| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 7 | Keeping my distanceMine had the guts to tell me she's my best friend while still being in contact with the AP and seeing him few times a week. 12 more days of living with this heartless demon. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/04/25 06:13 PM |
| 1 | I lost a date in the funniest way possi le.Get that harem, King 🙏 | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/04/25 12:17 PM |
| 2 | Toxic, Horrible, SepticIt helped me to move on. Since I found out (it took me an hour and cost nothing) I realized she was a lying, cheating manipulator and I saw her in a completely different light and her spell she had over me was broken. Since then I wouldn't trust her if she told me the sky was blue, her shaming tactics and criticisms I was under for the last year that ruined my self image and made me anxious and depressed made sense in this new light and made me have zero remorse in pursuing other women. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/04/25 11:46 PM |
| 8 | Toxic, Horrible, SepticSome of the reasons my cheating wife told me why she's throwing 20 years with small kids in the household down the drain were: I didn't put a swing in the yard she asked me once to do last year. She once told me she had a somewhat raised temperature when we were on a vacation and I sad OK. I was sometimes too tired to take a shower coming home from work at midnight (she sleeps in a separate room). 2 weeks past discovery of her cheating (start looking for clues buddy, like right this minute), I'v… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/04/25 11:28 PM |
| 7 | I feel so brokenI am some 2 weeks past discovery of her cheating. It's brutal. We have a special needs kid and a baby. On the 10th day I broke my hand on her APs (a guy I thought I knew) face and sent him to the ER. Leaving the house at the end of the month. Pray for me, I'm gonna need it to survive for 2 more weeks. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/04/25 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Need Advice!This is why I prefer petite women. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/04/25 10:15 PM |
| 4 | Today I broke downYup, that was my wife, too. Time to start checking her purse for condoms and closets for recently bought lingerie he has never seen on her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/04/25 08:19 PM |
| 0 | My wife wants a divorce and we’re still living in the same house. I feel like I’m losing everything.That's what mine did to me too. I finally snapped and sent her AP to the ER. Not my proudest moment but was way more therapeutic than going to the shink. Don't follow this advice. Update: Went to the shrink today and told him I clocked a guy and felt good about it and finally gained some appetite after a prolonged depression and feeling I was a passive observer of my life. He wrote I'm doing quite better than the last time he saw me lol. I love the guy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/04/25 07:31 PM |
| 7 | My wife wants a divorce and we’re still living in the same house. I feel like I’m losing everything.That's not a good idea, my parents used us for emotional blackmail in a similar fashion. They never divorced and my dad is not alive anymore, but there isn't a day where I wish they did. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/04/25 07:26 PM |
| 3 | RantSame here, 45, 20 years of marriage, cheated. 🤜🤛 I wish I could say she is remorseful and apologetic, but she turned out to be a heartless alien. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/04/25 12:39 PM |
| 3 | RantBro, I'm 45yo with 2 small kids. Don't want to go into details but complete shitshow. I had my first at 39, you'll do OK. 🙏 | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/04/25 12:37 PM |
| 2 | What are the next steps?There's always another man. Or was or will be. The only option you have when divorce bombs drops is to save some dignity and say "OK", go out, come home late and look happy then refuse to take her back when eventually reality kicks her in the ass. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/04/25 07:47 AM |
| 2 | What are the next steps?Thankfully I was browsing this sub for a year before my divorce and mentally prepared by reading other men's stories what to expect. Was not surprised I ended up in the same exact classic woman situation. It's been a week or so, I have good and bad days, finding out was the hardest night of my life, as was the next day when I confronted her but I decided I won't ever bend my spine, cry, plead or be pathetic. I tried, really hard for the kids, I was and still am a shell of a man I was before - th… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/04/25 07:35 AM |
| 3 | Can you guys please help me. I can't sort my thoughts.Your brother sounds like a solid guy. Get a job, crash somewhere till you do, get some dump of your place then hit the gym. I'm in the similar situation, broke with no place to go, but no brother or friends. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/04/25 11:59 AM |
| 0 | Finding love at 40 with 4 kids?Find that love man and get that son, bro! 💪❤️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/04/25 08:41 AM |
| 4 | Are there any tangible steps being taken to change divorce laws?900$, but what's your wage? I'll be owing 400€ (increasing as kids age) on a 1300€ monthly paycheck. When you fix the laws in the US, please invade EU and fix mine. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/04/25 08:16 AM |
| 3 | Miraculous Change of TuneHysterical bonding (still resents me today for it), mine lasted 1.5 months where I had the most loving, understanding and sexual wife ever, that was a year ago, it didn't stick and she cheated eventually. It's manipulation out of fear. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/04/25 05:25 PM |
| 3 | Wife holds all the cardsYou can't feel her uneasy as's she over you and has been for some time, has no love or respect for you and frankly doesn't care what happens to you, maybe if you'll live or die. Source: we've all been there. Focus on yourself. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/04/25 02:26 PM |
| 4 | Can't live anymoreFirst you have to get in good physical shape to feel good about yourself. Your self image is key to getting your self worth back and how others will treat you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/04/25 04:01 PM |
| 1 | 24 M, is marriage worth it?I'd like to meet one of those, where can I find them? 🤣 | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/03/25 07:18 AM |
| 1 | 24 M, is marriage worth it?To really understand how fucked over we are you need to get married. At 24 I was madly in love with the love of my life. Fast forward 20 years I'm a broken man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/03/25 07:18 AM |
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