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Thank you! Um I’m not seeing how that responds to the OP but I appreciate you explaining it to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 01:12 AM
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O … k …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 01:10 AM
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we watched the movie Boxing Helena. After I said to him that I kinda want to do that to him. Ok, I’ll make one more attempt at this. The prior poster said she watched Boxing Helena and wanted to “do that to him”. Does anyone know what “that” is? If you don’t know, or if the question is unanswerable without watching the whole movie as the prior poster seems to think, I guess I’ll move on with my life and be dumber for having read the prior poster’s comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 08:07 PM
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So that’s what she wanted to do to him? Make his remains disappear? I can’t see how that complies with the OP request.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:05 PM
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we watched the movie Boxing Helena. After I said to him that I kinda want to do that to him. More info?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:30 AM
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LOL. Whatever, princess. I see no reason to assist a person who thinks of me as the enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:25 AM
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You actually believe those two things are equally traumatic?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:23 AM
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There’s a very wide range of actions called rape. “Date rape” is not at all the same thing as a stranger breaking into your apartment, holding you down and pressing a knife to your throat, ripping your clothes off and threatening to kill your and your family if you make a sound. I don’t think anyone would have a hard time understanding if you prefer a quick death to that. But there are so so many behaviors that are classified as rape today that are not nearly as traumatic as that. The idea that …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:17 AM
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Women constantly talk about domestic violence and statistically, women are FAR more likely to be attacked by a man they already know than a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:13 AM
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There’s degrees of rape. Some are definitely worse than others
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:08 AM
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And the vast majority of women’s protectors are men. If you can’t handle them at their worst, you don’t deserve them at their best. I know I’ve heard something like that before.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:19 AM
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Challenge accepted I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:03 AM
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Absolutely right. They claim to be afraid of men to maintain control. In reality, their behavior doesn’t indicate any fear at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:00 AM
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You’re due.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:55 PM
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Not all women commit paternity fraud but there’s literally no way for a man to know which ones will so you have to assume all will.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:52 PM
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There you have it! One out of one man surveyed is a murderer! This PROVES it!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:50 PM
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Speaking as a man, this whole thing has been extremely detrimental to women’s issues. It has opened many men’s eyes to just how toxic women are towards men, how prevalent the misandry is and exactly what you think of us. This little hypothetical shows we are all regarded as rapists and murderers and is incredibly insulting. You have only alienated men further — much further. Comparing us to wild animals and then saying we are actually worse than the wild animal has not won any converts at all. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:44 PM
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Dude this is a fucking bullseye
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:10 PM
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They use expression of fear to control and manipulate men. They happily leave a bar alone with a rough looking stranger who makes their leg tingle, but then cower in fear if a man so much as raises his voice above conversational level. They aren’t really afraid of men. They’ve proven this time and again. I’ve seen women go up to huge guys covered in tattoo’s and get right in their Face and scream at and push them with no fear at all of consequences. They are far more brazen with men than other m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:06 PM
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It literally can never happen to a woman therefore they have zero perspective on the damage it causes. It is the definition of lacking empathy. In my opinion, paternity fraud is just about the worst thing you can do to a man and how it’s not a crime is beyond me. Of course, a false accusation is very worst thing, but this is a close second.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 11:50 AM
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most Ah there’s your problem then. You have to agree with all
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:34 AM
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Are men’s subs allowed this same luxury? Like mensrights
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:31 AM
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And how do women police other women who commit paternity fraud or emotionally abuse their spouses? I’ve never seen it done. But a huge reason bad men don’t do bad things is the enforcement of social mores and laws by other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:11 AM
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This whole argument presupposes the best case outcome with the bear and the worst case with the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:05 AM
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It seems once studies begin to run counter to the prevailing feminist narrative, they are discredited and discarded
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:50 AM
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Did you immediately agree with everything they said?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:46 AM
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I assure you that a woman encountering a bear in the woods would shit a fucking brick. But if they ran into a man, they wouldn’t bat an eye. This is an obvious cover for more misandry
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:58 PM
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It’s funny how being accused of being a rapist and murderer can be interpreted as insulting. I’m sure no women would be offended by someone saying all women are wh*res and gold diggers, would they?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:55 PM
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It’s not all women, but it’s always a woman. Until it’s no women, it’s all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:51 PM
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They mainly want to take away anything men and boys have that excludes them. They don’t care about the Girl Scouts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:16 PM
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In the linked article: There were nearly 1,000 young women in the inaugural class of female Eagle Scouts in 2021, including Selby Chipman. The all-girls troop she was a founding member of in her hometown of Oak Ridge, North Carolina, has grown from five girls to nearly 50, and she thinks the name change will encourage even more girls to join.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:01 PM
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Didn’t you read the part about the all girls troop they created? That’s not inclusionary.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:57 PM
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Right. They had a problem with men leaders sexually abusing the young boys, so the solution is to … open the club to homosexuals. Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:53 PM
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There were nearly 1,000 young women in the inaugural class of female Eagle Scouts in 2021, including Selby Chipman. The all-girls troop she was a founding member of in her hometown of Oak Ridge, North Carolina, has grown from five girls to nearly 50, and she thinks the name change will encourage even more girls to join. So, they moved into an all male space, appropriated it for themselves, then immediately changed the club to exclude boys. You can’t make this shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:47 PM
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Have you ever been unfaithful to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:43 PM
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It can be. Character assassination that results in loss of family, friends, career, reputation and actual liberty is pretty fucked up when you didn’t do it. Women like to say rape is worse than murder. So same principle.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:05 PM
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It can be. Character assassination that results in loss of family, friends, career, reputation and actual liberty is pretty fucked up when you didn’t do it. Women like to say rape is worse than murder. So same principle.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:05 PM
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They are willfully not comprehending what you are saying but you are correct. Women commit more child abuse because they, as primary caregivers, have more opportunities. Men commit more romantic rejection violence because they, as primary romantic pursuers, have more opportunities. It makes perfect sense. You aren’t trying to correlate child abuse to romantic rejection. You are just saying the raw numbers are higher based on opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:01 PM
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It definitely happens, but Google is no longer unbiased and searching for non-woke things has become exponentially harder. I don’t have examples off the top of my head but I have read many times about a spurned woman inflicting violence on a man who has rejected her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:57 PM
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I’ve never heard a woman say women are good at handling rejection, but I’ve heard women go on and on and on about how poorly men handle it. You’d think there would be some self awareness before women drone on about “fragile male ego” when the female ego is really damn fragile too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:01 PM
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Holy shit. I respect the receipt game.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 09:10 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:46 PM
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Does Andrew Tate anger you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:21 PM
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They will never see it because they don’t want to see it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:18 PM
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2.5 million people watch it a day. They still have influence
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:17 PM
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You’re gonna want more cowbell, baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:16 PM
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Some women do. And if that show emboldened them to act on it then it’s still their fault and should be cancelled. 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:15 PM
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You are a shitty person on so many different levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:09 PM
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Looks like misandry is back on the menu, boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:59 PM
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I can tell you most women would say it was disrespectful and misogynist if men did it to them. But most men just don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:58 PM
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Holy shit. Misandry level 11 Ruin a girl with their dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:49 PM
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Dammit!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:49 PM
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Men value peace. Women value drama. Nice women create peace for men. Most men learn very early on in life whether they are Chad material who can land 7.5’s, 8’s, 9’s and 10’s. If they can’t pull those women, they very quickly adjust their frame of reference to the average or slightly above average girls. Amongst those girls, men like empathetic, sweet, nurturing women who care for men and want to please them. Average Women never learn they aren’t Stacy’s because of OLD, simps and Chads slumming …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:46 PM
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Yep 100% incel territory
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:37 PM
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If men were asked about their fear of women committing paternity fraud and they publicly commented about how terrified it makes them of being with the wrong woman, so much that they advocate for mandatory dna testing in hospitals at birth, you’d say they were being idiots. You would not respect their opinions. Even though it happens to quite a lot of men every year and has catastrophic consequences to those men. When men express their fears of your gender, why do you, and so many other women, be…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 12:50 PM
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It’s funny how people react when you insult their whole gender by assuming they are all rapists and murderers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 12:34 PM
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Yes. I guarantee you a woman alone in the woods meeting a bear would absolutely shit bricks and be terrified beyond the capacity for rational thought. If she met a man, she’d be a little nervous. This whole thing is just big talk designed to insult men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 12:33 PM
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Your best friend is your probable future wife, or your best friend’s probable future wife? Either way, you or your friend, if you value your peace and quiet and happiness, don’t marry that woman! You’re in for a lifetime of misery if she’s that dumb and / or man hating already.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:39 PM
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I think men’s eyes are really being opened to the outright hatred women feel for them, while smiling to their faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:33 PM
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You’re right. The whole question is fucked. It’s just a clever way to display their hatred of men and blame men for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:32 PM
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Damn you are slaying the argument of the women who chose bear. An average woman probably comes into contact with thousands of men each year, and zero bears in their lifetime. But yet, these mental giants think they are safer with a fucking bear than a man, who they see many times every day. This is absolutely nothing more than a way to insult and degrade men under the guise of being wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:31 PM
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They might get lucky if one of them sees he was on their side.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:24 PM
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Sounds like it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 04:27 PM
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You are either being sincerely modest or intentionally obtuse about your looks. Normal guys don’t experience what you have described.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 04:27 PM
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If she gets pumped by Chad, her requirements in a man go up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:25 PM
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OP: “I have no valid perspective on the problem, but here’s my opinion anyway“
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:18 PM
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So you are saying that in the past, men and women were on equal footing. Men have always accepted women of lower value more easily. The idea that men have a choice is an illusion. Only Chad and Tyrone have a choice. Today, that has been turned on its ear. The top 80% of women are effectively Chad and Tyrone. So that has created the imbalance. Men are the same as they ever were, but now women have the ability to pick and choose like they never have before. Men have never had the ability to pick a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:07 PM
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To be fair, women definitely gravitate to the type of guy that should be scary to them. On some level, it seems being scared of the guy is a little bit irresistible to many many women. It’s thrilling
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 05:16 AM
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If women were really as scared of men as they say, they wouldn’t be going for the big tough macho guy and going back to his place 10 minutes after meeting him. They get a lot of mileage out of saying they are afraid of men but I don’t see it in practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 05:14 AM
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Women labeling all men as rapists and murderers is making me think maybe those manosphere guys are onto something.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:54 PM
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Avoiding men isn’t disrespecting men. Labeling them all rapists and murderers is
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:49 PM
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No mother, sister, or aunt wants their son, brother or nephew labeled a likely or probable rapist / murderer. They should ALL have a problem with their loved one being tarred with that brush when they’ve done nothing wrong. That’s EXACTLY what this bear / man question is doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:24 PM
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Violence is the word. Adding sexual to the front doesn’t change the definition of violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:15 PM
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Some definitions are wrong. By definition a woman can’t rape a man. So we know definitions can be wrong and made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:13 PM
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The future doesn’t look good. As utterly ridiculous as this man/bear thing is, I think lots of men’s eyes are being opened as to how much disrespect, disdain and loathing women have for men. Is it any wonder men have stopped giving a shit about women’s needs? This behavior is certainly not going to encourage any man to rethink his life and become a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:10 PM
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Violence: behavior involving physical force intended to hurt, damage, or kill someone or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:07 PM
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I am getting more and more depressed about the relationship between Men and Woman in our society. Women are allowed to openly despise and insult Men and are cheered for it. And using this bear shit, they are influencing future generations of women to perpetuate the blatant misandry. What do women hope to gain by openly insulting and denigrating men? Women’s future without men is bleak. You’ll laugh at that idea, but without men, women will crumble. We need each other. Why are women not content t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:06 PM
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Violence: behavior involving physical force intended to hurt, damage, or kill someone or something. Please marry a bear then.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:02 PM
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“Fuck dem boys.” feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 02:52 PM
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You are completely right, of course. But the idea that such a ridiculously insulting hypothetical is allowed to exist in 2024 tells a lot about this supposed “patriarchy” we have here. You can be openly offensive to men, but a gender swapped, or race infused hypothetical would be swiftly silenced and the purveyor canceled.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 02:51 PM
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So you think 1 in 50 is overstated?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:59 AM
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Thanks for confirming you have no respect for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:19 PM
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No the question was designed to make sure women stay irrationally afraid of men. Feminists keep their power while men are the enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:16 PM
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The question presupposes the listener to compare the best case outcome from the bear encounter (he leaves you alone) and the worst case outcome from an encounter with a man. It’s complete bullshit fear mongering, intended to keep women distrustful of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:08 PM
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This question is disrespectful to men, so you were obviously not taught to respect men like you were taught to respect bears.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:06 PM
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We know small, average and big dicks exist Still! You do know vaginas also come in small, average and big too right? It’s just never discussed, but it should be. How is that shallow if these mismatches (your words) exist ? It’s shallow because it’s always, always, always expressed as the man’s fault. Always. Instead of just saying you’re a size queen, say you have a large vagina so you need an unusually large penis to be satisfied. Why are men made to feel inadequate when it’s your fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:29 PM
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When did I ever infer the problem was the male's fault?...I simply stated that some women don't feel pleasure with small penises ... Right there in the sentence immediately after your question. Maybe a small penis isn’t the problem, but a big pussy. Why didn’t you follow the question this way: some women don’t feel pleasure with normal penises because they have large vaginas, so they need unusually large penises.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:49 PM
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Depends. Are they here to fix the air conditioner? If so, he has value. For a little while at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:13 PM
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I voted for Trump and against the abortion amendment. Do any of those choices affect my desirability to you? Do my values align with yours? Ideas about sex are values. If we don’t align, at least somewhat, I’m not interested. Who are you to deny people the ability to find a partner with agreeable values?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:11 PM
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There’s no one right answer to this. It depends on age, number of long term relationships, prior marriages, etc. but I can guarantee the right answer for most men will be single digits, and definitely prefer under 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:09 PM
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Classy. We can only hope you find a person of equal integrity to marry and you get some big nasty surprises along the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:06 PM
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If casually lying about important stuff comes that easy to you then I’m genuinely sorry for your husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:05 PM
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If you are willing to lie about it (most apparently are) then there’s no way to verify. You get what you get I guess. But it’s a shitty thing to do, to deprive another person of the ability to accurately decide on your value as a life partner. If your conscience isn’t developed enough to prevent you from being such a terrible person then the man is in for a hard life. I am absolutely SHOCKED that lying is no problem for too. Doesn’t affect you so it’s all good.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:03 PM
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Was just gonna say the same thing. Her value as a partner is definitely linked to body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:01 PM
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Value as a human being? I agree. Value as a partner? The two things are closely linked.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:00 PM
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Why is it always assumed the problem is the male part when there’s a size mismatch? There’s two pieces that don’t fit together but for some reason, the blame is always laid at the man’s feet. Sometimes the nut is too big for the bolt and not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:53 PM
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Your friends are following the first two rules and you are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:34 PM
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Of course that’s the truth. They are dissatisfied with outcomes in real courts so they are creating kangaroo courts to ensure the verdict they want. They even SOMEHOW have jurisdiction over events that don’t even occur on campus!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:38 PM
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Another woman with exactly ZERO empathy because it’s a situation that will almost certainly never happen to her. I’ll look forward to all the title ix accusations and hearings men will be initiating against women so they can experience the same nothing burger consequences they tell men to shut up whining about. The wailing and gnashing of teeth will be epic. Or maybe your son will have his life destroyed by a kangaroo court like this kicking him out of college and leaving a permanent black eye o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:37 PM
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Fuck them, I guess. False accusations are fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:53 PM
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I’m sure being expelled from a great college you were one semester away from graduating from will be easily explained on a resume. And your friend and family will stick by your side when you have the equivalent of a rape conviction against you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:37 PM
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It’s a criminal accusation. The standard before destroying a young man’s life should be the same. And why are colleges involved in this at all? We already have a criminal justice system.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:36 PM
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The law is so outrageous there’s no other way to describe it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:33 PM
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Vote Trump. He is the one who fixed the problem before.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:31 PM
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It allows colleges to try to destroy men’s lives on a mere accusation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:29 PM
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Anyone can be the victim of a false allegation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:28 PM
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They want it blocked because it includes trans, not because they give a shit about men’s lives being ruined by false accusations and kangaroo courts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:26 PM
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Trump fixed it. Voting matters
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:25 PM
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Why is it college’s business? We have a criminal justice system. Let it do what it’s supposed to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:23 PM
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No they are not. The “dear colleague” letter upended all that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:22 PM
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The cavalier attitude with which men’s rights are casually discarded is appalling. Being expelled from college Is a life altering event and will almost certainly have a negative impact on your future career and life. Some of these guys have been nearly ready to graduate and had the rug pulled from under them and been unable to continue their chosen field. Not to mention the lifelong stigma of having to explain why they were expelled from a good college and finished at a mediocre one. Sexual assa…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:20 PM
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Bullshit. All of it. Women working side by side with a man, same hours, same experience, same job duties, earn the same. Why would a business ever hire a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 09:46 PM
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Irrelevant. It’s mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 09:43 PM
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Women earn less than men for a reason. They work easier jobs, fewer hours with more time off. If they want to earn the same as men, irrespective of those factors, then they are demanding to earn MORE than men for the same work. That’s not a win / win. If a man works 2,500 hours in a year and earns $100,000. And a woman works 2,000 hours in a year and earns $80,000, that’s 100% fair. If women have their Way and get $100,000 too for less work, that’s grossly unfair to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 07:57 PM
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Check this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 07:49 PM
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So focus your efforts there. You’ve won everything here in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 07:48 PM
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OK so women around the globe have serious issues. Meanwhile in the western world, women are apoplectic with rage about men spreading their legs too wide on trains. Maybe feminists should devote all their time to helping these women in other countries because all the battles have been won here in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 07:47 PM
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Feminists advocated for equal parental leave policies that benefit both men and women and equal parental rights when it came to issues such as visitation and custody Feminists were by far the most vocal opponents of proposed laws in Florida that would have equalized parental time. It finally passed over their strident opposition though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 07:45 PM
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They hate being told they have a duty to speak out against these misandrists or else they are part of the problem. But they love telling men the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 07:44 PM
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First google result says the show averages 2.45 million viewers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 07:42 PM
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I’m not going to actually research this, but if they were to survey men and ask them “do you hate women?” What percentage do you think would answer yes? I’m guessing a very very very small number. So it must be true right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 05:40 PM
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Was this “study” based on what they say or what they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 05:38 PM
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Women claim to be more beautiful than they really are. Not so?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:01 PM
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All women know men put on an act to get sex, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:52 PM
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How do you tell a man you aren't interested in him for size issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:36 PM
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Why do women always say men “coerce” them into sex If they ask multiple times, when coercion clearly requires a threat or force? It’s used to express what they feel although it’s factually incorrect. I expect men who have experienced it feel like they’ve been bent over a barrel and fucked over
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:30 PM
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Is saying I only date thin women insulting, if I used that to reject you (or another woman)?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:28 PM
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I’m only commenting because of your self avowal as a size queen. You aren’t interested in a good man with less than you need. You are materialistic and shallow then by definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:00 PM
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OP didn’t provide details
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:11 PM
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Hell yes. There’s hands, mouths, tits, feet, toys, whatever that can get the job done, if I love the woman attached. Good luck finding that great big hog you need to fill you up, because pussies, like dicks, come in all sizes and you are blessed with size, it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:10 PM
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That’s a fact
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:05 PM
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Rejecting a man with a small dick is very shallow. There are many ways to orgasm. Being a size queen is narcissistic. You should care about the person, not the dick. Mocking men with small penises is firmly in asshole territory. But it’s normalized in society and on social media. Anyone who has an insecurity about it is also mocked. Men aren’t necessarily going out of their way to be miserable. It’s pervasive in the world so the misery finds them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:02 PM
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Many women pretend to be competent and attentive lovers until they secure a commitment, after which, they drop the hero act and expect duty no sex for merely going to work,
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:54 PM
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Not entitled. But men usually have far more to lose in divorce than women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:47 PM
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It is a gender issue. Women are provided for in divorce court. Men are providers in divorce court the vast majority of the time. A woman has less to lose by divorcing than a man does.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:45 PM
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A husband that stopped giving attention and not even expend the energy to complain about the lack of sex Was this in the OP? How do you know he never complained?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:44 PM
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How do you know he didn’t communicate? You think he never voiced his displeasure at the dead bedroom?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:42 PM
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Maybe. In theory I agree, but you have to note his situation. Did he have young children? Does the wife work? Men get divorce raped way too much so there are times taking the chance on cheating makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:34 PM
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If he communicated how unhappy he was, and she did nothing, he was justified. If he never told her he was unhappy, he was unjustified.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:32 PM
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It’s like the 12th district finding out people in the Capitol take pills to make them throw up so they can eat more. Boggles the mind doesn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 01:39 PM
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Oh Jesus. In a few years, when we all look back on this woke / liberal stuff, it’ll seem like a bad dream. Life isn’t this complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:50 AM
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That’s the most irrelevant, dumbest rebuttal I’ve ever seen on Reddit. And that’s saying something.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 12:03 AM
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Dispatch: 911, what’s your emergency? Woman: OMG! Please send help fast! They’re breaking into my house!! Dispatch: Absolutely! But first, we are running a program to make our female callers feel safer with their service. Would you like me to send a male police officer to help you, or a bear?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:48 PM
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This whole post is about why do men get so sensitive about it. It’s entirely relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 07:39 PM
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You said no woman has ever asked to have her cervix hit. I’m asking if they ever asked you not to. It’s not a trick. Has a woman ever complained that you were using your whole dick and told you to use only half of it instead? I’m guessing the answers are no. So just because you haven’t been asked that doesn’t mean anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 07:37 PM
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Maybe some women should see the error of their ways and work to change their preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:28 PM
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You are just an out of the closet size queen. Most women choose to remain in the closet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:10 PM
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Have they ever told you to stop hitting their cervix? Or said back up, only use half
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:09 PM
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So you prefer small then? What do you define as small?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:07 PM
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I find it rich that women are on here accusing men of playing the victim card. I’ve never yet seen a better example of pots calling kettles black.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:07 PM
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Bullshit. If I call you a “retard” and tell you it’s because you are acting like one, not that I actually think you are one, does that make it ok? Who gets offended by that? You, who aren’t mentally disabled, or the mentally challenged person standing next to you who overheard it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:01 PM
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Like some mythical “pay gap” that holds women down is used so often to play the victim card?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:01 PM
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I’ve noticed women are very cavalier about men’s insecurities. They like to toy with them and trigger them for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:00 PM
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Because “short dick man” glorifies small penises right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:58 PM
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I don’t. I think a man can be Steve fucking Jobs and after a date with him a woman would say, “His hair is thinning. He doesn’t deserve me.”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:31 PM
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Modern women tell us a high body count doesn’t matter a single bit. Not at all. So what are we supposed to infer from that? That sex doesn’t matter. It’s just a silly thing people do to pass the time. No big deal. I might go out to the book store after dinner or I may sleep with someone. I haven’t decided yet. I’ll play it by ear. Things that are that inconsequential shouldn’t be that big of a deal if someone makes you do it. I don’t really want to go to the concert this weekend, but Barry is ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:56 PM
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That’s also a red flag. If they are so askeered of men that they lie just because they tremble in our presence, I personally wouldn’t want anything to do with them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 02:20 PM
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I’m absolutely not saying rape is no big deal. I’m saying the women who tell us a woman having sex with 100 different guys doesn’t matter because it’s just sex are hypocrites. If a woman wants to have sex with a guy, or four, tonight that’s just fine. If she wants a different sexual partner every weekend of the year, that’s no big deal. Sex is just sex. Why should a man care what I did in my past? Then turning around and saying rape is a fate worse than death makes absolutely no sense. If it has…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:20 AM
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I misunderstood, sorry. I thought you were a woman saying you were fit and would stand up well against a man because you were going to the gym! Never mind!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:36 PM
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Well, that’s what they will say when face to face with a man. Casual anonymous misandry is something else entirely isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:32 PM
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You repeat yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 08:05 PM
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We constantly get told that sex is no more personal than holding hands. If a woman sleeps with 150 dudes, it’s no big deal. Of course I understand that lack of consent is the distinction, but it seems disingenuous to say sex is literally nothing and then say rape is worse than death. I’m not minimizing rape because I happen to think sex IS extremely important and personal, and I think a persons body count DOES matter. But modern women tell us sex is just sex. Which is it? It can’t be both. Being…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 08:04 PM
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I don't think I'm being cocky. You probably are though. Unless you are just freakishly different. Your fitness will be a huge equalizer against a lot of men, but even average fitness men are still probably going to be stronger. I don’t say that to insult you, I promise. I have no doubt that you are very strong and fit. Men and women are just built differently. Obviously, there’s lots of men who are in horrible physical condition who you could maybe beat, but it’s a fairly small minority I bet. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:49 PM
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This needs to be the very first question on every first date from now on. If they say bear, get up and leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:43 PM
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That’s really only the half of it. What if the man starts explaining things to her that she already understands? What if he sits with his legs splayed akimbo? Fuck man, think about it from a woman’s perspective. Getting mauled and eaten is so much more desirable than having to endure this pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:42 PM
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So far A MAN to improve his individual situation, he has to rely on ALL MEN, acting as a monolith and changing their behavior collectively. Sure. Sounds like a plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 01:59 AM
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It hasn’t stopped them from mocking incels mercilessly, rather than showing empathy and trying to help find a solution. I’m sure that’s a good way to not provoke them, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:58 PM
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Why would women care about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 04:20 AM
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To all the women who adhere to the 4B movement, thank you. Any potential partner would certainly be miserable with you anyway, so it’s nice that you are taking yourself out of the dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:04 AM
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So if I’m supposed to reject a woman who accepts me as I am, then no woman who will have me is good enough for me? That’s some messed up circular logic right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:25 PM
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Mostly it's a generic insult men use on any woman who they don't like Hey look at that, just like how women use incel or misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 11:45 AM
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This is my last response to you because you lack basic reading comprehension skills. Here what I said exactly: Do men virtue signal about how looks don’t matter and try to act holier than thou? No, men are honest and don’t gaslight women. If you are incapable of reading two sentences and understanding that the honesty part was referring specifically to whether a woman’s looks matter then good luck. Vaya con Dios. I’m sure there are remedial reading classes at your local community college.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 06:49 PM
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The Heta Omega Epsilon chapter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:48 PM
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If you can’t read the post I directly responded to and my own first sentence and infer the meaning of my comment from that context then I don’t have time to teach you how read.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:38 AM
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Walking away from a person who has already hit you once is a great way to get hit from behind. Possibly with an object that could actually hurt you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 12:20 AM
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I find your question odd. It sounds like you are asking if a man would or should hit back if a woman hits him first. Your question should be to women: why the fuck do you think hitting a man is ever ok? Don’t hit a man and OP’s question is moot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 12:18 AM
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Context matters. We are talking specifically about how much looks matter not what your height is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 10:13 PM
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Exactly. Men’s standards are substantially lower so interestingly, a woman’s looks kind of matter less for men. So many women exceed the base standard that it doesn’t make much difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 08:43 PM
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And what about it Einstein? That’s exactly what we are saying. She’s thinking with little Stacy and ignores his shitty personality and complete lack of morals or ethics. He’s hawt so she wants his dna in her belly. He could be a hardcore MAGA dude and she won’t care. He’s so cute!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 07:34 PM
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You must be new to the earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:56 PM
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So he’s doomed to an eternity of fucking a different hot woman every night? Fuck, now I feel sorry for the guy. /s Don’t shed too many tears for him. They won’t have any problem at all finding a woman who wants a relationship with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:48 PM
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I see assholes behaving like assholes to a woman in public and that woman going home with him. You just think you can tame him. It’s irresistible to a woman to think they are the ones who can make him a good man. And guess what that asshole does? He lets you think you’ve done it by being nicer to you in private. Men see other men at unguarded moments. Men act like themselves when they are with other men. Believe me, I have a much better understanding of his character than you do. They want to ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:30 PM
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Do men virtue signal about how looks don’t matter and try to act holier than thou? No, men are honest and don’t gaslight women. But at the end of the day, it’s a simple fact that men find waaay more women attractive than women who find men attractive. Men consistently rate the top 50-60% of women as attractive but women only find the top 10-15% of men as attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:22 PM
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Yep. A woman can go to protest marches and scream about how much she hates Trump, but if a MAGA Chad came along and showed her the right attention, she’s ready for pound town.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:21 PM
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YoU jUSt dOn’t KNoW hIm liKe I kNoW hiM!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:15 PM
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I’ve known attractive assholes who get plenty of women and I’ve known completely decent, charming, salt of the earth attractive guys who get plenty of women. It’s really insulting to simply dismiss it as sour grapes that I somehow can’t see the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:14 PM
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Bullshit. Don’t piss on me and tell me it’s raining. I have eyes and can see if a guy is an asshole or has a shitty personality. How condescending to tell me I can’t judge another man’s character or personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:10 PM
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Is worth mentioning because women seem to have a hard time believing it’s true. They are so invested in the virtue signaling that they won’t accept that hot men don’t need a personality or morals, for that matter, to get women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:42 PM
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We should create a separate debate sub for attractive men and women, aka people who get to even play the game. Not sure if this placement is intentional, but it’s perfect. The adjective “attractive” only applies to men for that sentence to be true. Could have reversed the order to be “women and attractive men” and the meaning is unchanged.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:40 PM
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I mean, you can bent out of shape about it if you want, but when you’ve witnessed it in the real world you know it’s true. Super hot guys will get laid regardless of their personality or political persuasion. Women succumb to the dictates of biology and put out for hot guys. It’s delusional to think otherwise. This isn’t bitterness or “incel” ideology, it’s just straight up fact. You can be an enormous asshole but if you are objectively very attractive, women will be easy for you to get. I know …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:37 PM
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I’m telling you, my boss, who was herself a very attractive married woman, behaved completely differently when he was around. And she talked about him a lot when he wasn’t there. Once you made the connection that her behavior was linked to that guy, it was so obvious to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:28 PM
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Women lose their minds around him. They get very concerned if he seems down and ask me separately if there’s anything wrong with him today. They are “worried” about him. Even married women treat him completely differently than any other guy I know. I’m convinced they would all knock boots with him if he gave them a chance. I don’t think there’s anything he could say or do to them that they would call “creepy”.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:22 PM
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The hot guy I’m thinking of had women fawning all over him. Comically so. Even married women would gush at every thing he said. They hung on his stories with wrapt attention and were always concerned when he seemed even the slightest bit gloomy. From the outside looking in, it was very humorous. Sad and depressing for the rest of us, but humorous.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:20 PM
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You are naive. These stories are true. For the really hot guys, women are super easy to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:17 PM
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That vile woman peeing on stage should be arrested. A man most certainly would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 01:44 PM
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Ok so you’re a loon. Have a nice day then. Blocked
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:32 PM
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Fine. You’re acknowledged. Your ageism, sexism and racism are acknowledged.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:01 PM
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💀 j/k
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:59 PM
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What, you mean because she’s widowed? Sorry we die earlier than you. We’ll try to do better. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:52 PM
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Women in their 20’s: Oh no! I don’t want men to notice me! Women in their 40’s: Oh no! Why aren’t men noticing me?!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:46 PM
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old white men are the cause of every single problem in this world. The hate is justified And there it is. Obviously any sympathy we might have had for your poor situation just died. Wallow in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:40 PM
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I think if you live by the sword you die by the sword. Women, young women, get praised for their youth and beauty constantly and soak up the adoration like the rays of the sun. They don’t have a problem with it because it benefits them. As women age, their youth and beauty fade, as would be expected. And they don’t know how to handle the lack of adoration, nor the actual criticism they receive. Men never get praise and adoration, young or old. So their lives are pretty constant. Women peak and f…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:37 PM
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Bottom 50% women are often fucking Chad. Top 20% women are marrying Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:58 AM
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Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:54 AM
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Well we are talking about selective service, not working. But since you ask, men overwhelmingly are the ones who pay child support and alimony in divorce. If you don’t pay child support you can get put in jail. It’s the last acceptable form of debtors prison we have. And when you’re forced to pay alimony after a divorce, you no longer control what type of job you have are when you get to retire. You have to continue paying at the level of support the court thinks you should have to pay. You don’…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 12:11 PM
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It’s something men are required to do with their bodies, against their will. It’s directly comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:30 PM
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Not if he doesn’t even know about the baby
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:29 PM
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Ok I’m not sure about everywhere but in Florida you can absolutely abandon an under 7 day old baby at a fire station. There’s not a legal requirement that the father be identified on a birth certificate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:00 PM
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I’ll remember that answer next time a woman gets hysterical about not getting invited to the strip club for the business meeting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 08:59 PM
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No skill involved in lifting a heavy box. It’s just a woman using biology to get out of doing her job, most of the time. If men have to lift the boxes, women should have to make the coffee. But holy hell, just ask a woman to make a pot of coffee and watch what happens
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 08:57 PM
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I said financial abortion
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 08:55 PM
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First off, you are 100% wrong. There are safe haven laws that allow women to abandon new born babies completely anonymously. And if the mother says she doesn’t know who the father is, no father has to consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 08:52 PM
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Ok so men should get a special right since they are the only ones who are required to put their bodies on the line by registering for selective service?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 08:51 PM
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That’s their choice when they decide to have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:26 PM
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Just look at the percentage of babies born out of wedlock. The percentage is through the roof. It’s not at all a stretch to see that many many hookups are not better people in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:26 PM
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Women do the same thing, use biology as an excuse when it suits them. “Will you lift that heavy box for me?”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:19 PM
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For 18 years, versus 9 months
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:18 PM
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You know what else can affect a person’s body? Fighting in a war. Men have no choice at all whether to register for selective service.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:17 PM
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This is delusional I think. It happens fairly regularly these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:16 PM
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It’s crazy in 2024 that 100 fucking percent of the blame is still being directed exclusively at men for this. Women should learn to keep their legs shut.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:13 PM
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If Woman gets 10 weeks to decide, the man should too, after finding out about the baby / child. If he wants a financial abortion then that should be his prerogative within 10 weeks of discovering there is a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:12 PM
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As i said, you chose to accept the possibility of a child. Don't want to have that risk, don't have sex. It’s odd this same logic doesn’t apply to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:09 PM
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So a special right that men don’t get.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:08 PM
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Women can also abandon their child at a hospital or fire station. They can also put the baby up for adoption. Women have virtually unlimited opportunities to exit the parent train. Men get one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:07 PM
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Must have been a hell of a birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:05 PM
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Of all the adjectives I could think of for Pete, attractive wouldn’t be one of them. Rich? Yes. Famous? Yes Apparently he’s hung like a mule and that appears to be his most desirable trait to these thots.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:03 PM
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Ok those are very specialized situations that exceed the parameters of this discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:06 PM
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It seems like the only answers you are challenging are the ones supporting providers being the toughest. Your question doesn’t seem genuine when you’ve already decided.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:12 AM
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Good answer. Provider has to go out into the world where other people aren’t their friends. They have enemies and competition. They have to fight to get ahead. At home, even if the work is hard, you are wrapped in this cocoon of home surrounded by loved ones. You are doing work that you chose to do out of love. It’s also about a zillion percent more rewarding. You can see WHY you are doing the work. A provider is often a mindless drone doing what they have to do to get back home to the cocoon.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:10 AM
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No really? You think there’s an ulterior motive when people play that ridiculous game of adding up all the jobs a SAHP performs and trying to say they should get paid $536,000 per year in a “fair world”? LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:03 AM
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I think it’s a close call when kids are toddlers. Any other time it’s a slam dunk that providers have it much harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:01 AM
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No boss. No performance evaluations. No office politics. Generally no deadlines. No commuting. If a SAHP just doesn’t feel like being productive one day, fuck it, they can be unproductive. There are no consequences to that. So the kid eats a bowl of cereal instead of having French toast. Who cares? While you certainly don’t want to do it all the time, a SAHP always has the baby Einstein videos to fall back on in a pinch. When the kid sleeps, the parent can too if they need it. You control how mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:59 AM
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Dude, she’s not reading over your shoulder
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:47 AM
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There’s obviously looney tunes on the Right and left. No one should be treating other people like that. Anyone who spews hatred like that are despicable. But I’ll stick to my belief that left side is more likely to cut off family, for some reason. The left seems to want to undermine family units more so they encourage people to cut off “toxic” parents who vote for republicans.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:42 PM
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That’s cancelling a company, not a person. You want the company to charge its policies. That’s fine. The left treats conservatives as non people. If Donald Trump single handedly discovered a cure for cancer tomorrow, most liberals would demand his name not be associated with the cure. Eliminate all reference to him entirely. If a good, hard working person who volunteers in their community and is a great hands on father makes a comment that is remotely against the prevailing liberal narrative, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:02 PM
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I love political discussions, but not with people who can’t debate without getting all butt hurt about it. People who get so charged up about telling you why you are the literal devil is fun for a while, if I don’t actually know the person, but if it’s someone I know and work or hang out with, there’s no joy to be had in people who are so easily offended. Newsflash, people are allowed to have different opinions than you. We have seriously lost the ability to agree to disagree. Both sides are gui…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:19 PM
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Yes! Neither side has a monopoly on truth. Both are full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:13 PM
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Red pill sees women and men for what they truly are. If the truth is harsh then that’s not the Red pill’s fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:25 PM
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I think the difference is that most women (or at least a whole lot) actually like body hair on a man (to a degree). It’s a sign of masculinity that women find attractive. Men aren’t expected to shave their bodies because most women would be repulsed by a hairless, smooth chest and legs on a man. Many women LIKE armpit hair on men. Not all of course, but many, maybe most do. Now ear hair, nose hair, a fucking shag carpet in your back? Yeah those will always be a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 03:30 PM
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How is that systemic?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 04:03 PM
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What remnants remain?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:51 PM
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Explain what systemic misogyny exists today
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:16 PM
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Sure, if he stayed home and did all the shit work so i could work without all the burdens of unpaid labor, and gave up his career for that, i’d pay spousal support because he is entitled to that. Women always say SAHW shouldn’t have to do all that stuff. That those activities should still be split 50/50 for some reason. But then they claim credit for doing them in these kinds of arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 05:58 AM
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Marriage is fine as long as it remains between two legally competent adults under no duress. There should be no entitlement to any assets acquired before marriage at all, including any that are used during the marriage, such as the house. Child support is fine but there should be a system where the paying parent pays the bills directly so they know the money isn’t being squandered by the receiving parent. The tax liability should be on the receiving parent because otherwise the paying parent is …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 05:47 AM
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women won’t settle or compromise their standards You are describing a kind of worst case scenario. Society would start breaking down eventually. Law and order would decline. Eventually, and I’m certainly not advocating for this, men would begin ignoring some laws to get what they want. Women, who have relied upon police and social structure to ensure their equality, would find their safety net evaporating. Men’s natural physical strength advantage would be put to use. People love to say sex isn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:03 PM
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They would notice when shit stops working
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:57 PM
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Define “plenty of Becky’s”. There are certainly a few here and there, but they probably constitute less than 5% (maybe less than 1%) of all garbage collectors. It’s funny that women who get all dolled up for a “girl’s night out” say they are doing it to “make themselves feel cute” and “it’s not about dressing up for men”. But you seem to fully grasp why women do those things, since you think they won’t care about their nails anymore if it’s not about dating men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:53 PM
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Do you somehow think women, alone, hold the secrets of cooking? What do you mean, “do men want to not eat”?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:49 PM
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Children of Men is a great book you should read.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:46 PM
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Men who reject women are often taunted as “you must be gay”, even when they aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 12:54 PM
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Men want sex. I don’t think that should require a spoiler alert. When women offer sex, or act like they are offering sex, most men will respond. That’s just a fact that can’t be denied. If a woman uses an implied offer of sex to get a man to do something, she’s abusing her power. Women complain about men who trick women all the time. They pretend to want a relationship or child, the woman WANTS these things, and so gives him sex. If it’s a trick or lie, women can fight back with a false allegati…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 12:51 PM
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This is truth. Men are not allowed to use their physical strength in their relationships with women. But women are allowed to fight with any and every psychological weapon they possess (also including physical violence, ironically). I’m certainly not advocating for men to club women over the head and drag them to their caves, but when women manipulate men with their own natural advantages but deny men theirs, it rigs the game. There should be some accountability for women who abuse their sexuali…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 12:44 PM
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I can’t speak for all guys — no one can. But I believe you are very, very much in the minority if you don’t masturbate thinking about female friends at least every once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:53 AM
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Having female friends is nice. I don’t necessarily have sexual designs on all of them. But if one presented itself, it’s likely I would take them up on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:49 AM
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Did you even read the two bullet points?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:01 PM
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Read the second line of my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 06:23 PM
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From 2010 to 2012, scholars of domestic violence from the U.S., Canada and the U.K. assembled The Partner Abuse State of Knowledge, a research database covering 1700 peer-reviewed studies, the largest of its kind. Among its findings:[66] More women (23%) than men (19.3%) have been assaulted at least once in their lifetime. Rates of female-perpetrated violence are higher than male-perpetrated (28.3% vs. 21.6%). link
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 06:18 PM
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I’m comparing being paranoid about something that almost never happens to being paranoid about something else that almost never happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 05:59 PM
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We don’t know which one of you is capable of fucking another guy and pawning off his kid as ours. It’s always in the back of our minds. So we all want a dna test to prove the kid is really ours.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 02:55 PM
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Because they are constantly told that all men are murderers waiting to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 02:53 PM
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I take it back. You aren’t an exception. Just another it-was-all-his-fault divorcee. This point is women often think they are being direct but they aren’t. Maybe you were, maybe you weren’t. I don’t know because I wasn’t there. But your blaming 100% of the problem on him is not a good indicator. I suspect he would tell a different story and you would, of course, tell him he was all wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 03:27 AM
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I suspect you are the exception to the rule
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 02:52 AM
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“Whataboutism” is the biggest load of garbage. When someone is discussing a topic, often the best way to continue that discussion is to point out how it goes both ways. A person who is convinced they have a problem can see that is a common issue and , in fact, one side isn’t always the victim. Claiming whataboutism is just a way to silence any dissent.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:27 PM
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Great point. Women expect men to be mind readers. If divorce is on the line, women need to be very direct and not at all subtle about communicating that. And don’t just be direct about it after it’s already too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:22 PM
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Doing the dishes is not going to get you rewarded, not doing the dishes will get you left. And neither road leads to sex, apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 03:46 AM
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Once again biology rides in to rescue what might otherwise be as interpreted as a woman’s fault. And we just can’t have that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 12:27 PM
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I don’t think it’s just jealousy. Women are out there fucking chad, doing the wild crazy stuff, threesomes, you name it. Non chad men are sitting at home waiting for Chad to finish with them. Then, when the women are past their prime and find out they can’t all have Chad, they decide they need to settle and come looking for old reliable to save them and accept the starfish sex and alpha widow attitudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 06:20 AM
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So everyone is sitting around, just waiting on Chad to make up his damn mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 06:14 AM
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I thought that was what you meant by: …it is just the manifestation of innate, primarily biologically determined female standards that were always there, but men suppressed for their own benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 02:22 AM
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Interesting. So you are asking, are women’s standards are artificially inflated today? Or were they artificially deflated in the past?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:19 AM
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I didn’t say anything negative about men. I said we overcome our instincts all the time to preserve a monogamous relationship. That’s a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:49 PM
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Biological reasons are only valid for women. Men aren’t allowed to blame anything on biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:48 PM
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Way to gate keep biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 03:29 PM
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You won’t like my answer, but you asked. Sex means more to women, historically, because they are the ones being penetrated and the ones bearing the risk of pregnancy. They SHOULD be far more careful to give it away than men. And if you dispense it like candy, then it means we have a fundamental difference of opinion on the value of sex. You think it’s absolutely no big deal, like holding hands. And if you don’t value it very much then cheating just doesn’t mean much either. It’s no big deal. I k…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 03:21 PM
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I didn’t mention infidelity, first of all. But a man screwing around and having kids with other women has exactly ZERO impact on whether a woman can pass on her genes by having a kid with him. A woman screwing around can deprive a man of the opportunity to propagate his genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 03:06 PM
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You think it’s instinctual for a man to be monogamous? It’s not at all! Men are hard wired to spread their genes as far and wide as possible. If men have to overcome their instinct then women do too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 03:04 PM
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WTF does that even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 03:02 PM
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Better genes > access to resources
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 03:01 PM
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Men are expected to control themselves at all times. But women expect forgiveness when they act like a bitch because of PMS hOrMoNEs. Biology is a valid excuse for one but not the other. Speaking of hypocrisy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 03:00 PM
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Women actually prefer men with loud of experience. It proves that other women wanted him and that his genes must be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:57 PM
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This drive is instinctual. That doesn’t change in the blink of an eye since condoms were invented and became commonplace. Men are driven to pass on their genes to the next generation and that doesn’t always happen if your wife is fucking other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:56 PM
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They are outlets for sexual release, which means women withholding sex doesn’t have the same effect it would have if all roads to sex must lead through them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:29 PM
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It’s usually women who oppose prostitution and pornography, because these things challenge their monopoly on access to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:05 PM
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Of course. I’m saying sex work is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:04 PM
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Get in the yoke and do the dirty jobs that keep society running for our benefit, while enjoying none of those benefits yourself, you lowdown stinking dirty incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 06:12 PM
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Gross, disgusting men who can’t get sex should just wallow in their incel misery and do their grunt work and leave the rest of us women alone. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:59 PM
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Sex is a currency and when it is scarce, the price goes up. Sex work helps keep the supply up so the prices don’t get too high. Women use sexual currency for power over men and they generally don’t like anything that threatens their monopoly over that resource.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:55 PM
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I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 12:12 PM
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I also know single mother of 3, where the father left. I don't know any details though, still - she's fcked now on the dating market with broderline trash-tier SMV. I’m sure this happens from time to time, and it is the cliche when we think of “single moms” but let’s be real. Most of the time when a woman is a single mom, it’s by choice. Women file for divorce at significantly higher rates than men. There are some legitimately abusive relationships where divorce is complete justified but most ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 12:03 PM
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More likely that men maintain the conservative beliefs and women look around one day and realize they’ve eliminated all the eligible men because of politics and decide to switch sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 11:52 AM
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If you’re getting yourself into a relationship with a teen (below 21) That math isn’t mathing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:09 PM
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Best way to win is to eliminate the competition
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:08 PM
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I’m asking you. Would it be controlling? Would it be controlling to tell my gf she doesn’t have to blow me and swallow but if she doesn’t, I’m leaving?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:02 AM
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I don’t tell my girlfriend to wax her pussy. I did tell her that if she doesn’t, our relationship is over. No gun to her head, it’s completely her choice. No one is controlling her at all. Controlling?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:58 AM
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So you never ever fantasize about other humans?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:19 AM
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Porn use isn’t non-monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 02:58 AM
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That’s fine. What if he changes his mind? What if you talk and decide you won’t get an abortion if you get pregnant and you agree, no fighting, no objections, nothing? And then you change your mind. Does he get to tell you what you can do with your body? What if you two talk and decide you will shave your pubes? No fighting, nothing. Then you decide not to shave anymore. Can you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:37 PM
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If you believe it’s your right to go out clubbing with your girlfriends and drink and dance with other guys, and I tell you not to do that if you want to be in a relationship with me, you would say I’m being controlling. You would not simply accept me saying “if you believe that’s your right, don’t date me.” I’d be excoriated in comments here. Just look at the reaction Jonah Hill got to saying basically the same thing. He has been raked over the coals for “controlling” his girlfriend, even thoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:26 PM
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And do you believe them when they say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:08 PM
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It’s funny. A man telling a woman what she can and can’t do with her own body would be called controlling.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:07 PM
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No. I mean any woke group.
/r/MensRights28/02/24 07:17 PM
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This is what men mean when they say they are more logical. They aren’t controlled by emotions but can view a situation objectively. This guy was objectively wrong and the men here called him out for it. It wasn’t a gender thing. It was a right vs wrong thing. Women will often defend each other from men even when they are clearly in the wrong.
/r/MensRights28/02/24 04:36 PM
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I’m patriarching as we speak!
/r/MensRights28/02/24 04:33 PM
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If you want to know who is in charge, ask yourself who is immune to criticism.
/r/MensRights28/02/24 04:33 PM
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She can say “You need to remember they don’t consider woman to be real people, …“ and that’s not a personal attack? That’s a pretty disparaging remark generalizing about men, of which I am one, so I took it kind of personally. And why does drawing comparison between her rhetoric and that used in another sub constitute a personal attack?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:38 AM
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It must have been hard for you when FDS went away.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 10:25 PM
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Let’s start with doesn’t hate men. It seems like a low hurdle, but you’d be surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 10:00 PM
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Sex in a long term, loving relationship is ok. ONSs and FWB are not. The number varies by how many long term relationships she’s been in but it should be no more than a few.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 10:00 PM
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She doesn’t HAVE TO, of course, but it’s a red flag if she won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 09:55 PM
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Shame is a concept that has been discarded in modern times. There is nothing wrong with shaming a woman who sleeps around. If men have to wait, too bad. That’s all for the better of society. Regardless of modern sensibilities, babies out of wedlock is not at all an ideal situation. It would be better if we returned to those days. Yes, sex happened in the old days, but not anywhere near as much as now. So guys got used to waiting for sex to get the girl of their dreams. Guys can wait. Women can b…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 09:44 PM
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I think the problem with number 1 is women who won’t sleep with person A on the first date because they have a moral belief that they want to get to know someone before they will have sex with a person, but very willingly will discard these moral beliefs if the guy makes her leg tingle.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 09:37 PM
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The unbreakable rules
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:21 PM
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Women “try”. Men do. It’s almost like actually succeeding isn’t the objective
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 01:21 PM
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Is 50/50 as to whether he gets caught. It’s 100% if he walks into a divorce court.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 02:55 AM
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Women want men to uphold THEIR end, but largely refuse to do their own part. Not all of course. You may be very traditional, but most like to pick and choose which traditions are worth upholding.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 12:56 AM
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They definitely want men to hold up their end of the traditional bargain, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 11:19 PM
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Use your passport to go to Reno
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:03 PM
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LOL. It’s nice that you’ve made peace with your hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:14 PM
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It's just bullshit used to make women the villains. Do you not think the vast majority of feminist terms are used to make men the villains?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:52 PM
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I appreciate your perspective. Thanks. I’m just saying that women sometimes do use it as a reward system, so OP is wrong to say it’s just a man thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 12:36 AM
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Well, first off, you said it doesn’t happen but I just demonstrated that it in fact does. Second there is no chance in hell I’m an isolated case. I don’t believe that for a second. Maybe lesbian dynamics are different because you know each other’s tricks but I bet there are many many men with similar stories to mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 07:36 PM
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Pardon my French but what the fuck do you know about dating women (unless you are a lesbian). I guarantee you as a husband that my wife uses sex as a reward when she wants me to agree to something. She wants to take a trip somewhere by herself or wants to buy something big and thinks I won’t agree … out come the unsolicited blowjobs. I can tell by the frequency of bjs whether a request is incoming. She acts horny as hell for a week then she hems and haws and says, “I need to ask you about someth…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 07:19 PM
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This is 100% wrong. Many women absolutely DO use sex as a reward system for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 07:09 PM
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So men who treat sex as a reward are misogynists, but women who treat it as a reward are just fine?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 07:06 PM
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Yes. Women who say there were raped get support and pity from other women even when it’s been proven it was false.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 12:23 PM
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Difficulty of prosecution doesn’t throw due process out the window. In fact, it doesn’t diminish it a single bit. Rape is a horrible crime but victims get support and pity. Men falsely accused get nothing but scorn and disbelief. And everyday the woman perpetuates the lie, the crime occurs Again and Again every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 02:02 AM
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I don’t think they are nonsensical, but I do think they are wild exaggerations. On the whole, men do age better. Of course, there are many men who do not age well. This is just a generalization. Citing Salma Hayek as an example of how well some women age is what’s nonsensical. You can’t extrapolate a single person’s extraordinary appearance to the whole sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 12:43 AM
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If they were paid the “same”, for LESS WORK, then the pay gap would actually be reversed and would be truly discriminatory. They would get way more per hour than men.
/r/MensRights19/02/24 06:12 PM
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These are the same people who complain about double standards that benefit men as being unfair. They don’t mind unfair as long as they are the one benefiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:42 PM
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You are right that it is always easier for attractive people. The difference is men think 60% or more of women are attractive, and women think 8 to 10% of men are attractive. That’s the source of the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:40 PM
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OK so it’s fine to call you a retard as long as you aren’t retarded. Got it. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:25 PM
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I haven’t said a word about household daily tasks. You are the only one ridiculing men’s contributions to a household. It’s extremely misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 03:56 PM
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Like I said how very dismissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 03:05 PM
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Yeah. You already said that. I’m telling you the male equivalent
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 03:04 PM
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Like a toy tool belt with hammer and drill?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:22 AM
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This is ridiculously dismissive of the things men do in a household. Not just mundane chores like you are talking about but many male specific jobs too, that involve house maintenance and repairs. Women are out there looking for a second father to handle those things for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:22 AM
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I hear women call men “boys” all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:19 AM
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Getting the oil changed in the car. Mowing the lawn. Fixing a leaky faucet. Plunging the toilet. Painting the house. Cleaning debris off the roof. Are these not things the man normally handles around the house, along with other similar tasks the man does for the woman? Not all of course, depending on the abilities of the man, but most of the time this kind of thing falls on the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:16 AM
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Anyone who uses the term “bangmommy “ or “bandmaid” unironically was 100% a poster on fds
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:08 AM
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And you’re acting like I don’t have the best DNA! We could both be wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 11:07 PM
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You’ve introduced a new variable that impacts the acceptability of cheating. Depending on how much they’ve tried to fix the problem, it might not be quite so immoral to cheat on a totally unsexual partner. But absent a dead bedroom, there’s no excuse for cheating at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 11:06 PM
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Troll level: 9000
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 11:02 PM
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Men desire younger and prettier women. When men dump old hags for a new trophy wife, women should just not make such a big deal of it. 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 11:00 PM
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HELL no. Let’s bring shame back into the world. It’s been missing for far too long
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:58 PM
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Terms that need to die #12,893: The “ick”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 09:39 PM
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Many pick and choose which traditions they like. Expensive engagement ring? Now that’s a tradition to love and support. Taking a husband’s last name? Ew! You are such a Neanderthal to ask me to do that!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:23 PM
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Break a leg isn’t the same thing as SDE. Break a leg is an expression. SDE is an insult that the person you were responding to was trying to deny was an insult. It sounded like you were trying to justify an insult by bringing up a wholly unrelated thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:36 PM
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Did you even read OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:04 AM
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It can’t possibly happen This is criminally naive. For millennia men have risked their lives to gain access to procreation. Survival is indeed a strong instinct, but it’s a super close 1a and 1b with propagation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:55 PM
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A substantial majority are if they are completely denied any access to procreation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:52 PM
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Yes it’s “heteronormative”, whatever the hell that means. We are talking about a breakdown of society in OPs hypothetical scenario. The human species WILL continue. It’s a basic human drive that can’t be suppressed that easily. And yes, it necessarily involves men and women exclusively.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:50 PM
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I feel like you are circumventing the spirit of the question. The point is two IDENTICAL GUYS. No difference. Or, if you prefer, the EXACT SAME GUY. But you have a choice about whether he has 7.5 or 4 inch penis. Which are you picking? I mean, I suspect I know the answer and it holds the key to understanding whether size matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:47 PM
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Cavemen had very big issues to deal with but somehow they still found time to “get their dicks wet”. The single biggest, overarching biological imperative for human beings is propagation of the species. It will be attended to no matter what is happening in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:44 PM
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So since you have no mental retardation, then it shouldn’t be a problem if a call you a “retard” when you say something dumb or that I disagree with? I mean, I don’t LITERALLY think you are retarded. And I’m not saying being retarded is bad, just that you are giving off that “retard” energy when you say something dumb?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:41 PM
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People who say acksually BDE and SDE don’t refer to dick size at all. It’s all about a person’s cOnFIdeNCe. This is completely absurd. To think that referring to a negative personality trait as SDE isn’t insulting to people with actual small penises, is ridiculous. If that were true, then calling people (who are clearly not mentally impaired) as “retards” would be fine. Saying something is “so gay” would not be frowned upon if you say it in a mocking or derogatory way, unless the person actually…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:36 PM
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In this hypothetical future, where society is broken down, women are so hypergamous that they are sharing only the top 10% of men, but expecting men to continue fulfilling their roles as shitbearers and protectors, then yes, expect lawlessness and man’s reversion to his animalistic self. If women are allowed to act solely in their best interest’s and embrace their core natures fully, then I think it’s safe to say men will reciprocate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:10 PM
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Women rely on the government to maintain this illusion of equality. If society breaks down, we will see how truly equal the sexes are. We will see if the movies got it right when they show women regularly kicking men’s butts.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:30 AM
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I could think of many words to describe this fantasy, but misogyny would not be one of them. Blatant misandry, yes. And it would be an incel uprising. It would be very real. Men will not go gently into that good night.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:26 AM
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It is funny how that usually seems to be the case, isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:47 AM
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And your current partner, is he large?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:45 AM
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Are you still with him? If not, did sexual satisfaction play a part in the demise?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:17 AM
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And What happened when you saw it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:14 AM
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Bullshit. There are big penises and small penises. There are also big vaginas and small vaginas. Not all vaginas are perfect little flowers sent from God. Some are gaping large and need more cock to satisfy them. That isn’t “incel logic” it’s basic biology. Every human part comes in a variety of sizes, except vaginas I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:12 AM
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…that dick size is the key to orgasm but until today, I've never seen a woman actually agree to it. This is an amazing day folks. It’s rare to actually meet a person who has literally never been on the internet before a day in their life. I didn’t think they existed anymore but yet here we are. You have lead a very very very sheltered life if you haven’t witnessed a woman admit to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:07 AM
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It's the same with guys. They want girls with bigger boobs, but theyd still date girls with smaller chests. Here’s where I think you are wrong. There are lots of guys who genuinely prefer small breasts. Like, not just saying it to make her feel good, or because they just like all boobies … there is a huge number of guys who don’t like big boobs at all. When women come on here and ask if guys like small boobs, they are inundated with positive responses. There is no reason at all for women to lame…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:02 AM
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Two guys. Exactly same level of facial beauty. One is 4”, one is 7.5”. Which do you prefer?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:47 AM
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A big dick should be like dessert- always nice to have but def not needed. That’s not as reassuring as you might think. So the big dick is a special treat that some guys can't offer?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:02 AM
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What are you talking about? What alternate scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 12:22 PM
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Cause that’s a legitimate option when you are married… right
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 12:14 PM
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Did he really have a choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 10:54 AM
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99.999999% of the worlds population is poorer than her. But he is rich by almost any measure.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:07 PM
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There are many girls prettier and younger than Taylor who would be more desired. Men don’t care about money … to a point. It’s absurd to think men aren’t attracted to a billionaire’s money.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 04:38 PM
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What is this “large brown region”?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 04:37 PM
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Kelce is hyper masculine, tall, muscled, famous, powerful and rich. What about her attraction to him contradicts RP?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 04:36 PM
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We’ll have to agree to disagree then. I can’t separate the lie from the action. If you feel the need to lie to me about sexual history then you obviously know it’s critically important to me. You know (or very strongly suspect) I would reject you because of it. And You know I would be conscious of the way other people would perceive me being married to a very promiscuous person. I’ve been made a laughing stock because hundreds of other people know your past. Your prior actions have hurt me as mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 01:09 PM
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Things that challenge women’s control over access to sex are despised. Strip clubs, prostitution, porn. All these things give men alternatives to the game some women want to play with sex so they are all bad. If men have access to these things then they aren’t as beholden to women for sexual arousal and release.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 01:02 PM
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But the lying and true number issues are intertwined. If you tell me you’ve slept with 100 guys then it’s up to me to decide if I can live with that. I don’t get to shame you if I know the truth and decide it’s ok. However if you tell me you’ve been with 2 guys and we get married, have kids, and 15 years down the line I find out you were the town bicycle with scores of partners, then yes, shaming the lie and shaming the body count are both on the table. The level of betrayal is enormous because …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 12:51 PM
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If a person knows your history but still willingly enters into a relationship with you then they have no reason to be hurt or make you feel bad. I agree with that. But if you lie, then they are the aggrieved party and I could understand a little shaming. And It would be deserved for lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:37 AM
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I never said that. You implied that because most men aren’t virgins that that means they have easy access to sex. I just said they aren’t the same thing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:14 PM
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Not being a virgin is not at all the same thing as having easy access to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:05 PM
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Same answer if a woman lies about her sexual history when asked?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:04 PM
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Many women don’t answer the question truthfully. Does that give him justification for harsh treatment if the truth comes out later?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:58 PM
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As long as the woman is honest, I agree. But many women aren’t forthcoming with their sexual history. A man who marries a woman based on her representation as being chaste (or nearly so) is entitled to feel betrayed if a different story comes out later. Normally, in that case, women will say “we’ve been married 10 years, why does it matter?” But it’s the dishonesty that is the problem. I wouldn’t care if I’d been married 60 years. If I found out she lied to me I could probably never forgive her …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:57 PM
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We are simultaneously told that sex doesn’t matter at all anymore, and that it matters more than anything. A promiscuous past is perfectly normal, they say. Sex is nothing more than something to pass the time. It carries no significance whatsoever. While at the same time the definition of rape is expanded daily. We are told that it is the single worst thing you can do to a woman. So which is it? Is sex important or not? I don’t see how you can have it both ways. It is being given more and less w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:52 PM
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Prenups are treated like paternity testing. Why don’t you trust me??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:16 AM
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Not leave their husband, but knock boots? You bet
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:24 PM
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If we are really talking Chris Hemsworth level of hotness, then probably 85% of unattached ladies and at least 60% of attached ladies are going to react positively
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:22 PM
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Hot men can easily say "hey, you are cute, wanna go out" and get laid in the same day. Giggles. Looks Down and smiles. Pushes hair behind her ear.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:20 PM
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Each one should contain the following addendum “, unless you are hot.”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:11 PM
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You’re absolutely right. Women ARE held to different standards than men are. Much much lower standards than men are. And that’s the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 07:28 PM
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I don't see it as an innate ability as much as I do society women giving ATTRACTIVE men a pass for this type of deceit FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 07:27 PM
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Nailed it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 07:19 PM
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i think the vast majority of men would like a mommy mcbangmaid who seal claps when they go 50/50 on dinner Tell me you used to post on fds without telling me you used to post on fds.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:51 AM
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Yeah it’s pretty disingenuous to keep saying “we are both…”. That’s not the question. The question is specifically what is her responsibility. It’s fine if there’s another thread asking men what their specific responsibilities are but THIS one is specific to women. I bet if there actually was another thread asking women to list men’s responsibilities, the top comment wouldn’t be this “we are both…” nonsense. They’d have no problem enumerating exactly what a man is supposed to bring to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:44 AM
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Re read my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:39 AM
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This is the problem with feminism. They preached to women that their Prince charming, will still be waiting for them even if they wait until their mid 30s to settle down. This is a lie. Smart women get married early. They find a good man and build a life with him. Most men do not leave women they are married to just because they get older. But women are told they can wait forever to find their man, or that if they’re not satisfied, they can dump their man and it’ll be just like when they were in…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 08:20 PM
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We are told, by women, that sex is nothing. It’s immaterial. It doesn’t matter. It’s just a way to have fun and pass the time. It’s no more serious than holding hands or eating a sandwich. Why do you make such a big deal out of our past? What difference does it make? Then we are also told that SA is the worst crime imaginable. You can’t do any thing worse to a woman. It rips her soul from her body and destroys her forever. Now, I AM NOT saying these heinous crimes don’t matter, but I’m wondering…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 07:59 PM
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FR. Anytime a man remarks on a woman wearing a revealing outfit, we hear “I like to look cute. I’m but wearing it for male attention!” Right. Why do you spend so much on your appearance? I do it to make myself feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:16 PM
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Let me paraphrase your obvious intent: I know men are shitty and expect it of them, but why are these nice Christian women falling for the tricks of these evil boys? It can’t possibly be their fault. Are we the baddies?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:59 PM
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Many, probably most, women would consider it winning the lottery to marry a guy who wants her to SAH.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:26 PM
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If that’s true, then a very very close second is a woman dismissing whatever a man has to say that’s remotely critical of women as “misogyny“. Anything and everything is misogyny when it’s at all negative towards a woman or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:26 PM
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People with jobs have all your same problems, PLUS they have to spend 50-60 hours per week working, getting ready for work, commuting to and from work, worrying about work, and stressing over being the only thing keeping the family afloat. Yeah it’s a picnic
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:21 PM
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You think average values and no TikTok brain are equivalent requirements to decent income and not socially awkward? It seems like the bar for women is considerably lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 05:15 PM
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This is just false. Many many more women are acceptable attractiveness to a man than there are men who are attractive enough for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 05:14 PM
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Men want hot women Women want hot men, plus very tall, plus very rich. You can’t see that there are more requirements to appeal to a woman than to a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 05:11 PM
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Ever crave a food you know you aren’t supposed to eat so much that you give In and eat it? Then after you eat it you are like “oh man, I’m never giving In and eating that again!” Same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:56 PM
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18-25, which is only 12% of the population in us. 27.3% is normal weight which might include underweight people. Only 3.28% of population fits both of these I don’t agree with your math. Presumably you are saying since only a quarter of the population isn’t overweight then only a quarter of 18-25 is not overweight. I think there is a substantially higher percentage of 18-25 who aren’t overweight than the general population. I would guess at least 50%, maybe 75% of 18-25 is not overweight. So the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:17 PM
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There is no safe space for men that won’t be invaded by women. Men’s only gatherings are labeled misogyny and women insist on going.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:47 PM
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English optional
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:42 PM
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Couldn’t care less about male sex dolls. They don’t provide women what they really want from men. They don’t provide money, sperm or protection. So they are no threat to real men. Female sex dolls, however, do provide men what they want. So they are a threat to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:21 PM
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Society is benefitting from it so much, right? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 04:24 PM
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And you wouldn’t be offended if I went with my ex every single Sunday but didn’t do it with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 12:45 AM
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Like going to the farmers market every week? That kind of negotiated, nagged, guilted, pressured or bribed into going?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 12:20 AM
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Butt sex Oral sex Doggy style CIM or swallowing Prostate play BDSM Role playing Threesomes Could be about LOTS of things. Butt sex is a common one though. And for me it would depend on how it went down in the prior relationship. If they did it once, and absolutely hated it, then, no, I wouldn’t expect them to do it again. If they did it repeatedly and enjoyed it with the prior partner, then hell yes I would expect them to do it. If they did it repeatedly and didn’t really enjoy it, but did it an…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 12:01 AM
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They are in the same family though, aren’t they? Man bashing and man hate are two peas in a pod.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 06:27 PM
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And those comments will get you banned in 95% of subs and likely even from Reddit. The ones I mentioned are not only allowed, they are condoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 06:20 PM
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Same principle. Man bashing and man hate are all perfectly acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 06:19 PM
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Men are scum I hate men Kill all men Men are worthless Any of these expressions is completely fair game on Reddit. And if a man raises his hand to point out that “not all men” are bad, he gets excoriated for being part of the problem instead of accepting the (in their eyes) justified criticism of all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 06:04 PM
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Whatever. When a woman says “the things I would do to him…” and then recollects her thoughts when you point out that she’s married and has just admitted to wanting to fuck another guy is pretty obvious to see. A person can say they are joking but when they let their guard down for a second and you see the real desire it’s not joking. You aren’t going to believe me because you have a reason to defend women in this. I’m just saying what was obvious in front of my eyes. He also did a pretty good jo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 07:31 PM
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Auto correct No. They were definitely lusting after him. They stared at him. Reacted to everything he said. Waited for him to express an opinion and then heartily agreed. Asked if he was sad today and wanted to know how to cheer him up. They behaved completely smitten. And a couple told me straight up they wanted to fuck him. They laughed like they were joking when I asked what their husbands would think. I’m not projecting anything. They were hot for him in a way they never talked about their m…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:54 PM
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I used to work with a guy who was very conventionally attractive. I paid attention to the women around me, both my coworkers and women at clients. They all act like little schoolgirl around him. It was painfully obvious that he could’ve asked them to go to the bathroom and fuck right then and there and they would’ve done it. it was obvious they would not have given a second thought to their husbands and boyfriends. They lusted after him. I think that would be a viral visceral reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:39 PM
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When men get horny, they are HORNY and that applies to LTR too
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:35 PM
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If the consequences of paternity fraud weren’t so grave, you might have a point. And if women didn’t have a 100%, rock solid guarantee that men don’t get, you might have a point. Equality requires men have the sale rights women have. Women know the kid is theirs, why shouldn’t men?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:49 AM
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And much much less complicated. Older women have so much baggage. Younger women are fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:15 PM
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And of course early in a relationship (the "hook setting" period) she shags like a minx but then later decides shes had enough once he is wrapped tight enough. This is obvious stuff. I don't know why the question even needed asking
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:41 PM
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Women manipulate men all. the. time. They use men’s sex drive against them. They just don’t like it when men play the same game.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:23 AM
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And women never pretend to have a higher libido than they really have to get a man either, right? Or lie about their interests — I love football!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:15 AM
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And there’s the body shaming, right on time
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:13 AM
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I feel bad for you that you were being manipulated by those cougars. It’s despicable what they did to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:10 AM
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This is the real result of your research. When you date younger women you are being manipulative. When you date older women you are still the one being manipulative, amazingly enough. I sense a pattern. Women think you are being manipulative no matter what you do, so just do whatever you want
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:09 AM
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If I have one woman who cooks and cleans and has a pleasant, non demanding attitude, what’s the incentive for me to take the feminist harpy?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:32 PM
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Yes, it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:25 PM
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First dates? No Mandatory paternity testing? Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:25 PM
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You’ve obviously never experienced life as an unattractive man. The untouchables.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:21 PM
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That is what they always say. And it’s always been bullshit. Women don’t wear revealing clothes to feel cute for themselves. Without men, there’s no reason
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:20 PM
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It’s very convenient that 95% of the time men are the ones asking. And how do you “mutually agree” to get French fries? Someone has to mention it first, meaning they are the ones on the hook to pay. What would a “mutual agreement” conversation sound like? How do you mutually agree without someone proposing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:19 PM
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So you get to pick and choose which norms are ok? Is there any correlation between the ok ones and the ones that benefit you? I’m guessing a perfect positive correlation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:15 PM
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That sounds like a lot of toxic masculinity to me. If he doesn’t pay he must be broke and an unworthy partner
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:10 PM
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I always offered to pay my fair share but they didn’t let me - big green flag imo. So, if they embrace a traditional role in paying for the date, it makes you happy? How do you decide which traditions are ok and which ones violate your principles as a feminist? Does it have any thing to do with whether or not it benefits you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:09 PM
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When the “patriarchy” benefits you it’s ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:06 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:04 PM
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Equality is a core issue of men’s rights. You don’t get to pick and choose which traditional behaviors you get to enforce and which you get to eschew.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:58 PM
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Feminism is a cafeteria plan. You get to pick and choose depending on your appetite that day
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:56 PM
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I think most women hold the feminist belief that women should be free to chose their life on their own individual terms as long as they're not hurting anyone and to have the same legal and social rights and opportunities as men. So I'd say most. You just described the way things exist today in 2023 so congratulations! You have equality. There’s no more need for feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:56 PM
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Been there, done that. It’s not that women can’t be hot after pregnancy. It’s that they are a special kind of hot during, then not as much after.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 02:15 PM
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Pregnant women are hot. After pregnancy … not as much
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:01 PM
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Have you ever put your dick in a woman before and after childbirth? If not, you don’t know. I love how women think because they have vaginas that they have any idea what it feels like to put a penis in one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 12:54 PM
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I’m sure incest porn is also a popular category. Doesn’t mean people actually think it’s a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 12:50 PM
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I think we can all agree that OP’s future wife will be the hottest woman on the planet and will be very fuckable into her old age.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 12:49 PM
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Then your argument applies to a very small subset of women post childbirth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 12:46 PM
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MILFs are not physically more attractive. Almost no one would agree to that. They are a thing because of the psychological aspect of having sex with an older, nurturing woman which is somewhat taboo. If you are just looking at pictures of women and rating their physical beauty, then young, childless women will win every time. Child birth does NOT “improve fat deposit locations” LOL. Very very much the opposite. Child birth distorts a woman’s body and is seldom kind. Are there hot MILFs? Of cours…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 12:44 PM
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If you press the ‘return’ button twice every once in a while, it’s easier to read your message. I ain’t gonna read that wall of text.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 07:33 AM
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Yes “Extensive Research: Women Initiate Domestic Violence More than Men, Men Under-report It.”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 09:34 PM
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That is strange. Because it’s far from reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 08:28 PM
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The original poster, of course
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 06:35 PM
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So which sexual behavior is she calling disgusting?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 06:32 PM
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Here’s a test: post # kill all men on Twitter post # kill all women on Twitter from another account Report back on the consequences.
/r/MensRights15/12/23 06:28 PM
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Never gonna happen. First of all the thread would be immediately deleted and then they’d get banned. They don’t allow contrary opinions there.
/r/MensRights15/12/23 06:26 PM
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Debatable
/r/MensRights15/12/23 06:25 PM
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Thanks! Exactly what sexual behavior is she calling disgusting? And why do women (approximately 50% of the population) get to judge men (approximately 50% of the population) about anything? Why are women the arbiters of sexual norms? Why do women get to decide what is disgusting and what isn’t? Who died and made her queen?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 04:48 PM
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Exactly what sexual behaviors are you calling disgusting? And why do women (approximately 50% of the population) get to judge men (approximately 50% of the population) about anything? Why are women the arbiters of sexual norms? Why do you get to decide what is disgusting and what isn’t? Who died and made you queen?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 04:46 PM
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This is why men should reject these thots after they have been run through by 10 or 15 feet of tall man dick and are now ready to settle down. At that point, men should refuse relationships and insist on only no strings attached sex. Men, don’t let yourselves be “plan Q” to these women if you weren’t good enough to be “plan A”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:49 PM
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Fuck the bitch. You are fine, king. They’ll tell you not all women are like that and it’s kinda true, but enough are like that that it’s easy to see the double standards they set for men. You aren’t allowed to judge women for anything, even things under their control, but men can be judged for anything and everything whether they can control it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:46 PM
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If you beat a dog every time he comes up to you, he’ll stop coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:36 PM
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Have you ever been an overweight guy asking a girl out?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:34 AM
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Well let’s just take one trait: Weight Men actually like women with more meat on the bones. They are much more forgiving of a little excess weight than women are. Women won’t touch overweight men. I think that’s related to this prevailing bullshit attitude that is soooo much easier for men to lose weight than women. There may be some actual biological reasons for that, but the result is that women see overweight men as just lazy and stupid but demand that men accept them just the way they are or…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:15 AM
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I’m not saying it didn’t happen, because of course it did, but slut shaming was a real thing back then. And it wasn’t a bad thing. Shame is a powerful force to encourage positive behavior, and discourage negative. The nonstop push to eradicate it is because women want other women to behave like they do so they can feel better about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:36 AM
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What a piece of shit question. Do you ask women their bmi?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 08:53 PM
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And? People who benefit from a system rarely complain about it. People who don’t benefit do complain. Is this supposed to be some earth shattering revelation? I think you believe you’ve unlocked the answer when in fact all you’ve unlocked is the obvious. Congratulations.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 08:45 PM
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Yeah I think OP is being silly. Many times men also wake up and work on improving themselves when a relationship ends. That works both ways, but: It must suck to see your ex give their best version of themselves to someone else. This is the part that bothers me. This is why guys get mad at the idea of women who sleep with the whole football team throughout their 20’s then decide to settle down with the nerd when they get ready to breed. They’ve given their best self to the throw away one night s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:11 AM
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HOWEVER the reason women get in shape is for themselves/ their own self esteem not for their current man or to attract another man. This is ludicrously wrong. Of course they are getting into shape to get another man. These claims that women don’t get in shape or dress provocatively for men but to “feel good about themselves” … no one is buying it. There’s no reason for a woman to wear a tight fitting, low cut dress when she’s out with the girls if men weren’t the objective. We ain’t buying it. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 01:56 AM
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Anything remotely critical of anything woman is called misogyny. A man explaining anything to any woman is mansplaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:33 PM
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That’s typical. The female empowerment movement doesn’t have room under its tent for women who actually want traditional values. Women politicians who support conservative values are cast aside when they should be embraced by other women. Conservatives are said to be anti women even when they support candidates who are women — just not the right KIND of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:32 PM
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These two things are not remotely equivalent. One is liking some music, the other is believing planetary alignments somehow control your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:35 PM
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Classic gaslighting
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:31 PM
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“Objective”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:30 PM
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In my experience, the men who are generally not very attractive or successful but who are absolutely lovely, funny, and respectful will be able to get sex pretty easily and ultimately find a partner … And as a man in this group you describe, I can tell you that you are wrong. You have no perspective on the issue because you’ve never tried dating as an unattractive man. You think all these men are just making this stuff up? But aren’t you supposed to believe their “lived experiences” or something…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:30 PM
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Men also get frequently clowned on and called stupid when they don’t “get the hint” that a woman is interested. Damned if you do, damned if you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:59 PM
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Nothing is so irresistible to a woman as another woman’s man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 04:13 PM
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I know why. Women want whatever other women have / want. They want the best genes for their offspring, so they want men who are in demand. That’s why women don’t generally mind men who have slept around. Men want loyalty and commitment and assurance that their child will really be theirs. That’s why they want women with out a sordid sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 04:01 PM
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I’m sure there will no problems in society as a result of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:58 PM
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And it’s perfectly socially acceptable to do, unlike slut shaming, which is just the inverse
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:56 PM
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If you are fine with women being judged for their slutty behavior then fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:51 PM
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Then we’ll have to agree to disagree. Either sex is a big deal or it isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:27 PM
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Then your reading comprehension skills need a lot of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:43 PM
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I disagree. If you think sex is just a way to pass time with someone you barely know, then cheating wouldn’t matter to you much at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:42 PM
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I believe sexual experience DOES impact core values and ability to love. If you don’t value sex at anything approaching the level that I value it then we aren’t compatible. If you think sex it’s just some casual thing that holds no more value than shaking hands or dancing with someone at a club, then you wouldn’t think it was all that bad to cheat because it’s just no big deal to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:22 PM
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My life experience would be comparable to a woman with 5 or fewer. Does a woman with 4 partners really want a man who’s had 84?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:02 PM
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I’m guessing yours is significantly higher?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:49 PM
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My point is clear. A woman with 5 or fewer sexual partners is a much better prospective long term partner than one with more than 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:49 PM
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And? What’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:25 PM
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Yeah, I mean it would be great, but just being able to count on one hand maximum would be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:15 PM
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Explaining something in a condescending manner is just being an asshole and isn’t limited to any one gender. You proved that with your condescending post.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:19 PM
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Starting?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:26 AM
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Oh good Lord …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:25 AM
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He’ll send the link
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:13 AM
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So marry early and have kids instead of sleeping around for 15 years, then expecting Chad to show up and give you a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:11 AM
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They chose that life. 95% of women could get married early if they want. They just don’t want to yet. They are having fun and don’t believe it’ll ever end.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:08 AM
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If they want commitment, they need to be serious about picking a good man and cultivating a LTR early, not using their relative sexual advantage to bang all the hawt guys. But these days, women want to fuck around for years, then expect the good men to be there waiting for them when THEY get ready to settle down. Society tells women the lie that sleeping around has no negative consequences. That men aren’t even ALLOWED to hold that against them unless they are INCELS. Well too bad. Lots of guys …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:04 AM
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Unattractive men ask multiple times. Attractive men only have to ask once.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:18 AM
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Yes. Same woman. I have seen posts on Reddit from women who reject men who use hookers but think hookers are fine and men who won’t date one (or a former one) are misogynists. Same exact woman. You can ask the same question again and the answer is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 02:26 PM
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Women exercising their hypergamous nature would be shamed too. Shame is a powerful and effective weapon that we should bring back.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:17 PM
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I sure have. Hookers believe they should be able to get the guy of their dreams but a man who has used hookers is off limits
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:16 PM
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Do these girls usually introduce themselves and tell you they do OF? Or is it kept a secret so you don’t know if have met any?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:12 PM
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But women who do OF believe in the princess myth. They believe they can sell pictures of their butthole and vajayjay and still deserve the prince in the end. I agree, I think it’s fine to date and fuck OF girls and never consider one for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:11 PM
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Many words to support maintaining a despicable double standard. Let me paraphrase your belief system: women can say whatever they want about men and men should shut up and take it. Men who say things about women in general are evil pigs. And this is all just fine. Nothing to see here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:08 PM
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Plenty of guys will claim “If a woman doesn't fuck a guy immediately, he will lose interest and not be your boyfriend.” The same guys will insist “If you fuck a bunch of guys, no man would see you as girlfriend material”. These things are why marriage exists. When sex is shamed, then society requires a lifetime commitment to one woman to have sex. Men want sex so they do it. Babies are born in wedlock. Family units are stabilized. Everything works better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:55 PM
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LOL at the idea that women holding both opinions are rare. I’d say it’s very common. Double standards that favor women are often seen as just fine but ones that favor men are evil. That’s how we have evolved with feminism and society catering almost exclusively to women’s interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:24 PM
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It’s just a bunch of femcells, we need to start using that term (where appropriate of course) I don’t see why we have to limit it to appropriate situations. Incel is one of the most overused terms on Reddit and gets applied to literally any man who holds any opinion vaguely critical of any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:21 PM
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I’ve seen it online many times where women will say there is nothing wrong with sex work and men should be accepting of it in their girlfriends, but say they would never date a man who uses sex workers. There is a very large overlap of women who believe both things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:19 PM
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You are right. Men are more prone to violence than women, but that’s in their very nature. Women choose to do battle in the social arena. They spread rumors and make false accusations. They lie and manipulate. They try to destroy a man’s reputation rather than open fisticuffs. And they almost completely get a free pass for it. Women are allowed to use every weapon in their arsenals and get by with it. Men have to deal with women with their biggest asset (strength) removed. I’m not suggesting phy…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 10:18 PM
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It also matters where she is in her cycle. If she’s ovulating, she’ll fuck the manliest man she can find, even if she claims to hate his guts
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 12:47 PM
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Do you really want to go down that road? Because it winds up much much worse for women than for men. We suppress our basic knowledge of biology to pretend men and women are equal. They are not. Not by a long shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:11 PM
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It’s a one time test. It takes 2 minutes. The consequences of taking it on faith and being wrong are devastating. Not just to him but the whole family. Why do you deserve to know but men just have to hope? That’s a fundamental inequity that can be solved SO easily. Don’t think of it as an accusation of infidelity. Think of it as a gift to your husband so he never ever ever has to worry about that ever again. Not even a fleeting doubt. Besides this isn’t a test of fidelity because no test can pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:08 PM
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Why are they so dead set against a simple cheap non invasive test that will provide her husband a lifetime of security to know something she already knows. Why does a woman get to know with 100% certainty but a man has to take it on faith?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:28 AM
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Not 3 but top 20% for sure. So you are a disbeliever but it’s true “What’s that?”, say women, “men are hungry?” “Well let them eat cake!”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:25 AM
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Yes. Also women are so fixated on always being the victim in every possible scenario that they flat out do not believe men ever have trouble with anything. And if they do it must be their fault 100%. Women can get sex absolutely anytime they want it so they think men are exaggerating the issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:59 PM
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I think feminism and modern liberals have pushed men that direction
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:58 PM
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For fuck’s sake. Get over the method of transmission of the information. That was just a hypothetical. The prior poster said they never asked their partners about prior sexual acts so how would they know. I’m just saying sometimes you find things out that you didn’t seek. That’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:44 PM
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If your vagina wasn’t huge, the penis would be fine. I’m not aware that one issue is more common than the other, I just know we constantly hear a drum beat telling us it’s always the males fault so people have just accepted it as fact. Your misandry is manifest. You have the common belief that the woman is never the problem and that’s bullshit. I hope you don’t have sons.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:40 PM
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Well I think you are looking too closely at that. I just meant you find out by accident, not by questioning him about it. Maybe you find an old email or something. If you are content with knowing she got that and you don’t then fine. I’m not, personally
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:26 PM
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If it was truly one time and you hated it then that’s something different. The problem is when you used to do this act for your previous boyfriend repeatedly and enthusiastically, but now say “that’s just not who I am anymore”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:24 PM
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No. I used to do it very sincerely. I was a hopeless romantic who genuinely felt passion and expressed it through flowers and love letters. I wrote and performed love songs for her. But I just don’t feel like doing that stuff any more. I still love you but don’t express it that way at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:22 PM
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I don’t think they are asexual necessarily, but significantly lower libido than they exhibit during courtship. There’s no one echo chamber I’ve seen this in. Is repeated over and over again by men of all ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:21 PM
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See all you talk about is the penis size. Any mismatch is because the penis is too small. You completely discount any possibility that the vagina is too big. All body parts come in a variety of sizes, including vaginas. If a bolt and nut don’t fit, it’s just as likely to be the nut’s fault as the bolt.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:18 PM
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I don’t think they lose their sex drive. I think they never had it. And they pretended to be high libido to trick a man into thinking the good times would continue to roll. I’ve seen countless stories from men who got suckered into it. For many men, blow jobs end with the wedding. Sex is something women are interested in when they want to get a man to propose and when they want kids, then they seal up the factory again after the objective is reached.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:56 PM
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Not in so many words. But you are saying women’s vaginas are all about the same size. Therefore the size variability is all men’s. Therefore any problems with sex are men’s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:53 PM
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But what if you found out anyway? Maybe you met his old gf and she lets out slip how he used to eat her pussy for hours, but he’s never done it for you. No jealousy at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:39 PM
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I used to send roses to my previous girlfriend and writing her love notes every day. I took her on extravagant, long vacations to romantic countries to show her how much I loved her. I was so romantic and devoted to her. I’ve since decided that I don’t want to do that any more. Are you cool with that if we start dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:38 PM
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She’s trying to argue that a loose connection between penis and vagina is never the vaginas fault. Yes they stretch and change shape but they always return to small size so the essential tightness of all vaginas is uniform. That’s what she’s saying. She’s completely wrong of course. But this is her way of saying if there’s a sex problem it’s the man’s fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:07 PM
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The incidence of “loose pussy” shaming compared to “small dick” shaming is so small as to be negligible. Men who reject a woman sexually for it is probably in the below 0.1% realm whereas women who shame / reject men for penis size is significantly higher. They aren’t remotely comparable. This “loose pussy” shaming you talk about just never happens in real life. Note: as others have pointed out, “loose pussy” to you appears to mean large labia and that’s what my post is about. To most men, loose…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:55 PM
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That’s … Just a stupendously dumb analogy. Unilaterally deciding to end your partners sex life is not at all equivalent to getting a disease over years of bad choices. But yes, if you are obese and eat several cups of sugar a day then I would say you know where you are going so it must be intentional.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:14 PM
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And I disagree with you. It’s so common it’s cliche.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:15 PM
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Forget to change accounts?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:50 AM
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If a woman is the type to use sex as a honey pot trap to get a man to marry her, knowing she intends to shut down the sexual activities after marriage she should tell her partner BEFORE they decide to get married. See how that works?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:40 AM
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The lengths women will go to to maintain victim status is amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 02:26 AM
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No more sperm bank donations
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:09 PM
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Maybe men should withhold children until a balance is restored.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 08:28 PM
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This was all foretold in Logan’s Run. They have a hook up service strictly for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 08:25 PM
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Most
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 08:18 PM
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Loose pussy energy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:56 PM
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Maybe she should look in a mirror some time. She thinks she rules the world and, well …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:55 PM
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Prostate cancer kills as many, or more, men each year than breast cancer kill’s women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:41 PM
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OK then, good for NZ. I’m glad they have those programs. The US has Movember and its as popular as the second largest ball of twine. Breast cancer research funding is at least 3 times as much as for prostate cancer research, and likely much more than that. Women’s health issues receive far not publicity and funding
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:31 AM
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Yeah maybe they “have” them but I doubt most people know they exist and I doubt they raise 1/10 as much money as “sAvE tHe BooBiEs!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:45 AM
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Men’s lives are expendable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:58 AM
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I expect he meant prostate cancer which has very similar mortality statistics, if not higher, than breast cancer. But it’s hard to raise money for a cancer of an organ than lives inside men’s asses. We have to “save the boobies” so all the research funding goes to that instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:55 AM
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I think he may have meant prostate cancer which kills about as many, if not more, than breast cancer. And yet breast cancer consumes multiples of research funding compared to prostate. Men’s health issues are not taken seriously. In February there’s Wear Red Day for women’s heart health. In October everything turns pink for breast cancer awareness. Name any event that is similar for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:53 AM
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I feel like that’s a pretty safe bet. It seems most women think men should feel obligated to protect them, even to the point of risking their lives. That seems like a lot of entitlement to me. Maybe even the ULTIMATE entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:41 AM
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Men and women converse differently. I man will say “do you think the Bears can beat the Vikings this weekend?” And a conversation about that ensues. A woman will say “I like the Bears” and all I can say to that is “ok great”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:53 PM
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This might all just sound like I’m saying “men suck,” ... Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:51 PM
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This exactly. If your misogyny is based on an inability to attract women then you are evil incarnate. If your misogyny is because you get laid anytime you want and therefore look down on women because they easily bend to your will, then that’s an acceptable form of misogyny. They make their legs tingle.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:41 PM
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If the guy is hot enough? Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:40 PM
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Source: My eyeballs
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:39 PM
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Truth
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:39 PM
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And don’t forget “small dick energy” too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:37 PM
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Why is it ok to just casually throw “misogyny” out there with no fear of any repercussions and accuse people you don’t know of being misogynists? It’s likely many women successfully hide their misandry for a while to trick some guys into dating them. Maybe men just need to get better at hiding things like women who believe all men are “misogynists” do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:37 PM
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Taking you at face value when you say “genuine curiosity” Men have something nearly all women covet but they just give it away, devaluing it. Women have mastered regulating access to pussy and have attained almost 100% of the sexual power in the world as a result. Men put pussies on a pedestal and have suffered for it. It’s time they reclaimed the sexual power they have within their control.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:22 PM
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Men should start withholding children and see how things go for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:49 PM
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Right cause none of the greatest love poems, stories and songs were written until after men lost their “financial leverage” over women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:20 PM
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To me “enforced monogamy” sounds more like shaming people who violate the monogamous relationships. Shame is what’s missing. No one feels any shame at all any more. Anything goes. Shame is a very useful tool to encourage people to comply with norms that society believes are good.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:35 PM
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Legalize prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:32 PM
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i'm a member of a women's only sub. most of my time is spent reporting comments from "men" and "trolls" making those comments. It’s not too hard to read between these lines unless you are a member of the same group
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:56 AM
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And your world perspective is obviously skewed toward misandry. You are known by the company you keep and you hang out with man haters.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:38 AM
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Do men take care of the fact that they bad mouth women on social media about female loneliness? No, because otherwise, we wouldn’t see these comments all over the internet: “You’re gonna die alone”, “Oooh, I’m waiting to hear that you got 100 cats” I’ve never seen this happen unless a woman has done something outrageous first.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:34 PM
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Women in general aren’t nearly as good at sports as men and their teams don’t generate interest or revenue like men’s sports do. Why is that men’s fault that they are obligated to pay women the same for an inferior product?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:46 PM
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If a man wants a woman he has to go get her. For you, you aren’t trying. You are waiting for him to make the move and complaining about it. If you actually sought the company of a man, you’d have it quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:40 PM
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And they feel entitled to have you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:31 PM
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Men need to just walk away period, and reset the dating marketplace. It’s so far out of kilter. Women have virtually 100% of the sexual power today. The top 5% of men are swimming in pussy online so let them have them. Men should ask women if they’ve ever used OLD and if the answer is yes, ignore her. She’s for the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:27 PM
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These women also seemed to find a better life after divorce, … They all “opened their own business” which seems to be code words for unemployed. One became a song writer two hours a week. Yeah, they’re killing it.
/r/MensRights24/07/23 04:21 AM
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They all wanted to be strong, independent women, but I bet every single one of them had their hand out for alimony.
/r/MensRights24/07/23 04:17 AM
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