights is not an MR issue - it’s a gay rights issue.	/r/MensRights	30/06/20 04:21 AM
5	Are we all inclusive I feel like this is a trap. I speak only for myself I am a white gay man. I have felt this way since birth. I identify and present as a man on every dimension. Most people don’t know I am gay unless I tell them. I lived a long time in the closet so my life experience has been very much the same as a straight guys. I find nearly every 100% of MR applies to gay men since we also have pieces of our dicks cut-off. We also have our voices (as being men) marginalized in the workplace, social discussio…	/r/MensRights	30/06/20 04:03 AM
14	Men's rights mean trans men's rights. This post doesn’t have any business on the sub and is the kinda shit we’re going to want to avoid. OP didn’t ever say Trans-men’s rights were the same as Men’s rights. In fact, OP doesn’t even use the word “rights” at all. It’s a collection of observations in how family members express affection based on if the family member is M or F, and the “F” treatment seems a lot nicer and more loving. These are legitimate observations. The part at the bottom about toxic masculinity is a little silly but s…	/r/MensRights	30/06/20 02:18 AM
3	Richard Dreyfuss warns that #MeToo accusations are often 'heard as a verdict' and says that even those accused of Holocaust atrocities were given 'due process' What a strange year; the smackdown Justin Bieber laid down on his false accuser is the single most important moment in the last 6 months with this kind of bullshit. I am not saying Justin Bieber was ever great or terrible in his music/choices/actions... just who would have known JB would be an “anti-cancel culture” hero.	/r/MensRights	29/06/20 09:00 PM
23	Really, r/me_irl? Also says “fat people”... thats widely offensive in today’s PC culture, isn’t it supposed to be “body shaming”?	/r/MensRights	29/06/20 05:56 PM
7	Bullying female housemate trying to force me out, making false accusations about illicit behaviour. What can I do? If you’re legit afraid for you physical safety (and it sounds like you‘re right to - seems like she is a few steps away from stabbing you or something psycho), you need to get out ASAP. I know there will be massively negative consequences for you but not as negative as being dead.	/r/MensRights	29/06/20 04:57 PM
0	The primary problem is traditional gender roles, not feminism. No one likes a sore loser. I give you an “A” for persistence but an “F” for bait quality. Your composite troll score is a “C-“.	/r/MensRights	29/06/20 04:17 PM
0	The primary problem is traditional gender roles, not feminism. Yawn - you already lost this one and now you’re just boring.	/r/MensRights	29/06/20 08:02 AM
3	Why aren't we tearing down Feminist monuments? It isn’t superficial - one of the goals of BLM is eliminating latent glorification and symbols of oppression. I am not saying it’s right/wrong but to declare the precise achievement of a goal as a superficial victory + a sweeping generalization “they hate America” (which isn’t true about the mass majority of those involved in the BLM movement) has revealed something here - you’re bias.	/r/MensRights	29/06/20 07:47 AM
1	The primary problem is traditional gender roles, not feminism. Calm down. I picked the examples I picked because they prove my point. Just like you picked examples from history that proved your point. Just like everyone. That’s how debate works. We can have a rational debate based on our respective examples or you can freak out and attack me for “cherry picking.” I actually mean this - I think your are above it as you seem to have well thought out opinions. I will concede from a strict raising children perspective, traditional gender roles are the most like…	/r/MensRights	28/06/20 01:40 AM
0	The primary problem is traditional gender roles, not feminism. Incorrect. the scenes from I Love Lucy described by the author in the article are objectively true. those objectively true scenes destroyed his “whataboutism” supposition that Lucy was just as abusive to Ricky as Ricky was abusive to Lucy. he didn’t like that, so he attempted to discredit the author by attacking the she is a feminist even though the events she described in her article are objectively true and her feminism has nothing to do with it. The dictionary defines ad hominem as “marked by…	/r/MensRights	27/06/20 11:59 PM
7	The struggle is very real. The dating pool for you men is literally —Shopping addicts. Sensitive women who drain you emotionally. Narcissistic Manipulators. Empathetic women who treat men like shit. Stay single. Enjoy life. I categorically reject this. I am 38 and some of these cliches used to kinda/sorta be true sometimes with my generation (replace “woke” with “feminist”), but now days young men try harder than ever to find common ground and they’re rewarded with prejudice and discrimination so severe that it’s giving them mental health issues. She’s living in 1990 - shit was 30 years ago.	/r/MensRights	27/06/20 08:44 PM
-1	The primary problem is traditional gender roles, not feminism. Ad Hominem. (Attacking the person): This fallacy occurs when, instead of addressing someone's argument or position, you irrelevantly attack the person or some aspect of the person who is making the argument. Thanks for playing	/r/MensRights	27/06/20 08:32 PM
2	Anyone else feel like shit every time they go to Twitter? Twitter is like “gallery of people i would punch in real life.” It blows my mind that people think substantive intellectual discourse is achievable in 280 characters. On top of that, the limit is seldom met unless the tweeter includes the usual 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼💔✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽👎🏽🙌🏻😇😇😇😇😀😅🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈💯💯💯	/r/MensRights	27/06/20 08:27 PM
1	This was in response to discussing male rape statistics, this was sent by a guy with an incredibly feminist friend, doesn't it just make you sad? I’d be delighted!	/r/MensRights	27/06/20 08:12 PM
1	The primary problem is traditional gender roles, not feminism. He might have been regarded as a jerk before doing it, but his personal character isn’t on trail here. What is on trial is how gender roles frame the over-arching concepts of behavior of one gender toward the other. In this case, it was at least socially permissible (even if jerky) to commit murder and infanticide. What about her? Was she okay with it? Was she a jerk also? Irrelevant, irrelevant, and irrelevant. The point is a guy was seen as a jerk for killing a baby instead of being seen as de…	/r/MensRights	27/06/20 08:09 PM
0	The primary problem is traditional gender roles, not feminism. Nope, not as pithy as a 15 second youtube clip, but I am talking about this: “...several episodes have Ricky threatening to spank his wife, who (on the show) routinely cries like a child and treats him like an irascible father. He grabs her by the ear in one episode, and another is dedicated to how black eyes sometimes do happen from walking into a door. But this business about the "allowance" shocked me more than the routine joking about domestic violence. That's partly because it feels more un…	/r/MensRights	27/06/20 07:49 PM
1	The primary problem is traditional gender roles, not feminism. Your supposition that 1957 qualifies as modern technology simply because of the existence of a TV is pretty silly considering the device in your hand right now is connected to at least one civilian satellite orbiting the planet. We didn’t even land on the moon until 1969. (but I don’t think that necessarily invalidates your point) Also Lucy bossing Ricky around is not even close to his actions of controlling her by withholding money nor physically/sexually assaulting her by spanking her. (but I …	/r/MensRights	27/06/20 07:37 PM
2	This was in response to discussing male rape statistics, this was sent by a guy with an incredibly feminist friend, doesn't it just make you sad? I feel like you were posing the concept that rape isn’t shameful (I agree), but I think it’s still shame that holds men back from dealing with it - that shame was invented by women to further the “women are powerless victims of the patriarchy, pity us” rhetoric. Ever feeling shame from being raped makes no sense. Shame is something you feel about your own choices/decisions - not the choices/decision of others. If someone over-powers/manipulates you for sex against your choice, what reflection do…	/r/MensRights	27/06/20 07:22 PM
9	Anyone else feel like shit every time they go to Twitter? Twitter is a cesspool of hate and ignorance. There are subs on reddit just as bad, but also a few subs that are reasonably civil.	/r/MensRights	27/06/20 06:03 PM
1	This was in response to discussing male rape statistics, this was sent by a guy with an incredibly feminist friend, doesn't it just make you sad? “Spoiler alert” lol	/r/MensRights	27/06/20 05:59 PM
1	This was in response to discussing male rape statistics, this was sent by a guy with an incredibly feminist friend, doesn't it just make you sad? Do you think there is a difference between a man raped by another man and a man raped by a woman? I mean, I don’t want to go to far down a rabbit hole, but seems like rape by a man would be way worse.	/r/MensRights	27/06/20 05:57 PM
1	This was in response to discussing male rape statistics, this was sent by a guy with an incredibly feminist friend, doesn't it just make you sad? Haha It was me trying to clever. Its word play on the movie “The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants” - No matter where they are, they are connected by a pair of jeans that they take turns sharing -- pants that fit all four girls and exemplify their tight bond. Yeah, thats the gimmick of the movie - girls connect through a clothing item.	/r/MensRights	27/06/20 05:54 PM
39	This was in response to discussing male rape statistics, this was sent by a guy with an incredibly feminist friend, doesn't it just make you sad? I kind of think he’s right... maybe? Women do handle rape poorer than men because of victimization culture that has programmed women to believe if they are raped, they were ravaged by a monstrous, filthy predator that splattered his demon seed all over the pure, pristine walls of her nuck nuck and now she is also filthy, used, broken, shameful, disgusting, worthless, helpless... that she has to be suspicious of every man on the planet and now her life is over - she will never be the same person.…	/r/MensRights	27/06/20 10:32 AM
0	What...the f. The Y chromosome has just 4.6m years left before it disappears completely. We were already planning on leaving you anyway, sweetheart.	/r/MensRights	27/06/20 10:17 AM
0	The primary problem is traditional gender roles, not feminism. You’re not even talking about men’s rights - you’re just complaining about your grandmother and some chick that hurt you. Normally the only place that I see unprompted detailed diatribes about life struggles and unfair relationships are on the whiney feminist subs. I am sorry those people hurt you - you’re filled with bitterness. :( I hope you find peace with it someday soon. In the meantime I don’t have time to sort through a long, rambling paragraph which contains a grand total of three period…	/r/MensRights	27/06/20 09:58 AM
-2	The primary problem is traditional gender roles, not feminism. Basically wanted to re-write history to sell this idea gender roles were ever a good thing. Women absolutely were subservient to men - you don’t even have to go that far back in history to see it. Watch the episode of I Love Lucy in which Ricky spanks Lucy for ruining one of his suits and then docks her allowance $100 as punishment.	/r/MensRights	27/06/20 09:38 AM
0	The primary problem is traditional gender roles, not feminism. I didn’t know people living in 1957 had access to reddit.	/r/MensRights	27/06/20 09:25 AM
5	The primary problem is traditional gender roles, not feminism. It’s like you didn’t even read the post; those traditional gender roles that you’re supporting are the ones that deny men have emotions, the ones that put men into physically dangerous jobs that result in them disproportionately being killed at work, that push them to join the military and represent 97% of combat deaths, that puts the stress of supporting a household financially solely on them which pushes their suicide rate to 3 1/2 times that of women, that brainwash them into believing it’s n…	/r/MensRights	27/06/20 09:23 AM
2	It’s not much, but it’s something. Proof of Female Privilege in modern society Following a rape, women are given Plan B at the hospital as a precaution. If they don’t want to go to the hospital, there are also drugstores. Pregnancy doesn’t even have to start as long as a woman is paying attention and responsible. But sure... abortions are the fault of men.	/r/MensRights	27/06/20 09:14 AM
2	Dads are great THANK YOU	/r/MensRights	27/06/20 08:29 AM
5	This was on the front page of Reddit, of courss there wasnt anyone bringing up the much larger issus of circumcision in the comments... So, 44,000 immigrants from Eritrea, Somalia, Indonesia, Egypt and Nigeria mutilated their daughters genitals... And the solution is "empowering mothers to protect their children." But... “FGM is usually initiated and carried out by women, who see it as a source of honour and fear that failing to have their daughters and granddaughters cut will expose the girls to social exclusion.” Seems like the solution is taking kids away from mothers that come from wackadoo backwards cultures?	/r/MensRights	27/06/20 08:04 AM
1	Taking care of your wife and your child is a full time job. Nope - my employer doesn’t need to be involved in the employee’s personal lives. I support personal UNPAID leave of absences, but my employer should not be picking reasons that are worthy of compensation and which aren’t. Every dollar spent providing paid leave for something completely voluntary is money out of the companies bottomline and benefit budget - if a company offers paid maternity/paternity leave, they are not expanding their benefit budget because they have big hearts... they’re just …	/r/MensRights	27/06/20 06:04 AM
5	Taking care of your wife and your child is a full time job. “Newborns sleep a lot, Pam, if you feed them enough.”	/r/MensRights	27/06/20 05:54 AM
5	Trashing men, takes calling out hypocrisy in the wrong direction What kind of trash would (com)post refuse like this calling someone else garbage? What a waste.	/r/MensRights	27/06/20 04:20 AM
5	Sydney Morning Herald turning an uneducated issue into a gender issue Many of those women have families, why are only the women painted as the victims and not their dependent children? It’s not like most women were spending their income on beer and cigarettes - the loss of income hurts their kids, not them, but no mention of kids in the wholeeeeee article. ¯_(ツ)_/¯	/r/MensRights	26/06/20 05:41 AM
1	I need help Meet the dads asap. It will be awkward, but the sooner, the better - for most daughters, they are the role models of an ideal men or the object of their angst. If the dad is not in the picture and she’s bitter about it - RUN. If the dad is a professor at a liberal university - RUN. Also, take a look at mom as well, if she seems like a feminist - RUN. Edit: What other “parental red flags” can y’all think of?	/r/MensRights	26/06/20 05:05 AM
2	I think we are part of the problem. Thanks for explaining more about your position! Intelligent discourse makes me happy.	/r/MensRights	25/06/20 11:43 PM
1	I think we are part of the problem. Food for thought - I appreciate your insights!	/r/MensRights	25/06/20 11:39 PM
2	I think we are part of the problem. Right but if you allow for women shaming Men into doing things doesn’t it automatically allow for men shaming women into doing things?	/r/MensRights	25/06/20 11:28 PM
1	I think we are part of the problem. In a general way I could generally agree with OP (two generals and a “could” for emphasis), but I see where you’re coming from. As a truly honest question, how do you reconcile your perspective with free agency? E.g. The older man/younger woman troupe - feminists will insist a younger woman has no free agency to make her our choices, the man MUST be a sexual predator. With “brainwashed” men... you describe them as though they have no free agency - you don’t allow that maybe they decided that’s h…	/r/MensRights	25/06/20 11:09 PM
1	Did any of these make your orgasms numb/pleasureless? I has a bout of depression and my doctor gave me Celexa - I gained 15 pounds and I couldn’t cum - I still remember the awful look of feeling rejection on my partner’s face when after 45 minutes, NOTHING could make be bust. “Sorry, babe, it’s the meds” only goes so far. How the fuck is that supposed to be “anti-depressing.”	/r/MensRights	25/06/20 03:52 PM
16	Why do women always disappear or remain silent when men's issues comes up? This is not a criticism - just my subjective belief based on my subjective life experience. Women are the ultimate team players - when they join forces for a common goal WATCH OUT because they have an extraordinary connection to one another that transcends their need for personal expression (again, my opinion) and a nearly endless capacity to support one another. On balance, men tend to be much more comfortable asserting their individual selves over the priority of a group. I am not saying women…	/r/MensRights	25/06/20 02:59 PM
1	In Rarest Of Rare Case, 29-Year-Old Woman Booked For Raping 14-Year-Old Boy True. I feel like 14 is right about the age judges start trying to high-5 the victim and leave court early for the day.	/r/MensRights	25/06/20 12:06 AM
4	Do most straight men consider gay men to be an ally in the MR battle? First: I‘ll call out I am a gay white male. Second: I appreciate your question. I don’t take it as offensive, even before your edit. I guess it comes down to if you consider it “Men’s Rights” or “Straight Men’s Rights”. Although I don’t date women, I am still worried and extremely careful about how I interact with women at work - being gay isn’t going to “protect” me (maybe in the 90’s/10’s “oh don’t flatter yourself, sweetie, I am a homo” would have worked once or twice... maybe). I love to “fl…	/r/MensRights	24/06/20 10:19 PM
9	Sometimes I feel people make weird analogies just to prove that they are being suppressed I just changed my voice assistant to a male voice - his name can still be Siri/Alexa because this is 2020 and strict gender based names are DEAD. Demanding we perceive voice assistants in a certain gender context based of the older/larger gender stereotypes around who can be named what (and how the name defines them) isn’t helpful.	/r/MensRights	23/06/20 04:34 PM
3	Not sure how to classify this - What are your thoughts? And have you experienced a crazy ex girlfriend that was not "completely" your fault? Righttttt, this is totally something ONLY men do - i have never heard a woman say “psycho ex-boyfriend” before. /s	/r/MensRights	23/06/20 03:52 PM
3	Fathers Day It’s not much guidance, but I’d offer the sentimentality of dads is way understated. Also, based on my experience, dads are way more likely to gush to their friends/coworkers at work about their kids than they are other places - they don’t act like it, but the value of a reminder/momento of why they bust their hump at work is a huge to them. Maybe just a picture of the two of you in a nice frame that isn’t too big or flashy might be a winner.	/r/MensRights	19/06/20 07:26 AM
2	University Sexual Assault Case: Tips and Advice Needed (URGENT) (Upvote for reach) fuck someone is off their meds	/r/MensRights	19/06/20 04:19 AM
1	My aunt and uncle just had a baby boy. Don’t know if I should do anything regarding the baby getting circumcised. Ehhhh you’re not going to be able to stop them. If you need a defendable position, go with “I just don’t understand how “love“ cutting off a part of a baby that can’t defend or speak for themself” They’ll try to change it up but don’t let them - keep playing the “do you realize you’re arguing in favor of cutting off a part of infants body? if you don’t see that as unethical, you’re fucked up in the head” angle. the big-dog with this defense is “i dont ever want to be a parent of it makes you rat…	/r/MensRights	19/06/20 04:13 AM
18	This is something that's always annoyed me, females think its funny when a male gets hit in the balls. When I was a kid I used to think, how is it funny. It's in like every kids show. They think its funny because men (and their genitals) are disposable to them. Men are 97% of all USM combat deaths Feminists: Lolz Men are 93% of the prison population Feminists: Lolz Men die of suicide at a rate 3.5x higher than women Feminists: Lolz Men are are 10x more likely to die on the job Feminists: Lolz Most abortions would be objectively unnecessary if women consistently took their reproductive health seriously and didn’t treat their uterus like a theme park where you can kill the cust…	/r/MensRights	19/06/20 03:59 AM
4	This is something that's always annoyed me, females think its funny when a male gets hit in the balls. When I was a kid I used to think, how is it funny. It's in like every kids show. I dunno why you got downvoted, I feel like your first line was sarcasm (even if it was serious, it wasn’t downvote worthy, imo). Your section sentence was a bang on illustration in agreement with OP. I can offer you only one measly upvote, sir.	/r/MensRights	19/06/20 03:48 AM
1	I’m really sick of people saying grown women are being taken advantage of if their partner is older than them. What’s worse, is some women will agree the woman took advantage of him and call her a gold digger. What they NEVER consider is maybe both were consenting adults and knew what they were getting into? If I were 70 with a lot of dollars and few years to live, I’d gladly marry someone with the knowledge they’re thinking about their long-term financial security - as long as they’re a decent person, genuinely have a good time with me, and can be trusted (ahem pre-nup ahem) to be there holding my hand …	/r/MensRights	19/06/20 02:03 AM
1	I’m really sick of people saying grown women are being taken advantage of if their partner is older than them. I am not sure if you’re virtue signaling or just jealous.	/r/MensRights	19/06/20 12:57 AM
1	I’m really sick of people saying grown women are being taken advantage of if their partner is older than them. I am not sure what you’re saying... I think we fundamentally agree? Bottomline is it doesn’t fucking matter how she came to her decision. Free agency means she can date/marry/fuck who shes wants for whatever reason - including listening to good/bad advice. 95% of the time, the outside parties that scream “victimization” are just projecting their own insecurities. They assume a negative circumstance because they have an agenda.	/r/MensRights	19/06/20 12:55 AM
9	I’m really sick of people saying grown women are being taken advantage of if their partner is older than them. I should qualify I am a gay man. i’ve chased some ass in the 10-15 year younger bracket, but its always a waste of time - the youngin’s have their choice of the litter, if I am not their choice, there isn’t any amount of coercion/control that will change that. flip side is I had plenty of guys 10-15 years younger than me come sniffing around for dick and chasing after me for the “daddy experience”. my point is, in the gay community, the older/younger pairings are almost always the younger one’s …	/r/MensRights	17/06/20 06:38 PM
3	How many men are depressed because of their circumcision as an infant? an a lack of parents teaching proper hygiene is hardly a reason to justify or feel okay about circumcision. its a procedure where someone cuts the genitals of a baby that is incapable of speaking or defending itself. it’s a no-fucking brainer.	/r/MensRights	17/06/20 06:04 PM
2	How many men are depressed because of their circumcision as an infant? Gay man here - I have seen hundreds (thousands, if you count porn) of dicks up close and personal. i don’t have “cut” or “uncut” preferences, lets be real, most penises are ugly and i am not entering it into a beauty contest. I just want to it work right and have good hygiene. I would estimate about 85% of cut guys don’t have any problems. the other 15% had terrible surgeons that cut off way too much skin - their dick skin is super tight, all the direct friction against the shaft requires tons o…	/r/MensRights	17/06/20 03:56 PM
21	How many men are depressed because of their circumcision as an infant? I am mostly depressed a huge portion of society is perfectly okay with parents deciding whether or not to cut the genitals of a new born baby. it’s so basic, i cant put myself into the delusional headspace required to imagine myself holding my new born son and one of the things on my mind is whether or not I should cut his genitals.	/r/MensRights	17/06/20 03:48 PM