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“it’s just a joke why you gotta be so pressed.” "Because you're a woman, and women aren't funny, so the 'joke' isn't funny either." And when they get angry you have endless ways to throw the hypocrisy back in their faces. Eg. If they get angry over a joke about women not being funny, men have even more justification to be mad about a joke about genocide.
/r/MensRights08/08/20 12:30 AM
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Because relative to men, women are less susceptible to guilt but much more susceptible to shame. Which is also why women are also more likely to be narcissistic, because they feel shame so strongly that even the tiniest most superficial amount of criticism is psychologically debilitating. So when men accurately state the reality that men are on average physically stronger, they can't simply accept that they have strengths in other areas. They cannot handle being even slightly imperfect, so they …
/r/MGTOW17/07/20 05:44 AM
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Even some dogs have a day job.
/r/MGTOW17/07/20 01:37 AM
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They feel genuine affection for each other... Or in other words, she's a child molester, and he's been successfully groomed by his abuser.
/r/PussyPass13/07/20 01:02 AM
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What? No!? That's not what I'm saying at all. Quite the opposite. The only thing you can do... is prime her mind to ask the right questions. It's very hard to plant the seeds of logic/doubt/skepticism if you refuse to talk to one another. What I am saying is, doing everything I've advised doesn't guarantee she will change her outlook. Just like taking an addict to a rehab center doesn't mean they will willingly go in and try to quit. But its certainly a greater chance of happening than refusing …
/r/MGTOW07/07/20 09:52 AM
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As everyone else is saying, you don't. However, that's not the same thing as "it can't happen", it just means you have virtually no control over it. Just like trying to get an addict to quit, nothing you do will work until they want to quit. You can't force them, you can only encourage and hope for the best. From what I've seen, it is possible for some people to break out of this propaganda. What happens is the lies and illogic get bigger and bigger until suddenly a lie so ridiculous comes along…
/r/MGTOW06/07/20 08:42 AM
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I agree in spirit, but I have actually heard that proportional force rule before. However, it should be noted that this was part of getting a license for working security jobs. So that probably is the rule for trained, licensed and equipped security guards (maybe police too?), but I doubt that rule applies to regular civilians in such strict terms. Edit: might vary per jurisdiction, but the Use of force continuum actually does apply to civilians as well. Still, from what i can tell, a slap to th…
/r/MensRights22/12/19 04:19 AM
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there was no way for an accused person to prove their innocence Actually, this is one of the biggest misconceptions of the trials. More than 200 people were accused, 19 of whom were found guilty and executed by hanging (14 women and 5 men). One other man, Giles Corey, was crushed to death for refusing to plead, and at least five people died in jail. According to those numbers, those accused only had a roughly 10% chance of being found guilty. Or in other words, modern witch trials have significa…
/r/MensRights17/09/19 02:56 AM
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Without feminism, society would demand that you marry one of them. ...and also demand that women honor and obey their husbands. ...and not divorce him. And if you consider the examples from here, r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen and elsewhere, its clear they didn't really stop demanding you marry them either.
/r/MGTOW04/09/19 08:09 AM
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It also shows how, no matter how woke it is now, it'll inevitably become evidence of evil conservative bigotry. The show didn't change, it's as progressive now as it was then. But it's old, it existed before, therefore is a relic of the past, and the past is always more evil than than the present, because the past didn't have them to correct it.
/r/MGTOW06/08/19 03:48 AM
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Man #2 took one look at her and decided he didn't want to be in the same room as her. Was it because she was black? Muslim? A woman? Was out of hatred? Fear? Disgust? Either way, she walked out and thanked him for it, and disparaged the man who felt comfortable enough around her to accept her presence.
/r/MensRights04/07/19 01:00 AM
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attractive face and eyes, as well as physically in shape, and he leads an active lifestyle I like. If I were to meet him before my husband I'm pretty sure we'd be together. But at the same time, I love my husband. Do you though? Do you really? Because you have told us nothing about this new guy that you can't get from his profile pick, but still say it's enough to out compete your 7 year husband. So what you are saying is if you could have the opportunity to choose again, you'd choose the hot gu…
/r/MGTOW21/06/19 08:23 AM
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"Slaves need to respect their Masters" doesn't mean Masters will respect their slaves.
/r/MGTOW09/05/19 07:22 AM
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More like... Women: We don't need to investigate your innocence in a rape case, you should just take my word for it. Also women: We don't need to investigate the child's paternity, you should just take my word for it.
/r/MensRights27/03/19 12:38 AM
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Same reason alcoholics go to meetings.
/r/MGTOW24/03/19 11:51 PM
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Gillette: "Stand up to bullying" Men: "OK, stop bullying men/my sons" Gillette: "NO NOT LIKE THAT!!"
/r/MGTOW21/01/19 04:31 AM
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Half an hour... 30 minutes... 1800 seconds... And she never once thought to get up off her ass, tap him on the shoulder, and actually communicate what she wants! Even children seem to understand this. But women take no responsibility for themselves, not even to demand someone else do something for them.
/r/MGTOW16/01/19 01:49 AM
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Meanwhile, not five minutes ago I hear the girls at work complaining about how much stuff their boyfriends keep in the garage! Men aren't even allowed to keep practical tools in the dusty spider-infested car storage outside, because it bothers the princess who is only ever in there for seconds at a time on her way out. But heaven forbid he gets 3" of space on the bathroom counter...
/r/MGTOW16/01/19 01:38 AM
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Admittedly it sounded a lot less extreme in person, but yeah agree totally. That's why I don't repeat that story to others as advice, because it can be so dangerous if they interpret it differently than I did.
/r/MensRights10/01/19 08:10 AM
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Yep, had a mate who stripped for a troupe/company while he was studying. Confirmed all this and more. When the women in his company had a gig, a bouncer would go with them to enforce the rules and the girls safety. Guys get nothing. He was sexually assaulted 100% of the time, without exception. And this is separate from the offers and propositions, often involving the bride-to-be.
/r/MGTOW10/01/19 07:25 AM
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TL;DR: My therapist "encouraged" me to commit suicide, and it saved my life. The advice in the greentext is what nearly killed me. The sentiment is noble, but the advice is shit. People don't commit suicide because they are insensitive to others feelings. They do it because they are in unceasing pain, and finally give up enduring it. For men in particular, a common reason for committing suicide is because they feel like a burden. By telling suicidal men they are being selfish and hurting those t…
/r/MensRights10/01/19 06:18 AM
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Not the most direct comparison, but I immediately thought of the Siege of Weinsberg When King Conrad III defeated the Duke of Welf (in the year 1140) and placed Weinsberg under siege, the wives of the besieged castle negotiated a surrender which granted them the right to leave with whatever they could carry on their shoulders. The king allowed them that much. Leaving everything else aside, each woman took her own husband on her shoulders and carried him out. When the king's people saw what was h…
/r/MensRights09/11/18 01:59 AM
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That would be Marie Curie, one of the genuine few exceptions.
/r/MGTOW14/10/18 02:20 PM
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Shows the lie of the feminist version/appropriation of "Rape Culture". This Patriarchal Society of ours supposedly excuses and normalizes rape against women, and yet: A supposedly "voiceless" woman's spurious allegation can paralyze a Supreme Court Nomination process A supposedly "powerless" woman can destroy the credibility of an honorable sitting Judge without evidence A supposedly "oppressed" women expects to dictate which legal principles should be abandoned for her benefit, and which rights…
/r/MGTOW01/10/18 12:56 AM
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Reveals yet another leftist/feminist lie. Men feel like they can't show their emotions because of toxic masculinity (ie: all men's fault and only men's fault) The solution is more feminism. These same people then turn around and use a perfectly normal reaction to a viscous political lynching, to justify that very same lynching behavior. Its literally an abuse tactic in interpersonal relationships, and Democrats are doing it as an organized mass. In practice, womens emotions are used to coddle an…
/r/MensRights28/09/18 06:35 AM
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Is in public. Men are present. Believes she is a victim of stare rape. Has her photo taken (by a man?) Is smiling Why is she smiling?!
/r/MGTOW20/09/18 05:38 AM
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they tell me they want to be comfortable And they can't be comfortable in warm clothes? Sorry to come to this so late but it just made me realize that "being comfortable" is an excuse. They could come to work in tracksuits if they wanted. What they want is to look good, and as can bee seen in any nightclub district on a Saturday night, they will stubbornly put up with near sub-zero temperatures to keep wearing that mini-skirt.
/r/MGTOW29/08/18 02:33 AM
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Name a topic. Probably the most obvious example is the gender bias against boys in education. https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2000/05/the-war-against-boys/304659/ There's also the criminal justice system and many other examples too. http://college.usatoday.com/2017/02/22/the-factual-feminist-debunks-stats-about-sexual-assault-and-the-wage-gap/ Don't be obtuse. I am joining in on a conversation where some of the evidence was already provided, which you ignored. I was responding to yo…
/r/MensRights08/08/18 05:44 AM
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Yes, that is what you’ve been taught. You're doing it again. You are assuming the oppression of women axiomatically, providing no evidence for your claim, while dismissing and downplaying evidence for the active legal discrimination of men. probably downplayed to an extent Not probably, actively and consistently, as you are demonstrating.
/r/MensRights08/08/18 05:17 AM
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They dominate the upper echelons of our society Who's at the TOP of society? That's right! The MIDDLE!!
/r/MensRights08/08/18 01:25 AM
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Because it's the upper class that's propagating this message to the poor to direct and distract their attention. What's the old saying about the Rich telling the Middle-Class that the Poor are after their money? This is the other message that's been running concurrently. The result is the middle class and the poor at each other's throats while the Rich get richer. Which is strange given focusing on the Rich should be socialism 101. But you also can't have socialism without authoritarian power-mo…
/r/MensRights08/08/18 01:19 AM
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Why do women emotionally abuse men more than the reverse? Let's see if I understand correctly... “Younger men are reporting experiencing higher rates of emotional abuse as gender roles—and the distribution of resources—are changing. Women are renegotiating roles and expectations because although they traditionally have been victims of patriarchal discrimination and inequality, in developed nations they increasingly have access to similar resources as men (Walker, 1999).” Because women used to be…
/r/MensRights07/08/18 07:51 AM
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I wouldn't tell one to a group of jews... ...because we already know all the good ones. - Jew
/r/MensRights07/08/18 07:22 AM
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Actually, is it just me of has the growth dropped off a bit? I seem to remember a few months ago when it was growing by about 1000 a day? Or was it 100? Still good growth, but I'd be interested in seeing a growth-over-time graph.
/r/MGTOW31/07/18 08:32 AM
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A full leg of lamb takes longer to roast than a cookie too. It's not because the lamb has less to cook, its because there never much to the cookie to begin with. An oak tree versus a dandelion weed. A mountain versus a pebble. An elephant versus a mouse. Women mature so fast because they don't actually change all that much, they are just taller (and more neotenous) children. Men have greater heights to look forward to.
/r/MGTOW23/07/18 12:51 AM
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But the reason they don't know how to say no is that society as a whole, and their own parents/family/peers in particular, have made it unmistakably clear that saying no to a woman makes you a BAD PERSON. And because most people desperately want to be good people, and be seen as good people, they pay a great deal of attention to these rules. As an example, do you remember how old you were when you learned for the first time that it was rude to mention a women's weight and/or age? For me personal…
/r/MGTOW17/07/18 04:06 AM
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So true. OP is falling for the same thinking patterns that got most of us into this mess in the first place. Women aren't being held accountable, and the response is to not hold them accountable, because they've never been held accountable before. Meanwhile, all men are held accountable, not just for their own actions, but those of women too. No bad outcome was unpreventable to the ubermensch, therefore anything bad that happens to him/them must be by choice. Men are agents, all powerful and ful…
/r/MGTOW11/07/18 07:38 AM
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I actually think its great shes studying brains. Without one of her own, she can approach the subject from an unbiased perspective.
/r/MGTOW11/07/18 05:14 AM
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Forget comedians. Can you remember the last time you were in a conversion with a woman and she intentionally said something funny enough to make you laugh? With guys, it happens so often as to escape our notice. Any conversation with men and women will involve the men making the women and each other laugh. But the women? Mostly its just comments about how funny the men are.
/r/MGTOW11/07/18 05:13 AM
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"Freeing" means, a woman has no responsibility Being used makes them feel free They literally revel in objectifying themselves, and rebel against true empowerment.
/r/MGTOW11/07/18 02:13 AM
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how “stupid” he was for not taking an extra oxygen tank with him From what I heard, he took a bunch of them. And left them in the cave so the kids would be able to breath. They were literally running out of air. The Thai Navy diver miscalculated how much he would need for the 4+ hour journey back, though I personally assumed that he made the choice to favor the kids over himself in that calculation. He literally gave his own air for the kids, and of course there are people disparaging him, I'm n…
/r/MGTOW11/07/18 01:57 AM
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Women feel shame only when men society in a patriarchal culture hold them accountable. Never by themselves. To be honest, I think the same roughly applies to men as well. Shame is largely an external force, applied by social mores of the majority (or loud minority). I think what you are describing is a lack of guilt, which relates to the internal feeling of "of having committed a specified or implied offence or crime". ie. Shame is feeling like a bad person relative to other people. Guilt is fee…
/r/MGTOW09/07/18 02:59 AM
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Much more effective to eye gouge.
/r/MensRights26/06/18 10:49 PM
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My parents divorced when I was around 12. It was without exception the best, most equitable, most fair, most just divorce I have ever seen or heard of*. If I got a message from the future that said I would eventually marry and have a divorce like my parents, I would be fucking ecstatic, and I wouldn't be here. But the only reason my parents divorce was so good was because my parents are both reasonable and principled people. My mother could have easily destroyed my father, and the only thing sto…
/r/MGTOW25/06/18 04:28 AM
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Helots massive upvote for the history buff :)
/r/MGTOW19/06/18 05:35 AM
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like those people terrified of flying in airplanes Perfect analogy! Driving in cars is far more dangerous statistically, but most people are more nervous about flying. Why? Because of control. Like I said above, there are many things you can control yourself while driving a car. How well the cars maintained, how fast your drive, whether or not you drink alcohol beforehand, etc. But while flying, you control none of those things. And unlike being in the passenger seat of a car, you can't even see…
/r/MGTOW19/06/18 05:30 AM
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The chances may be low, but in the event it does happen there is almost nothing you can do to defend yourself. Travelling by car there are steps you can take to prevent or reduce the chances of an accident. Obey the speed limit, pay attention, maintain your vehicle, obey the road rules etc. None of that reduces your risk to zero, but does allow you some control of the outcome. In the event of a crash, there are things which limit the danger for you. Crumple zones, air bags, seat belts etc. This …
/r/MGTOW19/06/18 04:52 AM
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im not a man WOMAN, i need to grow up, im fucking crazy, i dont know what i want, i should be settling down, oh and im going to be very lonely by the time im 50. Every single one of these are projections of her own fears and insecurities. Typical solipsism, without being able to empathize with others, they have no choice but to assume that things they find insulting are the same things you find insulting. To be fair though, we tend to do it a bit too. That's why we keep insulting women by callin…
/r/MGTOW13/06/18 06:24 AM
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Yes, because despite the fact they are objectively worse in combat roles, if we don't actually treat them equally how the fuck are they ever going to learn? For 100 years they've had the privileged of the vote without the responsibility of the draft, nor the penalties for refusal. And they still have to gall to act like gaining the vote was only yesterday and they still aren't treated equally. So let's show them what integrity looks like, and actually give them what they think they want! This is…
/r/MGTOW12/06/18 03:02 AM
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Hope Solo? That woman arrested for Domestic Violence against 2 people? It should also be noted that she eventually got the pussy pass. Not because she didn't do it mind you, but because: the situation was “unlikely to recur” and witnesses for the prosecution were unwilling to testify
/r/MGTOW11/06/18 02:53 AM
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Exactly! Why is the severity of a crime I commit in anyway conditional on how many other people (who share the one descriptor we think is most significant) also commit/are victims of that crime. Jewish people commit less murders than average, right? So as a Jew I should get a sentencing discount after murdering her, because Jew murders aren't really as big, statistically speaking. Hell, how many murders were committed by Jews with a face tattoo, rainbow hair, and while missing a pinky toe? An af…
/r/MensRights07/06/18 08:36 AM
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"... and now I'm going to use his money to discriminate against people like him. Because if there is one thing this world needs less of, it's respect and dignity towards the people I claim to love most in this world." The nurturing, empathetic gender
/r/MensRights07/06/18 02:01 AM
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i've just never found men's need for sex and sexual expression as evil and greedy as the other genders need to extract every resource possible Because at the end of the day, a man who's only after a woman for her tits, doesn't take the tits with him when he leaves. Sex is not a finite resource, its an activity. Having sex with someone does not deprive them of future opportunities to have sex. Money is a finite resource, it is scarce and must be earned. Spending someone else's money does deprive …
/r/MGTOW14/05/18 07:14 AM
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I wanted a man that was going to be more present in my sons life "So I told him I was getting a job, that way with my contribution he would not have to work such long hours or take as many trips." "Except, that still means I have to do work, and the whole reason I'm complaining is that I'm unmotivated and lazy (possibly with a hint of depression). When I say 'be present', what i actually want is someone to take over the actual work of dealing with my child, giving me more free time to lay on the…
/r/MGTOW23/04/18 03:51 AM
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I wanted a man that was going to be more present in my sons life "So I told him I was getting a job, that way with my contribution he would not have to work such long hours or take as many trips." "Except, that still means I have to do work, and the whole reason I'm complaining is that I'm unmotivated and lazy (possibly with a hint of depression). When I say 'be present', what i actually want is someone to take over the actual work of dealing with my child, giving me more free time to lay on the…
/r/MGTOW23/04/18 03:51 AM
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Handy tip I heard somewhere. If someone gives you a list of reasons for why something did/didn't happen, the first thing they say is by far the most significant. The rest is mostly added on as further justification for the first thing. I had a FWB that I liked at one point but he didn't feel the same way... ... but it took me a while to realize he was not right for me ... and also had a history of cheating ... and needed a lot of attention from girls The real reason they are not together is beca…
/r/MGTOW11/04/18 05:14 AM
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This was always my favourite Brothers Grimm story, ever since I was a child.
/r/MGTOW11/04/18 04:24 AM
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Going to go with all of that... and not mention Hephaestus and Aphrodite? Though married to Hephaestus, Aphrodite had an affair with Ares, the god of war. Eventually, Hephaestus discovered Aphrodite’s affair through Helios, the all-seeing Sun, and planned a trap during one of their trysts. While Aphrodite and Ares lay together in bed, Hephaestus ensnared them in an unbreakable chain-link net so small as to be invisible and dragged them to Mount Olympus to shame them in front of the other gods fo…
/r/MGTOW11/04/18 02:03 AM
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I think this is what r/theredpill calls "holding frame" or something like that. Basically crating an impression that you are always ten seconds away from dumping her and moving on to something better. This makes her feel that she is in fact not your equal, which satisfies her hypergamy. But this also runs the risk of being seen as a distant, arrogant, misogynistic asshole. Women see you like that, and suddenly nothing they do to you is unjustified. Very dangerous territory to be in. You'll notic…
/r/MGTOW03/04/18 09:35 AM
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Channing Tatum is one of the top ten "Hottest Male Celebrities" according to many/most women (who watch hollywood movies). Before meeting him, Jenna Dewan likely thought that she didn't stand much of a chance at scoring a apex man like Channing. Not impossible, but unlikely given the competition that Channing could easily attract. But she won, she scored an A-list(?) Celebrity. And she was happy... until she gets used to him. She begins to get comfortable with him, and eventually believes she is…
/r/MGTOW03/04/18 05:57 AM
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"I know what pot smells like hun." "Of course you do."
/r/MGTOW03/04/18 04:20 AM
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Jesus, that is twistedly brilliant! A lot of guys are saying to send the video to her parents, but I think just sending that statement to both her and especially the new guy would be just as devastating!
/r/MGTOW03/04/18 02:48 AM
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And yet society claims that its women who are naturally empathetic.
/r/MGTOW29/03/18 05:42 AM
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"Who ever said I'm a real man?"
/r/MGTOW29/03/18 02:11 AM
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Not even a "protagonist", or "blockbuster main character". No, must be a Disney Princess. Is it because they haven't given it any thought at all, and just grabbed the first catchy thing that ran through their mind? Or is it because they specifically want to manipulate children into their ideology. Even if abortion is legal and available, that doesn't make it desirable! Why are these people insisting that role models for children should be condoning such things as abortion? If we continue on this…
/r/MGTOW28/03/18 08:33 AM
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Hunters vs Gatherers
/r/MGTOW20/03/18 01:52 PM
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Actually, they might. It shows he is good enough to gain a woman's approval, healthy enough to have kids, and stable and successful enough to raise them. Difference is, she would eventually expect you to put her before the kid, and will resent them if you don't.
/r/MGTOW09/03/18 03:02 AM
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Return of the "lonely hearts scam" from a hundred years ago
/r/MGTOW09/03/18 02:49 AM
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The Helots Edit: Relevant part here: Helots were ritually mistreated, humiliated and even slaughtered: every autumn the Spartans would declare war on the helots so they could be killed by a member of the Crypteia without fear of repercussion.[4][5][6]
/r/MGTOW07/03/18 11:18 PM
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Once a year, the city of Sparta would officially declare war on their slaves. That way if a Spartan citizen killed a slave, accidentally or otherwise, it would be considered a death in combat and not murder. The modern oppressing class seems to have created something similar with rape laws, so if a "citizen" (woman) has sex with a "slave" (man), the slave is automatically guilty of a crime, of which the citizen can never be accused of. Even worse, the oppressors justify this by claiming oppressi…
/r/MGTOW07/03/18 06:41 AM
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Even worse, "if society fails, women fail" suggests that they don't actually see themselves as part of society! It's why when one man does something wrong, it reflects "all the misogyny in our patriarchal society", but all the women's marches, gender quotas, female dominated university sectors, andhigh male suicide don't represent anything at all. Is it any wonder they spend so much of their time fantasising about destroying society?
/r/MGTOW04/03/18 09:34 AM
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Freeing women from oppression somewhere else does nothing to benefit themselves over here. Critiquing a celebrity's dress choice does nothing to benefit themselves over here either. However, blaming the men next to her allows women to displace the responsibility for women's dress choices onto men. And since men are a monolith (when it comes to things women don't like), that means women can now place blame on the man next to them for Jennifer Lawrence's choice of dress. And that is the end goal. …
/r/MGTOW24/02/18 11:14 AM
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Agreed. I was well into my 20s before I heard something that completely changed my mental health for the better... Anger is the appropriate response to injustice. Never heard anger being described as anything but negative (in men) up til then, and had been giving my huge amounts of guilt over my own emotions. Wonder where that came from?
/r/MGTOW22/02/18 10:08 AM
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They want fairness the way a 3 year old does. Fair = everything I want. Someone else winning, or succeeding is unfair.
/r/MGTOW11/02/18 03:31 AM
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For the same reason every teenager gets told they have to go to university or they will be homeless losers. They are not informed of the risks, the stress, the shitload of work required, and the chance of coming out the other side with a useless degree, no job opportunities, and truckload of debt. That's assuming they even graduate. Meanwhile options like learning a trade, becoming an apprentice, or starting your own business are downplayed or ignored. Why? Because the education industry require…
/r/MGTOW07/02/18 08:56 AM
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I had to spell this out for my Dad just last night. His friend was apparently complaining to him about how all the women he meets on dating sites seem really interested for the first three dates, then suddenly ghost. "They are just using him for the free meals" "No, they just figuring out if they like him or not" "They already know that in the first 5 mins" "They wouldn't agree to a second date if they really didn't like him" "If he was terrible sure, but if not then they will put up with him fo…
/r/MGTOW06/02/18 08:41 AM
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Before she pulls a #MeToo on the guy, because she was too afraid to say no to multimillion dollar contracts in exchange for consensual sex.
/r/MGTOW04/02/18 05:39 AM
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A few relevant points: A corruption probe has been launched into allegations that sex was being offered in return for lucrative State Government infrastructure contracts. The Weekend West has obtained what appears to be an email between a female company boss and her secret male lover, who managed multimillion-dollar contracts on behalf of a major government department. “I don’t want or expect you to leave your wife,” it reads. “The way things are at the moment works well and we both get somethin…
/r/MGTOW04/02/18 05:35 AM
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I got ya mate. Blind recruitment trial to boost gender equality making things worse, study reveals
/r/MensRights01/02/18 03:54 AM
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And this was the woman who campaigned to be the Commander-in-Chief of the American Armed Forces. The woman with (as I understand it as a non-american) a track record of calling for military intervention in foreign nations. "If I am President, I will send you to die on foreign soil, in the tens of thousands, while I spit on your grave and exploit the family you left behind in order to further enrich myself." "Why did I lose? Must be because everyone hates women"
/r/MGTOW31/01/18 03:43 AM
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I basically do that naturally, while still being very polite, courteous, and easy to work with. Word got back to me recently that while they love my work, they have grave concerns that I'm "not social enough". They don't mean I'm a dick, they mean I try to avoid work parties, I don't hang around the coffee machines for 20 mins at a time and I eat lunch alone. There is no fool proof solution, unfortunately. My advice is still to follow what u/TheMythof_Feminism says. It saves you money, time, str…
/r/MGTOW30/01/18 08:50 AM
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This is all true, but can be hand waved away with the relative frequency of crimes committed. It's an inescapable truth that men commit more crimes than women. A better comparison would be differences in sentencing, especially for the same crime. Because its also an inescapable* truth that for the same crime men are sentenced for longer, and serve a greater proportion of their full sentence, than women. *But somehow, Feminists always find a way, and everyone else is too brainwashed and/or cowed …
/r/MGTOW30/01/18 03:46 AM
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1st time: Thanks! But no thanks. 2nd time: No, thank you. 3rd time: NO MEANS NO! Bonus points: Mutter "creep" under your breath, just load enough for them to hear. Maybe they will learn a lesson, probably not. Maybe the guys around you will learn a lesson, probably not. But at least then everyone in the room will hear you turning them down, which might prodive a defense against any #metoo-ing they might attempt. Maybe...
/r/MGTOW24/01/18 02:33 AM
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hahaha fucking what!? This is a joke right? Do you live here? To elaborate for others, Australia is... weird. In some ways, Australia is really conservative, but in others it is really liberal. When it comes to men's rights, Australia is one of the most far left, misandric shitholes in the Western world. Its right up there with Canada and the US. In many other ways its awesome though, so you gotta consider it carefully before making the move.
/r/MGTOW23/01/18 09:10 AM
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You lack of assistance might also have been interpreted as misogyny. You're a woman hating creep for even not considering it. /s
/r/MGTOW23/01/18 02:58 AM
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that only magnify the sense of guilt and shame I feel Despite living in very different circumstances, I can easily relate to this feeling. Its a downward spiral where something shitty happens to you, and you react with anger like anyone else would. But you've been told all your life that you have no right to be angry about anything. Being angry automatically means you are wrong, which justifies what ever happened as "you deserved it", or "Its not important, what's REALLY important is that you ar…
/r/MGTOW22/01/18 07:04 AM
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I disagree with Autism theory, but your first sentence is amazingly spot on. Nerds typically love working through logic problems, even meaningless ones. As an example, when I'm not here I'm often over at r/asksciencefiction, pondering whether the Joker and Deapool would get along. AKA: Based on previous data, extrapolate information about an unknown situation. Nerds do this stuff for fun. So naturally, the nerdier they are, the more vacuous gendered behaviour becomes to them. Same goes for reall…
/r/MGTOW22/01/18 05:38 AM
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I think its because the education system doesn't require logic or rational thinking. Its a positive feedback loop spanning generations. Women complain that school is hard, and has to change so girls do better without having to put in more effort. To do this, they take out all reasoning/logic and replace it with rote learning and regurgitation testing. In Australia at least, this was around 1982. Within a decade or two, an entirely new cadre of teachers enters the education sector. They are far l…
/r/MGTOW22/01/18 04:26 AM
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Yeah, reverse the genders and that would be spun as grooming.
/r/MGTOW22/01/18 03:44 AM
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Predictable Feminist counter: "Sex isn't about sex, it's about power! Suppressing his sex drive has nothing to do with his misogynistic compulsion to control women's bodies!"
/r/MGTOW18/01/18 09:06 AM
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This reminds me of an experience I had years ago, that presents another possible interpretation of what you saw. Unlikely, but possible. To set the stage, I could probably be described as "video gamer" too, though maybe not as extreme as your examples. A girl I was friends with (but had no other interest in) invited me along to a Bali holiday with her and three of her female friends. One in particular was pretty, but she was also pregnant by her boyfriend, who was not present. I had no interest …
/r/MGTOW17/01/18 07:24 AM
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Its hardly surprising, considering that "be nice" and "don't act like Chad" is almost the entirety of advice given when boys ask "how to I get a girlfriend?" So naturally, haven been given these instructions by women themselves, they follow it to the letter. Why wouldn't they? They respect women and take them seriously at their word... at least at first. But then they run straight into reality, and realise that not only does "being nice" bare no correlation to success, it can often be a detrimen…
/r/MGTOW17/01/18 03:23 AM
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Its something I've been thinking about for a while, and I think it might be related to gender differences in the concept of "work-life balance". For both men and women, a good work-life balance means keeping them separate, and instilling respectable boundaries between the two. But I've noticed that when it comes to a poor work-life balance, there are differences in how it manifests. For men, a poor work-life balance means "bringing work home". This can include literally bringing work home, but a…
/r/MGTOW09/01/18 04:02 AM
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I remember once bringing up Man Flu with the girls I worked with at the time. I pointed out that when they are sick they want care and attention, but when the man they claim to love most becomes sick they shame him. I expected them to dismiss or argue against me, but what happened was eye-opening. "Wow! you are so right!" "Yeah, I never thought of it like that!" "Damn, have I ever done that? I feel bad now." "I feel like I should go home and apologise!" "It seems so obvious now that you say it!"…
/r/MGTOW12/12/17 05:29 AM
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This is complete bullshit. Unless you are wearing shoes so utterly ridiculous that one cannot avoid noticing them, very few men will notice what shoes you are wearing, whether you be male or female. It's women who have the picky and judgmental tastes about shoes, as well as fashion in general. Shit, two men wear the same outfit, they laugh and bond. Women though, will get angry and competitive. "Best dressed, worse dressed, who wore it better?" are all contests entered and judged exclusively by …
/r/MensRights08/12/17 08:46 AM
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Except for when men point out that most verbal/mental abuse is perpetrated with impunity by women. That's when they dismiss verbal/mental abuse as significantly less important that physical violence. I swear, this was the literal step-by-step thought process I heard a presenter give on the radio last week or so, in response to men calling up about being the victims of mental abuse.
/r/MensRights08/12/17 08:05 AM
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This is fascinating, I'd love to give this a try. If you don't mind me asking, what's the name of the app? Is there any way for me to test it out too?
/r/MGTOW07/12/17 06:28 AM
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Can't comment on the rest of it, but I have some thoughts on the comedy aspect. I saw a great youtube video discussing comedy that made a great point. All comedy has a victim. There is always someone or something that's the butt of the joke. There is always something we are laughing at. That's why the easiest and most accessible forms of comedy are when the victim is the comedian themselves. Much less danger of insulting or alienating your audience. And I think this is where many women struggle …
/r/MGTOW06/12/17 09:00 AM
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has complained and feels uncomfortable Also that "uncomfortable" was all it took. Meanwhile he literally changed his time slot already just to avoid her, because she made him feel uncomfortable.
/r/MGTOW06/12/17 06:46 AM
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My only regret is that I have but one upvote to give. Excellent comment all around.
/r/MensRights06/12/17 02:03 AM
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Not to generalise but women seem to have a better capacity than men do, partly because of their socialisation Capacity for what? Building a canoe? Hopping on one foot? Developing laryngitis? Notice how intentionally vague that is? We are supposed to fill in the blanks ourselves, because any other way he finishes that sentence is literal sexism. A direct statement that one sex is just better than another. And what does he axiomatically attribute this superior capacity for... um... like... you kno…
/r/MGTOW03/12/17 07:41 AM
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This kind of body and genital shaming is so ubiquitous that it pervades all forms of media. News, entertainment, movies, tv, even cartoon shows designed for children. It's so acceptable that most people don't even notice it most of the time, they just laugh along. And it goes beyond comedy too. A woman whose nude pic gets released online is the victim, and anyone who sees it has damaged her. But a man whose nude pic released online is the perpetrator of a crime against society. Anyone who sees i…
/r/MGTOW28/11/17 09:19 AM
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Someone else had my phone So it wasn't you who sent the message? Your mother called me the other day I was concerned... So it was you after all?
/r/MGTOW27/11/17 09:14 AM
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Which way? What I wrote makes no sense? Or what they said makes no sense?
/r/MensRights24/11/17 05:25 AM
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Did you hear the Triple J hack program a couple days ago talking about this? It was in relation to Family Breakdown mostly, so not strictly about suicide. But for the sake of my own mental health I had to switch it off after repeatedly finding excuses as to why it wasn't important enough to take seriously. As a paraphrased example: "Yes, we hear that 21 men commit suicide each week, but we have no data or information about why (because we never deem to ask). So it really could be anything, so an…
/r/MensRights24/11/17 03:58 AM
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Agreed, he's just doubling down on the very same stereotypes and prejudices that lead to this scenario. Can't sexually assault a woman, they are defenseless dainty flowers that must be protected because the poor things are utterly incapable of emotional resilience and will be emotionally destroyed beyond repair. Can't sexually assault a man, men are always in total control of all things in the universe and therefore must have wanted it or it wouldn't have happened. And even if it did happen, men…
/r/MensRights22/11/17 03:12 AM
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Most of what you say is accurate, but there is also the Mali Empire for one, and maybe one or two others if my memory serves me well.
/r/MGTOW21/11/17 05:43 AM
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It's a buzzword to disguise from the fact they are complaining about having to think. There is already an accurate term for this, mental strain, but they can't pretend that mental strain is exclusive to women. Whereas, despite all the halfhearted calls for men to become more emotional and open up about their feelings more, feminists still insist that woman hold a monopoly on almost all of human emotion.
/r/MensRights21/11/17 02:24 AM
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Women these days can't even run a household without complaining about "Emotional Labour". But in the same breath they demand more women be made CEOs and Board Directors. How long before a woman running a company is deemed misogyny, because she has to actually make decisions? "I'm a woman! I shouldn't have to tell my employees to do things, they should just know! This is oppressive emotional labour!" Also notice that they insist on calling it "emotional labour", rather than the already existing a…
/r/MGTOW17/11/17 06:00 AM
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Well, I think its a nice idea. Nothing wrong with a bit of positivity in addition to everything else we do. I recognise what you mean, and adding a few new items to the menu is not the same as replacing it to suit yourself. The others seemed to assume otherwise. To expand on this, everyone comes here for different reasons. But there is not limit to the amount of threads we can have running at any one time. Throw in a couple of tags in the title and people will be able to pick and choose what the…
/r/MGTOW16/11/17 08:45 AM
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When the bar for competency is that low, everything seems like a giant leap forward. It's the exact same way we act when a child does something adult-like. "Little Timmy tied his shoe laces ALL BY HIMSELF!! We are soooo proud of him!!"
/r/MGTOW16/11/17 05:06 AM
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Oh thank christ, I thought I was the only one who thought like this. Never been an Incel ( I don't think), but been MGTOW for a while and the attitude has always confused me. I mean, every single mgtow, without exception, was once blue pilled like everyone else. Because society engineers itself that way, there is no (acceptable) competing public messages to warn us. It is any wonder that upon learning that this was all a lie, that people would react differently? And considering that literally ev…
/r/MGTOW16/11/17 04:12 AM
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the feminine instinct to set up another woman with resources was always higher valued than any family bonds Or any bonds in general. A female friend once told me "don't worry, I'm sure one day you are going to make some woman really happy!" Because between a friend physically right in front of them, and some hypothetical woman in the future, the still have more concern for the hypothetical woman.
/r/MGTOW15/11/17 08:39 AM
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I'm not sure STEM majors are a good indicator of "taking action to be leaders in society". Despite all the respect society gives to STEM graduates, they are not really held up as role models or leaders until a woman does it. I personally think a better indicator or criterion for "taking women seriously" would women taking themselves seriously first. I can't tell you how many times women as a collective completely dismiss their own power and achievements in order to maintain victim status. Just a…
/r/MGTOW15/11/17 08:07 AM
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Not even remotely comparable, because of yet another sexist double standard. Exposed female nudity victimises the woman, and every person (read: male) who witnesses that nudity is further damaging her. Exposed male nudity victimises everyone else, and every person (read: woman) who witnesses that nudity is being further damaged by him. Shit, I just heard about a court case in Australia last week where a teenage boy sent a nude to his girlfriend, then they broke up and she posted it online, now h…
/r/MGTOW15/11/17 05:18 AM
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"You just can't handle a strong woman!" A strong woman SHOULDN'T NEED HANDLING! You are not a child that requires constant adult supervision. You are not an aggressive untrained dog that needs an owner to keep hold of the leash. You are not a horse startled by lightning. You are not a lion at the circus. You are not a criminal kept under maximum security. Yet here you are, a supposedly "strong woman" demanding that I take control over you and your actions. You are literally objectifying women an…
/r/MGTOW15/11/17 04:06 AM
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Even better example was posted around here awhile ago. Women complaining that telling their husbands to do chores around the house created arduous levels of "emotional labour". Not even doing the task themselves, telling someone else to do the job was a responsibility too difficult to complete without complaining. These same people want women, any women, to become CEOs where all they do all day is make decisions and delegate them to others.
/r/MGTOW15/11/17 03:46 AM
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They do, over at r/MensRights for one example. And after their calls to end all violence are accused of promoting violence against women, or when their lectures on male suicide get protested and the fire alarm pulled, or when men reveal that they too are victims of sexual harassment/assault and are made to apologise, they often end up back here. I don't personally believe MRA and MGTOW are mutually exclusive, but going your own way means getting to decide for yourself whether facing the slings a…
/r/MGTOW15/11/17 03:37 AM
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I think her statements make slightly more sense if you interpret them as benefits for women only. Then a lot of those come closer to making sense. As an example: They experience less physical pain, feel more secure, make more money, retire with more assets, and are more likely to say they are happy with their lives than their cohorts who have stayed out of formal marriage or been divorced. It would not surprise me if this actually is true, for women only Marriage is a choice to live on a higher …
/r/MGTOW14/11/17 09:06 AM
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Yep, because "Women are objects and Men are agents". No one believes this more strongly than feminists. Objects have no free will or control over themselves/others/the world. Agents have total control, and nothing happens in their world without their express permission. So a woman with postnatal depression is absolutely powerless to do anything, and can only collapse into the fetal position and wait for someone else to take pity on her wretched form. But a man with postnatal depression still has…
/r/MensRights14/11/17 08:23 AM
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For me personally, there is absolutely no difference between how most men act and most women act. Roughly the same number of good and bad apples/eggs in the bunch, fairly similar motivations and justifications for their actions etc. Where this behaviour differs dramatically, is society's response to those actions, and how perceptions change depending on the sex of the group/individual in question. Aka a double standard. Double standards that negatively affect women (or positively affect men) are…
/r/MGTOW13/11/17 09:40 AM
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Even assuming that every single one of those cases is absolutely true, isn't this a good sign? That not only are women very comfortable talking about their experiences, but men seem ashamed to talk about their crimes? What is she hoping for? A world where men feel totally comfortable relating at the breakfast table how they raped a woman last night? Where women know to keep their mouths shut because they might be arrested if they call the police? Is she really so desperate to be treated like a m…
/r/MGTOW13/11/17 09:23 AM
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Yep, started in cartoons for the most part. Directly aimed at children. No complains then or since.
/r/MGTOW13/11/17 07:47 AM
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some sort of underlying envy, and want you to join their herd, and just become another sheep This is the majority of it for sure. Same reason kids pick on the foreign kid, or effeminate boy/masculine girl, or the kid who likes a show most others don't. When most people see something different, they attack and shame. Most of the time, they won't even know why. All they know is that there is one correct way to live (which is whatever they say is correct) and anything else is just wrong... for some…
/r/MGTOW13/11/17 07:14 AM
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It's like having a conversation with a work colleague vs a friend. With the second you are comfortable to say what you like because almost none of it could be held against you (ie. you need to say something really fucked up to lose a friend over a single comment). But with the first there is this mandatory facade of professionalism, because at work there are certain otherwise benign areas of conversation that suddenly become completely verboten. Committing a faux pa in this context can have dras…
/r/MGTOW13/11/17 05:31 AM
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Brief mentions mostly, but the most often implied cause these days is misogyny. The Witch trials are often half-jokingly portrayed as an excuse to kill women who were good at math. The reality is that about a third of the accused were men, the vast majority of the accusers were women, and that far more people were found innocent than guilty. Its a far better lesson in mass hysteria and due process than misogyny, but far be it from feminists to miss an opportunity to victimize themselves.
/r/MGTOW13/11/17 04:09 AM
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Because feminism, and therefore the courts, believe women are objects without agency. According to them, woman are controlled by their emotions, not the other way around like men. When a woman commits property damage like this, it's only because something made her angry, and therefore it's not really her fault, it it? I mean, she can't control her emotions, she's a woman! Clearly the only adult person making decisions was the man, so it's his responsibility to not make her angry. And it's not th…
/r/MGTOW10/11/17 05:50 AM
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So true, and at the same time there was no question about whether the guaranteed child molester would have unsupervised full time custody of a child, just because she gave birth to it. Best interests of the child in to leave them with a predator, as long as the predator doesn't have a penis.
/r/MGTOW10/11/17 03:35 AM
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Yeah, everyone and their dog has been made aware of the horrible affects social messages can have on women. But multiple generations of telling men they are born bad and need to flagellate themselves constantly? Coinciding with a continuing climb in suicide rates for men? Surely no connection. It's not as if the ogres have feelings you know.
/r/MGTOW09/11/17 07:45 AM
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The reason I use quotes so much is because I want to make sure I'm actually arguing about what you are saying, not some strawman argument. I do this out of respect, taking you seriously at your word. You have lost this respect. If you don't like how easy it is for me to use your own words against you, learn to write better. However, I will clarify about the abstinence thing though, as you seem to be genuinely misinterpreting why I keep bringing it up. A woman can get pregnant as many times as sh…
/r/MGTOW08/11/17 09:33 AM
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If you want to have a discussion... have it in a conversation about that topic If a woman makes a unilateral decision to bring a pregnancy to term, and the biological father does not, and cannot, share in this decision, he should not be liable for 21 years of support... autonomous women making independent decisions about their lives should not expect men to finance their choice. - Karen Decrow This is that topic. that was directly from the submitted image. You are incapable of having this debate…
/r/MGTOW08/11/17 08:36 AM
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completely ignores the fact that, in the event a woman does not get an abortion, there is a child that is left to take care of And you are consistently ignoring the fact that this is HER CHOICE. She is NEVER under any obligation to keep the child, we are BOTH making that clear. in a process he willingly participated in But the process doesn't end at ejaculation, this is that abstinence only argument again! She has MONTHS of time to make this choice, and can even make a choice to abandon/adopt ou…
/r/MGTOW08/11/17 07:55 AM
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Did your dad not teach you about responsibility for your own actions and choices? He most certainly did, along with reading comprehension. It would be a shame for me to hoard those lessons to myself when you so clearly are in need of them. If a pregnancy occurs, the choice of whether or not to have an abortion is 100% in the hands of the woman, because, and I know this is wild, but, it's her body! Meanwhile, in my very first comment: No one is suggesting that a man should be able to barge into t…
/r/MGTOW08/11/17 06:49 AM
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a man chooses to have sex fully aware of the possible outcomes It's like you think you have a right to have sex without being responsible for a potential pregnancy This is literally the same thing as Abstinence Only Education. Abstinence-only sex education is a form of sex education that teaches not having sex outside of marriage. It often excludes other types of sexual and reproductive health education, such as birth control and safe sex. Comprehensive sex education, by contrast, covers the use…
/r/MGTOW08/11/17 05:32 AM
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a man does not have to carry that child to term ... neither does a woman. Even if she does carry the child to term, she does not need to be financially responsible for it. She can legally abandon it or give it up for adoption. No one is suggesting that a man should be able to barge into the doctor's office and demand that she abort/not abort the pregnancy. It is her reproductive right, the choice is always hers. But all of society says and even enforces a woman's right to barge into the bank and…
/r/MGTOW08/11/17 04:53 AM
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I understand the most painful thing isn't necessarily the act itself but rather the treatment afterwards and the lack of recognition that, "Yes, I am hurt." YES!! THIS EXACTLY!! You totally nailed it! I could have shrugged off the actual physical incident, but I instantly knew that even verbally expressing my discomfort would have been seen as a far worse transgression than anything she did. And every conversation that I bring the subject up just reconfirms that all over again (except here! :) )…
/r/MensRights06/11/17 09:15 AM
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I saw a study once (race related rather than gender) that highlights this problem quite well. The study was attempting to investigate (read: disprove) racial intelligence (that intelligence is linked to race). The study was small, sample size of about a dozen people, and used a methodology that seemed valid on face value, but can definitely be improved. Basically, if you didn't like or believe the results, there were plenty of areas you could poke holes. But to the researchers (very obvious) sur…
/r/MensRights06/11/17 09:00 AM
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I was sexually assaulted at the office Christmas party (where I still work). There were several other coworkers there who witnessed it, most of them were women. When it happened, they laughed. When I spoke to people about it later, they laughed. One woman who worked on my team actually said that what happened to me was a sexual assault, but she couldn't stop laughing long enough to complete the sentence. My dad suggested I see a therapist, because I shouldn't be so upset about something that's n…
/r/MensRights06/11/17 07:36 AM
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That's why I always hated any "Boys vs Girls" competitions of any kind. It was always immediately obvious that only one outcome was acceptable, the Girls must win, by any means necessary. For example, if it was a sports contest (ie. soccer/football etc.) then all the teachers would go on the girls team so they could have some players actually capable/willing to move faster than a slow jog. When this didn't work, they would add extra handicaps to the boys, like "that goal doesn't count! you have …
/r/MGTOW06/11/17 06:58 AM
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Title is underselling the violence of the crime. There were two women, and they lured an 18-year old autictic boy to their house, either with the promise of video games or bondage sex. Together they garroted and stabbed this young man to death for fun, then buried him under concrete in their backyard, with the help of the elder murderer's young child. They had a "murder room" covered in blood soaked plastic. They both had numerous messages to each other about how much they wanted to kill someone…
/r/MGTOW03/11/17 08:32 AM
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It makes think about the movie Zootopia. Maybe it's time to consider... biology -Fictional allegory about race, supposed to show prejudice in even the most progressive of people. although it is rather unfashionable to invoke biology to explain behaviour, there is something rather animal about men -Real life Leftists who claim to be fighting racism and sexism. Everyone saw the race relations allegory in the movie, but no-one noticed the sexism allegory that existed simultaneously. Maybe because i…
/r/MensRights02/11/17 08:38 AM
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Domestic Violence awareness might work in this format. Man and woman walk down the street. Woman starts getting violent with the man. He falls, he cries, he screams, but he doesn't fight back. People walking by see this... and laugh out loud. If you have dialogue, have these people ask "I wonder what he did to deserve it?". Finally, have him grab her wrists or push her away, just a little tiny bit of self defense. Woman suddenly beams a big, cruel smile... then bursts into tears. She points a sh…
/r/MGTOW26/10/17 09:17 AM
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"Men couldn't handle the pain of giving birth!" Given what I've seen of male "Rites of Passage" and "Coming of Age Rites" from around the world, both historical and modern, if men gave birth they would be expected to do it without any sign of discomfort. If men gave birth, real men would do it without screaming.
/r/MensRights26/10/17 08:49 AM
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Me Too! Actually, when I was a kid I wanted to be a Grandpa. The wise and beloved patriarch of the multi-generational family, basking in mutual love and respect. Over the years, family part has been completely cut out from my motivations. Now I just wanna be a grumpy old man.
/r/MGTOW26/10/17 02:50 AM
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I don't blame her for running, I blame her for running past the people she is being paid to protect without so much as a word. She didn't even just wordlessly scream as she ran. What she should have done was yell out "GUN!!" while running away, grabbing patrons by the arms and dragging them with her to safety. Instead, people are standing there watching a security guard run past with no idea whats going on! "Oh, look at her go! Is she running to the bathroom? Was there some emergency at the back…
/r/MGTOW23/10/17 02:51 AM
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Only after she became aware that he was the lead singer in the new musical sensation that was sweeping the State. And before demanding that he take yet another dangerous journey to retrieve a bauble (the old wedding ring), while she stays where she is out of danger. And even then she complains about the result and he survives a friggin' lynching and a flood. Still love that movie though. "Do-Not-SEEK-the-TrEASure!"
/r/MGTOW23/10/17 02:36 AM
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I've worked as a content creator for a while. Where I did it, it was basically just finding/taking photos to put in emails or on the website. When you get emails from retail stores and they have a "Summer Sale!" picture that loads at the top, a content creator found/took the photo and did the graphic design stuff. But "Diversity Officer" seems to be nothing but an expensive PR exercise. They are ostensibly supposed to ensure that there is enough diversity in the workplace, or that the culture is…
/r/MGTOW22/10/17 01:10 PM
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There is no percentage to truth, like facts it's an absolute. But each side can have many facts, some percentage of which can be true. For example, Communism and Feminism have many flaws, and it's assumptions on human/societal behaviour are flawed. But nonetheless there is merit in thinking about inequalities in our society and what perpetuates them. After all, that's the type of thinking we do when we look at inequalities that men face.
/r/MGTOW22/10/17 01:00 PM
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I think I did this accidentally once. I usually have a hard time being mean or rude to anyone, even someone who I really dislike or hate. But when I get sick/over-tired/depressed, I struggle much harder to maintain my civility. A girl I barley knew from University came onto me at a party. I was on my A-game that night, very sociable and confident and energetic. But she told me she had a crush on me ever since the previous party we had both gone to. At that party, the night she developed an attra…
/r/MGTOW20/10/17 02:53 AM
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Feminists: #metoo is about creating awareness of a widespread issue that people are not aware the full extent of. Also Feminists: Sexual violence against men is so rare that it isn't important enough to be talked about.
/r/MensRights19/10/17 08:10 AM
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reddit is also home to subreddits that are about rape, rough sex, gangbangs, and so on and they are rather popular with women. A couple that they are particularly fond of is r/rapekink and r/stupidslutsclub. The latter especially talks a lot about rape baiting.
/r/MGTOW18/10/17 09:21 AM
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Or... she defines "ideas and worldviews" exclusively as progressive feminist ideas. Note, she doesn't say no new products, no new code, no new applications, no new technology, or anything like that.
/r/MGTOW17/10/17 09:39 AM
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There are over 35 thousand people here, and not everyone is at the same stage of... MGTOW-i-ness? Becoming MGTOW is almost exactly the same as the "Five Stages of Grief". Before we get here, everyone is in the Denial stage, aka "Blue Pill". Then comes the most recognizable step, Anger. Anger is the appropriate response to injustice, and anyone able to reach this step has likely personally experienced injustice. The biggest source of this injustice is simply the massive cultural blackout on most/…
/r/MGTOW16/10/17 01:42 AM
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Financial Friends with Benefits "So I can take your money and give nothing in return!" She literally thinks taking money and giving nothing back is a similar mutually beneficial arrangement as sex.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/10/17 08:02 AM
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Just a quick addition to the advice that everyone else has provided: I get the impression that she will be home alone with your daughter while you are at work during the day? And she stays with your daughter in a separate room? Be warned, she could use this as evidence that she is the "primary caretaker" and take custody of your daughter, along with child support. Incredulous for sure, but courts are damn near orgasmic at the thought of giving custody to the mother, and have routinely done so in…
/r/MGTOW13/10/17 07:24 AM
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You are not alone buddy, we all feel the same way. You did not deserve any of that, and you have a right to be angry. Anger is the appropriate response to injustice.
/r/MensRights12/10/17 05:59 AM
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I can empathize with you mate, and I agree the guy above is being unfairly dismissive. Some of these guys seem to assume that the only problem a man can have is as a direct result of women, otherwise our lives would be perfect. Some of them seem to forget that we can have shitty situations to deal with that have nothing to do with women at all. You were already feeling like shit, and just came her to vent a bit about a new, specific annoyance that cropped up. And even here people are giving you …
/r/MGTOW03/10/17 09:05 AM
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My own version: "In the land of the blind, the one-eyed man is a heretic"
/r/MGTOW03/10/17 06:41 AM
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For further evidince of this, visit r/stupidslutsclub or r/rapekink today! There are plenty of rapebaiting stories there. NSFW Obviously
/r/MGTOW03/10/17 03:41 AM
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I went on a date with an Asian girl... who was racist against everyone non-white, including other Asians. Paraphrased quote from her about her Middle-Eastern friend: I mean, I love the guy, right? He's really cool, like, one of my best friends in the whole world. Still wouldn't hug him though.
/r/MGTOW27/09/17 07:42 AM
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I'm sorry for what happened to you. You didn't/don't deserve it. I have gone through some similar things and I know how serious it is, and how devastating it is to realize that no one cares. I have been sexually assaulted 4 times. The first time was by a man, in a secluded area without witnesses. I was furious and hurt (emotionally). Turns out, he was the most respectful and remorseful. The other three were by women, all in public, all with dozens of witnesses. Unlike your situations though, whe…
/r/MGTOW26/09/17 10:10 AM
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They say they are attracted to intelligence, because they don't understand it. Intelligence actually bores them to death. What they actually are attracted to is WIT. a natural aptitude for using words and ideas in a quick and inventive way to create humor Which is kind of related to intelligence, but its not a causal relationship. Wit is entertaining, and women need their man to entertain them, because they can't entertain themselves. Also note that wit is a major factor in perceived social stat…
/r/MGTOW26/09/17 08:13 AM
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Oh yeah! I remember reading that comment too, I thought it was a great idea.
/r/MGTOW20/09/17 10:28 AM
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Blurts out random opinions that are treated as gold Use Special made-up words Replies with answers that make no sense Gets completely obsessed with the most insignificant things Interrupts every conversation to share his own tangentially related thoughts It makes total sense if you read this as coming from an un-educated idiot of a woman. "He is saying things I don't understand that everyone else thinks is really smart. Nah-ah! He must actually be really dumb!!"
/r/MGTOW20/09/17 05:49 AM
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I hear you buddy, feel much the same way most of the time. My advice would be caution though, as there is always a danger in restricting yourself to one perspective in almost any context. So make sure to take a break from here every once in a while. Another thing I find that helps is to always frame what I see here and elsewhere as an argument, rather than "the truth". For example, I still have a hard time accepting "AWALT" on principle. I don't think its right when feminists generalize that all…
/r/MGTOW20/09/17 05:31 AM
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In my opinion, the patterns you described are accurate, but the motivations behind them are quite the opposite. They don't want society to collapse, they are trying to prevent it's collapse, and this is the only way they know how. Notice that the problematic activities they are protesting (alcohol, porn, sex robots, video games) all have one thing in common. They are activities performed primarily by men to escape the stresses of working life. These are activities that can distract the men, and …
/r/MGTOW15/09/17 03:41 AM
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Here is the kicker though... the hiring manager is a woman. No, she is disappointed that the hiring manager is female, because then she can't just accuse her interviewer of sexism and discrimination until she gets the job. The female hiring manager will see through her bullshit, that's the problem for her here.
/r/MGTOW13/09/17 06:46 AM
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As always, their top concern is not the physical risks to the mothers and children, it is their emotional perceptions of the dangers that take precedence in all things. There is a risk when giving birth for an older woman, but the real problem is when people try to accurately educate her on the dangers so she can make an informed decision. That makes her feel something negative (fear, shame, sadness, uncomfortable etc.) and therefore must BE negative, because her emotions are the only important …
/r/MGTOW04/09/17 06:43 AM
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TIL what Nemesis means
/r/MGTOW01/09/17 08:19 AM
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Include males, yes. Focus on males for being males, no. Lets say for example that within the "Homeless Youth" study, they found that 100% of the males in that category felt that there were inadequate mental health services. The most likely conclusion that the study can report is the "Homeless Youth lack mental health services". But they can't say that men have a lack of mental health services, because that was not the scope of the study. This is not to say that these studies have no merit, or sh…
/r/MensRights23/08/17 06:56 AM
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Suicide is being studied, extensively, with great interest to the public, and a lot of media reporting. Men's suicide is not being studied, at least not specifically. There is a lot attention given to suicide in general, or Youth sucide, or Trans suicide, or LGBT suicide, or "Sexual Minortiy Youth" suicide, or "Adolescents with Bipolar Disorder" suicide, or "Homeless Youth" suicide, or "College student" suicide, or "Chinese older adult" suicide, or "Alaskan Native Youth" suicide, etc. etc. To be…
/r/MensRights23/08/17 05:43 AM
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...more than half of women surveyed lack confidence in their ability to make good health care decisions... This is the trap. This is how they sequester all resources for themselves while leaving men high and dry. The only information they feel relevant to this discussion, like every other issue they commandeer, is how women feel. Not what they actually experience, because that is falsifiable with independent statistics and simple common sense. But you can't disprove an emotion, no matter how rem…
/r/MensRights23/08/17 02:30 AM
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Serious answer: Less guilt and embarrassment. Men have been raised to treat women like fragile delicate little animals. A very common complaint from women on sex/relationship threads is about wanting to be dominated in bed, but the boyfriend/husband feeling really uncomfortable hurting/degrading his partner, even when they explicitly ask for it. Meanwhile, most men have the same body image issues as women, but get no equivalent social messages telling everyone that all men are beautiful. A sex d…
/r/MGTOW22/08/17 07:32 AM
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Google the "Say No to No" Campaign. Discourse is one thing, a campaign to ensure that no media or advertising organisations even think of presenting an opposing argument is quite literally the exact opposite.
/r/MGTOW22/08/17 06:33 AM
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How about a compromise? Because I think there is need for both. Leave r/MGTOW basically as it is, but also create something like r/MGTOWAdvanced for those who are past the anger stage, don't need convincing, and are now ready to simply enjoy their new lifestyle. That way the original sub can be used to educate on WHY, and the new sub can focus on HOW.
/r/MGTOW16/08/17 10:00 AM
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She being the therapist, not Beth. Beth was almost entirely wrong, spent most of the session trying to get the focus off of her and onto the kids. Therapist was having none of it, and kept bringing it back to the real problem in the family. Not the kids, not the Dad, but her and Ricks relationship. And just like the therapist was describing, the episode ends with Rick and Beth both ignoring the problem (and the kids), not being honest with each other, and choosing to get drunk. Beth was not bein…
/r/MGTOW16/08/17 07:03 AM
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I remember here in Australia a few years ago, a story about an asylum seeker boat sinking. The report was: "113 asylum seekers drowned at sea today. Thankfully there were no women aboard, and only one child, a 13 year old boy." Some of those numbers may be misquoted, but I specifically remember them saying "thankfully" all the corpses were male.
/r/MensRights16/08/17 06:42 AM
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I gotta say... just watched the episode... and I quite liked it! Probably won't end up being my favorite episode ever, but not my worst either. SPOILERS AHEAD But as for all the "Lefty" inclusions in the show, I don't think the fact they are included means they are necessarily supported. My impression watching the episode wasn't that it was supporting SJWs, but rather it was satirizing them. Like the OP mentions with the "triggering me" statement, the character who says that dies IMMEDIATELY aft…
/r/MGTOW14/08/17 02:13 PM
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Correction: Men who are too afraid to fight back: Pathetic Losers
/r/MGTOW12/08/17 05:20 AM
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Reading Writing Drawing/Digital Art 3d Art (This one is mine) Woodworking Metal works Knitting/Crochet Car/Boat Restoration Gardening Hiking Bird Watching Camping Photography Astronomy Video Games Video Game Modding Video Game Making ...And I think I've run out for now
/r/MGTOW08/08/17 09:13 AM
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I actually liked the first episode, thought the decision to permanently remove both the Council of Ricks and The Galactic Federation were courageous moves. Either one of those could have generated heaps of story-lines for many seasons. I thought just blowing both of those up in a huge spectacular was like wiping the stage clean for wholly different and even more crazy stories. Given what they had created thus far, I was super excited to see what crazy new adventures they could surprise us with. …
/r/MGTOW03/08/17 08:00 AM
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Restraining order for her and the kids. He even tries to get in phone contact, or even worse just shows up, he is fighting a losing battle with a jail cell. That's just one possibility.
/r/MGTOW25/07/17 08:04 AM
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Same, it doesn't require tragedy, only empathy. Only have to look around and observe whats happening to notice just how much is amiss.
/r/MGTOW21/07/17 07:35 AM
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It’s quite another to be a virgin because you are too afraid of emotional and physical intimacy Guaranteed if this was referring to women, the sentence would have ended with how amazingly serious and oppressive this is against women, and how society must immediately overhaul itself so women never feel anything negative. And how it's every individual man's fault. When women are afraid it's because they are in danger from evil men. When men are afraid it's because they are pathetic whiny immature …
/r/MGTOW14/07/17 08:34 AM
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She said she wanted him to work less And with no one to corroborate that, why do we believe her? She saw him exhausted, and punished him for it. He died because of it. Do you really think she going to come out saying she feels responsible? That she handled it poorly? That she took him for granted? No! She is going to say how she totally saw this coming but he wouldn't listen! She is going to say she was concerned for his health. She is going to imply that she is the real victim here! And apparen…
/r/MensRights12/07/17 03:22 AM
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You are assuming that she is telling the truth about the argument that got her husband killed. The argument that she is the only surviving participant of. The fight could very well have been about anything, her cheating on him with his brother, her not working enough so he has to overcompensate, shape-shifting lizard men, anything! Of course, after he dies presumably from overwork, she says the argument was about his work and health. How amazing! She's so smart and kind, it's like she knew what …
/r/MensRights12/07/17 03:13 AM
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All we really know about that is she was cruel to him because she was worried about him How do we know that? Is that what he told us? No? Oh right, because he's dead. We only have one side of the story, and will only ever have one side of the story, because he's dead. The only surviving witness is someone with a vested interest in not appearing like a huge sack of shit to the rest of the world. And considering that she forbade her husband from sleeping in his own bed after a 16 hour day, she alr…
/r/MensRights12/07/17 03:03 AM
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And with no one to corroborate that story, everyone is just going to go along with it. No way she would lie about the petty argument that got her husband killed. Certainly not in a way that makes her look better as a person. Should only be a few days until the accusations of abuse start popping up.
/r/MensRights12/07/17 02:37 AM
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Best Quote: "Don't try to understand women. Women understand women, and they hate each other!" -Al Bundy
/r/MGTOW11/07/17 05:52 AM
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Finally! I'm glad someone is saying it! Of all the weird and wonderful ideas floating around here, the "Jewish Conspiracy" is by far the hardest to swallow. Like most conspiracy theories, it just strikes me as intellectually lazy. Same problem I have with "Patriarchy Theory".
/r/MGTOW10/07/17 09:03 AM
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most of Europe is still a beautiful and safe place to live or to visit But nobody stops to question the factors that made it this way, and how they can be maintained or even exported to areas in desperate need of it (e.g. Middle East). Instead, while everyone is escaping war-torn shitholes and running to relative paradise, it's only those who made paradise what it is that have to change their ways and feel bad about it.
/r/MensRights10/07/17 07:13 AM
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so... is there such a thing as "Social Fascism"? or "Non-Governmental Fascism"? Because a lot of these people seem to hide behind the fact they have no official power to censor, in order enact their unofficial power to censor.
/r/MGTOW10/07/17 06:38 AM
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Great story, surely inspired by the timeless classic "The Fisherman and his Wife" Read it when I was a kid, always remembered it. Turns out that there was more than one lessoned to be learned though.
/r/MGTOW03/07/17 09:39 AM
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To be fair, it could also be that HR workers likely have little to no experience in the jobs they are hiring for, nor do they have to work beside them every day. So they don't know they real qualities needed for a position, nor are they able to see the effects and learn for next time.
/r/MensRights03/07/17 09:11 AM
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"Men are all the same" Because the truth is that no other demographic is allowed to be stereotyped. It's generalising, dehumanising, often objectifying (in the accurate literal sense) to pretend that all members of the group must conform to identical behaviour on an individual level. But one man does something bad and it must be a reflection on the entire male gender. They use stereotypes to justify using stereotypes. e.g. Male Privilege is a sexist stereotype, but its ok to judge all men by tha…
/r/MensRights26/06/17 08:53 AM
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I was thinking about this the other day and I think its much simpler than most think. Here's a question, that I imagine most MGTOWs and MRAs will answer the same way. "What were you, before you were MGTOW/MRA?" "A Feminist" "And what were you before you were a Feminist?" "... a toddler?" Indoctrination is easy when you start before they can think critically.
/r/MGTOW26/06/17 08:39 AM
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Winning competitions is only as impressive an achievement as the level of the other competitors. The Williams sisters did so well because they only had to be better than the other women. They would have won even more titles if they had been playing against 10 year olds. Whereas, if they were competing openly against the men, even finishing in the top three for a single competition would have cemented them as the greatest female players of all time, perhaps of all sports.
/r/MGTOW26/06/17 04:30 AM
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Just accuse them of being sexist, assuming that as a woman you cannot choose to be a misogynist on your own, and that a man must have given these ideas to you. They are denying your agency, and thus objectifying you :)
/r/MensRights23/06/17 01:49 AM
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Letter Z I'm going to take a wild guess and assume that means Zionism? What does Zionism have to do with it? Note: I am Jewish, but I've never been a Zionist (Or even fully understood it), so I'm literally just curious.
/r/MGTOW21/06/17 07:51 AM
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Is this specific to USA? Because we have had some doozies of progressive curriculum changes and they sound eerily similar to this type of thinking.
/r/MGTOW21/06/17 07:35 AM
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It's almost exclusively how they view men. Your "worth" is your worth. Is it any wonder that all these quotas and glass ceilings only affect the most prestigious, most glamorous and most well paid positions in society. They don't care about tens of thousands of blue collar jobs, only the hundred or so CEO positions in air-conditioned offices. Its a huge Apex fallacy.
/r/MensRights20/06/17 06:39 AM
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Here's an idea, taken from the statement of one such attacker. When police apprehended him, he kept screaming: "You were supposed to kill me!" I wonder what would happen if we started considering these terrorist attacks as an attempt at "Suicide by Cop". It would match the growing suicide epidemic in men. It would explain why so many westerners get caught up in it too.
/r/MensRights20/06/17 06:34 AM
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My cousin just had a son, and two days ago was his Bris (circumcision). I told my Mum (first time I have spoken on this topic to anyone) that I had objections about a dangerous, unnecessary cosmetic surgery done and a week old baby without consent or anaesthesia. She said it was like getting a needle, and the kid wouldn't remember. She asked "Do you remember yours?" I said no, but it has given me a lot of anxiety over the years given that it looks like someone poured acid over it. There are lite…
/r/MensRights20/06/17 06:18 AM
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And it doesn't end there! Did anyone happen to catch the Hack segment last night? Three enlightened Feminists listening to men report on the abuse they have suffered, and then telling them that since men are less likely to killed, getting your EAR BITTEN OFF isn't really abuse. Then saying they probably deserved it because women only ever abuse men in self defence. I used to roll my eyes when I heard someone accuse the ABC of having a "lefty liberal bias". But after that disgusting display of "e…
/r/MensRights20/06/17 06:06 AM
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Yeah, sure hope she doesn't love her kids.
/r/MGTOW20/06/17 05:37 AM
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In the land of the blind, the one eyed man is a heretic.
/r/MGTOW20/06/17 05:26 AM
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...a diff eqs class where we are supposed to be writing an essay about how we felt about the class... I don't get it, was this the first or last day and you were doing a performance review? Or were they seriously assigning a Differential Equations class an essay about your feelings? What are they looking for? "The equals sign is phallic and makes me anxious!"
/r/MGTOW20/06/17 05:21 AM
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Also notice that it's the man's responsibility to fix her broken heart. She just throws out the key for him to pick up, making him think it was his idea, then she just stands back while he does all the work.
/r/MGTOW13/06/17 02:51 AM
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A women needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle. Irina Dunn - 1970
/r/MGTOW07/06/17 06:13 AM
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Power. Power and control. When women abuse someone, its almost always someone "weaker" than themselves. That's why you will almost exclusively see women abusers with young children, old people, or disabled people as their victims.
/r/MGTOW30/05/17 09:27 AM
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I don't really have strong feelings about what she is saying. 4 months seems a bit too soon for me, but that's on a personal level. But what I find really interesting is the comments. Specifically ones like this (gilded): 4 months is not too soon. No one can tell you when you're ready. Listen to the answer within, only that is the truth. It is in no way up to you (commenter) to decide what would be best for someone else or to judge her grieving process. So no one can judge her or tell her they t…
/r/MGTOW30/05/17 05:42 AM
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It's because (according to feminism) women are objects, as apposed to men who are agents. Agents are capable of agency, performing actions which produce results. This is otherwise known as power, the ability to affect (or resist) change. Men have this power, and are thus capable of forcing a non-agent to do whatever he wants, while simultaneously being too powerful for any object to have power over him. This is the justification for saying men can't be raped. This isn't just related to sex/gende…
/r/MensRights19/05/17 06:56 AM
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women are effectively the gatekeepers of masculinity... I don't disagree with this, women do set the minimum standard of masculinity... women are the ones who are most likely to question someone's masculinity... ...but I disagree with this. Men are at least equally likely to question or threaten a man's masculinity as women. It's like with women and slut shaming, a very large proportion comes from women themselves, because they see them as sexual competition. And its the same with men. We do spe…
/r/MensRights16/05/17 08:43 AM
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...actually? I think this is an accurate observation. I doubt the conclusions he draws are likely to be particularly valid, but I agree with him that masculinity must be constantly demonstrated. But whereas I'm sure he uses this to claim some bullshit about "fragile egos therefore men bad", I think the important issue is that men's masculinity is under CONSTANT attack, and any individual you come across has the authority to eradicate a mans masculinity in the eyes of society. In effect, this len…
/r/MensRights16/05/17 07:46 AM
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Yeah, this whole topic often makes me cranky :). But I did have some of the same thoughts as you after I walked away, I just couldn't quite narrow down my thoughts on the topic. But yes, I have heard that many men change their views on women and sexuality once they have daughters... (What follows are some of those rambling thoughts I had) Except that's still not quite the same (from my perspective). Most aspects of sex are still seen as something damaging that happens to women, not something the…
/r/MensRights08/05/17 06:25 AM
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So why do so many women need to have a son to become aware of the struggles of men? Because that's the first time they encounter a male human who cannot possibly have less power than they do. The first time that they are forced to recognise their own power over a male, that not even Feminism can deny. The first time they are actually held (mostly) responsible for the well being and safety of a male. And given that (hopefully) they truly love and care for this male, they cannot continue with the …
/r/MensRights08/05/17 02:15 AM
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A former Alaska woman who was sexually abused by her paternal grandfather... This is literally the first sentence, and already we are hearing about how she is a victim before any other details emerge. A former day care worker... Massive red flag. Active child abusers often attempt to gain access to children, which is insanely easier for women. charged with possessing and distributing child pornography... An important details that really seems at odds with... “Ms. Robinson wasn’t looking at these…
/r/MensRights20/04/17 08:25 AM
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Reading this story in the local papers, there are many references to the claims that the man brought the knife with him to the park in his pocket. A 20cm kitchen knife... in his pocket... right. Next they claim that he attacked her, then she took the knife off him, sliced him the fuck up, then he ended up with the knife again while she walked away. And yet... she has no defensive wounds. But he not only has his intestines hanging out, but numerous slashes and cuts to his hands and forearms. Clas…
/r/MensRights30/01/17 09:32 AM
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