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IBringAIDS/r/seduction27/10/11 05:43 PM
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I guess part of being a man is believing you are one..but i personally don't have any of the traits of a man. No, part of being a man is doing what needs to be done, regardless of whether he's scared or doesn't know if it's the right decision. A man is not belief, a man is action. Take your first steps towards manhood and do what needs to be done.
/r/seduction02/11/11 04:18 PM
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No because I'm afraid they'd laugh at me. Get a hooker then. Not a relationship, but just a casual thing. Like in a casual thing I'll just be another random guy she fucked.. but to me she'll be very special. that's very vulnerable. That's because you're putting way too much emphasis on how 'special' sex is. The only people who actually think sex is magical are people who've never had it, even their first time, are people who've never had it. Like I've said, ask someone about their first time and…
/r/seduction02/11/11 03:58 PM
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I must have left the 'e' out. I meant AIDEs. They're helpful
/r/seduction02/11/11 03:51 PM
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You say that you want your sex to be with someone memorable, and at the same time you're absolutely terrified that that someone special will dislike you because you're bad in bed. You, my friend, cannot have your cake and eat it too. Reading over your arguments and how vehemently you're holding onto your beliefs, there's likely nothing that we can logically argue that will change your mind. You're going to have to make a tough decision: Either have sex with someone (anyone!) so that you can brea…
/r/seduction02/11/11 03:49 PM
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Hey, stay away from our women! Seriously though, FOBs are kind of an interesting beast... some of the ones I knew were much less conservative than their America-born counterparts. In fact, girls on the mainland are pretty down to hook-up and have much fewer sexual hangups than Chinese-American girls. I'd recommend being careful in how you proceed. She may be cool with a casual fling, but it's likely if she's new to America she may feel a bit alienated, which means she'll be more likely to get at…
/r/seduction02/11/11 05:54 AM
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So you're saying that you've liked certain girls, but then you're too afraid to go any further because you didn't want to fuck it up. But you don't want to sleep with random girls, because you want to save yourself for a girl you like. Yep, you need to break the cycle. It's a sort of thing where she'll be naturally valued higher to me than I am to her. Too late for this if you're already worried about ruining some imaginary relationship with bad sex.
/r/seduction02/11/11 05:46 AM
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This Sex is not special. It's a normal biological function much like sleeping, eating and taking a shit. It just tends to be much more enjoyable than the other stuff mentioned. Your first time will not be good. You're going to be bad at sex because you've never done it before. The first time you drove, did you drive like an F1 racer? What about your first time swimming? Were you doing swan dives and backflips? I doubt it. Just like anything else, practice makes perfect. The more you sit around r…
/r/seduction02/11/11 05:41 AM
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Not bad, but if people associate with him negatively, then they may pass some of that on to you if they don't get the joke.
/r/seduction01/11/11 10:13 PM
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I used to use this as an opener. "You know how they say everyone has a twin? Well, I just found out mine lives in X county!" <insert story> If people say that to you though, I would use it as a way to start a conversation. I wouldn't pretend to be them, though. That's just weird.
/r/seduction01/11/11 09:18 PM
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Yes, act more mature and like your life is being taken care of properly. The biggest problem that young guys have when it comes to getting older girls is that they never seem to have their shit together. It's a huge turn off for girls because they're into men, not boys.
/r/seduction01/11/11 09:12 PM
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For guys, pick friends with a history of loyalty. My ex-girlfriend got with a friend of mine, but it was after we had broken up and I had specifically told her I don't mind her dating my friends (because I trust my friends as good people who wouldn't hurt her). Even after that, the friend who got with her was insanely apologetic and I basically had to let him know that I was cool with it because I knew he'd treat her right. My other super loyal friends don't talk to him anymore because they thin…
/r/seduction01/11/11 09:08 PM
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Caffeine has mild mood elevation properties, but after awhile the body gets used to it so you'll need more and more caffeine to reach baseline (that's why people who drink coffee regularly are in terrible moods when they abstain). Try supplementing with B Vitamins, exercise and taking a high quality fish oil instead.
/r/seduction01/11/11 08:57 PM
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Upvoted for truth. Go to a golddigger site and you're gonna get golddiggers. This is not an experiment, this common sense.
/r/seduction01/11/11 08:52 PM
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It's ok, I brought enough for everyone
/r/seduction01/11/11 08:35 PM
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This'll take some work, but you need to change your mindset first and foremost. Any time you start judging someone else, try to shrug it off and imagine their life and what they went through. Think about how you were before you got into pickup. You'll start empathizing with people more and realize that if circumstances were just a little different you would still be in their shoes.
/r/seduction01/11/11 08:35 PM
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Watch your interactions carefully and find out what the external things you're doing that make you come off like a dick. It can be as simple as ignoring people while they're talking, to not even looking people in the eye, to insulting people or being too sarcastic. Think about your mindset and see how it relates to other people; do you look at other people as merely objects to get what you desire? Are you actually interested in women as people, or do you like getting with them just because you c…
/r/seduction31/10/11 10:33 PM
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The thing about mature women is unless they're specifically going after young guys, they prefer guys their age or older. The reason is that older guys are typically much more mature and comfortable with themselves. Whether or not that's true, that's the stereotype. So, I'd say, if you're going after older women, give the vibe that you're comfortable with yourself, you're comfortable with women, you have your shit handled and don't talk about all the typical stuff that a young guy would talk abou…
/r/seduction31/10/11 10:22 PM
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Got back from a girl's birthday dinner and I was sending out heavy sex vibes. She wad really getting into it but a couple times while I was groping her or making out with her, she said really stupid shit like, "you're attracted to me", "do you like me?" and "how much do you like me?" Basically all of those things she said smacked of low self-esteem -- she needed to feel validated (and maybe even got a feeling of power) by those statements/questions. Long story short, that turned me off mentally …
/r/seduction30/10/11 11:21 PM
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Not necessarily because she probably wouldn't even be able to verbalize what it is she likes about him at that point in the interaction. She'd probably just say he's cool or funny or something else superficial. Personally, I prefer not to make statements that she can disagree with, especially if her disagreeing has a negative impact on the interaction.
/r/seduction30/10/11 01:35 AM
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Bingo.
/r/seduction29/10/11 08:56 PM
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To her apartment? "I need to use your bathroom"
/r/seduction29/10/11 08:47 PM
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I prefer Captain Jack's method the most. You need to set several frames (I do these through the strawberry fields and rings-on-fingers routines) during the interaction. Frame 1. She's got a high sex drive Frame 2. She doesn't care what society thinks Frame 3. She's sexually aggressive towards someone she likes Frame 4. You're non-judgemental Frame 5. You're good at keeping secrets Do these 5 things, set up a super simple excuse to hang out as the night ends ("Ever seen sunny in philadelphia? tha…
/r/seduction29/10/11 08:45 PM
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This is really outdated thinking. Even current MM acknowledges that it's possible to get Same Night Lays without the whole "fool's mate" consequences. Ever since I'd really focused on SNLs I've closed 2 girls on the same night in the last two months, 1 of them I saw twice in the same week and the 2nd one I framed the girl into fwb status. I would've gotten another one last night if the girl weren't worried about her roommate. The astounding thing is I'm not even good at pick-up. Closing on the s…
/r/seduction29/10/11 08:40 PM
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I'm not a fan of it at all. Sure, it's an ego boost for the guy, but what you're essentially doing is attacking the girl's ego for liking you. Imagine if a girl said that to a guy talking to her -- except for women it's 10x worse since a woman's ego is more fragile than a guy's. In essence, you're punishing her for showing good behavior.
/r/seduction29/10/11 08:26 PM
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(Pull out phone) "You seem cool, let's keep in touch."
/r/seduction29/10/11 08:22 PM
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There's a huge difference between someone who's "nice" and someone who's a "nice guy". Someone who's "nice" will do things for others without expectation of any kind of reciprocation. Someone who's a "nice guy" will do things for someone with the expectation for reciprocation. A "nice guy" will buy flowers for a girl because he wants to go on a date with her. Someone who's "nice" will buy flowers for a girl just because he wants to. Don't buy drinks for a girl just because she's a girl. Buy drin…
/r/seduction29/10/11 08:17 PM
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I used to have fast, choppy speech so what helped me was: Taking a deep breath before speaking. This lets you focus on your speaking pattern. Drag your words and syllables out. Kind of like a stoner. It'll sound really slow, almost sleepy at first, but as you get used to doing this, your speech pace will naturally begin falling into a more normal rhythm. [edit] Try this a couple times by yourself in front of a mirror, or even better, do an audio recording of yourself doing it.
/r/seduction28/10/11 10:54 PM
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I guess I'm a little different. I'll try to get the number relatively quickly (5-20 minutes in, depending) and then just run the interaction from there. My whole goal is to take the girl home that night so once I get the number, I'm hanging out for an hour or two if things are looking good. Personally, I've found that I like being as comfortable as possible with girls as quickly as possible. It allows me to act in a much more free/relaxed manner. I'm a firm believer that the more quickly you bec…
/r/seduction28/10/11 10:18 PM
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Upvoted because this is true: the information we're all giving OP is based on general body language correction, not tailor made to his specific problems. However, i'd say rather than have a friend correct your bl, have a friend videotape your bl while you're walking and while you're interacting with people. If you feel comfortable, you can even do a few approaches to the camera to see how your facial expressions and vocal delivery are doing. This is important because your friend may be able to g…
/r/seduction28/10/11 09:57 PM
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One of the great benefits that i got from when i used to work out on a regular basis was honestly just walking around the gym and focusing on my bl. Since there are mirrors everywhere, you're much more aware of how you're carrying yourself
/r/seduction28/10/11 09:50 PM
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just have to be careful in being too dominant with your body language. Sometimes the guy just comes off really unapproachable or aggressive with bl like that
/r/seduction28/10/11 09:49 PM
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see, when i look at it in the mirror, thumbs hooked and hands exposed seems more dominant because the arms are more flared when thumbs are hooked in (because of natural body mechanics). With hands-in, thumbs-out, it becomes a natural tendency to bring the arms down and lock them. I really prefer thumbs in back pockets because it pulls the shoulders back and exposes more of the chest and is a correction mechanism for people whose shoulders roll inwards (like mine). Try it in a mirror. Of course t…
/r/seduction28/10/11 09:47 PM
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Stand up straight, head held high. Way too many tall (and short) guys hang their heads forward when it's unnecessary. Slouching isn't a big deal if you're comfortable and relaxed, but hanging your head forward makes you seem shorter and much less confident. If you don't know what to do with your hands, either hook your thumbs into your front pockets (like a cowboy) or back pockets (my preference). This keeps your hands occupied instead of moving uncomfortably at the side. Learn to maintain eye-c…
/r/seduction28/10/11 01:40 AM
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4-7hr rule is more about socially acceptable sex. That time frame is only if you make it seem like a big deal. Letting a girl know that you're sexual, she's sexual, you're non-judgemental and won't brag to everyone on the planet that you just got it on alleviates alot of societal guilt that women feel for following a natural, biological urge. It can happen in alot faster than 4 hours and you can still hang out. There's no physical act that's more intimate than sex and once that's out of the way,…
/r/seduction28/10/11 01:25 AM
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Seriously, almost all of his stuff is gold. Game dynamics theory cleared up alot of complicated bs that other schools used as workarounds for weaknesses in their methods. Have you run many of the drills he recommends?
/r/seduction28/10/11 12:56 AM
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