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Inner Game IBeSomebooty/r/seduction08/05/20 09:49 PM
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ConversationIBeSomebooty/r/seduction03/07/20 07:50 PM
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Field ReportIBeSomebooty/r/seduction23/06/20 04:49 PM
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Big cities. venues sometimes allow 18+ to get in but they mark you with a different bracelet so u can't drink. ​ find out where the local young people are. the median age in some places in the usa is around 35, soo you need to go where the average is much younger. the easiest way to avoid this is finding a big city, usually a lot younger, more attractive, higher quality women hang here. if not malls, stores, downtown areas in big cities near bars outside stores, ect, tourist locations, theme par…
/r/seduction20/11/21 04:03 PM
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you're really into game you wouldn't be on here and instead invest in a class yourself unless you're broke, and can't, then learn from here.
/r/seduction20/11/21 03:58 PM
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its a bad thing to have a girl choose for you, you choose for yourself, you're the man. ​ yeah, you should of gotten her Logistics first. meaning, see if she's available: what she's doing there, what brings her, when is she leaving, or why she likes going there. usually if they like you, they'll drop an IOI saying that they're available for you, if not ask their schedule, and setup a date accordingly EX: so what brought you to this store? her: (looking for _) you: ah, nice choice btw,I like _ be…
/r/seduction20/11/21 03:55 PM
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im with you on that one, I was very young looking up until i hit 21, and looked feminine, i have dancing as a hobby which doesnt help, my mother was the only person in most of my life as well. but it doesn't stop you, i assume you look young, which older women find attractive, or cute. and some women fantasize about that. but i am still a dancer, and i've been with 30+ women, and feel like i've still haven't accomplished anything, been single for a few months and its getting to me, like oh no, i…
/r/seduction20/11/21 03:48 PM
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I've approached about 10 girls a week when i was in a dating program. a lot of girls i didn't even end up fucking, but I made some cool friends, had great times with them, and they made my night, and If i go out again I will probably see them and they will think highly of me for doing so and still have another good time. yeah chemistry happens every now and then. but everyone is a stranger at some point when you meet them.
/r/seduction06/09/21 04:56 PM
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hey man you can't force chemistry, don't force sex. only have sex with girls you want unless you just want a one night stand with someone else once in a while, and nothing is wrong with that. you need to flirt in order to get something started. make her comfortable by being less of a creep and being nonchalant. lead her, say your going to ur place for drinks or a movie or something you wanna show her, or netflix. whatever. dim the lights, break out the wine, order pizza, cuddle. tell her she fee…
/r/seduction06/09/21 04:17 PM
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if you have no experience, you probably have to work really hard on different aspects of life. being a leader in life gets you laid. if you don't have money you can't keep a girlriend, you can get a one night stand and fake it till you make it, but by the time it turns to a relationship she will leave. if you're doing game as a 'numbers game' you still need to study what you did wrong, and what works. if you just blindly go through life you're going to trip and fall a lot, and not into some puss…
/r/seduction06/09/21 04:12 PM
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not all men want sex, but if you're hard to get, then usually we show signs of being a good partner, and if not those are red flags - avoid. this psychology of showing signs of being a good partner usually works in your favor if you act hard to get. being a single mom means you now have to have more resources to get with and be stable. unless you're trying to help pay our bills- if you're not attractive, you dont show signs of being someones whos fun, interesting, or can benefit us, we have more…
/r/seduction06/09/21 04:07 PM
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men under 30 are known for not having resources and usually dont have good logistics, dont live alone, have a lot of money, have things set up for them in life, meaning it shows low dominance and nothing going for them which is a turn off. over 30 this reverses, and girls flock because they have money/resources and have a plan by then, at least know what they like. women under 30 are most attractive at age 23, and when it gets to 30 this reverses and they lose their beauty almost at a steady rat…
/r/seduction06/09/21 04:01 PM
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its called logistics. if its early, or about to leave should be the best. are they busy with friends and enjoying their time with them? might be bad to text right then. "who what when why where" who - who their with what- what are you up to here (you and her) why - do you enjoy coming here when are you leaving- are you staying till close?" where -are you around here. if you didn't screen her for her schedule, then do it. ask when she's available. if she cant do it set up another date, or go onto…
/r/seduction06/09/21 03:56 PM
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"you look like your having the best day of your life. did something good happen today?" say something, anything, even if you're upset.
/r/seduction06/09/21 03:52 PM
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dont talk to her for a while, she's not meeting your expectations.
/r/seduction06/09/21 03:51 PM
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keep your body straight but turn your head like security camera, walk the room, see everyone, and Look where peoples eyes are directed. this usually shows you who the most dominant person in the room is. make friends with that person, get in their group, and boom. you're golden. ​ body language, where are their hands? are they comfortable, laying back (submissive and sign of attraction) putting their hands in their lap (sign of attraction ) if your on a date, where they put their hands is usuall…
/r/seduction06/09/21 03:49 PM
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this. we're all fighting against one another in the market place, girls only go for the top %10 percent of guys, the rest they dont usually get laid often. if you can uber around it doesnt matter. but if you cant go pick her up and take her somewhere she needs to go, yeah thats a turn off, and that puts her at risk of something (bad happening, and she can't go do what she needs, doctor appts, etc) ​ from a standpoint of survival its a necessity if you dont live somewhere thats like tokyo.
/r/seduction06/09/21 03:46 PM
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social proof. doing things guys normally cant do. travel. go to unique places, amazing events, eat high quality places, having a group of friends and a social higherarchy that you're a person of respect in, a leader of men.
/r/seduction06/09/21 03:42 PM
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it depends on the girl. read her body language, if she seems really into you, flirt with her. you need to be dirty, or say things that seem dirty. so its obvious flirting. and if she doesn't react bad or stop you, the worst she can say is no or think its awkward
/r/seduction06/09/21 03:40 PM
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all things start as almost nothing. a tree was once a seed. but you approach, even if its just hi, and if there is no chemistry, then don't force it.
/r/seduction06/09/21 03:39 PM
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i'm 5'6" balding, man boobs, and hairy and i've fucked girls that are taller than me. doesn't always happen but it does happen. do you know anyone with a height difference that dates someone shorter? its just if you display enough value to get attracted to that kind of woman. they just want a dominant guy even if youre short.
/r/seduction06/09/21 03:39 PM
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show abundance by talking to other girls and try to message her back. if you have a dog and shes seen it send her a pic of it and say (dogs name) misses you
/r/seduction06/09/21 03:35 PM
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part of the game my guy
/r/seduction06/09/21 03:34 PM
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reply even if it goes wrong and go onto the next girl
/r/seduction06/09/21 03:33 PM
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Sounds wholesome, but doesn't always work.
/r/seduction06/09/21 03:32 PM
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go somewhere random and approach (approx under 20 mins from where you live) dont approach where you enjoy going regularly unless its a last resort.) people respect others that randomly approach even if they dont go well. thats how you make friends, not everyone you talk to you go balls deep in. so if you like someone, why not? if someone else doesnt like it, their jealous they dont have the balls you do.
/r/seduction06/09/21 03:31 PM
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Honestly being a man in your 30s you have experience beyond whatever these 20 year olds living with their parents driving mommy&daddys car with their mcdonalds job have. stop talking down about yourself. a lot of girls date older than them, and 30 is the peak point (for attraction) according to a study on tinder. you should take more risks if you haven't. accqc approach. directly. just say Hi to random people at first, dont expect anything from it. context - why your there, (im here grabbing cof…
/r/seduction06/09/21 03:28 PM
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I mean there are better times to just shoot your shot then not. When a girl is on social media, doesn't post and then posts, and u comment something on it, then she replies etc. so not always the best time is not now.. be a sniper, take your time and make the shot deadly.
/r/seduction06/09/21 03:21 PM
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Mature women are great, if she's older than you, has more experience, there's nothing wrong with it, I dated someone 20 years older, my friend who has cancer is 50+ and dating a 23 yr old, i was in a dating program where dudes in their 50s date girls 30 yrs and younger. its no big deal, that shit really happens. it doesnt matter about their kids, what matters is your frame (i go for what I want, and I like mature woman, because other women dont interest me, etc.)
/r/seduction06/09/21 03:20 PM
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It really works though, when people hear you talk shit about people, It's usually shows you're higher value, and that works. I go out to places where stuck up rich kids just talk shit about everyone they see in the venue and they basically are gawked at by any normie who is there. everyone wants to like them, but then they talk shit about you and nobody likes u as much as them. (basically shitting on everyone around, having no shit on you etc)
/r/seduction06/09/21 03:18 PM
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according to Todd V, a coach I listen to, you act like nothing is wrong with her having a boyfriend, That you believe if she likes you better, she should get with you if she wants to, its a free market, if you dont like your cellphone provider(boyfriend) go to a different one, its that simple. That, and get alone with her.
/r/seduction06/09/21 03:16 PM
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I ended up by grabbing her ass like in the drawing. And it flowed well, like it made sense and everything, she didn't stop me, she just rolled her eyes a bit, but I've never been with a girl that was so uncooperative... she didnt stop you. then you're basically shit testing her at this point, seeing if you can get away with more touching, see if she repulses you, and move from there. ​ the fact that she drew it was probably something she wanted done anyways. girl's are not cooperative, they spea…
/r/seduction07/03/21 04:24 PM
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ew. nobody wants to hear you blabber on about yourself unless you're doing something wholesome, or sharing a story or experience that displays HV. if you blab about being rich, you're probably not rich. talk about what they like, and find a topic they wont shut up about or mention more than once.
/r/seduction07/03/21 03:22 PM
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NEXT
/r/seduction07/03/21 03:16 PM
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sometimes your schedule doesn't meet up with theirs, and saying you were 'free' all the time gives you lower value, LV. you should make a time constraint. 'how does this day/time work?' yes) okay i'll see you then' other response) ok i'll see how you're doing' she seems very open about sex, the butt painting, and the erotica, she most likely wants you to be a little dirty. if you be a little dirtier, and sexualize the conversation, make a remark about the painting that you like it. 'is that real…
/r/seduction07/03/21 03:15 PM
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If you've been with enough girls, we all have been with the mentally unstable girl, haha! i've had my share. It is not shameful, you have needs, man. You want to talk to attractive women, don't lie to yourself and be bashful. In sales, you have to reach out to lots of people, regardless of what they say, to get a sale. Sell yourself, its like an easier way of going door-to-door than to just slide into dms. There are plenty of ways to do this while being smooth, and not seeming like a weirdo. ​ f…
/r/seduction07/03/21 03:05 PM
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you need to loosen up and be more fun. Then immediately get more sexual, but indirectly. one thing girls don't like is some dude who is very boring. similar to how a dj, explaining his new song, just by the way he explains it in a very boring way, will lose his audience.
/r/seduction07/03/21 03:00 PM
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that doesn't matter. when a girl tells you where she lives/ask where she lives.. Even if its far away, just say "cool." this will mean youre comfortable with where they live, regardless of where you live. i'd like to believe most girls would date someone within 1 hour of where they live, from what i've gathered from asking other girls. but some, even further wouldn't mind depending on their situation, similar to yours. Just know you're not the only one going through that! Other people are doing …
/r/seduction07/03/21 02:58 PM
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I mean, you should ask if she's alright, and don't force her to go, which would give you HV, higher value. if she is, go somewhere small, like grab ice cream or something, i wouldn't spend more than $15 and go walk again, then maybe a place that she, or you like, or just see where it leads, or plan another date.
/r/seduction07/03/21 02:52 PM
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I say that it works in the favor of going out. me and (former lady) made it clear we were just going to a park to hangout, and we fell for each other after just talking about the same topics. I sincerely never wanted anything from it. and we just talked as friends. next thing she wanted to do was hangout more.
/r/seduction07/03/21 02:50 PM
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Its okay to not have a social battery sometimes. I recently was at a lounge, enjoying my friends company, and this girl clearly smiling at me and giving IOIs and I was not introducing myself to her because I preferred hanging with my friends at the moment.
/r/seduction24/09/20 03:33 AM
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that's them saying they have to go. meaning, they're probably busy and have to wake up early tomorrow for work or something important to do. You following them is probably hounding them, that's exactly what you're doing.
/r/seduction24/09/20 03:30 AM
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I'm not saying they don't.
/r/seduction20/09/20 09:40 PM
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well I know someone who's anorexic and they're physically active, they walk everywhere they go almost.
/r/seduction20/09/20 08:55 PM
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psychology of the mind works great that way, i'm glad to hear you started with guys, because that's not what a lot of people do, the easier you make it, the better.
/r/seduction20/09/20 08:51 PM
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Yeah, if you physically don't look like you don't sometimes jog a mile, if it looks like you cant run a mile on a treadmill, im out
/r/seduction20/09/20 08:49 PM
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Just because you see a couple that looks like its straight out of a hollywood movie doesn't mean they're a good couple. Their lives could be completely fucked up. but you shouldn't worry about external influences like that.. It's toxic. Go out, be happy, enjoy yourself, if you see someone you like, approach, make an excuse to ask them something. I'm 23, been with about 25 women, it's not as great as it sounds, I feel like I could be with way more if I went out a lot more. But it's crazy how meet…
/r/seduction20/09/20 02:11 PM
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You know grey sweatpants and being an AlphaChad helps
/r/seduction20/09/20 02:06 PM
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It's okay to feel nervous, but when you're having a good day, and you see a girl you like, or your out at an event, or somewhere new, approach. ​ don't be afraid to go say 'Hi' Everyone isn't here for a long time, enjoy life, others want to enjoy it too.
/r/seduction20/09/20 02:04 PM
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PREACH
/r/seduction20/09/20 02:01 PM
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I find confidence in a girl really attractive. Like if a girl comes up to me and my friends and asks to hangout or sit with us at the bar or gets to know us. I'm not really into the whole super submissive girl. Not an overweight girl, I've had a few of them, but they were really bubbly, and alternative, and fun to be around. but they didn't last long because I'm active, and if I can't go kayaking with you or do physical activities, we won't last, because Fun in a girl is one of the best traits.
/r/seduction20/09/20 02:00 PM
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Yeah, last night I was at an 80s night event, this girl, like a 8/10 was smiling at me, and looking at me all night, but I just wasn't feeling it. I rather go outside and chill with my friends and enjoy the music.
/r/seduction20/09/20 01:55 PM
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Yes, things happen where we don't have much to say, and then we days where we can't stop talking. So to get someones attention, you want to make the focus on them. We do this in sales, so the more they talk about something, or can't stop talking about something, you want to go into what THEY like. SO: go through the messages, see what most of them were about. Ex) him: what do you like to eat? Him:what is your favorite movie? Him: what is your favorite food? if he talks about similar topics or an…
/r/seduction20/09/20 01:53 PM
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You're lucky man, a lot of guys are bitches, and can't take a no. The feeling of "Being rejected" gives lots of people anxiety, it naturally is in our brains to not get rejected, but to fear it as well, because in hunter-gatherer days it would lead us from being included in the pack. but it doesnt matter. keep it up.
/r/seduction18/09/20 02:28 PM
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STOP THINKING LIKE THE WORLD WORKS LIKE HOLLYWOOD MOVIES. This doesn't happen. 99% of the time. the 1% it does work is because the guy ACCIDENTALLY used game/seduction tactics by accident to show dominant traits that are linked psychologically to female attraction. Once this is turned on in her brain, it's hard to turn it off. PUAs do this constantly, by learning game, and after enough button-pushing it sets her attraction into "automatic" mode, where she will SIMP over you. Even if you didn't m…
/r/seduction18/09/20 02:24 PM
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so even for women, its kinda obvious if a guy is interested in you, but let him make the first move of interest, then I say if he gives u two, then give a flirt, if he reacts anything more thane neutral to it, its all game, meaning keep going. Most likely he will flirt with you constantly. But you won't catch every guy, some of them like specific things, so if you're direct, ask him what they like, and if they go on, and on about one subject they like it. it's kinda obvious since most of us work…
/r/seduction18/09/20 02:20 PM
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Nah BRO, girls simp over puas, and it's annoying, cuz once I fuck I dont wanna see them again most of the time, I don't want it, but if they're simping over us, its cuz seduction works.
/r/seduction18/09/20 02:17 PM
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I would up and leave and go talk to another person there that is more fun and grab her attention that way.
/r/seduction18/09/20 02:15 PM
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as a guy who has been assaulted on a boat in the middle of an ocean for insinuating a threesome with two beautiful women who were grinding on me. yeah, it's risky. but, life is short. and Im still alive, luckily.
/r/seduction18/09/20 02:14 PM
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you dont live a long life man, live a happy one. it's sad to be lonely, but you don't NEED a relationship, you want love, but don't need it. It's addicting, you need to be happy is what you want. but you don't have to let it ruin you.
/r/seduction18/09/20 02:13 PM
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very little of the population has covid. you're over exaggerating, and ruining your own mindset for game. it's not like you can't see anyone. im not asking you to go to a crowded area. I live in a small town, where nobody is going out still, like you, which is dumb, so if I see a girl, alone, I try to talk to her.
/r/seduction18/09/20 02:11 PM
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Remember you miss 100% of the shots you don't take. SO if you DONT TRY. You'll just go by. let's say you live to 65. 23,725 days you'll have lived. but how many have gone by? 8,000? 10,000? 12,000? 15,000? How many of those days are you enjoying to its fullest potential? if not many, you have to try to change that, if you just let them go by, they will.
/r/seduction18/09/20 02:09 PM
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Yeah, it changes person to person, just like sales.
/r/seduction12/08/20 05:18 PM
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Y by Yves Saint Laurent. "what's that called?" "Y" "It smells nice" "No it's called Y"
/r/seduction29/07/20 08:14 PM
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https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/ <--actual infield testing of routines RSD Tyler's OLD stuff (like 4 years+) The Mystery Method/Neil strauss' book "The Game"
/r/seduction28/07/20 09:22 PM
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at least your honest
/r/seduction28/07/20 12:24 AM
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Right, care to go further off-topic?
/r/seduction28/07/20 12:21 AM
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you're dumb. interested in kinks a guy and girl has?
/r/seduction28/07/20 12:18 AM
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you probably are.
/r/seduction28/07/20 12:12 AM
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you sound lame.
/r/seduction28/07/20 12:12 AM
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so i was overhearing a girl saying "oh my bf gives out my nudes for free" and went "give him my number" silly things, not being serious, but just like overhearing things, you want to give a funny, nonchalant, take on it, and be smooth. Example: Her: you're an asshole You're similar flirty reply: Well they say you are what you eat (Guess that means she's a dick)
/r/seduction27/07/20 03:55 PM
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I agree. But also girl's who are used to attention and often deprived of it, get quite needy.
/r/seduction04/07/20 03:58 AM
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Weird fantasy.
/r/seduction03/07/20 08:14 PM
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Ignore her, go jack off and hangout with friends/play video games. There's a spider theory that worked on animals to attract mates. Ignoring girls turns them on.
/r/seduction03/07/20 07:34 PM
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I'm like a mix of the 3. 5'6. balding, kinda fat, got moobs, teeth separated af, and I've fucked 25+ chicks
/r/seduction26/06/20 01:10 AM
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asshole for being narcissistic, that's your opinion, I just want more.
/r/seduction23/06/20 06:43 PM
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I agree, completely savage.
/r/seduction23/06/20 06:13 PM
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Dont give them the option to say no. Here's a sales tactic we use: Avoid giving the customer the will to say no.. Usually ask them something they will say yes to. But we can't always do that. Her saying "idk" she's trying to qualify you. ^That means you have to rebuttal to persuade her your the right person to go on a date with. Put a pleasurable vision in her head. "Well, You look like a cappuccino type of girl. What's your favorite drink?" <-- the favorite drink being pleasurable. Do whatever …
/r/seduction10/06/20 10:33 PM
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If you want to join, do it. it's not all a "fake facade" that's only your opinion
/r/seduction09/06/20 03:33 PM
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I've done this, and it was problematic for me. Pickup isn't only about ONE THING. It's about improving yourself and your game. You'll get so good at pickup, you will get women without even trying-- they will tell you you're handsome, and ask to date you within a day of meeting you, even if you don't look good. I let this get the better half of me, I thought, "WOW. I don't have to improve myself anymore, I can just keep getting women and having sex as often as I want. They will even throw themsel…
/r/seduction31/05/20 03:36 PM
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Not all girls are "easy to talk to" if you want a girl, this depends on the woman. you have to make her comfortable, like she's your friend. I do this until she finally admits she likes me.
/r/seduction14/05/20 08:40 PM
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I'd work on posture first. photos are great, but also your posture. It works better in person. arnold schwarzenegger would stand back against a wall, make it flat with his body, suck in his stomach and hold it for 15 seconds while keeping it tight. do this 3 times every morning for better posture, remember to fix your back like this, and keep your core tight through the day.
/r/seduction10/05/20 04:37 PM
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Scientifically a person who has had less partners is more likely to have a long term relationship than someone who has had multiple partners. ​ But, you want what you want, and not everyones the same. date a lot of people, choose what you want at that time
/r/seduction09/05/20 11:07 PM
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Thank you. I keep forgetting to give a lot, my ego gets taken over sometimes, and I often am the 2nd example before acknowledging my need to give first and think of others. I probably would have kept going on about this if I didn't rediscover your post and acknowledge my habit.
/r/seduction09/05/20 05:27 PM
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thats still the 2nd level, Displaying Higher Value(DHV) having abundance is a trait.
/r/seduction09/05/20 05:47 AM
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Yeah it's the basic level of psychology. The second level is knowing how the female mind works. And how to trigger it and flip the switches to make her fall in love based upon your natural traits.
/r/seduction09/05/20 05:42 AM
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First, thank you. have DHV, Displays of Higher Value. Meaning you're worth more than just what someone sees. The mind can only see what it knows, so without seeing these AMAZING traits, that person will think less of you. (another reason why people should study game) Why would you want to be with someone boring, without any hobbies, or valuables in life?
/r/seduction06/05/20 09:22 PM
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it shows your a guy who knows what he wants. and knows how to have fun. having something you like to do shows you aren't relying on others for fun. you have your own fun. this also shows healthy traits. meaning you've learned something, and are passionate about what you learned.
/r/seduction06/05/20 01:40 AM
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Yeah I've opened that way, usually I try to act like their friend when I do that, not say something as boring as "i wanted to meet you"
/r/seduction05/05/20 11:28 PM
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"you look interesting, so I wanted to see who is this person". good approach My name is _ bad approach. I tend not to give my name. usually if interested they will ask. enough iois and I will give my info at the close. imagine a girl comes up to you, says "hey I'm mandy" with a handshake. awkward. they ask or tell me theirs first.
/r/seduction05/05/20 10:26 PM
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Honestly there was a time where I thought learning Pick-Up was manipulative, and was changing me. I honestly learned, it's just like sales. The more you know the better. If you don't have anyone to teach you, you'll never learn. And you could end up being miserable. ​ Fuck all those negative people. Don't hate the player or the game.
/r/seduction05/05/20 10:21 PM
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you want to get her to be emotional. be different. it's hard to show emotion through text, this is going to take time to get better at. once you get her to operate on her emotions, it's push and pull. ask her questions that entice you. what do you wanna know about her. ask about her life?
/r/seduction05/05/20 09:00 PM
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I'd say 90% aren't. I'll give you one, my personal one. If you're at a restaurant, or getting food through pickup. Them: "Is that all?" Me: "Not unless you want to get dinner later."
/r/seduction04/05/20 10:22 PM
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Yeah, I did ask questions to open, and said some statements. She had a pretty rave tattoo, and I asked her what made her get it. "I like art" she said, and I said me and some friends we're planning to go to a art museum in the future, and that we should all go. that's when she said she had a boyfriend.
/r/seduction03/05/20 03:00 AM
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If you learn game, that you can have Higher Quality women in your life. See/Date/talk to multiple girls at once, and choose the ones you like. If you don't do this you might have chosen a girl of less quality which could make you be miserable. That girls can be attracted to you just as much as you to them, and they get HORNY too (yeah that's not a myth, they actually will CALL you TO FUCK THEM) Basing upon assumptions is wrong. Because if you have the mentality of "knowing" a girl without spendi…
/r/seduction03/05/20 12:09 AM
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Some noobs might get the wrong idea. But I get it. It's not that big of a deal though. Its a numbers game. If someone gets a bunch of people trying for them all the time you'll most likely get rejected unless you do the opposite and are fine With just giving them the opportunity to get to know you. Aka just be friends
/r/seduction01/05/20 10:13 PM
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most people ask for help on this reddit, the site would be a useful tool. there are some new pickup artists on youtube. but if you want quality, look up RSD Tyler's old youtube stuff about pickup atleast 1 year or older. his new stuff is mostly self-improvement mumbo jumbo and has fallen off.
/r/seduction01/05/20 04:25 AM
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Other books such as "dad frame" was a script, one form of pickup, which is very basic and not in depth. at all. you will have basic understanding from the first book. if you know the basics, if you want a script of a single type of pickup, this is an auidobook for one script of it.
/r/seduction01/05/20 04:21 AM
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Neil Strauss "the game" is the first one I've ever read. About a famous Pickup Artist named "Mystery" who's still around today. I know a lot of his material, and most people that are anything in pickup do. so you won't learn nothing new after reading his book. but you will be better than any noob without experience. I haven't read it more than twice. still, you have to go out in the field and actually try it after reading, and it will show you proof of it working. It goes in depth on Indicators …
/r/seduction01/05/20 04:19 AM
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IOIs are just indicators, there are some that are very rule of thumb such as a girl crossing her legs while talking to you, asking you questions instead of you doing the questions, body language, her comfortable around you. her being very open(not just her on her back with legs spread wide open. you'd be surprised guys don't get that one either. ) or direct. when she laughs at something thats not funny, or compliments you.. some more obvious some are in depth which
/r/seduction01/05/20 04:04 AM
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roleplay this scenario. Being in person is very different. some people will forget it your brain processes Things better if you can practice how to do this.
/r/seduction01/05/20 02:45 AM
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you should not go "for broke" but this is something you should test once in a while. Like a science experiment of sorts. there are millions of theories or scripts posted of Pickup artist or seduction forums that shown which have worked with good results after doing things like this. you might get a golden line that only you can use. ​ doing this will give you results that you will know what what works for you, if you believe you can, "Go for it!". having a job doing sales, Even when people want …
/r/seduction01/05/20 02:41 AM
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also props for building up the abundance mentality. This is a major trait of a dominant/alpha male most guys don't have.
/r/seduction01/05/20 02:35 AM
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the fact she's giving you an IOI, you can always give a little push. but once you give that push, pull away. you need to tease. you need to push and pull often. see how she responds. or you can: A) Pretend it didn't happen, and continue the conversation and see if she mentions any other hints, questions about you, or an indicator of interest. B) Change the topic, and keep in track if she gives you any subtle hint about what you said. this usually is an indicator of interest ​ also, coming up to …
/r/seduction01/05/20 02:33 AM
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You gotta try it sometime man! GO for it if you want! if she rejects you so what! shrug it off like your superman and that bullets just bounce off you. you can take it as slow as you want. but she's making some hints at you! isn't she?? Sometimes being too upfront/forthright has got me laid without even trying.
/r/seduction01/05/20 02:22 AM
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Some girls get turned on by getting ignored for so long, Don't sweat that part man, usually that shows you have shit going on in your life to care too much about her. (alpha status) especially if you text her and she immediately responds is usually a good thing, usually one good Indicator of interest. ​ You want to seem like you're always fun, tell her what your up to. (even lie) and pretend like your hanging with some buddies drinking some beers or some shit. start talking about a movie you see…
/r/seduction01/05/20 02:19 AM
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Hey 2d, good to see you on forum today.
/r/seduction01/05/20 02:08 AM
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Sooooooooo when a girl gives you 3 decent, even subtle, hints. In seduction this is known as an IOI (Indicator of interest ) If there's any more than that, you should probably have made a move, even if you're scared of rejection. Some girls may get into their own head and have doubts about you being a selected mate if you don't show traits of knowing these signs. That's usually my "Okay time to make my next move, I'm good to go"
/r/seduction01/05/20 02:07 AM
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I've actually had a pull this way. we started sending similar memes to eachother. (spongebob memes) and it got dirty, somehow. Haha, I went with it. Girls usually tend to try to be fun when they like you, and want you to make a move. Let's see, if I was in that situation again, if you genuinely like the meme/video: "Hahaha that meme/video was so funny, it made my day!! Thanks, cutie" with or without a winky face at the end, if you guys are starting to get somewhere.
/r/seduction01/05/20 02:02 AM
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l gliding off of being higher value in the since of having a car and just being more popular than her Even though I didn’t know her she could tell I was from a social group of peers and she was more introverted so I didn’t really have to game here either but when the playing field was leveled as I got older and girls are now hot and in universities and I’m taking classes at community college I had to start implementing game a lot more and that’s when I decided that I could beat do that face to f…
/r/seduction29/04/20 10:07 PM
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Honestly you're lucky, im like a 4. man boobs, hairy, balding, but not 'fat' Im like a shorter thinner, black haired version of RSD Tyler.
/r/seduction29/04/20 08:47 PM
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nothing but conversation. After we chatted for two hours all I ask is as follows “hey let’s get outta here and head back to my place” classic. ​ Also the hand on chin turning to kiss them thing is a major plus, that has always worked for me in many situations.
/r/seduction29/04/20 08:45 PM
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So a big pet peeve of mine is meeting girls online via social media, Facebook really. Dating sites not a problem. I mostly come from a small hometown so dating sites have been a plus, and I have great online game once the interaction is started, via tinder, ect. ​ Have you done online game, how do you go about approaching using online social media? specifically facebook. I have a great profile, ect. I just hate adding mad girls and then having some be like "I don't even know you" you know?
/r/seduction29/04/20 08:42 PM
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Girls are still out there, if you keep going out, you will get chances, how many chances will get? Remember, you miss 100% of the shots you don't take. I do the same thing and don't always approach. sometimes I do, but sometimes I don't. I got lucky and went to get coffee at a little spot, two girls sat down a seat away from me and started chatting them up. you won't ever get chosen if you don't want to play.
/r/seduction28/04/20 10:56 PM
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No no NO. Who the FUCK gave you that advice? You give them that idea only if THEY are game, meaning they're obviously showing you they like LIKE you. Otherwise, don't Chase her, but you always want to make the first move. They want to be PULLED. They want you to make the first moves. but don't be like that unless your obvious style is to be friends with benefits, in which that will work for you in that regard. It's easy to make that interest clear, most girls get the wrong idea all the time. But…
/r/seduction28/04/20 10:46 PM
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honestly bro text one of your friends constantly and you'll see how annoying it is to have girls blow up your phone
/r/seduction15/04/20 03:15 AM
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/r/seduction14/04/20 05:14 PM
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Yeah I've done this a lot, most of the time they say they have boyfriends. But honestly Went up to a girl at a ATM once. Chatted with her and her friend, immediately saw she had tattoos and asked about them. another wearing a necklace, asked what kind it was, immediately saw she was drinking a beer, asked what she got, asked her for a taste, then her boyfriend walked in.
/r/seduction14/04/20 02:59 PM
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Sometimes best way to go about this is be direct. "I'm oldschool, I don't use social media, I prefer texting or calling. It's WAY better."
/r/seduction14/04/20 02:44 PM
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As of doing Pickup for a while now, this is one thing I struggle with, I don't get the opportunity to get high-quality women because I don't have the commitment to wait it out, to be seduced, and lack interests of those traits, I mainly look for physical traits or certain turn-ons.
/r/seduction14/04/20 02:38 PM
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I had a woman do the same thing to me, she tried to show me her breasts multiple times at a bar, but something about it made me kind of awkward about it. Like I almost didn't want to see them, It's okay to be uncomfortable with situations your not used to. ​ But getting it up is a different situation, it seems like she was nearly dominating you, blowing you then grinding on you. You should of took control.
/r/seduction14/04/20 02:35 PM
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So it looks like your main problem is the approach. To escalate the approach there's many different "scripted" ways to do so. honestly PUA(pick up artist forums) have lots of ways to do this. But the best ways are to make your own, sometimes even on the spot. You'll get so used to it you'll have to make your own sometimes, because it gets so easy to use the ones that work over, and over. ​ Try to go out with friends. They'll notice you when you're attracted to a girl, and when you guys talk, tal…
/r/seduction14/04/20 02:33 PM
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No, shit happens boi. Now you know how to encounter it. Don't be ashamed.
/r/seduction14/04/20 02:29 PM
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Yeah. She was cute, kinda edge-y. I was like "Damn, there's no way she's legal." I thought. I went up to her after about 20 seconds of googley eyes, and as she looked at her phone, bored. I went up and asked "You look bored, want to play pool?" then immediately went into enjoying her company and later, getting her number. Edit: She was legal.
/r/seduction14/04/20 02:28 PM
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I've always had people tell me they love me "Because of the way I look at them" I always try to remain eye contact when really close, and when in intellectual, deep, or intimate conversation. Always try to make it spiritual when in conversation by doing this more. Like an out-of-body experience. If you can't then, when making eye contact, even from a distance, try to picture yourself having sex with them. (More along the lines what you'd do to them then love.) You will have this aroused-kind-of …
/r/seduction14/04/20 02:26 PM
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